Kevin O'Leary: Every Time You Get Paid, Do This! It 10xs Your Income Without Having To Work Harder!
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That is the stupidest thing you can ever
do.
Well, what is the most important thing
for someone who's just trying to grow
their money?
So, I learned this from my mother and I
actually built a whole company around
it. Yeah, there she is. So,
I haven't seen that picture in a while.
Damn. I mean, what she did, the
performance was extraordinary. And with
that, did she put my brother and I
through college? She took care of our
family when they
fell on hard times.
When I saw the results, I said, "That's
it. That's how I'm going to invest for
the rest of my life."
So, talk me through this one as much
detail as possible.
Okay, let's start with this. Kevin
O'Leary, aka Mr. Wonderful, is the
self-made millionaire and investor who's
built and sold companies for billions.
There's a lot of people don't like me
for my bluntness. I don't care because
there's people that don't think ahead
and find themselves mired in debt, but
then pissing away money, spending $28
for lunch. I mean, that's just stupid.
What about a house? The mistake that
people make is they buy too much house.
Never let the mortgage and the cost of
maintaining the house be more than 1/3
of your income. And how much does the
person that you fall in love with have
an impact?
You're kidding? It's everything. And I
did some research and most marriages can
survive infidelity. They can't survive
financial stress. But, if everybody
that's listening does this one thing,
you will have over a million and a half
dollars.
Kevin, can anybody be an entrepreneur?
No, only a third of people can become
successful entrepreneurs because there's
a couple of things that you must achieve
to be successful. First,
Kevin, I'm going to ask you to do
something which is quite difficult
because I'd find it quite hard if
someone asked me to do this. But, before
we get into the detail, can you give me
a 30,000 ft view on your
entrepreneurship and investing career?
Just the just the three bullet points
that are most pertinent before we dig
into those
specifics. Every entrepreneur I've ever
talked to that finds himself where I am
today has has a defining moment where
they are
pushed into this path. It's It's
something they can remember and they
remember it in perpetuity. And I'll
remember my moment getting fired in an
ice cream store.
That simple. First day on the job, asked
to serve and scoop ice cream.
And um
I did that all day, but when people
sample ice cream, they get a taster and
they take their gum out and they throw
it on the floor.
Somebody's got to scrape the gum off the
floor at the end of the day.
I only took that job because I was very
interested in a girl who was working in
the shoe store and I figured
I could you know, hang out with her
afterwards. And I saw her waiting for me
and the
woman who owned the store said, "You've
got to scrape the gum off the floor."
And I didn't want her to see me on my
knees with a scraper. It'd be bad for my
brand. I was in high school. And uh
she said, "No, no, you have to do it."
And I said, "You know, you hired me as a
scooper, not a scraper."
She said, um
"How about you're fired?"
And I didn't even know what that meant
and it was the defining moment for me
because I realized there's two kinds of
people in the world. There's people
that own the store and there's people
that scrape the [ __ ] off the floor. And
you have to decide who you are and I'm
not saying being employed is a bad
thing, not at all. But for me, um it it
hit me. It just hit me. Kevin, there's a
present for you. We give a present to
all of our guests. Really? Underneath
that black Can I open it?
You can open it.
I just take this out?
Oh, look at that.
You've heard the story.
That is exactly how it looked, except it
was black gum. And that was exactly the
tile. It was just like that Mexican
tile.
That's really freaking me out. So, you
were asked to scrape gum off a Mexican
tile.
Yes, just like that. And in order to do
that, you got to get down on your knees
and do it. And um I just couldn't do it.
And I And I And
And then you know the rest of the story.
I eventually could afford to bulldoze
the whole mall if I wanted to. And we
went back to meet her and thank her for
her pushing me off the treadmill into
that direction. And she was gone and
there was a bodega there instead. You
said that that you realized that there's
kind of two people in life. There's the
entrepreneur, there's the person that
owns the ice cream parlor, and there's
the person that scrapes it off the
floor.
Yeah.
That provoked a question in me, which is
do you think anybody can own the ice
cream parlor? I do you think anybody can
be an entrepreneur? No.
I've
tried to teach it um
and I mentor it all the time to the CEOs
that I work with.
Uh there are some attributes of people
that can do this. A certain element of
risk tolerance, uh a certain element of
focus.
And then the other element which I've
really started to believe in of late is
karma.
Luck.
You need to be lucky. You need It's like
Napoleon was once asked,
"Who are your favorite generals?" And he
said,
"My favorite generals are lucky
generals, my lucky generals." And I'm
starting to think that in life um
particularly entrepreneurship, you look
at the difference to the path of success
and failure and I Nobody's exposed to it
more than I am in terms of how many
investments I made I've made over the
decades.
I think if you want a percentage, and
then I teach these cohorts in in at
Harvard,
I'm an executive fellow there. I'm very
proud of that work.
You get a class of 120 people in a room.
Two-thirds of them want to become
consultants. That's why they're there.
And lead
a life of mediocrity and never make a
decision of consequence in their lives.
And after 24 months, they are tainted
with that disease forever. They'll
always be good consultants, but they
will never achieve greatness in any way.
In life, only a third of people can
become successful entrepreneurs. That's
it. And the rest can be very successful
employees, and there's nothing wrong
with that. You can have a fantastic
life.
You won't be shackled to the you know,
the the ups and downs of
entrepreneurship, the challenge of it,
how hard it is.
But, you will never be free.
And that's the debate. That's it right
there. Do you want personal freedom?
It's the only path. That's it. It's the
only path. It is the only path. I mean,
you can't I I've always said it's not
about the pursuit of money. It's not
about the pursuit of greed. You will
fail if you do that. It's It's the
undying love freedom.
So, that 1/3 of people that you say will
be successful, they'll pursue their
their dreams, they'll build a business,
whatever it might be.
Yeah.
Do you think it's possible for us in
this conversation to increase the
probability of their success? You said
you don't think you can you can make
someone an entrepreneur.
But, is there things you can do to
increase their probability of success?
Yes, there are a couple of things that
you must achieve to be successful. And
let me explain what they would be. And
this is not some academic study. This is
real data from real situations of real
CEOs I've worked with and learned from,
because I used to work for guys like
Steve Jobs and others
in my career.
Let me um
Let me give you one that I think's very
important. We'll start with this one. I
used to work for Steve Jobs in the early
'90s making all of his educational
software. And it was just Yeah, there
they are. My goodness, you guys do good
research. Those are the kind of things
that we did for him.
You know,
yeah.
Yeah, all of that. It's hard to find.
Those are CD-ROMs.
But, you know,
in developing that software,
we used to go quarterly. Um Heidi Roizen
was there in the room. She's still a
very famous venture capitalist.
And
I would say, "Steve, you know,
we got to do some market research on
Oregon Trail. I mean, it's a huge title.
It's in 110,000 school buildings. We got
to do an update. It's going to cost you
12, 15 million bucks.
We want to find out what the students
want. We want to find out what the
teachers want. We want to find out what
the parents want. Steve would say, by
the way,
not a nice guy.
Not a nice guy.
He would say to a room full of people,
"Kevin, I don't give a [ __ ] what the
students want or the parents think or
anybody thinks. It's what I want. They
don't know what they want till I tell
them what they want."
And I said, "Steve, you sound like such
an [ __ ] You have no idea what that
sounds like." He says, "No, no.
That's how it is, Kevin. Now, are you
making money with me? Are we Are you Am
I your fastest growing OEM?
Have we not been wildly successful and
continue to be?"
I said, "Yes, Steve, that's true." He
said, "Then [ __ ] shut up and do what
I say." That's how he would talk to you?
100%
and
here's what I learned.
Look how wildly successful he was.
But, here's why.
There's a concept that he understood
that very few people focused on back
then in the early '90s of
signal-to-noise ratio.
What was so brilliant about Jobs
that I tell every CEO now, and I don't
care if you're an S&P 500 CEO or you're
just starting a business.
His vision of signal was the top three
to five things you have to get done in
the next 18 hours. Not your vision for
the business next week or next month or
next year. Just the next 18 hours you're
awake.
You're going to get those three things
or those five things done that you have
deemed critical for your mission. They
must get done today.
Anything that stops you from doing that
is the noise.
So, the signal-to-noise ratio to be
successful for Steve Jobs
was 80/20. 80 signal, 20 noise.
And I knew that to be true with him
because he would email me at 2:30 in the
morning, expect me to get back to him
because back then we didn't have texts.
It was all email.
He was right. He was right.
And the only other person that I've seen
that has a higher ratio than that
is Elon Musk. He has no noise.
He does not deal with noise. He is 100%
signal 24 seconds of, you know, every
cycle. I mean, the guy is just 60
seconds of every minute, 60 minutes of
every hour,
the 18 hours he's awake, it's all
signal.
And look what he's achieved. Now, that's
very awkward for him socially
because
noise is dealing with your family
sometimes, or noise is saying hi to a
friend, or noise is is is listening to
some doom scrolling on, you know, some
social media app that just takes your
mind, or maybe playing your guitar. But,
very few people on Earth, and if you go
back in history, you're going to find
out that the geniuses of their time
were close to 100% signal.
And so, I can really sort of summarize
this for my audience. Signal is the most
urgent thing you should be focused on
right now, and noise is basically
everything else.
No, the goals you set for that the the
way the that you were awake. If you're
going to be awake 18 hours, Yeah.
and you've determined that there's three
things you have to get done,
you're going to get those done. No
matter what it takes, you're going to
get those done. And you're not going to
let anything distract you from the three
to five things.
If you're a CEO, and you achieve that,
and you can get those done with 80% of
your time based on that,
you're extraordinarily successful. You
are absolutely And you're Steve Jobs, or
you're an Elon Musk, or you're somebody
If you If you even talk to Bezos, I
don't know him personally, but I've
heard in many interviews, like I knew I
I know, I've I've met Elon just a few
times. I spent a lot of time with Jobs.
But they say the same thing.
Bezos will not make a decision after
1:00 in the afternoon because he felt
that the noise was too high.
The signal for him was in the morning
hours. If this is a crucial aspect of
success that that I now understand to be
the ability of
defines
an entrepreneur. A man or woman that
understands the signal noise ratio that
focuses on that
they'll be successful.
The ones that can't that get down to a
50/50 signal noise, they'll fail. It's
that simple.
And it's a very simple concept.
You know
you made one of your things today this
interview. You're going to get it done.
You're going to all these people around
and everything else. This is one of the
three to five things you're going to get
done. I have five things today. I'm
going to get them done. I'll do the same
thing tomorrow. And the day after that.
And you have to decide how much signal
you need to get those three to five
things done.
And for Jobs it was 80%.
What's the opposite of that? Sometimes
looking at the opposite helps us to
understand something. So the opposite of
having Well, I hire managers and CEOs
that have a balance in life between the
discipline the binary aspect of business
which is I make money I lose money.
And the chaos of the arts or some other
pursuit dance, painting, photography
collecting crystals, whatever it is that
that they that they have that balance
you you need you need the yin and yang
in your mind to make correct decisions.
It doesn't mean it takes you off the
signal. The signal is you got to get
stuff done. But how do you live your
life? And so I spend a fair amount of my
time practicing my guitar or working
with my photography or my my watch you
know I
tonight very late tonight I will meet a
master watchmaker and we will deal with
the design of a new piece unique is
going to make for me and I'm going to
love that moment. That's going to be
something completely different to what I
did all day long and we'll start our
journey together over the next 2 years
to make this piece unique. And
that's something that just takes me away
from all the [ __ ] I'm going to be
dealing with today. And I also tell
successful entrepreneurs
in the same day you'll get a and I this
happened to me today. It happens every
day.
You're going to get a call from some
aspect of of your
what you do you call it your empire
whatever you want where your this
company's going bankrupt. It's just
going to go bankrupt and you're going to
lose
I don't know 10 million bucks on that
deal.
And that's a piece of information you're
dealing with.
Half an hour later
this actually happened to me today.
One of my company's going public.
It's a 450X for me.
The stock will get unlocked sometime in
the fall but
how can how do you
how do you fit that together?
Utter catastrophe, destruction, woe,
loss
utter euphoria
half an hour later.
That's
that's what my life is like. That's
entrepreneurship. Obviously on a
different scale for most founders.
Well, the founders deal with the same
thing. They get disastrous news. They
lose a an account like a Costco or
something if it's consumer goods or
service and they get something else.
The the the ebb and flow is is the
management of expectations and your
ability emotionally to navigate those
ups and downs is part of what
entrepreneurship is but it goes back to
the signal.
It can't take you off the signal. This
is what Steve taught me.
Yes, it's great news. Yes, it's bad news
but focus on the signal O'Leary. Focus
on the signal.
That's it. Where does this analogy come
from of signal and noise? It was his
genius of a of of making it so simple.
What are the three things you got to get
done today? What are they? What are
they? How do you know what they are?
They will make themselves apparent. They
will definitely make themselves
apparent.
They will make themselves apparent and
you will realize I have to deal with
that. You may have them set up from the
day before. I actually still use sticky
notes on my mirror.
Got to get these three things done.
And or five thing or whatever it is, but
then something else will hit.
That's the skill of understanding. Is
that noise hitting me or is that signal?
There is the essence of the great
entrepreneur, the great manager, the
great leader.
Is that signal or is that noise? What is
it?
That's what you're looking for. You're
hiring somebody that can actually
distinguish signal and noise.
Because it could be noise. It could be
irrelevant.
You have to determine only you makes
that decision.
That's the key right there. This is what
I teach
entrepreneurs and engineers and
This is the most important thing. It's
not judgement of prioritization but then
the sort of force of execution to get it
done.
Can you interpret signal and noise?
And can you keep the noise away from
from the things you got to get done?
That's one. The other which is something
that I've learned over the last five
years.
And this you might find this interesting
but most of my particularly the nascent
startups and you're you're involved in
the same format I am. You're Dragon's
Den in England. I'm Shark Tank in the
US.
I you know, you put up 500,000 or a
million bucks into somebody's business.
Eight eight out of 10 are going to fail,
maybe six out of 10 depend you just
don't know.
And
I love it when people tell me, oh, I I
know
when I make an investment it's going to
work.
They are so full of [ __ ] They They have
I'm talking about startups. They have no
idea what's going to work and you won't
know for 5 to 7 years, which is why you
need diversification in the portfolio,
but
I would go as far to say now,
you know, when I meet um
venture capital firms and young analysts
that work there and they think they're
so damn smart, they've never operated a
business. They don't know nothing. They
have no idea what they're doing. They're
going to hope that one or two of their
portfolio is going to work out in 7
years and pay for all the other
mistakes.
But the serendipitous nature of success
in entrepreneurship is brutal. It is.
So that does that mean though that it's
I guess I was going to say does that not
mean that it's highly luck? If
investing's highly luck,
entrepreneurship must be. Well, I said
karma, you know, I call it karma, but
you need execution skills, but here's
another skill that I think we should
talk about. Um
when you look at at least my experience
over decades of making these
uh
nascent these early stage investments,
these A round investments,
remarkably, and I've done them in all 11
sectors of the of the economy, the
majority of the successes 5 to 7 years
later are companies run by women.
Why is that? Why is that?
And so
they don't know each other, they're in
different sectors, they never meet each
other. Why is that? And I have come to
the conclusion
um
two things. They set goals that they can
achieve so that in the early stage of
their businesses,
they put growth rate targets like 15,
16% versus men at 30% very often. Men
hit their target 65% of the time at
least in my portfolio and and women 90
[ __ ] plus per time percent of the
time. And that keeps the
the team very sticky. They want to be
part of a so they don't have a lot of
attrition when they're small. They don't
lose the head of finance, head of
marketing. That that works. But they
have another attribute and this was
pointed out to me by one of my female
CEOs a few years ago to me. She said,
"You know, Kevin, you talk too much.
You talk too much. Um
you talk 2/3, you listen 1/3. Why don't
you try reversing the ratio?" She said
that to you?
Yeah. Yeah.
I'm very thankful, actually, cuz I tried
it.
And um she's right. If you don't talk
and you listen, you become far more
effective as a manager or an investor in
my case
by getting information that
you weren't going to get by talking. And
so, if you go into a room
I just did this a few minutes ago before
I came here. I'm involved in a
litigation.
And we decided to attempt settlement
talks.
Which is why I was a few minutes late.
And um
you know, we knew we were going in there
to settle.
And it it's long protruded, you know, a
long It's a long long long
uh
litigation.
And I remembered her as we sat at the
table like this. There were other people
in the room, but
the two uh
you know,
we were across from each other.
I just looked at him. I didn't say
anything.
For a long time.
A long time.
And
it gets uncomfortable and no one else is
talking.
You know, just looking.
And um
maybe after 90 seconds, he blurted out
something he shouldn't have said.
And I knew exactly what the price was.
Right there.
That was the end of it.
You learn that as a podcaster.
You learn that there's actually
something going on in the silence. There
is something going on in silence and
it's it's
it's the number that he was going to
settle at.
He showed his hand. So, we saved
ourselves 2 hours, you know.
It's a It's an attribute that many
people can't do cuz they can't stand the
social uncomfort of it. I have no
problem with it. I can sit here and look
at you for 10 minutes. It wouldn't
matter to me.
And I've actually found it to be a very
useful piece of information. It's not
just in negotiating, but to listen to
employees, listen to investors, listen
to financiers, listen to alternate ideas
to yours,
and become more powerful from it.
You're in the very business of people
selling to you and pitching to you. We
both sit on a similar show and my people
come in and pitch to us. You're seeing
at times 10 to 12 a day. So, you've
developed this muscle over the last
couple of decades now.
Almost this instinctive spidey sense of
when an entrepreneur
will be successful, at least in the
context of securing investment. What
have you come to learn about the the
attributes of the ones that are
successful? Is there is there anything
one can take from that?
In the moment when that entrepreneur
comes out on the carpet in the context
of Shark Tank or Dragon's Den even,
they need the set up shot of the product
with the entrepreneur and they have a in
our case a steady cam or a a jib that
comes down and shoots it. So, the the
stage director
Eric uh is his name. I've worked with
him for years.
Says to the
entrepreneurs I've never met, usually
it's a team or it's a family or it's
whatever, three or four, two people,
whatever.
Hold. Hold.
Hold.
Don't speak. Hold. Hold.
Don't mind the camera coming into your
face. Hold. Hold.
Maybe for
2 minutes.
And I'm right there in front of them.
I'm 12 ft from them and I just look at
them.
Not smiling, not blinking, not frowning,
just looking at them.
And before they say a single word, I
know if they're winners or losers.
Just like that.
And why is that? Why is that?
When
and I'm right probably 99% of the time.
Maybe I get it wrong one out of 100. I
doubt it though.
You walk in a room, even though you've
practiced, you know, you're in the
context of of Shark Tank, 20 plus
cameras,
a billion plus dollars in in the five
chairs there. You've been practicing for
months your pitch, but it wasn't the
real deal.
Here you are. Cameras are rolling, tape
is running.
You know you've only got so many
minutes.
This is your moment. And you're on
national television, 100 plus million
people will see you in syndication. It's
all in your mind. It's all in your mind.
It's going through your head.
Can you project
who you are with your eyes and the way
you're standing? Can you project your
confidence?
Are you looking at the ground? Are you
looking away from me cuz you can't stand
me looking at you directly without
saying anything to you?
Or do you push back? Or do you say I'm
going to I'm going to stake my aura. I'm
going to stake my ground here. I'm going
to show you I'm ready.
See what I'm getting at?
Yeah.
And I can feel it. I can see that
they're ready to do battle. They're
ready to answer. They're ready to
present. They're ready, ready, ready,
ready, or they're not. And
I've taken that out of the Shark Tank. I
see that every day in life. I see it.
So, you have to learn how to project
yourself in front of your peers or who's
who you want to you want to lead or
teach or if you're a general or a
preacher,
that is maybe
an innate
something you're born with or maybe you
can learn that. I don't know. I don't
care. But if you don't have it, you're
going to fail. And you're just that's
before a word is spoken.
It'll before the first word is spoken.
And so, then what has to happen?
Then Eric says, "Go.
You're on."
And everybody's just sitting there
looking at you.
Can you articulate your idea in 90
seconds or less? Can you, whatever props
you have or whatever you're going to
say, can I get the big idea right away?
The ones that had that aura generally
get there. 30 seconds later, I get it.
I get what they're here for. I
understand their product. Okay, that's
good. Unfortunately, great ideas are
dime a dozen.
I mean, there's millions of them.
The next phase begins. This is after 90
seconds. Can you explain why you're the
right person
to execute on this idea and create a
business from it because you know
something about this space. You worked
for a competitor. You've tried three
times before and failed. You figured out
what you did wrong. What is it about you
or your team that can take this
idea and make it happen?
Now, we get those two things together,
you can feel the aura of the room.
The isotope is sizzling because you've
de-risked a great idea. You got an
operator in it and they But then the
third thing, this is the killer. This is
the killer.
I've seen it so many times in real life
and Shark Tank's real life it is, but
you got to know your numbers.
How big is the market? How fast is it
growing? What's the gross margin? I've
said this a million times to people. I
teach this every day.
How many competitors are there? When are
you going to break even? What month?
If you get the first two right and you
don't know your numbers, you deserve to
burn in hell and I'll put you there
myself.
I mean, you wasted an opportunity for an
entrepreneur that did know their numbers
that could have been in that spot that I
could have invested in. You don't know
your numbers.
I'd take you out behind the barn and
shoot you. You should have brought
somebody
that understands the language of
business because those three together
are the definition of leadership right
there.
I've never heard someone talk about aura
in entrepreneurship quite like that. And
I was I was just trying to
for the people listening that
are either trying to figure out if they
have an aura or to grow that aura, what
does it what does it look and feel like?
Is it physically? Is it shoulders back?
Is it You said it's eye contact.
Or is it indescribable? And do you think
you could take someone who doesn't have
that aura
in business and
teach them it? Does business give you
that aura?
I think you can teach it. I certainly
try and teach it to my children. Um
I try and teach it to my students.
And the best way to do it is to look at
yourself in the mirror sometime. You
know, just
what do you look like to yourself?
You know, if you're going to go make a
presentation to take down a
million-dollar line of credit or
something, you want to dress the part,
obviously.
But you're going to walk in a room with,
you know, a loan officer and maybe an
assistant, maybe one other, depending on
the size of the deal.
And they all never met you, probably.
And you're going to have to project
yourself in those seconds as you're
walking up to shake their hands.
What does that take? It takes an aura of
confidence, and it's in the eyes, it's
in the way you're you're standing, it's
in how the way you're dressed. It's It's
not a joke to be dressed for success.
You know, it's it's um
it's
but it's it's something about presenting
yourself
and
keeping your eyes focused on who's
talking to you, so that they know that
you're absorbing the information, that
you respect the information, that you're
about to get into a narrative with them
of respect, even though there may be
disagreements. All of this is happening
in the first 60 seconds, and it's
setting up for the rest of
your life with that person. It could be
who you're going to marry, it could be
who you're going to work with, it could
be your partner in business, it could be
your banker, it could be anybody. It
could be a soldier that's going to give
up their life for you. It's sort of
Who are you?
That's it. Just closing off on the point
you made about women being your most
successful investments and the companies
that have given you the greatest returns
tend to be led by women. Does that mean
that you focus on hiring women into
executive roles? Yeah, I'm practically
all women, um particularly Asian women.
I am a uh you know, this whole thing
about
DEI and all this stuff, I've always had
diversity because I only hire on merit.
I don't care
if what sex you are or what you call
yourself or what where you came from or
the color of your skin or what planet
you were born on. I couldn't give a
[ __ ] Can you execute?
And the way I hire people, and that's
why I have such a diverse staff in my
operating company,
I don't hire you. I say, "Look, you
sound good and
you look great on paper,
but that doesn't mean anything if you
can't work within the team. So,
I know you want a job and you want
benefits and all that stuff, but I'm not
going to do that. If you want to be part
of my universe, you're going to work for
4 to 6 months as a contractor at a much
higher salary
cuz you're not going to get any stock
options, you're not going to get any
benefits,
but I just want to see what it's like
for you to work with all of the people
that we deal with every day, all the
lawyers, all the bankers, all of the
you know,
the CEOs that we have investments in and
and your co-workers because I don't
do 9:00 to 5:00 anymore. I do
project-based work. I don't care where
you live. We have people working in
Dubai, Abu Dhabi,
uh
England. I mean, everywhere, everywhere.
And and you know, we meet we try and
find an hour every week where we can see
each other, but we're just constantly
communicating using modern-day tools
today.
But,
you know,
can you actually be given a mandate
and execute on it?
That's it. I don't care when you do it.
If you have to get the financials out,
let's say you're running in finance, you
got to get them out the 15th for taxes.
I don't care when you do it, but if you
miss the 15th, I care.
So, I I need to find out if those people
can fit into that kind of an
environment. Some of them make it, some
of them don't. Some sometimes we know
right away after 90 days, you know,
let's hire him, bring him in the team,
and you know, let's give him the whole
package. And sometimes after a month we
say, "No, it's not going to work."
Here's like, you know, that's it. I
think I think more companies should do
that, actually. It's more like the Swiss
apprentice system. They bring you into a
lot like it, you know, my stepfather's
Swiss. I've been going to Switzerland
for 50 years. So, if you're a giant
company, like a Pfizer or a Nestle, you
pull them out of high school at 14.
You give them a job in the afternoon.
They become an apprentice. They want to
learn. They want to work. They want to
understand what it's like. And then you
find the the winners at while they're
still in high school. Then you give them
summer jobs, and then you bring them
into the company.
That's where I got the idea from. The
Swiss are genius that way. Cuz you're
sort of mitigating the risk, I guess.
You're taking less of a a risk on this.
No, but you're also finding out if their
their DNA is going to fit with your
I mean, I want my team to make a ton of
money. I I just I want them to be
successful.
I want every person to be proud to work
with the other and and just
we're almost invincible. We're so damn
good at what we do. You have the same
thing here. You you don't have people
that don't work for you well, you get
rid of them. You whack them. I'm more
just formal about it. Boom, you're gone.
With with the investments that you've
made, how many investments, how many
offers have you done on Shark Tank now?
Probably like Oh, I just We don't even
count it anymore. We look at the
portfolio rolling over 5 to 7-year
period.
A lot. Yeah, like a lot. And And the
thing is the thing what I've learned is
you get a you get an exit like uh
Basepaws from 5 years ago or something
Anaya from remarkable woman. That was
the the cat DNA Cat DNA thing. I mean,
nobody saw that coming. I thought the
thing was a joke.
Um I was so wrong. I mean, that's the
whole point and and she she had the
highest IRR in in I think in the whole
format's history. Nobody's made her she
was around for 36 months.
And taken out at such an extreme number
in all cash that there was an NDA signed
between Sony and the the pharmaceutical
company. I can't even tell you what it
was. It was extraordinary. It was an
extraordinary Was it nine figures?
Believe me, it's a
tough NDA because and I understand why
they did it.
They didn't buy it for the cat DNA
testing. They bought it for the data.
Mhm.
With AI didn't really wasn't emerging
then. It would existed, but it wasn't
With the data they have now
they can develop products for animals
that are extraordinary in terms of feeds
and medicines. Yeah. And nobody had that
much data on the 110 million cats in
America because she got it all during
the pandemic. Thousands and thousands
and thousands of of you know
It was it was never about it was it was
a data company. It's like my son telling
me when he got his internship at Tesla.
Hey Dad, it's not a car company. It's a
data company. Mhm.
Buy the stock. I said never mind the
stock. It's too joke. It's so expensive.
He said, "You're an idiot. It's not a
car company." So I bought the stock. And
he was right.
It became my most successful investment.
I I had to keep selling it down to 5%.
Uh my cost base is zero on Tesla now.
[ __ ] you. Yeah, but before it split and
he worked there for 5 years.
One of the personas that I have that
watches this show a lot are young people
not always young, but that are
on the sofa thinking about being an
entrepreneur and they talk about it a
lot. You know, they they come up to me
in the street 2/3
will never do it. 2/3 will never do it.
You you might as well do it when you
have less burdensome risk like a
mortgage and a family. You might as well
do it in your 20s.
You're going to fail the first time,
maybe the second, maybe the third. You
only need one success.
You know, I had plenty of failures and I
I still have failures. I mean, it's
just, you know, that what I I talked
about this morning. It's, you know, when
I
I I, you know, I I tell I said to the
largest shareholders as as as as in the
car and your assistant was, you know,
looking at me in the limo. I was telling
the other two shareholders, "Listen,
guys,
it's it's a binary decision. As soon as
I get out of this interview, we're going
to make a decision.
This company's going bankrupt. Oh, on
the bankrupt company.
Yeah, that yeah. And so, if we want to
save it, everybody's going to have to
pony up X million.
And um
we're going to own the whole thing.
We're just going to own it all. We're
going to We're just going to do a
cram-down round at a fraction of a cent.
We're going to own the whole thing. You
want to do that or you want to let it go
bankrupt? You guys choose. I'm 1/3 of
it, so it's going to have to be, you
know,
two against one. And I'll do whatever
they want because that's how I am. But
it's, you know, you want to get yourself
in a position in life that I think most
CEOs understand this.
You are going to have bad outcomes.
They're going to be bad outcomes.
But never put yourself in a situation
where one bad outcome defines who you
are.
I mean,
for those shareholders, they're going to
be unhappy.
But then I got the call on the IPO.
Those shareholders may be very happy.
They're going to make 400 400X. So, it
and that was one of my deals. And so,
it's sort of like
learn to live with the idea that
you are going to fail. You are going to
lose money by taking risk.
Will it change relationships
permanently? Maybe. But if there if
you're respected and you're honest and
you're transparent,
probably not.
I think there's a lot of people don't
like me for my bluntness. I don't care.
I think a lot of people respect me for
my bluntness. They may not like me.
And you know, it's sort of um
it doesn't matter because the only
people that really matter to me are
probably my 20 is closest friends and my
family. Do you think if you hadn't
worked with the known Steve Jobs, you
would be a different person?
100%. Steve changed my life. There's no
question.
I didn't like him.
But
I feel so bad that he he didn't have to
die that way.
He just wouldn't go with the modern
medicine at the time. That's my view.
But he was a freaking genius.
He was so smart in terms of
keeping on track to get getting stuff
done and look what he did achieved. But
he was
difficult.
Difficult cuz he wasn't always right.
But he was right so much that the
mistakes just didn't matter.
And I thought, you know, the people that
spent enough time with him
know what I'm talking about. Um
You know, it occurred to me cuz I know
Wozniak too, not as well as Jobs, but
they really needed each other.
They really needed each other.
Because Woz understood
he was he understood
what the
Let me draw an analogy here for you. I
think it's a good one.
Take the situation going on right now
with
Nvidia, AMD, to a certain extent Intel,
um
maybe Broadcom,
where policy makers in Washington have
decided that we can't sell those chips
to countries like China or Russia or
whatever the list is of adversaries.
That's bad policy.
And here's why. What I learned from
from Jobs was
the the computer, the chip, is the queen
bee.
It's It's the It's the queen bee.
But it has no value without the
honeybees, which are the programmers
around that form a community that spend
all of their energy
writing code that works with the queen
bee, which is the chip,
that
pushes out its influence because every
coder that
becomes familiar with that firmware,
that Wozniak computer, writes to that
platform
is part of the honeybees.
Jobs understood that. He said, "I've got
to get every honeybee writing for the
Mac,
writing for the OS of Apple."
It's the same with
the Nvidia chip.
We need to sell it to everybody. Every
Even adversaries because within
that country of Russia or China is some
genius kid. You don't know who he is or
she is that's going to write the next
piece of firmware or advance AI
from the queen bee,
the chip, the American queen bee.
The minute you shut down a market and
you don't
your adversary sends their queen bee in,
which is Huawei.
We can't let that happen because I don't
think the lawmakers understand what Jobs
understood.
You create the hive with the queen in
the middle. That's the chip.
You convince every bee around
to make the honey,
which is the software and is the AI
right in this in this case. You make it
off that chip and when you advance the
chip again, everybody knows how to take
that set
and
stay within the American chip that
you're advancing.
Maybe you keep them one generation
behind, maybe. Maybe that's the policy,
but you don't ever let an adversary put
their queen bee in the middle of the
hive. You see what I'm saying? Of
course. I mean And that is what Jobs
did. That was the war between Gates and
Jobs on the OS, on the operating system.
thinking about the App Store and
Yeah, it's the same thing. Yeah.
It's exactly the same thing. And so so
when I see this policy now,
I go out of my mind. I mean,
the first thing I do is get on a plane
and go to Washington because
AI is so important for all of the
investments I've made. I do not want to
be putting Chinese honey into my
companies at all.
It's that simple.
So for that person that's stewing over
their ideas now, if they had just a
couple of minutes with you
and they and they asked you the
question, Kevin, I'm about to start this
business. I'm about to go on this
journey of trying to go from zero to
something in my life.
Is there anything else that I need to
know as I set up upon this sort of next
10 years of my life? I'm 21 years old.
What what I cuz I think every
entrepreneur has like their principles.
You you talked about one which is the
signal versus noise thing. Are there any
other foundational principles that you
think are conducive with success?
That you might have learned
Yeah, I mean I've what I'm telling 20
21-year-olds now is look,
go work for 24 months in a sector you
love that you're passionate about, even
if they don't pay you.
Go in there and be an apprentice. Um
if you're that passionate, you're going
to be able to convince some manager to
go work for free in there. You're just
they're going to recognize your passion
and
they're going to bring you in.
Do that first.
Most
young entrepreneurs say, "Nah, nah, I
don't want to work for anybody." I said,
"Yeah, you do actually. You you do want
to work for somebody. You want to just
understand how all the cogs move." Just
24 months.
And after that,
launch.
The first one will probably fail.
You're going to start with your parents
giving you 10,000 bucks or whatever it
is, friends and family.
But you will have the baseline knowledge
of your industry. You will know who the
participants are. You will understand
how it works.
And you'll have a much higher
probability of success. But the key is
to launch sort of in your
in your mid to early 20s because you
need to burn a few years failing. And
and that that matters.
On the point of how to lead people,
when people hear about Jobs' approach,
they
sometimes assume that you also have to
be an [ __ ]
And this is the this is the conflicting
thing because the world has changed
since Jobs was in a leadership position.
Things have gone a little bit more
soft,
shall one say.
Have you seen all all types of
leadership win out in that regard? The
direct, you know, signal-focused,
kind of brash approach, but also the
kind approach.
I know that kind works. I think respect
works. I I
The same number of [ __ ] are out
there being successful now as they were
back in the '90s.
Um
it doesn't matter
um
whether you're an [ __ ] or whether
people like you or not. I mean, people
get so stuck on this stuff.
It It's
the team you're building
are not your friends.
They are the team you're building to
execute on a mandate.
Your customers come first. They're more
important. And then, of course, the
employees and how are they respected or
not. There are people that work for me I
don't like.
It doesn't matter. I respect them. I
respect their ability
to execute. And that above all is the
most important thing. If you start
getting into interpersonal
relationships, you will fail because you
may have to fire that person one day.
People that hire family take huge risk.
Nepotism is a horrible disease.
It's It's uh some of the greatest uh
private companies on Earth
never let the kids run them. They just
put them on the board and they hire
professional management. That's how they
keep wealth multi-generational.
Think about Tetra Pak, for example.
People may not know that name, but it's
a massive successful company. IKEA. I
mean, you know, it's sort of you have to
learn those lessons.
It's It's um
It's about respect
in both directions. It's not about
likeability
or softness or
some social
met- metric. It really isn't.
And
trying to redefine leadership that way
because it's on trend,
it's not going to work.
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What about finding the definition of the
word company as a of people? So, in
terms of finding great people,
is there anything that you can offer to
entrepreneurs that are listening about
how you've done that and what you've
learned over time, the mistakes you've
made with assembling your group of
people?
Yeah, hiring them without testing them
first. I've made that mistake.
So, so you now test them first. Yeah.
Just cuz someone says they can execute
doesn't mean they can. I mean, it's of
course in your interview, you're not
going to say I can't execute. You know,
you're looking at their past you're
saying this looks terrific. Looks like
you can fit in, but it's on a piece of
paper. They haven't been road tested.
They haven't put in a situation where
they have to make individual decisions
that that have consequence. The people
you want are able to make decisions that
have consequence. Good bad good
consequence bad consequence. You don't
know yet, but they have to have be able
to make that decision on their own
without calling you up because you gave
them that mandate. Maybe you put a set
of parameter you can spend a million
bucks no more, but they're calling me,
but whatever it is.
I don't want to hear from them. I just
want the outcome.
What about resilience and hard work? How
much does that matter to you? Cuz I know
you said they can work when, you know,
they as long as they get the job done,
but are you trying to figure out if they
are
a bit of a psychopath in terms of hard
work? If they're possessed themselves.
find the ones that are psychopaths hard
worker actually the most successful.
It's not the case. I find the ones that
are eclectic people that have other
pursuits that are nothing to do with the
business they're in.
That
do crazy stuff. You know, maybe it's
riding motorcycles in the desert. I
don't know you know, these are the
examples I'm just using cuz I'm living
with them.
And say, look, I've got to go and ride a
bicycle across the the desert.
Okay. How many days you're going to be
gone?
I don't know, maybe three. Okay. Is
there anything that is immediate?
That tells me that
if you look at if you look at the year's
outcome from that person, you're going
to find that they probably outperformed.
You You want You want You want the
eclectic ones. You want the ones
that are not just robots working. It's
It's going to be cheaper to get a robot
if you want a robot. I'm going to buy
those two when they come available. But,
I want people that have creative
and
unusual solutions
that, you know, just think outside of
the box.
It's It's really interesting that way.
The other thing that, um,
everybody wants to hear from you about
is how to keep and grow your wealth.
Because, you know, making wealth I kind
of understand through the lens of
entrepreneurship, take a big bet,
um, hopefully have an exit or, you know,
draw a dividend or make profit from a
company you started. But, in terms of
what you did and your relationship with
your money, what are the most important
things for someone to understand who's
just trying to grow their money? Yeah,
yeah, and I learned this from my mother,
and I actually built a whole indexing
company around it. When I was very
young, I found out something, uh, that,
um,
So, she, um,
was fiercely independent. She was one of
three daughters, uh, of Lebanese
descent. My Irish was father My father
My original father, biological father,
was Irish.
She didn't Yeah, there she is, Georgia.
So,
I haven't seen that picture in a while.
Okay.
She was very independent.
And
she never ever wanted a man to control
her life. So, she
started at an early age when she was
working for her father.
They paid the girls, the family all
worked there, and she worked in the
accounting department
and billing, but she got paid cash. And
so, she
would take 20%
of that cash each week.
And
she would put it into two asset classes.
Stocks that paid dividends, large cap
stocks,
and Telco bonds.
Seven-year Telco bonds paid about 6 and
1/2 to 8% back then.
She bought the long bonds.
And she had that portfolio for 55 years.
Wow. Um she never spent any of the
principal. Only the dividends and the
interests. She put my brother and I
through college, and you know, she took
care of her family and her sisters when
they
fell on hard times.
But her rule was very simple.
No more than 5% in any one stock or bond
of the portfolio, and no more than 20%
in any one sector, ever.
Ever. So, when a stock ran up past five,
she'd sell it down. This is not genius.
This is just diversification.
And
when she passed and I I was the older
brother and I saw the portfolio,
cuz the lawyer said, "Listen, you got to
come down here. You're the executor of
the will." And I said, "Yeah, but you
know, my mother was middle class."
He said, "No, you got to come down here.
Um she kept her accounts secret from
both of her husbands.
She wanted her own independent money.
And back then you could do that.
And um
damn, I mean, what that portfolio did.
The performance was extraordinary. It
was beyond any
hedge fund guy or anything.
55 years.
When I saw the results, I said, "That's
it. That's how I'm going to invest for
the rest of my life." Exactly the way
Georgette did. No more than 5%
in any one stock ever, no matter no
matter what it is, and no more than 20%
in any one sector with the exception of
real estate, which is a very large part
of what I have in net worth. And I
That's a It's a third. So, that's broken
the rule, but there's reasons for that,
and I'm very happy with that portfolio.
But, um that if she if you if everybody
that's listening to this does that,
they will maintain and grow their
wealth. But, it's people bet they make
big bets. They're just They think
they're so damn right, they put half
their net worth into one sector or one
stock, and they get wiped out. That's
what happens.
So, would your mother pick the stocks
herself, or would she invest in an index
fund or She indexed. She used to So,
okay.
Even even back then, you know, they
didn't have ETFs, but they had mutual
funds that said their own only stock in
this mutual fund is doesn't have any
debt, and it pays dividends, you know,
whatever. They were very rudimentary
back then. They were just collections of
stocks. I think she had like
thir- 28 names or something like that in
the portfolio. But, if you looked at
them, they were really boring large cap
names. But, they were sec- totally
diverse. There wasn't 10 sectors back
then. There was only There there wasn't
11, there was 10.
So, they didn't have real estate as a
sector. So, but you know, I looked at it
saying, "Wow, these are really boring."
You learned a lot about money from your
early upbringing, right? From your that
early context. Yeah, because what she
said to me was, "Look,
you know,
I I even do this today with wealthy
people call me up all the time and say,
"Look, um
you know, they get divorced. It's really
I I This is a very wealthy woman got
divorced recently and she said, "Look, I
you know, I'm divorcing and
she was a billionaire. She was divorcing
She was more multi-billionaire and so
she said, "Look, I I I'm getting
Everybody's calling me up um
to be my advisor cuz I'm separating from
my husband and it's all his guys that
did all the management of our family
wealth.
"Would you be my advisor?" I said, "No,
I don't do that. Um
but you know, I can
I can just give you some basic advice
and you can hire people to stick on the
mandate." And I gave her Georgette's
strategy, but she I I had to do
something else, too. I said, "Let's get
a piece of paper. You're a billionaire.
Let's put everything on this piece of
paper on the last 90 days that you've
spent on whatever the hell it is. I
don't care.
And let's put on No computer, no
spreadsheet. On this Let's look at all
the income that you've made off your
portfolio as it stands now, whether it's
gold you have or land or stocks or
bonds.
Let's just do a gut check
on
do you outspend yourself?
She said, "Why would I give a shit?" I
said,
"Wouldn't you like to know
how much money you're burning living
your lifestyle the way you live it? Just
out of interest. Maybe you have enough
for the rest of your life, but maybe you
want to give some of it to your family
when they are or give it to charity.
Wouldn't you like to know?
Because one of my rules is never
outspend yourself on any 30- or 60-day
cycle, ever. Just ever. I don't have any
debt. So So I'm very careful about that.
And we went through this little thing.
She freaked out. She was
pissing away money.
Just bleeding
hundreds of thousands of dollars a week.
I mean, I don't care how rich you are.
You don't want to be stupid. And
I said, "Does that shock you? One of the
things that has to happen I mean, you're
you're losing millions of dollars a
quarter. Like
Why?
Why?
Like you don't you have you've had
nobody restrict what you do with your
money cuz you're going to have to sell
stocks at some point or sell gold or
sell land to keep this up.
And are you really that happy? Like what
do you what's all this [ __ ] you're
buying? Like what is all this crap that
you don't need? It was an eye-opener for
her. So I My point is most people don't
do that exercise. I don't care if you're
only making 56,000 a year or 68 the
average salary.
So are you in the camp that you
shouldn't spend money on the small
things like the coffee if you don't need
it you should make the coffee at home?
Is that kind of I I just I can't stand
it when I see kids that are making 70
grand a year
spending $28 for lunch.
I mean that's just stupid. It's just
think about that in the context of that
being put into an index and making 8% 8
to 10% a year for the next 50 years.
What's an index for someone that doesn't
So okay. I mean
you know
I even have it I even built an app for
this purpose just so I could There's
many apps out there you don't have to
use mine. Mine's called Beanstocks but
you just allocate 15% of your salary and
it automatically puts it into two
buckets some stocks and some bonds. The
stocks are ETFs exchange-traded funds
that just track the S&P 500 very simply.
Mine's a little The S&P 500 is the top
500 stocks.
Yeah so it's just you know people will
tell me oh I can beat the S&P P I can
pick stocks. They're so full of crap.
Not over the long period they can. So
it's better you might as well just own
ETFs. I have a version of the S&P that I
designed with other people that strips
out all the crappy balance sheets but
that's just me. You can just buy the
index that you want you know the ETF and
then you pay low fees and then over time
it appreciates and then if you buy some
treasury bills or what fixed income you
get that. You should have less of those
when you're young and more of them when
you're older just just diversification.
But
you you know
the best test I do with my kids' friends
too. Go into a closet. Go into your
closet, and look at how much [ __ ] you
have you don't wear.
Because you either bought it cuz you
thought you were going to wear it
and never wore it or wore it once, and
you end up wearing 20% of your portfolio
all of the time and 80% you you pissed
away.
I mean, that's really stupid. And so,
for a young person, a young woman or
man,
don't do that. Start putting in just
buy the minimum stuff. And another thing
in my life with my mother, this is
interesting cuz I saw it happen at her
death.
She,
you know, would buy two Chanel jackets a
year. Really expensive Chanel jackets.
Handmade Chanel jackets.
I do business with Chanel because of,
you know, the legacy of my mother and
the whole Coco Chanel thing and watches.
I love those guys.
And
her theory was, this will never get old.
And it never did. A classic vintage
Chanel jacket from the '50s, this
well-kept,
is worth a fortune today. The classic It
still wears beautifully. They're so well
made. So, she wouldn't buy crap. She'd
buy really good stuff, but a little just
small amounts of it. And over the years,
she'd built up this portfolio of amazing
clothing. And when she died, the women
in in our family had a cat fight over
her portfolio. Unbelievable. Is that in
part why you have so many watches? I've
noticed you have a watch on either wrist
right now.
Yeah, I'm pretty big in watches. I mean,
but but watches to me,
every piece I have
marks something in my life that was
important. A deal, a child, graduation,
um
you know, something. Every piece. I've
got a lot of watches. How many have you
got? I I don't even say anymore cuz of
the insurance policy I have. I got a
lot.
Do you invest in You You're talking
about your your mother's investing
strategy, and one of the things you said
is she invested in dividend stocks.
Yes. What is a dividend stock, and
should I be investing in dividend
stocks? Yeah, I mean, you know, a if
it's profitable and it's operating and
its business plan is working and it's
growing market share, at some point
says, "I'm going to distribute some of
the success of our profits to our
shareholders." That's a dividend.
And so, they send that cash to you and
you can either redeploy it in other ways
or live off it or whatever. Many tech
stocks until recently did not pay
dividends, but now the behemoth tech
stocks do pay dividends because the
demand of an aging population is I need
to eat. And so, I like to own the stock
for growth, but I also want to get some
of the profits. And so, dividend-paying
stocks used to be utilities, but not so
today. Every Every sector has
dividend-paying stocks, so I prefer to
own dividend-paying stocks, div payers.
And then I also own fixed income
products. I also own crypto now and I
own alternative assets like gold and
watches. My watch collection's actually
done quite well, even though there's
been a correction. There's volatility,
but I have some watches that have, you
know, I bought for
200,000 and worth over a million today.
Crypto. So,
are you still bullish on crypto as an
investment? I am actually, but people
get crypto confused with its real
potential. Um
Uh
let's talk about digital payment systems
because what's about to pass first,
we're days away from this happening, is
the Genius Act, which is actually the
stable coin act. It was just passed by
the Senate 48 hours ago. It's going back
to the house. I I actually worked on
that bill 2 years ago. So, if that bill
passes, it's really nothing to do with
speculating on crypto. It's a new form
of payment. So, if I wanted to order a
watch in from Simon Birch, who's
somebody I buy watches from, he's a
master watchmaker,
right now I have to take US dollars.
I've got to get through a know your
client prerogative. I'm treated like a
criminal by transferring 100,000 dollars
over, turn it into Swiss francs. Takes
about a week. I get screwed for about
200 basis points in the whole thing.
If I If he accepted USDC, which is
actually
a stable coin backed by the US dollar,
just went public, very successful IPO. I
was a shareholder in that company, too.
That's one of my best IPOs in in the
last 2 years. The transaction would
happen in less than a second.
And
the fees would be a hundredth of what
the costs are right now. So, it's a
digital payment system. The price
doesn't
It's not It's not It's no speculation on
it. It's backed by the US dollar
Treasury bills.
So, it's sort of
a new form of of digital payment.
That's different than Bitcoin, which is
a speculation. It's If you believe in
Bitcoin, you think it's a digital gold,
and you live through the volatility.
I believe in both. I believe that that
crypto will be the
12th sector of the S&P in some period of
time because it provides productivity to
all 11 other sectors. So, the way I own
it is I own
the exchanges.
My exchange of in one called WonderFi up
in Canada just got acquired last week or
2 weeks ago by Robinhood.
I'm happy cuz I think Vlad who runs
Robinhood is great. And now he's got a
million plus accounts in Canada in
market that he'd never participated in.
But the point is
this is never going away. It's going to
stay forever. So, how do you
participate? You can buy some Bitcoin,
just like you can buy gold, buy it in
ETF or actually own it yourself. You can
buy the exchanges. You can use
um you know, you can buy Circle stock
now it's public. You can Circle makes
USDC. You can buy USDC in in an account
and make 4.1% interest on it right now.
So, there's a lot of ways to
participate, but yes, I'm here to stay.
But I've grow I've grown up. I was
around during the period where the
crypto cowboys lived. And and I survived
that all. And I even testified in front
of the Senate and the House and whatever
else the testimonies were during the the
tumultuous period. And most of those
guys went to jail. Your portfolio in
terms of Bitcoin allocation or crypto
allocation, what is it now? It's at
about all in. Uh
we we marked to market last month, it
was 19.1%.
19.1%?
Yeah, we have to keep it under 20. It's
a sector, so. But remember, in that is
the cryptos itself, Bitcoin, the USDC,
and the shares of the infrastructure
companies, like Circle and everything
else. I've got, you know, it was a very
successful IPO. One of the first things
most people do when they get a bit of
money, usually from their their job, is
they get a mortgage on a house.
Because we're kind of taught as we grow
up that the best way to make or that
not maybe the best, but the most obvious
way to create wealth is to buy your
first home.
Yeah, there's a very basic rule for
that, and I understand it, and I did the
same thing.
But what I made sure again from my
mother was
never let
the mortgage and the cost of maintaining
the house be more than 1/3
of your income.
1/3 of your income.
If it's more than 1/3, you bought too
much house.
So, it's better to buy a house that's
maybe it's only going to be 1,900 square
feet to start in a neighborhood that you
may not want to stay in for the rest of
your life, but
start to accrue the benefit of real
estate from that point of view, learn
how to manage it, maybe you rent part of
it out or whatever, but it can't be more
than a third of your income. The mistake
that people made and they're starting to
suffer from it now is when money was so
cheap, mortgage mortgage rates were
under 4%, they were 3.2% some of them.
They bought massive houses.
And now they're running into having to
refinance those houses at much higher
rates, more than 7%.
And it's becoming 60, 70, 80% of their
income. They're screwed.
They bought too much house. So, it's
about making sure that you can manage
that, and also you want some
diversification. Yes, a mortgage is
okay,
particularly if you're having a family,
cuz you're going to pay rent or you're
going to pay a mortgage, one of the two.
But you want some diversification and to
starting to build up that
investment account for when you retire,
so that you have something to live off.
If you only put aside 15%. If you're
you're making 70,000 a year and you put
15% aside from when you're 25,
you'll have over a million and a half
dollars if you just invested it in the
stock index, in the S&P 500. That's what
That's what history has told you. In
what time frame?
Your whole career. I mean, you're going
to be 65. You're 25, 65. You just stick
with that protocol and you'll watch it
grow. You'll watch it grow. You go up
and down as the market goes up and down.
Some years it'll go flat, whatever, but
it's the people that don't even think
ahead and find themselves at 45 mired in
debt including a mortgage. You want to
get rid of your mortgage in your 40s.
Most people's primary investment asset
is the house they buy.
Is that a small
Yes, it is, but it's also the debt they
own. It's a primary asset. How much debt
does it have on it? It's only the equity
value is the asset. So, if you're buying
a house that's too big and it's you've
only put down 10% and it's a 90%
mortgage, what do you really own? You
really own the 10%
at whatever price it is. Sometimes
housing goes flat for a while.
It's
It's okay, but it's not okay if it's too
much house. If you're a 25-year-old and
you're on that 70k that you talked
about,
and your objective was to make money,
you don't have kids, you don't you don't
have a relationship,
would you buy a house? No.
No, I wouldn't because why do I need a
house if I'm only unless I'm renting it
as an income property. I'm buying a
house because I'm getting married and
I'm going to raise a family. I need a
house. I mean, that Is that the use case
for buying a house you thought? I think
it is. People But you know, it's not
There are many people that say, "Oh, I
love real estate. I'm going to buy three
houses. I'm going to rent them out."
That's a different business. And I know
people in their 20s that do that. In
fact, they're successful. That's all
they do. And so, that their job is to
find houses, buy them, fix them up, and
rent them. And they manage that
geographically tight portfolio. It
happens a lot in student housing, for
example.
I've got a good friend who's involved in
student housing. He's very successful.
He just focuses on one aspect, buildings
that rent to students, and he manages
it. And he, you know, raises a family,
he's successful, but that's one thing he
does. That's not the same as saying I'm
going to buy a house cuz I'm I just got
married, and I'm going to raise I'm
going to have a child in the next 24
months.
Then you should have a house. But if
you're You said to me, "I'm single, I
want to make money." I wouldn't buy a
house. That's not the number one asset
class, I think. I'd get a diversified
portfolio,
and just ride the pony with that for a
while until I meet that special person
I'm going to, you know, raise a family
with,
and then I'd have a little nest egg I
can work with. I mean,
wealth creation
comes down to one word, discipline.
That's it.
The ability to look at something and
say, "I'm not going to buy that.
I'm going to keep that money working for
me."
Not many people have that discipline.
Wealthy people have that discipline. You
meet them later in life,
you realize when they were young and had
nothing,
even the ones that were employees their
whole lives that are now financially
free, had the discipline to say no.
There's so much stuff you don't need.
And you should never buy a watch unless
you can afford it, ever go in debt for a
watch cuz people hear this stuff say,
"I'm going to buy watches like O'Leary's
red bands." No, you're not. That's why I
wear watches now that cost under $500 to
show kids, you want to get into
horology, you don't have to spend, you
know,
$50,000. Here's a
Here's a Timex for $265. It looks
beautiful. Get that.
You said, you know, don't buy the house
until you meet your partner, etc.
How much does the person that you fall
in love with have an impact on your
finances, your money, your chance of
success in your view? It's everything.
Are you kidding? I mean, it's it's
everything. If you read I mean, think
about this.
You need to find somebody. If you're an
entrepreneur, so that's for the We're
talking about the third now that want to
go on the rocket ship ride.
You better find somebody that's willing
to tolerate the fact that you're never
home for the first 10 years. They're
going to raise a family by themselves
because
there's no balance in life. That that
idea of balance is complete [ __ ] I
mean, it's just [ __ ]
You have to work so hard to compete
globally these days in every sector.
You're going to work your ass off and
it's not going to happen over I mean,
Anna Sky did it in 3 years, but she had
worked much harder previously. It was
not her first deal.
But she was just lucky. I mean, she Was
this the cat DNA?
Cat DNA. I mean, she she she she she But
she's you know, she's she's working
again. She's back She wants to work. I
mean, that's what happens. You never
stop working. But the thing is
that partnership
and this is what people don't get about
marriage.
Marriage is a business. I know people go
nuts when I say that, but it's a
business and
the first child you're going to have is
money.
It's going to be the first child and
it's going to sit at the table with you
every day. It's It's there. Sitting
there.
If you don't have money, you don't have
a marriage. I mean, the reason people
get married is to form a form of
financial stability so that they can
afford a family.
And you have to figure out
you know, I'm I'm I've been with my wife
a long time and we've been separated for
a couple of years, but you know, family
is very important to me, so I we got
back together again and we and you know,
our daughter got back together. I'm very
happy we did it. But it's
we make financial decisions together. We
we always check in.
You know, anything that's material
you know, if we're going to do a
renovation or something and and I
respect her for that. I have a lot of
respect for her because she doesn't just
spend money. We didn't have any money
when we started. We had nothing. And so
that's why a great marriage can work
because you build it together. You
really care about it. You care about
your family. You also care about what
you you've created in wealth. And I
consider my money her money. Like it's
cuz she was the family that let me go
and do the stuff. Now, I don't have the
same relationship with our kids that she
does because she raised them. But that's
the thing you give up and you have to
give something up. That's it. You can be
a great father, great provider, but
you're never going to have the closeness
that she had reading them stories when
they were young. I wasn't there. But,
you know, the outcome has been good. I
think everybody looks at that and says,
"All right, that's great."
But my mother never believed in
entitlement and so I don't believe in it
either. I'm not gifting my kids a ton of
money.
You know,
I I want them to launch and they've done
that successfully. They got to They got
to work, you know, they got to do their
thing.
I've heard you say before that the most
important financial decision you'll ever
make is who you'll marry. Yes. Why?
Because think of the geometric loss of
wealth. Every time you get divorced,
you pay the woman that you divorced or
man and you pay the government
a third often through capital gains and
liquidation because you can't separate
all the assets without liquidating them
sometimes. So you've got the government
sitting there, you've got the other
spouse sitting there. This is the
stupidest thing you can ever do. It took
your whole life to
to actually create this nest egg. Could
be, you know, you're 45 or whatever.
You've You've got a comfortable life and
all of a sudden you don't like your wife
or husband.
Think about that for a while.
Because you are going to wipe out up to
two-thirds of your wealth. You better
really like somebody else a lot.
And frankly,
sometimes it's not the other person that
you're divorcing. It's you. You're the
problem. If you're getting married for
the third time, you're a guy or woman,
it's not them. It's you. There's
something wrong with you and you should
probably not get into another economic
union. You should probably just date
till you drop dead because it's stupid.
Marriages are tough. I mean, they're
tough. Anybody who's been married for
more than 20 years knows exactly what
I'm talking about. But they have they
accrue more benefit than than, you know,
anything. So it is like if you're happy
51% of the day with your wife, stay with
him or her, husband or wife. You That's
very important. How often do you think
divorces are a result of money issues?
Well, you may be shocked at this.
I wrote a book
um about this and I decided uh men,
women, and money a long time ago, 10
years plus. Right. There it is.
And I did some research and I
I uh went to meet some of the top um
divorce lawyers in North America
in New York, in Boston,
and other cities.
And I said, "Look, I I want to kind of
do a pie chart of the reasons for
divorce that seemed to 50% seemed to end
in divorce within 5 to 7 years."
Every one of them, they didn't know each
other, said, "It's not infidelity.
Nothing to do with it. Most marriages
can
uh survive infidelity.
They can't survive financial stress.
And so what happens invariably is
you fall in love, but you didn't do any
due diligence on that person's spending
habits or their financial history
because l'amore is so wonderful in the
early days, you didn't do any diligence
on their family or them or their brother
or bankruptcy in the past or whatever it
is.
And then you get married and, you know,
the euphoria starts to wear off and you
notice that
the other is outspending you.
Just buying a lot of stuff.
Beyond your means.
And that starts the first friction.
And then that credit card comes in with
a $100,000 on it at 23% interest and
another
purse was bought or whatever the hell it
is.
And you're you're starting to sink
because you may have married somebody
who can't stop spending. This is just a
typical
There are people that can't have no
discipline. They just can't. They got to
have the boat, they got to have this,
they got to have that, and they pressure
their other to say, "Look, I want to
keep up with the Joneses next door."
even though they may only each have a
salary of a hundred grand each.
Can't do it. And they have kids and
they're trying to put them through
college.
That's divorce. That's why
almost 90% of of unions break up is is
is that classic
financial pressure. And divorce gets
them out of that mess because they can
no longer spend on your credit card
anymore, but it's a horrible way to go.
So, I've you know, I'm I'm an investor
in a company called HelloPrenup that
does divorces for uh does um
uh prenups for women. And prenups force
during the euphoric period diligence.
It's that simple.
You're going to find out if that person
has a financial problem going into the
marriage. They have to disclose
their financial background.
So, you you talk about these five love
languages of money.
The mooch, someone who won't pay for
anything. Right. Should I date someone
like that? It's a warning signal. It's a
problem. It's a problem so
Or they don't really want you for
companionship. They just want you for
financial support.
The spendaholic, someone who always
offers to pay for everything to appear
popular and successful.
Bad warning sign. Huge. I mean, that
isn't that is insecurity measurable by
cash outlay.
The loafer, someone who has no ambition
and drive for money. Avoid with extreme
prejudice.
The thief, someone who steals. You can
have no tolerance for that. And the
meanie, a balanced spender who lives
within their means. Love that. Marry a
meanie.
That's it. That's That's the Those are
the marriages that last an entire life.
That's it. That's what you're looking
for. That's great advice right there.
Whatever the book costs, that's that's
the best value right there.
And then ask yourself, am I dating one
of these or not?
You know?
You know, you should talk about money on
the third date. Think about a date Think
about dating.
First date, oh my goodness, this is a
really interesting person. Um or not.
Then there's your second date. Second
date, I want to learn more.
I'm really interested. You're going into
a third date, there's something going
on. There's something going on. You both
want to meet again.
That's the first time you should say,
"Look, I know this is crazy,
but
we're here together a third time because
something's going on here. And I'm just
wondering,
what are your long-term goals? I mean,
it's not about our marriage or anything
else other than we're having a great
time, but what are your ambitions? I'm
really interested in you. I'd like to
know what you think."
And then maybe the woman says or the guy
says, "What are you checking me out?"
You say, "Yeah.
Yeah, I'm really interested in you."
It's a form of
finding out if the connection, you know,
I I I should be a marriage counselor.
That's what I think. I mean, it's it's
really
Dating is is the is the dance, but it
should involve exploring where we're
going financially.
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One of the bigger protagonists in the
story of many things we discussed,
money, investing, building businesses
now is this thing called artificial
intelligence which you mentioned
earlier.
Yes. It's like entered the room. Yes.
And it's changing lots of these
equations in a really profound way.
Again, for that person who is maybe at
the start of their career or even, you
know, they're they're a lawyer right
now.
How are you thinking about AI? What
should they be thinking about? Because I
don't think we've seen something quite
like this. Not certainly not in my
lifetime. I've not seen disruption of
this scale. I wasn't around for the dot
com boom. I was too young. I was 10 or
something. I was eight. Yeah.
So so how should we be thinking about
this moment? Is it a huge opportunity
for wealth creation or Yeah, it's
immense. It's bigger than the internet
and I'll tell you why.
I want to keep it down to earth because
I'm actually using it now in use cases.
There's every sector of the economy,
every aspect of research, every aspect
of business has a huge opportunity here.
But let's just take use cases that you
would understand, everybody listening
would understand.
In today's post-pandemic world
most businesses have developed, large or
small, direct-to-consumer strategies
where they try and build relationships
with customers and sell them product
direct. Yeah, they still use retail.
Say you're Nike or something. And
you we were 27%
you know, direct-to-consumer before the
pandemic, you're now 50%. And and
direct-to-consumer gets you higher
margins but also gets you data. Gets you
information about the preferences of
your customer base, what they like, what
they don't like, the flavors and what
they buy, when they buy, where they buy
it, all that stuff.
That's very interesting that data.
And
let me give you an example, wine
business.
If you think about
the wine business, the challenge of a
thousand-year-old business.
You don't know what the weather's going
to be like. You don't know what
varietals to to to grow because you
don't know what the preference of the
customer is because you're selling it
through multiple tiers of distribution.
During the pandemic, 43 states in
America opened up direct-to-consumer
sales from the wineries in the West
Coast. For the first time ever, the
wineries found out
what people buy,
where they buy it, when they buy it,
what they drink, what varietals. And I'm
in the wine business. I sell over 3
million bottles a year of wine.
One of my companies, actually a Shark
Tank company. Um and we partner with a
company called
QVC. We sell online. And And so,
I can tell you today,
this month, this week, the number one
varietal in Southern Florida for women
ages 44 to 64 is Moscato, a sweet wine.
I think it tastes like [ __ ] I don't
care what I think.
It's the number one wine right now. And
I knew that to to make that varietal
available
6 months ago, so that I would be able to
ship it and put the inventory, the CapEx
in the right place at the right time to
support that demand for the rest of this
summer.
A sweet, cold Moscato wine.
That means I spent a lot less money
and a lot less risk. I don't have any
varietals they don't want this summer. I
have exactly what they want. That was
AI.
It cost me virtually nothing to get that
data.
5, 10 years ago would have cost me a
million bucks to go do all the market
research. I got that for $18,000.
So, that's using an AI tool. Here's
another example. So, do I use that tool?
100%. And there's many tools. You don't
have to just use chat There's many
different competing platforms. So, we
use them all. We check the assumptions
by checking it all on all of them to see
the little variances. Number two.
I have to shoot an ad.
I have to shoot a commercial.
I'm going to shoot it here in LA. I'm
going to do it in a studio like this
with a green screen. And I'm going to
spend, you know, $250,000 for a 30 you
know, 15, a 30, and a 60 out of the same
shoot.
And I'm then going to go into post with
the green screen and I'm going to spend
more money in post. I'm going to add
whatever I need, whatever background I'm
going to need.
Or
I could fly to Dubai
where they have a giant studio with a 6K
digital wall
where AI links up your script
to the background.
There is no post-production. You
basically shoot the commercial
in 4 hours
and it's done. The background's perfect.
The imagery's perfect. Your script is
perfect.
And I did that 2 weeks ago for the first
time. I'd never seen that before. We did
it for a fraction of the cost of what it
would have cost to do it in the old way
in post-production.
But then I'll tell you what freaked me
out.
They reshot the commercial without me
there using Kevin agent.
An AI of you. I wasn't even there.
And just to show that they could produce
a new commercial with the same
background
for $9,000.
That would have cost $400,000 from
scratch. So there's going to be a lot of
job disruption then because as you said
that
You don't say. But on the other hand,
I've now got content for that particular
business I was shooting that you know,
I've got content for that particular
business I was going to shoot that
commercial for.
And I said, "Guys
let's tweak it and shoot it again." He
said, "Yeah, we'll do it in 2 seconds.
We'll send you the the 15 seconds back."
I said I I I don't like what I said
there. Can I change what I said? He
says, "Yeah, well, do you want it in
Spanish? You want it in Japanese? You
want it in Arabic?"
That's the power, the productivity that
we're going to get. We're going to Our
budgets for producing content
are going to drop dramatically over the
next
And software and everything else, right?
Creating everything is going to get
Now full circle to your your thing about
the chips,
that all came from Nvidia chips.
That not That's not from Chinese chips.
Whoever controls the chip and the
honeybees that The honeybees are Those
guys are all Indians and Pakistanis.
They're genius mathematicians. That's
the team over there running off that
platform.
If we had let Anyways, I don't want to
I'm just freaked out that we got to
control that.
We We need democracy to control that.
Your children, what are you saying to
them though about their professional
ambitions in a world where creating
stuff like that and, you know, whether
it's Who do you want to do your your
taxes? An accountant or an AI? Who do
you want to do your legal documents? Who
do you want to do
your any sort of like white-collar job,
your make your videos, edit your videos?
I I tell them, you know, everybody's got
a lot of anxiety. I I I tell them,
"Listen,
everybody chillax. It's a tool.
You know, it's the same classic thing
where
radio was going to be displaced by
television. Radio's bigger than it ever
has been.
It It just It doesn't matter. The one
thing I concern myself with with AI is
warfare.
And I think the country that has the
best AI and data centers
and the most advanced chip technology
will win the wars of the future, which
will be fought by drones and robots. I
know that sounds kind of crazy. That's
where it's happening now and that's
where it's going to go. So So when I
when I solicit the ear of a senator, I
try and explain to them my honeybee
analogy saying this is about defense.
I don't want to live under
authoritarian, you know, I know we
debate the whole political environment
these days, but
I don't want to live around Chinese
honey.
I just don't. And those are going to be
the two superpowers. You both You're in
one vertical. Either you let the Chinese
make the honey
on AI or we make the honey and let the
Chinese buy some honey from us.
I know where I want to live. I know what
I want to do, and I think I can convince
a lot of senators the same idea because
you got to understand the Wozniak Jobs
analogy that we that you brought out
earlier.
That was the genius of Jobs.
Make the honey,
but know who the queen bee is. The
genius of Jobs brings me to a question
I've wanted to ask someone like you for
a long, long time, which is do you think
Apple is dead? No. You don't? No, I'll
tell you why. I'll tell you why. You
know, it's so interesting. Uh people
don't understand the genius of Apple
because this is again came from Jobs.
You know, he used to say to my team over
and over again, and I mentioned earlier,
they don't know what they want until I
tell them.
And I always just just as close as you
and I are right now, you're Steve.
I say, Steve,
how the [ __ ] do you know that?
How do you know that? You don't know
that.
You don't know what you don't know.
He said, show me where I'm wrong. Show
me one instance of us working together
I'm wrong. I said, it hasn't happened
yet, Steve. Doesn't mean it won't.
Get back to work.
Don't worry about it. I'll worry about
it. You make the software. I have the
chips. Make the software. Go make the
honey.
I have the queen bee. Don't worry about
it. And
that
is pretty interesting because
you got to prove it that he
was wrong. Let's take Let's accelerate.
He's dead now. But the philosophy of
Apple, and I'll give you them what the
way you win at you look at it.
I can go buy
a $330
laptop right here
with the same processing power of this
$1,800 Mac laptop.
Why would I been spend 1,800 when I
could buy this for 300?
Why?
Brand.
I want to be part of this universe.
This honey right over here.
The AppleCare, the fact that the OS
works on all the platforms, and the
messages are shown on all platforms
simultaneously. All the OS, all the
honey.
That platform
is the power of brand.
It's I'm not leaving this universe. And
Apple is
one of the world's largest
companies.
And you may say, "Oh, an innovation is
going to make everybody leave that
platform." I don't think so. They let
other people sometimes bring in a new
market, and then they take it over. And
I saw Steve do that multiple times.
He did it um
with the phone. I was around for that.
That was crazy. I mean,
he had the vision that we would someday
run our software on the phone. I said,
"You're out of your mind. It's The
screen's too small." He said, "No.
You're going to go vertical. You're
going to rewrite all this crap
vertically."
I mean, I can't fault him
on anything, although I kept telling
him,
"You're going to get it wrong one day.
You're not going to be right all the
time." I can't find when he wasn't
right. That That's That's the
frustration, because I teach this,
you know, to a hard bunch of really
smart kids at Harvard, of which by the
way a third are international students.
And
they say, "Well, when did you catch
him?"
I said, "I didn't."
What was he doing?
Was Did he have a practice or or
principles that allow him to see around
the corner?
He spent a lot of time at night um
you know,
even
studying fonts and looking at art, and
um
focusing on the signal.
I think his wife talked about that a
lot. He I mean, she spent more time with
him than anybody else, although Woz
talks about a lot, because those guys
spent countless hours together.
And
but but
Jobs defined
he would take
instances from nature
into his head or from Japanese,
you know, scripture or text or imagery
and redefine it into technology in a way
that no one else was doing. And that's
the idea of the honey and the bee and
the queen and all that stuff. It kind of
comes from his view of the world.
And
I don't know if you can understand this,
but because it was so
it came from nature, it was easy for
people to assimilate it. It wasn't
foreign. When they looked at the imagery
and the design, he he tried to pull from
from pleasing images from nature. Like
the fonts on the first Mac.
I remember when we were writing the code
for that thing, Steve, this is not what
people are used to seeing
on a computer screen. He said, "No, it
isn't.
That's why it's going to work." You If
you think about the very first scalable
fonts,
I saw that first.
And I said,
"See, this is this is almost foreign."
He said, "Well, how's it make you feel?"
I said, "It makes me feel pretty good.
It just looks like it's on a piece of
paper." If you I don't think you weren't
even born when this stuff was happening.
But it was
it he was so far ahead.
And this is the same way Elon is
redefining whether it's, you know,
SpaceX or whether it's
what he's doing in neurosurgery or Tesla
or, you know,
all of these initiatives, uh, you know,
his satellite technologies,
they are the same, those guys, except
you know, Elon's 100% signal. I said
that earlier.
They are the same and they should be
they're treasures. They're national
treasures. It doesn't matter if you like
them. It doesn't matter what their
politics are. It's It's irrelevant. The
contributions they're making to society
and to America, frankly, into
competitive competitive nature of of of
countries. That's why I thought it was
so important that Trump make up with
Elon. The
most powerful man on Earth should have a
a very
good relationship with the most the
richest man on Earth because he's the
largest industrialist on Earth. Maybe
there's like an inherent inability by
way of them being who you just said they
are. The most powerful
But they know, they're smart enough to
know. It's the same way I felt about
Jobs. I'm getting back on the plane this
quarter. I know he's going to beat me on
but it doesn't matter. It It's the
greater good is that we get this
software out there advancing
you know math and reading scores.
Was he happy?
Steve. I don't know the answer to that
question.
he was a happy person? I don't know. He
I've never I never saw him happy. He was
always barking at me. I never saw him
happy. I don't think I ever saw him
laugh.
I don't
He may not have been, you know, that I
mean, that's probably something
his wife would know, but he looked like
a tortured guy to me.
But um
you know, that may have been his curse.
I You know, you some some you
Do you love him?
Yeah.
I can see it in your face.
100%.
I saw a lot of emotion in your face the
first time you spoke about him and I
thought that's surprising for someone
that barked at you.
Well, he respected me. That's for sure.
He wouldn't execute on my ideas.
He expected me to execute on his, but he
was never wrong. Where did the emotion
stem from?
Oh, you know, it brings me back into
that room with Heidi Roizen and all the
crazy crap. I mean, it was just nuts.
And you know, the
you know, I'd have to spend a lot of
time
The only the only meeting I really
remember um
the the one that's really sticks in my
mind
when we were in Cupertino and we were
just
I think I don't know we're going after
him for 18 million or something and
Heidi was there.
Who's Heidi? Heidi Roizen, um she's a
famous um
venture capitalist, but she was also
kind of the
muse, the person that could actually
deal with Jobs all day long
at Apple
and bring him back to earth when he was
out of his mind. I'll give you an
example how that would work.
And I've seen her since, you know, it's
it's it's I don't even know if she
remembers this particular
Anyways, we leave.
He's barking at me. He's he and he's got
one of my product managers in tears cuz
she wanted to do the market research and
he said, "No way. We're just going to do
what I say." And she just felt like her
job was useless.
And and for him it was. I mean, he just
didn't give a [ __ ] what she thought.
Although she ran the universe of Oregon
Trail or something, some massive title,
like a huge multi-million dollar title
on the Mac in every 110,000 schools in
America.
And
he he was so pissed that, you know, that
in these old buildings
they have the little window where you
have a little knob and it only opens up
4 inches so you can't jump out of it in
a hotel or something.
So, we were we had a Hertz rental and
we're the whole team's going out. I'm
going to drive the car back to San
Francisco. I'm going to fly back to
Boston.
And he he undos the window and he's got
his head stuck in there and he's yelling
at me from from
I'm looking up at him and saying,
you know,
what the [ __ ] Like
what what more can we we what you
already kicked us out, you know? And
then on the way we had these old brick
the earliest cell phones, these brick
phones.
Heidi calls me says, "Okay,
he'll do it for 12 million."
I said, "Heidi, why do we have to go
through all that [ __ ] Like
why do we even have to get abused?" She
said,
"Why is the sky blue?
You know?
Just get back on the plane and go do
it." Like it was a huge hit. Like it's
just, you know, it's a huge hit. Like
it's just the guy was if you looked at
it like
he he he could he could write the hit
songs. what he did. He write the hit
songs. So you know what, even if you
hate the producer, you want the the guy
that can do the hit songs, right? If
you're an artist, you put up with a
crazy producer. Could he not have been
nice, do you think?
Not in his DNA.
No.
Do you think if he was a nice person, he
wouldn't
You know what he would say about that?
That's noise.
Who gives a [ __ ] Yeah, he doesn't give
a [ __ ]
No, I being nice is noise. That's for
him.
I mean, we spent a lot of time talking
about him, but I think there's a lot of
lessons learned from him that I think
managers today, parents today, uh
certainly CEOs today, uh you know, your
your about this show is about CEOs, um
I wish every CEO had spent the time the
minimal time that I spent with Jobs had
such an impact on me.
I mean, it it it I I'm I owe a lot of my
success to him cuz I think I always
think, "What would Steve do?"
And I make decisions like that. It's
amazing. The guy's still around. I bet
you if you talk to, you know, any of the
management at Apple, they they have that
ghost in those rooms, for sure.
Including the current CEO, who I think
is doing a phenomenal job.
He he spent so many hours with Jobs. He
knows exactly what I'm talking about.
Nobody spent more time in business than
that guy, for sure. I was just about to
go there. First, Steve Jobs was happy,
but are you happy?
I get happier the older I get and
because um I've I've I'm very
comfortable. I found a place
um
you know, uh
that I'm
And I I this may be just what
aging does. I mean, it's just, you know,
in in when I was in my 30s, I had a lot
of trauma and turmoil and and just, you
know, um
hard time to find it trying to figure
out who I was and I also suffered from
dyslexia, which I've come to think of as
a superpower, not not an affliction. But
it it was kind of like
it's hard to know what journey you're
going to be on until you find it. And
then I found it, and then I started on a
new journey. And and
you know
it's um
it's something where
you know you you you ask yourself
every day goes by and you know with this
the noise and signal thing and how much
of this day was I happy doing the things
that I wanted to do. And I am very happy
if you if I measure it by
is there anything that I spend my time
doing that I don't want to do today? The
answer is no, because I don't have to.
And so
I don't waste my time. I do you know
even coming here to spend two hours with
you
when I first you know heard about it, I
went online and said oh yeah this guy
this guy's great. I'd love to work with
him. You know that kind of thing
you you allocate your time. This is this
is I'm happy to do this. I want to be
here. And I think you know we had a very
interesting couple hours together. But
that's
the definition of happiness. What
concerns me and my wife often says to me
we don't need any more money. Why are
why are you flying 300 hours a year on
an airplane? What are you doing?
I said I'm happy. Like
you know I'm I'm happy doing this. I
want to do this stuff. You know I
sometimes I do five cities in a day.
It's freaking crazy. And that's the
wonderful thing about you know air
travel today you can do that.
But
it's It's spooky.
It's it's it's so interesting. I get so
many interesting opportunities. I can't
turn them down. They're just such
you know Are you driven or are you
dragged? You know you used the word
trauma there and I often ask myself that
question because I I came from a all
white area. I was the black kid with the
strange hair and the strange family. I
was insecure. And I think that resulted
in this this force of will to try and
crack the insecurity or to prove
something to myself which then resulted
in success.
there is no drag, there's only driven.
I don't understand being dragged.
Drag insinuates that
you don't care about performance, you
don't care whether you succeed or not,
you're just being sucked into the void
of success. You might be able to say
that for a rock star that gets a hit
song, but um
most of them doesn't last. I mean, you
need massive amounts of of drive.
And I love the most the most exciting
thing I like to do is when someone tells
me
"You can't do that." Like watch
insurance. You will never
launch a watch insurance company. It you
will never do that. You will never get
around the compliance state by state.
You will never launch in the Middle
East. You will never launch in England.
[ __ ]
That's exactly what I did. I found the
right team. I found the right partners.
I figured it out. I I was passionate
about it. And I think I'm going to kick
ass. I think I'm I think in two or three
years from now, you won't be able to
catch up with me. That's right. I'm 32
years old. What what is the advice that
you wish you got at 32 years old, Kevin?
What I have learned, and this is
something that you should really think
about for yourself.
Your real value, your real brand,
are your followers. This army of people
that have decided to invest their time
in you.
You know, you've cut across a a vast
swath
of people. So, you influence
very successful managers, CEOs,
and a lot of young entrepreneurs want to
hear what you have to say because they
they're expecting you to deliver
valuable information
across
multiple sectors. And you also have your
own data, but men and women. And so,
where do you take that? Because, you
know, it's
Do you want to launch a clothing line?
Do you want to sell burgers? Do you want
to do consulting? You know, it's it's
You have all those opportunities, but
what fits your brand?
And so,
I have
and you'll get to do this. You'll get to
do this.
You'll be approached by a lot of people
that want to ride that network you've
built.
And my advice to you is
cuz this has really worked for me.
Is this a product or service that I
personally would use?
That I would actually use.
Because
you'll get offered a lot of money
to talk about one brand or another
brand. They will, and you may be weak
and take it.
But
the minute
anybody in your
network, in your
community thinks you're not authentic,
you're [ __ ]
And you know that. Yeah.
And so,
you better be authentic, you better be
transparent, you better be honest even
when turmoil hits, whatever it's going
to be.
I found that saved my ass so many times
by just saying, "Here's what I know.
Here's what happened." And that actually
bonds them even closer to you. And And
that's
that's the difficulty you're going to
have is how much
do you want to take next? Cuz you're
going to have that opportunity. But if
you stay authentic and say, "I'm going
to do I'm going to support this brand
cuz I use it."
Every single brand or commission I have
in supporting a business, I use myself.
I'm a shareholder in it and I believe in
it, and I use the product or, you know,
whatever. Like the wines I make myself
with my wife, we drink them in our
family and everybody knows that. So, you
if it's I wouldn't drink it if it's [ __ ]
wine. So, it's it's sort of like
that's my advice to you because
I meet a lot of people, but you're very
rare. You What you've built, maybe by
happenstance that it occurred. Whatever.
Alchemy occurred, you have it now. It's
yours to lose. Don't [ __ ] it up.
Now, everything you said is so true and
um
obviously the things that I uh the
things that we talk about on the show in
terms of brands that I promote, pretty
much all of them I've invested my own
money into. Yeah. And this is like what
I talked about my Whoop. Yeah. Um
if you look at the investments I have
and the things I talk about, there's a
really clear through line through them.
So, there's a really clear through line
and it's actually reflective of just
where I am in my life. There's actually
a sponsor I used to have on the show
that I was very big on and I just
stopped um I stopped consuming the
product. They offered me 6 million
pounds, which is about what 8 million
dollars, to continue for another year
and a half. And I said like it just
wouldn't I'm about to basically start um
talking about and investing in
the antithesis of what you do. Yeah. So,
I had to turn down that 7 million
dollars, which is a lot of money for
anybody. Yeah. But, it's because my life
shifted and I shifted in a different
direction. People don't see those
things. They they don't see that the
this foreign government comes along and
offers you 4 million dollars to go and
talk about their country or to go do the
diversity in their country. They don't
see those decisions that you make, but I
think hopefully if you listen to me long
enough, you'll see a through line
between the things that are authentic to
me. Yeah, and I think that So, you've
already figured it out. And the other
thing that I would do and say anybody
your age and because I wish I'd done it
is start focusing on longevity in your
30s. Start thinking about what you eat
and what you drink and how much sleep
you do and how much exercise you have.
You're you could live to 120 years old.
I mean
You know, it's sort of if if you
understand If you're wearing a Whoop,
you know what I'm talking about. It's
sort of I'm very, very uh focused on
what I do and exercise and what I eat
and all that. Um
but uh that makes you feel healthier and
and more and just better about the your
day as you go through it. But, the fact
that you figured that out at your age,
because most people at your age would
have taken the 7 million pounds or
whatever it was, that would have been a
huge mistake. Because
now the next product that you do
endorse, I will know with certainty that
you use it because you told me this.
We have a closing traditional in this
podcast where the last guest leaves a
question for the next guest not knowing
who they're leaving it for. And the
question that was left for you, funnily
enough, I feel like I might have asked
it, is where do you believe happiness
really comes from?
You know, I think the answer is very
simple. Consistently achieving your
goals.
Because happiness is not a destination,
it's a journey. That's what it is.
So, you have to set those goals, whether
it's noise to signal, going full circle,
what we talked about, or long-term,
whatever it is, it's consistently
achieving those goals,
you will be happy.
Consistently not achieving them, you'll
be unhappy. Because it is not
a destination. Happiness is not a
destination. Ever. It's a mistake that's
so elusive.
I mean,
it's just not a destination, it's a
journey. That's it.
This is one of the great things you've
taught me today. I'm reaffirmed for me
today is this idea of like signaling
noise and radical prioritization because
kind of dovetailing into what we were
just talking about, when you have a lot
of opportunity,
it gets even harder, I think, to know
which one should be taking your 18 hours
a day. This is something I struggle
with.
should feel it. You know, you're you're
you're kind of a weird dude, cuz you're
like a 70-year-old man in a 30-year-old
body.
You've got You've got the intellect of
of experience, which most people don't
have at your age. But, deals,
there's a certain feeling that you if if
you should feel that it's a good deal.
It should It should be in your gut. And
I've learned this. There's many deals
that sound great that
when I just do the gut check, I don't
participate in. They just don't give me
And that came from experience, but you
seem to have that in some
weird way to avoid that one we just
talked about. That's
it it's it's it's intuitive feeling that
you generally get by having a lot of
winners and losers over time.
Mhm.
But you seem to have accelerated that
somehow.
It's an intuitive nature of where you
want to get to and
what it's going to take to get there,
and there's going to be sacrifice along
the way.
It's never about the money. Never. It's
not about the money.
It's
you know,
it's do I want to achieve that goal?
You know, I'm having a it's it's just a
weird thing because I'm
I had a similar situation just a couple
of days ago.
You know, when somebody approached me
and said, "Look, can you get behind this
and
and back it, and I'll pay you
a ton, like just a crazy amount of
money." And I thought,
"Do I actually want to spend 1 hour
pursuing that?"
And I went back to him and said, "Look,
um
no. I I just it's just not interesting.
I I just I don't I can't see my I I
can't see myself getting involved in
that narrative." Which was it was a
complicated situation, but
And then he said, "Look,
how about I give you 2 and 1/2% of the
company?"
I said, "No."
I I just don't want to be associated I
you know, it's just it's same idea. It
would intuitively
It was noise. Yeah, and what that would
do is some opportunity you don't know
about down the future that you have you
you you you pursued some goal that
somehow tainted your brand, and that
opportunity never comes to you. You
you're you're the you're the captain of
your brand. You you to
you have to define yourself right
through the journey. It's hard.
It's really hard. You know, it's it's uh
it's really hard. And that And that if
if there's going to be a downfall for
you, you will have
chosen unwisely somewhere.
But it better not be for money.
That's
there should never be an amount that you
would
take because
if your gut says no, it doesn't matter
what the money is. Not after what you've
achieved.
I mean, you don't need to buy a
guarantee anymore. You got it.
I'm assuming you've put some away.
I mean, it's very simple.
If you've got 5 million bucks in the
bank, you can do whatever you want now.
I mean, it's
may sound I want more, but that is
enough under ca-
Always have Always I have an account
that just sits there with 5 million
bucks in it in T-bills.
I never touch it.
That's my nest egg.
Kevin, thank you. You got
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Kevin O'Leary discusses his philosophy on entrepreneurship, investing, and life. He highlights the importance of the 'signal-to-noise' ratio, explaining that successful individuals focus on urgent tasks (signal) while ignoring distractions (noise). O'Leary shares his early defining moment of getting fired, which taught him about the distinction between business owners and employees. He emphasizes that entrepreneurship requires specific attributes, such as high risk tolerance, focus, and a bit of luck. He also advises on wealth management, stressing diversification and living within one's means, and explains how his approach to investing is influenced by lessons from his mother and Steve Jobs. Finally, he reflects on the importance of integrity, authenticity in branding, and the idea that happiness is a journey of consistently achieving one's goals.
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