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That is the stupidest thing you can ever

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do.

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Well, what is the most important thing

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for someone who's just trying to grow

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their money?

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So, I learned this from my mother and I

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actually built a whole company around

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it. Yeah, there she is. So,

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I haven't seen that picture in a while.

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Damn. I mean, what she did, the

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performance was extraordinary. And with

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that, did she put my brother and I

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through college? She took care of our

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family when they

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fell on hard times.

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When I saw the results, I said, "That's

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it. That's how I'm going to invest for

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the rest of my life."

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So, talk me through this one as much

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detail as possible.

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Okay, let's start with this. Kevin

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O'Leary, aka Mr. Wonderful, is the

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self-made millionaire and investor who's

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built and sold companies for billions.

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There's a lot of people don't like me

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for my bluntness. I don't care because

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there's people that don't think ahead

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and find themselves mired in debt, but

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then pissing away money, spending $28

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for lunch. I mean, that's just stupid.

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What about a house? The mistake that

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people make is they buy too much house.

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Never let the mortgage and the cost of

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maintaining the house be more than 1/3

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of your income. And how much does the

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person that you fall in love with have

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an impact?

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You're kidding? It's everything. And I

1:16

did some research and most marriages can

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survive infidelity. They can't survive

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financial stress. But, if everybody

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that's listening does this one thing,

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you will have over a million and a half

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dollars.

1:27

Kevin, can anybody be an entrepreneur?

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No, only a third of people can become

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successful entrepreneurs because there's

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a couple of things that you must achieve

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to be successful. First,

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Kevin, I'm going to ask you to do

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something which is quite difficult

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because I'd find it quite hard if

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someone asked me to do this. But, before

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we get into the detail, can you give me

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a 30,000 ft view on your

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entrepreneurship and investing career?

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Just the just the three bullet points

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that are most pertinent before we dig

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into those

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specifics. Every entrepreneur I've ever

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talked to that finds himself where I am

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today has has a defining moment where

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they are

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pushed into this path. It's It's

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something they can remember and they

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remember it in perpetuity. And I'll

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remember my moment getting fired in an

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ice cream store.

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That simple. First day on the job, asked

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to serve and scoop ice cream.

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And um

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I did that all day, but when people

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sample ice cream, they get a taster and

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they take their gum out and they throw

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it on the floor.

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Somebody's got to scrape the gum off the

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floor at the end of the day.

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I only took that job because I was very

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interested in a girl who was working in

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the shoe store and I figured

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I could you know, hang out with her

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afterwards. And I saw her waiting for me

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and the

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woman who owned the store said, "You've

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got to scrape the gum off the floor."

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And I didn't want her to see me on my

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knees with a scraper. It'd be bad for my

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brand. I was in high school. And uh

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she said, "No, no, you have to do it."

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And I said, "You know, you hired me as a

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scooper, not a scraper."

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She said, um

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"How about you're fired?"

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And I didn't even know what that meant

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and it was the defining moment for me

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because I realized there's two kinds of

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people in the world. There's people

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that own the store and there's people

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that scrape the [ __ ] off the floor. And

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you have to decide who you are and I'm

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not saying being employed is a bad

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thing, not at all. But for me, um it it

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hit me. It just hit me. Kevin, there's a

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present for you. We give a present to

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all of our guests. Really? Underneath

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that black Can I open it?

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You can open it.

3:30

I just take this out?

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Oh, look at that.

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You've heard the story.

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That is exactly how it looked, except it

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was black gum. And that was exactly the

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tile. It was just like that Mexican

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tile.

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That's really freaking me out. So, you

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were asked to scrape gum off a Mexican

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tile.

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Yes, just like that. And in order to do

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that, you got to get down on your knees

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and do it. And um I just couldn't do it.

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And I And I And

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And then you know the rest of the story.

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I eventually could afford to bulldoze

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the whole mall if I wanted to. And we

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went back to meet her and thank her for

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her pushing me off the treadmill into

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that direction. And she was gone and

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there was a bodega there instead. You

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said that that you realized that there's

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kind of two people in life. There's the

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entrepreneur, there's the person that

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owns the ice cream parlor, and there's

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the person that scrapes it off the

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floor.

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Yeah.

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That provoked a question in me, which is

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do you think anybody can own the ice

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cream parlor? I do you think anybody can

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be an entrepreneur? No.

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I've

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tried to teach it um

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and I mentor it all the time to the CEOs

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that I work with.

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Uh there are some attributes of people

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that can do this. A certain element of

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risk tolerance, uh a certain element of

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focus.

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And then the other element which I've

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really started to believe in of late is

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karma.

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Luck.

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You need to be lucky. You need It's like

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Napoleon was once asked,

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"Who are your favorite generals?" And he

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said,

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"My favorite generals are lucky

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generals, my lucky generals." And I'm

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starting to think that in life um

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particularly entrepreneurship, you look

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at the difference to the path of success

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and failure and I Nobody's exposed to it

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more than I am in terms of how many

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investments I made I've made over the

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decades.

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I think if you want a percentage, and

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then I teach these cohorts in in at

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Harvard,

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I'm an executive fellow there. I'm very

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proud of that work.

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You get a class of 120 people in a room.

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Two-thirds of them want to become

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consultants. That's why they're there.

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And lead

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a life of mediocrity and never make a

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decision of consequence in their lives.

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And after 24 months, they are tainted

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with that disease forever. They'll

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always be good consultants, but they

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will never achieve greatness in any way.

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In life, only a third of people can

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become successful entrepreneurs. That's

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it. And the rest can be very successful

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employees, and there's nothing wrong

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with that. You can have a fantastic

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life.

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You won't be shackled to the you know,

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the the ups and downs of

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entrepreneurship, the challenge of it,

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how hard it is.

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But, you will never be free.

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And that's the debate. That's it right

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there. Do you want personal freedom?

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It's the only path. That's it. It's the

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only path. It is the only path. I mean,

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you can't I I've always said it's not

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about the pursuit of money. It's not

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about the pursuit of greed. You will

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fail if you do that. It's It's the

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undying love freedom.

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So, that 1/3 of people that you say will

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be successful, they'll pursue their

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their dreams, they'll build a business,

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whatever it might be.

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Yeah.

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Do you think it's possible for us in

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this conversation to increase the

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probability of their success? You said

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you don't think you can you can make

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someone an entrepreneur.

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But, is there things you can do to

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increase their probability of success?

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Yes, there are a couple of things that

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you must achieve to be successful. And

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let me explain what they would be. And

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this is not some academic study. This is

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real data from real situations of real

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CEOs I've worked with and learned from,

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because I used to work for guys like

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Steve Jobs and others

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in my career.

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Let me um

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Let me give you one that I think's very

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important. We'll start with this one. I

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used to work for Steve Jobs in the early

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'90s making all of his educational

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software. And it was just Yeah, there

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they are. My goodness, you guys do good

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research. Those are the kind of things

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that we did for him.

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You know,

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yeah.

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Yeah, all of that. It's hard to find.

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Those are CD-ROMs.

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But, you know,

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in developing that software,

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we used to go quarterly. Um Heidi Roizen

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was there in the room. She's still a

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very famous venture capitalist.

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And

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I would say, "Steve, you know,

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we got to do some market research on

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Oregon Trail. I mean, it's a huge title.

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It's in 110,000 school buildings. We got

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to do an update. It's going to cost you

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12, 15 million bucks.

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We want to find out what the students

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want. We want to find out what the

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teachers want. We want to find out what

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the parents want. Steve would say, by

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the way,

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not a nice guy.

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Not a nice guy.

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He would say to a room full of people,

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"Kevin, I don't give a [ __ ] what the

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students want or the parents think or

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anybody thinks. It's what I want. They

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don't know what they want till I tell

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them what they want."

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And I said, "Steve, you sound like such

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an [ __ ] You have no idea what that

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sounds like." He says, "No, no.

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That's how it is, Kevin. Now, are you

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making money with me? Are we Are you Am

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I your fastest growing OEM?

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Have we not been wildly successful and

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continue to be?"

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I said, "Yes, Steve, that's true." He

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said, "Then [ __ ] shut up and do what

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I say." That's how he would talk to you?

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100%

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and

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here's what I learned.

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Look how wildly successful he was.

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But, here's why.

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There's a concept that he understood

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that very few people focused on back

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then in the early '90s of

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signal-to-noise ratio.

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What was so brilliant about Jobs

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that I tell every CEO now, and I don't

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care if you're an S&P 500 CEO or you're

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just starting a business.

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His vision of signal was the top three

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to five things you have to get done in

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the next 18 hours. Not your vision for

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the business next week or next month or

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next year. Just the next 18 hours you're

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awake.

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You're going to get those three things

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or those five things done that you have

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deemed critical for your mission. They

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must get done today.

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Anything that stops you from doing that

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is the noise.

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So, the signal-to-noise ratio to be

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successful for Steve Jobs

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was 80/20. 80 signal, 20 noise.

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And I knew that to be true with him

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because he would email me at 2:30 in the

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morning, expect me to get back to him

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because back then we didn't have texts.

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It was all email.

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He was right. He was right.

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And the only other person that I've seen

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that has a higher ratio than that

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is Elon Musk. He has no noise.

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He does not deal with noise. He is 100%

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signal 24 seconds of, you know, every

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cycle. I mean, the guy is just 60

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seconds of every minute, 60 minutes of

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every hour,

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the 18 hours he's awake, it's all

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signal.

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And look what he's achieved. Now, that's

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very awkward for him socially

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because

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noise is dealing with your family

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sometimes, or noise is saying hi to a

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friend, or noise is is is listening to

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some doom scrolling on, you know, some

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social media app that just takes your

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mind, or maybe playing your guitar. But,

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very few people on Earth, and if you go

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back in history, you're going to find

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out that the geniuses of their time

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were close to 100% signal.

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And so, I can really sort of summarize

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this for my audience. Signal is the most

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urgent thing you should be focused on

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right now, and noise is basically

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everything else.

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No, the goals you set for that the the

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way the that you were awake. If you're

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going to be awake 18 hours, Yeah.

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and you've determined that there's three

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things you have to get done,

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you're going to get those done. No

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matter what it takes, you're going to

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get those done. And you're not going to

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let anything distract you from the three

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to five things.

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If you're a CEO, and you achieve that,

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and you can get those done with 80% of

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your time based on that,

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you're extraordinarily successful. You

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are absolutely And you're Steve Jobs, or

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you're an Elon Musk, or you're somebody

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If you If you even talk to Bezos, I

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don't know him personally, but I've

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heard in many interviews, like I knew I

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I know, I've I've met Elon just a few

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times. I spent a lot of time with Jobs.

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But they say the same thing.

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Bezos will not make a decision after

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1:00 in the afternoon because he felt

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that the noise was too high.

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The signal for him was in the morning

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hours. If this is a crucial aspect of

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success that that I now understand to be

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the ability of

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defines

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an entrepreneur. A man or woman that

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understands the signal noise ratio that

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focuses on that

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they'll be successful.

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The ones that can't that get down to a

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50/50 signal noise, they'll fail. It's

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that simple.

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And it's a very simple concept.

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You know

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you made one of your things today this

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interview. You're going to get it done.

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You're going to all these people around

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and everything else. This is one of the

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three to five things you're going to get

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done. I have five things today. I'm

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going to get them done. I'll do the same

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thing tomorrow. And the day after that.

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And you have to decide how much signal

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you need to get those three to five

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things done.

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And for Jobs it was 80%.

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What's the opposite of that? Sometimes

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looking at the opposite helps us to

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understand something. So the opposite of

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having Well, I hire managers and CEOs

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that have a balance in life between the

12:46

discipline the binary aspect of business

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which is I make money I lose money.

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And the chaos of the arts or some other

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pursuit dance, painting, photography

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collecting crystals, whatever it is that

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that they that they have that balance

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you you need you need the yin and yang

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in your mind to make correct decisions.

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It doesn't mean it takes you off the

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signal. The signal is you got to get

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stuff done. But how do you live your

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life? And so I spend a fair amount of my

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time practicing my guitar or working

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with my photography or my my watch you

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know I

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tonight very late tonight I will meet a

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master watchmaker and we will deal with

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the design of a new piece unique is

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going to make for me and I'm going to

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love that moment. That's going to be

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something completely different to what I

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did all day long and we'll start our

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journey together over the next 2 years

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to make this piece unique. And

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that's something that just takes me away

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from all the [ __ ] I'm going to be

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dealing with today. And I also tell

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successful entrepreneurs

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in the same day you'll get a and I this

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happened to me today. It happens every

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day.

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You're going to get a call from some

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aspect of of your

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what you do you call it your empire

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whatever you want where your this

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company's going bankrupt. It's just

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going to go bankrupt and you're going to

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lose

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I don't know 10 million bucks on that

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deal.

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And that's a piece of information you're

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dealing with.

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Half an hour later

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this actually happened to me today.

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One of my company's going public.

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It's a 450X for me.

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The stock will get unlocked sometime in

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the fall but

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how can how do you

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how do you fit that together?

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Utter catastrophe, destruction, woe,

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loss

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utter euphoria

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half an hour later.

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That's

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that's what my life is like. That's

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entrepreneurship. Obviously on a

14:39

different scale for most founders.

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Well, the founders deal with the same

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thing. They get disastrous news. They

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lose a an account like a Costco or

14:46

something if it's consumer goods or

14:47

service and they get something else.

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The the the ebb and flow is is the

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management of expectations and your

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ability emotionally to navigate those

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ups and downs is part of what

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entrepreneurship is but it goes back to

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the signal.

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It can't take you off the signal. This

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is what Steve taught me.

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Yes, it's great news. Yes, it's bad news

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but focus on the signal O'Leary. Focus

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on the signal.

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That's it. Where does this analogy come

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from of signal and noise? It was his

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genius of a of of making it so simple.

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What are the three things you got to get

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done today? What are they? What are

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they? How do you know what they are?

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They will make themselves apparent. They

15:29

will definitely make themselves

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apparent.

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They will make themselves apparent and

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you will realize I have to deal with

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that. You may have them set up from the

15:37

day before. I actually still use sticky

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notes on my mirror.

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Got to get these three things done.

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And or five thing or whatever it is, but

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then something else will hit.

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That's the skill of understanding. Is

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that noise hitting me or is that signal?

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There is the essence of the great

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entrepreneur, the great manager, the

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great leader.

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Is that signal or is that noise? What is

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it?

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That's what you're looking for. You're

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hiring somebody that can actually

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distinguish signal and noise.

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Because it could be noise. It could be

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irrelevant.

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You have to determine only you makes

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that decision.

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That's the key right there. This is what

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I teach

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entrepreneurs and engineers and

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This is the most important thing. It's

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not judgement of prioritization but then

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the sort of force of execution to get it

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done.

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Can you interpret signal and noise?

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And can you keep the noise away from

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from the things you got to get done?

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That's one. The other which is something

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that I've learned over the last five

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years.

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And this you might find this interesting

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but most of my particularly the nascent

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startups and you're you're involved in

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the same format I am. You're Dragon's

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Den in England. I'm Shark Tank in the

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US.

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I you know, you put up 500,000 or a

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million bucks into somebody's business.

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Eight eight out of 10 are going to fail,

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maybe six out of 10 depend you just

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don't know.

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And

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I love it when people tell me, oh, I I

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know

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when I make an investment it's going to

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work.

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They are so full of [ __ ] They They have

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I'm talking about startups. They have no

17:17

idea what's going to work and you won't

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know for 5 to 7 years, which is why you

17:21

need diversification in the portfolio,

17:23

but

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I would go as far to say now,

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you know, when I meet um

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venture capital firms and young analysts

17:32

that work there and they think they're

17:33

so damn smart, they've never operated a

17:35

business. They don't know nothing. They

17:37

have no idea what they're doing. They're

17:39

going to hope that one or two of their

17:40

portfolio is going to work out in 7

17:43

years and pay for all the other

17:44

mistakes.

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But the serendipitous nature of success

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in entrepreneurship is brutal. It is.

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So that does that mean though that it's

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I guess I was going to say does that not

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mean that it's highly luck? If

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investing's highly luck,

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entrepreneurship must be. Well, I said

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karma, you know, I call it karma, but

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you need execution skills, but here's

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another skill that I think we should

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talk about. Um

18:08

when you look at at least my experience

18:11

over decades of making these

18:14

uh

18:15

nascent these early stage investments,

18:17

these A round investments,

18:19

remarkably, and I've done them in all 11

18:21

sectors of the of the economy, the

18:23

majority of the successes 5 to 7 years

18:25

later are companies run by women.

18:27

Why is that? Why is that?

18:31

And so

18:33

they don't know each other, they're in

18:34

different sectors, they never meet each

18:36

other. Why is that? And I have come to

18:39

the conclusion

18:40

um

18:41

two things. They set goals that they can

18:44

achieve so that in the early stage of

18:45

their businesses,

18:47

they put growth rate targets like 15,

18:49

16% versus men at 30% very often. Men

18:52

hit their target 65% of the time at

18:54

least in my portfolio and and women 90

18:56

[ __ ] plus per time percent of the

18:58

time. And that keeps the

19:00

the team very sticky. They want to be

19:01

part of a so they don't have a lot of

19:03

attrition when they're small. They don't

19:04

lose the head of finance, head of

19:06

marketing. That that works. But they

19:08

have another attribute and this was

19:09

pointed out to me by one of my female

19:11

CEOs a few years ago to me. She said,

19:13

"You know, Kevin, you talk too much.

19:15

You talk too much. Um

19:17

you talk 2/3, you listen 1/3. Why don't

19:19

you try reversing the ratio?" She said

19:21

that to you?

19:22

Yeah. Yeah.

19:27

I'm very thankful, actually, cuz I tried

19:29

it.

19:30

And um she's right. If you don't talk

19:33

and you listen, you become far more

19:35

effective as a manager or an investor in

19:37

my case

19:38

by getting information that

19:40

you weren't going to get by talking. And

19:41

so, if you go into a room

19:44

I just did this a few minutes ago before

19:46

I came here. I'm involved in a

19:47

litigation.

19:48

And we decided to attempt settlement

19:50

talks.

19:52

Which is why I was a few minutes late.

19:54

And um

19:56

you know, we knew we were going in there

19:58

to settle.

19:59

And it it's long protruded, you know, a

20:02

long It's a long long long

20:05

uh

20:05

litigation.

20:08

And I remembered her as we sat at the

20:10

table like this. There were other people

20:11

in the room, but

20:12

the two uh

20:14

you know,

20:15

we were across from each other.

20:17

I just looked at him. I didn't say

20:19

anything.

20:21

For a long time.

20:23

A long time.

20:25

And

20:26

it gets uncomfortable and no one else is

20:28

talking.

20:31

You know, just looking.

20:33

And um

20:37

maybe after 90 seconds, he blurted out

20:39

something he shouldn't have said.

20:43

And I knew exactly what the price was.

20:45

Right there.

20:47

That was the end of it.

20:50

You learn that as a podcaster.

20:52

You learn that there's actually

20:53

something going on in the silence. There

20:55

is something going on in silence and

20:56

it's it's

20:58

it's the number that he was going to

20:59

settle at.

21:01

He showed his hand. So, we saved

21:02

ourselves 2 hours, you know.

21:04

It's a It's an attribute that many

21:05

people can't do cuz they can't stand the

21:07

social uncomfort of it. I have no

21:09

problem with it. I can sit here and look

21:10

at you for 10 minutes. It wouldn't

21:12

matter to me.

21:13

And I've actually found it to be a very

21:15

useful piece of information. It's not

21:16

just in negotiating, but to listen to

21:18

employees, listen to investors, listen

21:20

to financiers, listen to alternate ideas

21:23

to yours,

21:25

and become more powerful from it.

21:28

You're in the very business of people

21:29

selling to you and pitching to you. We

21:30

both sit on a similar show and my people

21:33

come in and pitch to us. You're seeing

21:35

at times 10 to 12 a day. So, you've

21:38

developed this muscle over the last

21:40

couple of decades now.

21:42

Almost this instinctive spidey sense of

21:44

when an entrepreneur

21:46

will be successful, at least in the

21:47

context of securing investment. What

21:50

have you come to learn about the the

21:51

attributes of the ones that are

21:53

successful? Is there is there anything

21:54

one can take from that?

21:56

In the moment when that entrepreneur

21:58

comes out on the carpet in the context

22:00

of Shark Tank or Dragon's Den even,

22:03

they need the set up shot of the product

22:05

with the entrepreneur and they have a in

22:06

our case a steady cam or a a jib that

22:09

comes down and shoots it. So, the the

22:11

stage director

22:13

Eric uh is his name. I've worked with

22:15

him for years.

22:17

Says to the

22:18

entrepreneurs I've never met, usually

22:20

it's a team or it's a family or it's

22:22

whatever, three or four, two people,

22:23

whatever.

22:24

Hold. Hold.

22:27

Hold.

22:28

Don't speak. Hold. Hold.

22:31

Don't mind the camera coming into your

22:32

face. Hold. Hold.

22:36

Maybe for

22:37

2 minutes.

22:39

And I'm right there in front of them.

22:40

I'm 12 ft from them and I just look at

22:42

them.

22:43

Not smiling, not blinking, not frowning,

22:46

just looking at them.

22:48

And before they say a single word, I

22:50

know if they're winners or losers.

22:52

Just like that.

22:54

And why is that? Why is that?

22:59

When

23:00

and I'm right probably 99% of the time.

23:03

Maybe I get it wrong one out of 100. I

23:06

doubt it though.

23:08

You walk in a room, even though you've

23:10

practiced, you know, you're in the

23:13

context of of Shark Tank, 20 plus

23:15

cameras,

23:17

a billion plus dollars in in the five

23:19

chairs there. You've been practicing for

23:22

months your pitch, but it wasn't the

23:24

real deal.

23:26

Here you are. Cameras are rolling, tape

23:28

is running.

23:29

You know you've only got so many

23:31

minutes.

23:34

This is your moment. And you're on

23:36

national television, 100 plus million

23:38

people will see you in syndication. It's

23:39

all in your mind. It's all in your mind.

23:42

It's going through your head.

23:46

Can you project

23:48

who you are with your eyes and the way

23:50

you're standing? Can you project your

23:52

confidence?

23:53

Are you looking at the ground? Are you

23:55

looking away from me cuz you can't stand

23:57

me looking at you directly without

23:59

saying anything to you?

24:01

Or do you push back? Or do you say I'm

24:03

going to I'm going to stake my aura. I'm

24:05

going to stake my ground here. I'm going

24:08

to show you I'm ready.

24:10

See what I'm getting at?

24:11

Yeah.

24:12

And I can feel it. I can see that

24:15

they're ready to do battle. They're

24:16

ready to answer. They're ready to

24:17

present. They're ready, ready, ready,

24:19

ready, or they're not. And

24:22

I've taken that out of the Shark Tank. I

24:24

see that every day in life. I see it.

24:26

So, you have to learn how to project

24:29

yourself in front of your peers or who's

24:32

who you want to you want to lead or

24:35

teach or if you're a general or a

24:37

preacher,

24:39

that is maybe

24:42

an innate

24:43

something you're born with or maybe you

24:45

can learn that. I don't know. I don't

24:46

care. But if you don't have it, you're

24:49

going to fail. And you're just that's

24:52

before a word is spoken.

24:54

It'll before the first word is spoken.

24:57

And so, then what has to happen?

25:01

Then Eric says, "Go.

25:03

You're on."

25:05

And everybody's just sitting there

25:06

looking at you.

25:08

Can you articulate your idea in 90

25:11

seconds or less? Can you, whatever props

25:14

you have or whatever you're going to

25:15

say, can I get the big idea right away?

25:21

The ones that had that aura generally

25:23

get there. 30 seconds later, I get it.

25:26

I get what they're here for. I

25:27

understand their product. Okay, that's

25:29

good. Unfortunately, great ideas are

25:31

dime a dozen.

25:33

I mean, there's millions of them.

25:35

The next phase begins. This is after 90

25:38

seconds. Can you explain why you're the

25:41

right person

25:43

to execute on this idea and create a

25:45

business from it because you know

25:48

something about this space. You worked

25:49

for a competitor. You've tried three

25:51

times before and failed. You figured out

25:52

what you did wrong. What is it about you

25:54

or your team that can take this

25:58

idea and make it happen?

26:01

Now, we get those two things together,

26:03

you can feel the aura of the room.

26:06

The isotope is sizzling because you've

26:08

de-risked a great idea. You got an

26:09

operator in it and they But then the

26:11

third thing, this is the killer. This is

26:13

the killer.

26:15

I've seen it so many times in real life

26:17

and Shark Tank's real life it is, but

26:21

you got to know your numbers.

26:23

How big is the market? How fast is it

26:24

growing? What's the gross margin? I've

26:25

said this a million times to people. I

26:26

teach this every day.

26:28

How many competitors are there? When are

26:30

you going to break even? What month?

26:32

If you get the first two right and you

26:33

don't know your numbers, you deserve to

26:34

burn in hell and I'll put you there

26:36

myself.

26:37

I mean, you wasted an opportunity for an

26:38

entrepreneur that did know their numbers

26:40

that could have been in that spot that I

26:41

could have invested in. You don't know

26:42

your numbers.

26:44

I'd take you out behind the barn and

26:45

shoot you. You should have brought

26:46

somebody

26:48

that understands the language of

26:50

business because those three together

26:51

are the definition of leadership right

26:53

there.

26:54

I've never heard someone talk about aura

26:56

in entrepreneurship quite like that. And

26:59

I was I was just trying to

27:01

for the people listening that

27:02

are either trying to figure out if they

27:03

have an aura or to grow that aura, what

27:06

does it what does it look and feel like?

27:08

Is it physically? Is it shoulders back?

27:10

Is it You said it's eye contact.

27:13

Or is it indescribable? And do you think

27:15

you could take someone who doesn't have

27:17

that aura

27:18

in business and

27:20

teach them it? Does business give you

27:22

that aura?

27:24

I think you can teach it. I certainly

27:26

try and teach it to my children. Um

27:28

I try and teach it to my students.

27:33

And the best way to do it is to look at

27:36

yourself in the mirror sometime. You

27:38

know, just

27:39

what do you look like to yourself?

27:42

You know, if you're going to go make a

27:43

presentation to take down a

27:44

million-dollar line of credit or

27:46

something, you want to dress the part,

27:48

obviously.

27:50

But you're going to walk in a room with,

27:51

you know, a loan officer and maybe an

27:52

assistant, maybe one other, depending on

27:54

the size of the deal.

27:56

And they all never met you, probably.

27:58

And you're going to have to project

28:00

yourself in those seconds as you're

28:01

walking up to shake their hands.

28:04

What does that take? It takes an aura of

28:06

confidence, and it's in the eyes, it's

28:08

in the way you're you're standing, it's

28:10

in how the way you're dressed. It's It's

28:12

not a joke to be dressed for success.

28:15

You know, it's it's um

28:17

it's

28:19

but it's it's something about presenting

28:22

yourself

28:23

and

28:24

keeping your eyes focused on who's

28:26

talking to you, so that they know that

28:29

you're absorbing the information, that

28:30

you respect the information, that you're

28:33

about to get into a narrative with them

28:34

of respect, even though there may be

28:36

disagreements. All of this is happening

28:39

in the first 60 seconds, and it's

28:42

setting up for the rest of

28:44

your life with that person. It could be

28:47

who you're going to marry, it could be

28:48

who you're going to work with, it could

28:49

be your partner in business, it could be

28:50

your banker, it could be anybody. It

28:52

could be a soldier that's going to give

28:53

up their life for you. It's sort of

28:57

Who are you?

28:58

That's it. Just closing off on the point

29:00

you made about women being your most

29:01

successful investments and the companies

29:03

that have given you the greatest returns

29:05

tend to be led by women. Does that mean

29:07

that you focus on hiring women into

29:10

executive roles? Yeah, I'm practically

29:12

all women, um particularly Asian women.

29:15

I am a uh you know, this whole thing

29:18

about

29:19

DEI and all this stuff, I've always had

29:21

diversity because I only hire on merit.

29:24

I don't care

29:25

if what sex you are or what you call

29:27

yourself or what where you came from or

29:30

the color of your skin or what planet

29:31

you were born on. I couldn't give a

29:33

[ __ ] Can you execute?

29:37

And the way I hire people, and that's

29:38

why I have such a diverse staff in my

29:40

operating company,

29:42

I don't hire you. I say, "Look, you

29:44

sound good and

29:46

you look great on paper,

29:48

but that doesn't mean anything if you

29:50

can't work within the team. So,

29:52

I know you want a job and you want

29:54

benefits and all that stuff, but I'm not

29:56

going to do that. If you want to be part

29:57

of my universe, you're going to work for

29:59

4 to 6 months as a contractor at a much

30:02

higher salary

30:04

cuz you're not going to get any stock

30:05

options, you're not going to get any

30:07

benefits,

30:08

but I just want to see what it's like

30:10

for you to work with all of the people

30:12

that we deal with every day, all the

30:14

lawyers, all the bankers, all of the

30:17

you know,

30:18

the CEOs that we have investments in and

30:20

and your co-workers because I don't

30:23

do 9:00 to 5:00 anymore. I do

30:25

project-based work. I don't care where

30:27

you live. We have people working in

30:28

Dubai, Abu Dhabi,

30:30

uh

30:31

England. I mean, everywhere, everywhere.

30:33

And and you know, we meet we try and

30:35

find an hour every week where we can see

30:37

each other, but we're just constantly

30:39

communicating using modern-day tools

30:41

today.

30:42

But,

30:45

you know,

30:46

can you actually be given a mandate

30:50

and execute on it?

30:51

That's it. I don't care when you do it.

30:53

If you have to get the financials out,

30:54

let's say you're running in finance, you

30:55

got to get them out the 15th for taxes.

30:58

I don't care when you do it, but if you

31:00

miss the 15th, I care.

31:02

So, I I need to find out if those people

31:04

can fit into that kind of an

31:05

environment. Some of them make it, some

31:06

of them don't. Some sometimes we know

31:08

right away after 90 days, you know,

31:10

let's hire him, bring him in the team,

31:11

and you know, let's give him the whole

31:12

package. And sometimes after a month we

31:14

say, "No, it's not going to work."

31:16

Here's like, you know, that's it. I

31:18

think I think more companies should do

31:19

that, actually. It's more like the Swiss

31:22

apprentice system. They bring you into a

31:24

lot like it, you know, my stepfather's

31:26

Swiss. I've been going to Switzerland

31:27

for 50 years. So, if you're a giant

31:29

company, like a Pfizer or a Nestle, you

31:31

pull them out of high school at 14.

31:34

You give them a job in the afternoon.

31:36

They become an apprentice. They want to

31:38

learn. They want to work. They want to

31:39

understand what it's like. And then you

31:41

find the the winners at while they're

31:44

still in high school. Then you give them

31:45

summer jobs, and then you bring them

31:47

into the company.

31:48

That's where I got the idea from. The

31:50

Swiss are genius that way. Cuz you're

31:52

sort of mitigating the risk, I guess.

31:54

You're taking less of a a risk on this.

31:55

No, but you're also finding out if their

31:57

their DNA is going to fit with your

32:00

I mean, I want my team to make a ton of

32:02

money. I I just I want them to be

32:04

successful.

32:05

I want every person to be proud to work

32:07

with the other and and just

32:10

we're almost invincible. We're so damn

32:11

good at what we do. You have the same

32:13

thing here. You you don't have people

32:14

that don't work for you well, you get

32:16

rid of them. You whack them. I'm more

32:18

just formal about it. Boom, you're gone.

32:20

With with the investments that you've

32:22

made, how many investments, how many

32:23

offers have you done on Shark Tank now?

32:24

Probably like Oh, I just We don't even

32:26

count it anymore. We look at the

32:27

portfolio rolling over 5 to 7-year

32:30

period.

32:31

A lot. Yeah, like a lot. And And the

32:34

thing is the thing what I've learned is

32:37

you get a you get an exit like uh

32:39

Basepaws from 5 years ago or something

32:42

Anaya from remarkable woman. That was

32:45

the the cat DNA Cat DNA thing. I mean,

32:47

nobody saw that coming. I thought the

32:49

thing was a joke.

32:50

Um I was so wrong. I mean, that's the

32:52

whole point and and she she had the

32:55

highest IRR in in I think in the whole

32:57

format's history. Nobody's made her she

32:59

was around for 36 months.

33:01

And taken out at such an extreme number

33:02

in all cash that there was an NDA signed

33:05

between Sony and the the pharmaceutical

33:07

company. I can't even tell you what it

33:08

was. It was extraordinary. It was an

33:11

extraordinary Was it nine figures?

33:14

Believe me, it's a

33:16

tough NDA because and I understand why

33:18

they did it.

33:20

They didn't buy it for the cat DNA

33:23

testing. They bought it for the data.

33:25

Mhm.

33:27

With AI didn't really wasn't emerging

33:30

then. It would existed, but it wasn't

33:32

With the data they have now

33:34

they can develop products for animals

33:37

that are extraordinary in terms of feeds

33:39

and medicines. Yeah. And nobody had that

33:42

much data on the 110 million cats in

33:45

America because she got it all during

33:46

the pandemic. Thousands and thousands

33:49

and thousands of of you know

33:52

It was it was never about it was it was

33:55

a data company. It's like my son telling

33:57

me when he got his internship at Tesla.

33:59

Hey Dad, it's not a car company. It's a

34:01

data company. Mhm.

34:03

Buy the stock. I said never mind the

34:04

stock. It's too joke. It's so expensive.

34:06

He said, "You're an idiot. It's not a

34:07

car company." So I bought the stock. And

34:10

he was right.

34:11

It became my most successful investment.

34:12

I I had to keep selling it down to 5%.

34:15

Uh my cost base is zero on Tesla now.

34:17

[ __ ] you. Yeah, but before it split and

34:19

he worked there for 5 years.

34:21

One of the personas that I have that

34:23

watches this show a lot are young people

34:25

not always young, but that are

34:28

on the sofa thinking about being an

34:30

entrepreneur and they talk about it a

34:31

lot. You know, they they come up to me

34:33

in the street 2/3

34:34

will never do it. 2/3 will never do it.

34:36

You you might as well do it when you

34:38

have less burdensome risk like a

34:41

mortgage and a family. You might as well

34:42

do it in your 20s.

34:43

You're going to fail the first time,

34:45

maybe the second, maybe the third. You

34:46

only need one success.

34:49

You know, I had plenty of failures and I

34:50

I still have failures. I mean, it's

34:52

just, you know, that what I I talked

34:54

about this morning. It's, you know, when

34:55

I

34:56

I I, you know, I I tell I said to the

34:58

largest shareholders as as as as in the

35:00

car and your assistant was, you know,

35:01

looking at me in the limo. I was telling

35:03

the other two shareholders, "Listen,

35:04

guys,

35:06

it's it's a binary decision. As soon as

35:08

I get out of this interview, we're going

35:09

to make a decision.

35:11

This company's going bankrupt. Oh, on

35:13

the bankrupt company.

35:14

Yeah, that yeah. And so, if we want to

35:16

save it, everybody's going to have to

35:17

pony up X million.

35:19

And um

35:21

we're going to own the whole thing.

35:22

We're just going to own it all. We're

35:24

going to We're just going to do a

35:25

cram-down round at a fraction of a cent.

35:27

We're going to own the whole thing. You

35:27

want to do that or you want to let it go

35:29

bankrupt? You guys choose. I'm 1/3 of

35:31

it, so it's going to have to be, you

35:33

know,

35:35

two against one. And I'll do whatever

35:36

they want because that's how I am. But

35:38

it's, you know, you want to get yourself

35:40

in a position in life that I think most

35:42

CEOs understand this.

35:45

You are going to have bad outcomes.

35:47

They're going to be bad outcomes.

35:49

But never put yourself in a situation

35:51

where one bad outcome defines who you

35:53

are.

35:54

I mean,

35:56

for those shareholders, they're going to

35:57

be unhappy.

35:59

But then I got the call on the IPO.

36:02

Those shareholders may be very happy.

36:03

They're going to make 400 400X. So, it

36:06

and that was one of my deals. And so,

36:07

it's sort of like

36:11

learn to live with the idea that

36:15

you are going to fail. You are going to

36:17

lose money by taking risk.

36:21

Will it change relationships

36:23

permanently? Maybe. But if there if

36:25

you're respected and you're honest and

36:27

you're transparent,

36:29

probably not.

36:31

I think there's a lot of people don't

36:32

like me for my bluntness. I don't care.

36:35

I think a lot of people respect me for

36:37

my bluntness. They may not like me.

36:39

And you know, it's sort of um

36:42

it doesn't matter because the only

36:44

people that really matter to me are

36:45

probably my 20 is closest friends and my

36:47

family. Do you think if you hadn't

36:49

worked with the known Steve Jobs, you

36:50

would be a different person?

36:52

100%. Steve changed my life. There's no

36:55

question.

36:57

I didn't like him.

36:58

But

37:01

I feel so bad that he he didn't have to

37:03

die that way.

37:05

He just wouldn't go with the modern

37:06

medicine at the time. That's my view.

37:09

But he was a freaking genius.

37:13

He was so smart in terms of

37:17

keeping on track to get getting stuff

37:19

done and look what he did achieved. But

37:23

he was

37:25

difficult.

37:28

Difficult cuz he wasn't always right.

37:31

But he was right so much that the

37:32

mistakes just didn't matter.

37:35

And I thought, you know, the people that

37:38

spent enough time with him

37:40

know what I'm talking about. Um

37:45

You know, it occurred to me cuz I know

37:47

Wozniak too, not as well as Jobs, but

37:49

they really needed each other.

37:51

They really needed each other.

37:54

Because Woz understood

37:57

he was he understood

37:59

what the

38:00

Let me draw an analogy here for you. I

38:02

think it's a good one.

38:05

Take the situation going on right now

38:07

with

38:09

Nvidia, AMD, to a certain extent Intel,

38:14

um

38:15

maybe Broadcom,

38:17

where policy makers in Washington have

38:19

decided that we can't sell those chips

38:22

to countries like China or Russia or

38:25

whatever the list is of adversaries.

38:29

That's bad policy.

38:31

And here's why. What I learned from

38:35

from Jobs was

38:39

the the computer, the chip, is the queen

38:42

bee.

38:43

It's It's the It's the queen bee.

38:46

But it has no value without the

38:48

honeybees, which are the programmers

38:50

around that form a community that spend

38:52

all of their energy

38:55

writing code that works with the queen

38:59

bee, which is the chip,

39:00

that

39:02

pushes out its influence because every

39:04

coder that

39:05

becomes familiar with that firmware,

39:08

that Wozniak computer, writes to that

39:10

platform

39:12

is part of the honeybees.

39:16

Jobs understood that. He said, "I've got

39:18

to get every honeybee writing for the

39:20

Mac,

39:22

writing for the OS of Apple."

39:26

It's the same with

39:29

the Nvidia chip.

39:31

We need to sell it to everybody. Every

39:34

Even adversaries because within

39:37

that country of Russia or China is some

39:41

genius kid. You don't know who he is or

39:44

she is that's going to write the next

39:46

piece of firmware or advance AI

39:50

from the queen bee,

39:52

the chip, the American queen bee.

39:56

The minute you shut down a market and

39:58

you don't

40:00

your adversary sends their queen bee in,

40:02

which is Huawei.

40:04

We can't let that happen because I don't

40:06

think the lawmakers understand what Jobs

40:08

understood.

40:10

You create the hive with the queen in

40:11

the middle. That's the chip.

40:14

You convince every bee around

40:18

to make the honey,

40:19

which is the software and is the AI

40:21

right in this in this case. You make it

40:23

off that chip and when you advance the

40:25

chip again, everybody knows how to take

40:28

that set

40:29

and

40:30

stay within the American chip that

40:33

you're advancing.

40:35

Maybe you keep them one generation

40:37

behind, maybe. Maybe that's the policy,

40:39

but you don't ever let an adversary put

40:42

their queen bee in the middle of the

40:43

hive. You see what I'm saying? Of

40:45

course. I mean And that is what Jobs

40:47

did. That was the war between Gates and

40:49

Jobs on the OS, on the operating system.

40:52

thinking about the App Store and

40:54

Yeah, it's the same thing. Yeah.

40:55

It's exactly the same thing. And so so

40:56

when I see this policy now,

41:00

I go out of my mind. I mean,

41:02

the first thing I do is get on a plane

41:03

and go to Washington because

41:05

AI is so important for all of the

41:07

investments I've made. I do not want to

41:09

be putting Chinese honey into my

41:11

companies at all.

41:12

It's that simple.

41:14

So for that person that's stewing over

41:15

their ideas now, if they had just a

41:18

couple of minutes with you

41:20

and they and they asked you the

41:21

question, Kevin, I'm about to start this

41:23

business. I'm about to go on this

41:24

journey of trying to go from zero to

41:26

something in my life.

41:28

Is there anything else that I need to

41:30

know as I set up upon this sort of next

41:32

10 years of my life? I'm 21 years old.

41:34

What what I cuz I think every

41:35

entrepreneur has like their principles.

41:37

You you talked about one which is the

41:38

signal versus noise thing. Are there any

41:40

other foundational principles that you

41:41

think are conducive with success?

41:46

That you might have learned

41:47

Yeah, I mean I've what I'm telling 20

41:49

21-year-olds now is look,

41:53

go work for 24 months in a sector you

41:55

love that you're passionate about, even

41:57

if they don't pay you.

41:59

Go in there and be an apprentice. Um

42:01

if you're that passionate, you're going

42:03

to be able to convince some manager to

42:04

go work for free in there. You're just

42:06

they're going to recognize your passion

42:07

and

42:08

they're going to bring you in.

42:10

Do that first.

42:12

Most

42:13

young entrepreneurs say, "Nah, nah, I

42:14

don't want to work for anybody." I said,

42:15

"Yeah, you do actually. You you do want

42:17

to work for somebody. You want to just

42:18

understand how all the cogs move." Just

42:21

24 months.

42:22

And after that,

42:24

launch.

42:25

The first one will probably fail.

42:27

You're going to start with your parents

42:28

giving you 10,000 bucks or whatever it

42:30

is, friends and family.

42:32

But you will have the baseline knowledge

42:34

of your industry. You will know who the

42:35

participants are. You will understand

42:37

how it works.

42:38

And you'll have a much higher

42:39

probability of success. But the key is

42:41

to launch sort of in your

42:44

in your mid to early 20s because you

42:46

need to burn a few years failing. And

42:49

and that that matters.

42:51

On the point of how to lead people,

42:54

when people hear about Jobs' approach,

42:56

they

42:57

sometimes assume that you also have to

42:59

be an [ __ ]

43:00

And this is the this is the conflicting

43:02

thing because the world has changed

43:03

since Jobs was in a leadership position.

43:05

Things have gone a little bit more

43:07

soft,

43:09

shall one say.

43:11

Have you seen all all types of

43:12

leadership win out in that regard? The

43:14

direct, you know, signal-focused,

43:17

kind of brash approach, but also the

43:19

kind approach.

43:23

I know that kind works. I think respect

43:25

works. I I

43:27

The same number of [ __ ] are out

43:28

there being successful now as they were

43:30

back in the '90s.

43:31

Um

43:33

it doesn't matter

43:35

um

43:35

whether you're an [ __ ] or whether

43:37

people like you or not. I mean, people

43:38

get so stuck on this stuff.

43:40

It It's

43:43

the team you're building

43:45

are not your friends.

43:47

They are the team you're building to

43:49

execute on a mandate.

43:50

Your customers come first. They're more

43:52

important. And then, of course, the

43:54

employees and how are they respected or

43:56

not. There are people that work for me I

43:58

don't like.

44:00

It doesn't matter. I respect them. I

44:01

respect their ability

44:03

to execute. And that above all is the

44:06

most important thing. If you start

44:07

getting into interpersonal

44:09

relationships, you will fail because you

44:11

may have to fire that person one day.

44:13

People that hire family take huge risk.

44:17

Nepotism is a horrible disease.

44:19

It's It's uh some of the greatest uh

44:22

private companies on Earth

44:24

never let the kids run them. They just

44:26

put them on the board and they hire

44:28

professional management. That's how they

44:29

keep wealth multi-generational.

44:32

Think about Tetra Pak, for example.

44:34

People may not know that name, but it's

44:35

a massive successful company. IKEA. I

44:38

mean, you know, it's sort of you have to

44:39

learn those lessons.

44:41

It's It's um

44:44

It's about respect

44:46

in both directions. It's not about

44:48

likeability

44:50

or softness or

44:52

some social

44:54

met- metric. It really isn't.

44:57

And

44:59

trying to redefine leadership that way

45:02

because it's on trend,

45:04

it's not going to work.

45:05

I started my first business at 12 years

45:07

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45:12

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46:02

What about finding the definition of the

46:04

word company as a of people? So, in

46:05

terms of finding great people,

46:08

is there anything that you can offer to

46:09

entrepreneurs that are listening about

46:10

how you've done that and what you've

46:11

learned over time, the mistakes you've

46:13

made with assembling your group of

46:15

people?

46:16

Yeah, hiring them without testing them

46:18

first. I've made that mistake.

46:19

So, so you now test them first. Yeah.

46:22

Just cuz someone says they can execute

46:24

doesn't mean they can. I mean, it's of

46:26

course in your interview, you're not

46:27

going to say I can't execute. You know,

46:29

you're looking at their past you're

46:30

saying this looks terrific. Looks like

46:32

you can fit in, but it's on a piece of

46:33

paper. They haven't been road tested.

46:35

They haven't put in a situation where

46:37

they have to make individual decisions

46:39

that that have consequence. The people

46:41

you want are able to make decisions that

46:43

have consequence. Good bad good

46:45

consequence bad consequence. You don't

46:46

know yet, but they have to have be able

46:49

to make that decision on their own

46:52

without calling you up because you gave

46:54

them that mandate. Maybe you put a set

46:56

of parameter you can spend a million

46:58

bucks no more, but they're calling me,

46:59

but whatever it is.

47:01

I don't want to hear from them. I just

47:03

want the outcome.

47:04

What about resilience and hard work? How

47:06

much does that matter to you? Cuz I know

47:08

you said they can work when, you know,

47:09

they as long as they get the job done,

47:11

but are you trying to figure out if they

47:13

are

47:14

a bit of a psychopath in terms of hard

47:15

work? If they're possessed themselves.

47:17

find the ones that are psychopaths hard

47:19

worker actually the most successful.

47:21

It's not the case. I find the ones that

47:23

are eclectic people that have other

47:26

pursuits that are nothing to do with the

47:29

business they're in.

47:31

That

47:33

do crazy stuff. You know, maybe it's

47:36

riding motorcycles in the desert. I

47:38

don't know you know, these are the

47:39

examples I'm just using cuz I'm living

47:41

with them.

47:42

And say, look, I've got to go and ride a

47:43

bicycle across the the desert.

47:46

Okay. How many days you're going to be

47:47

gone?

47:48

I don't know, maybe three. Okay. Is

47:50

there anything that is immediate?

47:52

That tells me that

47:55

if you look at if you look at the year's

47:57

outcome from that person, you're going

47:58

to find that they probably outperformed.

48:01

You You want You want You want the

48:03

eclectic ones. You want the ones

48:06

that are not just robots working. It's

48:09

It's going to be cheaper to get a robot

48:11

if you want a robot. I'm going to buy

48:12

those two when they come available. But,

48:15

I want people that have creative

48:19

and

48:21

unusual solutions

48:24

that, you know, just think outside of

48:25

the box.

48:28

It's It's really interesting that way.

48:29

The other thing that, um,

48:31

everybody wants to hear from you about

48:33

is how to keep and grow your wealth.

48:36

Because, you know, making wealth I kind

48:38

of understand through the lens of

48:38

entrepreneurship, take a big bet,

48:41

um, hopefully have an exit or, you know,

48:43

draw a dividend or make profit from a

48:44

company you started. But, in terms of

48:46

what you did and your relationship with

48:49

your money, what are the most important

48:50

things for someone to understand who's

48:51

just trying to grow their money? Yeah,

48:53

yeah, and I learned this from my mother,

48:55

and I actually built a whole indexing

48:56

company around it. When I was very

48:58

young, I found out something, uh, that,

49:00

um,

49:02

So, she, um,

49:04

was fiercely independent. She was one of

49:06

three daughters, uh, of Lebanese

49:08

descent. My Irish was father My father

49:11

My original father, biological father,

49:12

was Irish.

49:14

She didn't Yeah, there she is, Georgia.

49:17

So,

49:43

I haven't seen that picture in a while.

49:49

Okay.

49:54

She was very independent.

49:57

And

49:59

she never ever wanted a man to control

50:01

her life. So, she

50:03

started at an early age when she was

50:05

working for her father.

50:08

They paid the girls, the family all

50:09

worked there, and she worked in the

50:11

accounting department

50:13

and billing, but she got paid cash. And

50:16

so, she

50:19

would take 20%

50:21

of that cash each week.

50:23

And

50:25

she would put it into two asset classes.

50:29

Stocks that paid dividends, large cap

50:32

stocks,

50:33

and Telco bonds.

50:36

Seven-year Telco bonds paid about 6 and

50:39

1/2 to 8% back then.

50:41

She bought the long bonds.

50:43

And she had that portfolio for 55 years.

50:46

Wow. Um she never spent any of the

50:49

principal. Only the dividends and the

50:51

interests. She put my brother and I

50:53

through college, and you know, she took

50:55

care of her family and her sisters when

50:57

they

50:58

fell on hard times.

51:00

But her rule was very simple.

51:02

No more than 5% in any one stock or bond

51:04

of the portfolio, and no more than 20%

51:07

in any one sector, ever.

51:09

Ever. So, when a stock ran up past five,

51:11

she'd sell it down. This is not genius.

51:13

This is just diversification.

51:16

And

51:18

when she passed and I I was the older

51:20

brother and I saw the portfolio,

51:22

cuz the lawyer said, "Listen, you got to

51:24

come down here. You're the executor of

51:25

the will." And I said, "Yeah, but you

51:27

know, my mother was middle class."

51:30

He said, "No, you got to come down here.

51:32

Um she kept her accounts secret from

51:35

both of her husbands.

51:37

She wanted her own independent money.

51:39

And back then you could do that.

51:41

And um

51:43

damn, I mean, what that portfolio did.

51:46

The performance was extraordinary. It

51:48

was beyond any

51:50

hedge fund guy or anything.

51:52

55 years.

51:55

When I saw the results, I said, "That's

51:56

it. That's how I'm going to invest for

51:58

the rest of my life." Exactly the way

51:59

Georgette did. No more than 5%

52:03

in any one stock ever, no matter no

52:05

matter what it is, and no more than 20%

52:09

in any one sector with the exception of

52:11

real estate, which is a very large part

52:13

of what I have in net worth. And I

52:17

That's a It's a third. So, that's broken

52:19

the rule, but there's reasons for that,

52:20

and I'm very happy with that portfolio.

52:23

But, um that if she if you if everybody

52:26

that's listening to this does that,

52:29

they will maintain and grow their

52:30

wealth. But, it's people bet they make

52:32

big bets. They're just They think

52:34

they're so damn right, they put half

52:36

their net worth into one sector or one

52:37

stock, and they get wiped out. That's

52:39

what happens.

52:40

So, would your mother pick the stocks

52:43

herself, or would she invest in an index

52:45

fund or She indexed. She used to So,

52:48

okay.

52:48

Even even back then, you know, they

52:50

didn't have ETFs, but they had mutual

52:53

funds that said their own only stock in

52:56

this mutual fund is doesn't have any

52:58

debt, and it pays dividends, you know,

53:00

whatever. They were very rudimentary

53:01

back then. They were just collections of

53:03

stocks. I think she had like

53:06

thir- 28 names or something like that in

53:09

the portfolio. But, if you looked at

53:11

them, they were really boring large cap

53:13

names. But, they were sec- totally

53:15

diverse. There wasn't 10 sectors back

53:17

then. There was only There there wasn't

53:18

11, there was 10.

53:19

So, they didn't have real estate as a

53:20

sector. So, but you know, I looked at it

53:23

saying, "Wow, these are really boring."

53:25

You learned a lot about money from your

53:27

early upbringing, right? From your that

53:29

early context. Yeah, because what she

53:31

said to me was, "Look,

53:34

you know,

53:36

I I even do this today with wealthy

53:38

people call me up all the time and say,

53:39

"Look, um

53:42

you know, they get divorced. It's really

53:44

I I This is a very wealthy woman got

53:45

divorced recently and she said, "Look, I

53:47

you know, I'm divorcing and

53:50

she was a billionaire. She was divorcing

53:51

She was more multi-billionaire and so

53:53

she said, "Look, I I I'm getting

53:55

Everybody's calling me up um

53:57

to be my advisor cuz I'm separating from

54:00

my husband and it's all his guys that

54:02

did all the management of our family

54:03

wealth.

54:05

"Would you be my advisor?" I said, "No,

54:06

I don't do that. Um

54:08

but you know, I can

54:10

I can just give you some basic advice

54:12

and you can hire people to stick on the

54:15

mandate." And I gave her Georgette's

54:16

strategy, but she I I had to do

54:18

something else, too. I said, "Let's get

54:19

a piece of paper. You're a billionaire.

54:22

Let's put everything on this piece of

54:24

paper on the last 90 days that you've

54:26

spent on whatever the hell it is. I

54:28

don't care.

54:29

And let's put on No computer, no

54:31

spreadsheet. On this Let's look at all

54:32

the income that you've made off your

54:35

portfolio as it stands now, whether it's

54:37

gold you have or land or stocks or

54:40

bonds.

54:41

Let's just do a gut check

54:44

on

54:45

do you outspend yourself?

54:48

She said, "Why would I give a shit?" I

54:49

said,

54:50

"Wouldn't you like to know

54:52

how much money you're burning living

54:54

your lifestyle the way you live it? Just

54:56

out of interest. Maybe you have enough

54:57

for the rest of your life, but maybe you

54:59

want to give some of it to your family

55:01

when they are or give it to charity.

55:02

Wouldn't you like to know?

55:04

Because one of my rules is never

55:05

outspend yourself on any 30- or 60-day

55:07

cycle, ever. Just ever. I don't have any

55:10

debt. So So I'm very careful about that.

55:13

And we went through this little thing.

55:15

She freaked out. She was

55:18

pissing away money.

55:20

Just bleeding

55:22

hundreds of thousands of dollars a week.

55:26

I mean, I don't care how rich you are.

55:27

You don't want to be stupid. And

55:30

I said, "Does that shock you? One of the

55:32

things that has to happen I mean, you're

55:34

you're losing millions of dollars a

55:36

quarter. Like

55:38

Why?

55:39

Why?

55:40

Like you don't you have you've had

55:42

nobody restrict what you do with your

55:44

money cuz you're going to have to sell

55:46

stocks at some point or sell gold or

55:48

sell land to keep this up.

55:50

And are you really that happy? Like what

55:53

do you what's all this [ __ ] you're

55:54

buying? Like what is all this crap that

55:57

you don't need? It was an eye-opener for

55:59

her. So I My point is most people don't

56:00

do that exercise. I don't care if you're

56:02

only making 56,000 a year or 68 the

56:04

average salary.

56:06

So are you in the camp that you

56:07

shouldn't spend money on the small

56:09

things like the coffee if you don't need

56:11

it you should make the coffee at home?

56:12

Is that kind of I I just I can't stand

56:14

it when I see kids that are making 70

56:16

grand a year

56:17

spending $28 for lunch.

56:20

I mean that's just stupid. It's just

56:23

think about that in the context of that

56:25

being put into an index and making 8% 8

56:28

to 10% a year for the next 50 years.

56:30

What's an index for someone that doesn't

56:32

So okay. I mean

56:33

you know

56:34

I even have it I even built an app for

56:36

this purpose just so I could There's

56:38

many apps out there you don't have to

56:39

use mine. Mine's called Beanstocks but

56:41

you just allocate 15% of your salary and

56:44

it automatically puts it into two

56:46

buckets some stocks and some bonds. The

56:48

stocks are ETFs exchange-traded funds

56:50

that just track the S&P 500 very simply.

56:53

Mine's a little The S&P 500 is the top

56:55

500 stocks.

56:56

Yeah so it's just you know people will

56:58

tell me oh I can beat the S&P P I can

56:59

pick stocks. They're so full of crap.

57:01

Not over the long period they can. So

57:03

it's better you might as well just own

57:04

ETFs. I have a version of the S&P that I

57:06

designed with other people that strips

57:08

out all the crappy balance sheets but

57:10

that's just me. You can just buy the

57:11

index that you want you know the ETF and

57:14

then you pay low fees and then over time

57:16

it appreciates and then if you buy some

57:18

treasury bills or what fixed income you

57:20

get that. You should have less of those

57:22

when you're young and more of them when

57:23

you're older just just diversification.

57:25

But

57:26

you you know

57:28

the best test I do with my kids' friends

57:29

too. Go into a closet. Go into your

57:32

closet, and look at how much [ __ ] you

57:35

have you don't wear.

57:36

Because you either bought it cuz you

57:38

thought you were going to wear it

57:40

and never wore it or wore it once, and

57:42

you end up wearing 20% of your portfolio

57:44

all of the time and 80% you you pissed

57:47

away.

57:48

I mean, that's really stupid. And so,

57:51

for a young person, a young woman or

57:52

man,

57:53

don't do that. Start putting in just

57:57

buy the minimum stuff. And another thing

57:59

in my life with my mother, this is

58:00

interesting cuz I saw it happen at her

58:02

death.

58:03

She,

58:05

you know, would buy two Chanel jackets a

58:09

year. Really expensive Chanel jackets.

58:12

Handmade Chanel jackets.

58:14

I do business with Chanel because of,

58:15

you know, the legacy of my mother and

58:17

the whole Coco Chanel thing and watches.

58:18

I love those guys.

58:20

And

58:22

her theory was, this will never get old.

58:25

And it never did. A classic vintage

58:28

Chanel jacket from the '50s, this

58:30

well-kept,

58:31

is worth a fortune today. The classic It

58:35

still wears beautifully. They're so well

58:36

made. So, she wouldn't buy crap. She'd

58:38

buy really good stuff, but a little just

58:40

small amounts of it. And over the years,

58:41

she'd built up this portfolio of amazing

58:43

clothing. And when she died, the women

58:45

in in our family had a cat fight over

58:47

her portfolio. Unbelievable. Is that in

58:50

part why you have so many watches? I've

58:52

noticed you have a watch on either wrist

58:53

right now.

58:55

Yeah, I'm pretty big in watches. I mean,

58:56

but but watches to me,

58:59

every piece I have

59:01

marks something in my life that was

59:03

important. A deal, a child, graduation,

59:07

um

59:07

you know, something. Every piece. I've

59:09

got a lot of watches. How many have you

59:11

got? I I don't even say anymore cuz of

59:13

the insurance policy I have. I got a

59:14

lot.

59:15

Do you invest in You You're talking

59:17

about your your mother's investing

59:18

strategy, and one of the things you said

59:20

is she invested in dividend stocks.

59:21

Yes. What is a dividend stock, and

59:24

should I be investing in dividend

59:25

stocks? Yeah, I mean, you know, a if

59:28

it's profitable and it's operating and

59:29

its business plan is working and it's

59:31

growing market share, at some point

59:33

says, "I'm going to distribute some of

59:34

the success of our profits to our

59:36

shareholders." That's a dividend.

59:38

And so, they send that cash to you and

59:40

you can either redeploy it in other ways

59:42

or live off it or whatever. Many tech

59:45

stocks until recently did not pay

59:46

dividends, but now the behemoth tech

59:48

stocks do pay dividends because the

59:50

demand of an aging population is I need

59:53

to eat. And so, I like to own the stock

59:55

for growth, but I also want to get some

59:56

of the profits. And so, dividend-paying

59:58

stocks used to be utilities, but not so

60:01

today. Every Every sector has

60:03

dividend-paying stocks, so I prefer to

60:04

own dividend-paying stocks, div payers.

60:07

And then I also own fixed income

60:09

products. I also own crypto now and I

60:11

own alternative assets like gold and

60:12

watches. My watch collection's actually

60:15

done quite well, even though there's

60:16

been a correction. There's volatility,

60:17

but I have some watches that have, you

60:19

know, I bought for

60:22

200,000 and worth over a million today.

60:24

Crypto. So,

60:26

are you still bullish on crypto as an

60:28

investment? I am actually, but people

60:30

get crypto confused with its real

60:32

potential. Um

60:34

Uh

60:35

let's talk about digital payment systems

60:38

because what's about to pass first,

60:40

we're days away from this happening, is

60:42

the Genius Act, which is actually the

60:43

stable coin act. It was just passed by

60:45

the Senate 48 hours ago. It's going back

60:47

to the house. I I actually worked on

60:49

that bill 2 years ago. So, if that bill

60:52

passes, it's really nothing to do with

60:53

speculating on crypto. It's a new form

60:55

of payment. So, if I wanted to order a

60:57

watch in from Simon Birch, who's

60:59

somebody I buy watches from, he's a

61:01

master watchmaker,

61:02

right now I have to take US dollars.

61:04

I've got to get through a know your

61:05

client prerogative. I'm treated like a

61:07

criminal by transferring 100,000 dollars

61:10

over, turn it into Swiss francs. Takes

61:12

about a week. I get screwed for about

61:13

200 basis points in the whole thing.

61:16

If I If he accepted USDC, which is

61:18

actually

61:20

a stable coin backed by the US dollar,

61:21

just went public, very successful IPO. I

61:23

was a shareholder in that company, too.

61:25

That's one of my best IPOs in in the

61:27

last 2 years. The transaction would

61:28

happen in less than a second.

61:31

And

61:33

the fees would be a hundredth of what

61:34

the costs are right now. So, it's a

61:36

digital payment system. The price

61:38

doesn't

61:39

It's not It's not It's no speculation on

61:41

it. It's backed by the US dollar

61:43

Treasury bills.

61:44

So, it's sort of

61:46

a new form of of digital payment.

61:49

That's different than Bitcoin, which is

61:51

a speculation. It's If you believe in

61:54

Bitcoin, you think it's a digital gold,

61:56

and you live through the volatility.

61:59

I believe in both. I believe that that

62:01

crypto will be the

62:02

12th sector of the S&P in some period of

62:05

time because it provides productivity to

62:07

all 11 other sectors. So, the way I own

62:10

it is I own

62:12

the exchanges.

62:13

My exchange of in one called WonderFi up

62:15

in Canada just got acquired last week or

62:18

2 weeks ago by Robinhood.

62:20

I'm happy cuz I think Vlad who runs

62:22

Robinhood is great. And now he's got a

62:24

million plus accounts in Canada in

62:26

market that he'd never participated in.

62:28

But the point is

62:29

this is never going away. It's going to

62:32

stay forever. So, how do you

62:33

participate? You can buy some Bitcoin,

62:35

just like you can buy gold, buy it in

62:36

ETF or actually own it yourself. You can

62:38

buy the exchanges. You can use

62:42

um you know, you can buy Circle stock

62:43

now it's public. You can Circle makes

62:45

USDC. You can buy USDC in in an account

62:49

and make 4.1% interest on it right now.

62:51

So, there's a lot of ways to

62:52

participate, but yes, I'm here to stay.

62:54

But I've grow I've grown up. I was

62:55

around during the period where the

62:57

crypto cowboys lived. And and I survived

63:00

that all. And I even testified in front

63:01

of the Senate and the House and whatever

63:03

else the testimonies were during the the

63:05

tumultuous period. And most of those

63:07

guys went to jail. Your portfolio in

63:10

terms of Bitcoin allocation or crypto

63:11

allocation, what is it now? It's at

63:13

about all in. Uh

63:15

we we marked to market last month, it

63:17

was 19.1%.

63:18

19.1%?

63:19

Yeah, we have to keep it under 20. It's

63:21

a sector, so. But remember, in that is

63:23

the cryptos itself, Bitcoin, the USDC,

63:25

and the shares of the infrastructure

63:28

companies, like Circle and everything

63:30

else. I've got, you know, it was a very

63:31

successful IPO. One of the first things

63:33

most people do when they get a bit of

63:34

money, usually from their their job, is

63:37

they get a mortgage on a house.

63:40

Because we're kind of taught as we grow

63:41

up that the best way to make or that

63:43

not maybe the best, but the most obvious

63:45

way to create wealth is to buy your

63:47

first home.

63:50

Yeah, there's a very basic rule for

63:52

that, and I understand it, and I did the

63:54

same thing.

63:55

But what I made sure again from my

63:56

mother was

63:58

never let

63:59

the mortgage and the cost of maintaining

64:02

the house be more than 1/3

64:05

of your income.

64:06

1/3 of your income.

64:09

If it's more than 1/3, you bought too

64:10

much house.

64:11

So, it's better to buy a house that's

64:14

maybe it's only going to be 1,900 square

64:15

feet to start in a neighborhood that you

64:17

may not want to stay in for the rest of

64:19

your life, but

64:20

start to accrue the benefit of real

64:21

estate from that point of view, learn

64:23

how to manage it, maybe you rent part of

64:24

it out or whatever, but it can't be more

64:26

than a third of your income. The mistake

64:28

that people made and they're starting to

64:30

suffer from it now is when money was so

64:31

cheap, mortgage mortgage rates were

64:33

under 4%, they were 3.2% some of them.

64:36

They bought massive houses.

64:38

And now they're running into having to

64:40

refinance those houses at much higher

64:42

rates, more than 7%.

64:44

And it's becoming 60, 70, 80% of their

64:47

income. They're screwed.

64:49

They bought too much house. So, it's

64:50

about making sure that you can manage

64:52

that, and also you want some

64:54

diversification. Yes, a mortgage is

64:56

okay,

64:57

particularly if you're having a family,

64:59

cuz you're going to pay rent or you're

65:00

going to pay a mortgage, one of the two.

65:02

But you want some diversification and to

65:04

starting to build up that

65:06

investment account for when you retire,

65:09

so that you have something to live off.

65:11

If you only put aside 15%. If you're

65:13

you're making 70,000 a year and you put

65:15

15% aside from when you're 25,

65:18

you'll have over a million and a half

65:20

dollars if you just invested it in the

65:21

stock index, in the S&P 500. That's what

65:24

That's what history has told you. In

65:26

what time frame?

65:28

Your whole career. I mean, you're going

65:29

to be 65. You're 25, 65. You just stick

65:33

with that protocol and you'll watch it

65:34

grow. You'll watch it grow. You go up

65:36

and down as the market goes up and down.

65:38

Some years it'll go flat, whatever, but

65:40

it's the people that don't even think

65:41

ahead and find themselves at 45 mired in

65:43

debt including a mortgage. You want to

65:45

get rid of your mortgage in your 40s.

65:47

Most people's primary investment asset

65:48

is the house they buy.

65:51

Is that a small

65:51

Yes, it is, but it's also the debt they

65:53

own. It's a primary asset. How much debt

65:55

does it have on it? It's only the equity

65:57

value is the asset. So, if you're buying

66:00

a house that's too big and it's you've

66:02

only put down 10% and it's a 90%

66:04

mortgage, what do you really own? You

66:07

really own the 10%

66:09

at whatever price it is. Sometimes

66:11

housing goes flat for a while.

66:13

It's

66:14

It's okay, but it's not okay if it's too

66:17

much house. If you're a 25-year-old and

66:20

you're on that 70k that you talked

66:21

about,

66:22

and your objective was to make money,

66:25

you don't have kids, you don't you don't

66:26

have a relationship,

66:28

would you buy a house? No.

66:30

No, I wouldn't because why do I need a

66:32

house if I'm only unless I'm renting it

66:34

as an income property. I'm buying a

66:36

house because I'm getting married and

66:37

I'm going to raise a family. I need a

66:38

house. I mean, that Is that the use case

66:40

for buying a house you thought? I think

66:41

it is. People But you know, it's not

66:43

There are many people that say, "Oh, I

66:44

love real estate. I'm going to buy three

66:46

houses. I'm going to rent them out."

66:47

That's a different business. And I know

66:48

people in their 20s that do that. In

66:50

fact, they're successful. That's all

66:52

they do. And so, that their job is to

66:54

find houses, buy them, fix them up, and

66:56

rent them. And they manage that

66:58

geographically tight portfolio. It

67:01

happens a lot in student housing, for

67:02

example.

67:03

I've got a good friend who's involved in

67:04

student housing. He's very successful.

67:06

He just focuses on one aspect, buildings

67:09

that rent to students, and he manages

67:10

it. And he, you know, raises a family,

67:13

he's successful, but that's one thing he

67:15

does. That's not the same as saying I'm

67:16

going to buy a house cuz I'm I just got

67:18

married, and I'm going to raise I'm

67:19

going to have a child in the next 24

67:20

months.

67:21

Then you should have a house. But if

67:23

you're You said to me, "I'm single, I

67:24

want to make money." I wouldn't buy a

67:25

house. That's not the number one asset

67:27

class, I think. I'd get a diversified

67:28

portfolio,

67:30

and just ride the pony with that for a

67:32

while until I meet that special person

67:34

I'm going to, you know, raise a family

67:36

with,

67:37

and then I'd have a little nest egg I

67:38

can work with. I mean,

67:41

wealth creation

67:44

comes down to one word, discipline.

67:47

That's it.

67:49

The ability to look at something and

67:50

say, "I'm not going to buy that.

67:53

I'm going to keep that money working for

67:55

me."

67:56

Not many people have that discipline.

67:59

Wealthy people have that discipline. You

68:02

meet them later in life,

68:03

you realize when they were young and had

68:05

nothing,

68:07

even the ones that were employees their

68:08

whole lives that are now financially

68:09

free, had the discipline to say no.

68:13

There's so much stuff you don't need.

68:15

And you should never buy a watch unless

68:17

you can afford it, ever go in debt for a

68:19

watch cuz people hear this stuff say,

68:20

"I'm going to buy watches like O'Leary's

68:21

red bands." No, you're not. That's why I

68:24

wear watches now that cost under $500 to

68:26

show kids, you want to get into

68:28

horology, you don't have to spend, you

68:29

know,

68:30

$50,000. Here's a

68:32

Here's a Timex for $265. It looks

68:35

beautiful. Get that.

68:36

You said, you know, don't buy the house

68:38

until you meet your partner, etc.

68:40

How much does the person that you fall

68:42

in love with have an impact on your

68:44

finances, your money, your chance of

68:46

success in your view? It's everything.

68:48

Are you kidding? I mean, it's it's

68:50

everything. If you read I mean, think

68:51

about this.

68:54

You need to find somebody. If you're an

68:55

entrepreneur, so that's for the We're

68:57

talking about the third now that want to

68:58

go on the rocket ship ride.

69:01

You better find somebody that's willing

69:02

to tolerate the fact that you're never

69:04

home for the first 10 years. They're

69:06

going to raise a family by themselves

69:08

because

69:10

there's no balance in life. That that

69:11

idea of balance is complete [ __ ] I

69:13

mean, it's just [ __ ]

69:15

You have to work so hard to compete

69:17

globally these days in every sector.

69:19

You're going to work your ass off and

69:21

it's not going to happen over I mean,

69:22

Anna Sky did it in 3 years, but she had

69:24

worked much harder previously. It was

69:26

not her first deal.

69:28

But she was just lucky. I mean, she Was

69:30

this the cat DNA?

69:31

Cat DNA. I mean, she she she she she But

69:33

she's you know, she's she's working

69:35

again. She's back She wants to work. I

69:37

mean, that's what happens. You never

69:38

stop working. But the thing is

69:41

that partnership

69:43

and this is what people don't get about

69:45

marriage.

69:47

Marriage is a business. I know people go

69:50

nuts when I say that, but it's a

69:52

business and

69:53

the first child you're going to have is

69:55

money.

69:57

It's going to be the first child and

69:59

it's going to sit at the table with you

70:00

every day. It's It's there. Sitting

70:02

there.

70:04

If you don't have money, you don't have

70:05

a marriage. I mean, the reason people

70:07

get married is to form a form of

70:09

financial stability so that they can

70:11

afford a family.

70:13

And you have to figure out

70:16

you know, I'm I'm I've been with my wife

70:17

a long time and we've been separated for

70:19

a couple of years, but you know, family

70:21

is very important to me, so I we got

70:22

back together again and we and you know,

70:23

our daughter got back together. I'm very

70:25

happy we did it. But it's

70:28

we make financial decisions together. We

70:31

we always check in.

70:33

You know, anything that's material

70:36

you know, if we're going to do a

70:37

renovation or something and and I

70:39

respect her for that. I have a lot of

70:40

respect for her because she doesn't just

70:42

spend money. We didn't have any money

70:44

when we started. We had nothing. And so

70:47

that's why a great marriage can work

70:48

because you build it together. You

70:49

really care about it. You care about

70:50

your family. You also care about what

70:51

you you've created in wealth. And I

70:53

consider my money her money. Like it's

70:55

cuz she was the family that let me go

70:57

and do the stuff. Now, I don't have the

70:59

same relationship with our kids that she

71:01

does because she raised them. But that's

71:03

the thing you give up and you have to

71:05

give something up. That's it. You can be

71:07

a great father, great provider, but

71:08

you're never going to have the closeness

71:09

that she had reading them stories when

71:11

they were young. I wasn't there. But,

71:14

you know, the outcome has been good. I

71:15

think everybody looks at that and says,

71:16

"All right, that's great."

71:19

But my mother never believed in

71:20

entitlement and so I don't believe in it

71:22

either. I'm not gifting my kids a ton of

71:24

money.

71:25

You know,

71:26

I I want them to launch and they've done

71:28

that successfully. They got to They got

71:30

to work, you know, they got to do their

71:31

thing.

71:32

I've heard you say before that the most

71:33

important financial decision you'll ever

71:35

make is who you'll marry. Yes. Why?

71:39

Because think of the geometric loss of

71:41

wealth. Every time you get divorced,

71:45

you pay the woman that you divorced or

71:48

man and you pay the government

71:51

a third often through capital gains and

71:54

liquidation because you can't separate

71:57

all the assets without liquidating them

71:59

sometimes. So you've got the government

72:01

sitting there, you've got the other

72:03

spouse sitting there. This is the

72:05

stupidest thing you can ever do. It took

72:07

your whole life to

72:09

to actually create this nest egg. Could

72:12

be, you know, you're 45 or whatever.

72:14

You've You've got a comfortable life and

72:15

all of a sudden you don't like your wife

72:17

or husband.

72:18

Think about that for a while.

72:20

Because you are going to wipe out up to

72:23

two-thirds of your wealth. You better

72:25

really like somebody else a lot.

72:28

And frankly,

72:30

sometimes it's not the other person that

72:33

you're divorcing. It's you. You're the

72:36

problem. If you're getting married for

72:38

the third time, you're a guy or woman,

72:40

it's not them. It's you. There's

72:42

something wrong with you and you should

72:44

probably not get into another economic

72:46

union. You should probably just date

72:48

till you drop dead because it's stupid.

72:51

Marriages are tough. I mean, they're

72:52

tough. Anybody who's been married for

72:54

more than 20 years knows exactly what

72:55

I'm talking about. But they have they

72:57

accrue more benefit than than, you know,

73:00

anything. So it is like if you're happy

73:02

51% of the day with your wife, stay with

73:05

him or her, husband or wife. You That's

73:07

very important. How often do you think

73:09

divorces are a result of money issues?

73:13

Well, you may be shocked at this.

73:16

I wrote a book

73:17

um about this and I decided uh men,

73:20

women, and money a long time ago, 10

73:22

years plus. Right. There it is.

73:24

And I did some research and I

73:27

I uh went to meet some of the top um

73:29

divorce lawyers in North America

73:32

in New York, in Boston,

73:34

and other cities.

73:36

And I said, "Look, I I want to kind of

73:38

do a pie chart of the reasons for

73:40

divorce that seemed to 50% seemed to end

73:42

in divorce within 5 to 7 years."

73:45

Every one of them, they didn't know each

73:46

other, said, "It's not infidelity.

73:49

Nothing to do with it. Most marriages

73:50

can

73:51

uh survive infidelity.

73:54

They can't survive financial stress.

73:57

And so what happens invariably is

73:59

you fall in love, but you didn't do any

74:01

due diligence on that person's spending

74:03

habits or their financial history

74:06

because l'amore is so wonderful in the

74:09

early days, you didn't do any diligence

74:12

on their family or them or their brother

74:17

or bankruptcy in the past or whatever it

74:19

is.

74:21

And then you get married and, you know,

74:23

the euphoria starts to wear off and you

74:25

notice that

74:26

the other is outspending you.

74:29

Just buying a lot of stuff.

74:32

Beyond your means.

74:35

And that starts the first friction.

74:38

And then that credit card comes in with

74:39

a $100,000 on it at 23% interest and

74:43

another

74:45

purse was bought or whatever the hell it

74:46

is.

74:48

And you're you're starting to sink

74:50

because you may have married somebody

74:52

who can't stop spending. This is just a

74:55

typical

74:57

There are people that can't have no

74:59

discipline. They just can't. They got to

75:01

have the boat, they got to have this,

75:03

they got to have that, and they pressure

75:04

their other to say, "Look, I want to

75:05

keep up with the Joneses next door."

75:07

even though they may only each have a

75:08

salary of a hundred grand each.

75:11

Can't do it. And they have kids and

75:12

they're trying to put them through

75:13

college.

75:15

That's divorce. That's why

75:18

almost 90% of of unions break up is is

75:22

is that classic

75:24

financial pressure. And divorce gets

75:28

them out of that mess because they can

75:30

no longer spend on your credit card

75:31

anymore, but it's a horrible way to go.

75:34

So, I've you know, I'm I'm an investor

75:35

in a company called HelloPrenup that

75:36

does divorces for uh does um

75:39

uh prenups for women. And prenups force

75:42

during the euphoric period diligence.

75:45

It's that simple.

75:47

You're going to find out if that person

75:48

has a financial problem going into the

75:50

marriage. They have to disclose

75:53

their financial background.

75:56

So, you you talk about these five love

75:57

languages of money.

75:59

The mooch, someone who won't pay for

76:01

anything. Right. Should I date someone

76:03

like that? It's a warning signal. It's a

76:06

problem. It's a problem so

76:07

Or they don't really want you for

76:09

companionship. They just want you for

76:11

financial support.

76:13

The spendaholic, someone who always

76:14

offers to pay for everything to appear

76:16

popular and successful.

76:18

Bad warning sign. Huge. I mean, that

76:21

isn't that is insecurity measurable by

76:24

cash outlay.

76:26

The loafer, someone who has no ambition

76:28

and drive for money. Avoid with extreme

76:30

prejudice.

76:33

The thief, someone who steals. You can

76:35

have no tolerance for that. And the

76:37

meanie, a balanced spender who lives

76:39

within their means. Love that. Marry a

76:42

meanie.

76:43

That's it. That's That's the Those are

76:45

the marriages that last an entire life.

76:47

That's it. That's what you're looking

76:49

for. That's great advice right there.

76:52

Whatever the book costs, that's that's

76:53

the best value right there.

76:55

And then ask yourself, am I dating one

76:57

of these or not?

76:59

You know?

77:01

You know, you should talk about money on

77:02

the third date. Think about a date Think

77:04

about dating.

77:05

First date, oh my goodness, this is a

77:06

really interesting person. Um or not.

77:09

Then there's your second date. Second

77:10

date, I want to learn more.

77:13

I'm really interested. You're going into

77:15

a third date, there's something going

77:16

on. There's something going on. You both

77:18

want to meet again.

77:20

That's the first time you should say,

77:21

"Look, I know this is crazy,

77:24

but

77:25

we're here together a third time because

77:27

something's going on here. And I'm just

77:29

wondering,

77:31

what are your long-term goals? I mean,

77:32

it's not about our marriage or anything

77:34

else other than we're having a great

77:35

time, but what are your ambitions? I'm

77:37

really interested in you. I'd like to

77:38

know what you think."

77:40

And then maybe the woman says or the guy

77:41

says, "What are you checking me out?"

77:42

You say, "Yeah.

77:44

Yeah, I'm really interested in you."

77:45

It's a form of

77:47

finding out if the connection, you know,

77:49

I I I should be a marriage counselor.

77:51

That's what I think. I mean, it's it's

77:53

really

77:55

Dating is is the is the dance, but it

77:57

should involve exploring where we're

78:00

going financially.

78:03

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78:04

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80:37

One of the bigger protagonists in the

80:38

story of many things we discussed,

80:39

money, investing, building businesses

80:41

now is this thing called artificial

80:43

intelligence which you mentioned

80:44

earlier.

80:44

Yes. It's like entered the room. Yes.

80:46

And it's changing lots of these

80:47

equations in a really profound way.

80:49

Again, for that person who is maybe at

80:52

the start of their career or even, you

80:53

know, they're they're a lawyer right

80:54

now.

80:55

How are you thinking about AI? What

80:57

should they be thinking about? Because I

80:58

don't think we've seen something quite

81:00

like this. Not certainly not in my

81:01

lifetime. I've not seen disruption of

81:02

this scale. I wasn't around for the dot

81:04

com boom. I was too young. I was 10 or

81:05

something. I was eight. Yeah.

81:07

So so how should we be thinking about

81:09

this moment? Is it a huge opportunity

81:11

for wealth creation or Yeah, it's

81:13

immense. It's bigger than the internet

81:14

and I'll tell you why.

81:16

I want to keep it down to earth because

81:19

I'm actually using it now in use cases.

81:22

There's every sector of the economy,

81:24

every aspect of research, every aspect

81:26

of business has a huge opportunity here.

81:28

But let's just take use cases that you

81:30

would understand, everybody listening

81:31

would understand.

81:33

In today's post-pandemic world

81:37

most businesses have developed, large or

81:39

small, direct-to-consumer strategies

81:41

where they try and build relationships

81:42

with customers and sell them product

81:44

direct. Yeah, they still use retail.

81:46

Say you're Nike or something. And

81:49

you we were 27%

81:51

you know, direct-to-consumer before the

81:53

pandemic, you're now 50%. And and

81:55

direct-to-consumer gets you higher

81:56

margins but also gets you data. Gets you

81:58

information about the preferences of

82:00

your customer base, what they like, what

82:01

they don't like, the flavors and what

82:02

they buy, when they buy, where they buy

82:04

it, all that stuff.

82:05

That's very interesting that data.

82:07

And

82:09

let me give you an example, wine

82:10

business.

82:11

If you think about

82:15

the wine business, the challenge of a

82:17

thousand-year-old business.

82:19

You don't know what the weather's going

82:20

to be like. You don't know what

82:21

varietals to to to grow because you

82:23

don't know what the preference of the

82:25

customer is because you're selling it

82:26

through multiple tiers of distribution.

82:28

During the pandemic, 43 states in

82:30

America opened up direct-to-consumer

82:32

sales from the wineries in the West

82:34

Coast. For the first time ever, the

82:35

wineries found out

82:37

what people buy,

82:39

where they buy it, when they buy it,

82:40

what they drink, what varietals. And I'm

82:42

in the wine business. I sell over 3

82:43

million bottles a year of wine.

82:45

One of my companies, actually a Shark

82:47

Tank company. Um and we partner with a

82:49

company called

82:50

QVC. We sell online. And And so,

82:54

I can tell you today,

82:56

this month, this week, the number one

82:59

varietal in Southern Florida for women

83:01

ages 44 to 64 is Moscato, a sweet wine.

83:06

I think it tastes like [ __ ] I don't

83:08

care what I think.

83:09

It's the number one wine right now. And

83:11

I knew that to to make that varietal

83:13

available

83:14

6 months ago, so that I would be able to

83:16

ship it and put the inventory, the CapEx

83:19

in the right place at the right time to

83:21

support that demand for the rest of this

83:24

summer.

83:25

A sweet, cold Moscato wine.

83:28

That means I spent a lot less money

83:30

and a lot less risk. I don't have any

83:32

varietals they don't want this summer. I

83:34

have exactly what they want. That was

83:35

AI.

83:37

It cost me virtually nothing to get that

83:41

data.

83:42

5, 10 years ago would have cost me a

83:44

million bucks to go do all the market

83:45

research. I got that for $18,000.

83:49

So, that's using an AI tool. Here's

83:51

another example. So, do I use that tool?

83:53

100%. And there's many tools. You don't

83:56

have to just use chat There's many

83:57

different competing platforms. So, we

84:00

use them all. We check the assumptions

84:01

by checking it all on all of them to see

84:03

the little variances. Number two.

84:06

I have to shoot an ad.

84:07

I have to shoot a commercial.

84:10

I'm going to shoot it here in LA. I'm

84:11

going to do it in a studio like this

84:13

with a green screen. And I'm going to

84:16

spend, you know, $250,000 for a 30 you

84:19

know, 15, a 30, and a 60 out of the same

84:22

shoot.

84:23

And I'm then going to go into post with

84:26

the green screen and I'm going to spend

84:27

more money in post. I'm going to add

84:28

whatever I need, whatever background I'm

84:30

going to need.

84:31

Or

84:32

I could fly to Dubai

84:35

where they have a giant studio with a 6K

84:38

digital wall

84:41

where AI links up your script

84:46

to the background.

84:47

There is no post-production. You

84:49

basically shoot the commercial

84:52

in 4 hours

84:54

and it's done. The background's perfect.

84:57

The imagery's perfect. Your script is

84:59

perfect.

85:00

And I did that 2 weeks ago for the first

85:02

time. I'd never seen that before. We did

85:05

it for a fraction of the cost of what it

85:07

would have cost to do it in the old way

85:08

in post-production.

85:10

But then I'll tell you what freaked me

85:11

out.

85:13

They reshot the commercial without me

85:16

there using Kevin agent.

85:20

An AI of you. I wasn't even there.

85:23

And just to show that they could produce

85:27

a new commercial with the same

85:28

background

85:30

for $9,000.

85:33

That would have cost $400,000 from

85:36

scratch. So there's going to be a lot of

85:38

job disruption then because as you said

85:40

that

85:40

You don't say. But on the other hand,

85:42

I've now got content for that particular

85:46

business I was shooting that you know,

85:47

I've got content for that particular

85:48

business I was going to shoot that

85:50

commercial for.

85:51

And I said, "Guys

85:54

let's tweak it and shoot it again." He

85:55

said, "Yeah, we'll do it in 2 seconds.

85:57

We'll send you the the 15 seconds back."

85:59

I said I I I don't like what I said

86:00

there. Can I change what I said? He

86:02

says, "Yeah, well, do you want it in

86:03

Spanish? You want it in Japanese? You

86:04

want it in Arabic?"

86:07

That's the power, the productivity that

86:09

we're going to get. We're going to Our

86:10

budgets for producing content

86:13

are going to drop dramatically over the

86:15

next

86:15

And software and everything else, right?

86:17

Creating everything is going to get

86:18

Now full circle to your your thing about

86:20

the chips,

86:21

that all came from Nvidia chips.

86:24

That not That's not from Chinese chips.

86:26

Whoever controls the chip and the

86:27

honeybees that The honeybees are Those

86:30

guys are all Indians and Pakistanis.

86:31

They're genius mathematicians. That's

86:33

the team over there running off that

86:35

platform.

86:36

If we had let Anyways, I don't want to

86:38

I'm just freaked out that we got to

86:39

control that.

86:41

We We need democracy to control that.

86:43

Your children, what are you saying to

86:45

them though about their professional

86:47

ambitions in a world where creating

86:49

stuff like that and, you know, whether

86:51

it's Who do you want to do your your

86:52

taxes? An accountant or an AI? Who do

86:54

you want to do your legal documents? Who

86:56

do you want to do

86:57

your any sort of like white-collar job,

86:59

your make your videos, edit your videos?

87:02

I I tell them, you know, everybody's got

87:03

a lot of anxiety. I I I tell them,

87:05

"Listen,

87:06

everybody chillax. It's a tool.

87:09

You know, it's the same classic thing

87:11

where

87:13

radio was going to be displaced by

87:16

television. Radio's bigger than it ever

87:17

has been.

87:19

It It just It doesn't matter. The one

87:21

thing I concern myself with with AI is

87:24

warfare.

87:25

And I think the country that has the

87:27

best AI and data centers

87:30

and the most advanced chip technology

87:32

will win the wars of the future, which

87:34

will be fought by drones and robots. I

87:36

know that sounds kind of crazy. That's

87:37

where it's happening now and that's

87:39

where it's going to go. So So when I

87:42

when I solicit the ear of a senator, I

87:45

try and explain to them my honeybee

87:46

analogy saying this is about defense.

87:49

I don't want to live under

87:51

authoritarian, you know, I know we

87:53

debate the whole political environment

87:55

these days, but

87:57

I don't want to live around Chinese

87:58

honey.

87:59

I just don't. And those are going to be

88:00

the two superpowers. You both You're in

88:03

one vertical. Either you let the Chinese

88:05

make the honey

88:06

on AI or we make the honey and let the

88:10

Chinese buy some honey from us.

88:12

I know where I want to live. I know what

88:13

I want to do, and I think I can convince

88:15

a lot of senators the same idea because

88:17

you got to understand the Wozniak Jobs

88:20

analogy that we that you brought out

88:22

earlier.

88:23

That was the genius of Jobs.

88:25

Make the honey,

88:27

but know who the queen bee is. The

88:28

genius of Jobs brings me to a question

88:30

I've wanted to ask someone like you for

88:31

a long, long time, which is do you think

88:33

Apple is dead? No. You don't? No, I'll

88:36

tell you why. I'll tell you why. You

88:38

know, it's so interesting. Uh people

88:40

don't understand the genius of Apple

88:41

because this is again came from Jobs.

88:45

You know, he used to say to my team over

88:48

and over again, and I mentioned earlier,

88:49

they don't know what they want until I

88:51

tell them.

88:53

And I always just just as close as you

88:55

and I are right now, you're Steve.

88:58

I say, Steve,

89:01

how the [ __ ] do you know that?

89:04

How do you know that? You don't know

89:06

that.

89:07

You don't know what you don't know.

89:10

He said, show me where I'm wrong. Show

89:12

me one instance of us working together

89:14

I'm wrong. I said, it hasn't happened

89:15

yet, Steve. Doesn't mean it won't.

89:19

Get back to work.

89:20

Don't worry about it. I'll worry about

89:22

it. You make the software. I have the

89:24

chips. Make the software. Go make the

89:27

honey.

89:28

I have the queen bee. Don't worry about

89:30

it. And

89:31

that

89:34

is pretty interesting because

89:37

you got to prove it that he

89:40

was wrong. Let's take Let's accelerate.

89:41

He's dead now. But the philosophy of

89:43

Apple, and I'll give you them what the

89:45

way you win at you look at it.

89:47

I can go buy

89:48

a $330

89:50

laptop right here

89:53

with the same processing power of this

89:56

$1,800 Mac laptop.

90:00

Why would I been spend 1,800 when I

90:03

could buy this for 300?

90:05

Why?

90:07

Brand.

90:08

I want to be part of this universe.

90:11

This honey right over here.

90:14

The AppleCare, the fact that the OS

90:17

works on all the platforms, and the

90:18

messages are shown on all platforms

90:20

simultaneously. All the OS, all the

90:22

honey.

90:24

That platform

90:26

is the power of brand.

90:27

It's I'm not leaving this universe. And

90:31

Apple is

90:32

one of the world's largest

90:34

companies.

90:35

And you may say, "Oh, an innovation is

90:37

going to make everybody leave that

90:38

platform." I don't think so. They let

90:40

other people sometimes bring in a new

90:42

market, and then they take it over. And

90:44

I saw Steve do that multiple times.

90:47

He did it um

90:48

with the phone. I was around for that.

90:50

That was crazy. I mean,

90:54

he had the vision that we would someday

90:56

run our software on the phone. I said,

90:58

"You're out of your mind. It's The

90:59

screen's too small." He said, "No.

91:02

You're going to go vertical. You're

91:03

going to rewrite all this crap

91:04

vertically."

91:06

I mean, I can't fault him

91:08

on anything, although I kept telling

91:10

him,

91:11

"You're going to get it wrong one day.

91:13

You're not going to be right all the

91:14

time." I can't find when he wasn't

91:16

right. That That's That's the

91:18

frustration, because I teach this,

91:20

you know, to a hard bunch of really

91:21

smart kids at Harvard, of which by the

91:23

way a third are international students.

91:25

And

91:28

they say, "Well, when did you catch

91:29

him?"

91:31

I said, "I didn't."

91:32

What was he doing?

91:33

Was Did he have a practice or or

91:35

principles that allow him to see around

91:37

the corner?

91:39

He spent a lot of time at night um

91:44

you know,

91:46

even

91:47

studying fonts and looking at art, and

91:50

um

91:51

focusing on the signal.

91:53

I think his wife talked about that a

91:54

lot. He I mean, she spent more time with

91:56

him than anybody else, although Woz

91:58

talks about a lot, because those guys

91:59

spent countless hours together.

92:02

And

92:04

but but

92:06

Jobs defined

92:08

he would take

92:10

instances from nature

92:12

into his head or from Japanese,

92:15

you know, scripture or text or imagery

92:20

and redefine it into technology in a way

92:23

that no one else was doing. And that's

92:25

the idea of the honey and the bee and

92:27

the queen and all that stuff. It kind of

92:29

comes from his view of the world.

92:32

And

92:33

I don't know if you can understand this,

92:34

but because it was so

92:37

it came from nature, it was easy for

92:39

people to assimilate it. It wasn't

92:41

foreign. When they looked at the imagery

92:43

and the design, he he tried to pull from

92:47

from pleasing images from nature. Like

92:49

the fonts on the first Mac.

92:52

I remember when we were writing the code

92:53

for that thing, Steve, this is not what

92:56

people are used to seeing

92:58

on a computer screen. He said, "No, it

93:00

isn't.

93:01

That's why it's going to work." You If

93:03

you think about the very first scalable

93:05

fonts,

93:06

I saw that first.

93:08

And I said,

93:09

"See, this is this is almost foreign."

93:11

He said, "Well, how's it make you feel?"

93:12

I said, "It makes me feel pretty good.

93:13

It just looks like it's on a piece of

93:15

paper." If you I don't think you weren't

93:17

even born when this stuff was happening.

93:19

But it was

93:20

it he was so far ahead.

93:23

And this is the same way Elon is

93:25

redefining whether it's, you know,

93:27

SpaceX or whether it's

93:29

what he's doing in neurosurgery or Tesla

93:32

or, you know,

93:34

all of these initiatives, uh, you know,

93:36

his satellite technologies,

93:38

they are the same, those guys, except

93:41

you know, Elon's 100% signal. I said

93:43

that earlier.

93:44

They are the same and they should be

93:45

they're treasures. They're national

93:46

treasures. It doesn't matter if you like

93:48

them. It doesn't matter what their

93:50

politics are. It's It's irrelevant. The

93:52

contributions they're making to society

93:54

and to America, frankly, into

93:56

competitive competitive nature of of of

93:59

countries. That's why I thought it was

94:00

so important that Trump make up with

94:02

Elon. The

94:03

most powerful man on Earth should have a

94:05

a very

94:06

good relationship with the most the

94:08

richest man on Earth because he's the

94:09

largest industrialist on Earth. Maybe

94:11

there's like an inherent inability by

94:13

way of them being who you just said they

94:15

are. The most powerful

94:17

But they know, they're smart enough to

94:18

know. It's the same way I felt about

94:21

Jobs. I'm getting back on the plane this

94:23

quarter. I know he's going to beat me on

94:25

but it doesn't matter. It It's the

94:27

greater good is that we get this

94:29

software out there advancing

94:30

you know math and reading scores.

94:32

Was he happy?

94:34

Steve. I don't know the answer to that

94:36

question.

94:36

he was a happy person? I don't know. He

94:38

I've never I never saw him happy. He was

94:40

always barking at me. I never saw him

94:41

happy. I don't think I ever saw him

94:42

laugh.

94:45

I don't

94:46

He may not have been, you know, that I

94:48

mean, that's probably something

94:50

his wife would know, but he looked like

94:52

a tortured guy to me.

94:54

But um

94:57

you know, that may have been his curse.

94:59

I You know, you some some you

95:01

Do you love him?

95:02

Yeah.

95:03

I can see it in your face.

95:06

100%.

95:07

I saw a lot of emotion in your face the

95:09

first time you spoke about him and I

95:10

thought that's surprising for someone

95:11

that barked at you.

95:13

Well, he respected me. That's for sure.

95:17

He wouldn't execute on my ideas.

95:19

He expected me to execute on his, but he

95:21

was never wrong. Where did the emotion

95:23

stem from?

95:25

Oh, you know, it brings me back into

95:26

that room with Heidi Roizen and all the

95:28

crazy crap. I mean, it was just nuts.

95:30

And you know, the

95:31

you know, I'd have to spend a lot of

95:32

time

95:33

The only the only meeting I really

95:35

remember um

95:36

the the one that's really sticks in my

95:38

mind

95:39

when we were in Cupertino and we were

95:42

just

95:43

I think I don't know we're going after

95:44

him for 18 million or something and

95:47

Heidi was there.

95:49

Who's Heidi? Heidi Roizen, um she's a

95:51

famous um

95:54

venture capitalist, but she was also

95:55

kind of the

95:57

muse, the person that could actually

96:00

deal with Jobs all day long

96:02

at Apple

96:04

and bring him back to earth when he was

96:05

out of his mind. I'll give you an

96:06

example how that would work.

96:08

And I've seen her since, you know, it's

96:10

it's it's I don't even know if she

96:12

remembers this particular

96:14

Anyways, we leave.

96:15

He's barking at me. He's he and he's got

96:17

one of my product managers in tears cuz

96:19

she wanted to do the market research and

96:20

he said, "No way. We're just going to do

96:22

what I say." And she just felt like her

96:24

job was useless.

96:25

And and for him it was. I mean, he just

96:27

didn't give a [ __ ] what she thought.

96:28

Although she ran the universe of Oregon

96:31

Trail or something, some massive title,

96:32

like a huge multi-million dollar title

96:34

on the Mac in every 110,000 schools in

96:37

America.

96:38

And

96:40

he he was so pissed that, you know, that

96:42

in these old buildings

96:44

they have the little window where you

96:46

have a little knob and it only opens up

96:48

4 inches so you can't jump out of it in

96:49

a hotel or something.

96:51

So, we were we had a Hertz rental and

96:53

we're the whole team's going out. I'm

96:54

going to drive the car back to San

96:56

Francisco. I'm going to fly back to

96:57

Boston.

96:58

And he he undos the window and he's got

97:01

his head stuck in there and he's yelling

97:02

at me from from

97:09

I'm looking up at him and saying,

97:11

you know,

97:11

what the [ __ ] Like

97:13

what what more can we we what you

97:16

already kicked us out, you know? And

97:17

then on the way we had these old brick

97:19

the earliest cell phones, these brick

97:21

phones.

97:23

Heidi calls me says, "Okay,

97:25

he'll do it for 12 million."

97:27

I said, "Heidi, why do we have to go

97:28

through all that [ __ ] Like

97:31

why do we even have to get abused?" She

97:32

said,

97:34

"Why is the sky blue?

97:35

You know?

97:37

Just get back on the plane and go do

97:39

it." Like it was a huge hit. Like it's

97:41

just, you know, it's a huge hit. Like

97:42

it's just the guy was if you looked at

97:44

it like

97:45

he he he could he could write the hit

97:47

songs. what he did. He write the hit

97:49

songs. So you know what, even if you

97:50

hate the producer, you want the the guy

97:51

that can do the hit songs, right? If

97:53

you're an artist, you put up with a

97:54

crazy producer. Could he not have been

97:55

nice, do you think?

97:59

Not in his DNA.

98:00

No.

98:01

Do you think if he was a nice person, he

98:03

wouldn't

98:03

You know what he would say about that?

98:05

That's noise.

98:06

Who gives a [ __ ] Yeah, he doesn't give

98:07

a [ __ ]

98:08

No, I being nice is noise. That's for

98:10

him.

98:11

I mean, we spent a lot of time talking

98:12

about him, but I think there's a lot of

98:13

lessons learned from him that I think

98:15

managers today, parents today, uh

98:18

certainly CEOs today, uh you know, your

98:21

your about this show is about CEOs, um

98:24

I wish every CEO had spent the time the

98:28

minimal time that I spent with Jobs had

98:30

such an impact on me.

98:32

I mean, it it it I I'm I owe a lot of my

98:34

success to him cuz I think I always

98:36

think, "What would Steve do?"

98:39

And I make decisions like that. It's

98:41

amazing. The guy's still around. I bet

98:43

you if you talk to, you know, any of the

98:45

management at Apple, they they have that

98:47

ghost in those rooms, for sure.

98:53

Including the current CEO, who I think

98:54

is doing a phenomenal job.

98:56

He he spent so many hours with Jobs. He

98:58

knows exactly what I'm talking about.

99:01

Nobody spent more time in business than

99:03

that guy, for sure. I was just about to

99:04

go there. First, Steve Jobs was happy,

99:06

but are you happy?

99:08

I get happier the older I get and

99:11

because um I've I've I'm very

99:13

comfortable. I found a place

99:15

um

99:17

you know, uh

99:18

that I'm

99:20

And I I this may be just what

99:22

aging does. I mean, it's just, you know,

99:25

in in when I was in my 30s, I had a lot

99:27

of trauma and turmoil and and just, you

99:30

know, um

99:31

hard time to find it trying to figure

99:33

out who I was and I also suffered from

99:35

dyslexia, which I've come to think of as

99:37

a superpower, not not an affliction. But

99:40

it it was kind of like

99:42

it's hard to know what journey you're

99:44

going to be on until you find it. And

99:46

then I found it, and then I started on a

99:48

new journey. And and

99:51

you know

99:52

it's um

99:56

it's something where

99:58

you know you you you ask yourself

100:00

every day goes by and you know with this

100:02

the noise and signal thing and how much

100:04

of this day was I happy doing the things

100:07

that I wanted to do. And I am very happy

100:09

if you if I measure it by

100:11

is there anything that I spend my time

100:14

doing that I don't want to do today? The

100:16

answer is no, because I don't have to.

100:18

And so

100:20

I don't waste my time. I do you know

100:22

even coming here to spend two hours with

100:24

you

100:25

when I first you know heard about it, I

100:27

went online and said oh yeah this guy

100:29

this guy's great. I'd love to work with

100:30

him. You know that kind of thing

100:33

you you allocate your time. This is this

100:35

is I'm happy to do this. I want to be

100:37

here. And I think you know we had a very

100:38

interesting couple hours together. But

100:41

that's

100:43

the definition of happiness. What

100:44

concerns me and my wife often says to me

100:48

we don't need any more money. Why are

100:50

why are you flying 300 hours a year on

100:53

an airplane? What are you doing?

100:56

I said I'm happy. Like

100:59

you know I'm I'm happy doing this. I

101:00

want to do this stuff. You know I

101:02

sometimes I do five cities in a day.

101:04

It's freaking crazy. And that's the

101:06

wonderful thing about you know air

101:07

travel today you can do that.

101:09

But

101:10

it's It's spooky.

101:13

It's it's it's so interesting. I get so

101:15

many interesting opportunities. I can't

101:16

turn them down. They're just such

101:19

you know Are you driven or are you

101:20

dragged? You know you used the word

101:22

trauma there and I often ask myself that

101:23

question because I I came from a all

101:25

white area. I was the black kid with the

101:27

strange hair and the strange family. I

101:28

was insecure. And I think that resulted

101:31

in this this force of will to try and

101:34

crack the insecurity or to prove

101:35

something to myself which then resulted

101:38

in success.

101:39

there is no drag, there's only driven.

101:41

I don't understand being dragged.

101:43

Drag insinuates that

101:46

you don't care about performance, you

101:47

don't care whether you succeed or not,

101:49

you're just being sucked into the void

101:50

of success. You might be able to say

101:52

that for a rock star that gets a hit

101:54

song, but um

101:56

most of them doesn't last. I mean, you

101:58

need massive amounts of of drive.

102:02

And I love the most the most exciting

102:04

thing I like to do is when someone tells

102:05

me

102:07

"You can't do that." Like watch

102:09

insurance. You will never

102:11

launch a watch insurance company. It you

102:13

will never do that. You will never get

102:15

around the compliance state by state.

102:16

You will never launch in the Middle

102:18

East. You will never launch in England.

102:20

[ __ ]

102:21

That's exactly what I did. I found the

102:23

right team. I found the right partners.

102:25

I figured it out. I I was passionate

102:27

about it. And I think I'm going to kick

102:30

ass. I think I'm I think in two or three

102:32

years from now, you won't be able to

102:33

catch up with me. That's right. I'm 32

102:36

years old. What what is the advice that

102:37

you wish you got at 32 years old, Kevin?

102:41

What I have learned, and this is

102:43

something that you should really think

102:45

about for yourself.

102:49

Your real value, your real brand,

102:53

are your followers. This army of people

102:56

that have decided to invest their time

102:58

in you.

103:00

You know, you've cut across a a vast

103:03

swath

103:05

of people. So, you influence

103:10

very successful managers, CEOs,

103:13

and a lot of young entrepreneurs want to

103:16

hear what you have to say because they

103:18

they're expecting you to deliver

103:19

valuable information

103:22

across

103:23

multiple sectors. And you also have your

103:26

own data, but men and women. And so,

103:29

where do you take that? Because, you

103:31

know, it's

103:32

Do you want to launch a clothing line?

103:34

Do you want to sell burgers? Do you want

103:36

to do consulting? You know, it's it's

103:40

You have all those opportunities, but

103:41

what fits your brand?

103:43

And so,

103:45

I have

103:47

and you'll get to do this. You'll get to

103:48

do this.

103:50

You'll be approached by a lot of people

103:51

that want to ride that network you've

103:53

built.

103:54

And my advice to you is

103:57

cuz this has really worked for me.

104:00

Is this a product or service that I

104:02

personally would use?

104:05

That I would actually use.

104:09

Because

104:10

you'll get offered a lot of money

104:12

to talk about one brand or another

104:14

brand. They will, and you may be weak

104:17

and take it.

104:18

But

104:20

the minute

104:23

anybody in your

104:26

network, in your

104:28

community thinks you're not authentic,

104:29

you're [ __ ]

104:31

And you know that. Yeah.

104:33

And so,

104:34

you better be authentic, you better be

104:36

transparent, you better be honest even

104:38

when turmoil hits, whatever it's going

104:39

to be.

104:40

I found that saved my ass so many times

104:43

by just saying, "Here's what I know.

104:45

Here's what happened." And that actually

104:47

bonds them even closer to you. And And

104:49

that's

104:51

that's the difficulty you're going to

104:52

have is how much

104:54

do you want to take next? Cuz you're

104:55

going to have that opportunity. But if

104:57

you stay authentic and say, "I'm going

104:58

to do I'm going to support this brand

105:00

cuz I use it."

105:02

Every single brand or commission I have

105:06

in supporting a business, I use myself.

105:09

I'm a shareholder in it and I believe in

105:12

it, and I use the product or, you know,

105:15

whatever. Like the wines I make myself

105:17

with my wife, we drink them in our

105:19

family and everybody knows that. So, you

105:22

if it's I wouldn't drink it if it's [ __ ]

105:23

wine. So, it's it's sort of like

105:26

that's my advice to you because

105:28

I meet a lot of people, but you're very

105:30

rare. You What you've built, maybe by

105:34

happenstance that it occurred. Whatever.

105:37

Alchemy occurred, you have it now. It's

105:40

yours to lose. Don't [ __ ] it up.

105:45

Now, everything you said is so true and

105:47

um

105:47

obviously the things that I uh the

105:49

things that we talk about on the show in

105:50

terms of brands that I promote, pretty

105:52

much all of them I've invested my own

105:53

money into. Yeah. And this is like what

105:55

I talked about my Whoop. Yeah. Um

105:58

if you look at the investments I have

105:59

and the things I talk about, there's a

106:00

really clear through line through them.

106:02

So, there's a really clear through line

106:03

and it's actually reflective of just

106:04

where I am in my life. There's actually

106:06

a sponsor I used to have on the show

106:07

that I was very big on and I just

106:08

stopped um I stopped consuming the

106:10

product. They offered me 6 million

106:12

pounds, which is about what 8 million

106:14

dollars, to continue for another year

106:15

and a half. And I said like it just

106:17

wouldn't I'm about to basically start um

106:21

talking about and investing in

106:23

the antithesis of what you do. Yeah. So,

106:25

I had to turn down that 7 million

106:27

dollars, which is a lot of money for

106:28

anybody. Yeah. But, it's because my life

106:30

shifted and I shifted in a different

106:32

direction. People don't see those

106:33

things. They they don't see that the

106:35

this foreign government comes along and

106:37

offers you 4 million dollars to go and

106:39

talk about their country or to go do the

106:41

diversity in their country. They don't

106:42

see those decisions that you make, but I

106:44

think hopefully if you listen to me long

106:45

enough, you'll see a through line

106:46

between the things that are authentic to

106:48

me. Yeah, and I think that So, you've

106:50

already figured it out. And the other

106:51

thing that I would do and say anybody

106:53

your age and because I wish I'd done it

106:55

is start focusing on longevity in your

106:57

30s. Start thinking about what you eat

106:59

and what you drink and how much sleep

107:00

you do and how much exercise you have.

107:02

You're you could live to 120 years old.

107:05

I mean

107:06

You know, it's sort of if if you

107:07

understand If you're wearing a Whoop,

107:08

you know what I'm talking about. It's

107:09

sort of I'm very, very uh focused on

107:12

what I do and exercise and what I eat

107:14

and all that. Um

107:15

but uh that makes you feel healthier and

107:18

and more and just better about the your

107:20

day as you go through it. But, the fact

107:22

that you figured that out at your age,

107:24

because most people at your age would

107:25

have taken the 7 million pounds or

107:27

whatever it was, that would have been a

107:28

huge mistake. Because

107:30

now the next product that you do

107:32

endorse, I will know with certainty that

107:34

you use it because you told me this.

107:37

We have a closing traditional in this

107:38

podcast where the last guest leaves a

107:39

question for the next guest not knowing

107:40

who they're leaving it for. And the

107:41

question that was left for you, funnily

107:43

enough, I feel like I might have asked

107:44

it, is where do you believe happiness

107:46

really comes from?

107:55

You know, I think the answer is very

107:57

simple. Consistently achieving your

107:59

goals.

108:00

Because happiness is not a destination,

108:03

it's a journey. That's what it is.

108:06

So, you have to set those goals, whether

108:08

it's noise to signal, going full circle,

108:10

what we talked about, or long-term,

108:13

whatever it is, it's consistently

108:15

achieving those goals,

108:17

you will be happy.

108:18

Consistently not achieving them, you'll

108:20

be unhappy. Because it is not

108:24

a destination. Happiness is not a

108:26

destination. Ever. It's a mistake that's

108:30

so elusive.

108:32

I mean,

108:34

it's just not a destination, it's a

108:35

journey. That's it.

108:36

This is one of the great things you've

108:37

taught me today. I'm reaffirmed for me

108:39

today is this idea of like signaling

108:41

noise and radical prioritization because

108:43

kind of dovetailing into what we were

108:44

just talking about, when you have a lot

108:45

of opportunity,

108:47

it gets even harder, I think, to know

108:50

which one should be taking your 18 hours

108:52

a day. This is something I struggle

108:54

with.

108:54

should feel it. You know, you're you're

108:56

you're kind of a weird dude, cuz you're

108:57

like a 70-year-old man in a 30-year-old

108:59

body.

109:00

You've got You've got the intellect of

109:01

of experience, which most people don't

109:03

have at your age. But, deals,

109:06

there's a certain feeling that you if if

109:10

you should feel that it's a good deal.

109:13

It should It should be in your gut. And

109:14

I've learned this. There's many deals

109:16

that sound great that

109:18

when I just do the gut check, I don't

109:20

participate in. They just don't give me

109:25

And that came from experience, but you

109:27

seem to have that in some

109:29

weird way to avoid that one we just

109:31

talked about. That's

109:33

it it's it's it's intuitive feeling that

109:35

you generally get by having a lot of

109:36

winners and losers over time.

109:38

Mhm.

109:38

But you seem to have accelerated that

109:40

somehow.

109:41

It's an intuitive nature of where you

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want to get to and

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what it's going to take to get there,

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and there's going to be sacrifice along

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the way.

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It's never about the money. Never. It's

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not about the money.

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It's

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you know,

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it's do I want to achieve that goal?

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You know, I'm having a it's it's just a

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weird thing because I'm

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I had a similar situation just a couple

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of days ago.

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You know, when somebody approached me

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and said, "Look, can you get behind this

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and

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and back it, and I'll pay you

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a ton, like just a crazy amount of

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money." And I thought,

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"Do I actually want to spend 1 hour

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pursuing that?"

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And I went back to him and said, "Look,

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um

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no. I I just it's just not interesting.

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I I just I don't I can't see my I I

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can't see myself getting involved in

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that narrative." Which was it was a

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complicated situation, but

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And then he said, "Look,

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how about I give you 2 and 1/2% of the

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company?"

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I said, "No."

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I I just don't want to be associated I

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you know, it's just it's same idea. It

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would intuitively

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It was noise. Yeah, and what that would

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do is some opportunity you don't know

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about down the future that you have you

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you you you pursued some goal that

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somehow tainted your brand, and that

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opportunity never comes to you. You

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you're you're the you're the captain of

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your brand. You you to

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you have to define yourself right

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through the journey. It's hard.

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It's really hard. You know, it's it's uh

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it's really hard. And that And that if

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if there's going to be a downfall for

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you, you will have

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chosen unwisely somewhere.

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But it better not be for money.

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That's

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there should never be an amount that you

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would

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take because

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if your gut says no, it doesn't matter

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what the money is. Not after what you've

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achieved.

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I mean, you don't need to buy a

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guarantee anymore. You got it.

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I'm assuming you've put some away.

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I mean, it's very simple.

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If you've got 5 million bucks in the

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bank, you can do whatever you want now.

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I mean, it's

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may sound I want more, but that is

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enough under ca-

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Always have Always I have an account

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that just sits there with 5 million

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bucks in it in T-bills.

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I never touch it.

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That's my nest egg.

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Kevin, thank you. You got

Interactive Summary

Kevin O'Leary discusses his philosophy on entrepreneurship, investing, and life. He highlights the importance of the 'signal-to-noise' ratio, explaining that successful individuals focus on urgent tasks (signal) while ignoring distractions (noise). O'Leary shares his early defining moment of getting fired, which taught him about the distinction between business owners and employees. He emphasizes that entrepreneurship requires specific attributes, such as high risk tolerance, focus, and a bit of luck. He also advises on wealth management, stressing diversification and living within one's means, and explains how his approach to investing is influenced by lessons from his mother and Steve Jobs. Finally, he reflects on the importance of integrity, authenticity in branding, and the idea that happiness is a journey of consistently achieving one's goals.

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