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Justin Bieber, Muhammad Ali, Miley

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Cyrus. And then there's murderers,

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rapists, arsonists. I probably have seen

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more brains than anybody in the world.

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And now, your brain. So, this is going

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to be really hard for you. You have

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ADHD. Really? Dr. Daniel Amen, the

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world's leading expert

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on the brain.

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Dr. Amen's mission is to end mental

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illness

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by creating a revolution in brain

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health. Buckle up, Dr. Amen. Let me know

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what you see. Your brain is involved in

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everything you do. And after today, you

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will always care about your brain. What

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things make the brain worse? Drugs,

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alcohol, not getting good sleep, sugar,

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fruit juice, hitting a soccer ball with

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your head, caffeine. Caffeine? It

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shrinks it. What's bad about sugar?

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You're more likely to get an obesity.

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And as your weight goes up, the actual

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physical size and function of your brain

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goes down. That should scare the fat off

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anyone. And then there's social media.

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If you're on 3 and 1/2 hours a day, you

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begin to wear out those pleasure centers

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that bring you happiness and they bring

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you pleasure and they bring you drive.

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You thrill them to death. But, you're

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not stuck with the brain you have. You

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can make it better. I can prove it. So,

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it starts with

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Let's look at my brain. Let's do this.

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We have evidence of And that's normal in

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our society. The problem is two or three

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of those can impact the rest of your

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life and nobody knows about it.

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Dr. Amen,

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if someone's just clicked on this

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and they're considering sticking around

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or maybe doing something else with their

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time.

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Can you explain to me

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based on what you know that we're going

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to be discussing and the subject matter

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we're going to be discussing and how

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important it is,

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the benefit to their life if they stick

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around?

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10 extra years of cognitive performance

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in their life,

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better love, better money,

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better health, because your brain, we're

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going to talk about, is involved in

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everything you do. How you think, how

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you feel, how you act, how you get along

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with other people. And my goal is to

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end, this is going to sound huge and it

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is,

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and it's going to sound impossible, but

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it's not. My goal is to end mental

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illness

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by

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creating

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a revolution in brain health. I hate the

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term mental illness. It shames people.

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It's stigmatizing and it's wrong. These

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things aren't mental disorders, they're

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brain disorders. If you get your brain

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healthy, well, your mind tends to

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follow. So, you're depressed, an

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antidepressant is not doing one thing

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for getting your brain healthy. Nobody's

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talking to you about your diet, your

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level of exercise, your sleep, not

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living in a mold-filled home, not really

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allowing your kids hit soccer balls with

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their head, right? Cuz that's not brain

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healthy.

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And if we can create this revolution in

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brain health,

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the incidence of mental health disorders

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will go down

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by half.

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And I guess that's part of the reveal

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here is you've actually scanned

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my brain. And you're going to tell me

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today the results that

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you have on your laptop over there in

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the corner of the room. So, I came to

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your clinic in Los Angeles, and they

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made me do a test on a computer. Like it

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was almost like a speed test of sorts.

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And then they made me lie down in a big

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machine

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for about How long was that? About 30

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minutes? 15 minutes.

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15 minutes?

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While this big machine rotated around my

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head and looked at my brain. That was my

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experience of what happened. And then I

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filled out some questionnaires about

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myself and my brain and my life

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generally.

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And from that,

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all that data feeds into the thing

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you're about to show me now.

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Yes. So, I never will make a diagnosis

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from a scan. Okay. I make a diagnosis

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from all the information, which is why

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we had you fill out all that information

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and I gave you a test called the Conners

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Continuous Performance Test, which is a

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15-minute test of attention. And every

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time you see a a letter, you hit the

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spacebar,

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except when you see the the letter X.

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When you see the letter X, you don't do

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anything. So, it measures impulse

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control and inhibition, response time.

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And you actually did fine

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on the test.

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And but there's other

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evidence that you might in fact have ADD

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or ADHD from

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getting bored easily to poor

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handwriting, being disorganized,

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and so on. Uh Uh and obviously you're

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very bright but

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struggled a bit in school. So,

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with all that information,

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um first thing to do is look at a

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healthy scan so we know what a healthy

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scan

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looks like.

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And we're going to show it in two

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different ways. We're going to look at

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the outside surface

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of your brain. So, a healthy one is the

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image

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on the left and all we should see is

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full, even, symmetrical activity. So,

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the image on the top left is looking

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underneath the brain. So, the top is the

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front part of the brain, the bottom is

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the back, the top is an area called the

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prefrontal cortex, hugely important in

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humans, largest in humans than any other

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animal by far. It's 30% of the human

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brain, 11% of the chimpanzee brain. And

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then the back is the cerebellum, back

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bottom part of the brain.

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Um again, very important, involved in

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processing speed.

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The bottom right of the images on the

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left is looking down from the top. Uh

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the other two looking at the brain from

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the side. Color doesn't matter, it's the

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shape. It should be

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full, even, and symmetrical.

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The images on the right, the color

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matters. So, it's what we call our

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active images. Blue is average activity,

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red is the top 15%,

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white is the top 8%. And you see all the

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white. So, the white is where things are

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really happening. It's really hot. Okay.

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And that's healthy. That's normal. And

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that's going to become very important

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for you. So, if we look at your brain,

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it's a little bumpy, and so I'll ask you

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about toxins. Are there anything toxic

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in your life? What What are all toxins?

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So, think alcohol, marijuana,

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mold, uh

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heavy metals in your body, infections,

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and so if it's not

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alcohol or drugs, then I begin to go,

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"Have you ever lived in a mold-filled

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environment? Maybe we should test you

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for that. Do you have more mercury in

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your body or lead in your body than you

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should?" So, for example, I had very

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high mercury levels. My brain sort of

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looked like that when I first scanned

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it. It was toxic. And I had very high

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mercury levels. Like, I never drank.

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I just don't like it. Never smoked.

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Never did drugs. But, my brain looked

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toxic. And so, you then have to go hunt

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down, "Well, why?"

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And for me, it was mercury.

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Um decreased activity in your left

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prefrontal cortex. So, when I think of

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maybe ADD-like symptoms in your life,

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probably coming from there.

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And decreased activity in your left

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temporal lobe.

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And you right-handed? Yeah. Yeah. So,

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that can go with the irritability. What

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I've seen is that can go with sort of

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short fuse. Mhm. And your prefrontal

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cortex is sort of the brain's

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supervisor. It watches you.

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And your prefrontal cortex is flat. Mhm.

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And I don't like that. And then when I

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heard you played soccer or when I read

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you played soccer, it's very common in

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my soccer players. Now, how long did you

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play soccer for? Uh, pretty much all of

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my childhood.

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And any concussions playing soccer? I

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think I had a couple of big head bangs

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that

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were significant, but not many. Not

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nothing that took me to hospital, but I

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had a couple of moments where I was

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pulled off the pitch because like there

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was a clash of heads.

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So.

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Your brain is soft, about the

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consistency of soft butter.

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Your skull is really hard and has sharp

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bony ridges.

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Um.

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Two or three of those can impact the

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rest of your life and nobody knows about

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it.

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Because nobody looks. Right? If you went

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in saw a thousand psychiatrists, say, "I

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want to focus better and

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have better temper."

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You saw a thousand psychiatrists, two of

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them would look at your brain, which I

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think is

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insane.

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So, the colors here that I'm looking at,

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the What does the the red and the green

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So, the color really Doesn't matter

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here. doesn't matter. It's the shape.

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So, when I see this hole, you don't have

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holes in your brain. What the hole means

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is less blood flow than is optimal. In

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fact, I'm going to show you

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if you do what I ask you to do

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and we scan you

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6 months from now, that'll be better. I

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have a program that tells me

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if you do what I ask you to do, this is

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what's generally going to happen. And if

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you don't do what I ask you to do, well,

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this is what it's going to look like 5

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years from now, 10 years from now. And

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you're young. If you

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get serious about loving and repairing

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your brain,

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your 60s, 70s, 80s are going to be

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amazing because you're going to have a

11:30

healthy brain. If you go, "Oh, Amen's a

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quack and I don't believe any of this

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crap."

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it's going to be really hard for you

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because you're not going to have full

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access to your brain.

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And that's scary. So, I know that's sort

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of a big deal, but I think this is

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from

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traumatic brain injury at some point

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and a bit of a toxin, which may be mold.

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Mhm.

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And then when I say mold, our house was

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very, very dirty growing up.

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So,

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that's what I assume you're speaking to

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that. And we did have like mold around

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the window sill sometimes and we had

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mice and

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rats at some point and

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it was like living in a house that a

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hoarder

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had uh

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lived in because some of the rooms were

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just stacked to the ceiling with crap.

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So,

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I think maybe if you're talking about

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mold or a toxic brain, I I I'm guessing

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that's where it's come from.

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If that makes

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it gets in your body, unless you do

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something active to get it out, it

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stays. I really and can continue to

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cause problems. And then if we go to the

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active scan,

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it's very different than I want it to

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be.

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And I know I can make it better. But if

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we go back to

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what's healthy,

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lots of activity in the cerebellum,

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your cerebellum

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is sleepy

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despite you probably being very

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coordinated. I need to activate that

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thing. It's really important to get

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better activity

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there. And you have this diamond

13:18

pattern. So, you have ADD and we'll talk

13:22

more about it. It's a subtype I call

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overfocused ADD where you can be

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obsessive when you're really interested

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in something, but if it doesn't interest

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you,

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it's hard for you to focus.

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So,

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if you look at this, it looks like a

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diamond. And when I see that diamond,

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I think of past emotional trauma.

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And uh I published a big study

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looking at this 20,000 people, can I

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separate emotional trauma from physical

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trauma? And I can with actually high

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levels of accuracy, and it looks to me

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like there's sort of bit of both

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for you. Do you play racket sports?

14:11

No, I don't.

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So, that'll be one of my prescriptions

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for you. And actually, study from

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England, people play racket sports live

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longer than everybody else by far.

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Soccer was on the bottom, like soccer

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and football were on the bottom, but

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tennis, table tennis, racket ball, now

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pickle ball,

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uh badminton are on the top.

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But let's talk about this diamond for a

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bit. When I say emotional trauma, Mhm.

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what comes up for you? So, a few things.

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The first thing is my parents were

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always at war. Growing up as a kid in a

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household where there was so much

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screaming and negative energy, but then

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growing up with shame because we was I

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was so different from everyone else

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around me.

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Never inviting friends back to my house

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in those 16 years that I lived there

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before I left, so nobody really knew

15:04

where I lived either. I think of all

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that stuff when I think about like

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emotional trauma.

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Well, that's a lot. Okay. Yeah.

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I mean, if you grow up in a stressful

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environment, boo,

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and um a hostile environment where your

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parents are at war,

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it trains your brain,

15:26

your emotional brain to become

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hyperactive, Mhm. because you always

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have to watch

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for danger.

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And

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that gets programmed early.

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And even later,

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when there's not the danger, your body

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still can look for Mhm. You're waiting

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for that

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next bad thing

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to happen.

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And Do you think I have ADHD? I do.

15:56

Now, the question would be,

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who has it in your family? Cuz it

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doesn't just show up. But often,

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children who have ADHD have one or both

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parents who have it. And you can see

16:12

those similar traits.

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And

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it sounds like one or both of your

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parents could have been a little bit

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conflict seeking.

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My My mother.

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And if I was to hazard a guess at which

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one of my parents had ADHD, and this is

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just me guessing, not trying to diagnose

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my parents, I would say it's would have

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been my mother.

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Why?

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She's the She's the most irritable.

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Handwriting isn't great. She

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is

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a little bit more sort of like

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scat scattered, I should say.

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She's a lot more messy. My dad's like

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very organized with everything. My mom's

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very very very messy. Like me. Um

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The The other thing I would ask is,

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what did teachers say about you?

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I went back to speak at my school

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to the GCSE and A-level students. I've

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done it twice. And I remember one of the

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teachers came up to me. Bearing in mind

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at this age, I'm 24, 25 years old. And

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she said, "You are a useless student,

17:20

but you are nice. You're a nice person."

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I was never swearing or throwing chairs,

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but I was useless. And I spent most of

17:26

the time in the exclusion unit, which is

17:28

where you go if you don't do your

17:29

homework or you don't attend. I just

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couldn't sit in classrooms. I couldn't

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sit in classrooms and stay focused on

17:36

what they were telling me, es-

17:38

especially when I wasn't interested.

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That's been like a defining quality of

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my life. I'm exceptionally good

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at not doing things I'm not interested

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in. And I'm ex- And I'm good at when I'm

17:48

interested, but when I'm not interested,

17:51

I could see my peers almost like will

17:53

themselves to engage in things they're

17:55

not interested in.

17:56

I'm I will I could never do that. And

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I've always said I'm a remarkable

18:00

quitter. So, you think about stop going

18:02

to school, then went to university for 1

18:03

day and was like, "Nope."

18:05

Never went back after that first day.

18:07

So,

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So, it's it's a very important piece of

18:12

advice for people who have ADD.

18:17

Is pick something you love, not a job

18:22

that you think you'll just make more

18:23

money in. And that's another sort of

18:26

piece of the puzzle that completely fits

18:29

with having

18:30

ADD. And as as we know,

18:34

there are problems with it,

18:38

but there are also huge benefits of it.

18:41

Your prefrontal cortex,

18:43

when it works too hard, so I imagine if

18:48

I scanned your dad, that it would be

18:50

busy, cuz he's very organized and like

18:54

collecting.

18:56

Um

18:58

but there's less creativity

19:00

that goes with the busy frontal lobes.

19:05

When there's a little bit sleepy,

19:08

you entertain all sorts of thoughts, and

19:11

you're a little less rule bound than

19:15

people whose prefrontal cortex more

19:17

active. They like rules, and they like

19:20

sameness, and they like predictability.

19:24

And

19:26

probably like some of that because I

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think you inherited some of your dad.

19:30

That's the top of the diamond.

19:32

But

19:34

you're obviously very creative.

19:37

Mhm.

19:40

I do um I do think of myself as being um

19:42

a a

19:43

creative entrepreneur. I I know other

19:44

entrepreneurs that are like really good

19:46

at finance and operations and processes,

19:49

whereas my skill in entrepreneurship has

19:51

always been

19:53

the creativity. That's why I'm a

19:54

marketeer. That's where I built my my

19:56

fortunes, per se, was in marketing and

19:58

creativity. So

20:00

and I've always found other people to do

20:01

the

20:02

finance or the process or operation

20:04

stuff for me because that's not where I

20:06

I'm engaged or or where I think I'm

20:09

particularly good.

20:10

So

20:11

Well, and since a lot of CEOs listen to

20:13

this podcast, a lot of CEOs have ADD of

20:17

one form or another.

20:19

And they thrive

20:21

when they hire people

20:24

who are organized.

20:27

So it's very important cuz we tend to

20:30

like to hire people like ourselves.

20:34

And it's very important to hire people

20:38

who help us where we're more vulnerable.

20:42

It's almost like hiring people with

20:43

different brains. Yes. Literally.

20:46

Yes.

20:48

We we we talked about something a second

20:50

ago. You said, "When you saw your brain

20:52

for the first time, it changed your

20:53

life." I do feel like that now. I do

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feel like when

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I almost didn't realize my brain was

20:59

there. And I think a lot of people we go

21:01

through our lives just kind of cuz we

21:03

never see the thing.

21:04

We don't appreciate the thing. So step

21:06

one is that awareness and then step two

21:09

is the realization that we can do

21:11

something about it. Because I grew up

21:13

thinking that your brain and your body

21:15

generally is just it just is what it is.

21:17

Like I can't do anything about, you

21:19

know, I tend to think I can't do

21:20

anything about, I don't know, my

21:22

fingernail. I probably I mean you can,

21:24

but you just see these things as static

21:26

objects that are what they are.

21:28

This idea that I can do something about

21:30

it is the most important idea. It's the

21:32

it's the empowering idea.

21:35

And that is what you're telling me

21:38

is possible. I can change my brain.

21:42

It's the most exciting lesson that I've

21:44

learned. You're not stuck.

21:47

I'm not stuck

21:49

with the brain I had. You're not stuck

21:52

with the brain you have. You can make it

21:54

better. I can prove it. In fact, every

21:58

day, what I've come to believe, you're

22:00

making your brain better

22:03

or you're making it worse. Let's start

22:05

there.

22:06

you're doing. What things make the brain

22:09

worse? What are the common things that

22:10

most of us do without thinking that make

22:12

the brain worse?

22:16

When my daughter, Chloe, was in second

22:18

grade, I went to her classroom and I

22:20

wrote 20 things on the board.

22:23

And I went separate them for me. Good

22:25

for your brain, bad for your brain.

22:27

7-year-olds.

22:29

They got 19 out of 20 right. So, most

22:31

people know.

22:34

The only thing they got wrong was orange

22:37

juice.

22:38

They put it in the healthy category.

22:41

When, in fact, when is it rational to

22:45

unwrap fruit sugar from its fiber

22:47

source? Because it turns toxic in your

22:49

body. So, I'm not a fan of fruit juice.

22:52

I'm a fan of fruit, not fruit juice. But

22:56

so, the bad category. Hitting a soccer

23:00

ball with your head. No, don't do that.

23:03

Um

23:04

What's bad about sugar

23:06

for the brain?

23:09

Which What does that mean?

23:09

It makes you diabetic. But I mean as it

23:12

relates to the brain, why is like orange

23:14

juice or the ice cream bad for my brain?

23:17

Because it's ultimately going to give

23:20

you high blood sugar levels, Mhm. which

23:22

erode your blood vessels,

23:25

and you're going to have lower blood

23:27

flow to your brain.

23:29

That's bad. It's a bad thing. I mean,

23:31

there's so many things about it. So,

23:33

it's addictive, it's pro-inflammatory,

23:38

it makes it more likely you're going to

23:39

have diabetes and obesity. So, 72% of

23:42

Americans are overweight, 42% are obese.

23:47

I've published three studies on 35,000

23:50

people.

23:52

As your weight goes up, the actual

23:55

physical size and function of your brain

23:57

goes down.

23:59

That should scare the fat off anyone. I

24:02

used to be chubby, but when I figured

24:04

out that connection, I'm like, "Oh, no.

24:07

I am

24:08

It was that that gave me the motivation

24:11

to drop about 25 lb. And

24:14

so, sugar

24:17

is the gateway drug to diabetes and

24:20

obesity.

24:21

And so,

24:23

not to mention

24:25

inflammation,

24:27

which is the cause of depression and

24:30

dementia. So, I've got sugar, I've got a

24:33

head injury.

24:35

I'm going to avoid both of these things.

24:37

What else should I avoid? And then you

24:39

have low blood flow in those two very

24:41

important areas.

24:42

And so,

24:45

how can we increase blood flow? So, you

24:48

want to avoid things that cause low

24:49

blood flow, caffeine, nicotine.

24:52

Caffeine? Caffeine constricts blood flow

24:55

to the brain. What does that do to my

24:57

brain?

24:58

It Well, constricts blood flow. So,

24:59

you're going to get less blood flow. And

25:01

remember, I showed you that progression

25:03

with age?

25:05

No, you don't want that. You want to do

25:08

things that increase blood flow to your

25:10

brain. So, exercise. Um

25:14

ginkgo is just one of the supplements

25:16

I'm going to give you. Eat foods like um

25:20

beets, oregano,

25:23

rosemary, cinnamon, they increase blood

25:27

flow.

25:28

And do you think there's a correlation

25:30

or link between

25:32

caffeine

25:34

consumption and a shrinking brain?

25:38

Yes.

25:40

And a shrinking brain, is that

25:41

associated with things like dementia?

25:43

Aging brain.

25:45

I You know, I don't think there's a

25:47

connection. I haven't read any research

25:50

that says there's a connection between

25:52

caffeine

25:54

and dementia.

25:56

There's a connection with sleep

25:58

problems, and there's connection with

26:00

sleep problems and dementia. Mhm. I

26:03

think if you have like 100 mg a day of

26:05

caffeine, it's probably fine.

26:07

But, one venti

26:10

Starbucks coffee has got 330 mg of

26:14

caffeine.

26:14

Jesus.

26:15

And people just aren't thinking about

26:18

the level of caffeine they're having in

26:21

our society. What are the other very

26:23

obvious things that are not good for my

26:25

brain? Cuz I really want to make sure

26:26

that I avoid those things. So, I've got

26:27

sugar,

26:28

So, and erectile dysfunction. I mean,

26:30

while we're at So, B is for blood flow,

26:32

right? While we're on blood flow,

26:35

40% of 40-year-olds

26:37

have erectile dysfunction.

26:40

70% of 70-year-olds have erectile

26:44

dysfunction. What that means, if you

26:46

have blood flow problems anywhere, it

26:49

means they're everywhere.

26:53

And so

26:55

like no.

26:57

And

26:58

it means either you're too sedentary,

27:01

you're overweight, you're

27:04

smoking,

27:05

or having too much caffeine,

27:08

or using marijuana cuz marijuana lowers

27:11

blood flow to the brain.

27:13

And so just in that one of the 11,

27:17

it's exercise,

27:20

ginkgo.

27:22

For you, not for everybody, but for you

27:24

hyperbaric oxygen, those three things

27:27

will make a big difference in blood

27:29

flow. Ginkgo? Ginkgo. What is that? It's

27:32

a supplement. What does it do? Uh

27:34

increases blood flow. To the brain? The

27:36

prettiest brains I've ever seen take

27:40

ginkgo. There's actually SPECT study.

27:43

Uh they gave

27:44

people 100

27:46

20 mg of ginkgo twice a day, significant

27:49

improvement in blood flow to the brain.

27:52

And so in one of the supplements I'm

27:54

going to give you,

27:55

we have ginkgo.

27:56

I I've taken it every day for the last

27:59

20 years,

28:00

at least. And then this is where the US

28:03

government got an F for the pandemic,

28:06

loneliness accelerates dementia

28:10

and brain problems.

28:12

And so when they isolated us, the whole

28:16

significant increase in brain problems.

28:19

So get connected to other people.

28:22

The I in bright minds is inflammation.

28:25

So what increases inflammation? Low

28:28

omega-3 fatty acid levels. And we are

28:31

deficient.

28:32

93% of the population is deficient in

28:35

omega-3 fatty acids. 93%.

28:39

So all of us should be either eating

28:41

more fish or

28:44

taking an omega-3 supplement like fish

28:47

oil.

28:48

Gum disease. Like who knew?

28:51

Like I wasn't really that good at taking

28:54

care of my gums until I started reading

28:57

the studies. You have gum disease, you

29:00

have inflammation, you're more likely

29:02

get depressed and have dementia. I'm

29:04

like, "Oh my goodness." So, I'm a

29:05

flossing

29:07

fool.

29:08

Um

29:08

ages, head trauma, we talked about that.

29:11

I did the big NFL study when the NFL was

29:14

struggling with the truth on traumatic

29:16

brain injury in football.

29:18

80% of our players got better.

29:21

T is toxins.

29:23

Um

29:24

drugs, alcohol.

29:26

Um but other things like

29:29

mercury and

29:30

What are the unobvious toxins? Because

29:32

Anesthesia. Anesthesia. I I was looking

29:35

at my bathroom

29:38

items. And I have like mouthwash and

29:41

toothpaste and deodorants and

29:44

aftershaves. And I was wondering to

29:45

myself whether those were toxic to some

29:48

degree.

29:49

So, there's an app. There's a couple of

29:51

them, but the one I like is called Think

29:53

Dirty. Mhm. Where you can scan those

29:56

products and it'll tell you on a scale

29:59

of 0 to 10

30:02

how bad they are for you. So, 0 is you

30:04

live a long time and 10 is you die

30:07

early.

30:08

And so, when I figured this out, I was

30:11

scanning everything.

30:13

Um I mean, it cost me hundreds of

30:15

dollars to replace things.

30:17

And my wife

30:19

more than that with all the makeup and

30:22

stuff. But I shaved for 50 years with

30:25

Barbasol.

30:27

And it's a nine.

30:29

Which is die early.

30:31

And now I shave with something called

30:33

Kiss My Face. And it's a two.

30:37

It's like, you know, we teach people

30:38

read the labels on food stuff, should

30:41

read the labels on anything that goes on

30:44

your body or on your child's body. And

30:48

we have this epidemic, and we'll get to

30:50

it, of low testosterone in males because

30:54

of the toxins we put on their bodies

30:56

when they're young.

30:57

What is the M in bright?

30:59

So, the M is mental health. It's

31:04

the quality of your thoughts,

31:07

the level of your stress,

31:10

and

31:15

the level of trauma you carry

31:18

in your body.

31:20

And whether or not you have any of the

31:24

psychiatric

31:25

stuff. Like depression, for example,

31:28

doubles the risk of Alzheimer's disease

31:31

in women and quadruples it in men.

31:34

And so, the M is what's going on

31:40

in your mind.

31:42

And so, I teach people to kill the ants,

31:44

the automatic negative thoughts that

31:46

steal their happiness.

31:48

Um

31:51

understand

31:53

and process their traumas,

31:57

and treat

31:59

whatever

32:01

psychiatric issues may be present. Like

32:04

in your case,

32:06

the ADD.

32:08

And I think cuz start with the

32:10

supplement, um

32:12

or even consider medication.

32:17

Talk about the natural ways to do it,

32:19

the medicine ways to do it. And for me,

32:22

I'm not opposed to medicine. I'm

32:24

actually really good at it.

32:27

But it's never the first and the only

32:29

thing I think about. I've really never

32:31

taken medication in my life. Even like

32:33

if I get a headache, I don't take

32:34

medication. I'm not the type of person.

32:37

I probably haven't taken a pill in like

32:39

really in years. The only time I've

32:41

taken medication is if I have a severe

32:44

infection of sorts. So like there was

32:46

this one time where like my foot was

32:47

going green and I'd stood on some glass,

32:49

whatever, and it was really getting out

32:51

of control. I'm talking like a 2-in

32:54

purple thing growing on my foot. I

32:55

thought, "Okay, instead of getting my

32:56

leg cut off, I'll take this medication

32:58

the doctor's given me. Otherwise, I just

33:00

do not take it."

33:01

So I would rather go through severe pain

33:03

than take medication because I believe

33:05

that my body can fix things. Um

33:09

So when I think about taking ADD

33:11

medication or ADHD medication, I don't

33:13

really know the difference,

33:14

I go, "Well,

33:17

if my

33:19

if I'm messy or if I'm my handwriting's

33:21

bad or whatever it might be,

33:23

then that's just who I am.

33:27

And that's okay. I can get better at it.

33:29

I can be less I can be more organized.

33:32

But why why do I want to take

33:34

medication?

33:37

Well, I'm not going to I'm not going to

33:38

be the one to sell you on medication,

33:40

but what I would say

33:43

is

33:47

So a lot of times people ask me the side

33:49

effects of medication. Mhm.

33:51

And for stimulants for ADD, it could be

33:54

it decreases your appetite or can

33:56

negatively affect your sleep.

33:59

But you always have to ask the second

34:01

question.

34:02

Which is what are the side effects of

34:04

not taking

34:06

the medicine?

34:07

What's the impact

34:09

on your life, on your business, on your

34:12

money, on your relationships, on your

34:14

health? Because living with untreated

34:17

ADD for many people, and maybe not you,

34:20

but for many people goes with chronic

34:22

stress

34:23

because of

34:26

the

34:27

negative things that tend to go along

34:30

with it. Dysfunction.

34:32

And for you, you're

34:34

clearly not broken.

34:38

But are you optimized?

34:40

Do you have full access

34:44

to your own brain?

34:47

And I would argue no.

34:50

And we can do and we can do better.

34:53

But we can do it in steps.

34:58

And ultimately, I see my job

35:00

is giving people options.

35:03

And then telling them the pros and cons

35:05

of each option, and then letting them

35:07

choose. Right? I mean, that's what good

35:09

doctors should do. It's called informed

35:11

consent.

35:12

Um

35:14

and you know, I can just tell you

35:17

my experience. I told you the story with

35:19

my daughter.

35:20

And

35:22

I've seen that play out thousands of

35:25

times.

35:27

That

35:28

people

35:31

just become more optimized. In what way?

35:34

not necessarily the medicine. But that

35:36

medicine, when it's for the right brain,

35:39

right? The wrong brain, it makes people

35:41

worse. And if you read my book, Healing

35:44

ADD, I talk about the Ring of Fire ADD.

35:48

So, ADD and ADHD

35:51

are different terms for the same thing.

35:55

1980, the American Psychiatric

35:57

Association's DSM

35:59

Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of

36:02

Mental Disorders, I hate that, but

36:05

it's what we have, was Attention Deficit

36:07

Disorder, ADD, with or without

36:10

hyperactivity.

36:12

1987, God knows for what reason, they

36:15

changed the name to ADHD. Attention

36:17

Deficit Hyperactivity Disorder,

36:19

basically throwing out half the people

36:21

who had it. Cuz half the people who have

36:24

ADD or ADHD are never hyperactive. And

36:29

they don't get diagnosed because they

36:31

don't bring enough negative attention to

36:35

themselves for parents to go,

36:39

"You have a problem.

36:40

And you're giving me a problem."

36:43

Um

36:43

so, anyways, different

36:45

names for the same thing.

36:48

And if you can

36:50

manage it

36:53

by having extra help for the things

36:55

you're not good at,

36:56

with exercise,

36:59

with all of the good habits you have,

37:03

well,

37:04

that's awesome.

37:06

If you want to be be 10%

37:10

more focused, like I treat this writer,

37:14

um

37:15

and she only takes medicine when she has

37:18

to get stuff done. But she never takes

37:20

it when she writes because she has 16

37:23

plot lines going on at once in her

37:25

books. And she goes, "No, I think it

37:29

decreases my creativity a little bit."

37:33

Interesting.

37:35

Because the

37:38

the fact that we're medicating

37:41

the a brain like mine,

37:44

I

37:45

I go, "Is that for professional

37:46

optimization?" Cuz if you just go back

37:48

like, I don't know, a couple hundred

37:50

years. You go back even further to a a

37:51

time when we couldn't like read or

37:53

write, there wasn't computers, and all

37:55

of these things, you would have had no

37:57

idea that You know, if you go if you go

37:58

back far, you wouldn't have been able to

38:00

tell a

38:01

really a an ADHD Well, what I'm trying

38:04

to say

38:04

But you'd be able to tell their life. I

38:06

mean, I have a patient from Ethiopia.

38:08

And

38:09

I'm like, "So, tell me the impact in

38:12

your culture."

38:13

And he said, "The people with severe

38:16

ADHD get excluded because they can't be

38:19

relied on.

38:20

And the isolation causes great shame and

38:27

pain.

38:28

Um and

38:30

they have no idea it's a brain thing.

38:32

Where does it come from ADHD?

38:35

Or ADD?

38:37

Well, it's genetic. Okay.

38:39

It's clearly genetic. I mean, I if I

38:42

don't see it in someone's family, I

38:44

think head trauma.

38:46

And with you, I think that's possible

38:48

because of soccer. Um except you see it

38:50

in your family.

38:52

Um

38:53

Is it a defect or is it a difference?

38:56

It's a difference.

38:58

If I if I chose to take a drug, was it

39:02

like equal to Ritalin that you called it

39:04

one of the So, Ritalin would be one of

39:05

the options. Whatever drug it was, what

39:08

exactly would it do under brain scanning

39:10

to my brain? So, if I scan my brain and

39:12

took the drug, what would you see in my

39:15

brain?

39:15

Well, I can tell you. It would activate

39:18

your cerebellum. Okay, the bit that was

39:20

a bit sleepy. It was a bit sleepy and it

39:22

would activate your prefrontal cortex.

39:25

And

39:26

um

39:27

it would give your brain better energy.

39:30

So, my first SPECT scan, 1991, a woman

39:35

she tried to kill herself the night

39:36

before. I went to the lecture on brain

39:39

SPECT imaging and then I walked out of

39:41

the lecture and she was my new patient.

39:43

Her name was Sandy. She tried to kill

39:45

herself the night before and as I'm

39:47

getting to know her, I'm thinking she

39:49

has ADD. She has an 8-year-old son who

39:52

has ADD, talked about the genetic

39:54

connection. She had an IQ of 144

39:57

but never finished college. And I'm

40:00

like, "How did you study?" She said,

40:02

"Well, I never really did except maybe

40:04

the night before a test, I'd put on a

40:06

pot of coffee,

40:08

stay up all night cramming and then I'd

40:10

take the test. That's classic ADD way of

40:13

doing things.

40:14

And I'm like, "You know, I think maybe

40:16

you have adult ADD. And she goes, "Oh,

40:18

adults don't have ADD."

40:20

And I'm thinking, I'm the doctor,

40:23

I'm like, "How about if we look at your

40:25

brain?"

40:26

And And I knew from other work I'd done

40:29

that I should do it twice, at rest and

40:31

concentration.

40:34

And

40:35

when she tried to concentrate, her brain

40:36

completely deactivated.

40:39

Turned off. Like, for you, we only did

40:41

it once, but if I had done it twice,

40:43

probably your brain would be busier at

40:45

rest, and then when you try to do it, it

40:47

would drop.

40:49

And I put the pictures on

40:52

a couple of days later, I put the

40:53

picture on the table in front of her.

40:56

And as I explained it to her,

40:59

she started to cry.

41:01

And she said, "You mean it's not my

41:03

fault."

41:05

And I said, "Having ADD is sort of like

41:07

people who need glasses." And I wore

41:10

glasses to drive, and took my glasses

41:11

out, put them on.

41:13

And I said, "People who wear glasses

41:15

aren't dumb, crazy, or stupid. Their

41:16

eyeballs are shaped funny, and we wear

41:18

glasses to focus."

41:21

I said, "People with ADD aren't dumb,

41:23

crazy, or stupid. Some are among the

41:24

brightest people I know,

41:26

but their frontal lobes deactivate.

41:28

Taking the medicine is like glasses for

41:31

your frontal lobes, help you focus."

41:34

And she did it. She was conflict-driven.

41:39

She was always poking her husband. They

41:40

got into a huge fight, which is why she

41:42

tried to kill herself. She stopped that.

41:45

She's a better mom. She went back and

41:46

finished college. I mean, her life's

41:49

It's like your brain with glasses. Wow.

41:52

My friends that take medication for ADD

41:55

say that to me. They say it's like their

41:57

life is before and after that moment.

41:59

So, I've, you know, I've

42:01

I completely believe what you're saying.

42:02

Um

42:04

A second ago, you said this phrase when

42:05

we were talking about the M, which is

42:07

your mental health, and the impact that

42:08

has on the

42:09

development of a brain that's either

42:11

healthy or unhealthy. And you said this

42:13

thing about you got to make sure you

42:14

kill the ants,

42:16

which is killing those negative

42:17

thoughts. Um that's much easier said

42:19

than done.

42:21

How does How does someone go about

42:23

killing their negative thoughts? Is

42:25

there a process they can go through to

42:26

do that? Yeah, it's a habit.

42:29

Right? And it's not hard.

42:31

But like any habit, you have to do it

42:33

repeatedly, like over and over and over

42:35

and over and over and over. Um

42:40

Whenever you have a thought,

42:41

your brain releases chemicals.

42:45

Whenever you have a bad thought, a sad

42:47

thought, a mad thought, your brain

42:49

releases a certain set of chemicals that

42:51

make you feel bad.

42:53

Immediately.

42:55

Your hands get cold. They start to

42:57

sweat. Your muscles get tense. You start

43:00

to breathe erratically.

43:02

And it all happens

43:04

instantaneously.

43:06

Whenever you have a positive thought, a

43:07

happy thought, a hopeful thought,

43:10

a loving thought, like I'm back cuz I

43:12

loved the first time I was on the

43:13

podcast with you.

43:15

Um

43:17

a completely different set of chemicals

43:19

come out. And your hands get warmer,

43:23

drier. Your breathing slows down. Your

43:25

heart beats in a healthier It happens

43:28

like immediately.

43:31

People have ADD, since we're talking

43:33

about that, they tend to go more toward

43:35

negative thoughts cuz negative thoughts

43:37

are more stimulating.

43:40

And

43:41

uh

43:43

here's the exercise.

43:45

Whenever you feel sad, or mad, or

43:48

nervous, or out of control, write down

43:51

what you're thinking.

43:53

And then ask yourself, is it true?

43:58

Is it absolutely true? This is a process

44:00

I learned from my friend Byron Katie.

44:03

How do I feel when I have this thought?

44:06

How do I act when I have this thought?

44:09

And what's the outcome

44:11

of the thought? So, is it true?

44:15

Is it absolutely true?

44:18

How do I feel, act, and the outcome of

44:20

the thought?

44:22

How would I feel

44:24

if I didn't have the thought?

44:26

How would I act if I didn't have the

44:28

thought? What's the outcome of not

44:29

having that thought? Then my favorite

44:32

part of it is take the original thought,

44:35

"Tana never listens to me." Tana is my

44:36

wife. I've had that thought.

44:39

Um

44:42

and then turn it to the opposite. Tana

44:44

does listen to me.

44:46

And then just ask yourself whether or

44:48

not that's true.

44:50

And by directing my thoughts, by

44:52

managing, so rather than being a victim,

44:56

so many of my patients are victims of

44:58

their thoughts until they do the work,

45:01

right? This is one of the things where

45:02

do what the F I say.

45:04

Write down 100 of your worst thoughts.

45:07

Take them through that process.

45:10

And by the time you get to 30, they'll

45:12

stop bothering you.

45:15

So, if I'm a repetitive negative thinker

45:17

or a repetitive positive thinker, does

45:20

that alone change the shape of my brain?

45:23

Yes.

45:24

And in

45:26

my new book, Change Your Brain Every

45:27

Day, there's actually pictures of Noelle

45:30

Nelson. She was writing a book called

45:32

The Power of Appreciation.

45:35

And I had her

45:38

she wanted me to scan her while she was

45:41

appreciating her brain, and it looked

45:43

beautiful.

45:45

And I'm like, as I'm showing it to her,

45:47

I'm like, "You need to come back

45:48

tomorrow, and I want you to hate

45:50

yourself."

45:51

And she goes, "Oh, I don't want to do

45:52

that." I'm like, "Come on, you have to

45:54

suffer for science." I said, "We want to

45:56

We have positive scan, and then we have

45:58

negative scan."

46:00

And the negativity

46:02

dropped

46:04

her left temporal lobe, her left frontal

46:07

lobe, and her cerebellum.

46:09

So interesting. I mean, similar to what

46:11

your scan looks like, but hers was way

46:14

worse. I mean, this is healthy brain and

46:17

then a deactivated brain. And that

46:20

explained to me

46:22

athletic slumps.

46:24

It's like, why do people get in athletic

46:25

slumps? Cuz negativity turns off their

46:28

cerebellum. And they become just a

46:31

little less coordinated.

46:34

Interesting.

46:36

And I'm not a fan of positive thinking.

46:40

I'm a fan of accurate

46:43

thinking with a positive spin. So,

46:46

positive thinking is I can have this

46:49

third piece of cheesecake and it's not

46:52

going to negatively impact my body or my

46:55

brain.

46:56

Like, no.

46:57

The don't worry, be happy people die the

47:01

earliest

47:03

of accidents and preventable illnesses.

47:06

So,

47:07

a lot of people come to me for anxiety.

47:09

And I'm like, so, on a scale of 0 to

47:11

100, how much is it?

47:13

And they're like, 50.

47:15

I said, okay, our goal is not zero.

47:18

Our goal is 15.

47:20

I want you to have enough anxiety you do

47:23

the right things.

47:26

Somewhat linked to that is a word you

47:27

used as well, which is stress.

47:30

When we're talking about the M in bright

47:31

minds, how to have healthy brains,

47:34

what role does stress play on our

47:37

brains?

47:38

Stress,

47:39

um, especially chronic unremitting

47:43

stress. So, if we think of the stress

47:45

you had growing up,

47:46

um, where there was a lot of fighting,

47:49

it raises a hormone called cortisol.

47:53

Cortisol begins to shrink

47:57

activity in the hippocampus, one of the

47:59

major memory and learning centers in the

48:02

brain. So, one

48:05

could at least argue or postulate your

48:08

struggle in school

48:10

was because your emotional brain was

48:12

busy cuz you were worried about things

48:14

at home.

48:15

Um it makes it more likely you get

48:17

infections. It makes it

48:22

more likely um

48:25

that you have learning problems.

48:27

And trauma. Trauma was the other word

48:29

you used which I I thought it was worth

48:30

diving into. Um the impact that trauma

48:32

has on our brains.

48:34

Um and does trauma show up when you scan

48:36

someone's brain? Can you see it?

48:38

Yeah, so trauma shows up as that diamond

48:40

pattern, uh which is why I asked asked

48:42

you about it. It's your emotional brain

48:45

anterior cingulate at the top. It's the

48:47

brain's gearshift, thalamus often

48:50

involved in mood, basal ganglia,

48:52

amygdala involved in anxiety. So, we

48:55

often see worry, anxiety, and sadness.

48:59

And it shows up as that diamond pattern.

49:02

But after people do EMDR, a specific

49:06

psychological treatment for trauma,

49:07

calms it down. And I say psychological

49:10

treatment, I'm like, "Yeah, but it has

49:11

biological effects." Uh

49:14

it's a very

49:16

interesting treatment. So, I get you to

49:20

like first thing,

49:21

write down 10 big traumas

49:23

in your life. And we'll go after the

49:25

worst one first.

49:28

Um and have you bring it up. And there's

49:30

a whole process to it. But have your

49:32

eyes go back and forth while you bring

49:35

it up. And it's so interesting the

49:38

connections your brain will make to it.

49:41

But as you process it, you find you're

49:44

actually less bothered

49:47

by it. And it's masterful for single

49:50

incident traumas like being robbed or

49:53

being in a car accident. For chronic

49:55

trauma, it takes longer.

49:58

Um

49:59

but it's so helpful. Um when I met my

50:02

wife

50:03

18 years ago, um

50:07

her ACE score, adverse childhood

50:09

experiences, on a scale of 0 to 10, how

50:11

many bad things happened to you, was an

50:13

eight.

50:14

And

50:16

I was so taken with this woman. And one

50:20

of my first gifts to her was 10 sessions

50:22

of EMDR. One, I wanted to see if she

50:25

would like wrestle with her traumas. But

50:29

she went for 2 years. And I'm absolutely

50:31

convinced that's one of the reasons she

50:33

and I rarely fuss

50:36

with each other.

50:38

Because we don't trigger each other.

50:41

And when you talk about trauma, it's not

50:44

these big T traumas that some people

50:46

sometimes talk of, which is

50:48

you know, when I was young, I was

50:49

fondled by my uncle, for example. It can

50:51

also be an isolated incident that

50:54

happened when you were an adult.

50:56

Absolutely.

50:57

It can be anything that attacks

51:01

your sense of safety, either physical

51:05

or emotional.

51:08

Getting fired is traumatic for a lot of

51:11

people. Um not performing in a high

51:15

in an important situation can be

51:17

traumatic.

51:18

And that changes the activity within

51:19

your brain.

51:21

On Well, it depends on how strong it is.

51:24

If it was really strong. If it was

51:25

really strong. Then the activity centers

51:28

of your brain would

51:28

Well, and there's one thing we haven't

51:30

talked about yet called brain reserve,

51:32

which is how healthy was the brain that

51:36

you brought into trauma.

51:38

Because you can take

51:40

two soldiers,

51:42

put them in the same tank, and expose

51:45

them to the same blast, the same angles,

51:48

everything is the same. One walks away

51:51

unharmed. The other one's permanently

51:55

disabled. Why?

51:58

It's the brain they brought into

52:01

the trauma.

52:03

And so,

52:05

if your mother used drugs while she was

52:07

pregnant with you, she decreased your

52:09

reserve. If your mom and dad fought a

52:12

lot or they separated when she was

52:14

pregnant with you, that decreased your

52:16

reserve. If she gave you bad food, if

52:20

she neglected you, if there was chronic

52:22

stress, that's decreasing

52:24

your reserve. So, all of us have a

52:27

certain level of reserve when we go into

52:30

that trauma. And some people get

52:33

post-traumatic growth that they're

52:36

actually better after the trauma. You

52:38

know, they

52:39

make the trauma and makes something

52:42

meaningful out of it. And other people

52:44

have post-traumatic stress where it

52:47

really

52:49

um causes them to suffer.

52:52

I love the idea of brain reserve cuz I'm

52:54

like always thinking of boosting mine.

52:57

Yeah, because then also when something

52:58

traumatic happens, I'm in a better

52:59

place, right? Right. Like if you kill

53:01

the ants, like if your ant population is

53:04

low, my automatic negative thoughts.

53:07

Right. Yeah. So, if you're masterful, if

53:10

you have an anteater running around in

53:12

your head cleaning up the negative

53:14

thoughts that all of us have,

53:16

when you go into that trauma,

53:18

well, you're just better able to deal

53:20

with it than

53:23

if you have an undisciplined

53:26

mind that's infested.

53:29

And there's nowhere in school

53:32

that people teach you to kill the ants.

53:34

We have a foundation called the Change

53:36

Your Brain Foundation.

53:38

And I love it so much.

53:40

Uh we're dedicated to research,

53:42

education, service.

53:45

But last year we produced this new

53:48

course called Brain Thrive by Five. So

53:51

it's for preschoolers, kindergarten,

53:53

grade one,

53:55

where we teach kids to love and care for

53:57

their brain. It's like 30 modules,

53:59

they're 6 to 7 minutes long, and six of

54:03

them are on learning to kill the ants.

54:06

Uh, little kids just love that. You

54:08

don't have to believe every stupid thing

54:10

you think. And I don't know if you know,

54:13

but Jerry Seinfeld once said, "The brain

54:15

is a sneaky organ." We all have weird,

54:19

crazy, stupid, sexual, violent thoughts

54:23

that nobody should ever hear. And just

54:26

because you have bad thought doesn't

54:27

even mean you believe the thought,

54:30

right? It's not the thoughts you have

54:31

that make you suffer, it's the thoughts

54:33

you attach to

54:36

that make you suffer. I get all sorts of

54:38

crazy thoughts and I'm like,

54:41

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54:44

believe most of them.

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56:48

Tell me about the most unhealthy brain

56:50

you've ever seen.

56:53

For a 15-year-old was Kip Kinkel.

56:56

He's a 15-year-old boy in Springfield,

56:59

Oregon who brought weapons to school,

57:03

got arrested, his parents picked him up

57:06

from jail,

57:08

and sometime between 6:00 that night and

57:11

8:00 the next morning, he murdered his

57:13

mom and dad.

57:15

And then he went to Springfield Thurston

57:18

High School in Springfield, Oregon and

57:20

shot 25 people.

57:23

Based on my work, they scanned him for

57:26

his trial.

57:27

His brain was so awful. Like, I'd never

57:30

seen a 15-year-old

57:32

that had a brain so damaged.

57:36

And his life reflected it.

57:39

What did you see in his brain? It was

57:41

shriveled.

57:43

At 15? At 15.

57:45

And it's like, okay, why? Well, he

57:47

murdered his mom and dad, so I couldn't

57:48

get a good history. But he either had

57:51

anoxia

57:53

at birth, lack of oxygen, a severe

57:56

infection, or something was poisoning

57:59

his brain. It could have been lead. It

58:02

um

58:04

could have been an infection. I mean

58:06

we're talking about M, the I is immunity

58:09

and infections. It's a major cause of

58:12

psychiatric problems. Nobody knows about

58:15

it.

58:16

Have you scanned the brains of lots of

58:18

psychopaths? I have.

58:20

And what do you see when you look at a

58:21

psychopath's

58:22

So I published a study on murderers, and

58:25

young murderers have really low frontal

58:28

lobe function. Older murderers, it's

58:31

global low activity. Now, not all

58:35

murderers are the same. I have one

58:38

murderer's brain Her brain actually

58:39

looked pretty good. But she was in the

58:41

middle of being abused by her husband,

58:43

and she

58:44

murdered him. And

58:46

it wasn't that irrational, you know,

58:49

when you really know her story.

58:51

Um but most brains are

58:54

troubled.

58:56

Do you think you could look at a brain

58:57

and predict Now you should ask me,

59:00

should you scan presidential candidates?

59:02

Interesting.

59:04

Especially now. Uh

59:07

What do you think Donald Trump's brain

59:08

looks like?

59:10

Well, I think if we scanned

59:12

President Biden or former President

59:15

Trump, neither one of them would be

59:16

healthy.

59:17

I mean, one, we talked about the older

59:20

you got,

59:21

the less healthy they are, and

59:25

um

59:28

if someone is going to have nuclear

59:30

codes,

59:32

shouldn't we know what their brain looks

59:35

like?

59:36

And I wrote an op-ed piece in 2008 when

59:40

Barack Obama was running against John

59:42

McCain arguing for don't you think we

59:45

should scan presidential candidates?

59:48

And

59:49

yeah, I don't think either one of their

59:51

brains would be healthy and that

59:54

concerns me.

59:55

Because I mean, what do we need for our

59:59

top politicians?

60:01

Judgment,

60:03

forethought,

60:04

impulse control. Okay, so playing

60:06

devil's advocate to that. If we started

60:08

to do that at the very highest office in

60:11

the land, then that philosophy might

60:14

creep down to lower offices in the land

60:17

and when you go and try and get a job at

60:19

I don't know, a restaurant or a

60:20

marketing agency, it might become the

60:23

norm that there's a almost brain

60:25

discrimination or brain prejudice in

60:27

play where someone like me, they have

60:29

their brain scanned, they go, "Listen,

60:30

this guy's

60:31

he's not going to be very good at I

60:32

don't know, focusing on things like

60:33

that."

60:33

interesting question.

60:35

I have to tell you if you date one of my

60:37

children

60:39

for more than 4 months,

60:41

I'm going to get you scanned. Really?

60:43

I'm going to figure out how to do that.

60:46

It's the rule in my family.

60:48

Um and if you have a bad brain, it

60:50

doesn't mean you can't come back.

60:53

But are you smart enough to fix it?

60:56

That would be the question. Have you

60:58

done that?

61:00

Well, my son-in-law,

61:02

Jesse, who I love, his mother has

61:05

paranoid schizophrenia.

61:06

And I'm like,

61:08

"I want to scan your brain." And I have.

61:12

He actually wrote a book called Change

61:14

Your Brain Before 25 and

61:18

he opens the book with the story of his

61:22

scan and him sitting with me. He's 6'4,

61:26

I'm 5'6, and he said he'd never felt so

61:30

small.

61:31

And

61:33

Yeah, no, that's the rule in my family.

61:37

I like I said when I met my wife, I

61:39

really liked her. And the first naked

61:42

part of her I wanted to see was her

61:44

brain.

61:45

And so 3 weeks into our relationship,

61:48

I'm like, "Hey, you haven't seen the

61:49

clinic. Don't you want to see the

61:51

clinic?" She came, I scanned her, and

61:55

it passed.

61:58

Do you use her brain

62:00

against her?

62:02

I bet you do.

62:03

I bet you do. No.

62:06

We spoke to Tana, she said you do.

62:10

You're telling me there's not been one

62:11

time where you've brought up her brain

62:13

in a moment of conflict or arguments.

62:16

Not once, cuz I will call Tana.

62:18

I I don't. Yeah. No, okay.

62:20

Because you know what I do? And this is

62:23

this is on par with killing the ants.

62:25

I do an exercise with my patients called

62:28

the one-page miracle.

62:29

On one piece of paper, write down what

62:32

you want.

62:33

Relate and in a very specific way.

62:36

What do you want in your relationships?

62:38

Your work, your money, your physical,

62:42

emotional, and spiritual health. What do

62:45

you want?

62:47

And with her, cuz she's on the top of my

62:51

list, I want a kind, caring, loving,

62:54

supportive, passionate relationship. I

62:58

always want that.

63:00

I don't always feel like that. Rude

63:02

thoughts come into my head.

63:05

And if I've slept and I've eaten,

63:07

I never say them.

63:09

Why? Cuz it doesn't get me what I want.

63:12

Mhm. Right? And that's not selfish.

63:14

People go, "Oh, but you know,

63:17

what you want What what I want is not

63:19

selfish.

63:20

It's good.

63:22

Cuz hedonism is the enemy of happiness.

63:26

But happiness is a moral obligation

63:29

because of how you impact other people.

63:31

Your brain's so smart, but you have to

63:34

tell it what you

63:36

want. And every major business,

63:38

including mine, we have a one-page

63:40

strategic plan. We know what we want,

63:43

and we know what we're going to do this

63:46

quarter and this year.

63:49

But people don't do that in their lives.

63:51

And you think they should have like a

63:53

life plan? Every

63:55

person should. What do you want?

63:57

Is your behavior getting you

64:00

what you want? Do you think the brain

64:02

almost conspires to make

64:04

to fit what you want? I either brain,

64:07

once you're clear on what you want, I

64:08

guess your actions will change a little

64:10

bit, and then your brain will change

64:11

shape to fit what you've said you

64:13

wanted. Yes. And the brain is lazy.

64:18

The brain

64:20

does what you allow it to do.

64:23

And it's habitual. I was talking to one

64:26

of my patients about this yesterday.

64:28

Um

64:30

cuz we were working on his one-page

64:31

miracle.

64:33

And he's like, "You know, I could be

64:34

more positive."

64:38

And I go, "It's a habit

64:40

to be negative or to be positive. Which

64:42

highways are you building in your brain?

64:46

Positive highways or negative highways?

64:49

Accurate highways or distorted highways?

64:52

You build that."

64:54

And if you watch the news, they'll

64:55

become more distorted.

64:58

Cuz it's Yeah. In my book, The End of

65:00

Mental Illness, I I did something It was

65:02

very fun for me to do. I imagined if I

65:05

was an evil ruler

65:06

and I wanted to create mental illness,

65:09

what would I do?

65:11

And watching the news, I think it was

65:13

there's 62 evil ruler strategies and I

65:16

think that's like 12. Um, because

65:21

the news is no longer the news.

65:24

The news is about eyeballs and selling

65:27

things.

65:28

And

65:30

negativity sells. If I can scare you,

65:32

that will sell.

65:34

And so, um

65:37

you have to be very careful with what

65:39

you allow in your brain. And yes, you

65:42

should be informed.

65:43

But not over and over and over and over

65:45

again. People who start the day with the

65:47

news

65:49

are 27%

65:50

less happy in the afternoon.

65:54

Well, I listen to lots of true crime and

65:56

serial killer things.

65:58

Like every day.

66:00

Are you telling me

66:01

funny. I have this show on Instagram

66:04

called Scan My Brain. I take influential

66:07

people and scan them and I did Meghan

66:10

Trainor, uh, the

66:12

uh, musician. I love her music. And she

66:16

goes, "I can't sleep." And every night

66:18

before bed, she's listening to true

66:20

crime. And I'm like, "Stop that." Do you

66:23

think it matters? Cuz I listen to true

66:25

crime before bed.

66:26

I have this exercise that I recommend

66:29

all my patients. I've done it for

66:33

10 years.

66:34

What went well when I go to bed.

66:37

I start at the beginning of the day

66:39

and

66:42

just go hour by hour looking for what

66:44

went right about my day. I think that's

66:47

set your dreams up to be more positive.

66:50

I think it's

66:51

I do both and then I just see which one

66:54

works better for you. Every day win or

66:58

learn.

66:59

What is the I in Bright Minds? Immunity

67:02

and infections. So, do you know your

67:05

vitamin D level? No, but I do take the

67:08

only supplement that I

67:10

take frequently, I'd say there's two, is

67:12

vitamin D and omega-3.

67:16

But I've because I'm black as well, I

67:18

was You need more vitamin D. Yeah.

67:20

So,

67:21

uh people have darker skin need and

67:26

going from Africa, where there's a lot

67:28

of sun, to the UK, where there's no sun,

67:32

dramatically increase the risk of mental

67:35

health problems. Yeah.

67:36

Because of vitamin D deficiencies. Do

67:39

you know what? I think there's a certain

67:40

member of my family, who I won't name,

67:42

who went from Africa, they're

67:45

they've got two Nigerian parents, went

67:47

from Africa to the UK,

67:49

and I saw their mental health

67:51

deteriorate quite significantly to the

67:52

point that we believe this person might

67:54

have bipolar now.

67:56

And I I I

67:57

part of me suspects, once I learned

67:59

about vitamin D deficiency in people

68:02

that have darker skin,

68:03

this person has very, very, very, very

68:05

black skin, um that it might be

68:07

associated with that change.

68:09

Being in a new country that has no

68:10

sunlight for 30 years when you're,

68:13

you know, black black. You bet. Yeah.

68:15

And it's part of So, if you see

68:20

mental health is brain health, then that

68:23

becomes a critical intervention. If

68:25

you're not paying attention to brain

68:27

health, then you're like, well, what

68:30

antipsychotic or what mood stabilizer

68:33

can

68:34

I give them. And I'm fair well, may use

68:36

an antipsychotic or a mood stabilizer,

68:39

but if I get your brain healthy,

68:41

you might not need it, or you'll need

68:44

half the dose.

68:46

So, and and then infections, I mean,

68:49

we're just coming out of a pandemic,

68:51

and COVID changes your brain in a bad

68:54

way. It causes, um

68:57

like a a

68:59

inflammatory bomb to go off in your

69:02

brain.

69:03

I was on the Kardashian show last year

69:05

because I scanned Kendall. Kendall came

69:07

to see me.

69:09

And obviously I was on the show, so it

69:11

was public knowledge. And it was

69:13

post-COVID, and her emotional brain just

69:17

was on fire.

69:19

Uh, and that's what we saw with COVID.

69:22

And long COVID, emotional brain is hot,

69:26

but then the cortex begins to

69:29

um

69:31

get low in activity. It's it's a bad

69:33

combination. Well, I mean, what does

69:34

that mean? It's like chronic damage. And

69:37

what does that mean if the in terms of

69:39

behavior?

69:41

What's the implications for behavior?

69:42

So, the hot

69:44

limbic brain tense anxiety

69:48

that she hadn't had. Um, if you start

69:51

damaging your cortex, then all of a

69:53

sudden you're sad, you're impulsive,

69:56

you're irritable, you

69:58

uh,

69:58

can get dark thoughts, sometimes even

70:01

suicidal thoughts.

70:03

And people got COVID, significantly

70:05

increased in dementia.

70:11

Someone who's listening to this right

70:12

now that is depressed,

70:15

clinically depressed, um

70:17

or just feels, you know, depressive

70:19

symptoms, where do you start? Let's go

70:21

to the extreme end. Someone that can't

70:23

get themselves out of bed. I sat here

70:24

with Jada Pinkett, and she told me that

70:27

she was clinically depressed, and she if

70:31

she just got to 4:00 p.m. every day, to

70:33

her that was a victory. There are lots

70:35

of people out there that are in that

70:36

situation right now.

70:39

Where do you start with those people?

70:40

What advice do you give them? Cuz I'm

70:42

sure you see a lot of them in your

70:43

practice.

70:45

It starts

70:47

with awareness. Yeah. That maybe this is

70:49

not me, maybe it's my brain. Mhm. And

70:52

then it starts with loving your brain,

70:54

and then investigating Mhm. your brain.

70:57

Cuz depression is like chest pain. So,

71:00

if you

71:01

if somebody's like had chest pain,

71:04

you're like, "Well, where would you

71:05

start?" Well, you start with an

71:07

evaluation. You wouldn't start with

71:09

drugs.

71:11

I mean, that would be like ludicrous.

71:13

You would like go, "Well, why do you

71:14

have chest pain? Why are you depressed?

71:17

You know, how's your thyroid? Right? The

71:19

person that can't get off the couch,

71:22

they

71:23

they could be hypothyroid.

71:26

Or one of my friends got depressed,

71:29

she had anemia. She had pernicious

71:31

anemia because it was a B12 deficiency.

71:34

I I wouldn't assume, "Oh, you're

71:36

depressed, take this medicine."

71:40

Depression is what it is, it's not why

71:42

it is.

71:44

And if you don't know why it is, how do

71:46

you effectively treat something? Like so

71:48

many people come to me and they go, "I

71:49

have an autoimmune disorder."

71:51

It's like, "Well, why do you have an

71:52

autoimmune disorder? Why is your body so

71:54

mad at you it's attacking itself?"

71:57

And so, Because my body's broken.

72:00

But why is your body broken?

72:03

Right? And I and I I hate the term

72:04

broken, right? The the series like the

72:07

broken brain. And it's like,

72:09

no.

72:11

It's not optimized. Let's optimize it. I

72:14

I never want my patients to think of

72:16

them as mental.

72:18

And I never want them to think of

72:19

themselves as broken. You're awesome.

72:23

So, how can I help you be maybe 10%

72:26

more awesome? People feel like their

72:28

brain is against them.

72:31

Is working against them when they're

72:32

feeling depression or those chronic

72:34

cycles of negative thinking. Why is my

72:36

brain attacking me? Why is it against

72:38

me?

72:39

So, part of it is it's not healthy and

72:41

part of it's undisciplined.

72:44

And I got to do a lecture last year for

72:48

the coaching staff of the Miami Heat.

72:50

It was so much fun for me. And I'm

72:53

really thinking a lot about elite

72:57

performance.

72:59

And I think it's just such a better

73:01

model. It's like let me help you be your

73:04

best rather than let me fix you.

73:08

And and I think someone like you, I

73:11

mean, it's like you're already awesome.

73:13

How can I make you more awesome? How can

73:15

I give you more access

73:19

to your

73:21

brain.

73:22

And it's just it's easier to sell that

73:25

than

73:27

you know, let me give you a diagnosis of

73:29

a mental illness and

73:33

then let me give you a medicine you have

73:34

to take for the rest of your life. This

73:36

is the wrong model that psychiatry is

73:40

currently operating with. Really good

73:42

for the pharmaceutical industry. Really

73:45

bad for our society. 25% of the American

73:49

population is on psychiatric drugs.

73:52

That's just horrifying.

73:54

Is Ritalin a psychiatric drug? It is.

73:57

And I'm not opposed to psychiatric

73:59

drugs. Let's be really clear. I'm

74:01

actually really good with them.

74:03

It's never the first and only thing

74:06

I think about.

74:08

What is the N in Bright Minds?

74:10

Neurohormone.

74:14

If your hormones that affect your brain,

74:17

which are all of them,

74:20

are not optimal, you're not optimal.

74:23

And the D and S?

74:24

Like if you're

74:26

um

74:27

cold when other people are not, we

74:29

should look at your thyroid. The D is

74:31

diabesity,

74:33

where you're overweight and/or have high

74:35

blood sugar. It's the most common of the

74:39

11. 72% of people are overweight. And as

74:43

your weight goes up,

74:46

you have seven of the 11 risk factors.

74:49

It lowers blood flow to the brain and

74:50

prematurely ages the brain, increases

74:52

inflammation, it stores toxins.

74:55

It's a bad thing. And then the S is

74:57

sleep.

74:59

I've got obsessed with my sleep

75:00

recently. I have my Whoop on pretty much

75:02

all the time and they're sponsor of this

75:04

podcast, I probably should say, but I'm

75:05

also like a equity shareholder in the

75:07

company. But it's become one of my

75:08

biggest obsessions in my life is waking

75:10

up in the morning and looking at how I

75:11

slept, how much deep sleep, restorative

75:13

sleep I've had, my heart rate

75:14

variability, all that stuff. I'm

75:16

obsessed with it. What does sleep do to

75:18

my brain? I guess you said earlier that

75:20

it kind of cleans it, cleans it and

75:22

refreshes it.

75:23

Well, we didn't even know that until

75:25

it's just 10 or 12 years ago where

75:27

researchers

75:29

saw that

75:32

the fluid system in your brain, it's

75:34

called the glymphatic system, doesn't

75:37

open up when you're awake, but when

75:40

you're asleep, it opens up and then sort

75:42

of cleans things, washes things. And so

75:46

for those people like me, who I thought

75:48

I was special because I could get by on

75:50

4 hours of sleep at night, I'm sort of

75:52

running around with a toxic brain or

75:54

dirty brain. And so What are these toxic

75:58

toxins? So what is it cleaning? Have you

76:00

heard of beta amyloid, which is

76:04

cluster of proteins that increases your

76:06

risk of Alzheimer's disease? So they

76:09

build up during the day,

76:11

system cleans it. But if you're not

76:13

getting good sleep, you have more of a

76:15

toxic buildup of those kinds of clumping

76:19

proteins

76:21

that are problematic for you.

76:23

Interesting.

76:25

Interesting.

76:26

Is there anything else people need to

76:28

know about sleep in the brain? Because I

76:29

think everybody knows sleep is

76:31

important. A lot of people struggle with

76:33

sleep. Sleep apnea triples the risk of

76:36

Alzheimer's disease. One of the big

76:39

lessons Imaging has taught me that I can

76:42

actually see the pattern for sleep apnea

76:45

on a scan and it looks like early

76:47

Alzheimer's disease.

76:50

Bilateral parietal top back part of your

76:53

brain decreases. What is sleep apnea?

76:56

Snore loudly, stop breathing at night,

76:59

chronically tired the next day. So, when

77:04

you sleep, your breathing um you have

77:07

many apneic episodes where you stop

77:10

breathing.

77:12

And so and if you're sleeping alone, you

77:15

actually might not know it because no

77:18

one's being woken up by your snoring.

77:20

Um

77:23

and even people who've been diagnosed

77:27

with it

77:28

don't treat it because they don't want

77:30

to wear the mask at night. And I'm like,

77:34

no, you have to treat it. Otherwise

77:37

the worst thing you can do for your

77:38

brain is starve it of oxygen. That's the

77:42

worst thing you can do for your brain.

77:44

So, breath work then must be quite good

77:46

for the brain.

77:47

Breath work is good for the brain.

77:50

Um one of my tiny habits, I have many of

77:53

them for brain health is the 15-second

77:56

breath.

77:57

Uh 8 seconds in, hold it for a second

77:59

and a half, 4 seconds out, hold it for a

78:02

second and a half.

78:03

Do that four times eight times, it'll

78:06

break a panic attack.

78:08

Do it on a routine basis, it'll increase

78:11

your heart rate variability.

78:13

Breath work will? Breath work.

78:15

Heart rate variability is this metric

78:17

that I think society, much of society,

78:19

has suddenly become quite obsessed with

78:20

it, including me. Me and my friends

78:22

literally have a heart rate variability

78:23

contest every morning where we like

78:25

screenshot our heart rate variability

78:26

and drop it into the chat and some of my

78:28

friends are trying to increase theirs.

78:29

One of my friends called my friend

78:31

called Ash, I mentioned him earlier on.

78:33

His has been quite low, so he's kind of

78:34

been trying to get it up.

78:36

Um I guess we're going to have to ask

78:38

two questions here, which is what is

78:39

heart variability? And the second

78:40

question is, how do I improve it in your

78:42

view? So again, you can't change what

78:45

you don't measure. And now people who

78:47

wear Apple watches or aura rings or

78:50

devices that measure it,

78:53

heart rate variability is the

78:55

beat-to-beat variability of your heart

78:58

rate. And people go, "Oh, well, my heart

79:00

rate should beat the same." Well, no.

79:04

Actually, the more variable it is, bum

79:07

bum bum bum bum bum bum

79:10

rather than bum bum bum bum bum bum.

79:14

Um, I

79:15

first heard about heart rate variability

79:18

with babies. That when a baby is being

79:20

born, they actually put a scalp monitor

79:23

on it and they look at the heart rate

79:25

variability

79:27

of the baby. And if it's very variable,

79:31

it's bouncing all over the place, well,

79:32

it's a sign of heart health. When it

79:35

flattens and becomes even, like it's

79:38

just 70,

79:41

they go get the baby because that means

79:43

the baby is in trouble. Doesn't make any

79:45

sense, does it? It's like

79:46

counterintuitive.

79:47

It's a little bit counterintuitive,

79:50

but if your heart rate variability is

79:53

low,

79:54

you have a higher risk of anxiety,

79:57

depression, and heart disease.

80:00

Dying early. I mean, there's this huge

80:02

connection between your brain health and

80:05

your heart health.

80:07

And so, meditation increases heart rate

80:11

variability, breathwork increases heart

80:15

rate variability, exercise can increase

80:18

heart rate variability, good sleep and

80:20

good sleep hygiene can increase it. Ants

80:25

decrease heart rate variability.

80:29

I stopped drinking alcohol for this very

80:31

reason. People don't know this, but I I

80:32

mean I've probably mentioned it twice

80:33

now on on air, but I quit drinking

80:36

alcohol about a month and a half ago, I

80:38

think.

80:39

And part of the reason is when I wore my

80:41

Whoop, and then I had, I don't know, one

80:44

glass of wine or two glasses or three

80:45

glasses of wine the the day before, when

80:47

I woke up the next day, my heart rate

80:49

variability was like flashing red. It

80:51

was 30, 40. Typically, on a great day,

80:54

my heart rate variability is 150, 140,

80:58

which is strong.

80:59

Really? I know this cuz I compete with

81:01

my friends. But on a day where I had a

81:03

glass of alcohol, it'd be flashing red,

81:05

and it'd be 40. Also, if I was sick, it

81:08

would be 40. Also, if I had a really

81:11

stressful, unslept day the day before,

81:13

it would also be 40. And the fact that

81:15

alcohol was causing my heart to respond

81:17

the same as a awfully stressful, unslept

81:20

day, or COVID, I thought,

81:24

[ __ ] [ __ ] that.

81:26

And I've So, that's part of the reason I

81:27

quit drinking alcohol.

81:29

And now that

81:30

you have brain envy?

81:32

Yeah. You're going to have a healthier

81:33

brain if you keep it away cuz alcohol

81:37

lies to us. Alcohol lies to us? Alcohol

81:41

causes damage in the brain. Really? Even

81:44

a little bit of alcohol causes damage in

81:47

the brain. It disrupts something called

81:49

white matter.

81:50

So, gray matter nerve cell bodies, white

81:53

matter nerve cell tracks. So, white

81:55

matter's the highways in your brain that

81:58

transmit information and impulses. And

82:01

even a little bit of alcohol

82:04

has been shown to disrupt the white

82:06

matter in your brain.

82:08

I don't want anything messing with the

82:09

highways in my brain.

82:11

But I love that you measured it, you

82:15

made the connection, and then you

82:16

stopped it. It's a sign of intelligent

82:19

life because you love yourself. Mhm.

82:23

Alcohol

82:25

because there's a lot of people that are

82:26

sat on the fence right now with alcohol.

82:27

They probably don't have a really bad

82:30

relationship with it. They're probably

82:31

not alcoholics, but they kind of just

82:34

they have it because society is

82:35

constructed in such a way that on a

82:36

Friday evening when the waiter comes

82:37

over and puts down the wine list, you

82:39

just go oh I'm going to go whatever.

82:40

That's who I was. I was just on the

82:42

fence. My friend, one of my best

82:44

friends, was an alcoholic. So I

82:46

understand why he quit because he had

82:48

this really dysfunctional relationship

82:49

with it that would ruin his life. I'm

82:52

the type of person that would have one

82:54

drink, two drinks, and then I'd maybe

82:55

stop. I didn't feel the need to have

82:57

three, four, seven, 19. He was

82:59

different. And also because of that

83:01

there was no adverse consequences in my

83:03

life. So when I went away with him

83:05

recently, he's writing a book on um

83:07

alcohol and alcoholism.

83:10

He was telling me about the book and I

83:11

was going I personally wouldn't read

83:13

that book because I don't feel like I

83:15

have a problem with alcohol. This was

83:17

before I quit. So I was like what I

83:19

would love from a book, this is just me

83:21

personally, is a book that made the case

83:23

to people who are kind of sat on the

83:25

fence that drink or a beer or a glass of

83:27

wine just cuz I don't know society is

83:30

constructed in such a way where it's

83:31

hard to avoid. Um but they could go for

83:34

a mocktail if someone gave them some

83:36

performance-based evidence that alcohol,

83:40

just even a little bit, that the casual

83:42

drinking actually matters.

83:45

So this is where you come in.

83:47

Doctor.

83:48

One of my biggest

83:51

uh Instagram posts was I told you so.

83:55

Um the American Cancer Society came out

83:58

and said any alcohol increases your risk

84:01

of seven different types of cancer.

84:04

And I've been talking about this for 30

84:06

years cuz I have scans and people who

84:09

drank any alcohol have lower activity

84:13

than people who don't drink at all.

84:16

And obviously alcoholics, they have

84:18

terrible looking brains.

84:20

Um

84:21

don't do that.

84:23

But, you got to ask yourself why.

84:27

And remember we talked about the

84:28

one-page miracle. What do you want?

84:30

Relationships, work, money, physical,

84:33

emotional, spiritual health. So, where

84:35

does alcohol

84:37

come in

84:38

to that? Oh, well, it helps me relax.

84:41

Well, the 15-second breath will help you

84:43

relax, but there are no side effects to

84:45

it. That will increase your heart rate

84:47

variability. Alcohol will decrease heart

84:50

rate variability and

84:52

brain function. And if it decreases

84:54

brain function, it decreases

84:56

decision-making.

84:57

As a psychiatrist,

85:00

30%, 40% of the people I see, they

85:03

initially come to my office because it's

85:06

somehow alcohol-related.

85:08

Fight with their spouse, problems with

85:10

their kids, whatever.

85:12

I'm so impressed you noticed the

85:14

difference with heart rate variability

85:16

and then you stopped. Mhm. Yeah, cuz I

85:19

I'm I'm a I'm a fences with alcohol. And

85:21

it's crazy. I And I now understand how

85:23

difficult it is to stop in our society.

85:24

I was telling my team I quit and I went

85:27

for dinner with a guy called Skrillex.

85:28

Like everyone knows Skrillex, he's a DJ,

85:29

Sonny. And this was a week after I'd

85:32

quit. Sat in the restaurant, the waiter

85:34

comes over,

85:36

bless him, and he goes, "Here's the wine

85:37

list." I go, "I I don't drink alcohol."

85:39

He goes He goes and gets a bottle of

85:41

wine

85:42

and he puts it next to me and goes,

85:43

"This is not alcohol, this is art. I'm

85:46

going to leave it next to you just in

85:47

case you get tempted." And Sonny's

85:49

Sonny, to his credit, is telling this

85:51

waiter that he doesn't drink. This

85:52

waiter is having none of it. And in that

85:54

moment,

85:56

I understood

85:57

how difficult it is to quit in the

85:59

society that we've built, where every

86:02

social interaction apparently needs to

86:04

be fueled by alcohol. And if you say no,

86:07

you're either weird or someone will try

86:09

and change your mind

86:11

or persuade you otherwise. It's just

86:12

this culture we have. It's the evil

86:13

ruler society. I think that's an evil

86:15

ruler strategy. The food pushers, the

86:18

drug pushers, the alcohol pushers. Um

86:22

For me, I just I look at people like

86:24

that and it's like, "So, why do you want

86:26

me to drink when I don't want to?"

86:28

What's it a What's going on with you?

86:31

Yeah. And I usually shut them down. Um

86:35

But,

86:36

why? An interesting question. When you

86:39

go to a restaurant, the first thing they

86:41

do is put bread on the table

86:45

and ask if you want alcohol because both

86:48

of them drop your frontal lobes.

86:51

Both of them make it more likely you're

86:54

going to order more

86:56

and spend more money at the restaurant.

86:59

So, the bread is an investment on their

87:02

part because bread gives you a sugar

87:05

spike, a blood sugar spike, which then

87:08

pushes serotonin in your brain

87:11

and makes you happy.

87:13

But, serotonin drops frontal lobe

87:15

function.

87:16

One thing they never tell you when they

87:18

give you an SSRI for depression is, "Oh,

87:21

you're going to become a little bit more

87:22

impulsive because it's going to drop

87:24

your frontal lobes."

87:26

And then alcohol, which also drops your

87:29

frontal lobes. So, you'll drop more cash

87:32

in the restaurant.

87:34

Question then, on this point of alcohol,

87:37

if I took two people

87:39

off the street, let's say they do

87:40

everything in their lives the same other

87:42

than what I'm about to say. I gave one

87:44

of them

87:46

a casual drink for the next decade. Just

87:49

maybe two drinks a week, three drinks a

87:51

week for the next decade. And the other

87:53

person was completely sober for the next

87:55

decade. When you looked at their brain

87:57

in 10 years time, if they were doing

87:59

everything the same, would you see a

88:00

difference?

88:01

Yes.

88:02

The person who is drinking two or three

88:04

times a week will have less blood flow

88:06

in their brain.

88:07

And will that have changed the shape of

88:09

their brain?

88:10

Yes, it'll be a little bit more

88:12

shriveled.

88:13

And then that means their behavior's

88:14

going to change as well.

88:16

They'll have a little bit less impulse

88:18

control. And when you look at the brain

88:20

of an A little bit less impulse control

88:22

when you're doing hard things like

88:24

marriage.

88:26

Not a good thing. Or raising children,

88:29

or managing a business. It's like

88:33

you don't want a little bit worse

88:36

decisions.

88:37

Sex.

88:38

Sex and libido. A lot of people are

88:40

struggling with their sex lives, getting

88:42

an erection, getting aroused, men and

88:44

women.

88:45

The brain and sex.

88:48

I imagine you have people come to you

88:50

and go, "Listen, me and my wife, me and

88:52

my partner, me and my husband, we've

88:53

stopped having sex. I've lost my

88:55

libido." When you hear that

88:58

and you offer people advice on libido

88:59

and sex, what is what You fix your

89:01

brain, right? Your sex life gets better.

89:04

In large part, it's about blood flow.

89:06

And if you're having erectile

89:10

dysfunction or low libido, um you got to

89:14

go, "Well, why?" Is what are the risk

89:17

factors with that? And many of them

89:20

relate to what's going on in your brain.

89:23

And I I

89:25

So often people go, "I did everything

89:27

you said and my wife's so much happier

89:29

with our sex life." Um

89:35

You have to check your hormones. I think

89:37

that's very important. You have to deal

89:40

with whatever sexual trauma might be

89:42

there.

89:43

Um the biggest sex organ in the body is

89:47

your brain.

89:48

If there's no forethought, there's no

89:51

foreplay.

89:52

And so

89:54

it's about the decisions that you make.

89:57

What else do we need to know about sex?

89:59

If I'm trying to get my partner in the

90:00

mood and I'm trying to make them

90:02

aroused.

90:02

It depends on their brain. Okay, right.

90:05

So, if your partner has a very busy

90:10

frontal lobe, that part called the

90:12

anterior cingulate gyrus,

90:15

you can't go,

90:17

"Come on, let's have sex." Because

90:19

you've met people with the automatic no,

90:23

that no matter what you say, they're

90:24

going to say the opposite of it, or

90:26

they're going to

90:27

fuss with it. I mean, it's like, "It's a

90:28

nice day today." "Oh, no, it was nicer

90:30

yesterday." I mean, even simple things.

90:32

"So, you going to want to have sex?"

90:33

"No."

90:34

Um

90:36

I was at this lecture once, and

90:39

somebody came up to me at a break and

90:41

said, "You've helped me so much.

90:44

Um I thought my wife just didn't love

90:46

me. And what I realized is that part of

90:48

her brain was just working too hard. So,

90:50

now I ask everything in the opposite."

90:55

It's like, "Oh,

90:57

like if I wanted to go to the store,

90:58

she'd never want to go with me. And I'd

91:00

go, so now what I do is I go,

91:03

'I'm going to go to the store, you

91:04

probably don't want to come.' 'What do

91:06

you mean I don't want to come? Of course

91:07

I want to come.'

91:09

He said, "But it doesn't sound right to

91:11

say, 'Well, you probably don't want to

91:12

have sex.'"

91:14

Oh, I go, "Okay, I know her brain do

91:17

this." And I gave him natural things to

91:20

boost serotonin.

91:22

So, I said,

91:23

"Take her out for a pasta dinner." So,

91:25

I'm not a fan of pasta generally, except

91:27

for these people.

91:29

Take her out for a pasta dinner, because

91:30

pasta increases serotonin. Then take her

91:33

for a walk around the lake, cuz exercise

91:38

increases serotonin. Then give her a

91:41

piece of dark chocolate. Not too many,

91:44

cuz if you get her too many, she'll have

91:46

no need for you. But

91:49

dark chocolate has PEA in it,

91:51

phenylethylamines, that'll alert your

91:53

brain that something fun is about to

91:56

happen.

91:57

And then,

91:59

put on a little baby powder, because

92:01

baby powder, it's been shown

92:04

scientifically is a natural aphrodisiac

92:06

for women cuz what do women

92:08

unconsciously associate to baby powder?

92:12

Babies. And unconsciously they want one.

92:16

And then

92:18

rub her back and don't ask for anything

92:20

directly.

92:22

And from about day 4 to about day 18 of

92:25

her menstrual cycle, you're likely to

92:27

get lucky.

92:28

Why from day 4 to day

92:31

Because she's The last week of a woman's

92:34

menstrual cycle, especially people who

92:36

have this brain type tend to be

92:38

more irritable. Is that before their

92:40

period?

92:42

Yes, it's before the period. Okay, so

92:43

the week before their period is when

92:46

she's going to be

92:46

weeks before their period is generally

92:48

the best time. Do men and women have

92:50

different brains?

92:52

Significantly?

92:52

Wildly so. Wildly different?

92:54

whole thing about you can't put your

92:57

gender on your medical forms is just

93:01

insanely stupid. Uh

93:04

because gender matters. Like estrogen

93:07

and testosterone, they matter when it

93:09

comes to brain function. I published a

93:12

study on 46,000

93:15

scans looking at the differences between

93:18

male and female brains and they're wild.

93:21

Uh women have much better frontal lobes

93:25

function, that much better blood flow to

93:27

the front part of their brain. Which

93:29

makes them Which makes them good leaders

93:33

if you think of impulse control and

93:36

collaboration and communication.

93:40

And the one statistic that just hammers

93:42

this home is who goes to jail.

93:45

Men.

93:46

14 times more than women.

93:50

But women get depressed twice as much as

93:53

men because their limbic or emotional

93:56

brain is much busier than the male

94:00

brain. And that's why in every um human

94:03

society, women are primary caretakers

94:06

for children. Um women have a bigger

94:08

nesting instinct. So I told you we moved

94:11

recently. And moving is much harder on

94:15

women in general than it is in men

94:18

because they feel like they lose their

94:20

nest and they have to redo their nest

94:22

and I was an army psychiatrist for 7

94:25

years and I used to always tell the

94:27

guys, I'm like, when you move, you stay

94:29

home and help her put the house together

94:31

cuz she's going to be way happier

94:33

uh

94:34

for you.

94:35

On that impulse control bit, I remember

94:36

reading the statistics that men

94:39

suffer with gambling addictions and

94:41

betting addictions significantly more

94:43

than women.

94:43

Drug addictions, alcohol, ADD five times

94:47

more than

94:48

women. Um

94:51

But women get help

94:54

because

94:55

they're not afraid to ask for help.

94:57

Where for men, it's often a macho thing.

95:00

It's like there's nothing the matter

95:01

with me, which is why women attempt

95:06

suicide three to four times more than

95:10

males, but males kill themselves three

95:14

to five four times more than women do

95:16

because men use more violent means. And

95:19

men aren't communicating

95:22

I'm in trouble.

95:25

Saunas. Saunas and exercise on the

95:27

brain.

95:30

Good good for the brain?

95:32

So I'm a huge fan of saunas

95:35

uh

95:35

because

95:37

of the studies mostly from

95:40

Northern Europe, people take the most

95:42

saunas have the lowest incidence of

95:44

Alzheimer's disease. And I told you

95:47

about my mercury detoxing is really

95:50

important. And you can detox in a lot of

95:52

different ways, but sauna is one of the

95:54

most effective ways.

95:57

Um

95:57

exercise is you want to stay young, walk

96:01

like you're late.

96:02

If you're 80 and you can walk 3 miles an

96:05

hour, you have a 90% chance of living

96:07

till you're 90. If you can only walk a

96:09

mile an hour, you have a 90% chance

96:11

you're not going to live until you're

96:15

90. So, exercise boosts blood flow, it

96:18

increases

96:20

uh brain-derived neurotrophic factor. It

96:23

increases serotonin, increases dopamine.

96:26

Um

96:27

another interesting thing is should you

96:29

do cold plunges? Because cold plunges

96:32

have been found to fairly dramatically

96:35

increase dopamine.

96:37

So, you should do cold plunges?

96:39

Not if you have heart problems. So, if

96:41

you have heart problems, I wouldn't do

96:43

that. But, if you have inflammation, if

96:45

you have pain, if you tend to be

96:48

depressed, there's evidence cold plunges

96:51

can be helpful.

96:53

What about weight in the brain?

96:56

When you look at someone who is

96:58

clinically obese and you look at their

96:59

brain, what do you see? And if I'm

97:01

trying to lose weight,

97:03

what do I need to know about the brain?

97:07

You know, I've thought a lot about this

97:09

because I have obesity in my family. Um

97:14

as your weight goes up,

97:16

the size and function of your brain goes

97:18

down.

97:20

And that's horrifying.

97:23

People who are in our society is against

97:26

us. I mean, you just I wrote a book

97:28

called The Brain Warrior's Way, and I

97:30

argue you're in a war for the health of

97:33

your brain. Everywhere you go, someone's

97:35

trying to shove bad food down your

97:37

throat that will kill you. I can see the

97:40

emotion in your face when you say this.

97:41

Yeah.

97:42

Uh

97:43

it's just horrifying, you know, to think

97:45

of Carl's Jr. that will take these

97:48

you know, Charlotte McKinney or

97:50

Katherine Webb, these beautiful women

97:52

and have them eat cheeseburgers and it's

97:56

unconsciously people are like, if you

97:59

eat those burgers these women will want

98:01

you. Well, these women have spit buckets

98:03

on those sets where every time they take

98:06

a bite they spit it out because they'd

98:07

never have those bodies if they ate

98:10

that food. We are being manipulated

98:14

and it is causing what I think is one of

98:18

the greatest epidemics ever

98:21

of obesity and if you're overweight

98:25

lower blood flow, aging, inflammation,

98:28

stores toxins, makes you feel awful

98:31

about yourself.

98:34

Takes healthy testosterone. We talked

98:36

about, you know, why the low. Takes

98:38

healthy testosterone and turns it into

98:41

unhealthy cancer-promoting forms of

98:45

estrogen. It's just a disaster what's

98:48

happening.

98:50

I think

98:51

you have to start counting your

98:53

calories.

98:54

And, you know, I run up against all

98:56

sorts of scientists go calories don't

98:58

count. It's complete crap.

99:01

Now, the quality of your calories is

99:04

just as important but don't eat more

99:07

than you need. And we live in a society

99:10

where we're eating way too much and

99:13

people don't know. If you think of the

99:15

Cheesecake Factory and these monster

99:18

portions, it's like, that's insane.

99:22

And it's a big thing that changed.

99:25

But the obesity epidemic really started

99:28

as the US government, among others,

99:32

demonized

99:34

fat.

99:36

Everything became low fat in the '80s.

99:39

Low fat, low cholesterol.

99:42

And

99:44

they put sugar in things to replace it.

99:46

And in fact, it just came out recently,

99:48

it was in the '60s that some of the

99:51

sugar companies paid scientists to say

99:54

it's fat, not sugar. And it damaged

99:58

millions of people.

100:01

Last thing I wanted to ask you about is

100:03

Well, there's really two outstanding

100:05

questions that I have for you, doctor.

100:06

The first one is about screen time.

100:09

People want to know,

100:11

does screen time, this generation that

100:13

have grown up 11 hours a day on a screen

100:15

or social media, up to 11 hours a day,

100:18

according to some studies,

100:20

does that have an impact on our brain?

100:21

It does. It shrinks it. It's sad. I

100:24

mean, what it does is it wears out your

100:26

pleasure centers.

100:28

So, you have these two

100:30

areas in your brain called the nucleus

100:33

accumbens, and they respond to dopamine.

100:38

And they bring you happiness, and they

100:39

bring you pleasure, and they bring you

100:41

motivation, and they bring you drive.

100:44

And

100:46

when you're hitting them

100:49

like every buzz on your phone, every

100:53

notification,

100:54

every time you scroll and you like

100:57

something, you just got a little hit of

100:59

dopamine.

101:00

Well, the more you do it, pretty soon

101:04

you thrill them to death. You begin to

101:07

wear out those pleasure centers. And you

101:10

Let's just take fame, for example. I've

101:12

been blessed to see Justin Bieber and

101:16

Miley Cyrus and a whole bunch of really

101:18

fascinating, cool people

101:20

who've been really depressed. It's like,

101:22

how can you be depressed? You're Justin

101:24

Bieber. Or how can you believe you're

101:26

not enough?

101:28

Right? Cuz their pleasure centers get

101:30

worn out by being noticed over and over

101:33

and over again. Well, when you allow

101:36

that in your brain, the screen time, 3

101:39

and 1/2 hours. If you're on for 3 and

101:41

1/2 hours

101:43

a day, you have an increased risk of

101:45

anxiety, depression, addiction, obesity,

101:49

ADHD.

101:50

And our society is on way more than

101:52

that. And you go, "So, why are we having

101:54

this epidemic

101:56

of uh

101:58

teenage suicide and mental health

102:00

problems, especially in teenage girls?"

102:02

Social media.

102:04

It's one of the big issues of the day.

102:06

And not only are you wearing out your

102:08

pleasure centers, you hate yourself

102:11

because you think everybody's better

102:12

than you are. It's the comparison dragon

102:16

that

102:16

is damaging you.

102:19

My last question is about happiness,

102:21

which we're talking about there.

102:25

I spoke to I think it was Tali Sharot

102:27

that told me happiness takes on this

102:29

kind of interesting arc through our

102:31

lives where

102:34

at the start of our lives we're a little

102:35

bit happier, then in the middle of our

102:36

lives we're a little bit sadder, and

102:38

then as we age, we go back into being

102:41

happy.

102:42

Now, I was contrasting that information

102:44

to what you said about how the brain

102:45

withers with age. If the brain is

102:48

withering with age, then how come a lot

102:50

of neuroscientists think that happiness

102:52

resembles this kind of U-shape in our

102:54

lives, where in the middle of our lives

102:56

we're less happy, and the start and the

102:58

end we're more happy?

103:03

That's a great question.

103:07

We're less striving as we age, right?

103:11

So, after 65, 70, we've sort of

103:16

done

103:17

much of the hard things that we need to

103:19

do.

103:20

And so, depression also goes up with

103:24

age, too.

103:25

And obviously, dementia goes up with

103:28

age. So,

103:30

I think it's because I don't have to

103:33

accomplish things, which makes the

103:35

middle part so

103:37

hard.

103:38

So, we're more satisfied with the nature

103:40

of our lives because we're not trying to

103:42

Well, if if we are, right? If If we're

103:45

not, then that becomes a problem and

103:48

increases the risk of depression.

103:51

It's complicated though, isn't it?

103:52

Because, you know, you get older, you

103:53

probably have less connections as well,

103:55

so that's a confounding factor and Yeah,

103:57

so I wouldn't I mean, I I ended I have

104:00

seen that research and I wrote a book on

104:03

happiness

104:05

because, you know, when I write a book,

104:06

it'll take me 6 to 9 months to write it

104:09

and I'm like, "So, what do I really want

104:10

to think about for this next 6 to 9

104:12

months?"

104:14

And I

104:15

loved it because

104:17

like

104:20

negative thinking is a bad habit,

104:23

is happiness is also a habit.

104:26

And when I go to bed and I go, "What

104:28

went well today?"

104:29

I'm feeding happiness. Or throughout the

104:32

day, if I look for the micro moments of

104:35

happiness, you know, "What's the

104:36

smallest thing that's going to happen

104:38

today that's going to make me happy?"

104:41

Then I'm just happier.

104:43

I I hear all of this and I read read all

104:46

of this in your books and one of the

104:47

things I've really taken away personally

104:49

is because I have so much information,

104:51

what I need to do is select a couple of

104:53

these habits and basically put them into

104:55

my calendar.

104:57

Like you talked about the breath work

104:58

and you talked about the gratitude

105:00

exercise at night and those kinds of

105:01

things. What I need to do is get a

105:03

couple of them and just insert them into

105:05

my calendar. Because, you know, if

105:07

they're not scheduled, they probably

105:08

won't happen in a life as busy as mine.

105:11

So, as well as making small sort of

105:12

changes to the, you know, maybe dietary

105:14

things or water or whatever it might be,

105:16

drinking a little bit less caffeine.

105:17

I've already quit alcohol. Make sure I

105:19

focus on my sleep. Some of these I want

105:21

to make routines in my life, so that's

105:23

what I'm going to do. That's what I'm

105:24

going to take away from this. We have a

105:26

closing tradition on this podcast where

105:28

the last guest leaves a question for the

105:29

next guest not knowing who they're going

105:30

to be leaving it for.

105:32

And the question that's been left for

105:33

you is quite perfect. I think.

105:36

What have you changed your mind about in

105:39

the last decade?

105:42

Well, the first thing that comes to my

105:44

mind is this idea

105:49

that I got from Dennis Prager.

105:52

Which is happiness is a moral

105:54

obligation.

105:56

I never thought of it that way.

105:59

I grew up Roman Catholic.

106:01

That idea was nowhere

106:04

in my family. It was nowhere in the

106:08

Catholic school I went to. And and I'm

106:10

grateful for my education.

106:12

Uh and I'm grateful for my faith.

106:16

But it was about should

106:21

and shaming

106:23

rather than

106:26

elevation.

106:28

And the fact that happiness is a moral

106:30

obligation.

106:32

There's this video that Dennis Prager

106:35

produced that I just love called Why Be

106:37

Happy.

106:38

And

106:40

and I never thought

106:43

that

106:47

how I feel

106:50

influences everybody around me.

106:54

That if I'm unhappy

106:57

that's not just about me. That's about

107:01

everybody I come in contact with. So

107:03

working on myself

107:08

is the most loving thing I can do

107:11

for other people.

107:14

Daniel G. Amen.

107:17

Thank you so much. Thank you for an

107:19

amazing conversation. And also thank you

107:20

for taking the time to look at my brain.

107:22

And you're totally right. Now that I

107:24

have the awareness that that brain even

107:25

exists, having seen it, it's almost like

107:28

I feel like it's like a Pablo, my dog. I

107:30

now feel a responsibility to take care

107:32

of it. And I think that that coupled

107:35

with everything that you've imparted on

107:37

me about the fact that I can do

107:39

something about it for me is

107:41

life-changing.

107:42

And you know, I could have sat here all

107:44

day and read tens of thousands of

107:45

comments that I saw online

107:47

about the work that you're doing to help

107:49

people live happier, healthier lives.

107:51

And the

107:53

consequence that has for generations, I

107:55

think, is maybe the most special thing

107:56

of all. Because if you can tilt

107:58

someone's brain in a better direction,

108:00

you're not just tilting their brain in a

108:01

better better direction, you're tilting

108:04

generations to come

108:06

of brains in a better direction. And

108:07

that alone will tilt society in a better

108:09

direction. And that's exactly the work

108:11

that you're doing. So, I know we talked

108:13

about your father last time round.

108:17

You know, often times we don't get the

108:19

praise from the our parents that I guess

108:22

we

108:24

we always longed for.

108:26

But I really hope you understand

108:28

how proud everyone is of you.

108:32

All the patience that you've

108:34

invested time and love and energy and

108:36

all the people that listen to this show

108:38

that were tilted in a better direction

108:40

because of you. And

108:42

me as well.

108:43

My life's been tilted in a better

108:44

direction because of you. So, thank you.

108:47

Thank you so much. What a joy.

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Dr. Daniel Amen, a renowned expert in brain health, discusses his mission to revolutionize mental health by reframing it as brain health. He highlights the impact of lifestyle choices like diet, exercise, and toxins on brain function, explains the concept of brain reserve, and provides actionable advice for optimizing cognitive performance. The podcast host undergoes a brain scan, which Dr. Amen analyzes to discuss his specific brain health, including signs of ADHD and the effects of past trauma, ultimately empowering the host with the message that brain health is dynamic and can be improved.

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