WHY SEX ISN'T ENJOYABLE FOR YOU
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You rub it inside the walls of the
vagina, like that.
>> And just rub it in like you would rub
sunscreen on your face. And if you do
that twice a week, it makes sex not
painful and dry. It helps with arousal
and orgasm. It's literally better than
Viagra. And it's cheap. And I'm telling
you all this as a urologist that this
cream can also help prevent death from
urinary tract infections. But more than
75% of people in large database
collections are not getting
prescriptions for this. And so women are
not getting access to generic
medications that could save their lives
and also really improve quality of life.
And so I am filled with rage because
people are limiting their ability to
have great sex, great health because
they aren't having access to all the
information that they could. For
example, women are not orgasming as much
as men. The data is very clear there.
And women come to see me all the time as
I'm a sex doctor. And they say, "I'm
broken and you have to fix me. I'm not
orgasming during sex." And I think the
majority of problem is education. Women
think that orgasm comes from
penetration. But the clitoris is how
most women orgasm. And yet most women do
not know where their clitoris is. And in
fact, the word clitoris today in 2026
does not exist in the checklist for what
an OBGYN has to learn in their training.
>> And as men, what are we getting wrong in
heterosexual relationships when we're
trying to arouse our partners?
>> Well, men are constantly asking about
they want their penises bigger, harder,
straighter, girthier, lasting longer.
But none of that has anything to do with
how women experience pleasure and
satisfaction in the bedroom. So that's
[music] why I'm so loud about these
things because no one is getting good
sex ed. Because the basic information is
not being shared. And we fundamentally
don't give a crap about women's sexual
health, about their menstrual cycles,
pregnancy, menopause, hormones, pain
with sex, libido. But we actually do
have a lot of information that we are
not using because everyone forgot to
teach your doctor.
>> So let's go through these one at a time.
But just before we get into all of that,
we've got some sex toys in front of us.
>> This is going to be so [ __ ] good.
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In this video, a urologist discusses the widespread lack of proper sexual health education for women, emphasizing the efficacy of affordable topical treatments for common issues like dryness and pain, while highlighting the systemic failure in medical training to address female anatomy and pleasure.
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