So, right now, I'm going to give you all

the tips and tricks. Really, only the

only thing you need to talk to any

random person as if you've already been

knowing them for several years, so you

don't look awkward and you can actually

have things to say in conversation. Now,

right now, I'm going to explain to you

something weirdly relatable that you're

probably going to relate to a lot. So, I

remember when I was in middle school,

high school, I had a hard time meeting

new people because I had no idea what to

say. Whenever I would be paired up with

a random partner in high school, I would

get this anxiety. My mind would freeze.

I wouldn't know what to say. Um, I would

think that this person wasn't like me

whatsoever. And because of this, this

allowed me to become quiet and not say

much to them. And I would therefore lose

the opportunity to talk to them. And

this is what happened to lots of people

that I met. But the weird thing about it

is that after school, I would get on to

Call of Duty. I would get on to I would

get on to the Xbox, Halo, I would get on

to sandbox games, right? And I would

join my parties, you know. I would get

on. I would message all my Xbox friends.

Get on. We're going to play a game.

We're going to play um we're going to

play uh uh zombies. We're going to play

um what's it called? Um Team Slayer,

right, for Halo. And I would be the most

social guy ever. And I'm talking about I

would talk for hours. I would yell. I

would scream, you know, I'd be like,

"Oh, this guy right here, back me up,

bro." And everything. And

when I realized that I was doing that,

I'm just like, wait, why can I talk to

these people as like I'm the most

extroverted guy ever, but I can't even

talk to people in my own school and have

friends? And so this was a moment when I

realized that I need to start finding

ways on how to actually talk to people

and like actually talk to people as if I

already knew them for a long time. like

my friends on Xbox or my close friends I

had I had already known on for years

because I looked at so many people

around me and everybody else seemed to

make friends so easy but I couldn't and

so today in this video I'm going to

share with you really the only thing the

only idea that you need and I started

doing this and literally it's 10 times

easier to talk to people now um

literally I'm going to give away the

secret but it's so easy to talk to

people now I feels like I have a

connection with most people that I talk

to and small talk in general when

meeting strangers it's so easy and it

only gets little complicated towards you

know when you grow a deeper relationship

with them but here's the over here's the

overall idea that nobody is really

talking about on the internet so the

overall main idea right is

getting into things and knowing things

that most people already know about it

sounds super confusing right but I'm

going to tell you this so

there's There's lots of things and

there's lots of limiting beliefs on why

we feel like we're different than most

people. But it really just comes down to

having the same hobbies, having the same

likes, and having a similar thing going

on in your life to that other person

that's going to make you connect and

actually going to give you things to say

about in conversation. Now, I'm going to

tell you how this has changed my life.

And this is the crazy example you're

going to hear, right? So, I have a

15-year-old little brother. So, he's a

decent amount. He's he's a lot younger

than me. And so, long story short, most

of our lives, we've never really talked

much. Not we don't really have similar

interests, not not a lot of common

things going on. But that all changed

when I decided that I wanted to get into

politics. I realized the world is crazy.

I need to start becoming more aware of

what's going on. And so I decided to

learn a crap and a freak ton about

politics. So I'm watching all these

videos. I'm learning about what's going

on. I'm learning about democracy and

everything in our country in the USA.

And so

randomly I come in and I'm just like,

"Bro, you see what's going on?" And he's

just like, "Yeah, it's crazy." And he's

like, "Wait, have you been getting into

politics?" And I'm like, "Bro, I have."

And in that moment we started talking

about politics, you know, we started

talking about all this stuff, all the

stuff that I recently learned. And

because of that, from that day, we talk

about our politics all the time. And me

and my little brother have become a lot

closer since then. And it all started

just from one topic that I got into. And

the reason why I'm telling you this is

because

one topic, getting into one topic can

change the way that you talk to people

and it can change the way that people

see you. Now, the best thing that you

can do right now is to find topics that

most people are into. So, look at your

school, look at your your environment,

your city. When you're meeting these

people and these random people, what are

most people talking about? Most likely,

it's sports. Sports is a big one.

Politics,

music,

fashion, trends going on in social

media. If I were to pick two, it'

probably sports. Um, things going on in

media and politics. Those are really big

ones. And here's the thing, you might be

thinking like, wait, wait, wait. I I'm

not really into sports, you know, I

don't really like these certain things.

But let me tell you something. First of

all, you don't have to learn I'm not

saying to learn every single thing about

a subject you don't want to know about.

Definitely don't do that. You should

choose things that you want to learn

about because you like them. But here's

the thing. You just need to know a

little bit and you need to show your

interest in learning things. Because

here's a story that changed me, right?

I was at my house and a couple of my

roommates started talking about politics

and you know I like politics so I

started getting in with them. One of my

roommates

wasn't really well informed of politics

and we asked this roommate we're just

like yo bro what do you think about what

do you think the left side doing this?

What do you think about this right side

article? What do you think about the the

centralists the libertarians? And he was

just like honestly bro I don't really

know what that means.

And we were just like, "Wait, wait,

wait. What do you mean?" And he was just

like, "Honestly, bro, I don't I don't

really care about that stuff."

And then one of my roommates was like,

"You don't care.

You should be caring about what's going

on in your country. You should be caring

about what's going on in the world. The

country that you live in is literally

going through all this." And my roommate

was just like, "Nah, bro. I don't I

could care less. I'm not really into

that." And the reason why I'm telling

you this is because that night, me

included and my roommates, we're just

like, "Wait, this guy, he kind of

doesn't want to know about things that

we're into. You know, he doesn't want to

learn about something important." And

so, the reason why I'm telling you this

is because it is extremely important

that you learn things because when

people see that you're not into a

certain thing and you're not learning a

bunch of things and you don't have a

specific thing to talk about, they're

going to be like, "Oh, you know, this

guy, he's not really into the things."

is, you know, I'm going to create that

barrier.

When people see that you're not really

wanting to learn and you don't really

have a thing to talk about or you're

known for talking about, people are

going to be like, "Oh, wait. We don't

really have a common interest." And so,

it's very important that you showcase

that you know about certain things

and that you show that you're you're

into certain things and you're eager to

learn because those are one of the most

important things. So, for example,

sports is a big one. I talk about

football, uh, European football all the

time. I'm getting into American sports,

but if you want to get into sports, if

you want to get into politics, trends on

social media, definitely start doing

those. It's really the best thing to do

because

there's always something going on in

sports, politics, media, there's always

something new going on. And every single

week, you can literally be like, "Yo,

bro, did you see this new thing? You see

what this guy posted? Did you see the do

you see the uh the results? Do you see

the new lineups?" You know, there's so

many things going on and because there's

new things going on with these topics,

you can constantly repeat them and bring

them up every single time in

conversation. So, that's the only idea

that you need for this. It's really down

to liking, having the same hobbies that

most people are into. Like, share,

subscribe, and I will see you in the

next one. Peace.