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The Life-Changing Power Of Requesting God’s Favor | Steve Harvey

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It's not much really changed, man. I

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mean, I did this show from the very

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beginning the same way. I just got more

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viewers. It's just it's the number one

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game show in the world. So,

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[applause]

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>> that right there is another example of

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favor.

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>> Yes, it is.

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>> You know what I mean?

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>> Look, I mean, I come to work every day.

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I do the show, but I don't have to have

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the biggest game show in the world. I

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don't have to. Why?

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>> Why?

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>> He gave it to me.

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>> Because he gave it to me.

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>> He That's That's favor. You You can set

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I'm going tell you, see, people don't

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get it, man. You can put on your vision

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board, you want to be famous all you

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want. I want to be a star. You can't

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make yourself a star. You can't make

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yourself famous. It ain't you, partner.

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>> That's a decision God makes

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>> and he gives it to you. But he gives it

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to you because of people. I'm who I am

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because y'all tune in and make me who I

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am. If y'all stop tuning in, this ain't

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the same dude no more. You get what I'm

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saying? And so what makes y'all tune in?

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That God gave me favor. Y'all didn't

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know me till I showed up on TV

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somewhere. You know, that's favor, man.

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You got to understand a lot of people,

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they don't they don't get that part of

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it. You know, they always struggling to

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find the answer for it so they can have

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some little smart answer for the

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reporters. I don't I have I've talked to

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reporters all time. I says, "Grace and

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favor." What do you mean by that? Okay,

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so you don't go to church. Okay, I got

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it.

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>> Grace, grace,

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>> is God's unmmerited favor.

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>> Come on now.

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>> That means he gives you something that

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you don't deserve.

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>> Grace is given to you and you can't earn

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it. You can't purchase it. If I could

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buy grace,

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>> I take all the money I got and just

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purchase grace with it.

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>> It is God's unmmerited favor. You can't

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even There's nothing you can do to get

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it. He just he just do a solid for you.

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But see, you get solids because you ask

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for solids. You have not because you ask

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not. The majority of people don't have

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what they want in this world cuz you

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don't never ask God for it. You

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tripping, man, cuz you think you you

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think it's about you. You You think it's

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you. Oh, no, no, no. It's not. You got

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to ask God for stuff. He created you.

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You got to ask them your maker for for

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for things in this world. You keep

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trying to figure out why you ain't got

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it because you ain't asked God for it.

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Keep trying to figure it out yourself

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how that's working for you. Huh?

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>> You better get to asking. You better get

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to asking. Just Why? Why would you not?

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All you got to do is ask God. That's

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what I do. Everything I got, I ask God.

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I show you my vision board. It's

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everything I'm asking God for. The how

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to is none of your business. Nowhere in

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the Bible does it tell you to figure out

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how to.

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>> It says ask, believe, receive.

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>> That's the trick. It ain't nothing else.

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I ask, I believe, I get ready to

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receive. Faith without works is dead.

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I'mma put in the work. So, that's the

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trick, man. Stop tricking yourself out

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and ask for favor. It's It's really that

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simple. It's not. Don't make this more

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difficult than it is. Listen to me. I'm

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telling you this how I don't have no

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education. I don't have nothing.

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I have faith. That's all you need.

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Faith. Come on. Let's go.

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We sit around, we talk about all the

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time. I said, "Man, I couldn't believe

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you was in my house." He said, "Man, I

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think about that all the time." He said,

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"You should have gave me the money." I

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said, "I had a money." [laughter]

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I was homeless for a while, right? But

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finally mess around, got some money in

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90 like 96.

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I signed my first big deal and I bought

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a house. And 1996 was when plays got

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started up real big.

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and promoter named Al Wash

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>> bought this homeless dude to my house.

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Now, I had just bought this house. They

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didn't know it. They thought I was

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balling because I just bought this

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house. I had $1,700

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left after I bought this house. This

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promoter named Al Wash bought this

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homeless dude to my house named Tyler

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Perry.

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>> Tyler sat in my office going, "Man, you

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got a nice house." I was house poor. I

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didn't have no money. I took my $400,000

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that I had and I put $350,000 down on

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the house because I said if Comey don't

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ever do nothing else for them, I'm going

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buy one house. I bought a $1.1 million

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house. I put $350,000 down on it with

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the builder and I had a house note and I

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figured through my jokes I could make

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the house note. Tyler Perry sat in my

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office and told me about this church

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plays he was going to do and you know I

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didn't I couldn't even tell him. He was

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coming to me to borrow $25,000.

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I ain't had no $25,000

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be I got $1,700.

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But I like the dude. I said, "Man, you I

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think you on to something." I said, "Let

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me think about it." You know, cuz I

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didn't want to say I ain't got the

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money, you know. I was young dude back

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then. If I knew what I knew, I would

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have just said, "Hey, man. I don't have

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the money, but let me help you and make

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me a partner or something like that."

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But I didn't know how to do that. and uh

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walked away.

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>> You see who Tyler Perry is now?

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>> I do shows at Tyler Perry Studios.

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>> We sit around, we talk about all the

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time. I said, "Man, I couldn't believe

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you was in my house." He said, "Man, I

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think about that all the time." He said,

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"You should have gave me the money." I

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said, "I had a money.

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Why don't you give me some money?"

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A lot of money, man. It's funny, you

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know, you uh you see [snorts] you people

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you see people successful

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>> and see what you see is you see this

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snapshot of who they are. What you have

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to focus on is to how they got there

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because that's the story that you can

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relate to. You can't relate to Tyler

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Perry as he is today. But if you knew he

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was sitting in my house when he was

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homeless needing $25,000, that sound a

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lot more like you than owning Tyler

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Perry Studios. That's why it's

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important, man. I feel when people

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become successful that they become

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transparent and open up the real truth

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of themselves. I can't stand it when

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rich people stand in front of people

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talking about, you know, you can buy a

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house with no money down and follow me

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and I can show you how to get rich. No,

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you can't. And you can't buy no house

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with no money down. You might be able to

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buy a house with no money down, but when

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you get to closing, you're going to need

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some money, man. They don't tell you

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that.

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>> But you know, they sit up there and they

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don't tell people the truth.

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>> I I came up with a slogan the other day

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on the radio.

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You need God to get there, but you need

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more God to stay there.

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If you have any aspiration for success,

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you got to get some God. Now, let me

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tell you something. You can try it

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without him. Cuz I did that. You can try

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to make it without God.

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You might even get some measures of

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success, but you ain't going to be able

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to stay there, man.

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>> You You ever You've seen it many times.

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A lot of people hit it. You know, I did

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this on my own. Illuminati that

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you can't hold, man. You need God. I'm

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just telling you real. You got to have

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God. It's It's a cold piece of work. And

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so at the end of the day, whether you a

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young cat out here hustling or you old

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person trying to hold on, you can turn

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all that into flourishing if you put

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some God in your life. That's all to it.

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And I'm just an old street cat telling

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you this here. [applause] And I don't

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even I don't even know nothing but five

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scriptures.

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[laughter]

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>> Tada.

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This is the perfect show for me.

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[applause]

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>> I get to meet people like this, people

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like this. I discover stuff about

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people. We have fun. We get little

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rhythms going with the families. It's we

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it's laughing.

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>> Everybody at home can play along.

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>> Your answers at the house as good as

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they answers up here. That's what makes

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a game fun. Whenever I get in a dark

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place and I I get into them myself. I'm

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human, you know. I'm not Superman. It's

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it's hard. Life is very hard. When you

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get in a dark place, what you should do

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is

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when you start feeling bad or you wake

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up on the wrong side of the bed, the

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thing that that fixes it right away is

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just start reminding yourself.

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Go down the list of everything that you

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can think of that you could be grateful

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for. Gratitude erases depression

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immediately.

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>> See, the way to get rid of darkness is

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with light. You can't kill darkness with

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more dark. You got to strike a match on

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one of these things. If you show

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gratitude, it immediately races. I was

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having a tough morning the other morning

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and then I just started thinking about

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all the stuff God done for me and man oh

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man oh man I mean it kind of helps

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>> it don't kind of help it eradicates cuz

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you have to remember something man

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uh joy and depression cannot reside in

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the same space

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>> you you you can't be depressed and full

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of joy at the same time gratitude

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produces joy inside of you and everybody

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has it cuz I don't care who you are what

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you're going through or what you got.

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You got something to be grateful for.

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>> There's not a person in here that ain't

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got nothing they can't be grateful for.

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Hell, you here.

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>> How about let's just start there.

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[applause]

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>> How about you walked in here?

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>> How about you got a mask on? You ain't

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got corona. You survived the pandemic

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last year. You here. [applause]

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>> I mean, man, it's

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[music]

Interactive Summary

The speaker shares personal insights on success, emphasizing that true achievement comes from divine favor rather than individual effort alone. He recounts a past encounter with Tyler Perry when they were both struggling, highlighting the importance of transparency and humility. Finally, he discusses the power of gratitude as a remedy for darkness and depression, noting that focusing on what one has can immediately shift one's perspective.

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