The Life-Changing Power Of Requesting God’s Favor | Steve Harvey
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It's not much really changed, man. I
mean, I did this show from the very
beginning the same way. I just got more
viewers. It's just it's the number one
game show in the world. So,
[applause]
>> that right there is another example of
favor.
>> Yes, it is.
>> You know what I mean?
>> Look, I mean, I come to work every day.
I do the show, but I don't have to have
the biggest game show in the world. I
don't have to. Why?
>> Why?
>> He gave it to me.
>> Because he gave it to me.
>> He That's That's favor. You You can set
I'm going tell you, see, people don't
get it, man. You can put on your vision
board, you want to be famous all you
want. I want to be a star. You can't
make yourself a star. You can't make
yourself famous. It ain't you, partner.
>> That's a decision God makes
>> and he gives it to you. But he gives it
to you because of people. I'm who I am
because y'all tune in and make me who I
am. If y'all stop tuning in, this ain't
the same dude no more. You get what I'm
saying? And so what makes y'all tune in?
That God gave me favor. Y'all didn't
know me till I showed up on TV
somewhere. You know, that's favor, man.
You got to understand a lot of people,
they don't they don't get that part of
it. You know, they always struggling to
find the answer for it so they can have
some little smart answer for the
reporters. I don't I have I've talked to
reporters all time. I says, "Grace and
favor." What do you mean by that? Okay,
so you don't go to church. Okay, I got
it.
>> Grace, grace,
>> is God's unmmerited favor.
>> Come on now.
>> That means he gives you something that
you don't deserve.
>> Grace is given to you and you can't earn
it. You can't purchase it. If I could
buy grace,
>> I take all the money I got and just
purchase grace with it.
>> It is God's unmmerited favor. You can't
even There's nothing you can do to get
it. He just he just do a solid for you.
But see, you get solids because you ask
for solids. You have not because you ask
not. The majority of people don't have
what they want in this world cuz you
don't never ask God for it. You
tripping, man, cuz you think you you
think it's about you. You You think it's
you. Oh, no, no, no. It's not. You got
to ask God for stuff. He created you.
You got to ask them your maker for for
for things in this world. You keep
trying to figure out why you ain't got
it because you ain't asked God for it.
Keep trying to figure it out yourself
how that's working for you. Huh?
>> You better get to asking. You better get
to asking. Just Why? Why would you not?
All you got to do is ask God. That's
what I do. Everything I got, I ask God.
I show you my vision board. It's
everything I'm asking God for. The how
to is none of your business. Nowhere in
the Bible does it tell you to figure out
how to.
>> It says ask, believe, receive.
>> That's the trick. It ain't nothing else.
I ask, I believe, I get ready to
receive. Faith without works is dead.
I'mma put in the work. So, that's the
trick, man. Stop tricking yourself out
and ask for favor. It's It's really that
simple. It's not. Don't make this more
difficult than it is. Listen to me. I'm
telling you this how I don't have no
education. I don't have nothing.
I have faith. That's all you need.
Faith. Come on. Let's go.
We sit around, we talk about all the
time. I said, "Man, I couldn't believe
you was in my house." He said, "Man, I
think about that all the time." He said,
"You should have gave me the money." I
said, "I had a money." [laughter]
I was homeless for a while, right? But
finally mess around, got some money in
90 like 96.
I signed my first big deal and I bought
a house. And 1996 was when plays got
started up real big.
and promoter named Al Wash
>> bought this homeless dude to my house.
Now, I had just bought this house. They
didn't know it. They thought I was
balling because I just bought this
house. I had $1,700
left after I bought this house. This
promoter named Al Wash bought this
homeless dude to my house named Tyler
Perry.
>> Tyler sat in my office going, "Man, you
got a nice house." I was house poor. I
didn't have no money. I took my $400,000
that I had and I put $350,000 down on
the house because I said if Comey don't
ever do nothing else for them, I'm going
buy one house. I bought a $1.1 million
house. I put $350,000 down on it with
the builder and I had a house note and I
figured through my jokes I could make
the house note. Tyler Perry sat in my
office and told me about this church
plays he was going to do and you know I
didn't I couldn't even tell him. He was
coming to me to borrow $25,000.
I ain't had no $25,000
be I got $1,700.
But I like the dude. I said, "Man, you I
think you on to something." I said, "Let
me think about it." You know, cuz I
didn't want to say I ain't got the
money, you know. I was young dude back
then. If I knew what I knew, I would
have just said, "Hey, man. I don't have
the money, but let me help you and make
me a partner or something like that."
But I didn't know how to do that. and uh
walked away.
>> You see who Tyler Perry is now?
>> I do shows at Tyler Perry Studios.
>> We sit around, we talk about all the
time. I said, "Man, I couldn't believe
you was in my house." He said, "Man, I
think about that all the time." He said,
"You should have gave me the money." I
said, "I had a money.
Why don't you give me some money?"
A lot of money, man. It's funny, you
know, you uh you see [snorts] you people
you see people successful
>> and see what you see is you see this
snapshot of who they are. What you have
to focus on is to how they got there
because that's the story that you can
relate to. You can't relate to Tyler
Perry as he is today. But if you knew he
was sitting in my house when he was
homeless needing $25,000, that sound a
lot more like you than owning Tyler
Perry Studios. That's why it's
important, man. I feel when people
become successful that they become
transparent and open up the real truth
of themselves. I can't stand it when
rich people stand in front of people
talking about, you know, you can buy a
house with no money down and follow me
and I can show you how to get rich. No,
you can't. And you can't buy no house
with no money down. You might be able to
buy a house with no money down, but when
you get to closing, you're going to need
some money, man. They don't tell you
that.
>> But you know, they sit up there and they
don't tell people the truth.
>> I I came up with a slogan the other day
on the radio.
You need God to get there, but you need
more God to stay there.
If you have any aspiration for success,
you got to get some God. Now, let me
tell you something. You can try it
without him. Cuz I did that. You can try
to make it without God.
You might even get some measures of
success, but you ain't going to be able
to stay there, man.
>> You You ever You've seen it many times.
A lot of people hit it. You know, I did
this on my own. Illuminati that
you can't hold, man. You need God. I'm
just telling you real. You got to have
God. It's It's a cold piece of work. And
so at the end of the day, whether you a
young cat out here hustling or you old
person trying to hold on, you can turn
all that into flourishing if you put
some God in your life. That's all to it.
And I'm just an old street cat telling
you this here. [applause] And I don't
even I don't even know nothing but five
scriptures.
[laughter]
>> Tada.
This is the perfect show for me.
[applause]
>> I get to meet people like this, people
like this. I discover stuff about
people. We have fun. We get little
rhythms going with the families. It's we
it's laughing.
>> Everybody at home can play along.
>> Your answers at the house as good as
they answers up here. That's what makes
a game fun. Whenever I get in a dark
place and I I get into them myself. I'm
human, you know. I'm not Superman. It's
it's hard. Life is very hard. When you
get in a dark place, what you should do
is
when you start feeling bad or you wake
up on the wrong side of the bed, the
thing that that fixes it right away is
just start reminding yourself.
Go down the list of everything that you
can think of that you could be grateful
for. Gratitude erases depression
immediately.
>> See, the way to get rid of darkness is
with light. You can't kill darkness with
more dark. You got to strike a match on
one of these things. If you show
gratitude, it immediately races. I was
having a tough morning the other morning
and then I just started thinking about
all the stuff God done for me and man oh
man oh man I mean it kind of helps
>> it don't kind of help it eradicates cuz
you have to remember something man
uh joy and depression cannot reside in
the same space
>> you you you can't be depressed and full
of joy at the same time gratitude
produces joy inside of you and everybody
has it cuz I don't care who you are what
you're going through or what you got.
You got something to be grateful for.
>> There's not a person in here that ain't
got nothing they can't be grateful for.
Hell, you here.
>> How about let's just start there.
[applause]
>> How about you walked in here?
>> How about you got a mask on? You ain't
got corona. You survived the pandemic
last year. You here. [applause]
>> I mean, man, it's
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The speaker shares personal insights on success, emphasizing that true achievement comes from divine favor rather than individual effort alone. He recounts a past encounter with Tyler Perry when they were both struggling, highlighting the importance of transparency and humility. Finally, he discusses the power of gratitude as a remedy for darkness and depression, noting that focusing on what one has can immediately shift one's perspective.
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