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Good learning happens through making

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mistakes. Just seeing something many

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times doesn't mean you'll remember it

0:05

well. You've seen the Apple logo so many

0:07

times, of course, you know all the

0:08

features, but then when you quiz people

0:10

and test them, and I do this in my

0:12

class, people aren't sure. Is the bite

0:14

on the left or the right hand side? Is

0:16

there a stem or a leaf? The best way to

0:18

remember something is to again failures.

0:21

I'll have you draw it without looking at

0:22

it and you struggling. Wait, is it on

0:24

the left or right? And is it stem or a

0:26

leaf? And you're starting to question

0:27

all of these things. Then when you look

0:28

at the logo again, you're going to

0:30

engage in better learning than if you

0:32

hadn't done that errorful kind of trial

0:34

beforehand.

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>> Welcome to the Hubberman Lab podcast

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where we discuss [music] science and

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science-based tools for everyday life.

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[music]

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I'm Andrew Huberman and I'm a professor

0:46

of neurobiology and opthalmology at

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Stanford School of Medicine. My guest

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today is Dr. Alan Castell. Dr. Alan

0:54

Castell is a professor of psychology at

0:56

the University of California, Los

0:58

Angeles. He is one of the world's

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foremost experts on human memory and

1:02

cognitive aging. Today we discuss what

1:04

determines if we remember something like

1:06

a name or an event or how to do

1:08

something. And we discuss how to improve

1:10

our ability to remember information of

1:12

all kinds at any age. We also discuss

1:14

how anytime we plan or imagine something

1:17

about our future, we are always building

1:19

that on memories of our past and what

1:22

that means for our ability to come up

1:24

with new ideas and plans for our lives.

1:26

And we discuss how our memory changes

1:28

across the lifespan and why some people

1:30

retain exceptional cognitive abilities

1:32

well into their 80s and 90s and even

1:34

beyond and what any of us can do to

1:36

improve our chances of maintaining or

1:39

even getting better at memory as we age.

1:41

Indeed, while most people assume that

1:43

memory decline is an inevitable

1:44

consequence of getting older, Dr.

1:46

Castell explains research that tells us

1:49

the story is far more nuanced and more

1:51

optimistic. In fact, we cover one of the

1:54

more powerful and perhaps surprising

1:55

influences on our rate of cognitive

1:57

aging, which is your beliefs about aging

1:59

itself. And finally, we discuss

2:01

so-called superagers, which is the name

2:04

given to older adults whose memory

2:06

performance rivals that of people

2:07

decades younger. He explains which super

2:10

aer protocols are accessible to anyone

2:12

and how they can be incorporated into

2:14

everyday life to benefit our mental and

2:17

our physical health. Before we begin,

2:19

I'd like to emphasize that this podcast

2:20

is separate from my teaching and

2:22

research roles at Stanford. It is

2:24

however part of my desire and effort to

2:25

bring zero cost to consumer information

2:27

about science and science related tools

2:29

to the general public. In keeping with

2:31

that theme, today's episode does include

2:33

sponsors. And now for my discussion with

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Dr. Alan Castell. Dr. Alan Castell,

2:39

welcome.

2:40

>> Thank you. Nice to be here.

2:41

>> You're going to tell us how to build up

2:43

and keep our memory. But let's start by

2:46

asking what is memory? Or rather, how do

2:50

you conceptualize memory from the

2:54

standpoint of we move through life, we

2:56

experience things, let's call it

2:57

passively, or we try to remember certain

3:00

things. What determines what information

3:02

we hold on to, how long, and so on? It's

3:04

a great question and memory is really a

3:06

mental representation of the past and by

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its very nature it's reconstructive.

3:11

It's never always accurate and I think

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that's why it's so mysterious and

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fascinating that you and I can see the

3:18

same event and then remember it

3:20

differently a week or a day later. Um,

3:22

and it starts kind of almost at the

3:24

sensory level and sometimes our mind

3:26

plays tricks on us. And that's how I got

3:28

interested in this field that how can I

3:31

think I know something and yet not know

3:33

it as well as I do. And this is

3:35

something that's called metacognition or

3:37

awareness of our own cognition. And as a

3:40

personal anecdote when you know I was in

3:42

fifth or sixth grade I had one line in

3:44

the play The Wizard of Oz. It's a line I

3:46

practiced again and again. Listen

3:48

everyone, there's a cyclone on the way.

3:50

Hurry and get into the cellar. And of

3:52

course on opening night, listen

3:54

everyone, there's a seller on the way.

3:56

hurry and get into the cyclone.

3:57

>> Nice.

3:58

>> And I was thinking, how did I manage

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that? Having memorized this line, most

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of the audience probably didn't even

4:03

notice. But that to me was an early

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exposure to memory is not always kind of

4:08

a function of what you do with the

4:10

information. And then, you know, in high

4:12

school, I had another exposure to memory

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where I just memorized a lot of things.

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And that got me pretty far in algebra

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and chemistry. In fact, I almost

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memorized the entire periodic table. But

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this was using pneummonics, you know,

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little rhymes or songs. And I realized

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in my first year of college that I

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really didn't have a strong

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understanding of chemistry, even though

4:33

I could use all these terms. And

4:35

thankfully, I took an introductory

4:37

psychology class and I realized people

4:39

studied learning and memory and kind of

4:41

false memories and why memory can and

4:43

cannot be accurate. And I I was hooked.

4:45

I found that so fascinating and I still

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do today. I'm both impressed and um

4:52

intrigued to ask more about memorization

4:53

of the periodic table. Uh first question

4:56

is about pneumonics and ways that we um

5:01

try and batch and learn information by

5:03

pairing it to other things. Trying to

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remember a room full of people's names

5:06

and you know you uh could pair the first

5:09

letter of their name with a fruit or

5:10

what you know people do these things. To

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me, that seems like a very inefficient

5:14

way to learn because you're adding more

5:18

information that you need to store away.

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So, the first question is, is that the

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best way to learn large batches of

5:25

information?

5:25

>> I think it's almost a workaround. And

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that's the first kind of problem people

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say is I can't remember names. And by

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their nature, names used to be

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descriptive of person's occupation.

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Someone's a baker, we call them Mr.

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Baker. But that's of course evolved with

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time. and names. You know, I tell people

5:43

if you can't remember someone's name,

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that's probably a natural forgetting,

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but you remember if you had an

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interesting conversation or you remember

5:50

if you can trust them, that's probably

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more important. So then to engage our

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kind of knowledge base so that we can

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remember names, we need to make this

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arbitrary link. And so I tell people my

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last name is Pastel, Castell, you know,

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Castell rhymes with pastel and my

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grandfather used pastels, let's say. And

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so people can then make this link. But

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like you say, that's effortful. It takes

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time. It takes time away from kind of

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the essence of something else we could

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talk about. And it also leads to these

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kind of predictable memory errors. So

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people say, "Oh, I remember his name was

6:20

Pastel." When in fact, it's Castell. So

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I think we have to almost trick our

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memory into remembering things that

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might be somewhat arbitrary. And that

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becomes more pronounced as we get older.

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You know, there's more Davids, there's

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more Andrews, and it's just more

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interference. And so to get around that,

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we have to, you know, use deliberate

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practice, retrieval practice, use the

6:42

name several times. But I tell my

6:45

students whose names I often forget,

6:47

that I'll still remember topics we've

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talked about or, you know, you know, how

6:51

they felt about something. And I think

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that's more important than sometimes

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just remembering a name

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>> to remember chemistry or uh some other

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subject that involves nomenclature. I uh

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not everyday terms unless you're a

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chemist but to really understand the

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deeper mechanics of that thing and

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remember that what are some better tools

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I want to say and I'm not a memory

7:16

researcher that it might be helpful to

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think in terms of verbs not labels so

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rather than thinking about a particular

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element just in terms of its name but

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think about how it interacts with

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something else or um how it gives or

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receives a charge in uh you certain

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conditions.

7:32

>> Absolutely. I think that's what you're

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looking for is deeper learning, deeper

7:35

semantic learning. And this has been

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referred to as levels of processing. So

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I was working at a very low level of

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processing when I'm, you know, making up

7:42

happy Henry, you know, for hydrogen and

7:45

helium. Um, but if you can start to

7:47

visualize things or interact with them

7:49

and that's why we want to have, you

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know, chemistry labs or places where I

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found chemistry very abstract. I think

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that's why I didn't really engage with

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it, but I found psychology to be

7:58

something that we were interacting with

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every day. I was making these memory

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errors. I saw my parents and

8:03

grandparents remembering and forgetting

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things and I thought, you know, how does

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that happen? And the brain is so complex

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that I don't think we'll ever completely

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understand, you know, why this me memory

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error might happen. But I think this

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awareness um is really important and a

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lot of good learning happens through

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making mistakes. Um you know, I you

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know, I play piano and I, you know,

8:24

struggle and but I know when I make a

8:26

mistake, I'm going to have to work on

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this. Um and I see that with my

8:29

children. And you learn a lot by making

8:31

these mistakes. And I think that

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illustrates also how our memory works.

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That just seeing something many times

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doesn't mean you'll remember it well.

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And this is a classic demonstration

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that, you know, you've seen a penny many

8:42

times. You don't remember all the

8:43

features on the penny. I've updated that

8:46

to the Apple logo. You know, you've seen

8:48

the Apple logo so many times. Of course,

8:50

you know all the features. But then when

8:52

you quiz people and test them, and I do

8:54

this in my class, people aren't sure. Is

8:57

the bite on the left or the right hand

8:58

side? Is there a stem or a leaf? Um, but

9:01

if you make people draw it while they're

9:03

looking at it, they're going to remember

9:05

it better

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>> while they're looking at the actual

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>> while they're looking at it. Or if they

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actually the best way to remember

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something is to again failures.

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>> I'll have you draw it without looking at

9:15

it and you struggling. Wait, is it on

9:17

the left or right? And is it stem or a

9:18

leaf? And you're starting to question

9:19

all of these things. Then when you look

9:21

at the logo again, you're going to

9:22

engage in better learning than if you

9:24

hadn't done that errorful kind of trial

9:27

beforehand. Even if you don't redraw it

9:30

correctly.

9:30

>> Exactly. Yeah. So this sort of thing is

9:33

you know in a in a academic setting we

9:35

don't want failure. We want people to do

9:37

well. But I think the sort of retrieval

9:40

failure with some you know corrective

9:42

feedback is really beneficial and that's

9:44

kind of how you learn through life. You

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know you make mistakes and then you

9:47

correct them. But if you're constantly

9:49

just doing it the right way, you're not

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really noticing these features. And

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we've tried to extend this to other

9:54

domains like you know it's called

9:56

habituation. You stop noticing things

9:58

around you, like where the nearest fire

9:59

extinguisher is, let's say. And I

10:02

guarantee hopefully there's one

10:03

somewhere nearby and you've probably

10:05

walked by it many times, but you stop

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noticing it. And it's only until you'll

10:10

need it, you'll realize, wait, where is

10:11

it? And so we've done this study where

10:13

you have to, instead of me telling you

10:15

where it is, you have to get up and find

10:17

it. And so now you're engaging with the

10:20

environment, you're going to go look for

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it and be like, gosh, it's been there

10:23

the whole time. have walked by it so

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many times have never noticed it. And I

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think that's the difference between

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seeing something and noticing it. So

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someone who studies vision, we know a

10:33

lot of information reaches the retina,

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but then how much of it reaches our kind

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of more conscious level. And not all of

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it does. And I think that's what makes

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psychology interesting.

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current performance that actually

14:09

triggers the opportunity for plasticity.

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>> Yeah. And those can be uncomfortable

14:14

positions, right? Where it's like, I

14:16

don't know this. Am I am I going to be

14:18

able to learn it? And I think that's the

14:19

this metacognitive aspect of when are

14:22

you aware of that? And a lot of learning

14:23

now is unsupervised learning.

14:26

>> You know, it's not that you're going in

14:27

classrooms and teachers are telling you

14:29

what to do. You want to learn a new

14:30

instrument,

14:31

>> you might do a lot of it on YouTube,

14:32

right? You're going to try and figure it

14:34

out. you want to learn new language, you

14:36

want to learn how to communicate with

14:37

people, there's going to be a lot of

14:39

trial and error. And I think kind of the

14:41

best learners are the ones who persist

14:43

um who are curious because that's how

14:45

you're going to get a lot of feedback

14:47

asking not just lots of questions but

14:49

the right questions. Yeah. Yeah. And I

14:51

think the frustration and agitation I do

14:55

believe that's the you know the release

14:58

of uh catakolamines you know epinephrine

15:01

norepinephrine and those change the

15:03

millu around synapses and um let them

15:06

change you know all the things that we

15:08

want to avoid are the things that

15:09

actually allow us to learn. It could be

15:11

that people that are very good at

15:12

learning and have this willingness to

15:15

embrace so-called beginner's mind. Like,

15:16

you know, like, okay, they're excellent

15:18

in one domain and they're perfectly

15:19

happy to be a raw beginner in a

15:22

different domain. I always wonder if

15:23

they experience agitation the same way

15:26

that anyone else would, but that they

15:28

don't have the same relationship to it.

15:31

Like, oh, here's that autonomic arousal

15:33

again, and you know, here it is. And

15:35

maybe they don't conceptualize as

15:36

frustration. So in terms of

15:38

>> getting better at learning and

15:40

remembering things um have you or any

15:43

other laboratories parsed kind of

15:45

people's um framework around it like I

15:47

know there's a vast literature around

15:49

growth mindset but but I'm I'm thinking

15:51

more in terms of how people

15:54

think about their own levels of

15:56

frustration because if you go oh like

15:58

here I am frustrated again awesome let's

16:00

go now's the opportunity versus h like

16:03

I'm I'm terrible at this I know I should

16:04

push through I I just wonder whether or

16:06

mindset can actually make a difference.

16:08

>> I think it can. I think our goals can

16:10

play a big role. A lot of the learning

16:12

we do is sometimes, you know, learning

16:13

to take a test or learning, you know,

16:15

something because it'll be on a test.

16:16

But as we get through life, we realize

16:18

you're interested in bird watching or

16:20

music or skateboarding. You know, a lot

16:22

of this is going to be observational

16:24

learning. It's going to be talking to

16:25

other people. So, I think it comes down

16:27

to curiosity, which is almost closing

16:30

this knowledge gap where here I am, but

16:32

I want to be here. How can I get from

16:34

here to here? And some of it is there's

16:36

a strong motivation there. And that's

16:38

something we've started to study with

16:40

older adults as well because um we know

16:42

memory declines happen with age, but not

16:44

all things change equally. And in fact,

16:47

there are certain memory systems that

16:49

might actually remain stable or even

16:50

improve. And I think some of the keys

16:53

here are curiosity, being interested in,

16:55

you know, listening to a podcast,

16:57

talking to someone else, closing that

16:59

knowledge gap, and then kind of

17:00

extending that and going further. And I

17:02

I sometimes find there's topics that I'm

17:04

not so interested in, but then there's

17:06

some that I will almost become obsessive

17:08

about that it's like I'm going to watch

17:10

that YouTube video and the next one and

17:12

the next one and then 45 minutes later.

17:14

And I think that that can be, you know,

17:17

kind of a waste of time in some ways,

17:19

but it shows that our brain is craving

17:21

this information. And uh that's

17:24

something that I'm really curious about

17:25

how that will change as we get older.

17:27

And some of our research suggests that

17:29

as we get older, we're more selective

17:31

about what we focus on. And I think that

17:33

can be beneficial. So maybe you don't

17:34

waste as much time on learn trying to

17:36

learn everything, but you're more

17:38

focused on the things you want to learn

17:39

about. Do we know that it's important to

17:43

continue to seek out new information as

17:46

we get older in order to maintain our

17:48

memory? Or is it sufficient to just make

17:51

some effort to remember the past, what

17:54

we need to do to get through our day?

17:56

You know, I think this gets down to this

17:58

question people think I really should be

18:00

striving to to keep my memory. Everyone

18:02

wants to keep their memory. Sure, that

18:04

makes sense. But how hard should people

18:06

push to learn new information as opposed

18:08

to you maintaining what they've got?

18:10

>> Yeah, it's a great question. I think

18:12

it's a little bit of both and you want

18:13

to have that sort of balance. So, if you

18:15

know, if you if you play piano, my

18:17

father in his 80s, 90s still plays

18:20

piano. I don't think he's learning new

18:21

pieces, but he's strengthening the the

18:23

pieces he knows and that keeps him

18:25

sharp. Um, on the other hand, being

18:27

exposed to new things, if you're

18:28

traveling, if you're talking to

18:30

different people, that can be really

18:32

important for things like even

18:33

neurogenesis. You want to, you know,

18:35

develop new brain cells, which we know

18:37

doesn't just stop as we, you know, reach

18:40

a certain age. [snorts] So, it's

18:41

probably a bit of both. And people ask

18:43

me, you know, what's the best thing to

18:45

keep my brain sharp as a cross word

18:47

puzzles? And that's interesting because

18:49

I think as we get older, our actual

18:51

verbal knowledge is maintained, if not

18:53

improved. So in a way you're

18:55

strengthening a strength and I think

18:57

that can be beneficial but probably the

18:59

other things to do are do new things.

19:01

you know, go outside and appreciate the

19:03

birds or talk to someone who has a

19:05

different perspective or you go to a

19:07

different restaurant even. All of these

19:08

things I find as I get older, I have a

19:11

lot of routines. But it's when I start

19:13

to violate these routines, take a

19:15

different way to work or, you know, try

19:17

something different at a restaurant, I

19:19

can almost feel like, wow, that was a

19:20

different experience today. I did

19:22

something else. And

19:23

>> I think so, I think both are really

19:25

important.

19:26

>> We do get set in our ways. That's a it's

19:29

a real thing. you know, [clears throat]

19:30

habits can be healthy and we can talk

19:31

more about that because there those

19:33

routines, you know, I drove this way and

19:34

I didn't get into a car accident or I

19:37

even noticed my students in my classes

19:39

after the first couple of weeks, they

19:40

all sit in the same seats. I'm always

19:42

like, why why is that? And it's like,

19:44

well, I didn't get attacked by a snake

19:46

here, so it's safe. Maybe evolutionarily

19:48

it makes sense. But I'll sometimes

19:51

halfway through the quarter say, okay, I

19:53

want everyone to get up and switch sides

19:54

and sit somewhere else. And students are

19:56

like, "This is terrible. Like, I have to

19:58

move." But there's some benefits to

20:00

having a different perspective uh both

20:02

physically and possibly mentally that

20:04

you're going to then remember things

20:06

differently. And I know if I've taken a

20:08

class in a different classroom every

20:10

year, I can almost revisit each of those

20:12

rooms and try and recall what I learned.

20:14

But if you learn all in the same spot,

20:16

there's a lot of interference. So I

20:19

think there there can be benefits to

20:20

changing our habits. Um but it can be

20:22

uncomfortable, especially at first. I

20:25

went to a lot of scientific meetings

20:26

early in my career and I would change

20:29

seats at after every break. It was the

20:31

only way I could stay awake through all

20:33

the talks. Some talks would naturally

20:35

keep me awake and some just wouldn't. I

20:36

mean, they don't tell you this, but

20:37

there are a lot of great talks at

20:39

meetings and often a lot of boring ones,

20:40

too. And you feel obligated to stay.

20:44

Later in my career, I gave myself

20:45

permission to get up and take a walk,

20:46

but you know, um, so I do think that one

20:49

learns differently. It even if you just

20:52

change the novelty of seat position.

20:55

>> Yeah. And I think that's a great example

20:56

of as you've gotten older, more

20:58

experienced. First of all, you give

20:59

yourself the leeway like, hey, I can get

21:00

up if this isn't working for me or I

21:02

want to see something else. But I've

21:04

also learned I learn better if I sit

21:06

over here and then over here and then

21:07

over here. And you know, that's those

21:09

are some principles of memory that I

21:11

think when you have this metacognitive

21:13

insight, um, you can use it effectively.

21:16

And I I've learned and I've seen my

21:18

children learn sometimes through

21:19

mistakes or sometimes this works better

21:21

for me. And I think that's fascinating

21:23

that we can do that.

21:25

>> It is interesting that almost everybody

21:28

has an experience of saying like a gaff

21:31

like saying something stupid or um

21:33

getting the wrong answer publicly and

21:35

the the shame and the arousal that comes

21:38

with that means a we we're never going

21:40

to forget the right answer, but we tend

21:42

to remember the experience of of of

21:44

embarrassment more. Yeah.

21:46

>> Than the it sort of swamps the

21:47

information somehow. And it just raises

21:50

this question for me is is there a

21:53

slight to severe

21:56

emotional tag on every memory we have.

21:59

>> I think you know a part of our brain

22:01

like the amydala that's involved in

22:03

processing emotions is is very active

22:05

and is maintained throughout age. It's

22:07

other parts of the brain tend to

22:08

decline. So I think you're right that

22:10

there can be an emotional attachment to

22:12

a lot of our memories. Some of them are,

22:14

you know, bittersweet. Some of them are

22:15

things we go back to for comfort.

22:17

Sometimes we even change them a little

22:19

bit so they fit the way we might have

22:21

thought they happened.

22:22

>> I think that happens

22:23

>> and that can be at large.

22:25

>> Sure. And that's part of our emotional

22:26

tuning like what makes us feel good. Um

22:29

some memories we don't want to revisit.

22:30

Some you know PTSD there's a lot of

22:32

research on how we can try and help

22:34

people. Um so I think memory can be

22:37

tuned that way and a lot of it can have

22:39

an emotional veillance and those are

22:40

usually the memories that we cherish.

22:42

They're the ones that we might be afraid

22:44

of. I I still remember even though I'm

22:47

not sure I remember it accurately this

22:48

Wizard of Oz and now when my daughter

22:51

was in Wizard of Oz I was like oh this

22:53

is such a great play so I was thinking

22:55

positively about it even though at that

22:57

time

22:57

>> of getting the line wrong

22:58

>> of getting the line wrong.

22:59

>> What do you think happened there?

23:00

>> You know I was probably just distracted

23:02

you know you do a lot of these dress

23:04

rehearsals. I'm not clearly I'm not an

23:06

actor but you do a lot of these

23:07

rehearsing and you don't see the

23:09

audience. You don't appreciate what's

23:11

going on. Um, especially when you're

23:13

young, you know, all of a sudden like,

23:14

oh, there's all these people watching me

23:16

and I know I know what I'm supposed to

23:17

say, but I kind of I'm not convinced

23:20

most people even remembered it. I'm not

23:21

even sure my parents were there, you

23:24

know? So, I think we then think of it as

23:26

a very strong emotional memory, but it

23:28

guides us. And to me, that that's a

23:29

lasting memory in a sense because it

23:32

kind of forced me to think, how does

23:33

memory really work? I thought I knew how

23:35

it worked. And I see a lot of people,

23:37

you know, studying in ways that aren't

23:39

always as effective. You know, we know

23:41

some of the work, this is colleagues at

23:44

UCLA studied desirable difficulties. How

23:46

can you make learning kind of

23:48

uncomfortable, but that you'll remember

23:50

things better? And it goes against a lot

23:52

of our intuitions. A lot of teachers

23:54

will want to say, how can we make

23:55

learning easier? And I think that's

23:57

probably the first problem is you don't

23:59

want it to be easy. You want it to be

24:00

not a struggle, but a challenge so that

24:03

you can appreciate just how difficult it

24:05

is. So, if I learned nothing else from

24:07

that Wizard of Oz is now when I, you

24:09

know, do a presentation or talk to other

24:10

people, I love to see the room I'm going

24:12

to be working in or maybe, you know, a

24:14

scientific presentation, maybe you've

24:15

done this, too. The night before you're

24:17

like, "Oh, this is the auditorium." And

24:19

probably raises your, you know, arousal

24:21

level, but it makes you feel more

24:22

comfortable than the day of.

24:24

>> I don't have a photographic memory. I

24:26

wish I did, or maybe I wish I I didn't,

24:29

but a long time ago, I decided, um, I

24:31

was in a in a really cool circumstance.

24:34

I was on a picnic. I think it was my

24:35

first girlfriend. And I remember

24:37

thinking like, gosh, she's so beautiful.

24:38

I'm just going to take a picture. We

24:40

were just sitting at this park that's up

24:41

in the hills behind uh where I used to

24:43

live. And I just went and I decided,

24:46

okay, like I remember the picture. Now,

24:47

of course, in my mind now, it's it's

24:49

blurry. Like I don't remember specific

24:51

details, but I remember more or less I

24:52

think I remember that the angle was

24:54

that. And then

24:55

>> like a year and a half ago, I was in uh

24:58

Manhattan. and I was in an Uber and I

25:00

just was like maybe I could just do that

25:01

for a like a trivial

25:04

>> street scene. So I just like look there

25:05

was that one of those scaffolds for

25:07

construction and I just decided you just

25:09

do that and there was a guy walking by

25:11

and I'm like I wonder if I'll remember

25:12

it and I still remember it. Now the

25:14

question I have is do I actually

25:16

remember the content of what I saw?

25:18

>> Mhm.

25:19

>> Besides just their crude, you know, the

25:21

scaffold, the guy in one case, you know,

25:23

my my girlfriend, we were sitting on

25:25

this nice big lawn above there this lake

25:27

there. It's it's a beautiful spot uh in

25:30

Palto still there. or is what's stamped

25:33

in my decision to do that and the and

25:36

the sort of conscious collection of it

25:39

is are is it these weren't like big

25:42

emotionally salient events where the the

25:44

difference between these visual memories

25:46

and other visual memories is that the

25:50

emotional load wasn't that high

25:52

>> but I made the decision to do it. It was

25:55

like it was coming from me.

25:56

So, I'm not just trying to remember like

25:58

like we also went to was her senior my

26:00

junior prom. Like I don't I remember a

26:03

few things from that prom,

26:04

>> but I can't reme I don't have a visual

26:06

picture of the prom, but the prom was

26:08

also a lot more emotionally,

26:11

you know, laden than anything I just

26:13

described. Does that make sense?

26:15

>> Yeah, it's a fascinating question

26:16

because I think selection is the

26:18

important thing here that you're making

26:19

a conscious decision like this is a

26:21

special moment. Can I just take a

26:23

picture of it? And the work on visual

26:25

memory is interesting. We are very

26:26

visual people but the research on

26:29

photographic memory does show that even

26:31

people who have very strong visual

26:33

memory will make memory errors. So it's

26:35

not that you know it's exactly

26:37

photographic but their visual memory is

26:39

exceptional. I think what's interesting

26:40

here and this is something I think is

26:42

important is the selection process that

26:44

you're choosing. This is a special

26:46

moment. I'm going to time stamp it and

26:48

remember it.

26:49

>> You're not, you know, doing anything

26:50

special other than realizing a lot is

26:52

going on. Now there's probably some

26:53

emotional veilance there. versus taking

26:56

this random picture in New York City.

26:58

>> And it would be interesting to kind of

26:59

test your memory later because we know

27:01

sometimes we think we remember something

27:03

well and in fact we misremember things

27:05

or details and hopefully you know you

27:08

got the right girlfriend of course but

27:09

maybe the hill looks a little bit

27:10

different or sometimes people are like

27:12

of course it was spring cuz we went to

27:13

the prom but it's like no actually now

27:15

that you know we it was a different

27:17

season entirely that was fall and

27:19

confusing with the other picnic I took.

27:21

M but I think that's important

27:23

especially as you know we get older that

27:24

there are some memories these days we

27:26

have our phones for everything so you

27:28

probably you probably couldn't then but

27:29

you could have pulled out your phone and

27:30

actually taken a picture and you see a

27:32

lot of people offloading information now

27:34

>> that you know I'm not going to remember

27:35

this I'll take a picture there is some

27:38

research showing that that act of

27:40

deciding to take the picture actually

27:42

improves your own memory

27:43

>> for the event

27:44

>> for the event.

27:45

>> Interesting. Now, it can also make your

27:47

memory worse because you're realizing I

27:49

want to I'm taking this photo so I don't

27:51

need to remember it later. And so, you

27:54

could see it going both ways, but that

27:56

selection process is important. So,

27:58

sometimes you're choosing this is

28:00

mundane. I'm going to offload it and

28:01

take a picture or this is a special

28:03

moment. I want to take this picture. And

28:05

I see it, you know, when I take pictures

28:06

of my family. This is a special moment.

28:08

I want to take this photo. But there are

28:10

times where I'm like, I don't have my

28:12

camera. I don't want to interfere. this

28:14

is going to be like an internal memory

28:16

that I can take um and hopefully it

28:18

lasts forever.

28:19

>> I tell myself that my mindset

28:21

[clears throat] at the time was this is

28:23

a special moment. I never want to forget

28:24

this.

28:25

>> Yeah.

28:25

>> I hope I never forget it.

28:27

>> Well, you know, memory is reconstructive

28:29

and I think, you know, the more you

28:30

retrieve it and go back there, the more

28:32

you'll have this feeling of remembering

28:33

it. And our brain does a lot of

28:35

interesting things in terms of, you

28:37

know, reconstructing the past also has a

28:40

similar brain signature as imagining the

28:42

future. which you know in some ways

28:45

makes sense. We shouldn't have separate

28:46

parts of the brain for thinking about

28:47

the past and thinking about the future.

28:49

But that can kind of then predict why

28:51

you might misremember something. Why

28:53

your imagination has to be based surely

28:56

on the experiences you've had already

28:58

right or you know if I say what would it

29:00

be like to go to Mars? Well you've never

29:03

been to Mars but you've seen movies in

29:05

the past about it. So our, you know, if

29:08

I said imagine a space alien, you and I

29:10

being similar age are probably going to

29:12

think of the ET version of one,

29:14

>> whereas someone who's younger than us

29:16

might have a very different kind of

29:18

representation of that. So it's

29:20

interesting to think of memory as kind

29:21

of a reconstruction of the past, but

29:23

also imagining the future involves, you

29:26

know, our past experiences.

29:28

>> Never thought about it that way. It's

29:30

the perfect time, I think, to raise the

29:32

quote that uh a former guest on this

29:34

podcast put on social media the other

29:36

day. They weren't his words, but this

29:38

Morgan Howell, who did a really

29:41

wonderful episode on the psychology of

29:43

money. Um, and I I really love his first

29:46

book, but also his second book u the art

29:48

of spending money. Um, he put out a he

29:51

said it's a Russian quote, "The past is

29:54

more unpredictable than the future."

29:57

Yeah. goodness, that raises questions

29:59

about eyewitness testimony, um, spousal

30:02

arguments. You know, I occasionally will

30:04

get an email, my wife and I are have a

30:06

debate or my husband and I are debate

30:07

and and I have a rule. I I don't get

30:09

into uh spousal uh debates or arguments

30:13

of any kind. So,

30:15

>> do we remember things the way they

30:17

happened or do we confabulate uh do we

30:19

um muck it all up?

30:21

>> You know, I don't think we muck it all

30:23

up and I don't think we do it

30:24

intentionally either. But as a result of

30:26

all the information we have in our

30:28

memory, we're constantly interpreting,

30:30

you know, the future and our current

30:32

state. And you spoke a little bit about

30:34

eyewitness memory. I think that's a

30:35

really good example of that where

30:38

something horrible might have happened

30:39

and like your experience where you think

30:41

you're taking a picture and you're going

30:42

to remember everything and it feels like

30:45

you will. I can remember the shirt. I

30:47

can remember the smell. I can remember

30:48

the weather. Um, and sometimes that can

30:51

be accurate, but a lot of research shows

30:53

that sometimes we misremember these

30:54

things. In some of these classic cases,

30:56

unfortunately, um, you know, now that

30:59

there's DNA evidence, you can determine

31:00

that maybe they got the wrong person.

31:03

And when that happens, you want to look

31:04

back and say, how could that happen? And

31:06

some of it comes down to faulty

31:08

eyewitness identification. And these are

31:11

not cases where people are lying or

31:13

intentionally changing things, but

31:16

they'll identify someone. They'll say,

31:17

"That's the person." And as a result of

31:20

identifying that person in a lineup,

31:22

that person then replaces what they

31:25

actually saw. So our memory can be

31:27

contaminated just like any form of

31:29

evidence could be contaminated. And then

31:31

when you replay it again, you're

31:33

replaying the person you identified, not

31:35

the person you actually saw. Wow. So

31:37

it's almost like we as we become more

31:40

familiar with this person that we

31:41

identified, quote unquote, our knowledge

31:44

about them, facial features, etc. is is

31:47

elaborated in our brain and we

31:49

superimpose that on the actual

31:51

experience.

31:52

>> Yeah. And and this is you know one of

31:55

the most famous cases Ronald Cotton case

31:57

where really horrible event happened um

32:00

and the woman made a point of trying to

32:02

remember her attacker. So it wasn't just

32:04

she got a quick glance but she had a

32:06

long interaction with him and that's you

32:08

know a traumatic event and she said if I

32:10

survive this I want to remember his face

32:12

so I can identify him later. So this is

32:14

like the the perfect situation where

32:16

your memory should be sharp. And um it

32:19

was crossra identification which we know

32:21

is not as reliable as identifying

32:23

someone of your own race. And when she

32:26

saw a lineup she identified she took her

32:28

time and said this feels like it's a

32:30

multiplechoice test. And I studied hard

32:32

for it. She took her time and she

32:35

identified the person and she thought in

32:37

her mind this is the person who was

32:39

inches from my throat. um and she

32:41

identified him and he had a an alibi

32:43

that didn't stand up and he was you know

32:46

then you know found guilty and it was

32:49

only you know decades later that DNA

32:52

evidence exonerated him and she felt

32:54

horrible. um she felt like, you know,

32:57

and there's a lot of reasons why this

32:58

could happen, you know, whether leading

33:01

questions or how the identification

33:03

process was conducted, but she was

33:06

trying to do what she felt was her job

33:07

and take someone who she thought was

33:09

guilty off the street and um later they

33:13

got to meet in fact and she you know

33:16

could apologize to him. She felt

33:18

terrible. And so this is one case study

33:21

and you know I wouldn't draw any

33:23

conclusions but it had a lot of the

33:25

principles that we've talked about where

33:26

you feel like you're taking a photo.

33:28

It's a cross race identification where

33:31

your confidence might be high for good

33:33

reason um but accuracy might not be and

33:36

then this kind of changing of the face

33:39

whereas once you identify the face

33:41

that's what you start to remember and so

33:43

I think there's a lot of interesting

33:44

memory principles at play here. How does

33:47

the legal system deal with this kind of

33:49

thing? I mean nowadays there's so many

33:50

more cameras and phones which can track

33:52

location. I like to think those things

33:54

have improved the courtroom scenarios uh

33:59

that it's harder for people to make

34:01

genuine mistakes.

34:02

>> Yeah. I think it's you know memory

34:04

should be treated as one source of

34:05

evidence just like DNA just like any

34:07

sort of evidence but also we need to be

34:09

aware that it can be contaminated just

34:11

like any other source of evidence as

34:13

well. So we can't just say oh well DNA

34:15

evidence is perfect. Well, it can also

34:16

be contaminated in predictable ways. And

34:19

I think, you know, coming back to this

34:21

idea of metacognition, most people feel

34:23

like they have a pretty good

34:24

understanding of how memory works,

34:26

>> but it's not always accurate. And

34:28

sometimes confidence, high confidence

34:30

doesn't necessarily mean high accuracy.

34:33

And I think part of the reason we're

34:34

fooled is usually, you know, the more

34:36

you see something, the better you'll

34:38

remember it, just like the Apple logo.

34:40

But that's not always the case. And

34:42

there's predictable reasons why. the

34:44

more you see something, the more you

34:45

might stop attending to the features or

34:47

you don't need to use it. And so that is

34:49

a more kind of predictable memory

34:51

principle. But we don't have this, you

34:54

know, always accurate metacognitive

34:56

insight. And I I think that's

34:58

interesting. I think that's both

34:59

concerning, you know, in the eyewitness

35:01

memory case, but it's also important for

35:03

learning. How can we be kind of

35:04

effective and maximize our learning?

35:07

>> I have a question about what I want to

35:09

call medium-term memory. I don't even

35:11

know if that's a real term. Short-term

35:14

memory. Working memory. Listeners to

35:16

this podcast may or may not be familiar,

35:17

but working memory is like keeping a

35:18

phone number online in your head or a

35:20

string of numbers um until you need it

35:23

and then kind of you may or may not

35:26

remember it long term. Long-term memory,

35:27

obviously. Long-term memory. But there's

35:29

this thing that I do. I'm there's today

35:31

is a bit of a confessional. So, um, when

35:34

I check into hotels, um,

35:37

um, I always look at the map of how to

35:42

get out in a fire because once staying

35:44

at a hotel in San Francisco for a donor

35:46

event, the alarm went off in the middle

35:48

of the night. Everyone, of course, stuck

35:50

their head out to look to see if anyone

35:52

was leaving and everyone like, "We're

35:54

not leaving." And then they called

35:56

everyone's room. It was an actual fire,

35:57

which taught me like when the alarm

35:58

goes, go. Right.

35:59

>> But,

36:00

>> and it was pretty confusing. Yeah,

36:03

>> wide hallways, wasn't clear. Exit sign

36:05

was not to like the actual stairwell. It

36:07

was, you know, was not a good situation.

36:10

But of course, got out fine. But from

36:13

now on, before I go to sleep, I go and I

36:14

look at [laughter] the where you are

36:17

here.

36:18

>> I look for the exit.

36:20

I occasionally walk the hall. I don't

36:21

want to be in this situation again.

36:22

Especially in a high-rise. I just do not

36:24

want to be in a situation where I can't

36:25

get out of a building that's on fire. I

36:27

figure it takes like 5 minutes. People

36:29

laugh at me. And I do this, but I make a

36:31

mental map. Okay, so let's assume it's

36:33

Smokeoky. I do this thing. Okay, I would

36:35

which is the closer door? I would go

36:37

right, then left, right, then left,

36:39

right. Okay, so I drill it in my head.

36:41

Good. And I go to sleep. I never

36:43

remember the maps, but it's not working

36:45

memory. It's not short-term memory. I

36:47

couldn't tell you for the life of me

36:49

what the last hotel map looked like in

36:52

my head. Had a you are here, red dot,

36:55

had doors, had exit. So it had these

36:57

component parts. But what term memory is

37:00

that? And thank goodness I don't

37:03

remember because it's going to change

37:04

every time I'm in a different hotel.

37:06

Yeah. So, what are the mechanisms that

37:08

allow for selective forgetting that's

37:09

healthy?

37:11

>> And also, is medium-term memory an

37:14

actual thing?

37:14

>> Well, I think when you're saying

37:16

medium-term, that's your everyday basic

37:18

memory function where you're like, I

37:20

need to remember things, but I don't

37:21

think I need to remember them that long,

37:22

but I really need to remember them today

37:25

or tonight, and it makes me sleep better

37:27

at night. And I've had a similar

37:28

experience. I was um staying in a hotel

37:30

with my family and the fire alarm went

37:33

off. And we're like, "What do we do?"

37:35

Well, we know we don't take the

37:36

elevator. That's what you're always

37:37

told. And I don't think I looked at the

37:39

map, but you could I looked down the

37:40

hall and I swear when I looked down the

37:42

hall, I saw smoke. And so I'm like,

37:44

"Let's not go that way." So, we went

37:45

down the other way. We rushed down the

37:47

stairs. We got outside and the kids were

37:49

pretty, you know, traumatic. And

37:52

actually, one of our children was like

37:54

eight stories ahead of us going down the

37:56

stairs. But what's interesting is I

37:59

thought I saw smoke and that's maybe I

38:00

didn't have my glasses on but that's my

38:02

mind playing tricks on me. So maybe that

38:04

was my concern. But I think that you

38:07

know this everyday memory is is really

38:10

relevant and um when you're studying

38:13

that map you're making notes of like

38:15

okay it's close by. It's down the hall.

38:16

I've got to go down here. Um and that

38:20

can be very informative and useful for

38:22

survival. And there's some research

38:24

saying that that's basically what our

38:25

brain is tuned towards is surviving. You

38:27

know, where am I going to eat? How am I

38:28

going to sleep? How am I going to um so

38:31

when you say everyday memory, I think

38:32

that's probably the most important

38:33

thing. And part of that memory formation

38:36

is also then forgetting it and updating

38:38

it. It's as simple as you you need to

38:40

know your hotel room number when you're

38:42

staying there. But if I ask you your

38:44

hotel room number a week later, it's

38:46

gone. But that's good in a way because

38:50

you're going to have other numbers to

38:51

remember and other hotel room numbers to

38:53

remember. So there's benefits of

38:54

forgetting. Um and you want to So I

38:57

think that's an interesting insight.

38:58

You're doing some processing to remember

39:00

something but then you need to update it

39:02

and forget it. Um and you know it's the

39:05

same thing. I think the best thing you

39:07

can do in that case is, you know,

39:08

studying the map is one thing, but some

39:10

people aren't great with maps and where

39:11

am I in the hotel is doing that active

39:14

learning of actually walking the halls

39:16

of like, well, I go down here and

39:17

there's there's the elevator, so I can't

39:19

go there. Oh, there are the stairs. I'll

39:20

remember that. And then you can kind of

39:22

encode it. So that sort of active

39:24

learning is like us with the fire

39:25

extinguisher. We made people get up and

39:27

find it instead of telling people where

39:29

it was. And I'm always, you know, when

39:31

you're on a flight, they'll always, you

39:33

know, say there's six emergency exits on

39:35

this plane. And then I think they do the

39:37

wrong thing. They they tell you where

39:39

they are. [snorts] I think the best

39:41

thing would be to say, you know, there's

39:42

six emergency exits on this plane. I'm

39:44

>> not going to tell you where they are.

39:45

[laughter]

39:46

>> Well, I'm not going to say not where

39:47

they are, but go find them. And I

39:49

notice, maybe it's just myself being

39:51

anxious, is as soon as they say that,

39:53

I'm looking behind me. I'm making sure I

39:55

know where they all are.

39:56

>> Whereas most people are like, "Oh, they

39:57

pointed here, here, and here. And I'll

40:00

even say sometimes the nearest one is

40:01

behind you. And I'm like, well, I want

40:02

to see where it is behind me. And so I

40:04

think that sort of act of learning,

40:06

whether you call it everyday memory, is

40:08

is really important. And I think when we

40:10

talk about memory, people are like, I

40:12

can't remember names. I'm like, that's

40:14

kind of a common thing.

40:15

>> But if you you need to sometimes

40:17

remember like what medication are you

40:19

taking or how did you react the last

40:20

time you saw this person? And those

40:22

sorts, I think it's really important to

40:23

be in tune with what you're calling this

40:25

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41:52

uh walking the the fire exits. But it

41:55

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41:56

first time people were asking, "Hey, do

41:58

you know if we should leave? Do you know

41:59

do you know which way to go?" And I

42:01

realized, "Okay, next time it might as

42:02

well be me. I I'll be the guy that knows

42:05

which way to go." Certainly for myself.

42:07

And then I can tell other people which

42:08

way to go. Nobody else here knows where

42:10

to go. And most likely they're not going

42:11

to know the next time. I do the thing on

42:13

the plane, too. I think, okay, I

42:14

actually read the thing of how to Yeah.

42:16

take it out because I figured well I've

42:18

experienced how under conditions of very

42:20

high arousal you just default

42:22

>> to what almost feel like whatever was

42:26

trained whatever reflexes you have I

42:28

mean I had a scuba diving accident years

42:30

ago and I don't like to say you know

42:32

came close to the end but it was an air

42:33

failure and it was a whole mess and you

42:36

just default to

42:37

>> yeah we had to do the whole share error

42:39

thing it was a precarious situation to

42:41

begin with and and you just default to

42:43

these routines actually recently I

42:45

watched what I think is a spectacular

42:47

documentary about Dean Potter, who was a

42:49

he was a free solo climber, a

42:52

predecessor to um to Alex Honold.

42:55

>> Um he was kind of the guy to beat and

42:57

Honold passed him up pretty early, but

42:59

and he got into wing suiting and base

43:01

jumping and the whole thing. And there

43:02

was this um there's a scene where um so

43:06

be warned if you watch this amazing

43:08

four-part series. There's a scene where

43:10

uh people were doing base jumping in

43:12

Yusede are advocating for it being legal

43:15

in Yusede. It's illegal. And so there

43:17

were a bunch of spectators there and

43:18

they were doing this big demonstration

43:19

jump. And a woman who was a very very um

43:23

seasoned base jumper, she didn't want to

43:27

use her own gear because they were

43:29

confiscating people's gear at the

43:30

bottom. So, she borrowed someone else's

43:32

gear and she jumps and she's used to

43:34

pulling from a leg a leg pull I guess it

43:37

is. And you just see her the whole way

43:38

down.

43:39

>> The whole way down. And she's got, you

43:41

know, she's got a parachute on.

43:43

>> Yeah.

43:43

>> And just, you know, um not to give it

43:45

away, but I guess, you know, um gave it

43:48

away that uh she

43:51

dies. But the whole way down, you can

43:53

see her just doing this routine

43:54

movement.

43:55

>> Yeah.

43:55

>> And she put on a different pack. She

43:57

knew that it was a different pole

43:59

location. So under conditions of very

44:01

high arousal,

44:02

>> even highly highly trained people um for

44:05

that that condition, they just default

44:07

to whatever it is that they're used to

44:08

doing. And if you don't know what to do,

44:09

you default to not knowing what to do.

44:11

If you know what to do, you default to

44:13

what you think you need to do in one

44:14

situation. And I've I've had that

44:15

experience scuba diving. It's very clear

44:17

from this documentary. the and I think

44:19

we're all a little naive in thinking

44:21

that oh no like when the alarm goes and

44:24

everything is crazy like I'm going to

44:25

sort through this in a in a regimented

44:28

way like or I'll be so keyed up I'll

44:29

I'll have to figure it out. This is not

44:31

quite the case. The brain seems to not

44:33

work that way.

44:34

>> Yeah. I think we discover that um you

44:36

know in these extreme situations but

44:37

also even kind of in some simple

44:39

situations there's there's a really

44:40

concerning thing that happens that

44:42

people will leave children infants in

44:44

the back of their car

44:45

>> unattended and you know and these

44:48

infants will will die on hot days. When

44:52

you look at these investigations, the

44:54

reason this happens is, you know, these

44:55

are very responsible, very intelligent

44:57

parents who will, you know, put their

45:00

child in the car and then get in the car

45:02

and then you just get in this mode of

45:04

I'm going to work. I'm going to do my

45:06

job and you're in this routine. The baby

45:07

falls asleep, you drive to work, you go

45:10

upstairs, you do, and then you and then

45:12

you get this phone call of like, where's

45:14

your infant or why haven't they been

45:15

dropped off? And you're thinking, what

45:17

what are you talking about?

45:18

>> Whoa.

45:19

>> Exactly. I'm sure many people listening

45:20

to this are like there's no way. There's

45:24

no way.

45:24

>> Well, I think there's like there's no

45:26

way that could happen to me. This must

45:27

be some person who's super distracted or

45:30

has this. Sadly, it happens too often to

45:34

people of, you know, all sorts of

45:35

people. And I think that's part of the

45:37

issue is like like you were saying,

45:38

she's going to grab the strap where it

45:40

normally is. You drive to work a hundred

45:41

times this way, but it's this one day

45:43

where it was your turn to take the

45:45

infant to daycare and you just get into

45:48

this mode, this habit, this routine. And

45:51

now we have to have, you know, our car

45:53

talking to us. You know, some cars will

45:54

even say, you know, have you checked the

45:56

back seat for an infant? It's like,

45:58

gosh, have we come to that level where

46:00

we need to be reminded of these things?

46:02

So I think that's where you know it it

46:04

you're right it becomes lethal that you

46:06

know sometimes it's talked about in

46:07

terms of prospective memory remembering

46:09

to do something in the future. We think

46:11

of memories usually as remembering to do

46:12

some from the past right but a lot of it

46:15

is you know what do you have to do

46:16

today? Are you meeting this person? We

46:18

have offload this to our phones and get

46:19

reminders. Um but we're prone to

46:22

forgetting and um especially under

46:25

you're talking about high arousal. this

46:26

person's falling. But it's even as

46:28

simple as when you're in the car and and

46:30

you're probably aware when you're in the

46:31

car, you start mind wandering. You're

46:33

thinking of a million other things and

46:35

all of a sudden you've arrived somewhere

46:36

or you missed your turn. So our brain

46:38

kind of takes over in ways that we might

46:40

not be sure about. Yeah. One of the

46:42

things that spooks me about scuba diving

46:44

and I love scuba diving is, you know, I

46:47

got my Patty certification because it's

46:48

a bit more involved, but it worries me

46:51

that you actually don't have to update

46:53

and if you do, not very often. You can

46:56

It's been gosh it's been four or more

46:58

five years since I went scuba diving

47:00

last time. I've got my card. I have my

47:02

gear

47:02

>> and if somebody wants to go scuba diving

47:04

tomorrow I can do it legally.

47:06

>> Yeah.

47:07

>> But there's a lot involved you know like

47:09

you need to brush up. And so you know I

47:11

mean here in the United States we have

47:12

all this like you know people can sue

47:14

each other there all these legal

47:15

protections but there's still a lot of

47:17

ways in which we can do damage to

47:19

ourselves or others just by virtue of

47:20

the fact that we're we don't have to

47:22

brush up on driving skills. Yeah,

47:25

>> you know, it it's kind of a shock to me

47:28

that we don't have more more problems

47:30

related to forgetting.

47:32

>> It's true. I think the more you think

47:33

about it, it's amazing how much we do

47:35

remember, especially under some

47:36

circumstances. But I agree that a lot of

47:38

this, you know, scuba diving, too,

47:40

because you're underwater with, you

47:41

know, buoyancy, you have to figure

47:43

things out. And I got certified, too,

47:45

when I was 20. I wouldn't trust myself

47:47

to to do it again. I'd want to probably

47:49

take the entire course again. Um, and

47:51

maybe but when you're 30 maybe you feel

47:53

confident and you know especially

47:55

drivers like new drivers you know you

47:57

give very little training to younger

48:00

drivers and then you're like you're on

48:02

your own. Uh I've seen it with my

48:04

children learning to drive. I also

48:06

realize I'm not as good a driver as I

48:08

thought I was. I'm certainly passing on

48:10

some habits that I probably should be

48:12

more aware of and they're more

48:14

rulebased. They're aware of how to do

48:16

things. But I have this feeling like

48:18

this wisdom. Well, you don't need to do

48:19

that or you know that's the rule, but I

48:21

do it this way. So, I think you're

48:23

right. I think we revisiting these

48:25

things more often and being more

48:27

cognizant probably would make us safer.

48:29

On the lighter side, um many people who

48:34

are concerned about their memory as they

48:36

age will ask about forgetting. Um, I

48:40

want to know why as people get older,

48:43

they tell the same stories over and over

48:46

again, same jokes over and over again.

48:48

Have they forgotten that they've said

48:50

the joke or they just doing it for their

48:51

own entertainment or [snorts]

48:54

I don't know like what what is this

48:55

about? Like I feel like someone needs to

48:57

do that study like like why why

48:59

[clears throat] do people tell the same

49:00

stories as they get older? I I think

49:02

there's a lot of reasons and you know a

49:04

lot of memories do change with age and

49:06

some forms of memory like source memory

49:08

uh tends to decline with age. You can't

49:10

remember where you saw the headline or

49:12

who you told the joke to. Um and

49:14

sometimes I'll even say, you know, have

49:16

I told you this before? But sometimes

49:18

it's just such a good joke or such a

49:20

good memory. I'm like, I don't really

49:21

care because I'm going to tell it to you

49:22

again because I'm enjoying this. And my

49:24

kids will be like, yeah, we've heard

49:25

that so many times. I'm like, yeah, but

49:27

it's so good. So, it's probably a little

49:30

bit of both. But I think there's also

49:31

some nostalgia. Like we do share family

49:34

histories this way.

49:35

>> And I think you know when families get

49:36

together for Thanksgiving there's this

49:38

rehashing of do you remember when this

49:40

happened? It's like yeah we tell that

49:41

story every time. Um a lot of our

49:44

histories used to be oral histories

49:45

where you know we're telling stories and

49:47

reminding people and it's how we

49:48

determine what foods were safe. But

49:51

yeah, I can see it's certainly

49:52

frustrating and I think we think gosh

49:54

I'm talking to this older person.

49:55

They're telling me the same thing again

49:56

and you're nodding. But I I take a

49:59

certain amount of enjoyment from it.

50:00

There's a nostalgia. Um there's also a

50:03

feeling of familiarity.

50:05

>> And so probably it's it's a collection

50:07

of things. But you do see more

50:08

pathological aging that people will

50:10

completely forget. Um you know, they'll

50:12

say the same things. They'll ask,

50:14

"What's for dinner again?" 5 minutes

50:15

later, "What's for dinner again? What's

50:17

for dinner again?" And that's where it's

50:19

probably more concerning. Um but it is

50:22

an interesting thing to note that as we

50:24

you know get older we might engage in

50:26

that sort of behavior.

50:27

>> What is the consensus now on Alzheimer's

50:30

and memory loss generally? Meaning is it

50:33

inevitable that people lose some amount

50:35

of memory and um conditions like

50:37

Alzheimer's are just a more rapid

50:39

downward trajectory and we could talk

50:41

about super aers. These people that seem

50:42

to maintain cognition well better than

50:45

their their peers anyway. Are there

50:48

people who just, you know, are sharp

50:49

till the day they take their last breath

50:51

and that last breath comes in their 90s

50:53

or even past 100?

50:55

>> Yeah, I think just the the diversity

50:57

that accompanies aging is really

50:59

interesting. You could look at a

51:00

100-year-old who's doing really well and

51:02

a 60-year-old who's not doing so well.

51:04

So, we can't just use kind of biological

51:06

age as as the marker. Um, and as a

51:08

psychologist, of course, I'm interested

51:10

in psychological aspects. Um, and

51:12

there's, you know, an old study on nuns

51:15

who, you know, it's interesting to see

51:16

how you can test different people, but

51:18

nuns are very committed to their their

51:21

profession. Um, and you found that these

51:24

nuns, how they aged, some of them

51:25

certainly when they passed away, their

51:27

brains had these kind of hallmark signs

51:29

of dementia, plaques and tangles, but

51:32

behaviorally they were still high

51:33

functioning. So, it's really interesting

51:35

that the hardware shows what we see as

51:38

dementia and specifically Alzheimer's

51:41

disease, but their behavior uh was that

51:44

of a fairly healthy cognitive person.

51:46

So, something else has to be going on.

51:48

And you know, it could be some people

51:50

say it's having a sense of purpose,

51:52

could be having social connections. We

51:54

know that's incredibly important. I

51:56

think we do have a certain amount of

51:57

control over it. And some of it might be

51:59

based on physical exercise and sleep. So

52:02

I know things you've talked about before

52:04

and some it is having kind of a positive

52:06

attitude about aging that if you feel

52:08

like you you know some people say well

52:09

it's all genetic so what do I have to

52:11

do? Well if you go on a walk some really

52:14

good research shows that you know

52:16

walking three or four times a week um

52:19

can enhance hippocample function the

52:21

part of the brain that's very involved

52:22

in declarative memory. Um and that part

52:25

of the brain you know having turned 50

52:27

recently tends to decline by about one

52:29

to two% a year in terms of volume. So

52:32

this is kind of physical shrinkage of

52:33

the brain.

52:34

>> But in the walking group the group that

52:36

was randomly assigned to walk three four

52:38

times a week for 40 minutes compared to

52:40

a stretching group who's still engaging

52:42

in exercise but not cardiovascular

52:44

exercise. The walking group their you

52:46

know hippocamp is actually increased in

52:49

volume by 1%. So you're changing the the

52:52

brain, but you're also changing the

52:54

behavior. Their memory was much better a

52:55

year later. So I think, you know, if you

52:58

saw a doctor and said, you know, I'm

52:59

having some memory problems. What can I

53:01

do? Most people are looking for a pill

53:03

or, you [snorts] know, sometimes it's

53:05

eat this or do that. But I think

53:07

physical exercise can be so important.

53:10

Uh, and it probably the mechanism we

53:12

don't know exactly, but it probably

53:13

trickles down to things like

53:14

improvements in sleep as well. M you

53:16

know if you're getting exercise maybe

53:18

earlier in the day you're going to have

53:20

better mood you're going to sleep

53:21

better. We know a lot of memory

53:23

formation happens when you're sleeping.

53:25

Uh we know as we get older our sleep

53:28

quality tends to decline even if our

53:30

quantity tends to increase. So I think

53:33

just knowing that there are some things

53:34

we can do and I'm using physical

53:36

exercise as the example and it doesn't

53:38

have to be you know the extreme version.

53:41

um walking, dancing, um a lot of people,

53:44

you know, enjoy being outside. Uh that

53:47

can be incredibly important to offset

53:49

some of the things we do know can can

53:51

lead to dementia.

53:52

>> Was the walking vigorous?

53:54

>> You know, in this group, I think it's

53:56

really 30 to 40 minutes. And there's

53:59

nothing special certainly about walking,

54:00

but it's something where you can

54:01

randomly assign people to either walk or

54:03

engage in stretching.

54:05

>> So if you're biking, if you're swimming,

54:07

if you're dancing, any of these things

54:08

can be beneficial. But here it's, you

54:10

know, you can randomly assign people to

54:12

walk and and it should be at a rate

54:13

where you're, you know, there's research

54:15

showing that the people who walk

54:16

slightly faster actually live longer.

54:19

Um, so, you know, you're not sure

54:21

exactly

54:21

>> reverse causality there.

54:22

>> Could certainly be that. And and a lot

54:24

of this research, it's tough to do aging

54:26

research because it's hard to randomly

54:27

assign people to to certain conditions,

54:30

>> but I think as a psychologist, knowing

54:32

that you have a little bit of control

54:33

over the process is important. And I

54:36

think, you know, most people when they

54:37

talk about aging, they're so worried

54:39

about dementia and, you know,

54:40

Alzheimer's disease as a specific form,

54:43

but balance is even more important, I

54:45

think. And most people aren't even aware

54:47

of their balance.

54:49

>> So, one in four people over the age of

54:51

65 will experience a fall. And that fall

54:54

can be very detrimental. You can break

54:56

your hip, your collar bone. Often, you

54:59

know, you're getting up at night more

55:00

frequently. You trip over a carpet or a

55:02

rug. And you know, if you're in bed

55:05

recovering from these falls, you're not

55:07

walking. You know, your hippocampus is

55:09

shrinking. If you ask people, "How's

55:11

how's your balance?" Most people are

55:12

like, "Well, it's fine. I I don't

55:14

haven't had a fall." But there's a very

55:16

simple test. We could do it now if you

55:18

wanted where you just stand up and see

55:19

if you can balance on one leg for at

55:21

least 10 seconds. And I have, you know,

55:23

when I do presentations, I do this

55:25

ideally 30, 40 minutes into the

55:27

presentation. We shouldn't be sitting

55:28

for so long. And most people do pretty

55:31

well. it's a younger group and sometimes

55:33

it's older adults I'm speaking to and

55:35

you can tell you know I'm like make sure

55:36

you have something you can hold on to

55:38

and you can tell that balance changes

55:41

considerably with age

55:42

>> and then I say okay now try doing it

55:44

with your eyes closed

55:46

>> and I actually usually don't do this

55:47

with my older adult group because then

55:49

you see the younger people start to tip

55:51

and you know it's very we get a lot of

55:52

cues from our visual environment for

55:54

balance

55:55

>> the young the older people tip

55:57

>> everyone you'll see the younger people

55:58

start to tip that's why it's even more

56:00

surprising It's like a field sobriety

56:02

test.

56:03

>> It very much is, but it's this again

56:05

from this metacognitive standpoint where

56:06

you think your balance is fine because

56:08

you haven't had a fall, but you could be

56:10

close to falling at any given point. And

56:13

so, you know, the cerebellum, the almost

56:15

very primitive part of the brain is

56:16

involved in a lot of this. What's

56:18

interesting with balance is it's very

56:20

trainable. And so, you know, there's

56:22

parts of balance that involve visual

56:24

inner ear, but if you engage in some

56:26

training, and it can be as simple as

56:28

standing on one leg or doing yoga or

56:30

taichi, you can improve your balance

56:31

considerably within a month or two. And

56:34

so, I think when I talk to older adults

56:36

who, you know, sometimes are even

56:38

middle-aged, worried about their memory,

56:40

I think balance is often overlooked and

56:42

it's something that's trainable. Um, so

56:44

I've started to do it a little bit and

56:45

I've noticed changes in my balance.

56:48

>> Sometimes good. I also notice I don't

56:49

sleep well. my balance isn't as good.

56:52

Um, and I think that's probably the most

56:54

important thing to be on the lookout for

56:56

because, you know, these things are

56:57

related. If you if you lose your balance

56:58

and you have a fall, you're not going to

57:00

be engaging physical exercise. Your

57:02

memor is going to decline.

57:03

>> Yeah, the old skiers and the uh old

57:06

surfers look to be in pretty awesome

57:09

shape. Um, there are million compounds

57:12

there. The sunlight, the social

57:13

connection, the water, the cold, the,

57:17

>> you know, I mean, there are a bunch of

57:18

things. Um, obviously it's not just the

57:20

skiing or the surfing, but there are

57:22

certain sports where you look at the

57:25

people and you say, "Okay, they're not

57:26

the biggest and strongest, nor are they

57:28

the ones with the most endurance, but on

57:31

balance, they seem strong. Their posture

57:33

looks good."

57:34

>> Yeah.

57:35

>> Um, they seem relatively happy. Who

57:39

knows, right? I'm intrigued by the fact

57:43

that I look at a lot of these videos of

57:45

of uh super aers and athletes in their

57:49

70s, 80s, 90s who are doing remarkably

57:51

well. It's very rare to see a video of

57:55

athletes or non-athletes past 80 where

57:57

they're breathing through their nose

57:59

with their mouth shut. Almost always you

58:01

see, [sighs and gasps]

58:03

>> now I'm not saying it's causal,

58:05

>> but there does seem to be a shift in the

58:06

way that people breathe as they get

58:08

older. look at some of the um I forget

58:10

his name now. He's a television um

58:13

personality u who's been around a long

58:15

he's in his hundreds and he's been on

58:17

YouTube in the news programs recently.

58:20

But at rest it's like a mouth open

58:22

breathing pattern. You kind of wonder

58:24

whether or not they're getting enough

58:25

oxygen to their brain. And I I do think

58:28

that the shift in how we breathe,

58:30

spontaneous movement, these things all

58:32

go together.

58:33

>> Um and I do think each

58:34

>> component part needs to be looked at

58:36

individually.

58:37

So, okay. So, it's the movement, it's

58:39

the exercise, the novelty, the social

58:41

connection, but ultimately there's a lot

58:43

of other things going on. Like, we know

58:45

older people just don't they don't move

58:47

spontaneously very much. We had Twilight

58:49

Tharpin here, the you know, world famous

58:51

choreographer, and she's in her

58:53

somewhere in her 80s. You know, she can

58:54

>> deadlift um twice her body weight.

58:58

>> Works out at 5:00 a.m. every morning for

58:59

two hours.

59:00

>> Wow.

59:01

>> She boxed for a while.

59:03

>> Um but actual boxing cuz she's Twilight,

59:06

right? She's a she's a really uh she's

59:08

got a lot of spirit, but

59:10

>> she doesn't sit like I'm sitting like

59:12

kind of lazy back. She's she's fully

59:14

active and she's she's moving and she's

59:17

nasal breathing when unless she's

59:18

speaking like she's

59:20

>> she's her nervous system is turned on. I

59:24

notice that and I go, God willing, I'll

59:26

be I'll be like that. But I notic with

59:27

each passing year, I take a few more

59:29

opportunities to lean against things as

59:31

opposed to standing up, not leaning

59:32

against them or starting to resemble the

59:35

bulldogs I've owned. There's opportunity

59:37

to lie down, they lie down. If there's

59:39

opportunity, you know, sleep and I don't

59:41

know that that's good. Maybe we need to

59:43

nudge ourselves to be a little more

59:45

active than we're comfortable. I think

59:47

the insight is so important to be like,

59:48

I notice I'm doing more of this or I'm

59:50

looking a lot like this and I'm

59:52

surprised things starting like posture

59:55

or even breathing. And I think, you

59:57

know, I'm not an expert in this area,

59:58

but just getting more oxygen to the

60:00

brain is so important. And I think

60:01

that's probably the mechanism be, you

60:03

know, for physical exercise, you're

60:04

getting more oxygen to your brain, which

60:06

really as you get older, it's harder to

60:08

do that. And so exercise might be kind

60:11

of the mechanism um that does that. And

60:13

maybe with the, you know, advances,

60:14

we're going to find other ways to do

60:16

that. Uh but I think that insight is is

60:19

really important. And it's also, you

60:21

know, we have age-based stereotypes of

60:23

what happens, like, oh, as you get

60:25

older, you know, let's say, you know, my

60:28

knee hurts and some people are like, oh,

60:30

well, you're just getting older.

60:32

>> Well, my other knee is the same age and

60:34

it feels fine. [laughter]

60:36

>> So, something's going on. Maybe there's

60:38

some trauma. There's something. But it

60:40

does give you this feeling like, hey,

60:41

there's something I can do. Or maybe you

60:43

know I'm a firm believer like in

60:45

physical therapy like a lot of the

60:46

exercises we do you know if you keep

60:49

doing the same thing that's great but

60:50

then you lose a lot of the other you

60:52

know muscle mass and you know I think

60:55

exercise

60:56

>> even walking people will say it's really

60:58

like a controlled form of losing your

61:00

balance and regaining it and losing your

61:01

balance and regaining it

61:03

>> and so you add that into hiking which is

61:05

has unpredictable surfaces you know all

61:07

these muscles that are you know you're

61:08

not using too often now have to be

61:11

engaged and so I

61:13

I think that coming back to like

61:14

challenging yourself can be very

61:15

important. Putting yourself in

61:17

uncomfortable positions. I mean, it's

61:18

great to be on this podcast, but there's

61:21

a time where I'm like, I'm not sure I

61:22

want to do this, right? Like, you know,

61:24

how do you get that?

61:25

>> You feeling that way now?

61:26

>> No, now I feel fine. But I think as we

61:28

put ourselves in these uncomfortable

61:30

positions and

61:31

>> I remember, you know, when I first

61:33

started teaching, you're like, gosh, 300

61:35

people, you know, is this this is an

61:37

uncomfortable situation. And one of one

61:39

of my mentors said, you know what?

61:41

there's only one thing you need to do

61:43

and that's breathe

61:45

because you start to forget that you

61:47

know that is the most primitive thing to

61:49

get oxygen to your brain that then you

61:50

can do what you probably can do quite

61:53

well

61:54

>> and that's a a psychological oversight

61:56

where we just kind of start I don't know

61:58

if it's just mouth breathing but as we

61:59

get older you know or there's more

62:01

stress we stop being aware of you know

62:04

the things that can really help us I

62:06

notice with each passing year I get a

62:09

little more difficult with myself about

62:14

the little things, you know, just like

62:16

so I try to this day I have to push

62:18

myself. I take the stairs a little bit

62:20

faster than I want to. I I don't take

62:22

escalators unless there's no stairs

62:24

available. Um when I travel I really I

62:27

find I but I have to push you know

62:31

>> I I have to I mean perhaps um uh you

62:34

know collateral advantage of doing this

62:36

podcast is I say things like that and

62:37

now I don't want to get spotted in an

62:39

airport on an escalator. Um, the other

62:41

day I normally train at home gym, but I

62:43

was in a commercial gym and I was

62:44

listening to music on my phone and this

62:46

kid came up to me and he tabed. He goes,

62:47

"I thought you don't use your phone when

62:48

you work out." I was like, "Sometimes I

62:50

listen to things I just don't I'm not

62:52

texting and sending messages." And he

62:53

was like, "Okay." You know, it's like,

62:55

"Wow, well, I have to be careful what I

62:56

say." But it's nice. It actually has a

62:58

forcing function, right? Um, and I think

63:01

that as we get older, there are a lot of

63:02

things where we're not being observed.

63:04

We're we're not we know we should do

63:05

them, but then we don't do them. And I

63:07

think the injury thing is uh and the

63:09

pain thing is is is a big one.

63:11

>> Yeah.

63:12

>> You know, I I I hear this all the time,

63:15

you know, like, yeah, I would exercise

63:17

more, but I got this shoulder thing. I

63:19

got this. And I think that's why there's

63:20

so much excitement about these peptides,

63:22

and it's still very unclear, you know,

63:24

what's going to be useful or not.

63:26

Actually, there's a study out of Helen

63:27

Blau's lab at Stanford

63:30

um on mice and humans where they found

63:33

an inhibitor of the molecule that

63:35

inhibits cartilage regeneration. They

63:37

knock out this inhibitor or they have a

63:39

drug um kind of analog that can do this

63:41

in humans and they observe regeneration

63:44

of knee cartilage. I I'm sure this is

63:46

going to be sourced to pharma. That's

63:48

going to be the path because that's the

63:49

typical path for labs at Stanford if

63:50

they have a discovery like that. But

63:52

>> how cool would that be? Yeah,

63:54

>> right now, knock on wood, I have

63:55

[clears throat] like no no joint issues,

63:57

but how cool would that be? Because I

63:59

think a lot of people just think, well,

64:00

the body wears out.

64:02

>> Yeah,

64:02

>> you know, the hip wears out, the knee

64:04

wears out. And so when they have that

64:06

pain, they don't think they could

64:07

overcome it by by movement. They they

64:09

assume, well, you know, the chassis is

64:11

kind of going and then, you know,

64:12

>> well, a lot of this, you know, comes

64:14

down to habits and some of it is

64:16

motivation, right? It's hard to get

64:17

motivated to go to the gym. And as you

64:19

get older, more aches and pains. It's

64:21

like harder to get up. it's easier to

64:22

sit down. But I think knowing you have

64:25

some control over it that you know a lot

64:27

of especially in midlife people have

64:29

back pain. It's probably the most common

64:31

thing and it's probably from sitting you

64:33

know we work a lot and especially in

64:35

midlife there's some interesting you

64:36

know it's not always a linear decline

64:39

with age and in fact there's some

64:40

interesting work on you know happiness

64:42

being more curve linear like midlife is

64:46

actually some of the lowest levels of

64:48

happiness and life satisfaction

64:49

>> really like our age 50 really

64:51

>> so I hope in some ways that can well in

64:54

some ways it can make great yeah well it

64:55

can make you feel good because it you

64:57

know a lot of people who might not feel

64:59

great at 40 or 50 if you said, "Well,

65:01

actually that's the lowest point in the

65:02

graph and it can actually get better

65:04

with age."

65:05

>> Mhm.

65:05

>> The title of my book,

65:07

>> but it makes you realize that as we get

65:09

older, there are more aches and pains.

65:10

And yet, why are older adults, some of

65:12

them who are fairly healthy and active

65:14

are doing really well, whereas kind of

65:16

when you're younger and your body's in

65:18

decent shape, we're doing things like

65:21

sitting, we're working a lot, we're

65:22

stressed, we're not handling our

65:24

emotions as well as we could. And so I

65:26

think that's why aging is an interesting

65:28

thing that you know we think when we're

65:30

young that's you know the best times in

65:32

our lives. It actually might be some of

65:34

the most confusing times.

65:36

>> Are you happier at 50 than you were at

65:38

40?

65:39

>> I think I am. I think I'm more content.

65:42

>> Um but when I was at 20 or 30 I could do

65:44

whatever I want. I could scuba dive. I

65:46

could play basketball. I'd bounce back

65:47

from an injury.

65:49

>> Your was your internal landscape more

65:50

peaceful or more?

65:52

>> Absolutely not. And I actually see it in

65:53

a lot of undergraduates who are like

65:55

it's a confusing time. You're trying to

65:57

figure out what you want to do. You're

65:58

trying you're in a different place. You

66:00

have different partners. It's a you know

66:02

and yet we say we almost romanticize

66:05

that college is the best time in your

66:06

life.

66:07

>> Oh my god. No.

66:08

>> Yeah.

66:08

>> I am I I'll say I even though I am very

66:12

happy 40 was rough. My 40th birthday I

66:16

was like this is rough. And coming up in

66:18

sciences, I loved doing it. Loved the

66:21

experience. But it was very stressful.

66:23

Raising money for your lab. A posttock

66:24

is a very uncertain time. A lot of

66:26

uncertainty,

66:28

>> a lot of stress.

66:29

>> Yeah.

66:29

>> And now I I mean, I have stressors, but

66:31

I

66:32

>> I I view them differently.

66:34

>> I feel completely differently about

66:36

stress in general. I mean, I do a lot of

66:38

things, but I I I don't think teen

66:41

years, certainly not for me, or 20s or

66:43

30s are the best years of your of your

66:45

life. Yeah. I I can attest like it

66:47

didn't suck, but it it was rough.

66:49

>> I mean, there's fun parts to it and

66:51

there's a lot of novelty and you did

66:52

things then that you probably wouldn't

66:53

do now, but I think when we talk about

66:56

aging, we're talking about how how

66:58

negative it can be and all these things

67:00

that can happen physically, but a lot of

67:02

the older adults I talk to and I've

67:03

interviewed for my book are saying

67:05

actually 60 or 70 is probably the best

67:07

time in my life.

67:08

>> Nice.

67:09

>> Yeah. that makes me [clears throat] feel

67:10

I mean it's a select group who I'm

67:12

talking to but it's not like it's the

67:14

best time in terms of my aches and pains

67:17

or you know sure I wish I was 40 for

67:19

some reasons but those times can be very

67:21

challenging and stressful so from a

67:23

psychological standpoint it's

67:24

interesting to look at these kind of

67:26

nonlinear dynamics it's not a linear

67:28

decline it's not that happiness just

67:29

gets better with age there's there can

67:32

be this midlife dip and you know some

67:34

I'm not a clinical psychologist some

67:35

people call this you know midlife well

67:37

of course there's

67:39

conflict at midlife. Well, there's

67:40

really conflicts at every stage. Some of

67:42

the, you know, Ericson's work on said

67:45

every decade there's a conflict and it's

67:46

how you resolve it allows you to kind of

67:48

move on to the next stage of life. And I

67:51

think um, you know, sometimes we don't

67:53

think about midlife as much as well,

67:55

this is what happens when you're young

67:56

and this is what happens when you're

67:58

old.

67:59

>> And it's probably how you deal with what

68:00

happens in the middle which allows you

68:02

to age well. Um, so when I'm, you know,

68:05

when I talk about aging, most of the

68:06

older adults I talk to, I'm not

68:08

educating them on how to age well.

68:10

They've, they're there and they're doing

68:11

it, it's often middle-aged people who

68:14

are like, well, I have older parents.

68:16

Um, you know, how are most people when

68:18

they're 20 or 30, they're not thinking,

68:20

what's my life going to be like when I'm

68:21

70 or 80?

68:22

>> Yeah. Even now, that's hard for me to

68:24

conceptualize.

68:25

>> Sure. Yeah. I just try and do the best I

68:28

can to take care of myself every day so

68:30

that maybe I'll hit hopefully I'll hit

68:33

60 70 feeling great. I actually feel

68:35

better physically now than I did in my

68:37

40s and 30s, but I was working so much

68:41

then. You know, a lot of people I'm not

68:43

boasting. It's actually probably should

68:45

be more of a point of shame. I don't

68:46

really recommend it for most people. I I

68:48

mean I

68:48

>> I worked nonstop and I don't know that

68:52

I'd wish that on anyone. And I think a

68:54

little more balance would have been

68:55

healthy. Now I work a lot, but I

68:58

definitely take time to to meditate, to

69:01

pray, spend time with people in my life.

69:03

Like I really try and savor things a bit

69:05

more.

69:06

>> Yeah.

69:06

>> Um the problem with academic science as

69:08

you know is there's always a deadline or

69:09

revision or or something. There's always

69:12

something. So once you realize there's

69:14

always something.

69:14

>> I think it's in a lot of professions,

69:16

you know, people are very driven early.

69:18

They have to prove themselves. You're

69:19

either you're trying to survive, make

69:21

money, make a name for yourself. And

69:22

that puts a lot of stress on you. And as

69:25

you get further along, you might realize

69:27

maybe it's not worth it or maybe I need

69:28

to backtrack or maybe there's more

69:30

important things. And I think it really

69:32

does come down to balance. And um you

69:34

know, John Wooden, the UCLA basketball

69:36

coach, I got to interview him uh you

69:39

know, he was in his 90s and he said it

69:42

really comes down to two things. And I

69:43

thought, "Oh, this is great. You know,

69:44

Coach Wooden is going to tell me, you

69:46

know, the two things." And he thought of

69:48

himself as a teacher, not just a coach.

69:50

So he did, you know, a very effective

69:52

thing. He had me guess those two things.

69:54

The two most important words in the

69:56

English language is how he said it. And

69:58

here I am a student again. And I'm

70:00

thinking, gosh, he's a coach, so I don't

70:02

know. Success, teamwork, what is it? And

70:05

he said, you know, the most important

70:06

thing is love. Be around the people you

70:09

love. Do the things you love. Um, and

70:12

you know, he lost his wife well before

70:14

he passed away. He wouldn't sleep on her

70:16

side of the bed. He would write her a

70:18

letter every month.

70:19

>> Wow. um you know he had report cards

70:21

from his grandchildren's on the on on

70:23

the wall right next to letters from

70:25

presidents you know so he's really

70:27

surrounded by a a great community former

70:30

players calling his former players were

70:32

by his bedside when he passed away and

70:34

then the second most important word is

70:36

something I think a lot of people

70:38

struggle with we're talking about is

70:39

balance and it's um partly physical

70:43

balance he did have a fall

70:46

>> um you know like we were talking about

70:47

and it's interesting because he had a

70:49

life alert around, you know, that he

70:51

could press around his neck. And this is

70:53

why I think technology is great. Maybe

70:54

there's ways we can prevent falls or but

70:57

he fell in the middle of the night. Um,

70:59

and he broke his his collar bone and his

71:02

wrist and he had this life alert button,

71:05

but he didn't press it

71:06

>> because of pride.

71:08

>> Exactly. He didn't want to bother any

71:10

>> that Y chromosome.

71:12

>> Yeah. It's a [laughter] very but you

71:13

know it you give people all this

71:15

technology and you know and then you

71:16

realize there's a psychological part to

71:18

it as well. He waited until the morning

71:20

his caretaker arrived rushed him to the

71:22

hospital. Thankfully he survived but

71:24

that's pride, guilt, shame, didn't want

71:26

to bother someone. So that's the

71:28

physical balance. And then I think the

71:30

mental balance as he said like you were

71:31

saying is he was a very driven person.

71:34

He was very successful with his

71:35

coaching, but it meant a lot of time

71:37

traveling, a lot of time away from his

71:39

family, not focusing on the things that

71:41

he found incredibly important. And as he

71:43

got older, he felt like he could achieve

71:45

more balance. You know, spend more time

71:47

doing the things he wanted, be around

71:49

the people he wanted. And I think that's

71:51

a struggle for a lot of people. We get

71:53

really into something and, you know, we

71:55

forget about it. You know, we're having

71:57

a conversation. It's hard to stand up.

71:59

You know, it's, you know, you get

72:01

focused on things. But as you get older,

72:04

maybe you're a little bit better at

72:05

finding that balance and finding that

72:07

peace.

72:08

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73:47

Yeah, the notion of having to prove to

73:50

oneself or even to others that one can

73:53

do something, that's a kind of a

73:54

hallmark of being younger. Yeah, I

73:57

suppose some people escape that, but I

73:59

think most people struggle with that

74:01

social comparison thing

74:03

>> and it can be very useful as a as a

74:07

lever.

74:08

>> Um, can generate a lot of hard work,

74:11

great work through competition. um even

74:14

competitions in one's own head, but you

74:18

know, eventually you realize like you're

74:20

the only one in this fight, you know,

74:22

and uh I don't know. I I this podcast

74:25

has a very um broad uh audience in terms

74:29

of age ranges. And so I it's a it's

74:32

interesting the the younger crowd, let's

74:34

just say 35 and younger, tend to have

74:38

questions about how to pick direction,

74:40

what what direction to go.

74:42

Um

74:42

>> the older crowd um generally is asking

74:45

about things related to keeping their

74:47

memory, their health and these days

74:49

asking a lot of questions about whether

74:51

they should revise their notions of what

74:54

age appropriate physical ability or

74:55

mental ability should be. I think that's

74:57

a big shift.

74:59

>> Mhm.

74:59

>> Out there right now because um you know

75:02

20 years ago it was assumed you know

75:04

people would hit 70 or 80 and start to

75:05

slow down and you know now people are

75:08

like well if I feel great at 50 maybe I

75:10

could feel great at 60. If I could feel

75:11

great at 60 maybe I could feel great at

75:13

90. You know the possibility feels real.

75:15

And I'm not talking about living longer.

75:17

I actually don't consider myself a

75:19

longevity person. Sometimes I'll get

75:21

lumped there. It's like I've never

75:22

actually focused on that. Yes. I think

75:24

it's great to live as long as you can at

75:26

a a vibrant life, but what do you think

75:29

about the messaging that we could go

75:32

longer or could make more of our time?

75:34

Do you think it's net positive or do you

75:37

think that's creating a pressure for

75:38

people to not live into their the

75:41

reality that hey, they're like 70 and

75:44

maybe slowing down and maybe telling

75:46

those stories two or three times that

75:48

maybe maybe they're supposed to shed

75:49

wisdom and and not supposed to be uh

75:51

jogging around the block. Yeah, it's so

75:53

interesting to see these age age age

75:55

related differences, but also to see how

75:56

that's shifting and we're certainly

75:58

living longer or you know, for the most

76:00

part if you look at our history and

76:02

there's a variety of reasons for that,

76:04

but you want to make sure those years

76:05

that we're adding are healthy ones. Um

76:08

because the longer you live, the greater

76:09

the chance of developing dementia. Um I

76:13

think from a psychological perspective,

76:14

it's interesting because uh you know, if

76:17

you ask someone how old do you feel?

76:19

That's very different than your

76:20

biological age. Let's say you didn't

76:22

have access to your birth suit. Your

76:23

parents actually said, "Sorry, we can't

76:25

actually remember how old you are."

76:27

>> How would you figure that out?

76:29

>> We're actually not your parents.

76:31

I'm I'm sure they're my parents. Um,

76:33

yeah, that's an interesting question.

76:35

>> And this is known as subjective age. And

76:37

you [clears throat] know, there's a

76:38

physical feeling. There's al also this

76:40

mental feeling. So, how do we assign

76:41

that? And actually, after the age of 40,

76:43

most people feel about 20% younger than

76:45

their actual age. M and so I don't know

76:48

if it's deceptive but you know if you're

76:50

70 you know we just turned 50 and I'm

76:53

like wow that sounds

76:54

>> sounds old [laughter]

76:56

I feel about 40 seemed more recent but

76:59

yeah I can see some things but as you

77:01

get further along it's like gosh I'm in

77:02

this age group am I supposed to do this

77:04

now or behave like that but my parents

77:06

are different than I was and so I think

77:09

it's interesting it's also interesting

77:11

that that subjective age is a better

77:13

predictor of how long you'll live than

77:15

your biological age.

77:17

>> Fascinating.

77:17

>> Yeah. So, you know, you go to the doctor

77:19

and you're told like, "So, give me how

77:21

old are you?" Well, that all of a sudden

77:23

it's like, "Well, I guess I should

77:25

behave like a 75year-old or an

77:27

80-year-old." You're not going the

77:28

doctor's not going to say, "How old do

77:29

you feel?" And in some ways, people do

77:32

feel their age. I certainly feel my age

77:33

when I have an injury or when I'm like,

77:35

I'm tired or why am I getting I'm at 5

77:37

in the morning now and I can't get back

77:38

to sleep. But there's sometimes where

77:40

it's like, no, I I feel young. And I'm

77:43

not saying I'm running marathons, but I

77:44

know when I coach my son's baseball

77:46

team, I feel young. I mean, I feel old

77:48

in some ways, but I'm like, "Oh, I

77:50

remember how much fun this can be." And

77:51

it's nice to be around kids and, you

77:54

know, when I'm on a college campus, I'm

77:55

like, "This is nice to be around, you

77:57

know, younger people, and I'm learning a

77:58

lot from younger groups, and I'm seeing

78:00

how they're confused in different ways."

78:02

So,

78:03

>> I think there's a lot of age related

78:05

stereotypes that are sometimes accurate,

78:07

but we don't need to necessarily, you

78:09

know, subscribe to them at all times.

78:11

And in some ways you can have also and

78:13

this is partly the motivation for my

78:15

book kind of like mentors for aging. And

78:18

I think when I ask my class who are some

78:20

people that you really look up to who've

78:22

aged well or successful aging a lot of

78:25

it comes down to like a grandparent or a

78:27

parent or an aunt or an uncle. And that

78:30

that's really interesting because you

78:31

share like some genetic overlap with

78:33

them. But, you know, the stories, the

78:35

reasons are really impressive and not

78:36

that they're running marathons, but

78:38

like, oh, we have this recipe or every

78:41

holiday they do this or they're still

78:42

walking and doing this and sometimes

78:44

it's a public figure. Um, but having

78:47

these role models is really important

78:49

and often times it is apparent. So,

78:51

probably my favorite podcast that I

78:53

watched recently of yours was with your

78:55

father,

78:56

>> right? because you can see this dynamic

78:57

and you can see like gosh this this is

79:00

an older person and this is the younger

79:02

version but they're different in so many

79:03

ways and kind of you know some people

79:06

can retire and some people clearly can't

79:08

and and so I don't think there's any

79:10

secret to successful aging like you have

79:12

to do this or that but there's certainly

79:14

some people and I've seen it in my

79:15

family who can't retire or they have a

79:18

career shift you know I saw my dad go

79:20

from being a theoretical physics

79:22

professor to being an editor of a

79:24

literary arts journal and it's like such

79:26

a shift, but I think it revived him and

79:28

allowed him to kind of like you've gone

79:30

from being a professor to kind of more

79:32

public outreach and that keeps people

79:35

going and that can happen again at 60 or

79:37

70. Um, and so I hope you know there's

79:40

not this, you know, there's certainly

79:41

age discrimination. You're not going to

79:43

hire a 70-year-old to run your IT

79:45

department, but I think there are, you

79:47

know, things that older adults can and

79:49

want to do that will kind of lead to

79:52

this sense of purpose, which is really

79:53

important as you get older. Do you map

79:56

out your future? I mean, do you have u

79:59

like a three or a fiveyear plan? Um I

80:02

find that academics tend to operate on

80:04

the 3 to 5 year plan because grants

80:06

generally are somewhere between three

80:08

and five years. That's pretty much all

80:09

we can reasonably predict about where

80:12

we're going to go with our ideas. We

80:14

update as we discover things and um and

80:17

so on. But do you ever recall having a

80:20

plan currently? Do you plan like where

80:23

you're going? This is just really but as

80:25

a as a template for people to ask

80:28

themselves the same question. I don't

80:29

think I was ever sat down and said

80:31

listen

80:32

>> you want to focus on dayto-day but you

80:34

got to have a plan and the plan should

80:35

be put the horizon at three years or

80:39

five years. I just I sort of defaulted

80:40

to that because of academics.

80:42

>> Yeah.

80:42

>> Um and it's very hard for me to think

80:44

past five years.

80:45

>> No, I think people often will say in

80:47

business too the plan you have and I

80:48

think plans are important because they

80:50

can motivate you. And you know, when I

80:51

first got this job at UCLA, I was

80:53

thrilled to leave the cold weather of

80:55

Toronto and live on the West Coast. But

80:57

I also said, you know, if it doesn't

80:59

work out, let's see, in 3 to 5 years.

81:01

So, I don't think I had this specific

81:03

plan of I have to do this, but I also

81:05

had a plan like, hey, I'd love to write

81:07

a book that is accessible and can kind

81:09

of capture the the lessons I've learned.

81:12

And I didn't put a timeline on that, but

81:14

when I first met my wife, I told her I

81:16

was really interested in doing this. And

81:17

she was very encouraging. and you know

81:20

10 years later that book finally comes

81:22

out. So I think when you articulate

81:23

plans there's definitely research saying

81:25

that you can realize them and when other

81:28

people are thinking that's something you

81:30

can or should do I think it's it's

81:32

beneficial but yeah in the academic

81:34

world there there can be pressures to

81:36

get grants and publish but I think that

81:38

can also hamper some creative outputs. I

81:40

don't have a plan of like in 3 to 5

81:42

years I need to do this and this and

81:44

sure it'd be nice to get another grant

81:45

but maybe if you don't have a grant you

81:47

can have a little more freedom and

81:49

flexibility. Um, I'm really interested

81:51

in how, you know, it's a concern now

81:53

with AI, how people are subjected to a

81:56

lot of information and a lot of this can

81:58

be used for scams and fraud. [snorts]

82:00

>> And so I'm interested in how older

82:02

adults can be kind of, you know, aware

82:05

of these scams that can take, you know,

82:08

can be devastating and how we can make

82:10

kind of the world better for older

82:12

adults. And when I say older, it's like,

82:14

you know, we're not that far away from,

82:16

you know, why why can that self-driving

82:18

car be so appealing to a younger person

82:20

but not an older person. And if we can

82:22

make, you know, technology more

82:24

accessible to older people, it can

82:26

certainly help. And I think there's

82:27

simple ways to do it. Some it starts

82:29

with attitudes about, you know, how do I

82:31

engage with this? Will it work? Will I

82:32

break it? Whereas younger people will

82:34

just they get a new iPhone and they

82:36

don't there's no instruction manual.

82:37

They're just playing around with it. Um,

82:40

so I'm interested in that. I don't think

82:41

that has like a publication that I'm

82:44

going to get out of it and maybe there's

82:46

a grant, maybe there's consulting, but I

82:49

think it's having a broader kind of

82:51

approach might might be beneficial. So,

82:53

these are more abstract goals and

82:55

hopefully some of them can be realized,

82:57

but it's not as tied to like, you know,

82:59

when I was younger, yeah, I wanted to

83:00

get tenure at UCLA, right? I was happy

83:02

to have children and have a house where

83:04

we could be, you know, centrally located

83:06

without a long commute. So, I think

83:08

those were the practical goals. But I

83:10

think as I get older, I feel fortunate

83:12

that I've achieved, you know, some of

83:14

these goals that make my life more

83:15

comfortable. But there's still things

83:17

out there that I'm like, are we really

83:19

ever going to know how memory works? Um,

83:22

maybe, maybe not. But maybe we can make

83:24

things easier to use or now that we know

83:26

memory sort of works this way, maybe we

83:28

can make this technology geared to help

83:30

us in some meaningful way.

83:32

>> Well, a comment and then a question. My

83:34

comment is if anyone needs self-driving

83:36

cars, it's older folks.

83:38

>> Right.

83:39

>> Right. I mean if you look at the

83:41

accident data um look at the visual data

83:45

I mean there are people who are

83:47

>> I don't want to say legally blind but

83:48

their peripheral vision is really lousy

83:50

and they're driving and most of driving

83:52

is peripheral vision

83:54

>> um so you know for everybody's sake but

83:57

of course very young people with new

83:59

licenses they're all you know it's a

84:00

it's a it's not a a you know a linear

84:04

distribution of of accidents by age it's

84:08

a U-shaped function. But the the the

84:11

other is um nested in my question about

84:15

whether you set goals is the question of

84:16

whether setting goals helps us stay

84:21

alive. You know, I I covered before some

84:24

of the data on these super aers more of

84:26

the neuroscience anterior midsulate

84:28

cortex which seems to maintain or

84:31

increase volume as superagers

84:33

>> right

84:34

>> age and they hold on to their memory

84:35

etc. And what we understand of that

84:38

structure, it's involved in

84:41

pushing into friction, pushing oneself

84:44

to do something that's hard or not

84:46

desirable for oneself. It seems to come

84:48

up on more and more episodes of the

84:49

podcast. And I think I teach neuro

84:50

anatomy to medical students. When I

84:52

started teaching neuratomy, we didn't

84:53

know what the anterior midsulate cortex

84:55

does, but my colleague Joe Parvevesy

84:57

probed it with electrodes in humans. And

85:00

every single one they got stimulated.

85:02

They'd say, "Feels like a big storm is

85:04

coming. There's a challenge. I want to

85:05

lean into it. They would kind of come up

85:07

in their chair. They, you know, they're

85:09

not, I mean, they're in a halo. They're

85:10

getting surgery. So, but they would get

85:12

physically and mentally activated like,

85:14

I'm going to I'm going to I can take

85:16

this. I can do this. And it's very clear

85:19

that that's the brain structure that

85:20

grows. And so, I feel like going after a

85:23

goal, having goals, something to look

85:25

forward to. I wonder whether or not this

85:27

is the basic evolutionarily,

85:31

you know, hardwired circuitry for if

85:35

you're striving means you're trying to

85:37

get someplace. If you're trying to get

85:38

someplace, there's a concept of a

85:40

future. If there's a concept of a

85:41

future, well then you plan to be there

85:44

or you want to leave something behind

85:46

but

85:46

>> that it might activate literally this

85:49

kind of will to live and I don't want to

85:52

sound mystical here but kind of at a

85:53

cellular level

85:54

>> because when people don't have plans

85:57

then

85:57

>> there's really no I mean

85:59

>> you could just enjoy the smell of the

86:01

roses but that becomes a bit of a closed

86:03

loop. I don't know many people maybe

86:06

monks or something who are really tapped

86:08

into something that just that they just

86:10

want to live in the in the bliss of the

86:11

moment constantly. A lot of life is

86:14

about what comes next and trying to make

86:16

that thing happen.

86:17

>> I mean it's so interesting to look at

86:19

cellular and then anterior singulate and

86:21

then super aers and then sense of

86:23

purpose. If you look at all those

86:24

different levels and then

86:25

>> what we look at in a western culture too

86:27

is very different than some cultures

86:29

that age much better than western

86:31

cultures and maybe there's lessons to be

86:33

learned there because you know a lot of

86:35

it is like you're saying goal setting

86:36

and motivation but the goal is not just

86:38

to live forever. It's to make the most

86:40

of these moments and have this sense of

86:42

purpose. And a lot of older adults do

86:43

want to have this connection to younger

86:46

people or connection to a hobby or an

86:48

interest. And it's not as professionally

86:50

driven as it is in kind of midlife. And

86:53

I think the super ages is really

86:54

interesting because you know I' I've

86:56

read about that and I've seen this and I

86:58

these are not people who said I want to

87:00

live forever and I'm going to you know

87:02

that that's not their goal. And a lot of

87:04

them are not people who are like I went

87:06

to the gym four times a week. they

87:08

they've built into their, you know, it's

87:10

the same with blue zones. It's built

87:12

into their daily life of they eat well

87:14

because that's the food that, you know,

87:16

they enjoy and that they can find. They

87:18

exercise not from going to the gym, but

87:20

from having to walk uphill or on uneven

87:23

surfaces. So, I think I don't want to

87:26

say it's an American focus on goals and

87:28

motivation and biohacking and longevity,

87:31

but if you can build this into your

87:32

daily life, it's so much easier, right?

87:35

And then it just becomes, you know, I

87:36

saw my father bike to work every day. In

87:38

fact, he wouldn't even call it work

87:40

because he didn't want to make it think

87:41

like it was work. And I I don't know why

87:44

I I bike to work too in Los Angeles,

87:46

which is probably not the best thing to

87:47

do, but I've been able to set up my life

87:49

that I bike two miles uphill to work and

87:52

then two miles downhill. It's probably

87:54

sometimes it's the best time of my day.

87:56

Sometimes it's when the best ideas come

87:58

to me. I also have to be vigilant, you

88:00

know. [laughter]

88:00

>> Yeah. I just think the only thing you

88:02

know only met you today but I I feel

88:05

like uh uh something's coming out where

88:07

I'm thinking just I just

88:09

>> having lived in LA a while it's just

88:11

doors cars opening that's just the

88:13

simple

88:13

>> you know other cities too in Toronto

88:15

it's even worse you know um but I think

88:17

with the super aers it's also resilience

88:19

and these are people when you look at

88:21

their lives

88:22

>> sometimes you know they've had you know

88:24

easier lives and that can be beneficial

88:26

in some ways you know having wealth and

88:29

health but often there's a lot

88:30

resilience. You know, you've bounced

88:32

back. We saw this during CO. We at first

88:34

thought CO is going to be terrible for

88:36

older people, right? Because they're

88:38

going to be socially isolated. They

88:39

don't know how to use technology. And

88:41

[snorts] there's certainly reasons why

88:43

older adults could be more vulnerable.

88:45

But what we found, at least at the

88:46

psychological level, we did some of this

88:48

research, older adults were much more

88:50

resilient than younger adults. And I

88:52

think we've learned younger adults went

88:54

through a lot of difficult times being

88:55

socially isolated, being through

88:57

probably their first major kind of

89:00

situation where they can't behave the

89:01

way they're normally doing it. And the

89:03

older adults were the ones who are like,

89:05

"Eh, I've lived through X, Y, and Z,

89:08

wars, financial meltdowns, you know,

89:10

changes in family structure, deaths of

89:13

close people." And older adults seem to

89:16

show a lot more resilience here. And um

89:19

you know when I've interviewed people

89:20

for for this book it's sometimes the

89:23

most interesting people you know lived

89:24

through the Holocaust who are like I

89:26

appreciate every day you know I I think

89:29

the best advice I got from one person

89:31

was like when you're going up or

89:32

downstairs think I'm going up or

89:35

downstairs. They're very present right?

89:38

They know if I'm mind wandering or doing

89:40

something else something can happen. So

89:42

maybe I shouldn't be mind wandering on

89:44

my bike ride. I should be like that's my

89:46

>> but you're considerably younger and

89:49

clearly very me mentally uh aware to be

89:52

able to to use that time of a friend. He

89:55

was actually a guest on this podcast.

89:57

His name is Ryan Suave. He's a a trauma

89:59

therapist. He also treats addiction and

90:00

a number of people.

90:02

>> He said occasionally he'll get a a

90:05

patient who uh was suicidal or tried to

90:09

attempt suicide

90:11

>> um or you know or who attempted suicide,

90:13

excuse me. uh because of a breakup like

90:16

in high school or in uh in their 20s.

90:19

And you know, he said at first when when

90:22

he would get these people coming through

90:23

his clinic, he would think like, listen,

90:24

you want to sit this person down and

90:26

just say, look, like you're you got your

90:28

whole life ahead of you that you're

90:29

going to have other opportunities. There

90:30

are other fish in the sea. But he

90:32

quickly came to realize that to these

90:34

what you know by all arguments are still

90:37

kind of like kids, young adults. um to

90:40

them it it feels like a loss of the

90:43

entire future because they haven't had

90:44

that future [clears throat] yet. And

90:45

when he started approaching it through

90:47

that lens, he was able to be more

90:48

effective clinically

90:50

>> to just really acknowledge like yeah it

90:52

really feels like the whole world is

90:54

coming to an end.

90:55

>> They just don't have the perspective of

90:56

having had some relationship challenges

90:58

and

90:59

>> found someone else and so it really

91:01

feels like their whole life is over.

91:03

>> Yeah.

91:03

>> And because their whole life is up to

91:05

that point. It's interesting to think,

91:07

you know, and I remember thinking like,

91:08

oh yeah, that makes total sense when you

91:10

say it. I mean, obviously not the

91:11

suicidality, you know, one hopes that

91:13

wouldn't be where people would go with a

91:15

breakup, but as we get older, yeah, we

91:18

we can integrate over, you know, oh,

91:21

I've been had my ups, I've had my downs,

91:23

you know, I'm still here, I'm hard to

91:24

kill, you know, as I sometimes tell

91:26

myself, I go, I've had some ups and

91:27

downs and

91:28

>> I'm taking, you know, some heat, I just

91:30

go, okay, well, I know one thing is I'm

91:32

I'm hard to kill.

91:33

>> Yeah.

91:34

>> You know, I'm not resilient. Exactly.

91:36

You go, "Okay, cool." Like, "What did I

91:38

learn? I'm just going to apply the same

91:39

principles here again." And you know,

91:41

and then 10 years later, you go, "I'm

91:43

still here."

91:43

>> Yeah. I mean, it's just too bad. You

91:45

have I mean, in some ways, you have to

91:46

go through those struggles to to to

91:48

realize that, oh, I'm still here. Or in

91:51

retrospect, it was bad, but now I'm on

91:53

to something else. And

91:54

>> or in some cases, it's the best parts of

91:56

life. This I don't understand. Maybe

91:58

this is a more memory uh disruption than

92:01

it is accurate [snorts]

92:03

experience, whatever that is, but I feel

92:05

like our emotional selves integrate in a

92:09

in the way that we compare like things

92:11

really really sucked at a moment, which

92:13

makes the moments afterwards that just

92:16

don't suck a little bit so much better.

92:18

Yeah,

92:18

>> there's some adaptation or habituation

92:20

or whatever and then you look back and

92:22

you go like things are so good because

92:25

things don't completely suck which is a

92:27

very different perspective than I need

92:28

things to be so you know I need a bunch

92:30

of stuff it's maybe it's just the

92:31

absence of suck and you can really savor

92:32

that. No, I think there's there's a

92:34

memory component to that as well. And

92:36

you know, some people have studied this

92:37

looking at what's called the positivity

92:38

bias. That as you get older, you're more

92:41

likely to focus on positive things,

92:42

positive information, positive events,

92:45

but when you're younger, you're more

92:46

likely to focus on negative things. And

92:48

that might be for survival. Um, it might

92:51

not benefit your mental health, but as

92:54

you say, you know, these are big events

92:55

that happen when you're 20, 25, and

92:57

you're like, "This is horrible. How am I

92:58

ever going to get through this?" Well,

93:00

people do. Look at all these 70, 80 year

93:02

olds who've, you know, gone through

93:03

breakups and horrible things that have

93:06

happened.

93:06

>> Financial losses. You hear about people

93:08

in the tech and business world, they're

93:10

like went from so high to so low and

93:13

then back again and you just go, "Oh my

93:15

most people would just be devastated and

93:17

they're like, well, this is the rhythm."

93:19

>> Yeah. And and it's tough, but I think as

93:21

we get older, you know, we might focus

93:24

more on the positive things to enhance

93:25

our mood. And maybe that's what leads to

93:27

this kind of uptick in happiness as we

93:29

get older. It's not just rosecolored

93:30

glasses, but it's also saying, you know,

93:32

I'm going to focus on the things that

93:34

are positive or be around the people

93:36

that make me feel good. I've also heard

93:38

a lot of older adults will say, you

93:40

know, as I get older, I just don't have

93:42

time for that anymore. You know, I don't

93:43

want to focus on the negative things or

93:45

talking to people who bring me down.

93:47

[gasps]

93:48

>> But when we're young, you know, we're

93:49

all around different people and, you

93:51

know, might complain about things and

93:53

maybe that's beneficial. So, you can see

93:55

the bad things and rise above that. But

93:58

again, it's interesting to see these

93:59

nonlinear changes that you know and I I

94:01

think there is definitely a memory

94:03

component and come getting back to that.

94:05

Why do older adults tell the same story

94:07

several times? Well, you know, sometimes

94:09

it's a negative story like I had to walk

94:11

this far to school, but it usually has a

94:13

positive spin to it. And so maybe we do

94:15

this is because we have this positivity

94:18

bias or we want to relay this positive

94:20

information kind of to wash out some of

94:22

the negative things that probably

94:24

happened. you know, some of the happier

94:26

older adults I spent time with in South

94:28

Florida lived through some of the the

94:30

worst times in in Eastern Europe, let's

94:32

say. And I'm like, how how is this

94:34

possible? And it's, you know, their

94:37

brain changes in ways that might make

94:39

them look like they're not as sharp as

94:41

they used to be, but they're telling

94:43

jokes. They're less inhibited. I learned

94:45

some of the the dirtiest jokes from

94:46

these individuals, and I think that

94:49

these people are really interesting to

94:50

talk to. And you know, I I love teaching

94:52

at UCLA and being around students, but

94:55

it's very different than talking to

94:56

older adults. And every once in a while,

94:58

we have this senior scholars program

94:59

that, you know, allows older adults to

95:02

take these undergraduate classes. And to

95:04

me, that's probably the most enriching

95:06

thing. I teach a class on the psychology

95:08

of aging. And here in the classroom,

95:10

there's four older adults. I mean, this

95:12

is a, you know, a case study. And this

95:14

year, several of them were therapists.

95:16

So, I'm like, this is, you know, they

95:17

had a lot of information to share, but

95:19

they're even told in the part of it is

95:21

that they're not supposed to ask

95:23

questions.

95:24

>> And I thought that's so strange. And in

95:26

my class, I want them, you know, I

95:27

assume if they're in astronomy or art

95:29

history, they could be asking tons of

95:31

questions, but I think this is such a

95:33

great way to have this kind of

95:35

intergenerational component. And a lot

95:37

of the students, you know, I tell the

95:38

students, I have two tests, but I don't

95:40

have a final exam. And I tell them, the

95:42

final exam is the test of life. I know

95:44

it sounds a little, you know, kind of

95:46

corny or hokey, but I'm like, everything

95:48

you learned about aging, you're

95:49

hopefully going to use in the future.

95:50

Either your parents might not be

95:52

relevant when you're 20, you're not

95:53

thinking about it. But it was the older

95:55

adults in the class that they often said

95:57

were, you know, I like to think I'm a

95:59

good professor, but they learn the most

96:00

from these older adults. Um, and so I

96:03

think having more of this

96:04

intergenerational interaction,

96:07

uh, is really important. And in

96:08

different cultures, that's built into

96:10

the community. In the Western culture,

96:12

not so much. I mean some people grow up

96:14

with their grandparents in the same

96:16

household. Um I didn't but the at times

96:19

I did have with my grandparents were

96:21

very informative and you know you share

96:23

genetic overlap with these individuals

96:24

yet they also have wisdom and knowledge.

96:26

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96:29

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96:30

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There's a really cool course at Stanford

97:42

Medical School that I sat in on years

97:44

ago about neural regeneration, which was

97:47

a topic of study for my lab for a while.

97:50

And they had a young person uh that

97:53

year. It was a guy in his 20s who had a

97:56

spinal cord injury. Came in, talked

97:57

about his spinal cord injury, talked

97:59

about what life was like for him before

98:02

and after, how he's thinking about

98:04

things. And then on a separate lecture

98:07

there was a older individual who had

98:09

also had a spinal cord injury and it was

98:12

striking to see the divergence in

98:14

attitude. You could look at this as

98:16

tragic or redeeming depending on how you

98:19

how you think about these things. But um

98:21

the older gentleman was saying that, you

98:23

know, he had this injury. He knows he's

98:27

never going to walk again, but he's

98:28

like, you know, he's lived a lot of life

98:30

and he's done a lot of things and you

98:33

know, and here he is. And so he's going

98:34

to focus on what he can do. He's focused

98:36

on what he can do.

98:38

And he actually noted, this was some

98:40

years ago, that he wasn't that much

98:42

worse off compared to his peers, unless

98:44

he let himself become a pessimist.

98:47

>> So if he was an optimist, then he

98:48

actually was still doing better than a

98:50

lot of his um walking able peers.

98:54

>> Whereas a younger gentleman was talking

98:56

about how, you know, there's just so

98:57

many things in the in the horizon that

99:00

he's going to that he hasn't done that

99:01

he really wanted to do that he doesn't

99:03

have access to, which is really

99:05

heartbreaking to hear. It was a very

99:06

honest discussion and this was of course

99:08

mainly focused on the biology and

99:09

limitations of biology to try and

99:11

overcome regeneration. But they brought

99:14

these um people in because really wanted

99:17

to highlight the differences in terms of

99:19

patient need and um

99:21

>> I thought it it you know this comes to

99:23

mind now in in this conversation like I

99:25

think if you acrew enough experiences

99:27

good and bad it does we kind of bucket

99:29

list life. We're like, "Okay, you know,

99:32

>> I I did this and I did that and maybe I

99:35

would have liked more of that, but I

99:36

can't do that anymore." And, you know, I

99:38

definitely didn't want more of that.

99:39

And, you know, we can kind of bucket

99:41

list life.

99:42

>> And I never had a bucket list growing

99:44

up. It would have been very useful like

99:47

sit down and at any age I guess and just

99:50

write out what are the things you

99:51

absolutely don't want to uh leave this

99:54

life not having done and and try and

99:57

make those happen because god forbid if

99:59

you have one of these injuries or you

100:01

stroke out and die or have a heart

100:03

attack not to sound morbid but then you

100:05

know you you've done the things and I

100:07

think that's the real tragedy of when

100:09

people are limited early on and I don't

100:11

know what became of the younger guy

100:13

hopefully he um figured it out because I

100:16

know a lot of people because of that

100:18

work that um are blind or paralyzed um

100:22

who live very enriched lives with

100:24

families and all that but it's curious

100:26

it's like uh I didn't think we'd get to

100:28

like the meaning of life here purpose

100:30

purpose in life but we should probably

100:33

plan and and carry out on those plans

100:37

and not just live by default

100:39

>> wait till we're older and then try and

100:41

figure out how we can go longer

100:43

>> with a little less less pain um and a

100:45

few uh more memories. I mean it's an

100:48

interesting case study when you compare

100:49

those two individuals and then say you

100:51

know what what do you want to get out of

100:52

life and it's kind of a big picture

100:54

question and but a lot of older adults

100:57

will say they have pretty good life

100:58

satisfaction you know happiness life

101:00

satisfaction could be similar and

101:02

related and it again it's the midlife

101:04

people who seem to be lacking

101:06

>> and I don't know if we're at that stage

101:08

but I feel like maybe I'm on the uptick

101:10

but I don't I don't know if I have a

101:10

bucket list but I certainly would like

101:12

to do more things like hey I really

101:13

enjoyed that trip to Sedona Arizona I'd

101:16

like to do that again. Sedona is

101:17

amazing. I just went for the first time.

101:19

>> Yeah. My girlfriend and I went out there

101:20

and we were like, "This place is

101:22

awesome. It's so beautiful. The air

101:24

feels so good. The light is amazing."

101:26

>> And I definitely go back. My son and I

101:28

climbed up, you know, part rocks that

101:29

we, you know,

101:30

>> Oh, you're a climber.

101:31

>> Wow. I'm not a climber. I've climbed

101:33

then, but we, you know, we went there 5

101:35

years ago when he was too young to do

101:36

that. He wanted to go back and I was

101:38

like, "These are the sorts of moments I

101:40

really enjoy." And it doesn't

101:41

necessarily have to be Sedona. You can

101:43

go up the coast here in California and

101:44

get these. So, I feel like those are the

101:46

moments that I'm like I'm not sure

101:49

whether it has to be in Costa Rica or

101:51

Matador Beach, but I feel like those are

101:53

the moments that I I really enjoy. Um,

101:56

you know, before it was like, yeah, I

101:57

want to fly an airplane. That would be

101:59

really cool.

102:00

>> But I have friends who fly airplanes and

102:01

I'm like, you know, I have a family now.

102:03

I don't need to fly an airplane anymore.

102:06

>> I think we look at these maybe I

102:07

shouldn't be riding my bike either in

102:09

LA. But I think we start to look at like

102:11

what really, you know, captures you and

102:13

matters. And some of it are like even

102:15

some simple hobbies like we were talking

102:16

about drawing earlier. Something I

102:18

wouldn't have time for when I was 20 or

102:20

30. Like I could be spending that time

102:22

programming a computer or writing

102:24

something. And now that those are very

102:27

kind of important moments and times um

102:30

that I enjoy. So yeah, having a sense of

102:32

purpose I think sharing information. A

102:34

lot of older adults will say it's really

102:36

nice to be a mentor. They don't want to

102:38

go back and go through the grunt work of

102:39

their job, but they'd love to share

102:41

experiences or be an educator. And you

102:44

see big benefits for older adults who

102:46

volunteer. Um, again, it's

102:48

correlational, but older adults who are

102:50

engaged in some sort of, um, kind of

102:52

generativity, like influencing the next

102:54

generation, uh, feel very connected and

102:58

and useful. And that's that's something

103:00

some old adults will say is like, you

103:02

know, I'm retired, but I still feel like

103:03

I'm useful. And I think, you know,

103:05

certainly how can we, you know, that'll

103:07

be us, God willing, one day that we'll

103:09

be older and be like, well, what are we

103:10

supposed to do now?

103:12

>> Maybe that's what grandkids are about

103:13

>> perhaps. Yeah.

103:15

>> Really useful to almost everyone in a

103:17

family has some unique skill set they

103:19

can contribute. Like like my stepdad is

103:22

>> he's a really impressive carpenter and

103:24

with tools and he built my niece's

103:27

dollous when she was younger. Like if

103:28

there's something to fix like he's the

103:30

man,

103:31

>> you know, or something to build. his

103:33

tool shed is in insane. It's incredible.

103:35

>> I think grandchildren, I mean, it's

103:37

family. People will often say when

103:39

they're, you know, close to their end of

103:41

life, what were the most important

103:42

things? And they'll say, you know,

103:44

family rituals. So there's Thanksgiving

103:46

or Passover, when everyone got together

103:48

and got to doing something. And so those

103:51

are kind of some very important

103:53

memories. And I think if you realize you

103:55

can also influence the next generation

103:57

in in a meaningful way. I think some

103:59

research, again it's correlational,

104:00

shows that people who spend, you know, 5

104:02

hours a week with their grandchildren

104:04

have improved memory. So that seems we

104:07

don't know if it's causal, but it's

104:09

interesting that those who spend more

104:10

than 20 hours a week don't show this

104:13

benefit. In fact, might show the

104:14

opposite.

104:14

>> They're exhausted.

104:15

>> They're exhausted or they're in an

104:16

unfortunate situation where they're

104:18

forced into child care. There's a single

104:19

parent or someone's incarcerated. So

104:22

it's interesting to get that insight

104:23

that yes being around younger people or

104:25

doing some meaningful interaction

104:27

whether it's mentoring whether it's

104:29

grandchildren can be can be and I think

104:31

it's birectional you know that the

104:33

children learn from it. I had I didn't

104:35

spend a lot of time with my grandparents

104:36

but I have very vivid memories of one

104:38

grandfather showing me how you can clean

104:40

a penny in Coca-Cola. You know that's

104:42

like science and it was like that's

104:44

crazy. Should I be drinking this? You

104:45

know there's all sorts of questions I

104:47

had. Um and and so I think that sort of

104:50

you know interaction can be very useful

104:52

for you know the grandparent and the

104:53

grandchild. So

104:55

>> I think about what really enriches one's

104:57

life. Um in addition to deliberately

105:00

trying to build memories you know the

105:02

the decision to not fly planes and but

105:05

maybe to get out to Sedona or Matador or

105:07

Big Su or something like that. Yose I'm

105:09

putting a strong vote for Yusede. You

105:11

want to have an amazing experience in

105:12

life. It's very low cost. If you can get

105:14

yourself to Yoseite, drive up to the

105:16

high country and hike Clouds Rest. It's

105:18

the

105:19

>> It's the best thing you'll ever do.

105:22

>> That's on my bucket list.

105:22

>> But get there early because you'll be

105:24

coming down in the dark if you don't.

105:26

And bring water because there's no water

105:27

along the way.

105:28

>> Amazing place. I'm putting a big plug

105:31

for national parks cuz I love Yusede.

105:33

The discussion you had with Wooden, you

105:36

said uh the two takeaways that he um

105:39

offered were love and balance. and then

105:42

ironically he got harmed and eventually

105:45

died from a fall because his pride got

105:47

in the way. Um, was there anything else

105:49

in that conversation that didn't get

105:52

into your book or that um it's just

105:54

maybe was more subtle that you think

105:56

about? If not, no big deal.

105:57

>> I mean, first of all, it wasn't the fall

106:00

that led to his death. It was, you know,

106:02

he had a fall. He didn't press his leg.

106:03

He he was resilient. he bounced back and

106:06

um you know eventually you know I think

106:09

nearly 99 is when he passed away so

106:11

several years after the fall. That was

106:14

such an inspiring interview and I

106:15

remember when I first got my job at UCLA

106:18

you know growing up at Canada I'll admit

106:20

the reason I knew UCLA was the

106:22

basketball team, the football team. I

106:25

remember watching the Rose Bowl and

106:26

>> Okay, many people throughout the world

106:28

think that UCLA is a basketball team.

106:30

That's they I'm not sure that they know

106:32

that. Um,

106:34

>> and they've had their ups and downs.

106:35

>> There's a school there, right?

106:36

>> But I also thought, gosh, that place

106:38

sure looks nice in the winter.

106:40

>> And um, and so I it was I was thankful

106:43

to be connected to Coach Wooden who

106:45

actually used to lecture in a in a

106:47

leadership class once a year and um, he

106:50

was very interested in, you know,

106:53

serving as a coach but also as a

106:54

teacher. So I think this sort of

106:56

generativity

106:57

um you know he was so kind and

107:00

thoughtful and then you come into his

107:02

you know it's a two-bedroom condo in

107:04

Inino this is not how a famous

107:06

basketball coach would live now and he

107:08

had no problem with that

107:10

>> he wasn't interested in wealth or

107:12

anything like that

107:12

>> I think partly he didn't have and led a

107:15

very fulfilling life in the absence of

107:17

that whereas now you see in professional

107:19

sports and all you know wealth can lead

107:22

to all sorts of problems but um so I was

107:24

impressed with that and just all the,

107:25

you know, the pride he had and he, you

107:30

know, sharing the the love and balance

107:32

quote I thought was was helpful and I

107:34

tried to distill it in in the book to

107:36

capture not just what Wooden said but

107:37

others that what I call the ABCs of

107:40

successful aging. It's a kind of an

107:41

easier way to and a is is an attitude

107:44

having a positive attitude about what

107:46

can happen as you get older. And

107:48

actually, more recent research shows

107:50

that those who have a positive attitude

107:52

live longer, they're less likely to

107:54

develop dementia. And so, it's probably

107:56

maybe less stress, better behavior, but

107:58

more recent research shows that if you

108:00

have a more negative attitude overall of

108:03

what can happen as you get older, but a

108:05

more positive attitude about what you

108:06

can do, your own personal kind of agency

108:10

over the process that leads to kind of

108:12

longer life.

108:14

>> That's that friction again.

108:15

>> It's the friction. It's the balance

108:16

>> about that. You don't want it things too

108:18

easy. You don't want them too hard like

108:20

landscape too easy or too hard. It's it,

108:23

>> you know, again and again, I've just

108:24

been tracking during our conversation.

108:26

It's the the delta. It's the difference

108:28

between where you're at versus where

108:30

you'd like to be and and

108:33

>> not letting that turn you into a cynic

108:35

or a kerogen, but like but feeling that

108:38

friction. You can't we can't just like

108:39

kick our feet up and Yeah.

108:41

>> Uh all the time,

108:42

>> right? And I think if you notice, look,

108:43

bad things can happen as you get older,

108:45

but I'm going to have to rise above it

108:47

by doing these things. That's that's the

108:49

adapt component. So, you know,

108:50

attitudes, but also adapting because a

108:52

lot of you're not going to have an easy

108:54

time. And a lot of the older adults I've

108:55

talked to said, you know, had to adapt

108:57

to changes, whether it's physical,

108:59

whether it's mental. Um, so I think, you

109:01

know, to make call a adapt and also

109:04

attitude is very psychological. And then

109:06

b is balance, which is what we've talked

109:08

about already. You know, I don't think

109:10

it's the these super aes are not

109:11

extremists. They're not like running

109:13

marathons and eating, you know, only

109:15

blueberries. Um, it's usually something

109:18

like, yeah, I just do this or that and

109:20

it works out.

109:21

>> That suggests some sort of genetic

109:23

component.

109:23

>> I think there is a genetic component,

109:25

but I also think it's not the extreme.

109:27

Like, it's not like you need four cups

109:28

of coffee a day to, you know, prevent

109:31

dementia. It's probably having some

109:33

level of balance and some, you know,

109:34

genetic component. But um and then C is

109:37

often overlooked as a you know from a

109:39

psychological standpoint is connection

109:41

and that's also what Wooden was

109:43

emphasizing you know be around the

109:45

people you love do the things you love.

109:47

Um social connection I think we learned

109:49

during co all of a sudden people are

109:51

like oh my gosh I can't be around people

109:52

or I can see them on Zoom but it's

109:54

different all of a sudden it hits home

109:56

that um social connection is important.

109:58

Now, it's different for different

110:00

people, you know, how they want to

110:01

engage in it. But I think that's often

110:03

lost sadly because of technology. You

110:06

know, you can have tons of Facebook

110:07

friends, but how many friends could you

110:09

call up once a week to ask how their day

110:11

is or their week is gone is probably

110:14

limited. And as we get older, our social

110:17

circle tends to shrink. Uh people move

110:19

away, people pass away. But some

110:22

research shows the quality of those

110:23

fewer relationships can actually be

110:25

improved. And I think that's again an

110:27

interesting kind of nonlinear change

110:29

that you know when we're young we know

110:31

lots of people and we're interacting a

110:33

lot in a social way but as we get older

110:36

it's those more meaningful kind of

110:37

relationships that are important.

110:40

>> Yeah. The connection piece comes up

110:42

again and again. And I think it, you

110:44

know, as we talk about all this, like it

110:46

must be kind of daunting for people in

110:49

their 20s and 30s now because there's

110:51

like all this stuff that you can do to

110:53

make yourself better that frankly what

110:55

we weren't aware of back when. It's

110:57

>> like, oh, I like running, so I ran. Want

110:59

to get stronger, so I lifted weights. I

111:01

wanted to

111:02

>> PhD in neuroscience, so I did it. Like I

111:04

just sort of followed my interest. there

111:06

wasn't this idea that you could like

111:09

fundamentally transform how long you

111:12

were going to live or how great you were

111:13

going to feel at a given age. But so I

111:15

kind of wonder if it's both good and

111:17

bad. Um I don't want to undercut the

111:20

idea that we can um strive for those

111:22

things, but I also don't want to promote

111:25

the idea that that we should all be

111:26

thinking about what it's going to be

111:27

like when we're 70. I mean, the the unit

111:29

of life being the day, I think, is um

111:33

true in the circadian sense. Our biology

111:35

resets every 24 hours.

111:37

>> Having recently um pulled the first

111:39

allnighter in a while to finish some

111:41

book edits. Last minute little nip tuck

111:44

stuff with

111:44

>> with my producer and friend Rob. We

111:46

legitimately pushed through. It was like

111:48

it's been like okay we'll go to two and

111:49

then at two I was like I get then we're

111:51

like looks like we're going through and

111:52

been a while. It was fun to just be able

111:54

you know as much as I talk about the

111:56

benefits of sleep.

111:57

>> Yeah.

111:57

>> Um it's like that was cool. Like haven't

111:59

done that in a while still got it. It

112:01

hurt the next day. You get a nap. Next

112:03

day you sleep a little longer. Like, you

112:05

know, I gonna did I shorten my life? I

112:07

don't know. I feel like I got I'll

112:08

remember that.

112:09

>> You'll remember and you're contributing

112:11

to something that, you know, you think

112:12

is important. You know, this is a book.

112:14

This is something that you want to make

112:15

sure it's accurate and, you know,

112:17

thoughtful. And, you know, I think when

112:19

you work hard at something, it does make

112:21

you feel good. You're probably getting a

112:22

lot of,

112:23

>> you know, neurotransmitter reward

112:25

mechanism kicking in.

112:26

>> Yeah, it was so much fun. This is why I

112:27

always say, you know, the occasional

112:28

like late night out or all nighter, as

112:30

long as it's for the right reasons, you

112:32

know, I wish that for people.

112:33

Occasional.

112:34

>> Yeah.

112:34

>> As you can tell, I'm I'm really

112:36

intrigued by this idea that there's

112:39

something about pushing ourselves.

112:41

And as Wooden pointed out, there's also

112:44

something about coming off the gas,

112:46

being able to lean back and forth into

112:47

those things. Like life is an

112:48

oscillation. It's a circadian

112:50

oscillation. And then it's like this

112:52

push push push and then being able to

112:53

come off the gas. And

112:55

>> it's an art. It's not a It's not a

112:57

science. There's science there, but it's

112:59

it's not trivial like um and it actually

113:01

raises this question uh for me. You

113:04

know,

113:05

>> you're an interesting guy. You know, you

113:06

you're young in my opinion, but I'm 50

113:08

also. So, you study memory, but you seem

113:11

to have a genuine interest in care for

113:14

the older generation. Like, how are we

113:16

going to take care of them in the AI

113:18

age? How are we going to take care of

113:19

them? Um is that something that's always

113:21

been intrinsic to you?

113:23

I I don't want this to sound glib, but

113:24

you know, but like what's the obsession

113:26

with older folks? It's cool. It's very

113:30

nurturing, but it's not typical. You

113:32

know, most people aren't thinking about

113:34

the older generation. It's natural for

113:35

us as a species to think about the

113:37

younger generation, right? We just have

113:38

a

113:39

>> what I think is a healthy reflex to like

113:41

how can we make things better for kids

113:43

that are coming up, young people, make

113:45

it better.

113:45

>> Yeah.

113:46

>> But you you're unique in this way. you

113:48

know, you study memory in the age cohort

113:51

that uh has arguably some of the worst

113:54

memory.

113:55

>> I think it's maybe growing up around a

113:57

lot of older adults. Again, you know, I

113:58

grew up in Canada partly, but also in

114:00

Florida and I was around a lot of very

114:02

interesting older people, you know, kind

114:04

of in their prime of their retirement

114:06

life, uh, who'd spend a lot of time with

114:08

me and, you know, I have aging parents.

114:11

I've seen that. So I I don't know if

114:13

it's also like a respect for older

114:15

adults, but it's also I mean maybe it's

114:17

I don't want to say egocentric, but in a

114:19

good way if we're lucky we're going to

114:22

be there one day.

114:22

>> So you're making the discoveries that

114:24

you will yourself benefit from.

114:25

>> I hope so. I hope so. And I think it's

114:27

an investment. You know, we invest a lot

114:29

in our children and it's, you know,

114:31

incredibly important and to be nurturing

114:33

parents and, you know, have government

114:35

that can help, you know, with education.

114:38

But I think we look the other way once

114:40

people are well you're on social

114:41

security or you're retired and you know

114:44

and I think culturally there's you know

114:46

other cultures that treat older adults

114:48

with more respect. Um and so I don't

114:51

know what the reason is and you know I

114:53

teach a class on aging at UCLA. It's a

114:56

popular class but it's not as popular as

114:58

the class on relationships or you

115:00

[laughter] know things that I think

115:02

younger people would be interested in.

115:03

But often times after students take it,

115:06

they say, you know, I never thought I'd

115:08

be interested in aging, but I'm

115:09

actually, you know, now that I think

115:11

about it, you know, it's it's really

115:13

interesting to see how my parents age.

115:14

And I'm like, well, you know, give

115:16

yourself 30 or 40 years and I hope

115:18

you'll remember something from this

115:19

class. And I think maybe that's my early

115:21

exposure made me think this is really

115:23

kind of an interesting thing that

115:25

happens. And I remember, you know, with

115:26

my grandparents, they would forget, you

115:28

know, my get my name confused with my

115:30

brother's name, but they could remember

115:32

the price of bananas, right? So, how are

115:34

they remembering this very detailed

115:36

information versus forgetting things

115:38

that are presumably important? And I

115:40

think it comes down to focus. It comes

115:42

down to, you know, the era you grew up

115:44

in. And so, I don't see it as very

115:46

different than, you know, older adults

115:47

are not different than younger adults in

115:49

that they're like, that's the old and

115:51

this is the new, but it's this

115:53

progressive change. And in some ways, I

115:55

can see in my own children, I think,

115:57

what are they going to be like when

115:58

they're 80? What habits are going to

116:00

stay with them and what things might

116:01

change? And I think in some ways,

116:03

there's a lot of things that you could

116:04

see it kind of as a seed that just gets

116:06

more pronounced as we get older, but

116:09

also that we're better at, you know,

116:11

regulating emotions and doing things

116:12

that when we're young, we're not so good

116:14

at. And we often think like, how can we

116:17

make older people, you know, better by

116:19

making them look younger? And in fact, I

116:22

sometimes think, gosh, how could we

116:23

instill some of that? Not just the

116:25

wisdom, but make younger people feel

116:27

like older people in some ways, kind of

116:29

from a psychological standpoint, you

116:31

know, better at regulating emotions,

116:33

less likely to take risks.

116:34

>> You know, it's the whole like if you

116:36

know, if I know knew then what I know

116:38

now. I It's why it's interesting that

116:40

Wooden said that the two most important

116:43

uh words in life are love and balance. I

116:45

have a friend who's a psychologist and

116:47

uh he said you know the two most

116:49

dangerous words in the English language

116:50

are if and only and especially when

116:52

they're next to each other and it's

116:54

interesting to watch my mind sometimes

116:56

go like if only this or if only that.

116:59

It's like

117:00

>> we can default there and it's

117:02

>> it's dreadfully um useless

117:06

>> and and maybe even destructive.

117:08

>> Um so I

117:10

>> I encourage myself to you know watch out

117:13

for the if only thinking. It's it's it's

117:15

maybe even deadly.

117:16

>> You know, we run a lot of simulations in

117:17

our brain like what if I did this or

117:19

what if I didn't do that or what if I

117:20

met this person or what if I took this

117:22

job? And I think at some point when

117:24

you're young, maybe that's helpful like

117:26

trying to figure out what would work out

117:28

best. But as you're older, it's like,

117:30

well, these things have happened and

117:31

I've learned from them. Um, and yeah, I

117:35

think it's, you know, really interesting

117:36

to think of that as what if, what if

117:38

this happened? and you can get yourself

117:40

into a lot of trouble thinking what if

117:42

that happens and what if you know the

117:43

world can be an incredibly dreary place

117:46

>> um when you when you think of it that

117:48

way but it's also amazing to see and

117:50

maybe that's why I'm interested in older

117:51

adults it's like look these people 70 80

117:54

90

117:55

>> I'm not just looking at the 90-year-olds

117:56

who are doing incredible things I'm

117:58

looking at the 90-year-olds who are you

118:00

perhaps at peace with themselves you

118:02

know feel comfortable

118:04

um talking about things that they want

118:05

to talk about I you know I enjoyed your

118:07

father's podcast partly because I'm

118:09

like, here's a guy who's not afraid of

118:11

saying some things and appreciate that.

118:13

Maybe maybe it's not always, you know,

118:15

what people would expect.

118:16

>> He's he has an irreverence to him. I

118:18

mean, he's very um polite and uh

118:21

believes in etiquette, but um he doesn't

118:25

let people constrain him.

118:27

>> Yeah. And you know, I I just found that,

118:29

you know, there a lot of these podcasts

118:31

have a lot of science in them, but he

118:32

had a lot of you know, things that made

118:34

me think, gosh, that's interesting.

118:35

Could we test that? Is that really how

118:37

you know you curiosity one of our more

118:40

recent studies has shown that as we get

118:42

older you know memory does decline in in

118:45

many ways but um older adults can

118:47

remember prices let's say that makes

118:49

sense so you know the bananas being you

118:51

know $2.99 but as soon as we say bananas

118:53

are $1849

118:55

that just doesn't make sense and older

118:57

adults are quickly forget that and

118:59

that's something we were talking about

119:00

that the benefit of forgetting things

119:02

that just don't fit your schemas that

119:04

just don't make sense where younger

119:06

adults um you know a lot of

119:08

undergraduates will be like you know I

119:10

highlighted 80% of the textbook why did

119:12

I get a C on the exam it's this

119:14

inability to kind of selectively focus

119:17

on what's important and I' I've seen

119:19

that even in myself like you know when I

119:21

was younger I'd be taking notes on

119:23

everything but by your fourth year you

119:25

realize you know what let me sit back

119:26

and look for the overarching themes that

119:28

connect things and that's almost how I

119:30

did well in psychology is I'm like

119:32

>> okay some of these findings make sense

119:34

and so I can remember it that way. But

119:36

some of them are counterintuitive and a

119:38

lot of this like people aren't always

119:40

rational. This Conoran and Tverki, you

119:42

know, all these biases people have.

119:44

Well, that's fascinating. So, I just

119:45

remember it that way. The things that

119:47

made sense and the things that didn't

119:48

make sense. And that's kind of how you

119:51

can organize things. And I think that

119:53

that can be kind of a useful principle

119:55

as you get older is knowing what to

119:56

overlook and kind of knowing what to

119:58

focus on. And so, you know, older

120:00

adults, even though they'll say, "My

120:02

memor is not as sharp as it used to be."

120:04

As long as you can remember the things

120:05

that are kind of critical, um, that's

120:07

what's important. And so, in this study

120:09

on curiosity, we found that older adults

120:11

tend to remember the things that they're

120:13

most curious about, but they're also

120:15

really good at forgetting the things

120:16

that they just didn't care about in the

120:18

first place.

120:18

>> Sounds great.

120:19

>> Yeah.

120:19

>> Honestly, it sounds great, right?

120:21

>> Yeah. I can't wait. Right. because um I

120:24

want to learn more about certain things,

120:25

remember certain people in certain

120:27

things, but there's a lot of stuff that

120:29

rolls through my phone or through my

120:30

email. Yeah,

120:32

>> luckily not through my daily experience,

120:33

but that I I don't want to think about

120:35

that stuff.

120:35

>> And it captures your attention and all

120:37

of a sudden you're like, where did the

120:38

last 10 minutes go? I've been reading

120:39

about this and now I'm remembering this

120:41

useless thing.

120:42

>> Yeah.

120:42

>> Um so I think if you can prune these

120:44

things and as you get older maybe you

120:46

realize I've even realized, gosh, I

120:48

forget this. I need to focus more. It's

120:51

not just conscious focus, but it's like

120:53

I, you know, I'm interested in this.

120:54

Let's put more resources and time and

120:56

energy into that. It takes me longer to

120:59

learn a piano piece than, you know, my

121:01

daughter.

121:02

>> You play piano.

121:02

>> I try, but you know, I see my daughter

121:05

like picking these things up so quickly.

121:06

And I'm like, I know I'm not going to be

121:08

like that, but I can be more selective

121:09

about what I try and learn, what's in my

121:11

wheelhouse, and what's just beyond it.

121:13

>> Developmental plasticity is amazing,

121:15

right? I don't know how old she is, but

121:17

I know she's younger than you. So,

121:18

>> yeah, she's young. I've, you know, two

121:20

daughters and a son and I see them all

121:21

excelling. Like my older daughter is

121:23

like, wow, her cognitive skills are

121:26

probably beyond mine in terms of speed

121:28

of processing. She might even be a

121:29

better driver than I am. Um, you know,

121:31

she's good at planning things. My

121:33

daughter playing piano, it's like, gosh,

121:35

if I could have those skills now, how I

121:37

would practice more. My son will hurt

121:39

himself in baseball and I'm like, he's

121:41

out for three weeks. Three days later,

121:43

he's pitching again. Right? So, those

121:45

are things where it's like, yes, aging

121:47

sucks in some ways. I'll be upfront

121:49

about it. But I think when you

121:51

appreciate those things as you get 40,

121:53

50, 60, it's like, yeah, that's, you

121:54

know, it's hard to recover from

121:56

injuries. It takes you maybe longer to

121:58

learn something. But the things you

122:00

really do care about, you can use all

122:02

this kind of knowledge and wisdom and

122:04

metacognition to focus on kind of what

122:06

matters the most. So it's almost as if

122:10

as we are able to do less with less pain

122:14

or just do less attitude starts to

122:17

become more and more important. That's

122:19

what I'm hearing but I don't want to

122:20

lead the witness as

122:21

>> yeah I think that's definitely the

122:22

perspective and you know this is built

122:24

on some developmental theories of social

122:27

you know social learning but also

122:29

selective optimization with

122:30

compensation. you know that as you get

122:32

older maybe you're not going to be doing

122:34

all these things and scuba diving and

122:36

hiking but you'll be like you know that

122:37

one hike I really enjoy I want to be

122:39

able to do it once a week

122:41

>> um [snorts] and so you're still doing

122:42

the things you like but you're not doing

122:44

kind of the wide range of them and

122:46

another related theory is you know um

122:49

socio emotional selectivity theory Laura

122:51

Karstensson at Stanford another

122:53

perspective saying that as we get older

122:55

our kind of our our mindset shifts that

122:57

we don't have as much time to live so we

123:00

want to focus on the things that are

123:01

important. Whereas when you're young,

123:03

it's very abstract to say save for

123:05

retirement or what are you going to do

123:06

when you're 60? It's like that what am I

123:08

going to do next week? Right? But her

123:11

work has shown that when you give people

123:12

different time perspectives, they make

123:14

different choices. So if you

123:15

unfortunately tell someone who's younger

123:17

that they only have 5 to 10 years left

123:19

to live, they're going to make choices

123:21

very much like older adults too.

123:23

>> [snorts]

123:23

>> So, I don't know if it's conscious that

123:25

we're thinking these things, but you

123:26

know, as you get older, maybe you

123:28

realize, I want to focus on the things

123:30

that matter the most. Maybe I won't

123:31

worry so much about the things that I

123:33

used to worry about all the time. Um,

123:36

and that can be kind of a healthy way to

123:38

approach life. This might sound a little

123:40

uh mystical, but I've always wondered if

123:45

barring accident or injury whether

123:48

people have some unconscious knowledge

123:50

about how long they're going to live. Um

123:53

you I grew up near Steve Jobs. He used

123:55

to come into the skateboard shop that I

123:56

worked to get rollerblade wheels and

123:58

things like that. And he was around. He

123:59

didn't have security. He'd walk when I

124:00

was a posttock. You'd still see him

124:02

walking through downtown Palto in the

124:03

evenings. My dad and I would walk about

124:05

once a week. We'd take a walk together

124:06

and we'd see Steve. He was, you know,

124:09

passed away I think in 2015 or something

124:12

like that. Does that sound about right?

124:13

In any case, he he was thinning out

124:15

then. He was going through his various

124:16

treatments. But

124:18

>> you know, if you listen to his biography

124:20

with Walter Isacson, um written by

124:22

Walter Isacson, it I mean it was very

124:24

clear that he had a mission, he was on

124:26

it, that life was you had to maximize on

124:28

your life, that you couldn't compromise.

124:30

And okay, that led to some kind of high

124:33

friction personality traits in him, too.

124:35

But

124:35

>> I don't think anyone would argue uh that

124:39

he didn't do something super impressive

124:40

in what he built. It transformed the

124:42

world. I mean, most everyone listening

124:43

to this has an Apple product in their

124:45

vicinity as I say this, right?

124:48

>> And it almost seemed like he had some

124:50

deeper knowledge. He wasn't going to

124:51

live that long. And when I think about

124:54

like the 27 club of you know amazing

124:56

artists dying at 27 and just like it's

125:00

almost like there's a life energy that's

125:01

either packed into a shorter period of

125:03

time, a medium amount of time or a

125:04

longer time. Now, of course, accidents,

125:06

injuries, and things can happen um to

125:09

but I wonder like if we have a sense

125:12

based on our parents, our grandparents,

125:13

our life notion of like I'm going to be

125:15

around a while

125:16

>> or because it really seemed to benefit

125:18

him to have this attitude about life

125:21

like you get one life.

125:22

>> You have to live it on your terms.

125:25

>> Um you don't want to compromise your

125:27

soul and your your your heart and you

125:30

just go for it. Mhm.

125:31

>> And then there are these people that

125:33

sort of live life as if it's going to go

125:34

on forever.

125:35

>> And for them it seems to go on a long

125:37

time and it seems to be kind of a lower

125:39

slower arc. I'm not saying one is better

125:41

than the other, right? It's impossible

125:43

to compare

125:44

>> uh except

125:45

>> you know to compare that the the

125:48

objectively just say okay one live

125:49

shorter pack more in one live longer

125:51

maybe didn't have as intense a life. Do

125:54

you think there there could be something

125:55

in our biology that we have some

125:58

awareness based on our genetic

126:00

fingerprint that you know I probably got

126:02

about

126:04

if I think about my dad and mom they're

126:06

doing well in their 80s but you know I

126:07

probably have about 90 100 years if I

126:09

take care of myself so I'm going to live

126:11

that way. Yeah, it's a interesting

126:14

conjecture and in some ways we probably

126:16

do know like our lifespan is about this

126:18

but you're right accidents can happen,

126:20

things can happen and I've seen you know

126:21

from my own family you know I can take

126:24

the average age of my mother and father

126:25

and sadly my mother passed away when she

126:27

was young my father's still alive so I

126:29

think I have this perspective of life

126:32

can be short and when people are like

126:33

I'm 50 but I haven't done this this and

126:35

this part of me is like I'm 50 and I've

126:37

made it this far I'm pretty happy with

126:40

things but of course you know, your

126:42

perspective could be different. And I

126:44

don't know, in the case of these, you

126:45

know, high performing individuals, maybe

126:47

they lead every day, like it could be

126:49

their last, and they want to stay up all

126:50

night and transform the world. I think a

126:54

lot of the super aes

127:01

>> more chill.

127:02

>> They're more chill, but maybe it's not

127:04

intentional. It's like, I just don't

127:06

want to, you know, ruin tomorrow by not

127:08

sleeping a lot tonight. Um so you know a

127:11

lot of people will say what's the secret

127:12

to successful aging and um I think the

127:15

secret is not to look for one thing

127:17

probably you know we've talked a lot

127:19

about you know exercise sleep and a lot

127:21

of people say it's moderation like it

127:23

doesn't mean like don't drink coffee or

127:25

drink seven cups a day it's like if you

127:27

want a cup of coffee have one but you

127:29

can realize maybe you don't want it

127:30

every day get you know eight hours of

127:33

sleep well not every night clearly

127:35

pulling an all nighter might have been a

127:37

benefit for you and even a good

127:38

investment and

127:39

>> do it again for a very long time.

127:41

>> But then you've probably learned from

127:42

that. You're like, I don't want to be

127:43

editing books late at night once a week,

127:45

right? But once every few years,

127:47

especially if it might pay off, that's

127:49

that's part of the, you know, the deal

127:51

I've made with myself. So

127:52

>> the friendship I'm realizing as you say

127:54

this, the fact that someone else was

127:56

there

127:56

>> is what kept me out of like, you know,

127:58

swearing like this sucks or what. It's

128:00

it's fun. It reminds me being in

128:01

graduate school. We used to run

128:02

physiology experiments all night or

128:04

imaging experiments all night. And you

128:05

get pretty loopy somewhere between 3 and

128:08

5 a.m. and you just acknowledge like,

128:09

"Oh, here we go again." Like like mild

128:11

psychosis cuz you are a little bit

128:13

psychotic and in a sleep-d deprived

128:15

state.

128:16

>> You make it through and you're like,

128:16

"Hey, we did that. That was that was

128:18

fun."

128:18

>> Maybe that's why people say college is

128:20

the best time because you're going

128:21

through a lot of things like that,

128:22

staying up late, working hard,

128:24

struggling through this, trying to

128:25

figure out that, but there's a social

128:26

component. You're doing it with other

128:28

people. And you know, even when I think

128:30

like the Steve Jobs thing or even when I

128:31

talk to older adults, they're like, I

128:33

like this part of my work life when it

128:35

was a challenge and we had to travel

128:37

here and do that. It was exciting. They

128:39

wouldn't say it was relaxing and it's

128:40

not something they want to revisit. And

128:42

it's interesting if you ask people,

128:44

"What age would you want to go back to?"

128:46

Not a lot of people will say 20 or 15.

128:49

It's usually kind of closer to midlife,

128:51

which is interesting cuz maybe

128:52

everything's kind of firing on all

128:54

cylinders then. Your cognition's still

128:55

pretty good. your family's still around,

128:58

you know, you have your job, you're

128:59

reinforced by a lot of things, but it's

129:02

not going back to this age, you know,

129:04

when you're like 20, 25.

129:06

>> Any [snorts] experiments that your

129:07

laboratory is doing now that you can

129:10

even just tell us about the design of

129:11

the experiment, if not the results?

129:13

>> Yeah. Well, we're we're we've done some

129:15

work on curiosity and I think that's

129:17

something that from a lifespan

129:18

perspective is interesting. We've been

129:20

measuring different types of curiosity.

129:22

One is known as state curiosity and one

129:24

is known as trait curiosity

129:26

>> and trait curiosity is just in general

129:28

are you a curious person do you you know

129:30

kind of get into things and have trouble

129:32

if you don't learn the answer which I

129:34

think a lot of you know people can have

129:35

but as you get older that tends to

129:37

decline with age which I thought was

129:40

kind of perplexing because I you know a

129:42

lot of curious people but we found that

129:44

levels of state curiosity when I give

129:46

you some interesting bit of information

129:48

but I don't give you the answer if it's

129:50

something you care about that actually

129:52

increases with age your level of

129:54

curiosity and learning.

129:56

>> We think this is interesting because it

129:57

probably guides our memory as we get

129:59

older. You know, we're going to remember

130:00

the things we care about and if you're

130:02

curious especially so and there's

130:04

probably some neurochemical pathway that

130:06

is still engaged even though we know all

130:09

sorts of things kind of decline with

130:10

age. So that's one and we've been

130:12

testing it with trivia questions, you

130:14

know, things we have experimental

130:15

control over. But I think it has

130:16

implications for lifelong learning that

130:18

if you're really interested in hiking or

130:20

bird watching or skateboarding, that

130:22

might still percolate when you're 70 or

130:24

80, which I think is really interesting.

130:27

And and the other thing we're looking at

130:28

is kind of the flip side of the

130:30

curiosity, which could be a double-edged

130:32

sword, is that I mentioned scams and

130:34

fraud, right? That's like if it's almost

130:36

like opening Pandora's box, right?

130:39

>> [snorts]

130:39

>> As soon as someone calls you with an

130:40

offer that's too good to be true or

130:43

limited time or something, it's that

130:45

thing you always wanted and now it's at

130:47

this price or worse, you know, we

130:50

kidnapped your granddaughter and don't,

130:53

you know, you need to pay this amount of

130:54

money and they she doesn't want you to

130:56

call mom and dad and all of a sudden you

130:58

hear her voice on the line and she's

130:59

saying, "Please help me." All of a

131:02

sudden, you're wiring the money.

131:03

>> People are running those scams.

131:04

>> People are running and that's an old

131:06

one. That was when you know younger

131:08

people are posting things on Facebook

131:09

and all of a sudden their voice is

131:11

captured and now their voice is played

131:12

to a grandparent who's like oh my gosh I

131:14

need to help this person you know my

131:16

loved one and it's preying on you know

131:19

socio emotional selectivity theory that

131:20

we focus on family and feelings and

131:23

emotions and older adults get caught by

131:25

this and AI has just made this even

131:27

worse um because you're going to get

131:30

phone you could get a phone call from

131:31

Steve Jobs that sounds just like Steve

131:33

Jobs right now even though you know he's

131:34

not around and so we're looking at How

131:36

as we get older are we able to

131:38

distinguish between kind of this fake

131:41

information and what's real? And it's

131:43

not just older adults who are, you know,

131:45

prone to this. It's younger people too

131:47

who are, you know, in a rush, might not

131:48

be paying attention to something, more

131:50

likely to get identity theft. Whereas

131:53

older adults, they have more money, they

131:56

more to lose. And so I think that's

131:58

that's on the more practical side of

132:01

being able to identify how, you know,

132:03

scams and fraud target people. But

132:04

there's a psychological component, you

132:06

know, emotions again [snorts] that, you

132:08

know, might engage older adults more so,

132:12

whereas younger people are more

132:13

interested in, you know, oh, my loan is

132:15

going to be forgiven if I give some

132:17

information. Great. Um, so it's kind of

132:20

using psychological mechanisms um in a

132:23

in a very nefarious way. So, I'm

132:24

interested in how we can try and kind of

132:26

prevent that.

132:28

>> And I feel like there's a lot of amateur

132:30

psychologists out there who are engaged

132:31

in this this kind of form of fraud. Um,

132:34

so that's another area of of interest

132:37

and trying to design experiments but

132:39

also look at more practical

132:40

implications.

132:41

>> It's cool. You have a lot of care for

132:43

the older generation. You're a

132:45

protector.

132:46

>> That's really great. You know, we had a

132:48

lot of discussions on this podcast

132:50

about, you know, youth and um and and

132:53

everybody, you know, every age, but um I

132:55

don't recall a conversation with anyone

132:57

um much less a scientist who's

132:59

interested in uh protecting uh older

133:02

folks. Yeah, I know you thought about

133:04

and maybe you can tell us what this

133:07

wisdom thing is about, right? I mean,

133:09

it's like I feel like uh um I'm not

133:11

trying to be um facitious here when I

133:14

say, you know, there seems to be a kind

133:16

of transformation of of advice from just

133:20

advice to wisdom after somebody dies,

133:24

>> right? It's like when they're still

133:25

around, it sounds like advice and then

133:26

they die and it's like wisdom, you know?

133:29

And um I'm not trying to make light of

133:30

it, but it does seem like we look at

133:32

knowledge from people that have passed

133:34

away

133:35

>> um as different

133:36

>> like uh I haven't read much about

133:38

wouldn't like basketball, but I'm I like

133:41

>> um track enough that I read um you know

133:45

uh the book about Bowererman, the coach

133:47

up at Oregon, like the men of Oregon is

133:49

a really he was another one of these

133:51

amazing coaches that was much more of a

133:52

mentor and teacher. He made all his

133:54

runners get um jobs

133:56

>> outside of school while in school and

133:58

running for for this incredible track

134:00

team.

134:01

>> Yeah.

134:01

>> And he would place them in uh not always

134:03

manual labor jobs, but he made sure that

134:06

they understood that the town that they

134:08

were running in was much more than a

134:09

university and a you know, he was like

134:11

took the time to do this stuff, right?

134:13

And he was a hard-nosed guy, but you

134:15

know, so you you but I often wonder as I

134:18

read these things like, "Oh, when he

134:19

when he was alive, was was everyone

134:20

revering him?" Because as soon as you

134:22

die, you're like a thing,

134:24

>> right? [laughter]

134:25

It puts you in

134:25

>> the one advantage of dying, you know,

134:27

your your words move from uh advice to

134:30

wisdom. What is that?

134:31

>> I think Wooden got a lot of play for his

134:33

wisdom. He retired at an earlier age

134:35

than most people do. He didn't need to.

134:37

He didn't um I don't think he made as

134:39

much money as you know, coaches do now.

134:41

But I think you're right. It's

134:42

interesting how knowledge goes into

134:45

wisdom. And I think even when I was

134:47

thinking of like my own interest in in

134:50

wisdom and aging is, you know, I had an

134:52

older math teacher who also was my

134:54

basketball coach and I think he was

134:56

formative when I think of, you know, why

134:58

I'm and he was older and he said,

135:00

"Listen,

135:02

>> you're not going to be starting this

135:03

year if you don't put the time in to

135:06

your calculus class that you're putting

135:07

the time into basketball." [laughter]

135:09

And he was very clear about that. And I

135:11

was like, he said, "You have tremendous

135:12

potential in calculus." He didn't say

135:15

anything about basketball, but he's he's

135:17

kind of saying like you need to work

135:18

harder. The motivation is there. I've

135:20

had older rabbis who've given me advice,

135:22

you know, growing up that I, you know,

135:24

not even being religious then still

135:28

resonates with me. And so I think, you

135:30

know, even at the practical level, the

135:33

wisdom sometimes it's nice to hear it

135:35

from the horse's mouth. You can read

135:37

this cute little quote or something and

135:39

that that's reasonable. And then I think

135:41

wisdom also has a very practical kind of

135:44

application. So you know Sully

135:46

Sullenberger you know the the pilot you

135:48

know the plane I don't know if you've

135:50

seen the movie but if you remember the

135:51

history is that you know a plane takes

135:53

off from New York City and both engines

135:55

go out and he's over New York City and

135:57

he has to engage in an emergency landing

136:00

and he has to So who do you want? Do you

136:02

want a younger pilot who has faster

136:04

reaction times, better memory, or do you

136:07

want an older pilot who has more

136:09

experience flying but has never landed a

136:11

plane on water? And we know how the

136:14

story ends thankfully. But most people

136:16

would probably, you know, as I asked my

136:18

class this, this is like the dilemma.

136:20

Where, you know, where is the wisdom?

136:21

Where is the knowledge? You know, if

136:22

you're the faster pilot, maybe you turn

136:24

around and land at an airport. That

136:26

makes more sense. But Sully eventually

136:28

decided that he had to make this water

136:30

landing. And he said the reason he knew

136:32

he could pull this off is he used to fly

136:34

gliders, you know, and he said the

136:37

principles are the same, but it's going

136:39

to be a very different, you know,

136:40

physics and weight [snorts] management.

136:42

But he said he felt like he'd made a

136:45

number of um investments over the years

136:49

of kind of boosting his knowledge so

136:51

that he could make one enormous

136:52

withdrawal basically landing this plane

136:55

on the Hudson River, which is, you know,

136:57

an amazing feat.

136:58

>> That's wild.

136:59

>> Yeah. And so I think that's, you know,

137:00

it's a dramatic Hollywood and there's a

137:02

movie about it as well, but I think it's

137:04

a a nice illustration of you can

137:07

accumulate all this knowledge not just

137:08

so you apply what you've learned. It's

137:10

you're you're having to, you know,

137:12

transform that knowledge saying now I'm

137:14

going to apply it in this one emergency

137:16

situation. So maybe that's the

137:18

difference between, you know, knowledge

137:20

which is like I know so much and then

137:22

wisdom of like how to carry it out or

137:24

when it's appropriate. It does help when

137:26

the coaches have played, right? Like

137:28

Steve Kerr,

137:29

>> but some of the best coaches are the

137:31

ones who are the worst. You know, Tommy

137:32

Lorta, you know, all these people who

137:34

like they struggled and they've seen it

137:36

and now they're going to go into

137:37

coaching. Um, and maybe that's the same

137:39

with older adults. Uh, you know, again,

137:42

these two older adults who took my class

137:44

who are therapists. You know, it's like

137:46

if you see a therapist, would you want

137:47

to see a 20-year-old or would you want

137:49

to see a 50 or 60 year old? Right? It

137:52

just seems like there's going to be a

137:53

difference in what they bring to the

137:54

table.

137:55

Nowadays, I think a lot of people are

137:57

going to say chat GPT,

138:01

>> which I, you know, I've found great use

138:03

of AI in the self- testing thing, not

138:06

looking for knowledge, but having chat

138:08

GPT generate a self self test, you know,

138:11

test me on my knowledge of

138:13

>> something. Um, awesome. Because I, as we

138:16

were talking about before we went on

138:18

mic, you know, self testing is one of

138:19

the best ways to learn information,

138:21

realize, ah, I got that wrong. I didn't

138:23

know that. And that's that's the delta.

138:25

That's the difference between where

138:26

you're at and where you want to be as

138:27

opposed to just reciting things or

138:29

highlighting things or writing them

138:30

down. Although I do that also, but I

138:32

know a lot of people are going to the

138:34

internet for answers. And on the one

138:37

hand we could say well those answers are

138:42

the synthesis of a lot of wise people

138:45

potentially but you could say like give

138:47

I would like the integrated advice of

138:49

Mahatma Gandhi would you know Jane

138:52

Goodall and um

138:55

>> you know whoever and uh for this

138:57

particular situation you know and make

139:00

it wise. I don't know what it would say.

139:01

I don't want you to do that. It's a

139:03

great question. I've I've tried, you

139:05

know, I'm not of the era that my

139:06

children are in terms of using AI, but

139:08

I'd love to be like, answer this like an

139:10

80-year-old would. How would you present

139:13

it differently if you were older versus

139:14

younger? Because a lot of it is just so

139:16

much more information than I'm like,

139:17

wow, that's great. Can you summarize? I

139:20

I don't use it often, but sometimes I'm

139:21

like, can you summarize this? Can you

139:23

sometimes it misses things and sometimes

139:25

it's good but um but yeah it's really

139:27

fascinating how how that sort of

139:30

synthesis can be so transforming and you

139:32

know even my son's like why do I have to

139:34

learn this when I can just ask AI now

139:36

and it used to be when I was a kid why

139:38

do I have to learn this when I can just

139:39

look it up in an encyclopedia right it's

139:41

like the information is always going to

139:43

be there but it's like how you're going

139:45

to use it kind of in an informed way and

139:47

I always say could you imagine if the

139:49

next president said you know I don't

139:51

know our foreign policy with Mexico, but

139:53

I could look it up. I was like, well,

139:55

you want to know a little bit about the

139:57

foreign polic like friend or foe or

139:59

something, you know, like you have to

140:00

have some basic level. And where would

140:02

you look it up? Like

140:04

>> are you do you have aids that you trust?

140:06

Do you have sources that you trust?

140:08

>> I don't think you need to know all of

140:10

these details, but you need to know kind

140:11

of some general knowledge. And usually

140:14

that comes from learning all the

140:15

details. It's like you've learned all

140:16

these details in neuroscience 20 years

140:18

ago that you've probably forgotten, but

140:20

it informs how you interpret

140:22

neuroscience findings today.

140:23

>> Yeah, I'm admittedly like such a nerd. I

140:26

have this textbook. There's a really

140:28

great new textbook. I'm didn't didn't

140:30

plan to plug this, but my colleague

140:31

Liein Low wrote a principles of

140:33

neurobiology textbook that not as beefy

140:36

as the principles of neuroscience one

140:37

that is

140:38

>> out of Colombia, but I'm a west coast

140:40

guy, so I I like Leechin's book. And

140:42

recently, I just started reading it.

140:43

>> Yeah. Yeah,

140:44

>> I started flipping through it, reading

140:45

it front to back. And of course, I

140:46

recognize every line, right? Cuz this is

140:48

the area I've spent all these years in,

140:49

but I I had not thought about a lot of

140:52

it in a while, and I'm thinking about it

140:53

a little differently. And maybe I'm

140:55

lying to myself, but

140:56

>> I tell myself like, there's some

140:58

enrichment in this. I don't know what it

141:00

is. I'm not just brushing out. There's

141:01

something that's going to come of this.

141:03

>> I know it, but maybe I'm just defaulting

141:05

to the thing that's easiest and maybe I

141:07

should be, you know, looking maybe I

141:09

should be learning Latin or something

141:10

like that instead.

141:11

>> It's almost like nostalgia. you're going

141:12

back to you remember learning this. It's

141:14

also beautiful. It's more fun because

141:16

now you're like, I haven't thought about

141:18

this in a while, but now I can connect

141:19

it to the other things I've been

141:20

thinking about. So, it's like going back

141:22

to a language you're familiar with or a

141:24

city you're familiar with. The big

141:26

question is, are we deluding ourselves

141:29

into thinking that the brain somehow

141:32

gets better as we age? Like, is this a

141:34

story we're telling ourselves so that we

141:36

can um you know, hold on to more?

141:39

Obviously if we do the right things

141:41

which you've described in your book and

141:42

today you know get a bit more maybe a

141:45

lot more uh meaning and experience or in

141:49

keeping with the Ericson you know stages

141:50

of development where there's a you know

141:52

core conflict at every stage of life you

141:54

know development doesn't stop when we

141:55

become young adults neuroplasticity

141:57

continues throughout the lifespan maybe

142:00

and I certainly prefer this answer maybe

142:03

our brains get better in certain ways

142:06

that afford us access to life

142:09

experience,

142:11

internal

142:13

feelings of well-being and peace and

142:15

things that are outsized in comparison

142:17

to what we can experience when we're

142:19

young. I like I like that and like maybe

142:21

we do get better in certain ways as we

142:23

age.

142:23

>> I like that perspective too, of course,

142:25

but maybe it's hard to say like what's

142:26

better or what's worse. It's like this

142:28

is a qualitative difference and if your

142:31

expectation of old age is quite low and

142:34

you realize wait it doesn't have to be

142:35

like that or you know I'm not going to

142:37

run as fast as I used to or maybe I

142:39

won't be scuba diving but hey it can

142:41

actually be very meaningful it might

142:44

encourage you to engage in behaviors

142:45

that'll allow you to get there and be

142:47

there in a you know mobile way a way

142:49

that you'll enjoy it.

142:51

>> Yeah. So maybe instead of striving to be

142:53

a super aager we should strive to be um

142:56

super content.

142:58

something like that. I don't know.

142:59

>> I think there's a quote people say like,

143:01

you know, aging is better than the

143:02

alternative.

143:03

>> Is youth lost on the young though? We're

143:05

going to fire back and forth.

143:06

>> I definitely feel like there's times

143:08

where I'm like, wow, maybe I shouldn't

143:10

call the book better with age cuz

143:11

[laughter]

143:12

let's revise that

143:13

>> because of your son's shoulder.

143:14

>> Well, you know, just all sorts of things

143:16

you can do when you're younger and you

143:17

don't even appreciate it. You don't even

143:19

think twice like, "Wow, it hurt

143:20

yesterday, but it doesn't hurt today."

143:22

It's like, h, that's months for me.

143:24

>> Yeah, but the social stuff is so

143:25

stressful. It can be but I'm not sure at

143:27

that time it's relative to what and um

143:31

you know I think you know there's a lot

143:32

of challenges with younger people today

143:34

and you know going through co and so on

143:36

but I've also seen

143:37

>> kind of a more focus on mental health

143:40

like I've seen you know with my

143:41

daughters they're like I'm going to go

143:42

for a walk when I was 17 I wasn't just

143:45

going for a walk I was like walking to

143:47

get somewhere or you know running to get

143:49

something but now there's this awareness

143:51

of like maybe I'll take care of myself

143:52

or maybe I'll listen to that podcast

143:54

while I'm walking. It's like, wow, that

143:56

seems like very wise. And so, I'm

143:58

impressed. And I hope that, you know,

144:00

those sorts of habits as you develop

144:02

them earlier can stay with you and maybe

144:04

buffer in this midlife where it's like,

144:06

I always have to be busy. I can't, you

144:08

know, stop and and think about things.

144:10

And I think maybe that's why my interest

144:13

or even obsession with aging is to be

144:15

like, wow, there's this group of people

144:16

that seem to be doing pretty well and I

144:18

really enjoy being around them. How can

144:19

I be like them? And oh, it so happens

144:21

they're older adults. But, you know, if

144:23

you went to a country and you're like,

144:25

"This this group of people are really

144:26

cool and interesting and kind of quirky.

144:29

Maybe I'll live here." And to me, that

144:31

might be what older age can be. And

144:33

sure, they're sometimes frail and have

144:35

to rely on other people, but that's not

144:37

always such a bad thing if you have the

144:39

right structure in place.

144:41

>> You're doing important work, and I'm

144:42

grateful that you would come here today

144:44

and share your knowledge, your wisdom

144:46

with us. Um, your book, I didn't know

144:49

you were going to give me a book today.

144:50

Better with age. I'll I'm going to read

144:52

it. The psychology of successful aging.

144:54

I'm going to encourage you to write more

144:55

books because clearly you've gathered

144:57

more knowledge since then. But um it's a

145:00

rare find that uh somebody is doing

145:03

really interesting science and their

145:05

work is immediately applicable and that

145:08

it taps into a segment of our population

145:10

that exists everywhere in the world but

145:12

that frankly doesn't get quite as much

145:15

attention research attention as um other

145:18

areas. I know there's a big interest in

145:20

longevity. there's a big interest in in

145:22

aging and preserving what we have. But

145:25

in addition to studying all those

145:26

things, uh you clearly study other

145:28

aspects of you know what's unique and

145:30

great about people, you know, 50, dare I

145:33

say, and and above and and what we can

145:35

all learn. Um because if we're lucky

145:37

enough to live into those decades, we're

145:41

all going to be benefiting from this

145:43

knowledge. So, thanks for coming here

145:44

today. Let's let's do it again as as

145:46

more more comes off the mill from your

145:48

lab.

145:48

>> Thank you. Thanks for getting the word

145:50

out. It's really um wonderful to hear

145:52

kind of how to digest this and gives me

145:54

new ideas of what to what we can pursue

145:56

as we think about this.

145:57

>> Great. It's been a pleasure. Thank you.

145:59

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146:00

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The discussion with Dr. Alan Castell, an expert in human memory and cognitive aging, explores how memory functions, how it can be improved, and how it changes across the lifespan. He emphasizes that effective learning often involves making mistakes and engaging in "errorful kinds of trials," as mere exposure to information doesn't guarantee retention. Memory is presented as a reconstructive process, not always accurate, and influenced by emotions. The conversation delves into practical strategies for deeper learning, moving beyond rote memorization, and highlights the benefits of novel experiences, physical activity, and social connections for maintaining cognitive health. Dr. Castell also addresses the importance of a positive attitude towards aging and introduces the "ABCs of successful aging" (Attitude, Balance, Connection). He explains how older adults develop a "positivity bias" and become more selective in what they remember, often forgetting irrelevant information efficiently. The distinction between knowledge and wisdom in critical real-world applications is also covered.

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