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Finding My Way: Glassman Archives

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You You have no idea, I don't think, how

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much I am you. I uh I opened the very

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first CrossFit gym, Lauren and I, only

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10 years ago. It it may be 10 years ago

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this month. I don't I don't know for

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sure, but uh and and I didn't I didn't

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realize that until just sitting here now

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this morning thinking about it, but uh

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and and and I and I know I know what you

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do. I know about going into the morning

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before the sun comes up hours before. I

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know what it's like to get up at 3:30, 4

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in the morning to see those 5 a.m.

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clients. To uh be there when Starbucks

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opens its doors,

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to uh unlock the doors in the morning. I

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know about the cold.

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uh turning on the music, flipping on the

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TV,

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kind of check around, see how the how

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the uh how the place looks, you know,

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and I know about cleaning the bathrooms

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and

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uh collecting the money, you know, doing

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the training. I know what it is to be a

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one-man band,

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and I know the fears. This concept, my

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training efforts had languished for

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years and years and years. I don't want

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to tell you how long in a commercial

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facility and I had the I had the very

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good luck of moving to Santa Cruz and

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without thinking ahead of time there

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were only a handful of commercial gyms

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there. So in short order from between n

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95 and 99 I got kicked out of every

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commercial gym in town save one and that

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was a gym a world's gym owned by Dave

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Draper and uh he invited me to come

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there after I'd been thrown out of the

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others and and I didn't take him up on

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it because he was a he was a a very

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close friend he and his wife and uh I I

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didn't want to have my buddy throw me

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out of his gym in a year's time because

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I knew he'd have to because I knew that

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that the business model that was that

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gym wouldn't survive CrossFit.

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We' we'd crush his business.

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And so I I did him the favor and me the

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bigger favor of striking out on my own.

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I remember wondering how am I going to

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get clients?

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because I would been used to being in

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gyms where you'd have 15 or 20,000

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members and people would see me train

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and and you know tap me on the shoulder

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or wait by the water fountain for that

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perfect moment to talk about training

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with me and crazy thing is it was

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abundantly clear within a first of all I

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I left and everyone came with me all

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except one crazy [ __ ] and she didn't

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thank God for that

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and uh

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The people were wonderful. I mean, they

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carried me. They took care of

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everything. But the wonderful thing was

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the the uh um there was no attrition.

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That didn't change. And the and the come

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on rate, the new people were coming

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through the door. I got new clients at a

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rate I'd never seen before. And I had I

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had better credibility out on my own.

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Everything was better. And I I could

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hang rings. I could do rope climb. All

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that stuff that that wasn't allowed in

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the in the in the commercial gym.

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and uh plugged along. I mean, it was it

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was absolutely heaven. I've never done

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anything more fun and I've got this

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fantasy of someday getting back to that.

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I don't know how what might allow for

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that, but uh then the the affiliates

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started coming on and uh the whole thing

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blew up and and my life changed

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dramatically. I uh wasn't going in the

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gym the same way in the morning. I I

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would go in and I I didn't have clients

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or really anything to do and so I was

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just getting in the way of of Annie and

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Nicole and Eva and the Tony the people

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that were training and it I became a

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spectator

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and uh as things continued to grow I uh

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say well gez now I can do some writing

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so I became a writer for the first two

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years I think it was of the journal I

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wrote every [ __ ] article

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you don't ever get the idea you're going

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to launch a magazine by being the sole

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writer for the thing. That was a an

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absolute hell. Um, but I became a writer

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and then and then we the seminar

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business took off big and and as things

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continued to grow, we found other people

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that could write and write better than I

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could and make make a contribution. So,

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I was doing less writing. And uh the

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seminar program, Dave and Nicole, where

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are you? Yeah. Stand up. I give them a

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clap right now. [applause]

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>> I I BELIEVE IT was a year ago last month

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the first seminar went down without me

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there. Is that right?

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>> Yeah. A year ago. I remember leaving

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Santa Cruz and I and I was on the

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freeway and uh like okay, you know,

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they're gonna they're gonna they're

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going to take care of this thing. And I

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saw people coming into town that I

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recognized were coming to the seminar

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and I twice got off the freeway to go

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back and then turned around and got back

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on and saw someone else, went back, got

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back on. It was it was the hardest thing

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in the world to do to leave and uh now

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we're doing four or five uh seminars a

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weekend and uh I I'm not there for any

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of them. I uh it was and it was it was

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it was a slow death. I uh would go and

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uh become a disruption to the training.

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people would want to meet me and talk to

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me and and uh I was in I was in the way

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and along the way along this growth I

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lost my way. I was there was people that

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would unlock the door in the morning,

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people that were turning on the music,

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uh people were doing the training, doing

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the seminars,

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uh writing for the journal, and uh my

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life became increasingly one of talking

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to the [ __ ] lawyers and accountants

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and starting insurance company. And it's

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like, holy cow. I mean, I I I never I

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never had a real job because I wanted to

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hang out in the gym and I I that's

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that's where I've been happiest. That's

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it was by default. I never grew up cuz I

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like doing what you guys do for a

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living.

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And I I uh you know I I never wanted to

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like sit in a cubicle and work on a

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computer all day. And uh God, that's

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what it kind of turned into. Now I'm

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sitting in front of a computer and on

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the phone all day talking to attorneys

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and accountants.

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Well, it was at a it was at a seminar

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overseas

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where it became abundantly clear to me

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that I was in the way of the seminars

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that I would become kind of a a a a

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CrossFit celebrity and people wanted to

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talk to me and we they'd take these

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breaks and they'd line up and we'd talk

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and I'd shake hands and give hugs and I

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see Pat Sherwood like you know I'm

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screwing up the schedule and uh it was

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Lisa Lulo that said that you know we

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need to we need to get these events

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where we just go and meet the affiliates

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and talk to people where it's you're

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where we're not in the way where I'm not

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in the way of the of the training. And

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that was the birth of the 101's. And we

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hit the road and I I wasn't really sure

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why I was doing it. Um other than it

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just seemed like a natural evolution. I

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wouldn't be in the way. I could meet you

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good folks. And I and I got out on the

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road and an amazing thing happened. I I

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found my way. I found myself. And what I

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saw at each stop was me again in 1999.

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You you are me and that you're in there

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in the morning unlocking the door and

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flipping on the heat and turn on the

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lights and waiting for the people to

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come in and doing the training. And each

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and every one of you affiliates is

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really a microcosm for the entire

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effort. Your concerns, your interests,

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your fears, your hopes, your desires,

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aspirations, your clients. I recognize

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all of it. And it and along on the road

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at every stop, you most gyms have that

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guy or gal that's lost 100 pounds.

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You've got the the the guy or gal that's

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in remission from cancer. And you've got

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the some 65year-old guy or gal that's

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that's swinging it with the with the 30

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and 40 year olds. And you know, there

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there was there's nothing I saw on the

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road that I didn't recognize and

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appreciate and miss. And I came to see

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very quickly with just stunning clarity

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that that you are CrossFit the

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affiliates and it's your hard work. It's

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your clients. It's your efforts that

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that are this that are this movement and

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nothing else. And I found purpose in in

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in in serving you. That's what I'm going

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to do for the rest of my days. I'm going

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to help the affiliates in any way I can.

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And I don't have a vision for the

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future. I don't have a vision for

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CrossFit. I don't have a notion of

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success for me, for this movement, for

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my family that doesn't involve success

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for you and your family and your

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clients.

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We're in this together. And we will

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succeed

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or we will fail, but we'll do it

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together.

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and and and that's a that's a simple

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story, but it's and it's an exciting

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one. So, I come back to my origins. I

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come back to my roots and I find purpose

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for my life and it's serving you. So,

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thank you.

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Interactive Summary

The speaker recounts the early days of CrossFit, starting his first gym 10 years prior. He details the hard work, long hours, and varied tasks involved, from cleaning bathrooms to training clients. He faced challenges, including being kicked out of commercial gyms, but found success by going independent. The growth of CrossFit led to affiliates and seminars, changing his role from hands-on training to management and administrative tasks, which he found less fulfilling. Realizing he was becoming a disruption and losing touch with the core of CrossFit, he shifted his focus to visiting affiliates and supporting them directly. This led him to reconnect with the original spirit of CrossFit and find renewed purpose in serving the affiliate community.

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