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How to deal with hopeless situations

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40 segments

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What you all need to understand is that

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whatever you believe about the reality

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of your situation is not real. Whatever

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you believe about the reality of

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situation is determined by your brain.

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And how do you know whether your brain

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is cognitively biased or cognitively

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fair? If your brain tells you that it's

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not worth it or the brain tells you

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don't bother because you're going to

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fail. Those are the two thoughts that

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happen when the dorsal rafi nucleus is

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activated. So even when you're facing

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those thoughts, this is what's really

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wild. What you really need to do is just

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exert some kind of control. So even if

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you're faced with a situation where oh

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like there's no way I can win this game,

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then you need to ask yourself, what can

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I do to try to increase my chances of

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winning this game? And this is the crazy

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thing, right? So if you look at

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professionals who win tournaments versus

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professionals who don't win tournaments,

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what is the difference? They're all

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professionals. One group asks themselves

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in a hopeless situation, "What can I

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do?" and theying win. And if you are

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facing hopeless situations in your life

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and you have these thoughts, don't

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bother or doomed to fail. Exert whatever

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little control you can. Do whatever you

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can to improve your situation. Even if

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your mind is telling you make your time,

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you have no chance to survive. All your

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base are belong to us. Your brain is

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basically telling you that what you need

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to do is exert some control. And then

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your perception of whether you can

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succeed or not will transform.

Interactive Summary

The video explains that our perception of reality is a construct of our brain, often influenced by cognitive biases when the dorsal rafi nucleus is activated. To overcome feelings of hopelessness or failure, one must actively exert control and focus on actionable steps, a trait that distinguishes high-achieving professionals.

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