How to deal with hopeless situations
40 segments
What you all need to understand is that
whatever you believe about the reality
of your situation is not real. Whatever
you believe about the reality of
situation is determined by your brain.
And how do you know whether your brain
is cognitively biased or cognitively
fair? If your brain tells you that it's
not worth it or the brain tells you
don't bother because you're going to
fail. Those are the two thoughts that
happen when the dorsal rafi nucleus is
activated. So even when you're facing
those thoughts, this is what's really
wild. What you really need to do is just
exert some kind of control. So even if
you're faced with a situation where oh
like there's no way I can win this game,
then you need to ask yourself, what can
I do to try to increase my chances of
winning this game? And this is the crazy
thing, right? So if you look at
professionals who win tournaments versus
professionals who don't win tournaments,
what is the difference? They're all
professionals. One group asks themselves
in a hopeless situation, "What can I
do?" and theying win. And if you are
facing hopeless situations in your life
and you have these thoughts, don't
bother or doomed to fail. Exert whatever
little control you can. Do whatever you
can to improve your situation. Even if
your mind is telling you make your time,
you have no chance to survive. All your
base are belong to us. Your brain is
basically telling you that what you need
to do is exert some control. And then
your perception of whether you can
succeed or not will transform.
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The video explains that our perception of reality is a construct of our brain, often influenced by cognitive biases when the dorsal rafi nucleus is activated. To overcome feelings of hopelessness or failure, one must actively exert control and focus on actionable steps, a trait that distinguishes high-achieving professionals.
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