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>> Hello, Rachel. What's happening?

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>> Hello, Joe.

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>> Very nice to see you again. Um, so when

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your husband Andrew came in here, he

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told me about your book and then I

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talked to you and you seemed very

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interesting and you gave me like a

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little brief synopsis of it and so then

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I listened to it on audio tape and it's

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crazy. And it is the occult

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feminism, the secret history of women's

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liberation. Um, you know, I didn't

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really have much of an opinion on

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feminism. I my my opinion was, you know,

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unfortunately you run into some

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feminists that just seem to not like men

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for whatever reason. And you know,

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there's a lot of people in this world

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that aren't happy with their position or

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station in life. But I didn't really

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think too much into how this all got

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started until I listened to your book

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and I'm like, this is kind of bonkers.

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So before we get into your book, like

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how did you decide to write about this?

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like what what was your little journey?

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>> Oh,

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>> or big journey.

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>> Yeah, it's kind of a big journey. So, uh

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when I was growing up, I was like a in

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all the advanced kid classes and from

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the time I was in like kindergarten, it

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was just pounded into my head like

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you're going to college, you're going to

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have a career and you know, you're smart

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and you have to do something with that.

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It was like the only option that was put

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before me. And so, I followed that path

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like all the way through school. And by

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the time I got done with 12 years of

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regular school, I realized a couple

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things. One is uh school is not where

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you go to learn things. Uh school isn't

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ne public school is not so great for

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smart people for the most part. And that

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I really didn't like like another four

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years of school just sounded like hell

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to me. And I really just wanted to get

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married and have kids. That's kind of

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what I always wanted to do. much to the

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horror of my Marxist feminist mother um

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who who did not like

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>> indoctrinated at an early age.

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>> Well, she tried, but I was the why kid.

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I was the kid that's just like why? Why?

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But why? Um and I had like a Rush Limba

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dad.

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>> Wow.

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>> They got divorced. Shocker. Who could

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have seen it coming? Um so they got

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divorced when I was like nine. And I had

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So I grew up in like two worlds. I had

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like Republican business owner Rush

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Limba dad and I had Marxist feminist

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crazy mom.

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>> Was the mom always Marxist feminist and

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was the the the dad always like a Rush

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Limbbo Republican? Yep.

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>> How did they fall in love? How did all

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that happen?

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>> They didn't. I was an accident.

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>> Oh, so they just fall in lust.

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>> Yes.

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>> I was like a an oops baby. And my dad

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said that when he saw me he was like,

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"Well, I don't want anybody else right.

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Like this is the only thing that matters

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to me. So, I'm going to make this work.

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And he tried his best.

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>> How did they even hook up with such

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radically different ideologies?

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>> I don't think they were talking about

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that sort of thing when they got

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together. They were probably hanging out

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at a bar.

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>> Oh, so they didn't really know each

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other very well.

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>> Not really. No, they were kind of like

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they worked in the same place and met at

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work and then had like a fling and then

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>> I was born. Yeah.

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>> Yeah. So, I had divorced parents. Yeah.

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It was it was really rough because my

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mother like hated my dad. She couldn't

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ever tell you anything he did wrong.

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>> Yeah.

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>> It was just like he's a evil white

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patriarchist. Bad bad Republican man.

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One of my earliest memories is them

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fighting over the Bush Daucus election

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in 88 and like threatening to lock each

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other in the house so that the one

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couldn't cancel the other one's vote and

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stuff.

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>> Yeah,

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>> I know. Fun. It was fun. Was this before

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after Kitty Dukakas drank mouthwash or

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what did she drink? She drank something

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like that after shave or mouthwash to

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try to get drunk.

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>> Like she would the pressure of the

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election must have been so insane. And

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this is preocial media, right? And this

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lady was already struggling with like

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alcoholism and uh I think she was

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hospitalized for drinking something that

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was not a drink. Well, can we find out

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what that was?

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>> Sure.

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>> It was really crazy, right? remember? Do

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you remember that?

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>> I just remember that whole election

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being pretty nuts like as far as like

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the Democrats versus Republican. And

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this was when Democrats were more like

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how Republicans are right now. They

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weren't like ride in a tank to make

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everybody think he was like a pro-war

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tough guy. Remember that?

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>> Yeah. Yeah. And I remember read my lips,

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no new taxes, and all that stuff. So

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like I I had this going on like as a

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kid. So I think my brain was already

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thinking about this sort of stuff from

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the time I was little. Rubbing alcohol.

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Yo, that's crazy.

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>> Nail polish remover.

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>> Oh my god. She drank nail polish

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remover.

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>> Holy

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>> She couldn't just huff paint like normal

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person.

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>> Very open about her struggles with

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alcohol and addiction to amphetamines to

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reduce the stigma surrounding these

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issues. Later detailing these

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experiences in her books.

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>> Huh.

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>> Okay.

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>> Yeah. Yeah. So, my parents were like

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ready to kill each other over that. And

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so, they divorced right right after

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that. They divorced. And so, I'd spend

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time with dad and I'd spend time with

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mom. And I had to two completely

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different realities and worldviews. And

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I think growing up like that, you're

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trying to sort out what's true. You're

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trying to figure out like, is there any

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merit to what mom's saying the world is

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or any merit to what dad's saying the

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world is? And I think dad was more

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persuasive and and better at pulling me

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his direction because I never really

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absorbed like I always thought Marxism

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was, you know, faking gay and stupid. I

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just never bought into it at all.

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>> Why Why at an early age did you think

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that?

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>> Uh because I already had seen that, you

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know, we're not all born equal with

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equal things and some people work much

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harder. Some people have natural gifts

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and talents. And to think that cuz my

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mother would literally say stuff in the

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house like from you know from each

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person according to their ability to

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each person according to their need. And

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I was like even when I do that in class

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like if there's a group project

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everybody wants me on their team because

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I'm the smart kid who's going to do the

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homework. I end up doing everything and

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everybody else gets the A even though I

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did everything. So I was

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>> those are the people that are really

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into socialism people that halfass

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stuff.

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>> Yes.

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>> Yeah. And so like from a being a little

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kid, I even noticed like no things

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aren't equal and things aren't always

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fair and it depends on you know your

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natural skills and abilities and then

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what you do with those things because

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there's lots of people like my mother

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was super talented, really intelligent

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person, but she was so like emotionally

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chaotic. She never applied them to

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anything. She never really got anywhere

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or did anything. She had big dreams of

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what she thought she should have and and

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never really got there because

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>> she was so like emotionally unregulated

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and kind of chaotic. So,

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>> I just kind of saw that no, there's not

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this like thing where you can just even

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the playing field and make it all equal

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for everyone. That's not how it works.

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There's also a thing that if you're

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locked up in something like Marxism, you

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you if that's your ideology, you're in

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this constant struggle with the rest of

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the world all the time where you want to

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bend it to your ideology. You want to

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change it. And so even if you're a very

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intelligent person, your daily mindset

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is struggle. Your daily mindset is

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conflict and existential crisis. like

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you know people

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>> that is exactly that was that was the

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picture that was laid in front of me.

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>> Yeah. It's such a

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>> I go to dad's house and he's like he

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started a business after the divorce and

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he's like hustling. He's working 12 to

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14 hour days. He's doing everything he

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can to make it work. He's not

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complaining. He's just like this is what

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you got to do if you want to make it. If

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you want to, you know, do your own thing

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and prove that, you know, you're good at

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what you do, you have to compete. You

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have to get out there. You have to work

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hard. Why complain about it? And then my

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mom's whole world was she ended up being

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very bitter and resentful because it was

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like this view of but I deserved this.

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That should have been me. I got robbed

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of it because whatever reason and often

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it was like if I was more attractive,

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you know, the men at work would have

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given me a raise if I looked like the

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other woman in the office or something,

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you know. So it was like this

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>> bitter, resentful. She was kind of like

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at war with the world. So seeing those

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two things, neither of my parents are

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perfect. Who is who has perfect parents?

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But it was kind of like I'd rather play

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over here where there's a purpose for me

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working hard and giving it my best shot

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and trying in life and figuring out

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what's important to me and then

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tailoring, you know, all my efforts

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toward that. And I just thought that um

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having a family was so cool. And I

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wanted to have the family I didn't have.

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So,

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>> uh, I I had this dream of like getting

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married, having kids, having an intact

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family, and making it like a place where

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kids can grow up without all the

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screaming and yelling and chaos that I

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had and that a lot of kids have

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nowadays. So, um, didn't go to college.

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I had a full ride scholarship and I

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didn't go, which everybody thought was

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the end of the world. It was like, how

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could you do that? Your life is over.

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You'll never be anything. And I was kind

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of like, we'll see. You know,

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>> it is very weird that we're convinced

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that the only way to get educated is by

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an official institution with all the

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information that's available now. I

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mean, even back then, like that's the

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whole premise of Goodwill Hunting. Like

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you can get very smart from a public

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library. You really don't need

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>> it's just the books are available for

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everyone. The information is available

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for everyone if you chase it down. It's

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not like the only people that get any

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information are the ones who go to these

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colleges.

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>> It's one of the biggest lies that

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education like we can just educate

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everyone. The problem is we're not

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educated enough and if everyone had

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enough access to education, everyone

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would be intelligent, everyone would be

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thriving. It's like the internet's kind

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of proved this.

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>> I had a teacher,

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>> it's not an information problem, right?

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>> I had a teacher in high school that said

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something. I don't know if this is his

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quote or he was quoting someone else,

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but he said, "Education is something

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that allows you to get along without

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intelligence, and intelligence is

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something that allows you to get along

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without education."

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>> I like that. That's pretty good.

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>> And I was like, "Oh, I get it." There's

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there's certain people that are just

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dumb at certain things. Like I remember

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being around intelligent people that had

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no knowledge of how a car worked, of any

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of the workings of a car. You would

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tell, well, this is back in like spark

10:41

plug days. You explain to them like, oh,

10:44

one of the cables for your spark plug

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got loose. You're only firing on five

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cylinders. The six the whole six is not.

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That's why it's like shaking like that.

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Like if that if it was anything else, if

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you're talking about the economy, if

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you're talking about the political

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process, that guy would think the other

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guy was a but now this guy thinks

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he's a I remember like being like

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autoshop class going, there's a lot of

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different kinds of intelligence. We've

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just done this weird thing where we've

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categorized like you have to go to

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specific schools, you have to go to the

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you got to get a degree. Everybody

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wanted to go to Ivy League schools. I

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lived in Boston. It was like very

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important. Did you get a higher

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education? You

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>> you go on to make everybody proud. And

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they were all miserable.

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>> Well, my dad said this to me. He was the

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only person that when I graduated, I

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said, "I don't think I want to go to

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college for this. I don't think that's

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what I want to do." like any of the

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things I'm looking at when I think about

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like having a career in in that thing.

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I'm not very excited about it. I don't I

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don't get like ooh hyped up to go do

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this. I was like I really just kind of

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want to you know maybe someday but I

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would love to have a bunch of kids and

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stuff and my dad was like you know a lot

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of the people in my office have degrees

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and you know they have careers and some

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of them are very miserable people. So if

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you don't want to do that he's like you

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could always decide to go later. So, I

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was like, I'll I kind of like bargained

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with everyone. I was like, I'm just

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going to give it a year.

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>> You know, I'll do that, too.

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>> Yeah. And if it, you know, if I feel

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like I want to go to college after a

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year of no high school, um, then I'll

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go. You know, I could still do it.

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>> But I ended up having a baby at 20,

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>> which again was the end of the world. Oh

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my god, Rachel, your life is over.

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You'll never be anything. You'll never

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do anything. It's over for you. It's

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such a tragedy. It was like treated like

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this horrible thing. And I thought it

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was great. And when I had her, the job

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that I had did not matter to me anymore

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at all. It seemed so stupid. I was like,

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"Anybody can go." I was a hair stylist

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at the time. Anybody can go do haircuts.

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Someone else can cut Debbie's hair, but

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only I can be her mom. I want to do

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that. And everybody was telling me, "You

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have to go back to work. You have to go

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back to work. That's what we do now. Two

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weeks after the baby's born, you got to

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go back to work. You need the money. You

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need the security. you need the income.

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And I looked around and thought, this is

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insane. Like, who came up with this

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system? Because I am going to go drop

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her off at 2 weeks old and let some lady

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who doesn't know or care about or love

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my baby the way that I do, take care of

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her all day long. You know, if you

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factor in the commute, it's like 9 and

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1/2 hours that I'm away from her. By the

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time I get home and feed her and give

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her a bath, it'll be bedtime and that'll

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be it. I'll get like maybe two hours

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with my baby all day, you know? Um, and

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I get to pay half of what I make to this

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other random person to raise my child.

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Who came up with this? This is stupid.

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And I have to pay taxes, you know, and I

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have to have a second vehicle and

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insurance and a work wardrobe. And I

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just thought, this is the most

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inefficient, stupid system. And everyone

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around me is like, this is this is good.

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this is what we all need to do. Even

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like Christian conservative women that

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were friends and family members were

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like, "Well, you don't want to depend on

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a man because then you're going to get

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abuse." They they fear-mongered me to

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death about staying home with my kids.

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And at the time, uh this was my high

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school boyfriend who I had my first

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child with. Um because I was kind of a

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libertarian at this stage and both my

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parents at this point my parents have

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multiple divorces between the two of

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them. And I always I know I always

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heard, "Oh, marriage is just a piece of

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paper. What really matters is that you

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love each other." And that sort of

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thing. And I'd known this guy since we

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were kids. We we'd known each other

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forever. We'd been together for a long

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time. So, I thought this was great.

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>> And my goal was, let's get us to the

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point where I can stay home and be like

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a full-time mom. And he had stuff going

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on. It did not work out. He took off.

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Devastating, horrible, terrible for me.

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No big fights, no cheating, nothing like

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that. Um, you know, he's a private

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person, so I don't want to tell his

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business, but he had his own personal

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things going on and left. And it was

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back to, you know, I had to work and be

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a working mom, and I didn't like that.

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And I still thought that there was

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something wrong here, but I hadn't

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really like looked into

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where do we get this idea that women

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must be working. Like my grandma didn't

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work. Bless her soul, by the way. She's

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going to be turning 100 April 1st. my

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grandma who's still with us and she's

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probably my ace in the hole and the

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reason I kind of turned out normal

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despite my chaotic family upbringing cuz

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she was super grounded, nice Christian

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lady, only an eighth grade education,

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but she knew how to do everything. She

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could go out back and like pluck a

15:42

chicken, cook it up for dinner, can

15:44

everything in the garden, preserve all

15:45

the food, and she had more done by 8

15:47

a.m. than most human beings on Earth.

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So, I had like grandma as a pillar to

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really help me through this stuff. So

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shout out grandma. Uh

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>> which is work.

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>> Yeah.

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>> It's housework.

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>> Yeah.

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>> Yeah. Which is like really important.

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Like it has to get done.

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>> Yeah.

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>> And most people think someone else

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should do that. I need to be in an

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office.

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>> Yeah. This is for uh wages like low low

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paid wagey people to do. I need to be

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doing something important. But I always

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thought she was really important. She

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was super important to me because when

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you know my parents were off doing

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whatever they were doing, I'd always get

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dumped at grandma's. So, I spent a ton

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of time with her growing up and she was

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full of wisdom and like I said, she knew

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how to do everything. Like her practical

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skills were crazy. She can cook

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anything. She can clean anything. She

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can can and preserve food. She grew up

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during the Great Depression. She was

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born in 1928.

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>> Oh, wow.

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>> Yeah. And she's she had been through

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some stuff like she had lost her husband

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to cancer. She lost her daughter to

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kidney disease. Like she had been

16:46

through it. So, she had a lot of like

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good advice and wisdom. And she'd always

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say, "Oh, I wish I was smart like you. I

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wish I was smart like you and I could go

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to school and stuff like that." But I

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thought, "Grandma, you're the only

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person that knows what the hell they're

16:59

doing. You're the only person in my

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world who

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>> Well, the grass is always

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>> seems to know what they're doing. Yeah.

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>> The grass is always greener. You know,

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>> when you're looking at a a woman that's

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entering into the workforce who's really

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intelligent, you start thinking, "She's

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going to have a career."

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>> Yeah.

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>> And she's going to be a CEO someday and

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everyone's going to respect her. you

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well that person's on pills and suicidal

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and

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>> can't sleep and

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>> well we're going to get into that. We're

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going to get into I'm sure like how it's

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turned out for women pushing them into

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the workforce telling them they can have

17:30

it all and how they're dealing with

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that.

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>> But I didn't I didn't deal with it well

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when I was at work I felt like I should

17:37

be at home and I was missing my kids and

17:39

like I was really failing on the home

17:40

front. And when I was at home I felt

17:42

like I should be giving more to work and

17:44

I felt constantly torn. And that's

17:45

something I hear from pretty much every

17:47

woman I talk to who has kids and a job

17:50

>> that it's really tough that you always

17:53

feel like

17:54

>> you're not able to give enough to each

17:56

thing. You just can't spread yourself

17:58

that thin all the time. And I think it's

17:59

bad advice. I think we give women

18:01

backwards advice.

18:02

>> I think we tell them spend all your

18:04

fertile years, all your youth building a

18:07

career, going to school and building a

18:09

career. Then by the time you're like 30,

18:12

35 and you're you've got all that

18:14

established, then you can think about

18:16

getting married and having kids. Well,

18:18

by then you better find somebody quick

18:21

and get on it because you got a handful

18:23

of years left.

18:24

>> Yeah.

18:24

>> You know, and you might need IVF and all

18:26

these other things. And a lot of women

18:28

struggle. And it's one of the it's

18:30

actually nobody wants to talk about

18:32

this. This is the conversation no one's

18:34

ready for. Women's access to higher

18:36

education is the number one correlate

18:38

around the world, regardless of

18:41

economics, race, culture, status,

18:43

anything to falling birth rates.

18:46

>> Wow.

18:47

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18:49

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18:52

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18:55

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18:57

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20:13

Isn't there also a practical

20:15

consideration for a lot of people?

20:16

Because the cost of living is very

20:18

different now than it was like say in

20:19

the 1950s or the 1960s. It's very

20:22

difficult for a lot of people to get by

20:24

on one income.

20:25

>> Yes, it is. But have you ever asked why

20:28

that is?

20:29

>> Uh I I have, but I'd love for you to

20:31

talk about it.

20:32

>> So, prior to the 1970s, we had 5% of

20:37

mothers with school age kids working

20:39

outside the home. And for all of human

20:42

history, even during the industrial

20:44

revolution, you know, 17, 18, 1900s,

20:46

like you said, in the 40s and 50s, you

20:49

could be a a janitor and support a

20:51

family and have four kids on one income.

20:54

And something shifted in the 1970s, and

20:56

it's never shifted back. So, it can't be

20:59

like how the stock market's doing. It

21:02

can't really be like all these other

21:03

independent economic factors that have

21:05

shifted and changed and been so

21:06

different over the course of the last 50

21:08

years. The one big thing that we changed

21:11

is we pushed women into college and into

21:14

the workforce. And by the 1980s, they

21:17

were on par with men in work force

21:20

workforce participation. So in the span

21:23

of about 20 years, we almost doubled the

21:25

labor force by pushing all the women in.

21:28

And men's wages have never recovered. So

21:31

now you are stuck in a two-income trap

21:34

where even women who want to stay home

21:36

and even dads who would love to have

21:37

their wife home with their kids, it's

21:39

really tough.

21:39

>> So what why did women entering the

21:41

workforce keep men's wages stable or

21:45

keep them from going up along with the

21:47

in with the inflation?

21:48

>> It really fundamentally changed the

21:51

economy. I have a friend named Aaron

21:52

Clary who wrote a book about the about

21:54

this. um it's an analysis of what he

21:57

calls a female-based economy where it's

22:00

more consumer-driven. Uh women are like

22:02

responsible for 80% of consumer

22:04

spending. And now that they're all

22:05

educated and in the job market, we have

22:07

a lot more of things like HR

22:09

departments, uh, psychology, sociology,

22:12

like um, the economy shifted away from

22:15

being like manufacturing and production

22:17

and more maledominated things to we have

22:19

all these women coming out of university

22:22

and you know they what do they get

22:23

degrees in? I think 80% of psychology

22:26

degrees are earned by women. And then

22:29

despite all our efforts to push women

22:31

into STEM, they're still like maybe 20%

22:34

of STEM degrees. So we have all these

22:37

very educated women. And we have a lot

22:39

of kind of fluffy jobs like office jobs,

22:42

HR jobs, social media managers. Uh and

22:46

mostly women do a lot of the same things

22:48

they used to do in the home. So they're

22:50

nurses, they're early childhood

22:52

educators, they're retail workers,

22:54

they're cooks, they're um they're

22:56

housekeepers. They're doing a lot of the

22:58

stuff they used to do, which uh the

23:01

Marxist feminists called unpaid labor,

23:03

right? This is the myth of women's

23:05

unpaid labor. So instead of cleaning

23:07

your own house, educating your own

23:09

children, cooking meals for your family,

23:11

maybe for your your parents or

23:14

grandparents who can't cook for

23:15

themselves, all the things we used to do

23:16

for our own family, clerical work,

23:18

bookkeeping for your husband's business,

23:20

things like that, we're doing those

23:22

things for corporations.

23:24

So that and and this was kind of by

23:26

design. Uh, a lot of the book is about

23:29

the fact that there were people who

23:31

pushed feminism and it wasn't because

23:34

women were oppressed and they cared

23:35

about the position of women necessarily.

23:37

It's because the same people who pushed,

23:40

you know, the 19th amendment and pushed

23:42

progressivism and feminism were the same

23:45

people who drafted the Federal Reserve

23:47

legislation, came up with the income

23:49

tax, came up with the compulsory

23:51

education system. And especially on the

23:54

Marxist side, they they pushed feminism

23:58

because they said if we can push mothers

23:59

and women into the workforce and we

24:01

double the workforce, workers of the

24:04

world unite. You know what I'm saying?

24:05

So it's like we have this huge

24:06

workforce. And through the university

24:08

systems, we can kind of propagandize the

24:11

young women to be socialists and to be

24:13

Marxists because they kind of tend that

24:15

way anyway. The way that women's brains

24:17

work is very like communitarian for a

24:20

reason. We're moms, you know, so it's

24:22

very easy to radicalize and this isn't

24:24

my opinion. Like I go over in the book

24:26

how you can just read the writings of

24:28

these people and they tell you August

24:30

Babel, Alexander Colintai, Margaret

24:32

Fuller, like all these early 1800s

24:35

writers were saying we need to get women

24:38

away from the home and away from being

24:40

mothers and push them into the workplace

24:42

because then we can politicize them. we

24:44

can motivate them into becoming

24:46

revolutionaries

24:48

and that's how we'll get the numbers to

24:50

make this work.

24:51

>> Wow.

24:52

>> Yeah. So now instead of staying home

24:55

with your kids and doing all these

24:56

things for your family, for your

24:59

community, you're doing them for a

25:01

corporation and you're paying income

25:02

tax, you're paying all the other taxes

25:05

associated with having to work outside

25:06

the home, gas tax because you're driving

25:08

back and forth to work, um payroll

25:11

taxes, all that kind of stuff. and you

25:15

are away from your kids all day. Where

25:16

do they go? They go to public schools

25:19

where the public school system then can

25:21

dictate to them what the values should

25:24

be uh how you know the what the world

25:27

view should be instead of the parents.

25:32

>> Yeah. It just makes you wonder like

25:34

there there's all these giant shifts in

25:37

culture and it makes you wonder what

25:39

what would we look like if that had

25:41

never taken place.

25:43

>> Well, that's so you asked like how why

25:45

did I start writing about this? That's

25:46

why cuz I had like an aha moment where I

25:50

realized feminism is far and away like

25:54

it's not even close. It's the biggest

25:56

social revolution in all of human

25:57

history and it happened in one century.

26:00

We took the whole social order that was

26:03

in every culture around the world for

26:05

all of the rest of time that's recorded

26:08

and we flipped it upside down and

26:10

completely changed it in one century.

26:13

Everything about your life is different

26:16

now because of feminism in ways that you

26:18

don't even think about. you know, the

26:20

way that you act in the workplace, the

26:24

the way that legislation works, the way

26:26

that school systems work. Like, every

26:28

single thing about life has changed as a

26:31

downstream result of feminism and

26:33

pushing this model of women's equality,

26:36

which it's really not. It's really not

26:38

about equality. And all you have to do

26:39

is read all the first everybody thinks

26:41

first wave was just, oh, they just

26:43

wanted rights. They just wanted a few

26:45

rights. That was good. you know, and the

26:47

average person would say, "Yeah, I think

26:49

that that was good." But that's because

26:51

they don't know the real history. And

26:53

the reason they don't know the real

26:54

history is because when they invented

26:56

gender studies and women's studies,

26:58

which were created by the Ford

27:00

Foundation with some help from the

27:02

Rockefellers and the Carnegies, uh, in

27:04

the late60s,

27:06

they literally rewrote the history of

27:09

how women's suffrage happened. So

27:11

there's a professor named Joseph Miller

27:12

who did an examination of 12 the main 12

27:16

textbooks that are most commonly used in

27:18

all the western universities to teach

27:20

women's history. And he's not even like

27:23

a right-winger. He's like a liberal

27:25

college professor. But when he looked

27:27

and examined those 12 textbooks and

27:30

compared them to the actual writings,

27:32

uh, you know, newspaper articles,

27:34

writings of feminists themselves, public

27:36

debates held between suffragists and

27:38

anti-suffragists, all of the writings of

27:40

anti-suffragist groups, which far

27:42

outnumbered pro-suffragist groups, he

27:45

found that they left out huge chunks of

27:48

what really happened or intentionally

27:50

misrepresented what actually happened on

27:53

purpose to kind of sell feminism as

27:58

something different than what it what it

27:59

really was.

28:00

>> So what did they leave out?

28:01

>> So the most important thing they left

28:03

out was that women did not want women's

28:06

liberation. They were Yes. Everybody

28:09

assumes and believes that it was a

28:12

grassroots thing that women kind of

28:14

looked around in the 19th century and

28:16

they went, you know, we're oppressed. We

28:18

don't have any rights. I wish I could

28:20

work. I wish I could get away from my

28:22

bastard husband who drinks me drinks and

28:24

beats me. I need I need rights. I need a

28:28

bank account. I need credit cards. I

28:30

want to go to university. And and they

28:31

marched and they picketed until they had

28:33

voting rights and and equality in the

28:36

workplace. That's the story everyone's

28:38

heard. And it's not correct at all. It's

28:41

it's in in fact, it's the opposite. So,

28:44

this is hilarious. When the So, we had

28:48

this big fight in the late 1800s between

28:50

pro-suffrage groups and anti-suffrage

28:53

groups. Most women in the United States

28:56

and England, if they were a member of

28:58

either, they far outnumbered by joining

29:01

the anti-suffrage groups. They were very

29:03

much against it. It was only a small

29:05

minority of women who were pro-suffrage.

29:08

And these groups would debate publicly.

29:10

They would write pamphlets. They would

29:12

write tracks. So, we have a really good

29:13

written historical record of what

29:15

actually happened.

29:17

And women didn't want it. They thought

29:20

they thought they had a lot of great

29:23

things going on already that were going

29:25

to get ruined by suffrage. For example,

29:26

here's some let's do a little myth

29:28

busting. People have this idea that

29:30

prior to the 19th amendment, women were

29:33

denied an education. Completely untrue.

29:35

Some of the first universities in the

29:37

United States were exclusively female

29:39

universities and seminaries and

29:42

secondary schools. more women actually

29:44

probably had the opportunity to go than

29:46

men because men always had to work in

29:48

the fields in the mines, go to war,

29:50

build the infrastructure of the nation,

29:52

work on railroads, you know. Um, so

29:55

women were seen as like, well, you're

29:57

going to be teaching the kids, so you

29:58

should probably do a little extra

30:00

education, whereas Jimmy and Billy, they

30:03

need to work the farm with dad,

30:05

>> you know. So, there was never any law

30:08

that prohibited women from higher

30:09

education. What happens, what feminists

30:12

do, they rely on framing. So, they'll

30:14

say because there weren't co-ed

30:16

universities, because it was women's

30:18

universities and then men had separate

30:20

ones, it was mostly um segregated.

30:23

They'll say women didn't have equal

30:26

access to education.

30:27

>> Were the better schools men schools?

30:30

>> No. In fact, I'd say so. I guess you

30:33

could say some there were a handful of

30:35

Ivy League institutions that didn't let

30:37

women into certain programs. Um, but it

30:40

was mostly like medical stuff, things

30:43

like that. And that had already changed

30:45

before the passage of the 19th

30:47

amendment. Women were already being led

30:49

into Ivy League education, being allowed

30:51

to do biology and and become doctors.

30:54

Many of the women in my book who were

30:55

first wave suffragists had degrees, had

30:58

educations. Um, the other one is like

31:01

women weren't allowed to like leave the

31:02

house. They weren't allowed to, you

31:04

know, sex out of wedlock or children out

31:06

of wedlock. Oh my gosh, it was so

31:08

terrible. But most of the women in my

31:10

book who were traveling the world

31:13

promoting women's suffrage had children

31:15

out of wedlock, had extrammarital

31:17

affairs or multiple sex partners or were

31:21

even lesbians,

31:23

>> open lesbians touring the world making

31:25

money, giving speeches, writing

31:27

pamphlets and tracks, raising money for

31:29

the suffrage movement. Nobody put them

31:31

in jail. Nobody whipped them. Was there

31:33

some stigma? Sure. But I don't think

31:37

that you can argue that stigma against

31:40

those sort of things equates to

31:43

oppression of women by the patriarchy.

31:45

It's always framed that way, but that's

31:47

not true.

31:48

>> So what year did they pass the 19th

31:50

amendment? And the 19th amendment is

31:51

what gave women that gave women the

31:53

right to vote, right?

31:54

>> So there were women that said, "I don't

31:56

want the right to vote."

31:57

>> Yes. In fact, when they

31:59

>> Why Why wouldn't you just want the right

32:01

to vote? Even keeping a traditional

32:03

household, like the right to have a say

32:06

if it's about the world, it's about the

32:08

United States. It's about our laws and

32:09

how we're going to govern.

32:11

>> Yeah. So, I'll tell you what their

32:13

reasoning was. They said, um, we're

32:15

going to lose a lot of the protection

32:17

and provision that we currently enjoy.

32:19

So, for example, in the state of New

32:20

York in the 1800s, as a woman entering a

32:23

marriage, if you had money, if you had

32:25

an inheritance that came with you when

32:26

you got married, if your husband cheated

32:29

on you or left or divorced you, um you

32:32

he couldn't take any of that. Your

32:35

inheritance was protected from, you

32:37

know, your husband leaving and taking

32:39

it. Um and only men could be held

32:42

responsible for debt. And there was

32:45

something called breadwinner laws that

32:47

the courts, it was like a systemic law.

32:50

It wasn't like one specific law. It was

32:51

like a whole legal framework that said,

32:54

"Look, women have to raise kids and be

32:56

pregnant and have babies. So, we have to

32:58

hold men responsible for financially

33:00

taking care of women and children. So,

33:02

women couldn't be thrown into a debtor's

33:04

prison. They couldn't be held legally

33:06

liable for repaying a loan or anything

33:07

like that. They could own property.

33:10

People don't believe that either. People

33:11

believe women couldn't own anything. And

33:14

the reason they say that is because once

33:16

you were married, you were considered

33:17

one legal entity. But even then, a

33:21

married man in the state of New York in

33:23

1800 couldn't sell a property that was

33:27

owned after he was married without his

33:28

wife's written consent. And the court

33:31

had to be assured that she was not being

33:33

like coerced into it. So there were

33:36

already like the anti-suffragists

33:38

themselves argued we kind of have

33:40

everything we want. You know we we have

33:43

like most of the benefits of this you

33:45

know they didn't call it a patriarchy

33:47

but what we would call a patriarchy.

33:48

They said we're the primary

33:50

beneficiaries of this system.

33:52

>> We have a lot of protections and if you

33:54

make us equal we're going to lose those.

33:56

Like what if we get drafted? What if we

33:58

have to go do jury duty and hear like

34:00

the gruesome details of like murders and

34:02

rapes and things like that? It's going

34:04

to pit the family against each other

34:07

>> just with the right to vote.

34:08

>> Yeah, just with the right to vote

34:10

because

34:10

>> So,

34:11

>> why couldn't you keep all those things

34:12

and just be able to participate?

34:14

>> Well, unfortunately, they were right.

34:16

So, one really good example is the

34:18

women's temperance movement. You guys

34:20

remember prohibition? That was primarily

34:23

women who pushed for prohibition. It was

34:25

the women's temperance union. It was

34:27

like a Christian uh movement to ban

34:30

alcohol. and women didn't have the right

34:32

to vote, but they got prohibition

34:33

passed, which was huge. Like, it was one

34:35

of those things that nobody thought was

34:37

even going to happen. And and it

34:38

happened largely because of their

34:40

political motivation. And the reason

34:43

that it worked is because they could go

34:45

to Congress or they could go to the

34:46

Senate and say, "We're not a political

34:48

voting block. We have a moral high

34:50

ground from which to ask for these

34:52

things because you can't buy our vote.

34:55

you can't, you know, um,

34:58

like, uh, offer us things and kind of

35:00

seduce us into voting for you based on

35:02

promising us things that we want. And

35:04

they didn't want to lose that because

35:06

they felt like they had a lot of

35:07

influence. And the things they predicted

35:10

would happen, they, the anti-suffragists

35:12

said, you're going to see a lot of

35:14

divorce. you're going to see broken up

35:16

families because it's going to pit

35:17

husband and wife against each other just

35:19

like it did with my parents where you've

35:20

got, you know, mom wants to vote for the

35:22

Democrat, dad wants to vote for the

35:24

Republican or vice versa. Now they're

35:26

fighting about it. They want to split.

35:28

They have separate worldviews. Um, and

35:30

political interests will be used to

35:32

drive a wedge between men and women and

35:34

break up families and then we're all

35:36

going to be a bunch of single moms.

35:38

We're all going to have to work. Like

35:39

they they literally predicted this

35:41

stuff. It's in one whole chapter of the

35:43

book is dedicated to their arguments.

35:46

>> How do they have such amazing foresight?

35:48

I mean, I just would ignorantly I would

35:51

think, okay, well, I think women should

35:53

have the right to vote. They're human

35:54

beings. They live here. There's these

35:55

are laws that are being go like why

35:57

would that

35:58

>> Well, I think uh one of the problems we

36:00

have when we look back at history is the

36:02

fallacy of presentism. We're looking at

36:04

it through like our eyes now with the

36:06

with all of the presuppositions that we

36:08

have about the world kind of baked in.

36:10

And at this time, so in 1920, people

36:13

don't realize that men had only

36:16

universally gotten the right to vote

36:18

very shortly before women got it. So in

36:20

the UK, uh, most men couldn't vote until

36:24

about 10 years before women got the

36:25

vote. In the UK, there was all kinds of

36:27

restrictions on voting in the United

36:29

States for men. You may have to pay a

36:31

poll tax. You might have to take um a

36:34

test like a a literacy test or a

36:37

political literacy test. There might be

36:39

a religious requirement of some kind.

36:42

There might be a racial requirement of

36:44

some kind. There could be um all

36:47

different kinds of restrictions on men

36:48

voting. You might have to be a property

36:50

owner. You might have to be a certain

36:51

age. So, there was a lot of men. It

36:54

wasn't like all men could always vote

36:57

and no women could ever vote.

36:59

>> And at the time of trying to pass

37:01

suffrage, there were already a few

37:03

states in the west that had granted

37:04

women suffrage like Utah and Wyoming.

37:08

And in Utah is a fun case because it was

37:10

mostly settled by Mormons at the time

37:12

and they were mostly polygamists and

37:14

there was this big fight between the

37:15

feds and the state of Utah because the

37:18

feds did not they were like this

37:19

polygamy thing is getting really popular

37:21

out there and it's going to cause us

37:22

some problems. And uh they want to give

37:25

women the right to vote and the Mormons

37:28

thought if we give women the right to

37:29

vote we can keep polygamy because

37:31

they're going to vote for it because

37:32

it's beneficial to them in whatever ways

37:34

that the LDS church thought it was. The

37:36

feds were betting on the fact that nah,

37:39

I think if we give women the right to

37:40

vote, they're going to say no more of

37:41

this polygamy, so let them have it. Just

37:43

let them have it. Well, the feds lost

37:45

the bet. And the Mormon wives kept

37:48

voting for the polygamy stuff. The feds

37:51

didn't like it. So, what they did, there

37:53

was also a little bit of stuff going on

37:55

with the finances of the LDS church that

37:57

was a little sus. They passed an

37:59

amendment or yeah, a law through

38:01

Congress in uh 1878, I think. I could be

38:05

wrong on the date to take away women's

38:08

suffrage. They took the vote back from

38:10

them. They said, "No more voting for

38:11

you. Can't do that

38:12

>> because you're voting for polygamy."

38:14

>> Yeah. And so women in Utah had suffrage

38:18

granted and then had it removed for 50

38:21

years. It it was from I think it was

38:23

about 1870 to 1920 that they didn't have

38:27

the right to vote. And the

38:29

anti-suffragists, this was a big deal.

38:31

So pro-suffrage women would go to Utah

38:33

and anti-suffrage women would go to Utah

38:35

and they'd talk to the women and try to

38:37

because everyone's trying to get them on

38:38

their side. And they kind of found that

38:41

like women really didn't want to be

38:43

involved in politics. They felt like we

38:45

have so much going on at home. They were

38:47

the community organizers. We don't have

38:48

this anymore by the way. I'm taking care

38:50

of my grandparents. I'm taking care of

38:52

my uncle who, you know, has a disease

38:54

and is infirmed. I've got seven kids and

38:56

so does my cousin and so does my sister.

38:58

And we all raise them kind of together.

39:00

We're very busy. We're doing all the

39:02

church stuff. We're teaching the kids

39:04

together. Politics is just like you have

39:07

to know so much about it and you have to

39:09

be so informed and we just we don't have

39:11

time and we we really don't have

39:13

interest. Most of them were really

39:14

indifferent. But more were either

39:16

indifferent or against it than we're for

39:18

it by such a margin. So this is the

39:21

test. They let them vote on whether they

39:23

wanted the vote in a huge the biggest

39:26

referendum was in Massachusetts.

39:28

So they let women vote on whether they

39:31

wanted the vote in a referendum. Of the

39:34

women that showed up, not a lot of them

39:35

showed up. It was a fairly smallish

39:37

number, but of the thousands that showed

39:39

up to vote, only 4% wanted suffrage on

39:43

the ballot.

39:44

>> That's crazy.

39:45

>> Only 4%. So guess what Elizabeth Katie

39:48

Stanton and Susan B. Anthony did after

39:50

that? All the pro-suffrage leaders, they

39:53

banned women from voting on whether they

39:56

wanted to vote.

39:59

Isn't that crazy?

40:01

>> How did Susie be Susan B. Anthony get

40:03

involved in all this? Because she was

40:05

one of those people that was like, what

40:07

was she on the $2 bill or something?

40:08

Yeah. And she was one of those people

40:10

that always held up as this like amazing

40:12

woman. And then I started listening to

40:15

your book and I was like, wait, what?

40:17

>> Yeah. A lot of these women like her and

40:20

and Elizabeth Katie Stanton were kind of

40:21

the two big figure heads in America.

40:23

There were a lot of other important

40:24

people, but those are the two most

40:26

people have heard of. They're the ones

40:27

who wrote the history of women's

40:29

suffrage, which is this giant like

40:31

multi-olume history that they wrote.

40:33

Now, they wrote it from a very biased

40:36

perspective to make themselves the rock

40:38

stars of this movement. They wanted to

40:40

be remembered in the history books as

40:42

being these awesome badass kind of

40:44

revolutionary strong independent women.

40:46

They in fact came up with the strong

40:48

independent women narrative um that

40:51

women were victims who needed to be

40:53

unvictimized. They had other suffragists

40:56

that they were trying to cut out of the

40:58

history when they were putting together

40:59

this history of women's suffrage. Lucy

41:01

Stone was one that said, "Wait a minute.

41:03

You guys are leaving out huge chunks of

41:06

important information like the fact that

41:08

our main support comes from men,

41:10

progressive men and socialist men and

41:14

polygamist men. Like, why are you guys

41:17

leaving this out? If you do, like

41:19

everyone's going to know you just didn't

41:21

mention any of that." Because at the

41:23

time it was like super well known. They

41:25

had a lot of PR problems in the suffrage

41:28

movement because it was known as

41:30

something that prostitutes, socialists,

41:32

Marxists, polygamists,

41:35

and revolutionaries were into. And she

41:38

was like, you can't leave that out. It's

41:40

like a main point. Maybe you don't like

41:42

how it portrays us, but you got to

41:44

include it. So they like reluctantly did

41:47

include some of that, but they were

41:49

going to try to leave it out altogether

41:50

and frame it as we know it now as a

41:53

fight of women against men. This fight

41:56

of oppressed women against the

41:58

oppressive patriarchy that was

41:59

systemically trying to keep a boot on

42:01

women's necks

42:03

>> and even their own colleagues were like

42:05

that ain't how it happened.

42:06

>> It's crazy that progressive men were a

42:08

problem even back then.

42:11

>> These the simp problem is

42:13

>> rich ass men have always been a problem.

42:16

They're a giant problem.

42:18

>> Mhm.

42:19

>> And that's one thing that feminism does.

42:22

It gives them a way to be like I always

42:24

call them like vampire familiars.

42:26

>> Yes.

42:26

>> Like they never really get to be a

42:27

vampire, but they do all the deeds for

42:29

the vampire so the vampire loves them

42:31

and they they hang around the vampire

42:32

and they you know

42:33

>> it's the sneaky mating strategy.

42:35

>> Yes. Yes. What is that? Cuttlefish.

42:38

>> Yeah.

42:39

>> Yeah. Cuttlefish do that. like sneaky

42:41

ass cuttlefish pretend they're

42:43

female so they can hang around the

42:45

females.

42:46

>> Yep. And that's exactly what was

42:47

happening. There were other motivations

42:49

too like uh Victoria Woodhull was a

42:52

famous feminist. She was the first one

42:53

to have like a big newspaper. She was

42:55

known as Mrs. Satan because she was into

42:58

free love. She wanted to make

42:59

prostitution legal. She said that

43:01

marriage was just a legal form of

43:04

prostitution. She saw it to be no

43:05

different than regular old

43:07

run-of-the-mill prostitution. She was

43:08

like really radical. She was also a scam

43:10

artist. Like the thing I found when I

43:12

was looking into the histories of all

43:14

these women, they were into the occult

43:16

or very anti-Christian because they saw

43:18

it as patriarchal and oppressive. They

43:21

were usually con artists or scammers. So

43:23

spiritualism and snake oil salesman was

43:27

like really big and popular at the time.

43:29

This lady sold fake cancer cures. She

43:31

was wanted in like four different states

43:34

for selling fake cancer cures to dying

43:36

people and scamming them out of their

43:38

money. And by pushing suffrage, she got

43:41

a lot of people to fund her and give her

43:43

money. And one of them was Cornelius

43:44

Vanderbilt.

43:46

And she would pretend to be able to

43:48

contact the dead. She would say she

43:50

could contact like ancient Greeks and

43:52

and all these spirits, like the spirit

43:54

of Abraham Lincoln was coming to her in

43:56

dreams and stuff. I don't think

43:58

Cornelius believed that at all. But what

43:59

he did know about her was that she did

44:02

run a prostitution ring and all her

44:04

friends were hookers who worked the Wall

44:07

Street gentleman. And so she basically

44:10

had a spy network of prostitutes who

44:12

would give her insider trading

44:13

information.

44:15

He used that to game the stock market on

44:18

the first Black Friday. I think it was

44:19

like 1889

44:22

for today's equivalent of $26 million

44:26

according to the New York Times. And

44:27

when the New York Times interviewed him

44:28

and said, "How did you do how did you

44:32

come out 26 million, at the time it was

44:34

1.3, but today's money 26 million. How

44:38

did you pull this off when everybody

44:39

else has just lost their ass?" And he

44:41

said, "Do as I do, consult the spirits."

44:45

So he said that this woman had contacted

44:47

the dead and given him the tip that way,

44:50

but it was really just she had a

44:52

prostitution ring. So these were the

44:55

these were the people involved, okay?

44:57

And this is what they were really doing.

44:59

But when gender studies departments got

45:01

a hold of this history, they're not

45:03

going to tell you any of this. Their job

45:05

was to become the PR branch in the

45:08

universities to sell Marxism and

45:11

feminism to young women to revolutionize

45:14

and radicalize. And they had help doing

45:16

that from the CIA.

45:18

>> Yeah. at the same time because we were

45:19

in the midst of a cold war. And

45:23

I'm not saying communism is good. I'm

45:25

definitely not. But according to the CIA

45:27

at the time, they were trying to push

45:28

Western liberalism as being superior to

45:31

communism in Russia and the Eastern

45:34

block. So they thought feminism was good

45:36

for that purpose. So they helped fund

45:39

the beginning of Miz Magazine. Um they

45:42

granted scholarships. They made up like

45:44

fake scholarships, one of which was

45:45

given to Gloria Steinum, you know, and

45:47

then they had her employed for years um

45:50

going around the world pushing feminism.

45:52

So, it was it was never that the average

45:54

woman was like, I want to vote. I want

45:58

to listen to political debates. I want

46:00

to learn about economics and foreign

46:02

policy. I'm really concerned about these

46:05

things and I want to know and I want to

46:06

vote. women were concerned about things

46:09

like having clean water, drinking water,

46:12

clean milk, safe parks, um you know,

46:16

less crime, all those sort of things.

46:18

And one of the other things they

46:19

predicted would happen, they said, if

46:22

you give women the vote and you

46:23

politicize us like this, it's all going

46:26

to become it's not going to be about the

46:28

welfare of our children and communities

46:29

anymore. It's going to be about things

46:31

like abortion and birth control. What

46:33

are the only women's issues that you

46:36

ever hear about anymore in politics? The

46:38

right to abortion and things like access

46:41

to birth control, access to abortion.

46:43

It's like the only thing you hear now.

46:46

Where are all the women even on the

46:47

right like fighting for the things they

46:50

were fighting for 150 years ago?

46:52

Nowhere. It's all about, you know, uh

46:55

like even Trump Trump frustrates me on

46:57

this because he wants he's like, "We got

46:59

to have more programs to get all the

47:00

moms back to work." And I'm like, why?

47:04

Why do you want to do that? Why do you

47:05

want to push all the moms back to work?

47:07

That's a terrible idea.

47:09

>> Why do you think he's saying that?

47:10

>> He's a liberal and he's a feminist. He

47:12

loves hiring women. It's probably his

47:14

biggest Achilles heel if he would stop

47:16

hiring women and get rid of a lot of his

47:18

problems. But he loves hiring women and

47:22

he's very pro-working woman. He like his

47:24

first wife, one of the things he loved

47:25

about her was she was very like

47:27

successful in business and and things

47:29

like that. Ivanka, same thing. And yes,

47:32

they have kids, but they have nannies

47:34

and they have all the money in the world

47:36

to like support them while they're off

47:38

doing this sort of thing. But what

47:39

happens to the average woman? The

47:42

promise of feminism looks something like

47:43

you're going to have the corner off. It

47:45

looks like sex in the city. You're going

47:46

to have the corner office and you're

47:48

going to be in Paris over brunch having

47:51

champagne and, you know, signing the ink

47:54

on the next deal and you're going to be

47:56

doing all this exciting boss babe stuff.

47:58

And then you can also have a kid and you

47:59

know the nanny will take care of the kid

48:01

while you're doing all this important

48:02

stuff at work and it's just going to be

48:04

amazing. The average woman like me ends

48:07

up working a basic like I'm a retail

48:10

manager. I'm a waitress, you know, um

48:13

I'm a school teacher. I work a nursing

48:15

sh a 12-hour nursing shift four nights a

48:18

week and I have to come home and take

48:20

care of my kids and my family and I feel

48:23

like I can't do it all. It's too much.

48:26

So, a lot of women just aren't even

48:27

having kids anymore. I don't I'm sure

48:29

you've looked at birth rates.

48:31

>> Yeah. It's kind of weird. It's weird

48:32

that no one's talking about it. And

48:34

there's there was always this narrative

48:35

about overpopulation. Yes.

48:37

>> And it's only been over the last decade

48:39

or so that people start talking about

48:40

population collapse

48:42

>> and the catastrophic impacts of that

48:44

particularly on some foreign countries

48:46

like South Korea, Japan. They do not

48:49

have a replacement rate,

48:50

>> right? They're going to be there won't

48:52

be a South Korea in the near future if

48:55

something radical doesn't happen over

48:57

there. But this is uh there's a whole

48:59

another chapter in the book dedicated to

49:01

this whole thing and where this came

49:02

from. The Malthusian population agenda.

49:07

Margaret Sanger gave me nightmares

49:09

writing the chapter about her. I

49:10

literally had nightmares about her

49:12

because she was so evil. Like it's hard

49:15

to Everybody's heard what she said about

49:16

black people by now. Most people have

49:18

heard that. Oh, that they're the lowest

49:21

of the low and we just need to get rid

49:22

of them. That it would be best for

49:23

humanity if we could just convince all

49:25

of the lower races to just stop

49:27

breeding. So, they Planned Parenthood on

49:29

purpose focused on African-American and

49:32

indigenous communities and poor whites,

49:35

too. But, um, she was part of the

49:38

Rockefeller Bureau for Social Hygiene.

49:41

It was a eugenics program and Planned

49:43

Parenthood was a eugenics program. And

49:45

she was so antiatalist. You can find

49:49

clips of her on the internet now where

49:50

they would interview her on the radio

49:52

and she'd say, "If it were up to me,

49:54

nobody would ever have babies anymore.

49:56

We just would stop having them because

49:58

life is terrible and life is hard and

50:00

it's suffering and bringing children in

50:02

the world is a terrible thing.

50:04

Especially, she said the most, this is a

50:06

famous quote of hers, the most uh kind

50:09

thing a large family can do to one of

50:11

its young members is to kill it."

50:15

And her whole her whole shtick was sold

50:17

on lies. She told lies about her mother.

50:20

She said that her mother died from

50:22

overbreeding, that she had so many

50:24

children it just it just destroyed her

50:26

body and she died. Not true. Her mom had

50:28

tuberculosis

50:30

and died from tuberculosis like half of

50:32

everyone back then. So she lied about

50:35

that. She told a fake story about a

50:36

woman named Satie Saxs who didn't know

50:38

how she kept getting pregnant and the

50:40

doctor refused to tell her because the

50:43

bad male doctors just wanted the women

50:45

to just keep having babies so they

50:46

refused to tell them how that worked.

50:49

Which I went and asked my grandma. I'm

50:50

like grandma you were around like in

50:52

this exact time period. Did you and your

50:54

mom like not know how babies were made?

50:56

She was like what are you talking about?

50:57

Of course we knew that. In fact, she

50:58

said after my sister was born her her

51:01

younger sister was the fourth kid in the

51:02

family. The doctor told my parents like

51:05

you guys need to be careful like time

51:07

things and like try because it's you

51:10

know she had some health problems and

51:11

he's like another baby might be risky so

51:13

if you want to avoid that here's how you

51:15

avoid that. She's like of course we knew

51:18

this idea

51:18

>> have known that since the beginning of

51:21

time.

51:22

>> Of course they have. But she wrote a

51:23

whole book that purported to have

51:26

thousands of letters from women around

51:29

the world writing to Margaret Sanger

51:31

saying, "I'm only 23 and I'm on my 14th

51:35

baby." I'm not kidding. She would she

51:37

the numbers were insane. She was

51:39

alleging that there were 23 year olds

51:41

who were on like their 11th pregnancy

51:43

and dying from uh over birth and that

51:46

they just didn't know how to stop it.

51:48

And so she was like, "This is why we

51:50

need abortion clinics.

51:52

is for this reason. Now, I looked into

51:55

this because there's something called

51:56

the Margaret Sanger Papers Project. They

51:59

have everything she's ever done. If she

52:00

wiped her mouth on a napkin, they've got

52:03

that in the archives. They have

52:05

everything. Do you think out of the

52:07

thousands of letters she said that she

52:09

got from women saying, "I just can't

52:11

stop having all these babies and it's

52:13

killing me and I'm miserable." How many

52:14

do you think are preserved in the

52:16

Margaret Sanger Papers Project?

52:18

>> How many? Zero.

52:20

>> Three.

52:21

>> Three. three out of thousands. And I

52:23

emailed them directly and I asked,

52:27

"Seems weird. You guys have like

52:29

literally letters that she wrote to her

52:31

friends. You have like all this

52:32

documentation on everything she ever

52:33

did. Certainly, if she was getting

52:35

thousands of letters, you've got more

52:37

than three." And they said, "Well, we

52:39

think it was mostly lost to time or she

52:42

sent them to abortion doctors to

52:44

encourage them to keep going because,

52:46

you know, people didn't like abortion

52:48

doctors." We think she sent it to a lot

52:50

of abortion doctors to like, you know,

52:52

give them a pep talk and uh yeah, we

52:54

just don't really know. It's just lost

52:57

to time.

52:58

>> So, you think she made a lot of it?

52:59

>> Oh, yes. Yes. Especially because if you

53:01

read the book, nobody reads this crap,

53:03

you know, except me. I'm crazy. Nobody

53:06

else wants to read all of their horrible

53:07

writing. But in the book, if you're

53:09

reading these letters, they sound

53:11

literally like they're all written by

53:12

the same person.

53:14

>> So, it's extremely dubious at best.

53:18

I would love if hey if the Margaret

53:20

Sanger Papers project folks want to come

53:23

and tell me like where all these are or

53:24

if there's any proof of this I would

53:26

love to see it because I looked for two

53:27

and a half years and couldn't find

53:29

anything. In fact, the most popular uh

53:32

Sanger biographer in the world who like

53:34

knows everything about her admits that

53:37

she lied about tons of stuff. She's

53:38

like, "Oh, she lied about the Satie

53:40

Sachs story. She lied about why her

53:41

mother really died. And she probably

53:43

lied about, you know, those other

53:45

stories and letters, too.

53:47

But she believed it was for a noble

53:49

cause. She thought what she was doing

53:52

was good. And the other big secret is

53:54

she was getting a lot of money. She was

53:55

getting paid by the Rockefeller

53:58

Foundation and promoted by people like

53:59

HG Wells, who she was also having an

54:01

affair with. They're all a bunch of

54:03

creepers, Joe. I'm telling you, she was

54:06

she was

54:07

>> sound like it. She sound like an insane

54:09

person in the book.

54:10

>> Yeah. She was married and had three

54:12

kids. She left her kids in like hippie

54:15

bohemian communities. One of them died

54:17

from neglect in one of these

54:19

communities.

54:20

Didn't care about her kids at all. In

54:22

fact, one of her sons grew up and said,

54:24

"My sister would not be dead if my

54:26

mother gave any shits about us

54:28

whatsoever." But she didn't. She was

54:29

anywhere except where we were. Any

54:31

excuse to leave. She let her ex-husband

54:34

take the wrap for her distributing

54:36

illegal um illegal stuff about like

54:39

abortion and birth control that the

54:41

Comtock laws didn't allow that back

54:43

then. So she was wanted in court and was

54:46

going to be put in jail for distributing

54:48

that stuff. She let her husband take the

54:49

fall for it while she went to England

54:51

and had affairs with people like HG

54:52

Wells and Havlock Ellis and they were

54:54

all uh bisexual and they were all a

54:57

cultist and doing all this crazy stuff.

55:00

But people HG Wells called her the most

55:03

incredible woman ever to live and said

55:05

that she was going to have more impact

55:07

on the future of humanity than any other

55:09

person.

55:10

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56:26

>> Why do you think he thought that?

56:28

because he was a eugenicist who loved

56:30

the idea of millions of abortions a

56:32

year.

56:32

>> HG Wells, the War of the Worlds guy, was

56:35

a eugenicist.

56:36

>> Yep.

56:36

>> You should have Jay Dy on to tell you

56:38

about HG Wells some I brought you.

56:40

>> I don't want to know. I I love the War

56:42

of the Worlds.

56:43

>> He He wrote some great fiction, but he

56:46

was a diehard Malthusian. These people

56:49

really believed it was actually a very

56:50

popular thing that we're talking like

56:52

right after Darwinism. We're talking

56:54

about just before the Nazis. We're

56:57

talking about the Kaiser Wilhelm

56:58

Foundation. It was very popular position

57:01

to be a in favor of social hygiene as

57:04

they called it, which was, you know,

57:06

anybody with birth defects shouldn't be

57:08

able to reproduce. Anybody of the lower

57:10

races or inferior mentally um any of

57:13

those kind of people shouldn't reproduce

57:15

because we want, you know, a cleaner,

57:17

better human race going forward.

57:21

>> Yeah. So, feminism was instrumental in

57:23

that. That's actually where the birth

57:24

control pill came from as well. Margaret

57:28

Sanger, the Rockefeller Foundation, the

57:29

Kaiser Wilhelm Foundation, and a lot of

57:32

Nazi scientists are the ones who started

57:34

synthesizing human hormones to make

57:36

birth control pills. And their the way

57:39

they sold that was they said, "Look, I

57:40

we know abortion is very unpopular.

57:42

People don't like it. It's a very

57:44

terrible thing that we have to do. We

57:45

have to do it because we don't want all

57:46

these babies.

57:48

But, you know, if you let us have the

57:51

birth control pill and you make it like

57:52

widely available and socially

57:54

acceptable, abortion will be a thing of

57:57

the past. Nobody will need one ever

57:59

again. That's how it was marketed and

58:01

sold to the world. And it sounds right.

58:03

It sounds reasonable. H maybe it's

58:06

better. Maybe it's better just to

58:07

prevent all the pregnancies and then we

58:08

don't have to worry about abortions. But

58:10

here we are in 2026. You can get

58:13

abortion or um you can get birth control

58:15

pills for $4 at Walmart. You can go down

58:19

to your local health department in your

58:21

county and get them for free if you're

58:23

under a certain income status. And we

58:26

still have well at least before they

58:28

overturned Roie Wade, we still had about

58:29

a million abortions a year in this

58:31

country even with the shot and the pill

58:33

and all these types of birth control and

58:35

more e education than we've ever had.

58:38

That was the other thing when I was in

58:39

school, right? more sex head, more sex

58:41

head, and then no more teen pregnancies.

58:43

It hasn't that hasn't panned out

58:45

whatsoever. It turns out that if you

58:47

take all the stigma away from sexual

58:49

activity, you tell everybody premarital

58:51

sex is actually good. You got to you got

58:53

to get in there and figure out how

58:54

things work before you get married. You

58:56

don't want to just get married. That's

58:57

ew. That's weird. Uh we still have a

59:00

million abortions a year. We still have

59:03

uh Plan B pills and things like this. Uh

59:06

there's been more babies aborted in the

59:08

last century than all the men that have

59:11

been killed in all the wars of the 20th

59:14

century. Like far and away.

59:17

>> Yeah. It's crazy. So,

59:20

>> um the

59:22

the glorious Dynam CIA thing is nuts.

59:25

>> Yeah,

59:26

>> that's nuts. Yeah,

59:27

>> because the real tinfoil hat, people

59:30

want to think that the CIA has been

59:31

involved in every single social aspect,

59:34

including like the rock and roll

59:36

movement of the 1960s. And there seems

59:38

to be some evidence in that.

59:40

>> And and and when you see like how far

59:43

the tentacles actually go and then you

59:46

see it like in feminism, you go, "Wait,

59:50

what? What was she was?"

59:52

>> Yeah.

59:52

>> So explain. So,

59:55

>> Gloria Steinham was recruited out of

59:56

Smith College in the 50s as all women's

59:59

college. Um, she already had some pretty

60:02

like left progressive kind of feminist

60:05

uh leanings. And this is generally how

60:07

this works. If you want to know how the

60:09

left has taken over academia, I have a

60:11

whole paper about this on my Substack.

60:13

How NOS's and universities have just

60:16

swung completely left and they have just

60:19

captured the university systems. They do

60:22

it this way. So they recruit her out of

60:24

Smith College. You know, she's writing

60:25

papers about women's rights and and

60:28

feminism and stuff like that. And they

60:29

go, "She's pretty good at this." So they

60:31

approach her and they say, "We're

60:33

willing to offer you something called

60:35

the Chester Bulls Fellowship." And she

60:37

goes, "What's that?" And they're like,

60:38

"Well, it doesn't really exist. We made

60:39

it up for you because what we're going

60:41

to do is we're going to give you this

60:43

fellowship. We're going to send you to

60:45

India. We're going to send you to

60:46

Europe. We're going to have you tour the

60:47

whole United States. Do a media tour.

60:49

Start a magazine to promote women's

60:52

rights. the things that you believe in.

60:53

So, it's it's a little more sneaky than

60:56

everybody sitting in a dark back room

60:58

and like plotting some evil plan to like

61:01

uh make America into a feminist hell

61:03

hole. It was more like we're trying to

61:05

promote liberal democracy around the

61:07

world because it's part of the Cold War.

61:10

You're really good at this feminism

61:11

stuff. Um, and if we can get a lot of

61:13

women voting, and if we can get them

61:15

into universities and mobilize them as a

61:17

political uh group, just similar to what

61:20

they did with black people, convince

61:22

blacks that you're all oppressed, you're

61:24

all victims, um, and and radicalize them

61:28

and make them permanent Democrat voters.

61:30

Same thing that they did with feminism.

61:32

So, they sent her to India where she

61:34

worked for the Ford Foundation. Again,

61:36

the same people who created gender

61:37

studies. um learned a lot of interesting

61:41

things over there in India. Not sure

61:42

what's going on in there. I said in my

61:44

book it's like a hotbed of like

61:46

theosophy and like crazy like the Daly

61:50

Lama and there's a lot of weird stuff

61:51

going on in India. I don't know why they

61:53

send everybody there and then when they

61:55

leave India they go and promote this

61:57

weird stuff. It's what they do. So they

62:00

sent her to like Eastern Europe to a

62:02

youth festival where she promoted

62:04

feminism. And this is at the time where

62:06

the Eastern block is still communist and

62:08

it's hard to get in there. But as a

62:10

woman, this is something uh

62:12

traditionally they always do with women.

62:13

It's very easy to sneak female spies or

62:16

propagandists in rather than men because

62:19

they're less suspicious.

62:20

>> Mhm.

62:20

>> You know, it's like, oh, she just wants

62:22

to promote education for women. And

62:23

they're like, fine, she can come, I

62:25

guess, whatever. Um, so she's promoting

62:27

feminism there. Then she comes here.

62:29

She's undercover at the Playboy Mansion.

62:31

Weirdly

62:32

>> undercover.

62:33

>> Yeah. She like people didn't know she

62:35

was CIA at this point. She was like a

62:37

Playboy bunny for a little while.

62:39

>> What?

62:39

>> Yeah. She was at the Hugh Hefner mansion

62:41

and

62:42

>> undercover as a Playboy Bunny.

62:44

>> Yeah.

62:44

>> That's hilarious.

62:45

>> Yeah. To promote. She was kind of hot

62:47

for like back in the day in the 70s,

62:50

late60s, she was kind of hot. Well,

62:52

compared to the other feminists we had

62:54

to choose from. Who else did we have?

62:55

Betty Fredan.

62:57

>> I don't know if is there any photos of

62:59

Gloria Steinum at the mansion? Yeah,

63:02

there's a picture of her in the bunny

63:03

costume.

63:04

>> Oh, we got to see that.

63:05

>> Yeah, maybe Jamie can pull it up.

63:06

>> Well, I'm trying this video, too. I'm

63:08

trying to see which is better.

63:10

>> Yeah. So, um and that was to promote the

63:12

sexual liberation stuff, right? Hey,

63:14

women can

63:15

>> for the CIA.

63:16

>> Yeah,

63:19

>> well, yeah, it doesn't say for the CIA

63:21

here, but

63:23

>> Undercover Playboy Bunny. It's an HBO

63:26

original.

63:27

>> Wow. There's a documentary on it. That's

63:30

correct. I wonder how they frame it.

63:32

>> This uh says it's for going about

63:35

>> exploiting women and low wages. And

63:38

>> see, let me see if the photos of her

63:39

down there

63:40

>> where

63:41

>> below right where it says images. Click

63:42

on one of those where it's her.

63:45

>> Yeah, she's pretty.

63:46

>> Yeah, good enough.

63:47

>> Yeah, that's her.

63:48

>> That's on her.

63:49

>> Christy Ali?

63:50

>> Yeah.

63:50

>> Oh, is that Christy Ali playing her?

63:52

>> Must be.

63:53

>> Oh, yeah. She played her. Glor. And that

63:55

was in

63:56

>> for What year was that? 85. Wow,

64:00

that's crazy.

64:01

>> She did come out in her memoirs and talk

64:03

about it.

64:04

>> Interesting.

64:04

>> And she also talked about

64:05

>> Did she talk about that she was working

64:06

for the CIA?

64:07

>> Yes. So, she started Miz Magazine with

64:10

CIA funding. She was working with like

64:12

Clay Felker and a couple of other

64:14

>> Is that her?

64:15

>> No, that's not her either. She was okay.

64:18

I mean, it was nothing thrilling, but it

64:20

was it was good enough to to get her in

64:22

there. And like I said, her and Betty

64:24

Friedan had like this rivalry, this

64:26

vicious rivalry in the press because

64:27

Fredan was a Marxist. It's all there's

64:29

always been this battle between like the

64:31

the liberal capitalist type of feminist

64:34

and the Marxist type of feminist.

64:36

>> And Betty Friedan was not attractive.

64:38

She was very frumpy. She was older. Um

64:40

and the press loved Steinum because she

64:42

was like stylish and cool. She had like

64:44

highlights in her hair and she was kind

64:45

of a hippie. Um so she got all the press

64:48

and she started Miz Magazine. um which

64:50

there's a whole bunch on that in my book

64:52

as well. But yeah, it was like it was

64:55

part of the Cold War. It was part of

64:57

pushing like the liberal democracy stuff

65:02

to contrast it against like the

65:04

communist Eastern block at the time.

65:07

>> And it was very useful. There's

65:10

extensive writing from so many people in

65:12

this movement about how, hey, if you can

65:14

get women, young women into

65:17

universities. They're very easy to

65:19

propagandize. They're very easy to

65:21

program with whatever worldview you want

65:23

to give them. And if you want to make

65:26

them into revolutionaries, they make

65:27

excellent revolutionaries. This is why

65:29

right now you see women in Minnesota and

65:33

Portland and LA going up to ICE agents

65:36

and getting in their face and calling

65:38

them names and oh you got a small dick

65:41

little man. You think you're tough

65:42

If you're wondering why why is it women

65:45

why are women trying to like fight ICE

65:47

agents in the streets? It's because we

65:49

send them all to college. They get

65:50

indoctrinated with this Marxist feminist

65:52

worldview that masculinity is toxic and

65:56

bad. that men are inherently violent and

65:58

oppressive and women are inherently like

66:02

mother nature, earth types who bring

66:04

goodness and and fairness into the

66:06

world, make sure everyone has enough to

66:08

eat. This is the like false dialectic

66:11

that everyone gets taught. So they see

66:14

what what these women see when they see

66:16

ICE arresting, even if it's a a sex

66:18

criminal who has warrants, they don't

66:20

care. They see him as a sweet innocent

66:22

victim of the evil white patriarchy that

66:26

these are fascist Nazis coming to arrest

66:28

the beautiful baby immigrants who are

66:30

helpless and need protection from mommy.

66:32

>> So they weaponized that.

66:33

>> Did you see the there's a video of this

66:35

guy um going up to people to try to get

66:39

um people that ICE has deported brought

66:41

back into the country. Have you seen

66:43

this video? No. Is it? Let me send it to

66:45

you, James, because it's it's quite

66:46

funny because uh he's explaining how one

66:49

of them uh the one he wants to get back

66:51

in the country has committed five

66:52

murders, but he thinks he needs a second

66:55

chance, and they're 100% agreeing with

66:57

him. It's like it's one of the funniest

67:00

things. It's like you you just you see

67:03

how kooky people are with this

67:05

stuff that it it's not like, "Oh, wow,

67:08

he's a bad person." It's like, no. in

67:11

their little tiny blinders ideological

67:15

bubble, anybody that get gets deported

67:17

should be brought in. ICE is bad.

67:19

Immigrants are good.

67:20

>> Yeah.

67:20

>> And without any regard whatsoever the

67:23

consequences of bringing over murderers

67:24

and rapists and drug dealers and gang

67:26

members. Put your headphones on real

67:28

quick

67:29

>> cuz this is kooky.

67:32

>> Bring back illegal immigrants who were

67:34

deported by ICE. We're with the Br

67:36

campaign. Could we get your signature

67:37

for our petition? Just need your name

67:39

and email address. Specifically, we're

67:40

trying to bring back uh Edwin Hernandez

67:43

from El Salvador.

67:44

>> Yeah.

67:45

>> We do have to disclose to you though

67:46

that he is an admitted member of MS-13

67:49

and he did kill five people back in El

67:51

Salvador, but we think he deserves a

67:54

second chance and we want to get him

67:55

back. That's him right there.

67:59

What do you guys think about what's

68:00

going on with ICE in this country?

68:02

>> Oh, it's um appalling, I guess, is maybe

68:06

not even a strong enough word. So, yeah,

68:08

we're from Maine. Um there's been a lot

68:10

of ice activity in Maine.

68:12

>> Up in Portland, right?

68:12

>> Yep. Up in Portland. Yep. That's where

68:14

we live. Yeah. So, um I'm a teacher and

68:17

um

68:19

>> we there were lots of students that were

68:20

afraid to come to school.

68:22

>> Thank you so much.

68:23

>> Hopefully we can get uh Edwin Hernandez

68:25

back.

68:25

>> Yeah.

68:25

>> So, he doesn't have to be criminally

68:27

convicted in El Salvador. Right.

68:29

>> All right. Thank you so much. Thank you.

68:31

>> Good work. Good work. Good work. Bring

68:34

that murderer back. MS-13 gang member

68:37

was killed five people. Yeah. I'll bring

68:39

them back.

68:40

>> She's the perfect She's the perfect

68:42

example. She's a school teacher.

68:44

>> What school teacher do you know who's

68:45

not liberal?

68:47

>> Very few. Very few.

68:48

>> And most of K through 12 is female

68:51

teachers. By the time you get to high

68:52

school, there's a few more, but I think

68:53

it's like 80 90% of school teachers are

68:56

women.

68:56

>> So, they go to university, they go for

68:59

education, and they almost inevitably

69:01

end up getting some kind of women's

69:02

studies course thrown in there. And so

69:04

they're taught this worldview that white

69:07

men are evil and oppressive to women, to

69:10

minorities, to poor people. So they see

69:13

Ed Edwin Hernandez, whatever his name

69:15

is. Well, sure, he murdered five people,

69:17

but he wouldn't have done that if he

69:19

wasn't poor and oppressed by the evil

69:21

white patriarchy. It's not fair. And so

69:24

she wants to protect him. And she said

69:26

there's kids who are afraid to come to

69:28

school. You know, the kids are afraid.

69:31

It's just like the Democrats last night

69:32

with their little um reply to Trump's

69:35

State of the Union where they said the

69:37

same thing. Oh, if you've been trying to

69:38

protect your neighbors from the Gestapo

69:40

who's coming to arrest them, we

69:42

understand how stressful that is. They

69:44

just create this completely false

69:46

narrative. That's not how the world

69:48

really works. Ask the average like white

69:51

man out there who he's oppressing

69:53

because most of them are just working

69:54

hard as you know Amazon delivery drivers

69:57

or plumbers or right

69:59

>> sewage workers or something like that.

70:01

The average white man has never had like

70:03

this incredible amount of power. It's

70:05

all framing.

70:06

>> The minute you take away and destroy the

70:08

framing that everyone accepts

70:11

this all falls apart. which is why I

70:13

wrote the book because I'm like if women

70:15

knew espec specifically women like me

70:18

this is supposed to be for us. This

70:20

whole movement was supposed to be for me

70:22

and my daughters to uh liberate us. And

70:26

I was like okay from what? From the

70:29

people who have the best interest in

70:31

protecting me, my father, my husband, my

70:35

brother, the men around me. In order to

70:37

believe the feminist narrative that men

70:39

have systemically just always wanted to

70:41

keep women down and oppress them, you'd

70:42

have to believe that they didn't care

70:45

about their mothers, their daughters,

70:47

their sisters, their grandmothers, their

70:49

neighbor lady. Just just all the men

70:52

wanted to just systemically oppress the

70:54

women so that they could have free maids

70:57

and uh you know sexbot women at home.

71:00

There was a ton of propaganda in the 70s

71:02

as well about this. Remember the

71:03

Steepford Wives movie

71:05

>> where it was revealed in the movie plot

71:08

that like all the evil men in this nice

71:10

suburban neighborhood full of white

71:12

people, they all had sex bot wives. They

71:14

didn't want their real wives. They

71:16

wanted a mindless sex bot that cleaned

71:18

the house and baked casserles. And this

71:21

was supposed to imply that this is why

71:24

men are oppressing you. They don't want

71:26

you to have a brain. They don't want you

71:27

to have input. They don't want to hear

71:29

your thoughts on things or have you be a

71:31

real person. They just want you to serve

71:34

them. You know what I mean? That's not

71:37

how life is. Life's a lot more

71:39

complicated than that. But when you fill

71:41

the university systems with this and

71:44

then you fill the workplace with it,

71:46

we've got HR, we've got me too, we've

71:49

got all these systems in place now that

71:52

actually promote feminism. It's far and

71:54

away the dominant social aspect of the

71:57

culture. Look at every female celebrity.

72:01

every single one of them. Think of the

72:03

top ones like Kylie Jenner, Taylor

72:04

Swift, Beyonce, Katie Perry, any of the

72:08

really uh popular female pop culture.

72:12

They're all girl boss sexual liberation.

72:16

on your ex-boyfriend, men ain't

72:18

I'm going to dominate him with my,

72:21

you know, sexy physique and my sexual

72:23

prowess. And it turns out that a lot of

72:27

the ancient goddess worship, which was

72:29

really popular with feminists in the

72:30

70s, there was a huge revival of that, a

72:33

lot of the goddess archetypes that they

72:36

brought back, had those same themes.

72:38

like the goddess Khali who's a Hindu

72:41

goddess with eight arms and blue skin

72:43

and a tongue hanging out of her mouth

72:46

and all of her depictions in Hinduism.

72:48

They the feminists chose that and put it

72:51

on the cover of the first issue of Miz

72:53

magazine in 1973.

72:55

That seems like a weird choice if you're

72:57

trying to get suburban moms in 1973 to

73:00

buy your magazine to put this blue

73:02

skinned terrifying Hindu goddess on the

73:04

cover. So why did they do that? Well,

73:07

because they had her holding an iron and

73:09

a baby and like all these domestic

73:11

things, right? And the goddess Khali

73:13

symbolizes at least two feminists,

73:15

vengeance against men, taking back power

73:17

from men and having your revenge on them

73:19

because that goddess only accepts male

73:22

sacrifice, male human sacrifice,

73:24

especially on the battlefield. She like

73:26

drinks the blood of deceased male

73:28

warriors. Yeah. Very. And she's

73:31

intentionally terrifying. And she's

73:33

supposed to like symbolize this. And

73:35

>> let me see what she looks like, Jamie.

73:37

>> Yeah, if you pull up that

73:39

>> just put up the magazine goddess.

73:42

>> There it is.

73:45

>> Women tell the truth about their

73:46

abortions.

73:48

>> Wow.

73:49

>> On raising kids without sex. What year

73:50

was this? 1973, I think.

73:53

>> Wow.

73:53

>> Yep. On the housewife's moment of truth.

73:56

This was the huge propaganda campaign to

73:59

convince women that staying home and

74:01

raising your own kids is actually

74:04

horrific oppression and it's abuse and

74:06

you're enslaved.

74:08

You want to be at work working for your

74:10

boss. You want to be paying those taxes.

74:12

You want to don't submit to your

74:14

husband. Submit to your boss though,

74:17

>> right?

74:17

>> That's fine. But

74:19

>> or become the boss.

74:20

>> Yeah. Or become the boss, which again,

74:23

we've had 50 years of trying to push

74:24

women to be the boss. And guess what?

74:26

They really don't want to. And this is

74:28

what I always say.

74:28

>> Some of them do though.

74:30

>> Some of them do. That's true. And

74:32

>> they're not a lot of fun.

74:33

>> They're not. I would say there's always

74:35

been like 5% of women who are genuine

74:37

outliers who are really not cut out for

74:39

motherhood, who can go out there and

74:41

crush it, who are going to do something

74:42

else. Historically, usually it was like

74:44

maybe you would uh become a monastic

74:47

like a nun or something. Maybe you would

74:49

run a boarding school or a tavern. like

74:51

women have owned businesses and done

74:53

other things in almost every culture.

74:55

>> But you should be free to do that. The

74:57

the issue is like are we indoctrinating

75:00

people into a very specific ideology in

75:02

schools and universities? And is that

75:05

why they're going into something that

75:07

really maybe they're not that outlier

75:09

and they wouldn't really be interested

75:11

in it. You know, uh I was talking the

75:13

other day about this video that I saw on

75:15

Instagram um a while back where there

75:18

was this woman. She was talking about

75:19

how when she was in college, she was

75:21

dating this guy who was a Christian and

75:23

he wanted a traditional family and he's

75:26

like, "I'll take care of you and I'll

75:27

raise our kids." And she goes, "I didn't

75:28

want that. I wanted to go out there in

75:30

the world." So, I got my education and I

75:34

got the job and I'm doing the thing that

75:35

I want to do and I don't want it. She

75:39

goes, "I don't." And she was crying. She

75:40

was like, "I don't want it."

75:42

>> She goes, "This is not what I want. I'm

75:44

not happy and I up."

75:47

>> Yeah. And it's just crazy. You're like,

75:49

how many people silently feel like that?

75:52

>> Yeah. Well, the the truth is that since

75:55

this book came out a few years ago, I've

75:57

paid a pretty high personal cost for

75:59

putting this information out there. And

76:01

in the first chapter, I say, "Look, I'm

76:03

just going to present to you the actual

76:05

facts about the history and what really

76:07

happened because I think it's for you

76:09

women to decide. This is supposed to be

76:11

for you. I want you guys to look at what

76:15

really happened and the results of that.

76:17

And the whole last chapter is like a ton

76:19

of statistics about where are we now

76:21

after 50 years of this being the super

76:23

dominant thing. It's not great. It's not

76:26

great. But I was like, I want women to

76:29

have the ability to look at it

76:31

truthfully for themselves and decide

76:32

what they think. And I have been

76:35

slandered. I have been the things that

76:37

have been said about me, the lies and

76:39

the gossip that have been spread like

76:40

online. Uh calling me everything under

76:43

the sun, just wild crazy rumors about my

76:46

personal life that are not true. Um

76:48

because

76:49

>> but that's going to happen to anybody

76:51

that says anything controversial.

76:53

>> Kind of seen as somebody betraying the

76:54

sisterhood, right? Because we're so

76:57

programmed that it's like the knee-jerk

76:58

reaction from women often times. But I

77:01

get hundreds now emails, DMs, letters in

77:05

the mail even um from to our PO box from

77:09

women. Like one was a lady who was like,

77:11

"I'm 60 years old. I'm sitting here

77:13

reading your book and it's covered with

77:15

tears because I fell for this Now

77:18

I'm 60 years old. I have no husband. I

77:20

have no kids. I have a shitty job that I

77:22

hate. I'm going to die alone. And I

77:25

can't go back and change any of it. What

77:27

do I do?"

77:28

>> Do you know who's upset about it, too?

77:30

the lady who created Sex in the City.

77:32

>> Oh, yeah.

77:33

>> Did you see that?

77:34

>> She's a gem. Yes. There's like a little

77:35

a video about that, isn't there? Where

77:39

um

77:40

>> she's talking.

77:40

>> She said that she regrets having ever

77:42

made that.

77:44

>> Yeah. Isn't that crazy? Cuz how many

77:45

women saw that and like I'm going to be

77:47

that boss girl. Yeah.

77:48

>> I'm going to be What was the one lady

77:49

that everybody? The the hot

77:51

blonde lady.

77:52

>> Uh

77:53

>> Jamie, you a giant Aren't you a giant

77:55

fan? Sex in the City.

77:56

>> No, but that's the character's name.

77:58

character or actor?

78:00

>> Both.

78:01

>> Samantha's character.

78:02

>> Yeah.

78:03

>> That uh lady, she was in all the like

78:05

80s. That's it. Yes. Super hot.

78:08

>> Yeah.

78:08

>> Yeah. And it was like I'm going to be

78:09

like her.

78:10

>> I'm going to be a Samantha. Yeah. I

78:11

know.

78:12

>> Yeah.

78:12

>> Well, I mean it was pushed on me really

78:15

hard and I was told I was told you're

78:18

like a loser. I'll never forget this. It

78:20

was like maybe 12 years ago. somebody um

78:23

from the RNC that I was arguing with

78:25

online about this. She told me, "You

78:27

should be ashamed of yourself. You are

78:29

not a proper conservative woman and you

78:31

are not contributing to the movement by

78:33

staying home with your kids." I said,

78:34

"Really? How's that?" She goes, "What

78:36

about the GDP?"

78:40

>> I was like, "The GDP?" She's like, "If

78:42

you were a real Republican, you'd be out

78:44

there working and contributing to the

78:46

GDP." And I was like, "You're right.

78:49

raising five children and trying to make

78:51

them the best human beings I can I can

78:54

help them be.

78:56

>> Who wants to do that? I should get out

78:58

there and work for a corporation. That's

79:00

>> GDP was her argument. That's crazy.

79:03

>> I debate feminists all the time.

79:05

>> Yeah.

79:05

>> Online. I'm pretty undefeated if anybody

79:07

wants a piece.

79:08

>> Well, here's the thing about liberals

79:10

online. I was just talking to Andrew

79:12

about this.

79:12

>> She said that was incorrect. A take on

79:14

her.

79:15

>> The opposite is true. I've never

79:16

regretted not having children. And I

79:18

feel compelled to have a career since I

79:20

was a child. But who's judging? Not me.

79:22

Read all about it in my new book. But I

79:25

thought, so why does it say here? Sex in

79:27

the city writer Candace Bushnell 60

79:29

admits she regrets choosing a career

79:31

over having children as she is now truly

79:33

alone.

79:34

>> I know. And then there's a link.

79:34

>> I would imagine she was selling a book

79:36

and they're taking some out to get some

79:38

headlines.

79:39

>> This is the Daily Mail, though. The

79:41

Daily Mail's a little sus, right?

79:44

>> Click on that. Highlight that and click

79:45

on that article. that Daily Mail article

79:48

like do they quote her even if it's

79:50

>> so just the where it says there via

79:52

Daily there's definitely plenty of other

79:54

women who push this who say they regret

79:56

it

79:57

>> but I wonder like how are they able to

79:58

say that she regrets this if she doesn't

80:00

if there's no quote attached to it

80:04

so what does it say here then when I got

80:06

divorced I was in my 50s started to see

80:07

the impact of not having children and

80:09

being truly alone

80:10

>> okay

80:11

>> I do see that people with children have

80:12

an anchor in a way that people who have

80:14

no kids don't Okay. And what does it say

80:17

below that anymore? Did she elaborate?

80:21

She explained that she didn't feel like

80:22

dating in her 2000 after a 2012 divorce.

80:25

Ballet dancer. She married a ballet

80:28

dancer. Red flag. This was a headline

80:30

going around for a while, but sorry male

80:33

ballet dancers. I'm just kidding. Um,

80:35

it's not that long to get to my age. I

80:38

know women who have gone longer.

80:41

>> Uh,

80:42

that was it. That was the entire quote.

80:43

Yeah, I was just looking her up and

80:45

>> well, I can see why they took it that

80:46

way then. But

80:47

>> that seems like

80:47

>> maybe she's saying overall she still

80:49

thinks it was better to go after a

80:51

>> Maybe she's just gaslighting everybody

80:53

to sell a book, you know? Maybe she's

80:55

like, you want to sell that book, you

80:56

better be like on the go go boss girl,

81:01

>> I suppose so. But like you asked you

81:03

asked me like is do women really want to

81:06

be in the workplace or are they only

81:08

kind of really choosing?

81:09

>> That's a giant generalization anyway. Of

81:11

course it is. Obviously, some women do

81:13

and some women don't. And there's a lot

81:15

of women who naturally maternally want

81:17

to have children, want to have a family.

81:18

>> And then it's also finding a guy that

81:20

you can trust that you care about and

81:22

you think is going to stick with you and

81:24

he's really going to be invested in this

81:26

whole thing. And

81:27

>> someone who's like a solid man who's not

81:29

going to become an alcoholic and lose

81:31

his job and fall apart, then you're

81:33

And yeah,

81:35

>> that can happen to anybody. But that

81:37

aside for just a moment, uh, Simone de

81:40

Bouvois, the arguably the biggest

81:42

feminist of Second Wave, the French

81:44

intellectual who was, uh, buddies with

81:46

Jean Paul Sartra, and they got in

81:48

trouble for grooming underage kids and

81:51

seducing them and all kinds of crazy

81:53

stuff, but she's respected as the

81:54

greatest feminist intellectual of the

81:56

20th century. And she was super

81:58

influential. And in a a 1970s interview

82:01

with Betty Friedan, she said, "I don't

82:03

believe that society should give women

82:06

the opportunity or the choice to stay

82:08

home and be mothers because if we do,

82:10

they're all going to pick that and I

82:12

don't think it should be an option." So,

82:14

>> oh my god,

82:14

>> it was the it was the view of the

82:17

feminists that Yeah. they and Susan B.

82:19

Anthony and Elizabeth Katy Stanton said

82:21

that they said uh we would have never

82:24

passed suffrage had it not been for men.

82:26

If it was ever left up to women alone,

82:28

we would have never passed suffrage.

82:30

They would have never gone for it. They

82:31

don't want liberation. Now, of course,

82:33

from their view, they're like, "Well,

82:34

it's because they're oppressed and they

82:36

don't know that they hate their solid

82:38

their slavery yet. They just haven't

82:40

realized how oppressed they are. And if

82:42

they could see it, you know, for what it

82:45

is, they wouldn't like it." But we

82:46

couldn't convince them for a hundred

82:48

years. We had to convince the men that

82:50

it don't you want your daughters to like

82:52

have their own money and this and that.

82:55

Um, so the feminists themselves say

82:58

women didn't want it. If we ever left it

82:59

up to women, they wouldn't have ever

83:01

chosen it. Like, at least not as a

83:02

whole. Sure, there would always have

83:04

been a minority, but I would argue that

83:06

the minority of women who fought for

83:08

that were the ones that

83:11

the status quo historically of get

83:13

yourself a good man, have a family, um,

83:17

stay home. It doesn't work for them. So

83:19

like a lot of them there's a book about

83:22

this um Edward Dutton wrote a book about

83:25

witches feminism in the fall of the west

83:26

where he says traditionally like women

83:28

the archetype of the witch being ugly

83:30

and haggarded and living on the outside

83:31

of town it's kind of historically

83:34

accurate most of the feminists like have

83:36

you ever seen a picture of Susan

83:37

Banthony for no for example

83:39

>> I have not

83:41

>> she is uh aesthetically challenged we'll

83:44

say that

83:45

>> so is Betty Friedan so are a lot of

83:46

these women uh not all but a lot of them

83:49

are a lot of men were not really

83:50

interested in them.

83:51

>> I think they look at the system and they

83:52

go, "Well, this isn't fair to me. You

83:54

know, I'm smart. I can do other thing.

83:56

I'm just a baby factory." You The amount

83:58

of women who have called me a baby

84:00

factory is pretty insane because I have

84:02

five kids.

84:03

>> Well, they're not fun women.

84:04

>> No, they're not fun women. But they be

84:06

like, "I don't want to be you. You're

84:07

just a baby factory." And it's like,

84:09

>> same kind of men that call me toxic

84:11

male.

84:12

>> Oh, yeah. You know, it's just

84:15

>> how dare you be su a successful

84:17

masculine archetype of a man,

84:20

right? It's very threatening to people.

84:22

Well, in some ways, I'm the weirdest

84:24

person to be here talking about this

84:25

because I grew up a tomboy. Uh, and I

84:29

have a lot of like people use this

84:30

against me. They're like, "Oh, you're

84:31

actually really masculine for a woman.

84:33

You may not always look super

84:34

masculine."

84:35

>> Well, you're really into firearms.

84:36

>> I'm really I'm a firearms instructor. I

84:38

love weightlifting. I'm like an OG meat

84:41

head. I love bodybuilding. I did

84:43

powerlifting for years. I grew up on

84:45

farms playing in the mud with the other

84:48

boys in the neighborhood. That's what I

84:49

liked to do. But I think that when you

84:52

grow up like that as a woman, you

84:54

realize like I'm really strong for a

84:56

woman. I can deadlift 250 pounds for

84:58

sets of five, but the guy next to me who

85:01

has never trained in his life can do

85:03

that, too.

85:04

>> And you give him six months in the gym

85:06

and he's going to blow past me. you

85:08

know, you just you have a more realistic

85:11

understanding of how that works. And I

85:14

think that in the modern era, all the

85:15

feminist side debate, they live in this

85:18

world that we're sitting in this studio

85:19

right now and all this wonderful stuff

85:21

that allows me to be here talking to you

85:24

and talking to all the folks that are

85:25

watching. The microphone, the

85:27

technology, everything was built by men.

85:30

You'll hear the Hetty Lamar thing that

85:32

she came up with Wi-Fi. No, it's not

85:34

true.

85:34

>> Really?

85:35

>> No, it's not true. She she worked with a

85:39

man on a precursor to it, but it wasn't

85:42

her. It wasn't like she by her

85:44

>> I think so. I think I think they

85:46

actually were I think it was one of her

85:49

>> boyfriends. I could be wrong on that.

85:50

But no, if you like even if you just ask

85:52

Grock, is that really true? And it's

85:54

like h well a little bit but not really.

85:57

and that. But far and away, men are the

86:00

builders and maintainers of

86:01

infrastructure and technology, and they

86:03

always will be. Cuz the truth is, women

86:05

have had 100 years to get into that

86:07

stuff, and they just don't really want

86:08

to.

86:09

>> They'd rather be interior designers or

86:11

psychologists or things that are um, you

86:14

know, about people and social dynamics

86:16

and, you know, aesthetics and stuff like

86:19

that. I'm that way, too. I have like a

86:21

really strong intellectual, logical

86:23

side. I love debating and all that kind

86:24

of stuff, but I also love smelling

86:27

babies heads and dressing them in cute

86:29

little outfits and, you know, I love

86:31

glitter and sparkly things. So, it is

86:33

what it is. Women don't want to go be

86:35

men,

86:36

>> right?

86:37

>> That's what we're finding out after 100

86:38

years of this is that when you make

86:40

women be men, they hate it. Like that

86:42

lady that um tried to be a man, have you

86:45

heard of that story where the woman

86:47

tried to pose as a man for like a year

86:49

and she ended up

86:50

>> deleting herself, I think.

86:52

>> Oh. because it was so horrible. Like it

86:55

was so awful. She was like, "Life as a

86:57

man is awful. It's tough. It's hard.

86:59

Nobody cares about your feelings.

87:01

Nobody's coming to rescue you." And I

87:03

think women growing up in this era, they

87:06

don't think about when they turn on the

87:08

light switch in the morning, how that

87:09

happens. When they get in their car and

87:11

drive to work, they don't think about

87:12

who built the road they're driving on,

87:14

who built the cars or designed them, or

87:15

who changes their oil, is all men. that

87:18

when they flush the toilet, they don't

87:19

think about, hey, if uh that toilet

87:21

backs up or the sewage, you know, the

87:23

sewer treatment plant has a problem.

87:25

It's going to be men that go in and fix

87:26

it. If there's a hurricane or an ice

87:29

storm, who's going to be back out in the

87:31

dangerous weather trying to rescue

87:32

people and get the power back on? It's

87:34

going to be men. I'm waiting for the

87:35

feminists to come and rescue all the

87:37

people from the floodwaters and to put

87:39

the power lines back up after the

87:41

tornadoes come through. So far, they

87:45

have not appeared. They haven't shown up

87:47

to do the dirty, dangerous, and

87:49

difficult jobs that men do. And I'll

87:51

believe them that what they want is

87:53

equality when they start signing up for

87:55

those jobs.

87:56

>> Well, it's just such a bizarre

87:59

perspective to think that it's not a

88:02

huge task to raise children.

88:04

>> Yeah. and to care for them and

88:06

communicate with them and see to their

88:08

emotional needs and and help them solve

88:11

things and figure things out and help

88:13

them with their schoolwork and just

88:15

normal stuff that is so crucial to the

88:19

development of a child.

88:20

>> Yeah.

88:21

>> And we've somehow because there's no

88:23

monetary

88:24

you can't like put a number on that like

88:27

what how valuable it is. It's not

88:29

valuable if it's not bringing in money

88:30

if it's not contributing to the GDP.

88:33

>> Yes. Yeah. Yeah.

88:34

>> Thatird that whole the like myth of

88:36

women's unpaid labor. Um I'm glad you

88:39

brought that up. I just finished a huge

88:40

project that I'm working on with uh

88:43

Andrew, my my excellent has handsome

88:46

husband and uh Steven Crowder, Dr. David

88:49

Patrick Harry, and Rob Nor who's a uh

88:51

champion debater. We put together a

88:53

feminist debate course that's coming out

88:55

really soon. I think this week. I think

88:56

it drops this week. And we go over all

88:58

these myths and debunk them. when we

89:00

tell we show people and demonstrate like

89:02

how to debate this feminism thing

89:05

because it's a leviathan. It's a beast.

89:07

If you take it on, like one of the

89:08

reasons I'm out here doing it is because

89:10

when men try to argue against feminism

89:12

or feminists, they immediately get

89:14

slapped with you're a misogynist, you

89:16

hate women, you're an insult, all the

89:19

tropes, you have a small dick, what are

89:20

you gay? Like just all the insults,

89:22

right?

89:23

>> Well, when I sit in front of them and

89:25

make those arguments,

89:26

>> you can't really just get away with

89:28

that. I have to contend with them

89:29

because I'm a woman,

89:30

>> right? I

89:31

>> mean, you could try to insult me, but

89:32

it's not going to land the same as when

89:34

you do that to a man. So, we put

89:35

together this course to try to help

89:38

people um deconstruct the framing that's

89:40

been built, question all the founding

89:43

axioms that feminism was this good,

89:45

necessary, grassroots thing, that it's

89:47

good for women, that if it ever went

89:50

away, all the women would be chained to

89:51

the stove in servitude, not not allowed

89:54

to learn how to read or drive a car.

89:57

When you hear about like women's

89:58

oppression in the Middle East, that's a

90:00

result of Islam. In Christryendom, that

90:02

was never a thing. Like even in like

90:05

ancient Christianity was one of the

90:07

first places that women were really seen

90:09

as full human beings. And a lot of it's

90:11

because of the theos, the mother of God,

90:13

the Virgin Mary, being the ark of the

90:16

new covenant that brought Christ into

90:18

the world for man's salvation. She was

90:21

even asked by an angel and she said,

90:22

"Let it be so." which is so bizarre that

90:25

modern feminist women support Islam.

90:28

>> Yes, they do. And they hate Christianity

90:32

and they hate the Virgin Mary. They

90:34

don't like her being an archetype of

90:36

virginity and motherhood, you know, and

90:39

strength and men's salvation. They don't

90:41

like that. But they'll support Islam all

90:43

day long. That's fine.

90:45

>> It's so strange.

90:47

It's It's so strange that it it worked.

90:50

Mhm.

90:51

>> It's it's so strange that something that

90:52

goes against actual human nature

90:55

>> somehow or another became the prevailing

90:57

ideology amongst liberal women.

91:00

>> Um the occult aspect of it was very

91:04

shocking.

91:05

>> Yes.

91:05

>> It was very weird.

91:06

>> It was very shocking to me.

91:07

>> You didn't know. When I started

91:09

researching to put together the book, I

91:12

thought it was going to be mostly about

91:13

the funding of the feminist movement,

91:16

the Jackal Island Club, being the same

91:19

guys that like went to the Jackal Island

91:21

in secret and put together the income

91:23

tax and the Federal Reserve and the

91:25

compulsory education system. I thought

91:26

it would be mostly about that and the

91:28

fact that women never wanted it, that

91:30

women weren't the ones that just came

91:32

together and demanded it. And then I

91:34

started researching all the like popular

91:36

figureheads and really reading their

91:38

stuff because I was like this is a very

91:40

unpopular it's I'm making pretty intense

91:44

claims here. So I really have to be able

91:46

to back it up and I better make sure I'm

91:48

correct and I better make sure I'm

91:49

accurate because whenever you're

91:51

challenging a narrative this big,

91:53

everyone's going to go through with a

91:54

fine tooth comb and try to

91:56

>> see where I'm wrong or see if I'm lying

91:58

or see if I'm twisting things. So, I did

92:00

two and a half years of just reading

92:02

feminist literature.

92:05

It was rough, but I got through it. And

92:07

what I found was, holy moly,

92:12

most of these women, almost all, but

92:15

certainly most, were into spiritualism,

92:19

which was like a big 1800's movement of

92:21

like trying to do seances and contact

92:23

the dead and things like that. uh

92:25

theosophy which combines like eastern

92:28

occult practices with like other western

92:31

traditions um ancient goddess worship uh

92:36

new age stuff and even satanism and

92:39

luciferianism in fact in my book I cite

92:41

a book that's a PhD thesis by a

92:44

professor from Norway his name's

92:46

perfaxeld I don't know if that's the way

92:48

you pronounce it but that's how it's

92:50

spelled p e r it's called uh satanic

92:53

feminism his book and Now, he himself is

92:56

a Satanist. He's a Luciferian himself.

92:58

So, he sees it as a good thing that the

93:01

women of the 19th century openly

93:03

declared Lucifer as their liberator and

93:06

the mascot of their movement. Now, you

93:09

would look back and think these were

93:10

Christian women because they were in

93:12

like New England and stuff in in the

93:14

United States, Puritan communities and

93:16

things like this, but they weren't. In

93:18

fact, Elizabeth Katie Stanton and a

93:20

bunch of her friends wrote something

93:21

called the Woman's Bible in 1895

93:25

where they rewrote the Bible from a

93:28

feminist perspective and took out the

93:30

things that they thought uh were

93:33

oppressive and patriarchal. And in the

93:35

intro, Stanton herself says, I think her

93:38

husband was a preacher maybe or some

93:41

really involved with the church at the

93:43

time, but she said, "I don't believe

93:46

that any man has ever heard anything

93:48

from God. I don't believe the Bible is

93:50

divinely inspired. I think all of

93:51

Christianity was made up specifically by

93:54

men to oppress women." That's my

93:56

personal belief. She was more of like a

93:58

proton-newager. She believed in like

93:59

this monism stuff. And she said, "If I

94:02

could monism,

94:03

>> yeah, monism is like the kind of a lot

94:05

of the new age or even some of the DMT

94:08

bros will kind of come to this

94:09

conclusion that there's like a one that

94:10

we have to return to. Like we're all one

94:13

and we're all God and we forgot that we

94:16

need to return to the one." Yeah. We're

94:18

all We're all God.

94:19

>> I've heard that one before.

94:20

>> Yeah. And we got to return to the one.

94:22

And they were writing about this stuff

94:24

in like the early 1800s is like

94:27

transgenderism, gender abolition, gender

94:30

as a spectrum was being written about by

94:32

Margaret Fuller in the 1840s in America.

94:35

And she said, "We're never going to

94:37

return to the one as long as we have

94:40

this gender division." So in the future,

94:42

I'm envisioning a future with no gender.

94:44

There's no men and women anymore. And

94:46

she said, "Nobody's really born a man or

94:48

a woman. You're either you're on this

94:50

spectrum and some people are more on the

94:53

male side and some people are more on

94:54

the female, but nobody is like fully one

94:57

or the other. It's a

94:58

>> I had that argument once with a guy who

95:00

was a professor. It was one of the

95:01

dumbest conversations I've ever had on

95:03

this podcast. And I I eventually had to

95:05

say to him, if you go buy a puppy and

95:08

it's a boy puppy, but you wanted a girl

95:10

puppy, do you say that there is no

95:13

gender? What do you do?

95:15

>> Right?

95:15

>> Like what do you do? Like what are we

95:17

talking about here? You're saying that

95:18

some men don't exist? That men aren't

95:21

real? That women aren't real? That no

95:23

one is a man and no one is a woman?

95:25

Like, that's crazy. How did you get

95:27

here? You got here because someone with

95:29

an XY chromosome had sex with someone

95:31

with an XX chromosome. And that's how it

95:34

works.

95:34

>> That it's like a biological definition

95:37

based on objective reality.

95:39

>> Yes.

95:40

>> Like, we all know that, but there's this

95:42

weird dance. And that dance if

95:45

you keep just asking questions like why

95:47

is that dance? What are you doing? Like

95:49

why why are you saying that? Like what

95:50

does that mean? Well, what about this

95:51

and what about that? It just falls

95:53

apart. But yet they have this weird

95:55

resistance to facts.

95:57

>> Yes.

95:58

>> Very strange. Well, this is why the

95:59

occult was so appealing to these people

96:01

and why so like feminists are drawn to

96:03

the occult and occultists are drawn to

96:05

feminism because in most occult

96:07

traditions there is this idea of gender

96:09

bending and gender fluidity and um

96:13

transcending gender.

96:15

>> Yeah. in order to uh transcend to

96:18

something higher to become the stars

96:20

again or to become part of the one monad

96:22

or

96:23

>> so I I'm reading all their backgrounds

96:26

and they're all writing about this stuff

96:27

and many of them claimed to be automatic

96:30

writers so they would write a book about

96:31

feminism say it's not coming from me

96:33

it's coming from this entity that's

96:36

speaking through me yes

96:38

>> yeah like that kind of stuff

96:39

>> so they would do that um they would like

96:42

uh Victoria Woodhull would claim to be

96:43

able to contact the dead or they would

96:45

just say this Christianity stuff is only

96:48

here to oppress women. Lucifer was the

96:51

good guy. Kind of the Prometheian myth

96:52

of like actually he was the good one

96:54

because he enlightened us and gave us

96:56

you know free will and

96:58

>> Luciferianism is very strange because

97:00

you look at the definition of

97:01

Luciferianism you think oh they're going

97:04

to say someone who believes that the

97:06

devil is God but it's not quite that.

97:09

like pull please pull up pull up

97:11

perplexity our wonderful AI sponsor and

97:14

ask it what is the definition of

97:17

luciferianism cuz I when I went down

97:20

this rabbit hole with your book I looked

97:21

this up so it's very strange diverse

97:24

belief system by the way that's a weird

97:27

way to say a diverse belief system

97:29

>> that reveres Lucifer not as the

97:31

Christian devil but as a symbol or deity

97:34

of enlightenment knowledge and human

97:37

potential

97:37

>> yes

97:38

>> Lucifer Yes.

97:39

Satan.

97:40

>> Uhhuh.

97:41

>> The guy who rules hell where everybody

97:43

burns for eternity.

97:44

>> Luciferianism. Uh, Luciferians emphasize

97:47

self-improvement, free will, and

97:49

intellectual pursuit over traditional

97:51

relig religious dogma. They view Lucifer

97:54

as a lightbringer or liberator. Often

97:58

drawing from pre-Christian figures like

97:59

Prometheus. practices may include

98:02

ceremonial magic, but the focus is

98:04

typically on personal empowerment rather

98:07

than the worship of evil, but that's a

98:10

trap door, ain't it?

98:11

>> Yes, it is.

98:12

>> That's what it seems like.

98:12

>> Exactly what it is.

98:13

>> It seems like a trap door. Just the way

98:15

they describe it, you're like, "Oh,

98:17

well, that's me, man. I'm into

98:18

self-improvement."

98:18

>> And that's cool. That's why it's we're

98:21

all God. I'm God. And that's where you

98:23

get moral relativism. Secular humanism

98:26

comes from luciferianism, by the way.

98:28

And in the 20th century, almost all the

98:30

feminists signed like the humanist

98:31

manifestos and things like that. The

98:33

secular humanism stuff where it's like

98:36

morality is subjective. You know, what's

98:39

right for you at the time is what's

98:41

right and what's right or wrong for me

98:42

at the time. And there is no objective

98:44

moral facts. By the way, the reason they

98:47

get away with rewriting the history on

98:49

feminism is because they use something

98:51

called standpoint theory. And this is a

98:54

an epistemological framework that

98:56

asserts that there is no such thing as

98:58

objective historical truth or facts.

99:00

There's no objective timeline of

99:02

history. There are no historical facts.

99:05

And to the extent that these historical

99:07

facts exist, they were created by white

99:10

patriarchal oppressors to perpetuate

99:12

their patriarchal oppression. So we

99:15

can't know the real history unless it's

99:18

told from the perspective of the most

99:20

oppressed woman. And so that is how they

99:23

rewrote everything. And the stuff you're

99:26

getting from their textbooks, the things

99:27

you're being taught in in university is

99:30

this stuff. It's not anything having to

99:32

do with objective historical timelines.

99:34

>> So Lucifer appears explicitly only once

99:37

in the Bible in Isaiah 14:12, King James

99:40

version. How art thou fallen from

99:42

heaven, oh Lucifer, son of the morning?

99:45

How art thou cut down to the ground

99:48

which dits weaken the nations? And then

99:50

also this uh

99:54

>> original context

99:56

uh uh

100:00

um Lucifer translates from the Hebrew

100:02

term meaning shining one, bright one or

100:06

lightbear often linked to the morning

100:08

star.

100:09

>> Yeah,

100:11

>> there's a I think the later link in

100:14

later history is the hell and

100:16

>> scroll back down again to what that stop

100:19

right there. It says uh

100:22

oh not originally a proper name or

100:25

reference to Satan. So but that is Satan

100:28

though, right?

100:29

>> So

100:30

>> that's who became Satan. Yeah. Right. So

100:31

it's like Lucifer before he went bad.

100:33

The old days like the Beatles, the early

100:35

albums.

100:35

>> I don't think so.

100:36

>> No.

100:36

>> Well, it's

100:37

>> So Lucifer is not Satan.

100:38

>> No.

100:39

>> What?

100:39

>> Well, the orthodox tradition is that he

100:41

is. And there's multiple names for him.

100:43

So sometimes he's called the adversary.

100:45

Sometimes he's called different things.

100:47

the the modern Protestant

100:49

interpretations of things because they

100:50

use solos scriptorera and there's a ton

100:53

of like word concept fallacies where

100:55

they think this word always refers to

100:56

this one thing

100:58

>> and they're not correct about that. So

101:00

like our church tradition says yes he is

101:03

Satan. Um he is the adversary. He's you

101:06

know the evil one. He's got lots of

101:09

names. Um I think Lucifer is like his

101:11

name is an angel but

101:13

>> but so he was a fallen angel become

101:15

Satan. Yeah. So what but obviously if

101:18

someone is not just a fallen agent

101:21

becomes like the worst

101:23

being in the world or in the universe

101:26

>> like how could you ignore that and only

101:29

concentrate on the self-improvement

101:31

>> could you name that after somebody else?

101:33

Aren't there a lot of other

101:34

self-improvement people in the Bible?

101:36

>> Well that's the thing it just seems

101:38

tricky what this really comes down to

101:40

like the the name of the book is occult

101:42

feminism. It has two meanings. The first

101:44

meaning is a lot of these women were

101:46

really into the occult,

101:47

>> right?

101:47

>> That's the most obvious one. But the

101:49

second one is occult. The term itself

101:51

just means hidden. And there's a whole

101:53

history here that's been completely

101:55

intentionally hidden from both women and

101:58

men, but specifically from women that if

102:00

they knew it, I think they'd have a

102:02

whole different view of this movement

102:03

and they would question a lot of its

102:05

foundational grounding axioms and and

102:08

all the presuppositions we have that it

102:10

was to protect women. Right.

102:12

>> So if if we look at that, if we look at

102:14

the promises of feminism, the promises

102:17

we were told, it's going to protect you

102:19

from abusive men, from unhappy, abusive

102:22

marriages. It's going to uh give you

102:25

more freedom and more choice in your

102:28

life. Those were the the selling points

102:30

and the things we were promised. But if

102:32

you actually like look at the

102:34

statistics, you look at the outcomes of

102:35

what's happened since feminism became

102:37

dominant and we pushed women into the

102:39

workforce. We discouraged them from I

102:42

mean antiatalism is so rampant. I mean

102:44

you hear people refer to children as

102:46

like icky. They call them crotch

102:48

goblins. They call them you know sex

102:50

trophies. All these like uh derogatory

102:53

terms for children and parents. And you

102:55

see the dual income no kids people. the

102:58

Dinks making all their like Tik Toks

103:00

about like a day in our life is dinks.

103:02

We went to the Taylor Swift concert last

103:04

night and then we slept in extra late

103:05

and then we had brunch and smoked a

103:07

joint like you know Chelsea Handler.

103:09

Look, we have no responsibility. We live

103:11

purely for ourselves. We do whatever we

103:13

want. It's so great.

103:15

>> So, it's like always been this dialectic

103:17

of

103:18

>> do you want to be self-sacrificial

103:20

and give of yourself for something

103:23

greater that goes into the future long

103:25

after you're gone? this greater purpose

103:28

that's going that you might never even

103:30

see fully the fruits of in your lifetime

103:34

or do you want to party and have fun and

103:37

go after what you want now and be kind

103:40

of hedonistic kind of selfish and that's

103:41

the that's the luciferian paradigm like

103:43

even um the satanic temple guys Anton

103:46

Levy and all those guys they said look

103:48

we're not even like deistic Satanists we

103:51

just think I'm my own god I decide

103:53

what's right for me I do what I want in

103:56

my life for for my own fulfillment and

103:58

nobody is entitled to anything from me.

104:01

I decide if and when I want to give

104:03

anything to anyone, this life is for me.

104:06

Those are kind of the two sides you kind

104:08

of end up on. And so when I when I say a

104:11

cult, I kind of mean that, too. I kind

104:13

of mean like, yeah, raising five kids

104:16

was really hard. I had to I didn't buy

104:18

fancy new clothes. I didn't get beauty

104:20

treatments. I didn't do much of anything

104:22

for myself. I went like 20 years with no

104:24

sleep. Uh, it was, you know, it's it is

104:26

hard work, but

104:29

>> my children and hopefully their

104:31

children, who is who I wrote this book

104:32

for when I wrote it, I thought it was

104:33

going to be like I didn't know I was

104:35

going to be here talking about it. I

104:36

thought it was going to be for like my

104:37

grandkids and my great-grandkids and

104:39

things like that because I wanted them

104:41

to know this stuff. Um, that's hard.

104:45

It's hard work. And on the front end of

104:48

that, the first 20 years that you're

104:50

raising kids, it feels kind of thankless

104:52

sometimes. It feels tough and you go,

104:54

"What am I doing all this for? It's so

104:56

my friends are out at the concert,

104:58

they're partying,

104:59

>> every every job feels like that."

105:01

>> Yes. So, when you put in all that hard

105:03

work and sacrifice on the front now, I'm

105:05

in my mid-40s. My kids are all grown. I

105:07

have children that are like in their

105:09

mid20s adults. My youngest is in high

105:11

school. I have more time to do other

105:14

things. That's why I said we give women

105:15

backwards advice. We tell them spend all

105:18

your fertile years building an education

105:21

and a career and then later if there's

105:24

time for a family maybe you can do that

105:26

if you want to be weird. We what we

105:28

should tell women I think is you can do

105:31

a lot of things. I'm not saying you only

105:33

have children and you never do anything

105:35

else. And that was never the case

105:37

historically. It was never the case. I

105:40

had my first child at 20. I had my last

105:42

one at 32. I got a lot of living, God

105:45

willing, you know that I'll be able to

105:46

do other things. I'm doing this now. Um

105:49

once I have grandkids, you'll probably

105:51

never see me again because hopefully

105:52

I'll be doing a lot with that. Um I'll

105:54

have time to do things for my church,

105:57

for my community. I could do anything I

106:00

want. I can garden. I can write books.

106:02

There's a million things you could do.

106:03

And that was always the case. This idea

106:05

that women didn't have choices before

106:07

feminism is nuts. They were writing

106:09

novels. they were supporting themselves,

106:12

you know, doing all kinds of other

106:14

things. And what's happened after

106:15

feminism is now I think you don't have

106:18

many choices because like my daughters,

106:21

>> my my uh second oldest is like I would

106:23

love to just get married right now and

106:25

have kids, but like how do we pay for

106:27

it? What do I what do I do until I find

106:29

a husband? Like between 18, say I don't

106:31

find a guy till I'm 23. What do I do for

106:33

those five years? Just stay at home and

106:34

total my thumbs? Like what do I do? Do I

106:37

get a job? she feels like she doesn't

106:40

have choices. She would love to stay

106:42

home and have kids. Um most of the women

106:44

who write to me are like I had one lady

106:46

write to me and say, "I ever since I got

106:50

together with my boyfriend and started

106:51

going to church with him, all I can

106:53

think about day in and day out is

106:55

getting married and having kids, I

106:56

daydream during the day about my future

106:58

children and I dream about them in my

107:00

dreams at night. That's all I in me

107:02

wants to do that." But I'm in my last

107:04

year of dental school and I have all

107:07

this debt and my parents fully expect me

107:09

to graduate and start a dental practice.

107:11

And if I told them, I'm not going to do

107:13

that. I'm just going to stay home and

107:14

have kids. They would lose it. They

107:16

would probably disown me. They would

107:18

think I'd lost my mind. They would say,

107:20

"Are you kidding? You can't do that."

107:22

And I talk to women all the time who

107:23

feel like they're trapped that way. And

107:27

the truth is, feminism didn't make

107:28

anything safer for women. It did the

107:30

opposite. If you look at, we have so

107:33

much data on this. Cohabitative

107:35

relationships where you just live with

107:36

your boyfriend have a 35% higher

107:39

domestic violence rate than married

107:41

couples. If you look at child abuse,

107:44

there's something called the National

107:45

Incident Study. I have a whole breakdown

107:47

of this on my Substack 2. It's gone over

107:49

the last 45 years of all the data we

107:52

have from every reporting agency in the

107:54

country. It's the most comprehensive

107:55

one. For the last 45 years, um, children

108:00

who live with married biological parents

108:03

are 12 times safer by on every metric,

108:06

whether it's sexual abuse, physical

108:08

abuse, emotional abuse, neglect,

108:11

by a factor of 12 times safer than any

108:13

other living situation. And kids that

108:16

come from disrupted family living

108:19

situations like mine where you got

108:21

divorced parents and like dad's got a

108:23

girlfriend, mom's got a new husband,

108:25

those sort of things. Those are all far

108:27

far far unsafer for children on every

108:30

level that we look at. And then if you

108:31

look at kids from fatherless homes, the

108:34

risk for everything, uh addiction,

108:37

learning disabilities, mental health

108:39

problems, uh ending up in a juvenile

108:42

facility, being homeless, it's like

108:45

between 70 to 85% of kids in those

108:48

situations come from fatherless homes.

108:50

So what we've done over the last 50

108:52

years is take dads and husbands out of

108:56

the home and replace them with the

108:58

government.

109:00

And it has made women and children more

109:03

vulnerable to abuse, to abandonment, to

109:06

ending up on welfare, to ending up in

109:07

any number of bad situations that you

109:09

can think of. It didn't protect us. And

109:12

I think if more women knew that, they

109:14

would at least, you know, give it a

109:15

second thought and be like, hm,

109:19

maybe the whole getting married and

109:20

having kids thing isn't so terrifying.

109:22

We don't fearonger women about what can

109:24

go wrong if you dedicate your whole life

109:26

to a career. You know, we don't tell

109:28

them, well, what if this happens? What

109:29

what if you try to be a a brain surgeon

109:32

and then you get Parkinson's and you can

109:34

never work again.

109:35

>> But like what percentage of people in

109:36

this country, families in this country

109:38

require both parents to work in order to

109:40

get by? most. Yeah.

109:42

>> Most.

109:43

>> So, what's the solution to that?

109:44

>> Well, I think it's not going to be

109:46

quick. It's gonna be a

109:48

multi-generational project. But I think

109:50

if you give women the choice, I believe

109:52

Simone Devouis when she said that if you

109:54

give women the choice, more and more

109:56

will choose to be moms and stay.

109:59

If they can't,

110:00

>> in this situation we're specifically

110:02

talking about where they require two

110:04

incomes in order to pay the bills.

110:05

>> So, that was me. So, when Andrew and I

110:07

got together, um, and we had two kids of

110:09

our own. We've now got a house full of

110:11

kids. He's, um, you know, starting his

110:14

career, he's making okay money, but

110:17

nothing crazy. And we had to like move

110:19

out to the country where it's cheaper.

110:21

We had chickens. We had a garden. I had

110:23

I learned how to be a firearms

110:25

instructor because I could teach a class

110:26

on a Saturday, only be gone for one day

110:29

of the week, and make like 2,000 bucks.

110:31

So, I could make like a week's worth of

110:33

money only working one day a week on the

110:35

day that he's home. So, like my advice

110:37

to people, I'm not super huge on giving

110:40

advice because it depends. There's a lot

110:42

going on that I don't know your

110:43

situation, but you have to get creative.

110:45

Try to find things you can do on the

110:47

side, things you can do from home. The

110:50

was one of the benefits to COVID is now

110:52

something like 30% of work is remote

110:55

from home work. Mhm.

110:56

>> If you can do that and kind of structure

110:59

your day more around the kids and work

111:00

at night, maybe when dad's home, things

111:02

like that, that's kind of an ideal

111:04

situation.

111:05

>> In an ideal situation. Yeah.

111:06

>> Um I wanted to talk about Jack Parsons.

111:09

>> Oh, yeah.

111:10

>> And uh all the craziness because we we

111:13

had um gone over the fact that this guy

111:16

was uh working for NASA.

111:19

>> He was involved in rocketry.

111:21

>> Yes.

111:21

>> And yet he was an avowed Satanist.

111:24

>> Yes. and he got involved in the whole

111:26

feminist movement.

111:27

>> Yeah. Through through his girlfriend

111:30

Marjorie Cameron who was like an

111:32

archetype of the scarlet woman. So

111:34

Parsons was kind of like he created like

111:37

a kind of an occult cult that was a

111:40

breakoff from Alistister Crowley and had

111:43

a lot of Croian beliefs. And when he met

111:46

Marjorie Cameron, she was like this

111:48

rebellious redhead uh who smoked and

111:51

drank and slept around and like all the

111:53

Hollywood dudes in his circle kind of

111:55

liked her. A lot of his friends slept

111:57

with her too. Um and she was very into

112:00

the occult and she was really into like

112:02

witchcraft and ritual magic and so was

112:04

he. And so when they met, it was like

112:07

instant chemistry. And the rumor, the

112:09

legend is that they spent like, I don't

112:11

know, multiple many days, even like up

112:14

to a couple of weeks, non-stop doing sex

112:16

magic together. Like that's all they did

112:19

for a couple weeks. They

112:20

>> What's sex magic? So, according to like

112:23

Crowley and a lot of these kind of like

112:26

more openly Satanist left-hand path type

112:28

of occultism, the sexual experience and

112:31

the orgasm is super powerful because it

112:34

can channel your emotions in a way that

112:36

nothing else can. You get like this big

112:37

surge of energy and emotion that will

112:40

make whatever spell or ritual you're

112:42

doing more powerful. So Crowley's

112:45

favorite thing to do was sodomize fellas

112:48

in order to uh worship demons or invoke

112:52

demons.

112:55

>> Yeah, he had he had pets. He had dudes

112:58

that were his little

112:59

>> boy

113:00

>> his bottoms for his I I need to go. Uh

113:03

>> was gay or bisexual? He was by He had a

113:06

lot of women he would do this stuff with

113:08

too, but he thought that the homosexual

113:10

stuff, basically the more degenerate it

113:12

is, the more intense it's going to make

113:14

the spell. So,

113:15

>> Oh, boy. So, he cast spells while he's

113:17

butt

113:18

>> Yeah.

113:18

>> Woo.

113:19

>> Yep.

113:20

>> Whoa.

113:20

>> And then you add a little bit of

113:22

hallucinogenic drugs in there, too. And

113:25

>> And that's where you really get the good

113:27

stuff.

113:27

>> What What impact did all these people

113:29

have on feminism? So, I mean, Parsons

113:32

was also friends with the guy who uh

113:35

came up with Scientology, um Hover. Yep.

113:39

>> And they actually fought over Marjorie

113:41

Cameron for a while. And when Parsons

113:44

died cuz he blew himself up, you know,

113:45

at home working on a rocket, he blew

113:47

himself up.

113:49

>> Cameron didn't handle it well, she

113:51

freaked out. She moved out into the

113:52

desert and was and started her own

113:54

community cult of like moon children. So

113:57

nuts. It's so nuts. She specifically

114:00

recruited like all different races of

114:02

people. Like she focused on finding

114:04

dudes to impregnate her supposedly to

114:07

make moon children who were going to

114:09

like bring the antichrist and they'd go

114:12

out into the desert and live on this

114:13

ranch together and do a bunch of peyote.

114:15

And she made like art. I have some of

114:16

her art in the book. This crazy weird

114:19

looking

114:21

crazy art. Um one of her paintings is

114:23

called peyote vision. It's wild. Um, but

114:26

she was doing all the sex magic stuff to

114:28

try to like reincarnate him to try to

114:30

bring about the antichrist. She thought

114:32

she was the scarlet woman that was going

114:33

to be like the antichrist version of

114:35

Mary where the antichrist is born

114:37

through this scarlet woman. And it's

114:40

references to Babylon and and the end

114:42

times in the Bible and all this stuff

114:44

which Crowley did all that stuff too.

114:46

And she was a feminist icon because this

114:49

stuff goes along with being rebellious.

114:51

It's it's there's a reason there's like

114:53

an archetype of feminists like a

114:55

stereotype that they're all they have

114:57

daddy issues. They're manhaters with

114:59

daddy issues because they kind of are.

115:01

It's usually like they're very against

115:03

God. They're very against their dad.

115:04

Like you can't tell me what to do.

115:06

You're not the boss of me. I'm a strong

115:07

independent woman. I'm going to get what

115:09

I want even if I have to use my

115:10

sexuality to do with it. It's like a

115:12

very recurring theme of using sexuality

115:15

because women don't have the monopoly on

115:17

force. Men do. So what do women have to

115:20

get power? sexuality and the power of

115:23

like determining who gets to reproduce.

115:25

Did you know that twi we all have twice

115:28

as many female ancestors as we do male

115:30

ancestors?

115:32

>> No.

115:33

>> So throughout history, genetic studies

115:35

show that twice as many women have been

115:37

able to reproduce as men because we

115:40

that's where our power is. Our power is

115:43

if you're a fertile female, someone's

115:45

going to fertilize you. You don't have

115:46

to be special or do much. As a man, you

115:49

have to compete. You have to have

115:50

resources. You have to out compete the

115:52

other men who are trying to get the

115:54

female pregnant, that sort of thing. And

115:55

a lot of men historically died in battle

115:57

really young or doing dirty or dangerous

116:00

jobs, you know, they died younger a lot

116:02

of times or in war. And then you'd have

116:04

war brides, you know, so they'd get

116:06

impregnated again by like the enemy who

116:08

took them back to their homeland, that

116:10

kind of thing. So yeah, we we have this

116:12

that's where women feel that their power

116:15

lies is in sexuality. That's why every

116:18

pop star and every movie star who's a

116:21

famous woman, for the most part, there's

116:23

a handful of exceptions, but most of

116:25

them, they'll do anything to stay hot.

116:29

You know, they're trying to be sexy at

116:30

70 like um who was that? Jane Fonda.

116:34

Sexy at 70, sexy at 80. You know, she's

116:37

going to be sexy forever.

116:39

>> Hearing bones crack.

116:41

>> Ow, my hip.

116:42

>> Yeah.

116:42

>> Yeah. I was like, uh I mean, Jennifer

116:44

Lopez is kind of doing that, too. She's

116:46

had how many husbands and engagements

116:48

and divorces and she's still out there

116:50

in the thong shaking it on Vegas, you

116:52

know, and her Vegas shows and stuff. And

116:54

>> yeah, she looks good. She's got endless

116:58

money to do endless things to look good.

117:00

Lord knows what they're doing, but um

117:03

that's where women think their power

117:04

comes from. So Cameron was like big into

117:07

pushing this into the California like uh

117:10

counterculture in the 60s and at the

117:12

time this was like well in the 50s and

117:14

60s. So like even people like Sammy

117:16

Davis Jr. who's another guy that said he

117:18

was a Satanist.

117:19

>> Um

117:20

>> Sammy Davis Jr. was a Satanist hanging

117:22

out with Sinatra.

117:23

>> Yeah, that's what he said.

117:25

>> Now you wonder sometimes if they just

117:26

say that for shock value. I don't know.

117:29

>> Or maybe they had fun parties.

117:32

>> Oh, they definitely had they were they

117:33

were having diddy parties before Diddy

117:35

was around. You know what I'm saying? So

117:37

Cameron was the it girl in the

117:39

counterculture in LA and her art was

117:41

really popular and stuff and there's a

117:44

lot that kind of came out of her

117:45

popularity that went into the mainstream

117:48

later in like these Scarlet women

117:50

archetypes of like the sexy bad girl

117:53

who's rebellious and is undomemesticated

117:56

and unattached. You know what I mean?

117:58

And that's become the cool girl now for

118:00

a lot of people. And that's why like

118:03

you'll see celebrities talking about,

118:05

"Oh, I've had four abortions. Yeah, so

118:07

what? I do what I want and I'm not going

118:09

to be held down by no man or no baby.

118:11

I'm gonna I'm a strong independent woman

118:13

out here and I decide, you know, that's

118:16

what that's why you see women screaming

118:18

about how abortion is great." They go to

118:20

these rallies and they're just like

118:22

screaming the most horrible things. And

118:24

I think if you convince enough women

118:27

that motherhood and having babies is

118:29

like this horrific oppressive ball and

118:31

chain, which is what my mother was

118:33

convinced of. She was totally convinced.

118:35

She said to me once, "Having children is

118:37

the worst thing that ever happened to

118:38

me." No offense.

118:40

>> She said, "No offense, but it's the

118:41

worst thing that ever happened to me."

118:43

And I asked her once, I was like, "What

118:44

do you what is it that you would have

118:45

gone and done, you know, if it weren't

118:48

for having kids?" She had no idea. She

118:50

had no answer. She just knows that it

118:52

would have been great. You know what I

118:54

mean?

118:54

>> So it's like they use a lot of fear of

118:56

missing out a lot.

118:58

>> You get indoctrinated.

118:59

>> Yeah. Yeah.

119:00

>> And then that becomes your primary

119:02

narrative and you believe it no matter

119:03

what

119:04

>> and you just default to that no matter

119:06

what.

119:07

>> Yeah.

119:07

>> And all your discomfort is because of

119:09

this thing that you've already

119:11

identified. This is the problem.

119:13

Patriarchy, men, I got saddled down with

119:15

kids.

119:16

>> That's why I'm miserable. Not because

119:17

I'm completely unproductive. I don't

119:19

have a good community. I'm not healthy.

119:21

>> Right?

119:21

>> All the above. Isn't it weird? Have you

119:23

ever noticed like all the videos women

119:25

will make about how they get a divorce?

119:27

I just went through my divorce and then

119:29

I had a po a post divorce glow up. They

119:31

lose 40 lbs. They get in shape. They get

119:34

their hair done. You maybe get a little

119:36

plastic surgery, a little botox, a

119:38

little filler, and they're like, "Look

119:39

at me now." And it's like, if you had

119:41

done that while you were married, you'd

119:43

probably still be married and having a

119:45

great time with your husband.

119:46

>> Perhaps the husband's a loser

119:48

>> sometimes.

119:49

>> A lot.

119:50

>> That happens.

119:50

>> There's a lot of losers out there.

119:52

There's a lot of guys I wouldn't want to

119:53

hitch my wagon to.

119:55

>> That's true.

119:55

>> As a woman, like count on this

119:57

to figure things out.

119:59

>> I think that's the other uh result of

120:02

the sexual liberation stuff, though, is

120:04

like what motivation do men have to be

120:07

like good, dependable, upstanding

120:09

providers,

120:10

>> right?

120:11

>> When they can just sleep around and be

120:14

boys and

120:16

>> losers and that's why the dating apps

120:18

are so crazy. It's so crazy. Like you're

120:20

on a date, someone says one thing you

120:22

don't like. Like, let me just pick up my

120:23

phone and see who else is around.

120:25

>> It's crazy that so many people are on

120:27

those things and you're just like

120:29

constantly inundated by options.

120:32

>> I've never been on a dating app. It's

120:34

one of my biggest flexes in life. Never

120:35

been on a dating app. Uh I've been with

120:37

Andrew for, you know, almost two decades

120:39

now. So, it's like I missed that whole

120:42

thing. I feel like I caught the last

120:43

chopper.

120:44

>> I have some friends that met wonderful

120:46

people in dating apps. Like I have a

120:48

good buddy of mine who met his girl on a

120:50

dating app and he loves her and they

120:52

have a great relationship.

120:54

>> It can happen. It's just like just

120:56

people that you don't want to go to a

120:57

bar. You don't that's not the type of

120:59

people you want to meet in the first

121:00

place. How do you find them? And you

121:02

know they have like certain dating apps

121:03

that are like more selective I guess.

121:05

>> You know about like what what are you

121:07

into? Try to pair someone up who's

121:08

likeminded. If you're alone and you're

121:11

busy with other stuff and you find it

121:12

very hard to meet someone, I would

121:13

imagine it's really interesting. But

121:16

then also, yeah, if you're a young

121:18

person and you're just trying to bang it

121:20

out out there on the streets and you

121:22

know, you got 14 people hitting your

121:25

inbox and you pictures of your abs and

121:28

your flexing or whatever it is,

121:30

you know, like that is chaos. And I

121:34

don't think people are supposed to have

121:35

those kind of options.

121:36

>> No, you didn't. You never did

121:38

historically. It's only been like 15

121:40

years. It used to be your area where you

121:42

live. Those were the people to choose

121:44

from. and you'd find the best person for

121:47

you

121:48

>> in that. Like I tal I interviewed my

121:49

grandma on my YouTube channel when she

121:51

was 97 and I asked her like when you and

121:54

Aunt Thelma were when Thelma and Lois

121:57

were looking for you know husbands in

121:59

the early 40s like what were the things

122:01

you guys were looking for? What did you

122:03

think about when you were like looking

122:04

for a guy? She's like oh well we you

122:07

know he had to have a good reputation.

122:09

He had to come from a nice family you

122:11

know cuz you're going to you know when

122:12

you marry a guy you marry his family. So

122:13

you got to think about that. I wanted

122:15

him to go to like a the same type of

122:17

church as me and believe the same things

122:19

and he had to, you know, have good job

122:22

prospects, you know, a good future

122:24

prospects because, you know, you want to

122:26

raise a family and and those sort of

122:28

things. She did not say six foot,

122:31

sixpack, or six figures. None of that

122:34

came up. It was all like pretty

122:36

wholesome and very like long-term

122:38

minded. Do you know what I mean? Like

122:40

she's thinking of the future. I don't

122:43

feel like I don't even feel like I did

122:44

that. I feel like when I was young, I

122:46

was stupid and I was like, "He's cute

122:47

and funny. That's good enough for me,

122:50

you know."

122:50

>> Well, it's like it's there's normal

122:53

preferences that people have like to big

122:56

tall guys, fit people,

122:58

>> wealthy people. That's the normal

123:00

things.

123:01

>> But it's like

123:03

>> the thing about today and all the

123:05

options is not just that. It's all the

123:07

performative stuff that people do

123:09

consistently and constantly online. So

123:12

then you're also looking for positive

123:14

feedback from strangers constantly and

123:17

then you're also reflecting on negative

123:19

feedback from strangers constantly.

123:22

>> So kids today are just overwhelmed,

123:25

drowning in anxiety. Yes. Because

123:27

they're addicted to this feedback and

123:30

this this thing where they're always

123:32

pretending to be someone they're not

123:33

online and they're using filters and

123:36

cars that they leased and you know it's

123:38

very strange.

123:39

>> Yeah. I have four girls and I made a

123:42

point to always show them like I'll show

123:44

them before and afters of the

123:45

Kardashians.

123:47

You know, I'll show them here's Kylie

123:49

Jenner before all the like probably

123:53

hundreds of thousands of dollars worth

123:54

of work that she's had done in

123:56

professional stylists and trainers and

123:58

all the facial augmentations and all the

124:01

different things that they get done.

124:02

Here's what she looked like. Just any

124:04

normal girl from your junior high. the

124:06

only reason she looks like this now. And

124:08

on top of all the work and everything

124:10

else, there's filters and there's um

124:12

apps that they edit everything with. And

124:14

I'm like, this isn't real,

124:16

>> right?

124:17

>> Because I remember growing up in the

124:18

'9s, I don't ever remember thinking a

124:20

whole lot about

124:22

>> what my butt looked like, if my nose was

124:24

too big, like all the things that they

124:26

hype. These girls like pick themselves

124:29

apart today.

124:30

>> Yeah.

124:30

>> It's terrifying. It's like

124:32

heartbreaking. I think boys do the same

124:33

thing. They're like, I'm short. It's

124:35

over for me. I might as well selfdelete.

124:38

I'll never be anything because I'm

124:39

short. And I'm like,

124:40

>> well, what percentage of guys are in

124:41

sales today? It's kind of nuts.

124:43

>> It's really high. Like higher than like

124:45

there was a percentage of men that don't

124:47

have any sex at all right now.

124:50

>> And it's nuts. But it's that thing. It's

124:52

like 20% of the men are desirable to

124:55

100% of the women

124:57

>> and those 80% of guys are

125:00

>> Yes. Yeah. I don't I don't know what we

125:03

do about that. I don't have a great

125:05

answer for that. Um, I've tried kind of

125:08

like talking like I'll go on the

125:09

Whatever podcast once in a while and

125:10

kind of like ask girls probing questions

125:13

about that. Like, do you think it's

125:15

possible that you could be missing it?

125:17

Like, if you're 22 and you won't date a

125:20

guy cuz he only makes 50 grand a year.

125:21

It's like, yeah, well, my husband only

125:23

made 40 grand a year when we met, but he

125:25

makes way more than that now. Like, you

125:27

used to grow together. and and having a

125:30

family really motivates a man to like

125:32

hustle and grow whatever it is that he's

125:34

doing and try to be better.

125:36

>> But it's like if you're 22 and you're

125:38

like, I won't even look at you unless

125:39

you make six figures, you're missing out

125:41

on a ton of great guys. And it's like

125:44

what what exactly do you want? What are

125:46

you looking for? And they don't even

125:47

know like

125:47

>> well they're kind of programmed towards

125:50

hypergamy today, right? It seems like

125:52

they're programmed to go after the super

125:55

successful, hyper successful people and

125:57

not think, "Oh, I'm developing a

125:59

relationship with a man and we're going

126:00

to grow together."

126:02

>> Yeah. And they have it. This is true.

126:04

And we know there's problems with men,

126:06

but we talk all the time about problems

126:08

with men. And I think what we tell women

126:10

is you're perfect how you are. You are a

126:13

goddess, girl, and you don't have to

126:15

change for anybody. That's what that's

126:18

what we tell people. But then how many

126:19

of those women are now on Ompic?

126:22

>> That was crazy. All the body positivity

126:25

women are all like 120 lbs now and they

126:28

look like they're making weight at the

126:29

UFC

126:31

beautiful influencers are now just like

126:34

>> skeletons.

126:36

So strange kind Osborne on TV.

126:39

God bless her soul. I don't know if

126:41

she's doing that, but I know a lot of

126:43

them they just get so

126:44

>> Megan Megan Trainer got popular on a

126:47

song about being a little bit chunky and

126:49

having a big butt and that boys actually

126:50

like that better. And the minute she can

126:52

get a GLP1, she's like, "Never mind."

126:54

>> Yeah. A lot skinny now.

126:56

>> A lot of people did it. A lot of people

126:57

did it. Lizo did it.

126:58

>> Yeah.

127:00

>> Yeah. It's uh But it's this thing I

127:03

always say to men, you know, when they

127:04

tell me like, "Oh, I'm I don't want to

127:06

work out. I don't want to do any of

127:07

those things." Why do you do why do you

127:08

waste all your time doing that? I go,

127:10

"If I could give you a pill that could

127:12

make you really strong, like

127:13

instantaneously really strong and able

127:15

to like strangle men,

127:17

>> like you could kill people with your

127:18

bare hands, you wouldn't take it. Do you

127:21

want to be vulnerable? Do you like it?"

127:22

Well, there's no pill, but if you just

127:24

work, you can become that. You can

127:26

become a different type of man.

127:28

>> Yeah.

127:28

>> Like that's possible,

127:30

>> but you don't want to do it. So, you

127:31

want to dismiss it as being silly. Well,

127:33

why would it be silly to have power?

127:36

It's to have strength, to have a

127:38

physical body that can like move things

127:40

around easier, that can hold people down

127:43

if you have to. If there's something

127:45

terribly wrong, you can defend yourself.

127:47

Why would you not want to have that?

127:48

Well, everybody wants that. It's just

127:51

it's an incredibly long path to get

127:53

there. So, they're scared of it,

127:55

so they dismiss it.

127:56

>> Yeah. It's the same thing as raising

127:57

kids, right? It's like so I lifted

128:00

weights for uh it's been like 18 years

128:03

and there were periods where I was

128:05

really lean and I looked fantastic and

128:07

then there were periods where like I and

128:08

I lifted all through my pregnancies and

128:10

everything. Thank God. And I highly

128:12

recommend it because if you don't want

128:14

to have like a lot of the complications

128:17

you can have post pregnancy like pelvic

128:18

floor issues, birthing issues,

128:21

>> get really strong and squat heavy, be

128:25

able to do some heavy deadlifts and

128:26

stuff. All that stays really strong and

128:28

it really helps with your health. Um, I

128:30

had a doctor that told me I wasn't going

128:31

to walk again after my fourth baby cuz

128:34

my pelvic bone separated when I birthed

128:36

her.

128:36

>> You're not going to be able to walk.

128:37

>> Yeah. She was like, "You should just get

128:39

a walker."

128:40

>> Oh my god.

128:40

>> You're not going to be able to do

128:42

>> That lady was so I was like, "That's so

128:44

crazy. There's no rehab. There's nothing

128:46

you could do."

128:47

>> By that time, I knew that most doctors

128:49

give you advice based on liability. They

128:51

don't want to get sued. She doesn't want

128:53

to tell me to go squat because what if I

128:54

hurt myself and then it's her fault?

128:56

whatever. So funny.

128:57

>> So, I just went right back to I'm just

128:59

going to start with like literally

129:01

lifting my legs in bed and then I

129:03

progress and now I've got nothing wrong

129:04

with me. I'm super strong as I'm fine.

129:07

So crazy.

129:07

>> But it's the best thing to do. And

129:09

through all those years of lifting, even

129:10

when I was a little too chunky, like

129:12

after my son passed away, I gained a lot

129:14

of weight.

129:15

>> I could not care about myself for a

129:17

couple of years. I just couldn't bring

129:19

myself to do it. But I still went to the

129:21

gym because it kept me sane. It did more

129:24

for me mentally than therapy or anything

129:27

else other than prayer. I would say

129:28

prayer would be the number one thing,

129:30

gym, a close second. It was a really

129:32

great way to battle out all of the

129:34

really strong crazy emotions that I had.

129:37

Just one more rep, you know, until

129:39

you're so tired that it's like a lot of

129:41

the bad feelings and stuff you have,

129:43

>> you have some clarity and you can kind

129:45

of figure it out. You know what I mean?

129:47

>> Yeah. That's one thing that I think

129:49

would be a good way to develop more men

129:52

is to encourage them into doing

129:54

difficult things. Yes. And difficult

129:56

hard work and specifically physical

129:59

things because I think your body has a

130:00

certain amount

130:02

>> of requirements in order to maintain

130:04

like a stable level of anxiety and

130:07

mental health. I think

130:08

>> I think it's a giant fac I know it's a

130:10

giant factor because when I take a few

130:12

days off, there's something wrong, if I

130:13

get hurt or something like that, I start

130:14

getting baddy. I'm like, well, this is

130:16

like most people most of the time. Like,

130:18

that's a terrible way to live your life.

130:21

>> Um,

130:21

>> Andrew knows if I'm if I'm out of sorts

130:24

like that. He's like, gym.

130:26

>> You haven't been to the gym and all like

130:27

we just moved across the the country and

130:29

it was like it's there's so much that

130:31

goes into doing that. Especially when he

130:32

has a business and everything and

130:34

there's kids.

130:35

>> And so, it was like the longest I've

130:36

taken off ever, I want to say. Like,

130:39

even with kids and surgeries, I didn't

130:41

have to take off that long. And we

130:43

finally got the home gym put in. He's

130:45

like, "Oh, you're normal again. Great.

130:46

You're you're mentally balanced again."

130:49

It's great for women, too. If you're a

130:50

woman that struggles with depression and

130:52

anxiety, try pushing yourself really

130:54

hard in the gym, and you'll find out

130:55

what you're made of. It doesn't mean you

130:56

have to be stronger than dudes. It

130:58

doesn't You're not going to get huge

131:00

muscles because you don't have enough

131:01

testosterone to do that, unless you're

131:03

taking gear or something. But get in

131:05

there and work out. And then you have

131:06

the added benefit of it's going to help

131:08

you through childirth and pregnancy. as

131:10

you get older, you're not going to be

131:12

fragile and need your kids to take care

131:14

of you all the time. You know what I

131:16

mean? Like my parents both have terrible

131:18

health, and I want to avoid that. So,

131:20

I'm trying to be like really proactive

131:21

about keeping myself healthy, avoiding

131:23

heart disease, diabetes, all these

131:25

things so that my kids don't have to

131:27

have a power of attorney and take care

131:29

of me, right?

131:30

>> You know,

131:30

>> right? Um, is there anything else you

131:33

want to cover in the book? Because, uh,

131:35

it's a it's a really I didn't read read

131:37

it. I listened to it. the the guy who

131:39

was reading it was um a very odd voice.

131:44

It's very odd. I really wish he read it.

131:46

>> I want my husband to narrate it. I've

131:49

asked multiple other people to narrate

131:51

it and I can't get anybody to do it. I

131:53

would love to do a reproduction. He

131:55

actually did that for free because he

131:57

thought it was he was like, "This book

131:58

is so important. I'm happy to do it." He

132:01

just sounds like he has a bit of a sinus

132:03

infection. Yeah, he's got an odd voice,

132:05

which which is fine, but it's just like

132:06

it's the the information is very

132:08

fascinating, but I just I always wish

132:10

people read their own book in audio.

132:14

>> Yeah, I you know why I didn't? Because I

132:17

think I sound like Lois Griffin and

132:19

Sarah Palin had a baby.

132:22

>> And I don't know that anybody wants to

132:24

listen to hours of my voice.

132:25

>> They do. I'm sure they do. They're

132:27

listening to it right now. You're normal

132:29

voice. Maybe I'll do it. It's all in

132:30

your own head. I have well I have this

132:31

upper Midwest like oh guy you know like

132:34

>> that's you're from the upper Midwest

132:36

doesn't matter but the point is it's

132:38

like it's interesting because this is

132:41

your work it's your perspective you

132:43

know.

132:44

>> Yeah.

132:44

>> Um and it's it's really good. It's

132:48

there's a lot.

132:49

>> I'd say if I got to say anything else

132:50

about it um I did not write this book

132:54

nor do I talk about these things or

132:56

debate feminists because I hate women. I

132:58

do not hate women. I love women. I'm a

133:01

woman. I have daughters. I have women in

133:04

my life that I love. And

133:06

>> that's a crazy narrative.

133:07

>> Yeah. Well, and people think they'll say

133:09

like, why do women act so crazy

133:11

nowadays? Why are they all so crazy? And

133:13

it's like, what do you think would

133:14

happen if you took any group of humans

133:16

and you said you are perfect the way you

133:18

are, you are a goddess. You are strong,

133:20

independent, whatever you are. You don't

133:22

need to change. There's nothing to be

133:24

improved upon. And if if you do

133:26

something wrong, it's only because a man

133:28

somewhere

133:29

hurt you or did something bad and that's

133:31

the only reason that you would do like

133:33

we've removed accountability. We've

133:35

given women more power than the balance.

133:38

I think there was a balance already

133:40

before feminism because you had women

133:42

with the power over reproduction and

133:45

mate selection and sexuality and

133:48

motherhood um and all the influence they

133:50

have over men through those things. And

133:52

then you had men with the monopoly on

133:55

physical force and probably like

133:57

political force and things like that. So

134:00

there was kind of a balance. And what we

134:01

did with feminism was we just completely

134:03

threw it off. And now we're like, "No

134:05

men, you you stay down. You be quiet.

134:07

You're toxic. You're bad. You like

134:09

schools, public schools are terrible for

134:11

boys. Sit down. Be quiet. Be like Suzie.

134:15

Uh just use the highlighter and organize

134:17

things by color and be quiet and still

134:19

and soft and nice." And you know, we HR

134:22

manage boys to death now. And so we've

134:26

thrown the balance off. And what we've

134:27

done is give women all this power, but

134:30

taken away all the accountability. And

134:31

it's like, why would you not expect them

134:33

to act a little crazy? Why would it not

134:35

kind of spoil them? And I I don't think

134:38

women are inherently bad. I think what

134:40

feminism has done has made them a worse

134:44

version of who they would be otherwise.

134:47

>> I think we need accountability and

134:49

responsibility. We need to have some

134:50

self-sacrifice in life. We need to have

134:53

the same inherent human struggle that

134:56

men have and that all all people have

134:58

had and we we did before. So every time

135:00

you look in history, this is a key

135:02

thing. If you are arguing with

135:03

feminists, if you're looking at history

135:05

and they say look at this horrible

135:06

thing, women couldn't have this or women

135:08

didn't do that or there was stigma

135:10

around this. Ask yourself, was that also

135:13

true for men? Because it always is. It

135:16

always is. Men didn't have this glorious

135:19

carefree existence free of

135:21

responsibility where they had all the

135:22

power and control but none of the

135:23

accountability. That's a lie. That's a

135:25

myth. But we've convinced women of that.

135:28

So now we're trying to flip it the other

135:30

way. And yeah, women are acting crazy.

135:32

We have Bonnie Blue and we have like all

135:34

these crazy Only Fans girls and like the

135:36

only women online besides me and a

135:38

handful of others are boss babes and

135:41

Only Fans chicks and Instagram models

135:43

and blue-haired screeching feminists.

135:46

That's what we've ended up with. So,

135:47

it's like I wrote it because I think

135:51

feminism is bad for women and I think it

135:53

would help them. I think it's bad for

135:55

everyone and kids. I am no longer

135:58

willing to sacrifice the welfare of

136:00

children on the altar of feminism ever

136:02

again. I won't do it. And if you want me

136:05

to throw kids under the bus so that

136:08

women can do blah, I don't care what it

136:10

is. I'm not going to do it. I want to

136:12

see kids growing up in loving families

136:15

with both their parents. I want to see

136:17

community again. I want to see families

136:20

again. All the great stuff that we all

136:22

lost from that, the loneliness epidemic,

136:25

all the depression and the anxiety.

136:27

Women have higher rates of substance

136:29

abuse than ever in recorded history

136:32

right now.

136:33

>> Don't men also have higher rates of

136:35

>> No, it's actually stayed pretty static

136:36

with men. In fact, like Gen Z boys

136:40

hardly ever drink like the marijuana

136:43

more opioid addiction.

136:45

>> The opioid epidemic uh is pretty pretty

136:48

much both because I think it's kind of

136:50

medically based. A lot of people get

136:51

something, you know, surgery or whatever

136:53

>> and then they get hooked.

136:54

>> Yeah. And they get hooked on it and then

136:55

they got to go looking for it elsewhere.

136:57

Um but women, we've never seen as high a

137:00

rate of feal alcohol syndrome in babies

137:02

as we're seeing now. And alcoholism is

137:05

much worse for women. Our bodies are

137:06

smaller. Our livers don't handle toxic

137:09

amounts of alcohol even as well as a

137:11

man. It's bad for men.

137:12

>> It's even worse for women. Uh 26% of

137:16

American women are on at least one

137:18

psychiatric prescription drug.

137:20

>> Yeah.

137:21

>> That's nuts.

137:22

>> That's nuts.

137:22

>> And they did something there. In my

137:24

book, I cover uh the a big study called

137:28

um the paradox of female happiness. And

137:30

this came out in 2008, I think, and it

137:32

made huge waves where they did this

137:33

giant survey of women. Uh they had done

137:38

one in the 70s and they were repeating

137:39

it, you know, 40ome years later to see

137:42

like, okay, we've had a lot of feminism.

137:44

Are women doing better? And on every

137:46

metric they measured, women reported

137:49

being less fulfilled, less happy, and

137:50

less content than they did in the 70s

137:53

before they were like fully liberated.

137:56

Um, and they give a lot of reasons as to

137:58

why, you know, the the burden of having

138:00

to juggle work and home and the

138:03

expectations of versus reality of what

138:06

feminism sold them and things like that.

138:08

And then they did a repeat study several

138:10

years later that was even more

138:12

comprehensive where they went to other

138:13

countries and other societies and

138:16

different types of places and did

138:18

another survey about women's happiness

138:19

because now feminism is pretty global.

138:21

There's only a few places in the world

138:23

where it hasn't really taken hold yet.

138:25

So they they were like, "We should check

138:27

other places." And the authors of the

138:30

study opened with something that I

138:32

thought was kind of funny. They said,

138:33

"Regardless of where you look, culture,

138:36

economic status, religion, it doesn't

138:38

seem to matter. Women everywhere and

138:41

always are less happy than men." And

138:44

they they said the reasons for that are

138:46

somewhat biological. We have like

138:47

hormonal fluctuations that men don't

138:49

deal with. You know, things like periods

138:51

and menopause and all that sort of

138:52

stuff. And we're just less emotionally

138:55

stable. Women experience three times the

138:57

mental illness than men do.

139:00

And and it could be for many reasons. We

139:03

could like try to tear all that apart,

139:05

but feminism hasn't made women happier.

139:08

It hasn't made them safer. I don't think

139:10

it's really given them more choices.

139:12

It's just given them kind of different

139:14

choices. Um and children are suffering

139:18

the most. And when you tear apart the

139:20

family unit, which is what the Marxist

139:22

feminists said was their explicit

139:24

purpose because property rights are

139:26

passed down through men, men uh, you

139:29

know, build businesses and own

139:30

properties the most and pass it down to

139:32

their kids. So they're like, "We got to

139:33

get rid of this fatherhood stuff, the

139:36

patriarchy. We got to get rid of the

139:37

family unit." Um, especially like the

139:40

Leninist ones were like, "Lenn should be

139:41

the daddy.

139:43

>> The government should be the daddy."

139:45

>> Um, because

139:46

>> Yeah. And you see that with a lot of

139:49

socialistleaning cities where they want

139:51

the state to be in charge of things like

139:54

decisions whether or not a child can

139:56

medically transition, that kind of

139:58

>> Yes. All that stuff.

140:00

>> It It's all there for reasons which are

140:03

all detailed in the book, but it's

140:04

basically a scam. And I feel like women

140:07

have been grossly misled and horribly

140:10

propagandized to believe a whole bunch

140:11

of that's not even true. And if

140:14

they read my book and if they look into

140:16

it themselves, they double check all my

140:17

sources, they go back and read

140:18

everything themselves, and they still

140:20

believe it's better for them, that's

140:21

fine. But I at least want them to know

140:24

the truth and be able to make an

140:25

informed decision about

140:28

why they're living their life the way

140:29

they are and if they believe this sort

140:31

of stuff and if they really accept this

140:32

feminist framework or not.

140:34

>> Well, it's a really really well-ritten

140:37

book and it's very fascinating and I

140:39

really enjoyed this conversation.

140:40

>> Well, thanks. I'm so glad that you loved

140:42

the book. I was really shocked that you

140:43

liked it so much that

140:44

>> No, I really did. It was It was very It

140:46

was eye opening like like that. How many

140:49

of these people were full-on cooks like

140:52

that just abandoned their kids and these

140:55

are the people that everybody's looking

140:56

to like, "Oh, she was a boss lady."

140:58

Like, she was a monster. She's this

141:00

horrible person that didn't think anyone

141:03

should have children.

141:04

>> Like, there's so much of that in the

141:06

book. It's really, really great. So,

141:08

here it is. Um, occult feminism, the

141:10

secret history of women's liberation.

141:12

Rachel Wilson, go get it.

141:14

>> Thank you.

141:14

>> Thanks so much. It was fun. Bye,

141:16

everybody.

Interactive Summary

Rachel Wilson discusses her book "Occult Feminism: The Secret History of Women's Liberation," presenting a critical perspective on feminism. She argues that feminism, far from being a grassroots movement for women's empowerment, was a deliberately engineered social revolution with profound and often negative consequences. Wilson details her personal journey, rejecting career-focused societal norms to embrace traditional family life, and critiques the education system. She asserts that women's entry into the workforce, driven by feminist ideology, led to a "two-income trap," suppressed men's wages, and fostered a consumer-driven economy. A significant portion of her argument focuses on the historical revisionism surrounding women's suffrage, claiming that most women did not desire the vote and that early anti-suffragists accurately predicted negative outcomes like increased divorce and the politicization of women's issues. Wilson exposes the hidden motivations and backgrounds of influential feminist figures like Victoria Woodhull, Margaret Sanger (accused of eugenics and fabricating data), and Gloria Steinem (allegedly funded by the CIA). She highlights the prevalence of occultism, spiritualism, and anti-Christian sentiments among early feminists, linking them to modern concepts of gender fluidity and abolition. Ultimately, Wilson contends that feminism has led to widespread unhappiness, mental health issues, declining birth rates among women, and the breakdown of the family unit, making women and children less safe and more dependent on the state. She advocates for a return to traditional values, accountability, and self-sacrifice, suggesting that women have been misled by a narrative that serves ulterior motives rather than genuine liberation.

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