Too many of you dudes are focusing on

the wrong aspect of attracting not just

women, but attracting people into your

life. See, the internet now is just full

of trolls and full of people giving up

and saying that you need to have money

and you need to have looks. Oh, all the

guys with money are just getting all the

results. Well, let me correct you in

this. The guys with money are getting

played with the most because they're the

most playable, right? And the guys who

are attractive are actually not the ones

who are getting laid the most. They're

getting attention, but that doesn't

necessarily mean they're getting

results. So, you've got to stop fixating

on this concept of I need to be rich.

Everyone who's rich is just getting

girls and just like living a better

life. And the ones who are just not rich

and not really living like living the

best quality lives. I spend time in the

most expensive places on the planet. And

I'm telling you from a real world point

of view, these wealthy men and these

attractive men are not winning the race

or winning the game or necessarily

clocking the game. So, it isn't wealth

and ne like attractiveness. There's more

to it than that. There's this secret

ingredient which most men actually get

wrong. Right? Most men don't spend their

time trying to understand

not just the game but the essence of

what success actually looks like with

attracting people. Let's also stop

focusing on the concept of attracting

women. Because if you can attract people

into your life, usually that ends up

attracting women into your life. Let me

just give you a quick example of what

that energy actually looks like. Okay,

masculine energy is calming energy. My

new game when I'm out now, so I was out

last night in this place in Dubai. It

was called Serene by Gaya in J1. Super

popular place. It's like the who's who

of Dubai. Everyone was just wearing the

sickest watch. I mean, my AP just like

didn't even match up to some of these

watches. But I wasn't out there to

necessarily compete with people on their

money because in Dubai there's no point

competing with people on their money.

There's literally people here with

unlimited wealth. So whether I'm worth

100 million or or 200 million, there's

billionaires in the same place or at

least people that acting like

billionaires. So there's no point trying

to compete with these other men on the

wealth aspect. Now, where I can compete

is looks. There's a lot of older men who

are not that good-looking. You know, age

is definitely a problem for them.

They're either balding. So in terms of

looks, I can compete because I have a

good body. I grew myself well. I was

dressed pretty well. So fine, I can

compete on looks and that genuinely

helps you get attention. Okay, so that

is important. I've never disregarded

that. But that isn't the be all and end

all because there are times where I've

looked my best and still completely

[ __ ] it up with people and with women

on those evenings. But what really

worked for me last night in particular

at this Serene by Gaya place, which is

the most popping spot on a Saturday in

Dubai, you know, I always choose to go

to the best places or the best places. I

mean, this was the busiest, right? So I

just wanted to go to the busiest best

place. What worked for me the most was

my calming masculine energy. I actually

didn't speak much to girls last night. I

chose to have my body language doing

most of the talking and it was working

fascinatingly well. It was honestly

worth videoing the [ __ ] that I was doing

last night. Some of it was outrageous

and was really catching people by

surprise, catching beautiful women by

surprise.

I chose not to use my mouth so much

yesterday. Okay? And this is something

that I really started to think more of

is that I don't want to be this

entertainer where I'm just talking all

the time and trying to entertain you.

I'm not a monkey that's going to dance

around and try and get your attention

the whole time. That's not what I'm

after. Okay? I've got [ __ ] going on in

my life that's way more important than

trying to pick you up. And if I don't

pick you up, darling, then I'm just

going to pick up the next girl. No

biggie. And the way you portray that is

indifference and calmness and coolness.

So literally, this is an example of what

I was doing. I would stand about a meter

away from a girl and I would take a look

at her

and I'd wait for her to look back and

then she would look back and I would

hold stare

and I'd look at her and then she'd be

like, "Okay, this attractive guy's

looking at me." So then she would look

away and then look back at me and

realize I'm still looking. So I let my

eyes do the talking, right? I was doing

all the talking with these powerful

things. Your eyes are probably the most

powerful tool when it comes to

attracting beautiful women, right?

Because again, these women are so used

to these guys on tables. Hey, come to my

table. Dancing around, acting a fool,

trying to say a million different

things. Yeah, my Ferrari and I just sold

my business for a billion and I'm the

man and oh yeah, I've got this new song

out. You should hear it. Who cares? Calm

down, you fool. Most of the real skills

that come with attracting, again, not

just women, but other interesting people

into your life to show that you are

actually a bit of a G, you're important,

and you're confident, and you have that

self-esteem, is your body language. And

so I would literally just look at this

girl. She would look back and I' and I'd

look over and I I'd give her a little

smile and she'd be like, "Oh, okay." And

then I would step forward. But on one

instance I did that, her friend looked

over and came over and said, "Hey, she's

pretty gorgeous, isn't she?" So she her

friend even clocked the energy and was

inviting me into the conversation to

speak to her. I did that multiple times

last night. In fact, I did that every

single time I wanted to approach a woman

or I found her attractive. I think I

approached about seven or eight

different girls last night. I got uh

half of those I got the number or the

Instagram of and the other half was just

an interaction. And actually, I was

choosing I was picking and choosing them

myself because if I found a girl to be a

bit stupid, a bit annoying and she was

bad energy, then I wouldn't take it to

the next level. I wouldn't ask for a

phone number or for an Instagram or have

her take my Instagram if I wasn't

feeling the interaction. I am being

selective because this is what masculine

energy does. It seeks what is best for

him. It It's doesn't move in desperation

like, "Oh, I need to find someone. Oh, I

need to take someone home tonight cuz

I'm desperate to have sex cuz I'm a

[ __ ] loser and I'm just like I need

to just grab anything I can." And I used

to actually act like that. I'll be

honest. I used to be like that. It used

to be like if I don't end up getting

laid in the evening, then I'm a loser

and I failed. So, I would drink a [ __ ]

ton of alcohol and I would sleep with a

six out of 10 and I'd wake up the next

thinking, "Oh, I'm the man." Well, guess

what, Ralph? You're not the man. you're

actually a, you know, you're actually a

a weirdo who's got low self-esteem who

needs to get laid to to think that that

increases your value. And that's not

really how it actually works. So, now

that I've started to master this and

become even more of a veteran, I realize

that my masculine energy is more

important than anything. And so, being

calm and having a strong demeanor and

having a strong frame do not like, you

know, girls will [ __ ] test you. They'll

try and throw different things at you

and you just stand there solid, smiling,

being cool, and not actually speaking

much. I now speak way less to these

girls, but my interactions are way more

effective and sharp. So, I'll just say a

couple of things and I'll stand there

and I'll look at her. These are the most

important tools

to attract her.

Your eye contact when you hold eye

contact with a girl is the real powerful

energy that you have. So, you can talk

about wealth and status, and I'm so

bored of you guys talking about this

stuff. You know how bored I am of this

[ __ ] on the internet? Yeah, money. Yeah,

it's cuz you got money and these other

dudes have money and the guy's a

billionaire, so you're going to lose to

him. Shut up, you loser, about money all

the time, right? It's just so stupid.

You don't even know how the game works

because you haven't experienced it like

I have. I've been out more than any man

I know across multiple cities in the

best possible places. So my my book of

history, my experience is so vast that I

have to evolve my game. I don't like

calling it game, but I have to evolve my

frame so that I understand how it works

in other cities and I understand what

these women are actually after. They

want strong masculine frame and they

want eye contact. You hold that eye

contact. And yes, it's fine for her to

know that you're looking at her.

She should know you're looking at her.

Yeah, I'm checking you out. That's what

my eyes were saying. Yeah, I'm checking

you out and I'm standing here and I'm

the man and I'm deciding whether I want

to go over and talk to you. And then if

the interaction didn't work out in the

way I wanted it to work out, then guess

what? I would just walk away. I'd smile

and be like, "Have a nice evening." Cuz

some girls can be rude. Actually, out of

the eight girls I approached last night,

not a single girl was rude. And do you

know why? Because I wasn't approaching

like a s. That's why not one girl was

rude to me last night. Every single girl

gave me the time of day to hear and to

check out what I had to say because I

was intriguing because I had strong

masculine presence as I approached them

because I approached with my eyes and

with my frame strong and solid. And I

would not and then you know some girls

would [ __ ] test me you know like you

know some of these like some of these

Russian girls Ukrainian girls they like

to give it large because they get

approached so many times in an evening.

So they throw a [ __ ] test out you know

like haha that's really funny you should

be a stand-up comedian you know just you

[ __ ] test them back you play you just

remain strong and you maintain that

strong sturdy charismatic masculine

energy. Now that also comes from being

successful and having things to be

confident about. If you got really

nothing to be confident about because

you're not good-looking, you're not

doing so well in your life, people are

going to smell that energy. But because,

you know, I'm training daily, I'm in

good shape, I caught a nice tan

yesterday, I was dressed well, I'm on my

purpose, I love the business that I'm

building right now, I'm feeling really

confident, I'm meeting super interesting

people in Dubai, I really feel like I'm

in the right place in my life right now.

I feel like I'm so aligned. That energy

actually comes out on a night out and

people can feel that [ __ ] And that is

what you need to be a success in all

facets of