Daredevil Michelle Khare — How to Become a YouTube Superstar
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What are you putting off out of fear?
I'm putting off quitting my job. I'm
putting off reaching out to all the
people I need to to make this dream a
reality because it means I have to say
it out loud. I'm waiting for a false
sense of security to inspire me to take
a leap. But I'm actually being
challenged and invited to create my own
security. I've never designed my own
rubric of success. And that's because I
don't trust myself to define success.
I'm scared to assume that
responsibility.
That was my fear setting.
It's very personal process.
>> Michelle, at long last, here we are.
>> Here we are.
>> So nice to meet you in person.
>> It's so nice to meet you, too. This is
so exciting and surreal for me. So,
thank you for letting me infiltrate your
podcast studio today.
>> Absolutely. I am thrilled. It looks like
about three years ago that I first put
you and your channel in my newsletter,
Five Bullet Friday. And I think it was
probably even before that that one of
our mutual friends, Adam Grant, had been
telling me repeatedly,
you have to have Michelle on the show.
And the reason that I was so excited to
put you in the newsletter, I don't even
remember the line. I went back and I
looked at what I said exactly. And one
of the things I said was, "I'm so happy
that someone finally cracked sort of
this premise and did it right." But
since people probably have no idea what
I'm talking about, although I would have
already said something in the intro,
what's the log line so to speak for
Challenge Accepted?
>> Of Challenge Accepted. What is it?
>> So, Challenge Accepted is a show where I
attempt the world's toughest stunts and
professions. And that can range from
learning and attempting Harry Houdini's
deadliest trick, the water torture cell,
to training with the Secret Service for
a week to most recently I recreated Tom
Cruz's stunt from Mission Impossible
where I was hanging off the side of a
military aircraft as it was taking off.
and you have more than 6 million
followers, more than a billion views,
and I'm going to read, you know what,
we'll probably just skip the intro
because I'm basically getting into it
anyway. Michelle hopes to prove that
with enough dedication and failure,
anything is possible. And that's one of
the characteristics that I most
appreciate about the show is like if you
have a breakdown, if you're flat on your
back, if you stumble and fall, it's in
there, right? That's a feature and not a
bug.
>> Exactly.
>> So, it's not just the highlights, it's
also the low lightss. And since we're
already getting into it, I'm just going
to read this paragraph. All right.
Michelle's work has earned multiple
streaming awards, including show of the
year, has been featured in the New York
Times, Forbes, Vogue India, and more. In
2025, challenge accepted, made history.
Congratulations. Successfully
petitioning to join the prime time Emmy
ballot. Michelle was named a Time 100
honore for her impact as a creator and
storyteller. Let's rewind way back. We
were chatting a little bit before we got
started about Shriefport, Louisiana.
>> Oh yes,
>> shout out Shrieport.
>> And I mentioned I had been there and you
were like, I'm so sorry.
>> There's not much there.
>> Why was I there? Why had I been there?
And why does that tie into your
background a little bit, your history
growing up? Oh, I was just say if you
want to hop into it because I'll I'll
suppose answer my own question which is
the reason I was intrigued is because
they have very compelling tax incentives
and other incentives for filming.
>> Right. So what was your first exposure
to sort of the business broadly speaking
in air quotes? My very first exposure to
the business was my dad is a big big
movie and television lover. He actually
learned English after immigrating from
India by watching films even on the
plane from India to America.
>> So growing up because there's not much
to do in Shreport. Every Friday night we
were at the movies. It didn't matter if
it was a blockbuster or a, you know,
very lowrated Rotten Tomatoes B-side
movie. I saw everything. Kids movies,
PG-13 up, like we saw it all. And then
we would go to a pizza shop and talk
about the movie afterwards. Again,
there's nothing to do in street. So,
this was like the pinnacle of
entertainment. And so just naturally I I
started experiencing
a homegrown little film school, if that
makes sense. We printed out the AFI top
100 movies and had them in our living
room and we would check them off as we
watched them, me and my dad. And what
was special is as I got a little older,
all these tax incentives started
happening, bringing films to New Orleans
and to Shreveport.
We got a lot of like Twilight knockoff
movies. I think one of the scary movies
was shot in Shreport. And so our town
sort of experienced this little economic
art renaissance which was really
exciting. And so all of our friends and
and family members were becoming extras
in movies and TV shows and and feeling,
you know, very excited about all of
that. And so one of my first jobs was
I had an internship on a movie starring
The Rock. It was a movie called Snitch.
It came out in 2013. And I I think I was
like so low on the call sheet. I was
like it was after all the PAs. It was PA
intern. It was the last person on the
call sheet was me. And I was just
getting coffee for people and learning.
And it it was an incredible experience.
And I love that because I got a window
into the traditional scope of what it
could take to tell a story at a higher
Hollywood level.
>> And that's what I hope to bring a lot of
to what we do even on Challenge Accepted
today is this midpoint of digital
freedom ownership but structure and
understanding and respect of the history
of where our visual storytelling medium
has come from. Mhm. Part of the reason I
said I'm so glad somebody finally sort
of cracked this is
you'll know this, some people may not.
There are basically two reasons why I'm
doing this podcast or the catalyst that
led to this podcast and they both relate
to ownership in a sense. The first was
the 4-hour chef, which was basically
just a suicide mission of a deadline.
Book that should have taken three years
was done in a year and that's just
physically effectively impossible. So
ran myself into the ground with that
>> because you are self- testing all of
these techniques.
>> I'm self test. Yeah, exactly. I mean, I
was doing everything in the book full of
experiments and somehow thought it would
be a good idea to try to learn
photography to do
hundreds of photographs in the book
myself, which turns out to be a craft in
and of itself that takes a lot of time
if you want to be even halfway decent.
>> And what ended up happening in that case
was
distribution got hamstrung. I expected
some of it because it was a book. It was
the largest title that had been acquired
by the then very naent Amazon
publishing. And because people in some
ways rightly fear Amazon as this
omnipowerful, you know, omnipotent
entity that controls all of these
different aspects of in most cases
distribution. But now Amazon Publishing
was going to be competing with the big
publishing houses for author talent. And
this scared the hell out of everybody.
So, I expected that there would be, say,
boycott by Barnes & Noble. I did not
anticipate it would include all the big
box retailers and much more. So, the
book basically I I don't want to say it
died on the vine because it did as well
as it could have. But at the same time,
roughly, this is the part I haven't
talked as much about. I had been filming
and then debuted in 2013 the Tim Ferrris
experiment. And the Tim Ferris
experiment had me doing these
experiments as you might expect on a
weekly basis. And that was through a
startup within Turner Broadcasting
called Upwave. But there were all these
problems internally at Upwave.
Ultimately that that got shut down.
there was a regime change and then what
h what happens? The catalog of episodes.
If it succeeds, the new leadership is
not going to get any credit and if it
goes poorly, they're going to get all
the blame. So, it just got locked up.
And it took me like 2 years or 3 years
to get back the rights and then quote
unquote self-publish on Apple. And it it
did very well at the time. But what you
just said is so important. And I want to
underscore it for people because I've
heard you discuss. I want to give a
shout out to Colin Samir, two of the
best interviewers out there in my
opinion, especially when it comes to
creator economy and the nuts and bolts
of making things in this modern era. I
really want to give them due credit.
When you've had conversations, and I'm
going to talk for a second, I apologize,
but when you've had conversations with
some of these larger, let's call it
traditional outlets or platforms, right?
and you start to talk about your
production schedule, they're like,
"Well, wait a second. It takes you 6
months or a year or fill in the blank in
their mind excessively long period of
time. Could we compress it into a week?"
>> Mhm.
>> And you have figured out very artfully
how to have largely complete editorial
control. There are some constraints,
right, depending on how you want to go
about it with partners and sponsors and
things like that, but largely you
control your schedule, your direction.
actually you do completely right you're
choosing positive constraints depending
on your objectives
but what ended up happening with Tim
Ferris experiments like okay we have a
week for each one
>> and so I would be in compression pants
and like putting on DMSO and all this
crap because I had a ton of injuries
from one episode but we were already
going into post and then we'd have a day
of travel and then I'm starting the next
episode and it was impossible right it
was just physically I'm still contending
with injuries from that. We might talk
about that with respect to some of the
stuff that you're doing. I want to hear
about it. But there were two issues,
right? There was the kind of production
side control
>> problem and then ultimately didn't
control distribution. And
for
those reasons, those two straws that
broke the camel's back, I was like,
"Fuck this." And I'd used podcasts to
launch the 4-hour chef. And I thought to
myself, you know what? I like RSS feeds.
I like this idea of being able to do
whatever I want, be myself. If I want to
curse, I can curse. Not that that's
ultimately, I suppose, can be an art
form in and of itself, depending on
where you grow up. And that's how we
ended up here today, right? So,
>> just so I understand, you were human
guinea pigging, 4-hour chef. Yeah.
>> And shooting Tim Ferris experiment at
the same time.
>> They were basically backtoback and there
was probably some overlap. So, I was
doing pre-production while I was
finishing the 4-hour chef cuz I'm a
glutton for punishment. For people who
haven't seen that, it's my first
fourcolor book. It's something like 600,
700 pages, cut down from like a thousand
probably. And
the biggest
difference, I'd say the absolute biggest
difference between the 4-hour chef and
the books that came before it, the
4-hour work week and the 4-hour body, is
that in the case of the 4-hour body, I
did all of the experiments, then
digested it all, combed through
everything, and compiled the book. In
the case of the 4-hour chef, I was still
because of the deadline doing a lot of
the experiments as I was already
beginning to write the earlier sections
of the book, which is a very risky
gambit.
>> Uhhuh.
>> And then on top of that, because I did
not know, and I thought this was
actually a good idea, although there
were a lot of pitfalls, because the
4-hour chef was a huge gamble,
particularly from a distribution
perspective. I expected I was going to
get kneecapped in certain ways and I was
like, well, if this doesn't work out the
way I wanted to, I still have the
benefit of the doubt in the eyes of most
people and I can use the success of the
prior book and the blog at that time,
remember blogs, people to parlay that
into the television. So, I was like,
"Let me get the deal before The 4Hour
Chef fully comes out so that I have the
leverage that might become a question
mark once it's published."
>> Oh my gosh. Okay. So, I for those of you
I feel like there are so few people in
the world who can truly empathize with
what you put yourself through. I'm
thinking of Morgan Spurlock.
>> Yeah.
>> The true pioneer of whatever it is we're
doing. And rest in peace, my gosh. David
Blaine
>> is another that comes to mind.
>> And I think what people don't realize
when they watch your content or even
mine is that it's not filmed in a
vacuum. Life is happening. As you
mentioned, you're not just going to
Japan to learn Yabusame for 5 days.
You're struggling with a jet lag. And
then you're also probably answering
questions and emails about what next
week's episode is going to entail. And
that is a level of professional athlete
that is so unappreciated. So I much
empathize with that.
>> I Yeah, I really appreciate that. And
>> but we were talking about decisions.
>> Decisions. Yeah. So decisions and then
we're going to go back chronologically.
Okay.
>> Thank you for saying all that. And I was
also building initially the the the
writing side of things based on in some
ways models from let's call it
experiential journalism who came before
me.
>> And there were quite a few. Usually it
was done with some type of satirical or
humor twist right like AJ Jacobs would
be a great example for people who don't
know. The year of living biblically I
think is an amazing amazing book.
>> I met him a couple months ago and I said
you need to do that again and make it a
YouTube video. It would bang. He is such
a sweet guy. Morgan Spurlock for people
who might not have recognized the name
immediately superersized me.
>> Really a sort of a genre breaking
category redefining experiment and many
more who came earlier from a writing
perspective but questions. So what I
would love to know and this is going to
get in the weeds a bit guys but we're
going to zoom out and get the Genesis
story as well. But part of what I'm so
curious about is you have in some ways
the dizziness of freedom, right? You
have a paradox of choice challenge where
having complete lack of constraints
can be almost as bad if you don't have a
framework for figuring it out as having
too many constraints. So when you have
things running concurrently, right, you
might, as I understand it, be working on
like two or three challenges at the same
time, right? You're doing
post-production for one, maybe you're
doing planning for another, and you're
in the middle of a third.
>> First of all, how far in advance do you
plan your editorial calendar?
>> The editorial calendar for Challenge
Accepted can be anywhere from 12 to 15
months out from idea to upload. Yeah.
>> And an example of concurrent things
happening would be
>> there was one day where I had to do
astronaut training for our NASA episode.
So naturally, I began my day by going up
in a fighter jet in the middle of
nowhere in California, flying around,
having no idea what I was getting myself
into.
>> Hope you took your Zopran. Yeah,
>> I threw up.
>> Yeah.
>> While there closed,
>> I exited the plane. We finished filming
that. I got in my car, drove 3 hours
back to Los Angeles, and had a ballet
lesson.
I think that like is just a a good
window into what one day of of life is
like and often training for multiple
things at once. But when you have a
situation and and a privilege honestly
of the gift of choice and getting to
choose how you use your time, I like to
maximize my output for each year as far
as it really comes down to
something that I learned early, which is
the more
milestone memories you experience, the
longer life feels. for sure.
>> And I've realized that that goes hand in
hand with my business. The more
milestone memories I create and can
capture and turn into stories, it
actually is a better episode, it it
leads to more revenue, more
opportunities. And so I've sort of
merged those together. But it comes from
I am an athlete. I am a person who
operates in an environment where if you
give me a coach, you give me a training
plan, I'll follow it. I'll do exactly
what you tell me to and I really thrive
in that environment. And being a
business owner is such an oppositional
to that because now you are both the
coach and the athlete at the same time.
And so what I have had to do is, and I'm
stealing this term from one of my other
friends, is put a Formula 1 team around
myself.
>> A Formula 1 team, you know, we love Max
Vers Stappen. He's an incredible driver
and he's not able to do what he does
without the support of all of the
mechanics and engineers. So what I have
done at every step in my life is try to
find who are the best people to put
around myself to continually challenge
me whether it's business,
personal relationships, content, story
and assembling that team is really
important to me. Those are the people
who help me decide how do I spend each
minute of a calendar day.
>> We're going to double click on a few
things here and we're going to go all
over the place, folks. So,
>> buckle up.
>> Buckle up. Right.
It's not quite going to be the vomit
comet for astronaut training. Hopefully,
it'll be a little It'll be more like a
tour through the countryside with lots
of interesting sites and vistas, but a
few things come to mind that I want to
mention and then ask about. The first is
that
and Colin and Samir made this point like
you sort of exemplify
something that I hope continues to gain
traction which is a focus on
quality over quantity
>> right because there was a point where
it's like hey you have to post 50 times
a day you have to do this you have to do
that you have to like vlog 20 minutes
every 12 hours no matter what you do
>> and you're you're borrowing a lot of the
best storytelling techniques and
production quality of quote unquote
traditional, right?
>> But also applying it to this sort of
digital native environment,
>> which has a lot of its own upsides and
also
potentially long-term damaging
temptations, which you have to be aware
of, and I think you very much are. when
you're publishing fewer videos however
right in a sense you not in all senses
but in some senses you're kind of like
fighting the drive of the algorithm and
there are economic incentives
that drive the frequency with which a
lot of people publish right
>> so when you're doing less and again had
tip to Colin Samir it's like you are I
want you to modify this because it's
been a minute since you spoke with them
but you can keep the lights on, right,
to some extent with like AdSense and the
sort of ad revenue from that. Then
you've got brand partners, right? And
that's part of the reason why it seems
like it's helpful to have an editorial
calendar out for a period of time,
right? Because you can
>> have some type of I don't want to call
it sales process, but you have sort of
forwardlooking thematic opportunities
>> to look for those types of deals.
And then you've got your app, right,
among other things.
>> And I' I'd like to hear you talk about
that. But when you're going to break a
mold and you're trying to do something
that people say can't be done, right?
Like traditional TV on the internet,
right? Or whatever it might be, you may
have to find a new approach to financing
what you want to do, right? And so I'd
love to hear you speak for just a moment
about kind of what you have had to build
and how you've had to think differently
in order to do what you want to do. And
then I do want to return to and you can
mention this in your answer if you want,
but when you have certain episodes that
take a day to film, right? Some that
take a week, some that take six months,
some that take a year to set up, how the
hell do you create like a Gant chart or
whatever to actually do that? And my
understanding is like production is one
of your superpowers, right? So
>> that is a very gigantic half-page
question. But
>> okay.
>> Yeah. If you could speak to basically
how you make it work,
>> how we make it work,
>> right? Because a lot of creators I think
are succumbing to the culture of
cortisol drive.
>> Mhm.
>> Where they feel like they have to keep
up, keep up, keep up often in terms of
just frequency, right? And I think
that's a really dangerous game to play
for a lot of reasons. Somebody else is
always going to be able to sacrifice or
be willing to sacrifice their entire
lives to publish more frequently. So if
that can't be your sole metric, right?
So how do you do what you do? And how do
you have to think differently, operate
differently?
>> How do we operate differently? Our
business is super antithetical to what
most creators are doing. And I started
in that place that you're referring to,
uploading multiple long form videos a
week. I mean I was uploading before Tik
Tok existed. So it was all long form.
Then of course short form came along.
But what happened at the beginning of my
career was I was trying to grow my
channel to create financial and personal
stability. I
had taken a big risk by leaving my job.
And as a part of that, the first entry
point was stability in some sense. So I
was making videos about anything I
thought would perform well and still
with my own lens, of course,
>> but I would have this strategy of I'm
going to do three videos a month for the
studio, if you will, which is a term
from traditional TV and film, where a
big director will do a big blockbuster
movie and then the studio will allow
them to do their passion project. So, I
would do that for myself or once a month
I would do a passion project. And at the
beginning of my channel, it was I would
DM stunt performers like Tom Holland's
stunt double and ask them, would you
train with me for a week and and can we
make a video together? And it was cool
because we were targeting communities
that were undervalued and unseen often.
I mean, many stunt performers aren't
allowed to share their work. And so
giving them an opportunity to highlight
their work was helpful to them and
exciting for them and exciting for me
selfishly because I want to learn how to
do all these incredible stunts and make
an amazing story about it. And I saw a
market opportunity because when you see
BTS stuff from movies, it's it's very
>> behind the scenes.
>> Yeah, behind the scenes. My apologies.
When you see behind the scenes content
from big Marvel movies, it's very
manicured and very short. And I really
wanted to give space and breathability
to this experimental process. And what
ended up happening is those passion
projects started outperforming
the things I expected to just perform
well. And it got to this point where I
was limited resource-wise, just like my
own time even, of of being able to do
more of that passion thing. And I just
decided, we decided as a team, we're
only going to focus on challenge
accepted. Let's just try that for
>> was it when did it get named Challenge
Accepted?
>> It got named Challenge Accepted after
Challenge Accepted existed. So when you
go back and look at season one of
Challenge Accepted, which is a while ago
now, I think we went back and named it
that because we're like, "Oh yeah, this
was the beginning of this show." Which
is so funny. But we were we were doing
many things on the channel and we
decided to strip away everything and
only go in on that and that is where a
true inflection point came on the
channel. I would honestly say Tim, you
were asking earlier about key decisions.
I think a lot of the inflection points
of my life have happened when my back
has been against the wall.
>> Not in a a place of I get to make a
decision, but more like I have to make a
decision because everything's going to
break if I don't. And this was a risky
decision to make to go all in on a show
where I am physically committing myself
for up to months at a time. At this
point in 2026, 2025, we release 8 to 10
episodes per year.
>> Mhm.
>> That's my upload cadence. And so every
opportunity is a is a big bet. But what
I have found is that when I did that,
something even more special happened. It
created something unique. And I have
found that defining something unique can
be even more valuable than consistency
or mass viewership. We're very blessed
that challenge accepted does get a lot
of views and we feel strong about the
bets that we make on these episodes. But
I have found that creating something
special attracts even more people to
want to support it. And so now what we
ironically have on the channel is a
scarcity mindset for advertisers that if
you want to be in an episode of
Challenge Accepted, there are 10. The
train's going. Are you getting on or are
you getting off? Because we only have so
much inventory to sell. We're able to
sell it at a premium. And it makes what
we're doing so one of
my like big thesis is whatever we do has
to be one of one. A few things come to
mind as as you're talking you know one
is
the importance of owning or creating
even better yet a category right
>> so this category of one idea
blue ocean strategy I think at least at
the time I read it which was a long time
ago 10 years ago pretty good exploration
of this but separately
as I look at the landscape now
I've had a lot of people ask me about
podcasting if you were to are now what
would you do? And
I could throw out sort of examples of
what I might do, but just from a broader
kind of meta level, I say I think it
would be very difficult for me to do
now or start now what I started in 2014,
which was kind of a broad exploration of
deconstructing world-class performers in
an interview format. Now there are 600
of those. And
if you want something that is
sustainable and this is not exactly the
right way to frame it, but premium from
a partnership perspective,
>> right? From a CPM perspective, from a
whatever perspective, the best examples
that I would try to model are shows like
yours. Although I'm not really um kind
of shy with video, so I probably
wouldn't do video first, but it would be
a show like yours. I mean, if I were 20
right now, I'd be like, "That's what I
want to do." If I could have a job, it
would be Michelle's job. I mean,
honestly, it would be. But if you want
to look at some other examples where I
probably wouldn't pursue it, but they're
doing excellent jobs. Acquired, for
instance, founders, you know, David
Senra, highly focused,
long form, very hard to replicate
because there's so much goddamn work,
right? Yes.
>> Which is true with yours also. It's
like, oh, you want to spend six months
making a video? Like, let's let's see.
It's a lot easier to publish frequently
without thinking as hard about the lead
time of doing something that's very
complex.
>> And that was part of the strategy with
challenge accepted too is you see many
people copying one another online in any
form of art. People are copying
constantly and part of our defensive
strategy was how do we do something that
is so crazy? No one would be no one
would be crazy enough I don't think to
run seven marathons on all seven
continents in in one single week and
make a documentary about it and go
through all of the production headache
of that or call the FAA 300 times to get
permission to hang off the side of a
military plane to recreate the Mission
Impossible stunt. It's almost like the
things that feel so untouchable
instantly become opportunities for story
because it's a great story to try and
overcome that.
>> And also the second mover scenario will
at least take them so long to catch up
to us to get there,
>> right? Because you're going to be the
comp. They're going to say it's like
challenge accepted but dot dot dot. And
that is going to be very difficult for
other people to overcome, right? And I
want to explore this a little bit more
because it's I think so critical and you
see it in a lot of different places.
Sometimes the hard thing
is the easier thing long term. Meaning
like if if you solve a very hard problem
upfront,
it makes your life a little easier or a
lot easier long term.
>> And this applies everywhere, right?
There's a amazing amazing guy. You
should meet him at some point.
>> Okay.
>> Jersey Gregorick and his wife Annella
Gregorick. They're Polish immigrants.
They immigrated to the US with like 10
or 100 bucks in their pocket. They were
political refugees. Landed in California
and still to this day, they both have
multiple world records in Olympic
weightlifting. And I would say they're
both around mid60s.
And Jersey can get on an indo board like
a balance board with a fully loaded
barbell and do a perfect Olympic snatch
like as to heels and then drop the
weight and repeat while balancing on a
board. He's got to be at least 65 now.
his wife Angela, who also, as I
mentioned, has a bunch of world records,
can, you know, her her daughter's, I
guess, ball got caught in a tree a few
years ago, and she just like ran up the
tree and got it and came down. I mean,
they are incredible physical specimens.
They take no prescription medications.
And the reason I'm bringing them up is
that Jersey has this expression, which
is hard choices, easy life, easy choice
is hard life. And so so it applies in
physical training and health. It applies
in
>> creation broadly speaking, right? It's
like with what you're doing, right?
You're creating a moat that is is is
very defensible in a lot of ways.
>> Yeah.
>> It applies to startups, right? Where
it's like, okay, sure. Yeah, you can
vibe code and create something in 20
minutes and that's interesting and you
should experiment with that. and the
barrier to entry has has been lowered
dramatically on the production of say an
app but the barrier to attention has
never been higher. Therefore, like there
is actually something to be said for the
hard startup being the easier startup
where if you're solving a hard problem
that requires a really good team and
like hardware and this that and the
other thing, most people are never going
to attempt it. Therefore, you actually
have a margin of safety in some respect
if you can execute. Right? So, I I just
wanted to mention that because I I see
this all over the place where
if you spend the time to work on
something hard up front, it buys you a
lot of safety.
>> Yes.
>> Is at least one way that I think about
it. And you've talked about assembling
this Formula 1 team.
>> But let's rewind because I'm sure some
people are like, "Well, if I don't have
any money and I'm just getting started,
how do you afford to hire the Formula 1
team? That sounds expensive. So, let's
go back a little bit before you became
active on YouTube. What were you doing?
>> What was I doing?
>> Yeah.
>> Gosh. So, I grew up in Shreport. Got my
first taste of the film industry there.
I went to college at Dartmouth.
>> Good school.
>> Yeah, it was great. And while I was in
college, I did some internships in the
industry, but I also did an internship
at Google. And so there I sort of saw
the behind the scenes of the platform I
guess I upload to now which was really
interesting
and as I was mentioning to you Tim a lot
of things that have driven key moments
in my life have been moments when my
back has been against the wall and one
of those moments for me was when you do
a Google internship I don't think I've
like talked about this much but when you
do a Google internship at the end of the
summer like many big internship you find
out if you get the job.
>> Mhm.
>> And you can go into your senior year of
college like, "Oh my gosh, I'm rocking.
I I got the job. I'm set. I can chill
out the last year." And there was one
day where they called everybody from my
internship class letting them know if
they got the job. And we're all in a big
text chain together and everyone's like,
"I got it. See you next year." Blah blah
blah.
>> I get my phone call.
>> I didn't get the job.
>> Yeah. And I would say that this was
pivotal and ironic now that I'm so
embedded in YouTube in a completely
different way. But what it forced me to
do was my whole life had been about as
as an athlete finding a coach doing
exactly what they tell me to do. In
school, it was here are all the books to
do well on the SAT. I will do them. I
will wake up at 5 in the morning over
the summer and memorize everything and
do it because that's the formula
>> executing to plan on the
>> exact and I think it's part of the
immigrant mentality of the holy trinity
of doctor lawyer engineer is because
those are systems for safety
>> and also from my family like with many
immigrant families they know so
intimately what instability feels like
>> and So that led me on the course that
eventually led me to Buzzfeed, which was
in many ways sort of the first creative
risk I had taken on myself. And at the
time it was the fastest growing YouTube
channel in the world.
>> What was the job that you had at
BuzzFeed?
>> So I started as an intern again.
>> Mhm.
>> And eventually I became a producer at
BuzzFeed. And producer is such a strange
term even in traditional but what it
meant at BuzzFeed was doing everything.
So I was responsible for everything from
ideiation to filming, editing, uploading
and I didn't have any of those skills
even though you know my homegrown shripp
Louisiana
shout out Vet K my dad putting on his
little AFI film school in our house. It
did not cut it for what we needed to do.
But what I loved about that was you had
to learn every part of the process.
Unlike when I interned on a traditional
film set, it's very specialized. There
are unions. You don't even touch
equipment from a department that's not
yours.
>> I've seen that. You get yelled at.
>> You and you do get yelled at. And there
are great reasons for that. But the
learning environment was so important
for me to to learn. When you ingest
footage, you can accidentally delete it
all.
that sucks. I needed to learn all of
those processes because even today now
we have an amazing team, a massive
production team
and
it helps me as a leader to be able to
empathetically chat with each
department. Yeah,
>> we've all been at companies or on film
sets where the director or CEO has never
done the jobs of anyone that they're
asking to do a job for. And I like being
able to talk to the sound person in my
basic understanding of what are the
frequencies we're on, is there anything
we need to adjust about this set that is
is disruptive to the way you have the
boom pole set up? Like I like knowing
all of the details and being able to
think critically about each department
so everyone can succeed.
>> So this is going to be a leading
question, but
>> I'm going to try it anyway. Do you think
it's fair to say that if you had not had
the BuzzFeed job and you'd gone straight
from not getting the gig at Google to
YouTube that
>> the outcome would have been very
different?
>> Exponentially different.
>> Yeah. I don't think I would have
succeeded period.
>> So, I want to spend a second on this
simply to say because I get
asked about starting companies all the
time, right? And someone's like, "I'm
graduating and I'm going to start my
company." And
I think they're sometimes surprised, and
a lot of professors disagree with me on
this, which is fine because I think that
makes for interesting conversations. But
my default recommendation is do not
start a company right after school.
>> Go get an MBA or a master's degree in X
where you get to do every job
>> where someone else is paying you for it.
>> Exactly.
>> So that you are learning learn make all
your dumb mistakes or make your first
massive round of dumb mistakes on
someone else's dime. And if you
immediately start your own company,
you're also not necessarily going to get
the breadth of experience in a more
mature and that by mature that could be
10 or 20 or 30 employees. It doesn't
have to be a gigantic company, but get
that experience first and then
increase the odds of your own success
at that point by going and starting your
own gig.
>> Right. And I'm curious if you think
that's still applies for instance in the
world of and I know this is painting
with a broad brush but YouTube if
somebody came to you and they said I
want to get really good at and the world
has changed so quickly in in terms of
video and entertainment and visual
storytelling
with a startup I would still tell
someone hey if you can I know we're all
painting this dystopian picture of
MadMax in 10 years let's just for the
time being for planning purposes assume
that's not going to be case, work at a
startup first, then start your own
startup. But in the world of visual
storytelling, would you suggest people
get a job kind of working at a place
like a Buzzfeed or something like that
before making the leap into YouTube now,
or is there a better way to learn the
skills necessary to do in-depth long-
form stuff? I definitely think having
experience working for someone else in
the field that you want to be a part of
is so educational. Not just to be in the
mail room and see how things work,
>> but also to define a core tenant list of
what you enjoy about the company and all
the little things you don't like. Mhm.
>> When I left my job, I had a very clear
list of
this worked great for for this company,
but at my company, I'm never going to do
X, Y, or Z. And that was super super
helpful to define company culture, to
ensure people's voices are heard, to
keep employee retention high.
And I think that's why with challenge
accepted, our sets operate so
differently that everybody has a digital
mind of we need to shoot it this way
because it will perform well or we're
thinking critically about retention and
the intro and whatnot, but we're also
thinking about storytelling as a medium
has been solved.
>> Traditional Hollywood, they clearly did
something right and and let's learn from
that.
It's as simple as breaking for lunch
every six hours. It's as simple as
making sure we have enough
pre-production meetings. And those are
the things that were pain points for me
at prior jobs. And I'm able to apply
them in this really special space where
we have an amazing amazing culture and
and work environment where people can
hopefully feel that they're able to
express themselves artistically,
experiment, and learn at the same time.
So, I'm trying to figure out where to go
next because
I think it's probably going to be fear
setting just because I want to hear how
that factors into things.
>> Okay,
>> why don't we just go there because I've
read about and
the whiteboard of fears and and other
things. I'm sure we'll spend a second on
cycling also, but the way that this
interview ultimately happened was
because of an exchange, right? Like I
put I put up a post about YouTube
channels. Are there any YouTube channels
out there that have some type of
intersection with the 4-hour work week
or anything in it? And that's how we we
ultimately personally connected.
How does fear setting fit into the
story?
>> Well, Tim, it fits into the story in a
few ways. Challenge accepted at its core
originally began by me taking a
whiteboard and writing all of my fears
out and then connecting each fear to a
circumstance that would cause me to
address it.
>> Not just as a like personal self-help
type of thing because I am a very
anxious person internally,
>> but more specifically because it makes
for a better story. Mhm.
>> We realized very early on showing the
vulnerability, showing the fear, that's
a key part of Snider's beats of
storytelling. So, starting with the all
is lost moment of the story led us to
unlock really, really fascinating
episodes. And we would structure the
thesis of each of like I want to be a
firefighter, but I'm not brave enough.
Okay, that's an interesting story. And
we're thinking about that in every piece
of the edit, every piece of the
pre-production. And that is the climax
of the emotional core of when I finally
go in a burning building.
>> Why we care so much? It's the same in
the Mission Impossible project. I would
love to be in a Mission Impossible
movie. But am I actually brave enough to
strap myself to the side of a plane like
icon Tom Cruz? Okay, I've got to do that
first. But I actually brought something,
Tim.
>> You brought something?
>> I brought something to help demonstrate
fear setting.
>> Okay,
>> I'm going to bring it out now.
>> Yeah, let's do I'll describe it for the
audio listeners.
>> No, I ren
the colors.
>> Okay. Unfortunately, you are dealing
with a fan in the chair opposite from
you. But reading the 4-hour work week
changed my life.
>> This is the original copy I have from
2016. I was a bit young when it came out
in 2007, so I didn't have that that
version. So, this might be slightly
revised, but I went back into my
archives
>> and I found this email.
The date is, what is today? March 31st,
2026.
>> Mhm.
>> The date of this email,
I'm not making this up. March 18th,
2016. It has been exactly 10 years since
I sent this email.
>> Okay. I have to shout out my therapist
Jodie because she's the one who told me
to read your book and I wanted to read a
section of my fear setting.
>> Oh my god. Amazing.
>> Now, as you know, because these are your
memories in your brain. This was prior
to the define
prevent repair chart of your 2017
talk.
>> So, this isn't even in a chart. These
are just a couple of questions that you
had. But I wrote here this 20. This is
so crazy. My dream is to leave my job,
start a YouTube channel, somehow
succeed, own my ideas, and start a
company where I can grow as a
storyteller and help other storytellers
grow without traditional barriers to
entry.
>> Number one, define your nightmare. I'm
just going to read a few of the
highlights,
>> please. Oh, yeah. No, take your time. to
find my nightmare was going broke, never
figuring out what I'm best at since I
find the most joy in trying everything
rather than specializing.
People not thinking I'm funny. And the
last one is actually not being funny.
>> And of course, I went through the steps
of repairing the damage.
>> Do you have any examples there? Of
course. Yeah. Yeah. Because for just I
want to give like a quick
No, no, not spiel. Just like a quick
context rapper. So, fear setting is a
pretty straightforward thing. It's
basically barred from the Stoics. I'm
not the first person to look at this. I
just tried to systematize it for myself.
It was in the 4-hour work week. And it's
like goal setting, but it's identifying
your fears very specifically
>> and then making them as concrete as
possible, then talking about what you
might do to prevent them and or repair
them if they inevitably happened. And
the objective here is to in a sense
demystify and take your fears from being
this nebulous cloud of anxiety to
something that you can put under a
microscope
>> to test.
>> Yes. So the first part is defining the
nightmare. The second is what steps
would you take to repair the damage even
temporarily? And here I had
using some
using using my savings from my Google
internship.
>> Yeah. So, I did have savings from that.
And then making sure that my resume or
LinkedIn was ready for other jobs in the
industry. This is number three. If you
were fired from your job today, how
would you get things under financial
control? And I I said that I would
temporarily use my savings and if that
didn't work out, aggressively apply for
other jobs. Enlisted some other
companies I would reach out to. This is
where it gets very intense. What are you
putting off out of fear? I'm putting off
quitting my job. I'm putting off
reaching out to all the people I need to
to make this dream a reality because it
means I have to say it out loud. I've
reached out to some people, but I know I
can do better. What is it costing you
financially, emotionally, physically to
postpone action?
I'm under emotional high stress. I want
to tell stories that really resonate
with other people. I want to be around
people who share creative joy in the
same values of quality that I do. I am
unhappy in an environment where I feel
like people feel the opposite. What are
you waiting for? So this is the last
section. I'm waiting for a false sense
of security to inspire me to take a
leap. A brand offering to collaborate,
someone else offering financial
stability, etc.
But I'm actually being challenged and
invited to create my own security for
the first time. I have
Oh, this is like crazy to read.
I've continually found success in other
people's rubric of success, but I've
actually never found happiness.
I've
never designed
my own rubric of success
and that's because I don't trust myself
to define success.
I'm scared to assume that
responsibility.
That was my fear setting.
It's very personal process.
>> It is.
>> I know you and anyone listening who have
actually like done it can can empathize
with that.
>> Mhm. I'm a very emotional person as you
can see from my videos. It's real.
>> Anyways, I was so excited to share that
with you.
>> I'm so moved by you sharing that and I
really appreciate you bringing that.
>> Yeah, of course.
>> And you [ __ ] did it also, right?
>> God, that's crazy. Like, guys, it works.
It It actually works. Wait, I didn't
tell you the funniest part of this. Here
was the funniest part. So, this has
obviously been on my bookshelf for 10
years at this point, and I am a copious
like you, handwriter, notetaker. I beat
up my books. I write in the margins and
proof. I mean, like, this is you can see
the wear and tear on this thing. But
when I opened this, there was absolutely
no annotation. And I was like, why is
this? And I I felt stumped on it. And it
wasn't until I found this email where it
was revealed. Okay, this is how I wrote
to my therapist with the chart.
OMG, all caps. I am obsessed with the
4hour work week. Several exclamation
points. I just got the book on Monday
from my coworker and I've been reading
it incessantly every night. Here's my
fear setting exercise.
I stole this book apparently.
And I sat and I was like I called my
therapist last night before the
recording. I was like, who would I have
borrowed this book from? I couldn't I
have no idea whose book is in my lap
right now, but it's been on my shelf for
10 years. Whoever it is, I'm so sorry.
By the way, I did buy all of your other
books, so I did contribute to that
economy, but I have a stolen Tim Ferris
book.
>> I should like contribute to the cycle
and donate it to a library or something.
But
>> oh my god, that is so good. It's so
funny because the person from my job who
let me borrow and steal this has no idea
how much they impact me because I don't
even remember who it was. I mean, we
were all in a bullpin with 30 desks. I
probably just borrowed it from someone
who sat next to me. But
>> so here's a follow-up question on the on
the fear setting. And this isn't a trick
question because when people
experience
any
ambitious or scary journey for
themselves, often the same thing.
>> It's not a straightforward line up and
to the right. It's a bumpy path.
>> After doing that, when did you take
action towards realizing the dream?
could have been a very small thing. I
don't know. But like what was the kind
of defining first step that kind of set
you on the actual path to realizing what
you laid out?
>> I took action pretty immediately, but it
took me a year to quit my job. And I'll
define what the difference is. I took
action immediately by this might be
crazy. This was a Tim Ferrris
experiment. I really resonated with what
you wrote about
coming to terms with the worst possible
outcome.
>> And so I decided I'm going to train
myself for the worst possible outcome.
>> I love it.
>> So I moved into a studio apartment with
a roommate.
>> I cut like like financially stripped
down. I mean, I didn't have much
anyways, but stripped as much as I could
to simulate if if I'm truly failing at
this and having having to live in a
Hollywood apartment with a bunch of
roommates. I'm just going to get used to
that. I'm going to get used to it right
now. I'm going to cancel all of my
memberships and figure out how to stay
healthy with just myself. Just myself in
in this small place. I am also going to
commit to working on my own stories
after work on the weekends because if I
can't do it now with stability, I I need
to prove to myself that I actually give
a [ __ ] about this really. And I did that
for an entire year.
growing a little bit of a personal
savings but also growing mental and
physical stamina towards
I'm already in still a place of safety
of course but I am in a situation where
I think I can handle this I got this
like the LinkedIn is up to date the
resume is up to date I am so ready I
have defined prevent and hopefully we
don't got to go to that third column
repair and so then a year later exactly
I quit my job. And when I quit, I had
two months of videos backlogged, ready
to go. Also, legally, for the record, on
my own machine, not company resources.
All of that was ready to go. And I knew
what my first big project would be,
training with stunt doubles. I had a
shoot date ready. I had taken, you know,
I only had like three months of savings
at that point. And I had had allocated
this is going to be for the dream
project, my first risk on my channel.
Nothing will touch that. The rest is is
for operating daily life expenses. And I
said, I got three months to to make this
work. And like you said, you know, like
we've been talking about sometimes you
got to put your back against the wall
and go.
>> I love this. So So this is I feel like
we were separated at birth. So So
a few things I I'll say. number one to
try to not that I have I'm not a paragon
of self-awareness but I I will say that
I for different reasons have a certain
like hypervigilance focus on safety and
security which might sound strange to
people listening but I'm always trying
to risk mitigate right I'm actually I
don't view myself as a big risk taker I
have done a few things that have ended
up with me accumulating injuries that
maybe in retrospect shouldn't have done
But broadly speaking, I'm always trying
to mitigate risk, which is underscores
this entire fear setting exercise,
right? Cuz it's not just about
convincing yourself. It's also in my
mind completely intertwined with what
you did, which is
preparing
and training yourself and your
circumstances, right? So
when I flash back to starting my first
company, it's like how did I start the
first company? I started my first
company during lunch hours, evenings,
and weekends basically while still doing
my other job and doing my other job
well.
>> Mhm.
>> But I wanted to have a head start so
that I wasn't beginning from scratch
after quitting a job. Right. So I did
that. By the way, you're simultaneously
developing skills as you're doing that
and proving that you don't need the
crutch or the or the training wheels of
your company,
>> right,
>> to enable you to do those things, right?
So, the moonlighting aspect, this is
another thing that that
at least in in my mind maybe conflicts
with
how some listeners might think about me,
but there's a difference between I'd be
curious to hear you speak to this.
There's a difference between putting
your back against a wall, in other
words, like highly pushing yourself to
make a decision,
>> and like burning all the ships and
burning all the bridges.
And the way I would frame the difference
is
when like a year to the to the day
almost, right, you quit your job and
you're setting up this groundwork and
you have some videos ready to go and you
were in where were you at the time? This
was in
>> in LA.
>> In LA. So, you've got probably Cobra,
right? You might have some like residual
health care after you quit. I'm not sure
what how it was set up benefit-wise, but
like in my company, I knew I had at
least like a handful of months where I
wasn't going to have to pay for my own
healthare. And in that case, right, as
you're thinking about what could I do
if this fails, right? If it doesn't work
out, what could I do? You've got your
LinkedIn and resume ready to go.
>> Yeah.
>> Right. And in my fear setting, and for a
lot of people, it's like, well, I could
get like a temp waitering job. I could
>> bartend. I could sell a bunch of my
furniture. I could sell my piece of [ __ ]
used car and, you know, take public
transport. I could whatever, right?
Sleep on an air mattress in a friend's
room. So, in a sense, like you've proven
to yourself that the permanent
irreversible risk is actually low,
right? while at the same time propelling
yourself towards this like defining
decision which is like taking the leap
>> and I think the emotional stability of
that decision is important. You want to
be able to brainstorm what should I do
in the worst case scenario from a place
of safety which is what I had at the job
still. So I was able to be creative
about thinking about solutions without
being panicked at the same time in that
situation.
>> Exactly. What an amazing story. What
fun. And it's so it's a recipe, right?
It's replicable. It's going to be
different for every person, but it is
actually it's a formula that works like
a lot of things. And
I I want to also mention a few things
that come to mind just to draw some
parallels. So you mentioned
BuzzFeed where you learn to do all of
these different jobs, right? And there's
a benefit to that above and beyond the
expertise of say spot-checking your
team's work or something like that. Your
team will also respect you more because
they know you have done the thing you
are asking them to do which you did kind
of mention in passing but it's really
important right I think of I have some
PTSD memories of this book but the
4-hour chef like which which which
confusingly is a book about accelerated
learning actually tried to do a lot with
that book very proud of it think it
worked but the reason I bring it up is
there's a chef who's profiled in that
named Grant Ackets who was basically
one of two superheroes in a sense. I
mean, they both have superpowers, right?
You had Grant Ackets, the like chef
Vundakint genius, and then you have Nick
Kakonis, who I've become very close
friends with, who is a former
genius options trader at the in Chicago
who then decides to get in touch with
Grant. He he's magical at cold emailing,
which I want to talk to you about. Very
good at cold emailing. and they got
together and Nick is from a business
kind of challenging and redesigning of
systems perspective incredible. But the
reason I bring it up is that Grant
can work every station in the restaurant
better than everybody else. which is not
to say automatically that I or you can
do that with all of our team members,
but he's at at the very least incredibly
good at each of the stations so that he
can when need be improve systems, change
things. He can also teach and coach. He
can give feedback and if he gives
feedback, people take it seriously
because they know he's done it himself
and he knows what he's talking about,
right? So there's a huge advantage to
that and it makes your mistakes later
less expensive also and it it allows you
to hire more effectively whether that
hiring is a contractor or full-time.
>> Mhm.
>> Okay. So you I just wrote this down and
I I have to mention it because like
basically I'm living vicariously through
you now.
>> Oh my god. um in a sense because your
channel is like oh my god like that's if
I could have sort of self authored a
path to doing that like oh man what an
amazing thing and I know there's a lot
under the hood and behind the scenes
that I'm sure is very difficult which
we'll talk about but if you have not
connected and maybe you've graduated on
from the stunt work and so on but Damen
Walters have you seen Damian Walters?
>> No.
>> Okay. I don't know if he's still in the
game, but Damen Walters, he's a former
highle British gymnast who then entered
the world of stunt work and just has the
most insane yearly highlight videos that
he put out for a while. This is an older
vintage. He's been doing it a long time.
But in any case, I thought he could be
>> incredibly fun to connect with at some
point.
>> That's awesome.
>> I've never really interacted with him,
so I can't so much love and heart for
the stunt community. That's really where
the channel started. And the stunt
coordinator that I work with today, his
name is Steve Brown.
>> And this is how crazy the world is,
right? Back in
2016, so a few months after I sent this
email, I went to a kebab shop in LA, sat
down at the counter, and was just eating
dinner by myself. And I I remember I was
really critically thinking about this
decision of going off on my own and
applying this. And this guy comes in,
sits next to me. We just start talking,
have a nice conversation, go our
separate ways. I go on to start my
channel and do what I'm doing. He goes
on to choreograph and do stunts and lead
stunts for Logan, several Marvel
projects, and most recently all of the
Avatar films.
>> That guy also does all of the stunt
coordination on our channel.
>> That's incredible. Um and it's amazing
that when you meet people who are
passionate like you know when you meet a
flavor of a person before they have hit
their
>> their peak moment it's special to
connect with them and and rise together.
And that's what's been awesome about
Steve is between his Avatar movies he'll
come over and strap me to the side of a
plane or throw me in the Houdini tank
and and make sure that everything's okay
because we have that we have that kebab
friendship.
Well, this speaks also to putting
yourself in the center of the action,
right? And I've had very famous investor
named Bill Gurley on the show before I
sat where you're sitting right now,
legendary investor, and he talks about
this a lot, which is putting yourself
where the action is. Right. So, if you
want to have those types of connections,
it's less likely to happen in a small
town in Montana than it is in Los
Angeles.
>> Right.
>> Right. Similarly, depending on your
industry, IRL still matters a lot,
right? As much as we would like to think
it doesn't, it's like if you want to be
in certain games and tech and you want
to have access to the talent, etc.,
still to this day in in a lot of
instances, you have to be in San
Francisco or somewhere near San
Francisco. That's just where you have to
be.
>> And this is coming from the the virtual
guy.
>> It is. It is. And yet, if you look at
what the virtual guy did, because I was
trying and wanted to get involved in
tech and then ultimately angel
investing, where was I? I was in the Bay
Area for 17 years.
>> Mhm.
>> If I had not done that, I think my
success would have had a 0% likelihood.
>> I mean, literally 0%. If I look at how a
lot of the ultimately best advising or
investing relationships came together,
they almost all started with Chance
Encounters at the equivalent of a kebab
shop, right? I go to a barbecue at
someone's house and like accidentally
bump into someone and spill their drink
and start a conversation and then boom,
that turns into like one of the most
ends up defining 30% of my net worth,
right? I
sure there's luck involved, but you have
to provide and I'm borrowing this term
from someone else, but surface area for
luck.
>> So, what have we learned? Barbecue,
kebab, spilling drinks, key to success,
30% of Tim's chapter one. Chapter one,
bump into people. actually really could
be. The other thing I wanted to mention
is you talked about in a sense and this
is not the most elegant way to put it,
but like practicing poverty, right? That
was one of your fears, right? It was
like running out of money, right? So,
you move into the apartment where you're
sharing a studio with someone else or
multiple people and you get rid of your
memberships and so on and you prove to
yourself
number one, you can certainly survive.
Number two, probably it's not that bad.
Like you can figure it out. And sure,
maybe if you're depending on the
roommate, I mean, you might want to get
rid of said roommate. But it reminded me
of not to belabor this, but since the
genesis of fear setting is stoic
philosophy and the stoics, Senica the
Younger talks about practicing in this
way. very close friend of mine, Kevin
Kelly, who was the founding editor of
Wired magazine and fascinating person on
all levels. Also has a big Amish beard
and has spent time with the Amish to
study how they accept or reject
technology, etc., etc. really
interesting guy, but he also, I don't
know if he does it anymore, he's got to
be mid70s now, but he used to routinely
spend periods of time, I want to say
every year, where he would just camp out
in his living room in a sleeping bag and
have like instant coffee and instant
oatmeal and just do that for like a week
>> and he's like, "Oh, yeah, great. Yeah, I
don't really need that much." Yeah. And
by doing that, it gives you
courage, which I think is a practiced
skill, right? Your subconscious has to
believe that you can do something. It's
you can't just read books and suddenly
have confidence in all situations. And I
mean, you're I think a walking example
of of how you can do that.
>> So, my question for you, Formula 1 team,
all right, Formula 1 is expensive,
right? It's like these cars in some
cases are like what $250 million, right?
When you start to add everything in
pricey, yes, very high performance. But
when you quit your job and you're like,
I have 3 months.
>> Mhm.
>> How did you assemble or enroll the help
that you needed in the early days, the
first like 3 to 6 months after quitting
your job? Or did you just do everything
yourself? I don't know. Right. So, what
did it look like in the early days?
Because once you get some momentum, sure
you get some money coming in. Okay, you
can start to add, you can start to
upgrade, you can start to do various
things, but in the beginning, you're
very capital constrained, right?
>> Yes.
>> What do you do? How did you assemble the
help that you needed or enlist it?
>> This is a strategy I employ for every
challenge I take on now. And hindsight
is 2020. And with that 2020 hindsight, I
think it comes down to having three
people on your Formula 1 team. And it
doesn't need to be fancy. It's really
a coach, a mentor, and a cheerleader.
>> Okay.
>> What does that mean?
>> Yeah.
>> In a specific episode of Challenge
Accepted, the coach is the most
important person that I want to find
before we pursue an episode, like
>> in a recent episode, I attempted to get
a black belt in taekwond do in only 90
days. In martial arts, that's a somewhat
controversial thing to even attempt to
do. Mhm.
>> And so I knew I could only do it with
the blessing of a really respected
master. So objective number one was to
find the best master and coach in the
world. And I think it's important to to
find someone and again I'll give an
example for what I did in that specific
situation. But that's number one for me
because this is the person I'm going to
be spending all of this time with and
learning from them. The second person is
a mentor who is different from the
coach. This is a person who has most
recently
done the thing you're trying to do. So
for me, that's other students in the
black ballot class. They're my mentors.
They have gone through this process.
They know what it's feels like to break
a brick with their hands and get through
that. Mhm.
>> And it's important that it's different
from the coach because coaching is a
different skill set and art form from
mentoring.
>> Also, it's harder for the coach to put
themselves in your shoes because so much
of what they do is second nature and
they're probably decades removed from
the experience you're about to have.
>> You want someone who has the experience
of leading somebody to that finish line
of greatness. And you also want someone
who knows what it feels like to be the
man in the arena. Mhm.
>> And then the third person is a
cheerleader, which is someone who is
completely detached from the outcome. So
for me, that's my best friend Olivia. It
could be a sibling, friend, family
member, someone who is going to root for
you and love you no matter whether you
succeed or fail. So that's how I
approach every single challenge on the
channel. Metawise, at the beginning of
the channel, what was that for me? It
was the mentor figure or figures for me
were other people who had recently
started channels and were just a few
steps ahead of me in the process. Maybe
they had 50,000 subscribers. Maybe they
had 100,000 subscribers. They were
people I met at little meetups at, rest
in peace, the YouTube space, which
doesn't exist anymore. But those peer
groups were really special and important
to me to keep me motivated and to just
reach out to people even today. Reaching
out to other creators, what do you guys
think of this thumbnail? What do you
think of these titles? Having people who
are just a couple steps ahead of you or
on similar playing fields can be so so
helpful in that process.
The cheerleader for me at that time was
was my sister Maline who was one of the
only people I told I was going to quit
my job and and fully believed in me. And
then the coach figure for me when I was
starting from ground zero was
cold emailing
people I respected. Now, that's not the
same as having a coach who's with you
every day in the way mastery is training
taekwond do with me every day. But I saw
those as coaching opportunities because
they were people light years ahead who
had the teaching component, I should
say, of being able to advise even in
small doses.
>> What did those emails look like?
>> Okay, I love a great email. You
mentioned that you have an amazing cold
emailer. I I need to to see their art
and their work because I I love
comparing notes on emails.
I personally believe that a really
well-written email can open any door.
>> I agree. By the way, assuming the person
sees it, right, there's there's some
friction, but
>> true,
>> but people underestimate
what they can do.
>> I agree. And there's there's something
about an email that's different from an
Instagram DM or I don't know. I love an
email. Well, I love a Google calendar.
This is where we're talking about true
passions to emails.
So, when at the beginning of my channel,
when we didn't have millions of
subscribers,
>> and we wanted to collaborate with
institutions like the FBI, the Secret
Service, and ultimately, we became some
of the first YouTube channels to ever do
that. came from not a producer, not a
friend of a friend sending email, but me
sending a cold email. An example of that
is I wanted to do a video with the FBI.
So, I went on FBI.gov. I called the
1-800 number of the FBI, which by the
way is for like crime tips, which I
didn't realize.
And I pitched them this idea over the
phone and they're like, "So, I'm here to
receive crime tips, but I can connect
you to someone else." And I wasn't
anticipating that. I thought it would
kind of be a dead end.
>> So, I just want to pause here for the
specifics.
>> Ring ring. Hello. FBI 800 number. What
are you What are you saying?
>> Hi, my name is Michelle K. I know this
might come off as a little strange or
unexpected, but I was trying to contact
someone in your department who might
work with film and television. I'm a
content creator online. We have several
hundred thousand subscribers and I was
hoping to talk about a collaboration.
>> All right, great.
>> And usually they're like, YouTube, what?
But this person was was generous enough
to connect me to someone else and we
kind of got kicked down a few a few
different routes. But we ended up
connecting with someone called the
Hollywood guy. This is a job at the FBI.
He's just like, "How did I get stuck in
this department?" Every email that comes
over the transom about some kind of film
television thing.
>> It's the Hollywood guy. And now this is
the person within the Federal Bureau of
Investigation
who is assigned to
documentaries or even scripted shows to
ensure that the seal of the FBI is
accurately and and not displayed not
misrepresented or or shown in a
derogatory manner.
>> This is the guy who did the McDonald's
Monopoly HBO documentary. He He was the
FBI's representative for that amazing
docky series.
>> I'm sorry. I'm not familiar with this.
Monopoly, like the game Monopoly.
>> Oh my god, you're not familiar. What is
this called? I think Oh, the
documentary. It's called McMillions.
>> Okay.
>> Have you heard of this doc?
>> I mean, what is it about Happy Meals or
something?
>> Riveting documentary series.
>> McMillions. Okay.
>> Oh, Tim, you're going to love it.
>> So, there's probably some fraud involved
and the FBI gets involved. Do you
remember in the '9s, 2000s, there was
the Monopoly game at McDonald's? Sure.
Where you could peel off the sticker and
see if you won a vacation or a bunch of
money. Turns out all of the winners of
that
>> were all related in some way.
>> Or they figured out how to game the
system. They're all family relatives or
friends of friends or people within this
group of people that they hired
>> to win.
>> I don't want to reveal how they did it
because it's riveting. The documentary
tells the story from the perspective of
the FBI agents who uncovered it,
>> right? So, Hollywood guy gets an email.
Hey,
>> so this guy just did McMillions, one of
the, you know, an incredible docu series
for HBO.
>> Gets an email from me. YouTuber
and effectively what happened was he was
like, "Well, I'm retiring in a couple
months. Let's try it out."
>> It's so wild how these things work out
sometimes.
>> It's amazing.
>> Now, so that again, this like surface
area for luck, right? Like you have to
have some pinballs in the pinball
machine
>> for the possibility of something like
that happening.
Is there anything else in your email or
communication with the Hollywood guy
that you think increased the likelihood
of him saying yes?
>> I do. I think a great email and a cold
email specifically has to have some key
components. The first is the subject
line needs to show your value to the
reader. For me right now, it would look
like something and I'll be totally
honest. Collaboration with Michelle
Caren this many followers. In the
beginning, that was a small number for
me, but I still put it in the subject
line. It could be a number of views. It
could be collaborated with X, Y, and Z
institutions.
It just needs to be enough for the
reader to see some value in what you're
doing. Then the body of the email is
three paragraphs, very short paragraphs.
In fact, three blocks of two sentences
each. I wouldn't even call it a
paragraph. The first paragraph is
One sentence about who you are and your
legitimacy has to be encompassed in one
sentence. Hi, my name is Michelle K. I'm
a content creator with this many
followers
and I've done this, this, and this. It's
very succinctly proving your value.
Second sentence of that first paragraph,
what are you asking for or offering to
the other person? And ideally, you're
doing both. You're you're offering
something. Second sentence of that email
to the FBI would be, "I'm reaching out
to inquire about an opportunity
to film a collaboration
for my channels."
>> What you're offering there is access to
our audience
in the eyes of many of the people we
collaborate with. It's a marketing
opportunity potentially,
>> recruiting opportunity.
>> Yeah, something like that. Paragraph two
is two sentences or less of what you
want to do. This would be the details of
we're hoping to do a shoot following
just a few days of the academy embedding
in existing activities ultimately
leading up to a final scenario as
follows academy protocol. So that second
paragraph is about a window into the
vision you hope to come to together and
a peak at some of the resources you
might be asking for. And ideally, you do
it in such a way that you show you've
done your homework. You know, I'm not
just cold emailing the FBI hoping to do
a video with them. I know very clearly
I've watched everything I can online
about what does the academy take to do?
What are the activities? What are the
ones that are best for camera? So,
you're showing your
it's an opportunity to flatter them and
to to put them at ease. We speak the
same language. So, that there's that.
Paragraph three is the call to action.
Two sentences or less.
Would love to hop on the phone. Let me
know a good time. Here's my phone
number. Text me anytime. I think that's
honestly potentially the most important
part. Here's my phone number. Text me
anytime. This is an anti- Tim Ferrris
tactic potentially.
>> Not when I'm sending cold emails to to
to people who are very busy that I want
to connect with. And what that does is
say, "I'm available. I don't know you,
but here's my phone number." It
exhibits, "I'm trusting you."
>> And it says, "You don't have to respond
with a crazy detailed formal email back
to me. Hit me up anytime. We can talk on
the phone." It removes the barrier to
entry for them to have to come back to
you.
>> And then have a nice email signature.
You know
>> what is a nice email signature?
>> Just uh in a sans Sarah font. Maybe add
a little color.
>> No comic sands. I'm not kidding.
>> No comic sands. No times in your room.
Tim, it's not 2007 anymore.
>> No, I saw this photograph. I have a lot
of friends who work at Google and there
was this big like printed out sign to to
employees talking about like snacks or
things and refrigerators and it was in
comic sands and then someone else took a
marker and wrote on it. They're like,
"This is Google and it is a serious
place of work. Please do not use comic
sands. I just thought it was pretty
funny because there are a lot of people
with high IQ at Google who may not have
the social graces, but I have to agree
on comic sands. So, let me say a few
things about this email.
>> Okay,
>> I in some ways owe my entire career as
it is to cold emails. And what you learn
in crafting
cold emails is directly translatable to
in person and talking to people. In a
way, it's the same thing. There are some
differences, but I want to highlight a
couple of things that you just said.
Number one, including your cell phone.
>> Mhm.
>> I am shocked by how many emails I get
that are actually somewhat interesting.
they get surfaced by my team because I
have people who triage my email
that do not have a phone number and I'm
like I don't have time to have a bunch
of my team does not have time to do a
bunch of back and forth to figure out a
time to talk even though you didn't even
offer a time to talk and blah blah blah
blah blah blah blah
archive like I just don't have time for
it like this seems interesting but it's
not definitively interesting if you gave
a cell phone I would figure out a way to
maybe call you and for five minutes. I'd
be like, I have three quick questions.
Interesting. But like this is it, five
minutes.
>> And in a friendly way, obviously, it's
like include if it's important to you,
include your cell phone.
>> And I think it's important to include
it. This is just me personally as the
final sentence of the email, not tucked
under your name. No,
>> you want to truly invite them.
>> Make it explicit. 100% agreed.
>> So, I want to just mention a couple of
direct parallels between what you just
mentioned is this formula. And if you're
open to it, maybe we could share like a
few examples or a template of
>> a downloadable PDF on Tim. Blog.
>> Well, exactly. PDF for a blog post or
something or like show notes just so
people can actually see it.
>> Yes, of course.
>> And I will just draw a few parallels.
So, number one, you need credibility up
front. And one way to think about this,
and I I always if I'm thinking about
reaching out to someone who's above my
pay grade, and trust me, there's I mean
there are plenty of people who are way
above my pay grade. The first thing in
the subject line, I'll give a tip that I
sometimes use. So, let's just say that
who knows. All right, somebody knows,
you know, Mr. Beast or Tom Cruz or
whoever it might be. Now, practically
speaking, everything's going to have to
get routed through someone else for Tom
Cruz. And if you do get their personal
information, they're going to be very
annoyed. Um, so, but where I'll start
with the subject line is one of two
places or both. So you mentioned like
the credibility indicator in the
subject, right? I'll use that. But if we
actually have someone in common who
actually recommended I connect,
>> but they haven't made the intro, I will
say for instance,
it would be again just to use the Tom
Cruz example, who I think would make an
amazing interview, but like for Tom Cruz
via
mutual connection,
>> oo,
>> Tim Ferrris, whatever the credibility
indicator is, right? So I will mention
the mutual connection first because
subject lines often get truncated on
mobile or elsewhere.
>> So if they just see for Tom Cruz from
Tim Ferris is going to be like who the
[ __ ] is Tim Ferrris archive.
>> They see the name they know
>> if it's for Tom or for Tom Cruz via
person who actually made the suggestion
and then my name you have a huge
advantage because chances are it's going
to get truncated. I love the via I've
done referral from X and then my stuff
after, but I like the via because it
doesn't necessarily mean that they're
going to have to vet and call that
person up, you know.
>> Yeah, exactly. Well, that brings up
another point, which is if you're going
to mention mutual connections and I'm
shocked by how many people violate this.
You better actually know, assume the
person you're emailing is going to
immediately text those people
>> and they will.
>> And I certainly will. And I would say
nine times out of 10 that person's like
either I have no idea who that person is
or I met that person once and we shook
hands at a party. I don't know them at
all. And I'm like you're gone. You just
misrepresented implicitly or explicitly.
>> But when I'm writing an email, right,
I'll have that subject line. If there is
a via I'll include that name and with
and the subject line I'll keep as short
as possible. Then the always default to
Mr. or Mrs. or Ms. something like
something that I really appreciate about
you because it doesn't cost anything is
you are very default polite and even
though it makes me feel like an old
bastard, you said you were like yes sir
and you used sir with me a couple times
when you came in and it's no but you're
always better off being on the safe side
and I am consistently surprised and
maybe this just makes me a salty
crotchety
>> old bastard but when people are
Hey, hey, Tim. Yo, bro. Yo, Ferris or
whatever. I'm just like, did we go to
pizza?
>> Someone says, "Yo, Ferris."
>> I've got so many guys, it's always guys
who think that that bro, it could be
anything, but they think that like
shoulder slapping immediate camaraderie
is helpful. I will say that's a very
risky gambit. Maybe it works one out of
10 times. In my case, I'm just like
>> this is a liability, right? Because
here's how I think about it is I'm like,
well, even if it doesn't bother me, that
shows a general lack of awareness. And
if they're going to ask me to connect
them with someone or they're going to
work with anyone who I care about and
they pull that
>> Mhm.
>> it's a reputational risk. And so most of
the time that's going to be an auto
archive. It's going to be like, you know
what, like the people you're reaching
out to, if they're really busy and if
they're well known enough that you think
to email them have more opportunities
than they can even look at.
>> So your your job number one is don't do
anything stupid.
Don't don't do anything that's going to
disqualify your email.
>> And the yo fairest of it all emotionally
feels as if a stranger is coming up to
you at the airport and giving you a hug.
Whoa, wait, who are you? What? Like
that's what it feels like. Just another
pro tip, this because we're in Austin
and this is like kind of man bun baggy
pants slash like Bitcoin Iaska CrossFit
Central is like don't just walk up to
someone you don't know and say after
they offer a hand, oh I'm a hugger and
just go for the hug. Don't do that. Like
just really don't do that.
>> Like assume you're in Japan and they're
going to strike you down with a sword if
you do that. Like the person who wants
the most distance wins that
conversation. It's kind of like skiing
in the back country with avalanche risk
or something. Whoever's the most
concerned gets to veto. But let's come
back to the cold email. So we've got the
subject line, different subject lines
for different purposes. In the first
line, it's going to be credibility
indicator. All right. Couple of points
on this, right? So you've got like your
credibility indicator in the subject
line potentially also which I will also
do,
you know, be like for interview
parenthesis 1 billion plus downloads,
right? In the case of the podcast,
right? something like that,
>> right? And I'll note for if you don't
have a billion downloads or millions of
followers, in the beginning for me, it
was examples of the work. Yeah.
>> That would at least show I've I've done
my homework.
>> No one's watched this, but it looks
really really good and it's it
beautifully edited.
>> Yeah. So, I am going to come back and
ask you about just to plant the seed,
the mentors in the very early days when
you didn't really have
>> much, right? Like what that email looked
like. We're going to come back to that.
>> I'll give my example. When I first got
to Silicon Valley, I volunteered for
organizations that had name cache. So I
volunteered for, for instance, Tai, the
indis entrepreneur last time, I'm sure
people checked. I'm not Indian but Thai
super wellknown at the time maybe still
entrepreneurial organization like the
per capita density in the kind of Indian
diaspora in Silicon Valley with talent
is [ __ ] bananas
>> shout out those people
>> exactly and u so I volunteered there and
then I could say I'm emailing someone in
tech and it would be for so and so via
Tai or the indis entrepreneur and I
wouldn't even put my name cuz who the
hell am I? And that gets the email open.
So, I would volunteer and then do things
on behalf of the nonprofit as a way of
establishing some kind of relationship.
Ideally, inviting them to speak or
something like that.
>> All for free, by the way. Right. Like
some of the highest paying jobs you'll
ever get, you don't get paid for in the
beginning in my opinion.
>> I love that.
>> It does pay in dividends ways you don't
expect.
>> Yeah. I did that and ultimately had for
instance Jack Canfield who co-created
Chicken Soup for the Soul which has sold
hundreds and hundreds of millions of
copies and then they ultimately sold as
a franchise. But I met him through an
email like that from the Silicon Valley
Association of Startup Entrepreneurs and
we are still friends to this day 25
years later or whatever it is. And he's
the one who introduced me to the agent
who ultimately sold the 4-hour work week
after like 26 rejections. So long-term
greedy, not short-term greedy, right?
Like you don't need to be paid upfront
for something that will ultimately be
very very
>> important to your life, right? To the
email for the credibility indicator. And
guys, we'll give some templates just so
you don't have to piece this together in
like a momento fashion, but I like to
and I suggest include some text that
establishes who you are. If someone
says, "Hey, here I am, Link, and like a
sketchy attachment." I'm like, "I don't
have time to go on some scavenger hunt
to figure out who you are." Right? So,
include a line or two on who the hell
you are. Do you know what I mean?
>> Yes.
>> Don't require them to like click through
and find this, this, and this, and this,
and this, and this.
>> A hyperl here.
>> Uh-uh.
>> Yeah. It's not enough.
>> You know what I mean? When it's like
click here. No, it should be and I've
done this thing. Hyp hyperlink the and
I've done this thing.
>> Exactly.
>> So if I want to learn more
>> Yeah. And just to give people some intel
on that,
one reason for that is that it just
takes more time for someone and any you
need to remove the reasons for them to
say no. And you might think to yourself
like who the hell doesn't have 30
seconds or a minute to click through.
And I'm like somebody who gets a
thousand email a day. That's answer
number one. Number two, anyone who is
reasonably wellknown has a lot of
fishing attacks. Like they have people
from different vectors who are trying to
get them to click on links that are very
dangerous
>> and intended to to steal information or
set the team up for social engineering.
So
>> I have been a recipient of a false
you're invited to the Tim Ferrris
podcast email.
>> Oh yeah, those that's a very clever
scam. Do you know how that works?
>> No.
>> Okay. So, how that works? This is
because these are still going around. I
think the jig is up because people have
realized most of these are fake. But, so
I'm guessing the email was like, "We
place people or we're inviting you on
the show." Either if they're not very
sophisticated, they'll be like, "It
costs this much to go on the show." And
then anyone who knows me should be like,
"That doesn't sound right." But there's
there's kind of like this payforplay
thing which most people will sniff out.
The other one is let's get on a Zoom
call and discuss. And what happens is
you get on a Zoom call and they somehow
figure out a way to get you to provide
basically screen access, not just
sharing screen, but screen access. And
they'll take you to your Facebook page
or something like that and they will
hijack your Facebook page, then use it
to promote like a crypto scam on a large
page and then hold that for ransom also
to get money from you. So, this is just
a way of saying guys include some
[ __ ] text. Um, right. And then to
your point again, like be very clear
about the ask.
>> The number of emails I get that is like
even if they establish, hey, I'm like
credible, but I'm not like, you know, a
president or the CEO of a Fortune50
company. It's like if if they're like,
okay, this might be kind of interesting,
right? If it's like Rick Rubin who's,
you know, I did his first interview on a
podcast ever in his sauna, but it's like
if you're like, "Oh, it's [ __ ] Rick
Rubin." And he's like, "Hey, let's jump
on the phone." You're like, "Yeah, of
course. Okay, fine. As long as I can
confirm that's who the person is,
>> right?"
>> But otherwise, assuming that you who's
cold emailing is not Rick Rubin, which
is likely, then be clear about your ask,
right? If it's like, "Would love to
discuss something vague. Let's hop on
the phone to discuss how's next Tuesday
at 2 p.m." I'm never going to respond to
that, right? Because if you can't write
a professional first cold email, I'm
skeptical of everything that's going to
follow. Right. Right. You're not placing
a value on the recipient's time
that you've thought through. Does that
make sense? So, it's like be really
clear in the ask. And then when I close,
again, to your point, right? Make your
cell phone. And by the way, you can use
a burner or you can use Google Voice.
You can spin up a Google Voice number
very easily from any G Suite, etc., etc.
But have a number, right, where somebody
can reach you. Do not just bury it in
your signature. Make it explicitly
clear. Feel free to text me anytime.
>> Right. We can schedule or just feel free
to hop on the phone. I promise it will
not take more than 10 minutes. By the
way, if you say that, do not go over 10
minutes.
>> Yeah.
>> And then I'll almost always say,
if you've read this far, I really
appreciate it. And if you're too busy to
get back to me, I totally understand.
>> Okay, that's a great learning. I'm going
to add that.
love that.
>> And by displaying as little or zero
entitlement as possible, you get a much
higher response rate. Why? Because your
cold email is an audition for everything
else to come. So, if you're like,
"Here's this vague email. How about next
Tuesday or Thursday at 2 p.m." It's
like, "Bro, slow down." Like, you're
humping my leg already. We haven't even
established who you are or what you
want. And that reflects a certain lack
of awareness and kind of business savvy
that is going to be a problem later,
right? That's kind of how the train of
thought goes. And that's it. Here's
another pro tip. If you send that email,
do not follow up two days later with
bumping this up and then do that two
days later bumping this up. You get to
do that once.
>> I think it's got to be at least a week.
>> Yeah. You got to wait and you're allowed
to do it once and then just assume
they're not interested. And that's okay.
move on. World is full of great people
and if people are not responding to your
email, it's probably common denominator
or problem with the email.
You know what I mean? So, in the
beginning when you're reaching out to
mentors, you ju, you know, you just quit
your job.
>> Yes.
>> What are you saying in the email?
>> Here, here's an example. I sent a cold
email to Hank Green who is
>> just one of the great
>> describe describe who Hank Green is.
>> Hank Green is if sunshine and joy and a
human encyclopedia were bundled into one
person. Just one of the smartest,
coolest, groundbreaking people,
especially in the YouTube world ever. He
came and gave a talk at Buzzfeed once
when I worked there. And maybe this was
while I was still working there or
shortly after I left, I sent him an
email. And this is actually a counter to
everything we've discussed. I wasn't
explicitly reaching out about a a
business idea or anything or trying to
get something from him, but I wanted to
get to know him. And so I sent him an
saying that I'm learning as I consider
pursuing my own creative endeavor. And
I'm curious,
what was the most
formative pinpoint for you as a child to
pursue this profession? And it's just a
fun question. Honestly, there's not much
strategy here. And he sent back a
multi-page answer. And I think he
>> What was your subject line? Do you
remember?
>> What was the subject line? The subject
line was hello from Michelle Caren
Buzzfeed. So using the the title of some
some form of legitimacy, but he sent me
this multi-page
response
>> and at the end said, "Thanks for the
thoughtful question. No one's asked me
before." And so sometimes I find that
people are excited to share themselves.
And of course in him sharing that story,
I learned a lot about how I could find
creative inspiration or even find
parallels with someone who externally I
don't have a lot of overlap with.
And I think that was awesome. And now
today where I know him in a more
friendly capacity as peers in the space
is really special to have those email
like these emails like this are so crazy
to go back on. So even if you send a
cold email and never hear back, it might
make for a great story later.
>> And guess what? You're practicing your
ability to craft emails and your ability
to communicate.
And this would be like I interviewed
Brandon Sanderson, one of the most
legendary fantasy writers in the world,
who is prolific. And I think he wrote I
think it was five
books before he even attempted to
publish one.
>> He intentionally said, "I'm not
publishing my first several books."
Isn't that right?
>> That's right. That's right. I did a just
a huge romp with him. Met up at his HQ
in in Utah. fascinating, brilliant guy.
But the point is, maybe your first five
to 10 cold emails are just to improve
getting better at cold emails. And
by the way, something I did also is I
would ask people who I had not sent
those cold emails, but who are like
better known folks. I'll be like, "Hey,
would you mind taking a look at I I
would do this at events sometimes. I'd
be like, "This is going to seem like a
weird request.
Don't worry, it's not anything like
super super bizarre, but would you be
willing to critique this email? Like I
I've sent this to a couple people. You
know, I haven't gotten a response or I
only got one response. Like, how would
you change this?
>> And like that is a very concrete
question. And it's also not clearly a
question that's just setting up the
thing you actually want. Do you know
what I mean? Like cuz sometimes people
will do that via email. They'll be like,
>> "Hey, I loved your sweater. How did you
train your dog?" And then like 5 seconds
after I reply to that, they're like, "So
anyway, I was thinking of having, you
know, myself on your podcast." I'm just
like, "Oh, you asshole." Like I like
clearly you're just setting it up. So
just be aware of that.
>> You got click baited.
>> I got click baited. So a few things.
Hank Green I I don't know him
personally, but I remember seeing him at
VidCon once. And there are two things I
want to say. One is just what a sweet
guy. Seems like a really sweet human
being. Number two is you reached out
with let's say a mentoring question
>> to someone who already has demonstrated
that they mentor. Does that make sense?
>> Yes.
>> Right. So that will make your life
easier in the beginning.
>> Mhm.
>> When you're sending out these these cold
emails. The other thing is if you do get
a response from somebody, treat it
like you're not at a sex party, you are
dating someone in like the 1800s, right?
This is like Downtown Abbey. Do not
reply 5 seconds later with like, "Oh,
great. Now here are 10 more questions.
Don't do that." Right? Like
>> be patient. Like life is longful and
thoughtful. Life is long. If you want
these relationships, I mean, I will also
say you do not need to have a 100
relationships with people who are steps
ahead of you. If you actually develop
genuine,
mutually respectful
communication with a few people, in most
cases, in a lot of cases, you are set,
right? So, it's like don't be greedy.
Don't be a greedy little piglet. Don't
be in a rush. Mhm.
>> And I've certainly had to learn that by
[ __ ] that up over and over again
because I'm like constitutionally very
impatient. Like I want to get stuff done
like very quickly and some things do not
lend themselves to that. You mentioned,
you know, Snider's beats of
storytelling. I think
>> for sure.
>> Don't quiz me on that.
>> I won't I won't I won't quiz you on it.
As far as storytelling goes,
>> as far as developing like narrative
arcs, does not need to be a book, but it
could be like, are there any particular
resources you would point people to
where you're like, "Okay,
>> oh gosh,
>> I know there's like being in the
trenches and working on it and and
testing and split testing and using kind
of warm audiences in the beginning,
etc." But if you're like, "All right,
look, if you want to do something
analogous to what I'm doing on YouTube,
right? And there are other examples of
people who put put out very few videos,
right? But this sort of longer form
narrative arc storytelling. If you were
teaching a class on that, like what's
the syllabus like? What do you what do
you tell people to read or watch?"
>> Challenge accept like reality
>> docu class. Okay. Welcome to my class.
On the syllabus, we're going to be
studying a few things. First of all, I'm
going to make everyone watch Survivor
and every week we're going to discuss
it. First of all, because it's the best
ever. I'm obsessed with Jeff Probes.
>> And
I think that part of
reality doc in particular, Survivor is a
reality competition show, but there's a
lot that can be learned in doing your
own vlogs or self-filmed
human stories. They do an excellent job
at taking hundreds of hours of footage
and pulling out the story beats that
make sense. You watch an episode of
Survivor, it might feel like things are
just happening and they are, but they're
also curated from thousands and
thousands of moments, storylines that
were left on the floor. And so I think
Survivor is an amazing lesson in first
of all hosting and second of all killing
your babies in a way. We know on that
island they're out there for a month and
a half. A lot's going to happen that's
not going to make the edit. But why have
the producers chosen this storyline to
tell? Why is it engaging? Why is this
the act break for the commercial? I
think that's number one. Selfishly,
Propes is the goat. Also, sidebar,
Proped is an excellent example also of
creating defensible IP, right? Which a
lot which a lot of people don't realize.
They're like, "Oh, isn't he just the
host guy?" It's like, "No, no, no, no,
>> no. He's he's the Einstein of that
operation.
>> It's amazing." And when you watch his
hosting, it's so masterful because
he is a fan and also a researcher of the
people on the show. I mean, you see him
at tribal council. He is recounting
things that have happened decades ago.
He knows the details of the
contestants's life and he asks a
question not as a leading question, but
as a way for the contestant to open up.
I think that is incredible interviewing
and it's something that I study too. I
did a show called Karma on HBO which was
a kids survival show um produced by JD
Roth, you know, another like huge
reality legend. And again, I think
people watch these shows and and think
the hosts are just there to say lines
and deliver
information to the audience, but there
is a massive amount of research. I mean,
you have a binder of every kid's head
shot, where they're from, their family.
You're taking notes. You're sitting in
MCR, which is this trailer with hundreds
of video feeds as it's happening live,
so that when you go to meet with the
contestants, you know what things to ask
and how long to sit with them. So, I I
think that's just masterful story, not
from just a a great host, but also a
producer.
>> Okay. So, on the syllabus, you got
>> We got We're watching some reality
shows.
>> Yep. This is like Robert McKe I guess
the story seminar with like Casablanca.
He's like we're going to walk by this
second by second.
>> Exactly.
>> Look at what's going on. All right. So
So we got Survivor as one part of the
syllabus.
>> Survivor is one part of the syllabus.
>> Part two is we are going to study
Snider's Beats and we're going to study
the save the cat of it all.
>> Those two books are so good
>> and I have I have some screenwriter
friends who are like, "Yeah, they are
really good." And others were like,
"Please, no, don't don't suggest it."
I'm like, "They I you look, I haven't
practiced as much as you have or other
folks." I'm like, "These make it very
tangible,"
>> right? I think it's important to
understand
the bones of a of a story. What are the
the hills and the valleys? What is the
all is lost? And and I think a lot of
people look at that material and think
it only applies to scripted content.
But it is so important in any piece of
story.
>> Storytelling storytelling. It
>> applies to my It applies to books. It
applies to all of it.
>> Yes. Exactly. I would even go as far to
say that a 5-second vine, if it performs
well, hits all of the pieces of a story
arc in just a few seconds. It sets a
premise. It upends it. And there's a
resolution where the character is
changed by the end. Even a video of like
a a cat leaping off something
and doing something crazy has a
beginning, middle, and end where the cat
is different at the beginning and the
end of that America's Funniest Home
video clip. And that's why we like it.
That's why we laugh. That's why we
engage with it. And so I think it's
really important to understand that.
Part three of the syllabus. Let's see. I
feel like we have to have three parts of
the syllabus. The third part of the
syllabus would be an area of the class
where everyone brings a piece of work
released online within the last week
that impacted them. This would be the
assess and dissect portion of the class.
Why did this YouTube video speak to you?
Oh, well, I I just wanted to learn about
how the Corona virus spread originally
and I saw this video on Kisagot.
Okay, but let's break it down. What was
interesting? What what was the title?
What was the thumbnail? What why did
this Tik Tok speak to you? Why did it
stand out? And I would want people to
bring things that performed well or
didn't so we can understand resonance.
As you mentioned earlier, attention is
such a very very valuable and finite and
rare resource these days that I would
want a discussion component of of the
class to talk about relevant impact in
recent media. So, that would be the
wackiest class ever, but that's what
we'd be doing.
>> If you had,
and I know we're doing this on the fly,
but
>> let's just say
project assignments, right? And I'll buy
you some time because I'm going to
>> drink some water.
>> I know this is on the spot, but
>> the most formative writing class that I
took, and I really only took one
seminar ever focused on writing. I got
very lucky in college. But we there were
two components to the class. There there
were these once-weekly lectures
two or three hours long, pretty long on
writing with a tremendous focus on
structure primarily.
And then
there were reviews of work that we had
already submitted. So each week we had a
writing assignment
and typically in the range like three to
10 pages, but let's just call it three
to five pages.
And you would you would write your
piece. Then you would sort of submit it
at the beginning of of the lecture. Then
you would have a one-on-one with the
professor, in this case, John McY. If
people haven't read John McY, they
should. Just tremendous. If you want to
read something short, Levels of the Game
is incredible.
He's won one or two Peele surprises.
Just a phenomenal writer, can make
anything interesting. And wrote an
entire book on oranges, for instance.
Another one on handcarved wooden canoes
and another one on the geology and
nature of Alaska. I mean, the guy,
>> wow,
>> is just incredible. The levels of the
game is is about basically the entire
game of tennis, but told through the
lens of one match involving Arthur Ash.
So, we had the lecture, then we have
these writing assignments. You turn in
whatever your new assignment is at the
beginning of each of the lectures, and
then you have your one-on-one with
Professor MCI. He gives you back your
printed out writing, which typically
will have, at least in the be in the
first few weeks, more red ink from his
edits and notes than what you put on the
page. It is brutal. Brutal, but
incredibly
>> helpful. Okay, so you've got these
writing assignments and the writing
assignments are all over the place, but
it might be something as seemingly
simple slash difficult as find us find a
sculpture on campus and write three to
five pages on it. And we're like, can
you give us any more direction? He's
like, no.
>> Oh my god.
>> So everybody would take a slightly
different approach because you're like,
wait a second. Should I write about the
history? Should I write about the
subjective experience? should I write
about? Uh oh. But no matter what I do, I
have to think about kind of structure
and some of the points that he's made in
class.
And then at the end of the seminar
lecture,
we would share our work, right? And so
we would we would actually read out loud
some of our work
>> after the revisions have been applied
from him.
>> No. So I guess I'll probably scram the
chronology a little bit in the lecture.
We would read something that has not yet
been corrected and then subject it to
peer review,
>> right?
>> Yeah.
>> And get his comments. So there were a
couple of different ingredients and he's
taught this. He doesn't teach it any
longer but taught it for 15 20 years
very infrequently like once every year
or two. So I got very lucky. So this is
a very roundabout way of asking if there
were like an assignment component.
>> Mhm. or people are doing their own work.
What are perhaps some of the things you
would have them do?
>> The assignment component of the class
would be making the content.
>> Yeah.
>> So, I would require all of the students
to make an account if they don't already
have one on some platform.
>> And at the beginning of the class, I
would want them to set and define the
type of content. I would want them to
define why is this uniquely yours? How
is this different from what other people
have done? And then at the same time,
how is this databacked by what other
people have done? And then from there, I
would require them to actually make and
produce videos. If this if the purpose
of the class is become a YouTuber, let's
say,
>> I would ask them to to make and produce
the videos weekly and actually post them
so that we could do some peer review of
course, but then actually see how does
it play live in the world. We would I
would also want them to do data analysis
at the end and try to make educated
guesses on why it something did or
didn't perform well and receive critique
and feedback not just on the data and
performance but specifically the work
itself. Why did this introduction work
or not work? How could the technique be
improved next time?
>> You know, I was thinking it could also
be fun. And you'd have to have a pretty
small class to make this work. But
assuming the videos are short and
they're doing it weekly, like have them
show the videos in class and then make
predictions like what is your
hypothesis. You know what I mean?
>> Like you can invest in videos.
>> Yeah. And then they can choose to like
modify the video or not based on kind of
feedback or your thoughts or something.
You obviously want to let them learn
their own lessons. I think that would be
a a good way of refining kind of the
thinking process.
>> Someone's got to teach this class.
You are infinitely. You actually made
this whole format work. So I think it's
you
>> only if you're a guest lecturer.
>> Sure. I mean guest lectures like all the
fun with none of the heavy lifting. So
I'm I'm very much into that.
>> I want to mention two books and I'm
curious if if they're still relevant
>> because they came up in doing research
for this conversation. Radical Cander by
Kim Scott and The Six Thinking Hats by
Edward Dabono. Do either of these ring a
bell?
>> Yeah, of course.
>> Okay. All right. Got it. So,
>> my boy Edward with his hats.
>> Yeah, there you go.
>> Um,
>> so how did these both factor in? Because
these were these were basically the two
books that I was able to find mentioned
by title. Some of them I think were
mentioned by people you work with and
not directly
>> or maybe Garrett mentioned the mono
hats. The six thinking hats. I don't
even remember where I learned or heard
of this concept or
>> Oh, I actually think this was Jodie.
>> This was shout out Jod therapist.
>> Jody Jod puts me on all the great books.
I was coming to her talking about just
various problems I was facing and and
she told me of this concept of the six
thinking hats and effectively I'm I
might butcher this but it is a way of
looking at a problem by filtering only
by thinking type. So for example, we're
going to put on a yellow hat and look at
this potential idea. And the yellow hat
means we're only going to say things
that could go well by pursuing this
idea. Versus when we put on our black
hat, that is we're saying all of the
things that could go completely wrong.
And it's six different techniques of
being able to assess and determine if an
idea is good or or how to solve a
problem. That thinking was really
helpful to me as someone who often prior
to understanding this would immediately
go to black hat. And this is coming from
the mentality of everything's going to
go wrong. I'm going to fail at
everything. I'm a person who growing up
always defaulted to black hat. No, no,
no, no, no. It's not going to work. That
doesn't inspire creativity. That does
not inspire entrepreneurship. It also
gives an unfair shot to an idea that
respspun
may provide a new idea altogether. I
think this is also something I learned
from a design thinking class. I I might
be crossing my wires here, but another
class I took at Dartmouth was design
thinking where similar to your writing
class, it was an engineering class where
every week we would have some wacky
assignment like the professor would give
us each a sheet of poster board and say,
"Next weekend you come to class, it has
to be a chair. Turn this poster board
into a chair that supports your body
type. You can't use any glue, any
scissors, any other
structural components. You can make cuts
to it and and shape it, but that's it.
And it has to support your body weight.
And that class taught me a ton about,
you know, myself before that class would
look at that and say, "Not possible. Why
am I even trying it?" And he, Professor
Roby really forced us to think
critically through how could something
be possible. So that uh concept of the
six hats is really impactful to me.
>> Let's pause there for a second because
this book, believe it or not, was
incredibly helpful to me
>> really
>> in my first few years of building my
first business and trying to figure out
what I might be good at. But also as a
solo operator effectively had lots of
contractors but as a as a solo operator
for the most part
effectively turning myself into a
virtual
board of directors with different
perspectives by using these different
hats because I also default to black hat
which I think has its place right part
of the part of the genius of this
approach is you're not saying oh that's
negative thinking saying, "Shame on you.
Let's only look at the bright side." No,
it's saying there's a place it's saying
there's a place for that,
>> but there's going to be a set time for
it, and we're going to go through each
of these six. I haven't read it in
decades, but Edward Dabono, six thinking
hats. He also had, I believe, a book
called Lateral Thinking, which I found
helpful. I don't know how those would
age for me if I read them now. Right.
Sometimes it's like I'm like, "Oh god,
you haven't seen this movie I haven't
seen in 20 years. Let's watch it." And
within 10 minutes I'm like, "Oh god,
this is not as good as I remember."
There are definitely others like,
well, it's very unPC, but Airplane and
others that actually do age.
>> I'm trying to remember what the other
hats are. I haven't like looked at this
in such a long time because I feel like
we just sort of
>> I can't recall what the specifics are. I
mean, if I had to guess, I'm imagining
one is like analytical by the numbers
and one is like emotional. I mean, I'm
imagining there's probably some version
of that,
>> but it is I it stuck out to me because I
was like, that's really interesting that
>> this book, which not a lot of people
reference,
>> actually also popped up in both of our
timelines professionally. That's super
interesting. All right. Radical Cander.
>> Okay. Kim Scott.
It's like Tim, Adam Grant, Kim Scott.
These are like Mount Rushmore for me.
Kim Scott, I mean, is just phenomenal. I
mean, I I thought Radical Cander, and I
know many of these works have been
critiqued and refreshed in many ways,
but her quad chart of how to
provide feedback to people was really
instrumental to me because effectively
what happened was I quit my job when I
was 23. I had never I'd never made it to
a I mean at 23 like a managerial
position in a a corporate setting. So I
never had any manager training.
>> Could you give an example of how Kim's
teaching or frameworks look when applied
like for an example?
>> Yes. So Kim talks about four types of
management and giving feedback to
people. And the quadrant I identify with
the most is ruinous empathy, which is
the idea of you are so nice to everyone
around you that when you need to give
critical feedback to someone, they might
leave the meeting feeling like, wait, am
I actually doing great? I I don't know
because you're sandwiching compliments
in in or downplaying the critique and
you're not direct enough. And so
transforming that into radical cander is
about being more direct with feedback.
And so some of the things that Kim has
helped me very applicably work through
are workshopping
giving critical feedback to people and
hearing live feedback from her on cut
off that sentence that's fluff you know
like that is so so amazing. I think an
applicable setting here or an example of
this would be let's say we have a
collaborator on set who's very very good
at what they do but they don't
compliment or uplift other people when
they do a great job.
>> Got it. So good good at execution maybe
a little prickly around the edges. just
a little prickly or internally they're
thinking that person is doing a great
job but they're not vocalizing it.
>> I see. Got it.
>> And so it creates an environment on set
where everyone's like, "Oh, does this
person not like what I'm doing?" So
stepping in as a manager, the feedback,
it's a tough piece of feedback because
how do you say, "Dude, I just need you
to go out of your way and provide
positive feedback to people." And it can
be as simple as that. But what Kim has
taught me in that in in this specific
situation is communication exists on two
wavelengths.
It is
first of all the wavelength of
communicating the need the the tactical
information but there's another
wavelength that's equally as important
which is the emotional component. And so
being able to define that with that
person and say, "Hey, you're doing a
great job communicating, but there's an
emotional side you're completely missing
that's actually really important to that
communication
was really helpful because it provided
necessary value to that action for that
person rather than just like, so I got
to like tell people they're doing a good
job. Like I got to take an hour out of
my day and send nice emails." giving
them the why as
>> Exactly. Exactly.
>> This could include full-time
and contractors. What is your org chart
look like, so to speak? What does the
team?
>> Yes. I mean, I I remember reading 4-hour
work week and and the whole virtual
assistant chapter blew my mind. So, we
do have someone in Singapore.
>> Yeah.
>> Which is funny. Our internal team
full-time is intentionally tight.
>> It's seven full-time staff. So that is
myself, Garrett who's the chief creative
officer, Nick, head of production,
three editors,
and an assistant for me.
But we have what I call a slinky
operation where that's where it is when
it's tight. But when we get ready to do
a big project, it balloons up very
quickly. But what's cool is all of the
people that are on on the internal team
are department heads. So when it's time
to recreate the Mission Impossible
stunt, each of us know how to staff up
camera team of seven people, stunt team
of six people, and build that out to a
team of 50 who come in to do that one
specific project, and then we slink you
back down. and your head of production
would be responsible for the like
scoping and finding and hiring of those
people.
>> Sometimes
also just within our entire team, we're
all very connected and embedded in the
industry. So the team I just mentioned
is pretty much half people from the
traditional entertainment world. Nick,
for example, the head of production,
came from working at Broadway Video
under Lauren Michaels and did Taco Bell
Super Bowl commercials. So, he
understands feature film, high budget
commercial world. Then people like
myself or our editor Ryan Gonzalez, we
come from the digital first world. So,
our training was at a a content studio
where it was fast output, but you know
how to do everything. And so bringing
those worlds together is a really
special and cool environment
intentionally set because that is
exactly the midpoint I want to occupy is
the bridge between the two worlds,
>> right? And I'm curious how you suppose
the sort of context behind my question
is how you separate responsibilities in
a sense with the understanding that on a
small team you're going to end up
wearing a lot of hats. Not to be
confused with Edward Dabono, but
when [ __ ] needs getting done, people are
going to roll up their sleeves and kind
of I imagine at that size do whatever.
But for instance, on the you could pick
the episode, right? So could be any
episode, but where do your
responsibilities say? How are they
different from chief creative officer as
one example?
>> Yes. So, we have a giant spreadsheet
called the Areas of Responsibility
Chart, which I learned from a book
called The Great CEO Within. Again, I'm
trying to learn all this Silicon Valley
management stuff on my own. I even like
called my YouTube partner manager and I
was like, "Can I please sit in on the
YouTube corporate management training
the next time it happens?" And she said
I couldn't. So, I'm trying to piece meal
it all for myself and learn from people
like you and Kim. But in that book, it
it details actually making a giant chart
that outlines every single action that
the company takes. And this can go from
in our case something as big as decides
if brand deal is worth taking
all the way down to takes out the trash.
>> Who is going to be doing all these
things? So this this is I think hundreds
of responsibilities.
>> So what would be some just so I
understand because it's not a role that
I'm familiar with like chief creative
officer. So for chief creative officer
in this chart for Garrett that includes
so Garrett Garrett's role as a whole
within the company is to define the
creative tone and thesis of everything
that we do. So he is overseeing story
for each of the episodes. He's directing
the episodes and post. But he's also
making sure that if we're updating our
brand book or we're having our Emmys for
your consideration event in a couple
weeks, he is going through all of the
marketing materials and confirming yes,
this fits
>> the tone and the style of challenge
accepted. This tells one cohesive story.
What we don't want is a channel or a
show that is chaoticed
or
>> Exactly. We wanted to hit a certain
level of quality of storytelling. So for
Garrett, that means on a macro level
overseeing those decisions, but also on
a micro level
approving edits and directing edits to
make sure the stories we're telling hit
that bar of excellence, too. So he's
sort of like chief creative officer and
chief storyteller in a way. And then
head of production, what percentage of
the time for head of production is spent
on
kind of in production episodes versus
pre-planning beforehand and
post-production, would you say?
>> Oh, that's hard. I would need to ask
Nick exactly, but Nick
primarily spends when we greenlight an
episode and it's we're we're now in
preparation to go shoot it, a lot of his
time is spent assembling the crew,
getting insurance permissions.
In the case of the seven marathons
project we did where we ran seven
marathons on all seven continents in one
week, he was handling all the logistics
of the local crews we were working with.
We say that as we the royal we
>> [ __ ] I mean it was it was a team effort.
It was a team effort. Many people did it
besides me.
>> Of course there is a certain level of
physical brutality.
>> I I can't I did it
>> with the help of an amazing team and
he's also figuring out permissions and
and cash flow
>> working with our branded partners. So
he's sort of touching many things more
like including head of ops in a way I
would say. So the physical operation of
the company itself
>> when you look
out three or five years and I imagine
you've thought about this because to the
best I can tell you you do like planning
uh the spreadsheets and editorial
calendars. So I imagine that you've
given this some thought, but it strikes
me that this I mean this is a very
demanding
job that you have.
>> Mhm.
>> And the company can
and the kind of strategic vision and
where you go can go in a lot of
different directions. So like three to
five years from now, what would you be
happy with in terms of what your life
and the channel looks like? And maybe
the channel is too constraining, but I'm
just wondering like 3 five years out
>> understanding a lot of things can change
technologically and otherwise, but
>> what does it look like?
>> What does it look like?
>> Yeah. You have a magic wand and you're
like
>> a magic wand
>> to some extent. I want to preserve the
option that it'll turn out this way.
Bing. Ooh. It's worth noting that I'm so
privileged to be happy now.
>> Yeah.
>> I
love what I do. I love how our industry
is evolving. I love being a part of that
evolution of when you hear the word
content creator, what that means and the
and the social expectation of what that
profession is. I'm really really proud
of and excited for the future of the
evolution of that and the convergence
specifically of traditional and digital
a future for myself. First of all, I
want to be doing this
as long as I possibly can. And I look to
people like Tom Cruz, David Blaine, Jeff
Propes, again, they're in their 50s and
60s and they have just decided they're
going to keep going. Richard Branson, he
going out there.
And I find that exciting and inspiring.
And and also I I look forward to a world
where the names of the people that I
just mentioned are all men and I look
forward to helping lengthen the list of
women who have longevity in careers like
this too.
So I think a future for me external to
the channel is participating in that
bridge, supporting legacy studios and
companies in understanding our world and
helping burgeoning creators find
inspiration and solace and a path
forward in a very seemingly nebulous
career. I love sharing with other
creators the wins and the learnings and
don't do what I did here. here's my
Google Excel spreadsheet. Skip all of
the stuff I had to learn. And so that
mentorship component of giving
trajectory and systems to younger
creators is really, really important to
me and something I'm passionate about.
In addition to having to lead by example
and practicing what I preach,
>> I look forward to the next 3 to 5 years
because I know that's the sphere of
where I'm headed. Like that's where our
arrow is headed. I don't know where the
arrow is going to land very
specifically,
but I am so excited about the ride.
>> All right, I'm going to be the detective
here for a second.
>> Oh, do you have a magnifying glass?
>> Not in a spooky way. Well, I do have my
brand new fancy spectacles,
but part of the reason I'm asking is
that
you have to make decisions around how
many episodes you pursue, how much they
overlap,
>> right? And for instance, against my
quote unquote better financial interest,
there was a point where
I had decided, well, in my best
interest, I I had realized pretty
quickly, well, I make X amount per
episode of the podcast, especially
during like the golden era of
2020 COVID and like the two or three
years that was just an absurd like
embarrassment of riches for anyone who
was doing something reasonably
defensible. At that point, I was like,
well, four is pretty easy for me to do
per month.
>> Okay.
>> Like, if I want to increase the annual
revenue of this thing, which is very
high profit margins, to do things with
the foundation and my employees and blah
blah blah blah blah blah, I can just do
two more episodes a month, easy, right?
And if I wanted to double it, I can do
eight. There are other ways you can
double it, right? And I've looked at
those levers, too. But suffice to say,
it was very self-evident to me at the
time that
it was going to be very easy to grow if
I so wanted it to grow. So I ended up at
different points doing six, seven, eight
episodes a month or doing different
types of batch recording. And then a few
things happened, right? About 2 or 3
months into doing this,
yes, there were more financial resources
to bring to bear on like the funding
science through the foundation and many
other things.
>> We could do fancy offsites for the team
and fly to these very like far-flung fun
exotic places. Yes, which we can still
do. But what I started to notice is
there was this very subtle energetic
change. I wasn't exhausted, but I
started maybe dragging my feet a little
bit. I started to feel I noticed when I
put a like a fine point on it that it
was becoming a jo o in the unpleasant
sense. Does that make sense? And it's
very very easy for this to happen in
people who have small operations that
are not dependent on or in some cases
like venture financing or something like
that. So, and I also recognized that I
could make it work, right, by in my case
batching these episodes together. But
when I batched them together, I didn't
actually get to retain and study and use
and apply what I was learning from these
people in these conversations.
>> That's a really fatiguing day.
>> Yeah. Or a week, right? So, I decided
that I would step back to four or five a
month, right?
And I'm in a fortunate financial
position to be able to make that type of
decision. But it was really important
for not just the longevity of the
podcast, which is now 11 years or 12
years, whatever it is, but my enjoyment
of it,
>> right?
>> And I'm just curious how you think about
what drives the actual work product of
the show, right? because
your priorities may change. I have no
idea. Right? It's like for some people
it's like if they want if they're
thinking about a family then you have
family consideration. You also have the
professional
motivations. You can end up getting
driven by your team in some cases where
it's like you want to offer them the
opportunity for advancement and
increased scope and so on, but that can
end up steering the ship sometimes. So
there are a lot of pitfalls that are
hard to spot because they are gradual in
terms of their onset, right? So So I'm
curious how you think about like the
actual work schedule, the number of
episodes, the amount you take on.
>> Mhm.
>> Because I hear all the top level
priorities, which are awesome, and the
vision for three to five years. I think
you can do all of those things.
>> Oh, thank God.
>> But
>> tell me if you don't think it's
possible. Well, I don't think it's
possible if the show ends up taking on
lots of features and obligations and
scope creep.
>> I agree.
>> And splintering
>> that just removes the time and energy
required to do those things.
>> I have a lot of empathy with what you're
saying about, oh, I can just fit in one
more recording. I can fit in one more
shoot day. I mean, even separate of the
channel, this didn't impact the channel,
but last year I was on a plane 73 times.
Maybe not that high for many of the
guests who have been in this chair. It
was a record for me at least.
>> That's a lot of flights.
>> It's a It was a lot of flights.
And I told Kim this and she she said,
"How many how many vacations did you go
on?" And I and I couldn't answer it. You
know, I could think that's a sign. And I
I went I went on I did a couple things,
but she gave me some advice at the
beginning of this year. She's like, "The
next time you're sent abroad, your
assignment is," and I need someone to
say your assignment is for me to take it
seriously. Your assignment is you need
to take at least 6 hours of a day. You
don't have to stay an entire extra day.
Take six hours of a day to do something
for yourself. And I did this last week.
I was in Italy for a speaking engagement
and my friend Olivia and I took 6 hours
and we saw the whole city and it was
incredible. And I think that avoiding
the scope creep is something we've had
to be very very precise about. As you
mentioned, there are so many shiny
objects around. Oh, like you should just
do this collab and start a merch line or
even in our our world there's a
temptation of promote this product and
big check comes in. Well, I don't know
if I agree with this product and maybe I
I won't do it. And I think being really
brutal about
if I don't protect this, all of it falls
apart. I don't not in a way of fragility
but in a sense of if I take the brand
deal for a lot of money for the thing
I'm not a 100% on it fractures
trustworthiness
that as we both know is something that
cannot be bought back. It's so precious
to what we're doing. Or even the idea of
we've had so many people come to us say,
"We'll license the challenge accepted
brand and we'll we'll start a kids
channel and we'll run the whole thing
for you." And these pitches sound great
on paper when I know
I'm not going to like the first few
things you do. I'm going to have to get
in the weeds. I'm going to have to be
giving feedback. And you know what? I
don't have time for that. I I have to
remain really focused on the tip of the
spear, which is making Challenge
Accepted the best show it possibly can
for all of the reasons that are
emotionally important to me, financially
important to the team, and and socially
important to our industry. So,
we've had to say no a lot, which I know
you've been writing a lot about
recently. Yeah.
>> But the saying of no is something I'm
still learning how to do. And I think
like that has been why the show has
lasted so long. I have never I'm
literally knocking on wood. I don't even
know if this is real wood. Knocking on
wood right now. I've never experienced
creator burnout in the way that many of
my colleagues have. Many of my
colleagues have had a time where they
hit the wall and have to take months off
entirely.
That's never happened to me because all
along the way, it's been a kind like a
fast growth, but still slow and steady.
You can look at the growth of our
channel and it's it's not like I blew up
on TikTok overnight. It it's been slow
and steady. And for that I feel
fortunate because I've had the slowness
to be able to make those adjustments to
acknowledge scope creep where I'm being
asked for more things
and still learning how to practice that
>> better. Few thoughts pop into my head.
Uh the first is that more so than with
most I actually have
I'm very confident that you'll figure it
out. And I'll tell you why. The first
the first is that not that I'm who the
[ __ ] am I? I'm just saying I've like
there have been a lot of people in that
chair and I've met with a lot of
creators and writers and so on of
different types. Number one is that you
have an inbuilt novelty in the format of
the show. Right? So a lot of the
YouTubers I run into who are just
crashing and burning, they have a few
things stacked against them. one, they
chose something that was interesting to
them five or 10 years ago, but it is a
fairly narrow lane
>> and
at some point they get tired of being
that person.
>> Yeah.
>> Or they pretended to be something in the
beginning and they got a lot of positive
feedback and they're fatigued because
they're wearing a mask.
>> Yes.
>> And there's more to it. There's audience
capture issues and other things, but you
have an inbuilt novelty in the nature of
the show itself, right?
>> Every episode, my whole life changes.
>> Yeah.
>> Right now, I'm training for Taekwondo
Nationals. I'm going to take a flight
back to LA and go to Taekwondo training
for 3 hours tonight. Every day is
different and varied and interesting and
I I feel lucky that like my life changes
frequently to adjust for that. So this
is something I wanted to take a moment
to point out because
willpower, discipline, all these things,
yes, they sound great. You know, I agree
with a lot of folks that ultimately
systems
beat like certainly dreams and even
goals. I mean, you have to have an idea
of where you want to head, but inherent
to what you chose to do, there's a kind
of cycling and rejuvenation to it,
right? So, I just wanted to highlight
that because it's a feature of what you
chose to do.
>> It's it's not just something you have to
fit in in the empty pockets with
something that is uniform from start to
finish, right? So, I think that's one
thing I wanted to mention. And then
separately, just as an anecdote, right?
guest lecturing you mentioned. So the
guest lectures at at Princeton High-Tech
Entrepreneurship that that turned into
the 4-hour work week, the notes from
that class was based on a talk initially
called drug dealing for fun and profit
because my first company was sports
nutrition.
The through line of that lecture from
start to finish because I was one of the
few entrepreneurs
my professor invited, maybe the only one
who bootstrapped. Everyone else was
venturebacked, right? And that's why it
was interesting to him.
>> So I was like, I, you know, Ed, who's Ed
Sha, amazing guy. I've had him on the
podcast. Said, I don't think I have
anything to offer. I'm only a few years
out of college. I'm bootstrapping this
thing. It's a lot smaller than any of
the other companies that get highlighted
by these CEOs or taking companies
public, etc. And he said, well, that's
kind of the point. like you're closer to
the students so they can see
>> emulating or borrowing from what you're
doing more easily than they can someone
who's 20 years older and has taken four
companies public
>> and aligned with your throughine of
owning everything you do that's really
special yeah exactly and like there are
times for like debt and venture and all
that stuff I'm just constitutionally
allergic to it I just I just it doesn't
make me feel like safe and pleasant. So,
I generally avoid those things. Like, I
didn't even have a credit card until a
few years after college because I
thought foolishly that if you have no
debt, you're going to have good credit.
That's just not how it works. So, I had
to get credit cards. I've never carried
a balance except for like a short very
short period. The reason I bring that up
though is that in my class, the one it
changed over time, this two times per
year, it's guest lecture cuz I kind of
followed what I was learning. The one
thing that never changed was how I
started it. And how I started it every
time is I'd say, "How many people here
want to be a salesperson?" And this is
Princeton, right? It's in an electrical
engineering, like operations, research,
finance class, and no one raises their
hand. They're like, "Salespeople? Yuck."
Right?
>> And I'm like, "Okay, how many people
here want to be good at negotiating?"
Every hand goes up. I'm like, "Okay, how
many people here want to be good deal
makers?" like almost every hand goes up.
I'm like, guess what? They're all the
same thing.
>> Good news, bad news, you're all gonna
have to be sales people. True. That's
true. Whether you're selling a position,
whether you're selling yourself as a
romantic partner, whether you are trying
to persuade someone
>> of anything and everything,
the skill set is the same.
>> Yes. And because you have that ability
and you've honed the ability to
communicate
with the cold emails and everything
else, you have a lot of practice with
that. And you have someone like Kim
Scott in your corner on the honesty.
>> You can't take it too far, but like
honesty above people pleasing.
>> Oh yeah.
>> This what did you call it? Not insidious
empathy, but something close.
>> Ruinous empathy.
>> Ruinous empathy. That is where I tend to
lean also or have historically. And if
you are trapped in that quadrant and you
start to see the ship heading towards
this iceberg of burnout for you
personally or overall,
you're kind of [ __ ] Like that's not
the time to learn how to steer the ship,
>> which means these other quadrants,
right? And you write about that in your
upcoming book too about how when you say
yes to everything, it make you become
resentful towards other people when it's
actually you creating the problem.
>> I'm going to be diving back into the the
it's placeholder name, but the notebook
850 pages that's going to get hacked
down. It's going to be
just as a teaser. I I'm just it makes me
so happy. I literally just got a text
about this two days ago. I've had quite
a few test readers read that book and
it's rough around the edges, but they
read this book like six months ago, a
year ago, and they text me to be like,
"Look at how I am still using this
stuff." So, I'm I'm excited to get it
out cuz it's super like just we're as we
were talking about template emails and
so on.
>> It's really tactical. It's not just
handwavy stuff. So, I'm excited about
it. The But you have the you have sort
of the
>> And I promise I'll buy it. I won't steal
it on accident. I'm okay. I'm okay with
stealing my books. Well, I mean, it's
not okay cuz you're stealing it from
someone else, but
>> Correct. It was not stolen from a Barnes
& Noble. It was stolen from the desk of
a coworker.
>> Yeah. So, I have I have confidence
you'll figure it out because you have
the toolkit for correction, right? And I
think part of what a lot of folks miss
about saying no. It's not like saying no
is a lot like working out. It's not like
you you figure it out and you do it for
a week or two and then your problems are
solved.
>> It's a practice.
>> It's a practice. not only a practice but
99.9% of the population sure there are a
few exceptions but are going to fall off
the wagon occasionally. So the question
is how do you get back on the wagon
right? So in the case of
say a book on no like a lot of the book
is case studies of people and their
toolkits for renegotiating. It's like if
you're reading the book it probably
means you say yes to too much stuff and
overcommit.
you're probably still gonna do that.
It's kind of like aa and alcoholics like
right like once once an addict always an
addict like you're probably gonna do
that again. So the question isn't how do
I avoid it
>> permanently from this point forward.
It's how do you actually correct it and
how do you renegotiate commitments? How
do you cancel things?
>> Which is arguably harder than saying no
out the gate once you've committed to
something.
>> It is it's it's it's basically signing
up for long-term pain instead of
short-term pain, right? But you're going
to deal with both, which is why, you
know, Kim Scott's teachings are so
valuable. I have to recommend I I don't
know if it was with respect to Kim
specifically, but AJ Jacobs, who I
mentioned earlier,
>> I love him,
>> wrote this long Esquire piece called his
poor wife. The title of it is called I
think you're fat. And it's like 30 days
of experimentation with radical honesty
or something like that.
>> Oh, yeah. Yeah. And
>> I saw him give a presentation last fall
and he included this
>> and I think your fat is like when his
wife was like how do I look in this
dress and also you know point is his
wife has put up with so much with his
experiments but she's like are you even
listening to me and he's and he's like
no honestly I stopped listening five
minutes ago and I'm thinking about AB
and C. Oh what a saint his wife is. but
also makes for pretty good reading cuz
you know everything in excess kind of
becomes its opposite.
>> I want to kind of talk about wishlist
stuff because you because you never know
who's listening to this podcast. You
just never know. I am constantly
surprised.
>> Maybe you can give some backstory but
have you met Mindy Kaling yet?
>> I have not met our Lord and Savior Mindy
Kaling.
>> Okay.
Why did I even come across this? What?
Yeah,
>> I know why you came across this. And it
is because my first Twitter handle was
Mindy Kaling fan. I think it's since
changed to my name. It's normal now. I
think I've deleted all the tweets. Maybe
I would love to meet Mindy Kaling one
day when we're talking about wishlist
items for a few reasons. I feel like we
have sort of
traveled the same path in different
flavors.
>> We went to the same college. I obviously
admire her work. We're both Indian women
in entertainment. And seeing someone
like her on a show like The Office was
instrumental to me as someone from
Shreveport, Louisiana who didn't see
someone like me on Disney Channel. And I
think that's why
The mentality I had of approaching a job
like this was so black hat, if we're
going to go back to that, I was very
negative on the idea of doing something
in entertainment
because I didn't see a path or an
example forward
for someone like me. And factually,
that's incorrect. I mean there's a very
thriving industry of Bollywood and there
are many many amazing women in
entertainment but something shifted for
me when I saw her success and felt that
parallel path of we're going to the same
school and seeing how she took her
opportunity at the office and spun it
into her own production company and new
shows that continued to uplift and
elevate
female centered stories I think is
incredible and something that I look up
to often when I think about how I
started at a media company and am now
doing my own thing and hoping to shift
culture and expectation of what it means
to be an Indian woman in entertainment
and also what it means to be a content
creator on the internet. I love upending
people's expectations. It's one of my
secret favorite things to do. I love
when people hear that I'm a YouTuber and
then they go watch Challenge Accepted
and are pleasantly hopefully pleasantly
surprised by what they see and wouldn't
expect that maybe from someone on the
platform. And I think about how she and
Shondaanda Rimes and other incredible
showrunners have done that. All right,
Mindy, if you're listening,
>> and there are definitely a few people
who have been on this podcast, like BJ
Novak, who know Mindy, so if you guys
are listening,
>> I'm obsessed with both of them, like as
a unit.
>> Yeah, BJ is incredible.
>> BJ is also incredible. The Office, I
mean, there are a few examples like
this, but it's kind of like the PayPal
mafia where you're like, how did all
these people come out of this?
>> Yeah, the PayPal mafia. How is it even
possible that this density of talent was
in one place at the same time? It's
crazy.
>> Let me ask a question, right? Let's just
say Mindy's listening. She's like,
"Maybe I'll check her out.
>> Which episode should she start with?"
>> Okay, let me think.
>> And that applies more broadly to people
listening, but but like where should
where should where should Mindy go?
>> This is a really tough question. For
Mindy specifically,
I'm going to recommend I tried Tom
Cruz's Deadliest Stunt because Mindy is
in the Hollywood world. And I think
that's the most Hollywood episode we've
done. It's an episode where I strapped
myself to the side of a C130 to become
the first person to recreate the stunt
that Tom did for the Mission Impossible
franchise. And I truly am hanging off
the side of a plane. And what's
interesting about that story is not just
the stunt, which is cool, of course,
but it's an amazing story of being an
underdog. The only people who have
accomplished this previously are
literally Tom Cruz and Paramount the
Studio. And so to come at it from our
angle
was me sending more crazy cold emails.
It was calling foreign militaries at
3:00 in the morning asking if they would
lend us a plane. Those are the phone
calls I'm making. And additionally, when
you're doing something that's only been
done once before or in some cases has
never been done before, you have to get
really creative with the training and
testing, which maybe you've experienced
in in in all of your work too. How do
you prepare your body to to do something
like that? And it led us to training in
wind tunnels. But even more
interestingly, I had to go to a
specialized optometrist who fabricated
custom scaral contact lenses for me to
wear because for this stunt you don't
wear goggles. And so there was a
dedicated person on set called a lens
technician and his only job was to
insert and remove these massive contact
lenses that went over my eyes. Sounds so
uncomfortable
>> cuz when you're up there at multiund
mileph winds, even just a tiny pebble
could blind you.
>> Oh yeah.
>> So I think it's a really cool story of
being a little bit of an underdog and
accomplishing something great in an
unexpected way. So I hope you watch it,
Mindy.
>> Amazing. All right, this is going to
sound it's a nonsequittor/sequittor,
but people should study take a look at
paragan falcons and how their eyes and
noses and nostrils are evolved. It's
[ __ ] wild. And aircraft have actually
been designed based on paragan falcon,
like evolved.
>> Why do I feel like you've spent a week
in Mongolia training falconry?
>> I would love to do that. I had my first
experience with falconry on New Year's
Day this year, so it's fresh in my mind.
>> Wow.
>> Got to work with some amazing hawks.
There are different different birds that
are appropriate for different levels of
training, and it's not necessarily the
easiest bird. In some cases, they're
going to give you slightly more stubborn
or difficult birds because if you have a
very easy bird, you don't actually
develop the trainer technique that you
need to use for a spectrum of birds. It
would be kind of like giving if you give
everyone a really intrinsically
motivated high energy dog like a Belgian
Malininoa to train that is like bred for
being very very very very trainable.
You're going to develop a false sense of
confidence around your ability to do
that with other breeds.
>> I see.
>> So yes, I'm interested in falconry.
>> Have you seen that meme that went viral
recently that's like you hit a certain
age and all of a sudden you're obsessed
with birds?
That's really funny. I Maybe that's
what's going on. Next thing you know, I
was just like smoking a pipe on a porch
talking about World War II all the time.
I don't know.
>> There you go.
>> It could future. Worst things could
happen. All right. I want to ask more
episode questions. But before we do
that, any anyone else that you'd like to
sort of invoke? Like are there any other
>> partners, partners, companies, people?
>> Anything that you'd like to check out
your work? This is such a special
opportunity to do that. There are many
people I would love to meet and
generally as we move into this really
exciting new chapter for the company and
and content creators in general. I'm
excited to meet with anyone from
traditional media who is excited to join
forces.
>> So that's just like a general statement.
>> But if I have one shout out, here's the
shout out. I'm gonna ask for the Royal
Nanny School in England.
>> You've been working you've been working
on this one for a while.
>> The Norland College. We're your biggest
fans. We've been wanting to collaborate
for years. If you see this, hit me up.
>> Incredible.
>> Okay, let me tell you about the Norland
Nannies. You're going to appreciate
this, Tim.
>> I'm ready.
>> You know Mary Poppins, the silhouette
with the the pleated skirt and the
little hat. It is based off of a real
school called the Norland College where
these are the nannies that are trained
to serve billionaires and royal
families. So when you look at and they
wear that outfit. So you look at footage
from this school and it's literally
they're wearing this outfit and hat
pushing a pram stroller while also
wielding a gun because they they have to
protect the kids. So they know defensive
driving. It's like Secret Service meets
Butler Academy, which you shouted out in
the Five Bullet Friday. So, it's it's
two amazing worlds coming together. I
think more people need to know about it.
So, I'm I'm very passionate about it.
>> And I imagine the fact that they're
like, "No, thank you. We don't need
that." Makes you just want it that much
more.
>> Of course it does, Tim. But also,
>> I respect it.
>> What What have we been talking about?
Saying no. So, I have to respect when
someone else says no, too. But also just
letting you know we're still available,
still interested and excited. Love you
guys from afar. Big fan
>> of your episodes when you look back.
>> Mhm.
>> And you can't say all of them. That's
disallowed. That answer is no. No, no
good.
>> No fly.
>> Which if you were starting, if you did
not have a YouTube channel, but you had
a thriving career, so you had some
money. Which of those you can like pick
two or three of the experiences that you
would pay to have looking back
>> that I would do again in a heartbeat?
>> Do again. Or you're like, "Okay, I only
get to pick two or three,
>> but like I would absolutely pay for
these."
>> Okay.
>> If I if I had to,
>> I would pick first of all
the black belt challenge. So, as this
video, I had 90 days to try and get a
black belt in Taekwondo. Part of this
came from a personal passion of having
done all of these stunts and working
with a lot of stunt performers. All of
them come from worldclass martial arts
backgrounds. And I realized I had never
actually taken the time to learn a
martial art from the ground up and that
it was lacking in my performance and
mental fortitude and I wanted to
experience that. So what do I do? I make
it a challenge so that I can devote my
whole life to it.
>> And that experience changed me. When I
look at clear before and after,
you know, from having put your body
through a lot, there are moments when
you have a photo before and after. My
body changed. But there are moments in
life when you as a person change before
and after, and that can't be captured by
a photo always.
>> That was one of those for me. getting to
study with master Grandmaster Simon Ray,
one of the greatest martial artists on
planet Earth, took me under his wing and
did what most instructors would have
never done, which is believe in me and
push me to try and actually get a black
belt in 90 days. And we're talking about
politeness. I think martial arts has
taught me all of that. when you bow to
the mat before you step on when you yes
sir yes ma'am everything it might sound
gimmicky to someone on the outside but
it does become a practice and an
automation and a way of life and that's
something I'm really proud of as a now
black belt
and grateful for it I I would pay to do
that again and in fact I am because
we're doing a sequel so I am paying to
do it again and I'm trying to qualify
for nationals this year with Mastery so
I'm I'm very excited about it. I would
recommend it to anybody. The other one I
was going to say that I would pay to do
again for the experience I had
ultimately, not when I was going through
it, is the Houdini challenge.
>> Yeah. So for that I had six weeks to
learn how to hold my breath and pick
locks to attempt Houdini's water torture
cell which famously is hanging upside
down in a glass box filled to the brim
with water escaping a series of
lockpicks with one breath of air. And
that I would say is probably
among the most physically challenging
>> I'm sure
>> challenges I've done. Free diving,
breath holding is a level of athleticism
that is so bizarre to me because when
you're in a workout class and it gets
hard, they say, "Keep breathing. This is
the one time you can't do that."
>> Yeah.
>> You're you're holding your breath. So, I
was having to learn how to push through
that.
>> Ultimately, I got to 3:30 and most Navy
Seals is like 2 3 minutes is pretty
good. Houdini's was best time was also
3:30.
But on the production side, it was a
really fascinating challenge because it
was the first time we
creatively designed our own obstacle and
solution. So in the beginning, we spent
months trying to connect with other
magicians on earth who own a water
torture cell. There are not many.
>> Yeah. And ultimately we came to the
conclusion of designing our own which
was really really incredible and
creatively challenging. How do you
create a glass box that can f be filled
with so many gallons of water and
maintain the structural integrity when
there's a person inside
and function with all the locks and the
hinges with water as an involved
substance. It was a huge huge
engineering challenge for our team
and I'm really really proud of the final
result because both of those things are
things I would have never guessed that
like 2016 me would have been able to do.
First of all, holding my breath that
long. Second of all, taking the creative
liberty to design something that was
inspired by a work of history but also
our own.
>> Next question. So this one you may not
want to answer. Okay. Because I
understand
>> I would understand why. I have a little
bit more freedom in answering this for
myself. So I can also go first and buy
>> challenge accepted. Let's hear it.
>> Yeah. So which one would you pay not to
do again?
>> Oh gosh.
>> One or two. And and the one I would say
for me just to offer it up is and holy
[ __ ] did did I make a mistake. This was
episode one of the Tim Ferrris
experiment in terms of filming.
>> Okay.
>> And we keep in mind we had I think it
was 11 or 13 episodes or 10 or 13
episodes that we filmed in that number
of weeks. So I mean it was every week we
were filming.
>> As a viewer I never realized that it was
13 consecutive weeks.
>> It was consecutive weeks.
>> That's crazy.
>> And the first one was parkour. And there
were a couple of inherent problems with
that. Number one, even if you tried to
prepare your body for it, the impact of
falling onto hard surfaces is very hard
to train your body for even over the
course of say a year with proper
technique because of the the connective
tissue adaptations and sort of ligament
and tendon adaptations that need to take
place which require quite a bit of time.
Secondly,
the promise of the show was I haven't
cheated, right? So, it's like I can't
pre-prepare for it
>> if I'm showing what it's like to start
from zero. And I am still contending
with injuries from that week.
>> No way.
>> To this day.
>> Wow.
>> You know, 12 13 years.
>> Tempest, right? Tempest.
>> Amazing gym. I mean, I mean, those guys
are amazing. Tempest free running. Check
it out. It's incredible. But I will say
I have like dropped from the monkey bars
and pull my back.
>> Yeah,
>> it's crazy.
>> Yeah, I mean I ended up tearing multiple
heads of the quadricep in both legs
>> and then you continued filming for 12
weeks.
>> 12 more weeks. So you can imagine
>> and that included the Yabusami episode.
>> No, the Yabusami episode was actually
from a totally different TV show,
>> a pilot of which was filmed right after
the first book came out. It might have
even been before. I think it was right
after the first book came out. So that
was a completely separate thing with
like a production company in Singapore.
It was kind of wonky to be honest.
>> Oh wow.
>> But the Abusam was way earlier back when
I had hair or a little bit of hair. I
was white knuckling.
>> Okay. Cuz all of my experience
transparently of the show has been in
like online rips cuz it's many of this
material is no longer available. all of
the Tim Fresh Experiment stuff. I got
the rights back for a launch on iTunes
as it was called back then and it was
the number one non-fiction show when it
launched for a while which I was very
happy about although it was excruciating
you can imagine talking about
negotiating with like a big behemoth
where you just don't really have any
leverage whatsoever. Uh yeah,
>> and they were helpful, but a lot of
employee changes and so on that made it
difficult and then ultimately getting
the rights back completely so I could
just release it for free on YouTube,
right?
>> But which would you pay not to do? Any
come to mind?
>> What would I pay not to do? I have a few
answers for this actually. First one is
chess. And again, I I recognize the
people who have sadness here. I feel
like 99.9%
of of people in the Tim Ferris sphere,
everybody plays chess. Everybody is on
chess.com. When you go to these
entrepreneur events, there's always a
chess board. Everyone loves chess. So, I
feel a little shameful saying this.
Chess was very challenging for me.
>> There are plenty of people on this show
who don't like chess, including people
who used to be professional players.
>> Really? Oh my goodness. Now, I loved
many aspects of it, but the the
challenge for that was originally I had
one month to prepare for a competition
and I did the month of training. I got
to the competition. I didn't do as well
as I had wanted. And something about the
episode just felt empty. And I think you
and I both know this. You know, when you
haven't gone the distance with
something, you haven't given it your
all. And I knew that deep down. So, I
continued training for nine more months,
10 months in total, I believe, to
achieve this goal of my ELO rating and
finally did it. And I was like, I'm
good. I am so good on the London system,
all this stuff. Like, I was studying so
hard and I'm so glad I did it. But I'm
good to be a casual chess player.
>> Good to be a casual chess player. I
think the other one I don't think I'll
do again is one that hasn't come out
yet,
>> which makes it interesting, I suppose.
The most challenging physical thing I've
ever done is the seven marathons on
seven continents in one week,
which is going to be coming out this
April. The three-part series on the
channel. We're so excited about it.
Specifically within that, the Antarctica
marathon
>> is something I probably won't do again.
People got frostbite when we were out
there. It was
>> sure they did.
>> But the sneaky sleeper marathon is most
people think Antarctica is the worst
when they hear about this challenge. But
the sneaky one is marathon number six,
which is in Colombia.
And the reason this one is so crazy is
because historically people have gone to
the hospital from
heat exposure.
It's marathon number six. So, you have
five other marathons in your body that
you have done in the five previous days
before. And they actually scheduled this
marathon to happen overnight to try and
avoid the sun. But because our flight
was slightly delayed, we started around
300 a.m. And that meant we were
literally racing against the sunrise.
And the slower you go, the more heat
exposure you have. So, it was like 100%
humidity.
It's It's so hot.
And psychologically, you feel like
you're at the finish line cuz tomorrow's
the finale. Tomorrow's Miami. Tomorrow's
race number seven. But really, number
six is the unexpected one.
>> Yeah, that sounds brutal.
>> What's crazy about that is there are the
most unexpected people who do this
marathon. Like, okay, there was a guy,
you're not going to believe this, there
was a guy named Adrian
for whom his first marathon he ever ran
was marathon one of that week.
He like knew some of the race organizers
and just decided to come along. And
originally, he was going to run half
marathons and just decided, I'm going to
go for the fulls.
That's crazy to do your very first
marathon as in a week where you're going
to do seven.
Yeah. So, that was nuts. you know there
are sort of breeds and then there are
breeds also I mean there are mutants for
each of these disciplines right there
are mutants for all these disciplines
we've discussed
>> and you meet some folks you mentioned
stunt work on Avatar right but like I
remember
>> you know I've met people who are like
professional high jumpers and I'm just
looking at them and I'm like we are not
>> the same species
>> just like your attachment points and
like where your Achilles is like
Everything is different and that's true
for
every discipline including chess of
course.
>> There's an 83y old man named Dan Little
who does this event. It's it was his
fourth time doing it.
>> The seven and seven or
>> seven and seven. He's done it four
times. He's 83 years old. He's this guy
named Dan from Oklahoma and just the
most incredible person you'll ever meet.
like so joyful and excited and he's the
last person on course every day.
>> He takes seven or eight hours to do the
full marathon
>> and he is smiling the whole time. And I
think that's one of the coolest things
about our job, our jobs is perspective.
The people you meet, it really redials
your compass.
>> Yeah, for sure. Yeah. Yeah. I mean, if
you're the average of the people you
spend the most time with, it's like,
choose those people really carefully.
>> Gosh.
>> You know, and I mean, the older I get,
it's not that surprising, but the more I
enjoy spending time with people who are
doing things like that. Not necessarily
that in that much of an extreme, but it
could be like Arthur Brooks, like who we
were just talking about, cuz there was
some footage from a prior interview of
mine up there. He's a busy guy or Adam
Grant, right? But they take fantastic
care of themselves.
>> And particularly with each passing year,
it seems as you get older,
>> the sort of entropy that leads people to
gather and just complain about their new
aches and pains or how little time they
have or how busy they are with the kids
or whatever it might be
increases. And
I try and I I've succeeded fortunately.
I have a lot of friends who are counter
examples, right? And I'm like, okay, if
this if there's only one counter example
in the world, okay, well, maybe it's
just sort of inevitable. But I'm like,
if if I've gathered five to 10 close
friends who are all counter examples,
like that's something you can do because
all of these people
>> Yes.
>> from a personality perspective, from a
life perspective, from a financial
perspective, very different, which means
like if you want it badly enough, you
can be the counter example.
>> And I find that super uplifting. Let me
ask a couple of very quick questions and
then we'll lay on this plane.
>> Okay.
>> This has been so fun.
>> Yeah. I'm really happy to spend time
together. You mentioned McMillions.
Other favorite documentaries? I know you
like documentaries. Are there any other
documentaries
that stand out to you?
>> My favorite one is Freelo.
>> Free is so good.
>> So good. Alex Honold, what you doing?
Talking about counter examples here. I
am just endlessly inspired by him as a
person and I think Jimmy Chin's work
directing filming it's just outstanding
given the care and the sensitivity of
the subject nature
>> terrifying
>> and how he executed it. Wow.
>> Yeah. So for people who maybe watched
the recent live Netflix climbing of
>> Taipei
>> Taipei go watch Free Solo if you haven't
seen it. And fun fact, I actually
interviewed Alex about 6 months before
he did his free solo ascent of
>> of LCAP.
>> I just got chills
>> and he was in that white van that is in
the movie and freaked me out cuz he like
parked outside of my house and I was
like, who's in this like creepy van with
no windows parked in front of my house?
And it's also before he got media
training. So if you want to see like
pre-polish Alex and I I want to give nod
also freestyl is an amazing movie to
Chai Vaserelli. So Chai is married to
Jimmy Chin. She is
>> I mean in a lot of ways the filmmaker
and Jimmy obviously without his
expertise and these crazy complicated
rigs and the ability to climb and
actually be suspended around Alex and so
on. I won't ruin any thing with
spoilers, like there are a lot of
adjustments that need to be made with
that, but
that is a fantastic one. I think it was
The Dive. They've also had some
follow-up films that are just
incredible.
>> I remember seeing a tweet when Alex did
the Taipei climb that was like,
"Everyone's freaking out about this.
What if I told you this is actually not
the craziest thing he's ever done?"
Referring to free. All I mean it is so
far not the craziest thing in the sense
that watch watch the LCAP climb. It is
infinitely hard to any really really
seasoned climber. Yes, it's risky to
climb with no ropes. Yes, the tower is
dangerous if you make a mistake. From a
technical perspective, it's actually not
that difficult. Right. Doing what he did
on LCAP,
it is very much in the deathdeying
category. Yeah, I'm out.
>> People I'm sure people ask you this too,
but people are always like, "What's
something you wouldn't do?" I'm like,
"I'm going to let Alex Honold own the
category of whatever it is he's doing."
>> Yeah. Yeah.
>> I think that category is well covered.
>> The category of things I wouldn't do is
pretty is pretty broad and it gets
broader every day. After a few very
scary avalanche experiences with
backcountry skiing and heli skiing where
people have gotten really injured and
could have been buried, I'm done. like
avalanche risk. If there's any real
avalanche risk, I'm out. Like that.
>> So, you're out from Everest.
>> Oh, there are many reasons I'm out.
>> There are many reasons I'm out from
Everest, too.
>> Yeah. No, there there are a lot of
reasons I'm out from Everest.
>> People ask me all the time,
>> not the least of which is like plenty of
people have already done it. Like, why
would
>> Exactly. I think the story's been told.
>> Yeah. Why would I risk my life for
something that's not even going to be a
notable footnote for anything or anyone?
>> There you go.
>> Book or books you've given most as a
gift or recommended a lot? any books
come to mind?
>> I have recommended Radical Cander to
pretty much everybody I know who's a
content creator trying to figure out
their business. The other one is The
Great CEO Within, which is a really fast
and easy read. And for anyone who didn't
start in Silicon Valley or a startup
culture or a startup of any kind was
really helpful to me to just understand
here's what a company is and how it
works. And then I've given Adam Grant's
originals to a few people, too.
>> Dang it. All right.
>> I would say this, but I feel like that's
cheating, so I've tried to exclude it
from my answer, so I can't say that. But
obviously, I talk about it all the time.
>> If you could have one giant billboard
anywhere, obviously this is
metaphorically speaking with anything on
it. Could be a quote, nothing
commercial, right? But could be a
mantra, quote from someone else, a
picture, anything, question. What might
you put on that?
>> I feel like this one has been overused
at this point, but one that was really
helpful for me starting my channel was
everything you want is on the other side
of fear. Very simple. Again, overused at
this point, but I love that one because
it's what I return to when things are
hard in any aspect of life and
especially when I'm doing a challenge.
It's a way for me to remind myself this
is the struggle I asked for to make
myself better at the thing I want to be
better at. And it's also a reminder to
move forward through it
>> and not shy away from it. As we talked
about, challenge accepted was born out
of writing my fears on a whiteboard. And
so for me, I've have a very intimate
connection with that sentiment. And I
think about it even in an exterior
capacity. When I get nervous about
something, personal life, business,
whatever, exterior to the challenge
itself, I return to that often.
>> Mhm. I have quotes related to that
etched onto driftwood from ranging from
Anias Nin to others all over all over my
house.
>> I think I've done enough talking today.
So, I'm going to keep the focus on you,
Michelle. Where can people find you?
Where would you like to point people to?
>> You can follow me at Michelle Kar on
everything. And the three-part series of
my experience
attempting seven marathons on all seven
continents in one single week will be
coming out on my YouTube channel in
three consecutive weeks throughout April
and May. And we're going for a prime
time Emmy this year, which I'm really
excited about. We're on the ballot for
outstanding hosted non-fiction series or
special. It's a very long title for a
category and I'm excited about it for a
lot of reasons.
Most of which is I want to be a part of
a future where it's
not unheard of that a YouTube channel is
going for something like this. And
that's why I'm excited about it for
myself and other creators.
>> I'm excited for you.
>> Thank you. So, if you're a voter,
>> I'd vote for you. I'd vote for you. And
just for people who may miss this, K h a
r e.
>> Oh, yeah. Yeah. M I C H E L L E. K H A R
E.
>> Uh Michelle, is there anything else
you'd like to say? Any parting words?
Anything you'd like to add before we
wind to a close?
>> I want to say thank you, Tim. It was
really special to go back through the
archives and realize that
your impact in my life started 10 years
ago and to almost to the date
be meeting you 10 years later is really
full circle and affirming for me. And I
hope that anyone listening can can hear
the very grassroots fear setting chart
that I had for myself in the beginning.
And I think it's a special moment for me
to reflect on the the length of time it
takes to do something special
>> and how that commitment can lead you
somewhere unexpected.
>> Thank you for that. And I have to say it
makes me so deeply
happy. I mean joy is probably a better
word. I get so much joy out of the fact
that that you exist and you're doing
what you're doing because it tests a lot
of assumptions about a direction that I
would view as pretty dystopian about
online content creation. like you're
putting out long form
positive
life affirming
non-fiction where you show that
failure is not a terminal sentence. It's
just feedback along the path. And I just
love that you're doing what you're
doing. And I'm such a fan of your work,
such a fan of Challenge Accepted.
And I hope you keep doing it for a super
long time.
>> Me, too. Thank you, Tim.
>> Yeah. All right, everybody. Until next
time, we're going to put show notes,
including some template emails for
people in the show notes at
tim.blog/mpodcast.
I assure you, if you search Kh, there
will be only one
response. Until next time, be just a bit
kinder than is necessary to others, but
also to yourself. And thanks for tuning
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