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0:00

If someone's menstrual cycle is

0:01

irregular, should they be concerned?

0:03

>> Yes.

0:03

>> Yes. Yes. Yes. Your body is meant to

0:05

work like clockwork.

0:06

>> And our monthly cycle is so much more

0:09

than getting ready to have a baby,

0:11

especially when we're looking at

0:12

exercise. And it's important to say if

0:14

you don't have a period, it's very

0:17

harmful to long-term health, brain

0:18

health, mental health, low energy, mood,

0:20

and libido. And I don't want the younger

0:23

generations to have to go through the

0:24

stuff that we've gone through. So, it's

0:26

an important discussion that we need to

0:27

have. We are joined by four leading

0:29

female health experts from very

0:31

different fields

0:32

>> to have a crucial conversation about

0:33

women's health. With over 80 years

0:35

combined experience, they're sharing the

0:36

truth about what every woman and every

0:38

man needs to hear.

0:40

>> We asked a thousand women to submit

0:41

their questions ahead of this

0:42

conversation. And I got so many

0:43

questions around fertility,

0:45

understanding hormones, PCOS, birth

0:47

control pill, miscarriage.

0:48

>> And I'll say this, Stephen, it's because

0:50

we haven't had these discussions

0:51

publicly. When we look at funding in

0:53

women's health, it's horrible. like less

0:54

than 1% is spent on women over 40.

0:57

>> Women are living 20% more of our lives

1:00

with chronic disease or mental health

1:01

disorders. I mean 50% of patients with

1:03

unexplained infertility have

1:05

indometriosis. But yet it takes women 7

1:07

to 10 years to get a diagnosis after

1:09

symptoms start. But also there are

1:11

things that we do that will inherently

1:12

harm our fertility because we're not

1:14

taught this and it predisposes you to

1:16

many medical problems later in life.

1:18

>> And patients will say but I have a

1:20

really high pain tolerance like it's a

1:22

badge. And so they gaslight themselves.

1:25

And that's what we're all trying to

1:26

fight here. But there are a lot of

1:27

things we can do to deal with this.

1:29

>> And then I want to talk about menopause.

1:31

>> So in medical school, menopause just

1:33

gets shoved into a tiny box. This is a

1:35

scary statistic. So Oh my god,

1:38

>> it's crazy.

1:38

>> I just think it's insane. This is why we

1:40

need to create change.

1:44

This might be one of the most important

1:45

conversations we ever have on the diio

1:47

because women's health has long been a

1:50

total mystery to so many people and so

1:52

many people are struggling with all of

1:53

the issues that we're going to talk

1:54

about today with their menstrual cycles,

1:56

PCOS, endometriosis, with diet, with

1:58

understanding how to exercise as a

2:01

woman. It's probably never going to be

2:02

the case again that these four

2:04

individuals that at the very top of

2:06

women's health in their fields will be

2:09

in the same place at the same time

2:11

having this conversation. We structured

2:13

this conversation into two parts. They

2:16

cover completely different subjects, but

2:18

they're fundamentally interlin. For me,

2:20

the understanding that I got from this

2:22

conversation at this table with these

2:23

four women has fundamentally changed my

2:26

life. It's going to change how I deal

2:27

with my romantic partner, my sister, my

2:30

team members that I work with every

2:32

single day. And funnily enough, because

2:34

it's a conversation I wouldn't have

2:36

clicked as a man, it turned out to be

2:39

the conversation that I needed the most.

2:40

And I don't think I've ever said this

2:42

before, but if there was ever an episode

2:44

to share with a loved one, then this is

2:46

that episode. Please share this episode

2:48

with as many women as you can, but also

2:51

with as many men as you can.

2:54

[Music]

2:57

Ladies, we should start with some

2:58

introductions. Could you give me a brief

3:00

introduction, Stacy, as it relates to

3:03

your perspective and your experience and

3:04

what your sort of bias is as it comes to

3:06

this debate? When I say bias, I mean

3:08

your your your experience and your your

3:11

research that you're lending to this

3:12

conversation today.

3:14

>> I come from the exercise fizz and sports

3:16

med background. Um, so I'm always

3:18

looking through the lens of activity and

3:21

nutrition and how that has a impact on

3:25

our stress and our stress outcomes and

3:27

how we can adapt to specific applied

3:30

stressors especially when we're looking

3:32

at improving health span, improving

3:34

mood, improving body composition, all of

3:37

those things. I've worked with and still

3:40

work with uh the subset of active women.

3:43

Um, I come from an endurance and a

3:44

high-profile high performance sport

3:46

background. So, that's where I've gotten

3:48

my chops and then brought it over into

3:50

the general recreational female athlete

3:53

kind of perspective. Natalie,

3:56

>> I'm a fertility doctor and every day I

3:58

help patients with IVF get pregnant

4:00

because I have an IVF clinic. But my big

4:02

passion has always been natural

4:03

fertility after I experienced my own

4:05

pregnancy losses. trying to understand

4:08

how we interact with the world and how

4:10

that changes our hormones and help women

4:12

understand what their hormones are, what

4:14

natural fertility is, what happens as we

4:17

age to our bodies, our eggs and our

4:19

hormones, and let them be better

4:21

stewards of their own fertility and

4:23

their own health decisions.

4:25

>> Mary,

4:26

>> I have a background in general OBGYn, so

4:29

I'm considered to be a women's health

4:31

specialist. And it wasn't until I kind

4:33

of went through my own menopause that I

4:36

realized that there was significant gap

4:38

in my training. You know, hearing

4:41

watching Dr. Sims on um I think your

4:44

podcast talking about how women are not

4:46

little men really struck such a chord

4:49

with me and made me realize I was

4:50

siloing women's health to the

4:52

reproductive organs, the breast, the

4:54

uterus, the ovaries, the vagina and that

4:58

if I really wanted to make a difference

5:00

in a woman's whole health life, this

5:01

last 30 years, 30, 40 years of her life,

5:04

I needed to refocus

5:06

what we were thinking about women's

5:08

health for the long term. So I come from

5:11

a background in academics. I was a

5:13

professor for 20 years. I was a

5:15

residency program director. Stepped away

5:17

from that so I could focus on the lack

5:19

of my own education and knowledge in

5:21

menopause care. And now I want to step

5:23

back into the academic world to bring

5:24

everything I've learned and change the

5:26

way we educate our providers. Vonda

5:30

>> I am a orthopedic sports surgeon by

5:33

training and I sit at the unique

5:34

juxtaposition of orthopedics and

5:36

performance having taken care of elite

5:39

athletes most of my life aging and

5:41

longevity most of my academic research I

5:44

too as an academic is on subjects of

5:47

muscularkeeletal aging but many years

5:49

ago added a third circle of the whole

5:52

health of a woman and so sitting in this

5:54

place it fits directly into the mantra

5:57

of my career which has always been I am

5:59

going to change the way we age in this

6:01

country and the world because the tool

6:04

that I bring to the table is the fact

6:07

that if I save your mobility I'm going

6:09

to save you from the ravages of chronic

6:11

disease and so the work that I do is not

6:15

only educational it's uh research and

6:18

it's now education of the world about

6:21

these subjects

6:22

>> explain this to me like I'm an idiot

6:24

ladies why do we need to have a

6:26

conversation about women's health and

6:27

not just health broadly.

6:29

>> I think the statistic that people don't

6:31

realize on a day-to-day basis is that

6:33

women are 51% of the population. We're

6:36

actually not a minority. We're the

6:38

majority and yet often our health, our

6:41

healthc care access, the research treats

6:44

us as if we're a niche product,

6:47

>> but we are the majority product.

6:51

We have to have this conversation

6:53

because data show that

6:56

of the $450 billion dollars spent on

7:00

research in this country alone, less

7:01

than 1% is spent on women over 40.

7:05

>> And yet we are nearly 90 million people.

7:09

And we make 80% of all the health care

7:11

decisions in this country for ourselves

7:14

and everyone we touch. And so even

7:17

though when you look at the the

7:19

long-term data, women are winning the

7:21

longevity race here. We're living an

7:24

average of 6 years longer than men. But

7:26

as all of us talk about all the time,

7:29

women suffer longer.

7:30

>> Yeah.

7:31

>> We're living 20% more of our lives

7:33

versus our male counterparts in poor

7:35

health with chronic disease or mental

7:38

health disorders. And so McKenzie looked

7:40

at the data and it was for the Gates

7:42

Foundation and what they found was yes,

7:45

we live longer. We've all known that.

7:47

However, we have, you know, twice as

7:50

high of mental health disorders. We're

7:53

two times as more likely to end up in a

7:54

nursing home. We are much more likely to

7:57

lose our long-term independence from

7:59

frailty or dementia, much more than our

8:01

age matched male counterparts. And

8:03

that's I think what we're all trying to

8:04

fight here. And diseases that impact

8:07

women specifically and only things like

8:09

PCOS, endometriosis are extensively

8:13

underfunded and not researched. It takes

8:15

women 7 to 10 years to get a diagnosis

8:17

of endometriosis after symptoms start.

8:20

And we know this is a disease that

8:22

impacts your entire body in addition to

8:25

your fertility. But women are dismissed.

8:27

They're not taken seriously. and there's

8:30

not research guiding what we can do in a

8:33

lot of these situations to try to help

8:35

them the best.

8:36

>> Why isn't the research there? Why why

8:38

don't they research if women are the

8:41

majority of the population? Why is all

8:43

the funding going to researching men?

8:45

>> You have to think about who was in the

8:46

room when medicine and science first

8:48

started. So if you think about back when

8:51

the industrial revolution and the

8:53

modernization of what we know is

8:55

medicine, women were pushed out because

8:57

they were believed to have smaller

8:59

brains. thanks to Darwin and not thought

9:02

to have a seat at the table. So when

9:04

you're thinking about designing studies,

9:06

it was pretty much designed on the male

9:08

physiology on the male body and then

9:10

women were an afterthought. So there

9:12

wasn't any real in-depth look of well

9:15

women are different from birth or in

9:17

utero XX is different from XY. So all

9:21

the research has just been generalized

9:23

to women. Even things like aspirin for

9:25

heart attacks and thinning blood

9:28

>> inhibitors. Yeah, all of this all of

9:30

this was done on men and then just

9:32

generalized to women and now that we're

9:34

having this global conversation on

9:36

women's health, people are like, well,

9:38

where is the information specific for

9:40

women? And there's just a very small

9:42

subset. So, we're looking and trying to

9:44

expand that, but we have a lot of

9:46

catching up to do. And that's primarily

9:49

not only because of what you said, but

9:51

the shocking statistic is that not until

9:53

1993

9:55

were women required to be represented in

9:58

studies. 1993,

10:00

I mean, we were all far into our our

10:03

lives in research by then.

10:05

>> Isn't that a shocking?

10:06

>> That's crazy.

10:07

>> And there were still loopholes where

10:08

people were finding ways to exclude

10:10

women and then

10:11

>> right, we're still not at 50%. No,

10:14

>> we're harder to study. You have

10:15

menstrual cycle, hormonal fluctuations,

10:18

even menopause, pre even the animal

10:20

models.

10:21

>> It's not that we're harder to study. It

10:22

just makes it presumed harder to study.

10:24

There's more variables at play,

10:25

>> right? It's more of a complexity to the

10:29

research, but it's not more difficult.

10:31

And this is where I bring it in. It's

10:32

like if a woman had a seat at the table

10:33

when all the study designs were started,

10:36

it wouldn't be a question. It would just

10:38

have been assimilated in. because we've

10:40

been so drawn into we have a crossover,

10:43

here's one week crossover, next week

10:45

because of male physiology. When you add

10:47

women's hormone fluctuations and people

10:49

like, "Oh, it's too complex."

10:50

>> Right? But it's not.

10:51

>> What is it that makes, and this is a

10:53

super dumb question, but an important

10:54

one. What is it that makes men and women

10:56

different from a physiological

10:57

standpoint? Because to understand why

11:00

research would need to be done

11:01

separately, we need to understand the

11:03

differences.

11:04

>> Yeah. Well, I mean, we can look from a

11:06

morphological standpoint where men have

11:10

more of our fast twitch fibers. Women

11:12

are born with more endurance fibers,

11:14

>> which is muscle, right?

11:15

>> Uh when we're talking about muscle.

11:16

Yeah. So, uh men have more of the

11:19

ability to do power and and really fast

11:23

energetic type activities or women are

11:25

more attuned to endurance type

11:27

activities. And this affects metabolism.

11:29

It affects blood glucose homeostasis.

11:32

And when we're looking at bone and bone

11:34

density, men have stronger bones. Uh

11:37

they can acquire more load. They hold on

11:39

to it better than women do. We see

11:42

smaller lungs, smaller heart, less

11:44

hemoglobin in women than men. And that's

11:46

an offshoot of what testosterone does.

11:49

So there are just basic physiological

11:51

differences between XX and XY that

11:55

people don't really assimilate and

11:57

understand. And the way I like to say it

11:59

is you go into a shop and you have a

12:01

men's section and a women's section and

12:02

there are touch points on the external

12:05

that really identify gender andor sex.

12:08

But when you look intrinsically no one

12:10

is identifying those touch points until

12:11

now. Also when we look at how we disease

12:15

so in cardiovascular disease is is

12:17

aththeroscerotic disease is the best

12:19

example. Men tend to have their

12:22

blockages. So aththeroscerotic disease

12:24

is basically the plaques that build up

12:25

in the coronary arteries around the

12:27

heart. Men tend to develop their plaques

12:30

very early right as those arteries exit

12:32

the aorta and dive into the heart

12:33

muscle. So we get what we call the

12:35

widowmaker. Okay? It's called that for a

12:37

reason because men die and they make a

12:39

widow. And so that's the left anterior

12:41

descending artery. Women by and large

12:44

tend to not have these larger artery

12:47

blockages, but their blockages are

12:48

diffuse and microvascular deeper into

12:51

the heart muscle, which is why we

12:53

present with a heart attack much

12:55

differently than a man does. And those

12:58

we're not teaching our, you know, we're

12:59

not educating our clinicians as to these

13:02

differences. Women are considered to

13:03

have atypical chest pain. Dr. Wright,

13:06

51% of the population is female. Why are

13:08

why is my heart attack atypical

13:10

>> and a man's typical? But this happens

13:13

not only at the organ level. It makes

13:16

sense that if we have a population with

13:18

XX chromosomes, a population with XY

13:21

genetically and the way we express those

13:24

genes are differently. But I think we

13:27

miss the fact that down to a cellular

13:29

level, every cell from an XX is

13:32

expresses these tissue changes, tissue

13:36

manifestations differently than an XY.

13:39

Our lab used to study, we called them

13:41

muscle derived stem cells so 20 years

13:43

ago. Now they're called satellite cells.

13:45

But when we harvested them and asked

13:47

them to behave and in different

13:50

environments,

13:51

satellite cells from XX people and XX

13:55

animals, women, females were better

13:59

under the same circumstances

14:01

experimentally

14:03

at making cartilage and muscle. XY male

14:08

were better under the same circumstances

14:10

in making bone. So down to a cellular

14:14

level, we express our genes differently.

14:16

It should be no mystery to us or anybody

14:19

else that there are differences. And yet

14:22

there is the propensity just to lump us

14:24

all in the same basket and almost say I

14:28

almost sometimes feel as pjorative to

14:30

say, oh the women are different. Of

14:32

course they're different. Yeah,

14:34

>> we're genetically different

14:35

>> down to every cell in our body.

14:36

>> Every cell. So, it should be no surprise

14:39

to anybody, but it it seems to be a

14:40

surprise.

14:41

>> Seems to be a surprise all the time.

14:43

Yeah. I get pushed back all the time.

14:44

There's no difference. Yes, there is.

14:46

There is. And it's not just bad. It's

14:49

just is.

14:50

>> Yeah. There's Yeah.

14:51

>> Because at one point that was quite a

14:52

controversial thing to say, wasn't it?

14:54

To point at the differences between men

14:55

and women.

14:56

>> Mhm. Outside of, you know, our different

14:58

organs. Yeah. You know.

15:00

>> Yeah. And because of this research gap

15:02

and the bias in medicine, um, women have

15:05

been misunderstood by their male

15:07

counterparts in a number of ways. I

15:08

remember I think it was you, Mary, that

15:09

was telling me about this whiny women

15:11

thing that you were exposed to.

15:13

>> When I was in training and and you all

15:15

may have similar stories and I just

15:17

heard a new one the other day, my first

15:20

patient in gynecology clinic, I'm an

15:21

intern. I'm very excited. You know, we

15:23

have our stacks of charts. That's how

15:24

old I am. We had paper charts. I pick up

15:26

the chart, open it up. It's a

15:28

40-year-old woman with multiple vague

15:30

complaints. She's gained some weight.

15:32

She's a little bit depressed. Her libido

15:34

is off. Her blood pressure is a little

15:36

bit up. Her cholesterol is starting to

15:38

rise. And she's seen family medicine.

15:39

Like we're the third or fourth doctor at

15:41

this point. And so my upper level who

15:43

happened to be male this, you know, it

15:45

could have been anyone. Walks down the

15:47

hall in his cowboy boots cuz Texas. And

15:49

um and he's like, "What you got?" And I

15:51

said, "Well, I have Miss Smith,

15:53

whomever, you know, she's a 40-year-old

15:54

woman with." And I list the complaints.

15:56

And he goes, "Did you check her thyroid?

15:57

Family medicine did. Did you check this,

15:59

you know, a few simple labs?" And he

16:01

goes, "Hm,

16:03

you got a WW."

16:05

And I said, "What's I don't know this,

16:08

you know." And he said, "Uh, don't write

16:10

this in the chart, but we call that a

16:12

whiny woman around here."

16:14

>> Oh my gosh.

16:15

>> And I said, "Okay." He said, "Listen,

16:18

women just tend to go through this at

16:20

this age, and we're not really going to

16:23

be able to help her. pat her on the

16:25

knee, tell her to have some wine, go on

16:27

date night, you know, she'll get better,

16:29

but we're not going to be able to help

16:30

her. And that stayed with me. Now, I

16:33

was, you know, a good girl. I did what I

16:35

was told. You know, it took me 20 years

16:37

of internalization to realize this, you

16:40

know, I don't want to blame him. He's

16:42

not a bad guy. This was taught to him.

16:44

But this kind of thinking, I mean, I saw

16:47

this in the ER. I saw this in the O. I

16:49

saw this in every clinic. And so I've

16:51

asked other clinicians around the

16:52

country and I've heard whiny gyne status

16:55

Hispanicus total TBD total body delore

16:58

like in different regional areas there

17:00

was a name for this kind of vague

17:03

complaints from this middle-aged woman

17:05

and we couldn't quite put our finger on

17:07

it and I realized this was systemic bias

17:10

built into the system where women and

17:12

there's historical you know precedent

17:14

for this the wandering uterus the

17:16

hysteria you know these were real

17:18

medical terms just until like not even a

17:21

generation ago.

17:22

>> Yeah. They used to put women into

17:24

asylums.

17:24

>> Yeah.

17:25

>> Because of hysteria and it was hot

17:28

flashes, all the things that that are

17:29

now known with permenopause. They used

17:31

to think it was some kind of insanity

17:34

and put women into insane asylums to

17:36

lock them down.

17:38

>> But this is pervasive. Not just an OB.

17:40

You're not the only guilty. It's every

17:42

medical subsp specialty has some

17:47

culture

17:48

of for lack of better words blowing

17:50

women off it right. We're not having the

17:54

curiosity that defines medicine. We are

17:57

supposed to be curious people. But yet

17:59

when it comes to this, why do we stop at

18:03

just seems to be something that happens

18:04

to middle-aged women, right? it that

18:06

that's written in the orthopedic

18:08

literature seems to happen to

18:10

middle-aged. Where's the curiosity?

18:13

>> Where was it?

18:14

>> Yeah. Well, in X-fist text, you always

18:16

had the representative of him or they

18:18

and the vuvius man and all the angles of

18:22

the male body, but there was never

18:23

representation of women. The only time

18:26

you heard about a female athlete was all

18:28

the pathophysiology. You know, the iron

18:30

deficiency, the female athlete triad,

18:32

which we now call um relative energy

18:35

deficiency in sport.

18:36

>> And when you're looking at the

18:38

historical idea of sport, the only way

18:40

women were actually included and

18:43

accepted is when they were amenic

18:45

because then they were quote more like

18:46

men and then there wasn't a problem with

18:49

training them and then they could work

18:50

as hard. But we know that that's not

18:53

appropriate. That's a sign of of illness

18:55

and overtraining under recovery. So, it

18:58

is pervasive everywhere. It's not just

19:00

the medical, but it goes into when you

19:02

think about what it means to be

19:03

successful in sport. It's the power.

19:05

It's the aggression. It's the

19:07

unfallibility of being human. And a

19:09

woman having a menstrual cycle was

19:11

deemed a fallibility. So, they're trying

19:13

to push it aside. This is so systemic

19:15

though that women downplay their own

19:18

complaints. They gaslight themselves. It

19:21

takes them a long time to seek care

19:23

because they're afraid of the response.

19:26

They are not always honest with what's

19:28

going on in their body. I'll say, "Do

19:29

you have pain?" "Oh, no more than

19:31

regular." They downplay everything. You

19:33

have to really ask. And it's almost the

19:36

society, I don't want to be viewed as

19:38

this way. I don't want to be not taken

19:41

seriously. And it causes them an to have

19:44

an even harder time to get to a

19:46

diagnosis because they don't feel

19:47

comfortable sharing some of these

19:49

symptoms or they've downplayed them in

19:50

their life so much. This is why they

19:52

have to get so sick to often present to

19:55

even try to get care. And they come to

19:58

me almost to a woman after I'm talking

20:01

about whatever muscularkeeletal thing

20:04

they'll say even before they want to

20:06

describe it to me. They'll say, "But you

20:09

know, I have a really high pain

20:11

tolerance." Yes. Mhm.

20:12

>> Like it's a badge because we've been

20:14

conditioned to not come for any pain.

20:17

But I've suffered. I've tried. That's

20:19

why your arm doesn't move anymore. I've

20:21

got such a high pain tolerance, but I

20:23

couldn't take it anymore. I didn't want

20:25

to come. And I feel like why does it

20:28

have to be that way?

20:30

>> So, you train treating both males and

20:32

females. I I was locked in a room with

20:34

women for 25 years, you know, and so

20:37

it's so fascinating to me to hear how

20:41

men and women come in with the same

20:43

complaint in your clinic, in your

20:44

fellowship, all those years you spent

20:46

training, and yet you were taught to

20:49

treat them differently, you know, and

20:50

the urologists say the same thing, you

20:52

know, who

20:52

>> I don't think I was aware of it.

20:54

>> Yeah.

20:54

>> There was just that's

20:57

so much bias. Yeah.

20:59

>> I didn't realize. I didn't either

21:00

>> because like you, until I went through

21:02

my own pmenopause,

21:05

I might not have paid it attention to

21:07

it.

21:08

>> Yeah,

21:08

>> I may have been less sensitive.

21:11

>> I was a terrible menopause.

21:13

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21:15

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where you are you're part of our history

21:37

and you're on this journey with us and I

21:39

appreciate you for that. So, yeah, thank

21:40

you. Is that in part because we know

21:42

very little about hormones as well. When

21:44

I was speaking to our audience, we asked

21:46

a thousand women to submit their

21:47

questions ahead of this conversation.

21:48

And one of the most asked questions, all

21:52

the most asked questions sort of related

21:54

to understanding hormones. I think the

21:57

conversation around hormones is quite a

21:59

new one in society and I actually think

22:01

it's been driven a lot by a heightened

22:03

understanding of menopause generally. I

22:05

think the the conversation of hormones

22:07

around outside of fertility and the

22:11

general menstrual cycle. I can right now

22:12

draw from memory the exactly what's

22:15

going to happen in a normal menstrual

22:16

cycle. We were taught that, you know,

22:19

very very well. But when I saw maybe 3

22:22

years ago an academic paper that showed

22:25

all of the locations of the G-coupled

22:28

estrogen receptors in the human body,

22:30

>> what's that?

22:30

>> I lost my mind. So basically, where are

22:33

the estrogen receptors in the human

22:34

body? And they're everywhere. The brain,

22:37

the bones, the muscle, the gut, you

22:39

know, the the every almost nothing. The

22:42

the the endothelial, the lining of the

22:45

individual blood vessels around our

22:46

heart, you know, it's really radical to

22:49

me to think about how all these sex

22:52

hormones are the progesterone, estrogen,

22:54

testosterone, hormones are everywhere.

22:57

>> What is a hormone?

22:58

>> They're not actually sex hormones.

22:59

hormones are your body's communication

23:01

system, right? So, it is really how your

23:03

body is sending out messengers to

23:05

communicate. So, a hormone is dictating

23:07

an action and I think there's going to

23:09

be a lot of great discussion. But one

23:11

thing that I think is very important to

23:13

your point, Stephen, is even things that

23:16

we were readily taught about the

23:17

menstrual cycle and estrogen,

23:19

progesterone, testosterone, the public

23:21

is now becoming aware of because we've

23:22

not done a good job at public education

23:24

that this is what's really happening in

23:26

your body. this is what your menstrual

23:28

cycle is. This is what happens when you

23:30

go through menopause. This is what

23:32

happens when you're trying to train for

23:34

a sport. We haven't had these

23:36

discussions publicly that we are seeing.

23:39

And I think that is highlighting

23:41

interest in all of this even if some of

23:43

us were taught some of this. But when it

23:46

comes to hormones there, everybody wants

23:49

really easy fast. Draw my level. Tell me

23:51

what to do. Give me a medicine. Fix it.

23:54

And I think the most important thing to

23:55

understand is that by definition, your

23:58

hormones are dynamic. Your body is

24:01

responding to the hormonal signal it

24:03

sees and determining what next signal to

24:06

send out. So constant fluctuation

24:09

throughout the day in response to

24:11

multiple stimuli. And that's how it's

24:13

supposed to be. If we didn't do that,

24:15

we'd all be dead.

24:16

>> It's a symphony. But that makes it

24:17

really hard for somebody to understand

24:19

on the other end who's not in medicine

24:20

who says, "Well, is it my hormones?"

24:24

Because there's no one test that's going

24:25

to give you one answer. You have to

24:27

really interpret it in context of the

24:29

full body. And it makes it really hard

24:31

for practitioners who do not understand

24:33

the hormones as well. And we see a lot

24:35

of mismanagement of hormonal scenarios

24:37

and situations right now that are

24:39

actually detrimental to patients. So,

24:41

I'm glad you're having this discussion

24:43

because that's not a stupid question.

24:45

What is a hormone? Many people don't

24:47

really understand that.

24:48

>> What is the I really want to make sure

24:50

that if someone for both the men that

24:52

probably have less understanding but

24:53

also from our conversations I've

24:54

realized and the feedback I've gotten a

24:56

lot of women don't understand their own

24:58

hormones and their own menstrual cycles.

25:00

What is the most basic level that we

25:02

have to start at to give people an

25:03

understanding that we can then build on

25:06

of what's going on here?

25:07

>> I was say I want to get rid of this

25:09

graph.

25:10

>> Okay. So that leave it out. Leave it

25:13

out. But it it shows just a textbook of

25:17

what a menstrual cycle is is, but it

25:19

doesn't show the daily perturbations of

25:22

estrogen and the luteinizing hormone

25:24

pulses and all the things that go as

25:26

Natalie is saying to make it to make it

25:29

work.

25:30

>> You see two organs there, the ovary and

25:31

the endometrial lining. You're not

25:33

seeing the muscle, the bone, the brain.

25:36

All of those organs are affected by

25:38

these normal monthly fluctuations.

25:40

>> Yeah. And the conversation that we're

25:41

having now in research methodology is

25:45

the fact that there is no real

25:47

definition of normal cuz every woman's

25:49

cycle is variable. So when we look at

25:52

this, everyone thinks that this is

25:53

normal but we don't actually know if

25:56

that is for the fact that a woman's

25:59

variation

26:00

this can change cycle to cycle. This can

26:03

change cycle to cycle. Sometimes we have

26:05

an ovulatory cycles. So until a woman

26:08

can identify what her own normal is, we

26:10

can't rely on this graph to actually

26:12

explain to them.

26:13

>> How does a woman know what their normal

26:15

is versus, you know, because a lot of

26:17

women are on birth control pills since a

26:19

very young age. So I think my partner

26:20

Melanie, she's she was on birth control

26:22

for about a decade. So she like didn't

26:24

have her cycle and then it came back and

26:26

it was every I don't know 60 90 days.

26:28

>> Mhm.

26:29

>> And then she changed her diet a little

26:30

bit and it kind of went down to 30 days

26:32

over time. But I don't think she knew

26:34

what normal was. Is there such thing as

26:36

normal?

26:37

>> I mean there is what should be normal

26:38

for you. So you should have a regular

26:41

predictable period which means that you

26:43

are having a menstrual bleed at a

26:45

predictable interval. It can range

26:46

person to person but for you really it

26:49

should be within a couple days

26:50

monthtomonth. I always tell patients I

26:52

should be able to give you a calendar.

26:53

You should be able to take your finger

26:54

pick when your next period is coming and

26:56

within a few days be accurate. Now

27:00

usually that range is somewhere between

27:02

25 and 35 days for the average person.

27:04

when it starts to get shorter or longer,

27:06

it can be a warning sign that something

27:08

is going on. When it comes to the

27:11

menstrual cycle, because I think we're

27:12

going to talk about these hormones

27:14

really well, and I talk about this every

27:16

day, let's give a one minute

27:18

explanation. If we think about to

27:20

Stacy's point from the brain, the brain

27:22

is sending out pulses of hormones, but

27:24

FSH drives egg growth. It's called

27:26

follicle stimulating hormone, and each

27:28

egg is inside a follicle. So, you have a

27:30

group of follicles inside the ovary. FSH

27:32

comes from the brain, grabs one of them

27:34

and gets it to grow and it makes

27:36

estrogen and this estrogen from the

27:38

ovary as the egg is growing is called

27:40

estradiol and it's the primary type of

27:42

estrogen in your body. So it is rising

27:45

and when it gets to a peak level and the

27:47

body is so fascinating because it's 200

27:49

pogs for 50 hours is a very exact

27:52

amount. Then the brain says we must have

27:54

a mature egg and it kicks out a surge of

27:57

luteinizing hormone or LH and that is

28:00

going to allow the follicle to rupture

28:02

the egg to be released and the follicle

28:04

to reform and then become a corpus

28:06

ludium and then the brain's going to

28:08

send out pulses of LH giving you pulses

28:11

of progesterone. So Stacy's point

28:13

>> that's an average and those numbers on

28:15

the little graph are nowhere near

28:16

accurate because progesterone goes up

28:18

and down the entire second half of the

28:20

cycle known as the ludial phase. What's

28:22

progesterone?

28:23

>> Progesterone is also made from the

28:24

ovary. So, the two main hormones when it

28:26

comes to a premenopausal female are

28:29

going to be estrogen and progesterone.

28:31

Progesterone is the progesterational

28:33

hormone or progreg. It is going to

28:36

change the endometrial lining and it is

28:38

essential to get pregnant. It opens and

28:40

closes the implantation window within

28:42

the uterus and it completely changes the

28:45

physiology of your body. And we're going

28:47

to talk a lot that is why in the ludal

28:48

phase your body works differently when

28:51

you have progesterone

28:52

>> and the lutial phases

28:54

>> after ovulation when you have a corpus

28:55

ludium. So when LH is coming from the

28:58

brain you have a corpus ludium it makes

29:00

progesterone. This is the second half of

29:02

the cycle known as the ludal phase. The

29:04

first half when you have estrogen only

29:06

is the follicular phase. So you have an

29:08

estrogen dominant phase and then you

29:10

have a phase where you have both

29:11

estrogen and progesterone. And your body

29:13

is made Yes. So we have our estrogen

29:16

dominant phase, the follicular phase,

29:18

and then we have we have both estrogen

29:19

and progesterone here in the ludial

29:21

phase. And your body is made to function

29:23

differently in these because in the

29:24

progesterone side, it's preparing you

29:27

for a pregnancy. It thinks every month

29:28

you might get pregnant and it starts to

29:30

change how your body's going to work on

29:33

a cellular level. But if you don't get

29:35

pregnant, that progesterone level is

29:36

going to drop and the cycle starts back

29:38

over.

29:39

>> And from um like a exercise and sports

29:42

>> Yeah. point of view. When we get into

29:44

this, the progesterone's job is to build

29:46

this lush endometrial lining and it

29:50

creates a lot of glycogen storage. So,

29:52

we often hear about glycogen in the

29:54

muscle and that's what we're using for

29:55

fuel. It has a way of shuttling a lot of

29:59

the carbohydrate away and storing it

30:01

into the endometrial lining, which is

30:03

why we see differences in intensity and

30:06

the way that a woman can respond to

30:08

exercise if she has ovulated. So is this

30:11

in preparation of a potential baby?

30:14

>> Yeah, correct. Yeah. In the second half

30:15

of the cycle, your core body temperature

30:18

increases, your resting heart rate is

30:20

higher, your heart rate variability is

30:22

lower, you have increase in fatigue, you

30:25

have an increased appetite, your body is

30:27

shifting function in case an embryo

30:29

comes in so that it can start to divert

30:31

energy and change what it is doing right

30:34

down to your immune system changes.

30:35

>> And that's roughly from day 14 roughly.

30:38

>> Roughly. Yeah. Yeah. At ovulation, it's

30:40

about 3 days after whatever day. If

30:41

you'd like to be specific, it's about 3

30:43

days after ovulation until when you get

30:45

your next period.

30:46

>> Yeah.

30:46

>> You all talk about how our menstrual

30:49

cycles can be a broader sign of whole

30:51

body health.

30:52

>> Mhm.

30:53

>> And um so should if someone's menstrual

30:55

cycle is irregular, should they be

30:57

concerned?

30:57

>> Yes.

30:58

>> Yes.

30:59

>> I thought you were going to say no.

31:02

>> How irregular? What's like if I'm not

31:04

getting my menstrual cycle?

31:05

>> Absolutely not good. You should go see a

31:07

doctor. Yeah, if your cycle is

31:09

irregular, if the calendar trick, you're

31:11

putting your finger and it's nowhere

31:13

near when your cycle's coming. Or I have

31:15

women who say, "Oh, there's no way I

31:16

could predict it." Or, "I know it will

31:18

come, but it'll come every 4 to 6

31:20

weeks." Your body's meant to work like

31:23

clockwork when it comes to your your

31:25

hormones and your menstrual cycle. And

31:27

yes, you can always have one abnormal

31:28

month, always. But when you consistently

31:31

are having irregularity, that is a sign

31:34

that something else is going on. It's

31:35

one of the biggest red flags that we

31:37

have for early hormonal health or

31:39

systemic problems. But to your earlier

31:41

point, Stephen, we have a generation of

31:43

women on contraceptive options who are

31:45

not tracking their cycles. We have women

31:47

who are not taught how to track their

31:48

cycles. They don't know when ovulation

31:50

occurs. They don't know how long their

31:52

ludal phase is. If I say the first sign

31:55

of ovulatory dysfunction or having a

31:57

problem with your cycle is a short ludal

31:59

phase, well, you only know that if

32:02

you're tracking when ovulation occurs

32:03

because otherwise you could still have a

32:05

regular cycle, but you don't know that

32:08

something's abnormal.

32:09

>> And that lut your phase again is the

32:10

last the last half of your your cycle.

32:13

>> Exactly. But I think that the

32:15

conversation that's happening now is so

32:18

not just at this table but in society

32:20

that our monthly cycle is so much more

32:24

than getting ready to have a baby

32:26

because I think that none of us knew

32:28

this.

32:29

>> No.

32:30

>> Because at 17 I wasn't that interested

32:33

in having a baby. So it didn't occur to

32:34

me that I should care.

32:36

>> Right.

32:36

>> Right. And it's the only time if you're

32:40

thinking about it in that way that

32:41

you're worried about your period is if

32:43

you don't have one and pregnancy, right?

32:46

And so if we're shifting the

32:48

conversation to this is physiology, this

32:52

is has to do with every part of female

32:54

physiology,

32:56

maybe it will be easier for people to

32:59

know,

33:00

right?

33:01

>> Yeah. I often put it with u my athletes

33:04

that it's a marker of health that if you

33:05

are able to take on the load of

33:07

training, the load of travel and

33:09

maintain your normal menstrual cycle,

33:12

then you are robust enough to be able to

33:15

progress. But if there becomes a misstep

33:18

in your menstrual cycle, then we need to

33:20

look at all the stressors that are and

33:22

the allosic load and pull you back and

33:25

see what do we need to address? Do you

33:27

need to eat more? Do you need to recover

33:28

more? what are the things that are

33:30

missing to bring you back to normal?

33:32

>> I was diagnosed with polycystic ovarian

33:34

syndrome in medical school and so like

33:37

every medical student of course it was

33:38

like gloom and doom and I you know

33:40

thought I had the most extreme case ever

33:42

known to mankind. It was really just

33:44

garden variety PCOS and I had very

33:47

serious boyfriend quickly engaged you

33:49

know looking forward to having a family

33:50

with him starting a family with him and

33:53

the terror around my infertility and

33:56

what the impact was. What was never

33:58

taught to me and what I didn't

34:00

understand until much later was the

34:02

metabolic impact. Like PCOS is a

34:05

symptom. There's nothing wrong with my

34:06

ovaries. They're just responding to this

34:08

high insulin level I was born with. And

34:11

no one really sat me down and talked to

34:13

me about my first research project was

34:15

women with irregular periods and the

34:16

risk of developing gestational diabetes

34:18

and and you know I didn't even know what

34:20

insulin resistance was at the time. And

34:24

now we're coming to understand that, you

34:26

know, when these young women are coming,

34:28

you know, I only do menopause now, but

34:30

before I left that practice, you know,

34:32

when women were coming with the regular

34:34

cycles and we were making these

34:35

diagnosis, immediately I was launching

34:36

into the discussion about her metabolic

34:38

health long term and what this, you

34:41

know, it's a gift to know this. So now

34:43

we can start making interventions,

34:44

nutrition, diet, exercise to give you a

34:49

better system to deal with this thing

34:50

that you were born with and her

34:52

fertility. Of course,

34:53

>> a huge amount of women have PCOS and I

34:55

think that's one of the leading one of

34:56

the leading one of the top causes of

34:58

having irregular menstrual cycles. You

35:01

you mentioned insulin resistance and

35:04

metabolic dysfunction there. And you

35:05

said something like diabet gestational

35:08

diabetes,

35:08

>> diabetes in pregnancy. So someone who

35:10

was non-diabetic before pregnancy and

35:14

then develops diabetes. So her blood

35:16

sugars have now reached a threshold

35:18

where they are higher than normal and

35:20

can cause you know problems for her

35:22

pregnancy and herself long term. And up

35:25

to 50% of those patients de who develop

35:27

diabetes in pregnancy will develop type

35:31

2 diabetes within 10 to 15 years after

35:33

that gestation after being pregnant. And

35:36

so what we know now is like we have

35:38

warning signs of this well before

35:40

pregnancy where we can set these women

35:42

up for success. Before it's just we wait

35:44

till we make the diagnosis, everybody

35:46

gets their glucose test and off you go.

35:48

But now with this PCOS diagnosis, we are

35:52

monitoring earlier. We're starting her

35:53

on the nutrition. You know, we're

35:55

treating her like a diabetic with

35:56

nutrition and exercise recommendations

35:59

rather than waiting till she she reaches

36:01

the criteria. Stephen, having

36:03

infertility, this is a scary statistic.

36:05

It predisposes you to many medical

36:09

problems later in life, including an 80%

36:12

higher chance of having a heart attack,

36:14

75% higher chance having metabolic

36:16

syndrome, higher risk of cancer, and

36:17

early death. Why infertility? Well, it's

36:20

not exactly that infertility is causing

36:22

this, but it's that for many women,

36:24

we'll use Dr. Haver's example, you're

36:27

healthy until you get this diagnosis.

36:29

It's one of the first warning signs your

36:31

body's giving you that there might be

36:33

inflammation and insulin resistance or

36:35

something impacting your hormones, your

36:38

menstrual cycle, your ability to

36:39

conceive that if it is not corrected now

36:43

is setting you up for many problems down

36:45

the road. PCOS is a example of this

36:48

because in PCOS you have a lot of eggs

36:51

inside the ovary. It's actually

36:53

something that genetically runs in

36:56

families. likely there's something that

36:58

happens when you're a baby inside your

36:59

mom that predisposes your ovary to not

37:02

lose as many eggs as it should and it

37:04

changes how they respond to insulin. So

37:06

what happens is you end up having more

37:09

eggs on an average. Your brain doesn't

37:12

know this and sends out the average

37:13

signals but that gets diluted amongst

37:16

all the eggs and so you're not getting

37:18

into these ovulatory stages of Stacy's

37:20

favorite graph here. Well, what happens

37:22

from there is that you're actually in a

37:24

relatively lower in estrogen phase than

37:26

you should be. You never see the

37:28

progesterone. And what happens is you

37:30

start to completely shift. The ovary

37:32

itself actually becomes insulin

37:34

resistant. And what this means is that

37:37

throughout your entire body, you start

37:40

to develop high glucose, which is the

37:42

blood, right? That's your blood sugar.

37:44

Your blood sugar is the fuel for all

37:46

your cells. All your cells need glucose.

37:48

Well, insulin is the hormone that helps

37:50

that glucose go from the bloodstream

37:51

into your cells. Well, in insulin

37:53

resistance, when your body sees high

37:55

glucose all the time, it starts to send

37:57

out more insulin saying, "Hey, we need

37:59

to get this into cells, but the cells

38:01

start to, oh, I'm used to insulin being

38:03

here, so I'm not going to respond." It's

38:06

going to take a higher insulin signal to

38:08

get the cell to open up the door and let

38:10

glucose comes in. This becomes very

38:13

problematic especially in we'll say PCOS

38:16

because that insulin is very

38:17

inflammatory causes you to get extra fat

38:20

stored in different places. It also just

38:23

completely changes how your body your

38:25

metabolic health in general but also

38:27

your hormonal health and in your brain

38:29

because your brain sees this and says

38:30

why are we keeping glucose in our in our

38:32

bloodstream is what's going on heightens

38:35

everything. And so this resistance to

38:37

insulin actually shifts how your brain's

38:40

going to respond to hormones, therefore

38:42

the hormones it's sending out. And it's

38:43

a self-perpetuating cycle. And a lot of

38:47

when we talk about lifestyle mechanisms

38:49

to improve hormonal health, which I know

38:51

that we all will, a lot of that is

38:53

targeting improving insulin resistance

38:56

and combating inflammation because those

38:59

two players, a lot of it is controlled

39:01

by the world around us and what we do to

39:04

some degree. And especially if you have

39:05

an underlying diagnosis like PCOS,

39:08

>> endometriosis, which is a chronic

39:10

inflammatory disease, autoimmune

39:12

disease, you're at even higher risk. I

39:14

always say your scale is already tipped

39:16

in a way that's going to be really hard

39:18

for you. You have to make active steps

39:20

to fight what is happening inside your

39:22

body.

39:23

>> We'll talk about some of the ways one

39:25

can reverse their PCOS, if that's even a

39:27

possibility. Um, but again on the causal

39:30

factors, is it something So my

39:32

girlfriend's got PCOS. She's been very

39:34

public about that. Um, is it something

39:36

she did? Is it something she ate? Is it

39:39

>> She was Is this the way she was born?

39:41

So, she was born with a predisposition

39:43

of having too many eggs. You lose most

39:45

of the eggs inside your body when you're

39:46

a baby inside your mother's womb. You

39:48

lose the next biggest set before you

39:50

ever have your first period. Now, if you

39:53

don't lose them for some reason, you're

39:55

born with more and it interferes with

39:57

how your hormones are supposed to

39:58

communicate leading to this metabolic

40:01

issue and this insulin resistance. She

40:04

did nothing to cause this. Nobody with

40:05

PCOS caused it. However, what you said

40:07

earlier, oh, she changed how she ate and

40:09

her cycles got more regular.

40:12

>> You can influence the severity of the

40:15

symptoms that you experience with it. So

40:17

even if you don't cause your disease cuz

40:19

you did not,

40:20

>> choices you make can make it absolutely

40:22

can make it better or worse, just like

40:24

any disease.

40:26

>> And when you use the word insulin, I I

40:27

think of or insulin resistance, I think

40:29

of sugar.

40:30

>> Mhm.

40:30

>> Yeah. Because glucose is sugar

40:32

essentially. And many people, and I'll

40:34

have patients tell me this, I don't need

40:36

to worry about insulin resistance

40:37

because I don't have diabetes or it's

40:39

not in my family. And we've so we've

40:42

ingrained this word insulin resistance

40:44

or talking about glucose or checking

40:46

glucose with a diabetic or pre-diabetic

40:49

state. But the world around us honestly

40:52

promotes insulin resistance. It's it

40:55

that's how our bodies we live in this

40:58

obesogenic environment. I mean there's

41:00

no doubt at least in the US you know and

41:03

most industrialized nations our

41:05

environment is what we call obesogenic

41:07

insulin you know and insulin resistant

41:10

so it you have to fight against kind of

41:13

the systems that are in place now for

41:15

most of us unless we have some genetic

41:17

predisposition to just be you know

41:19

magical um to because the way we process

41:23

food the way food is delivered to

41:24

communities the way you know our lack of

41:27

exercise you know everyone's working

41:28

from home now just just modern life is

41:31

is really you have to fight against.

41:34

>> One of the questions that came in from

41:35

the audience was I would like to know

41:37

how best to manage my PCOS.

41:39

>> When it comes to managing your PCOS,

41:42

targeting those two factors that we

41:43

talked about earlier, insulin resistance

41:44

and inflammation are really the key. And

41:47

I'll let these two speak to a little bit

41:49

of some of the exercise changes that we

41:51

can try to impact. But what I'll say is

41:54

that the best way to decrease

41:56

inflammation in your body is going to be

41:58

to start by focusing on your gut. Your

42:00

gut health controls a lot of the

42:02

inflammatory burden that your body sees.

42:04

The foods you choose to eat, they can be

42:07

both helpful if they have a lot of fiber

42:09

in them. They can feed your gut

42:11

microbiome, which is important in

42:13

estrogen metabolism, but they can also

42:16

be very harmful if they are

42:18

ultrarocessed foods that are even

42:19

causing more inflammation, not feeding

42:22

your gut microbiome at all and

42:24

worsening. So, I always say it's like a

42:25

scale. If you think every little food I

42:28

eat, it can make my insulin or it can

42:30

make my inflammation better, it can make

42:32

it worse. And so how we structure the

42:35

food that we put in our body is one of

42:37

the biggest changes the majority of

42:39

people can make that is going to make a

42:41

difference. And that's going to be a

42:43

very plantforward diet. Doesn't mean

42:45

it's plant only, but plants have fiber.

42:48

Fruits and vegetables have fiber. So we

42:50

have to make sure we're getting fiber as

42:53

a big change. That's what we see. I see

42:55

a lot of patients with PCOS specifically

42:57

being told I shouldn't eat fruit. I

42:59

shouldn't do this. I I need to avoid

43:02

>> do the ketogenic. You need to do keto.

43:03

Yes. So, we see people avoiding certain

43:06

food groups. And I always say it's not a

43:07

really sexy diet, but it's a it's a diet

43:09

we all know.

43:10

>> Lots of whole foods, fruits and

43:12

vegetables, healthy fats, healthy

43:14

sources of protein, avoiding the

43:16

ultrarocessed foods. That's going to be

43:18

probably the biggest change most people

43:19

can make. In addition to foundational

43:22

changes of your day, which is going to

43:23

be sleep more, that is when your body

43:26

fights inflammation, fights insulin

43:28

resistance. work on decreasing chronic

43:32

stress. To Stacy's point, you're not

43:34

running from the bear. So, your body is

43:36

not using that challenge, but you get a

43:39

email. You get stressed and your body

43:42

releases a lot of glucose so it can have

43:44

sugar and fuel to run from a bear and

43:46

there's no bear, right? And previous

43:48

days that would happen and then you'd go

43:50

run and that glucose would go into all

43:52

of your muscles and your body would go

43:54

back to normal. But now, we're

43:56

chronically stressed. So, actively

43:58

decreasing stress and then exercise,

44:01

building and using skeletal muscle is

44:03

one of the most effective ways to combat

44:05

insulin resistance that exists. And

44:08

since 80% of patients with PCOS have

44:10

insulin resistance, a large portion of

44:13

women with infertility, even without

44:15

PCOS, have insulin resistance, that is a

44:18

huge thing that people are missing,

44:21

especially when it comes to the exercise

44:23

discussion. And I know you guys probably

44:24

have things to add on that one. No, but

44:27

based on what you just I just took a

44:28

phone call this morning from a patient

44:30

when and it's just such a typical

44:33

conversation. She doesn't like the way

44:36

her body looks.

44:38

>> Her solution is not to eat. It's this

44:41

happens almost every day when I'm

44:43

talking to people. It's we're having

44:45

coffee for breakfast. We don't eat till

44:47

midday when we do eat. So the the gut

44:51

reaction because of the way many women

44:54

are raised is that we're going to starve

44:56

ourselves which is the opposite of good

44:58

when it comes to physiologic wholeness

45:01

and then you don't have the energy to do

45:03

the kind of exercise you need or on the

45:06

other side the response is I am going to

45:09

work so hard every single day that you

45:13

actually increase your stress there is

45:15

over there is overtraining

45:18

>> so you're just getting behind the

45:20

eightball with starving yourself and

45:21

overtraining. None of which are going to

45:23

solve either the core problem due to

45:26

PCOS or the core problem in any stage of

45:30

a woman's life. Right.

45:31

>> And this is where we look at the

45:32

socioultural effect of what a woman is

45:34

supposed to look like.

45:36

>> Yeah.

45:36

>> And that's the thing that I really

45:38

pushing out. It's like we want to think

45:41

about how strong we can be and how much

45:44

muscle we can build because muscle is a

45:46

massive metabolic help. Mhm.

45:49

>> And as as well as bone, right? So, we

45:53

talk about it and then when I get the

45:54

push back of, oh, I'm going to do fasted

45:57

training or I'm going to fast till noon.

45:58

I'm like, wait a second. Not only were

46:00

we going to interfere with our circadian

46:02

rhythm and our hormone pulses, we're

46:04

also acutely interfering with our

46:07

appetite hormones because if we're

46:09

looking at gerolin, which is our active

46:12

form of of our appetite, makes us

46:14

hungry. It's elevated with cortisol. And

46:16

so if we're thinking about that

46:18

elevation and we're not doing anything

46:19

to drop it and tell our body we have

46:21

food, then it goes in and directly

46:23

affects our neuropeptides, which then

46:26

affects our hormone, our hormone pulses.

46:28

So when a woman's like, I'm just having

46:30

coffee for breakfast and I'm going to

46:31

hold my fast. It's like, okay, well,

46:33

here we go. Cortisol is going up. As

46:35

Gary, you're going to get hungrier. Then

46:36

you're going to learn not to respond to

46:38

that hunger. You're going to hold your

46:40

fast. And we see from the research that

46:42

women who do that end up craving more

46:44

simple carbohydrates in the afternoon

46:46

moving incidentally less and

46:48

contributing to poor sleep because

46:50

they've now phase shifted. So when we're

46:52

talking about sleep and how important

46:54

sleep is, we also have to think about

46:55

the circadian rhythm and how it is

46:57

affected by food intake, light,

47:00

darkness, and all of the things. And we

47:02

need women to understand we want to

47:03

build muscle. We want to sleep well and

47:05

that requires food. Well, and it this

47:08

goes back this whole thing you just said

47:10

goes back to very early in this

47:13

conversation where I was talking about

47:17

sometimes we like to focus on the bright

47:19

shiny gadgets

47:20

>> when we haven't taken our health from

47:23

fine to optimize because everything you

47:27

just talked about

47:29

>> it isn't a gadget it's basic lifestyle

47:33

>> in the medical model of PCOS when I'm

47:36

talking about what we're taught and how

47:39

we train our clinicians.

47:42

We go into the, you know, we we aren't

47:44

taught a lot about disease prevention or

47:46

and I hate to use the term root cause

47:48

because I think it's been usurped by

47:49

certain members of, you know, the

47:51

wellness community.

47:52

>> Take it back.

47:52

>> Yeah, we're going to take it back. And

47:54

so, especially for PCOS, I was taught to

47:57

give a patient birth control pills or

47:58

Clomid when she's ready to get pregnant.

48:00

And so nothing nothing around nutrition,

48:05

exercise, lowering inflammation and I

48:07

was a program director until 2018 and

48:10

there was nothing in the curriculum

48:12

around this which affects at least 10%

48:15

of women probably more this condition

48:18

that how important lifestyle is. You

48:21

know, she went on for 10 minutes about

48:23

all the lifestyle change, which is

48:25

amazing.

48:25

>> Which is amazing.

48:26

>> But but patients,

48:27

>> but I'm sitting there thinking birth

48:28

control pills, birth control pills. I

48:30

mean, that was a knee-jerk reaction. I

48:31

mean, I was treated for my own

48:33

polycystic ovarian syndrome for 20 years

48:36

with oral contraceptive agents. And I

48:39

learned online through chat rooms about

48:42

the nutrition end of it.

48:45

>> Yeah. when I have athletes because we

48:47

see a higher percentage of PCOS in

48:49

successful female athletes.

48:51

>> Why

48:51

>> like what do I do? And it's looking at

48:54

what kind of training they're doing. So,

48:56

we're putting this more short, sharp,

48:58

high intensity to get that post exercise

49:00

response of anti-inflammatory,

49:03

growth hormone response, all of these

49:05

things that then bring down total body

49:07

inflammation. And then we're very

49:09

careful about food intake and when we're

49:11

doing it and what kinds of food so that

49:14

they don't have to go down the route of

49:16

oral contraceptive pills because that to

49:19

them has an effect on their performance.

49:20

When we're talking about the top end and

49:22

when we bring it back down into

49:24

recreational female athletes, we can do

49:26

the same thing. It's just we have to

49:27

educate and say these are our lifestyle

49:29

choices and then these are our medical

49:32

choices and what's optimal for your life

49:34

at this point. Mhm.

49:35

>> It's important to say at this table, and

49:37

we all talked about it last night, you

49:40

need to have a period if you're not

49:41

preventing a period with hormonal

49:43

contraception and you're in your

49:44

reproductive years. Because very often

49:47

women with PCOS or hypothalamic

49:50

amenorhea will say, I don't have a

49:52

period, but I didn't really like that

49:54

anyway, so it doesn't bother me, right?

49:56

How many women have said, well, I didn't

49:57

get my period for a year, but that was

49:59

fine by me. But that's not fine by your

50:02

body. That is hypoestrogenic time. It is

50:05

low estrogen.

50:06

>> Yeah. Very low estrogen. It's bad for

50:08

your body on so many reasons to be low

50:11

estrogen during these crucial bone

50:13

building years. But for we're talking

50:15

about how your hormones communicate

50:16

back. It's very harmful to long-term

50:18

health to have low estrogen

50:22

at all.

50:22

>> Brain health.

50:23

>> But yeah, but especially in young years

50:26

when you're still developing.

50:28

>> Why would a woman say that she didn't

50:30

want to have her period? I mean, this is

50:31

a super naive question as a guy, but I

50:32

understand it's painful.

50:33

>> I mean, do you want to bleed from

50:34

>> Do you want that?

50:35

>> I mean, if it was a choice now,

50:37

>> actually knowing now what I know now

50:41

>> and for my own young daughters, I'm

50:42

like, we have got to make sure you have

50:44

a period. But when I was young, I was a

50:47

dancer and an athlete. I had very low

50:50

body fat and I wouldn't have periods for

50:52

6 to9 months. And I'm like, yes.

50:54

>> Do you know what's interesting? I was

50:55

thinking of Mel.

50:58

She because of what she's been through

51:00

and also because she's listened to the

51:02

conversations I've had with all of you

51:04

and she understands the value and

51:06

importance of her period, she now

51:08

celebrates it. It's like a celebration

51:10

in our house when it arrives because

51:12

>> because if you understand the importance

51:13

that it has in sort of full body health

51:15

and the role it's playing, then the

51:18

pain, the downside

51:20

>> is weighted against your understanding

51:22

of the upside, which to her means she's

51:24

healthy, she's fat,

51:25

>> hormonal health is working, things are

51:26

great. And that's the conversation shift

51:29

that I'm hoping is gonna instead of

51:31

being a detriment and a downer and

51:32

talked about she must be on whatever

51:34

derogatory yes derogatory things are

51:37

said about us that oh my gosh she is so

51:40

healthy.

51:41

>> Yeah. I remember sitting in a high

51:44

performance meeting just maybe three

51:46

years ago and the leading athletics

51:48

coach stood up and said I know when my

51:50

athletes are ready to perform on the

51:52

world stage when their periods stop. And

51:54

all of us went what?

51:57

It's like no, that's the time where like

52:00

we have to really look at your athlete

52:02

is getting ready to crack and be

52:03

injured.

52:04

>> And it's still this pervasive idea and

52:07

it's still pervasive even in the fitness

52:09

industry that losing your period is okay

52:12

cuz that means you're training harder.

52:13

>> They actually are very resistant to

52:15

getting it back.

52:15

>> Yes. Like it's a sign of failure of

52:18

their sport or their athletic endeavor

52:20

because this is is so pervasive. And I

52:22

think that's why it's important to have

52:24

these discussions. And I love hearing

52:26

that Mel now says, "Yay, my period is

52:28

here." Because that's a sign of hormonal

52:30

health and things are working well

52:32

because that is how we should feel. But

52:34

I think the other part of it is for

52:36

women who have mayoria or heavy bleeding

52:39

and heavy cramping. They don't realize

52:41

that they can get help with that as

52:43

well. Mhm.

52:43

>> And that's a conversation that isn't

52:45

followed through when we're like, "Yes,

52:46

get your period, but if you're someone

52:48

who suffers from really bad cramps, we

52:50

also have to educate that there are

52:51

things that we can do to help with that.

52:53

>> Does the size of the bleed matter?"

52:56

Because she turned around to me the

52:57

other day and she said with her last

52:59

cycle, she said that she didn't bleed

53:00

much and she seemed slightly concerned.

53:02

Obviously, I had no idea what to say to

53:04

that.

53:04

>> It depends.

53:05

>> Congratulations. Well done. I'm so

53:06

sorry. minora. So we have definitions

53:09

and there are you know we don't walk

53:10

around with measuring cups generally

53:12

between our legs to measure how much

53:14

blood's coming out each month. But

53:15

>> but women know

53:16

>> but women know your period should not

53:18

cause you with modern you know period

53:22

products your cycle shouldn't cause you

53:25

any stress in your life. You should just

53:27

roll with it, right? And so that's when

53:29

I'm like when is it a problem?

53:30

>> Shouldn't bleed through your clothes.

53:31

>> You should be able to sleep through the

53:32

night. You should be able to get through

53:34

an athletic performance. You should be

53:35

able to do X, Y, and Z. Now when we do

53:38

start measuring and you should not be

53:40

anemic. So I'm not waiting till anemia.

53:43

I am anemia is low red blood cell count

53:46

you know to the point where your

53:48

performance is affected. Your ability to

53:50

carry oxygen is effective. So the red

53:51

blood cells are what carries oxygen in

53:56

our bodies. And women who have heavy

53:59

periods however that's defined can lead

54:02

to anemia. But the first thing that we

54:04

notice is their feritin is dropping.

54:06

That's the first sign my do my daughter

54:08

we just had some blood work done. She

54:09

was feeling a little fatigued and her

54:11

ferotin and iron saturations were really

54:13

low and I was like talk to me about your

54:14

period. Turns out she's not eating a lot

54:16

of iron rich foods. So we're dealing

54:17

with that. But you know we can get so

54:19

far ahead of this and looking at these

54:22

ferotin levels the transfer you know

54:24

these iron studies before she's actually

54:26

anemic which is like the last thing that

54:28

happens when her red blood cell count

54:30

drops or they become so small and what

54:32

we call microitic. you know, we are we

54:35

need to do a better job at recognizing

54:37

these things. We're not going to walk

54:38

around and measure how much blood's

54:40

coming out because I could maybe squeak

54:42

out 200 cc's, you know, a period and you

54:45

could be 300 and we're both doing fine.

54:47

You know, we both have great. So, I

54:48

think it's really looking at, you know,

54:50

how much bleeding is too much. Now, how

54:52

little is too much? That that's probably

54:54

better in your

54:55

>> Yeah. Is any change from what you

54:57

consider normal? We would all say this

54:58

is a normal amount. So if it gets

54:59

heavier than that or less than that and

55:02

it stays that way, that is concerning.

55:04

You can always have a one-off. Estrogen

55:06

is the driver of growing the uterine

55:08

lining. So if you have a lighter bleed

55:11

one month, we are concerned that you did

55:13

not grow as thick of a lining. Your body

55:15

didn't see as much estrogen. Most the

55:17

time you ovulated earlier that cycle,

55:19

your cycle came a little bit sooner than

55:21

you're used to it coming, and it's not

55:23

quite a big deal. But this can be

55:26

concerning if we see consistently light

55:28

periods, especially if we have history

55:31

of progesterone contraception, which

55:33

progesterone thins out the lining and

55:35

estrogen grows it. So progesterone

55:38

actually stabilizes it, but for the sake

55:39

of the discussion, we'll say estrogen

55:41

grows it, progesterone thins it. When

55:44

you only see progesterone, like a

55:45

progesterone IUD, the progesterone shot,

55:48

even continuous birth control pills,

55:50

because they give you a type of

55:52

synthetic estrogen and progesterone

55:54

every day, your uterine lining gets

55:57

thinner and thinner and thinner. And so

56:00

we see it can take months to return to

56:02

normal after coming off of hormonal

56:04

contraception. You also can get damage

56:07

to the endometrial lining. There's stem

56:09

cells in the endometrium that regenerate

56:11

every month after you bleed. They

56:14

regenerate so that the next group can

56:16

grow in response to estrogen. And this

56:18

can get damaged from typically anything

56:21

inside the uterus. So most commonly this

56:24

is post birth, you know, a traumatic

56:26

birth, a retained placenta, a DNC

56:29

procedure, which is sometimes used after

56:31

birth or in a miscarriage or even IUDs

56:34

or intrauterine surgery. and it can form

56:36

scar tissue in the uterus that can cause

56:38

a light period. So if you said, "Oh, Mel

56:42

had a miscarriage and had this procedure

56:44

and now her periods are lighter." I'm

56:45

highly concerned.

56:47

>> Versus amen.

56:48

>> Yeah. So that is concerning for scar

56:50

tissue in the uterus.

56:51

>> Okay.

56:52

>> If you said, "Oh, she was on a birth

56:55

control pill for a while and now it's a

56:57

little bit lighter." I'm less concerned

56:58

that's probably going to get better. or

57:00

if this period came closer together

57:02

>> or if you traveled around the world

57:04

three times this last month or

57:06

>> so one one off is no big deal but a

57:09

change from your baseline can be

57:11

concerning in addition we should say

57:12

that that graph is beautiful but you

57:15

know your thyroid your pituitary gland

57:17

it makes prolactin prolactin also

57:19

changes the endometrium so there's

57:21

subtle signs of other hormonal issues

57:24

that your menstrual cycle is the first

57:26

warning sign that something is off

57:28

>> what about pain She 2 months ago she had

57:31

like excruciating pain that I've never

57:32

seen before during her menstrual cycle.

57:35

>> Well, it's not pleasant to have your

57:37

uterus contract and expel its contents

57:40

in any form.

57:41

>> But what if it's like way above the

57:43

norm?

57:44

>> One time way above the norm is probably

57:46

situational based on other things that

57:48

are contributing to inflammatory burden

57:51

or response. your body is also healing

57:53

from a the corpus ludium's a cyst on

57:55

your ovary that can also feel painful

57:57

and at the time of your period it is

57:59

also healing so there's multiple things

58:01

that can cause pain

58:04

to Vonda's point so many people say I

58:06

have a high pain tolerance this is okay

58:09

because we don't talk about our own pain

58:11

so I don't know if my pain is normal

58:13

compared to somebody else's your pain

58:16

should not keep you out of your

58:18

activities of daily living you shouldn't

58:20

call in sick to school call in sick to

58:22

work, cancel dinner plans with friends

58:25

consistently. Again, everybody can have

58:27

a one-off month where something is off.

58:29

But if this happens every month, oh,

58:31

it's my period. I'm going to cancel

58:32

that. That is a warning sign that

58:35

something else could be going on.

58:36

Endometriosis, adnomiiosis, and uterine

58:39

fibroids.

58:39

>> You mentioned the word iron a second

58:41

ago, Dr. Mary. What is iron got to do

58:45

with this? And what is iron? So iron is

58:47

an element that is in our diets and we

58:50

do tend to store quite a bit of iron in

58:52

our bodies and it's an essential when we

58:54

look at the structure of the red blood

58:55

cell and of hemoglobin specifically. So

58:58

hemoglobin is the actual molecule that

59:00

is inside of the red blood cell that

59:02

carries the oxygen. So iron is really

59:04

critical to the formation of healthy you

59:08

know iron carrying red blood cells and

59:10

we we store iron in our bodies and so

59:13

and a lot in the bone marrow and in and

59:16

it's stored in this particular molecule

59:18

called feritin. So when we're measuring

59:20

ferotin levels in the blood that is you

59:24

know the first sign that your iron

59:25

stores are getting low is when we see

59:27

these low feritin levels. Are women more

59:30

iron deficient than one would think?

59:33

Like is the general population iron

59:35

deficient or what do you tend to see

59:37

when you run lab tests?

59:39

>> A menstruating woman. Yes.

59:40

>> A menstruating woman is is often

59:43

iron deficient.

59:44

>> Yes. And I we I do see it in our post

59:46

post-menopausal patients as well. That's

59:48

usually nutritional and inflammation

59:51

related. So ferotin is also something

59:54

that will decrease in in times of

59:56

chronic inflammation. And so you're not

59:57

able to utilize the iron that's coming

59:59

in and store it because this

60:00

inflammatory state is kind of inhibiting

60:02

that. So in a menstruating patient, I'm

60:05

always thinking is she bleeding too much

60:07

the first time, you know, and is that

60:08

bleeding menstrual? Is it coming from

60:09

her rectum? Is it coming from her

60:11

gastrointestinal tract? You know, does

60:13

she have gastritis or, you know, we have

60:14

to go through the, you know, the

60:16

algorithm of why that might happen. In a

60:18

post-menopausal patient, we can remove

60:20

vaginal bleeding from the issue, you

60:22

know, uterine bleeding, a period, but

60:24

then now I'm looking at nutrition. And

60:26

I'm looking at exercise. I'm looking at

60:27

inflammation as causitive factors.

60:29

>> And the global pitch here is the World

60:30

Health Organization estimates that

60:32

roughly 30% of women aged 15 to 49

60:34

worldwide are anemic with iron

60:36

deficiency being the leading cause. And

60:38

in some reason regions of South Asia and

60:40

subsaharan Africa prevalence can be up

60:42

to 50% of women are anemic with iron

60:46

deficiency being the leading cause. H

60:49

>> you noticed the norms have changed.

60:52

>> So it depends on who you read.

60:54

>> Yeah. again, you know, when you're

60:55

looking at male male normative curves

60:57

versus what you know, we're we're tend

61:00

to accept lower levels for a female. But

61:02

now that we're looking at performance

61:04

and, you know, looking at other factors

61:07

besides just what is this feritin level,

61:10

>> um there's a lot great new research

61:12

coming out that we are looking at this

61:14

differently and that that we're in our

61:16

clinic, we are looking for 60 to 100 for

61:18

a feritin level to be considered

61:20

optimal. very different than, you know,

61:23

the baseline for, you know, keeping you

61:27

out of out of a hospital versus you

61:30

functioning at your absolute best.

61:32

>> Yeah. Because the norms that often get

61:34

measured for us

61:37

>> because they tripled, right? They were

61:38

15 and then they went up to to 40.

61:40

>> So now they're saying 20 and above is

61:43

normal. And when I look at a lot of

61:45

women who are sitting 20 to 30, they

61:48

can't get help.

61:49

>> They cannot get help. And it's like,

61:51

whoa, it was maybe four or five years

61:53

ago. If you were below 50, then we would

61:56

look to get help. But now with the norms

61:58

that have shifted with the sicker

62:00

population,

62:02

we can't get women help unless they are

62:04

below 20. So when we say normal, I think

62:07

this is important for everybody watching

62:09

or listening. Normal in medicine means

62:12

common,

62:14

>> not non-pathological,

62:16

>> okay?

62:16

>> Not bad, you know, doesn't mean it's not

62:18

bad. And so norms shifting meaning we're

62:21

getting sicker as a population and we're

62:24

willing to accept lower levels although

62:26

they're not optimal for health. The lab

62:29

reference range what they say when you

62:30

get your blood work drawn and you see

62:31

the reference range is based on

62:34

population averages. And so if the

62:36

population is more anemic this is going

62:39

to accept a lower levels being normal

62:43

even though they're by no means optimal.

62:45

And I think that's one thing we all talk

62:48

about is well how are you feeling your

62:50

symptomology? What do we see? And you

62:52

have to interpret blood work in context

62:54

of the whole person and what is

62:56

happening. And that is one issue we do

62:58

see with getting your own blood work

63:00

drawn or these online companies when

63:02

nobody's interpreting it or helping you

63:04

interpret it on the other end. You see

63:06

something that is in a normal range but

63:09

it's not at all optimal for you and it

63:11

could be the reason why insurance. Yeah,

63:13

exactly. I want to talk about

63:14

endometriosis. I we have a team member

63:16

who's been with the Davosio since the

63:18

very beginning called Liv.

63:19

>> Yes.

63:20

>> Are you familiar with Liv?

63:21

>> I am.

63:22

>> So at age 13, she had her first period

63:24

and she experienced agonizing pain with

63:25

heavy bleeding.

63:27

>> At age 14, she was put on the pill to

63:29

manage the symptoms. Between age 15 and

63:32

24, she continued to have severe stomach

63:34

pain which resulted in multiple A&E

63:37

visits. She was often dismissed as

63:40

having gastriisitis.

63:42

>> Mhm. And it led to having her appendix

63:44

removed.

63:45

>> Oh my god.

63:47

>> Why'd you say oh my god

63:48

>> can get surgery?

63:50

>> But she had major surgery and

63:54

>> um I' I've seen this course before and

63:57

it's it's devastating cuz she's going

63:59

years and years and years now of

64:01

>> Yeah. age 25 she came off the pill to

64:04

see how she felt without it but her

64:06

periods worsened and she fainted from

64:07

the pain. So she went to accident and

64:09

emergency. At age 26, she got an

64:11

ultrasound which suggested

64:13

endometriosis, but no NHS diagnosis was

64:16

given.

64:18

We ultimately had a conversation with

64:20

you on the podcast, Natalie, and she

64:22

felt very heard and she was actually

64:24

there. And so afterwards, Jamaima in the

64:26

team, who you you guys know, um told Liv

64:29

to come and speak to me. And Liv told me

64:31

after you left about um the symptoms,

64:34

did she speak directly to you at that

64:36

time? She did. Okay. So, she came and

64:37

she spoke to us about her endometriosis,

64:39

which is the first time I'd ever heard

64:40

of it. Um, and then we offered to help

64:44

support her privately so she could get

64:45

private support with it. Um, and she got

64:49

an MRI scan privately, which confirmed

64:50

stage 4 infiltrating endometriosis.

64:53

>> Oh gosh.

64:55

>> Liv then pushed um on with her NHS

64:58

appointments, the National Health

64:59

Service in the UK, but the pain was so

65:01

much that she took me up on my offer to

65:04

pay for it privately. So, we paid for it

65:06

privately. Uh, and the endometriosis by

65:08

that point had spread to her bowels and

65:09

pelvis. And I've got this picture of

65:11

this four cm cyst. If you're all

65:14

faint-hearted, I mean, I don't know

65:15

where we'll put this on the screen, but

65:17

this is from her operation.

65:18

>> Yeah. It's called an endometrioma. It's

65:20

huge.

65:21

>> For anyone that can't see, it kind of

65:23

looks like a tumor.

65:24

>> Yeah.

65:25

>> Um, next to her ovaries

65:28

>> and it had spread at that point to her

65:30

bow and pis pelvis. It had become about

65:32

4 cm big. Her ovaries were stuck

65:34

together and attached to her womb and

65:36

her bowels. She then needed to book an

65:38

appointment for surgery. And before the

65:40

surgery, because of the scale of her

65:41

endometriosis, she had her eggs frozen

65:43

to protect her future fertility, which I

65:45

guess came from your advice. This

65:47

process took her 7 years and she was in

65:50

pain for 17 years because she did not

65:53

get a diagnosis.

65:55

>> Her story is unfortunately not uncommon.

65:58

This is a very typical story for

66:01

somebody who suffers from endometriosis.

66:04

Endometriosis is an inflammatory

66:07

condition. And the way I like to explain

66:09

it is when your body responds abnormally

66:11

to a normal process. You have immune

66:13

dysfunction as well. So let's think of

66:14

it as an autoimmune disease and a

66:16

chronic inflammatory disease. When you

66:19

have your period, you bleed out

66:20

indometrial cells in your menstrual

66:22

blood. We're used to that. In everybody,

66:24

you also have some indometrial cells

66:26

that will escape out the fallopian

66:27

tubes. That's not a big deal. If you

66:28

take out somebody's appendix while

66:30

they're on their period, you'll actually

66:31

see menstrual blood in their abdominal

66:33

cavity. In the regular person without

66:35

endo, your body says, "Oh, she's just on

66:39

her period." In the person who has

66:40

endometriosis, this creates a huge

66:43

inflammatory response where your body

66:45

starts to attack indometrial cells and

66:48

you get these implants throughout the

66:50

what's called the peritineal cavity or

66:51

the abdominal cavity of indometriallike

66:54

tissue that gets worse every time your

66:56

body sees estrogen which because it's

66:59

feeding the endometrium just like it

67:01

would in the uterus and so it gets worse

67:04

over time. The more ovulatory cycles you

67:06

have the disease gets worse. It's so

67:09

inflammatory that it's not uncommon to

67:11

get extensive

67:13

organ scarring. You get anatomical

67:16

distortion. These are some of the

67:18

toughest surgical cases in addition to

67:22

managing lifelong health but also

67:24

fertility as well.

67:25

>> Just obliterate the anatomy like because

67:27

the infiltration you'll these implants

67:29

will start growing into other organs

67:31

because they'll find new blood supply.

67:33

They'll steal blood, you know, blood

67:35

supply from from the bowel from because

67:37

all of our pelvic organs are just

67:39

sitting there on top of each other, the

67:40

bladder, the bowel, the c, you know, and

67:43

so

67:44

>> it sounds like it's alive, like it's a

67:45

cancer or something.

67:46

>> Think of it like velcro is what I say

67:47

almost these little patches of velcro

67:49

and they just start sticking together.

67:50

And that's what inflammation and

67:52

scarring does throughout your whole

67:53

body. And what happens here is that

67:57

because the primary symptoms of

67:58

endometriosis is pain. So again, back to

68:02

women's pain being taken seriously.

68:05

>> That's one of the issues and why the

68:07

average time to diagnosis is 7 to 10

68:10

years. Truly 17 years in this case from

68:12

when she had pain.

68:14

>> But the other symptoms do include

68:15

sometimes also pain with intercourse.

68:18

Typically though, that is very hard to

68:21

ascertain from somebody, but it's

68:23

usually with certain positions. Deep

68:25

penetration tends to be what really

68:27

stimulates pain. But you also see a lot

68:29

of GI manifestations that we don't talk

68:31

about. So if I have somebody who has

68:32

painful periods and they say they have

68:34

irritable bowel syndrome or a lot of

68:37

vague GI complaints,

68:39

that is a really big red flag to me

68:42

because like you said, these little

68:44

indometrial implants on the bowel, the

68:45

intestine, this high inflammation that's

68:48

happening irritates your intestine and

68:50

you get this GI response as well. One of

68:53

the hardest things about indometriosis

68:55

is that it's a surgical diagnosis only.

68:58

To be honest, we can means

69:00

>> have to do surgery to fully see and

69:03

diagnose that you have this.

69:04

>> It's one of those no meat, no treat, you

69:06

know, in in in medicine where you can't

69:08

make the diagnosis until you have a

69:10

tissue sample. So meat means you go and

69:12

take a biopsy.

69:13

>> Okay. See? Okay.

69:14

>> So you can suspect it based on imaging.

69:17

We're not great at this. And Dr.

69:19

Crawford, why don't we have a cure?

69:21

>> Mhm. Well, because it hasn't been

69:23

studied is one of is the primary answer.

69:26

Uh the secondary answer is that often

69:29

the the goals are tough with endo

69:31

because if estrogen feeds it, we all are

69:34

going to sit at this table and talk

69:35

about how important estrogen is for your

69:37

body. And a a lot of the treatments that

69:39

exist for endometriosis take estrogen

69:42

away to try to not feed these lesions.

69:44

And that has a slew of other symptoms

69:47

and long-term health implications as

69:48

well. Truly, we don't even give women

69:54

options to try to feel better. They are

69:57

given birth control pills because, hey,

69:59

I'm going to stop the ovulatory cycle.

70:01

I'm going to you're going to have less

70:03

what we call unopposed estrogen days.

70:04

>> We do have symptomatic relief.

70:06

>> Yeah. But we have and that's going to

70:07

help hopefully with some of your

70:08

symptoms. And it can for some women. It

70:11

doesn't reverse disease. It doesn't cure

70:13

it. It doesn't make anything better, but

70:15

it can slow down the progression any of

70:18

these treatments that do halt the

70:21

ovulatory process, but it severely

70:23

impacts I mean beyond so many layers of

70:26

your your mental your emotional health,

70:28

your relationships, but your fertility.

70:30

Stage three or four disease, regardless

70:33

of your age, you're going to have a less

70:34

than a 20% chance of conceiving

70:36

naturally over the course of your life

70:38

if you have stage three or four disease.

70:40

Every stage is impactful to your

70:41

fertility because of the inflammation.

70:43

Once you have anatomical distortion, an

70:45

indometrium or cyst inside the ovary,

70:48

removing that cyst is going to decrease

70:50

your egg count. That that's going to

70:52

have a major implication on your

70:54

potential. That's why we froze eggs

70:57

before we to cyst out so that we could

70:58

get those eggs, at least some that we

71:00

could out of the body before we went and

71:02

did something that was going to destroy

71:04

part of the ovarian tissue. What you

71:07

said, Stephen, is it seems like

71:08

indometriosis is alive. And that's a

71:10

really great analogy because it does

71:12

just feed into tissue and it's highly

71:15

destructive and if it distorts the

71:18

anatomy, we need a healthy floppy

71:21

fallopian tube generally that can swing

71:23

around and pick up this egg that's

71:25

floating around our abdominal cavity for

71:27

and then you need a place for the egg

71:29

and sperm to meet which is generally a

71:31

healthy non-inflamed fallopian tube. So

71:33

they're also at increased risk for

71:35

infertility but ectopic pregnancies.

71:37

That's where I see them, you know, is

71:39

when I was a hospitalist is in the O,

71:42

you know, emerently from a ruptured

71:44

fallopian tube from this, you know, and

71:46

I go in and I'm making not only she's

71:48

lost a wanted pregnancy now I and I'm

71:51

making the diagnosis of indometriosis at

71:53

the same time and they are just

71:54

devastated. I just feel sitting here not

71:57

being anywhere within this field

71:59

thinking wait a minute because I was a

72:00

cancer nurse first right before I did

72:02

this wait a minute there's got to be a

72:05

cell surface marker that's unique to the

72:07

endometrium that we could make a

72:09

monoconal antibbody against

72:11

>> there's got to be a cell surface marker

72:13

and I will say that there are people now

72:15

doing lovely and wonderful research on a

72:17

cellular level of indometriosis trying

72:20

to look at the endometrium itself what

72:22

cell markers are similar in indometrial

72:24

implants

72:25

Can you diagnose this on an endometrial

72:28

biopsy in somebody?

72:30

>> We haven't seen it get to the point

72:32

where it needs to, but at least people

72:34

are paying attention. So, I do think we

72:37

might have emergent technology that will

72:39

change the course of this for people.

72:41

>> Right now, I think awareness is key. And

72:44

one thing I always say is that

72:45

especially as a teenager because women

72:48

adjust. You accommodate to the world

72:51

around you. That's one of the things

72:52

that I think makes women so resilient. I

72:55

mean, if you have pain every single

72:56

month of your life, you are going to

72:58

convince yourself this is normal for a

73:00

degree of time because what other option

73:01

do you have? Has to get so bad. But when

73:05

you're a teenager, you don't know that.

73:07

And so, if when you are a teen, you

73:09

would stay home from school, you would

73:11

not go to the football game or go out to

73:13

dinner with friends, that to me has is a

73:17

huge red flag. But it actually is a very

73:19

high predictive marker that you do have

73:21

indometriosis.

73:23

So pain out of proportion to being able

73:25

to complete your normal life as a

73:28

teenager is a really big warning flag. I

73:30

ask every patient about that when we

73:31

talk about their periods because 50% of

73:34

patients with unexplained infertility

73:36

have indometriosis.

73:37

It is so hard to diagnose and

73:39

underdiagnosed yet impactful to our

73:42

body.

73:43

>> 26 years old. The advice given to her by

73:45

the NHS was to go back on the pill to

73:49

solve for the the pains that she was

73:51

getting. We certainly have a lot of

73:53

dismissive doctors and people who don't

73:55

take pain seriously, but also a disease

73:57

that is underfunded and not researched.

73:59

We do have limited options for how you

74:02

can help somebody. And I think we have

74:04

to acknowledge that both things can be

74:05

right. Now, getting to the root cause of

74:08

your pain is always going to be really

74:10

important versus just saying here's a

74:12

birth control pill that should take care

74:14

of it. Some women with endometriosis

74:16

love being on the birth control pill.

74:18

does highly improve their symptom

74:20

profile and it's an important part of

74:22

their treatment regimen. Other women do

74:24

not find any benefit from it and it's

74:26

really important to have the discussion

74:28

especially with indometriosis in regards

74:30

to your family planning goals. Do you

74:32

want kids? When is that going to be?

74:35

What might this look like? Because we

74:37

know if you have a higher rate of

74:38

infertility, a higher rate of needing

74:40

IVF, do we need to intervene sooner? But

74:43

that's going to impact some of the

74:44

treatment options we're able to give you

74:46

because some of them do delay ovulation

74:48

from for a prolonged period of time.

74:50

>> What I find in the patients, you know,

74:52

when we made the diagnosis was they're

74:54

forced into making these kind of

74:56

life-changing decisions about around

74:58

their fertility and ability to conceive

75:01

before they were ever before their peers

75:04

were even thinking about it. It's pretty

75:06

devastating.

75:08

>> It is. We have some pilot data looking

75:10

at taking some of the nuances of

75:12

recovery and looking at how to dampen

75:15

inflammation. So we have some pilot data

75:18

that's showing when women do cold

75:20

exposure

75:21

>> that it dampens inflammation and

75:23

improves their symptomology. So I'm

75:26

always thinking on the outside like what

75:27

other things can we do to dampen

75:30

inflammation in a positive way to

75:32

improve symptomology.

75:34

>> How does that work? So, if we're

75:36

thinking about the responses to cold

75:39

exposure, and we're not talking about

75:40

ice, we're talking about cold water

75:42

exposure. It creates a cascade of immune

75:46

responses that kind of protects the

75:49

body. So, we're reducing inflammation,

75:51

we're improving parasympathetic, which

75:53

reduces stress. Mhm.

75:54

>> So, if we're timing it and they know

75:56

when their period is and they can go,

75:59

okay, well, for the next or the 10 to 14

76:02

days before my period starts, I'm going

76:04

to have 10 minutes of cold water

76:06

exposure. And over the course of 3 to 4

76:09

months, that immune response becomes

76:12

learned. So, it reduces symptomology.

76:15

So, it becomes one of the treatment

76:16

options that we have for some of our

76:19

athletes that have endo and interferes

76:21

with their training. Mhm.

76:22

>> So I mean the cold water exposure is

76:24

available there. So that's how we

76:26

started the pilot study.

76:28

>> Um trying someone wanted to do this at

76:30

home.

76:30

>> 10° C. So what is that about

76:34

>> 40? Yeah. It feels really cold but not

76:37

an ice bath.

76:37

>> Not an ice bath because ice is

76:39

>> Ice is not good for

76:40

>> Can you get that in the shower?

76:42

>> You you need to

76:43

>> This is like cold submersion.

76:45

>> Can you do that at a home tub just with

76:46

turning on the spigot?

76:48

>> You could if you get really cold. Yeah.

76:49

You might want to add a little bit of

76:51

ice and let it melt. Okay.

76:52

>> But um not ice baths that we see in all

76:55

the popular media because that is way

76:57

too cold for a woman's body. It does the

76:59

opposite. It's a severe stress and

77:02

causes a stress response rather than a

77:04

parasympathetic calming response that we

77:06

want.

77:07

>> Okay. Like Stacy said, decreasing

77:09

inflammation in an inflammatory disease

77:11

is key to controlling the factors you

77:13

can. And much like we talked about

77:15

inflammation and PCOS, we heard the same

77:17

word right here with endometriosis.

77:20

Chronic inflammatory diseases are the

77:22

number one thing that we see across the

77:23

board impacting the population but

77:26

especially women.

77:28

>> And so these same strategies to work on

77:30

decreasing your own inflammation

77:33

>> and for endo it's a little different

77:35

because you can target it for when you

77:38

expect to have that high inflammatory

77:40

burden. But that's really an important

77:42

part that we don't talk about. I don't

77:43

see that the NHS talked about an

77:45

anti-inflammatory diet or getting more

77:48

sleep or cold exposure.

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Now, on this point of birth control, one

78:57

of the questions that came in from the

78:58

audience was, "How terrible is birth

79:00

control to female hormones?"

79:03

The birth control pill shuts off the

79:06

brain's desire to send the signal to the

79:08

ovary to make hormones. So, it is

79:10

ethanol estradiol, a synthetic estrogen,

79:13

and a type of a synthetic progesterine

79:15

or progesterone. These work, the brain

79:18

thinks that you have estrogen and

79:20

progesterone present. As we said, that's

79:22

the ludial phase. And so, your brain

79:25

says we don't need an egg to grow.

79:26

>> Ovulation starts in the brain. Y, right?

79:28

>> So, no FSH comes out and you're not

79:31

going to get ovulation. So they're very

79:32

effective for prevention of ovulation

79:35

which is makes it a very effective

79:37

contraceptive option. But as far as hor

79:40

hormonal shifts, yeah, your brain's not

79:42

sending out FSH and LH. Your ovaries are

79:44

not going to be making estradiol or

79:46

progesterone

79:47

>> or testosterone.

79:48

>> True.

79:49

>> And so that is how they are sometimes

79:51

helpful if you have, you know, uh some

79:55

women get hemorrhagic cysts with

79:56

ovulation. every every time you ovulate,

79:58

you when you rupture that cyst, you get

80:00

a lot of bleeding. The birth control

80:02

pill can prevent ovulation, therefore

80:04

prevent some women from being in

80:05

terrible pain. If you have PCOS, they're

80:08

often handed out like candy. One reason

80:10

is because it will regulate your cycle

80:12

so that you don't have these prolonged

80:14

irregular periods, but also will

80:17

decrease testosterone levels, which is

80:19

sometimes a good side effect of the pill

80:21

for women who have PCOS,

80:23

>> back to a normal level.

80:24

>> Yeah. But if you don't have PCOS or the

80:27

regular person, a lot of times your

80:29

body's tissues are not responding to

80:31

synthetic estrogen and progesterone the

80:33

same way it does to natural. I think

80:34

that's a very important point. So my

80:36

niece who competes uh at a national

80:40

level and she's 14 started suffering

80:43

from as she was going through her

80:44

adolescence her acne got outrageous and

80:47

she's a 14-year-old girl 13. start at 12

80:49

and a half. And of course, you know, she

80:51

goes to the dermatologist and they're

80:53

trying some topicals. And then finally,

80:55

as you go down the algorithm for how we

80:57

treat acne, one of the off label uses is

81:00

birth control pills will lower the

81:02

testosterone. Their skin can clear up.

81:04

So, her father, a little concern, comes

81:05

to me. Um, her mom passed away. Her

81:08

stepmom had passed away. So, he didn't

81:09

have the mom in the house to, you know,

81:10

the immediate mom to talk to. And for

81:14

the first time, I immediately thought of

81:16

her athletic performance. Thank you, Dr.

81:18

Sims and I thought she wants to go to

81:20

the Olympics. There's no way I'm going

81:23

to let her testosterone levels drop.

81:24

Like, we're going to throw everything

81:25

topical at this. And we finally found

81:27

the right combination. Her skin looks

81:28

great and she's super happy. But like,

81:30

the next logical thing was to put this

81:32

14-year-old, you know, on a birth

81:34

control pill to get her acne under

81:36

control, which is the end result. But

81:38

what no one's thinking of is her

81:40

athletic performance. How is it going to

81:42

affect her

81:44

>> training years leading

81:45

>> and her training years? Like, this is

81:46

critical for her. 16 is when the next

81:48

trials are up for her. So that's 2 years

81:50

from now. So we were able to get her

81:52

acne under control, avoid the birth

81:54

control pill, but that was nothing I'd

81:56

ever thought of before.

81:57

>> Well, I'm sitting here from a

81:59

muscularkeeletal standpoint thinking

82:02

about the high percentage of women who

82:05

have endometriosis and PCOS and the

82:08

complete soundingly

82:11

imbalance of natural hormones. Plus,

82:16

for a lot of reasons now, girls are not

82:20

cycling normally.

82:21

>> Mhm.

82:22

>> And I'm sitting here terrified for their

82:25

bones.

82:25

>> Yep. 100%.

82:27

>> Because we build bone from 15 to 25.

82:32

And if we are so inflamed that we're

82:35

producing all kinds of inflammatory

82:36

cytoines IG interlucan 6 and uh C

82:41

reactive protein and tumor necrosis

82:43

factor which halt bone development we

82:46

don't have enough estrogen for whatever

82:48

reason we're going to shut off our

82:50

testosterone because it makes us feel

82:52

better

82:52

>> and we're not exercising

82:53

>> and we're sitting around.

82:56

No wonder I have 20 and 30 year olds

82:59

with no bone density that are then going

83:02

to go into pmenopause which we will get

83:04

to and lose another 20%.

83:08

>> So I was pretty feeling pretty hopeful

83:11

that the generation Xers are going to

83:14

get to the millennials and get to the

83:16

whatever they're called after that.

83:18

>> It is

83:19

>> we're gonna be you're gonna see it get

83:20

worse before it gets better. Exactly.

83:22

That's what I'm sitting here terrified

83:23

like. Okay. I thought, okay, baby

83:26

boomers, those women missed out. Xers,

83:30

we're doing the best we can.

83:32

Millennials, but no, cuz now you're

83:35

telling me our 15 to 25 year olds are

83:39

still in the same detriment with muscle

83:42

and bone building.

83:44

We are trying to change the narrative.

83:46

That's the group we're trying to target

83:48

right now. And I do think by educating

83:51

across the lifespan, we're going to

83:53

change how those of us who have 11 and

83:56

12 year olds what we recommend. I I

83:59

treat girls in their teen years when

84:01

they come to me without their period

84:03

much differently than a lot of other

84:06

people do. But this is learned

84:07

experience. Instead of just you don't

84:09

have a period, here's a birth control

84:11

pill. Say you're not making estrogen and

84:13

this is a crucial time for you. Let's

84:15

give you estrogen. Let's talk about why

84:17

you're not. what can we do to change it?

84:20

And so this discussion is more than just

84:22

disease state important like PCOS and

84:24

endometriosis. It's truly important

84:27

across the lifespan of a woman. The

84:29

choices that are being made in her early

84:32

reproductive timeline is going to impact

84:35

her longevity.

84:36

>> Can I ask all of you what you would have

84:38

done differently

84:39

>> for ourselves?

84:40

>> Yeah, for yourselves. Obviously, I know

84:42

several of you have daughters as well,

84:43

but what would you have done? I wish

84:46

everybody could see all of your faces.

84:49

>> Oh yeah, I've talked about this before.

84:51

I mean, I was amenoric until I was 20.

84:54

>> What's amenoric?

84:55

>> Didn't have periods.

84:56

>> Okay.

84:57

>> Because of high stress, high sport, you

84:59

know, didn't care, didn't eat well in

85:02

the whole um mindset of the, you know, '

85:04

90s of calories in, calories out. If

85:07

you're thinner, then you'll run better.

85:09

If you're running better, then you're

85:11

going to hit different metrics. cuz I

85:13

was a runner in high school and then

85:15

joined the crew team. Same thing. So, if

85:18

I could go back and talk to my younger

85:19

self, I would have been like, "You need

85:20

to eat, you need to recover, you need to

85:22

eat, you need to recover." Instead of

85:24

the mantra of calories in, calories out,

85:26

more cardio, lose weight, lose weight,

85:28

lose weight. Because now I educate

85:30

people is you want to take up space, you

85:32

want to be strong, you want to look at

85:34

um not the idea of losing something, but

85:36

gaining something, gaining that power,

85:38

gaining that strength, gaining that

85:40

bone, gaining that muscle, gaining your

85:42

period. Those are the things that I'm

85:44

trying to educate the younger generation

85:46

cuz that was not impressed upon me as a

85:49

younger athlete, which then had a lot of

85:51

repercussions later in life. Luckily, my

85:54

bone density is fine.

85:56

>> So,

85:56

>> were you on the contraceptive pill? No,

85:58

>> you might. Okay.

86:00

>> I was um not an athlete, so mere mortal.

86:04

And um

86:06

uh but it's so you've you've you've been

86:08

able to take that experience though and

86:10

apply what you've learned in this this

86:11

high int, you know, working with these

86:14

intense athletes to the to the regular,

86:16

you know, to people who don't exercise

86:18

at that level. And

86:21

you know, I completely fell under the

86:25

the expectation of the aesthetics of it.

86:29

>> When I did exercise, I exercised to look

86:31

a certain way. And then in my 30s, I

86:34

exercised for performance. I started

86:36

running half marathons. I was doing baby

86:38

triathlons, really short ones with my

86:40

girlfriends. It was a social thing and

86:41

it was super fun. You know, I was

86:43

running for time. Now I'm exercising for

86:46

my old lady body. Yep. You know, I'm

86:48

exercising to be in a bigger body cuz I

86:50

know my mother and my grandmother. So,

86:53

my grandmother spent the last 10 years

86:54

of her life in a bed incontinent with

86:57

dementia and completely frail.

87:01

And my mother is on the same course. My

87:02

mother is 88, fell and broke her hip in

87:05

January. She just now is walking on a

87:08

walk or she's in assisted living

87:09

facility for Alzheimer's.

87:11

I want to change that legacy for my

87:13

children. I don't want that to be my

87:15

path and I don't want my children to

87:19

have that to be an expectation.

87:21

So all of the things I would have done

87:24

differently was

87:26

I wanted to be thin. Thin was healthy.

87:28

That is what I learned in medical

87:30

school. The thinner you were up to

87:31

starvation, you know, up to you want the

87:34

lowest body mass index possible without

87:38

being a little bit too low, you know.

87:39

And I kind of skirted that line because

87:41

I stopped eating in medical school due

87:42

to stress. I would have fed myself. I

87:44

would have lifted weights. I would have

87:46

stopped doing so much cardio because

87:48

knowing I was chipping away at my bone

87:50

density. I was chipping away. I was

87:53

raising my inflammation levels. I was

87:54

chipping away at my ability to resist

87:56

the Alzheimer's, you know, and dementia

87:58

that runs in my family. And that's what

88:01

I'm trying to impress. My girls are 21

88:03

and 25. What I'm trying trying to

88:06

impress on them.

88:07

>> But that's the mentality that we grew up

88:09

in, right? When you're looking at the

88:11

supermodels of the '9s and Kate Moss and

88:14

it was all

88:15

>> heroin chic.

88:15

>> Yes, heroin chic, which is the worry now

88:17

with the GLP1s coming back and the

88:21

ballerina body and all the things that

88:23

we're seeing come back again.

88:25

>> And it's it is worrisome.

88:27

You know, when I think about I mean,

88:29

I've already told the world now about

88:32

having low body fat, maybe being POS and

88:35

not knowing it, not ever talking about

88:37

that, having no periods, but then so

88:40

there was that in my youth that that I

88:43

would have done better, but that it

88:45

didn't end in my youth. I mean, I went

88:48

to college, same. I went to grad school,

88:52

still same. I went to medical school and

88:55

in medical school and

88:57

four years of medical school, seven

88:59

years of residency and fellowship. Still

89:02

didn't eat, still wasn't having periods.

89:05

I didn't sleep for about 11 years,

89:07

whether between call every third night

89:09

and then I had a baby and then I was

89:11

awake for two years cuz she slept with

89:13

me. That's another discussion. But I

89:16

think of all these things that I wish I

89:18

knew then that I know now. I have the

89:21

same goal. I have four 30-year-old

89:24

daughters and I have a 17-year-old and

89:28

they are not going to be allowed to hit

89:30

a wall like some of us may because we

89:33

didn't know.

89:34

>> And were you on the birth control pill?

89:37

>> You know, intermittently. Uh probably

89:39

totally in my life about 10 years, but

89:44

um not continuously.

89:47

>> And Mary, I forgot to ask, were you on

89:49

the birth control? Yeah, you were off

89:50

and on for 20 years.

89:53

>> So, polycystic ovarian syndrome that was

89:55

the treatment. I mean, I learned about

89:57

nutrition kind of on the back end. But

90:00

the life that I had set up for myself

90:02

between, you know, medical school,

90:04

residency, and then going into the field

90:07

of OBGYn with limited sleep, you know,

90:10

working 100hour weeks there. I didn't

90:13

have a environment that would have been

90:16

conducive to be able to manage that

90:17

disease

90:19

with lifestyle

90:21

and I can look back and say that

90:23

honestly now

90:24

>> um

90:26

with without using the crutch of the

90:28

birth control pill to manage my

90:30

symptoms.

90:32

>> I was on the birth control pill for

90:33

probably 15 years continuously. And you

90:36

know, we have to give credit where

90:38

credit's due because I was able to

90:40

pursue medical training and not worry

90:43

about what family building looked like

90:46

for me, which was really important

90:48

because I was not ready to have a child.

90:51

So, anytime we frame a discussion around

90:53

birth control, I always want to say it's

90:55

not ever going to fit into one bucket of

90:56

all good or all bad. It's going to be,

90:58

you know, different stages of life,

90:59

different things are important. I didn't

91:01

stop it soon enough to learn to track my

91:03

cycle. I didn't recognize cycle

91:05

abnormalities when I had recurrent

91:07

miscarriages. I had a really hard time

91:09

knowing is this how my cycle's supposed

91:12

to be or not because I never had the

91:14

opportunity to just have periods and see

91:16

what is my normal. I stopped it and

91:18

started trying right away and got into a

91:22

cycle of having a pregnancy and that

91:24

would last for a while and then I would

91:26

lose it. So I really lost the

91:28

opportunity to say this is my baseline

91:30

and oh there might be a problem here or

91:32

to intervene. I wish id advocated more

91:34

when I had my own pregnancy losses. I

91:37

was told over and over, there's nothing

91:38

you can do. This is nothing. Just keep

91:40

trying. And even as somebody in the

91:42

field, that felt very dismissive and is

91:44

a fuel for a lot of what I do now. But

91:47

on a personal level, you know, 10 years

91:48

after having those pregnancy losses, I

91:51

was diagnosed with celiac disease

91:54

because I had osteopenia on a dexa scam.

91:57

>> And so I had

91:58

>> to explain what that is.

91:59

>> Yeah. So celiac disease is essentially

92:01

an allergic reaction to gluten. So when

92:03

I was taking gluten, which is in most of

92:05

your carbohydrates

92:07

or the good stuff like breads and

92:08

pastas, when I was eating those, it was

92:11

causing an inflammatory reaction inside

92:14

my body, making my gut unhealthy and

92:16

kind of creating a baseline level of,

92:18

let's say, chronic inflammation.

92:20

>> And recurrent pregnancy loss can be one

92:22

of the signs and symptoms of it in

92:24

addition to just some other what feel

92:26

like very generalized symptoms. fatigue,

92:30

low energy, headaches, GI distress,

92:33

>> WW.

92:34

>> Yeah, I was a whiny woman. And when some

92:38

of these symptoms finally got to a state

92:40

where they were getting worse, probably

92:41

with hormonal change with age, and my

92:44

doctor ordered a bone scan, and it came

92:45

back that I had osteopenia, which is

92:48

very low density of my bones for my age

92:51

>> and especially at the time, you know, no

92:54

known medical problems. And so luckily

92:56

had somebody who was very committed to

92:57

not labeling me a WW and saying I think

93:00

you're not absorbing something correctly

93:02

to get on this pathway to figure out

93:04

that because of this autoimmune disease

93:06

celiac disease I wasn't my gut was

93:09

inflamed. I wasn't be able to absorb the

93:10

nutrients that I needed.

93:12

>> But somebody had to be committed on the

93:14

other end because these symptoms went on

93:15

for so long. I just accepted them. I let

93:18

them be. But I also am scared because

93:21

those critical bone building years I was

93:23

on the

93:23

>> PEL

93:25

>> and I used it continuously which means

93:27

every single day all the time

93:29

>> I you know I know I was chronically

93:31

inflamed and so now I'm at a stage of my

93:34

life at 43 saying I've got to try to

93:36

catch up before it's too late and that

93:38

is scary

93:39

>> and can you catch up?

93:41

>> Yes. Yes, you can build bone. Um

93:44

>> because you know I see all these grass

93:46

wonder that

93:47

>> you know you kind of

93:49

>> yes

93:49

>> you go

93:50

>> curve but yeah and then it goes down

93:52

from your wherever you manage to get it

93:54

up to. So I'm telling all my friends at

93:55

the moment thanks to you I'm telling all

93:56

of them to get their muscle and their

93:57

bone as high as possible because it's

93:59

probably going to fall with age

94:01

naturally.

94:02

>> Well everyone

94:03

ages. Yeah. Age is the most natural

94:06

thing we do from the minute of our

94:08

birth. But men and women age at

94:11

different rates, especially

94:13

after pmenopause with the the lack of

94:17

estrogen, we rate we age very

94:19

differently from that point on. But your

94:22

point being made is can we please

94:24

maximize our bone density and our muscle

94:27

mass and everything else frankly

94:30

in our youth when we're probably not

94:32

aware, right? When we're in college and

94:34

doing all the things kids do, it's the

94:37

last thing on our mind. And yet it's the

94:38

most critical time because you want to

94:41

start both your bone and your muscle

94:42

from the highest possible level. Now,

94:46

can you through lifestyle and hormones

94:49

build bone again? Yes, actually you can.

94:52

But wouldn't it have been better to

94:54

start out with the maximum so that the

94:57

natural decline doesn't take you into

94:59

dangerous levels?

95:00

>> Right.

95:01

>> Mhm.

95:01

>> On that point of birth control, what are

95:02

you saying to your daughters that wasn't

95:04

said to you? Are you Because Mel

95:06

regrets, my girlfriend, she's very open.

95:08

She regrets being on the birth control

95:09

pill for 10 years because she had no

95:10

idea what it what it was doing to her

95:12

body. And then obviously when she came

95:14

off her cycle, I think she spent like

95:15

you, Natalie, 2 years trying to figure

95:17

out what was going on and she didn't

95:19

have her period for an extended period

95:20

of time after she came off. What are you

95:22

saying to your daughters about the birth

95:23

control pill that wasn't said to you?

95:26

Are you recommending them to use it how

95:27

you guys used it or

95:28

>> I mean, we were started on it so young.

95:30

I I do see a trend towards not starting

95:33

it as young as it was started in our

95:36

generation and I think that that is

95:38

important. I see, you know, personally,

95:41

my daughter is not quite at that stage

95:42

yet. So, we haven't had to make these

95:45

decisions as um they have had to, but I

95:48

do think it's cycle awareness is one of

95:50

the few early signs you have of your

95:52

body's health as a young woman. And so,

95:55

to purposefully never get to know what

95:57

that is, is a detriment to saying, "I'm

96:00

aware of what's healthy for me and I

96:02

know what's happening in my body." But

96:03

you guys have had these discussions at

96:05

different time periods. For my youngest

96:07

daughter,

96:10

we I was worried about uh she was a

96:12

dancer also. She was teeny tiny. So tiny

96:17

even though she had great muscle mass,

96:18

but she like me wasn't having periods.

96:20

And so the advice was to put her on

96:23

birth control to regulate periods. But I

96:26

was always uncomfortable with that

96:28

because she didn't to be a dancer. She

96:30

didn't have to be quite as tiny as she

96:32

was. And so what we have done now is

96:36

I've encouraged her to gain a little

96:37

weight and get a little bit more body

96:40

fat because I took her off of that. She

96:43

only had to gain 5 lbs. I think I said

96:45

to you, maybe seven and it has more

96:48

regulated her and she's having her own

96:51

periods now. And so I don't know what

96:54

she's going to decide. She's going to be

96:55

18 soon. And but I think what we should

96:58

be telling our daughters is all the

97:01

information so that they can make an

97:03

educated decision because I just did

97:07

what I was told

97:09

>> and I'm a doctor and I and but I'm not

97:11

an OB so I don't understand the nuances

97:13

of what the pill is that it's synthetic

97:17

that this is how it works this is what

97:19

it doesn't do. So I would want to give

97:22

my daughters all the information so that

97:25

they can make an educated decision.

97:27

>> So my oldest, the first one coming

97:29

through, uh wanted it for contraception.

97:33

And so when we talk about contraception,

97:35

it's not just most people automatically

97:37

think the oral birth control pill, but I

97:39

did go through all of the options with

97:41

her and then sent her to a trusted

97:43

friend um to let her go and make her own

97:46

decision. and she decided to have an an

97:48

IUD inserted, which I thought was a

97:50

great choice for her cuz she had normal

97:51

regular periods before we did this.

97:53

There were no issues. And she had it

97:56

inserted and then within a week she

97:59

started having severe cramping, called

98:01

me into the bathroom. And this is my

98:02

daughter who has not let me see her

98:04

unclothed since she was 7 years old.

98:06

She's just very private and she's like

98:08

writhing on the floor. Bless her little

98:10

heart. And she had expelled the IUD on

98:13

her own. She had cramped it out uterus

98:16

pushed it out of her body and it was

98:18

extraordinarily painful and so we

98:20

basically delivered the IUD on her

98:22

bathroom.

98:22

>> So do you know what an IUD is?

98:24

>> Is not the coil

98:26

>> is

98:26

>> that's one form of an IUD. She had a

98:28

different form but she basically pushed

98:31

out her own IUD her uterus

98:32

>> uterine device. So it's birth control

98:34

that is placed inside the uterus

98:36

>> and it's shaped like a tea.

98:37

>> It is shaped like a most is shaped like

98:39

a tea. the UK they use the coil still

98:42

quite a bit which is copper and so um

98:45

there's different there's different

98:46

options for the IUD some contain

98:48

progesterine some contain just the

98:50

copper and so the way an IUD works is

98:53

that it creates an inflammatory response

98:55

in the uterus so that um the cervical

98:58

mucus thickens so that when we are

99:01

fertile in our for fertility window

99:03

midcycle and jump in if I mess this up

99:05

the mucus of the cervix thins to the

99:07

point where sperm can actually get

99:08

through most of the month probably 85 to

99:11

90% of the month the sperm cannot

99:12

traverse the cervix you cannot you know

99:15

so in our fertility window right at

99:18

ovulation the cervical mucus thins and

99:20

then the sperm can transmit so the you

99:22

the the presence of the IUD creates an

99:25

inflammatory environment that will

99:26

basically is toxic to sperm and thickens

99:28

the cervical mucus where it becomes a

99:30

plug that's how it works works very very

99:32

well Katherine within a week her uterus

99:35

ejected it so she cramped so much that

99:37

it pushed it through and so that wasn't

99:40

an option for her. She wasn't willing to

99:43

go through that again. So then at that

99:45

point she had to go through the hormonal

99:46

options for for that and she decided to

99:50

have the implant. So it's progesterone

99:52

only implanted in her arm. Quickly we

99:55

realized she needed some estrogen. So we

99:56

she supplements estrogen on top of that.

99:59

Stephen, I think the contraceptive

100:00

discussion we have to say that there are

100:03

options that are highly effective at

100:04

preventing pregnancy and at some times

100:06

in your life that is the number one most

100:08

important goal and we need to choose a

100:10

highly effective option. However,

100:13

certain some of those options included

100:15

have downstream impacts that have not

100:17

been discussed about. The typical

100:18

contraceptive discussion says here are

100:20

some side effects you may have. If you

100:23

want to still proceed, let's go for it.

100:25

We're not talking about long-term

100:26

implications of these. We're just

100:28

talking about how you're going to feel,

100:29

not exactly what is happening in your

100:31

body. A lot of these contraceptive

100:33

options are progesterone only. And so,

100:36

you know, by your new favorite graph

100:38

that you don't see progesterone every

100:40

single day. So, when you have

100:42

progesterone only, it is shifting your

100:45

hormonal profile. And a lot of women,

100:47

this progesterone is so high that it

100:49

works by also preventing ovulation.

100:51

Makes it highly effective. But if you're

100:53

not ovulating, you're not going to be

100:55

making those high estrogen levels. And

100:57

Dr. Haver and I have even talked about

100:58

how we wish there was a contraceptive

101:00

option that had estradiol in it so that

101:04

your body could still have some estradi.

101:06

>> Estradiol. So this ethanol estradiol is

101:09

very different than plain estradiol.

101:11

They've they've put this estester group

101:12

on the end which makes it bind to the

101:15

estrogen receptor in the brain 300 times

101:19

more

101:20

>> powerful

101:21

>> powerful than regular estradile.

101:23

>> Yeah.

101:24

>> Which is why it's so effective. you know

101:25

why we do it in a micro dose versus

101:27

estradiol is dosed in milligrams and

101:30

ethanol estradile is dosed in micrograms

101:32

because it is that much more potent. Um

101:36

so very very different. Now in the UK

101:38

and in other places in Europe there is a

101:40

new form of contraception that has

101:42

asteratrol which is the fetal estrogen.

101:45

So we have four natural estrogens in the

101:46

body. The ovary produces estradile.

101:49

That's the one we all know. It it it's

101:51

really the biggest bang for our buck.

101:52

The placenta produces something called

101:54

estriol. Our fat cells and in the

101:57

peripheral tissues, the tissues outside

101:59

of the ovaries can produce something

102:00

called estrone. And then we have this

102:03

fetal estrogen called eststeratrol, if

102:06

I'm pronouncing it correctly. And so

102:08

they've they've compounded they've been

102:09

able to formulate that. Um, so it is one

102:12

of the natural estrogens and they've put

102:14

it in a birth control pill that is

102:15

available in the UK.

102:16

>> If you were 18, what choice would you

102:18

make for contraception? No,

102:20

>> studies have proven within a shadow of a

102:23

doubt that relying on natural family

102:25

planning at most ages is not a reliable

102:28

form of contraception. So I would not

102:30

recommend that and relying on condoms.

102:32

>> What do you mean by natur relying on

102:34

natural family?

102:34

>> So you timing your intercourse.

102:36

>> Oh okay.

102:37

>> So cycle tracking we know that the

102:38

fertile window is the 5 days before and

102:40

the day of ovulation

102:42

>> 5 days before

102:43

>> 5 days before and then the day of. Sperm

102:44

can live for 5 days in the female

102:46

reproductive tract. The egg lives for 24

102:48

hours. So on this graph, where is

102:50

>> Yep. So the line right is ovulation and

102:53

then the 5 days before.

102:54

>> Yeah.

102:54

>> Yeah. So in popular culture, you would

102:56

call that natural family planning.

102:58

>> Okay. Fine.

102:59

>> Avoiding intercourse.

103:00

>> Abstaining any time in that window.

103:03

>> But but if I if I'm trying to get male

103:05

pregnant, then I should really be

103:06

aiming.

103:06

>> Yeah. Those are your target days.

103:07

>> Yeah.

103:08

>> There apps for that you can track.

103:09

>> Yeah.

103:10

>> Oh, I've got the app. Yeah.

103:11

>> Okay.

103:12

>> Oh, he knows. Remember the variability.

103:15

>> He's made download it nine times.

103:17

There's a few different ways you can do

103:19

natural family planning to hijack the

103:20

discussion for a minute and they have

103:22

different degrees of effectiveness, but

103:24

one of the main issues is that they have

103:26

very large abstinence windows. So, it's

103:28

often not very sustainable to say,

103:30

"Well, we're just not going to have

103:31

intercourse for 18 days out of the month

103:33

or some very long time period, depending

103:35

on which one, because your cycle's never

103:38

perfect. What if you did ovulate sooner?

103:41

If this is all you're relying on for

103:43

your prevention of pregnancy, you have

103:45

to really assure that you know when that

103:47

ovulation is happening, it can be an

103:50

effective way to prevent pregnancy if

103:52

your cycles are very regular. But in my

103:54

brain, I wish that's what you stop the

103:57

birth control pill at least 6 months

103:58

before you want to get pregnant. And

104:00

then you start learning how to track

104:01

your cycles and you're using some

104:03

natural family planning if you're not

104:04

quite ready then because the margin of

104:07

error, oopsies, it didn't work. the

104:09

acceptance of well we were going to try

104:11

to get pregnant soon is usually okay.

104:14

It's not an effective contraception for

104:16

most of the population. We have to

104:18

factor in when we're looking at, you

104:20

know, I was trained and taught to only

104:22

look at birth control through the lens

104:24

of contraception, right? We know that

104:26

they might have some weird bleeding and

104:27

maybe a few headaches. And for some a

104:29

DVT, if they have, you know, deep venus

104:31

thrombosis, you can have blood clots.

104:32

It'll increase your risk, especially if

104:34

you have a pre-genetic disposition to

104:36

that. But what we didn't talk about were

104:38

mental health, mood, and some of the

104:39

long downstream libido effects. So,

104:43

>> of of taking,

104:44

>> right? And so then I'm looking at it

104:46

through the lens of, you know, if I'm

104:48

only looking at on the lens of she

104:50

doesn't want to be pregnant

104:52

younger patient. So you're talking about

104:54

18 is less likely to remember to do

104:56

something every day.

104:58

>> Correct.

104:58

>> Okay.

104:59

>> So then to take the impetus of

105:01

remembering to take a pill every day or

105:03

change a patch once a week um for the

105:06

patch option. Then we're looking at

105:08

maybe a vaginal ring that she inserts

105:10

for 3 weeks and removes for one for her

105:12

period.

105:13

>> Pick one. If I had to pick one right

105:15

now, if I was if it was available in the

105:17

US, I think I would go with the

105:20

Asteratrol.

105:21

>> What's that

105:22

>> option? That's the one she's saying is

105:23

in the UK, a newer option that we don't

105:25

have. No, it's still a pill. It's still

105:26

a pill. Yeah. And it's it's because it

105:29

it more

105:31

>> it looks like so far it's newer that it

105:34

has less of the downstream effects. So

105:36

you're not having that complete

105:38

suppression, you know, that complete

105:40

binding and it's it's, you know, may

105:43

have and also probably has less risk of

105:46

um DVT of blood.

105:49

>> I'll jump on this. I do not love

105:51

intrauterine device for a patient who is

105:54

18 for a multitude of reasons. Now, I'm

105:56

going to preface this to say it is an

105:59

highly effective contraceptive choice.

106:01

It's one of the most effective ones that

106:02

we have. And so there are certainly

106:04

circumstances where that is the right

106:06

thing to do. We've had IUDs in practice

106:09

for a really long time. For the majority

106:11

of this, we were only placing them in

106:13

women after they had given birth at

106:14

least once because of their size and

106:17

being able to pass them through the

106:18

cervix. Now we have different options

106:20

and we are offering them to women

106:21

younger, which is wonderful. However,

106:25

when we're putting IUDs in the uterus of

106:27

women who are really young, sometimes

106:29

the progesterone dose in them is so high

106:30

that it is preventing ovulation. And we

106:33

are seeing young women who are not

106:35

ovulating and they are not making

106:36

estrogen therefore and they don't even

106:39

really realize it because

106:41

that's not disclosed as one of the main

106:44

mechanisms of a progesterone IUD because

106:46

it doesn't happen in enough people to

106:48

effectively prevent conception that way.

106:51

It works through the inflammation, the

106:53

cervical mucus changes.

106:54

>> And why does that matter? Because if you

106:56

are not ovulating and you're not making

106:58

estrogen, you are going to have low

107:00

libido, low energy, you're not going to

107:02

build your bones during critical years.

107:04

Let's say let's say the IUD lasts 5 to

107:07

seven years. You're 18 to 25. These are

107:09

some of the most critical years in your

107:12

mental health, your bone health, your

107:13

cardiac health. And being low estrogen

107:16

during that time

107:17

>> is going to set you up on a different

107:20

risk trajectory for your entire life.

107:22

And the worst thing here about the

107:24

progesterone IUD is that because of the

107:27

progesterone, which will thin the

107:29

lining, many women just say, "I don't

107:31

have my period because my lining is so

107:34

thin." And that's a side effect of the

107:36

IUD. If that same woman was not

107:39

ovulating, and came to me and said, "I

107:41

haven't had a period in 7 years, and I

107:44

knew she was low estrogen and not

107:45

ovulating." We're highly concerned about

107:48

her health. But because she has an IUD,

107:50

what happens? Well, that's a side effect

107:52

of IUD. No big deal.

107:54

>> So, we're missing the moment to

107:56

understand where are some of these

107:58

symptoms just side effect of the IUD or

108:01

are they having a much bigger role in

108:05

what's going to happen to that woman's

108:06

long-term trajectory for being low

108:08

estrogen during crucial years? And I'll

108:11

say this, Stephen, I'm very biased,

108:12

right? I'm a fertility doctor. I see

108:14

patients who have trouble getting

108:16

pregnant. That is a narrow subset. That

108:18

is not the majority of women who have

108:20

IUDs.

108:21

>> So, what would you suggest if you had to

108:22

pick one contraceptive?

108:24

>> Vasectomy.

108:27

>> Yeah,

108:27

>> I would still do I would still do the

108:29

pill right now. The pill or the vaginal

108:30

ring? You know, I think they are both

108:32

depending on somebody's personal

108:33

preference. I just think that it's

108:36

really important if you're using the

108:37

birth control pill. I do think it's

108:39

important to give your brain a break

108:41

from the pill at times and even if

108:43

you're cycling it monthly, you there's

108:44

options now. I took the pill, an active

108:47

pill. every single day for for years, a

108:52

decade probably, meaning suppressed my

108:55

brain completely for that long. Now,

108:59

your brain sends out hormone signals

109:01

that impact your entire body, right? So,

109:03

we already talked about the hormones and

109:04

how it's this beautifully conducted

109:06

symphony. But if you even if you're

109:09

going to take the pill at that young

109:10

age, I would say take it so that you

109:13

have the seven days of not t not taking

109:15

a pill. let your brain have a moment of

109:17

release from the suppression and then

109:19

take it again. That's still a very

109:20

effective way to use the pill. But

109:22

because women don't love having periods,

109:24

we've offered these other options which

109:26

are not wrong, but they just have a

109:29

bigger consequence downstream

109:33

than we're talking about. But the pill

109:34

is very short acting. It only has a

109:36

halfife of 28 hours, meaning it is out

109:38

of your body very quickly. So, you do

109:40

want to stop the pill and see what is

109:42

happening and track your cycles. That is

109:44

something nice about it versus an

109:46

implant or an IUD. That is

109:48

>> fit and forget.

109:49

>> The fit and forgets that people like

109:51

>> set it and forget.

109:52

>> Yeah.

109:52

>> Yeah. The question that came in from the

109:54

10,00 women we spoke to in the diarrhea

109:56

audience was, is there any way to

109:58

control hormonal mood swings during the

110:00

luil phase of the menstrual cycle, which

110:02

I now know is the second phase of the

110:05

menstrual cycle.

110:05

>> Stephen, you've learned so much. Yes,

110:07

>> that's great. I love that. In the ludal

110:09

phase, we do tend to see more mood

110:11

changes and physical changes. And a lot

110:13

of this is because we have an increase

110:16

in estrogen and progesterone and then a

110:18

decrease in both of these hormones. And

110:21

what we find is that some women are

110:22

simply more sensitive to these changes.

110:25

They feel them quite profoundly. And

110:27

there's even something called PMDD,

110:29

premenstrual dysphoric disorder, which

110:30

is when those hormones are dropping. You

110:33

get these terrible mood swings, this

110:35

terrible depression and anxiety in

110:36

addition to physical changes with

110:38

terrible fatigue. You just feel like you

110:41

can't accomplish any of your tasks,

110:42

insomnia, quite similar to a lot of the

110:45

things that we talk about anytime we

110:46

talk about a low estrogen state,

110:48

>> right? Like po we see it in um

110:51

postpartum depression. It's a very

110:53

similar and in the permenopause

110:55

transition, we have a 40% increase in

110:58

mental health changes. And we know this

111:01

>> because women tell us and we believe

111:03

them. But what's happening is that our

111:05

neurotransmitters, especially GABA,

111:07

serotonin, and dopamine levels are

111:10

highly tied to what our hormone levels

111:12

are doing.

111:13

>> Yeah. So is this

111:16

>> is the mood swing or is the is the

111:20

what's the right term to describe a mood

111:22

when someone doesn't feel great?

111:24

>> Dysphoria.

111:24

>> Dysphoria

111:25

>> is the deoria mood after the period or

111:28

before it.

111:29

>> It's often it's before. So the estrogen

111:31

is dropping before and it stays low

111:33

through. So what happens is about the

111:35

week before your period and then the

111:37

week we'll say of your period you are

111:39

estrogen low. The rise of estrogen from

111:42

that next egg being recruited is

111:43

actually what stops you from bleeding

111:45

and helps you start to feel better.

111:47

Because of this, a lot of people will

111:48

throw a birth control pill at this

111:50

situation because they will say, "I will

111:52

give you constant hormone levels every

111:54

day and now you will not have these PMDD

111:57

symptoms anymore." However, a lot of

111:59

women don't want to be on the pill for a

112:01

variety of the different reasons we've

112:02

talked about. They just feel bad, let's

112:04

say, this week or this 7 to 10 day

112:06

interval. They don't want to suppress

112:08

ovulation. I find that a lowd dose

112:10

estrogen in the ludial phase can be very

112:12

effective in targeting after ovulation.

112:15

I'm going to take some estrogen helping

112:17

alleviate these symptoms without

112:19

interfering with ovulatory function. But

112:22

I was trained to give them an SSRI for

112:24

those 7 to 10 days.

112:25

>> An anti-depressant pill.

112:26

>> Yes, an anti-depressant only for those

112:28

two weeks. Saraphim was that the brand

112:30

name of it. And it does tend to help.

112:33

But what no one taught me and what

112:35

clinical experience has taught me and

112:37

talking to all these other smart people

112:39

is a lowd dose estrogen like

112:42

>> treating the root cause

112:43

>> treating the root cause. Just just give

112:45

her estrogen back during that time

112:47

period and she gets remarkably better.

112:49

>> In some of the nutrition research

112:51

finding that low iron and low vitamin D

112:54

are huge contributors to it. So there's

112:57

that research to investigate too, which

112:59

is interesting because there are some

113:01

women also who don't want to go on SSRI

113:04

or

113:04

>> estradile.

113:05

>> So, you know, the endocrine society does

113:08

not recommend routine testing of vitamin

113:10

D.

113:10

>> It's crazy. I I just think it's insane.

113:12

>> Yeah.

113:12

>> With my partner, I should anticipate

113:14

that her mood might drop in the leadup

113:16

to her having her period.

113:18

>> Mhm. It's very common.

113:19

>> And then after her period, it would

113:21

might recover. And whether or not that

113:23

becomes clinically significant, whether

113:25

or not it's life disruptive for her

113:26

rather than she just has a little bit of

113:28

a low mood, most women can tolerate

113:29

that. But for those who can't and that

113:32

it is disrupting their day-to-day

113:34

activities and how they feel about the

113:36

world, we have options.

113:38

>> Yeah.

113:39

>> Cuz I'm trying to understand I want to

113:40

understand her better. So I'm looking at

113:42

this little graph here which says the

113:44

brain during the menstrual cycle. So the

113:47

menstrual cycle starts when her period

113:49

starts

113:50

>> by convention. Yes. That's what we say.

113:51

Day one is the first day you start

113:52

bleeding.

113:53

>> Okay. And so what is she going to go

113:55

through for the next 29 days? And how

113:57

might I support her better through that

113:59

journey?

114:00

>> Like I want to understand what's going

114:01

on in her brain.

114:02

>> Her brain starts by s from a

114:05

reproductive hormone level. The brain

114:06

starts by sending out FSH, follical

114:08

stimulating hormone, which is going to

114:10

get her ovary to start growing an egg

114:13

which lives inside a follicle and making

114:15

estrogen. And that rise in estrogen as

114:17

it's growing will stop her from

114:18

bleeding. So the beginning that cycle

114:20

day one, the bleeding that she's

114:22

experiencing or her period is because

114:25

she didn't get pregnant in the month

114:26

before. So it's getting rid of that

114:28

indometrial lining, cleaning the slate.

114:30

She's estrogen and progesterone low

114:32

during that time period. And then once

114:34

her bleeding stops, it's because an egg

114:36

has been chosen. Estrogen is then going

114:38

to rise until it gets to that peak

114:40

level. During that time, she's going to

114:42

feel her best for most women.

114:44

>> So is that the first 14 days? So the

114:46

week by convention if you had a 28 day

114:48

cycle which only about 13% of women

114:51

actually do but all of these graphs if

114:53

you look at usually use 28 days because

114:54

it's easy to go week by week

114:57

>> and that's the lunar calendar.

114:58

>> Yeah 28 days.

115:00

>> We see that but we have to acknowledge

115:01

that most women don't have a 28 day

115:03

cycle. So but it is roughly the first

115:06

two weeks for most women to get up to

115:08

that ovulatory time period. So the time

115:10

from I have started bleeding until I am

115:13

now ovulating, that is all considered

115:15

the follicular phase.

115:17

>> And on this little image that I have in

115:19

front of me here, it says in those first

115:20

14 days, she's going to have better

115:22

spatial skills and be more anxious.

115:24

>> So once you get to your estrogen

115:26

dominant, so you have a lot of estrogen

115:29

and you don't have progesterone, most

115:30

women can are have increased

115:32

concentration. They have more focus.

115:34

They actually can sleep better. They

115:35

have higher libido. you feel like your

115:38

performance even for athletes

115:39

performance tends to be improved

115:40

aggression concentration more yeah

115:43

>> during what we call the late follicular

115:44

phase so that means the time period when

115:46

you're really making that estrogen let's

115:48

call it days 7 to 14 for ease so I'm now

115:52

done bleeding a follicle is growing

115:54

meaning an egg is making enough estrogen

115:56

to stop that bleeding I've not yet

115:58

ovulated and seen progesterone this is

116:00

where we typically have our best

116:02

performance overall from how our body is

116:04

functioning

116:06

>> and then From day 14 onwards,

116:09

I'm she's going to be calmer.

116:11

>> Well, progesterone slows your body's

116:13

metabolism down. It It's preparing you

116:15

for that pregnancy. Calmer is a nice way

116:18

to put it, but essentially, your

116:20

metabolic rate is going to change. Your

116:22

body's going to shift how it functions.

116:23

Many women actually have fatigue.

116:26

They're hungry. Specifically in the

116:28

brain, progesterone levels as they rise,

116:31

we see an increase in GABA, which is a

116:33

neurotransmitter, one of our brain

116:34

hormone, one of our brain, you know,

116:36

hormones that talks, you know, jumps

116:39

between one one neuron to the other. And

116:41

that is more of a calming hormone. So

116:43

women tend to we see sleep changes more.

116:46

You see deeper sleep, longer sleep in

116:48

that ludial phase.

116:50

>> She's and on this it says she's going to

116:52

have she's going to be horny for day 14.

116:54

I don't know how else to say it.

116:55

>> Because she has an egg available

116:57

>> because that's that peak estrogen. That

116:58

estrogen level of 200 pograms is

117:01

heightening everything. To have peak

117:03

libido when an egg is released, the body

117:05

is made that way on purpose.

117:06

>> This is a bit off script, but my

117:09

girlfriend always talks about her HRV

117:12

>> being very different. And so she she has

117:15

really great HRV scores and then once

117:18

every month for a period of time they're

117:21

terrible and she can't explain it. So

117:23

this is where wearables come into play.

117:25

>> Yeah.

117:25

>> So wearables are not designed to capture

117:28

women's physiology. So what happens

117:30

after ovulation is your respiratory rate

117:32

goes up, your resting heart rate goes

117:34

up, and your HRV plummets. So on the

117:37

wearables, most women about 5 days

117:39

before their periods start will never be

117:42

in the clear, so to speak. They will

117:44

never look recovered. They will never

117:47

look like they can take on a lot of

117:48

stress. They're not stress resilient

117:51

because of the way the algorithms are

117:52

reading this change that is natural that

117:55

is produced by progesterone to alter our

117:58

respiratory rate and our heart rate. It

118:01

doesn't mean that she's not stress

118:02

resilient is what the wearable is

118:04

saying.

118:05

>> Ah cuz she came downstairs and she said,

118:08

"Oh god, my recovery is so bad." And

118:11

then I think a couple of days later, a

118:14

little while later, she had a period.

118:15

I'm not sure. I can't remember the time

118:17

frames, but she came downstairs and she

118:18

was like shocked that she had done

118:19

everything right,

118:20

>> but her recovery on on her wearable said

118:22

that she was in terrible state.

118:25

>> This is why we do not let athletes use

118:27

wearables leading up to a peak event

118:30

because they feed into what the wearable

118:33

respond or telling them and it's not

118:36

true data with regards to how their body

118:39

can actually perform. So wearables data

118:43

masters then need to segate segregate

118:46

populations and make new norms for women

118:50

and maybe new norms for different

118:52

fitness levels of women.

118:53

>> Exactly. I've always been pushing for

118:55

the past five or six years interacting

118:57

with wearable companies is like if you

118:59

want to capture it well then you need to

119:02

be able to compare follicular to

119:03

follicular and ludial to ludal.

119:06

>> What does that mean? So comparing

119:08

>> like we know your HIV is going to be

119:10

different in your follicular phase.

119:13

This is not a bad thing.

119:14

>> People could could theoretically do that

119:15

on their wearables and look at the

119:17

previous month and see the the level

119:19

you're at then theoretically. Obviously

119:20

the wearable companies could do a lot

119:22

more here to to

119:23

>> definitely helpful but no you then it

119:25

comes back again on the woman trying to

119:27

understand and interpret the data

119:29

herself which can be a little bit

119:32

problematic because there's so many

119:34

women out there like my wearable told me

119:36

that I'm in the red I can't do anything

119:39

today when in fact physically and

119:42

psychologically they can do what they

119:44

set out to do. It's just now they have

119:46

this little seed saying that no, you

119:49

can't do it because of an improper

119:52

algorithm on their wearable.

119:55

>> Probably a good time to disclose that

119:56

I'm an investor in

120:00

push.

120:00

>> Okay.

120:00

>> Yeah,

120:01

>> I will send this to them.

120:02

>> Please. Yeah.

120:03

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122:15

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122:18

to ask some of these questions because

122:19

I'm in that journey myself of trying to

122:21

have a child at the moment. Natalie, you

122:23

have five fertility non-negotiables that

122:25

you talk about.

122:26

>> I do and I think it's really important

122:28

to think about

122:31

for too long we've been told, you know,

122:33

your fertility is luck. It's good luck

122:34

if you get pregnant. It's bad luck if

122:36

it's not. And that's this narrative that

122:38

gets propagated. And fertility is

122:40

certainly not fair. Meaning people will

122:42

have infertility and do everything

122:44

right. But there are things that we do

122:46

that will inherently also harm our

122:48

fertility and our hormonal health and

122:50

make it harder to get pregnant. And

122:52

that's even when we are doing

122:54

treatments. So a lot of times people

122:56

say, "I'm doing IVF so I don't need to

122:58

worry about these non-negotiables." And

123:00

that's also not true. meaning things

123:02

that we need to do. We need to, as we've

123:05

all said, get more sleep. That's going

123:06

to be number one. We need to actively

123:09

work to decrease stress. That is not a

123:12

I'm just going to live a stress-free

123:13

life. But all these things I'm going to

123:15

not take call. I'm going to set some

123:16

boundaries and not have late meetings.

123:18

I'm going to see morning light. I'm

123:19

going to take a walk outside. We live in

123:21

a stressful world and chronic stress

123:23

itself can impact your fertility, your

123:26

natural fertility, and IVF success

123:28

rates. We're going to work on exercise

123:30

to build muscle and try to improve our

123:34

muscular health since it's part of our

123:36

metabolism. We're going to eat an

123:37

anti-inflammatory diet. That's

123:39

definitely key, high in fiber. And we're

123:41

going to look at the world around us and

123:43

work on pulling toxins out of our world

123:45

that we know we haven't even entered the

123:47

discussion about how environmental

123:49

toxins is harming our body, our hormonal

123:51

health, our fertility, our ovaries, our

123:53

organs. And so these are all things that

123:55

we make active choices on that we have

123:57

to start paying attention to and kind of

123:59

changing.

124:00

>> We'll go into detail in the lifestyle

124:03

factors and the environmental toxins um

124:05

in our second episode together. I I've

124:07

always been quite shocked by this graph

124:08

because it's quite um

124:10

>> quite significant. This is just showing

124:11

the

124:12

>> um egg count by age. Slide that into

124:16

that direction. um what do men and women

124:19

need to understand about egg counts in

124:21

order to make better family planning and

124:23

fertility decisions?

124:24

>> Okay. Well, I've asked you this last

124:25

time. So, Stephen, how many sperm do you

124:28

make a second?

124:30

>> Millions.

124:31

>> You make 1500 a second. You mean you

124:33

make millions every day? Is okay. But

124:36

still, you still you make a ton of

124:37

sperm. You make sperm every single day.

124:39

You have germ cells that create sperm.

124:41

Women are born with all the eggs you're

124:43

ever going to have. And yes, my favorite

124:45

vault analogy. So, I like to imagine

124:47

that this is a vault inside your ovary

124:49

that is storing all of your eggs. And

124:51

so, we'll use this cup with all of the

124:53

beads as that analogy. And every single

124:56

month, since before you are born, eggs

124:58

come out of this vault. And what happens

125:00

is that when the vault is more full,

125:02

more eggs come out every month. And as

125:04

the vault starts to get emptier, fewer

125:06

come out. And this means that we lose

125:09

the majority of our eggs, you can see

125:10

the line, well before our reproductive

125:13

years even start. So you lose the most

125:15

before you're born. So from being a

125:17

5-month baby to birth, your egg count

125:18

goes from 6 to 7 million to 1 to 2

125:20

million.

125:22

>> Millions of eggs lost before you're even

125:23

born. From birth to puberty, let's say

125:26

you go from 1 to 2 million to half a

125:28

million to simplify numbers. So, the

125:30

second biggest drop before you're ever

125:32

ovulating, before you ever have a chance

125:33

to get pregnant, and then you only

125:35

ovulate around 400 eggs over the course

125:37

of your reproductive lifespan, as that

125:40

egg count starts to drop over time, the

125:43

other really, really big important

125:44

factor is that our eggs have been in our

125:46

body our whole life. Two different

125:48

things are happening at the same time.

125:50

One is that our chromosomes start to

125:52

leave their perfect position. They

125:54

absorb the wear and tear of years. So we

125:57

see more chromosome abnormalities as we

125:59

get older. It's why it's harder to get

126:01

pregnant and why we see an increase in

126:02

miscarriage as we age. But also

126:05

concurrently our metabolic health is

126:07

poor as we are older too. And

126:09

mitochondrial function in eggs. The

126:11

metabolic capacity becomes less capable.

126:14

And so we see that it's harder to get

126:16

pregnant not because women are running

126:17

out of eggs but because the quality of

126:19

the eggs declines. But everybody will

126:21

run out of eggs. You'll have a period of

126:24

time where you have a very low egg

126:25

count. We call it diminished ovarian

126:27

reserve in the fertility world. We call

126:28

it perry menopause more globally. And

126:31

this this is two words to describe the

126:33

same thing. As your egg count starts to

126:35

get very low, you start to have an

126:36

unpredictable response to your ovary and

126:39

your brain is trying to compensate for

126:41

that. And so you see various hormone

126:44

changes, but these start before you

126:46

might recognize even menstrual cycle

126:48

changes. But everybody will run out of

126:50

eggs. Every woman will. your ovaries

126:52

will go into what we call ovarian

126:54

failure and no longer respond to

126:55

hormonal signals from the brain or

126:57

artificial signals that we give.

126:59

Meaning, I will see older women come in

127:01

and think that I have magic medicines

127:02

with IVF that can still help them get

127:04

pregnant, but I can only get the eggs

127:07

outside the vault to grow in IVF. And

127:10

>> so, shouldn't we then be freezing our

127:12

eggs?

127:12

>> You're right. As a society, if we are

127:14

purposely delaying childbearing, we know

127:17

that it gets harder to get pregnant with

127:18

age. And if having kids is a life goal,

127:21

putting eggs into the freezer earlier is

127:23

a way to save that opportunity. It's not

127:26

an insurance plan. It's not a guarantee,

127:29

but it is a smart game plan, especially

127:32

as we are waiting longer. Because even

127:35

with IVF, we can't always overcome age

127:37

related infertility if we have fewer

127:39

eggs and more genetic abnormalities. The

127:42

technology helps us identify healthy

127:44

eggs, helps us have more eggs, able to

127:47

grow in a certain month and take them

127:48

out and test embryos in a lab, but I'm

127:51

working with the eggs and sperm that

127:52

you're giving me. Meaning, if there's

127:53

not many of them, if there's a lot of

127:54

chromosomeal damage, if there's a lot of

127:56

mitochondrial dysfunction, if the sperm

127:59

quality is not great, that doesn't mean

128:00

we're going to be able to have success.

128:02

So, what you're doing on a daily basis

128:04

to impact egg and sperm quality is still

128:07

crucial. But egg freezing has gotten a

128:10

lot of bad rap. It's still a new

128:12

technology. It's only been around about

128:13

10 years off experimental purposes.

128:16

Meaning that women who froze their egg

128:18

10 years ago, you know, they have much

128:20

poorer egg survival rates. They were

128:22

older at the time. Their experience is

128:25

very different than the modern woman who

128:27

is freezing her eggs now, maybe in her

128:29

upper 20s or early 30s.

128:30

>> What is the optimal age? If you are want

128:32

to have a child as a life goal and

128:34

you're not ready to conceive by age 32,

128:36

that is when there's a clear delineation

128:39

that it makes smarter financial sense as

128:42

well as likelihood sense. The short

128:45

answer like my daughter will freeze her

128:47

eggs in her 20s. The younger you are,

128:49

the more eggs that you have. If she

128:50

says, "I want to have kids as a life

128:52

goal," then that will be something that

128:54

we will do in order to help her keep

128:57

that because there's so many other

128:59

variables which impact your ability to

129:01

get pregnant or your egg count.

129:03

Endometriosis decreases your egg count,

129:05

right? People will develop an ovarian

129:07

cyst and they'll have

129:08

>> surgery,

129:08

>> surgery, they'll have a twisting of

129:10

their ovary and maybe they'll lose an

129:11

ovary,

129:12

>> smoking, chemo, radiation,

129:14

>> smoking, marijuana, any abdominal

129:15

surgery. So many things can impact your

129:18

your eggs because you only have this

129:19

group. You're born with them. So we we

129:23

plan for life goals differently. And

129:25

we've never really talked about our

129:26

fertility life goals until more

129:28

recently. Meaning when we went

129:30

professional career, right? We knew what

129:32

we had to do to get into medical school,

129:33

to get into residency, to get your PhD,

129:34

you had this list of things and you set

129:36

goals and you worked to achieve them.

129:38

But I always wanted to be a mom. Yet, I

129:41

already told you I took a birth control

129:42

pill every single day and I didn't even

129:44

think about it until that moment was in

129:46

front of me. And that's the part of the

129:48

discussion that we do have to start to

129:49

have earlier is if this is a life goal

129:51

for you, what do we need to do?

129:54

Understand our body better, our

129:55

fertility better, and maybe that does

129:57

include freezing eggs because it does

129:59

give many women an opportunity that time

130:02

would eliminate.

130:04

I had a conversation with you Natalie on

130:07

the podcast but then many other women

130:08

over the course of the last two to three

130:10

years and one of the things that I

130:12

learned from that was that we as you say

130:14

we don't family plan and then we have to

130:16

deal with the consequences of not family

130:17

planning. So, as an interviewer, when I

130:19

do life story episodes, I go through a

130:20

woman's life story. And obviously, the

130:22

women that's sitting in front of me are

130:23

typically high performers, high

130:24

achievers in some capacity. And then we

130:26

arrive at the end of the conversation

130:27

when we talk about family and kids and

130:31

all those kinds of things. And there's

130:32

often a lot of tears. And it was in

130:34

those conversations sitting here with

130:36

several women that were on the show.

130:38

What was the straw that broke the

130:39

camel's back? It was the UFC fighter

130:42

Ronda Rousey. It just so happened that

130:45

when I interviewed her, she had just

130:48

found out that her seventh round of IVF

130:51

had failed. And so she was very, very

130:53

emotional. I left that interview and had

130:55

a conversation with my girlfriend. I was

130:56

like, "Listen, I've I've seen too many

130:58

of um too many women over the age of 35,

131:02

maybe sort of under the age of 50, but

131:04

really under the age of 45 in tears in

131:07

front of me. I think we should have a

131:09

conversation about this. Should we

131:10

freeze our eggs?" I mean, me and my

131:12

partner are both 33 now. And um at first

131:18

I don't know, maybe it was the way I

131:19

worded it.

131:22

>> She was offended.

131:23

>> She was like, "You don't want to have a

131:24

baby with me?"

131:25

>> It was like Yeah. It was like, "You

131:26

don't want to have sex with me?" Like I

131:29

like didn't word it well. Like I didn't

131:30

I didn't really think I didn't really

131:32

think about the emotions surrounding it.

131:33

I think that was really what it

131:34

>> You were trying to make a pragmatic

131:35

decision.

131:35

>> Yeah. I was as men often do. Like I was

131:37

just like we should free but I didn't

131:39

think about what that meant. And there's

131:40

this this prevailing narrative in

131:42

society that if something's not quote

131:43

unquote natural, then it's not good.

131:48

>> And that IVF or egg freezing is not

131:50

natural.

131:51

>> And that like torments people's brains

131:53

because they want to live a natural life

131:55

even though they're in like [ __ ]

131:56

planes and on on iPhones. We want this

131:58

one area of our life to be

131:59

>> natural. And after honestly five minutes

132:03

of that conversation,

132:05

I think the framing that m flipped her

132:08

mood was that wouldn't we want to give

132:10

ourselves the option,

132:11

>> right?

132:11

>> And it's actually about having options.

132:13

But I wanted to throw that out there

132:14

because, you know, I don't think people

132:16

family plan. I think as you said, we

132:18

focus on our careers, then we pop up at

132:20

35, 36, 37 and assume that we can.

132:23

>> Mhm.

132:23

>> But that is not the case.

132:24

>> Yeah. Especially if you live a healthy

132:25

life, you you think, "Oh, this will be

132:27

easy for me." or if you're a high

132:29

achiever and you've achieved other

132:31

things, many women are really taken

132:35

aback by not being able to achieve this

132:38

or not having control over infertility

132:41

and what is a natural process to run out

132:44

of eggs and to go into menopause. If you

132:47

are lucky to live long enough, this is

132:49

going to happen. I got my diagnosis of

132:52

PCOS in medical school before I was

132:55

ready to start, you know, family

132:57

planning. And I knew I was probably

133:00

going to struggle. And so it took us

133:03

about 3 years to successfully conceive

133:06

the first time. And

133:09

you can't even though I'm working in the

133:11

business, you know, I'm running between

133:13

patients to go and have another

133:14

ultrasound or go get a shot or go do all

133:17

the things that it took, you know, you

133:19

you can't remove the emotion from it.

133:21

And I can't tell you how many times I

133:23

cried. And of course, all of my

133:25

co-residents, my four best friends, all

133:27

got pregnant in succession, our poor

133:29

chief residents, and with no trouble,

133:32

you know, and even like crying to my

133:33

mother about the struggles I was having,

133:36

she's like, I just I got pregnant eight

133:38

times with no trouble, you know, and

133:39

then my first pregnancy resulted in a

133:41

miscarriage and, you know, in the middle

133:44

of work and all my friends were there

133:45

and they were cheering. They were so

133:46

excited I was finally pregnant and then

133:48

we lost the baby and you know and having

133:51

to like push through and work through

133:52

it's like it was yesterday like you know

133:55

I have two healthy kids thank God and

133:56

you know we were never after those two

133:58

we tried again we were never able to get

134:00

pregnant again which you know I had two

134:01

kids and put a bow on it and we're done

134:03

but it is impossible to remove the

134:06

emotion because

134:09

you because in the mindset it's luck or

134:12

it's something we did

134:14

>> we caused this and it's I you know as a

134:19

high performing you know someone who's

134:21

like you check all the boxes and you

134:23

make all the good grades and you do

134:24

everything right and this is the one

134:25

thing that suddenly you didn't think

134:27

much about and then it becomes

134:29

everything

134:31

when that ch that that becomes hard or

134:33

it's taken away from you but I think

134:35

women assume that it's our burden

134:39

>> because we assume that if we can't

134:41

conceive it's just us or something But I

134:45

think I heard you say this, the the it's

134:48

a two-way street and and the issue is

134:50

not always the woman. A high percentage

134:52

of the time it's her partner. And so I

134:54

don't think we absorb that information

134:57

upfront either until we start

134:58

investigating it. But I'm in awe of this

135:01

story that four of your residents got

135:04

pregnant immediately because in

135:05

orthopedics that does not happen. Mhm.

135:08

>> Every orthopedic surgeon in my

135:10

generation that I know if we got

135:13

pregnant we miscarried and maybe that

135:15

was lifestyle and maybe that was not

135:17

eating for 40 hours. Maybe it's all the

135:19

radiation that we undertake. I think

135:22

it's better now for the younger

135:23

generation and we as the I'm not that

135:26

old but I am older than the current

135:28

residents. Um, we encourage all of them.

135:31

If you are not partnered and wanting to

135:33

have a child now, then please consider

135:35

freezing your eggs if that's a goal

135:37

because we can't predict our futures and

135:39

our residencies extend into our 40s.

135:42

>> Well, I love that you're helping

135:43

facilitate that discussion because that

135:45

certainly wasn't the culture back when

135:47

we were in training. I am one of the

135:49

ones who sat here and cried in front of

135:50

Steven myself when talking about my own

135:53

pregnancy loss journey just because you

135:55

know I see it every day you know and I

135:58

tell patients every day news that they

136:00

do not want to hear

136:03

>> 50% of infertility is due to male factor

136:05

50% is due to female factors one of the

136:08

most important things I want to convey

136:10

when we on this topic is that IVF is an

136:13

amazing technology that has helped 13

136:16

million babies be born. It has been

136:19

life-changing and world changing. And

136:21

things don't have to be natural.

136:23

Sometimes the natural progression of

136:25

disease is death. So we have technology

136:29

and science that exists to optimize and

136:31

improve life and to help life exist. And

136:34

that's part of what IVF is. And I think

136:36

that's important because we do see a

136:37

narrative right now that IVF is

136:39

inherently bad and natural fertility

136:42

approaches are inherently good. And we

136:44

truly need to say both things are good.

136:46

Do women need to learn about their

136:48

bodies earlier? Talk about cycle

136:49

tracking, take better care of

136:51

themselves, get an earlier investigation

136:53

when things aren't going well?

136:55

Absolutely true. But also, needing to

136:58

have fertility treatments is not a

137:00

failure. Needing to see a fertility

137:02

doctor is not a failure. If you need

137:03

IVF, that is okay. All the other stuff

137:06

is still really important to the outcome

137:08

of your journey. But this narrative of

137:11

IVF isn't natural, so it's bad, or egg

137:13

freezing isn't natural, so we shouldn't

137:15

do it. That's harmful to society and to

137:19

women who do carry the burden, whether

137:21

they need to or not, women do carry the

137:22

burden of family planning for the

137:25

future.

137:26

>> Hearing you talk about that is very

137:28

interesting to me because in other parts

137:30

of medicine, in my own medicine, right,

137:34

we were talking outside about how I I

137:36

now do knee surgery through needles.

137:38

It's an advancement of technology. We

137:41

celebrate that. We like better things

137:43

for people. It's not natural. Live with

137:46

your thing, right? But I'm capable of

137:48

helping you live a better life.

137:50

>> Right.

137:50

>> So, it's interesting to me.

137:53

>> It's the stigma of women's health and

137:55

work.

137:56

>> That's right. This has because this is

137:57

women's health. We're going to control

137:59

it. We're going to protect these gals.

138:01

We're not going to apply the vast

138:03

knowledge. I'm a little offended by it

138:05

actually. If you want to know the truth,

138:07

why can I be so encouraged and and be

138:11

considered top of my field when I adopt

138:13

new technologies?

138:16

But in your field, 13 million parents or

138:21

26 million parents

138:24

would be told that technology is not

138:26

okay.

138:28

>> I agree. It's a terrible narrative that

138:30

is happening right now in the political

138:31

landscape. And I think it's important to

138:33

say scientific advancement is good and

138:36

it changes the lives for so many people.

138:39

And I think it's just highlighting this

138:41

idea about natural doesn't always mean

138:44

better. I think as you know scientists

138:48

and people in medicine there's also been

138:50

a disservice to not trying to get to the

138:52

root cause and not working on preventive

138:53

medicine and so going towards treatments

138:56

and technology which has made the lay

138:59

person feel like half of the picture

139:01

wasn't discovered or talked about

139:04

>> and so we can do better on both ends of

139:05

it and that comes to women's health more

139:07

than anything because there is stigma

139:10

when it comes to isolation there's in I

139:11

mean when it comes to infertility

139:12

there's isolation

139:14

you know being left behind your peer

139:16

group. Questioning a life goal will make

139:19

you question who you are, your life

139:21

meaning, your purpose. And that is an

139:24

extremely stressful and challenging

139:26

state for somebody to go through. And we

139:28

should be giving more support to that.

139:29

We should be saying freeze your eggs.

139:32

You're at a stressful lifetime instead

139:33

of the narrative that we are seeing

139:35

right now. So would the message be to

139:38

young men and women that want to have

139:40

kids at some point in their life to

139:44

freeze their eggs in their 20s? Is that

139:46

what you would advise?

139:47

>> You know, most people in their 20s maybe

139:50

don't have good awareness of these

139:51

goals, but certainly your, you know,

139:53

later 20s, your early 30s are the prime

139:56

opportunity where you still, for the

139:58

average person, you're going to have a

140:00

high number of eggs. You're still high

140:01

on the graph and your egg quality is

140:03

still going to be high. meaning it's

140:05

going to be easier to get the outcome

140:06

that you want. Certainly in your 20s

140:09

would be ideal if you but it's

140:11

expensive. A lot of people don't have

140:13

the financial resources to freeze their

140:15

eggs and their 20s they're in training

140:17

or they're starting their career. So to

140:19

have an extra $10,000 lying around isn't

140:22

always realistic.

140:23

>> And I think that's why people are often

140:25

waiting because that feels, you know,

140:28

elective, you know, like, oh, that's

140:30

extra money. I don't know that I have

140:31

that right now. when we see insurance

140:33

that starts to cover egg freezing as an

140:36

option, we see huge uptake in women

140:39

going to freeze their eggs. So you will

140:41

see at companies where almost less than

140:44

5% of women would freeze their eggs

140:46

before age 35. And then they introduced

140:48

a health plan that would cover egg

140:50

freezing and up to 50% of them would. So

140:53

you can see that both financially and

140:57

access and awareness, they all go hand

140:58

in hand. But that's a big player in

141:01

being able to do that because it is an

141:03

expensive process.

141:04

>> So Dr. Crawford, I think what most

141:06

people don't understand, what is the

141:07

spontaneous fertility rate by age in

141:10

general?

141:10

>> Yeah. So if you are 30, your odds of

141:12

getting pregnant monthly. We we use a

141:14

monthly rate called fundability. It's

141:16

going to be at best 20% per month. When

141:19

you're in your 20s, it's a little bit

141:21

higher. Can get up to 25% per month

141:23

>> if you're having sex

141:25

>> monthly and regular periods. So if

141:27

you're having unprotected intercourse

141:29

and you have regular cycles, your best

141:32

odds in a given month are going to be

141:33

about 20% at age 30.

141:35

>> How much sex do you have to be having?

141:37

>> Well, really just have to have it in

141:38

that fertile window. The

141:39

>> what? Just once or

141:40

>> really just once? Yeah, sex solely on

141:43

the day of ovulation would be the ideal

141:45

time, but you just need to have at least

141:47

intercourse at least once in that

141:49

fertile window. But that number drops

141:51

quite significantly to what Dr. Caver is

141:52

saying. So, at age 35, if you're trying

141:55

to get pregnant, it's going to be 10 to

141:57

12% per month odds of getting pregnant.

142:00

At age 38, it's going to be 5% per

142:03

month. At age 40, it's going to be 3%.

142:06

This if you're trying for the first

142:07

time, they're a little bit higher if

142:08

you've had a child already because

142:09

there's some proven fertility factors.

142:12

But if we look at that, you say, "I'm

142:14

chasing these dreams. I'm going to try

142:15

to have my first baby at age 38." You

142:18

have a 5% chance per month. That's not

142:20

zero, but that means the greatest

142:23

probability is that by 6 months time

142:26

frame, you won't be pregnant. And then

142:28

you're going to start a pathway of

142:29

trying to investigate why that is

142:31

happening. And if you do need

142:33

intervention, you're further down this

142:35

graph, too. You're going to have less

142:36

eggs to work with, and their quality is

142:38

going to be less good. That's why those

142:41

numbers drop rapidly. Natural fertility

142:43

rates are not about being out of eggs

142:45

because you ovulate just one egg at a

142:47

time. It doesn't matter if you have 20

142:50

eggs outside that vault or five eggs.

142:52

You're ovulating one egg at a time. So

142:54

natural fertility is all about egg and

142:56

sperm quality. So the this huge drop we

142:59

see from 20% to 5% is because of the

143:02

change of our egg quality as we get

143:04

older during our 30s which most of us

143:06

feel like is really young.

143:07

>> And what can I do to because I know

143:09

weight has a role in egg quality right?

143:11

If you're underweight or overweight, is

143:12

there anything else that has a a really

143:14

pertinent impact on the quality of my

143:17

eggs?

143:18

>> Yes. So, we have two factors. We'll say

143:20

age, which you can't control to an

143:21

extent, right? Chromosome damage is

143:23

going to happen even if you are

143:24

exceptionally healthy because tincture

143:26

of time. They've been sitting inside

143:28

your body. Chromosome damage builds up.

143:30

But the variables that you can is

143:32

everything that impacts cellular health.

143:34

So chronic inflammation and insulin

143:35

resistance are the two things that are

143:37

going to most dramatically harm your

143:39

eggs metabolic function. It's going to

143:41

harm your mitochondria. You're going to

143:42

get mitochondrial damage. We know that

143:45

when we start looking at older women,

143:46

they have more dysfunctional

143:48

mitochondria. They're shaped abnormally.

143:50

The products inside their follicular

143:52

fluid show higher levels of inflammation

143:54

just based on age that happens, but also

143:57

if they start having infertility versus

143:59

not having infertility. So we know that

144:01

inflammation and insulin resistance are

144:03

key players even in patients without

144:06

known PCOS or endometriosis but they

144:09

play a role in aging and specifically

144:11

your egg health as you age. So if you

144:13

say getting pregnant is a life goal. I'm

144:16

tracking my cycles. I don't want to

144:19

freeze my eggs right now, but what

144:20

should I do? All these things that we

144:22

talk about and we're going to talk more

144:24

about to decrease inflammation inside

144:25

our body. That's it. and from a young

144:28

age because these changes build up over

144:30

time.

144:31

>> And if I have PCOS, how does that

144:33

>> even more important because you're at a

144:35

higher predisposition to have insulin

144:37

resistance? Your cells are more

144:39

sensitive to how they're going to

144:40

respond.

144:41

>> But do I have less eggs if I have PCOS?

144:43

>> So, you're going to run out of eggs

144:43

around the same time. You're born with a

144:46

little bit more, but because you lose

144:47

eggs based on how many you have,

144:49

essentially, you're going to catch up.

144:51

So during your reproductive years, you

144:53

tend to have more eggs out of the vault,

144:55

which interferes with normal hormonal

144:56

signaling, making all of the hormonal

144:58

metabolic changes worse. Very

145:01

interesting thing, as women with PCOS

145:04

tend to get older, and their egg count

145:06

starts to drop, and they have fewer eggs

145:08

coming out of the vault, they'll often

145:09

start naturally ovulating, even if they

145:12

didn't earlier. And so I'm always a

145:14

little concerned when somebody said, "I

145:16

used to never have periods, but now I

145:18

do. Did I cure my PCOS?

145:21

Maybe they did make some good lifestyle

145:22

changes along the way, but honestly,

145:24

that's a red flag for me that she's now

145:26

more rapidly declining in her egg count,

145:29

approaching what will be penmenopause

145:31

for her because her egg count is low

145:34

enough to then respond to the brain

145:35

signals. Like nodding your head over

145:38

here.

145:38

>> And as a man, is there anything I can do

145:39

to increase the odds that I'm going to

145:41

impregnate? Mel,

145:42

>> you can stop using um cannabis and

145:45

smoking cigarettes, um drinking alcohol.

145:48

We need to avoid heat. So the testicles

145:50

are outside the body for a reason. They

145:51

need to be at a lower body temperature

145:53

in order to adequately make normally

145:55

functioning sperm. So hot tubs, saunas,

145:58

those should be off limits if you're

145:59

wanting to get pregnant. Same with

146:02

highintensity exercise and compression

146:04

of the testicles. So this is notably

146:06

cycling for long periods of time. So an

146:09

hour on the bike or more routinely can

146:11

actually compress the testicles and

146:13

increase their heat.

146:14

>> What about sitting in a chair for 5

146:15

hours? choose. She'll be fine. I want to

146:17

Same thing. Sitting in a chair, boxers

146:19

breathe, being in a room that's hot.

146:21

Those things aren't quite enough to

146:22

truly raise that core testicular

146:24

temperature quite like some of these

146:26

other things. We also see diet playing a

146:28

big role. The great thing about men,

146:31

you're making sperm every single second.

146:32

The sperm lifespan is 90 days, 72 days

146:36

to make a sperm, 18 days to get out the

146:38

ejaculatory system. But that means you

146:40

could make a singular change in your

146:42

health and see a different outcome in

146:44

your sperm. that is so rare that doesn't

146:46

exist in women's health that one

146:48

variable can move the needle so much.

146:50

>> Marijuana is a huge one. Marijuana use

146:52

works at the brain to prevent those FSH

146:55

and LH signals which are crucial to tell

146:58

your testicles to make sperm and they

147:00

also impact inflammatory environment. So

147:02

sperm are not as modal. They are not

147:05

shaped as well. The DNA inside their

147:07

heads is more fragmented. In fact, men

147:09

who use marijuana, their partners have a

147:12

higher rate of pregnancy loss, even if

147:14

their partners are not around it at all.

147:16

>> You're using the word pregnancy loss

147:17

versus the word that we're aware of in

147:19

the UK called miscarriage. Is that is

147:21

that intentional?

147:22

>> Miscarriage can mean, you know, a to a

147:25

lot of different things to people and a

147:27

pregnancy loss, an unsuccessful

147:29

pregnancy depending on when you

147:30

medically lose a pregnancy or if a

147:33

pregnancy is in the fallopian tube and

147:34

it's an ectopic pregnancy, that's still

147:37

a pregnancy loss. meaning you had a

147:39

positive pregnancy test that did not end

147:40

up in a baby. So, it's a little more

147:42

inclusive for a variety of different

147:45

stages of when and how loss can occur.

147:47

>> Miscarriage kind of infers when we say

147:48

it, you know, on my end is that the

147:50

pregnancy was in the uterus and now it's

147:52

it's we we either have to evacuate it or

147:55

it's it's self evacuating.

147:57

>> And you were saying a second ago, Vonda,

147:58

that it from your experience, pregnancy

148:01

loss, miscarriage is much higher with

148:03

women who have high stress careers and

148:06

jobs. Well, I don't know the real

148:08

statistics, but my I'm sure they exist.

148:11

But in my experience as a high capacity,

148:14

high stress, not sleeping for 11 or 22

148:17

years,

148:20

I have seen it a lot and it happened to

148:22

me.

148:23

>> Yeah, chronic stress is associated with

148:24

a higher rate of pregnancy loss.

148:26

>> Is there anything else that people

148:28

misunderstand about pregnancy loss in

148:31

miscarriage that is worth talking about?

148:34

>> Well, it's not talked about, I think.

148:36

>> Yeah. That's one of the things that

148:37

people still think it's it's taboo and

148:40

rare, but I think all of us around the

148:42

table had pregnancy loss.

148:44

>> Yep. Two, at least two.

148:45

>> And when I had mine, I was in training

148:48

and uh a I didn't want to call my

148:51

attending and tell them cuz he was a

148:53

man.

148:54

>> And I didn't want to I didn't think I

148:56

could take any time off.

148:58

>> Same.

148:59

>> I went back the next day. I would have

149:00

gone back the same day, but I could

149:01

barely move.

149:02

>> I was running labor and delivery like at

149:04

night.

149:04

>> I got discharged. Ivy pulled out in my

149:06

hand and went back on the war.

149:07

>> Yeah. Like so I think hopefully part of

149:12

this international conversation about

149:15

women's health not just

149:18

gynecological health but health in

149:20

general will give women grace because

149:24

there's no way that I should have been

149:26

expected to go back to an orthopedic

149:29

surgery residency the day after I lost a

149:31

child

149:33

or frankly I don't know what your

149:35

experiences were but in my generation of

149:38

doctors and I'm sure it happens

149:40

everywhere. I went back to work less

149:43

than five weeks after delivering a child

149:45

and I think other European countries

149:47

have it right.

149:48

>> Oh yeah, New Zealand is a year time.

149:50

>> I I

149:53

weeks.

149:53

>> Six weeks.

149:55

>> I six weeks with one and three weeks

149:57

with the other because if I wanted to

149:59

>> leave my fellowship on time,

150:01

>> that's right.

150:01

>> I wanted to graduate on time, I couldn't

150:03

exceed the total vacation. So these

150:05

internships and fellowships and I'm I'm

150:08

sure that built into these programs we

150:10

sign up for, they were all developed for

150:11

men

150:12

>> who had had they had a family, had a

150:15

wife, you had someone at home to like

150:16

take care of that business.

150:18

>> Yeah.

150:19

>> And we're have, you know, we're all in

150:23

supportive relationships and, you know,

150:25

that wasn't the issue, but like I went

150:28

back before my body was ready.

150:29

>> Yeah. because I would

150:30

>> before that baby was ready to to unlatch

150:33

and my milk supply dropped immediately

150:35

the minute why I went back to work

150:37

>> and I tried to pump but you get called

150:39

for a crash C-section or emergency

150:41

surgery and you're like pulling the pump

150:43

off the breast and I'm running down the

150:44

hall hooking my nursing bra back on

150:46

trying to get to the O and you know all

150:49

that cortisol just my milk you know so I

150:51

was able to breastfeed while I was home

150:52

with the baby and but like once I went

150:55

back to work my my milk production just

150:58

shattered a picture of day in the

151:00

hospital and it was a day after I gave

151:02

birth. My laptop is open. I'm trying to

151:05

breastfeed because we launched a company

151:08

the month before I gave birth and

151:10

instead of my male co-workers going,

151:13

"Okay, we'll give you some grace." No, I

151:16

had a week and then they were at my

151:17

house having meetings. There's such a

151:19

different discussion about miscarriage

151:21

now than when I went through it. I told

151:23

nobody. I didn't either.

151:24

>> I mean, it was so secretive. I didn't

151:26

feel like I could. And we are seeing a

151:29

different generation where I do think

151:31

talking about women's health and Stephen

151:33

you having these discussions on a bigger

151:35

stage are lessening the stigma for what

151:39

is something that people go through. One

151:41

out of four pregnancies will end in a

151:42

pregnancy loss. That is not a low

151:44

percentage of people. In the same

151:46

breath, most people should not have two

151:48

in a row. And if you do, you should go

151:50

get an evaluation because there are

151:53

medical things that can contribute to

151:55

pregnancy loss that we would love to

151:57

identify a lot earlier and see if

151:59

there's something we can do to make that

152:01

different. What do I need to understand

152:03

about what a woman goes through either

152:05

in the wake of pregnancy loss or in the

152:07

wake of a pregnancy and uh a birth

152:13

physiologically, psychologically as an

152:15

employer to be able to create a better

152:18

environment for the women that are going

152:19

through either of those two things? Like

152:22

what's what's going on inside the body?

152:23

Cuz I I wouldn't know, right? So,

152:25

>> one of the, you know, simplest things to

152:27

say that's going on is that pregnancy is

152:30

one of the most hormone robust times you

152:32

have, even just momentarily pregnant. If

152:34

you have a placenta starting to implant,

152:36

you are now making levels of estrogen

152:38

and progesterone that you will not ever

152:40

make at any other time period of your

152:42

life. When that doesn't when you lose

152:45

that pregnancy or when you're

152:47

postpartum, let's say you're having this

152:49

huge hormone crash. Suddenly you go from

152:51

this very high level of these hormones

152:53

dropping off immediately. And in

152:56

addition to all the physical changes,

152:57

the emotional changes that has a huge

153:00

impact, you've heard us talk a lot about

153:01

low estrogen and how that feels. The

153:04

very interesting thing most studies

153:05

about estrogen show is that the hardest

153:07

time for women is when estrogen is

153:09

changing. So going from high to low is

153:13

actually when your body is having

153:15

>> your brain can't keep up.

153:16

>> Can't keep up. Doesn't know what's

153:17

happening. And the higher you were and

153:19

the faster you come down, we'll use this

153:22

analogy too. Even in IVF, when we go do

153:24

an egg retrieval and somebody had many

153:26

eggs, they have a much higher estrogen

153:28

they naturally would. I go and put a

153:29

needle in each one and drain the eggs

153:31

out and destroy those cells and their

153:33

estrogen plummets and they expect to go

153:35

the next day and feel normal or they

153:38

expect to feel worse during the

153:39

stimulation process when they're using

153:41

hormone shots. And I always say, you're

153:43

actually going to feel worse when I'm

153:45

done with you. It's going to be that

153:46

week after the egg retrieval where your

153:48

hormones go from the highest they've

153:49

ever been very quickly down low. It's

153:52

that delta, that change. And that

153:54

happens anytime you have that. But

153:56

pregnancy and loss and postpartum are

153:59

some of the most profound times that you

154:01

experience this.

154:02

>> And one of the other things is the

154:04

identity shift. So if you're working,

154:07

you know, we are all very highly

154:08

motivated and became parents. But it's

154:11

that whole identity shift of now how do

154:13

I interact in my life and how do I

154:15

interact with my peers? I'm a mom. How

154:17

am I being identified? What are the

154:19

implications? So there's a complete

154:21

identity shift that also isn't discussed

154:23

>> and that can also perpetuate some of the

154:26

postpartum that we see as well.

154:27

>> Mhm.

154:28

>> And anxiety and lack of control, right?

154:30

Because you don't know what you're

154:31

supposed to do, especially if you're a

154:33

mother for the first time. that is can

154:35

be very anxietyprovoking in addition to

154:38

hormone changes and not getting sleep.

154:40

But lack of control, you don't control

154:42

your schedule. You don't control when

154:43

you sleep. You don't control if your

154:45

child gets sick.

154:46

>> And so I would say from an employer

154:47

standpoint,

154:49

>> grace, support, and flexibility. You

154:51

know, if I had had better support

154:53

structures to say when your child is

154:56

sick, it's not the end of the world if

154:58

you are not here physically at the

155:00

office. That didn't exist. meaning that

155:02

my child getting sick became this

155:04

extremely

155:06

stressful situation.

155:07

>> God,

155:09

>> but for the average woman working a 9

155:10

toive job, whether it's in medicine or

155:12

other fields, if you could design their

155:15

working month around their menstrual

155:19

cycle around, I don't know, potentially

155:21

a pregnancy, whatever. How would you

155:23

design redesign their month? Because we

155:25

we have inherited this sort of I think

155:26

it's like from the industrial

155:27

revolution, this like 9 to5 working

155:30

hours. We don't work Saturday and

155:31

Sunday. We do that four times across a

155:34

month. What would you change? What

155:35

should women change? Because I've heard

155:37

some countries or systems are are trying

155:39

to give women time off around certain

155:41

parts of their cycle, for example. Would

155:43

any of you change anything? Well, there

155:45

are a couple of companies in New Zealand

155:46

who are pretty flexible, especially

155:48

after the pandemic, where they have

155:51

allocated certain hours that are free to

155:54

work at home. You just have to get the

155:56

work done

155:57

>> to the point where they have 4 day

155:58

working weeks. And then they're also

156:01

putting into the annual leave what they

156:04

call menstrual leave or menopause leave.

156:07

And it's you just say, you know, I can't

156:09

come today. Some people are using it for

156:11

child care. Some people are using it for

156:12

really bad cramping days. Other people

156:14

are using it for mental health days. But

156:16

it's a it's there to be used for

156:18

however. And you don't have to identify

156:20

it as being menstrual cycle day or

156:22

menopause. It's just extra leave. And

156:24

people don't care as long as you get the

156:25

work done. And I think that having that

156:28

flexibility across, you know, if you

156:31

have that ability to have more flex

156:33

hours or shared time space or something

156:35

like that greatly benefits productivity

156:39

as well as the feeling of empowerment

156:42

and inclusivity, which then feeds

156:44

forward to better productivity.

156:45

>> If I've got an extremely high stress

156:47

job, is there any part of the cycle

156:49

where I should theoretically be avoiding

156:51

stress?

156:53

>> Well, that's an individual thing. It's

156:55

how because you know we hear all the

156:57

stuff about cycle tracking and it's

156:59

about understanding your own responses

157:01

to your own hormone flux

157:03

>> because Mel partner says to me that she

157:05

needs to not do work. there's like a

157:08

couple of days a month where she's like,

157:09

I'm just gonna nest all those.

157:11

>> That could be her her responses and

157:13

she's like, I just don't have the stress

157:15

tolerance to be able to do XYZ and

157:18

understanding that in her own cycle is

157:20

great because then she can allocate

157:23

tasks that take more stress for other

157:25

days. For most people, it's peak ludal.

157:27

Also when your progesterone is the

157:28

highest tends to be when people have a

157:31

harder time focusing and concentrating

157:33

or getting tasks done now

157:34

>> which is where on

157:35

>> which is going to be the middle of the

157:36

ludal phase at the middle of this second

157:38

half of the cycle when you have that

157:41

oneish.

157:42

>> So when you have that progesterone you

157:44

know really high your body might be

157:46

ready to implant an embryo if there was

157:48

one that tends to be when people say

157:50

they feel more fatigue and less energy

157:53

and less focus and concentration. So if

157:56

you are looking at your month and you

157:57

might notice that it is and you have the

157:59

flexibility to say okay I'm going to try

158:02

to write this paper get this study done

158:05

do these tasks that call these tasks

158:08

that call for an increased focus in my

158:10

follicular phase when I'm estrogen

158:12

dominant have high estrogen and no

158:13

progesterone for the average person that

158:16

is typically when they're easier have an

158:19

easier time achieving those tests

158:21

>> which is the first 14

158:23

>> yeah the first couple weeks the time

158:25

period before ovulation, but there is an

158:27

individual response and I definitely

158:28

will see some people who they feel

158:31

immensely better when progesterone's

158:33

present and not so great the other time.

158:35

So, I think we use generalizations just

158:38

as a rule of thumb because that's what

158:39

it is for most people, but hormones

158:42

specifically, there's always an

158:43

individualized response and learning to

158:45

listen to your own body is key and

158:47

knowing what you need to do. I want to

158:48

close off on this point about just how

158:50

employers and you know the way that we

158:52

work can be better suited to a woman's

158:55

health. Is there anything else we missed

158:57

there?

158:57

>> Flexibility. I think we mentioned before

159:00

the ability to make a decision for

159:01

yourself. This is a day that I can do

159:04

these, you know, tasks. I think every

159:06

woman wants to do a really good job and

159:10

she is going to frontload those tasks on

159:12

a time that she feels better and offload

159:16

in a time where she's not feeling as

159:18

well, but she's going to get it done

159:19

>> for sure. And so giving her the

159:21

flexibility is going to allow her to be

159:23

her most productive rather than

159:24

demanding she have x amount every single

159:27

day. And I think support can come in a

159:30

lot of ways, but the um financial burden

159:34

to a large corporation of having a stop

159:37

gap child care at work. So maybe if

159:40

you're not going to offer full child

159:42

care because you're getting a lot of

159:44

productivity out of women if they know

159:46

their children are on campus and can go

159:48

at lunchtime. But if you're not willing

159:50

to do that, if you have a stop gap where

159:53

instead of calling your attending or one

159:55

day my nanny didn't show up and I had to

159:58

find some way

160:00

just for those emergencies within the

160:02

corporation that breeds loyalty that

160:05

will increase productivity and so I

160:08

think it's money well spent.

160:09

>> Talk about having a competitive woman.

160:12

>> She would probably want to work for you.

160:15

>> Yeah. you know, and offering those

160:18

things to make her mothering easier

160:20

while she's trying to work. I think you

160:22

would have the most competitive

160:24

workforce.

160:24

>> And what does that mean? So that would

160:25

mean having a n is that having a nanny

160:27

on site or is that

160:28

>> take care on site? Take care on site. on

160:30

site again,

160:30

>> whether it's full-time, like bring your

160:32

children full-time there, or

160:35

>> that's a that's a big corporate, but but

160:37

a a smaller corporate commitment would

160:41

be this emergency child care so that

160:45

your kids's not there all the time, but

160:47

maybe they're sick or maybe somebody

160:49

didn't show up and then you have days

160:53

>> have a licensed childare provider

160:54

available, you know, who could

160:56

>> which is a fault of the US system

160:58

because Yeah. What happens in New

161:00

Zealand?

161:00

>> You have 20 hours free daycare

161:03

>> a week.

161:03

>> A week?

161:04

>> Yeah.

161:05

>> So, it's um Yeah. 20 hours funded. Uh

161:08

and then it's a very small nominal fee

161:10

for hours over that for up to year five

161:13

or when they're 5 years old cuz then

161:15

they start school

161:16

>> on the first day that they turn five.

161:18

It's like you turn five, happy birthday.

161:20

But it does help significantly

161:24

um kind of keep productivity and a

161:26

little bit of the worry off. What am I

161:28

going to do with my child?

161:30

>> Amazing.

161:30

>> Yeah.

161:31

>> What does this um conversation around

161:34

eggs and fertility dove tail into

161:37

menopause and specifically permenopause?

161:40

I guess that's the next

161:41

>> you can't have one without the other,

161:42

right? So per menopause is basically in

161:46

this fertility decline area. Okay. So

161:49

you don't fertility is not an issue. You

161:50

don't want to ever have a baby. You're

161:51

still going to go through pmenopause.

161:54

And so per menopause is defined

161:57

medically in the worst way as the

161:59

transition from normal menstrual cycles

162:01

to no menstrual cycle ever again. Okay.

162:05

So when we look at definitions,

162:07

menopause is defined as one year after

162:09

the final menstrual period. What it

162:11

really means is ovarian failure. And

162:14

that offends people, but that's actually

162:16

medically what it is. You have run out

162:18

of eggs and you run out of the ability

162:20

of the ovary to produce hormones. And so

162:23

per menopause begins

162:26

medically at the straw staging is the

162:29

very complicated um methodology to

162:33

define the stages of pmenopause and a

162:35

lot of it is based on menstrual cycle

162:38

irregularity but hormonally what's

162:41

happening starts well before our periods

162:44

become irregular. So as those egg levels

162:47

decline and and the ability to respond

162:49

to the stimulus coming from the brain,

162:51

remember ovulation starts in the brain.

162:54

So when estrogen levels normally get low

162:56

during the cycle, the brain doesn't like

162:58

it. The hypothalamus, so the gland in

162:59

our brain starts looking for estrogen.

163:01

It likes estrogen. And then when the

163:03

estrogen levels are high, it's happy.

163:05

And so when estrogen levels decline

163:07

naturally in a cycle, it says, "Whoop,

163:08

where's my where's my estrogen?" And it

163:10

sends a signal to a second gland in the

163:12

brain called the pituitary. And that

163:13

makes the LH and the FSH.

163:15

>> So I'm trying to figure out what causes

163:17

menop per pmenopause. What causes

163:20

menopause? Lack of eggs.

163:22

>> So it's the loss of eggs and the loss of

163:24

the the group of eggs to respond to

163:25

these signals. So here we go. We're

163:28

beginning pmenopause. We've reached a

163:29

critical threshold level where our

163:32

ovaries cannot respond. And that might

163:34

be I don't know millionaire.

163:36

>> So when you're not out of eggs but just

163:37

the count is low, right? Let's if you're

163:39

a jar. Yeah. Yeah. So if menopause is

163:41

going to be for simplicity, the jar is

163:44

empty. When the jar gets like this, so

163:46

we'll say if you had full, the jar is

163:48

not empty, but it's it's gotten lower.

163:50

And what is happening is the ovary

163:52

doesn't want to be out of eggs. So what

163:54

Dr. Haver is saying is the brain is

163:56

working harder to get an egg to grow

163:59

because the ovary becomes more stubborn.

164:00

It wants to hold on to them. It doesn't

164:02

want to lose them. The brain has to send

164:03

out stronger signals to get an egg to

164:05

grow. Because there's not as many, we

164:07

don't lose as many per month. So that's

164:09

great, but that means we have years of

164:12

being at this low unreliable ovary stage

164:15

where the brain is working really hard.

164:17

There's not as many eggs that are here.

164:20

They will still ovulate, but it starts

164:22

to happen at a less predictable rate.

164:24

But

164:25

>> so is that permenopause when there's

164:27

>> Yes. And there's not a definition I

164:28

think that which makes it the hardest of

164:30

say your point what number of eggs

164:32

equals per menopause. There is a unique

164:35

response to each person at what level

164:36

your ovary gets to where it will start

164:39

to respond dysfunctionally. But what

164:41

happens is that the hormone changes

164:43

start shifting in the brain. The ovarian

164:45

response starts shifting and before you

164:47

have irregular cycles, you will first

164:50

see a shortening of your cycles very

164:52

predictably. The brain will send out a

164:54

stronger signal. An egg will ovulate

164:56

faster. You'll start to get shorter

164:57

cycles. And then

164:58

>> there's hormone fluctuations,

165:00

>> but they're still regular. And so what

165:02

will happen is a woman will start to

165:03

feel these hormone shifts. It's less

165:05

predictable. She is having some change,

165:08

but it's still a regular cycle. And so

165:10

she is often told, "Your hormones are

165:12

fine. You have a regular cycle." So, and

165:15

in the brain, as we talked about those

165:17

neurotransmitters, there are not only is

165:20

estrogen changing and the amount that

165:22

we're producing, actually in

165:23

permenopause, quite often we'll have

165:24

much higher estradile levels than we did

165:27

in our premenopausal years where we had

165:29

that kind of predictable eb and flow of

165:32

our our monthly monthly hormones.

165:34

There's also independent FSH receptors

165:37

outside of so these hormones that are

165:40

pumping out to talk to the ovaries are

165:41

also back talking to different parts of

165:44

the brain. So the first symptoms that

165:47

patients feel and they've done a great

165:50

study on this is I don't feel like

165:51

myself.

165:54

I don't feel like myself. And they even

165:56

call it IDFM. And so you can't put your

165:59

finger on it. periods are regular, but

166:03

your environment hasn't changed. Your

166:04

normal stressors haven't changed. The

166:06

life you built that you could manage,

166:08

you're suddenly losing resilience.

166:10

>> And that's because of a hormone

166:11

fluctuation that is hard to

166:13

>> So, we see sleep disruptions, mental

166:15

health challenges increase, 40% increase

166:18

across pmenopause transition and the

166:20

cognitive changes and that is what

166:22

really scares my patients the most. And

166:25

they come in and most of them are, you

166:27

know, we're all high functioning in some

166:28

degree. Some of us in academia, some of

166:30

us in the O, some of us, but you know,

166:32

most women are high functioning because

166:33

they're juggling so many jobs. So even

166:35

if she didn't choose to go the routes

166:36

that we've chosen, she is managing

166:39

children, you know, school drop offs,

166:41

you know, all the things that women tend

166:43

to put on their plates. And suddenly

166:46

she can't remember all the things she

166:48

used to remember. Where are her keys?

166:50

You know, word salad. you're you're

166:51

struggling to find I can't tell you how

166:53

many times I am like I I see people and

166:56

like I cannot remember their names or I

166:58

can't remember I get in the car and I

167:01

can't remember where I'm going or what

167:03

my purpose of getting in the vehicle

167:04

was. You have to think for a second. And

167:06

so all of that is related to the

167:09

hormonal changes.

167:10

>> At what age?

167:12

>> Well, I think that there's a tendency in

167:14

medicine to want to have definitions.

167:16

>> Yes. So, I personally, and I know a lot

167:18

of us who talk all the time, think that

167:21

this random 366 days after your last

167:25

period, that's your menopause day. I

167:27

think that's pretty random. And I don't

167:29

know who made that up, but when I have

167:32

because I'm not an OB, but when I have

167:34

patients come in to me for their

167:35

muscularkeeletal things and they're of a

167:38

certain age and I don't just focus on

167:41

whatever the muscularkeeletal body part

167:42

is, but we start talking about their

167:44

whole health and they start talking

167:46

about these things, I am often the first

167:48

one to say to them, you know what, you

167:51

are probably in pmenopause. And they're

167:54

like, but my cycles are regular. I'm

167:56

like, but you are beginning this

167:58

transition which I call meolescence, but

168:01

it's this right. I would propose that

168:05

most people don't seek out a lot of help

168:07

earlier.

168:08

>> But they should just assume

168:10

>> that they're permenopausal anytime after

168:12

35 they don't feel like themselves and

168:15

start down a road of learning or

168:17

investigating or let's feel better and

168:20

what do I need to do about it?

168:21

>> You know, it's frustrating to us all of

168:24

us. We talked a little bit about this

168:25

last night is the people who kind of

168:27

make the rules, the institutions that

168:29

make the guidelines and and the academic

168:31

kind of

168:33

ivory tower, you know, they are like,

168:35

whoa,

168:37

back off, slow down. We shouldn't be

168:41

blaming everything on menopause, you

168:43

know, like. And I don't think that's

168:45

what we're saying. We're not trying

168:48

>> but completely dismissing the female

168:50

experience and not at all like including

168:54

this cataclysmic hormonal change

168:57

>> is hurting women. So the average age of

168:59

menopause is 51 to 52. And so let's say

169:02

that is when your ovaries are in

169:03

failure. They will no longer make eggs,

169:05

make hormones or respond to brain

169:07

signals.

169:07

>> So all the eggs, all the little marbles

169:09

are out

169:09

>> all the way gone at 51 52. For most

169:12

women about 7 to 10 years before that

169:15

they will start to enter into what we

169:17

will call pmenopause or the

169:19

unpredictable response of the ovary and

169:21

the brain. I say their communication

169:23

system their best friends who aren't

169:25

communicating well. Their signals are

169:27

getting interfered. They're not

169:29

responding appropriately. The ovary is

169:31

getting more stubborn. The brain is

169:32

trying to work harder. You get these

169:34

higher peaks, these lower troughs. And

169:37

essentially that is the time period. So

169:39

it is unique to an individual because

169:41

everybody's born with a different

169:42

number. They lose them at a different

169:44

rate. Some factors that we control

169:47

impact that rate, but some things that

169:48

we do not. Your mom's age of menopause

169:51

is a predictive factor. If you're had a

169:53

first-degree relative go through

169:54

menopause at 46 or sooner, you have a

169:58

six times likelihood of going into early

170:00

menopause.

170:02

>> So knowing having this conversation,

170:04

almost every patient I ask, what age did

170:06

your mom go through menopause? They do

170:08

not know the answer. because the moms

170:10

haven't talked about it.

170:10

>> Moms haven't talked about it. There's so

170:11

much stigma about reproductive health.

170:13

So, knowing that information is really

170:15

important if you have mom or older

170:17

sisters, what age is normal for your

170:19

family so that you can be a little more

170:21

in tune if there's some genetic

170:23

predisposition for you? The general idea

170:25

of what Dr. Haver is saying is that in

170:26

these last 7 to 10 years of ovarian

170:29

lifespan, it becomes more stubborn and

170:31

less predictable and it does cause

170:33

hormonal shifts that most women can't

170:35

detect with their cycles. We do know

170:36

that if you are actively tracking

170:39

actually when ovulation's happening and

170:41

looking at your follicular and ludial

170:43

phase and you know what's normal for

170:45

you, you will most likely be able to

170:47

detect these hormone shifts in that time

170:49

period. But that's not what women are

170:51

taught. Their tracking is just that it's

170:53

coming regular. And we do have a

170:56

generation of women that were on

170:58

contraception and then went through

171:00

childbearing and then on contraception

171:02

again until now they're suddenly

171:04

entering this transitional period and

171:06

they don't know what their own normal is

171:08

making it even worse.

171:09

>> Correct.

171:11

>> So like she said the average age of

171:13

menopause if we look at the math uh is

171:15

is 51 but under that 90th percentile

171:18

curve you know with 5% on each end it's

171:21

about 45 to 55. That's menopause, right?

171:25

>> That's full menopause. Now, now let's

171:27

just do math and back it up 7 to 10

171:29

years. So, we're looking at the mid to

171:31

late 30s to 40. So, when I have a 46,

171:34

47, 48y old patient come in who's still

171:36

cycling, she has almost 100% chance of

171:39

being in pmenopause just based on her

171:41

age alone, knowing the statistics around

171:43

that.

171:44

>> Yep.

171:45

>> Okay. So with my partner between the age

171:47

of sort of 35 to 45 is when I can expect

171:50

her to go through permenopause where

171:51

there's very little marbles left in the

171:53

jar. Um and her hormones might be

171:57

disabled less predictable

171:59

>> and one of the questions we had in from

172:01

the audience was how can I manage the

172:03

symptoms of permenopause and they use

172:06

the word naturally

172:07

>> well we don't have a single largecale

172:10

study done on the treatment of per

172:14

menopause. So, so let me break it down

172:15

for you. When we look at funding in

172:17

women's health, it's horrible. Okay? But

172:19

if we, if I go into PubMed, which is

172:21

the, you know, database that I go to

172:24

look up metal medical journal articles,

172:26

and I type in the word pregnancy, I will

172:28

get today 1.2ish million articles for

172:31

pregnancy. Amazing. So important. We

172:34

need healthy pregnancies. If I type in

172:36

the word menopause right now, I think

172:38

it's about 99,000.

172:40

So those numbers represent time, brain

172:44

power, funding,

172:47

what what what is important in women's

172:49

health. Okay. If I type in the word

172:51

perry menopause, we are about at 8,000.

172:55

>> Yep. Very very very very small. Your

172:59

name's on a couple of Thanks.

173:03

So is the last third of my life from an

173:08

academic standpoint, from funding, from

173:10

brain power, from where we focus not as

173:13

important

173:15

than when I had the ability to be

173:17

pregnant. More women will go through

173:18

pmenopause than menopause because we're

173:20

going to lose a few to accidents and

173:21

cancers and, you know, early deaths.

173:24

More women will go through pmenopause

173:26

then get pregnant. Yet in my training,

173:29

so in medical school, I got one hour one

173:32

one-hour lecture on menopause, nothing

173:34

on Perry. And in my OB/GYN training, and

173:37

I'd love to hear what you have to say,

173:38

as part of our reproductive

173:40

endocrinology blocks, I had one block of

173:42

that my second year. In those six weeks,

173:44

I got one one-hour lecture each week. No

173:47

clinics, no focus, nothing. And then as

173:51

a program director where I was in charge

173:52

of the education of residents of over

173:55

100 residents over about 10 years, I

173:58

knew exactly what the curriculum

173:59

required and menopause just gets shoved

174:02

into a tiny box.

174:04

>> And then what happens when we run out of

174:05

marbles in the the glass there?

174:10

>> What's really interesting and one thing

174:11

we've said a couple times is this

174:12

happens. This is ovarian failure. you're

174:15

going to go into a state of low estrogen

174:17

because the ovaries no longer have the

174:19

ability to make eggs. Therefore, they

174:21

are not going to make estrogen or

174:23

progesterone.

174:23

>> And just to be clear there, the eggs

174:25

were sending a signal up to the brain to

174:27

make estrogen.

174:27

>> And the eggs well the low the eggs in

174:30

the brain communicate. Yes. When you

174:32

didn't have an egg ovulating, your

174:34

estrogen would be low and that typically

174:36

is the brain signal to send out more

174:37

FSH. That's still happening. Meaning

174:40

estrogen is low, but the brain is

174:44

sending out all the FSH it has. FSH is

174:46

very high in menopause and the ovary

174:49

cannot respond because there's no more

174:50

eggs. There's nothing left to respond.

174:52

>> I need to explain that that explained

174:54

again. So, I'm trying to understand why

174:56

estrogen drops when the eggs disappear.

174:58

>> The estrogen is made from the cells that

174:59

surround each egg. So, when there's no

175:01

more eggs, there's no more cells that

175:03

make estrogen. Follicle goes away, too.

175:05

>> Okay. Okay. So, estrogen is made in

175:09

>> the ovaries. So the estrogen is made in

175:10

the ovaries and the primary type of

175:13

estrogen that we're talking about and

175:14

it's made from the cells that surround

175:15

each follicle called the granulosa

175:17

cells. And as the follicle gets bigger,

175:19

as the egg matures, more of those cells

175:22

become more active and you make more

175:23

estrogen. So even when you have a little

175:26

bit left

175:28

when you're on your period, we'll say,

175:30

but you're some eggs here, you're still

175:32

making some estrogen. It's not as high

175:34

as when you're ovulating, but these

175:36

little eggs will each make a little bit.

175:37

>> Do I make estrogen at times? You do,

175:39

>> but I just make it somewhere else.

175:41

>> Yeah. It gets converted over to

175:42

testosterone.

175:44

>> Okay.

175:44

>> So, we have enzymes in our body that

175:46

convert estrogen and testosterone back

175:48

and forth.

175:48

>> So, there's no more eggs. So, this is

175:51

menopause.

175:52

>> So, this is men. Well, in my world, yes,

175:54

ov this is ovarian failure. And we're

175:56

calling it ovarian failure on purpose

175:57

because at this moment, you're not going

175:59

to make estrogen. The brain is sending

176:01

out all the signals it can. Very high

176:03

FSH trying to get estrogen to be made.

176:05

There's no eggs, so there is no

176:07

estrogen. What Dr. Haver has said, which

176:09

is correct, our our friends in the

176:12

medical world do not define this moment

176:15

as menopause. They make you sit here and

176:17

be estrogen low for a year and have no

176:20

period for a year before they will say

176:22

you're in menopause. If they even decide

176:24

to treat

176:25

>> or offer treatment, you know, or even

176:27

begin the discussion because of our

176:29

training, you must thou shalt go without

176:32

one year. So, we're absolutely sure that

176:34

the ovaries have have moved on before we

176:38

would even consider.

176:40

>> But what is the point of that? We've

176:41

made estrogen our entire lives.

176:43

>> It's a fabulous question. That's a great

176:45

question.

176:46

>> Starving our brains, our hearts, our

176:47

bones, our muscles.

176:48

>> They didn't think they were doing that.

176:50

I don't think that people, you know, the

176:52

medical community has recognized

176:55

estrogen's effects outside of

176:56

reproduction until very recently. I

176:58

think there's been isolated pockets, but

177:01

there's no no one owns menopause. Like

177:03

no one you think it would be OBGYn, but

177:06

there's no one in charge of women's

177:08

health after reproduction ends.

177:10

>> Like there's there's no zar.

177:12

>> So what's the harm of waiting a year

177:14

before people take it seriously? What

177:16

happens?

177:16

>> Suicide, mental health changes, rapidly

177:19

declining bone density. I mean, you can

177:21

be healthy without estrogen.

177:23

>> Wants estrogen.

177:24

>> All vaginas need estrogen. So your

177:26

brain, your bones, your heart, your

177:28

blood vessels, your vagina,

177:30

>> your body has estrogen receptors

177:32

everywhere that we've already

177:33

established. And suddenly you've lost

177:36

the ability to make your primary source

177:38

of estrogen. And what happens is that,

177:42

you know, medicine has a lot of

177:43

definitions that we use that are very

177:45

antiquated. Even how we date

177:46

pregnancies, right? When we talk about

177:48

how far along you are in a pregnancy, we

177:50

date back to the last period you had,

177:52

which meant 2 weeks of pregnancy or

177:55

before you ever ovulated an egg, before

177:58

you 3 weeks before you ever implanted an

178:00

embryo. Yet, we still use this pregnancy

178:03

timeline based on when your last period

178:06

was, even though we know two weeks of

178:08

that you weren't in fact pregnant at

178:09

all.

178:10

>> Now, menopause, in my opinion, is the

178:12

exact same way. We're using an

178:14

antiquated definition saying you have to

178:16

prove to me you're an ovarian failure by

178:19

lack of your period for 12 months

178:20

because it represents a time period

178:22

where we didn't fully understand what

178:24

was happening in the ovary or didn't

178:25

have the ability to test and know what

178:27

we know now. We are making women suffer

178:30

to get that diagnosis. If I believe I

178:32

shouldn't treat you until you have

178:34

menopause, you have to prove that you're

178:37

in it. I don't think it's where we're

178:39

going. I don't think it's what's right

178:40

for women. And that being this low

178:42

estrogen is hugely impactful at your

178:45

life at any age. The female body needs

178:48

estrogen to function normally.

178:51

>> I mean, I'm looking at this chart here

178:52

about suicidation. Yeah. Suicide.

178:54

>> So, the most likely time for a woman to

178:55

commit suicide is between the ages of 45

178:59

and 55.

179:01

>> And do you is do you think that's linked

179:02

to

179:04

>> 100% menopause?

179:06

>> Right. So we know that mental health

179:10

we have an increase in mental health

179:11

disorders either pre-existing getting

179:14

worse or new onset of about 40% across

179:17

the transition. And we look at um SSRI

179:20

prescriptions which are

179:20

anti-depressants. They double across the

179:23

menopause transition. Now there's a

179:24

couple reasons for that. One is we

179:26

weren't treating menopause with

179:28

hormones. So they just SSRIs can

179:30

actually help a hot flash. Uh certain

179:32

types. So, you know, Paxel is one of the

179:34

ones that has been proven to decrease

179:36

hot flashes some. It's not great, but it

179:38

works a little bit. And with all of the

179:40

mental health changes, a lot of women

179:41

are ending up on these anti-depressant

179:44

medications.

179:46

>> So, we don't want to go a year without

179:47

estrogen. So, we know that some of the

179:50

new data coming out when I was

179:51

researching for the new pmenopause,

179:53

there's a really great window of using

179:56

hormones to treat mental health

179:58

disorders um and seeing improvement in

180:01

mood and also some in cognition by

180:03

giving estrogen or estrogen plus the

180:05

progesterine early in pmenopause before

180:08

the periods actually stop ra and that

180:10

actually works better than an SSRI. So,

180:13

say she's on an on an SSRI and has done

180:15

well. She's had a long history of

180:16

depression. Suddenly, she's not

180:18

controlled. Suddenly, her symptoms are

180:20

back and she's on the same medication.

180:22

Rather than doubling or adding a second

180:24

agent,

180:25

>> we really should be giving these women a

180:29

hormonal therapy.

180:31

>> Now, that doesn't hold postmenopause.

180:33

So, this is really a pmenopausal kind of

180:36

window of opportunity.

180:37

>> In postmenopause, they aren't responding

180:40

as well and probably because the

180:41

estrogen labels have stabilized. So when

180:43

we give a woman back

180:44

>> adapts yeah you'll adapt. So

180:46

postmenopause the menopause um that's

180:49

why the suicide rates kind of peak in

180:51

this key per menopause area and we think

180:54

and so in postmenopause

180:57

they the hormone levels stabilize so

180:59

women tend to get better and so they do

181:02

respond better to the SSRIs for for new

181:04

onset anxiety and depression in those

181:05

patients.

181:07

>> And I want to do a randomized control

181:08

trial where we add some creatine.

181:10

>> Oh that would be amazing. 20 g of

181:14

>> Well, no, it's 38 per kilogram of body

181:16

gram. Yes.

181:17

>> So, you're saying if I'm a 45year-old

181:19

woman and I'm I've still got my

181:21

menstrual cycle

181:22

>> Mhm.

181:23

>> at that time before I've hit menopause,

181:26

>> I should be considering some type of

181:27

hormonal therapy. So when we give

181:29

someone menopausal dosed menopause

181:31

hormone therapy in the form of estradile

181:33

usually in a patch because you have that

181:34

nice steady state it is enough to feed

181:37

back to the hypo to that brain to calm

181:40

down but not enough to suppress

181:41

ovulation. So she's often giving

181:43

estrogen support in very low doses and

181:46

menopause hormone therapy is basically

181:47

micro doing compared to what we do

181:49

naturally. And so we're giving enough to

181:52

calm the brain down and stabilize what's

181:54

happening in the brain without

181:55

suppressing her natural ovulation.

181:58

giving enough what?

181:59

>> To raise you back to maybe what that

182:01

baseline would be.

182:02

>> Giving enough estrogen. Correct. Giving

182:05

enough estrogen to raise the baseline

182:07

level so it's not as low. It's not so

182:10

high that it's preventing ovulation, but

182:12

it's going to alleviate some of these

182:14

drastic highs and lows that you're

182:16

having and it's going to create a more

182:17

stable hormone environment.

182:19

>> It's the delta that we were talking

182:20

about post pregnancy. The delta

182:25

chaos. The space is what bothers us, not

182:27

the high nor the low eventually.

182:30

>> So,

182:31

I have uh I run out of eggs and then I'm

182:36

by definition menopausal at this stage

182:39

and

182:41

my body adapts.

182:43

So, there's going to be a drop and then

182:45

there's going to be a

182:46

>> We're specifically talking about mental

182:48

health because you brought up the

182:49

suicide chart. Uh and so postmenopause

182:53

like once everything calms down and

182:55

you're fully menopausal you're out of

182:56

the zone of chaos. The hormones have

182:58

just your bones continue to deteriorate

183:01

a lot of other things are happening but

183:02

our cognit our mental our brain tends to

183:05

calm down and things get better in the

183:06

brain.

183:07

>> When do I become postmenopausal instead

183:08

of menopausal?

183:10

>> Oh go menopause is a day right medically

183:14

menopause is one day in your life. one

183:16

day exactly after your final menstrual

183:19

period.

183:19

>> That's the point of that random agree,

183:22

right? Because what if what if it's leap

183:24

year? Do we go 366 days? What if it's

183:26

what if you've had an IUD? What if

183:27

you've had all these things? It's like

183:29

it's really a antiquated definition and

183:31

we really need to modernize.

183:32

>> So, it's really you're permenopausal,

183:34

then you're postmenopausal.

183:35

>> Correct.

183:35

>> Right.

183:36

>> Okay. And when I'm postmenopausal

183:38

>> forever,

183:39

>> forever.

183:40

>> That's your new biological state.

183:41

>> That's right. for now. I'm sure

183:43

someone's working on something to change

183:45

something.

183:46

>> I do wonder that. I do wonder if they're

183:48

they're going to figure out a way to

183:49

>> extend fertility. I mean, they're

183:51

trying.

183:52

>> They're trying.

183:54

>> But then I think about it as if you're a

183:56

60-year-old woman, would you still want

183:58

to be

183:58

>> worried about

183:59

>> worried about that?

184:00

>> So, what they're doing is looking at is

184:02

there a way to extend

184:03

>> we'll say ovarian function. ovarian

184:05

function with lowle baseline

184:08

>> enough to keep you out of osteop you

184:09

know enough to slow that down and heart

184:11

disease protect your heart without

184:14

pregnancy

184:14

>> I'm now post menopausal lots of things

184:17

change in my body I'm guessing because I

184:18

I no longer have the same levels of

184:20

estrogen

184:21

>> did the levels of estrogen ever go up

184:23

again naturally or do I then need to

184:25

start considering

184:26

>> outside of a tumor no I mean

184:28

>> so do I need to consider hormone

184:29

replacement therapies and things like

184:30

that to

184:31

>> you might

184:32

>> and that will help me fend off what the

184:34

sleep issues, the

184:36

>> it'll slow the rate of change,

184:38

>> okay?

184:38

>> But it doesn't stop it. You still have

184:41

to put in your lifestyle modifications

184:43

to improve andor stop the circenia and

184:46

the bone density loss and all the things

184:48

that people associate with

184:50

postmenopause.

184:50

>> And did any of you have menopause

184:53

hormone therapy?

184:54

>> Yes.

184:55

>> Yeah.

184:55

>> Mhm.

184:56

>> And what was the decision and what what

184:58

impact has it had? So, I think what

184:59

Stacy just said in framing where we're

185:02

going with this conversation is so now

185:04

we're permenopausal. It's a new

185:07

physiology.

185:08

What used to work for all of our

185:10

exercising if we even did because we

185:12

know it at least in this country that 60

185:15

to 80% of people aren't intentional with

185:18

their lifestyle. So to frame this next

185:21

part of the conversation, I'm sure we're

185:23

going to talk a lot about hormones, and

185:24

I'll tell you my hormone decision-m, but

185:28

uh I think it's important to all of us.

185:30

It's only one of the building blocks to

185:35

rebuilding a great life, right? It's

185:37

interesting that the five steps of

185:39

fertility that you went over are

185:41

actually

185:41

>> exactly the same.

185:43

>> Curious, isn't it?

185:44

>> It is. It's it's

185:46

great protein and anti-inflammatory

185:49

nutrition. It's a cardiovascular fitness

185:52

life. It's a lifting life. It's a stress

185:54

detox whether it's environmental or

185:57

relational. And

185:58

>> sleep,

185:59

>> sleep,

186:00

>> sleep.

186:00

>> And then yes, hormones are really uh a

186:03

critical building block. But as we enter

186:05

the conversation,

186:07

women are sentient beings and we get to

186:10

decide

186:12

and we get to make the changes because

186:14

we have agency. So what we're going to

186:16

describe is not a one-sizefits-all.

186:19

>> It is

186:20

>> it's all the tools on the tools.

186:21

>> Put the tools on the table.

186:23

>> So I choose if I'm going to work my

186:25

proverbial rear end off to be the best I

186:28

can be for the rest of my life. I choose

186:30

to use all the tools. Not everybody does

186:33

that. But to choose one tool and think

186:35

that's going to be enough, it never is.

186:37

>> Right. So when I decided to and I've

186:41

been pretty public about my journey in

186:44

this because you think I would have

186:46

known after 22 years of formal education

186:49

and all this and being an aging a

186:52

muscularkeeletal aging researcher, you

186:54

would have think thought I would have

186:55

known. But I honestly looking back maybe

186:57

thought I was never going to age because

186:59

I was so healthy, right?

187:01

So I have a baby at 40. I breastfeed

187:05

till almost 41 and a half, 42. And then

187:09

I'm back at my very quickly 5 weeks, my

187:12

high power, high capacity to career.

187:16

But things were getting really different

187:18

about 45 for me and I think I went right

187:21

from postpartum

187:24

to perry menopause with very little

187:27

downtime. So chaotic hormones to almost

187:32

and so

187:34

I suffered for a while at 47. Uh I I

187:37

talk about it like I I went from this

187:39

really high capacity to thinking I was

187:41

going to die not only because of night

187:44

sweats, brain fog, the thing that lots

187:46

of women have. But I started having

187:49

heart palpitations. And I call my

187:52

cardiology friend because I worked at a

187:54

university. I'm like Ricky Ricky I think

187:55

I'm dying. So he did put me on a stress

187:57

test and my heart was perfect right at

188:00

that point. And then I had arthralgia

188:04

which is total body pain. It's part of

188:06

the inflammatory response of not having

188:10

estrogen. It's part of the

188:11

muscularkeeletal syndrome of menopause

188:14

uh assembly of symptoms. so much that I

188:17

go from training

188:19

to almost not being able to get out of

188:21

bed and these my experience of not

188:24

knowing what was coming and hitting a

188:27

wall is not uncommon,

188:29

>> right? And so I started educating myself

188:32

and being an acquired expert. I read

188:36

what I consider the world's data on

188:39

safety of hormone optimization as I like

188:43

to call it and I made the decision that

188:46

I was going to do all the tools. I was

188:48

going to learn to lift heavy again which

188:49

I hadn't done since high school cuz I

188:51

was a runner and I changed the way I do

188:54

my cardio and I changed my diet and I am

188:57

so committed to sleep. do not call me

188:59

after 9:30 at night because I am going

189:01

to be in bed and just the

189:04

>> the quiet times of d-stress. But I also

189:06

decided to um augment or to optimize my

189:11

hormones with estradiol,

189:13

with progesterone because I have a

189:15

uterus and after I felt comfortable with

189:18

those with very small doses of

189:21

testosterone and that makes me feel like

189:25

myself again, not just one because I

189:27

think sometimes people think that you

189:29

can just make a hormone decision and

189:31

feel like yourself again. It takes

189:33

lifestyle

189:35

>> plus or minus this decision.

189:37

>> Is there a stigma associated with that

189:39

decision? Um

189:40

>> taking hormones.

189:41

>> Taking the hormones, but also I guess

189:42

just more broadly with entering

189:45

>> menopause. Yeah.

189:47

>> Um I think there is there is absolutely

189:50

I mean you can just look at popular

189:52

media. You can look at their

189:53

representation.

189:54

>> Go right now and give me an image.

189:56

>> It's decreasing because of you though.

189:58

Like we have to acknowledge you are

189:59

decreasing the stigma.

190:01

>> True. and you're sitting at the table

190:02

with us.

190:03

>> I say that I think because there's a

190:04

woman in my life who was telling me

190:06

about her decision to start taking

190:07

menopause hormone therapy and she

190:10

described the moment with her husband

190:12

when she was looking at the box.

190:13

>> Mhm.

190:14

>> And she was staring at the box and

190:16

staring at the box and staring at the

190:18

box and mulling it and there was clearly

190:20

something emotional going on there that

190:21

this decision to take this marks

190:24

something

190:25

>> which is interesting because no one

190:27

really questions OC's.

190:29

>> Exactly. Oral contraceptive birth

190:31

control birth control

190:33

>> and I treat both men and women and when

190:35

a man comes into my clinic with low

190:37

energy popping all the tendons all over

190:40

his body everything hurts we very

190:42

quickly test his testosterone and send

190:45

him with no judgment because he's trying

190:47

to be viral and I think it goes with the

190:50

general composa conversation about aging

190:52

women when men talk about living longer

190:57

>> it's called longevity and we celebrate

190:59

that and we take pictures of movie stars

191:02

in the south of France very

191:03

distinguished distinguished with their

191:05

grain temples when women when we talk

191:07

about women living longer

191:10

>> until right now cuz we're all screaming

191:12

about it it's under the guise of

191:15

anti-aging

191:17

>> a superficial like oh my god don't let

191:19

her age so I think part of that is the

191:24

stigma of menopause somehow because

191:26

we're no longer able to have a

191:29

there's not a value. We've aged out of

191:31

the game,

191:32

>> which hopefully we're pivoting this

191:35

narrative because as I said earlier,

191:37

women are winning the longevity battle.

191:39

We already live longer, but it's how

191:42

we're living that we're trying to course

191:44

correct.

191:44

>> Yeah. And it's not just humans that go

191:46

through this. Like I like using the

191:48

whale analogy cuz whales go through it

191:50

and then the whales that are no longer

191:52

reproductive become like

191:54

>> the senior everyone all the other little

191:57

whales listen to them. is like I want to

191:59

be like a whale where you have this

192:01

seniority and and respect the wisdom

192:05

wisdom keepers.

192:06

>> Yeah,

192:06

>> exactly.

192:07

>> I love this part of my life.

192:09

>> You love this part of your life?

192:10

>> Yes.

192:11

>> Why?

192:12

>> I have never felt like I've

192:17

been in exactly where I'm supposed to

192:19

be. In this moment, I feel like I'm

192:22

helping more people. I have better

192:24

relationships. I'm having better sex.

192:26

I'm having better, you know, everything

192:29

in my life pretty much is better. And I

192:33

I don't know if like menopause and and

192:36

life circumstances have just given me

192:39

permission to like cut out the crap and

192:43

focus on what's really important

192:45

>> and, you know, don't sweat the small

192:48

stuff,

192:49

you know, it's like like something kind

192:51

of switches in our brain.

192:52

>> No filters. It's amazing. And I don't

192:55

think I could have done this 10 years

192:57

ago. I was too worried about what people

192:59

thought. I was too worried about being a

193:00

good girl and following the rules and

193:02

checking the boxes and never stepping

193:04

outside of the guidelines. But until I

193:06

realized that I wasn't really serving

193:08

the population that I trained for x

193:10

amount of years to that, you know, and

193:13

they were being left behind

193:15

is really what allowed me to like be

193:18

where I am today.

193:19

>> I think most of us describe this as the

193:21

most authentic. We're actually who we

193:24

were made to be. And the confidence we

193:26

feel comes from our memories of success.

193:30

I think that's where confidence come

193:31

from. We remember everything that we

193:33

have learned to fix over time. Probably

193:36

we could figure anything out. And so

193:39

that comes with experience and frankly

193:42

it comes with aging. The price of aging

193:45

or the pre the price of having wisdom

193:47

and experience is aging, right? And so

193:50

the the reps and so you get to this

193:52

place and you're like, I'm going to

193:54

figure this out. We're going to figure

193:56

this out.

193:57

>> And I don't want the younger generations

193:58

to have to go through the stuff that

194:00

we've gone through. So if I can share my

194:02

experiences to help them navigate, then

194:05

that is a good thing.

194:06

>> Yeah, I'm in pmenopause, so I'm a

194:08

slightly different stage. And I know

194:11

this because my cycles are shorter, but

194:14

they're still very regular. Used to be

194:16

28 29 days. Now they're 25 26. I know

194:20

that means I have less eggs coming out

194:22

of my vault every month and that's why

194:24

I'm ovulating sooner. But I can feel all

194:26

the hormonal shifts much more profoundly

194:29

than before. Now, as a reproductive

194:31

endocrinologist, what we call a

194:33

fertility doctor, most fertility doctors

194:35

now do IVF day in and day out. And

194:37

there's a lot of corporate reasons why

194:39

that is. But we're also trained in

194:42

puberty, premature ovarian failure, and

194:44

hormones. So, I'm more of a cowboy and

194:46

quite cavalier at giving estrogen. We

194:48

even told these ladies last night, oh,

194:51

>> because I see it. I see people who are

194:53

low estrogen states and you know, every

194:56

single day, how it impacts their life.

194:58

So, I am on lowd dose estrogen right

195:01

now, even though I'm still cycling. I'm

195:02

still making my own progesterone, so I

195:05

don't have to take a progesterone right

195:07

now. But, it clearly makes a difference

195:10

in my day-to-day function and how I

195:12

feel. And most REI like I am will

195:16

jokingly say like you'll put me in the

195:18

ground on estrogen because it has such a

195:20

profound impact on you're able how you

195:24

can function and specifically if we're

195:27

not forcing you to go through this empty

195:30

glass period for years and years and

195:32

years of your life

195:34

>> there's more opportunity on how you can

195:37

slow down part of the process that we

195:39

all know is going to happen with aging

195:41

but to live I think pond do is it you

195:43

know healthier your health span how are

195:44

you going to live healthy longer not

195:47

just live longer

195:48

>> well and I think your approach that I

195:51

think it's part of the decision making

195:53

is critical because

195:56

>> uh

195:58

35 to 45 and early pmenopause are prime

196:01

times for prevention

196:03

>> right it's to get our standards set

196:06

>> you don't have to lose your bone like

196:08

you're going to get

196:08

>> but it's hard for women to get care and

196:10

we also have to acknowledge that if you

196:12

go into

196:13

>> right if you what you're recommending

196:14

and I also do the same thing for my

196:16

patients

196:17

>> very hard for somebody to get care for

196:18

>> this is not happening in 99%

196:21

>> of doctor's offices like there is no

196:24

birth control pill or nothing which is

196:25

all they were taught

196:26

>> given that even in menopause only 4% of

196:29

women have chosen or have been educated

196:32

the pros and cons of hormone

196:34

optimization

196:35

and then to ex that's without that's an

196:37

empty jar person

196:39

>> so 4% Stephen

196:41

>> is that How many women that have

196:43

>> said 2023 they did a study in the US.

196:45

I'm not sure in other countries and on

196:47

FDA approved. So when we add in

196:49

compounding it's maybe a little bit

196:50

higher but when you look at FDA

196:53

prescriptions only 4% of eligible women

196:56

meaning no risk factors right age are

196:59

are utilizing are going to get their

197:01

prescriptions filled. Evidently this is

197:04

going to change right with the education

197:06

that you guys

197:07

>> we hope at least they're being offered

197:09

it and having a discussion so that each

197:11

one

197:11

>> they may choose not to the right and

197:13

that's their right but

197:14

>> side effects are there side effects

197:16

worth noting I know a lot of people are

197:17

quite scared of taking sen hormones

197:20

>> so there's risks and then there's side

197:21

effects so when we look at the side

197:23

effect profile anytime we give a woman

197:25

estrogen progesterone and we'll have to

197:28

like look at them individually but

197:30

estrogen you can have headaches you can

197:32

have irregular bleeding about 50% of

197:34

patients and more on the patch than on

197:36

oral.

197:37

>> There's a patch and there's oral. Vonda,

197:38

you take the patch, right?

197:39

>> I do.

197:40

>> And that's on your stomach.

197:41

>> Yeah, it's right here actually.

197:42

>> And how often do you have to replace

197:43

that?

197:44

>> Twice a week.

197:45

>> Okay, fine. And

197:47

>> yeah. So, so when we look at menopause

197:48

hormone therapy, we have estrogen, we

197:51

have progesterrogens, and then we have

197:53

testosterone basically. And there's

197:55

different ways to get it into your body.

197:57

There's oral and non-oral roughly. So,

197:59

in oral it's pill, you take it. In

198:01

non-oral, we're looking at through the

198:03

skin or through the mucosa. So mucosa

198:06

could be under the tongue. It could be

198:08

in the vagina. So mucosa is like the

198:10

gastrointestinal tract is lined with

198:12

mucosa and it's a nice way to absorb and

198:14

in the rectum to absorb medication. We

198:16

don't have a rectal form of estrogen

198:18

yet. And so um so and then there's also

198:21

injectables so you can inject it

198:23

straight into the muscle or subcutaneous

198:25

tissues. So most commercially available

198:27

like FDA approved. We're looking at a

198:29

ring for the mucosa. We're looking at a

198:31

patch for transdermal or we're looking

198:33

at pills for oral.

198:34

>> And what do you take?

198:35

>> Yes. So, I am on a patch. Um, and I've

198:38

just been I'm not a great absorber

198:41

through my skin. Um, and I couldn't get

198:43

my estradile levels high enough where

198:45

studies are looking like the best bone

198:47

protection is. So, I've added about a

198:49

half milligram of oral estradile at

198:51

night. I'm on oral micronized

198:53

progesterone, which is probably the best

198:55

way to get it into our system. And I

198:57

tolerate progesterone very well. And

198:59

testosterone. And I am on a gel that is

199:02

FDA approved. We I'm borrowing the men's

199:04

version because we don't have an FDA

199:06

approved version

199:06

>> for women

199:07

>> in this country for women. So

199:09

>> I don't think anywhere is

199:10

>> borrow my husband.

199:11

>> Australia.

199:12

>> Australia.

199:13

>> And I think the UK just has approved

199:16

one. This is new

199:17

>> some news like in the last month.

199:19

>> Yeah.

199:20

>> So okay. So um okay. So, so it's it's

199:23

broadly advisable

199:26

after doctor's consultation to take some

199:28

form of hormone therapy.

199:30

>> Definitely if you're symptomatic, if you

199:32

have the classic visual motor symptoms,

199:33

it's absolutely the gold standard.

199:36

>> But can I comment on that?

199:37

>> Women say to me all the time either, I

199:41

don't have I don't feel that bad

199:45

or they say I want to do this naturally.

199:48

And those are the things that say okay

199:50

fine, do it naturally. But

199:54

brain fog, night sweats in the V and hot

199:56

flashes are not the only thing going on.

199:58

And so if you're making this decision

200:01

fully informed, well, you're a sentient

200:04

being. Make the incision. But you cannot

200:07

feel your bones crumbling until they're

200:10

broken. You cannot feel that. You cannot

200:12

feel your muscle going away. You cannot

200:14

feel your brain starving. You can't

200:17

detect microvascular disease of your

200:19

heart. So, you may think you're getting

200:21

away with something and maybe you don't

200:23

have night sweats, brain fog,

200:26

but it doesn't mean you're not having a

200:28

different physiology. And if you are

200:30

fully aware of that and make a decision

200:33

that you don't want to optimize your

200:35

hormones, that's your decision. And I'm

200:36

fine with that. But what I'm not fine

200:38

with is people thinking they're getting

200:40

away with something when they're not.

200:43

>> True. I

200:44

>> You're making the decision based on fear

200:45

and not facts.

200:46

>> Correct.

200:46

>> My last question is about love and sex

200:48

in and menopause. You said you're having

200:50

the best ex of your life, Mary. And um

200:52

I've also heard you talk about how

200:54

several people in this season of life

200:56

end up getting divorces. You said they

200:58

throw the the trash out. So when I

201:02

So when we talk about, you know,

201:05

menopause can

201:07

spur, you know, for some women it's it's

201:10

this mo moment of empowerment. They

201:12

realize they have to circle the wagons

201:13

cuz the only way they're going to

201:14

survive through this cataclysmic, you

201:16

know, upheaval for so many women is to

201:20

get rid of relationships that aren't

201:21

working. Put up boundaries and sometimes

201:23

that's going to be the end of a

201:24

marriage. Other times it's going to

201:26

strengthen a relationship because you're

201:28

you're kind of cutting out things that

201:30

were getting in the way of your so I see

201:32

many marriages or many relationships

201:34

really improve through the transition.

201:36

But it it does take two. You know, sex

201:39

is biocschosocial. So like when I I look

201:41

at sex it's not I think of the entire

201:43

experience you know and one as far as my

201:47

desire for the frequency testosterone

201:50

does seem to have given that an uptick.

201:53

So it is approved you know we have lots

201:56

of studies done on libido for women

201:58

which is in medicine we say hypoactive

202:00

sexual desire disorder and it has to

202:02

bother you. So a lot of women are like I

202:04

don't want to have sex ever again I

202:05

don't care. There's nothing wrong with

202:07

that, right? Unless it affects your

202:09

relationship and it it bo it has to

202:10

bother you. But I have a lot of patients

202:12

who come in and say, "I love him. I used

202:16

to want to do it. We used to have a

202:17

really great frequency and everybody was

202:19

happy about it. It was something I look

202:20

forward to, enjoy it, and now there's

202:22

nothing. I have nothing." And for those

202:25

patients, testosterone can be helpful.

202:27

Not for everyone, right? And so there's

202:30

other emerging data on looking at the

202:33

muscular skeletal system. I am naturally

202:35

thin. I was not an athlete growing up.

202:36

At best, I was a dancer, you know, and I

202:40

didn't do anything to protect my muscles

202:41

and bones as as I was coming up through

202:43

the ranks. And so, here I am in my 50s

202:46

just getting out of endurance, you know,

202:48

you know, recreational endurance

202:50

training and thinking, what have I done

202:52

to my bones and muscles? I laid on that

202:53

DEXA scan as nervous as I've ever been

202:56

in my life, like getting my board

202:57

scores, nervous, like, what have I done?

202:59

And and it wasn't bad, okay? But I'm

203:02

like, but I like to be perfect. So, I'm

203:05

like, what can I do to, you know, I'm

203:08

doing the I'm eating the protein, I'm

203:09

lifting the weights, I'm starting to do

203:11

all these things. And we know that women

203:12

who have naturally higher testosterone

203:14

levels from genetics or whatever, have

203:17

less frailty as they age cuz that's my

203:19

focus. If I run the cancer gauntlet,

203:21

which probably 80% of my aunts and

203:23

uncles have died of cancer. And so if I

203:26

run that gauntlet and I'm doing

203:27

everything lifestyle and preventative

203:28

screening to do that and then the women

203:31

end up with dementia frailty like my

203:32

mother and grandmother. So I'm like,

203:36

"Okay, I want to have as much bone and

203:38

muscle strength as I can. So I'm going

203:39

to add some testosterone and see what

203:41

happens." I I at the time would not have

203:44

said I had any sexual dysfunction. I did

203:46

not qualify medically for HSDD.

203:51

I go on testosterone and there's

203:53

definitely an uptick in the area and

203:55

everyone is happier like my interest has

203:57

improved my initiation has improved and

204:00

that had kind of waned time and stress

204:02

and kids and whatever the other thing we

204:04

were empty nesting at the same time so

204:05

that probably no more kids busting in

204:07

our door at 2 in the morning letting us

204:09

know they're home from you know whatever

204:11

experience and you guys will go through

204:12

this later but also our communication is

204:15

better you know my husband's retired

204:17

from Chevron and we are building this

204:20

this company together, you know, our

204:22

menopause company. And so our

204:24

relationship has actually improved

204:25

through all of that. So all of the

204:26

things that feed into

204:29

what we know is female desire and has is

204:32

just better all the way around and and I

204:34

think testosterone had a little bit to

204:35

do with it. My ability to like focus and

204:39

my ability to prioritize and put up the

204:42

right boundaries has really helped with

204:43

that. And we're just having a lot of

204:45

more fun with it. But I think that we

204:47

would be remiss in this part of the

204:50

conversation, and I'll say it. I'm the

204:51

orthod, but I'm gonna say it anyway.

204:56

Many men, I just talked to my husband

204:58

publicly about this because we're trying

204:59

to educate men, is that most men don't

205:01

realize that in pmenopause, as estrogen

205:04

waines, it affects all tissues. And

205:07

there is an entity called the genital

205:09

urinary syndrome of menopause where the

205:11

vagina will actually atrophy and all the

205:14

external soft uh tissues that are

205:18

usually used to engorging will become

205:20

dry like a desert and Stephen sex can

205:24

feel like razor blades

205:26

>> and men don't know that and women are

205:28

afraid to tell their partners. So the

205:30

men feel rejected like why doesn't she

205:33

love me or desire me anymore and it may

205:36

be that but it's probably not that it's

205:38

it hurts and I bleed

205:41

>> and women don't know that this is normal

205:43

when you're estrogen is in not that it's

205:46

okay to

205:46

>> it shouldn't be it shouldn't be normal

205:48

but when you're in a low estrogen state

205:50

regard menopause birth control pills can

205:53

do it postpartum breastfeeding even you

205:57

know progesterone IUD these can all

205:59

cause time periods where your estrogen

206:03

levels are low enough that the vaginal

206:05

tissue is not having the right collagen

206:07

and elasticity that it should.

206:08

>> So, what's the solution?

206:11

>> Not lubricant.

206:13

>> Lubricant can sometimes aid, but that's

206:15

not a root cause, right? It'll help with

206:18

I I help with symptoms, right? But if

206:21

your part of the problem is that the

206:22

tissue can't respond as it should, that

206:25

it's frail, that delay orgasm, then we

206:27

really want to get to the root cause,

206:29

which is estrogen is crucial for skin

206:31

elasticity.

206:32

>> It's like men going on testosterone,

206:34

right? If he's not having an erection,

206:37

there are 29 solutions for that right

206:39

now,

206:40

>> but primarily funded solutions as well.

206:42

>> Solutions. But for women, it's not just

206:45

desire, it's physiologic. And so

206:49

>> vaginal estrogen put putting something

206:51

up

206:51

>> putting in your vagina

206:52

>> and what you put in your vagina is

206:53

>> so there's there's several options. We

206:55

have creams, we have pills, there's a

206:57

ring specifically designed just for

206:59

that. So we have different methods of

207:01

getting the vag you know estrogen into

207:03

the vagina. There's also um uh something

207:06

called prosterone which is DHEA

207:08

basically which is a pre hormone that

207:11

the vagina miraculously will convert to

207:13

estrogen and testosterone. So but it's

207:16

expensive. It tends to not be covered by

207:17

insurance. But for our like our sex med

207:20

friends, sexual medicine friends who

207:22

specialize in this female sexual

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function, they love it because you're

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not only getting a boost of estrogen to

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the vagina, you're also getting

207:29

testosterone and there are testosterone,

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you know, receptors in the vulva, you

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know, in the lower vagina and around the

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skin around the vagina as well.

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>> But here's the bonus.

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All of this plus vaginal estrogen will

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help prevent chronic UTI which kill old

207:48

ladies and it will help support the

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pelvic floor and the uh uterus from

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prolapsing and so it has all these added

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benefits and here's another bonus it is

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such low dose

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>> it is not systemic so any risk that you

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could think of that you might not want

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to do systemic estrogen including breast

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cancer

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>> is unaffected by vaginal estrogen and so

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it is a huge solution. And there's no

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age that a woman can't go on it. She'll

208:19

kill me. She'll never know this. But I

208:21

put my 86-year-old mother on it so that

208:23

we could prevent UTI and failure of

208:26

tissue so she didn't get sores and

208:29

infections, right? Isn't that a miracle?

208:33

I know Stephen's like,

208:34

>> "Yeah, and we should say that vaginal

208:36

estrogen in preparations made for

208:38

vaginal estrogen or lowd dose estrogen

208:40

preparations. You can give oral

208:42

estradiol vaginally and it will be

208:45

systemically absorbed because the vagina

208:47

is highly absorptive. So I don't want

208:48

somebody to hear this and think that but

208:51

just saying we often prescribe or

208:53

recommend

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>> a local treatment of vaginal estrogen

208:56

products which are in very low dose and

208:58

they really impact the local tissues of

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we'll say the pelvic floor, the urinary

209:03

system, the vulva, the vagina and they

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improve your well-being and your health

209:08

without some of the risk that might come

209:10

from systemic hormones in somebody who

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may not want to take them.

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>> I am all out of questions. So I wanted

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to conclude this segment just by asking

209:18

you what the most important thing that I

209:20

have missed on the subjects we've talked

209:22

about menstrual cycles, menopause,

209:24

everything in between. What is the most

209:27

important subject you think we might

209:28

have missed?

209:30

>> I think we covered it but but to stay

209:33

that you control a large part. We said

209:37

over and over inflammation and insulin

209:40

resistance. We we touched on different

209:43

lifestyle factors that impact this

209:45

because

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>> when your body is having hormone change,

209:48

>> there's a lot of the external world

209:50

around you or the choices you're making

209:51

that can make some of that better or

209:53

worse or influence what is happening.

209:56

>> And I know we're going to go over more

209:57

of this, but I think this idea that I

209:59

have no control over what's happening to

210:01

me isn't 100% true. I mean, you don't

210:04

have control over when some of this

210:05

stuff happens, but you can take control

210:08

of a situation by understanding your

210:10

body, knowing what's happening, knowing

210:13

how to advocate for yourself, and making

210:15

active decisions to live a healthier,

210:18

better life.

210:19

>> Yes, that's the goal is to empower women

210:21

to understand, to ask the questions so

210:24

they don't feel like something is

210:25

happening to them and they don't have

210:27

control or options,

210:29

>> which is what our mother's generation

210:31

had. They were always gas lit, told, you

210:34

know, it's all in your head.

210:36

>> There's nothing we can do.

210:37

>> So, my mother was put on but it was

210:42

called butol.

210:44

Um, it's basically a sedative and it was

210:47

mother's little helper. And I found an

210:49

old magazine article where they if you

210:51

look at the magazine articles from the

210:54

50s and 60s on these medications, mostly

210:58

sedatives that were given to women. It's

210:59

like now she can do the laundry again.

211:02

Now she she's flipping a pancake in the

211:04

ad in the apron in the 1950s, you know,

211:07

like get your mom back, get your wife

211:09

back.

211:10

>> And it was a combination of estrogen

211:12

plus a seditive. And I was just

211:16

absolutely floored. And I remember mom's

211:18

little bottle and it was called butol

211:22

and I it would sit on her counter and

211:25

she would talk about it like it was her

211:27

talisman like it was her and I always

211:29

thought of it as mommy's little helper

211:31

you know like oh I need my butol oh this

211:33

happened where's my butol where's my

211:35

butol and when I was researching and

211:37

writing and reading about these

211:40

sedatives that were given in women I was

211:41

like wait mama I remember the bottle I

211:44

remember what it was called cuz she

211:45

talked about it all the time I went and

211:47

looked it up and it's a derivative of

211:48

pheninoarbatl.

211:50

>> Oh my gosh.

211:50

>> And it was heavily prescribed to women.

211:52

So

211:53

>> barbbituate. It's a a drug.

211:55

>> It's a class of drug that is basically a

211:57

sedative. We use it in surgery. We use

211:58

it for seizures.

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>> And they were sedating my mother on the

212:03

daily.

212:03

>> Yep.

212:04

>> Through her pmenopause.

212:06

>> Mhm.

212:06

>> Now she had eight kids. She was running

212:08

a restaurant. You know, she was very

212:10

high functioning. And I just refused for

212:12

that to be that was her reality. Yeah.

212:14

>> And here she lies in a bed with

212:17

Alzheimer's and a fractured hip and she

212:20

hasn't walked in 8 months. You know,

212:22

she's she's just now getting on a walker

212:24

8 months after her hip fracture and from

212:27

osteoporosis who's never had a bone

212:28

density scan in her life. And like our

212:31

our children deserve better. It's not

212:32

going to be my future cuz I have the,

212:34

you know, I have the means. I have

212:36

access. But like I I want every young

212:38

girl, all of our children to

212:41

>> have a better future than what was

212:43

offered to our mothers.

212:44

>> Exactly.

212:45

>> I think ending this, I would want every

212:48

woman to approach her midlife

212:52

life, her new life with the same vigor

212:55

and the same curiosity and the same

212:57

demanding of care that she would do for

213:00

one of her children if her child is

213:02

sick. She's not going to take no. She's

213:04

not going to take being blown off. She's

213:06

going to keep searching till the end of

213:08

the earth until she finds an answer. And

213:10

that's what that is the same kind of

213:13

taking control that I want women to do

213:15

about this time in their lives.

213:18

>> Thank you so much. We're going to record

213:21

we're going to continue this

213:22

conversation for the viewers that are

213:23

listening at home. Um, I've been through

213:25

all of these wonderful books that I have

213:26

in front of me and there's so many

213:29

lifestyle, nutrition, exercise related

213:32

solutions to many of the things we've

213:33

talked about today to be an truly

213:35

optimized um, hormone healthy menstrual

213:38

cycle healthy woman, which I want to

213:40

talk about in our part two of this

213:42

conversation.

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The video features a comprehensive discussion with four leading female health experts on women's health, covering topics ranging from menstrual cycle management and hormonal health to PCOS, endometriosis, and menopause. The conversation highlights the systemic bias and research gaps that have historically disadvantaged women in healthcare, leading to delayed diagnoses and inadequate treatment. The experts emphasize the importance of viewing the menstrual cycle as a vital sign of overall health, advocating for informed lifestyle choices—such as prioritizing sleep, stress management, and nutrition—and promoting active self-advocacy to achieve optimal health span and longevity.

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