once you ignore reality, you'll get everything you want
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All right, hello and welcome to
this training. As you can see
from the title, what we're
going to be covering today is
how to achieve anything by
ignoring reality. And as you
can see from the overview, what
we're going to be discussing
more specifically is first the
overview itself, the backwards
equation, seeing the equation,
flipping the variables, holding
the inversion through the lag,
the review and then your action
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With that said, and out of the
way, let's get started and talk
about the backwards equation.
So what I want to walk you
through today is something that
genuinely changed how I think
about pretty much everything.
And it starts with a really
simple observation that there
is an equation underneath our
lives, underneath our money,
our health, our relationships,
all of it.
And the thing is, most of us
have read it backwards for as
long as we can remember, which
means every decision you've
made and every pattern you've
fallen into has been built on a
sequence that was inverted from
the start.
And once you see that, once you
really get it, and I believe
you will after this training, a
lot of things that never made
really a lot of sense before
suddenly click into place.
So here's how the equation runs
for most people. And this
probably describes your default
mode as well. And it describes
almost everyone's.
And the way it plays out is
really something happens in
your external world, in your
reality.
Your mind then immediately
generates a thought about it
that thought produces a feeling
you act from that feeling and
then those actions produce more
of the same kind of reality,
which triggers the same
thoughts and the same feelings
again.
And so the whole thing just
loops over and over and over
again, without you ever
noticing that you're the one
keeping it going.
And the reason it's so hard to
catch is that the whole
sequence really happens on
autopilot, like you wake up,
you check your phone, maybe you
see something that stresses you
out.
And then a thought fires before
you're even really conscious of
it. And it can be anything it
can be this isn't good, or I'm
falling behind. And then that
thought instantly produces a
response in your body a feeling.
It could be a tightness in your
chest, it could be a low hum of
anxiety that just sits there
for the rest of the day and
from that place, you then start
making decisions you start
interacting with people and
reality and making and make
choices.
And you carry that energy into
everything, essentially, which
is how you end up at the end of
most days feeling like nothing
has really changed. You spent
the entire day reacting to
circumstances that were already
old already finished already
the output of a previous cycle.
And then you use those old
outputs as the raw material for
your next round of thinking and
feeling. So of course, the
result looks the same.
And the really tricky part is
that none of this really feels
like a choice. It feels like
just how life works, which is
exactly why most people never
really question it.
And it keeps running the same
in the background, the same
loop for years or even decades
without people really realizing
there's another way to operate.
And the thing is the whole
sequence feels so obvious and
so natural that nobody ever
stops to question it. Of course,
you think negative thoughts
when bad things happen, right?
Of course, those thoughts make
you feel a certain way. And
then of course, you react from
that place. You're just
reacting to the world, right?
Of course, that's just being a
reasonable person, right?
But that right there is the
trap. What you're actually
doing when you run that
sequence is really letting the
output of your life dictate the
input.
And when you do that, you're
locked into producing the same
result every time. So it's sort
of like being stuck in a
feedback loop where the answer
keeps feeding back into the
question and the question keeps
producing the same answer.
And on and on it goes and you
just go around and around
wondering why your life feels
like it's on repeat when the
mechanism causing the
repetition is something you're
doing every single day without
awareness.
And every time you let your
circumstances trigger the same
automatic thoughts, which
produce the same feelings,
which drive the same reactions,
you're basically telling your
system, yes, this is real, this
is important, keep building
more of this,
which means your reactions are
reinforcing the very reality
you're trying to change. And
that's why willpower alone can't
really break the cycle. The
cycle is running at a deeper
level than willpower can
actually reach.
So whatever you're looking at
right now in your life, maybe
it's your bank account, maybe
it's your body, maybe it's your
relationships, all of that is
basically a printout, right?
Just like the image shows.
And I mean that in a very
literal sense is the result of
an equation that was already
solved weeks or months or even
years ago by the thoughts you
were thinking in the feelings
you were carrying at that time,
which means the reality you're
experiencing today is all data.
It's already finished. And it
has nothing to do with what's
actually possible for you going
forward.
So think of your current
circumstances as a kind of
energetic history, a record of
where your internal state was
at some earlier point. And the
reason that matters is that
most people look at that record,
and they treat it like it's a
live feed.
They think this is what's
happening right now when really
it's more like reading last
month's report and mistaking it
for today's one.
So basically there is a delay
between when you change
internally and when that change
shows up externally. And it's
built in. It's a built in
feature of how all of this
works.
So if you're judging your
progress by what you can see in
front of you right now, you're
always going to be looking at
evidence from an older version
of yourself, which is genuinely
misleading if you don't
understand the mechanics.
So the stuff that's showing up
in your life today is residual
is the echo of a previous
internal state is the echo of a
cause that was a long time ago.
And the sooner you really
internalize that the sooner you
stop giving it so much weight,
because you realize you're
reading the receipt from a
transaction that has already
happened.
And that that receipt tells you
nothing about what the next
transaction is going to look
like the better.
So this is actually a really
freeing thing. Once you really
understand it, it means your
current reality isn't a verdict.
It isn't some final judgment on
who you are or what you're
capable of.
And I know most of you probably
know this to a degree is just
the tail end of an older
process.
You know that your future is
probably brighter than your
current reality, but you most
likely don't know that the
current reality is just a
result of what happened maybe
years ago.
It's just the, as I said, the
tail end of an older process
and the equation that produced
it has already been solved,
which means you're free to
write a completely new one
starting right now.
And what comes out the other
side of that new equation will
most likely look nothing like
what you're seeing today, which
is honestly one of the most
liberating realizations you can
have.
It takes the pressure off of
your current situation entirely
and you stop fighting what's in
front of you and you stop
trying to fix the printout.
And instead you put all of your
energy into writing better
inputs, which is the only thing
that actually moves the needle.
And that shift from fixing the
output to changing the input is
basically the whole game.
It's what separates people who
stay stuck in the same patterns
from people who seem to create
change almost effortlessly.
So the second group figured out
that you don't change your life
by wrestling with reality.
You change it by changing what
goes into the equation first.
So the default equation, the
one that almost everyone is
running unconsciously runs in a
loop of circumstances, create
thoughts, those thoughts create
feelings, those feelings create
some actions, and then those
lead to the same circumstances.
And that's a closed loop. There's
no exit point. You just keep
cycling through the same
sequence over and over and over
again.
And the reason it feels so inescapable
is that at every point in the
chain, the next step feels like
the only logical response to
the one before it.
So it never occurs to you that
the whole chain could be
reversed, right?
And what makes this especially
hard to see is that the default
equation feels like reality
itself.
It feels like this is just how
cause and effect works.
Most people never really
question it. They just assume
that the outside world causes
their thoughts and feelings and
that's that.
And then they spend their whole
lives trying to rearrange the
external circumstances, hoping
it will make them feel
different, which sometimes
works temporarily,
but never really lasts because
the underlying equation hasn't
changed.
And a big part of why this is
so ingrained is that you are
conditioned into it from a very
young age.
Your parents and your teachers
and culture all model the
default equation for you.
They taught you implicitly,
mostly, that your thoughts and
feelings are caused by what
happens to you, which set up
the whole pattern before you
were old enough to even
question it.
So by the time you're an adult,
running the default equation
feels natural. It's as natural
as breathing.
You don't even register it as a
pattern, let alone a pattern
that you could actually change,
which is why the first step in
breaking out of it is simply
becoming aware that it actually
exists.
You can't invert something you
haven't even noticed.
And what I'm telling you is
that this whole chain is
running in the wrong direction.
The actual order is the reverse
of what you've been taught.
And the moment you understand
that the moment you really get
that thoughts and feelings come
first and reality follows and
that you ignore reality and
just create thoughts and
feelings,
everything starts to make a
different kind of sense and you
start to see why some people
seem to create results almost
magnetically while others grind
away for years and barely move
the needle.
So the inverted equation, the
one that actually produces
change, flips the order to
thoughts, create feelings,
create actions, which create
new circumstances.
And the key difference is that
in this version, you're
absolutely ignoring reality.
You're the one choosing the
starting point instead of
letting your environment choose
it for you, which puts you back
in control of the whole chain.
And that's what this whole
training is really about.
It's about learning to run the
equation in the right direction
and the three steps I'm going
to walk you through are the
practical tools for actually
doing it in your daily life,
starting with the most
fundamental one, which is
simply learning to see the
equation in the first place.
Now, the reason most people's
lives feel like their own
repeat, like the same problems
keep cycling back around no
matter what they do,
is because they keep looking at
the old printout and using it
as the input for the next round
of thinking and feeling,
which just produces another
version of the same printout.
And then they look at that one
and they react to it again and
do the whole thing over and
over and over again.
And you can run that loop for
decades, honestly, without ever
realizing that you're the one
sustaining it.
And it's worth pointing out
that this applies to everything,
not just money or career stuff.
It shows up in your
relationships where you keep
attracting the same kind of
person or the same kind of
dynamic.
It shows up in health where you
keep falling back into the same
patterns no matter how many
diets or programs you try.
And it shows up in your general
mode and energy because all of
those things are outputs of the
same underlying equation.
So if you've ever had that
feeling of here we go again,
that sense that you're
basically dealing with the same
issue in a slightly different
costume,
that's the default equation
doing exactly what it was
designed to do, which is
produce consistent results
based on a consistent input.
And the input hasn't changed
because you've been letting the
outputs write it.
And once you see this pattern
in one area of your life, you'll
be able to start seeing it
everywhere because it really is
universal.
It's the same mechanism playing
out across every domain, which
is both a little overwhelming
at first, but also incredibly
empowering.
There's one thing to fix, one
equation to invert, and that
inversion ripples out across
everything else.
And I want to be clear, this
isn't about blaming yourself,
right? When you understand that
you've been running the
equation backwards,
yes, the natural response might
be a little bit of frustration
or guilt, but that's the old
equation trying to reassert
itself.
The much more useful response
is to just go, "Okay, now I see
it and now I can change it,"
almost as if you just finally
got the answer to a
mathematical equation, to a
math problem,
which is exactly what we're
going to do in the next section.
And it's really that mechanical.
It's just a sequence that can
be run in one direction or
another, and most people happen
to be running it in the
direction that keeps them stuck.
And once you learn to run it in
the other direction, the
results change, and they change
in ways that feel almost
surprising at first because you're
so used to the old output.
And that's honestly the thing I
want you to walk away with from
this section, that the reason
in your life maybe looks a
certain way,
or the way it does look right
now, is completely
understandable. It's completely
explainable and completely
changeable, because it's all
just the output of an equation,
and equations can be rewritten.
So with that said, let's cover
seeing the equation. So before
you can actually flip anything
around, you have to actually
see what's happening.
The default equation runs so
automatically, so far below the
surface of your conscious
awareness, that most people go
through their entire day
reacting to reality, without
once catching themselves in the
act.
And that automatic quality is
exactly what gives it so much
power, since you can't really
change a process you haven't
even identified yet.
And what I mean by seeing the
equation in us is honestly
pretty straightforward. It's
just starting to pay attention
to the specific moments in your
day where your external
circumstances are dictating how
you think and how that thinking
is shaping how you feel, and
then recognizing that in those
moments, you're running the old
sequence.
You're letting the printout
write the next equation. You're
basically feeding the answer
back into the formula, which is
exactly the mechanism that
keeps the loop locked into
place.
So for example, let's say you
check your bank balance, and it's
lower than you want.
A thought fire is instantly
most likely something like, I'm
not where I should be, or I
spent too much last weekend.
And that thought drops
something in your body, right,
that heaviness, that tightness.
And the whole thing happens in
half a second, completely on
autopilot, without you making
any conscious choice about it.
And from that lowered state,
you go about your day carrying
that weight into every
conversation and every decision
you make.
And the speed of it is part of
what makes it so invisible,
because by the time you're
aware of the thought that fired,
that along the feeling it's
created, you've already reacted.
The equation has already run,
and now you're living inside
the output of that reaction,
making it feel like the
emotional state is just the
truth.
When really it was generated by
a mechanical process you didn't
even notice.
And this happens dozens of
times today, honestly, not just
with money, but with everything.
Someone says something dismissive,
and maybe your mind interprets
it in a certain way that shifts
your mood.
Or you see someone on social
media doing better than you,
and a thought fires that
contracts something inside.
Or maybe you hit the setback in
your work, and the story your
mind tells about it, drops your
whole energy.
And each one of those moments
is basically an instance of the
default equation firing.
And each one reinforces the
loop that keeps your reality
looking the same.
And the thing about these micro
reactions is that they
accumulate.
Even if no single one of them
seems like a big deal, by the
end of the day you basically
run the default equation 50 or
100 times without catching it.
And all of those reactions have
collectively set the emotional
tone that's going to shape what
shows up next in your life.
Which is why awareness alone,
or just the act of starting to
notice, is so much more
powerful than it sounds on the
surface, because every time you
catch the thought mid-flight,
you're interrupting a compounding
process, you're pulling back
one brick out of the wall that
the default equation is trying
to build.
And over time those interruptions
add up to a fundamentally
different internal landscape,
right?
Now, here's a useful way to
really think about your
recurring problems.
They're kind of like background
apps running on your phone.
They're just sitting there
quietly, they consume energy,
and every time you open one of
them, every time you give it
your attention and your
emotional investment,
you're telling the system, "Keep
this one active, this one
really matters."
And it stays in the loop, which
is why some issues seem to
follow you around for years,
even when you think you've
dealt with them.
And you only have so much
emotional bandwidth in a given
day.
And if half of it is going to
background processes that are
just recycling old patterns,
then you have that much less
available for actually creating
something new.
Which is why people often feel
exhausted, even when they haven't
really done anything.
Their internal system was busy
running old equations all day
long.
So one of the most powerful
moves you can actually make,
and this sounds almost too
simple, is to just stop opening
the app.
Meaning stop engaging with the
old pattern when it pops up.
Let it sit there without
clicking on it, and eventually
it times out on its own.
These patterns can only sustain
themselves when you keep
feeding them your attention and
your emotional energy.
And this is really the same
principle we talked about
earlier with the printout.
The idea that your current
reality is sustained by ongoing
input.
So when you withdraw the input,
which is in practical terms
means withdrawing your
emotional reactivity, the
pattern starts to lose its hope.
It starts to fade because there's
nothing feeding it anymore.
And what you're really learning
to do here is really become
more selective about what gets
your cognitive and emotional
energy.
Because right now most people
are just broadcasting their
energy at whatever is loudest
in their environment.
Or whatever is most urgent or
most stressful or most in their
face.
And that's how the default
equation stays in control.
So the shift is really learning
how to consciously choose where
your energy goes, instead of
letting circumstances make that
choice for you.
And this doesn't mean suppressing
your feelings or pretending
things don't bother you.
That's a different thing
entirely, right?
What it means is developing the
ability to notice a thought
rising and then choosing
whether to invest in it or let
it pass, which is a skill.
It takes practice and it gets
easier the more you do it.
And honestly, this is probably
the most underrated skill in
personal development.
I think everyone wants the
advanced techniques and the big
breakthroughs.
But the ability to simply
notice your own thinking in
real time and choose
differently is the foundation
that everything else is built
on.
Because without none of the
other steps really work.
You have to do that in one way
or another in order to create
change.
So the practical move here, and
this is something you can start
doing literally today, is what
I call the equation check.
And all it takes is a few times
a day.
You just pause for a second and
ask yourself, am I reacting to
my reality right now?
Or am I creating it?
That's it. That one question.
Because the moment you catch
the thought that's driving your
reaction,
you've already stepped outside
the loop for just a second.
And that second of awareness is
where the inversion becomes
possible.
Now, the pause itself is the
thing, really.
In the default equation, there
is no pause.
The thought fires, the feeling
follows, the action happens.
There's nothing in between.
So when you insert even a tiny
gap between what happens and
how you react and how you think,
you fundamentally change the
mechanics of the process.
You've created a space where
choice can exist, and that
space is where all of the real
work happens.
Between stimulus and response,
there is a space, and in that
space is your freedom and your
power to choose.
And that's essentially what the
equation check is designed to
give you.
It's a tool for creating that
space reliably multiple times a
day,
so that you're not just hoping
for moments of awareness, but
actively generating them.
And consistency matters here
more than intensity, as with a
lot of things in life,
it's much better to do three or
four brief equation checks
spread throughout your day
than to do one big meditation
in the morning and then run on
autopilot for the next 16 hours.
Because the default equation
fires all day long, so your
awareness practice needs to be
distributed across the day too.
And every time you do this,
every time you catch the
automatic thought in the middle
of firing and then you pause,
you're essentially weakening
the automacity of the default
equation just a little bit.
And over days and weeks, those
small disruptions accumulate
into something really
significant
because the loop that's been
running your life can only
maintain itself really through
uninterrupted repetition.
Each interruption is chipping
away at its foundation.
And the results are cumulative
in a way that's easy to
underestimate at first,
because on any given day, the
equation check might feel small
and unremarkable,
but if you do it consistently
for a few weeks, you'll start
to notice that your baseline
emotional state has shifted.
There's sure less reactive
generally that things that used
to hook you just don't land the
same way,
and that's the default equation
losing its grip.
And this is really the
foundational practice for
everything that comes next,
because without this ability to
see the equation and interrupt
it, the other two steps won't
stick.
You'll try to invert things,
but the default pattern will
keep pulling you back.
So treat the step as the ground
floor and give it the attention
it really deserves.
And look, I want to be honest
with you about why this is
difficult, and it should be.
Your nervous system is
literally built to read reality
first and then respond second.
It's a survival mechanism, and
it has kept humans alive for
hundreds of thousands of years,
and you're asking it to operate
in a way that feels
fundamentally counterintuitive,
which is why it takes real
practice and patience and a
willingness to be bad at it for
a while before it starts to
become more natural.
Because survival mode and
creation mode, I believe, are
genuinely two different ways of
being.
And your body defaults to
survival because that's what
kept your ancestors alive.
So when you start trying to
override that default, there's
going to be resistance,
there's going to be discomfort,
and your system is most likely
going to protest,
because it thinks you're doing
something dangerous, right,
even though you're actually
just doing something that will
change your life.
And the wiring of this goes
deep. It isn't some minor habit
that you can just decide to
stop.
It's a neurological pattern
that's been reinforced by every
experience you've ever had,
and you're not going to catch
every reaction right away, and
that's completely fine for the
perfectionist out there.
The goal is to just catch more
of them over time on average,
and the trend matters
infinitely more than any single
instance.
So be patient with the process
and trust that even catching
yourself one or two extra times
a day or a week is meaningful
progress,
because each catch is a small
proof of concept and it shows
that the default equation can
be actually interrupted,
and that you're not completely
at the mercy of your reactions,
and that alone will start to
shift something fundamental in
how you relate to your own
experience.
So really, what you're doing
with this whole first step is
building the capacity to
override a system that's been
running unchecked your entire
life,
which is a big deal if you
think about it, and it's worth
acknowledging that rather than
rushing through it,
because the people who take
this step seriously and really
practice it are the ones who
make the other two steps work
better.
The people who skip it or treat
it as obvious are the ones who
end up back in the same loop
six months later wondering what
happened.
So think of this as the
foundation, the thing that
everything else really rests on,
and give it the weight it
deserves in your daily practice,
because if you can consistently
see the equation firing in real
time,
you've already done something
that most people never managed
to do, and from that place of
awareness, the inversion
becomes genuinely possible.
And once you've built this
awareness muscle up to the
point where you're catching
yourself regularly throughout
the day,
where the equation check has
become almost second nature,
that's when you're ready for
the second step,
which is where things really
start to get interesting,
because now you're going to
take that awareness and use it
to actually flip the variables
around.
So let's talk about flipping
the variables.
Now, once you see the equation
running, the next move is to
really invert it,
and this is where the whole
thing starts to get really
interesting,
because what you're doing here
is deliberately choosing the
thoughts and generating the
feelings of the reality you
want before any evidence of it
shows up in your life.
And honestly, this is the step
that most people either skip
entirely or do halfway, and it's
one that matters the most,
because this is where the
actual direction of the
equation really changes.
So here's what I mean in
practical terms.
In the default equation, you
wait for something good to
happen, your mind thinks a
thought about it, and then you
feel good about it.
That's the normal order that
everyone's used to, or
something bad happens, your
mind thinks a thought about it,
and then you feel bad about it.
That's just the normal order
that everyone's used to.
But in the inverted equation,
you choose the thought first,
which generates the feeling,
you create the internal state
deliberately and on purpose,
and then you let reality
reorganize around that.
So you're writing the input
side of the equation by hand
instead of letting your
circumstances fill it in for
you, which completely changes
what comes out on the other end.
Now, the key word here is first,
because the timing is
everything, right?
You're not thinking, empowering
thoughts and feeling good in
response to something good that
happened.
You're generating them before
anything has changed, which can
feel counter-intuitive and even
a little crazy at first, but
that's exactly the inversion.
That's the whole point. You're
reversing the direction of
cause and effect in your own
experience, and it has to be
deliberate.
It has to be something you do
on purpose with intention,
because your default system is
always going to want to read
reality first and then respond
second, which is why this step
requires active practice.
Often, you can't just hope your
thoughts and feelings will
change on their own. You have
to actually choose them, which
is a very different thing.
So you can see the image of the
default equation and the
inverted equation.
And there's a real reason this
works, by the way. It's
grounded in something your
nervous system actually does.
Your brain at a neurological
level genuinely cannot tell the
difference between a vividly
felt internal experience and
the one that's actually
happening in the external world.
So if you really sit with the
thoughts and feelings of
financial security, for example,
if you let your body relax into
how you would think at that
point and what that would feel
like in your chest and your
shoulders and your breathing,
then your nervous system
responds to that signal the
same way it would respond to a
real event, because your
biology doesn't fact check the
source.
It just processes whatever data
it receives.
And there's a substantial body
of research on this in
neuroscience, the basic finding
that being that mental
rehearsal activates many of the
same neuro pathways as actual
experience, which is why
athletes use visualization so
effectively.
And it's the same mechanism at
work here.
Except instead of rehearsing a
physical performance, you're
rehearsing a cognitive and
emotional state.
So when you sit in the morning
and genuinely feel into the
state of the person who already
has what you want, your biology
is responding to that as if it's
real.
Your hormones most likely will
shift your nervous system will
calibrate to that frequency and
your whole physiology will
start to align with a different
reality.
And that physiological shift is
what changes the input of the
equation at the most
fundamental level.
Now, the beautiful thing about
this is that your body doesn't
argue with it. It doesn't say,
well, actually, you don't have
that yet.
So I'm not going to respond. It
just processes the signal,
which means you have the
ability to manually set your
internal state, regardless of
what's happening outside of you.
And that's the inversion in
action.
So the morning practice I'd
recommend, and this is
something I do myself, is
spending about five minutes
before you do anything else
before you check your phone,
before you let the world and
just sitting with a version of
you who already has what you
want.
And I want to be specific about
what I mean, because it isn't
visualization the way most
people think of it.
You're not trying to picture a
mansion or a car or a perfect
body here, you're thinking and
feeling into a state, the
internal experience of being
the person who already lives
that reality.
What I mean by that is the
particular combination of
thoughts and feelings that will
be present if your desired
reality was already your
current one.
So for some people, that's a
deep calm and a sense of
certainty. For others, it can
be just a warm confidence.
For others, it's a quiet
gratitude mixed with excitement.
The exact flavor will be
different for everyone, but the
key is that it's felt, it's a
felt experience in your body,
not a picture in your mind, or
a sense of sentence that you
repeat, like an affirmation, it's
a felt experience.
So you're really looking for a
whole body experience here,
because that level of embodiment
is what makes the signal strong
enough for your nervous system
to respond to it.
And it helps to get really
specific with yourself about
what the thoughts and feelings
actually are.
And five minutes is genuinely
enough. You don't need to sit
for an hour doing this. What
matters is the quality of the
thoughts and the feelings and
how fully you let yourself drop
into them.
And if you do it consistently
every morning, it becomes the
state that you carry into the
rest of your day, which means
you're really running the
inverted equation from the very
start of your day.
And consistency is the thing
that makes this work long term,
because obviously a single
session feels nice, but doesn't
really change much, whereas
doing it every day for weeks
starts to fundamentally shift
your baseline state.
So you can think of it as a
compounding investment. Each
session adds a little bit to
the total and over time those
small deposits add up to a
completely different internal
state, which is going to
produce obviously a completely
different set of outputs in
your external reality.
Now the compounding effect is
why people who stick with this
for a few months often describe
the results as feeling almost
sudden, even though the process
was very gradual.
And the reason this matters so
much, the reason I'm spending
this much time on it is because
the thought and the feeling it
produces are the actual
variables that determine the
output of the equation.
Everything else, the money, the
relationship, the health, the
opportunities, those are all
downstream of an internal state
that was held consistently
enough and long enough for
reality to reorganize around it.
And most people are focused
entirely on the external things
they want.
The amount in the bank, maybe
the relationship, the body, and
they're trying to create those
things directly through effort
and strategy, which sometimes
works but doesn't really last
because the underlying input,
your thoughts, feelings, and
who you believe you are haven't
really changed.
So the stuff is always
downstream, it's always the
effect.
And the thoughts and the
feelings are always the cause
and when you really get that
when it stops being a concept
and becomes something you
actually live by, then you stop
chasing outcomes and you start
managing your thinking and your
internal state, which is the
only lever that actually
controls the output of the
equation in a lasting way.
And the only part that you can
actually fully control.
So when you sit down in the
morning and do this practice,
you're essentially giving
reality a new set of
instructions to solve for your
plugging a different value into
the input side of the equation
and over time, as you hold that
value more and more
consistently, the output has to
change, because the input
changed and that's genuinely
just how equations work right.
There's no version of this
where you change one side, and
the other stays the same indefinitely.
And that inevitability is
something important.
And it's, it, you need to be
able to trust because during
the process, it can really feel
uncertain, it can feel like
nothing's happening, but the
math is the math.
If the input is different than
the output will eventually be
different as well.
And holding on to that
understanding is what gets you
through the difficult middle
part.
Once you've started flipping
the variables, once you're
regularly generating your
internal state before your
external world gives you a
reason to, you're going to run
into something that trips up
almost everyone and that's the
lag between when the input
changes and when the output
catches up.
So let's talk about holding the
inversion through the lag.
So this is the part where most
people fall off and honestly is
the most important part to
really understand because when
you start running invert the
inverted equation when you
genuinely shift your thinking
and your internal state and
start thinking and feeling
differently on the inside, your
external reality doesn't update
right away.
There's a delay, a gap, and
that gap is where almost
everyone gives up and really
flips back to the default
equation and they interpret the
delay as proved that the
inversion didn't work.
Now the lag makes sense if you
think about the momentum
involved. You might have spent
5, 10, 20 years running the old
equation in one direction,
building up all this momentum
through repetition, thinking
certain thoughts, feeling
certain feelings, acting from
those patterns over and over
again.
And that momentum doesn't just
stop the moment you decide to
change. It can take some time
to slow down and then reverse
direction, which is completely
normal and completely expected
as logical as well.
The old output you're seeing
right now is the result of all
that accumulated momentum and
it's still being delivered to
you because it was already in
the pipeline. It was already
queued up, already on its way
and nothing you do today can
really recall it or speed up
the transition.
All you can do is keep putting
new inputs into the equation
and then wait for the new
outputs to start arriving as
well.
And this is where patience
becomes genuinely important.
The lag can last days or weeks
or sometimes longer. It can
last years or months depending
on how much momentum the old
equation really had.
And during that time, you're
essentially living in two
realities at once. Your
internal state says one thing
and your external world says
another. And that tension is
uncomfortable.
I get it completely, but it's
also the clear sign that the
inversion is working and ask
every successful person. They
will tell you that this is the
most important part of holding
your thinking, holding your
mindset in the right place,
holding your thinking and
feelings in the right place in
your internal state.
It's during that lag. Now
during the lag, the old reality
is going to scream louder than
it ever has because bills are
still going to come, right?
There's still going to be
people acting in the same way
with you. There's still going
to be setbacks that happen and
all of it is going to feel like
evidence that nothing has
really changed.
But what's actually happening
is that the old equation is
finishing its print run. Those
last pages from the previous
job are still coming through
the printer.
And the worst thing you can do
is look at those old pages and
then conclude that your new
equation didn't go through
because it did. It's just
waiting in line.
So the old outputs that show up
during the lag aren't new
problems. They're old ones that
were already in transit. They
were created by the previous
input and they're being
delivered on schedule.
You should have just expected
them. And the fact that they're
still arriving doesn't mean
anything about what's coming
next. That's even more
important to realize.
It just means that the delivery
system has a built-in delay the
same way as when you order from
Amazon or whatever, right? You
pay and for a moment there, you
have paid the money. It has exited
your bank account and you still
haven't received the thing that
you've ordered from Amazon.
This is genuinely the most
misleading part of the whole
process because your logical
mind is going to look at the
evidence and construct a very
convincing argument that
nothing has changed and nothing
is going to change.
And that argument is going to
feel reasonable and rational
and most likely quote-unquote
realistic. But it's based
entirely on old data, which
makes it irrelevant to what's
actually being created on the
input side of the equation.
And I want sugarcoated. This
part feels like a test. It
feels like the universe, God,
life, your mind, whatever you
want to call it, is checking
whether you really mean it or
whether you're going to fold at
the first sign of resistance.
And while I don't really think
of it as a cosmic text, the
test exactly, the functional
reality is the same. The lag is
where your commitment to the
inverted equation either holds
or breaks.
And that commitment is the only
thing that really determines
the outcome. Now, this, by the
way, is what separates people
who actually transform their
lives from people who just keep
cycling through the same old
patterns.
Because the information is
really out there, right?
Everyone has access to these
ideas now. But the people who
break through are the ones who
can hold the new input even
when the old output is still
showing up everywhere around
them.
That capacity to actually hold
is the real skill is the thing
that can be taught that can't
be taught through concepts
alone. It has to be built
through practice.
And holding here means that
when the old reality pushes
back when the lag delivers
another piece of evidence from
the old equation from your old
life from your old way of
thinking and feeling, you don't
take the bait.
You don't let it reset your
thinking and your internal
state back to the default. You
just acknowledge what's
happening. You feel whatever
you feel for a moment, and then
you consciously return to the
chosen thoughts and emotional
signature you set in step two,
because that's the input that
matters.
And every time you return to it
after a disruption, you're
actually strengthening the
strengthening the inverted
equation rather than weakening
it.
So each return to your chosen
state after a disruption is
actually making the inversion
stronger because you're not
just maintaining the new input.
You're proving to your nervous
system that this state can
survive contact with
contradictory evidence, which
builds the resilience that
makes each subsequent
disruption easier to handle.
So the lag period as
uncomfortable as it is, is
actually the part of the
process where the most growth
happens, because it's where you
build the capacity to hold an
internal state independently of
external circumstances.
And that capacity is the whole
game. Right. Once you have it,
the inversion becomes self
sustaining and the external
changes follow naturally and
this is the, this, this
capacity, the skill of being
able to control your thoughts
and control your feelings is
really one of the most underrated.
I think skills to success
really in any field, not just
financial success. And I want
to stress again that this is
pretty mechanical. It's just
the way the system works. There's
a delay between cause and
effect. The old outputs need
time to clear.
And your job is during that
time is simply to not flip the
equation back to default. That's
it. You don't need to do
anything else. You just need to
hold your position and keep
feeding the new input into the
equation.
And the more systematically you
approach this, the easier it
gets, meaning if you have a
clear morning practice like we
talked about in step two, and
you have the equation check
running a few times throughout
the day from step one, you
basically built a system that
supports the inversion auto.
So you're not really relying on
willpower anymore. You have
actual practices in place that
keep the new input flowing even
on difficult days.
And that's why the three steps
work together as a system
rather than as an isolated
technique because step one
gives you the awareness to cash
the default equation. Step two
gives you the practice for
setting the new input.
And then step three is really
about maintaining that new
input through the period where
the old output is still visible.
And each step supports the
other two.
So the practical technique for
really getting through the lag
is what I call the lag reframe.
And it goes like this. Whenever
all the reality pushes back,
whenever something shows up
that looks like proof that
nothing is really changing, you
recognize it for what it is.
Old output already finished
already irrelevant to what you're
actually building right now.
And then instead of engaging
with it, you bring your
attention back to the internal
state. You set in step two, you
reconnect with that feeling to
the thoughts, you hold it and
you let the old output pass
through without giving it any
more of your energy.
Now, the reason this works as a
technique is because it gives
your mind something specific to
do in the moment of disruption.
Instead of just trying to not
react, which is vague and hard
to execute, you're giving
yourself a concrete reframe
that puts the old output in
context.
And that context immediately
takes the emotional charge out
of it. You're no longer
interpreting it as current
evidence. You're interpreting
it as old data that's just
being cleared away.
So the reframe can be almost
immediate once you practice it
a few times to the point where
you see an old pattern showing
up and your first first thought
is just old stuff, and you just
move on.
So it's simple enough to
remember and use even when you're
stressed, which is exactly when
you need it most. So keep it in
your back pocket and use it
every time the lag tries to
pull you back into the old
equation.
Now, after you use the reframe,
the redirect back to your
chosen thoughts and emotional
state is really the critical
second step because the reframe
alone will of course just
neutralize that old trigger,
but it doesn't generate any new
input.
So you need to actively bring
your attention back to the
thoughts and the feelings from
your morning practice, even
just for 10 or 15 seconds.
It doesn't need to be a long
process in the moment, just a
quick reconnection, just a
brief dropping in to those
thoughts and feelings of
certainty or calm or whatever
your cognitive and emotional
signature was just enough to reestablish
the signal.
And each time you do this, each
time you reframe and redirect,
you're stacking another data
point in favor of the new
equation.
And those data points
accumulate into a new normal, a
new baseline, and eventually
the lag just ends, right? And
the new output starts showing
up in your life.
So the question you want to be
asking yourself during the lag
isn't, "Has my reality changed
yet?" Because that's as if you're
asking, "Every 10 minutes, are
we there yet?"
And that question just keeps
you focused on the output,
which is exactly the wrong
place to look during this phase.
The real question is, "Have I
changed?" Because in any
endeavor where you aim to be
successful, whether that's in
sports or business or whatever,
at the end of the day, the
biggest results come from you
changing.
And the whole process, the
whole journey is you changing
as a person. And the shift in
your external world is always a
downstream consequence of the
shift in you, right?
And if you're genuinely holding
a different internal state, if
you're a different person in
terms of your thoughts and your
feelings, if you're running the
inverted equation consistently,
well, the external changes will
follow.
They just have to because it's
an equation. And that internal
shift is the thing to measure
yourself by during the lag
period because it's the only
metric that is actually within
your control and the only one
that really predicts the
outcome.
So instead of actually checking
your bank account every day,
hoping to see a change, which
is really just running the
default equation again, check
your thinking, check your
internal state, your emotional
state.
Check whether you're holding
the new input. Check whether
your baseline has shifted. And
if it has, you're on track
regardless of what the external
evidence says.
So during the lag, you don't
really have external proof yet.
All you have is the internal
shift and your understanding of
the equation.
And that has to be enough for a
while, which is uncomfortable,
but also kind of beautiful. It
means that you're really
building something from the
inside out, which is the only
way anything real can be built
and anything lasting can be
built.
Because like we've been saying
throughout this whole training,
your current reality is just a
printout of a previous internal
state.
So when the internal state
changes, the printout has to
change as well. There's no
version of this where the input
shifts in the output stays the
same forever. The equation has
to balance.
And it will. Your only job is
really to hold the new input
steady until it does. That's it.
So with that said, let's cover
the review. We talked about the
overview, the backwards
equation, seeing the equation,
flipping the variables, holding
the inversion through the lag,
the review and finally your
action items for the day or the
next few days.
First, start running the
equation check today. Pause a
few times throughout your day
and ask yourself, am I reacting
to my reality right now? Or am
I creating it?
And then use that question as
your anchor for building the
awareness that makes the
inversion possible.
Then begin your morning
calibration tomorrow, five
minutes before you touch your
phone, sitting with the
emotional and cognitive
signature of the version of you
who already has what you want,
thinking and feeling into that
state fully and then letting it
set the tone for your entire
day.
Then finally, hold the thoughts
and the feelings right when the
old reality pushes back in a
tool just expected. Use the lag
reframe to put it in context.
Remind yourself that what you're
seeing is just an old print out
job finishing and then just
redirect your attention to your
chosen thinking and internal
state and trust that the new
equation is already processing.
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