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All right, hello and welcome to

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this training. As you can see

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from the title, what we're

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going to be covering today is

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how to achieve anything by

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ignoring reality. And as you

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can see from the overview, what

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we're going to be discussing

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more specifically is first the

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overview itself, the backwards

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equation, seeing the equation,

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flipping the variables, holding

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the inversion through the lag,

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the review and then your action

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With that said, and out of the

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way, let's get started and talk

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about the backwards equation.

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So what I want to walk you

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through today is something that

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genuinely changed how I think

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about pretty much everything.

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And it starts with a really

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simple observation that there

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is an equation underneath our

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lives, underneath our money,

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our health, our relationships,

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all of it.

1:04

And the thing is, most of us

1:05

have read it backwards for as

1:07

long as we can remember, which

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means every decision you've

1:10

made and every pattern you've

1:12

fallen into has been built on a

1:14

sequence that was inverted from

1:16

the start.

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And once you see that, once you

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really get it, and I believe

1:20

you will after this training, a

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lot of things that never made

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really a lot of sense before

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suddenly click into place.

1:26

So here's how the equation runs

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for most people. And this

1:30

probably describes your default

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mode as well. And it describes

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almost everyone's.

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And the way it plays out is

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really something happens in

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your external world, in your

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reality.

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Your mind then immediately

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generates a thought about it

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that thought produces a feeling

1:45

you act from that feeling and

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then those actions produce more

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of the same kind of reality,

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which triggers the same

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thoughts and the same feelings

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again.

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And so the whole thing just

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loops over and over and over

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again, without you ever

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noticing that you're the one

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keeping it going.

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And the reason it's so hard to

2:01

catch is that the whole

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sequence really happens on

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autopilot, like you wake up,

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you check your phone, maybe you

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see something that stresses you

2:09

out.

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And then a thought fires before

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you're even really conscious of

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it. And it can be anything it

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can be this isn't good, or I'm

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falling behind. And then that

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thought instantly produces a

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response in your body a feeling.

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It could be a tightness in your

2:23

chest, it could be a low hum of

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anxiety that just sits there

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for the rest of the day and

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from that place, you then start

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making decisions you start

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interacting with people and

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reality and making and make

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choices.

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And you carry that energy into

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everything, essentially, which

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is how you end up at the end of

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most days feeling like nothing

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has really changed. You spent

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the entire day reacting to

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circumstances that were already

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old already finished already

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the output of a previous cycle.

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And then you use those old

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outputs as the raw material for

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your next round of thinking and

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feeling. So of course, the

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result looks the same.

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And the really tricky part is

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that none of this really feels

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like a choice. It feels like

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just how life works, which is

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exactly why most people never

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really question it.

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And it keeps running the same

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in the background, the same

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loop for years or even decades

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without people really realizing

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there's another way to operate.

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And the thing is the whole

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sequence feels so obvious and

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so natural that nobody ever

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stops to question it. Of course,

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you think negative thoughts

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when bad things happen, right?

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Of course, those thoughts make

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you feel a certain way. And

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then of course, you react from

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that place. You're just

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reacting to the world, right?

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Of course, that's just being a

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reasonable person, right?

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But that right there is the

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trap. What you're actually

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doing when you run that

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sequence is really letting the

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output of your life dictate the

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input.

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And when you do that, you're

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locked into producing the same

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result every time. So it's sort

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of like being stuck in a

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feedback loop where the answer

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keeps feeding back into the

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question and the question keeps

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producing the same answer.

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And on and on it goes and you

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just go around and around

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wondering why your life feels

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like it's on repeat when the

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mechanism causing the

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repetition is something you're

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doing every single day without

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awareness.

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And every time you let your

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circumstances trigger the same

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automatic thoughts, which

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produce the same feelings,

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which drive the same reactions,

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you're basically telling your

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system, yes, this is real, this

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is important, keep building

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more of this,

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which means your reactions are

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reinforcing the very reality

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you're trying to change. And

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that's why willpower alone can't

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really break the cycle. The

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cycle is running at a deeper

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level than willpower can

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actually reach.

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So whatever you're looking at

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right now in your life, maybe

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it's your bank account, maybe

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it's your body, maybe it's your

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relationships, all of that is

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basically a printout, right?

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Just like the image shows.

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And I mean that in a very

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literal sense is the result of

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an equation that was already

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solved weeks or months or even

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years ago by the thoughts you

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were thinking in the feelings

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you were carrying at that time,

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which means the reality you're

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experiencing today is all data.

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It's already finished. And it

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has nothing to do with what's

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actually possible for you going

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forward.

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So think of your current

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circumstances as a kind of

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energetic history, a record of

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where your internal state was

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at some earlier point. And the

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reason that matters is that

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most people look at that record,

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and they treat it like it's a

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live feed.

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They think this is what's

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happening right now when really

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it's more like reading last

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month's report and mistaking it

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for today's one.

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So basically there is a delay

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between when you change

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internally and when that change

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shows up externally. And it's

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built in. It's a built in

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feature of how all of this

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works.

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So if you're judging your

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progress by what you can see in

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front of you right now, you're

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always going to be looking at

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evidence from an older version

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of yourself, which is genuinely

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misleading if you don't

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understand the mechanics.

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So the stuff that's showing up

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in your life today is residual

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is the echo of a previous

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internal state is the echo of a

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cause that was a long time ago.

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And the sooner you really

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internalize that the sooner you

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stop giving it so much weight,

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because you realize you're

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reading the receipt from a

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transaction that has already

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happened.

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And that that receipt tells you

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nothing about what the next

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transaction is going to look

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like the better.

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So this is actually a really

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freeing thing. Once you really

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understand it, it means your

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current reality isn't a verdict.

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It isn't some final judgment on

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who you are or what you're

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capable of.

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And I know most of you probably

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know this to a degree is just

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the tail end of an older

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process.

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You know that your future is

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probably brighter than your

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current reality, but you most

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likely don't know that the

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current reality is just a

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result of what happened maybe

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years ago.

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It's just the, as I said, the

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tail end of an older process

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and the equation that produced

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it has already been solved,

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which means you're free to

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write a completely new one

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starting right now.

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And what comes out the other

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side of that new equation will

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most likely look nothing like

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what you're seeing today, which

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is honestly one of the most

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liberating realizations you can

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have.

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It takes the pressure off of

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your current situation entirely

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and you stop fighting what's in

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front of you and you stop

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trying to fix the printout.

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And instead you put all of your

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energy into writing better

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inputs, which is the only thing

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that actually moves the needle.

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And that shift from fixing the

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output to changing the input is

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basically the whole game.

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It's what separates people who

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stay stuck in the same patterns

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from people who seem to create

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change almost effortlessly.

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So the second group figured out

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that you don't change your life

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by wrestling with reality.

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You change it by changing what

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goes into the equation first.

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So the default equation, the

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one that almost everyone is

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running unconsciously runs in a

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loop of circumstances, create

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thoughts, those thoughts create

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feelings, those feelings create

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some actions, and then those

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lead to the same circumstances.

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And that's a closed loop. There's

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no exit point. You just keep

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cycling through the same

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sequence over and over and over

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again.

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And the reason it feels so inescapable

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is that at every point in the

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chain, the next step feels like

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the only logical response to

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the one before it.

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So it never occurs to you that

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the whole chain could be

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reversed, right?

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And what makes this especially

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hard to see is that the default

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equation feels like reality

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itself.

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It feels like this is just how

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cause and effect works.

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Most people never really

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question it. They just assume

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that the outside world causes

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their thoughts and feelings and

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that's that.

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And then they spend their whole

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lives trying to rearrange the

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external circumstances, hoping

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it will make them feel

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different, which sometimes

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works temporarily,

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but never really lasts because

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the underlying equation hasn't

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changed.

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And a big part of why this is

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so ingrained is that you are

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conditioned into it from a very

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young age.

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Your parents and your teachers

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and culture all model the

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default equation for you.

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They taught you implicitly,

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mostly, that your thoughts and

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feelings are caused by what

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happens to you, which set up

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the whole pattern before you

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were old enough to even

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question it.

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So by the time you're an adult,

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running the default equation

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feels natural. It's as natural

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as breathing.

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You don't even register it as a

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pattern, let alone a pattern

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that you could actually change,

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which is why the first step in

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breaking out of it is simply

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becoming aware that it actually

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exists.

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You can't invert something you

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haven't even noticed.

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And what I'm telling you is

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that this whole chain is

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running in the wrong direction.

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The actual order is the reverse

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of what you've been taught.

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And the moment you understand

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that the moment you really get

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that thoughts and feelings come

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first and reality follows and

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that you ignore reality and

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just create thoughts and

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feelings,

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everything starts to make a

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different kind of sense and you

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start to see why some people

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seem to create results almost

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magnetically while others grind

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away for years and barely move

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the needle.

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So the inverted equation, the

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one that actually produces

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change, flips the order to

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thoughts, create feelings,

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create actions, which create

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new circumstances.

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And the key difference is that

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in this version, you're

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absolutely ignoring reality.

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You're the one choosing the

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starting point instead of

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letting your environment choose

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it for you, which puts you back

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in control of the whole chain.

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And that's what this whole

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training is really about.

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It's about learning to run the

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equation in the right direction

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and the three steps I'm going

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to walk you through are the

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practical tools for actually

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doing it in your daily life,

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starting with the most

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fundamental one, which is

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simply learning to see the

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equation in the first place.

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Now, the reason most people's

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lives feel like their own

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repeat, like the same problems

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keep cycling back around no

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matter what they do,

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is because they keep looking at

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the old printout and using it

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as the input for the next round

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of thinking and feeling,

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which just produces another

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version of the same printout.

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And then they look at that one

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and they react to it again and

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do the whole thing over and

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over and over again.

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And you can run that loop for

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decades, honestly, without ever

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realizing that you're the one

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sustaining it.

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And it's worth pointing out

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that this applies to everything,

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not just money or career stuff.

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It shows up in your

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relationships where you keep

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attracting the same kind of

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person or the same kind of

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dynamic.

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It shows up in health where you

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keep falling back into the same

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patterns no matter how many

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diets or programs you try.

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And it shows up in your general

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mode and energy because all of

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those things are outputs of the

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same underlying equation.

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So if you've ever had that

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feeling of here we go again,

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that sense that you're

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basically dealing with the same

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issue in a slightly different

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costume,

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that's the default equation

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doing exactly what it was

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designed to do, which is

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produce consistent results

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based on a consistent input.

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And the input hasn't changed

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because you've been letting the

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outputs write it.

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And once you see this pattern

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in one area of your life, you'll

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be able to start seeing it

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everywhere because it really is

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universal.

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It's the same mechanism playing

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out across every domain, which

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is both a little overwhelming

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at first, but also incredibly

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empowering.

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There's one thing to fix, one

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equation to invert, and that

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inversion ripples out across

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everything else.

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And I want to be clear, this

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isn't about blaming yourself,

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right? When you understand that

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you've been running the

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equation backwards,

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yes, the natural response might

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be a little bit of frustration

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or guilt, but that's the old

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equation trying to reassert

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itself.

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The much more useful response

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is to just go, "Okay, now I see

12:41

it and now I can change it,"

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almost as if you just finally

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got the answer to a

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mathematical equation, to a

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math problem,

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which is exactly what we're

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going to do in the next section.

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And it's really that mechanical.

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It's just a sequence that can

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be run in one direction or

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another, and most people happen

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to be running it in the

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direction that keeps them stuck.

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And once you learn to run it in

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the other direction, the

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results change, and they change

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in ways that feel almost

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surprising at first because you're

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so used to the old output.

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And that's honestly the thing I

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want you to walk away with from

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this section, that the reason

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in your life maybe looks a

13:18

certain way,

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or the way it does look right

13:20

now, is completely

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understandable. It's completely

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explainable and completely

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changeable, because it's all

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just the output of an equation,

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and equations can be rewritten.

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So with that said, let's cover

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seeing the equation. So before

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you can actually flip anything

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around, you have to actually

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see what's happening.

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The default equation runs so

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automatically, so far below the

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surface of your conscious

13:47

awareness, that most people go

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through their entire day

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reacting to reality, without

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once catching themselves in the

13:55

act.

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And that automatic quality is

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exactly what gives it so much

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power, since you can't really

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change a process you haven't

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even identified yet.

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And what I mean by seeing the

14:07

equation in us is honestly

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pretty straightforward. It's

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just starting to pay attention

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to the specific moments in your

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day where your external

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circumstances are dictating how

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you think and how that thinking

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is shaping how you feel, and

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then recognizing that in those

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moments, you're running the old

14:24

sequence.

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You're letting the printout

14:26

write the next equation. You're

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basically feeding the answer

14:30

back into the formula, which is

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exactly the mechanism that

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keeps the loop locked into

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place.

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So for example, let's say you

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check your bank balance, and it's

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lower than you want.

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A thought fire is instantly

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most likely something like, I'm

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not where I should be, or I

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spent too much last weekend.

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And that thought drops

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something in your body, right,

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that heaviness, that tightness.

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And the whole thing happens in

14:54

half a second, completely on

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autopilot, without you making

14:58

any conscious choice about it.

15:00

And from that lowered state,

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you go about your day carrying

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that weight into every

15:04

conversation and every decision

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you make.

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And the speed of it is part of

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what makes it so invisible,

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because by the time you're

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aware of the thought that fired,

15:13

that along the feeling it's

15:15

created, you've already reacted.

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The equation has already run,

15:20

and now you're living inside

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the output of that reaction,

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making it feel like the

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emotional state is just the

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truth.

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When really it was generated by

15:29

a mechanical process you didn't

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even notice.

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And this happens dozens of

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times today, honestly, not just

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with money, but with everything.

15:37

Someone says something dismissive,

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and maybe your mind interprets

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it in a certain way that shifts

15:43

your mood.

15:44

Or you see someone on social

15:45

media doing better than you,

15:47

and a thought fires that

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contracts something inside.

15:51

Or maybe you hit the setback in

15:52

your work, and the story your

15:54

mind tells about it, drops your

15:56

whole energy.

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And each one of those moments

15:59

is basically an instance of the

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default equation firing.

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And each one reinforces the

16:04

loop that keeps your reality

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looking the same.

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And the thing about these micro

16:10

reactions is that they

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accumulate.

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Even if no single one of them

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seems like a big deal, by the

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end of the day you basically

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run the default equation 50 or

16:19

100 times without catching it.

16:22

And all of those reactions have

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collectively set the emotional

16:25

tone that's going to shape what

16:27

shows up next in your life.

16:29

Which is why awareness alone,

16:30

or just the act of starting to

16:31

notice, is so much more

16:32

powerful than it sounds on the

16:34

surface, because every time you

16:36

catch the thought mid-flight,

16:39

you're interrupting a compounding

16:40

process, you're pulling back

16:42

one brick out of the wall that

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the default equation is trying

16:45

to build.

16:46

And over time those interruptions

16:47

add up to a fundamentally

16:48

different internal landscape,

16:50

right?

16:51

Now, here's a useful way to

16:52

really think about your

16:54

recurring problems.

16:56

They're kind of like background

16:58

apps running on your phone.

17:00

They're just sitting there

17:01

quietly, they consume energy,

17:02

and every time you open one of

17:03

them, every time you give it

17:04

your attention and your

17:05

emotional investment,

17:07

you're telling the system, "Keep

17:08

this one active, this one

17:09

really matters."

17:11

And it stays in the loop, which

17:12

is why some issues seem to

17:13

follow you around for years,

17:15

even when you think you've

17:16

dealt with them.

17:18

And you only have so much

17:19

emotional bandwidth in a given

17:21

day.

17:22

And if half of it is going to

17:23

background processes that are

17:25

just recycling old patterns,

17:26

then you have that much less

17:28

available for actually creating

17:29

something new.

17:31

Which is why people often feel

17:32

exhausted, even when they haven't

17:33

really done anything.

17:35

Their internal system was busy

17:37

running old equations all day

17:39

long.

17:40

So one of the most powerful

17:41

moves you can actually make,

17:43

and this sounds almost too

17:44

simple, is to just stop opening

17:46

the app.

17:47

Meaning stop engaging with the

17:48

old pattern when it pops up.

17:50

Let it sit there without

17:51

clicking on it, and eventually

17:53

it times out on its own.

17:55

These patterns can only sustain

17:56

themselves when you keep

17:57

feeding them your attention and

17:59

your emotional energy.

18:01

And this is really the same

18:02

principle we talked about

18:03

earlier with the printout.

18:05

The idea that your current

18:06

reality is sustained by ongoing

18:08

input.

18:09

So when you withdraw the input,

18:10

which is in practical terms

18:12

means withdrawing your

18:13

emotional reactivity, the

18:15

pattern starts to lose its hope.

18:17

It starts to fade because there's

18:18

nothing feeding it anymore.

18:20

And what you're really learning

18:21

to do here is really become

18:22

more selective about what gets

18:24

your cognitive and emotional

18:25

energy.

18:26

Because right now most people

18:27

are just broadcasting their

18:29

energy at whatever is loudest

18:30

in their environment.

18:32

Or whatever is most urgent or

18:33

most stressful or most in their

18:35

face.

18:36

And that's how the default

18:37

equation stays in control.

18:39

So the shift is really learning

18:40

how to consciously choose where

18:42

your energy goes, instead of

18:45

letting circumstances make that

18:46

choice for you.

18:48

And this doesn't mean suppressing

18:49

your feelings or pretending

18:50

things don't bother you.

18:52

That's a different thing

18:53

entirely, right?

18:54

What it means is developing the

18:55

ability to notice a thought

18:57

rising and then choosing

18:58

whether to invest in it or let

19:00

it pass, which is a skill.

19:02

It takes practice and it gets

19:04

easier the more you do it.

19:06

And honestly, this is probably

19:07

the most underrated skill in

19:09

personal development.

19:11

I think everyone wants the

19:12

advanced techniques and the big

19:13

breakthroughs.

19:15

But the ability to simply

19:16

notice your own thinking in

19:18

real time and choose

19:19

differently is the foundation

19:20

that everything else is built

19:22

on.

19:23

Because without none of the

19:24

other steps really work.

19:26

You have to do that in one way

19:27

or another in order to create

19:29

change.

19:30

So the practical move here, and

19:32

this is something you can start

19:34

doing literally today, is what

19:36

I call the equation check.

19:38

And all it takes is a few times

19:39

a day.

19:40

You just pause for a second and

19:41

ask yourself, am I reacting to

19:42

my reality right now?

19:44

Or am I creating it?

19:46

That's it. That one question.

19:48

Because the moment you catch

19:49

the thought that's driving your

19:51

reaction,

19:52

you've already stepped outside

19:53

the loop for just a second.

19:55

And that second of awareness is

19:57

where the inversion becomes

19:59

possible.

20:00

Now, the pause itself is the

20:02

thing, really.

20:04

In the default equation, there

20:05

is no pause.

20:06

The thought fires, the feeling

20:07

follows, the action happens.

20:09

There's nothing in between.

20:11

So when you insert even a tiny

20:12

gap between what happens and

20:14

how you react and how you think,

20:16

you fundamentally change the

20:17

mechanics of the process.

20:19

You've created a space where

20:20

choice can exist, and that

20:22

space is where all of the real

20:24

work happens.

20:25

Between stimulus and response,

20:26

there is a space, and in that

20:28

space is your freedom and your

20:29

power to choose.

20:31

And that's essentially what the

20:32

equation check is designed to

20:33

give you.

20:34

It's a tool for creating that

20:35

space reliably multiple times a

20:36

day,

20:37

so that you're not just hoping

20:38

for moments of awareness, but

20:40

actively generating them.

20:42

And consistency matters here

20:43

more than intensity, as with a

20:45

lot of things in life,

20:47

it's much better to do three or

20:48

four brief equation checks

20:50

spread throughout your day

20:52

than to do one big meditation

20:53

in the morning and then run on

20:55

autopilot for the next 16 hours.

20:58

Because the default equation

20:59

fires all day long, so your

21:01

awareness practice needs to be

21:03

distributed across the day too.

21:05

And every time you do this,

21:06

every time you catch the

21:07

automatic thought in the middle

21:09

of firing and then you pause,

21:11

you're essentially weakening

21:12

the automacity of the default

21:14

equation just a little bit.

21:16

And over days and weeks, those

21:17

small disruptions accumulate

21:19

into something really

21:20

significant

21:21

because the loop that's been

21:22

running your life can only

21:23

maintain itself really through

21:25

uninterrupted repetition.

21:27

Each interruption is chipping

21:29

away at its foundation.

21:31

And the results are cumulative

21:32

in a way that's easy to

21:33

underestimate at first,

21:35

because on any given day, the

21:36

equation check might feel small

21:38

and unremarkable,

21:40

but if you do it consistently

21:41

for a few weeks, you'll start

21:42

to notice that your baseline

21:43

emotional state has shifted.

21:45

There's sure less reactive

21:46

generally that things that used

21:48

to hook you just don't land the

21:50

same way,

21:51

and that's the default equation

21:52

losing its grip.

21:54

And this is really the

21:55

foundational practice for

21:56

everything that comes next,

21:58

because without this ability to

21:59

see the equation and interrupt

22:01

it, the other two steps won't

22:03

stick.

22:04

You'll try to invert things,

22:05

but the default pattern will

22:06

keep pulling you back.

22:08

So treat the step as the ground

22:10

floor and give it the attention

22:12

it really deserves.

22:14

And look, I want to be honest

22:15

with you about why this is

22:17

difficult, and it should be.

22:19

Your nervous system is

22:20

literally built to read reality

22:22

first and then respond second.

22:25

It's a survival mechanism, and

22:26

it has kept humans alive for

22:28

hundreds of thousands of years,

22:30

and you're asking it to operate

22:31

in a way that feels

22:32

fundamentally counterintuitive,

22:35

which is why it takes real

22:36

practice and patience and a

22:37

willingness to be bad at it for

22:38

a while before it starts to

22:40

become more natural.

22:42

Because survival mode and

22:43

creation mode, I believe, are

22:45

genuinely two different ways of

22:47

being.

22:48

And your body defaults to

22:49

survival because that's what

22:51

kept your ancestors alive.

22:53

So when you start trying to

22:54

override that default, there's

22:55

going to be resistance,

22:57

there's going to be discomfort,

22:58

and your system is most likely

23:00

going to protest,

23:01

because it thinks you're doing

23:02

something dangerous, right,

23:04

even though you're actually

23:05

just doing something that will

23:06

change your life.

23:07

And the wiring of this goes

23:08

deep. It isn't some minor habit

23:10

that you can just decide to

23:11

stop.

23:12

It's a neurological pattern

23:13

that's been reinforced by every

23:15

experience you've ever had,

23:17

and you're not going to catch

23:18

every reaction right away, and

23:19

that's completely fine for the

23:21

perfectionist out there.

23:23

The goal is to just catch more

23:24

of them over time on average,

23:26

and the trend matters

23:27

infinitely more than any single

23:29

instance.

23:30

So be patient with the process

23:31

and trust that even catching

23:33

yourself one or two extra times

23:34

a day or a week is meaningful

23:36

progress,

23:37

because each catch is a small

23:38

proof of concept and it shows

23:40

that the default equation can

23:42

be actually interrupted,

23:44

and that you're not completely

23:45

at the mercy of your reactions,

23:48

and that alone will start to

23:48

shift something fundamental in

23:50

how you relate to your own

23:51

experience.

23:53

So really, what you're doing

23:54

with this whole first step is

23:56

building the capacity to

23:57

override a system that's been

23:59

running unchecked your entire

24:01

life,

24:02

which is a big deal if you

24:02

think about it, and it's worth

24:04

acknowledging that rather than

24:05

rushing through it,

24:06

because the people who take

24:07

this step seriously and really

24:09

practice it are the ones who

24:10

make the other two steps work

24:12

better.

24:13

The people who skip it or treat

24:14

it as obvious are the ones who

24:16

end up back in the same loop

24:17

six months later wondering what

24:19

happened.

24:20

So think of this as the

24:21

foundation, the thing that

24:22

everything else really rests on,

24:25

and give it the weight it

24:26

deserves in your daily practice,

24:28

because if you can consistently

24:29

see the equation firing in real

24:31

time,

24:32

you've already done something

24:33

that most people never managed

24:34

to do, and from that place of

24:36

awareness, the inversion

24:37

becomes genuinely possible.

24:39

And once you've built this

24:40

awareness muscle up to the

24:41

point where you're catching

24:43

yourself regularly throughout

24:44

the day,

24:45

where the equation check has

24:46

become almost second nature,

24:47

that's when you're ready for

24:49

the second step,

24:50

which is where things really

24:51

start to get interesting,

24:52

because now you're going to

24:53

take that awareness and use it

24:55

to actually flip the variables

24:56

around.

24:57

So let's talk about flipping

24:58

the variables.

25:00

Now, once you see the equation

25:01

running, the next move is to

25:03

really invert it,

25:05

and this is where the whole

25:06

thing starts to get really

25:07

interesting,

25:08

because what you're doing here

25:09

is deliberately choosing the

25:10

thoughts and generating the

25:12

feelings of the reality you

25:13

want before any evidence of it

25:14

shows up in your life.

25:16

And honestly, this is the step

25:17

that most people either skip

25:18

entirely or do halfway, and it's

25:20

one that matters the most,

25:22

because this is where the

25:23

actual direction of the

25:24

equation really changes.

25:26

So here's what I mean in

25:27

practical terms.

25:29

In the default equation, you

25:30

wait for something good to

25:31

happen, your mind thinks a

25:32

thought about it, and then you

25:34

feel good about it.

25:35

That's the normal order that

25:36

everyone's used to, or

25:38

something bad happens, your

25:40

mind thinks a thought about it,

25:42

and then you feel bad about it.

25:44

That's just the normal order

25:45

that everyone's used to.

25:47

But in the inverted equation,

25:48

you choose the thought first,

25:50

which generates the feeling,

25:52

you create the internal state

25:53

deliberately and on purpose,

25:55

and then you let reality

25:56

reorganize around that.

25:59

So you're writing the input

26:00

side of the equation by hand

26:02

instead of letting your

26:03

circumstances fill it in for

26:05

you, which completely changes

26:07

what comes out on the other end.

26:10

Now, the key word here is first,

26:12

because the timing is

26:14

everything, right?

26:15

You're not thinking, empowering

26:16

thoughts and feeling good in

26:17

response to something good that

26:18

happened.

26:19

You're generating them before

26:20

anything has changed, which can

26:22

feel counter-intuitive and even

26:24

a little crazy at first, but

26:26

that's exactly the inversion.

26:27

That's the whole point. You're

26:28

reversing the direction of

26:29

cause and effect in your own

26:30

experience, and it has to be

26:32

deliberate.

26:33

It has to be something you do

26:34

on purpose with intention,

26:36

because your default system is

26:37

always going to want to read

26:39

reality first and then respond

26:41

second, which is why this step

26:43

requires active practice.

26:45

Often, you can't just hope your

26:46

thoughts and feelings will

26:48

change on their own. You have

26:50

to actually choose them, which

26:51

is a very different thing.

26:53

So you can see the image of the

26:55

default equation and the

26:57

inverted equation.

26:59

And there's a real reason this

27:00

works, by the way. It's

27:01

grounded in something your

27:02

nervous system actually does.

27:04

Your brain at a neurological

27:05

level genuinely cannot tell the

27:06

difference between a vividly

27:08

felt internal experience and

27:09

the one that's actually

27:11

happening in the external world.

27:13

So if you really sit with the

27:14

thoughts and feelings of

27:15

financial security, for example,

27:17

if you let your body relax into

27:19

how you would think at that

27:21

point and what that would feel

27:22

like in your chest and your

27:24

shoulders and your breathing,

27:26

then your nervous system

27:27

responds to that signal the

27:28

same way it would respond to a

27:30

real event, because your

27:31

biology doesn't fact check the

27:33

source.

27:34

It just processes whatever data

27:36

it receives.

27:38

And there's a substantial body

27:40

of research on this in

27:41

neuroscience, the basic finding

27:44

that being that mental

27:45

rehearsal activates many of the

27:47

same neuro pathways as actual

27:49

experience, which is why

27:51

athletes use visualization so

27:53

effectively.

27:55

And it's the same mechanism at

27:57

work here.

27:58

Except instead of rehearsing a

28:00

physical performance, you're

28:02

rehearsing a cognitive and

28:04

emotional state.

28:06

So when you sit in the morning

28:07

and genuinely feel into the

28:09

state of the person who already

28:10

has what you want, your biology

28:12

is responding to that as if it's

28:14

real.

28:15

Your hormones most likely will

28:16

shift your nervous system will

28:18

calibrate to that frequency and

28:20

your whole physiology will

28:21

start to align with a different

28:23

reality.

28:24

And that physiological shift is

28:25

what changes the input of the

28:27

equation at the most

28:28

fundamental level.

28:30

Now, the beautiful thing about

28:31

this is that your body doesn't

28:33

argue with it. It doesn't say,

28:34

well, actually, you don't have

28:36

that yet.

28:37

So I'm not going to respond. It

28:39

just processes the signal,

28:40

which means you have the

28:41

ability to manually set your

28:43

internal state, regardless of

28:44

what's happening outside of you.

28:46

And that's the inversion in

28:48

action.

28:49

So the morning practice I'd

28:50

recommend, and this is

28:51

something I do myself, is

28:52

spending about five minutes

28:54

before you do anything else

28:55

before you check your phone,

28:57

before you let the world and

28:58

just sitting with a version of

29:00

you who already has what you

29:01

want.

29:02

And I want to be specific about

29:03

what I mean, because it isn't

29:05

visualization the way most

29:06

people think of it.

29:08

You're not trying to picture a

29:09

mansion or a car or a perfect

29:11

body here, you're thinking and

29:12

feeling into a state, the

29:14

internal experience of being

29:16

the person who already lives

29:17

that reality.

29:19

What I mean by that is the

29:21

particular combination of

29:22

thoughts and feelings that will

29:24

be present if your desired

29:26

reality was already your

29:27

current one.

29:29

So for some people, that's a

29:30

deep calm and a sense of

29:31

certainty. For others, it can

29:33

be just a warm confidence.

29:35

For others, it's a quiet

29:36

gratitude mixed with excitement.

29:39

The exact flavor will be

29:40

different for everyone, but the

29:42

key is that it's felt, it's a

29:44

felt experience in your body,

29:45

not a picture in your mind, or

29:47

a sense of sentence that you

29:49

repeat, like an affirmation, it's

29:51

a felt experience.

29:53

So you're really looking for a

29:54

whole body experience here,

29:55

because that level of embodiment

29:57

is what makes the signal strong

29:58

enough for your nervous system

29:59

to respond to it.

30:01

And it helps to get really

30:02

specific with yourself about

30:03

what the thoughts and feelings

30:05

actually are.

30:06

And five minutes is genuinely

30:07

enough. You don't need to sit

30:09

for an hour doing this. What

30:11

matters is the quality of the

30:12

thoughts and the feelings and

30:14

how fully you let yourself drop

30:16

into them.

30:17

And if you do it consistently

30:18

every morning, it becomes the

30:20

state that you carry into the

30:21

rest of your day, which means

30:22

you're really running the

30:24

inverted equation from the very

30:25

start of your day.

30:27

And consistency is the thing

30:28

that makes this work long term,

30:30

because obviously a single

30:31

session feels nice, but doesn't

30:33

really change much, whereas

30:35

doing it every day for weeks

30:36

starts to fundamentally shift

30:38

your baseline state.

30:40

So you can think of it as a

30:41

compounding investment. Each

30:44

session adds a little bit to

30:45

the total and over time those

30:47

small deposits add up to a

30:48

completely different internal

30:50

state, which is going to

30:52

produce obviously a completely

30:53

different set of outputs in

30:55

your external reality.

30:56

Now the compounding effect is

30:57

why people who stick with this

30:59

for a few months often describe

31:01

the results as feeling almost

31:02

sudden, even though the process

31:04

was very gradual.

31:06

And the reason this matters so

31:07

much, the reason I'm spending

31:09

this much time on it is because

31:11

the thought and the feeling it

31:12

produces are the actual

31:13

variables that determine the

31:15

output of the equation.

31:17

Everything else, the money, the

31:18

relationship, the health, the

31:20

opportunities, those are all

31:22

downstream of an internal state

31:23

that was held consistently

31:25

enough and long enough for

31:26

reality to reorganize around it.

31:29

And most people are focused

31:30

entirely on the external things

31:32

they want.

31:33

The amount in the bank, maybe

31:34

the relationship, the body, and

31:36

they're trying to create those

31:37

things directly through effort

31:39

and strategy, which sometimes

31:41

works but doesn't really last

31:42

because the underlying input,

31:44

your thoughts, feelings, and

31:46

who you believe you are haven't

31:47

really changed.

31:49

So the stuff is always

31:50

downstream, it's always the

31:51

effect.

31:52

And the thoughts and the

31:53

feelings are always the cause

31:54

and when you really get that

31:56

when it stops being a concept

31:57

and becomes something you

31:59

actually live by, then you stop

32:00

chasing outcomes and you start

32:02

managing your thinking and your

32:03

internal state, which is the

32:05

only lever that actually

32:06

controls the output of the

32:08

equation in a lasting way.

32:10

And the only part that you can

32:12

actually fully control.

32:14

So when you sit down in the

32:15

morning and do this practice,

32:17

you're essentially giving

32:18

reality a new set of

32:19

instructions to solve for your

32:21

plugging a different value into

32:23

the input side of the equation

32:24

and over time, as you hold that

32:26

value more and more

32:27

consistently, the output has to

32:29

change, because the input

32:31

changed and that's genuinely

32:32

just how equations work right.

32:34

There's no version of this

32:35

where you change one side, and

32:36

the other stays the same indefinitely.

32:39

And that inevitability is

32:41

something important.

32:43

And it's, it, you need to be

32:44

able to trust because during

32:46

the process, it can really feel

32:48

uncertain, it can feel like

32:49

nothing's happening, but the

32:51

math is the math.

32:53

If the input is different than

32:54

the output will eventually be

32:56

different as well.

32:58

And holding on to that

32:59

understanding is what gets you

33:00

through the difficult middle

33:02

part.

33:03

Once you've started flipping

33:04

the variables, once you're

33:06

regularly generating your

33:07

internal state before your

33:09

external world gives you a

33:10

reason to, you're going to run

33:12

into something that trips up

33:14

almost everyone and that's the

33:16

lag between when the input

33:17

changes and when the output

33:18

catches up.

33:20

So let's talk about holding the

33:22

inversion through the lag.

33:25

So this is the part where most

33:26

people fall off and honestly is

33:28

the most important part to

33:29

really understand because when

33:31

you start running invert the

33:33

inverted equation when you

33:34

genuinely shift your thinking

33:36

and your internal state and

33:37

start thinking and feeling

33:39

differently on the inside, your

33:41

external reality doesn't update

33:42

right away.

33:43

There's a delay, a gap, and

33:44

that gap is where almost

33:46

everyone gives up and really

33:47

flips back to the default

33:49

equation and they interpret the

33:50

delay as proved that the

33:52

inversion didn't work.

33:54

Now the lag makes sense if you

33:55

think about the momentum

33:56

involved. You might have spent

33:58

5, 10, 20 years running the old

34:00

equation in one direction,

34:02

building up all this momentum

34:03

through repetition, thinking

34:05

certain thoughts, feeling

34:06

certain feelings, acting from

34:08

those patterns over and over

34:09

again.

34:10

And that momentum doesn't just

34:11

stop the moment you decide to

34:13

change. It can take some time

34:15

to slow down and then reverse

34:16

direction, which is completely

34:18

normal and completely expected

34:20

as logical as well.

34:22

The old output you're seeing

34:23

right now is the result of all

34:25

that accumulated momentum and

34:26

it's still being delivered to

34:28

you because it was already in

34:29

the pipeline. It was already

34:31

queued up, already on its way

34:33

and nothing you do today can

34:35

really recall it or speed up

34:36

the transition.

34:38

All you can do is keep putting

34:39

new inputs into the equation

34:40

and then wait for the new

34:42

outputs to start arriving as

34:43

well.

34:44

And this is where patience

34:45

becomes genuinely important.

34:47

The lag can last days or weeks

34:49

or sometimes longer. It can

34:50

last years or months depending

34:52

on how much momentum the old

34:54

equation really had.

34:56

And during that time, you're

34:57

essentially living in two

34:58

realities at once. Your

35:00

internal state says one thing

35:02

and your external world says

35:04

another. And that tension is

35:05

uncomfortable.

35:07

I get it completely, but it's

35:08

also the clear sign that the

35:09

inversion is working and ask

35:11

every successful person. They

35:13

will tell you that this is the

35:14

most important part of holding

35:16

your thinking, holding your

35:17

mindset in the right place,

35:19

holding your thinking and

35:20

feelings in the right place in

35:22

your internal state.

35:24

It's during that lag. Now

35:26

during the lag, the old reality

35:27

is going to scream louder than

35:29

it ever has because bills are

35:30

still going to come, right?

35:32

There's still going to be

35:33

people acting in the same way

35:34

with you. There's still going

35:36

to be setbacks that happen and

35:37

all of it is going to feel like

35:39

evidence that nothing has

35:40

really changed.

35:42

But what's actually happening

35:43

is that the old equation is

35:45

finishing its print run. Those

35:47

last pages from the previous

35:48

job are still coming through

35:49

the printer.

35:50

And the worst thing you can do

35:51

is look at those old pages and

35:52

then conclude that your new

35:54

equation didn't go through

35:55

because it did. It's just

35:57

waiting in line.

35:58

So the old outputs that show up

36:00

during the lag aren't new

36:02

problems. They're old ones that

36:04

were already in transit. They

36:06

were created by the previous

36:07

input and they're being

36:09

delivered on schedule.

36:11

You should have just expected

36:12

them. And the fact that they're

36:13

still arriving doesn't mean

36:15

anything about what's coming

36:16

next. That's even more

36:17

important to realize.

36:18

It just means that the delivery

36:20

system has a built-in delay the

36:23

same way as when you order from

36:25

Amazon or whatever, right? You

36:28

pay and for a moment there, you

36:30

have paid the money. It has exited

36:32

your bank account and you still

36:34

haven't received the thing that

36:36

you've ordered from Amazon.

36:38

This is genuinely the most

36:39

misleading part of the whole

36:41

process because your logical

36:43

mind is going to look at the

36:44

evidence and construct a very

36:46

convincing argument that

36:48

nothing has changed and nothing

36:50

is going to change.

36:52

And that argument is going to

36:53

feel reasonable and rational

36:55

and most likely quote-unquote

36:58

realistic. But it's based

36:59

entirely on old data, which

37:00

makes it irrelevant to what's

37:02

actually being created on the

37:03

input side of the equation.

37:05

And I want sugarcoated. This

37:06

part feels like a test. It

37:08

feels like the universe, God,

37:09

life, your mind, whatever you

37:11

want to call it, is checking

37:12

whether you really mean it or

37:14

whether you're going to fold at

37:16

the first sign of resistance.

37:18

And while I don't really think

37:20

of it as a cosmic text, the

37:21

test exactly, the functional

37:23

reality is the same. The lag is

37:26

where your commitment to the

37:27

inverted equation either holds

37:30

or breaks.

37:31

And that commitment is the only

37:32

thing that really determines

37:34

the outcome. Now, this, by the

37:36

way, is what separates people

37:37

who actually transform their

37:39

lives from people who just keep

37:40

cycling through the same old

37:42

patterns.

37:43

Because the information is

37:44

really out there, right?

37:46

Everyone has access to these

37:47

ideas now. But the people who

37:49

break through are the ones who

37:50

can hold the new input even

37:52

when the old output is still

37:53

showing up everywhere around

37:55

them.

37:56

That capacity to actually hold

37:58

is the real skill is the thing

37:59

that can be taught that can't

38:01

be taught through concepts

38:03

alone. It has to be built

38:04

through practice.

38:06

And holding here means that

38:07

when the old reality pushes

38:08

back when the lag delivers

38:10

another piece of evidence from

38:12

the old equation from your old

38:13

life from your old way of

38:15

thinking and feeling, you don't

38:17

take the bait.

38:18

You don't let it reset your

38:19

thinking and your internal

38:20

state back to the default. You

38:22

just acknowledge what's

38:23

happening. You feel whatever

38:24

you feel for a moment, and then

38:26

you consciously return to the

38:27

chosen thoughts and emotional

38:29

signature you set in step two,

38:31

because that's the input that

38:32

matters.

38:33

And every time you return to it

38:34

after a disruption, you're

38:35

actually strengthening the

38:37

strengthening the inverted

38:38

equation rather than weakening

38:40

it.

38:41

So each return to your chosen

38:42

state after a disruption is

38:43

actually making the inversion

38:45

stronger because you're not

38:47

just maintaining the new input.

38:49

You're proving to your nervous

38:50

system that this state can

38:51

survive contact with

38:53

contradictory evidence, which

38:54

builds the resilience that

38:56

makes each subsequent

38:57

disruption easier to handle.

38:59

So the lag period as

39:00

uncomfortable as it is, is

39:01

actually the part of the

39:02

process where the most growth

39:04

happens, because it's where you

39:06

build the capacity to hold an

39:08

internal state independently of

39:10

external circumstances.

39:12

And that capacity is the whole

39:14

game. Right. Once you have it,

39:16

the inversion becomes self

39:17

sustaining and the external

39:19

changes follow naturally and

39:20

this is the, this, this

39:22

capacity, the skill of being

39:23

able to control your thoughts

39:25

and control your feelings is

39:26

really one of the most underrated.

39:28

I think skills to success

39:31

really in any field, not just

39:33

financial success. And I want

39:36

to stress again that this is

39:38

pretty mechanical. It's just

39:40

the way the system works. There's

39:42

a delay between cause and

39:43

effect. The old outputs need

39:45

time to clear.

39:46

And your job is during that

39:47

time is simply to not flip the

39:49

equation back to default. That's

39:51

it. You don't need to do

39:52

anything else. You just need to

39:54

hold your position and keep

39:56

feeding the new input into the

39:58

equation.

39:59

And the more systematically you

40:00

approach this, the easier it

40:02

gets, meaning if you have a

40:04

clear morning practice like we

40:05

talked about in step two, and

40:07

you have the equation check

40:08

running a few times throughout

40:10

the day from step one, you

40:12

basically built a system that

40:13

supports the inversion auto.

40:15

So you're not really relying on

40:17

willpower anymore. You have

40:19

actual practices in place that

40:21

keep the new input flowing even

40:23

on difficult days.

40:25

And that's why the three steps

40:26

work together as a system

40:28

rather than as an isolated

40:29

technique because step one

40:31

gives you the awareness to cash

40:33

the default equation. Step two

40:35

gives you the practice for

40:36

setting the new input.

40:38

And then step three is really

40:39

about maintaining that new

40:41

input through the period where

40:42

the old output is still visible.

40:44

And each step supports the

40:46

other two.

40:47

So the practical technique for

40:49

really getting through the lag

40:52

is what I call the lag reframe.

40:55

And it goes like this. Whenever

40:57

all the reality pushes back,

40:58

whenever something shows up

41:00

that looks like proof that

41:02

nothing is really changing, you

41:04

recognize it for what it is.

41:06

Old output already finished

41:07

already irrelevant to what you're

41:09

actually building right now.

41:10

And then instead of engaging

41:12

with it, you bring your

41:13

attention back to the internal

41:15

state. You set in step two, you

41:17

reconnect with that feeling to

41:19

the thoughts, you hold it and

41:21

you let the old output pass

41:22

through without giving it any

41:24

more of your energy.

41:26

Now, the reason this works as a

41:27

technique is because it gives

41:29

your mind something specific to

41:31

do in the moment of disruption.

41:34

Instead of just trying to not

41:35

react, which is vague and hard

41:37

to execute, you're giving

41:38

yourself a concrete reframe

41:40

that puts the old output in

41:42

context.

41:43

And that context immediately

41:44

takes the emotional charge out

41:46

of it. You're no longer

41:48

interpreting it as current

41:49

evidence. You're interpreting

41:51

it as old data that's just

41:53

being cleared away.

41:55

So the reframe can be almost

41:56

immediate once you practice it

41:58

a few times to the point where

42:00

you see an old pattern showing

42:02

up and your first first thought

42:04

is just old stuff, and you just

42:06

move on.

42:07

So it's simple enough to

42:08

remember and use even when you're

42:09

stressed, which is exactly when

42:11

you need it most. So keep it in

42:13

your back pocket and use it

42:14

every time the lag tries to

42:15

pull you back into the old

42:17

equation.

42:18

Now, after you use the reframe,

42:19

the redirect back to your

42:21

chosen thoughts and emotional

42:23

state is really the critical

42:24

second step because the reframe

42:26

alone will of course just

42:27

neutralize that old trigger,

42:29

but it doesn't generate any new

42:31

input.

42:32

So you need to actively bring

42:33

your attention back to the

42:34

thoughts and the feelings from

42:36

your morning practice, even

42:37

just for 10 or 15 seconds.

42:40

It doesn't need to be a long

42:41

process in the moment, just a

42:43

quick reconnection, just a

42:44

brief dropping in to those

42:46

thoughts and feelings of

42:47

certainty or calm or whatever

42:49

your cognitive and emotional

42:51

signature was just enough to reestablish

42:53

the signal.

42:55

And each time you do this, each

42:56

time you reframe and redirect,

42:58

you're stacking another data

42:59

point in favor of the new

43:01

equation.

43:02

And those data points

43:03

accumulate into a new normal, a

43:05

new baseline, and eventually

43:07

the lag just ends, right? And

43:09

the new output starts showing

43:10

up in your life.

43:12

So the question you want to be

43:13

asking yourself during the lag

43:15

isn't, "Has my reality changed

43:17

yet?" Because that's as if you're

43:19

asking, "Every 10 minutes, are

43:21

we there yet?"

43:23

And that question just keeps

43:24

you focused on the output,

43:26

which is exactly the wrong

43:27

place to look during this phase.

43:29

The real question is, "Have I

43:31

changed?" Because in any

43:33

endeavor where you aim to be

43:35

successful, whether that's in

43:38

sports or business or whatever,

43:41

at the end of the day, the

43:42

biggest results come from you

43:44

changing.

43:45

And the whole process, the

43:47

whole journey is you changing

43:48

as a person. And the shift in

43:51

your external world is always a

43:52

downstream consequence of the

43:54

shift in you, right?

43:56

And if you're genuinely holding

43:57

a different internal state, if

43:59

you're a different person in

44:00

terms of your thoughts and your

44:02

feelings, if you're running the

44:04

inverted equation consistently,

44:05

well, the external changes will

44:07

follow.

44:08

They just have to because it's

44:09

an equation. And that internal

44:11

shift is the thing to measure

44:13

yourself by during the lag

44:14

period because it's the only

44:15

metric that is actually within

44:17

your control and the only one

44:19

that really predicts the

44:20

outcome.

44:21

So instead of actually checking

44:22

your bank account every day,

44:24

hoping to see a change, which

44:25

is really just running the

44:27

default equation again, check

44:29

your thinking, check your

44:30

internal state, your emotional

44:32

state.

44:33

Check whether you're holding

44:34

the new input. Check whether

44:35

your baseline has shifted. And

44:37

if it has, you're on track

44:38

regardless of what the external

44:39

evidence says.

44:41

So during the lag, you don't

44:42

really have external proof yet.

44:44

All you have is the internal

44:46

shift and your understanding of

44:47

the equation.

44:49

And that has to be enough for a

44:50

while, which is uncomfortable,

44:52

but also kind of beautiful. It

44:54

means that you're really

44:55

building something from the

44:56

inside out, which is the only

44:57

way anything real can be built

44:59

and anything lasting can be

45:01

built.

45:02

Because like we've been saying

45:04

throughout this whole training,

45:05

your current reality is just a

45:07

printout of a previous internal

45:09

state.

45:10

So when the internal state

45:11

changes, the printout has to

45:13

change as well. There's no

45:15

version of this where the input

45:16

shifts in the output stays the

45:18

same forever. The equation has

45:20

to balance.

45:22

And it will. Your only job is

45:24

really to hold the new input

45:26

steady until it does. That's it.

45:29

So with that said, let's cover

45:30

the review. We talked about the

45:32

overview, the backwards

45:33

equation, seeing the equation,

45:35

flipping the variables, holding

45:37

the inversion through the lag,

45:38

the review and finally your

45:40

action items for the day or the

45:41

next few days.

45:43

First, start running the

45:44

equation check today. Pause a

45:46

few times throughout your day

45:47

and ask yourself, am I reacting

45:49

to my reality right now? Or am

45:50

I creating it?

45:52

And then use that question as

45:53

your anchor for building the

45:55

awareness that makes the

45:56

inversion possible.

45:58

Then begin your morning

45:59

calibration tomorrow, five

46:01

minutes before you touch your

46:02

phone, sitting with the

46:04

emotional and cognitive

46:05

signature of the version of you

46:07

who already has what you want,

46:09

thinking and feeling into that

46:10

state fully and then letting it

46:12

set the tone for your entire

46:14

day.

46:15

Then finally, hold the thoughts

46:17

and the feelings right when the

46:20

old reality pushes back in a

46:22

tool just expected. Use the lag

46:24

reframe to put it in context.

46:26

Remind yourself that what you're

46:28

seeing is just an old print out

46:29

job finishing and then just

46:31

redirect your attention to your

46:33

chosen thinking and internal

46:35

state and trust that the new

46:37

equation is already processing.

46:40

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46:41

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46:42

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