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Nostalgia Destroys Souls.

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Today I want to warn you about a very

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powerful and dangerous drug and it's

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called nostalgia. Uh nostalgia can kill

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your soul. Honestly, I truly believe. Uh

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it's it's very uh luxurant. It's very

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tempting. Uh but it's a poison you don't

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want to have too much of and it's

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especially in today's world. It's all

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over the place. Um now is unique to our

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environment. Now everyone in all times

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and places they have some pining for

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their childhood or you know oh I missed

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that I missed when that was here and you

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know I missed when we used to do that

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you know it's very natural but in our

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world if you really think about it the

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modern consumerous world um it's it's

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almost it is a perfect storm for this uh

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nostalgia that that blinds everything

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because oh there's 90s nostalgia there's

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80s nostalgia there's 70s nostalgia

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every generation ation or not even every

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generation, every couple of years, the

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toys that kids play with are totally

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different. The the social environment is

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entirely different. When I was in high

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school, it was the era of flip phones,

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an era that came and went very quickly

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and uh you know just a couple years

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later there were no more flip phones.

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Now there are smartphones. The dynamic

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is entirely different. Obviously, you

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know, now people are sharing pictures

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and you know, all this other stuff and

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that actually fundamentally trans uh

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like transforms the way that people

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interact. So, it's actually very normal

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in the modern west especially for a

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generation of people like if you know

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someone who's 10 years younger than you,

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the the thing the games they played, the

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ways they interacted with their friends

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are entirely different from the ways

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that you interacted with your friends.

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And in each case, there's no continuity.

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There's no stability, right? So, it's

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not like, oh yeah, I don't know, girls

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play with dolls and boys do this. I

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don't know, they play with sticks and

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hit each other. You know what it it's

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not like this thing that is going to be

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common among generations. It's something

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that actually changes all the time. And

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what that means is you can't go back.

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You can't go back and experience that

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again. Your children are not going to

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have the same experiences that you had.

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Okay? And uh you know it's it's like

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it's like a guy who you know let's says

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let's say he really likes um he really

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liked his Zelda games like his Nintendo

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64 and he's like oh yeah I want to oh my

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kid's going to play video games and he's

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going to like that too. And um you know

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it's not really the same thing because

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oh well this game it's not impressive

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anymore. It's it's it's old-fashioned.

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It's uh it compared to the other uh slop

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that I can consume it's actually not

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attractive. And so what that means is,

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you know, all of us are in a weird

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position where the the the things that

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we enjoyed as kids are just gone.

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They're just dead. They're they're the

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things that appear in like uh you know,

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autistic people's collections of stuff.

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Oh, here's uh you know, and I I still

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like every once in a while, I still

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remember things from my childhood. And

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uh it's like that that's an entire it's

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an entirely lost world because the

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modern world, the consumerist world is

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very much about new new things and

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fattish things, things that aren't going

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to last. Things that you get very

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emotionally attached to and then they

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disappear. Then they're gone, you know,

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and all your emotional attachment was

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for nothing. And that actually is is

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kind of the problem. Now, I mentioned

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video games. I think video games are a

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fantastic example. Obviously, I think

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really people should never be playing

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video games, especially as individuals.

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You know, if you're if you're in a party

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and you're playing with other guys, I

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kind of understand that. But I I think I

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look at all the time that I wasted as a

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kid, and it's it's a killer. But, you

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know, one thing that I think is really

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funny, you know, nowadays, and this

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shows you the poison of nostalgia,

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because ultimately, you know, people

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when when they see that the world they

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grew up in is gone. It's lost. There's a

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part of them they want to relive it.

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They want to relive that experience.

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They want to go back and uh you know h

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have those feelings again and you can't

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do it. You can't do it not just because

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the world has gone past that but even

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the enjoyment itself was superficial.

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You know video games are a good example.

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Let me give you one. You know in video

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games um nowadays don't even look this

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stuff up. I know a lot of people

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probably know about it, but there's this

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stuff called video game speedrunning,

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right? Which is the most depressing and

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degenerate thing I've ever seen in my

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entire life because the whole uh really

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what's happening there is there are guys

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again, they like some old video game.

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Um, and they played it a lot as they're

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as children. Now they're adults and they

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have nothing to do. Their lives are

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empty. So they play the game over and

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over again. They optimize it. They try

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to speedrun it. And then sometimes

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they'll even hack into the game. uh you

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know, change things around uh you know,

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like create new challenges for

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themselves. So, 25 years later, they're

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still trying to like they're they're

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taking this game from the '8s or the

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'90s and they're trying to relive the

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experience they had as a kid, right? And

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that's what I mean by like these like

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nostalgia can be a real poison in

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today's society. By itself, it's not

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it's not really dangerous. You know,

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there's nothing wrong with looking back

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at the past and remembering the good old

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days, but really we should live in a

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place where you know, you should be able

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to go back to the school you used to go

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to and um you know, kind of see the oh

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the the kids are different, but it's

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still the same. That's not the case

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anymore. You know, in our world of rapid

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change, rapid technological change, uh

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mass immigration, all these kind of

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things, like the world like the the

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world we grew up in is constantly dying.

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you know there there are there's memes

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that guys have oh the world you grew up

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in is gone it's constantly going it's

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constantly leaving you know and um even

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at the rate you know the reason this

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stuff is is such a a poison some like it

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really part of growing up in today's

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world is kind of getting over those old

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obsessions and you know obviously I

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struggle with this you know when I

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remember you know I I have rose tinted

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glasses about a lot of the things in uh

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you know my my early childhood or

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something like that um but I think a lot

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of it is like you you have to keep

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looking forward you know and ultimately

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you know my priority I think is uh you

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know living in a more stable world you

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know I've said this in in another video

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um but uh that that's something that

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people overlook and and so this stuff

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like don't get in the the real thing is

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like you you want those experience like

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like you want the the feeling of

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continuity and to to to look at children

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and to look at the next generation and

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say hey I've been there I've done that I

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relate to that but The world as it is

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now has taken that away from us because

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of technological, spiritual, uh, all

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kinds of change. That's a bad thing, you

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know, because we're so disconnected from

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every gener, you know, the generation

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before us and the generation after that.

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Um, there's an inherent value in that

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and we want we want to have some of

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that, but we can't have it. Nostalgia is

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just a feeling of loss. It's a feeling

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of I can't get that back. And it's it's

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actually it's it's very sad. And you

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know how we have to cope in a way is

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just kind of order our priorities. And

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you know there are a lot of the the

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little things in your past that are just

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going to they're going to disappear and

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it does it might hurt but it doesn't

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matter and you need to get over you need

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to I don't know pull away from the video

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game speedrunning your video game

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speedrunning whatever that is and uh

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focus on the stuff that matters. uh

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however you know and and and I think

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really the way to do that is identifying

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what's really going on like we should we

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want continuity uh we we want to have uh

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parts of our childhood in the future

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because that means that we have a future

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that we can understand and control and

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have a say in and the modern world

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modern

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consumerism this is uh very much not

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that. So anyway, that's all I got to

Interactive Summary

The speaker argues that nostalgia acts as a dangerous, poisonous influence in modern society, exacerbated by the rapid, consumerist pace of change. Because technological and social landscapes shift so quickly, generations are left without continuity or stability, making it impossible to truly 'go back' to the experiences of one's childhood. The speaker posits that trying to relive these superficial past experiences—using video game speedrunning as a prime example—is a sign of a deeper societal emptiness. Ultimately, the speaker encourages listeners to recognize this loss, abandon futile attempts to cling to the past, and focus on building a future with greater stability and continuity.

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