This is a conventionally attractive

woman. Big eyes, small nose, no

wrinkles, and hairless. This is a child

who also has big eyes, a small nose,

zero wrinkles, and is hairless. Did you

know there's an extremely popular makeup

trend in China called yo, which directly

translates to childlike makeup? This

style is characterized by the desire to

look as young as possible. And makeup

companies would even ride the trend by

naming their products ying,

which translates to baby straight

lashes. Even kids don't satisfy them

anymore. They want straight up infant

features. The selling point of a lot of

current makeup products is the fact that

they can mimic the look of a child, or

in this case, infants. A quick Google

search would reveal that anytime a girl

changes her nose during a makeup

routine, she's very likely going to try

and make it smaller instead of bigger.

Notice how basically every makeup action

women take, which is changing our faces

to imitate the ones of children. Most do

it subconsciously. This trend also isn't

unique to China. It's everywhere. The

beauty standard for women is to be

childlike. Take eagle makeup for

example. The thick eyeliner, chunky

lashes, and strategically placed nose

contour all result in a more childlike

appearance. Obviously, I'm not saying

these makeup styles or makeup in general

are inherently bad, and the purpose of

this video is not in any way to hate on

current makeup trends. I just wanted to

point out the infantilizing reality of

female self-expression. Well, women tend

to have smaller noses and larger eyes

anyways, so what's your point? Well,

yes, that is true. However, society's

preferences are much more extreme than

what the average woman has. For example,

in this study, where people's faces were

photoshopped to make different features

such as their eyes or nose larger or

smaller, nearly half of the participants

found enlarged eyes more attractive. And

over 64% found a reduced nose size more

attractive. Well, a woman has less body

hair anyways. It's not rocket science.

It's natural. Yes, that's true. But

what's your reaction to seeing a woman

with unshaven armpits? You'll probably

get caught off guard and then feel

disgusted. Because believe it or not,

but women have armpit hair. There's

nothing natural about shaving every inch

of our bodies. Any girl over the age of

12 is going to have some body hair, and

not a single woman I know in real life

doesn't shave their armpits. It's very

fascinating how the obsession with

shaving started so razor companies could

sell more products. Even non-fictional

movies that focus on historical accuracy

all shave their woman. Some movies

purposefully adding violent scenes of

rape or torture for increased realism,

but the unshaven armpit is yet to be

seen. Lastly, wrinkles. Aging naturally

and god forbid having some wrinkles is

the worst crime a woman can commit. The

moment one appears, society criticizes

the woman, bullying her into either

hating her appearance or getting plastic

surgery. The most common forms of

cosmetic procedures are Botox and

fillers, whether that be forehead Botox

or lip filler. They both exist to

replicate a more youthful appearance.

Filler mimics the look of firm full skin

and a popular choice is lip filler which

directly reduces the size of the filtrum

and thickens the lips. Now you might say

some people have always had thin lips

even as a child. However, every lip

follows a trend where it gets thinner

and loses volume as we age. This is due

to collagen loss. Collagen is an

abundant protein that gives skin their

firmness and lips their fullness. And

over time, our ability to produce

collatin, collagen, sorry, decreases as

shown in the study. I also don't think

it's a coincidence that men prefer

really skinny women, often times

underweight, as well as things including

a tiny waist, non-sagging boobs. And

I've always wondered why sagging boobs

is seen as a huge issue while they're

completely natural and practically not

preventable. But when men age, they're

seen as silver foxes, fine wine, and

adding to the value. Whereas when a

woman ages, they're seen as losing value

and letting go of herself. The

glorification of these standards

represent a prepubescent body. The

estimated value of female weight loss

market today is worth hundreds of

billions, not millions, billions.

Infantilization in fashion is more of a

nuance topic. While I'm all for

unfiltered self-expression, it's

ignorant to say female fashion takes no

inspiration from child fashion. Things

like bows, baby doll dresses, knee

socks, and pigtails all fall under this

category. You can find dozens of videos

online of women saying repeatedly how

they get tipped more when they wear

pigtails to work. Kind of going off

topic here, but attractive personality

traits expected from women include

kindness, softness, shyness,

playfulness, empathy, vulnerability, as

well as purity. These traits have an

uncanny resemblance to traits also found

in children. Purity culture as a whole

focuses on innocence and abstinence.

When a woman willyly has sex, it's seen

as taboo, impure, and punishable, while

the polar opposite exists for men.

Having sex is seen as an accomplishment,

dominance, and men often get social

praise for it. Misogynistic phrases such

as the flower exists. Everything

associated with sex, as well as

reproductive organs and features of the

feminine, is shameful. A woman's first

time is upheld as highly important and a

measure of morality and purity. In my

opinion, the focus on purity is to

maintain the childlike image and

innocence of a woman. Women are also

rewarded for sounding childlike. Women

are often expected to speak in a rising

intonation, to finish sentences in a

breathy way, as well as to talk in a

high-pitched voice. Overall, girlhood is

often valued more than womanhood. And

this is evident in the plethora of films

painting your teenage years as this key

phase of, you know, self-exploration and

how important it would be. Meanwhile,

there's also an abundance of films

portraying the horrors of being a

middle-aged woman where no one would

love you and appreciate you. If you go

into any pornographic website, words

such as barely legal, school girl, and

teenage girls all exist on the front

page. Preventative Botox and the rise of

children and young teens engaging

heavily in skincare online reflect a

broader cultural obsession with delaying

aging before it has even begun. What

stands out is not just the treatment

themselves, but the mindset behind them.

The idea that visible signs of adulthood

are problems to be avoided as early as

possible. Rather than natural stages of

life, preventative Botox, often marketed

as maintenance, reframes aging as

something that must be actively stalled

rather than accepted, pushing people to

treat youthful skin as something fragile

that requires constant intervention. At

the same time, social media has

normalized elaborate skincare routines

for increasingly younger audiences where

children mimic adult beauty rituals

using active ingredients and products

they don't even need. Together, these

trends create a feedback loop where

youth becomes something that must be

preserved at all costs, even in people

who are already children. There's a

recurring cultural phenomenon where some

mothers take pride in looking unusually

young, often highlighting it in

comparisons to their daughters. It can

show up in casual comments like being

mistaken for sisters or in social media

posts emphasizing we look the same age

as a compliment. While this is sometimes

playful or rooted in confidence, it can

also deeply reflect how youth is valued

as a marker of worth. The mother's

identity can become entangled with

appearing still young.

>> I don't really feel attracted to English

women because they're very mature. They

look very

they look like adults. I guess I'm more

attracted to cute girls. That's why I

find Japanese girls more attractive.

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