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the amount of alcohol it takes to begin

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to cause health rellated problems is

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much lower than you think. Okay. So, if

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I have this glass of wine every day,

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you'd be in what we call moderate risk,

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which is associated with pretty much

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every form of cancer. So, say that I'm

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drinking If you're drinking two of those

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glasses, we're talking like a 40%

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increase. But even drinking that amount,

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your risk of breast cancer would

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increase by about 5%. This amount. Mhm.

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Which for many people is very normal.

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So, there's a lot of misinformation out

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there about how much should you drink,

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which I think people don't know, but I

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can take you through everything. So, Dr.

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Sarah Wakeakeman is a Harvard professor

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and addiction expert leading the charge

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against one of the biggest public health

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crises of our time, addiction. Bringing

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facts, empathy, and hard-earned truth.

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One in three people may have a problem

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with alcohol at some point in their

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lives. And globally, 2.6 million people

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every year die from alcohol-related

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causes because pretty much every organ

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in the body is impacted by it. You can

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see here, this is a 43year-old person

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where their brain looks the way a

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90-year-old with dementia would look

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because of that brain damage over time

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from alcohol use. But what drives people

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to use substances? It's probably the

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most important question and if we look

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at studies, one is about 40 to 60%

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genetics. And the other half of the

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equation is trauma. And so we hear

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someone talk about alcohol gives them

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pain relief, whether that's emotional or

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physical. That's a very real thing.

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That's because your sort of natural

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painkiller system is activated by

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drinking. It's an anti-anxiety and a

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pain medication sort of allin-one. So

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when you think about how we treat

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addiction, where are we going wrong? The

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biggest problem is that people haven't

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been given the evidence and tools to

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understand addiction. But also many

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rehabs don't offer the things that we

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know are actually effective. And what is

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it that people need? Great question. One

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of the most effective tools we teach

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people is something called and they

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found that people drink much less after

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it. Yeah. Wow.

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much, Dr. Sarah Wakeakeman. With all the

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work that you

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do, what is the mission that you are on?

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My mission is really to change the way

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people think about and understand

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alcohol and drug problems and also to

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give people the evidence and the facts

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both to understand addiction, which are

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sort of problems related to alcohol and

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drug use, but also to just understand

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the science around, for example, how

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much should you drink? Is drinking

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healthy? Is it not healthy? There's a

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lot of misinformation out there, and I

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want to give people the tools to make

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the right decision for them in their

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lives. And who who are you and what what

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is your sort of body of

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experience education? So I'm a medicine

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doctor by training. So I still do some

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general medicine like in the hospital

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take care of pneumonia and heart failure

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and in the outpatient setting take care

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of people's diabetes and um depression

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but I train especially in addiction

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medicine. So I'm board certified in

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addiction medicine and that's been kind

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of my life's work. I work in a big

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academic medical center in Boston,

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Massachusetts, where I would say my kind

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of focus professionally has been

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thinking about how do we bring addiction

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care back into the medical system so

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that it's not this separate and unequal

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and often very poorly done sort of

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siloed system, but actually just a part

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of the health care that people get. And

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then I train people so I'm um program

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director of our fellowship program. So I

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train doctors who want to be specialists

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in addiction medicine. When you think

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about how we treat addiction in the

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modern world, what are some of your

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gripes? Where are we going wrong? Oh,

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how much time do we have?

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Where do we begin? I mean, I think at

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its core, the biggest problem is that

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we've all been taught and sort of

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infused in this idea that addiction is

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an issue of behaving badly, that it's an

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issue of morality, that people really

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need to kind of knock it off and pull

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themselves up by their bootstraps, and

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that this is like a criminal legal

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issue, that um it's an issue of

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willpower. And so, if you believe those

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things, then why would you think that

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someone should get medical care or why

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would you treat them with compassion and

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kindness if you think that they're doing

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something wrong? And so really reframing

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how we think about addiction based on

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all of the science we have and what

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effective treatment looks like, which

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often is very different than what people

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may have experienced if they were trying

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to access care for themselves or a loved

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one. And what is an addiction? What what

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falls into the the bucket of addiction?

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You know, because I'm I use my iPad a

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lot. I use my phone a lot. Um is that is

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that an addiction? Yeah, it's a great

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question because we use that term

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colloially a lot. You know, I'm addicted

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to Netflix or whatever. Um, so addiction

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is really defined by use despite

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consequences. So continuing to do

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something in your life despite bad

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things happening to you because of it.

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So we talk of addiction, we talk of the

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four C's is a way to remember it. So one

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C is loss of control, meaning like

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you've tried to change and you haven't

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been able to. So you've tried to cut

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back or you've tried to stop and you

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couldn't. The other is compulsive use.

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So your use is like spiraling out of

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control that you're kind of using in a

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way that isn't really attached to your

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rational thinking. The next is

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consequence. So continued use despite

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negative consequences either in your

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life, your job, your relationships, your

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health. And then the last C is craving,

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which is this sort of strong

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psychological urge to want to use. Like

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you can't get the idea of having a drink

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out of your mind. And so it's really

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those four C's that we think about. And

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then we make the definition based on how

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many criteria people meet out of this 11

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list of different criteria. And then

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based on that, people can have a mild,

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use disorder, moderate, or severe. And

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so moderate, severe is really what we

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think of as addiction. But it's that use

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despite bad things happening to you. And

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what things are capable of being

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addictive? Yeah, lots of things. I mean,

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um, I focus mostly on alcohol and drugs.

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So, alcohol obviously probably most

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common. I think we'll talk about that a

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lot today, which I'm excited about. And

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certainly when we look worldwide, 400

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million people have an alcohol use

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disorder, meaning addiction alcohol.

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It's a lot of people. The other are

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drugs. So, that can be, you know,

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opioids like heroin or pain pills or

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fentanyl. can be cocaine or stimulants

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like methamphetamine or prescription

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stimulants, sedatives that people may

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take for anxiety like bzzoazipines,

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cannabis. And so there's a whole sort of

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range of substances that can be

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addictive and how addictive a substance

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is um is really related to sort of how

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much dopamine is released in the brain.

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I know you've had a wonderful episode

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with Dr. Lumpkkey about dopamine, so

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you've talked about that a bit. Um and

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there are different sort of addictive

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indices of different substances. So

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cannabis is less addictive than

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methamphetamine for example, but all of

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those substances can cause addiction in

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people. Even beyond that, I wonder

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sometimes in my life if I'm addicted to

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other things like I mean I drink coffee

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every day. Certainly get a craving to

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drink it now. Yeah. Well, there's, you

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know, a couple important pieces there.

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Is your coffee drinking causing harm in

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your life in any way? No. I think it's I

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think it helps. It may be helping you,

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right? Okay. So, it's not Yeah. So, it's

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not addiction. So, there's a difference

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between physiologic dependence, meaning

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like if you don't drink your cup of

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coffee, you're going to get a headache,

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and addiction, meaning that you're

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spending all your day and all your money

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buying more and more coffee. We don't

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really see this, but um buying more and

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more coffee despite, you know, your

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girlfriend nagging you about it and you

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you're late to work cuz you're

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purchasing coffee. We don't really see

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that so much with coffee, but that would

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be sort of addiction. And how big is the

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problem? So, if you were to frame like

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why should we care? Why should the

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person listening to this care? Because I

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imagine it's the case that many people

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here don't have an addiction that fits

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into the category of having severe

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consequence for their life. I also

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imagine some people are under the

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impression that addiction is something

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that happens to other people. Yeah. So c

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can you frame the situation for me and

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explain to me why we should all care

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about this and the I guess the scale of

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the impact it's having? Well, I

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guarantee that many people listening

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have been touched by addiction either

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personally or in their lives. Because of

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stigma, we tend not to talk about that.

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But the scale is huge. So globally 2.6

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million people every year die from

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alcohol-related causes. So that's 7,000

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people today will die from an

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alcohol-related death. Another 600,000

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people die from drugrelated deaths

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annually. So that's like 1,600 deaths

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today from drugrelated causes. And then

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when we look at the criteria of sort of

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meeting criteria for a substance use

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disorder or addiction, it's about 400

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million people worldwide for alcohol and

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80 million people for drug use. So it's

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incredibly common. If you think about

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alcohol, some studies estimate that the

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lifetime prevalence, meaning in over the

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course of your life, how likely are you

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to at some point develop alcohol

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addiction? Somewhere between 15 and 30%

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in some studies. So one in three people

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may have a problem with alcohol at some

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point in their life. So this touches all

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of us. We just don't talk about it

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because of stigma and because of these

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mental images of kind of othering that

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you know it's only those people who are

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injecting heroin who have addiction or

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that person who you know has the shakes

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every morning and is drinking as soon as

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they wake up who has a problem with

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alcohol. In which direction are we going

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in as a society? Are we getting better

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or are we getting more addicted? Yeah,

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great question. Um the pandemic was not

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kind to addiction. So we saw rates of

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alcohol and drug use and deaths related

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to those increase significantly after

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the onset of the COVID pandemic. Um that

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has started to level out. So for drug

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use related deaths, we're now back at

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the prepandemic levels. But there was a

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very significant increase during the

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time of the pandemic. And that's really

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not surprising when we think about what

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are the things that drive people to use

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alcohol or drugs in a problematic way. I

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was looking at some of the some of the

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life expectancy graphs and um this one

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in particular I found quite shocking.

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I'll throw it up on the screen but it

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shows that obviously you know we would

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expect that there was a drop in life

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expectancy during the pandemic but even

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when you compare it to other countries

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it's not as significant. So I'm

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wondering why in your view there was

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such a significant decline in life

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expectancy during the pandemic. Yeah. So

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um obviously COVID was one driver. One

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of the main other drivers was substance

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related deaths. So actually immediately

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following the onset of the pandemic, so

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beginning March, April of 2020, we saw a

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23% increase in alcohol-related

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mortality and we saw the highest rates

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ever we've seen of drugrelated overdose

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deaths. And that actually impacted US

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life expectancy up until this year. This

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is the first year that we've seen that

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change. at the essence of what's

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actually going on there because you know

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addiction is downstream from something

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else. Yeah. What is actually going on?

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Yeah. So that's a really great question

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like what drives people to use

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substances. It's actually probably the

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most important question even in my work.

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You know if you don't understand what

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someone's substance use is about or

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related to how are you ever going to

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address it or help them address it? Um

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so trauma is probably the single biggest

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driver. So, you know, you often hear

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things like cannabis is a gateway drug.

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I would say trauma is the gateway drug.

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If we look at many, many studies,

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they're kind of two different things

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that drive someone's risk of addiction.

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One is genetics. It's about 40 to 60%

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genetics, similar to diabetes in terms

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of someone's risk. That's not a done

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deal. Obviously, there are people with

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strong genetic risks who never develop

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addiction and people without that who

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do. The other half of the equation is

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based on kind of your exposures and your

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experiences. And one of the number one

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drivers is what we call adverse

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childhood experiences. So there are this

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famous study called the ACES study which

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is stands for adverse childhood

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experience and it's been replicated.

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There's a recent one done actually in

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Europe as well that looks at the number

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of adverse childhood experiences you

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have and it's a linear track increase in

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terms of your risk of substance use

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disorder. So if you think about what's

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happening in the brain with substances,

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you know, when we use alcohol or drugs,

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all sorts of feel-good hormones are

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released, right? dopamine, your

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indogenous opioid system, which is

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literally your natural pain reliever.

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And if you take someone who's

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experienced trauma, there's great relief

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that people can find in substance use.

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And so we saw that in the pandemic, like

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what was going on in the pandemic,

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people were scared, they were bored,

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they were lonely, they were stuck at

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home, they didn't have their usual

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routine, some people were losing people

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that they loved. And so we saw all of

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this escalating substance use. And it

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was actually most pronounced in people

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who are frontline workers. So that could

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be a healthcare provider. It could also

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be someone working in a grocery store or

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a convenience store who had to work

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through the scariest times of the

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pandemic. And also people who are

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caregivers. So those are kind of the two

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groups that had the biggest increase in

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their substance use during the pandemic.

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What is going on in the brain? You

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referenced it a little bit there. You

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referenced that dopamine makes you feel

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good. Um so you know very naively I

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would assume a case if you feel bad

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dopamine makes you feel good. You want

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more dopamine. But is it is it more

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complic complicated and nuanced than

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that? Yeah. Yeah. Well, alcohol is a

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really complicated one because alcohol

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has lots of different effects on the

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brain. Um, so any drug that can or

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substance that can cause addiction is

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going to release dopamine. That's sort

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of a primary driver of many things that

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we find rewarding whether it's sex or

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food or alcohol or drugs. But alcohol

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also so it binds to the part of our

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brain um a system called GABA which is

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sort of our anti-anxiety system. So it's

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the same system that anxiety medications

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like people may have heard of Adavan or

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larazzipam or Xanax. These medications

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that are kind of sedatives and anxiety

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meds, alcohol acts on that part of the

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brain and it actually then causes a

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release of your indogenous opioids in

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your brain. So like your brain's natural

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painkillers. So that's actually why one

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of the medications that's effective in

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helping people stop drink actually just

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blocks the opioid response in the brain,

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which doesn't make sense when you first

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hear about it until you understand these

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neural mechanisms that actually your

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sort of natural painkiller system is

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activated by drinking. So when you hear

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someone talk about alcohol gives them

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pain relief, whether that's emotional or

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physical, that's a very real thing.

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That's a powerful system in our brain um

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that gets activated when you're

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drinking. Ah okay. So, if I'm having a

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stressful time at work and work is

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making me anxious and um is crippling

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me, then I'm more likely to want to have

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a big blowout on the weekend because

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that's

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effectively a a pain medication.

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Totally. It's an anti-anxiety and a pain

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medication sort of allin-one, you know,

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and I think often this is part of the

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area where I think just getting more

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awareness and and education about

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alcohol is so important because we see

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that as a way of like treating

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ourselves, right? And and it's very easy

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to have that get out of control. And I

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think especially if in your head you

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think as long as I'm not like drinking

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in the morning or missing work because

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of drinking or you know having problems

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in my relationships I'm fine. But

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actually there's so many health problems

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and even life problems related to

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alcohol that people may make different

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decisions for themselves if they had

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that awareness earlier on. You know I

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was thinking about a friend of mine who

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is fairly well known um passed away from

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issues related to his addiction. Yeah.

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He had a lot of pressure on him when he

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was fairly young. He wasn't

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necessarily a a young child when he had

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a lot of pressure put on him, but he was

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young. And I was wondering as you

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said childhood

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experiences, what age that is? Yeah. Is

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there like a certain age where those

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experiences become, you know, if you

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experience a certain level of trauma at

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a certain age, it's harder um to recover

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from that and you're more likely to be

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addicted. Yeah. So, it's a great

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question. Trauma at any time can put you

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at risk for addiction. The earlier that

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happens, the more sort of long-lasting

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the impact can be. Um, so when we think

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about the brain, you know, your brain

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doesn't really fully form until early to

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mid20s. And so both in terms of trauma,

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but also in terms of early substance

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exposure, you're at much greater risk

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when you're younger, but that doesn't

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mean that trauma in later life doesn't

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um put you at risk for developing

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substance use as well. So I've seen

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people who, you know, their first trauma

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was in their 20s or 30s or 40s and they

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can still develop a substance use

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disorder. It's just the risk is even

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greater when you experience those

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adversities as a child. And the

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interesting thing is, you know, trauma

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is not so much about the experience.

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It's about often being left alone to

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grapple with that experience by

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yourself. And so what's traumatizing to

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one person may not be traumatizing to

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someone else. And you know, take the

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pandemic for example. I've talked to

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people who like being stuck at home and

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alone and bored was deeply traumatic.

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Other people were fine. They like were

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in their living room, you know, doing

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whatever and found ways to connect and

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to live their lives and did okay. It was

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the same experience, but it was

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experienced very differently by

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different people. So, it's less about

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the actual experience and more about the

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impact on that human, how they're left

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feeling. And often it's about feeling

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disconnected. Um, we often talk about

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the opposite of addiction is not

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sobriety, it's actually connection. It's

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how do you build that connection with

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other people again? My friend um that I

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was referencing is is Liam Payne who's

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from One Direction, the the boy band who

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passed away. and he was on my podcast

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and uh a few years before he passed away

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and on the show he said

16:34

that much of what made his early life so

16:38

difficult as a teenager was he was

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obviously thrust onto this big show and

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then the way it worked was you know got

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all this public spotlight and then

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they'd like put him up on a stage and

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he'd be in front of 100,000 people in

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Dubai and then they after that

16:52

experience he was then like driven back

16:53

to a hotel room and like locked in the

16:55

hotel room because obviously you can't

16:56

go out because you're you're that famous

16:57

that if you walk out on the street the

16:58

crowds are going emerge. So he was then

17:00

locked in that hotel room and on the

17:02

show he said I was locked in there with

17:04

the mini bar which is full of alcohol.

17:06

Yeah. So I would drink and that cycle

17:08

would repeat itself and he'd be like

17:09

stage you know car hotel locked drink

17:12

stage car and that cycle repeat itself.

17:14

So when you were talking about isolation

17:15

and loneliness as well I never really

17:18

considered the fact that connection and

17:19

social

17:21

um relationships could play a role in

17:23

help in creating an addiction in someone

17:25

but it it tracks totally. I mean, it

17:28

makes me think of a patient I saw this

17:29

week who really wants to stop drinking

17:30

and is able to go for a few weeks, but

17:33

his life is pretty empty. Like, he's not

17:35

working right now. He doesn't have a lot

17:36

of relationships. So, when he's not

17:38

drinking, he's sitting at home like

17:39

watching TV by himself. And it doesn't

17:42

take very long for him to think that

17:43

like, you know, the thing that's going

17:44

to give me relief is having a drink. And

17:46

so, then the question becomes less about

17:47

the molecule of alcohol and more about

17:49

like how do we fill up people's lives?

17:51

How do we form connection and build

17:53

community and build a sense of identity

17:55

and purpose and engagement outside of

17:57

the relief of substance use? You're

17:59

you're clearly extremely smart and when

18:01

I meet people like you, I always think

18:02

to myself, you could have committed your

18:04

life to anything. You could have you

18:06

could have worked in pretty much any

18:07

field and you would have been a success

18:08

because you have what it takes to be

18:10

successful. So, why do you care so much

18:12

about this? Yeah. Um, I think like many

18:16

people, I had kind of a personal thread.

18:18

I um had a family member who was

18:20

impacted by addiction who actually died

18:21

when I was in medical school. And so

18:23

that was a sort of a pivotal moment I

18:26

think that coming at the same time that

18:27

I was learning all of this science, I

18:29

was realizing like, wow, I wish I'd

18:30

known this when I was younger and

18:33

dealing with family members and friends

18:34

who were affected by this and that we've

18:36

gotten it so wrong and most people don't

18:38

have the kind of tools and knowledge to

18:40

do things differently. And so, you know,

18:42

you sort of there's that saying when you

18:43

know better, you do better. And I think

18:45

I kind of wanted to put out into the

18:46

world what I wished was there for other

18:47

people. An immediate family member. Mhm.

18:50

And what age were you when you lost that

18:51

person?

18:53

Probably 24 or so from addiction. Yep.

18:58

When you're dealing with a family member

19:00

or someone close to you that has an

19:04

addiction. So many people listening will

19:06

be able to relate to that feeling. Yeah.

19:07

Can you can you describe that what they

19:10

feel to in I guess in attempt to make

19:12

them feel seen because sometimes

19:15

especially in hindsight if you end up

19:16

losing that person you can be filled

19:18

with lots of feelings of guilt or

19:20

misunderstanding and especially thinking

19:21

about how society's moved on. So how do

19:24

you put into words how it feels to be a

19:26

family member with someone dealing with

19:27

addiction? Yeah, I think you feel

19:29

powerless. You feel like you want to do

19:32

something and you either don't know what

19:33

to do or feel like everything you've

19:34

tried hasn't worked. Um, I think again

19:36

because people have been exposed to this

19:38

idea that it's an issue of willpower or

19:40

choice, which really implies that if

19:41

people wanted it bad enough, they could

19:43

just stop. And so if you're a family

19:45

member, then that's easy to feel like,

19:47

oh, they don't love me enough, you know,

19:49

that they're not choosing me over this

19:51

substance. And so I think often people

19:53

feel deeply hurt and they've, you know,

19:55

been through experiences that have

19:56

created trauma for themselves. There's a

19:58

lot of trauma within families who are

19:59

experiencing this. And then they're

20:01

sometimes given really bad advice, you

20:03

know, that you have to like kick someone

20:04

out or this whole concept of kind of

20:07

tough love and that people need to hit

20:08

bottom. And so sometimes people, you

20:11

know, either do that and then wrestle

20:12

with the guilt of was that the right

20:14

thing or not or they feel bad even like

20:16

being kind or loving to their family

20:18

member. So I think there's a whole mix

20:20

of feelings and of course if you lose

20:22

someone you always wonder what if like

20:23

could I have done something differently?

20:25

Could something else have changed? And I

20:27

think people can feel angry and sad and

20:28

guilty and be left with that. What did

20:32

those people in your life need that you

20:33

lost

20:35

that they didn't get? I think they

20:36

needed science-based treatment and

20:39

compassion and empathy and um and I

20:43

think they needed a world where

20:44

addiction was not seen as something to

20:46

be ashamed of or something that we judge

20:48

but rather something that is a problem.

20:51

You know, the shift from like you are

20:52

the problem to like you have a problem

20:54

and we can help you with this. And I

20:56

think too often we have approached it as

20:57

if like you the person are the problem.

21:00

Do you sometimes think back and think

21:01

you know if if

21:04

id done something differently whether it

21:07

was you or someone else around you or

21:08

the system around that individual they

21:11

would still be here today. Cuz I think

21:12

that was the first thing that sprung to

21:14

mind. I played back all the decisions

21:15

that I made and I thought okay maybe

21:18

that was bad advice that I was given.

21:19

Maybe I should have been you know maybe

21:21

I could have called more. Maybe I could

21:22

have intervened here. Maybe, you know,

21:25

maybe there's something else I could

21:26

have done. Absolutely. I mean, I think

21:29

about that all the time. And um, you

21:31

know, I think I think of a friend, I

21:32

lost overdose. I think of the family

21:33

member, I lost alcohol. And not only

21:36

things that I could have done

21:37

differently, but also, you know, those

21:39

people, they they saw their doctor, they

21:41

were in the hospital, they had all these

21:43

touch points, all of these like

21:44

reachable moments where someone could

21:46

have engaged with them and offered them

21:48

kindness and actual effective care

21:51

that's backed by science. And and they

21:52

weren't. And so there are all of these

21:54

like missed moments and missed

21:55

opportunities. But the other thing I

21:57

think about is like how much time I lost

21:59

with them because I think often in this

22:02

model of like tough love and kicking

22:04

people out or thinking like I'm not

22:06

going to see you until you stop using or

22:08

stop drinking because I think that's

22:10

going to help make them make that

22:11

change. You lose out on like all of

22:13

these moments of time with people that

22:15

you love and you you can't get those

22:16

back. And so there is this problem I

22:20

think in that binary model of like

22:22

you're either like sober in recovery or

22:24

you're actively using and this is good

22:25

and that is bad is that we lose the fact

22:29

that like people who are struggling with

22:30

addiction are amazing funny loving

22:33

people who have a problem that they're

22:34

dealing with. But if someone was dealing

22:36

with cancer, you wouldn't like not want

22:38

to spend time with them. You know, you

22:39

miss all of that time. And you know, the

22:42

both cases that I'm thinking about it,

22:43

like I'll never get that back. You know,

22:47

there's a phrase I had many years ago

22:48

which I'm now reconsidering, which is um

22:51

change happens when the pain of staying

22:52

the same becomes greater than the pain

22:54

of making a change. And that kind of

22:57

dovetales into this idea that someone

22:59

needs to hit their own rock bottom for

23:00

them to change. I think the part the

23:02

reason why that idea prevails is because

23:04

we hear so many stories. I hear them on

23:05

this podcast of someone's family

23:07

rejecting them, throwing them out on the

23:09

street and then them having that Eureka

23:11

moment that [ __ ] I need to change my

23:13

life. And people always reference that

23:15

like rock bottom moment where they took

23:16

action because you know they were at the

23:19

very bottom of the well. And um how does

23:22

that phrase sit with you? Change happens

23:24

when the pain of making a change becomes

23:25

greater than the pain of making a

23:27

change. I think that there are those

23:29

times for sure. It's not to discount

23:31

that and I hear those stories too. But I

23:33

think there are um from evidence what we

23:37

know there are probably more times where

23:39

people just endure the pain again and

23:41

again again until they never change. And

23:43

I think the part that we don't see are

23:45

are the folks who change happens when

23:48

they begin to get enough hope that

23:50

things could be better for them. That

23:52

you know someone loves them someone

23:54

cares enough that they're reaching out a

23:55

hand in the darkness that there actually

23:56

is a path forward. I think people stay

23:58

stuck when they feel hopeless, when they

24:00

feel like nothing could ever, that

24:02

they're never going to get this, they're

24:03

never going to be able to change, their

24:05

life would never get better. And so, you

24:07

know, take the example I'll often hear

24:09

from family members when their loved one

24:11

is in jail that they're like, "Thank

24:13

heavens." You know, they're they're in a

24:14

safe place at least like there's

24:16

actually this sense of relief. There's

24:17

even a term for it called a rescued that

24:19

people feel. I think it just goes to the

24:21

desperation that families are dealing

24:23

with, but this idea that like that's a

24:25

safe intervention. And you hear these

24:26

stories, right, of someone who they get

24:28

locked up and like that's their Eureka

24:29

moment. And yet, if imprisonment were an

24:33

effective intervention for addiction,

24:35

for example, we wouldn't see that

24:37

actually the time after getting released

24:39

from prison, there's 130 times increased

24:41

risk of dying from a drugrelated cause

24:44

after people leave prison. And that your

24:46

risk of dying ever from addiction is

24:48

much much higher if you've ever been

24:49

imprisoned. And so I think there are

24:51

those stories, but we tend to elevate

24:52

those like amazing narratives and we

24:54

miss the fact that so many other people

24:56

are going to die in pain and alone and

24:58

isolated because they have no hope. And

25:00

so it's not to discount those moments.

25:02

And some people are incredibly resilient

25:05

and against all odds even with the most

25:07

trauma they can, you know, make it

25:09

through and that's incredible. But that

25:12

doesn't mean that we should like create

25:13

a system that makes it as hard as

25:15

possible on people. So would you say

25:17

that if we are trying to help someone

25:19

change really it's about hope it's about

25:22

the strength of their why and it's about

25:24

love and empathy and connection

25:25

absolutely is there anything else

25:26

missing and it's about effective

25:28

treatment and treatment

25:31

okay which is subjective right which

25:33

could be depending on the situation

25:35

they're in it depends on the type of

25:36

addiction and their situation but in

25:38

most cases is some combination of

25:40

psychotherapy medication

25:43

so alcohol yes there's I I mean,

25:46

alcohol's been on a journey. Yes. It's

25:48

been on a journey in terms of society's

25:50

opinion about it. Mhm. Can you take me

25:52

on that journey and tell me where we are

25:54

now and and in ter when I'm saying that,

25:56

I'm talking about society's opinion on

25:58

its health benefits and what it is and

26:00

and then and then also what we're

26:02

getting wrong now about alcohol. Yeah.

26:04

Yeah. Um, so I mean the journey of

26:06

alcohol is fascinating. So, first I

26:08

think we think of this as a relatively

26:09

modern thing, but you know,

26:10

archaeologists have discovered like beer

26:12

making equipment in hunter gatherers

26:14

cave dwellings from 13,000 years ago.

26:17

That's wild. Like 13,000 years of people

26:20

figuring out how to make beer. You know,

26:22

you look at China 9,000 years ago, it

26:24

was really about like a spiritual

26:26

journey or a social thing. It was never

26:28

really about health. At some point, we

26:29

started talking about this as something

26:30

that is good for your health. Like drink

26:32

red wine. It's going to improve your

26:34

health. And that's where I think we got

26:36

wrong. And the reason why was actually

26:38

from how we were looking at the data. So

26:40

first if you look at only one health

26:42

condition, there are some health

26:43

conditions where a moderate amount of

26:45

alcohol actually improves your health.

26:46

But it was also how people were

26:48

conducting the studies. So in most of

26:49

those studies, what people do is they

26:50

take like a massive population, tens of

26:53

thousands of people, where we have some

26:54

data where they're reporting how much

26:56

alcohol they used. And then we look at

26:57

health risks over time. And scientists

26:59

would lump people into sort of

27:01

non-drinkers versus light drinkers,

27:03

moderate drinkers, or heavy drinkers.

27:05

And what they were finding is that

27:06

people who were drinking in the even up

27:07

to the moderate level were actually

27:09

doing better than the people who weren't

27:10

drinking at all. And so that was where

27:12

that um concept that drinking is good

27:14

for your health came from. And so people

27:16

talk about this like J-shaped curve,

27:17

meaning that moderate drinkers actually

27:20

have lower risks of health problems. And

27:22

then it's really only when you start

27:23

drinking very high levels that you start

27:25

having more risk of health problems than

27:26

people who don't drink at all. What they

27:28

realize is wrong with that is that in

27:30

the people who don't drink at all, many

27:32

of those people are not drinking because

27:33

they're actually really unhealthy for

27:34

another reason. Like they might have

27:36

heart failure and they like don't want

27:38

to drink because they don't want it to

27:38

mix with their medication or they might

27:40

have had a history of alcohol use

27:41

disorder and they're actually in

27:42

recovery. So they've already had some

27:44

damage from alcohol and they're not

27:46

drinking because of that. And so when

27:48

you change the reference group, you

27:49

actually make the the sort of group that

27:51

you compare people to to people who very

27:53

rarely drink. So, it's not that they're

27:54

not drinkers at all, but they drink, you

27:56

know, very very light levels. Then you

27:59

start to see that those like health

28:00

benefits of alcohol go away, especially

28:03

if you look across all conditions. Are

28:05

you telling me that there's no healthy

28:08

level of alcohol consumption? Yes. I

28:10

would never say drinking alcohol is good

28:12

for your health. That doesn't mean that

28:15

drinking at what we call low-risk levels

28:17

can't be a part of a healthy lifestyle.

28:19

So, it's a slight slight shift that like

28:21

don't fool yourself into thinking that

28:23

drinking that glass of wine is like

28:24

going to exercise for 30 minutes. Like,

28:26

it's not something that's going to

28:27

promote your health. I think of it more

28:29

like having dessert, eating bacon, going

28:32

out in the sun. There are risks

28:33

associated with all those activities. It

28:34

doesn't mean that I would say you can

28:36

never do any of that, but you need to

28:37

understand what the risks are and then

28:39

make choices for yourself. Say look at

28:41

this glass of wine here and this pint of

28:44

beer. Yep. If I drank one of these a

28:47

day, not a huge amount, um I think what

28:50

people tend to think is they think,

28:51

well, it's only one, so my body will

28:53

just flush it out and there'll be no

28:55

adverse health consequences.

28:57

Yep. I Is that true? Well, so part of

29:01

the challenge is what we think of as one

29:02

drink. So I think um much like, you

29:04

know, if you learn to re read the

29:06

serving size on a food, you realize that

29:08

like, oh, a serving of ice cream is like

29:09

a half a scoop. It's not like a giant

29:12

ice cream sundae. The same is true with

29:14

alcohol. So um in the UK the kind of

29:17

low-risisk drinking limits talk about

29:18

units of alcohol which is the equivalent

29:20

of 8 grams of alcohol. So how much of a

29:23

drink has eight grams of alcohol and to

29:25

be in that lowrisk category you have to

29:27

be below 14 units. The problem is that

29:29

glass of wine just eyeballing it has

29:32

several units of alcohol. So it is not a

29:34

even though we think of it as a single

29:36

drink it's probably I mean I have to

29:38

guess but it's probably like three units

29:40

of alcohol. So, if I have a glass of

29:43

wine every day, I'd be over that limit.

29:45

Then you'd be right at that limit. The

29:47

problem is most people don't drink just

29:49

one glass. If you um you know, you have

29:52

two glasses one day and then one glass

29:54

one day and then three glasses one day

29:55

cuz you're at a social function. All of

29:56

a sudden, you're actually quite a lot

29:58

over that limit. So, if you said that

29:59

this this is roughly three units roughly

30:02

and you get 14 a week. You get 14 a

30:04

week. Mhm. So, 3 * 7. Mhm. 21. Yep. So,

30:08

yes, you're over if you're drinking that

30:09

size. Yep. Okay. Okay. So, if I have

30:11

this glass of wine every day, then I'd

30:14

be over the UK limit of lower risk

30:17

drinking. Lower risk drinking. So, I'd

30:18

be medium risk drinking. You'd be in

30:20

what we call moderate risk, which is

30:22

associated with pretty much every form

30:23

of cancer, which I think people don't

30:26

know.

30:28

Okay. Cuz I was wondering why cancer has

30:31

been increasing. Yes. A variety of

30:33

different forms of cancer increasing.

30:35

You know, breast cancer is one of the

30:36

ones we always hear about that's

30:37

increasing.

30:38

So you're saying what is the data in

30:40

terms of low or moderate risk of

30:43

drinking and cancer? Yeah. So the data

30:47

is um growing and really worrisome. So

30:49

for breast cancer so there's really

30:51

there's a few cancers that even at low

30:54

risk limits you see the risk begin to

30:56

increase. So where we would say there's

30:57

kind of no healthy or there's no even

30:59

like low risk amount. So breast and

31:01

esophageal cancer are two examples of

31:03

that. So breast cancer if you were to

31:04

drink um below those low risk limits. So

31:07

in the US that would be fewer than seven

31:09

drinks but a drink in the US is 5 ounces

31:12

of wine which is smaller than that or in

31:14

the UK is below that 14 units. So it

31:16

would be you know fewer than seven of

31:17

that that size glass of wine. We still

31:20

see a slight increase in the risk of

31:21

breast cancer. It's about a 5% increase.

31:23

So that means your risk of breast cancer

31:25

would increase by about 5%. Now that's

31:27

not huge. So I think you know percent

31:29

increase is kind of hard to do the math

31:31

on but if you think in the US for

31:32

example the average woman has a 13%

31:35

likelihood of getting breast cancer in

31:36

their lifespan. 13% likelihood. Really?

31:40

Yeah. Wow. Really high. So 5% increase

31:42

would increase that to like 13.6 or so.

31:45

So that means that if there's nine women

31:48

in this room Yeah. one of them has is

31:52

going to get breast cancer

31:53

probabilistically in their life. Yep.

31:56

Damn. Yeah. Why is it is it and it's

31:59

increasing. Yeah. And so the reasons for

32:01

that are likely environmental because

32:02

your genes don't change over that time

32:04

period. So the risk factors, you know,

32:06

if you think about breast cancer, it's

32:07

alcohol, it's obesity, um it's, you

32:10

know, age when you have children or

32:12

don't have children because it's a

32:13

really hormonally driven cancer. Same

32:15

thing if you think about colon cancer,

32:16

that's a really scary one where we're

32:18

seeing more and more cases in younger

32:19

people. Some of the drivers of that

32:22

eating meat. So processed meats increase

32:24

your risk of colon cancer. So, you know,

32:26

these very sort of normal behaviors.

32:28

There's probably other environmental

32:30

things honestly that we're not yet

32:32

measuring or able to measure just given

32:34

the rate of acceleration. When I talk to

32:36

my colleagues who are oncologists, you

32:38

know, things like plastics or other

32:40

things that we don't yet know, there's

32:41

um it's clearly something in the

32:43

environment that is driving these

32:44

increased cancer risks. So, even at even

32:47

at this sort of level, if I'm drinking

32:50

that might be one unit, right? Yes. So,

32:52

that would be one unit. So, that would

32:53

be fewer than 14 of that. So you could

32:55

see like an, you know, if you had double

32:58

that, it would be a decent pour of wine.

33:00

You could not have more than seven of

33:01

those in a week to be in low risk. But

33:03

even drinking that amount, your risk of

33:05

breast cancer would go up a little bit.

33:06

Even this amount. Mhm. There's really

33:08

sort of no safe amount of alcohol when

33:11

when it comes to breast cancer. Is it

33:13

just breast cancer? So that lowrisk

33:17

category. So when we these big cancer

33:18

studies categorize people as sort of low

33:21

risk or light drinkers, moderate or

33:23

heavy. And for pretty much every cancer,

33:26

once you get to the moderate category,

33:27

we start seeing increases. And there's

33:29

what we call a dose response

33:30

relationship. So the more you drink, the

33:32

higher your risk of cancer. There's only

33:34

a few cancers that the risk seems to

33:35

increase even at that very low level.

33:37

And breast cancer is one of those. And

33:38

then esophageal cancer is one of those.

33:41

So there are certain cancers where even

33:43

a small amount of alcohol will increase

33:44

your risk. Does it have an impact on

33:47

thinking about cancers that are

33:49

prominent in men? Yeah. Um, so colon

33:52

cancer, we're seeing that in a lot of

33:53

young men. Um, liver cancer, yeah,

33:56

prostate cancer, which is obviously a

33:58

male cancer, we don't think of as much

33:59

as being sort of an alcohol sensitive

34:01

cancer, but most cancers, because the

34:04

way alcohol impacts your risk of cancer,

34:05

is not really on a specific organ

34:07

outside of the liver. It's really about

34:09

how it changes our DNA. So, it's about

34:11

inflammation and what are called

34:13

reactive oxygen um species that sort of

34:15

change our cells and increase the risk

34:18

over time of the mutations that lead to

34:19

cancer. So yeah, can you drill down on

34:21

that? So if I if I'm a heavy drinker, so

34:23

say that I'm drinking

34:25

uh let's say I'm drinking two glasses of

34:27

wine a day consistently, which I guess

34:29

would cons like if I was drinking if you

34:31

drink two of those glasses. Yeah, you'd

34:32

be in the heavy category. So two of

34:34

those a day puts me in the heavy drink

34:35

category, which would surprise most

34:37

people, right? Like that for many people

34:40

is very normal. It is very normal. Yeah,

34:43

I think it's some somewhat more

34:44

difficult for younger people to

34:46

understand because younger people drink

34:47

less. But if I think about the

34:49

generation above me, having two glasses

34:51

of wine a day is quite normal after work

34:54

on the weekends with with every meal

34:55

that you have. So that would make me a

34:57

heavy drinker. And then what are my what

35:00

are the stats saying in terms of my

35:02

cancer uh risk profile? Yeah. So it

35:05

varies by cancer, but roughly we're

35:07

talking like a 40% increase in cancer

35:09

depending on the cancer type. And the

35:11

more you drink, the more that's going to

35:12

go up. So you know these are scientific

35:14

studies where it's not precise to you as

35:16

an individual. They're based on large

35:17

populations, but definitely the more you

35:20

drink, the greater the risk. And then if

35:21

I have other sort of do they call them

35:24

comorbidities? Yeah, exactly. So other

35:26

illnesses, other diseases in my body, my

35:28

probability is going to go up further

35:29

from obese some if I'm overweight.

35:31

Exactly. If you smoke. So one of the

35:33

main drivers of alcohol too and cancer

35:35

is that it actually makes you more

35:37

susceptible to the cancer-causing

35:38

effects of tobacco. So if you drink and

35:40

smoke, your risk of cancer is going to

35:42

be even higher.

35:44

How does that work? The thought is like

35:46

if you take esophageal cancer at like

35:48

the cellular level, it makes you um more

35:51

susceptible of the carcinogens which are

35:52

kind of the cancer-causing compounds in

35:54

tobacco. And so rather than just seeing

35:56

like an additive risk, you actually

35:58

almost get a multiplied risk in terms of

35:59

the risk of cancer. So smoking and then

36:02

obesity is the other big one. So a lot

36:04

of um cancers your risk goes up if

36:06

you're if you're you know have an

36:08

increase in your body mass. What's going

36:09

on in the body then? If I drink alcohol,

36:12

how is that leading to cancer? You

36:13

referenced it slightly there, but I'm

36:15

trying to I want to make sure I'm super

36:16

clear of my brain as to like what the

36:17

the the knock-on effects are and how

36:20

that ends up as cancer. Yeah. I mean,

36:22

there's lots of different mechanisms.

36:24

So, I mean, maybe starting just with

36:25

like what does alcohol do in your body?

36:26

So, you ingest alcohol. The like fancy

36:29

name for that is ethanol. It's a

36:31

molecule and it basically gets absorbed

36:33

pretty quickly from your stomach. And

36:35

so, you know, it hits your bloodstream

36:36

usually within 10 minutes or so of

36:38

having a drink. Um, how much it hits

36:40

your bloodstream depends on how much

36:41

water you have in your body. So alcohol

36:43

doesn't penetrate into your fat. It just

36:45

kind of diffuses into the water parts of

36:47

your body. So that's actually why for

36:48

many women, they will get more sort of

36:51

drunk or more of an effect from alcohol

36:52

at a lower level than men because women

36:54

have more body fat than men. But that's

36:56

going to depend on you as an individual.

36:57

If you have more body fat, you're going

36:58

to have a different impact. So alcohol

37:00

gets in your bloodstream. Alcohol can

37:02

instantly cross across what we call your

37:04

bloodb brain barrier. So it impacts your

37:06

brain instantly and that's where you

37:07

feel the initially pleasurable effects

37:09

for many people of feeling a little

37:11

relaxed, feeling more social, feeling a

37:13

little bit, you know, less anxiety. If

37:16

you keep drinking and that level keeps

37:17

going up, then you start having impaired

37:19

judgment. You might have motor lack of

37:22

motor coordination. So we've all seen

37:23

this and many people have probably

37:25

experienced it. You know, you may be

37:26

stumbling, not able to drive safely.

37:29

You're not going to make the same

37:30

decisions you would make if you weren't

37:32

drinking. And then if you keep drinking

37:33

then you get you can actually lose

37:35

consciousness so pass out and people

37:36

have experienced that your body is going

37:38

to try to break down alcohol as quickly

37:40

as it's able to like anything we want to

37:42

kind of excrete any abnormality and get

37:44

back to our normal functioning and so

37:45

that process happens mostly in your

37:47

liver which is why the liver is so

37:48

sensitive to alcohol because your body

37:50

sees ethanol as poison. Yes. I mean you

37:54

know I know you talked about this Dr.

37:55

Lumpy but your body always wants to

37:56

restore what's called homeostasis.

37:58

You're always your body's always going

37:59

to fight to get back to what it feels

38:01

its normal is. And so ethanol is not

38:03

something that belongs in your

38:04

bloodstream. Your body's going to try to

38:05

excrete it as fast as it can and then it

38:08

converts it into something called

38:09

acetate and then you can pee that out

38:10

and breathe that out and get rid of it.

38:13

So to eliminate the alcohol in your

38:14

body, you have to go through this

38:16

process and part of that process

38:17

includes this toxic molecule that's

38:19

going to be floating around and causing

38:21

damage to your cells. So that's one way

38:23

that alcohol can cause cancer. The other

38:26

is um just general sort of inflammation.

38:28

People have probably heard that

38:29

inflammation is just not good for the

38:31

body and increases the risk of cancer

38:33

and o um alcohol generates a lot of that

38:36

inflammation in the process of getting

38:37

eliminated and so it can actually change

38:39

your cells that over time that can lead

38:41

to cancer. So I also found this graph

38:45

which shows for anyone that can't see

38:46

what we're describing at the moment. It

38:48

shows the acceleration in liver disease

38:50

uh death rates and general li liver

38:52

disease compared to other parts of the

38:55

body. Yeah. Other organs in the body. I

38:56

believe it shows y what impact does

38:58

alcohol have on the liver and we have

39:00

our little mannequin here of the human

39:02

body. Where is the liver? Yeah, great

39:04

question. So here's um our little

39:06

mannequin. So just to orient people to

39:08

the body. So we're looking at the inside

39:10

of the body. So like the ribs are gone,

39:11

the outside of the skin is gone. These

39:13

two pink things are the lungs. They kind

39:15

of encase the heart. You can see the

39:16

hearts behind the lungs pumping your

39:18

blood. The liver is this brownish organ.

39:21

It's on the right side of your body,

39:22

right under your ribs. It's quite large

39:24

and it's big. An amazing organ. It is

39:26

quite big. It processes much of what any

39:30

kind of toxins that we take in, things

39:33

that we eat, your glucose, alcohol, 90%

39:37

of it's metabolized by the liver. So the

39:39

liver is sort of the clearing house,

39:40

getting rid of byproducts in your body.

39:43

The other are the kidneys, but the liver

39:45

plays a huge role, especially in

39:46

alcohol. So, it sits right here. It

39:48

almost looks like it's as big as the

39:49

lung as one lung. Yeah. Yeah, it is.

39:51

Yeah. Really? Yeah. It's a giant organ

39:54

and it's an amazing organ. So, you could

39:55

actually cut out 80% of the liver and it

39:58

would regrow itself. So, kind of like

40:00

you know those lizards that you cut off

40:01

their tail and they regenerate a tail.

40:03

The liver is fascinating. It's why we

40:05

can do living liver um transplant. So, I

40:07

could take half of your liver and give

40:09

it to someone who needed a liver. you

40:11

would still be able to live and they

40:12

would get a second chance at life from

40:14

that part of your liver. So, it's this

40:16

really cool organ that can regenerate,

40:18

but it can only regenerate up to a

40:20

point. So, once you get to a level where

40:22

you have a lot of scar tissue in your

40:23

liver, we call that cerosis. Um, you

40:26

sort of reach a point of no return where

40:28

at that point the liver can't heal

40:29

itself. So, I sort of think of it like

40:31

to use a baking analogy. If you're

40:33

making muffins or a cake, you're going

40:36

along, you're mixing all your

40:37

ingredients, and you realize before you

40:39

put things in the oven like, "Oh, I

40:40

forgot the eggs." You can still add the

40:41

eggs in and like whisk it all together

40:43

and it's going to be okay. If the

40:44

muffins are baking in the oven and you

40:46

forgot the eggs, you can't like pour the

40:47

eggs on top and make the batter the

40:49

same. And the liver is sort of like that

40:50

that up to a certain degree, you can

40:52

actually completely repair the effects

40:55

of things like alcohol or obesity, other

40:58

things. But once you pass that point

41:00

into scar tissue, the liver can't

41:02

regenerate anymore. And so when you

41:04

think about that graph or just the

41:05

rising rates of liver disease, um the

41:08

the main drivers of liver disease are

41:10

obesity and two is alcohol. And so those

41:13

are the leading causes of of liver

41:15

transplant. And the thing that is, you

41:17

know, so sad is I mean I see this all

41:20

the time working in the hospital is

41:21

first of all, we're seeing younger and

41:23

younger people coming in in liver

41:24

failure. So people in their 20s coming

41:27

in in fulminant liver failure from

41:29

alcohol and then dying in the hospital.

41:32

And the terrible thing is that they

41:33

often didn't even know that this was

41:35

causing a problem in their health. And

41:36

by the time they get to the hospital,

41:37

they're so sick it's too late. And yet

41:40

all of that could have been prevented or

41:41

even repaired if it was caught sooner.

41:43

And so that's where I think this

41:45

education of understanding like what

41:47

really are the health harms of alcohol

41:48

and that we have normalized binge

41:50

drinking in many occasions, especially

41:52

in young people, as being totally

41:53

normal. and yet there are very serious

41:55

health consequences.

41:57

So, I've got a bunch of questions around

41:59

around the liver. Um, does that mean

42:01

that my liver can take a bit of a

42:03

beating before there's any real

42:05

problems? Should I, you know, some

42:06

someone like me, I don't drink alcohol,

42:08

I'm not engaging in anything too bad,

42:10

but sometimes I do wonder if I could

42:12

have like a blowout weekend and then my

42:14

liver would just recover to normal again

42:16

and I'd be fine. Yeah. I mean, so first,

42:18

every person is different. One blowout

42:20

weekend, you probably would be fine.

42:21

Anyone would probably be fine. The

42:23

challenge is one blowout weekend then

42:25

leads to like multiple blowout weekends

42:26

and then over time that can actually

42:28

accelerate the damage to your liver. The

42:31

up you said that my my liver regenerates

42:33

though. So I'm thinking this thing will

42:34

just pop back to normal again. As long

42:36

as you haven't gotten to that scarring

42:37

phase. So once you get too far down that

42:39

path even if you were to stop drinking

42:41

your liver won't recover. The hard thing

42:43

is that that we don't totally understand

42:46

who and why that happened so young to.

42:48

So, this is an active area investigation

42:50

because there are people who've been

42:51

drinking for 60 years and their livers

42:54

don't show signs of scarring. And then

42:55

we're seeing these young people at 25

42:57

who come in and die in the hospital. And

42:59

so, there are individual factors that

43:01

you don't have any way of knowing that

43:03

are going to impact your risk of

43:04

developing liver inflammation and scar

43:06

tissue. And so, the safest way to

43:08

prevent that is to not drink in these

43:10

really high ways that we know are going

43:11

to lead to harm. The other way is to get

43:13

medical care because often we do detect

43:16

these things through blood tests and we

43:17

can do ultrasounds and when we see those

43:19

early phases. So what happens first is

43:22

you actually get fat deposition in your

43:23

liver. That's the first step and then we

43:26

see inflammation and fatty liver and if

43:29

you don't stop the thing that's driving

43:30

those changes over time we see the

43:32

development of what's called fibrosis

43:34

which is like scar tissue. And then that

43:36

scar tissue gets more and more advanced

43:38

to the point that your liver stops

43:39

functioning and you either die or you

43:40

need a liver transplant. What activities

43:43

outside of alcohol cause great stress on

43:45

our liver that we might not see as

43:47

obvious? Yeah. Um so obesity. Um so food

43:51

does. Yeah. Food. So your liver is very

43:53

involved in glucose metabolism. Um so so

43:57

our diet and our body weight impact our

43:59

liver health. Um the other medications.

44:01

So um acetaminophen or Tylenol, which is

44:04

a very common over-the-counter pain

44:06

reliever, um above a certain threshold

44:08

can cause serious liver damage. So

44:11

sometimes you'll see cases where someone

44:12

didn't realize that like their cold

44:13

medicine plus the Tylenol they were

44:16

taking both had that ingredient and then

44:17

they go out and drink heavily and that

44:19

kind of combination effect can cause

44:20

liver damage. How

44:23

much do you think this might be a bit of

44:25

a strange bit of an an unclear question

44:28

but how much alcohol is going to cause

44:30

liver damage? So again it varies person

44:32

to person for liver damage it does tend

44:34

to be the moderate to higher amounts

44:36

that cause damage. Um, one thing is that

44:40

you know that having these big surges,

44:41

like these massive binge episodes, is

44:44

probably more harmful than drinking like

44:45

at a moderate level for a long period of

44:47

time. Those like big surges cause a big

44:50

buildup of that toxic byproduct that

44:52

your body has to clear. And so, you

44:55

know, if you have several years of binge

44:58

drinking heavily, that actually probably

44:59

is going to cause more damage than a

45:01

longer period of time of just drinking

45:02

above the risk limits. So really trying

45:05

to minimize and avoid those very heavy

45:07

drinking episodes is incredibly

45:08

important and then keeping it to those

45:10

low-risisk guidelines which we just

45:12

learned are kind of eye opening and and

45:14

how low risk they are is going to reduce

45:15

the risk of liver damage. And does

45:17

alcohol just impact the liver? No. I

45:20

mean alcohol has effects across our

45:22

body. So many parts of the body can be

45:25

affected by alcohol. So kind of starting

45:26

from the top your brain and we can look

45:28

at this with pictures like an MRI. Oh,

45:30

I've got one actually. Yeah. I think

45:32

this is, by the way, shocking. Yes. To

45:35

me. So, when we do an MRI of someone's

45:38

brain, um, we basically, this is like a

45:40

cross slice. So, it's almost like you're

45:41

you're facing me and I'm cutting your

45:43

face off and looking at your brain

45:45

onwards. Um, healthy brain tissue is the

45:47

gray and white matter. And you want it

45:48

to be as plump and like taking up as

45:51

much space as possible because that's

45:52

where all of your brain activity is.

45:54

When people get really old or have

45:56

dementia, one thing we see is more and

45:58

more the black space is essentially

46:00

water. So we see the brain starts

46:01

shrinking and shrinking and there's more

46:03

water and less active healthy brain

46:05

tissue. That process is accelerated with

46:07

heavy alcohol use. And so you can see

46:09

here, this is a 43-year-old person with

46:11

severe alcohol use disorder where their

46:13

brain looks the way, you know, a

46:14

90-year-old with dementia would look

46:16

because of that um brain damage over

46:18

time from alcohol use. And so we can

46:20

actually a form of dementia is related

46:22

to alcohol use. And so your brain can be

46:24

hugely impacted with alcohol. What is

46:27

going on there? like what's causing the

46:29

brain to deteriorate in such a way

46:31

because of alcohol. Yeah. Well, um

46:32

remember I said um ethanol which is the

46:34

molecule crosses the bloodb brain

46:36

barrier and so especially when you're

46:38

having these high levels of blood

46:40

alcohol that ethanol is sort of bathing

46:42

your brain and if you think about what

46:45

we talked about inflammation and changes

46:46

to cells and to DNA and proteins that is

46:49

happening at the brain level. The other

46:51

thing that can cause accelerate the

46:52

brain damage we see with alcohol is

46:54

actually nutritional deficiencies. So

46:56

people may be drinking a lot and they're

46:57

actually not getting really crucial

46:59

nutrients in their diet and that can

47:01

accelerate the process of brain damage.

47:03

We can even see a very like sudden onset

47:06

amnesia from heavy alcohol use in the in

47:09

the setting of not getting enough

47:10

nutrients in your diet.

47:12

Okay, so that's the brain. That's the

47:14

brain. So the brain for sure. The next

47:16

is the mouth and your esophagus. So

47:18

obviously you're drinking alcohol. It's

47:20

bathing your mouth. It's bathing your

47:21

esophagus and your stomach. So we do see

47:23

an increase in cancer like we talked

47:25

about and that's accelerated by smoking.

47:27

But we also see like benign but annoying

47:30

and problematic health conditions most

47:32

notably acid reflux. So heartburn. So if

47:34

you notice like I'm like always having

47:36

heartburn. I'm having to pop all these

47:37

like ant acids and take this medicine.

47:39

You might want to think like how much am

47:41

I drinking? Is that contributing to my

47:43

heartburn? So that's a very common

47:44

thing. Um the heart is affected by

47:46

alcohol. So you know the heart is an

47:48

organ where at low risk levels there

47:50

doesn't seem to be harm from alcohol.

47:52

But once you get into the moderate and

47:53

high, we see harms. And the harms can be

47:56

a couple fold. One is um something

47:59

called atrial fibrillation, which is

48:00

basically where your heart starts

48:02

beating really irregularly. Yeah. So um

48:05

in your heart, there's four chambers.

48:06

The two chambers at the top. So this is

48:08

really showing the ventricles and the

48:09

atrium. So there's two chambers that

48:11

blood flows through. And in a normal

48:14

heart, your electrical activity comes

48:15

from the top of your heart, goes down to

48:17

the bottom of your heart, and tells the

48:18

heart to pump. Mhm. And so you get a

48:20

single impulse that goes to the bottom

48:21

of the heart, says pump. And that pumps

48:23

blood out to your brain and your body

48:24

and your organs and your liver. In

48:26

atrial fibrillation, the top of the

48:28

heart is just kind of quivering with

48:29

this abnormal electrical activity. And

48:31

so the heart can't pump in a normal way.

48:33

We actually there's a a term in medicine

48:35

called holiday heart because we see

48:37

sometimes people drink a ton over the

48:39

holidays and we'll end up in this

48:40

abnormal rhythm just from that binge

48:42

drinking pattern. And then over time, if

48:44

you're drinking at high levels, your

48:45

heart actually dilates and you can end

48:47

up with congestive heart failure from a

48:49

cardiammyopathy, which means the heart

48:51

muscle gets kind of weak and thin and

48:53

floppy and can't pump the way that it

48:55

needs to. Oh, damn. Sometimes we think

48:58

that if we're good at handling our beer

49:00

or our alcohol, then it's having less

49:02

harm on us. So, I'm for whatever reason,

49:04

I've always been good at drinking quite

49:06

a lot when I used to drink. drink

49:08

anymore, but when I used to drink and

49:10

being less affected than my friend who

49:12

was a little bit bigger than me, had a

49:14

little bit more body fat, which is

49:15

really interesting because you pointed

49:16

out an association there that I was

49:17

never aware of. Just to pause on that

49:19

for a second, you're saying that if

49:20

someone has more body fat, they're more

49:22

likely to get drunk. Yeah. Because they

49:23

have less body water and alcohol doesn't

49:26

go into your body fat. So, you're

49:27

essentially it's like if you took, you

49:28

know, a glass of water and you dropped

49:30

red dye in it, you're going to diffuse

49:32

into that water. So the more water you

49:34

have, the more diffuse it'll be and the

49:36

lower your blood alcohol content. So if

49:38

you have very low body fat, you probably

49:40

have more body water. And so, you know,

49:42

two drinks for you is going to diffuse

49:43

into a larger amount of water. Ah, that

49:45

explains a lot cuz I always wondered, he

49:47

was he was so much bigger than me at the

49:48

time. He was um he had much more body

49:51

fat. And he would get drunk very very

49:53

quickly. And you always think, oh, a big

49:54

guy, they can handle their beer or

49:56

whatever, but he would get drunk very

49:57

quickly. So I used to wonder I used to

49:59

think well alcohol isn't harming me as

50:01

much because I'm not having I'm not as

50:02

drunk as he is. But but that's not true.

50:05

No. I mean so first of all I think the

50:07

interesting story there one is not just

50:08

the body fat but also that people

50:10

metabolize alcohol at different rates.

50:12

You probably I don't know if you found

50:14

this to be true. You probably had fewer

50:15

hangovers than your friend because it

50:17

hangover does seem to be related to the

50:19

amount how high that your blood alcohol

50:20

level gets. So people who don't

50:22

metabolize alcohol as quickly tend to

50:24

have worse hangovers. So that may have

50:26

been something you experienced but it

50:27

doesn't protect you from the other

50:28

health harms of alcohol like liver

50:30

damage like cancer like overtime you

50:33

know heart problems or esophageal

50:35

problems. What is a hangover? Yeah

50:37

hangover is a fascinating thing that

50:39

people are you know there's a lot of

50:41

emerging evidence about it and trying to

50:42

understand what happens. It seems to be

50:44

most related to how high the ethanol

50:46

concentration in your brain gets because

50:48

they've actually done a ton of studies

50:49

with mice and with people. It was

50:51

initially thought to be due to the

50:52

byproducts of alcohol like that acetal

50:55

aldahhide molecule we talked about but

50:57

it doesn't seem to be related to that.

50:58

that seems to be related to ethanol, but

51:00

essentially it's this syndrome where

51:02

after you drink, once your blood alcohol

51:03

content comes down to zero. You feel

51:06

sort of apathetic, you're tired, you

51:08

have a headache, you often feel

51:09

nauseous. And so it's sort of that

51:11

squelli of your brain essentially being

51:14

bathed in this ethanol and then as it

51:16

leaves you just feel totally crappy

51:18

because people think of it sometimes as

51:19

just being dehydrated.

51:21

Yeah, it it is not just being

51:23

dehydrated. There's actual sort of

51:24

effects of ethanol on your brain that

51:26

lead to the hangover. Okay. I think if

51:28

you are drinking at an amount that

51:30

you're getting a hangover, it is a good

51:31

sign that you're drinking above a limit

51:33

that would be considered okay for your

51:35

body. Cuz sometimes I remember back in

51:38

the day if I had a big glass of water

51:40

before I went to bed, if I had been

51:42

drinking, I felt better in the morning.

51:45

There is some element of dehydration,

51:46

don't get me wrong. And that's partly

51:48

because, right, if you think again,

51:49

alcohol is diffused in water. So if your

51:51

total body water is contracted because

51:53

you're dehydrated, your ethanol level is

51:55

going to be higher. So drinking is going

51:58

to help you sort of flush it out and

51:59

feel better. I'm drinking water, but

52:01

it's not only because of dehydration.

52:03

There'll be people listening to this

52:05

now. I doubt they would have got this

52:06

far, but um because if they if they did,

52:09

they probably wouldn't think this, but

52:10

there'll be some people who would have

52:11

gotten this far in the conversation and

52:13

be thinking, "Yes, but Mhm.

52:15

Alcohol helps me socialize and

52:18

socializing is really important and I

52:20

can't socialize very easily because of

52:22

the design of the modern world without

52:23

having a drink or I have great times

52:26

when I drink so I don't want to quit my

52:29

alcohol use and you know in some cases

52:31

that they will be high and medium

52:34

consumption alcohol drinkers. What do

52:37

you say to those people? Well, first

52:39

like there's no judgment here. So a

52:41

molecule of ethanol is not more moral or

52:43

immoral than a molecule of glucose. So

52:44

you could say the same thing about diet.

52:46

We have lots of awareness now about

52:48

processed foods and white flour and

52:50

white sugar. That doesn't mean that

52:51

everyone's going to live this like

52:53

aesthetic lifestyle where they never eat

52:54

dessert. So I think it really is like an

52:56

you need to go in with eyes wide open

52:58

and understand what are the risks, what

53:00

matters to you, and how do you make that

53:02

calculus. So if you decide it's a choice

53:04

you want to make, you want to set

53:05

yourself up for success. So, if you

53:07

decide like I want to cut back on how

53:08

much I'm drinking, but I'm going to go

53:09

to happy hour every night with my

53:11

friends and just try to like not drink

53:12

while I'm there, you're probably not

53:14

going to be very successful because

53:15

you're going to be in a situation that's

53:16

constantly like reminding you of alcohol

53:18

use and everyone around you is using

53:19

alcohol. So, try to make some different

53:22

sort of structural changes and how you

53:24

set up your life and your week and your

53:25

day. Um, and you may find that actually

53:27

you don't miss it that much. That you

53:28

could cut out three or four days of

53:30

drinking and still get that social

53:32

pleasure two days out of the week and

53:34

your overall health risk is going to go

53:35

down significantly. In terms of treating

53:38

someone with alcohol uh abuse disorder,

53:41

rehab is often the most widely known

53:43

form of treatment. Um, one of my friends

53:46

who struggled with addiction really,

53:48

really badly with alcohol addiction, but

53:50

also drug addiction said to me multiple

53:52

times, he said, "I've been to rehab

53:53

three or four times now, and it's just

53:54

not working." Yeah. And I think when the

53:57

most popular or the most well-known

53:58

treatment doesn't work for you, you kind

54:00

of develop an even greater sense of

54:01

hopelessness. Are you a fan of rehab?

54:04

Generally, no. Um, so you know, rehab is

54:07

this idea that you go away somewhere for

54:09

a week, a couple weeks, and then you're

54:11

kind of cured, right? It's almost like

54:13

people have thought of addiction as an

54:14

infection where you need like two weeks

54:15

of antibiotics and then you're done.

54:17

Mhm. What we really understand is that

54:18

for many people addiction is more like a

54:20

chronic illness or even like cancer

54:22

where you need a lot of treatment

54:23

upfront for the first few years and then

54:25

over time you get into stability and

54:27

remission and you're almost like a a

54:30

cancer survivor. You're in long-term

54:31

recovery. And so this idea that you go

54:33

somewhere for a couple weeks and then

54:35

you come out and you're all better

54:36

really doesn't match what we know of

54:38

addiction. The other problem is that

54:39

much of what happens in rehab is not all

54:41

that therapeutic most of the time. So

54:43

the things that we know are most

54:44

effective for addiction, one are

54:46

medications, which there's a lot of

54:48

stigma, misunderstanding about, and then

54:50

two are like evidence-based

54:51

psychotherapy. So things like cognitive

54:53

behavioral therapy, motivational

54:54

enhancement therapy, you know, working

54:57

on your underlying trauma. Often in

54:59

rehabs, the model is really built around

55:01

this idea of like you remove yourself

55:02

from this environment. You do some

55:06

groups while you're there. Sometimes

55:07

often they're based on more of like a

55:09

peer support model. Sometimes the

55:11

therapies that are offered are frankly

55:12

not very evidence-based. Like we

55:14

actually did this study, it was a secret

55:15

shopper study where we called rehab

55:17

programs across the country to like ask

55:19

about what they offered. And many of

55:20

them offer things like, you know, horse

55:22

therapy or like dolphin assisted

55:24

therapy, which like I'm sure it's very

55:26

nice to swim with dolphins and to work

55:28

with horses, but it's not something

55:30

that's been like studied and effective.

55:31

And many places don't offer the things

55:33

that we know are actually effective,

55:34

which are, you know, trained clinicians

55:36

doing evidence-based treatments or

55:38

medication treatments. So, it's a

55:40

combination of like this short-term fix

55:42

for a long-term problem and not actually

55:45

getting the treatment that you need. So,

55:46

what does work like for alcohol use

55:48

disorder, most people don't know we have

55:49

very effective medications that can help

55:51

you even if you just want to not drink

55:53

as much. So, there's this medication I

55:56

mentioned at the beginning that actually

55:57

blocks your opioid receptors. Yeah.

55:59

which seems kind of funny that it works

56:01

on alcohol, but the reason it does is

56:02

that that for people who part of the

56:04

thing that drives them to drink is that

56:06

they drink, they feel this like pain

56:07

relief pleasure sensation from the

56:10

release of opioids in their brain and

56:11

that makes them want to drink more. That

56:13

if you block that, people don't get sick

56:14

if they drink, but they just don't find

56:16

it as rewarding. And so, someone named

56:18

Sinclair actually in Europe did some

56:20

fascinating experiments of even just

56:21

using it as needed. So rather than

56:23

taking it as an everyday medication, if

56:24

you know that when you go to like a

56:27

holiday event, you're going to drink way

56:28

more than you want to drink, you take it

56:30

like 30 minutes before you go, and then

56:31

what people find is they have like one

56:33

drink and they're like, "Ah, I'm good. I

56:34

don't have that same urge to want to

56:35

drink more and more because I didn't get

56:37

the same sort of tickle of feeling

56:39

better and feeling relief." What do you

56:41

think about psychedelics as a way to

56:43

counteract addictive behaviors like the

56:45

ones we've described? Yeah, one of the

56:47

most like groundbreaking trials in the

56:49

last couple years for alcohol use

56:50

disorder was psilocybin. So there's a

56:52

big study of psilocybin assisted

56:54

psychotherapy for alcohol use disorder

56:56

which showed really remarkable effects.

56:58

So people took psilocybin they actually

57:00

compared it. Folks came in and they

57:02

either got a big dose of benadryil or

57:03

psilocybin and then they sat with a

57:05

therapist for like eight hours for this

57:07

guided um psilocybin journey and they

57:10

found that people drink much less after

57:12

it. So it does seem to have some effect

57:13

and the thought is that part of the way

57:15

psychedelics work is they imp increase

57:17

neuroplasticity meaning the ability for

57:19

the brain to form new pathways and kind

57:21

of retrain itself and so it does seem to

57:24

be a potential therapeutic for alcohol

57:25

use disorder. Psilocybin is the active

57:27

compound in magic mushrooms. Yes,

57:29

exactly. Have you heard of iberane? I

57:31

have. Yeah. Which is often associated

57:33

which is another psychedelic often

57:35

associated with addiction. Yes. People

57:37

have looked at ibagane for um opioid use

57:41

disorder. um those studies have been

57:43

less promising than psilocybin although

57:45

it hasn't been tested in the same kind

57:47

of rigorous ways recently partly for

57:49

opioid use disorder we have really

57:50

effective medications that have been

57:52

shown to improve recovery and reduce

57:54

death and so it's sort of hard to be

57:55

better than that one really interesting

57:57

like new whole class of medications for

57:59

alcohol is um medications that are being

58:01

used for weight loss that people have

58:02

probably heard of so like WGOI ompic

58:05

that whole class of GLP-1

58:07

um medication seems to also reduce

58:09

alcohol use which is kind of interesting

58:11

Really? Yeah. Have they studied that?

58:13

Yeah. So, they Well, first of all,

58:15

there's I mean, there's whole like

58:16

Reddit threads and online communities

58:17

about this where people were prescribed

58:19

it for diabetes or for weight loss and

58:21

they all of a sudden were like, I don't

58:22

really want to smoke or drink. Like that

58:24

kind of urge has gone away entirely. And

58:26

for some people, they really describe it

58:28

as being like miraculous. They've been

58:30

trying to stop drinking for, you know,

58:31

years and years and for the first time,

58:33

they don't feel that sense of like

58:34

craving and urge. Um, and there recently

58:36

have been some actual clinical trials

58:38

where they've done, you know, placeboc

58:40

controlled blinded studies and have

58:42

shown that it does reduce drinking. And

58:44

so it's a really interesting area where

58:46

it seems like those medications kind of

58:48

reset craving and appetite more globally

58:50

and not just for

58:54

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59:48

One of the ways that many of us

59:49

understand addiction if we haven't

59:50

experienced it directly in our own lives

59:51

is we look up at role models on TV and

59:55

in sort of celebrity pop culture and we

59:57

see these role models who you know we

59:58

see on stages start to deteriorate and

60:01

deteriorate in the public eye and

60:03

ultimately it seems often like it's

60:05

inevitable that someday the TMZ

60:06

headlines going to ring out and say that

60:08

this person has passed away and that

60:10

happens all too often. We think about

60:11

you know Whitney Houston or um I guess

60:14

Michael Jackson's even been associated

60:16

with dying from an addiction to I think

60:18

it was painkillers or something. Prince

60:20

Elvis Presley Mac Miller who a lot of

60:23

people will know as well and a Nicole

60:25

Smith and even now in the public eye

60:27

there are certain individuals where

60:29

we're starting to see this sort of

60:30

erratic behavior. They're posting on

60:32

their Instagrams. They're they're

60:34

showing up in society in a slightly

60:36

different way. When you see that in the

60:38

line of work that you operate

60:40

in, what is your natural reaction? How

60:43

does it make you feel when you know

60:45

because there's a couple of people I'm

60:46

thinking about at the moment who the

60:47

world are talking about that you know we

60:49

think they have an addiction, we think

60:50

they need help. What is your natural

60:52

reaction to to that and what what is it

60:55

that those people need? Yeah. Well, when

60:57

I when I read the headlines of someone

60:59

dying, I mean, to me, it's gutting and

61:02

heartbreaking. One, because obviously

61:04

it's a human life that was someone's

61:06

mother and sister or brother and people

61:08

cared about, a public figure that people

61:09

looked up to and cared about, but mostly

61:11

that it was a totally preventable death.

61:13

Like really, no one should die from a

61:15

substance related death. We have tools

61:16

to treat addiction. We know how to

61:18

prevent the harms of, you know, drug

61:20

overdose, for example. And so the fact

61:22

that someone can die, especially someone

61:24

that everyone has watched for so long,

61:26

is I think just like a tragic example of

61:28

how what the mismatch is between what we

61:31

do around addiction and what science

61:32

does is actually helpful. Um I think you

61:35

know when I see someone who actively is

61:38

showing signs, like it's just sad to see

61:40

that happen so publicly without people

61:42

being able to support that person. And

61:45

it's not a magic fix. not going to be

61:47

like a you know you have an intervention

61:49

the person goes to treatment gets better

61:50

forever that I think is often in

61:52

people's minds it is a process a journey

61:54

like any change and so really it is

61:58

around where we began that idea of how

62:00

do you begin to understand with this

62:01

person how is their substance use

62:03

getting in the way of what they want for

62:05

themselves and how might their life be

62:07

better for them based on whatever they

62:09

believe better is if they were to make

62:10

changes to their substance use I am I

62:13

remember I had this one particular

62:14

friend who had an addiction and um I

62:16

remember always the life of the party.

62:18

And I remember this one day he came up

62:20

to me at at an event and he'd sat down

62:24

in front of me and said to me

62:26

um he said he like whispered to me, "I'm

62:30

in so much pain." Mhm. And he told me

62:32

about rehab and how it had failed him,

62:35

etc. But it it just it almost sounded

62:39

unbelievable that someone with such a

62:40

big smile on their face would whisper to

62:43

me, especially a man because men don't

62:44

really talk much about their emotions.

62:46

I'm in so much pain. Mhm. And then

62:48

funnily, I I then see how the world

62:50

treats that individual, him having

62:51

whispered that to me one day and the

62:54

world how the world responds to his

62:56

behavior and attacks him and criticizes

62:58

him. But I was privy to the whisper.

63:00

Yeah. Yeah. And that that one whisper

63:03

helped me to kind of reframe how to how

63:05

to treat that person, but also really

63:06

what was at the heart of what was going

63:08

on and probably gave you so much

63:10

empathy, you know, a huge amount of

63:11

empathy cuz I would have been like the

63:12

rest of the world. I would have just

63:13

thought what an idiot, what a [ __ ]

63:14

Like what's he doing that? That's

63:15

strange behavior. Y, you know, and you

63:17

said something really important that was

63:19

a slight shift in words. You didn't say

63:21

he failed treatment. You said the

63:22

treatment failed him. And that matters

63:24

so much because I think too often we've

63:26

made it seem as if people are failing.

63:28

like if they go to rehab and they don't

63:30

get well h it's their problem you know

63:32

and actually the treatment wasn't right

63:34

for them. If someone had cancer and

63:36

their cancer came back or didn't get

63:37

treated by chemotherapy we wouldn't say

63:39

like they failed you know we would say

63:40

well what's the next treatment how do we

63:42

get them to the right doctor and so

63:43

there is this like personal blaming and

63:46

that gets it stigma which is one of the

63:47

main reasons that people don't share

63:49

that they're struggling with substances

63:50

that they don't seek treatment and so we

63:52

have tremendous stigma towards drug and

63:54

alcohol addiction. It's one of the most

63:55

stigmatized kind of social conditions

63:57

globally. And so, of course, then if

63:59

you're a person who starts to think

64:00

like, "Oh, maybe I do have a problem."

64:02

Like, maybe my alcohol use is getting in

64:03

the way of things. It's really hard to

64:05

then say anything because you worry that

64:06

you're going to be judged. You're going

64:07

to be labeled. You're going to be

64:09

misunderstood. In some cases, terrible

64:11

things could happen to you. You might

64:12

get your children taken away by, you

64:14

know, child welfare. You could lose your

64:15

housing or lose your job. And so, that

64:17

stigma has like played into this

64:19

terrible cycle where people, you know,

64:20

have to whisper it to someone. shows how

64:22

much he trusted you to even be able to

64:24

say honestly what he was going through

64:26

because there's so much stigma about the

64:28

condition itself. You must have had many

64:29

cases that broke your heart. Yeah. Can

64:32

you tell me about one that changed you?

64:37

Oh goodness. So many um you know so one

64:42

gentleman in particular he was um

64:44

struggled with heroin addiction for a

64:46

long time and had been like we talked

64:49

about it had been kind of a chronic

64:50

illness for him. He'd had periods where

64:51

he'd done really well. He'd had periods

64:53

where he had struggled and had always

64:56

stayed safe through all of that. And he

64:57

actually his like one really meaningful

64:59

relationship in his life that kind of

65:01

kept him together was a relationship

65:03

with his mom and he lived with her. And

65:06

um and they lived in public housing.

65:08

They were, you know, dealing with

65:09

economic insecurity like many people.

65:11

And someone found out that he was

65:13

staying with her and it would have put

65:14

her at risk for her housing. And so he

65:16

didn't want her to lose her housing. So

65:18

he left. But he was newly homeless. and

65:20

all of a sudden because of just social

65:22

barriers was dealing with the stress of

65:24

homelessness and being alone and um even

65:27

with kind of all of the connection he'd

65:30

had with his mom and with treatment he

65:32

was found um dead between two parked

65:34

cars had overdosed alone in the street

65:36

and I always think like if and you knew

65:39

him. Oh yeah, the cascading effects that

65:42

you know that it didn't have to be that

65:43

way. And I think there are so many

65:44

deaths like that where I just think it

65:46

doesn't have to be like this. You know,

65:48

really no one should die like this. And

65:51

um and there are so many things that,

65:53

you know, in the moment feel so out of

65:55

our control. And I think that's part of

65:56

what generates my passion for this work

65:59

is I can't always save the person in

66:02

front of me or change issues around

66:04

homelessness or housing policy, but I

66:06

can try to work on a broader scale to

66:08

make things different for the next

66:09

person. And I think that kind of that

66:12

for me counteracts some of the distress

66:14

of of of losing people that I care

66:16

about. If you were president of the

66:18

United States, for example, let's just

66:20

use this country as an example, and you

66:22

had to make upstream changes to the way

66:25

society was designed in order to

66:27

mitigate the downstream symptom of

66:30

addiction and addictive behaviors, etc.

66:33

What are those things that you would

66:34

change about the way that our society is

66:36

designed? You could change anything.

66:38

Yeah, I mean, starting upstream, the

66:41

biggest thing would be building

66:42

resilience and building connection early

66:44

on. So you know I think these things

66:46

that feel so not related to addiction

66:48

per se are actually deeply related when

66:50

we think about adverse childhood

66:51

experiences. So we think about

66:53

prevention for children you know often

66:55

people have looked at like education

66:56

like you know telling people telling

66:58

kids that drugs are bad that doesn't

67:00

work. What does work is actually

67:01

building resilience in young people. So

67:03

building resilience building connection.

67:05

So what does that look like? That looks

67:06

like affordable housing. That looks like

67:08

parks where people can get outside and

67:09

play sports and exercise and build

67:12

relationships. That looks like, you

67:14

know, supporting families so that

67:15

families can stay together and so those

67:16

early relationships and attachment can

67:19

be wellformed. That's like the true

67:21

prevention work is trying to break the

67:22

cycles of intergenerational trauma,

67:25

poverty, substance use, and actually

67:27

supporting families, communities at the

67:29

very start. It reminds me of Rat Park.

67:32

Yes. Yeah. Rat Park is a great example

67:34

of that. What is Rat Park for those that

67:36

don't know? Yeah. So rat park was a

67:38

series of experiments that were done um

67:41

where essentially they took they're

67:43

trying to understand kind of drivers of

67:44

addiction using rat models. And so they

67:46

took rats and they had one model where

67:48

rats were isolated in their own cage

67:50

with nothing to do and no human

67:52

connection. And they had access to a

67:54

substance like morphine or cocaine where

67:57

they could push a lever and get more of

67:58

it. And those animals when they were

68:01

deprived of connection and isolation,

68:02

anything to do more of the drug. It gave

68:05

them relief. who gave them pleasure.

68:07

They took those same animals and they

68:08

put them in this amazing cage with, you

68:11

know, areas to play and like wheels to

68:13

climb on and lots of friends and other

68:15

rats. And all of a sudden, they saw the

68:17

same animals were no longer kind of

68:18

pushing the lever and trying to get more

68:20

of the drug. And so, you know, it's it's

68:23

a somewhat simplified model that there's

68:25

lots of it's probably oversimplified,

68:26

but I it demonstrates that so much of

68:29

addiction really is around this idea of

68:31

connection restoring sort of the world

68:34

around us, the community, the

68:36

interrelatedness that we all have, the

68:38

opportunities and purpose and and

68:40

meaning and hope. So, I think that's the

68:42

real prevention. And then there's how do

68:43

we actually address folks who are having

68:45

a problem? And I think you know what I

68:47

would do there is first make addiction

68:48

treatment widely available immediately

68:51

when people need it. So the minute you

68:52

walk into your general practitioner's

68:54

office or an emergency room, you get

68:57

treated with compassion, with science,

68:59

with people asking you what can they do

69:00

to help and offering you effective care

69:02

the same way they would if you had a new

69:03

cancer diagnosis or a new diagnosis of a

69:06

heart problem. And that we really

69:08

reframe treatment entirely to look like

69:09

the way it looks for any other health

69:11

condition. and that we stop punishing

69:13

people who use substances where, you

69:16

know, a lot of times people are still

69:17

sent to jail for substance use, which,

69:20

you know, is a confusing mixed message

69:21

of we're saying this is a health problem

69:23

on the one hand, but we're going to put

69:24

you in prison or jail at the same time.

69:27

Those two things don't necessarily

69:28

align. Many of us are living in the

69:31

first model of Rat Park. Yeah, we're

69:33

living alone. We're living in these big

69:34

cities. We're more sedentary than ever

69:36

before.

69:38

um maybe you know we've moved to a big

69:41

city because we don't h which means we

69:42

don't have our family around um we might

69:45

be doing a job that's incredibly

69:47

challenging. So, it's no wonder when we

69:48

think about addiction and alcohol and

69:50

some of these other behaviors, but more

69:52

broadly beyond alcohol um as a

69:55

substance, other addictive behaviors,

69:58

whether it's social media or it's uh

70:01

what we eat or pornography or in the

70:04

sort of inverse the good habits, the

70:06

healthy food, the working out, the

70:08

exercise, the productive behaviors, why

70:11

we're struggling so much. And um I've

70:14

often wondered if we should all just

70:15

like go to like communes and live, do

70:20

you know what I mean? In like in in

70:22

groups. I mean, I don't think human

70:24

beings were meant to live this way. And

70:25

it's a relatively new thing, right? We

70:27

often lived in a village or a community.

70:29

We lived in these multigenerational

70:31

households. I mean I have little kids

70:33

and I think having kids was such an eye

70:34

openener of that of like well that makes

70:36

sense why people live with their parents

70:38

and their grandparents and have these

70:39

big families to create you know

70:41

community and and a sort of extended

70:43

family around you and we have lost that

70:45

in a lot of ways and I think the ways

70:47

that we used to get that like religion

70:49

maybe not maybe that still resonates for

70:51

some people but for others it may not

70:53

and so finding other ways of engagement

70:55

of meaning of purpose that can be

70:58

through lots of different things you

70:59

know I think people are finding creative

71:00

ways of doing that it can be through

71:02

like, you know, finding a volunteer

71:04

activity, finding some other type of

71:06

social group. Some people do it through

71:07

sports. You know, they they find

71:09

connection and engagement with people

71:10

they don't really know over the shared

71:12

love around around an activity or a

71:14

team. But really sort of seeing that as

71:16

a priority the same way you'd prioritize

71:17

other things in your life, in your

71:18

health. And are you a fan of of therapy

71:20

as an approach to aim at the early

71:23

childhood trauma? Absolutely. Yeah. I

71:25

mean, I think one of the problems is

71:27

that too often therapy has been like

71:29

forced on people. I think that um I'm

71:32

much more of the approach of like we

71:34

need to make treatment available and

71:35

welcoming and high quality so that

71:37

people get value out of it and therapy

71:39

is a huge part of that. You know, it's

71:41

about a lot of things. It's about

71:42

connection. It's about figuring out

71:43

those reasons why people are using in

71:45

the first place addressing and healing

71:47

those traumas. It also matters that we

71:49

have um good well-trained empathetic

71:51

therapists. So there's been a lot of

71:52

interesting studies looking at actually

71:54

how empathetic your therapist is is

71:56

probably the strongest predictor of

71:58

whether you stop make changes to your

71:59

alcohol or drug use really which is so

72:01

interesting because we often think like

72:03

you you've probably heard someone say

72:04

like I don't really like my therapist

72:05

and I think sometimes reaction to that

72:06

is like oh like you're you're not that

72:08

into therapy but they've actually done a

72:10

lot of studies showing that a therapist

72:12

who is less empathetic their client is

72:14

more likely to use more substances at

72:16

the end of that course of treatment. So

72:18

actually having a really well-trained,

72:20

compassionate, evidence-based workforce

72:22

is hugely important, too. And I guess

72:24

the same applies for family and friends.

72:26

Yeah. Yeah. I think empathy is really

72:28

powerful. Those kind of things that we

72:29

think of as soft skills actually matter

72:31

tremendously. Is it possible to prop

72:34

somebody

72:36

up. You know, because I was talking to I

72:38

think it was talking to Dr. Anna L about

72:40

this about the idea that you can play a

72:43

role in someone's addiction. Yeah. I.e.

72:45

I want to help my friend who's addicted

72:49

and so I I'm there for them. I'm

72:51

comforting them, but I'm actually in

72:53

some way reinforcing that addictive

72:54

behavior

72:55

because I'm I'm positively reinforcing

72:58

it because I'm supporting them so much

73:00

and I'm loving them so much and I'm

73:01

showing them so much empathetic

73:03

attention that actually I'm playing a

73:05

role in continuing that addiction. Is

73:07

that possible? Yeah. And this is this

73:08

concept of like enabling which I think

73:10

is nuanced. I would say at its core it's

73:13

really deeply problematic that for the

73:15

most part love and support are never

73:17

going to be harmful. And when I talk to

73:18

patients often the thing that caused

73:20

them to ultimately engage in treatment

73:22

was not some terrible consequence. It

73:24

was the idea that someone cared enough

73:26

about them in a moment where they didn't

73:28

love themselves very much and felt

73:30

hopeless that someone was willing to

73:32

sort of lift them up and believe in

73:33

them. And it's these small moments of

73:35

kindness, like I'll tell you a story of

73:36

a patient that we took care of in the

73:38

hospital who was there for a really

73:40

life-threatening infection related to

73:41

their drug use. And a year to the date

73:44

after um he was hospitalized, he wrote a

73:46

letter to our team. And he said, you

73:48

know, I'll never forget the moments you

73:49

guys came in and just sat with me and

73:51

talked to me. And he now sends an email

73:53

every single year on the anniversary of

73:54

when he got out of the hospital. And

73:56

it's those those moments of humanity of

73:58

connection again that connection idea

74:00

that often are the catalyst for change

74:02

the kind of hope and belief that your

74:04

life could be better somehow as opposed

74:06

to this idea of like increasing

74:08

someone's pain and suffering. And that

74:10

plays out in different ways. So in

74:11

families one of the most effective tools

74:13

we teach people is something called

74:14

craft which is um stands for community

74:16

reinforcement and family training. And

74:18

it's very different than the like people

74:20

may have seen like shows where you're

74:22

supposed to like stage an intervention

74:23

and you know tell someone all or nothing

74:25

but craft is very different. It teaches

74:27

people first how do you understand the

74:28

science of addiction family members.

74:30

Second, how do you get support for

74:31

yourself? Because it's really tough to

74:33

deal with addiction in a family. And

74:35

then how do you start to learn about

74:36

consequences in a different way that you

74:38

know if you're a parent and your kid is

74:40

missing school because they're using,

74:42

you don't want to cover for them and and

74:44

sort of reinforce their pattern, but you

74:46

also don't need to kick them out of your

74:48

house. That there's sort of gradations

74:49

of consequence that can actually help

74:51

people change. And one of the biggest

74:53

sort of motivators for change is

74:55

actually positive reinforcement of the

74:56

behaviors you want to see. So that's

74:58

been called contingency management in

75:00

the kind of treatment world. And you

75:02

know, health insurance companies, lots

75:04

of companies have figured this out,

75:05

right? So if you get money back because

75:06

you join a gym or you get those, you

75:08

know, you get reimbursements for doing

75:09

something that people want to see,

75:11

people do more of it. It's true in human

75:13

behavior. It's very true with addiction.

75:15

But we often do the opposite. We try to

75:16

punish people into getting well instead

75:18

of reinforcing kind of the healthy

75:20

behavior, the what we want to see more

75:22

of, if that makes sense. Yeah. I I I'm I

75:25

guess I'm trying to represent the

75:27

audience member that's listening to this

75:28

right now that knows someone in their

75:30

life that was addictive and they tried

75:31

to be empathetic. They they tried to

75:34

offer support. They tried to give the

75:37

person help and still nothing changed.

75:40

Yeah. In that situation, maybe the

75:43

person that was struggling with the

75:45

addiction didn't accept the support.

75:48

Yeah. Didn't go to the meetings, didn't

75:49

speak to the therapist. Yeah. in such a

75:52

situation where you're offering help to

75:53

someone and they're not taking it,

75:54

they're not willing to investigate

75:56

different medical um

75:58

treatments, they're living at your

76:00

house, they're in your business,

76:02

whatever.

76:03

Is there a point where you say enough is

76:06

enough? Yeah. Well, first like it is

76:08

just so hard to be there as a family

76:10

member or friend. So for anyone

76:12

listening, I've been there. It's

76:14

incredibly impossible. So have grace

76:16

with yourself. I think that's a

76:18

different decision you're talking about

76:20

is at some point do you have to make a

76:22

decision to protect yourself. So let's

76:23

say you have someone in your home who's

76:26

dealing with addiction who you know gets

76:28

aggressive or is stealing money or is

76:30

you know causing trauma to the people

76:32

living in the house. At some point you

76:33

may need to decide that for my wellbeing

76:35

for the rest of the family's wellbeing I

76:36

can't have this in my life right now.

76:38

That's very different than saying

76:40

kicking them out is going to make them

76:41

better. So the distinction there is that

76:43

it's okay to protect ourselves.

76:45

Sometimes we have to do that and

76:47

sometimes there's only so much you can

76:48

do. But to not sort of fool yourself

76:50

into thinking that the action is to help

76:52

the other person and that's okay. I

76:54

think the other piece is, you know, at

76:56

the end of the day, first of all, it's

76:58

easier to be a treater. So I've been a

76:59

family member, I've been a clinician. As

77:01

a clinician, I can truly be

77:02

unconditional. So I can I'm going to be

77:04

someone's doctor whether they continue

77:05

to use heroin or continue to drink or

77:07

don't. And there's something really

77:08

beautiful in that. Like my engagement

77:10

with someone is is not premised on

77:12

whether they make changes or not. as a

77:14

family member, that's harder, especially

77:16

if you're a kid dependent on someone or

77:18

you're in a marriage or relationship.

77:20

So, you may have to make different

77:22

choices. But I think at the end of the

77:24

day, people don't change because of why

77:26

we think they should change. They change

77:27

because they think their life is going

77:29

to get better in some way. So, the key

77:31

then becomes figuring out like why might

77:32

this person's life get better if they

77:34

were to make changes to their alcohol or

77:35

drug use. So, it's a shift where you

77:38

become sort of on their team instead of

77:40

trying to drag them towards water, you

77:41

know, drag the horse towards water. And

77:44

there's this um fascinating kind of

77:45

human instinct that none of us like

77:47

being told what to do. So there's

77:48

something called the writing reflex,

77:50

which is it's really hard for

77:51

caregivers, it's hard for parents

77:52

because we love to tell people like our

77:54

great advice and why what they're doing

77:56

is wrong and they should take our like

77:57

brilliant doctor advice. And this can be

77:59

like telling someone like, "Don't you

78:01

see what you're doing is causing harm?

78:02

You should make changes." It can also be

78:04

subtler. It can be like lecturing

78:06

someone or trying to educate them. But

78:08

when someone shoves something down your

78:09

throat, your instinct is to to resist.

78:11

It's just like natural human behavior.

78:13

even if it's a great idea, if someone's

78:14

like shoving an ice cream cone in your

78:15

face and like eat it. Even if you like

78:17

ice cream, you might be like, "Wait,

78:18

wait, I don't know if I want this ice

78:20

cream." And so the key then is not to

78:22

sort of tell someone what to do. It's to

78:23

understand why might they want to make

78:24

changes. And so once you do that, then

78:26

you all of a sudden realize like it just

78:29

feels better. You're not trying to drag

78:30

someone towards something. It doesn't

78:33

you don't have like personal skin in the

78:35

game about what choice they make, but

78:36

you're really a partner with them and

78:38

figuring out how is this thing causing

78:40

problems to you and why might your life

78:42

get better if you were to make changes

78:43

to your alcohol use or your drinking or

78:45

your substance use. What's the

78:47

difference in delivery there in terms of

78:48

delivering that message? Because they're

78:50

both ultimately getting to the same

78:52

outcome, but it sounds like the language

78:55

might be slightly different. Yeah, very

78:57

different. So um in kind of like medical

79:00

speak and therapy speak we talk about

79:01

something called motivational

79:02

interviewing which is it becomes almost

79:04

like a mind trick but it's um it is

79:06

basically a way of trying to identify

79:08

from the person their reasons for change

79:10

and reflecting it back to them. And so

79:12

it's not you telling them you think they

79:14

should change but you are trying to

79:16

elicit their motivation and amplify it.

79:19

And then at the end of the day you're

79:20

turning over the power back to them. So

79:21

that might look like something someone

79:22

says you know I'll I'll be your your uh

79:25

patient. Okay. So yeah, I I I do drink a

79:28

lot. I drink a couple of times a day,

79:30

especially in the mornings, but it's

79:31

fine, you know. Uh I'm still managing to

79:34

get to work every day. Obviously, I have

79:35

a couple of uh misconduct issues at

79:37

work, but other than that, you know, and

79:39

my partner's left me, but other than

79:41

that, everything everything else is fine

79:42

and I can manage this. It sounds like

79:45

your alcohol use is causing some

79:46

problems at work and in your

79:47

relationships. It is. Yeah. Yeah. I lost

79:50

my my partner's left me and um I keep

79:52

getting these misconduct notifications

79:55

at work in disciplinaries because I

79:57

sometimes get there late and when I'm

79:58

there sometimes I fall asleep etc. and

80:00

I've obly I work with big machinery so

80:02

there's a little bit of a risk there but

80:04

otherwise it's okay. It sounds like

80:06

you're worried about your safety at work

80:08

and also how your drinking is starting

80:09

to affect your job and your

80:10

relationships. That's true. Yeah, I am.

80:13

You know, I've been on the on the crane

80:14

in particular, being um being

80:17

intoxicated on the crane in particular

80:18

has caused a few incidences. And you

80:20

know, I sometimes do worry that one day

80:22

it'll it'll go a little bit too far.

80:24

Yeah. Yeah. It sounds like that's really

80:26

scary that you're really worried your

80:28

alcohol use could cause even like a

80:30

serious or lifethreatening accident at

80:32

work. Yeah. And then what am I going to

80:34

do for work? You know, because if you

80:35

get a something like that on your file,

80:37

then you I'm never going to be able to

80:38

be a machine operator ever again. So,

80:40

yeah. Man, your job sounds really

80:41

important to you and so important.

80:42

Alcohol's starting to get in the way of

80:44

that. Yeah, 100%. Yeah. And so what are

80:46

your goals looking forward around your

80:48

job or your relationship? Well, I I

80:50

really should

80:52

um I really should fix this alcohol

80:55

issue that I have and uh I would love to

80:58

find a partner. I'd really that's really

81:00

important to me cuz I want to have a

81:02

family. So obviously prerequisite of

81:05

having a family is finding a partner

81:06

really. So yeah. Yeah. Yeah, it sounds

81:08

like you're really committed to thinking

81:10

about making a change to your drinking

81:11

and that you're looking forward to

81:13

finding a partner and family and you're

81:14

worried that alcohol might get in the

81:16

way of that. So, you're what you're

81:17

doing there is you're you're you're not

81:19

leading me, you're kind of pushing me,

81:21

if that makes sense. There's like a

81:23

little bit of like a Jedi mind trick

81:24

thing where you're so essentially it's

81:27

actually really it's a little tricky

81:28

when you're first learning how to do it

81:29

because what I'm trying to do is I'm

81:31

listening for what's called change talk.

81:32

So, any little nugget you're giving me

81:34

about making a change. So, you're saying

81:37

like, "Oh, I'm starting to get this

81:38

misconduct. I'm worried about this thing

81:40

with safety at work. I want a partner."

81:42

Those are like it's a gold mine of

81:43

little kernels of change and I'm

81:46

ignoring all of your sustained talk. So,

81:48

anything where you're arguing for the

81:49

status quo, it's not a big deal,

81:51

drinking's not that big a deal, I can't

81:52

make a change, I don't even acknowledge

81:54

it or address it. And that's actually

81:55

hard because I think most of us pay

81:57

attention to the negative stuff. So if

81:58

you think about like a performance

81:59

review at work or someone telling you

82:02

any kind of feedback, we tend to amplify

82:03

and remember like the one bad thing that

82:05

someone said to us and forget the

82:06

millions of good things. So you have to

82:08

change you have to like train yourself

82:09

to do the opposite to hear those little

82:11

kernels of change talk and then I'm

82:13

basically being a mirror but I'm

82:14

amplifying it. So I'm taking these

82:16

little kernels of change talk. I'm

82:18

reflecting back to your own words. So

82:19

I'm not telling you that you should stop

82:20

drinking because it's unsafe at work.

82:22

I'm reflecting to you like you're

82:24

starting to get worried that you might

82:25

have an accident at work and that's

82:26

really serious. And that's kind of

82:28

guiding the conversation forward. The

82:31

other key is that if you meet a point of

82:33

resistance, you want to pivot because

82:34

once you start arguing, whether it's

82:36

about politics or anything, people dig

82:38

in. So if you start arguing with

82:40

someone, you got to find another way.

82:42

You just got to pivot and roll to a

82:43

different tactic because the more you

82:45

argue, the more people dig in on their

82:47

point of view. And it's more about like

82:49

winning the argument than it is about

82:50

moving forward. What if you want to

82:52

change yourself? Are is there a process,

82:55

a system, a methodology to help you

82:57

discover what your ideal behaviors are,

83:00

what your why is, and to implement

83:02

change? That's why I say all the time,

83:03

what's your why? I think that's so

83:05

exciting. Like, we all want to live our

83:07

best lives, whatever that means to us.

83:09

And so, um, having a purpose, having a

83:11

goal is probably the most important

83:13

thing. Motivation is important. We talk

83:15

a lot about motivation, but motivation

83:17

is fleeting. It can slip and slide over

83:19

the course of one day. So you may, you

83:21

know, take kind of a mundane example.

83:23

You want to get in shape and you're

83:25

feeling super motivated one day and then

83:26

the next morning your clock, your alarm

83:28

clock goes off at like 5 in the morning

83:29

and you're tired and it's cozy in your

83:31

bed and maybe you stayed up a little too

83:33

late. Your motivation is going to be

83:35

flagging, right? So if you don't have a

83:36

goal or a reason or a why or a purpose,

83:39

it's going to be really hard to actually

83:40

get up the energy to get up. And so

83:42

figuring out what that purpose is and

83:45

then trying to find ways to enjoy the

83:46

process because if you're always working

83:48

towards a future goal, some people are

83:49

very goal-oriented and that works for

83:51

them. But finding joy in the process

83:53

will help you. So I'll take alcohol for

83:54

example, like not an addiction issue,

83:56

just like making changes to your

83:57

drinking in your life. So if you're just

83:59

like, I should stop drinking because

84:01

drinking is bad for me. That's like a

84:03

relatively vague goal, right? It's not

84:05

really about anything that matters

84:06

specifically to you and it's going to be

84:09

hard to stick to that. If instead you

84:11

think, okay, I, you know, started to

84:13

realize that when I drink every single

84:15

night, I don't get the work done that I

84:17

want to get done because I'm too tired

84:18

and I fall asleep. I don't feel

84:19

refreshed in the morning, so I'm not

84:20

sleeping very well. I'm not getting up

84:22

early to exercise, and that's something

84:23

that really matters to me. I'm not like

84:25

as present with my family as I wanted to

84:27

be. Then it's these all these little

84:29

micro goals that make it much easier to

84:31

make a change. So, you may decide, you

84:32

know, I'm not going to drink. I'm only

84:34

going to drink two days out of the week,

84:35

and when I do drink, I'm going to keep

84:37

it to this amount. But the reason why is

84:38

not some vague recommendation from some

84:40

doctor. It's because like you're working

84:42

really hard at work and it feels good to

84:44

be productive after dinner and you're

84:46

training for a race and you want to get

84:47

up in the morning and run. And so you

84:49

actually notice those little steps like,

84:50

"Wow, it feels great. I woke up this

84:52

morning and I feel so refreshed." Like

84:54

you're reinforcing your goal right

84:55

there. You're not working towards some

84:57

abstract thing that doesn't really

84:58

matter to you. So you want to make these

85:00

like really focused, personalized goals

85:02

and really anchoring it on what is your

85:05

why. And your why may be very different

85:06

than my why or someone else's why. Um so

85:09

it may be you know sleep really matters

85:11

to you or you know you may have a

85:14

different relationship with alcohol. So

85:15

the other kind of example I'd give is

85:17

people are different right? We respond

85:19

differently to things. So some people

85:20

can open a bag of like potato chips and

85:22

eat two and walk away. Some people like

85:24

they open the bag they're going to eat

85:25

all of the chips. And so it's just

85:27

easier not to open the bag. And alcohol

85:29

is like that too. Some people may find

85:30

if they open a bottle of wine or they

85:32

have alcohol in the house they're going

85:33

to drink all of it. And the idea of like

85:36

trying to keep to these small amounts of

85:37

alcohol is actually really hard. And

85:39

it's simpler and easier to just avoid it

85:41

completely or to only drink at a

85:43

restaurant or something. So, you do have

85:44

to understand like how your goals, your

85:46

why, your purpose interacts with your

85:49

response to whatever it is that you're

85:50

working on. And that's going to be

85:51

different for everyone. Are there any

85:53

other things, any other habits that we

85:55

should be thinking about when we're

85:56

trying to overcome an addiction? So if

85:59

we think about alcohol as being at like

86:01

the bottom of the stream, are there is

86:03

there anything else upstream that I

86:04

should be thinking about? So we talked

86:05

about social connections and

86:06

relationships. So I need to be making

86:08

sure that I'm surrounded by people. I'm

86:09

socializing because that's going to be

86:11

an insulator to like stress and

86:13

loneliness which is going to cause me

86:15

discomfort which is going to lead me to

86:16

alcohol. But are there any other things

86:19

that I should be thinking about when I'm

86:21

setting off to make a change in my life?

86:23

Yeah. Yeah. There's a bunch. I think

86:25

first any behavior change whether it's

86:27

alcohol or other. If you're feeling like

86:29

depleted and tired and not your best

86:31

self, it's going to be harder to make a

86:33

change. So, if you think about like any

86:34

big decision you made to change your

86:36

job, to start an exercise routine, to

86:38

leave your partner, you probably didn't

86:39

choose like the day that you were

86:40

exhausted and feeling anxious and

86:42

stressed and not your best self to make

86:44

that change. Like, change is hard. So,

86:45

you want to try to boost up other things

86:47

in your life. Eat well, you know, get

86:49

enough rest, try to exercise, things are

86:51

that are going to help you feel healthy

86:53

and your best best self when you're

86:54

trying to make a change. Is that linked

86:56

to dopamine? Yeah, because I mean so our

86:58

natural reward system, the thing that

87:00

triggers it is exercise, food, sex,

87:02

connection. So, you know, trying to have

87:04

healthy other ways of um of positive

87:08

dopamine release. And so, I think for

87:10

many people, alcohol or substances can

87:12

feel like a way of doing something nice

87:14

for ourselves, like I'm going to this is

87:16

going to help me reduce my stress after

87:18

a bad day at work. So, the goal then is

87:20

not that you just like white knuckle it

87:22

all night and feel really stressed after

87:23

work. It's that you figure out like what

87:24

are some other things that help me

87:25

reduce stress after work? Maybe it's

87:27

going to a yoga class with a friend.

87:29

Maybe it is, you know, spending time

87:31

with my family. Maybe it's getting

87:34

massage or meditating or watching a show

87:35

I like. So, you want to, it's not just

87:37

you're removing the thing that you're

87:38

trying to change. You want to fill up

87:40

the empty space with other things. So,

87:42

what if I fill it up with like Hargan's

87:45

ice cream and burgers because that will

87:49

cause a dopamine hit. Mhm. So presumably

87:52

if I just eat loads of sweets and candy

87:55

then that's going to stop me from

87:57

engaging in addictive behavior. But we

87:59

see that all the time. So that's like

88:00

replacing things. And um you know I was

88:03

reading an article people have probably

88:04

heard of dry January. This idea of like

88:06

not drinking for the month of January to

88:08

rethink your relationship with alcohol.

88:09

I was reading an article that dry

88:10

January has become high January because

88:12

people are just smoking a ton of weed

88:13

instead of drinking. And so it's very I

88:15

think you want to be cautious that

88:17

you're not just replacing the thing that

88:19

you're trying to change with something

88:20

that's also going to cause health

88:21

problems. Now, if having dessert once in

88:23

a while for this, you know, you're not

88:24

getting calories from alcohol and having

88:26

a nice ice cream cone once a week is a

88:29

way of sort of treating yourself that's

88:30

healthier and maybe more aligned with

88:32

your goals. That's fine. I think

88:34

thinking about these things, actually

88:35

thinking about alcohol, the way we think

88:37

about dessert, sunbathing, eating

88:39

processed meats, all of these things

88:41

have risk and benefit in our lives. I

88:43

think where we've gone so wrong with

88:45

alcohol is this idea that it's like a

88:46

healthpromoting

88:47

behavior that you shouldn't be drinking

88:50

for your health. It's not going to make

88:51

you healthier. Um, and also much like

88:54

many things we do that are not

88:55

healthpromoting activities, there are

88:56

ways of reducing the health harms of

88:58

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89:00

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linkedin.com/diary. Just thinking about

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something we said earlier about how

90:09

early childhood trauma causes the brain

90:11

to change and then results in addictive

90:14

behaviors. If I went through an early

90:16

childhood trauma and my brain has

90:18

changed because of that and then I get

90:20

into uh I become addicted to alcohol as

90:23

a as a young man and then I manage to

90:25

find my way off the alcohol. My brain is

90:28

still addicted, right? My brain still

90:30

has that addictive sort of

90:32

predisposition. So isn't it the case

90:34

that I'll just end up being addicted to

90:35

something else that gives me a dopamine

90:37

hit? So it turns out the brain is

90:39

amazingly um plastic meaning it can

90:41

change. We see that over time. So the

90:43

first thing is even adverse childhood

90:45

experiences are not a done deal. So we

90:47

talk a lot about ACEs. We don't talk a

90:49

lot about pieces or PCE positive

90:51

childhood experiences but actually you

90:54

can reduce the risk that someone

90:55

develops addiction by increasing the

90:57

number of positive childhood

90:58

experiences. So take someone who's

90:59

experienced some terrible adversity.

91:01

Their parent has died or they have a

91:03

parent who's in prison or they have

91:05

addiction in their family. If that kid

91:07

has one single adult figure that they

91:09

believe cares about them, that reduces

91:11

their risk of addiction. So there are a

91:13

lot of positive ways that we can

91:14

actually change the trajectory even in

91:16

the midst of terrible trauma. When you

91:18

think about someone who's had a

91:19

substance use disorder, we actually have

91:21

good data on this that after 5 years of

91:23

recovery and often that is fits and

91:26

starts. So most people think of like

91:27

this is one fail swoop that you like

91:29

decide to stop drinking and then success

91:31

is that you never drink again. For most

91:33

people what we find is that's actually

91:34

like a series of steps. So I always like

91:37

to think of progress not perfection and

91:39

not have this kind of all or nothing

91:40

mindset that for many people they may

91:42

early on have a month where they go

91:44

without alcohol and then maybe next time

91:45

it's three months and then maybe it's a

91:47

year and these recurrences happen but

91:49

ultimately they get to this place where

91:51

they go into long-term recovery. After 5

91:53

years of recovery, a person's risk of

91:55

subsequently developing addiction is no

91:57

higher than the general public. So your

91:59

brain actually does change and we see

92:00

this on functional imaging. We see this

92:02

in longitudinal studies that follow

92:04

people over time. So you actually can

92:06

overwhelm those things and get to a

92:09

place where you don't have a higher risk

92:10

than other people. Because some people

92:12

say, "I've got an addictive personality

92:14

that's they sort of self-label and

92:15

selfidentify as having an addictive

92:17

personality." Sometimes they even

92:18

reference their brain as being easily

92:20

addictive. Is there is there truth in

92:22

that? Is it possible to have an

92:24

addictive personality? It's not so much

92:25

about personality, but we do respond

92:27

differently to substances. So um you

92:30

know, take alcohol or opioids, anything.

92:33

People feel differently the first time

92:34

they ever use it. So often if you talk

92:36

to someone who then develops addiction,

92:38

they tell you that first time they use

92:39

the substance, it was like this amazing

92:41

feeling. It felt like I've had people

92:43

describe it as falling in love or, you

92:45

know, a warm hug or or like a relaxing

92:47

bath. These like incredible comforting

92:49

experiences. Other people, they get

92:51

prescribed like an opioid for a tooth

92:53

extraction. They feel nauseous and kind

92:55

of like not like themselves and they

92:56

don't like the feeling. So how we

92:58

respond to substances is definitely

92:59

based on our neurobiology and is

93:02

different for different people. Um so

93:04

some people are both from a genetic

93:06

reason and and their own brain are just

93:08

more wired to be at risk of addiction.

93:10

And that's important to know about

93:11

yourself because then you can make

93:12

different choices. You may decide, you

93:14

know, never to keep alcohol in the house

93:16

or not to drink because the risk is too

93:18

great. But how much do you think about

93:20

other things that are taking hold of

93:21

society? some of the other things that

93:23

are non substance related. So, social

93:26

media addictions and pornography

93:28

addictions and what else? What else are

93:30

some of the big ones? Food addictions,

93:31

food, sex, gambling. Um, I think there

93:34

are a lot of similarities. It's not my

93:36

particular area of focus, but I think

93:37

there are a lot of overlaps. I mean, I

93:39

think many of the things you just

93:40

listed, you could talk about. One,

93:42

dopamine obviously, but two, this idea

93:44

of needing to fill yourself with

93:47

something else. either, you know,

93:48

thinking about trauma, thinking about

93:50

untreated mental illness, thinking about

93:51

just kind of the deficit of connection

93:54

and of meaning and reward um and

93:56

reaching to these external solutions.

93:58

Can you tell me about a time where

94:00

you've worked with a patient

94:01

who through the process of working with

94:04

them and understanding their trauma, you

94:06

discovered something unexpected about

94:08

the root cause of their addictive

94:11

behavior? Yeah. Yeah. I can think of

94:14

many patients, but one in particular

94:16

who, you know, I I had this I knew that

94:19

he'd experienced hard things in his

94:20

life. He'd been in prison, for example,

94:21

which is a traumatizing experience. He'd

94:24

lost his parents and other thing. I

94:25

never truly understood the depth of his

94:27

trauma and had he had struggled his

94:29

whole life um with substance use

94:31

disorder and and using lots of things,

94:33

mostly opioids, but also alcohol and

94:35

cocaine and um and just had had a really

94:38

really hard time. And after I mean years

94:41

of knowing him, one day he broke down my

94:43

office and shared that he'd actually

94:44

been molested as a young kid. And so

94:46

sometimes there is that like that thing

94:48

that people have never felt like they

94:50

could share with anyone that really is

94:52

at the root of so much of what they've

94:53

been dealing with. And like the person

94:55

who whispered to you, I think the pain

94:57

of keeping that inside. Not only the

94:59

trauma of experiencing that as a child,

95:01

but then holding that secret and feeling

95:03

like you somehow are damaged or you know

95:05

that this this thing inside you is there

95:07

and not being able to heal it, talk

95:10

about it, share it with people. I think

95:12

um is just this like this well of pain

95:14

that lives inside people. Did he

95:16

recover? He actually passed away

95:20

from substance abuse. From substance

95:22

use. Yeah.

95:24

You must carry a lot of this stuff with

95:26

you because your line of work sounds

95:29

like you're dealing with bad news quite

95:31

often, more so than the average person.

95:34

And the news you're dealing with is is a

95:36

different type of news. You're dealing

95:37

with somebody sort of reaching the end

95:39

of their life um through something that

95:41

you also have said many times you

95:44

believe is preventable in many cases.

95:46

How do

95:48

you how do you manage that? Yeah, I mean

95:51

I think a couple things. one um there

95:54

are so many stories of hope that I think

95:56

um counterbalance that for me. So I

95:58

think you know the other stories in my

96:00

mind are you know I carry with me and

96:02

still care for and are in touch with

96:03

people who are living these amazing

96:05

vibrant lives in recovery and in the US

96:07

alone there's 24 million people living

96:09

in recovery. So there are these stories

96:10

of people who have overcome just trauma,

96:13

tragedy, hardship and are doing awesome.

96:15

They're parenting, they're working. You

96:17

probably don't even know they're around

96:18

you. you know, they don't tell people

96:20

necessarily that they're in recovery.

96:21

And getting to be sort of a part of that

96:23

process with someone and watching, you

96:26

know, there's nothing in medicine where

96:27

I can actually see as dramatic of a

96:29

change as with addiction, where someone

96:31

can be, you know, at a moment where

96:33

they're dealing with all of these health

96:34

consequences and relationship challenges

96:36

and then they get better and it's just

96:38

like the most beautiful thing to be a

96:40

part of. And so, I think the hope from

96:41

that, the sort of positivity of it is

96:44

what keeps me going every day. Obviously

96:46

finding ways to care for myself through

96:47

that and family and connection,

96:49

exercise. I run, I write, you know, you

96:51

gota you have to keep yourself whole

96:53

through it all, too. But I think I get I

96:55

get tremendous purpose and mostly like a

96:57

lot of hope from working with people and

96:59

seeing them recover. What is the most

97:00

important thing we didn't talk about

97:01

that we should have talked about?

97:04

I think one thing is language. It's like

97:06

this subtle thing. I sort of mentioned

97:08

an example where you did it really well

97:09

where instead of saying someone failed

97:10

treatment, you said the treatment failed

97:12

them. But a lot of the language that we

97:14

use with addiction actually subtly and

97:16

not so subtly worsen stigma. And

97:18

sometimes this sounds like I'm being

97:20

politically correct or it's like an

97:21

issue of semantics, but there's actually

97:23

really good data on this. So if you

97:24

think about words we use for addiction,

97:26

one is substance abuse, right? So the

97:28

term abuse, what does abuse refer to? So

97:30

it actually comes from an old English

97:31

word that means like a willful act of

97:33

misconduct. And it's a word that we use

97:35

for child abuse, for sexual abuse, for

97:37

domestic abuse. like it's only for these

97:39

like terribly violent acts of commission

97:42

that are very stigmatized because

97:43

they're like terrible things. And yet we

97:45

use it for this thing that we're saying

97:46

as a health condition that you're like a

97:47

substance abuser or you have substance

97:49

abuse. And so there have actually been

97:51

these elegant studies that took like PhD

97:53

level psychologists, really highly

97:54

trained clinicians, and they described a

97:56

person as either a substance abuser or

97:58

as a person with a substance use

97:59

disorder. And the clinician was actually

98:01

more likely to recommend a punitive

98:03

intervention for the person described as

98:04

a substance abuser. What does that mean?

98:06

So in this case, they were given like an

98:08

option. You read this paragraph about a

98:10

p about like a fictional patient and

98:12

they don't really know what the

98:13

researchers are testing and they're

98:14

given a bunch of different options for

98:16

intervention and one is this like send

98:18

them to drug court or send them to jail.

98:20

One is like offer them, you know,

98:22

outpatient effective treatment. There's

98:24

a bunch of different choices. When they

98:25

hear someone described as a substance

98:27

abuser, they're actually more likely to

98:28

recommend the like jailbased

98:29

intervention.

98:31

So words actually like very in they

98:33

influence how we think even how we make

98:35

clinical decisions. They've also done

98:36

this to the public. So if you describe

98:38

someone as a drug addict the public has

98:40

a more negative view of them than if you

98:41

describe them as a person with

98:43

addiction. So there are these subtle

98:44

ways there's been this shift in

98:46

addiction to really using what we call

98:48

person first language which has been

98:50

true across medicine. So like we used to

98:52

use terrible words like we'd refer to

98:53

someone as like the schizophrenic you

98:55

know or really labeling them as their

98:57

health condition. And thankfully there's

98:58

been a change from that to realize that

99:00

people are people first who have an

99:01

illness or not defined by it. So I would

99:03

never say like I'm going to go see the

99:05

lung cancer in room 204. I'd say I'm

99:07

going to see you know Mr. Smith who has

99:09

lung cancer. And so with addiction too

99:10

like people are more than that. So to

99:12

say you know person with addiction

99:14

person alcohol use disorder rather than

99:15

saying they're an addict or an

99:16

alcoholic. And then even terms like

99:18

clean and dirty which are commonly used

99:20

when we talk about addiction. So you

99:22

know take the word clean. It sounds

99:24

really positive. Like you're saying,

99:25

"Oh, you're clean." But like what are

99:26

you really saying? So you're saying

99:28

like, "If you're clean now, when you

99:29

were actively struggling, what were you?

99:31

You were dirty." And so I always

99:34

remember an example, a friend of mine

99:35

who's in recovery was interviewing for

99:37

jobs in the recovery space. And so

99:39

people on the on the interview trail

99:40

would say to him like, "How long have

99:42

you been clean for?" And he would say,

99:43

"Well, I've been bathing since I was a

99:44

newborn. So I've been clean my whole

99:46

life and I've been in recovery for five

99:48

years or whatever." So, I think these

99:50

little things actually matter that we

99:52

should use terminology that we'd use for

99:54

another health condition. If we're

99:55

labeling, you know, people with active

99:57

addiction as dirty or, you know, people

99:59

with addiction is the same as child

100:01

abusers with that sort of language, um,

100:03

we're really sort of subtly increasing

100:04

stigma. So, that's a small thing that we

100:06

can all do is just try to use language

100:08

that's a bit bit more humanizing. It's

100:10

so interesting because I was aware of

100:11

this, but I still found myself

100:13

accidentally using the word abuse. Yeah.

100:15

And I' I'd stumble into it. Go [ __ ]

100:18

um I try to avoid the use of the word

100:20

addict. Yeah, it's hard to change, but

100:23

you know, like everything you just want

100:24

to be humble, curious, and keep trying.

100:26

I mean, there's lots of language that

100:28

we've changed. Like, think about so many

100:29

terms we use for, you know, for you

100:32

know, people who are born with different

100:33

abilities or for people of different

100:35

races or other identities that were

100:37

really stigmatizing and we've like

100:39

learned to use different language even

100:40

if it feels a little awkward when you're

100:42

first learning it. I think understanding

100:43

the science and the data behind the

100:45

impact it has to use certain language I

100:47

think is really useful. Yeah. Because

100:49

that's helped me to understand just

100:50

because now I understand the first

100:51

principles of it. I need to make sure I

100:52

describe people as a person first. So a

100:55

person with addiction addiction is much

100:57

better than calling someone an addict.

100:59

Yep. Exactly. And one thing people ask

101:01

me will say well what if someone refers

101:02

to themselves that way because people

101:04

may do that and that's I'm that's fine.

101:06

People can use whatever language they

101:08

want for themselves. But I think as a

101:10

health care professional for sure or

101:11

someone who's trying to help combat

101:13

stigma, like we can choose to use

101:15

different language. And I've actually

101:16

had patients sort of ask me like, well,

101:18

why do you use that terminology when

101:19

they use a different language? And it

101:21

actually can be sort of empowering to be

101:23

like, oh yeah, I'm actually a person in

101:24

recovery or I'm a person with addiction.

101:26

I'm not going to label myself that way

101:28

anymore.

101:30

Something I've been really um curious

101:31

about just in my life generally because

101:32

in conversation, I'll often I said

101:34

something yesterday when we were at

101:35

dinner with with the team here. I said,

101:38

I can't remember the exact phrase, but

101:39

it was words to the effect

101:43

of I'm not good at that or I'm not that

101:46

type of person or I'm

101:48

not organized. And I stopped myself and

101:52

the team will remember and I go actually

101:53

I shouldn't say that. I should say right

101:56

now uh was you're like defining yourself

101:59

as incapable of doing something instead

102:01

of being like I'm working on

102:02

organization right now. I think it's so

102:04

important and we don't think about it

102:05

how casually we create an identity for

102:08

oursel that is like fundamentally

102:09

limiting or puts us in a box or frames

102:12

us having a deficit or captures our

102:14

whole identity and some kind of

102:15

deficiency we have often in the case of

102:18

the habits I'm referring to does this a

102:20

similar thing take effect when we're

102:22

talking about calling someone an addict

102:24

yeah you're sort of labeling them as

102:25

that is the only thing that they are and

102:27

that they will be that forever and you

102:29

know um a friend of mine who's a

102:30

journalist who is in recovery and writes

102:32

a lot about addiction. My Solivitz wrote

102:34

this great New York Times piece that

102:36

addiction doesn't always last a lifetime

102:37

because I think there's this idea in our

102:39

head that like you know people with

102:40

addiction will always have addiction and

102:42

it's this like incurable thing and that

102:45

actually people have lots of different

102:46

journeys and for some people you know

102:48

that becomes something they deal with

102:50

and then they move on their lives. For

102:51

other people it's something that they

102:52

actively manage. But this idea that you

102:55

sort of boil things down to like the

102:57

only thing I am in this world as a

102:58

person with addiction, um, you really

103:01

limit everything else about

103:02

yourself. We have a closing tradition on

103:05

this podcast where the last guest leaves

103:06

a question for the next, not knowing who

103:08

they're going to be leaving it for. And

103:09

the question that's been left for you

103:12

is, if you could redo or revise one

103:17

thing that you have successfully

103:21

accomplished, what would that be and

103:23

why?

103:25

I guess I would say, and I could think

103:28

of lots of successful accomplishments

103:31

I'd apply this to, but I'll take the

103:32

example of medical training, which is a

103:34

successful accomplishment. I think I

103:36

would be more present that we are always

103:38

like rushing to the accomplishment to

103:40

the finish line to sort of getting to

103:42

the next goal and I think back and wish

103:46

I had realized what an amazing journey

103:48

it was in that moment and I mean even

103:50

things with medical training that I was

103:52

I was never going to be a heart surgeon

103:53

but to stand in an operating room and

103:55

look inside someone's chest and watch a

103:58

beating heart is an experience that I'll

104:00

never get again and I think in this

104:01

journey to always achieve and move

104:03

forward and get to the next exam and the

104:04

next thing we sometimes miss like the

104:06

miracle that's right in front of us. And

104:08

so I think I would have um been even

104:10

more present.

104:12

That applies to all of us. I felt like I

104:15

was being called out.

104:19

True for parenting, true for everything.

104:22

Thank you so much. I'm so grateful for

104:24

the work that you're doing because

104:25

there's so much there's so much um

104:27

conflicting information, especially as

104:29

it relates to alcohol. There's been so

104:31

much information over the last 5 10

104:33

years about um the impact alcohol has on

104:35

us. And I've sat here and and had

104:37

conversations with people who are pretty

104:39

convinced that even, you know, moderate

104:42

levels of alcohol are good for us. And

104:44

having read your work, I'm now clear on

104:46

what the truth there is. Um thank you

104:48

for doing what you do. It's incredibly

104:49

important. And I actually think it's

104:51

going to become increasingly important

104:52

unfortunately because the way that the

104:54

world is heading, the loneliness

104:56

epidemic that we're experiencing and um

104:59

the the access we now have to digital

105:01

devices and to um lowcost consumption of

105:04

addictive substances is is terrifying

105:06

for me. I know you've got a book on the

105:08

way which I'm extremely excited about

105:09

which is due in autumn, next autumn.

105:11

Spring of 27. So we have Okay. And

105:14

what's that book about? Can you give me

105:15

a give me a clue? I mean, I could gasp.

105:18

It is going to be about changing the

105:19

narrative around addiction and um about

105:22

really reframing how people think about

105:24

it to see it as a treatable good

105:26

prognosis illness and using some of the

105:28

stories of people I've had the privilege

105:29

of knowing to hopefully help people see

105:31

things in a different way. Where do

105:33

people find you if they want to reach

105:35

out or learn more? Yes. Um they can find

105:37

me on LinkedIn, on Instagram, they can

105:40

email me. Um yeah, happy to connect and

105:43

would love to come back after the book

105:44

is out too. I look forward to that. I'd

105:46

love to. So, your Instagram, your

105:48

LinkedIn, I'll put those details below.

105:50

I'm sure you'll probably get a lot of

105:51

messages. Great. Um because these issues

105:53

in particular are incredibly um

105:56

incredibly potent issues in people's

105:58

lives and um very emotional issues as

106:00

well. So, thank you for on behalf of all

106:02

my audience, thank you for your

106:03

generosity today, but also thank you for

106:04

your wisdom. Really, really appreciated

106:06

and I would love to speak to you again

106:07

soon when the book is out. Thank you.

106:09

Thank you for having me.

106:13

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106:14

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Interactive Summary

This video features an in-depth conversation with Dr. Sarah Wakeman, a Harvard professor and addiction medicine expert, who discusses the complexities of addiction. The talk dispels myths about alcohol consumption, emphasizing that even moderate intake has health risks, and challenges the societal stigma surrounding addiction, advocating for compassionate, science-based treatment. Dr. Wakeman explains the biological and environmental drivers of addiction, including trauma, and underscores the vital importance of human connection in the recovery process.

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