The Muscle Building Expert: They’re Lying To You About Workout Hours! Dr Michael Israetel
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Doing this at home will give you
phenomenal overall results with not so
much time investment. It's not so
difficult. We're talking about a sum
total of Really?
Yeah, yeah. Doing that per week will
radically transform your body. Dr. Mike
Israetel is a leading sports scientist
who provides no-nonsense, science-based
strategies
on muscle building, fat loss, and
helping people maximize their fitness
potential. My intention is to get
everyone in as good of shape as possible
with minimum time investment.
So, where do we start?
So, it's the consistency that matters.
Doesn't matter if it's 2 hours a week or
if it's 18 hours a week. If you're
consistent, you can get amazing
benefits. And then there's the
specificity, which is the most important
principle in all of exercise science.
It's telling yourself, "Okay, I want
bigger biceps." And then focus on that.
And also every real working set should
be challenging. Is there a perfect
amount of repetitions to do? There is,
it's a trade secret. But it's
How long will it take me to lose the
muscles that I've gained if I don't go
back to the gym?
After about 2 weeks of not lifting, you
start to lose muscle. But most people
think, "Oh my god." Another 8 months
just to get back to where I started?
But when you gain an initial amount of
muscle, it never goes back to the same
size as when you started. It's just
always going to be bigger. And then got
a couple of hours a week. I just want to
get a bit leaner and I want to gain some
muscle.
Okay, the first thing we do is
Dr. Michael, are there any supplements
you suggest I take?
Whey protein, casein protein. What about
steroids? Jesus Christ, I'm really going
to say this. You recently on like a
boatload of steroids. There are a few
downsides.
What are the downsides that no one's
talking about?
They're unspeakable. You really want to
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Dr. Michael
What is the mission that you find
yourself on in this phase of your life?
For those who would like
to get everyone who would like in as
good of shape as possible
with as minimum of a time investment,
injury probability
and
inconvenience uh in general as possible
and the highest likelihood of best
results while trying to completely
excise doing anything that is pointless
and also
I'm going to say this politely
telling people things
that aren't true.
We're trying to get as many people fit,
leaner, more muscular, more flexible,
healthier, etc. as humanly possible to
the extent that they are interested in
that sort of thing. Cuz not everyone's
into fitness, I understand that. I mean
I think I look kind of, you know, freaky
and it scares certain people. So, I have
a lot of time for that. But if you want
to get fit, uh
we're trying our best.
What are the the big myths that end up
standing in the way of most people? When
they when they hear this conversation
now
what are the most frequent rebuttals
that you'll get when you say that
someone can get in shape and be a be
lean with limited time?
Two super common ones are
I don't have the time to work out. And
into that time to work out is included I
don't have regular gym access or I
technically do, but I'd have to drive to
the gym. I just don't have the time or
the bandwidth or I don't have the
scheduling positioning in in my life to
do this sort of thing. And baked into
that is the assumption that getting much
healthier and much leaner and much more
muscular takes like an inordinate amount
of time. What are the most common
questions I get out in the real world
when people happen to look in my general
direction cuz usually people just kind
of go like, "What the hell's wrong with
that guy's head?" But uh one of the most
common questions I get is how many
uh hours a day do you work out or how
many days a week do you work out? And
every single person is expecting an
answer
that is kind of like asking the tallest
basketball player you've ever met how
tall they are. You want an answer that's
like 2 and 1/2 m. You want something
meaty. And if they tell you like, "Well,
I'm a meter 90." You're kind of like,
"Ugh,
it's not that cool." And every time I
tell them how much I work out, which is
really like
at at my real like trying to be as good
as bodybuilding as possible, it is
really 8 hours a week. And this is to do
this insane thing for people just trying
to be fit and healthy, etc. We're
talking about a sum total of 1 hour per
week split into two or three 20-ish
minute sessions. Something we'll be
trying later on
is such a huge stimulus and can
radically transform your body,
especially if you have attention to
nutrition. And that's the second thing
that's a big dogma, big myth is
people have
ideas about what comes in to nutrition
and nutrition for being more lean, more
muscular, and healthier. They have all
these kind of a constellation of ideas.
Um uh economist and philosopher Thomas
Sowell calls them notions. So, if you
have a hierarchy of understanding, you
have theory at the top, which is like
gravitation, evolution, things super
super confirmed. Just beneath that you
have model like the standard model in
physics. It's not quite good enough,
quite good enough support be a theory,
but it's very well understood space with
a few mysteries. Under that you have
hypothesis,
which is, you know, you have a real good
idea formally phrased. And underneath
that you have a notion. And a notion's
just things people say and people are
like, "Uh-huh." And no one even asks or
answers about, "Is this really true?"
And so, when you talk to people about
nutrition or they talk to you about why
they're not in such great shape. Another
thing I get is when you're pretty jacked
and lean and you sit next to someone on
a plane, they treat you almost like a
religious figure, like a priest or an
imam. And they're like, "Apologize."
They're like, "Oh, you look like you're
in good shape. I just haven't been to
the gym." And I'm like, "I love you as a
human being." You know, all the time.
All the time. They apologize for the
state they're in? More or less, yeah. Or
they'll see me eat a protein bar and
they're getting like the food on the
plane and they're like, "Fsh, this is
bad for me, huh?" And I'm like, "No,
it's actually quite fine." And they
always look a little bit confused. So,
all these ideas people have about
nutrition organic artificial sweeteners
are bad, gluten-free, GMOs, um you have
to have very meticulously well-prepared
meals. There is a ton of food that's
huge laundry list of food that's
unhealthy and bad for you, makes you
fat. There are other foods that are a
little bit more nuanced and difficult to
find that are super health foods that
will radically transform you. I can go
on for hours about these myths. But
people come in with these myths as
notions, as things they believe that
they're like, "This is how it is,
right?" And when you tell them like,
"This is actually that's not true." A
lot of them are like,
"No way." Cuz maybe that's the first
time they've heard about it. So, you
tell people
working out doesn't have to last
forever.
If you do it intelligently, which is
what we specialize at RP about teaching
people how to do and demonstrating
digital products,
you can get into really really good
shape with not so much time investment.
It's not so difficult.
Um
It's difficult in the moment as far as
you got to try hard, but you know, an
hour of trying hard a week is not the
end of the world. And then on the
nutritional front, they come in and they
think it takes all these crazy special
things like people watch me eat regular
food and they'll be like, "You eat
that?" And I'm like, "Yes." Like, "But I
thought that, you know, but do you need
the super special food?" I think that's
never been true.
But um
people come in with their stack of ideas
and these there's just dozens and dozens
of myths on both of hands. We'll go
through all of those myths. But but my
last question before we get into it is
why does it matter to be in good shape?
And this is I I yeah, I'm asking you
here to really draw on some of the case
studies that you've probably been
exposed to where people have turned
their lives around. What is the net
benefit of someone who's listening right
now, who's maybe heard about fitness
stuff before and has heard from personal
trainers and bodybuilders and whoever
else. But for whatever reason they just
haven't been able to get up off the sofa
and get into action. It's difficult, you
know. What is what Why should they? Why
should they care?
I love that question.
The first thing I'll say is um
is maybe not a surprise to many of the
people that know me.
Politically, I'm like super pro-freedom,
freedom of all kinds, inclusion.
And that means to me also that if
someone doesn't want to pursue fitness,
as a human being, you have the same love
and respect, at least for me, that
anyone who is fit would have. And so, as
far as like, "It'll just make you a
better person. You got to you got to get
fit." People will see
uh people that are obese and they're
like, "Look lazy." And "Ugh, how do they
live with themselves?" I don't ever
think things like that. Not cuz I'm a
good person. I'm not a good person at
all. But
what fitness won't give you is it won't
elevate your status as a better person
in some way.
However,
the other benefits
of fitness, we could have a 10-hour
podcast where I just go through one one
at a time and we would never get through
all of them. I'll give you a couple of
samplings of kind of the big hitters.
One is health, straight up. So, if you
reduce your body fat substantially and
you increase your muscularity
substantially and you adopt a lifestyle
of
moderate to moderately high physical
activity quite regularly,
this is about as close in real life as
we have so far to a panacea, a cure-all.
It isn't cure-all, but the degree of
preventative
uh you won't get really sick very soon.
The fact that has is just radical.
I
just coming off of them, but if it's
okay to say it was recently on like a
boatload of steroids, like the worst
ones.
Got blood work right in the middle of
that. Because I was a very lean and very
physically active and very muscular, my
blood work stellar. Just being leaner
and more muscular and more active, just
cleans your blood work up like crazy.
And makes your long-term it increases
your longevity considerably, but it does
something I think is pretty close to
equally important. It increases
the kind of time you're having in your
life
while you're alive.
It makes it way better. It reduces the
morbidity. And so cuz you can be around
a long time living in assisted care
facility and like on machines to keep
you
That's you're alive, sure, but it's
something missing there. But if you have
more muscle, less fat, and more physical
activity, you ever see like an
80-year-old that's like cardio walking
down the street and you're like, "My
man!" It'll give you that. So that's a
big deal. So health, it'll give you uh
usually people experience a perception
of wellness that's psychological. They
just feel better. They feel cleaner.
They feel more energy. The cognitive
benefits of health and fitness are now
being addressed seriously in the
literature and they have been for a
little while, but it's kind of swelling.
Uh it's unequivocally true now to say
that regularly engaging in fitness makes
you literally smarter.
Just straight up. And it conserves your
brain's cognitive health for decades
into the future as you do it
consistently. It's just win all the way
across. What is your
background in terms of your academic
qualifications and experiences that
you've had that feed into everything
that you know? This is sounds so
pretentious. I can't believe I'm using
this nomenclature, but I did my
undergraduate work at the University of
Michigan where I met uh my fellow
co-founder of RP Nick Shaw.
And um that was in kinesiology,
specifically subset of something called
movement science. I then went on to do a
master's in technically strength and
conditioning but exercise science at
Appalachian State University. Then I
went for 1 year to go work in New York
City with Nick as a personal trainer.
At the end of that process, I realized
that for my own personal like vibe, I
just didn't know enough. And I wanted to
know more. And so I got accepted to a
PhD program at East Tennessee State
University under the great Mike Stone
who is
probably one of the most well-published
sports scientists of all time. Maybe
definitely in the conversation for the
greatest American sports scientist of
all time.
And I went to that PhD program and that
was in sport physiology. And the best
way we had of summarizing what it is we
were learning is the thing we're
learning best here is how to take good
athletes and make them better.
And so I did 3 years of that. Sounds
like some prison time. I did 3 years in
ETSU.
And uh
that was the conclusion as a terminal
degree. I got a PhD in sport physiology.
And then I spent oh jeez, 10 years in
various professorships uh teaching and
doing some research and all this other
stuff. I'm no longer a college professor
mostly because like there's only so many
things you can do at the same time well.
And I was kind of like this is this
YouTube thing is getting kind of insane.
So I was kind of pivot to that. But um
I'm still actively involved in research.
Our company funds research. I still look
at manuscripts. I still co-author. So
I'm still involved in that capacity as
well. So I want to start with a start.
If someone's listening to this right now
and they have walked into your This is
your
This is your practice. You're This is
your hypertrophy practice, let's say,
this table. And they sit there and they
say,
"I would like to gain more lean muscle
mass and I'd like to lose some weight.
Um I live a busy life.
Where do we start? What's step one? And
you know, like I'm actually going to
hazard a guess at step one and to see if
I'm correct, but for me step one is
quite psychological.
Because it's all well and good me having
the tactics and strategies and the
information, but if I don't have the
motivation, then if it's going to matter
anyway.
So is step one
psychological in some way? Absolutely.
My god. You should just be taking my job
at this point.
No, but yeah, okay. I thought so. I
thought that was So what what would you
do for me to get me in the right
psychological mindset?
I would even take a step back before
that.
Okay.
The first thing we do
is called a needs analysis in formal
sports science.
A needs analysis is
what do you want
specifically? Do you want bigger arms?
How much muscle are you trying to gain?
It's a very different conversation if
someone weighs 150 lb and they're like,
"I want to be 155 but leaner."
versus I weigh 150 lb and I want to be
200 ripped. Different timelines,
different approaches, different
tradeoffs. Okay, give me the typical
answer to that question. Most people are
just open-ended to be completely honest.
They're like, "I just want to get much
leaner." And some of them will say, "I
also want to put on a lot of muscle."
The muscle thing is a lot of times with
females they just want the leaner part,
but they understand in many cases that
if they just jettison their muscle
entirely, they end of looking more sick
than healthy. Uh but a lot of the males
leaner is important, but also getting
super jacked is important. But how
jacked and how lean, that's the
conversation is if they come in with
totally open-ended concerns. It's kind
of like walking into a car dealership
and be like, "I want a car." Like you
kind of have to be a little We'll sell
you whatever, but you're going to have
to tell me a little bit more about what
your use cases are, about what your
budget is. So that's another big thing
in a needs analysis is
how much time can you give to this?
Because if someone says, "I want to
eventually be a professional bodybuilder
and I've got nothing but time in my week
to do the thing." They're getting a very
different plan than someone that's like,
"I just want to be able to see my man
down there again and like just not die
soon.
And I have 2 hours a week to give you."
Very different plan. So I've got let's
say I've got a couple of hours a week.
So you know, two, three Mhm. hours a
week that I could probably spare, maybe
four. And I just want to get a bit
leaner and I want to gain some muscle.
Yeah.
I also ask, "What have you been doing so
far? Tell me about your approach to
fitness." And the answer could be, "I
don't have one. I've never tried to do
anything." Once we get a lot of that
information, I don't want to say the
plan writes itself, but it sort of
almost. Now we really really really have
all the details to fill in the blanks.
And then from there, once you've done
that sort of needs analysis and you've
understood the investment that they're
willing to make, you understand what
their goals are, you understand their
current approach to fitness, what
becomes step two? So if again, I'm
trying to embody the viewer here who's
trying to change their life. Yeah, yeah.
Get going for Step two often times just
to keep it We can I We can definitely do
nutrition if you'd like. So please keep
me in for that, but I'll just use
training as a quick example here.
Uh a big one is
do you go to a gym?
Can you make it to a gym or are you
going to be training at home?
Because training at home is a bit of a
different world. You can get amazing
results at home, but we need to make
sure you have the right equipment. And
it's super minimal. Two 20-lb dumbbells.
I like that you're looking over at the
dumbbells like
At least 20 kg dumbbells. The 20-lb
dumbbells. Is that what I need at home?
For many people, 20 like adult males
bright and spry like yourself, 20-lb
dumbbells at home will give you
phenomenal overall results. Yeah.
What is that? 9 kg or something? Oh,
here we go.
Your assistants are quite strong by the
way. Thank you. Do you fight crime in
your spare time?
Okay, so these
are 20-lb dumbbells.
You're just showing off now. But these
are what I need at home to to do your
workout. Uh yeah, somewhere between 10
and 20 lb. 10 for smaller lighter
females, 20 for larger more strong
males. Somewhere between that. Two of
those dumbbells at home and a little bit
of floor space can be the beginning of
an absolutely revolutionary workout
program. Really?
Yeah, yeah. How So
give me the starting position and the
end position that I could get to just
with these dumbbells at home?
If you properly control your diet
and you haven't really lifted weights
before and you're let's say 30, 40, 50
years old, in a 6-month time span,
we can reliably get you to gain 5 to 10
lb of muscle. Which if you go to the
store, what is that like? Five, let's
say the two to five kilos of muscle. You
ever buy two to five kilos of meat at
the store? That's a lot of meat. That's
going on your body. And we can reliably
get you to lose oh gee, five to seven
and a half kilos of fat in a 6-month
time frame just by being intelligent
about your diet and doing
two workouts per week at home with your
dumbbells. And the workouts each take
roughly 20 minutes.
So that's 40 minutes a week.
Mhm.
Oh yeah. Now that's if you're on a
custom then and unadjusted. If you have
already That's why those intake
questions are important. Cuz if you're
like, "Look, I go to the gym six times a
week. I spend 2 hours at the gym." Like
the dumbbells can keep you in pretty
good shape, but they're not going to
elevate your shape very likely. At the
very very least it'll be highly
inefficient and incredibly discomforting
for what you'd have to do with such
dumbbells.
So what is step three then? So if we've
got the equipment part figured out, and
I guess the complicated element of that
is some people have anxiety as it
relates to going to the gym. I've got a
lot of friends that because they're so
inexperienced with weightlifting or the
machines, they feel embarrassed to go to
the gym. So that Well, at least that's
what they tell me. Now I don't know
whether they're BS-ing themselves, but
they tell me that they have gym anxiety.
Yes. You know, you walk And I No,
actually, I can relate. You walk into a
gym, especially if I go to like a
like a bodybuilding gym,
and I do look around and go, "Okay,
everyone here knows what they're doing
more than I do." Ooh, that's already
wrong, but we'll get to that in a bit.
And are they looking at me? Are they Do
they know that I I don't know how this
machine works? And if I don't know how a
machine works and there's nothing, you
know, no label to tell me, sometimes I
just avoid the machine if I'm in a in
like a bodybuilding gym, cuz I go, "I
[ __ ] know I don't know how to do my
wrist muscles." Yep.
I just look like a doofus and everyone's
making fun of me in their head.
I think sometimes. If I go to like a
really elite gym, so. Yeah.
So, first of all, I think people's gym
anxiety is absolutely real thing. I can
speak to that at at length.
The next step would be to say, "Hey,
listen,
based on all the information we've
collected on your limitations, desires,
abilities,
we've cultivated a plan for you. Be diet
plan, and it's just just sticking to the
muscle growth stuff.
Here's your plan for your training.
And we actually have an app for this
sort of thing,
where we would say, "Okay, here's how
you type in all your stuff in the app.
The app will create a plan for you, and
it'll tell you, here's what to do for
warming up, here's you know, you pick a
weight, it tells you how to pick your
weights, and then it programs the rest
of your your 2 months of training for
you. You fill in the how do we how do I
feel, how am I recovering? It'll take
care of everything else.
And if you ever get confused, you click
on the exercise and it opens up a video
with an audio demonstration of how to do
it and of someone a professional
bodybuilder doing the thing. You go,
"Oh, that's that's what bicep curls was.
Okay, got it." So, now you have all the
answers, and you don't have to have our
app. We think it's nice. You don't have
to have it. Just whatever kind of plan
you have,
that's your little map of the Caribbean
Sea with the X's and the pirate ships,
and you know exactly where to go. And
it's you,
your app or your map of how to train
your program, and everyone else like in
the Avengers movies, just
just floats away. There's no one else.
There's not even any other machines.
It's you
and the bicep curl machine, and
hypertrophy app says, "First set is 12
reps at 50 lb." I take the selector I
stack I go to 50, and I'm nice and
warmed up, and I do 12 reps. And that's
as far as you have to think about it.
Comparisons, whatever everyone else
thinks, without a plan, oh boy, are you
second-guessing yourself. With a plan,
you don't have to second-guess anything.
Most of those people don't have a plan.
They're just in there on vibes. Like, "I
don't feel like my delts are going to
grow today if I do this." Like, "Thanks.
Thanks for that intellectual opinion."
You said there's two types of effective
training. One of them's hyp- Can't say
this, but one of them's hypertrophy?
Very good. And the other one is
periodization?
Uh so, periodization is the
scientifically based organization of any
kind of training that you want. Okay.
Hypertrophy training is a type of
training. It's just muscle growth
training. It's like a fancy [ __ ]
science word for
just getting more jacked, putting on
muscle. That's is technical definition
of hypertrophy. And when you train
hypertrophy, you can do it kind of like
by feel and more or less at random, and
you'll get pretty good results in most
cases. But to get your best results, you
want that training to be periodized.
Periodization is the scientific approach
to how to organize your training to get
sort of roughly three things. Some of
these are a bit more for athletes and
not regular people.
Get the best results that you can.
Peak at an appropriate time, abs for
summer.
And minimize injury risk.
And taking all the science that we know,
that plan that you've made because you
did it in evidence-based fashion, that
is now what is considered a periodized
plan. So, that's how those two concepts
relate to each other. What do I need to
know about hypertrophy in order to be
able to achieve it? Is there anything
really foundational, cuz
I think everyone wants a bit of muscle
growth. And I spend I think I spend too
long in the gym. I think I could be much
more efficient um when I'm training.
What would you recommend that I start
thinking about as fun- foundational
principles when it comes to hypertrophy
muscle growth?
One is specificity.
It's the most important principle in all
of sport training and exercise science.
Is uh
what am I here for? What do I want?
Because you can do a bunch of exercises
in the gym,
and you're like, "That was great." And
someone's like, "Are you getting the
results you like?" You're like, "Well,
what I want is a bigger bicep." Like,
"How many bicep exercises did you do?"
Like, "I think upright rows, maybe." So,
I want a bigger bicep. We just focus on
getting Steven Bartlett a bigger left
bicep.
So,
specificity is telling yourself, "Okay,
I want bigger biceps and whatever X Y Z
other muscles."
Then we move in to the principle of
overload, which means you have to
challenge yourself.
If most of your sets,
someone else watching them can't tell if
you're warming up or doing what's called
a working set, like a real set, you have
a problem.
So, towards the end of all of your sets,
either the weights are slowing down,
or even if it's the same speed, to you
they feel perceptibly harder. You know,
you do this this this, and in a couple
reps you're like,
that's what you want. Every real working
set should be challenging. You should be
work approaching every real set with
just a teeny teeny dose of trepidation.
Like, "Oh boy, here we go. I'm going to
have to try."
Once you have that, And a set is a a
group of repetitions.
Correct.
So, if I do 10 repetitions, that's one
set.
Okay.
And so, your sets have to be
sufficiently heavy,
uh anything between roughly five reps
per set and 30 reps per set, where the
last few reps are getting close to you
not being able to use good technique and
lift the weights.
Check plus. So, there's not a set a
perfect amount of repetitions to do.
There is. It's a trade secret, and I'd
have to say it off camera to you. Like
Okay, NDA aside, we're off camera.
All right, great. So, it's 17.
Um there is so there's just tons of tons
of contextual nuance kind of stuff. Some
people some of their muscles will seem
respond better to sets of five to 10.
Other folks, even the same person could
have muscles in their body that really
respond better to sets of 20 to 30 and
everything in between. But generally,
you get in in the exercise science data,
you'll have a group of people training
for sets of roughly five reps and
another group training for sets of
roughly 30 reps, and their change in
muscle growth over 8, 12, 16 weeks is
statistically and differentiable, which
means if I de-label the groups and you
don't know which ones which, you can't
actually tell me who trained with higher
reps or lower reps. For muscle growth,
it's roughly the same.
And that's so crazy. Using the same
weight, I'm guessing different
weights.
A weight that is challenging for five
reps is much heavier than a weight that
is challenging for 30.
Uh okay, so I do wonder this all the
time when I go to the gym. I wonder if I
should be doing, I don't know, 30 reps
of 10 kg on my bicep, or I should be
doing 10 reps of 20 kg. They're both
right answers. No wrong answers there.
And they both have the same chance of
growing my muscles as long as the strain
that I experience subjectively is
difficult at the end of those sets.
Correct. Okay, interesting.
Which is really good news, because
that's like another thing you don't have
to worry about. Which means at home I
can get any range of weights versus
having to get really really big ones to
grow my muscles.
As long as they're not so tiny that
you're on rep number 45 and you're like,
"I could just do this for forever." Or
they're not so enormous that you're
like, "I can't really even do two reps
of this." Anything between roughly five
and roughly 30 reps, challenging, is
really really good.
How many sets and how often do I have to
visit the gym
to get this bicep to grow? That answer
depends on how much you've been doing
before. Okay.
But if you're new to the gym,
two sessions a week
with two to three sets per session for
your biceps
is something that's going to cause
months and months and months of
consistent progress. Really? Can you do
more? Yes. Do you have to do as a
beginner? No. Eventually, as a more
advanced person, do you need to do more
sets and perhaps more sessions to get
consistently better results? Yes. But
for beginners who haven't been in the
gym very much or at all, the minimal
effective dose is profoundly small,
which is why I can say things like if
you work out for 20 minutes twice a
week, you're going to get great gains.
What if I go to the gym and I do
six sets on my biceps, and I just go to
the gym once a week. Does the distance
between the workouts in a muscle group
have an impact? Yes.
Once a week training gives you good
results.
But twice a week training for the same
muscle
gives you notably better results.
Training three times a week versus
twice. Training four times a week versus
three times. Training five times a week
versus four times is uh an uh an
exponentially de-escalating amount of
impressive differences. So, one time a
week works. It'll get you results.
Two times a week gets you like one and a
half times the results, like way better
better.
Three times a week is like another
little bit more results, still notable.
Four times a week is like you got to be
training for a while to notice the
difference between three and four. Four
and five is contextual and nuanced, and
I can't actually tell you that
categorically five days a week is better
than four. There are some things I would
have to know about your plan and
everything else to make that conclusion.
So, really I want to be aiming at twice
a week per muscle group.
Twice is our minimum. Two to four times
a week is what I say as kind of the best
overall recommendation per muscle group.
And if you train all of your muscles
together at the same time, a whole body
workout, which most people in the realm
of just I'm busy and I can't train a
lot, it would be all the major muscles
of your body
in the same session,
twice or three times or four times a
week, and that is an awesome beginner
fitness plan. What's going on in my
muscles that's encouraging them and
making them grow? And when are they
growing? Is it when I go to bed at
night? Is it when I Do they grow the
minute that I curl the the dumbbell?
What's actually going on? Cuz sometimes
understanding what's actually going on
inside helps me to think through and
change my behavior.
Yeah, so the primary stimulus for muscle
growth is there are molecular machines
in your muscles in your muscle cells and
they are designed to detect the presence
of
tension.
And when your muscles generate tension,
the molecular detector machines go "Ooh,
we got tension here." And they start
saying to other parts of the cells like
"Hey, let's get this muscle growth thing
started." Started, not happening,
started. So, the stimulus of muscle
growth.
There are a couple of other mechanisms
which
might {slash} probably have an effect.
And that a couple of them are metabolite
sequestration, which is a very fancy way
of saying the burn. You know, at the end
of a set you're like
The metabolites, the
byproducts of training, if they
accumulate to high levels, it's been
shown in tons of animal studies and a
few human studies that like
mechanistically they might also tell the
molecular machinery that grows muscle
for you again later
to hey, get the muscle growth process.
Another one is the pump. So, you know,
you do a couple of sets of biceps,
you're like "Oh my god, what's going on
here, baby?" Flash it at some girl, she
runs away as usual.
And the actual cell swelling itself
might play a causal mechanistic role in
generating more muscle growth, but but
we know it's probably at least at least
80% of the muscle growth anyone will see
is because of those receptors for
tension.
Muscle growth
as soon as you leave the gym is negative
because the gym is catabolic, it's a
breaks down your muscle.
Actually training breaks down more
muscle than it builds.
However,
as you go home and you start eating
food, protein, carbs, fats, and you have
several meals per day
and you're resting
when the food's coming in several hours
after training begins, if you measure
muscle growth consistently, which is
really difficult to do, they don't do it
super often, you have to keep people in
a laboratory, you have to do radioactive
tracers and measure all this weird
stuff.
Ev- every couple of hours they measure
the amount of muscle growth that's going
on in the biceps goes up and up and up
and up and it usually peaks about
half a day to a day and a half after you
lift, depending on how hard you went. If
it's a pretty easy workout, it peaks a
little sooner and
dives and drops off about a day or two
later. If you train really crazy hard,
it'll peak like a day day and a half
later and then half a week later it'll
drop off back to baseline levels.
But it's this really smooth curve. And
you're growing muscle at every single
point on that curve. So, when you say
"Is it while I'm sleeping? Is it while
I'm eating? Is it while I'm resting?"
The answer is all of those, except it's
not at the gym. You don't grow muscle at
the gym, you give yourself a signal to
grow muscle at the gym. And then what
you do outside of the gym matters. So,
some people train really hard,
they don't eat right, they don't eat
enough protein, their sleep is total
insert bad word here, and their stress
levels are just totally psychotic. They
train hard and then week after week
after week they're like
"I'm not seeing any results." But the
results are actually created when you're
resting, when you're sleeping, when
you're eating nutritious food. They're
stimulated in the workout, but that's
just phase one. Phase two, the actual
growth occurs outside of the gym and it
occurs not at any specific time point,
that magic window of 2 hours after the
gym like that's when all the growth
occurs. That's actually when it just
starts to go up. It's for days
afterwards. So, if you train twice a
week, you train on Monday, you're
growing a lot of muscle on Monday night,
Tuesday and Wednesday. Back towards the
end of Wednesday, you're just not really
growing much more muscle.
You go back to the gym Thursday, you hit
it hard again, you have that curve up.
By Sunday, you're totally relaxed.
During Sunday, you're not growing any
muscle, your body's really recovering a
lot of that fatigue, and then by Monday
you're fresh as a pickle and you're
ready to go at it again.
How long will it take me to lose the
muscles that I've gained if I don't go
back to the gym? So, again focusing on
this bicep, I train it, I do two times a
week, I get it nice and big.
How long before it vanishes?
Great question.
Two-part answer.
Part one
is
within about 2 weeks of not training it,
the first
reduction in muscle that is detectable
by modern machinery occurs.
So, if you don't lift for 2 weeks
and we put you in an MRI scanner or a
DEXA scanner, let's say week and a half
you don't lift, I can't tell.
You're not really losing any muscle yet.
You're just going insane. And so, me
personally, I'm like addicted to
lifting, so if I don't lift for a week
I'm like "Oh my god, oh my god, all my
muscles gone."
There is some kind of intuitive truth to
that because when you don't stress your
muscles, they when you do stress your
muscles, they get a little bit inflamed
and they bulge up a little bit. So, when
you're not training for half a week to a
week, your muscles look smaller like
they've lost weight, but it's really
just all water that they lost. You do
one gym session thinking like "Oh my
god, my biceps are gone." A week and a
half later,
you do one session at the end of that,
you flex, you're like "Oh my god, I'm
the biggest I've ever been. I was just
delusional that whole time." Cuz that
stuff comes back super quick.
After about 2 weeks of not lifting,
you start to lose muscle, but it happens
really really slowly and takes weeks and
weeks and weeks and weeks.
After several months of not lifting,
you're going to look considerably
smaller in your biceps,
but probably not as small as when you
started lifting because your muscles
have a certain memory, if we can call it
that. Is that true that there's a memory
thing?
yeah. And so, a lot of times when you
gain an initial amount of muscle,
especially if you've been at it for
years, it just never goes back to the
same size as when you started. It's just
always going to be bigger until you like
reach your 80s or something like that.
That being said,
yes, you will notice reductions in size.
So, 2 weeks is the direct answer there
and it's going to take weeks and weeks
and months and months to recede.
However, here's part two and this is
awesome news.
Because of that muscle memory situation,
however long it took you to gain the
muscles initially,
it's going to take you
an order of magnitude, a factor of
10-ish or so less time to get it back.
If you've been more jacked before, if
you've had bigger muscles,
they come back to their old size.
If it took if you you you lifted for 8
months, you got a bigger bicep, and you
stopped lifting for 3 months and it
looks about the same as when you
started. If you're really careful like
"Okay, it's a little bit bigger, but
really it's just back to square one."
Most people think "Oh my god, another 8
months just to get back to where I
started." Forget the truth is after
roughly about a month, maybe as little
as 3 weeks, you're going to have the
same size biceps that you did in your
peak.
Because the degree to which your tissue
grows, if it's been a certain size
before, especially
if it was notably bigger than normal and
you held that around for a few months
and a few years,
it comes back
in a way that is so fast, if you
experience
if you experience it yourself, it's it's
like you don't believe that it's
happening to you. Have they been able to
like scientifically test this? Oh, yeah,
all the time. Yeah, retraining studies,
detraining, retraining. Oh, yeah,
they've they've done studies where they
purposefully like lift for a while and
they stop lifting for a long time and
they see how long it takes to get back
and um
there's one study I'm familiar with
offhand that there's a group of people
that trained consistently for multiple
weeks. And there's another group of
people that trained consistently for a
few weeks and then took 2 weeks
completely off in the middle and then
just started retraining again for a few
weeks later.
Both groups had identically sized
differences in muscle at the end of the
study. And so, you're like "Okay, so so
that group that trained consistently
never took 2 weeks off.
Could we say that they purposefully like
dunked 2 weeks of their time away for
nothing?" Uh-huh.
Yeah, your body
goes right back into regaining old lost
muscle so rapidly that
this is such great news because look,
let's say you lifted consistently most
of the year. Holiday season comes up,
winter holidays.
You're not going to the gym as much,
maybe not at all. 3 weeks later of no
gym, you look at yourself, you look a
little smaller, kind of deflated and
you're like
"Oh my god, I'm going to have to restart
all this from scratch." Nope. 2 weeks
later, you're in the best shape of your
life again. If you left the gym for 6
months,
1 or 2 months later, you're in the best
shape of your life again. That's how
rapidly it comes back. So, it's really
good news for anyone who hasn't been in
the gym and is feeling guilty about it.
Go back, get consistent again, you're
just going to skyrocket.
That is very exciting. Because yeah, we
always have sometimes it's the trough,
the the couple of weeks off that makes
us demotivated cuz that's crossed my
mind before. "Oh my god, that took me 3
months to get there and
it's going to take me another 3 months
to get back." But
what about So, if I'm training that
bicep, how have I got to think about
stretching and warming up
before I start before I get going with
my training?
There are many ways to do it, but
uh there's some research on this
recently actually.
You don't need much.
One of the simplest ways to warm up
that we recommend at RP and our app has
it in the in the instructions,
you want Let's say you have your final
weight already picked out. Like last
week you did 20-lb dumbbells for sets of
15, this week it's sets of 16 with a
20-lb dumbbells.
What you want to do is
you want to do very light weight, maybe
the 5-lb dumbbells for a set of 12.
Just to get everything moving and
grooving, good technique, same technique
you're going to use.
30 seconds of rest, a minute of rest.
You pick up the
10- or 15-lb dumbbells and do a set of
eight reps. That's a little bit more
challenging, you're feeling your groove
a little bit, but your body's already
more warm, your nervous system is more
active, your muscles are more pliable.
You rest a a minute after that and then
you'll pick up the weight you're
actually using, the 20-pounders,
and you'll do a set of two to four reps
with them. Just to get the feel of that
heavy weight that you're going to be
doing to acclimatize not just your
muscles and your nervous system but your
psychology to like, "Okay, this is this
is the business weight that I'm going to
be using."
So, 12 8 4.
Rest another 30 seconds. First working
set of whatever, 16 reps. You're up.
When you have multiple exercises for the
same muscle group,
you just need to do one set of like four
to eight reps
in that middle weight range between zero
and whatever you're going to do just to
get the feel of the exercise cuz you're
already generally warm in that area.
One little warm-up set, rest uh you
know, 30 seconds to a minute, and then
hit your first set. If you're switching
which muscles you're using, like you
were training chest but then in the same
session you start to training back, that
first back exercise, 12 8 4. The weight
goes up up up, the reps go down down
down, just a little bit of time between,
and then you hit your first work set and
you're good to go. You don't have to do
cardio before, you don't have to get on
the treadmill. You can if you like it.
You don't have to do some kind of cardio
warm-up. You don't have to do any kind
of stretching or anything like that. You
don't have to do any kind of weird Bosu
ball band around your neck crazy
potentiation exercises. Just that little
ramp up is basically in 98% of all cases
exactly and only what you need to do.
What is a warm-up? What is going on
physiologically inside my muscle?
Because we we will just warm up and I
don't think anybody actually knows what
what's going on. Yeah. So, your muscle
tissues
um they have
uh they have physical qualities that can
be measured almost in like a fluid
dynamics terms like viscosity and
hysteresis and all that stuff.
And so, when you're very cold,
a lot of times the uh there's kind of a
frailty implied there.
As you're warming up, you're sending
blood to around the muscle. The muscle
itself is literally becoming warmer.
And a lot of those kind of tight
structures that are uh they're proteins
that are made of kind of stretchy
material, they loosen up a little bit.
And that allows you to go through that
full range of motion in training and not
actually get hurt.
And that's from the muscle perspective.
You also get some kind of chemical stuff
that happens and certain structures fill
up with chemicals, certain structures
chemicals go down, and that gets you
ready to perform super hard work.
But that's part of the story. The other
part is the nervous system because your
nervous system is also getting warmed up
and in technical terms it's called
potentiation.
When you
just show up to the gym
and you let's say we said, "Look, okay,
we re-engineered your tendons when you
were asleep." You're not going to get
hurt. It's impossible for you to get
hurt. Like a car would have to hit you
for you to rip your bicep off.
You can just go and just hit the curls
right away. You wouldn't get hurt. But
it would feel really strange and you
wouldn't get four or five reps close to
where you're supposed to be from last
week. Cuz your nervous system is like,
"What
hell is going on? I'm supposed to be
doing something so you knew what the
nervous system a part of that is
literally like the actual nervous system
itself down to the cellular level is
flushing all kinds of metabolites
through, the connections are getting
stronger. You're uh sort of doing a
little bit of kind of mini re-wiring of
primary motor cortex to say, "Okay, go.
Oh, we're doing curls. This is how you
execute this pattern." Another part is
technical.
Like, "Oh, this is the technique I'm
going to do." All right. Because if you
just get in the muscle and just do
stuff, like imagine if I told you like,
"Hey, here's a ball. Just like go go
shoot some hoops. Just get hit that, you
know, three-pointer shot." You're like,
the the
I need a couple shots to remind my body
of what it's like to shoot the
basketball. Yeah. Same idea for lifting.
You need to remind your body of what a
curl motion is. And if you remind it a
couple sets in a row, by the time you
hit that real working set, that fourth
set, your body's like, "I know exactly
what I'm going to do, which parts of the
muscle I'm going to activate to
contract, which other parts of other
muscles I'm going to activate to relax
and co-contract to make this whole thing
happen."
What are the the other sort of common
mistakes people make when they they go
to the gym or they start training or
they start exercising? So, there I've
I've kind of ticked not stretching and
taking on a
heavy load too quickly.
Um but also ramping up volumes and loads
too fast. So, that sort of overstrain
before my body is ready for it. Are
there any really other sort of common
obvious mistakes people make that
inhibit their progress?
One of them is uh failure to pay
attention to good technique. Okay.
There are sort of some universal
principles of what is good technique in
the gym for muscle growth.
One of them is are you moving in a way
that properly activates, stimulates that
muscle to actually get it to grow?
Because if you do a curl that arcs up,
it does a lot of bicep. If you do a curl
that arcs back this way, because the
bicep is being pulled one way and pulled
the other way at the shoulder and the
elbow, it ends up doing more of a
stabilizing contraction than actually
being the prime mover for the movement.
So, when you see people curling at the
gym and they're just kind of doing this,
you're like,
"Yes, that is training your biceps." But
if you just moved a little bit
differently, it would be so so much
better. Here's another example,
squatting, right? For your legs. If you
squat really far back and not so far
down,
like your glutes get hit okay, your
lower back and upper and mid back is
going to get hit a lot. But because
there's not a huge change in your knee
angle,
you're not getting a ton of quad
stimulus. If you stay more upright and
your heels and toes are on the ground
and you allow your knees to go way
forward beyond your toes as you stay
upright and sink down really low so that
your knee goes into one of these, oh my
god, it's all quads all day long. So,
you want technique that is targeting the
muscle, it's very similar rep to rep to
rep, and it puts the muscle consistently
through a range of motion that is in
that deep painful uh lengthened stretch
position. If you just have all those
three, everything else we can say about
your technique is just nuances and finer
points. Those are really the big ones.
We talked about nutrition earlier as
well. So, if I want to make my bicep
grow and also drop off the weight around
the bicep so you can see it see it even
more, what should I be putting into my
mouth?
The number one requisite for muscle
growth is protein.
Foods with lots of protein in them
ideally should be consumed three to five
times per day at roughly equal distant
intervals.
Breakfast, lunch, dinner, totally fine.
Even better, breakfast, lunch, dinner,
evening snack.
The average person needs
a little bit less than, let's say, a
gram per pound of body weight per day of
protein. Actually considerably less.
That's kind of the top limit and a cool
aspirational thing to shoot for. So, if
you weigh, let's say 200 lb,
you should be consuming something like
150 to 200 g protein per day. And 150
for almost everyone's totally enough.
But if you're real serious and hardcore
and you just want that insurance policy,
200 g of protein per day.
So, then if you're eating four times a
day, that's Oh, yeah.
30, 40, let's say 40 to 50 g of protein
per meal. Can I eat too much protein?
And then and then it becomes fat or
something.
Uh that's uh so, protein by itself, no.
If your protein is so high that your
carbs and fats are the same and you jack
up your protein super high but your
carbs and fats stay where they are, your
calories become excessive. That will
cause fat gain over time. But if you're
doing a diet where you have ton of
protein but you dropped your carbs and
fats and your calories are at
maintenance levels, you're not going to
gain any fat. It's not bad for your
kidneys. It's not bad for any other part
of your body. Excessive protein as a
health malady has been a myth the entire
time. And that's one of those um notions
that people carry with them that "Too
much protein's bad, right?" Like, yes,
if you've had kidney surgery,
absolutely. Short of that, you're
probably good to go.
You'll fart a lot and people will hate
you, but you know.
You mentioned three to five meals a day.
A lot of people are now in this camp of
of fasting and intermittent fasting
Yeah. and not eating often. Is it
possible to fast but also to gain muscle
mass in the way that you've described?
Yeah, totally. It just won't happen at a
as an impressive rate. So, you have to
make a trade-off for yourself. If you
want, you know, most jacked Steven that
you can be, three to five meals a day
consistently spread in almost to an
individual
competitive bodybuilders eat
that frequently and eat high protein.
How often do you eat? Uh I eat at five
five times a day, four or five times a
day usually. And do you eat before or
after you train? Both. Okay. So, before
you train and after you train.
Yeah. Do you eat different things? A lot
of times I'll train early in the morning
and so I won't train at all I won't eat
at all. I'll wake up and I'll have like
a protein and carb mix shake with my
training. Totally optional. Super extra
credit. May not do anything at all if
you look at the literature, but I find
it a little bit compelling to do a
little bit of that. And then afterwards
I have my first post-workout meal,
second meal, third meal, fourth meal,
bedtime, wake up, do it again. What do
you take to get you going? Do you do
pre-workout? No. Why? No. Uh I don't do
any stimulants of any kind. Why? Uh I'm
just kind of cooked up all the time
naturally. So, like if you give me
stimulants, it's just going to go into
the not so pleasant side of side
effects. Like I'm just going to be like
this and way too amped up, super high
anxiety, and my thoughts get to be like
I have less fluidity of thinking and
stuff. So, I just There's just a lot of
me, I guess. And so when I wake up in
the morning, I don't need anything to
get me going. I just go. And a couple
warm-up sets later, I have all the
energy I need. That's not everyone and
so
some green tea, some black coffee, or
some pre-workout 30 minutes before the
gym is great advice for a ton of people.
I feel like pre-workout can't be healthy
if you're doing it five, six, seven
times a week because some of that stuff
is so unbelievably strong. Like I've had
it before. I've got literally like heart
palpitations when I've had a pre-workout
and you know, they talk about anxiety,
that anxious feeling. It can't be It
can't be help healthy for people to be
doing that frequently.
It seems to be quite fine. It seems to
be quite fine. Now, at the extremes and
in for some individuals, it's not ideal.
But um
the upper limit dose of caffeine in
milligrams per day
at which we can confidently say most
people will experience the beginnings of
health maladies
is 1,000 mg.
Mhm. And a cup of coffee has, depending
on which cup, 50 to 100.
Now, some pre-workouts have 250 g
milligrams of caffeine, some have 500.
Uh last I checked, Ronnie Coleman's
pre-workout has 550 mg of caffeine per
scoop or per serving.
And so that's kind of a lot. Uh
I If I took 550 mg of caffeine, you
don't take me to the gym, just take me
right to the hospital, put me in the
psychiatric ward, 36 hours later I'll be
okay.
But for some people to get so accustomed
to high doses of caffeine that it's
supposed not unhealthy for them to
consume and also uh they feel quite
fine. So, I would say start with as
little as you need to get you going and
if you need to titrate and work up from
there, that's a good thing. The other
thing I would say is
I would have a compelling case for
pre-workout or stimulants.
If I ask you like, "Hey, how much energy
do you typically have at the gym?"
They're like, "Oh, it's super great."
And they're like, "Should I take
pre-workout?" I'd be like, "No, there's
no compelling case for that at all." If
you're like, like I wake up in the
morning, some days I just don't get a
ton of sleep
and I need something to get me going,
not every day, but sometimes, I'll be
like, "Hey, look, consider green tea,
black coffee, some diet soda or all the
way up to a pre-workout if you need it."
But some people take it kind of as like
um
a like a religious thing, as a habit, uh
as a ritual and it's like, "Dude, you're
training your forearms and biceps for 20
minutes total at 9:00 p.m. You do not
need three scoops of pre-workout for
that. I don't even know where it's going
at that point." So, some people get a
little crazy with the pre-workouts. The
end of the world is at at best needless.
What's your stance on the whole idea of
calories in calories out? A lot of
people just focus on that as the the
sort of
the script to lose body weight, lose
body fat and gain muscle. Is Is that a
useful frame to to use? And why do so
many people fail at it
if if it is a useful frame?
Most people fail at it because they
don't consider both the calories in and
calories outside of the equation.
And a lot of people fail because they're
very bad at estimating food amounts and
calories.
They'll Someone will say like a
tablespoon of peanut butter. Steven,
have you ever actually seen a tablespoon
measuring cup?
It does not look like mom's tablespoon
where she takes the peanut butter and
goes like, "Ah!"
That's like four tablespoons. And so
they're like, "But I'm eating the
calories, blah blah blah."
Every time you take people into what's
called a metabolic ward
which is a study center where you're not
allowed to have visitors that bring you
food
the workers only give you the food that
you need and all of your exercise and
your output is controlled and monitored
and so is your intake
no one has ever violated laws of
thermodynamics. We give you a certain
number of calories and we expect you to
lose a certain number of weight. There's
a variance about that, but it you're
going to lose the weight that roughly we
predict. If we account for all
variables, you're going to lose almost
exactly the weight that we predict. So,
calories in calories out is
incontrovertible. In among
90-something percent, 98% of people who
do research in the field and are
scientifically literate and educated
calories in calories out is not
controversial. It never has been. There
are some people who say, "Well, the
calorie counting didn't work for me."
That's probably because you did it wrong
or you weren't even concerned about how
much protein you're taking in or how
many carbs or how many fats. There are
other details that matter.
Like if you say
"I need a V8 engine in a car. That's all
that matters." Like, "Okay, well,
there's no steering wheel and there's no
pedals." Cool. Like, well, "I need those
things too." So, calories in calories
out is the very core cuz without an
engine you're not going anywhere.
But what types of foods you're eating
matters a little bit.
Are you getting enough protein, carbs,
fats? That matters a bit too. So, people
like to just bash calorie balance and
calories in calories out as well. It's
totally messed. It doesn't work. No, no,
it works great. It's just not always
enough to get you in the best shape you
can. But if you do it right as far as
net balance weight gain or weight loss,
calories in calories out is actually the
only thing that matters.
Tissue-wise, is that gain mostly muscle
or mostly fat? Is the loss mostly muscle
or mostly fat? That has not so much to
do with calories. It has much more to do
with proteins, carbs, fats, the quality
of food you're eating, nutrient timing
and all the rest of it. So, calories in
calories out is amazing, super
explanatory, critical but it's just not
the whole picture.
And that's really yeah, I guess because
so many people say they've heard about
calories in calories out, but they fail
at maintaining it. Now, that's really
about motivation and the psychology of
doing such a thing. Um some people have
said to me that our bodies want to
defend our weight. So, if we start
eating less, we'll become a little bit
more hungry. If we go for a run, after
the run or after a physical exertion,
our body will try and make up for it
because it's programmed to try and
defend its weight cuz it's weight
correlates to our
ability to survive.
Um
Why do people fail at it? You One of the
reasons you said is because, you know,
that they're not actually measuring the
calories correctly. But the
psychological reasons that it isn't
hasn't worked for some people.
Can you think of many? Because when I
When people talk about calories in
calories out, if you look at the comment
sections on those videos, people say,
"I've tried this and it didn't work."
Okay. So, first of all, I typically
don't look at comment sections of videos
because comment section is not
representative of the population. It's
not representative of the people that
watch your videos. It's not
representative of the hardcore
demographic that watches your videos.
So, just as a statistical artifact,
every single claim by people against
calorie balance in that comment section
could be true for them, but they
represent 1% of the population. So, 99%
of people it works just fine. For 1%
they get into some kind of trouble.
Usually that trouble is they didn't
count calories properly. They didn't
account for macronutrient profile,
protein, carbs, fats. They didn't
account for nutrient timing or the kinds
of foods that they're they're doing and
so on and so forth.
And another one is like you said,
sustainability.
How long do I have to count calories for
in my life for me to get the body that I
want and keep it? It sure [ __ ] not going
to be forever. So, what I'll do is I'll
count calories for a few months, I'll
lose a lot of weight. Then I'll go back
to eating on vibes and the weight comes
right back. Absolutely. So, better than
just counting calories, what we want to
do is instill people with good eating
habits. If you learn how to construct
meals made of lean proteins, veggies,
fruits, whole grains, healthy fats
you know roughly how to see how much
food you need and how much food looks at
least like it's what you eat per day. If
you're checking your body weight
relatively often and
when your body weight starts to get a
little higher, you can kind of clean up
your diet a little bit. And when your
body weight's nice and low, you get a
couple cheat meals, couple kebabs, you
know, burgers and stuff. That's all
good. If you do that and you have those
healthy habits, whatever weight you lost
on calorie restriction, you can maintain
with very, very little work, not
counting a damn thing, just on good
habits. But if you count up calories,
you do some weird diet where you only
eat like two foods, orange slices and
protein shakes or something.
Yeah, the calorie counting will get you
wherever you need to go. But then
afterwards, after the diet's over,
you're like, "Well, some some Now what
do I do?" Like, "Uh good luck. Go out in
the world and eating the same diet that
got you fat in the first place." That's
the big kicker.
People might say it takes too much time
to count calories. It leads to a an
unhealthy relationship with food.
There's a big movement at the moment to
try and get calories off menus because
it's said to increase the amount of
people that have eating disorders and
things like that.
Is that a
conversation worth entertaining in this
in this regard?
Sure, sure. Very few people
will develop eating disorders
based on increases in information they
are presented.
I would actually call that eating order
instead of eating disorder.
Most people who get eating disorders are
highly at risk genetically and with a
few other social circumstances.
Eating disorders are
for example, the most
deleterious eating disorders, anorexia
nervosa
seen not exclusively, but almost
exclusively in females of reproductive
age.
They ain't calories on a menu doing
that. That's something you bring into
the table.
Uh Usually because you have the genetic
proclivity for it.
And additionally because you've been
in a social and cultural circumstance
where
not only were you the wrong person to
get ridiculed for your weight
but also a lot of people ridiculed you
for your weight. And then you go all
careening off on this path where no one
can even tell you you're super skinny
anymore because you don't believe it.
So, the idea that uh you're going to see
much higher prevalence globally in
eating disorders from putting menu
calorie labels on things is true by this
much at the margins and it's just
largely not the case.
Adjacent to that is this idea of muscle
dysmorphia which affects
a lot of people, but specifically men,
roughly 87%
of men that are between 15 to 32 years
old that experience muscle dysmorphia.
Which is what?
So, muscle dysmorphia generally is
for whatever level of jacked that you
are, you think you are considerably less
jacked both in reference to yourself and
your own desires and in reference to an
ethereal make-believe comparator
population in your head. So, if you were
to ask me like, "Hey Mike, do you feel
jacked?" And I'm like, "Nope." You're
like, "Ooh, not good. Not a good sign.
Clearly he's jacked." And then you can
ask me, Mike, "Compared to other
40-year-old Ashkenazi Jewish men, how
jacked are you?" And if I'm like, "Pff,
I'm probably like
bottom 50% for sure, probably bottom
25." You'd be like, "Okay, he's mentally
ill. Take him away." That is high-level
muscle dysmorphia, a dissociation from
any objective reality about how much
muscle you actually have.
Do people overestimate or underestimate
their appearance as it relates to their
muscles?
Uh dysmorphia is almost always cataloged
as an underestimation. But but from your
experience working with people, do
people think they're more jacked than
they actually are?
It really depends on the individual.
Most people that are in gym culture,
that are very invested, if you catch
them on their not-so-great days, they
think they're substantially less jacked
than they really are. And if you tease
it apart via conversation, they'll end
up being like, "Yeah, no no, I know I'm
jacked, but I'm just saying like" and
then it's aspirational like, "For my
goals,
I'm not as jacked as I would like to
be."
It's interesting cuz we typically think
of
women, think stereotypically in society,
as caring more about their
body image. Mhm. But I've I've read a
lot of stats lately that suggest men
care equally about their body image, but
just in slightly different ways. And
then about the correlation between their
perception of their body image and their
own mental health and the link between
the two. Sure. Sure. Do you see a lot of
that? Do you see this link between
mental health and male body image?
Yes. Huge proportion of psychological
proclivities are genetic. The others are
very individually acquired. They change
through time. It's not as easy as saying
upbringing or family environment. So,
the one consistent thing about how you
relate to the world and your own
thoughts is genetics.
And a lot of the traits tend to
aggregate together. So, it is true to
say, on a spectrum, very nuanced, that
some people aggregate a lot of negative
psychological traits, and some people
aggregate a lot of positives. And there
are absolutely people Everyone's a mixed
bag, somewhere in between, but there's a
little bit of this kind of
I don't want to use a a term for a
another mental illness, a bipolarity to
the distribution, right? And so, a lot
of people that are generally neurotic,
they feel consistently
unsafe and unsure of themselves, are
going to be also the type of people that
when they get more jacked through
lifting, they're still not going to
believe that they're as jacked and
accomplished and awesome and alpha male
as they really are, because they're
always like, you know, to use the old
Jewish joke stereotypically, "Oy, oy,
I'm never going to be big." And it's
like, "You're already big." Like, "Oh, I
don't know. It could get It could get
worse tomorrow." And a lot of people
just bring that to the table. And so,
when you get neurotic people jacked,
they don't think they're that jacked.
They're always like, "Oh my god, it's
always going to end." But if you take
not neurotic people and make them
jacked, you one week of lifting into
those people, they're like, "Dude, I'm
like Do you think I should turn pro in
bodybuilding?" Like, "Get out of here.
You're just overconfident." So, it
really depends on who's doing the thing.
Now, cultural stuff, social, who's in
your circle. I'll give you a good
example.
I have a lot of my closest friends have
no relation to fitness whatsoever. A
bunch of them are actually
neuroscientists, just randomly people I
knew in college that ended up being my
friends for life. And so, when they
assess their muscularity relative to
myself and my bodybuilder friends,
they're like, "I'm in terrible shape and
I'm not remotely jacked." And they have
such a weird comparator population that
I always remind them like, "Dude, not
everyone looks like this." They go to
the store, they go to school, they go to
the bank and they're like, "Oh, crap,
you're right. I'm actually the most
jacked person at the bank. It's just not
like Gold's Gym where everyone's
enormous." So, if you happen to be in an
environment, let's say you're a
university student and you go to the
university gym and there's lots of
jacked people there and you're there all
the time trying to do your best, you
may, if you're neurotic to begin with,
more neurotic, start to develop a sense
that you're just not nearly as jacked as
you should be or could be or whatever.
But if you like hang out at an old
people home with your grandma and
grandpa all the time, you're going to
feel like Superman all the time, because
holy [ __ ] you're like you can do real
things and move furniture around.
And And so then go back to the point
about weight loss. If I'm trying to lose
weight, what are the biggest biggest
myths around weight loss that hold
people back and inhibit them?
One is you have to be perfect. If I'm on
my diet, I'm good. If I'm off my diet,
not only am I bad, but as soon as I'm
off my diet, I have sinned and there is
no solace for me. Um I A lot of people
have that falling off the bandwagon
thing where they'll eat clean food,
whatever that means, diet food, for
weeks and weeks and weeks. They have one
kebab, they have one cheeseburger and
they're like,
"Fuck it.
That's it, man. I'm done dieting. I'm
not a good person anymore." It's like
that whole dichotomizing and kind of a
religious approach, that hurts a lot of
people. Because in reality, if you just
eat a cheeseburger, your body's like,
"Oh, sweet. Like I got a little bit more
carbohydrate stored in the muscle. I
recovered a little bit more. My diet
fatigue is actually lower cuz you fed me
some food. Tomorrow, I'm back on the
diet. I'm making even better gains than
if I didn't have that cheeseburger." So,
it was so exhausting. And so, a lot of
people have that approach completely
backwards and they're like, "I'm either
good or I'm bad." And that's really
tough. Another one is people think that
the approach to lose weight is the same
as the approach to maintain it. Um this
is really really really nasty, because
so my wife is a board-certified family
med sports med doctor,
and she does a lot of work,
international Olympic teams, all that
stuff.
And she is looking at these formal
recommendations from medical literature,
and it's like, "Here's the kind of diet
you need to get to lose weight." And
then she was like, she followed up with
some of the professionals and she's
like, "And so, what about maintenance?"
And they're like, "Uh yep."
"What do you mean, yep? What are you
talking about? That's not the
conversation." So, people think, "Okay,
I'm going to clean up my diet. No more
ice cream, no more no more crisps, no
more Cheetos. I'm going to eat super
healthy. And then when I get to the
weight that I want,
I eat continuously super healthy. I
never have ice cream again." What kind
of bizarre world is it? And so, they'll
flop back to the other one. Where
they'll try for a few months after
they've gotten to the weight they like
to just eat completely super healthy,
clean, everything like that. They lose a
little bit more weight. They're
exhausted. They're tired. Their food
focus is driving them nuts.
They'll eat some ice cream and they'll
go, "I'm a sinner." And then ice cream,
ice cream, cheeseburger, cheeseburgers,
up they go, and then they regain all the
weight. So, a huge myth is the fact that
yeah, when you're losing weight, you got
to pay a little bit more attention to
what you eat. But once you've gotten to
that weight, you both need some time,
roughly every 3 months that you diet
hard to lose weight, you should be
taking about at least 2 months at
maintenance, just maintaining it. So, if
you weighed 100 kilos, now you're down
to 90, after 3 months, for about 2 or 3
months, just stay at 90. Eat mostly the
healthy stuff that you were, but throw
in a little junk in there. Maintenance,
again, is much easier than losing.
When physiologically
and psychologically, your diet fatigue
comes down after those 2 or 3 months,
you're able, if you'd like, to start
dieting really hard again to get to that
next goal that you have, or you just
live in balance for the rest. But if we
tell you like, "Here's your diet to make
you lean and healthy." And you're like,
"Okay, how long do I have to do this?"
And the doctor's like, "Forever."
What? What am I supposed to I'm never
I'm never allowed to have tiramisu after
dinner ever again?" And they're like,
"Well, try not to." That's terrible
advice. And not only do medical people
too often say that, most people have
that in their heads. And it's it's a
very very untenable situation. One of
the big sort of
narratives that I was exposed to for
most of my life about weight loss is
that 80% of it's diet.
What do you think about those ratios?
How much of weight loss is determined by
diet versus exercise? Yeah.
Diet has a bigger effect than exercise.
As a heuristic, I'm very comfortable
with 80/20.
There are a couple reasons for that. One
is
there's the constrained energy
hypothesis.
Uh it's also called Ponzer's paradox,
based on Herman Ponzer's work in
physical anthropology. And so,
uh basically, they realized that the
amount of physical activity that humans
can do
has a range, but if you try to get
people to like double their physical
activity, you say like, "I'm not going
to change my diet. I'm going to work out
twice as much as the next guy."
Your body becomes so fatigued so
rapidly,
and your metabolism adjusts itself. Your
physical activity that's not planned
exercise, like how much do you get up
when someone calls you? Are you still on
the couch talking to them? Or how much
do you get up and walk around your
kitchen a bunch?
Your body makes all these adjustments.
So, if you try to really outwork a bad
diet,
it doesn't work. And usually, you just
come back to the same physical activity
cuz you're too exhausted to continue,
and then you failed.
Whereas with diet,
you can make some dietary changes,
principle-based, like stop eating junk
food every day and just eat two pieces
of junk food on Friday and two pieces of
junk food on Saturday. Just that alone
is sustainable. Your body, as long as
these are filling foods, a lot of
veggies, fruits, whole grains, lean
meats, you're not hungry. You're just
like, "Damn it, I want a bag of chips."
That's not a reason. That is mostly
psychological, it's not physiological,
and thus dieting is just able to take
bigger chunks out of your calorie
balance equation without completely
destroying you. Now, that has limits as
well.
You can't diet forever, so you have to
take it in chunks. Another thing is
this, in order to
burn a lot of calories,
to lose a lot of weight, you got to do
some serious work. The average person
will burn something like 100 to 150
calories per mile run.
Oh my god, you start thinking about it
like, "A donut has 300 calories."
How fast, Stephen, can you eat a donut
if I time you?
5 seconds. 5 seconds, no problem. Boom.
You're going to run 3 miles after you
eat a donut?
No. It's insane. So,
taking your diet, cleaning it up,
reducing the junk, reducing the calories
is not that hard. But, if you try to
fight off the nasty extra junk food
calories you're taking in with exercise,
it's kind of like a three-to-one fight.
You You eat two doughnuts at your work
function after work, you got 6 mi to run
that day. Nobody doing that. And that's
why
diet is such a huge factor. It's so easy
to do, {quote} {unquote}, damage with
it. And it's much easier to take control
of it versus with exercise, the boundary
layers are just smaller. And what you
would have to do to fight the bad diet
is just grotesquely large and outside of
those boundary layers. I think it's a
look cuz I think people typically assume
that the way to lose weight is to go do
a run. Yeah. That's typically, you know,
you'll see people in the gym. And if you
ask someone why they're on the running
machine, they'll probably say, "I'm
trying to lose some weight." Yeah.
It helps a little bit.
But, if you run
and you burn 200 calories extra per day,
3 days per week,
that is 600 extra calories you're
burning through the week. That's good
stuff. You can lose some decent weight
like that. Aren't you just going to be
more hungry though afterwards? Uh
typically, exercise does not dependably
increase your hunger in most people. So,
uh uh depending on the context and the
individual, it's not a dependable thing
to say that doing more exercise
necessarily makes you more hungry, which
is kind of cool because usually you're
not really any more hungry. And if you
stick consistently exercise, but you
control your diet, you're good to go. Is
there a psychological component to that
why because because I've done the run, I
now feel like I deserve it.
Oh, yeah. That's huge. And some people
do have a hunger response. But, what you
put in your body after that could be
really healthy stuff that doesn't have a
ton of calories, is really filling. Or
it could be like, "We're done running.
Pizza and beer." And then that's really
bad news. But, real quick, so let's say
you're burning 600 calories extra per
week by running 2 mi at a time or
whatever or whatever you run an extra 4
mi per week, right?
600 calories per week. What is that?
Well, to burn a pound of body fat, you
need to get 3,500 calories per week out
of your diet or do 3,500 extra calories
of activity per week.
600's a drop in the bucket to that.
You'll never notice. I mean, yeah, after
a year, you'll lose like 2 or 3 lb or 5
lb or whatever. Nobody thinks in terms
like that.
But, if they were to simply alter their
diet and keep training to keep the
calorie burn at a moderate to high
level, but take food out of their diet,
especially through junk food, the total
calorie sink deficit they can make for
themselves is now in the hundreds of
calories per day. Now you're losing a
pound of fat every week. Now you're
having big results. Is there a
preference between doing cardio or
strength as it relates to long-term
weight loss? Because I'm thinking if
I've got more muscles, then surely my
body's going to need more It's going to
burn more calories. Just by a small
margin.
Oh, really? Almost unnoticeable. So,
your your body versus my body, you're
not
burning more calories.
I How much do you weigh? Um 90 I don't
even know it in pounds. It's about 92
kg. Okay, solid. So, I currently weigh
Which is about 98 kg. 202 lb.
202. So, I weigh like 216 to 220 right
now.
So, we weigh not too far off each other.
Not too far off. So, it even though I
have considerably more muscle in your
opinion. I In my opinion.
In my very biased opinion.
Um no dysmorphia here.
Uh
I would be burning
a teeny bit more fat or more calories
per day because of my higher muscle
mass,
but it's mostly my absolutely higher
weight. So, for example, the people in
the world that burn the most calories
and need the most calories to sustain
their body weight are the fattest people
in the world. That like lady that weighs
800, 900, 1,000 lb, they just to keep
her the same size, it's 15,000 calories
a day. Wow.
And if it was all muscle and no fat,
somehow she was 1,000 lb of muscle,
which would be sweet to look at, she
would be burning like maybe
16,000 calories per day instead of 15.
And probably even that's an
exaggeration. Muscle mass doesn't help
you burn tons of calories. That's not
what it's there for.
It is incredibly good for your health.
It is incredibly good for how you look.
Those things by itself make muscle mass
an awesome thing to do. But, it is
neither true to say that cardio reliably
over the long term burns lots of weight
off. And it is not true to say that
gaining lots of muscle burns lots of
weight off. What is really, really
critical is do you have a
well-controlled nutritious diet? And do
you have an average moderate to high
level of daily physical activity?
Dancing and swimming and running and
having fun and chasing your kids. If
you're on the higher end of activity,
not psychotically high to where you get
super tired, just not being a total like
slouch, and making sure you're aware of
your body when you diet, that's what
really pays these massive dividends in
long-term weight control. It's not like,
"Well, if I put on a ton of muscle."
That's great for everything else and
makes you super healthy and makes you
look really awesome. It gives you the
ability to like, I don't know, like do
real world stuff, defend yourself,
things like that. That's what muscle's
there for. It's not the greatest like
calorie sink in the world. I wish it
was. I'd be cheeseburger right now. So,
in terms of supplements,
are there any supplements you suggest
that I take if my goal is to lose
weight, but also to gain muscle mass
for the average person?
No. There's no supplements? I mean,
creatine? Creatine will not help with
weight loss. And for most people, it'll
temporarily gain you about
2 kilos of body weight because it
attracts body water into the muscle.
It's a cool look cuz I mean, I'm on
creatine right now. Can you tell? Mhm.
Yeah.
Yeah, really? All
So, creatine doesn't help you lose
weight in any meaningful extent. So, I'm
aware of no over-the-counter supplements
that simultaneously help you burn fat
and gain muscle. There are supplements
that are not over-the-counter that do
that quite well.
What if What if I'm just trying to gain
muscle then? What supplements What
supplements would you recommend the
average person to be taking? Really
regardless of, I guess, goals.
If their goal is to be a little bit more
lean with their muscle mass, if their
goal is to build muscle, is it different
types of supplements you'd suggest or
Creatine works to build muscle. It's got
awesome cognitive benefits. It's just
healthy for you and it's great. So, 5 g
per day for most people of creatine
monohydrate, super awesome.
Have you got to load creatine?
I I remember when I was
I used to load creatine. That's
basically like a corporate scam that's
just trying to get you to consume more
creatine so you buy more. Yeah. After If
you load your creatine, which is like
taking 20 g per day for a few days,
you get to intramuscular creatine stores
that are optimal
like
in four or five days.
If you don't load creatine, you get
there in like 7 to 10 days. And because
you're taking creatine either for months
or for life,
it's just a moot point. So, creatine
loading is a gigantic waste of time in
almost every case. Okay.
So, creatine works.
Whey protein, casein protein can be an
excellent way to conveniently get
protein.
So, they're more like foods rather than
supplements? Those are totally cool, but
not mandatory.
If you talk to me like you are now for
just several hours at a time. Let's say
we're sitting on a plane together and
you're like, "I'm just a guy who's
trying to get like a little bit more of
this, a little bit of that. What
supplements do I need to take?"
is the wrong
time to ask that. The time to ask that
is like, "I want to take a run at a
natural bodybuilding show. What
supplements do I need?" Okay, then they
pay some dividends that are worth
noting. But, supplements are just not in
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What about steroids?
They're great. What?
Am I allowed to say that?
What What What What are steroids? And
you said you take steroids. Mhm. Um do
you take steroids all the time? And
Mhm. What is the impact? So, say if you
weren't taking steroids, how different
would you look?
I know this because I I used to not take
steroids.
And when I wasn't taking steroids,
I uh weighed about at at a body fat
similar to this,
uh I would have to weigh probably a 180
lb
80 to 190 lb, more like 180 in in this
kind of body fat level.
I currently weigh uh 216 lb because I'm
on a moderate amount of steroids. A few
weeks ago,
actually earlier last week, I was on
higher amounts of steroids. And with
this same level of body fat, I weighed
227 lb. So, we're talking about 30, 40
lb of muscle tissue difference between
steroids and non-steroids. Have you got
a picture of before and after? Before
when you didn't use steroids and you
trained and then after. Yeah, it's got
to be somewhere. We'll try and get it
just just just for visual clarity. Sure
sure sure.
You said they're great. I was kidding.
All right, you They're great for putting
on muscle if you want to jettison your
long-term
health and longevity to some extent,
yes. And your course medical stuff. As
someone that's never done it, give me a
window into
what you do do you inject it somewhere?
You can take steroids orally through
pills or you can inject it into muscle.
Okay. So, usually you would inject it
into your quads. A lot of people do
their shoulders and some people if
they're flexible enough do their glutes.
And how quickly do you notice a
difference and how big is the the
difference? Just to give me sort of like
your
As far as jackness is concerned?
if I start taking steroids now,
yeah, how how long would it be before I
notice a difference and how extreme
would the difference be in your opinion?
Visually after a few months you would be
like, oh wow, okay, this is some other
[ __ ] After a week or two you'd be like,
I don't I don't know.
My workouts feel pretty good. Uh
psychologically if you're especially
introspective and perceptive and you're
sensitive to the psychological side
effects, which I'm greatly sensitive to,
um I notice in 30 minutes of taking
steroids. And would I
if I did the same exact workout but took
steroids, would I get different results
or would I have to ramp up the workout
that I'm doing to see those different
results? Both. Okay. If you have the
same workout and you take plenty of
steroids, you can literally double your
muscle gain from that workout.
If you understand that steroids also
allow you to recover faster and better
and more completely, you can take your
workout and magnify it, more sets, etc.,
more sessions per week, and then you
would grow like two and a half times as
much muscle.
Sounds exciting but there's always a
downside for these things in life, isn't
There are a few downsides, yes. What are
the downsides that no one's talking
about? That no one's talking about? So,
there's cosmetic downsides. You get an
increase in body hair growth.
This is especially profounder for
female, but if you're a male, that's a
thing. I have hair that grows on my
ears. I have hair that grows on the
outside of my nose. I have to shave the
front of my nose now. A lot of that's
just me being a Russian Jew and that's
hair just grows out of our eyeballs, but
[ __ ] happens.
You get pimples, you get stuff like
that.
Over the longer term,
you get an substantially increased risk
of heart disease.
If you're smart, you take blood pressure
drugs to counteract the blood pressure
increase. If you're dumb, you take it on
the chin and you have a high
probability, much higher, of kidney
failure later in your life and losing
your limbs and your vision and all that
good stuff that comes with that.
There is an increased probability or
severity of cancer.
Steroids increase the probability of
damn near every disease, kind of central
systemic disease that you can have.
But that usually happens much later. And
so while you're on them, you deal with
the cosmetic side effects, increased
probability of balding,
uh
and the psychological side effects,
which are highly unpleasant. I can get
into in a bit. If you're a teenager,
there's an entire class of steroids that
close your growth plates early. So, if
you're under the age of definitely 22 as
a male and you take steroids, there's a
very good chance you will never reach
the adult height you were supposed to
reach if you just let nature do the
thing. So, when teenagers take steroids,
it's just almost always categorically a
super super terrible idea. Also, they're
not intelligent enough uh yet.
Some teenagers are very smart. They're
not wise enough yet to be able to make
that trade-off appropriately. Mhm. And
so that's a huge sort of different
topic, but um
the psychological side effects are a lot
of times the things that
are the proximately most displeasing
part of taking steroids. Some people
like them. They're they're also a mixed
bag. Tell me about the
Before we get on to the psychological
effects, what about libido? Because I've
heard all kinds of things. I've heard it
shrinks your balls, your your your
willy. Something like half of all people
will ex- experience testicular shrinkage
while using steroids. Your boy got
lucky. My shit's all the same size. A
lot of people, roughly half, will
experience a decrease in ejaculate
volume and a profound decrease in
fertility.
That does not mean you're not infertile.
I know many people I know many people's
children that were fathered when the
people were on steroids. So, if some
people are like, ah I'm on gear, I could
just bang away and nothing happens. Like
that's not true.
Uh steroids have never been shown to
uh change the size of your willy. Uh
there is no mechanism by which really
they can do that. Um so, that's not a
problem. But steroids, depending on the
steroid you take, depending on your own
individual biology, depending on the
ancillary drugs that you take along with
it,
uh steroids can either have no real
effect on your libido, have a profoundly
upregulating effect on libido or like
hunger like you would not believe.
And for other people,
you get um
an increase in libido, but some
steroids, for example, deca durabolin in
some people, it's a type of steroid,
radically escalates your libido. You
turn into just this hungry and at the
same time gives you in many cases
dependable
um
inability to sustain an erection. So,
erectile dysfunction risk goes up a lot.
That's a real big problem cuz like you
want it, but it's not around it's not
around for the picking there. So,
there's all that kind of stuff plays
plays a huge role. And a lot of the
other side effects are
increases in anxiety, increases in
aggression, um increases in
disagreeableness and probability of
confrontation.
Steroids have been shown decently well,
this isn't super confirmed, to at least
proximately while you're taking them,
substantially reduce your fluid
intelligence. And uh they may in the
long term reduce your overall
intelligence, but it seems that if you
stop taking them you get most if not all
of that back. But maybe not all of it.
So, they do make you dumber as a as a
general heuristic, that's probably true.
Of these psychological implications,
which ones have you suffered with the
most?
Decrease in fluid intelligence, for
sure.
Radical increases in anxiety.
Radical increases in aggression.
Um I pride myself on never losing my
cool.
I've never screamed at anyone. I've
never gotten physical with anyone.
But the ideas in my head that tell me to
do things, tell me to do unspeakable
things. Like what? They're unspeakable.
I'd have to speak them.
You really want to know? Mhm.
Um
I'm also [ __ ] weird, so just remember
that.
No, I we all are a bit weird. Most
people uh probably don't have this
severity, but
I'll read a comment
on social media
directed at me, I guess about me,
um and it's from like, you know,
nameless, faceless profile,
and I begin to fantasize
about what it would be like and how much
sublime pleasure I would receive
in
uh hurting that person at a deep
physical and emotional level.
Uh badly. Hurting them in such a way
that they're never going to walk right
again and they're always going to
remember me and how they dared to cross
me. Do you know what honor culture is?
No. Like the idea that like in the hood,
you step on someone's like a gang
member's Nikes and he just blasts you
away and goes to jail for 20 years. Over
what?
Steroids, the honor culture comes from
maleness. It comes from testosterone and
other brain structures, of course, but
the more testosterone and steroids are
all testosterone-like molecules.
If you have 10 times the
testosterone-like action affecting your
brain, your proclivity to falling into
honor culture like behavioral patterns
and thought patterns increases to an
enormous extent. So, you tend to take
things that are not meant in any poor
way as affronts. If they're actually
meant as affronts, you tend to
catastrophize them in your head and like
this is the thing. Like I'll be brushing
my teeth in the morning, in the shower,
and like thinking about people in my
life that have wronged me. I've never
been wronged in any real serious way.
And I'll just be like, those mother
and so
uncontrollable fantasies of rage and
aggression and righteous anger and
revenge.
I hate that. Like as a
philosophical-minded
person, I just want to hug everyone in
the world. Right now I'm on not so high
levels of steroids. I'm just man. I make
jokes with every I'll start
conversations with random people on the
street, no problem. And so
when these thoughts consistently enter
my mind on higher doses, I'm just like,
why? And I'm never like, I should be
feeling like this. I'm like, this is
really annoying and really terrible. So,
if there are all of these
physiological and psychological
implications, which, you know, you said
it basically increases your chances with
all of the major diseases from cardi-
cardiovascular diseases to cancers to
um other diseases, but then also there's
this ongoing psychological consequence
of
taking steroids,
what's the point?
That's a good question.
Recently I've taken
a probably several year backseat away
from competitive bodybuilding
precisely because I have a lot of really
good things going on in my life
and I'm going to need my brain and my um
more fluid civility
to deal with them best.
Uh and for a couple of other reasons.
So,
right now is an interesting time to ask
me why I do it cuz I'm kind of like
winding that down big time. Mhm.
But
um
the real reason
is uh one of the reasons that I started
steroids is I was drug-free for a long
time
and I was starting to become a kind of
an educator in fitness and a promulgator
of opinion.
And a lot of the people who were in the
industry at the time, this is not as
true anymore. Now drug-free bodybuilding
and fitness is exploding, which is a
beautiful, wonderful thing. But back
when
uh Nick and I came up uh to be relevant
in the fitness industry, you sort of had
to be like super super jacked and super
super lean. It's nothing we were going
to accomplish drug-free. So we were like
this this is where the road leads to
being taken seriously as a
thinker in the space. Let's do it.
Another thing is um
I really like being or at least for a
long time liked being enormous and
ripped. Why? And um just like a
ch- like
you ever see how a 4-year-old looks at
like a garbage truck or a tank or an
airplane like
just that. Why? It's as simple as that.
Biology and I'm at the extreme end of
masculinity brain-wise to begin with.
And so you you see a movie where like
the Hulk rips off an airplane wing and
throws it. Some people be like woah,
some people are like I hate this movie
and some people are like
oh my god, I want to just be that
that whole thing. Why? I want that. It
just feels good.
But do you know why? Because have you
got any hypotheses as to why why you
versus
someone else? Cuz the average person
doesn't
have that feeling. Mhm. So have you have
you been able to figure out in hindsight
why you were so taken by being big?
I have a few ideas. I'll I'll I'll come
I'll come up with this idea with the
following.
Um retrospective analysis of why you do
things is almost always grotesquely
flawed. Most of why we do things is a
combination of variables we don't
understand and genetics. And so like the
whole life story arc, well it all
started with a t-shirt in the third
grade, like that's [ __ ] That's a
backward justification you made up. So
the following statements are backward
justifications I'm making up as just
tentative very
not sure hypotheses. Um
uh here's a fun story. This will be fun.
Um when I was uh small
uh young, my dad would wrestle with me a
lot.
And um
he would always
uh let me win in the end. He's great.
He's a great person. And he would always
tell me that I was strong
and capable.
And then
uh in like
uh
end of elementary school all the way
through the beginning of high school
I was bullied. Honestly, like literally
a few times. I think I was just the
wrong person to bully
because that very temporary state of
disenfranchisement and powerlessness
um
I'm never going to be bullied again. Uh
to put to put it simply I wish I was
logical enough that when like if if I
was getting robbed by someone at knife
point or not even knife point, just like
just a guy try to be like, "Hey man, get
out of my way." No.
I said, "Get out of my way."
I'm going to die here before I move out
of your way. You're going to treat me
with respect or one of us is either
going to jail or the morgue or the
hospital. Mhm.
It's a terrible thing to think. It's
stupid beyond belief. Just be like,
"Sir, my apologies. Please keep going."
But
What were you bullied for?
Nothing.
Nothing. Just kid just wanted to bully
people.
But what I want to know is the con- what
was going through your brain at the
time? Like what you were thinking in
that moment? Cuz I think we can all
think back to well
uh two unfortunately too many people can
think back to a time when they were
bullied in some way, whether it was a
day or whether it was something that was
a bit more prolonged. You know, when it
became and they started to it started to
embody that sort of pain and shame and
that feeling of I'm different from these
other kids. Some of my best friends have
talked if you know, they've been to
therapy and their therapists have
I think figured out through some of that
retrospective analysis, which obviously
a lot of the time isn't accurate, that
much of their adult behavior today
correlates back to an early experience
in such a way where they were made to
feel a certain way in that social
environment where we're so sort of
formative. Yeah.
How did it make you feel?
I felt scared.
And I felt like I um wasn't brave enough
to stand up for myself. Mhm. Later I
began standing up for myself and that
felt very nice.
But
it I felt like I was out of control and
a part of my brain that I didn't consent
to made me frown
and dip my head down for me. It was
almost like musculature in my neck just
deactivated.
It it's a ancestral uh mechanism that
everyone has.
Uh kids all the way up through teenager
and adulthood sort themselves male
children into dominance hierarchies.
It's just the dominance hierarchy
sorting itself. And someone confronted
me
and I automatically sorted myself
beneath them.
I felt beneath someone. I felt weaker,
more inferior, less apt, less capable,
less confident, less strong. And I
didn't even have consent to it. It's not
something I chose. I wasn't going to
this kid'll beat me up. I better not. It
was totally
uh a subconscious behavior. And looking
back on it, I did not enjoy how that
made me feel. Do you remember a specific
day
or a specific thing happened? Cuz I can
think back to a
couple of specific days when I was
younger that I think shaped me in that
regard where I was pretty much the only
black person in the school. I remember
an evening where this particular kid
called Sam had like cornered me and
called me the N-word and everyone was
there and you know, I'll never forget
those days. They're like etched into
your mind as
you know, unforgettable memories of
pain, of shame, of that that feeling.
Mhm.
Do you do you have those? No, yeah. A
particular day? Yeah, sure.
share that with me?
This is getting deep, huh?
Um
I have a few incidents.
One probably stands out the most.
So it was a kid named Darren and he was
black.
Um
almost certainly fatherless.
Um
He had naturally physically developed
for his age. He was 10, so was I.
We were just wrestling. I wrestled with
everyone.
He beat me in wrestling. He was the only
person I believe to beat me in wrestling
my whole childhood.
Cuz like he was like a 14-year-old kid
in great shape and I was a 10-year-old
kid.
And
he beat me in wrestling and that was
cordial cuz like kids just wrestle.
But he had braces, I think.
And he cut himself
while wrestling with me and he was
bleeding out of his mouth.
And then he got really upset about that.
And he like kind of stood over me.
And he was like like, you know, you
little this and that, like
you did this to me, like I'm going to f
you up and all this other stuff.
And that's when that mechanism switched.
When he did that to me, my whole
perspective on the world changed for
years.
I was like a confident, happy kid. And
then after that for four or five years,
maybe longer
all of my confidence drained out. I
became introverted. I am not naturally
introverted.
And um
that his presence alone
uh reminded me that
I need to keep my head down
and otherwise I get real scared.
And I didn't want to be scared.
And so that's how that worked. And it
wasn't like he got something like your
[ __ ] is racial, that's deep, bro. My
shit's not deep at all. It's just two
kids and one of them punked it out. I
was just the wrong person for that to
happen to. And I remember fantasizing
when I was in like sixth grade, I think,
like a year later
like
wouldn't it be great if I brought a
baseball bat to school and just broke
his legs and just kept hitting his legs
to where he'd never walk right ever
again cuz he wronged me that bad.
I felt that deep and true. I'm going to
keep the statement as contextual as I
can with full understanding of respect
for the gravity of what I'm saying.
When the Columbine people did what they
did, I thought it was egregious and
terrible. I also understood how you
could be pushed to do that. Now in their
particular case, I don't even know how
they were pushed or whatever, but enough
bullying will make you consider doing
terrible things to regain your honor.
And so that was probably like the most
pre- I I was bullied in other
situations. Again, like I might have
been bullied three or four times my
whole life. But it just it just did not
sit well with me at all. For a long time
it changed how I expressed myself to the
world. And even right now as I talk to
you, I'm getting pretty emotional. I'd
say that if I see that guy again in real
life, if he's even around
I have a brown belt in jiu-jitsu now.
I'm almost certainly bigger and stronger
than him.
Is he safe around me?
Probably.
Can I guarantee his safety if he brings
it up?
No.
If he watches this and hits me up and
goes, "Hi, I got you, little bitch."
If I see him in real life
I might take something from him
medical science can't give him back
within the next five or 10 years.
What a terrible idea. I'd go to jail.
I have a lot of really good things going
for me. It would be wrong in every
single way. It wouldn't even be ethical
because he never like beat the crap out
of me or anything like that. It was not
like he brutalized me. Oh my god, like
I'm going to [ __ ] someone over some
[ __ ] childhood beef. It's also
he was 10.
The gravity of how deeply it feels to me
even right now at age 40 is like man,
yeah, that [ __ ] definitely meant
something. It's interesting cuz um
I think for the first
I'm 31 now, so I think for the first 27
years of my life, if you'd asked me why
I do what I do, I would have in
hindsight probably told you a story that
sounds a little bit heroic. I I have
this drive and have this motivation and
I had this goal and I went after it and
it was all like self-agency and all that
stuff, but the more and more I've
learned about I think psychology
generally and how humans as I often say
are sometimes driven and they're dragged
and it's hard to tell the difference.
Mhm. Like whether something is drive or
whether it's like you're being dragged.
Mhm. Um Compulsion. Like compulsion that
you just can't explain
um because of maybe a trauma or an
experience you you went through or maybe
the the household you grew up in. I
think I'm I'm leaning more now towards
the
dragged side of things in most areas of
my life, especially where I exhibit
atypical behavior. Like what? Like for
the fact that I work like 7 days a week
and I can just and I'm I've always been
absolutely obsessed with like
achievement and success. So why do you
think that is? Because I think I I grew
up in a context where the thing that
invalidated me was that. Like we were
the poor family that didn't have things
and I was black in an all white area. Um
and I was just full of shame growing up.
And I think I saw the the medicine to
the to the shame as being material
success. It was the thing that I lied,
cheated and stole to try and achieve.
And you know, it's been my orientation
for my whole life. I think deep within
me is this this story that
success and material success and all
those things make me enough.
Mhm. And I I didn't feel like inside,
yeah. And I didn't feel like I was
enough. And as much as I'm aware of that
now, it doesn't mean that it's going to
stop.
Did it So it didn't Do you feel like
you're enough? Well, it's interesting
because if you ask me, do I feel like
I'm enough? I'd say yes.
I'm very comfortable with who I am. Like
I think I have somewhat of an accurate
reflection of
of who I am to some degree, but I'm but
then I also I contrast that with the
fact that why am I still just like
obsessively driving towards these ever
bigger goals in a way that's really
really atypical. Like not the average
person.
You know, and why does it matter so much
to me,
you know,
that that's where I go, okay, there's
something different in my wiring. It's
still an an element, this sort of
proving my worth to myself or you know,
proving to the kids back on the
playground that
you know, they should respect me in some
way or whatever. Yeah. And it's
complicated. I say this not because it
sound makes me sound great cuz it
certainly doesn't. I just say it because
of
I really believe that more honest I can
be with myself, the closer I can get to
everything that I want. Oh, sure.
Like the closer I can get to holding the
steering wheel, not being dragged
with with a rope at the back of the car.
I'm trying to hold the steering wheel in
my life and that starts with like an
honest self self-awareness and one that
honestly has only come from
uh
being more and more confident and caring
less about what people think. Like I
wouldn't have said this on camera.
There's like millions of people probably
listening right now. I wouldn't have
said these things about myself. It
sounds icky. Oh, I've never told this
bullying story to anyone but a few
people. Yeah. I was like when you
brought it up, like tell me about when
you were bullied, in my head I was like,
holy [ __ ] all right, like this is where
this goes. Well, I just think it's
everyone I've met. It's not you're not
you're the same as everyone I've met in
that regard.
Probably if I had to write that fake
back story arc explaining my life, the
bullying thing is like kind of a little
bit minor.
I have a really gnarly story about
having really severe attention deficit
disorder when I was younger while at the
same time growing up in an Ashkenazi
Jewish family. For Ashkenazi Jewish
Russian immigrants to the US, you were
either good at school or you were
worthless. And it's not just that my
parents thought that. They didn't really
think that at a deep level. They did
believe it at a surface level.
I thought that.
You can't make fun of someone for being
fat if they're cool with being fat.
They're like, yeah, I'm [ __ ] big,
hell yeah. And you're like, ah, didn't
work. But if they believe that being fat
is terrible, you can be like, hey, how
much do you weigh? And
that's it. Everything changes. me,
I believed I had a destiny
to be at least competent at school. And
up until I was 14, I was like in
contention for being the worst student
at any single school I attended at any
single time. And the bitter sweet
element was my dad is a PhD in
mathematical modeling of atmospheric
physical phenomena and my mom was a a
translator of the Russian language or
translated English to Russian and got a
master's degree in social work in her
second language in America a few years
after we got in. That's the legacy I'm
dealing with. And like I can't do math
problems three grades younger than the
kids. I I got held back in school a
grade. And so I took that not so well.
And so later because I was medicated for
attention deficit, it was a revelatory
experience.
As I came up and sort of grew into the
idea that I was actually fairly
intelligent, um I had something to
prove.
And it's getting better now because I've
taken enough IQ tests and you can only
write so many books and be on so many
podcasts until people like, you're
pretty smart. And you got to you got to
start believing it unless you're totally
irrational. At some point that sinks in.
So one thing I will say is
there are ways of dealing with demons
and uh insufficiencies that you've
developed through your childhood. Some
of them are just having a real deep
personal journey in your own head
consistently reinforcing good attitudes,
not reinforcing the bad ones. Other ones
are talking to friends, family. Other
ones are therapy, which is excellent for
this. But I got to tell you, Stephen,
I'm not sure if this is true,
but there's got to be something
to proving the opposite is true.
To doing it all.
To getting I don't know, the top or
whatever, but to like
no one in their right mind would at this
point be like, this guy is below average
intelligence. That would be preposterous
to say. I've taken the Raven's Advanced
Progressive Matrices test
and I pegged it scale high. So you get
every single question right. And so my
IQ is above 160. We don't know how high
cuz they don't do standardized IQ tests
above that.
You do that enough times, you enough PhD
programs, enough book, enough teaching
awards, enough authorships, enough all
the stuff, enough millions and app
designs and all the stuff
and dealing with otherwise really smart
people and they walk away being like,
[ __ ] that guy is real smart. Enough of
that
makes you swim in a warm, comfortable
sea that heals you in a way that maybe
therapy can,
but god damn, there's something to just
doing the [ __ ] thing. You take a
skinny little kid who's bullied, you
make him a Muhammad Ali champion of the
world. Enough title fights later, you
look at Muhammad Ali, what you going to
do about this? He doesn't even flinch.
So yeah, it's nice to say and I think
it's true that therapy and self-care and
all these things can heal the soul.
There's something about overcoming and
becoming superlative to that thing you
used to fear
that might heal your soul to a huge
extent. I think maybe I've witnessed
that. Again, maybe this is all just
make-believe. It sounds real nice. No, I
I completely agree and it's perfectly
what I've experienced in my own life.
And as you were speaking, I was thinking
it's just so clear to me that
when you're young, you get
evidence.
You get like a stack of evidence about
who you are and what the world is. And
what you then have done for the next 10,
20, 30 years is to
counteract that evidence with new
evidence. I think about it like a
library. I think everything that I went
through and you went through when you
were younger just added like one book to
the shelf. The interesting context of
the library is those books are both in
informative, they're both you know,
non-fiction books, but they're also
fiction books and they're also
instruction manuals for what you'll do
in the future. If you think about those
first 18 years of your life, what you
did is you filled this library full of
ink books, stories, self stories. And
this library that you've you've
collected is just a bunch of stories
that you believe about yourself. Now if
you want to change some of these
stories, unfortunately, you have to get
new books. Yes. So what you did in your
life is you pursued um hard things that
would put new books on the shelf. And
when a new book comes on the shelf that
counteracts another one, you have to
take the old one off. But you can't you
can't just sit around willing the it's
it's as you say as an I've experienced
in my life, the only way I can put books
up there is to go and get first party
evidence with my own eyes that something
else is true. And not just once. Over
and over and over. Depending on how
stubborn the existing book For sure. And
if they're real stubborn, here is my
question to you. Do you think that
childhood experiences
build the kind of books that are
hardback Lord of the Rings type of
shits, whereas adult experiences that
completely countervail a childhood
experiences are like little magazine
you'd read on a plane? I got so in the
analogy, when you're a child, you put
books on the shelf very quickly.
They're they're all very cheap books
because there's nothing on the shelf, so
you're just grabbing your mom says pigs
can fly, on the shelf.
As you get older, actually because
there's so many books on the shelf
already,
and let's say if I just focus on this
analogy of pigs flying, there's already
a book about aviation on the shelf. Mhm.
Which means it's harder to believe that
pigs can fly. There's a book already
about animals and their anatomy, so you
can't add a new one because there's so
many counteracting ones already. So this
is why they often say that young kids
adopt, you know, you can't teach an old
dog new tricks because there's so much
existing evidence there of something
else being true. So kids throw them on
the shelf without much interrogation
because there's less counteracting books
there already. Whereas adults, they take
a little bit more time to add a new one
because they've got six other books
which might tell a different story.
Yeah. And so this is, you know, if we
think about neuroscience and
neuroplasticity, it becomes a little bit
harder sometimes for adults to I mean, I
had a neuroscientist here yesterday
saying this to me that it becomes after
you get to possible to 25 years old,
neuroplasticity becomes a little bit
more stubborn. It's still possible up
until you die, but it's a little bit
more stubborn. So you just need more
reinforcement. You need more
reinforcement, more evidence, more
repetitions. And he described it as more
focus. Yeah.
Focus on the thing. One thing that I I
found maybe is helpful is my my wife is
similar to me. She's like an insane
super goal-driven psychotic person.
And
we have a real trouble
taking a step back and telling ourselves
like man, we're doing pretty well. So
every now and again like evenings and
weekends, especially weekends, we'll do
some like sounds super lame but
gratefulness discussions. Uh
depending on who you talk to, I guess.
To my old childhood bullies, that's me.
But um you know, it's really weird to
say some of these things out loud to
yourself. And uh there's some
resistance, especially early, um
admitting to yourself like I
I won. I won. I won. I won. I did the
thing. Maybe it doesn't work quite that
simply, but I think it it's good to try
because it's a really weird thing to go
and be 60 years old and look back on
your life and someone's like, "So what
have you accomplished?" Like, "Yeah, not
much. I kind of ain't shit." And like,
"I've seen you on book covers." You're
like,
"Right. Oh, that's right. Okay, so I
accomplished a lot, but I don't feel
like I have."
How dare you rob yourself of being able
to swim in that beautiful warm sea of
self-actualization. I think it's worth
it for people to focus when you do good,
let yourself bask in that glow. Get your
time under the sun.
Amen. And it's all about subjective
progress. It's all about like this I was
going to do a post last night. I was
thinking like so many people spend their
lives I was just I was scrolling through
Instagram and I was I wrote the post and
I just didn't post it, but so I I
noticed that so many people go through
their lives like looking for an enemy,
like looking for the person or the
system or the government or the
political party that's currently
wronging them and they commit their
whole life to just this this focus of
who's wronging me and I need to point
them out and call them out and scream at
them. And I've never I've never fallen
trap, but um I do have a competition
with myself. Mhm. And I feel like that's
very healthy because what I'm actually
looking for in myself is some form of
progress, whether it's how I show up or
with my my fitness or with my muscles or
whatever. This constant um
search for progress in myself and then
when I do discover progress
I can celebrate it and I can have that
gratitude we talked about. And so
anyone's progress, whether it's when I
went from being a university dropout to
getting my first investor, that is like,
"Oh my god." And it's only in hindsight
and with some
aging wisdom that I start to realize
that those moments were so unbelievably
important. They're so motivational
identifying your progress. And I've done
There's two kind of data points that
have really um shone a light on this for
me is one of them was Sir David
Brailsford who took the British cycling
team from being down and out and
depressed to the greatest team of all
time winning all the gold medals. And he
said yes, the marginal gains thing that
he's known for, that's in the front
chapter of Atomic Habits with key.
But actually he said to me, he went,
"When you can get a group of people or a
person to feel like they're going
somewhere because they have a sense of
progress." He goes, "That's what made us
um
stay in the bike shop till 2:00 a.m. in
the morning." And I read another study
from Harvard Business Review where they
asked people in their in to keep work
diaries and then at the end of the study
they said, "Point to the day where you
had your best day in work." And people
always pointed in their work diaries to
a day where there was a feeling of
subjective progress, even small. Yes.
And that makes you motivated. You feel
like you are going somewhere, which
means you're more likely to do it. So
gratitude serves a happiness um role,
but also just a motivational one. We
have a closing tradition on this podcast
where the last guest leaves a question
for the next guest not knowing who
they're going to leave it for.
And the question that's been left for
you
Oh, crap.
What is the most
meaningful dream
brackets nightmare
you've ever had and why?
I don't know if this is the most
meaningful
dream.
Um
but
Jesus Christ, I'm really going to say
this. Fine.
Um
as I was when I was a young adult
I was starting to experience success
with the opposite sex.
And I just did not ever experience that
when I was younger or already of age but
younger. It's just probably like a bit
of a hang-up, you know, for most people
it's kind of like when you're not
getting any feel kind of out of it.
And when I started experiencing success
with women
my dreams at night changed. And one of
them was uh
I think the following dream has nothing
to do with females and sex, but it's had
to do with power and it had to do with
um
an ability that you can. I ran out of my
childhood home into the street and um
I uh
it wasn't the street anymore. It was
just a black empty void and it became a
lucid dream. So I kind of knew a little
bit that it was a dream. It was like,
"Ooh, I'm going to do cool Dragon Ball Z
stuff." Do you know what Dragon Ball Z
is? The anime show?
And I opened up my hand
and I wanted to make a fireball and I
made an energy ball that was like a
singularity size, but it was made of
people's screams.
It was like
and then I woke up
and I was like, "That was so cool." Not
victim screams, just Viking screams. And
I was like, "That is the coolest shit."
And I had multiple other dreams in my
young adult life after successes with
women, which were dreams of power. And I
was like, "God damn, if I can have those
dreams every night, it'll be super
happy."
That's the most interesting dream I've
ever had about following someone losing
their virginity. I didn't SAY I LOST MY
GET OUT OF HERE. I still haven't lost my
virginity. I've been a good person.
Dr. Mike, thank you so much for your
your wisdom and your
your information and all the work that
you've done in your life because it's
formed a wonderfully important
perspective on a subject that so many
people struggle with. I'm going to ask
you I'm going to leave you with my with
my last question, which is
what is the most important thing that we
didn't talk about today as it relates to
the subject matter of getting in shape,
building muscle that we should have
talked about? Is there anything we left
off the table?
There's a lot to this, so we left a lot
out. Um I have a lot more to say about
body dysmorphia and how people do relate
to their bodies and how they maybe
shouldn't or try to weave their thoughts
away from various ideas and how maybe
they should try to relate to their
bodies better. And it's a conversation I
love to have. I just don't ever get
asked about it super often. So I think
that in in body dysmorphia in general,
in self-esteem as it relates to bodies
of guys that grew up to be skinny, of
girls that grew up to fat, I think a
combination of getting the body that you
want, soaking in the sun and really
being like, "I'm the hot girl now. This
is really happening." And how to relate
to your body, there's a plethora of
wonderful conversation around that that
um
if I had a time machine I'd go back and
interrupt you and just be like, "Let's
talk about that instead."
Maybe we can save that for another time.
Dr. Mike, thank you so much. Where do
people find you? Your YouTube channel is
incredible, so I'll link that below.
Just YouTube. Everything links off of
YouTube.
And you've got your app as well, which
people can go and check out. Links off
of YouTube as well. Links off of
YouTube. Two apps. Okay, so if I go to
your YouTube channel I can find
everything. Boom. Great. Mike Dr. Mike,
thank you so much. Huge honor and
pleasure. Thank you so much.
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