What's up, bro? In this video, I'm

literally going to show you how you can

become funny, how you can start becoming

funny, how to be funny, even if you've

never been funny your whole life. And

let me tell you something. I attest to

this the most because

I have literally been called a person

who is not funny, cannot make jokes,

someone who is not fun to be around,

especially middle school, high school.

And this was a problem even within the

past year and two to three years ago.

Now, I've always been called a chill

guy, but one of my biggest problems and

something that I've always struggled

with and I've always envied was people

who could just easily make jokes. Like,

if there's something that we know that

is like really good to have and like a

really good trait to have, it's the

ability to have humor. And it's the

ability to make people laugh. I mean,

we've seen it and we we've really seen

stereotypes from like movies and high

schools where it's just like the funny

guy, the class clown, the jester, right?

He always gets all the validation. He

always gets the most people wanting to

be with him and people want to be like

him. But my problem was

I had no idea how to do this. You know,

I would try to make jokes. I would try

to watch, you know, YouTube videos. I

would try to see like tricks and tips

and tricks on how to become funny. But

no matter what I did,

nothing seemed to work. And you know, I

tried everything. But it wasn't until

recently until I experienced probably

one of the best social lives that I've

had in university

until I realized that I think I found

something that no one is really talking

about. And this is coming from someone

who's done tons of things, you know,

tons of research on how to be more

funny. And I'm going to show you how

this has changed my life and how I use

it to literally improve my humor and how

I got rid of my dry personality and how

I actually have had an easier time

making jokes. Not the most funny and

guy, charismatic guy, but it's getting

somewhat better. And so here's the

thing. Here is the main reason on why

humor is such a problem for you. Humor

is such a problem for you because you do

not know what personally makes you

laugh. You personally do not know what

makes you laugh, what makes you what

makes you have a good time, what types

of jokes, what types of humor. Now, that

make that might sound a little weird,

right? You're like, "What what am I

going with this?" Right? But hear me

out. This is where I got this idea. So,

this year, I have probably had one of

the most social lives I've ever had. So

in a university with 80,000 people, I

live in a house with three other guys.

And then within my university, you know,

I have classes. I've talked to a bunch

of people there. I'm also in

organizations as well. And so something

that I really struggle with, I noticed

that I could have conversations. I could

ask questions. I wasn't an awkward guy

when it came to like humor, making

people laugh, service level

conversation, right? I noticed I would

completely struggle with that. And so

one of my roommates that I live with,

you know, he's like Mr. He's like Mr. or

he's like super charismatic. He's like

always telling me to make jokes. And I

was like, you know what, bro? What's

your advice on how to make jokes? And so

he was telling me this. He was like,

"Well, first of all, what makes you

laugh? What do you find funny?" And then

he when he asked me that, I was just

like, "I honestly don't know. I honestly

don't know what jokes make me laugh. I

don't know what type of videos that I

find funny. And then my charismatic

groom, he's like, "That's the problem."

And he basically tells me that what he

does and which he uses to like get a

bunch of like social charisma and social

validation. He says that the key is to

find out what type of humor

makes you laugh,

what type of humor works for you, and

then you take that humor and then you

use it in conversation. Now, when I

heard this, I'm just, wait, no, that's

not going to work. I'm just like, what

do you mean by this? Right? But he was

like, I don't make up all these jokes

just for my own memory. He's like, "I

take what I find funny and then I use it

in conversation." And then he proceeds

to tell me that making jokes and humor,

it's a form of self-confidence.

Because basically what he does and

basically how he finds humor is that you

take what you find funny from a video or

a joke somewhere. You say it in the

situation and then you're basically

expressing, "Oh, hey, this is what I

find funny. I find this joke funny. I

find this phrase funny." and I'm going

to share it with you and hopefully we

can connect over that. And when he told

me this, my mind was just like

flabbergasted like I'm just like, "Oh my

goodness." Right? And so from that day,

I started figuring out humor. Okay? And

so here's the first step on what you can

do. The first step on how you can prove

your humor is literally go on Tik Tok,

go on YouTube, look up um comedy shows,

look up funny streamers, funny um funny

bits, funny phrases that you can do. And

the reason why you want to do this,

right, you're going to find out what

humor works for you. So maybe for you

it's funny phrases just like me, right?

Maybe for you it's uh maybe it's standup

comedy. Maybe it's some of the jokes or

words that they use. for me especially

that I've used right is voices. I find

that voices actually make me laugh like

impersonations. And so literally this is

how my story relates to this. I recently

found that voices when I do voice

impersonations it makes me laugh but it

also makes other people laugh. Like I

was doing this like I remember this one

time I was doing this Donald Trump

impersonation and it's basically you

know I mock Donald Trump where it's like

oh we're going to take Greenland we're

going to take Greenland extract all

their oil and resources and the prince

of peace you know something like that

some cringy thing like that it's a lot

funnier and honestly that was a lot

funnier in my head doing that but I do

it sometimes and I noticed that when I

do it people laugh people are like you

should do that voice more and Because of

this, the reason why I'm telling you

this is because I'm literally taking an

example of something that I find funny,

something that I laugh at and I use it

in conversation. Now, here's another

thing. In general, saying jokes and

making humor, you're going to win some,

you're going to lose some. Not every

joke you're going to make someone laugh.

So, if you use a joke and it's not

funny, it's okay. It's it's basically a

uh oh, what's it called? It's an exper

it's a numbers game. you know, you keep

making those jokes, but if they don't

laugh, don't use it again. You just keep

using more. And so, you basically,

right, you want to take what you find

funny, uh, from maybe bits or phrases,

um, comedic shows, you know, phrases

that they say in TV shows, and you want

to use it in conversation. I also really

like phrases and little witty bits.

There's a there's an art of like witty

banter. And so, an example of this is,

right, let's say someone is kind of

like, let's say someone is telling you

no, right? Someone's like, "Oh, I don't

want to go I don't want to go on a date

with you. Oh, I don't want to hang out

with you." You can be like, "Yeah, yeah,

yeah. Right, right, right. Cool, cool,

cool." I think the right answer is,

"Yes, yes, JJ, I do want to hang out

with you. Yes, I do go I do want to go

on a date with you." So, if you can use

Woody Banner, that's going to be amazing

as well. Second tip that you can do as

well that has really helped me is

realizing that your environment sorry

your environment plays the biggest

factor the biggest role in your humor.

So as I'm in university with 80,000

students right I talk to lots of people

and within my inner social group I hear

a lot about the charismatic people and

like the funny people that I that I've

seen and I've met. And so I was talking

to some friends and I noticed that I

asked them, "What is your family like?

Is your family also funny?" And [snorts]

all of the funny people that I asked,

all of the careers, the charismatic

people that I asked, they always said,

"Oh yes, my family is 100%." You know,

they're jokesters. They always try to

have a good time. They're always trying

to make the situation lively and happy.

And then I looked at my family

situation. I looked at my environment

and personally, you know, I love my

family, but my family isn't really like

that. My family's a little more quiet.

There's not a lot of jokes going on.

There's not a lot of family. And so, I'm

just like, this is probably why I didn't

grow up with that humor because these

charismatic people, these funny people,

they see things through the lens,

through the environment of a comedic,

charismatic, social environment. Well,

I'm not. And this made total sense. And

so my tip for you and the reason why I'm

telling you this is because in order to

pick up on these things, in order to

start making jokes in humor, what you

need to do is get into the environment

of where jokes and charismatic banter

are always used, where humor is used.

Now, you might be like, "Oh, but you

know, I'm not part of any clubs. You

know, my friends, they don't make bunch

of jokes." Maybe you might not have any

friends, right? The easiest thing you

can do, take a couple hours on Tik Tok,

YouTube, Netflix, comedic shows, dating

shows, you know, find a bunch of humor.

Go on comedy reels on Tik Tok and like

watch a bunch of those every single day.

And first of all, you're scrolling,

which is lazy. But first of but second

of all, you're actually getting value

from this because you're seeing

everything from a humor perspective.

You're seeing it through the lens of

comedy. So do those two things. Find

what humor works for you. what find what

you find funny and then be in that

environment. Consume that every single

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