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Why Your Brain Is Strongest After You Nut

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Does postnut clarity really exist? And

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the answer is absolutely yes. And as we

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dive into the neuroscience of postnut

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clarity, we'll discover that the effects

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of postnut clarity are even more

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profound than most people realize. And

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so the way I sort of think about postnut

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clarity is it's not just postnut

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clarity, it's also pre-nut fog. So prior

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to orgasm, our brain has so many

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different dimensions that impair our

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thinking, impair our ability to even act

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and be motivated in the right way.

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Because if people have experienced

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postnut clarity, you kind of know that

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after you nut, right, your mind is super

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clear. You're able to focus on tasks.

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You're not nearly as distracted. There's

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really this profound sense of like

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clarity and direction and motivation.

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And the really fascinating thing is as

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we dig into the neuroscience, we'll see

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how each of those things that we

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experience is actually tied to specific

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circuits in the brain. So the first

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thing is that the neuroscience of orgasm

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is complicated. Okay, what we know is

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that orgasm is primarily mediated by a

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flood of opioids in the brain and in the

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body. So when you have an orgasm, you

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sort of have this experience of being

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like blissed out. You feel kind of

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floaty. And this is a different kind of

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pleasure from dopamine. When I feel like

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really really engaged with something,

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let's say I'm playing a video game or

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I'm competing in sports or I'm gambling,

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right? And I win big. The kind of

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pleasure that I get feels like a rush,

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not like a floating in a blissed out

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kind of way. And as we dig into the

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effects of an opioid flood in our brain,

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we actually see that one of the most

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profound effects is a reduction in

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dopamine signaling. So let's explain

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that for a second. Okay. So, dopamine is

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the neurotransmitter that does things

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like creates cravings, gives us

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pleasure, gives us behavioral

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reinforcement. When dopamine is super

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active in our brain, we want things. So,

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if we think a little bit about pre-nut

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fog, why are we not thinking clearly

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before we nut? Because it's like, okay,

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I I I really want to write this book,

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let's say, or I want to focus on this

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project. I want to learn how to paint.

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But instead, my mind keeps thinking

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about playing video games, keeps

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thinking about watching pornography,

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keeps thinking about lust. Loneliness is

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at an all-time high. Sexlessness is at

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an all-time high. Relationships are

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probably in the worst state they've ever

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been in the history of humanity. And

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that's why I made Dr. K's guide to love,

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mother. Y'all are going to need it. So,

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one of the fogs that we experience is

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that instead of being like clear towards

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our goals, our dopamineergic circuitry

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is pulling us in a thousand different

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directions. It kind of induces this

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brain rot. What's really scary is when

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our dopamine system is activated just

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how much it impairs our decision-m and

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impairs our ability to assess risk. So

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overall, numerous studies have shown

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that when our dopamine circuits are

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activated, we don't assess risk in the

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right way. Okay? And this is important

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to understand because post-nut clarity

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is not just about lust. Postnut clarity

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is about clarity in all of the other

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dimensions of our life. And what we know

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from some of the some of these studies

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on on dopamineergic activation is that

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once our dopamine system is activated,

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it impairs our decision-m in unrelated

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fields as well. So first thing impairs

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decision-m we make bad bets in

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blackjack. Second thing about the

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dopamineergic circuitry is how little

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sexual stimuli we need to activate this

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dopamineergic circuitry. So once it

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becomes activated, we don't think

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clearly and it takes very little to

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actually activate it. There's a really

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cool study that basically showed a

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benign image for 474 seconds

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milliseconds. Okay, so almost half a

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second and for 26 milliseconds it showed

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a sexually explicit image. Now when we

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show a sexually explicit image for 26

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milliseconds, this is not enough for our

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brain to consciously register. You won't

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even know that you saw a sexually

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explicit image. You won't be consciously

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aware of it. But that small amount of

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stimulus is all it takes for your brain

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to actually light up. Right? So we need

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very little sexual stimuli to trigger

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these lust pathways. And then what's

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really scary is once these pathways are

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triggered, the degree of alteration in

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our decision-making, this is a really

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cool study that was done out of MIT by

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Daniel Arieli, who's written multiple

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bestselling books, but he basically

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showed people like explicit images. And

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then he asked people all kinds of

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questions like, would you be willing to

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have sex with a 40-year-old woman,

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50-year-old woman, 60-year-old woman,

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would you be willing to have sex with

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someone that you hate? Would you be

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willing to have sex with a man? And what

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what's really scary about all these

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questions is once someone gets exposed

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to these images, how drastically it

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alters their decisionmaking. Their

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willingness to engage in sexual behavior

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goes up by a statistically significant

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amount in so many different directions.

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Once you are turned on, two fundamental

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things happen. One is that for the

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things that you're attracted to, your

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willingness to sacrifice for them,

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engage with them, pursue them, actually

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goes up by a statistically significant

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amount. And even things that you

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normally don't find attractive, like do

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you think women's shoes are erotic? Once

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you expose someone to a sexual image,

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their thinking about that changes

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drastically. So what's really kind of

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profound about this is not so much the

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post-nut clarity, but the pre-nut

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horniness, the pre-nut fog drastically

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changes the way that we see the world,

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what we're willing to pursue, and the

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risks that we're willing to take. So

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that's the dopamineergic circuitry. But

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when we get this flood of opioids, we

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are also recruiting other systems. So we

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also see an increase in serotonin

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transmission with the flood of opioids

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with an orgasm. Floods of serotonin are

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associated with improved self-esteem.

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They're associated with an improved

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sense of contentment. Right? So when we

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think about the experience of orgasm,

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there's that body rush of bliss. There's

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that floatiness. And then we just feel

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calm and contented. So this will

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correlate with reductions in anxiety.

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It'll correlate with improvements in

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mood. Right? And this is also where I

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want you all to think about. What is it

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that makes it hard for you to function

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on a daily basis? What is it that makes

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it hard for you to be your best self?

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What is it that clouds your mind? I want

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to write a book, but I'm distracted by

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video games. I'm distracted by

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pornography. I'm thinking lustful

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thoughts. Right? So, that's one form of

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distraction. I can't just focus on the

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book. But then also, I feel like I've

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got low energy. I have all these

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thoughts about, okay, well, what if the

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book doesn't turn out good? it's a waste

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of time. How do I make sure that all of

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the energy that I'm willing to invest

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results in something productive instead

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of just being a failure? That's kind of

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depress depressive thoughts, self-esteem

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thought, low self-esteem thoughts,

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anxiety thoughts. So here's a paper that

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looks at trans orgasm and sexuality

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which also sort of uh shows us that when

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we experience these orgasmic states it

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reduces our ruminative thinking which

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kind of overlaps with this serotonin

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flood that we see from the neuroscience

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perspective. And this is what's also

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really interesting when we enter the

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state of orgasm it also changes the way

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that we think about ourselves. So most

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of the time as we navigate through the

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world, we have a lot of self-referential

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processing going on. What does that

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mean? That means that if I'm thinking

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about I see a cute girl at a coffee shop

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and I want to go up and talk to her. But

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as I go up and talk to her, my mind

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starts hypothesizing. It starts looking

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into the future and thinking, "Oh my

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god, if I say this, I'm going to look

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like an idiot." And it'll also start

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thinking about the past. Oh yeah, there

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was that one time two years ago where I

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approached a cute girl at a coffee shop

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and man, I really messed it up and it

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was really awkward and she seemed really

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uncomfortable. This flood of opioids

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that we experience when we nut actually

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shuts down all of this ruminative

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self-reerential thinking. What we're

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actually able to do is be more present

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in the moment. So this paper refers this

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to as an extreme sensate focus. Now what

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does that mean? So if we sort of think

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about the way that we live our lives,

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right, that I'm living my life and then

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there's a constant commentary in here

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that's ruminative. Thinking about how I

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could screw up, thinking about how I've

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screwed up in the past and orgasm wipes

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that away. So when it comes down to it,

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postnut clarity is incredibly profound.

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It affects our dopamineergic circuitry,

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which in turn affects how much we want

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things, how distracted we are by things,

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our judgment and decision-making. It

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affects our risk threshold. So, a lot of

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the mistakes that we make are because

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we're really thirsty or really horny,

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right? So, it reduces all of that kind

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of stuff. And remember that this

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dopamineergic blunting exists outside of

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realms that are related to sexuality.

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So, even our draw towards video games

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and other dopamineergic activities

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because this doperic circuitry is

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literally inhibited. So it doesn't

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matter what the dopamineergic activity

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is, all of it becomes inhibited. It

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reduces our rumination. It reduces our

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self-referential processing, which in

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turn means that we're able to focus on

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the tasks that we're passionate about,

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that we're interested about. I don't

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know if this makes sense, but when you

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experience postnut clarity, it's almost

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like you have an armor to all of the

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things that normally cause you problems.

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And that's the real nature of the

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clarity. So, as we talk about postnut

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clarity, there's a really common, you

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know, question that people will will ask

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me, which is like, what about nofap?

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Right? So, like, if I start taking cold

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showers, if I stop masturbating, if I

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like don't watch pornography anymore,

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will that induce the same state as

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postnut clarity? Because often times

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what people who are engaging with nofap

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are doing is they're trying to wrestle

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themselves away from the controlling

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influence of horniness and lust. and

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they're sort of right on the money. So,

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here's a really cool paper from uh the

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Buddhist tradition that sort of talks

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about the baseline state of mind is

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clear and when it is when the mind is is

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clear like it's supposed to be then we

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can focus on tasks. We can devote

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ourselves to, you know, doing things

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that are productive, we can stay on

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task, our attentional performance

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increases, right? This is good to have a

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clear mind. It feels really, really,

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really good. And what this paper also

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says is that our baseline state is to

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have a clear mind. And things like lust,

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things like anger, things like

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belligerance, these are the things that

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cloud our mind. So the problem with

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nofap is you can stop the sexual

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activity, but as long as the lustfulness

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is there, as long as the lustfulness is

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activating that dopamineergic circuitry,

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then the cloudiness will be there. So it

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isn't sufficient to do nofap. What you

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really have to do is like spiritually

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progress to adopt a sense of

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non-lustfulness.

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And then the other challenge with nofap

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is it isn't clear to me how it affects

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those other neuroscientific mechanisms

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like the serotonin mechanism, like the

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rumination mechanism, like the

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self-referential mechanism. And that's

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the beauty of postnut clarity is that

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you nut the or the opioid flood happens

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and all of these things change on their

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own.

Interactive Summary

This video explores the neuroscience behind 'postnut clarity,' explaining how the physiological effects of an orgasm create a profound mental shift. It highlights how the brain experiences a flood of opioids during an orgasm, which reduces dopamine-driven distractions, lowers rumination, and shuts down self-referential negative thinking. The video also contrasts these effects with 'pre-nut fog,' where dopamine activation impairs decision-making and increases susceptibility to lustful impulses. Finally, it discusses why simply abstaining from sexual activity (like nofap) may not replicate the full neurological benefits of post-nut clarity without also addressing the underlying mental patterns of lust.

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