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hey there welcome

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writer producer and actor you know from

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Pineapple apple express Knocked Up and

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super bad

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Hollywood it's not a fair industry it is

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not fair who makes any given phone call

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is one that is like making your life or

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your face we had finished super bad and

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people would obviously look at you and

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assume that you have zero self-doubt

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because you've been so successful in

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what you've done but what's your journey

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been with self-doubt I'm at the point

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it's funny my career where like not a

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yell ing but Iowa will have a cultural

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so if you've had an incredible

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twisting turning career and I have to

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say when I was reading about your

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earliest years

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an unexpected one in many respects

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to me too

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what do I need to know about

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um about you where you came from how you

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were raised to understand the man that

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you are

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I mean I get that depends on your

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appetite I guess

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um uh I don't think anyone needs to know

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anything but if uh if you're curious

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um

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I don't know I mean there's a lot uh I

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uh I think a general uh when I look at

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my life I guess I started young I think

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that's something that I uh I I kind of

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view is one of like the defining traits

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and characteristics of my life and I

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think uh I've always worked very hard uh

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and I've always had very supportive

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parents and I think those things all uh

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are things that when if you're looking

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at like if you're if you're curious

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about how I got to where I am from like

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a career standpoint I think and just

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like who I am as a person a lot of ways

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I think those those things were

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instrumental yeah your parents yeah I

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was reading about them yeah they're very

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strange people yeah

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how so I mean everyone's parents are

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strange to them I would imagine I would

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uh yeah they're just they're kind of uh

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you know my dad's kind of eccentric my

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mother's uh also kind of eccentric

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um you know they uh but again they were

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very they're both incredibly supportive

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uh I think because they're excited I

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think a lot of you know my writing

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partner Evan his parents were much less

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eccentric by kind of more traditional

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metrics and were much less supportive of

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uh of his career in a lot of ways and so

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uh I probably benefited from their you

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know uh eccentricities more than

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anything yeah eccentric's uh a broad

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word what is it because I could I could

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do this my parents specifically one of

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them is being eccentric but yeah when

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you say eccentric what exactly do you

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mean

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um I mean my dad

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well my whole family you know I'm uh you

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know like a lot my grandmother was like

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an immigrant

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um who fled uh World War One a lot of

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Jewish families are defined by the fact

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that people uh have been trying to kill

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Jewish people for a very long time and

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my family is no different

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um a lot of the reasons Jews live where

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they live and are where they are and not

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you know in you know Eastern Europe

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somewhere is because uh you know people

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were trying to kill them and that also

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shapes I think uh Jewish sensibility to

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a large degree I know it did mine

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because it's kind of informed by uh

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neurosis and Trauma to a large degree um

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and uh so yeah my grandmother is a

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immigrant and

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um she met my grandfather uh who uh his

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parents were immigrants to uh Winnipeg

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which is a very cold unforgiving part of

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Canada

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um

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they moved to Vancouver ultimately and

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had my mother

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um and my mother wanted to go to Israel

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to travel my dad's from Newark New

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Jersey which is

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um like especially where he's from like

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one of the worst parts of America

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from like a a kind of crime standpoint

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especially at that time in the 70s and

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80s

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um and he my dad's like a so uh you know

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a socialist and moved to a kibbutz in

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Israel where him and my parents uh him

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and my mother met and then move uh to

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Canada so my dad has always been like

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incredibly left-wing

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um especially both my parents but my dad

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really like he would have he would have

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stayed like essentially living on like a

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commune his whole life uh if you know he

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never met my mother basically yeah

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um Andy has like incredible kind of like

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I guess it's OCD

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I don't know if it's a disorder I would

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say he has obsessive compulsive uh

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Tendencies

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um and uh yeah and he has Tourette

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Syndrome so he's Twitchy and uh and I I

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have it as well to some degree but those

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are connected uh kind of compulsive uh

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you know compulsion and Tourette's uh so

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yeah I mean uh yeah no shortage of

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strangeness to draw from when uh in my

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family what was his um relationship like

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with money

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um I'd say not not that's relevant I

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mean yeah we I was not Ronnie was I

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think we did not I did not grow up with

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a lot of money you know um

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my parents my mother uh went to school

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to be a social worker when I was very

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young and then became a social worker

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but when I was a kid she was a cashier

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at a uh you know a department store and

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my dad was uh worked at like a

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vocational College as the known budsman

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which uh kind of you know is like a

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swing position to some degrees helped

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facilitate life on the on the campus you

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know a lot of time was spent working in

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the game room from my memory uh so yeah

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we grew up you know in a small apartment

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and then

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um so yeah I think some people who don't

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grow up with a lot of money I think are

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taught to really like Revere money and

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kind of put a lot of emphasis on it and

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I think other people who don't grow up

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with a lot of money uh kind of are

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taught that it's not that important and

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as long as you have enough to do certain

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things then then that's enough and it's

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not something that you should like

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fetishize or

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um you know make the be-all end all by

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any means and I was definitely

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more raised like that yeah is there some

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sometimes a bit of a paradox when your

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parents

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um don't value money and maybe they

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sometimes struggle with it that you grow

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up trying to avoid that struggle

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definitely I for sure had some things

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when I was younger I was afraid of being

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broke and I'm sure that for sure

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informed elements of my ambition you

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know I'm very lucky in that it also

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coincided with a very strong like

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Creative Drive you know

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um but I definitely yeah remember being

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very concerned that we didn't have

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enough money and my parents not being

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that concerned that we didn't have

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enough money which probably made me more

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concerned that we didn't have enough

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money because I was like why aren't they

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worried we don't have enough money

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um so yeah that was that was something

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that was cut but then that was when I

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was like very young and then as I got

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older

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I saw that

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uh you know uh when I got into high

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school and stuff I saw that it I would

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be fine you know what I mean on the girl

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on the grand scale of things in that

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apartment when you were quote unquote

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very young if I'd asked you if I said

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Seth what are you uh what are you gonna

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be when you're older what would you have

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responded to me

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um

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I mean I probably would have said I want

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to write movies or something like that I

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probably would have wanted to be a ninja

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up until a certain age uh a Ninja Turtle

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specifically probably yeah

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um and then uh and then yeah I remember

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uh when I was probably like six or seven

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years old is when I started to Really

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Wanna like the idea of making movies

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became very like fascinating to me and I

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was one of those kids with a camera who

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was like running around making movies

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out obsessed with movies quoting movies

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want to watch all I want to do is watch

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movies I like I love I like fell in love

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with movies at a very young age was

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there an influence in your household

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that inspired that of the movies my

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parents love movies they're like huge

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movie fans

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um they would go to movies again it was

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one of those things like we did not have

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a lot of money we would go to movies all

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the time and uh in Vancouver Tuesdays

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was like the cheap movie night for

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whatever reason it's a slow night so

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maybe they incentivize customers and

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almost every Tuesday we as a family

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would go to whatever new movie had come

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out that week so we saw I saw everything

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in leaders like constantly and I loved

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it um and my parents you know had a vcr

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and would take movies off of television

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and we had this you know I think a lot

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of you know people my age are kind of

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defined but also by like those VHS tapes

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that you grew up with because it was

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like a finite amount of movies and then

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I went to high school me and Evan across

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the street from two uh video rental

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stores a blockbuster and a Rogers which

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was like the Canadian competitor but we

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would go there every day after school

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and just like walk the hour aisles and

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for hours and rent movies we go there on

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the weekends and rent talk walk the

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aisles and rent movies like we were

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um and yeah ever since I was young and

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then I met my riding partner who became

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my producing partner directing partner

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Evan when I was 12 so I was very young

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but ever since ever since then I can

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remember I was like obsessed with movies

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basically yeah and stand up that came in

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at 12 years old as well roughly yeah you

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know for me I loved comedy in general

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and I love stand-up comedy my parents

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are big stand-up comedy fans but truth

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fully it was kind of like a means to an

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end to me because I okay again it's

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funny because it's like it was like

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weirdly well thought out for being 12 or

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13 years old but I was like oh if I do

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stand-up comedy at that time sitcoms

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were very popular Seinfeld things like

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that so I was like

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I was like the most practical path for

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me to have some sort of success doing

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this is I'll start doing stand-up comedy

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maybe I can get an agent and then maybe

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I can like get on a sitcom and be like

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you know Ray Romano or Jerry Seinfeld or

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something like that and then maybe I can

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write movies and that can like turn into

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a movie career basically and that was

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like if you were to ask me when I was

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like 12 years old like what is your life

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gonna be like that's what I would have

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hoped it would be like you know

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remarkable because most 12 year olds I

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know

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I'm thinking like that what was school

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what was your relationship like with

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school was there any influence there on

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you as a man today that early

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relationship with school in your peers

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for sure I mean the first movie I wrote

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was super bad with Evan and it was very

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much informed by our high school

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experience it's largely based on real

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things that happened I would say the

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educational aspect of school were was

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lost on me and and I from a very young

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age knew that My ultimate uh life path

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did not it was not gonna you know follow

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you know an academic route you know um

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and and my parents never put that much

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emphasis on it honestly like they

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weren't like you have to my dad dropped

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out of college you know that they

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weren't like you have to do this you

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know I think more than anything they

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actually saw that I was like

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very inspired to do comedy and I loved

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movies and they saw I was willing to

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work very willing to work very hard from

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a very young age and so

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um honestly from the time I entered High

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School which when I was 13 they were

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like

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they didn't care that much that I was

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not doing that well in high school

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because from because I was always

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working really hard on writing movies

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and doing stand-up comedy uh like from

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around that time

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uh until I got a little older but like

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they saw I wasn't like lazy I was just

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motivated to do something other than

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school but the culture of school I loved

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and the things that happened at school I

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loved and I thought the kids I went to

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school with were hilarious and and we

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would go to parties every weekend and

13:20

people's parents would be out of town

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and we were trying to hook up with girls

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and buy beer and our friends were

13:25

getting licenses and fake IDs and all

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this [ __ ] and and I thought it was

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awesome and hilarious and and I went to

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like a public high school in like a big

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city you know like

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um there was like 3 000 kids at my

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school Vancouver is a real big

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Metropolitan City with downtowns and so

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you know neighborhoods and the good area

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the bad like hey you know you could

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really get into trouble in Vancouver so

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um it provided a lot of like Adventures

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you know and and I loved it and and I

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wasn't one of those people I haven't

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either it's not like we were popular or

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cool or anything but we weren't like

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tortured by high school we were like

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this is a fun adventure and we can have

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fun here and

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um and especially if we don't

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put too much Stakes on the actual like

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doing well here part of it

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Adam at 15 years old you went to a

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Canadian Comedy Festival do you remember

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yeah

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um yeah I remembered like a competition

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I think it was yeah

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um and uh yeah and I did pretty well I I

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placed pretty well in the in the

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competition I was okay I was pretty good

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at stand-up comedy like it it was uh

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yeah do you remember the instance where

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Jerry Seinfeld showed up yes I do I I

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came that was actually I was auditioning

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to get into the Just for Laughs Festival

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in Los Angeles and I show up and it's

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during the day which is not great

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there's not that many people there it's

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maybe like five o'clock it's not a good

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time to stand up comedy I'm like 15

14:53

years old and I fly I flew in for this

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you know

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um

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there's Comics going up and doing their

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thing there's like the Scout from the

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just relax Festival there and like I'm

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about to go up and I'm next and the MC

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is about to introduce me and yeah and

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someone comes over and they're like

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Jerry Seinfeld is about to show up and

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he's going to go up instead of you and I

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was like what I'm like I'm here for I'm

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here to audition for this thing and

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they're like yeah well he'll go up and

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then you'll go up after and I'm like I'm

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gonna go on after Jerry Seinfeld uh

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they're like yes and so he goes up he

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like Anaya I mean he says his show is

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still like he's as famous as as you can

15:30

as a comedy Star as there is alive at

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that moment and it's what you're hoping

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it's like you go to a stand-up comedy

15:38

club at that time hoping Jerry Seinfeld

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will come in and then it happened and

15:42

these people like it's like they won the

15:44

lottery and he comes and he just like

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annihilates and then he gets off stage

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and then they're like and now like from

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Vancouver 15 year olds Seth Rogen and uh

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yeah my bombed horribly um and I did not

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get into the Just for Laughs Comedy

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Festival

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and I told Jerry Seinfeld that story and

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he was uh completely uninterested

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he could have cared less

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it seems like a tough thing for 15 year

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olds a pretty horrific firing line for a

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15 year old to put themselves in

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stand-up comedy yeah I think part of it

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honestly was informed by like my night

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my overall like naivete to some degree

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but I also

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I

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yeah I I was I was good enough at it

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that it instantly wasn't like a visceral

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painful experience you know what I mean

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and it's probably

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you know I played some sports in high

16:40

school but it was probably a similar I

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imagine it's a similar mentality where

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you're like yeah there's Stakes to this

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and there's ups and downs to this but

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overall I'm good at it and I seem to be

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moving progressing in the right

16:52

direction so it's worth the the stress

16:54

of it in order to to pursue it you know

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um and at times it's phenomenal and as

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fun as you would hope anything would be

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you know

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um but also honestly what was more fun

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was at that time me and Evan started to

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write super bad

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and that was like what I really loved

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doing and like I like doing stand-up

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comedy and writing stand-up jokes but

17:14

like I loved sitting with Evan and

17:16

writing a movie and to me that was like

17:19

at the time it's frustrating because

17:21

you're like will this ever get made is

17:22

this pointless are we wasting our time

17:23

is this just a silly Pursuit but it was

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still

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it was I just loved it you know is this

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three line in all your sort of creative

17:31

work often which is about like making

17:33

people laugh

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yep have you ever figured out like why

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you know because I've sat here with a

17:39

lot of Comedians and I've and it always

17:41

seems to be something about comedians

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where

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I don't know some instance when that you

17:46

know maybe they were younger or some

17:47

kind of inspiration in their life which

17:48

made them somewhat compelled to

17:50

and and almost energized by the pursuit

17:53

of making other people laugh and happy

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have you ever does that resonate with

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you and have you ever identified where

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that comes from in you that pursuit of

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making people laugh and happy

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um

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I think for me

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I don't I I don't like I think some

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comedians have like a dark origin story

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you know what I mean

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um

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I don't you know

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um I think for me it was like something

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I liked and something I was good at and

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something that I was very like

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encouraged and and fostered to do from a

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very young age and I was lucky enough to

18:31

find another guy my age who was as good

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at it as I was and as interested uh at

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at doing it as I was which is like

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miraculous like I had a lot of like

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you know I read part of that Malcolm

18:47

Gladwell book and I'm not you know about

18:50

the uh

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about you know the miraculous kind of

18:55

set of circumstances that it takes to

18:57

become like remotely successful in this

18:59

terrible world of ours you know what I

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mean and like I think it was things like

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my parents were big comedy fans so I saw

19:05

comedy from a very young age I'm from

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Canada which is like a place that

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acclaims comedy and respects comedy so

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culturally I'm like from a place where

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comedy is like

19:18

you know a relevant part of the culture

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you know

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um Canadians some of their biggest like

19:25

exports are Comedians and comedy shows

19:28

Lauren Michaels is Canadian you know

19:30

SCTV you know a lot of uh great uh some

19:34

of the greatest means of all time are

19:35

Canadian you know um and so it's

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something that was always kind of just

19:40

always a part of like the DNA of being a

19:42

Canadian person I think to some degree

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as well also I'm from Vancouver where

19:47

they made movies not to say it's like I

19:49

grew up in Hollywood but like they you

19:51

would see movie sets around you would

19:53

see I went to a high school they shot

19:55

some movies at the high school because

19:56

it was a very like cinematic looking

19:58

high school so you would see trucks and

19:59

stuff like that I didn't know anyone who

20:00

worked in the entertainment industry but

20:01

like you kind of would see it around so

20:04

it made it a little more obtainable and

20:07

if we lived like in the middle of

20:08

[ __ ] nowhere and it just seemed like

20:09

completely abstract you know what I mean

20:13

so I think that I think that like my

20:17

path is honestly one of like being

20:19

supported and and being and working hard

20:22

and being very diligent but also like

20:25

having an environment that kind of like

20:27

bolstered my ambition you know what I

20:30

mean

20:31

um yeah 16 years old you you get a part

20:33

in Freaks and Geeks yeah and that brings

20:35

you to LA with your family yeah

20:39

why your entire family came to L.A my

20:42

parents my sister was in college yeah

20:45

and I read that they'd lost their jobs

20:48

around that time yes and that made you

20:50

the sole Breadwinner in the house

20:51

basically yes

20:53

well did that feel like pressure

20:56

being 16 years old and being the

20:58

breadwinner for your house because your

20:59

parents have lost their jobs in a way it

21:01

felt like an alleviation of pressure

21:03

because after six I remember my dad

21:06

telling me like after after like three

21:09

months or six months of being on Freaks

21:11

and Geeks he's like you've made more

21:12

money in this time than I've made my

21:15

entire life put together so like like if

21:19

anything was like an amazing alleviation

21:23

of uh of a weight because there was

21:27

money all of a sudden for the first time

21:28

in our lives

21:30

things could be paid for easily you know

21:33

and so I was more than happy to provide

21:38

for everybody because I suddenly had

21:41

access to an amount of money that was

21:44

like absurd compared to the amount of

21:46

money

21:47

I grew up with access to or anyone in my

21:51

family grew up with with access to you

21:53

know you work ethic which I've read

21:55

about over and over again throughout

21:56

your book and throughout various

21:57

interviews you've done seems to be

21:59

pretty spectacular and one of the quotes

22:01

that I read is if there were any kind of

22:04

dark driving force behind

22:06

um your other Ambitions quote it would

22:09

be some sense of financial insecurity

22:11

yeah probably but that's gone which is

22:15

maybe why I don't make as many things as

22:17

I used to

22:22

that's um that's a that's an interesting

22:25

journey to go on being driven by having

22:27

that sort of financial insecurity

22:29

developing a real sort of really strong

22:31

relationship with work and then that

22:33

falling away yeah and it fell away

22:36

pretty fast I think honestly like I

22:38

think by the time I

22:40

you know there was a point

22:43

so yeah I was on freezing Geeks uh and

22:45

then Undeclared and then I didn't work

22:47

for years but by then it felt like my

22:49

parents were like incapable of making

22:50

enough money to survive on their own

22:52

also so like once I had some money like

22:55

they it was just bonus money you know

22:57

what I mean like uh part of what had

23:00

happened is they lost their jobs and we

23:01

lived in a house so we sold our house in

23:03

Vancouver and and that's why everyone

23:04

moved to LA so there was a little more

23:06

money available because we had sold

23:07

their house so like it's not like my

23:08

parents were like just like a you know a

23:11

leech on uh you know they they they were

23:13

able to like make a baseline level of

23:15

like survivable income so when I had

23:17

more money it just

23:19

um yeah it kind of just added a a

23:22

cushion of comfort and then there were

23:24

times then they moved back to Canada

23:27

um when I was like 18 and I was in LA

23:31

and that's around when I became

23:32

unemployed for years and years so I did

23:34

then start to have financial burden but

23:36

it was like a soul file you know it was

23:38

my own financial burden and and it was

23:40

not I did not feel like I was letting my

23:42

whole family down or not you know

23:45

providing for my whole family it was

23:47

more I just myself was like oh I might

23:50

have to move I might have to move back

23:51

in with my family because I might not be

23:53

able to afford to live in Los Angeles uh

23:55

for longer because I was unemployed for

23:57

years basically yeah you were unemployed

23:59

for years and years yeah

24:01

um after that first roll on Freaks and

24:04

Geeks yeah we did freaky Geeks and we

24:05

did a show called undoclare that was on

24:06

Fox in 2000 2001 and then then I

24:09

basically didn't work for like three

24:10

years essentially yeah what's going

24:13

through you you know you're presumably

24:15

doing auditions and stuff like that yeah

24:16

does it ever like what's that phase like

24:18

of unemployment most people quit at that

24:20

point that's the point where you say

24:21

[ __ ] this that didn't even occur to me I

24:24

I I I I I I did not

24:27

um I was freaking I was pretty kind of

24:30

had like a chip on my shoulder uh to

24:32

some degree I was writing a lot still

24:35

you know

24:37

um we were still

24:38

that's probably when we wrote Pineapple

24:41

Express you know so we had finished

24:43

super bad no one wanted to make it

24:46

um

24:47

but we thought it was good so we kind of

24:49

put it on the Shelf we're like let's

24:50

write another movie

24:52

um and then we wrote uh Pineapple

24:54

Express so we were busy and we thought

24:56

it was awesome and we thought both the

24:58

movies were awesome and in general we

24:59

were also getting like very positive

25:01

feedback as writers we just weren't

25:04

getting like hired to do anything and no

25:06

one would make our poofy so it was it

25:08

was this weird mixture of things kind of

25:10

being like encouraging and and very

25:14

frustrating at the same time and and and

25:16

that's almost like the worst part about

25:18

kind of being in that part of your

25:20

career which is the part of the career

25:21

most people who live in Hollywood are in

25:23

which is one where it's like

25:25

any given phone call is one that is like

25:27

making your [ __ ] life or one that is

25:30

yet another door slamming in your face

25:32

that you have to like just suck up and

25:34

keep moving forward you know what I mean

25:37

and and so that that's happening a lot

25:39

at that time

25:41

um yeah and seeing your friends also

25:44

start to do very well and start to make

25:46

things you know that is uh it's very

25:49

encouraging in some ways but you

25:50

inherently get very jealous and you

25:52

start to doubt yourself and you start to

25:54

doubt if you are good enough to

25:57

um do it or if anyone will ever like see

26:00

and you're seeing you what you see in

26:02

yourself you know

26:04

um but

26:06

yeah it's you know it's pretty warm you

26:09

know and only usually so it's easy to

26:11

just hang out and keep plugging along

26:13

what's your um you use the word doubt

26:16

yourself there what's your journey been

26:17

with been with self-doubt people would

26:19

obviously look at you and assume that

26:20

you have zero self-doubt because you've

26:22

been so successful you've done

26:25

um I think

26:27

I think all creative

26:29

people and people who have creative

26:33

Pursuits in their life have self-doubt

26:35

like it's impossible to put yourself out

26:39

there I think from my experience and

26:41

from meeting all the creative people

26:42

I've met in my life from people who you

26:45

know it's their first day on set

26:47

you know and and they have one line to

26:50

Steven Spielberg they all have

26:52

self-doubt they're all worried people

26:54

won't like what they're doing that

26:56

people are gonna think it's stupid that

26:58

they're gonna think they're stupid for

27:00

wanting to do it that they're gonna just

27:02

reject it and and and by proxy reject

27:05

them you know

27:07

um that is like that is

27:10

from my experience pretty constant

27:13

across the board for all creative types

27:16

who genuinely like care about what they

27:20

do I'm sure there are some people who

27:22

technically like are maybe actors or

27:25

something and and do not have any of

27:26

that but they're probably not very good

27:28

and don't care that much about what they

27:29

do you know what I mean but in general

27:31

from my experience I would say that

27:34

applies to to creative people with

27:36

self-doubt and and for me it's

27:39

it comes in waves you know you have you

27:41

make the thing Everyone likes gets a

27:44

little better you make a thing everyone

27:45

[ __ ] hates it gets a little worse uh

27:48

you know it you know and and uh and

27:51

that's a part of also doing what you

27:52

know I do is like you get you know like

27:55

there you know it's it's like

27:58

you know it's funny I was saying to

28:00

someone I worked with the other day like

28:02

I'm not I'm at the point it's funny in

28:03

my career we're like not a lot of people

28:06

are in a position to like yell at me in

28:08

my job but like the New York Times will

28:11

like publish an entire article like

28:13

saying I I suck at my job and so like

28:16

that's the trade-off is like I've worked

28:18

my way up to not having to deal with

28:19

that much like personal conflict and

28:22

face-to-face conflict but I will have

28:24

like a just like a cultural institution

28:27

to tell everyone that I suck you know

28:30

and so that that's kind of like that

28:33

that will add self-doubt uh things like

28:35

that you know

28:36

um and uh yeah and so it it's for me

28:40

it's for me something that's present but

28:43

I I try not to let it stop me from doing

28:46

the things that I think are interesting

28:48

and and uh and the things that I think I

28:50

would enjoy watching you know

28:53

um

28:55

oh yeah uh I mean what like what

28:58

self-doubt I'd say a lack of self-dest

29:01

baby hurt me at times

29:03

the criticism like someone oh yeah

29:06

of course it hurts everyone yes very

29:10

much so

29:12

um I think if most critics knew how much

29:14

it hurt the people that that made the

29:16

things that they are writing about uh

29:21

they would second guess the the way they

29:24

write these things like it's devastating

29:26

it takes year I know people who never

29:28

recover from it honestly years year

29:30

Decades of being hurt by because it's

29:33

very personal you know it's not like

29:35

it's not it is personal you know

29:38

um and so it is devastating when you are

29:41

being like institutionally told that

29:44

your personal

29:46

expression was bad like that is like

29:51

devastating you know and something that

29:53

people carry with them uh literally

29:55

their entire lives and and I get why it

29:57

[ __ ] sucks you know I read it I was

30:00

reading through various moments in your

30:01

life where I mean you've had back to

30:03

back to back successes so it's hard to

30:04

find

30:05

[Laughter]

30:06

it

30:08

that's definitely not true yeah you seem

30:11

to I mean from the bird's eye view you

30:13

look at your work your portfolio I've

30:15

been trending well

30:17

you talk about you've spoken about in

30:19

interviews is is Green Hornet where

30:21

you've got you received some critical

30:23

reviews for that can you zoom me if I

30:25

was a fly on the wall in one of those

30:27

moments where you've received that

30:28

feedback is coming in and it's coming in

30:30

you know critically what what would I

30:32

see if I was flying the wall in your

30:34

home like what do you does it do you

30:36

stay in your bed do you you like what's

30:38

the the human impact it has on you it's

30:41

different things and I think there's

30:43

different

30:45

you know and that's another funny thing

30:47

about making movies is like and having

30:50

like and just being like a person who

30:52

works a lot is like life goes on like

30:54

you could be making another movie as

30:56

your movie is bombing which is a funny

30:59

thing because it's it's bittersweet

31:01

because like you you know that things

31:03

will be okay you're already you're

31:05

already working you know what I mean if

31:07

the fear is the movie bombs and you

31:09

won't get hired again well you don't

31:11

have to worry about that you're all

31:12

right you've been hired it's too late

31:13

you know

31:15

um but it's an emotional

31:17

wait conundrum at times just just

31:19

dealing with that and navigating that

31:21

you know um for Green Hornet it's like

31:24

literally yeah like

31:25

the critics for the reviews were coming

31:28

out and it was pretty bad and people

31:29

just kind of like hated it like it

31:31

seemed like a thing people just were

31:32

taking like joy and disliking a lot you

31:35

know what I mean

31:36

um but it was it opened to like 35

31:39

million dollars which was like I think

31:41

at the time the biggest opening weekend

31:43

I'd ever been associated with in any

31:45

capacity and so it was also like it did

31:47

pretty well and that's and it was a

31:50

funny thing where it really didn't that

31:53

one and that's what's nice sometimes is

31:55

like you you do get

31:57

you know you can grasp for some sense of

32:00

success at times you know and and and uh

32:03

but I honestly think things like the

32:05

interview were more like painful as far

32:09

as like people really taking joy and

32:11

talking [ __ ] about it and uh and uh

32:14

really kind of questioning you know the

32:18

types of people that would want to make

32:20

a movie like that in general like I

32:22

think yeah that felt far more personal I

32:24

think Green Hornet felt like I just had

32:26

fallen victim to like

32:28

which was true like like you know I a

32:31

big fancy thing which was like I was

32:33

super and we were just kind of like also

32:35

like ahead of the curve a little bit too

32:37

much I think as well to something like

32:38

we were early on that on that wave you

32:41

know and so I think that

32:44

was easier to deal with in a lot of ways

32:46

because it was like not so much like a

32:49

creative failure on our parts but more

32:51

like a conceptual failure I think uh

32:54

like the interview people more treated

32:57

us like we had creatively failed uh

32:59

which sucked much worse uh and that's

33:01

happened a few times yeah where people

33:03

really act like we've just uh and again

33:05

it's not I'm not gonna act like this is

33:07

that bad like this is not on the grand

33:09

scale of things in life it's not that

33:11

bad like and I've gotten much better at

33:13

dealing with it as well and I think when

33:15

I was younger I really like

33:17

did not have as much perspective as I do

33:20

and now I am not I do not carry it with

33:22

me nearly as much as I used to you know

33:26

um yeah it's like it is the center of

33:28

Your World though these things because

33:30

you've pulled your creative heart into

33:31

into something so it's you oh yeah it's

33:34

like it feels like a personal rejection

33:36

it's like very much attached to yourself

33:38

oh yeah it feels like a very personal

33:40

rejection and it doesn't and it doesn't

33:42

feel like constructive it feels human

33:46

impact though what's like the human yeah

33:48

yeah I don't know sometimes you try you

33:49

try different things sometimes you go

33:51

out to dinner when you just try to

33:52

forget about it sometimes you sit there

33:53

and watch movies sometimes you literally

33:55

just like sitting on the couch [ __ ]

33:56

pissed and devastated uh that I've had

33:59

different approaches I use sometimes I

34:01

would go to the beach I used used to

34:03

have a house on the beach and I would go

34:04

to the beach the weekends my movies came

34:06

out

34:07

um yeah and and

34:10

any opening weekend honestly and anytime

34:13

I have a thing coming out it sucks

34:15

because it just is stressful it's like

34:18

birth like it which is just an

34:20

inherently painful process even though

34:22

it is maybe bringing something beautiful

34:25

into the world it is a painful act and I

34:28

think that is like what releasing a

34:30

movie is for the people who made it is

34:32

like

34:34

in some ways it's inherently painful and

34:37

and in some ways it's inherently

34:39

beautiful and joyous but in some ways

34:41

it's also just very painful this is the

34:43

story of creativity yeah

34:44

making anything that you care about that

34:47

is slightly challenging or original or

34:48

new risks both exceptional success but

34:52

also

34:53

um potential Faith like yeah and the

34:55

more personal it is it's like

34:58

the more

34:59

the the higher the highs can be if it

35:02

works and the lower the lows are if if

35:04

it doesn't so you know the more the more

35:06

personal the rejection feels yeah a lot

35:08

of people can relate to that I know for

35:09

sure that that period say after you

35:12

receive feedback on the interview how

35:14

long is that process of trying to like

35:15

get back on your feet and get it out

35:16

your head and stop it occupying your

35:18

mind

35:19

I mean

35:22

it's interesting like I think

35:25

it's different and it rears its head in

35:28

different ways and I think like imposter

35:30

syndrome or self-doubt or you know this

35:32

phenomenon where like the more you know

35:34

about a thing the less you feel you know

35:36

about it in some ways and vice versa

35:39

um you know I think that is something

35:42

again that is like a common theme in

35:44

Creative people's lives the fact that

35:46

you read about it all the time is is

35:48

comforting honestly because you're like

35:49

oh it's a thing it's out there you know

35:52

um but to me it's never been that hard

35:56

to

35:57

to do the Creative really risky thing

36:01

and it's never been that hard for me to

36:03

convince myself to like take the leap

36:05

and do the thing that is maybe crazy and

36:07

do the thing that is a big swing and and

36:10

to put myself out there and I think

36:12

that's also what's good I guess about

36:14

being rejected enough times is you kind

36:17

of like you see like it sucks but you

36:19

can survive it and so it's ultimately

36:21

worth

36:22

trying to do it again you know and and

36:25

and even the worst case scenario

36:29

is survivable if you just keep going uh

36:33

from a creative standpoint you know what

36:34

I mean so I think uh that's also like

36:37

yeah uh where yeah we haven't stopped it

36:41

it'll nag at you at times but if

36:44

anything my biggest fear is to make a

36:46

thing that's like [ __ ] boring or not

36:48

taking a big swing or it doesn't seem

36:50

like it's trying to push things forward

36:53

or or like it's just like

36:56

happy to relax and you know like I I

36:59

think like the fact that we get to make

37:02

anything movies TV shows it's like there

37:05

are so many people who are trying to do

37:07

it and we get to do it so like we we

37:09

should [ __ ] go for it and we're

37:11

spending the money of these giant

37:13

[ __ ] conglomerate corporations like

37:15

they're letting us spend millions of

37:17

dollars to make our crazy things like we

37:20

should go for it like we should really

37:23

look back and be like wow like can you

37:25

[ __ ] believe we did that we that we

37:28

spent hundreds of millions of Amazon's

37:31

dollars doing that you know like like

37:34

that that's what's exciting so

37:37

um yeah it's something that like nags

37:39

you but I think luckily for me and I and

37:42

it's who I'm surrounded by you know to

37:44

some degree as well but like we've

37:46

always you know there's moments where

37:48

you doubt yourself and you kind of

37:49

Bobble but I've had always someone being

37:52

like [ __ ] it let's do it you know

37:54

I get the same it's funnily enough from

37:57

just the couple of minutes we spent

37:58

together that

38:00

you you have no choice like you almost

38:02

don't

38:03

you're such a lover of what you do at

38:05

heart that you almost couldn't not do it

38:08

like yeah so here's a question then if I

38:10

told you today that you could no longer

38:12

make movies or do anything in the

38:14

entertainment or creative space

38:16

that would be hard I become a ceramicist

38:21

which I do spend a lot of time

38:27

a bummer though

38:29

what would actually your life be

38:33

um I mean I would it would I could I I

38:35

it's tough to think of because it is

38:37

very like ingrained with who I am and

38:39

what I do and like and it is like I

38:41

could stop working I have enough money

38:43

to if I didn't want to keep working I

38:45

could I could never work again and live

38:47

the exact life I live now until I die

38:51

you know

38:52

um it I have no kids I have not trying

38:55

to leave generational wealth to anybody

38:57

like I'm gonna I'm gonna you know like

39:00

we could just keep going

39:01

it's genuinely because like I enjoy it

39:05

and it's and it's a part of who I am and

39:08

how I spend my day and and what I love

39:11

doing and and people generally seem to

39:15

enjoy the output which I enjoy and and

39:18

it seems to be additive to the creative

39:21

landscape of film and television the

39:24

things that I get to be a part of you

39:26

know and so

39:28

um yeah it's but it I it mostly comes

39:32

down to I just like doing it and so it

39:34

would be hard to think of what else I

39:36

would do because like on it like I I

39:39

just write I love I enjoy writing and

39:42

I've been doing it since I've been

39:43

writing like you know screenplays since

39:45

I was 12 years old you know I'm 40. so

39:48

it's like it's so much a part of who I

39:51

am that like I do it all the time if I

39:54

have I'm generally working on a few

39:56

things if I'm making up a coffee and I

39:58

have five minutes like I'll I'll write

39:59

for a few minutes like uh you know I I I

40:02

genuinely enjoy it so it would be hard

40:06

to imagine I wouldn't I don't know what

40:09

I would do you're

40:11

um you have ADHD I don't know maybe

40:16

I mean I'm pretty good at focusing

40:18

honestly I read that um I read that you

40:20

had Tourette's in ADHD I do have oh yeah

40:22

I guess threats I mean maybe I'm more

40:23

true yeah I mean I I had some Tourette's

40:26

like yeah some Tourette's which is

40:27

connected to ADHD yeah yes yeah is that

40:30

ever had a role in your life is it been

40:33

caused a little

40:37

Tourette's if I'm being completely

40:39

honest I don't well well it's kind of

40:41

connected to like a compulsion uh

40:43

disorder where you it's like it it

40:46

manifests in like physical uh ticks and

40:50

Twitches

40:52

um the most extreme versions are like

40:54

people you know screaming like you know

40:56

swear words and [ __ ] like that but it

40:58

all roots from like a compulsion to do

41:00

it

41:01

um and like it's like scratching an itch

41:04

that's the best way I can describe it

41:05

I'm sure you've been sitting across from

41:07

people who twitch or have a weird

41:09

eyebrow thing they're doing or a weird

41:11

thing they're doing you know what I mean

41:13

and I see it so often and that is that

41:16

is a mild case of Tourette syndrome and

41:19

I think so many people have it are

41:20

undiagnosed and I know the exact feeling

41:23

those people have when they are doing

41:25

that and it literally feels like you

41:27

have an itch on your hand and you're

41:29

scratching it and it's the same thing

41:31

from like a

41:33

musculature like movement standpoint you

41:36

feel like if you don't [ __ ] up your

41:38

eyebrow you're not scratching that itch

41:41

and when you do you're like uh I did it

41:43

and you have fun uh yeah at times I for

41:47

me it was always pretty mild physically

41:49

but I still it does I I feel the urge at

41:52

times but I'm very good at not doing it

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42:54

named recently that you you know some of

42:56

them of which are coming up soon you

42:58

know having spoken to you today I get

43:00

work ethic I get your innate passion

43:02

which seems to have been there since

43:03

you're a child but I but there's people

43:05

that have both of those things and

43:07

they're not Seth Rogen you know what I

43:09

mean so is there anything else when you

43:11

look back on your life you talked about

43:12

the circumstance your mother's you know

43:13

being around that culture is there

43:15

anything about you in particular a

43:16

talent and people find this hard to

43:18

answer because it requires you to say

43:19

something nice about yourself but and so

43:21

celebrities often say you know

43:23

but is there any what is it that makes

43:25

you good at what you do

43:29

um

43:31

I think I

43:33

I think I think man I honestly think

43:35

because I grew up watching so many

43:37

movies

43:39

um and having parents that appreciated

43:41

them

43:43

um I

43:45

from a very young age had an inherent

43:47

understanding of

43:49

cinematic storytelling of what and that

43:54

specifically from a writing standpoint

43:57

from how the movies were written that is

44:00

for whatever reason how my brain

44:01

processed it

44:03

how the characters were introduced how

44:05

the conflicts between them were set up

44:08

how they played out throughout the movie

44:09

how they resolved themselves or didn't

44:11

resolve themselves throughout the movie

44:12

how they manifested and set pieces and

44:15

sequences that exemplified the conflicts

44:18

and the themes and the and the the

44:20

tensions between the characters for

44:22

whatever reason from a very young age I

44:25

was able to understand and write those

44:28

things and I you know I look back now as

44:32

like a 40 year old person who has

44:34

produced and helped countless people

44:36

with their screenplays and written

44:38

countless screenplays like there are

44:39

things about like what we put into

44:41

Superbad as like 14 year olds that are

44:43

like

44:44

fundamentally functional and good in a

44:49

way that is like Beyond like the average

44:53

14 year old's ability the average the

44:55

average writer's ability in a lot of

44:57

ways you know um like and and that is

45:00

something that me and Evan really just

45:02

we we're lucky like we we got it and and

45:06

I think honestly as an actor

45:10

I mostly credit my ability to act as my

45:14

from like a right through a writing lens

45:16

and I think as an actor I understand

45:18

what the story needs I understand

45:21

I understand how that character needs to

45:25

affect things what that character needs

45:28

to do in order for this story to be told

45:30

effectively I don't view my acting as

45:33

internally as the other actors I work

45:35

with I know it I see it I talk to them

45:37

about it all the time I view it much

45:39

more from like a big picture like okay

45:41

here's the role this character plays in

45:44

the story how do I make that work as

45:47

well as it possibly could you know

45:50

um and I can do it so I I have some

45:53

performance ability which not everyone

45:55

does but I think I think I am I think my

45:59

understanding of how story Works kind of

46:02

helps compensate for my the fact that

46:04

I'm not the greatest actor and that I am

46:07

able to work with actors who are much

46:08

better than I am honestly um but I think

46:11

if I had to answer that question which

46:14

I'm uncomfortable doing that is how I

46:16

would answer it is for whatever reason

46:18

me and I found a guy with the same skill

46:21

which is like miraculous but like from a

46:23

young age me and another guy had a very

46:26

inherent sense of like

46:29

how to write a movie basically there's a

46:31

young creative listening to this now sat

46:32

in their bedroom or driving in their car

46:34

pushing that problem walking their dog

46:35

whatever and they they're a creative in

46:37

whatever industry it could be DJing or

46:39

you know the author there could be an

46:41

actor no

46:42

what is the actionable advice that you

46:44

could give to them to to you know

46:47

give them a shot of because there's a

46:48

lot of creatives out there that are

46:49

struggling yeah and you you would have

46:51

had this bird's eye view on creators

46:53

that end up being successful you know in

46:55

their careers and those that maybe have

46:56

the talent but don't end up getting that

46:58

is there anything actionable that you

47:00

can say to them that would help them end

47:02

up in The Talented successful group

47:04

um unfortunately the only way to

47:08

mitigate not being successful is to not

47:12

quit

47:13

that's it

47:15

if you don't quit you might make it and

47:18

if you quit you definitely won't

47:23

and and honestly I think after all the

47:27

years I've seen people make it and not

47:29

make it the only

47:31

common denominator is is that like I've

47:36

seen actors write themselves off be like

47:40

I'm never gonna [ __ ] do this

47:42

try to get other jobs one of my dear

47:44

friends who's an actor

47:46

he's been an actor he's a great actor a

47:48

brilliant actor and his career Ebbs and

47:51

flows comes and goes they'll star on a

47:54

TV show for a few years he won't work

47:56

for two years he went and tried to get a

47:58

job at like a car dealership one day and

48:00

I was like what are you doing man like

48:01

and he's like I I can't I've quit acting

48:03

No One's Gonna [ __ ] hire me again I'm

48:05

unhirable now he's like

48:07

like the star of the most successful

48:10

player on Broadway right now and like

48:12

because he just got this role a couple

48:14

of years after that and he's in uh one

48:17

of the biggest movies that's coming out

48:18

next year he's in it like and and it's

48:21

because he didn't actually quit he he

48:22

kept going you know and it's not you

48:26

know especially Hollywood it's not a

48:28

fair industry it is not fair who makes

48:31

it the best people don't make it you

48:34

know it's very luck oriented it's very

48:38

connections oriented

48:40

um I'm lucky like and I also worked hard

48:44

and thank God I you know have I'm a good

48:48

enough writer that I've been able to

48:49

have enough longevity in my career once

48:52

I got lucky but

48:54

like a lot of luck played Into My

48:56

Success you know but that being said

48:59

I've seen people get lucky very random

49:03

times through random ways I always think

49:05

about like Ian McKellen like did you

49:07

have you heard of him before he was 65

49:09

years old like that guy I didn't like as

49:12

I had never [ __ ] heard the word Demi

49:14

Kelly until he was Magneto and X-Men and

49:16

all of a sudden he's like in Lord of the

49:18

Rings he's with one of the famous people

49:20

on Earth he got famous when he's like

49:21

60. like like that's what happens to

49:25

people sometimes you know what I mean

49:26

it's like you never know you know and so

49:29

I think that is is what's interesting is

49:33

and if you like it then just don't quit

49:35

and as long as you have enough to

49:38

survive then just keep trying to do it

49:40

you know but this could be something

49:41

that I can do to increase my luck be

49:44

really good at it

49:47

I think making being nice honestly being

49:50

nice being the type of person people

49:52

want to be around the people like that

49:55

people that comes down to it want to

49:58

help instead of not help that is very

50:02

good like I've seen

50:05

that just if people don't like being

50:08

around you then then then you will fail

50:10

because you need other people to help

50:13

you succeed you know

50:15

um working hard is like something you

50:18

can control in a very uncontrollable

50:20

world I find and like

50:25

um you know it's funny I was meeting

50:26

with someone recently who like ascended

50:29

very high in Hollywood and she was like

50:30

I always fetishized hard work like to me

50:33

that was like it like it it like if you

50:37

weren't working hard

50:38

I like had no regard for you basically

50:41

and like and to me that was like and and

50:44

that's a good reminder of like those are

50:46

the people you're up against and that

50:48

was something that I always knew from a

50:50

young age was like I I don't consider

50:53

myself a competitive person but I knew

50:56

succeeding in Hollywood was inherently a

51:00

competitive Pursuit there's only so many

51:02

jobs and there's way more [ __ ]

51:04

trying to get their jobs those jobs than

51:06

there are jobs available so by the

51:09

nature of that I was competing with

51:11

people for these jobs and I knew I had

51:14

to be able to look at myself and be like

51:17

am I at least working harder than

51:20

everyone else who is competing for this

51:22

job I might not be better than them or

51:24

smarter than them or have as many

51:26

connections with them or be as good

51:28

looking as them or any of these things

51:29

but I can at least work harder than them

51:33

you know

51:34

um and that to me was something that was

51:37

like controllable and I've never seen

51:40

someone regret the amount of hard work

51:42

they put into their Pursuit and so you

51:45

know that that is something that will

51:47

help you succeed I think

51:49

has you

51:50

certainly you don't have any kids I do

51:51

not that has helped me succeed as well

51:54

[Laughter]

51:57

finally

51:58

oh yeah

51:59

but there's a whole huge thing I'm not

52:01

doing

52:03

which is raising children

52:07

people obviously someone's listening but

52:09

yeah but it would make you happier you

52:10

know someone might say that I'm trying

52:12

to rebuttal I don't think it would I've

52:15

been around obviously a lot of children

52:16

I'm not I'm not ignorant to what it's

52:18

like to I've I've seen everyone I know

52:20

has kids I I see I'm a you know I'm 40

52:24

again you know like it's not I I know

52:26

you know I've I've some of my friends

52:29

have had kids for decades you know um

52:32

some people want kids some people don't

52:33

want kids I think a lot of people have

52:35

kids before they even think about it

52:36

from what I've seen honestly you just

52:38

are told

52:39

you go through life you get married you

52:41

have kids it's what happens

52:43

um and and me and my wife we're just

52:45

neither of us were like that you know

52:47

and

52:49

um honestly the older we get the more

52:52

happy and reaffirmed we are with our

52:56

choice to not have kids like it was

52:58

something we kind of

53:00

talked about more and we're like are we

53:02

made the right choice are we sure now if

53:05

more than anything the conversation is

53:07

like honestly thank God we don't have

53:09

children we get to do whatever we want

53:12

we are in our we are we are in the the

53:14

prime of Our Lives we are smarter than

53:16

we've ever been we understand ourselves

53:19

more than we ever have we have the

53:21

capacity to achieve a level of work and

53:25

a level of communication and care for

53:27

one another and a lifestyle we can live

53:29

with one another that we've never been

53:31

able to live before and we can just do

53:34

that and we don't have to raise a child

53:36

which the the world does not need right

53:39

now and so that was and so yeah it's uh

53:43

we're very happy with our choice to not

53:45

have kids and I just I work I I work

53:49

with a lot of people with kids and I see

53:51

definitively that I uh have more time to

53:55

both do the things I need to do and the

53:58

things I enjoy doing than they do and

54:02

not to say their kids don't bring them

54:03

Joy but I I say this truthfully I I I I

54:08

I me and my wife seem to get a lot more

54:10

active enjoyment out of not having kids

54:12

than anyone I know seems to get out of

54:15

having kids

54:17

speaking of your wonderful wife yes in

54:20

my very extensive research I found a

54:23

series of photos I found this one yes

54:24

that's my wife Lauren exceptionally

54:26

beautiful she's lovely and I found this

54:29

one

54:30

yes that's Lauren and her mother

54:32

that's a great photo wow it's like a

54:35

real photo it's a real face where'd you

54:37

get this

54:38

internet that's amazing yes this is

54:41

Lauren and her mother Adele Adele a few

54:43

years ago yeah you've campaigned

54:46

exceptionally hard for Alzheimer's

54:47

following

54:48

um Adele's diagnosis yeah can you tell

54:51

me about that Journey yeah definitely

54:53

um you know what's funny it's like a

54:55

celebrity I guess like you know I you're

54:59

kind of asked to do a lot of Charity

55:00

things and find like a cause I think you

55:03

know and there's I think there's

55:04

pressure to find a cause and I think a

55:05

lot of people adopt causes that are not

55:07

organic to them and who they are and and

55:09

they kind of find themselves you know uh

55:12

in the midst of a cause and and

55:14

um and that it happened to me in the

55:15

past I would go to some charity events

55:17

and I always felt very out of touch with

55:19

it and and didn't really understand it

55:21

and

55:22

um then uh I met my wife and um and this

55:26

is in regards to the charity but also in

55:27

regards to just our relationship I'd

55:28

never been in a serious relationship

55:30

ever in my life really like a few months

55:32

here and there I had dated but never and

55:34

in uh like 2005 I started dating my wife

55:39

Lauren and she was the first serious

55:41

relationship I ever had

55:44

um and very soon after we started dating

55:48

is when she realized her mother seemed

55:51

to be showing the first signs of

55:53

Alzheimer's and I knew nothing about

55:54

that it really

55:56

it was not in my family

55:58

um and and what I didn't understand is

56:01

like oh it was a disease that had like

56:02

no treatment no cure it was only going

56:04

to steadily get worse until she died

56:06

from it which was uh uh truly

56:10

devastating and put me and my wife on

56:12

like a pretty intense Journey for the

56:14

next

56:16

you know uh 15 years or so basically

56:21

um and uh it really uh it really took a

56:25

lot out of us and my wife especially you

56:27

know

56:28

um Lauren felt very out of control and

56:31

very devastated and really scrambling

56:34

for like uh Outlet or no way to gain

56:37

some kind of agency over the situation

56:40

um yeah and our friend uh suggested we

56:43

do a comedy show and maybe give the

56:44

money to like an Alzheimer's charity and

56:46

we did and it went very well and my wife

56:48

started telling her story as a young

56:51

woman whose mother was in her 50s and

56:53

diagnosed with Alzheimer's and it was

56:55

really not a thing like anyone was

56:57

talking about at all and she found there

57:01

was like an enormous need for people to

57:04

connect with someone who was going

57:06

through this because a lot of people

57:08

were going through it and really no one

57:09

was talking about it and

57:11

um we very

57:12

we kind of found like a need for this

57:15

organization that we made hfc which

57:18

um became like you know an Alzheimer's

57:21

charity that really was like focused on

57:24

talking to young people

57:26

um many of whom were caretakers for

57:28

their parents with Alzheimer's you know

57:30

and and again it was just a thing it's

57:32

very stigmatized disease and not a

57:34

disease very many people

57:35

are comfortable talking about at all and

57:38

uh yeah and Lauren

57:40

as her mother progressed more and more

57:42

just talked about it more and more and

57:43

uh and it really

57:46

um yeah kind of made our charity more

57:47

and more prominent in the space and

57:50

um yeah has allowed us to do kind of

57:51

more and more things to help people you

57:53

see people don't talk about it enough

57:54

and part of that is results in people

57:57

thinking about Alzheimer's is just

57:58

losing your keys or forgetting a

58:00

sentence or something yeah

58:02

um what is the reality of Alzheimer's as

58:04

you've observed it well it's different

58:05

for everyone but it's inherently for my

58:08

mother-in-law like she forgot how to

58:11

speak how to go to the bathroom how to

58:13

talk I mean how to eat how to walk

58:17

um and was essentially like

58:21

you know uh someone you would move from

58:24

the bed to the wheelchair

58:26

force feed essentially move back to the

58:29

bed she was like that for like

58:31

seven years or something like that all

58:33

right I think she didn't uh and again

58:35

I'm bad with years she didn't speak for

58:37

several years

58:38

um and

58:40

and it was yeah if you saw her you

58:42

wouldn't assume it was Dementia or

58:44

Alzheimer's you would assume she had

58:46

some like horrific stroke or something

58:47

like that it was not it was not what I

58:50

understood like cognitive decline could

58:53

could cause you know

58:56

um it was far more devastating and and

58:59

yeah and I think uh people don't

59:01

understand how kind of dire it is or

59:05

they do understand and they just again

59:06

don't like talking about it because it's

59:08

really scary and people are weird about

59:09

their brains mental health obviously in

59:11

America especially people are very weird

59:12

about not a thing they like talking

59:14

about

59:15

um and so yeah it kind of TAPS into a

59:18

lot of things people are just scared of

59:19

in general we're told does that have on

59:21

the people around her like yourself and

59:23

your wife

59:25

um I mean it was just devastating for my

59:27

wife especially like it was truly one of

59:29

the the most upsetting thing you could

59:31

imagine is like very slowly seeing your

59:34

mother die over the course of years and

59:35

years and years and years and years and

59:37

years and years and years and years you

59:38

know um it's uh yeah I mean it caused uh

59:43

uh yeah it was it was very Grim you know

59:47

um but through the charity you know

59:50

there was a lot of like

59:52

kind of hope that came up at times and a

59:54

lot of like uh

59:56

you know kind of like wonderful things

59:59

that it felt like we were able to do as

60:01

a result of it so there was kind of

60:04

Bittersweet moments but in general it

60:07

was terrible

60:10

these times if you're um

60:12

last couple of decades for you that that

60:14

process oh yeah for sure I mean yeah

60:17

especially you know

60:20

being married to someone who is going

60:23

through something

60:24

incredibly traumatic

60:28

um is

60:30

yeah is is you know it's hard for them

60:33

and it's hard for you to know how to

60:35

support them properly and and how to you

60:39

know navigate their feelings and they

60:41

you know uh productive and loving way

60:44

you know

60:45

um and it's obviously much harder for

60:47

them

60:48

um and uh you know it it is uh but yeah

60:52

it's a it's a it can be hard for

60:54

everybody Adele passed away 2020 yeah

60:59

what impact does that have on

61:01

the family

61:04

um I mean in some ways it is uh a relief

61:08

of Burden you know especially with

61:11

someone who

61:14

was so sick for so long with no hope in

61:18

sight for any for any way to get better

61:21

you know

61:23

um

61:24

and

61:25

and also like devastating you know and

61:28

and it's something that I'm always

61:29

having to not having to remind myself of

61:31

something I'm always reminding myself of

61:33

is like you know your wife her mother

61:35

died recently like there's there's a lot

61:37

going along with that and and although

61:39

there's like this constant thing that we

61:42

are not dealing with there is there is

61:46

another thing you know

61:47

um and and again in many ways like the

61:51

active Agony of her mother kind of

61:53

slowly dying was was probably worse but

61:57

this is also bad in its own way you know

62:00

you mentioned Americans don't like

62:01

talking about their mental health yeah

62:03

or really anything cognitive no this is

62:05

their cognitive functions yeah I've

62:06

never heard you speak about your mental

62:08

health yeah I don't think it's that

62:10

interesting

62:13

that might be why anxiety

62:18

um not really not more than the average

62:20

you know I often think I often think

62:22

that the creatives over index with

62:23

anxiety for kind of some of the reasons

62:25

we talked about earlier

62:26

yeah I don't I think I have anxiety but

62:29

I also am constantly reminding I'm good

62:31

I think at analyzing my own feelings and

62:33

behavior to some degree I do have

62:35

anxiety sometimes but I'm also having to

62:37

remind myself that I am like

62:39

going through things that are

62:41

objectively anxiety inducing to almost

62:43

anyone and I would probably be weird if

62:45

I wasn't feeling some sort of anxiety

62:48

with the amount of public facing uh

62:51

pressure uh and exposure I have at times

62:55

um so you just tell yourself like yeah

62:57

you feel you uh this is you are feeling

62:59

anxious right now because you are

63:02

dealing with this thing that has a lot

63:03

of

63:04

public pressure on it you know um so I

63:07

think in general no in general I have

63:11

pretty good mental health I think

63:14

ask the people who work with me

63:16

[Laughter]

63:18

it seems like an unhuman way to live

63:20

right being in the spotlight and being

63:22

being

63:23

um receptable to so much public feedback

63:25

like you talked about how shoes are kind

63:27

of unnatural in rooster and natural

63:29

there's the way that we all live these

63:31

days seem to be so far from what is what

63:33

it is to be a human yeah

63:36

what can we like what do we need to do

63:40

do you think to get back to being a

63:41

little bit more human

63:44

um I don't know I don't know if I'm the

63:46

best person to ask you but I uh

63:50

I personally have tried to spend less

63:52

time on social media I think that is a

63:55

good thing I don't think that

63:57

contributes to one's Humanity

63:59

necessarily uh I uh what are the things

64:03

that make you feel most human then and

64:05

most connected

64:07

um

64:09

spending time with my loved ones my wife

64:11

my you know my my my dog my my sister my

64:15

family my my parents you know my friends

64:17

going to dinner with my friends going to

64:19

their houses hanging out with my friends

64:20

I I even though I don't have kids I

64:22

enjoy going to my friend's house and

64:23

hanging out with them and their kids you

64:25

know

64:26

um you know writing with being creative

64:28

with my friends doing things with my

64:30

friends making things with people that I

64:32

respect and the the feeling that I'm a

64:35

part of making something that I am

64:37

excited about and that I think is really

64:39

good

64:40

um that is I I again for me that's like

64:44

those are the moments where I feel like

64:45

I am

64:46

personally like living up to my

64:49

potential you know and and feeling like

64:52

and and and it is about the other people

64:54

even at times when it is work related

64:57

you know and I and I do think you know

65:00

uh the connections that you make with

65:02

people

65:03

even when they are creative are are

65:06

relevant and important you know and

65:08

um and so yeah I think those are the

65:11

things that I like I value is like

65:13

personal relationships and and creative

65:16

ones which I also view as personal

65:18

you've done you've done so much in the

65:20

in the space of writing and um and

65:23

entertainment you've then embarked in

65:24

other Pursuits businesses you know Point

65:26

gray which success house plant massive

65:29

success that's in a different industry

65:31

that's in you know the more

65:32

entrepreneurial side of your your

65:34

passions what is it what is it now for

65:36

you like what is the the thing what

65:38

makes you having achieved all of this

65:40

fired up and excited about

65:43

a challenge

65:45

um I get excited when I and it's it's a

65:49

simple metric I think which is any time

65:52

we're making a thing that I know I would

65:55

be psyched if I saw it or got it or saw

65:57

it was out in the world I get excited

66:00

like and and that's kind of it like if

66:03

I'm making a movie and I'm like I would

66:05

love this movie I would see this movie

66:06

and be like this is [ __ ] great

66:08

whoever made this movie like [ __ ] they

66:10

went for it they did it I'd be jealous I

66:12

didn't make this movie that's when I

66:14

know I'm doing something good and it's

66:16

the same thing with houseplant if we

66:18

make a thing and I'm just like this is

66:19

awesome if I saw this I would want this

66:21

if I saw someone else made this I'd be

66:23

like [ __ ] why didn't we think of that

66:25

why didn't we make this what were we why

66:27

were we not thinking of this you know

66:30

um that to me and and then when we do it

66:32

and we're like we did it and we and it

66:33

worked as well as you wanted to and it

66:35

feels how you wanted it to to me that's

66:37

like it's exciting and because it is a

66:40

creative uh expression and and and I

66:43

think that's what's exciting to any

66:45

again I think person with like a

66:47

creative person suit which I view house

66:49

plan as and I kind of view everything as

66:51

to some degree which is like it's all

66:54

output that is meant to reflect my taste

66:57

and my sensibilities and and those and

67:00

that of those who are working on it with

67:02

me you know

67:03

um and and that could be a movie it

67:05

could be a TV show it could be an

67:07

ashtray it could be it could be any

67:09

number of things but but to me when I'm

67:12

excited about it and and when it works

67:14

is when I really think it is the thing

67:17

that I wanted it to be which is a thing

67:19

that I'm excited about and a thing that

67:21

if I saw it and someone else made it I'd

67:24

be like yes that's awesome you know

67:28

um and that's the same thing since we've

67:29

been writing super bad like that's why

67:31

we wrote super bad we were like let's

67:32

write our favorite movie let's write the

67:34

movie that we want to see and no one

67:36

else is making and it was the same thing

67:38

with Pineapple Express this is the end

67:39

and the boys was a comic book we loved

67:42

we were like let's make this no one else

67:43

is gonna [ __ ] let's make this into

67:44

something you know um it's the same

67:46

thing with everything that we've done

67:48

for the most part which is like let's

67:50

make the thing we want more than

67:52

anything why not make the thing that you

67:53

think other people want and

67:55

because who the [ __ ] knows what other

67:56

people want

67:59

and I think luckily

68:02

that's a thing we've been lucky with is

68:05

like either our taste in the public

68:07

taste has coincided or or the public has

68:10

been willing to take cues from our taste

68:12

and and and and and and bite to to what

68:16

we're putting out there you know what I

68:17

mean um which is which is just uh an

68:22

almost intangible skill I think to some

68:25

degree which is just making things that

68:28

connect with people in a big way and

68:30

that's not even what every creative

68:32

person is trying to do you know what I

68:34

mean I know plenty of filmmakers I some

68:37

of my favorite movies are movies that

68:39

are not trying to connect with giant

68:42

audiences you know what I mean but those

68:44

are the movies we grew up loving and to

68:47

us that's a fun challenge is like how do

68:49

we

68:50

put everything that we think is like

68:53

risky and subversive and difficult about

68:57

this idea into something and then have

68:59

it connect and then have everyone go

69:01

crazy for it and have everyone be like

69:03

yes like I can't wait to see that you

69:06

know um and that

69:08

that's just our taste you know what I

69:10

mean is we like to we're thinking of

69:13

like a packed theater Friday night and

69:16

just wanting people to like go Bonkers

69:18

you know and like that's not everyone's

69:20

goal you know and so that that that's a

69:24

big part of it too is like what kind of

69:27

audience are you are you hoping to have

69:29

you know when people you know study

69:31

people like you they're always looking

69:32

for like the the themes like what's the

69:34

three things he does that it would like

69:36

they're trying to find like the secrets

69:38

and whatever else they do that what's

69:39

his morning routine whatever else

69:41

um your creative process what is from

69:43

your own observation the most unusual

69:45

part of it the part that you go no one

69:48

else seems to do it this way but [ __ ] it

69:51

I I tend to be able to work on

69:54

a

69:55

not everyone and I work with a lot I'm

69:57

lucky also because I get to work with a

69:59

lot of like literally like the most

70:01

brilliant people in the world who do

70:03

what I do so I have a very front row

70:06

seat to like an incredibly high level of

70:09

performance you know

70:12

um on a writing standpoint acting

70:13

standpoint directing standpoint

70:16

all these things I'm getting to see like

70:18

truly the best versions of it you know

70:22

um but I think

70:24

you know for me I I am I am good at

70:29

Switching gears and compartmentalizing I

70:31

find some writers maybe would think that

70:33

is strange and and the idea of like

70:35

writing two things it two different

70:38

things in one day would be strange to

70:40

some writers the idea of like okay I'm

70:42

gonna write one TV show in the morning

70:45

and then a movie in the afternoon I

70:47

think that but again to me it's very

70:49

intuitive some writers find Switching

70:51

gears creatively especially midday

70:52

difficult I I can work on five different

70:56

things throughout the day and whenever

70:58

I'm working on whatever thing it is I'm

71:00

pretty able to like fully engage on that

71:04

thing

71:05

um

71:06

I I physically write more than I think

71:11

most people would depend no with on a

71:14

keyboard but like I find a lot of

71:16

writers want to talk about like to me

71:20

I'm like just write it let's just write

71:21

it let's just see how it looks let's

71:22

just try it just write it down like and

71:25

I think a lot of people are precious

71:26

with writing and a lot of people

71:28

you know it's like a big they kind of

71:31

like they try to like it's very like

71:33

sanctimonious or something like that you

71:35

know but I I try to like really just

71:38

write different versions of things share

71:40

I share a lot of early versions of

71:42

things with like a group of people that

71:44

I trust I'm sending rough versions of

71:46

things to people I'll rewrite it

71:48

instantly I'll do a hundred drafts or

71:51

something you know um I'm really not

71:53

precious with that you know but but I

71:56

don't know I mean I I don't know if like

71:58

yeah I don't know what other I don't

72:00

know people expect I I'm I'm more

72:01

Curious than other people's creative

72:02

processes honestly like it's so

72:04

ingrained in who I am yeah I've been

72:06

doing it since I was so young like it's

72:09

it it's truly like a part of like my

72:11

brain chemistry is and my development

72:14

was is built around you know writing and

72:18

and Writing Movies specifically so like

72:20

my my personality I think in some ways

72:23

is is is is engineered around writing

72:28

and and and making movies in some ways

72:30

because I've been doing it since I was

72:31

so young so I really think it's like

72:33

it's become a very fluid part of who I

72:36

am and it doesn't feel like often I'm

72:38

like sitting down to work it's like it's

72:40

just kind of a fluid part of my day I do

72:43

also have like I'm very I get a schedule

72:45

sent to me by my assistant at the end of

72:48

every night it tells me what I'm doing

72:49

the next day

72:51

pretty much just do what's on the

72:52

schedule she sends you an email right

72:54

yeah and it will say 10 p.m do this Seth

72:57

yeah it'll be like 10 a.m to 2 A.M but

72:59

and they'll be like giant free blocks of

73:01

time in there where I will write usually

73:03

or me and my partner will organize our

73:05

own we'll we'll organize our own writing

73:07

time amidst that but uh yeah I mean I'm

73:09

pretty regimented from a schedule

73:11

standby which does surprise people

73:13

because

73:14

people will encounter me and be like

73:15

let's get together like sometime this

73:17

week and I'm always like like I'm like

73:20

scheduled like like a month out pretty

73:23

rigorously throughout the days but if I

73:25

asked you what your schedule was next

73:27

week would you have no [ __ ] clue

73:28

I know my schedule is Monday I've also

73:32

yeah like I'm not I'm good at I I like

73:34

dealing what's right in front of me

73:36

honestly as well like I I I can't begin

73:38

to process what's happening next week

73:40

like I I truly that's too much for me

73:42

like I

73:44

I know like the big things like the

73:46

benchmarks you know what I mean but if

73:47

you're leaving the country yeah if

73:49

there's some big thing I have to do but

73:50

like in general I have no idea what's

73:52

happening the week before

73:55

a bit of a left filled one but have you

73:57

um observed a a point in your your

74:00

trajectory where

74:02

you become somewhat so successful or

74:04

somewhat you know so famous that

74:06

happiness begins to decline no

74:13

it was never like

74:15

being famous was never like a goal for

74:18

me you know what I mean and so I don't

74:21

have like this

74:23

this complicated thing where I was like

74:25

I was trying to become famous and then I

74:26

got famous and I realized being famous

74:28

sucks I always stop being famous kind of

74:30

would suck a little bit and so the idea

74:33

that it is you know it's great in a lot

74:35

of ways and it and it does suck in some

74:38

ways but that's not honestly a thing

74:40

that I have a very conflicted

74:41

relationship with I've also been pretty

74:43

famous since I was like 23 years old and

74:46

again like like it's been a you know

74:47

it's been a very long time since I got

74:49

pretty famous so I've had a lot of

74:51

different relationships with it

74:53

throughout that time uh you know almost

74:56

20 years I guess and where I've been at

74:59

for quite some time has been a pretty

75:01

good place and I have a lot of famous

75:03

friends I see them have much

75:06

rockier roads dealing with it than I do

75:09

you know

75:11

um yeah and as far as success goes like

75:13

no like if anything it's like great like

75:16

we I get to work with

75:18

the best you know the filmmakers that

75:20

inspired me to make movies in the first

75:22

place I get to you know make you know I

75:26

they they bring us Ninja I get to make a

75:28

movie out of a thing I've loved since I

75:30

was a kid we just sold a show to Apple

75:32

that I'm writing and directing and

75:34

starring in with um with my partner so

75:36

we can come up with original ideas and

75:38

do whatever the [ __ ] we want you know

75:40

and so uh what's the cost

75:43

there's no cost I don't have kids

75:48

I think that I was not being a good

75:50

father that would suck I do not have

75:51

that feeling at all

75:55

we have a we have a closing tradition on

75:58

this podcast where the last guest leaves

76:00

a question for the next guest okay great

76:01

not knowing who they're leaving it for

76:03

we have a new tradition on this podcast

76:04

which I'll talk to you about great the

76:05

the question left for you yeah okay the

76:08

handwriting is not the best

76:10

um who left it I can't tell you okay

76:13

looking back on your love life okay can

76:16

you see patterns in it good or bad and

76:20

what was the greatest love of your life

76:22

what did it feel like and how has it

76:25

affected you up until this present

76:26

moment I guess this is a good time to

76:28

slide that to you there you go Lauren

76:30

yeah I mean I

76:32

I made a whole movie about how I was not

76:34

well liked in high school by women and

76:37

yeah I was never

76:39

uh no Lauren my wife was the first

76:42

serious relationship I ever had uh I

76:45

felt deeply in love with her very fast

76:46

we essentially moved in together after

76:48

like a week and almost have not spent

76:51

any like significant time apart since

76:53

then you know

76:55

um we've never broken up we've never had

76:57

any serious issue throughout the entire

76:59

uh time we've been together which has

77:01

been like 17 years or something like

77:04

that

77:05

um and if anything she is like really

77:10

helped me do better work she's been a

77:13

real supporter and also she herself is a

77:16

brilliant writer and director and

77:17

filmmaker and she's been you know a very

77:22

at times kind of

77:24

direct voice in in improving our work I

77:28

think the most tangible thing is the

77:29

movie Neighbors which we've talked about

77:31

in the past which is our most successful

77:33

movie we've made and and one of the

77:35

things people really liked about it

77:36

specifically was the relationship

77:38

between me and and Rose Byrne's

77:40

character and how we are a couple you

77:43

know traditionally in comedy for years

77:45

and my entire childhood pretty much it's

77:47

like the comedic Dynamic of a married

77:50

couple was they hated each other that

77:52

was the joke they [ __ ] hated each

77:54

other they they got on each other's

77:55

nerves they didn't like spending time

77:57

together the woman was usually annoying

78:00

the guy was usually cool and laid back

78:01

that was it that was the comedic Dynamic

78:05

that essentially was like frozen into

78:07

movie you know forever and and Lauren

78:12

was the one who was like What if it's

78:14

like us and they [ __ ] like each other

78:16

and they both like to smoke weed and

78:19

they both do stupid things and they both

78:21

go out and party and I'm not telling you

78:23

ever to not do something [ __ ] stupid

78:25

if anything I'm doing stupid things too

78:27

and we put that in the movie and it

78:30

completely changed the dynamic and I

78:32

honestly think it's like one of the

78:33

reasons the movie became so like liked

78:35

and and successful and and so that's

78:38

like a specific example and there's

78:40

there's many like what's life like

78:42

without her though

78:44

um thank God there's not a whole lot of

78:46

life without her we hang out a lot uh

78:49

and I I don't really leave LA to make

78:51

movies anymore honestly part of the

78:53

reason is I just like spending time with

78:55

her and and I don't like leaving Los

78:57

Angeles as a result of it I used to

78:59

travel much more to make movies and

79:02

shoot movies in other cities and it

79:03

sucked and I would go weeks we'd go

79:05

weeks without seeing each other and and

79:07

ultimately you're just like this isn't

79:09

worth it like this is my life like this

79:10

is like like I'm not like saving up to

79:14

cash in on something later like I'm I'm

79:16

living my life not being surrounded by

79:19

the people I want to be surrounded by so

79:21

I can

79:22

go make a movie and like that that that

79:25

at times might be worth it but I've done

79:29

everything I can to not have that happen

79:31

and if you're willing to make a little

79:33

less money you can more often than not

79:37

shoot a movie in Los Angeles

79:39

it's funny when I asked you what makes

79:41

life great and what makes life more

79:43

human everything every answer you gave

79:45

came with the second part of the

79:47

sentence which was with friends with the

79:49

person I love with everyone every answer

79:51

was with people and so it's it's quite I

79:54

think inspiring and important to hear

79:56

that um you're orientating your life now

79:58

that you can so that it's surrounded by

80:00

people yeah I think it's always how I

80:04

came up thank God and like I

80:07

you know my parents had a lot of friends

80:08

they always had people living with us in

80:10

our house that were divorced or talented

80:12

like it was I was was in like I felt

80:14

like I was in like a community and then

80:15

I moved to LA and I like fell in with

80:17

the community and I had my friend Evan

80:19

and he moved in and we kind of made a

80:21

little community and like comedy

80:23

especially

80:25

feat is like a is more of a team sport

80:27

than other

80:28

I think creative Pursuits

80:31

um and it's it's funny like I remember

80:34

years ago being at like that Vanity Fair

80:37

Oscar party and it's like

80:39

you know big crazy party everyone in

80:42

Hollywood's there and there's like one

80:43

corner of the party where every comedian

80:45

is and they're like all together in one

80:48

little lump and like and and it was like

80:51

and it was so funny and I was just like

80:53

no other genres like that like they're

80:55

not it's like all the serious actors are

80:56

together they're they're all spread out

80:58

they're all talking to people but if you

80:59

were a comedian you were in this one

81:01

little like Circle where you kind of

81:03

felt safe you kind of felt insulated you

81:06

kind of felt like you were with your

81:07

people and that that Community as far as

81:10

work goes and I'm friends with like

81:13

everyone I work with which is like great

81:14

like the guys I do sausage party with I

81:17

grew up with them the guy you know like

81:19

the the the

81:20

it like goes on and on and on and on

81:23

like I I I I tend to work with people

81:25

that I've known a really long time and

81:28

so when I'm working I'm getting to be

81:30

with people that I that I genuinely care

81:33

about and I'm friends with you what a

81:34

privilege yeah you're the first person

81:36

to open this box great the first person

81:38

to ever open this box this is a new

81:39

tradition we're starting from here on

81:40

now it's exciting all the guests that

81:42

have been on this podcast all the

81:44

questions they've written in this book

81:45

they're on cards now they're on cards

81:48

now fantastic yeah

81:50

you got swag

81:53

called The Diary of SEO conversation

81:55

cards you're going to be you're going to

81:56

be I've put 20 of them there's 60 of

81:58

them in total 60 or 100 of them in total

82:00

I've put 20 of them in here all I'm

82:01

going to ask you to do is to pick one at

82:03

random yeah and then answer the question

82:05

okay I'm gonna do it

82:11

okay

82:12

it's got a QR code

82:15

[Laughter]

82:18

hey it's got their handwriting

82:20

what is the greatest gift another human

82:23

has given you

82:26

[Laughter]

82:31

also I got paid a lot of money to make

82:33

green hornets so that was

82:34

no it was love though it's for sure love

82:38

[Laughter]

82:40

thank you Seth the hardback version of

82:42

your the paperback version of your book

82:43

is is now out it's out and it's

82:45

phenomenal thank you hilarious

82:48

I mostly didn't want to humiliate myself

82:51

that was Michael I was talking to

82:52

another friend of mine who's writing a

82:53

book the other day uh and I was just

82:56

like my whole goal was to for the book

82:58

to come out and they're into the general

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consensus to be that I'm not a [ __ ]

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idiot

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which I did I feel I feel very secure

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with that thank you thank you

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it's now been a healed Drinker for about

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four years roughly so much so that I

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ended up investing in the company

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um and I play a role on the board of the

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company but they also very kindly

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sponsored this podcast and to be honest

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I've never said this before but he all

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believed in this podcast before anybody

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else the CEO Julian

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um told me before we even launched the

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podcast how successful it would be and

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that heal would back it and I absolutely

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have a huge amount of gratitude for them

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for that support but an even greater

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sense of gratitude for the fact that

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they've helped me stay nutritionally

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complete throughout the chaos and

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hecticness of my tremendously busy

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business schedule so if you haven't

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tried out here which I hope most of you

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have at least given it a go by now try

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it out it's an unbelievable way to try

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and stay nutritionally on course if you

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have a hectic busy schedule and let me

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know what you think send me a tweet and

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a DM tag me let me know what you think

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quick word from one of our sponsors I

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have to say I've been on a bit of a

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journey with this brand because when I

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started my business in new territories

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when we first moved social chain to the

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to New York City the first place we went

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to was we rework we moved four of our

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team members out to New York City and we

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built the business from there

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um I have to say there's something

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magical about weworks I've spent the

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last two or three weeks in LA in a wee

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work and as you walk in the front door

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every day it's almost like that sense of

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community that sense of magic excitement

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camaraderie is tangible and you don't

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get that when you're working at home you

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don't get that often when you're sat in

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your bed on your laptop there's

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something about getting out and getting

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into a wee work that makes me feel a

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sense of Entrepreneurship and and

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creativity and building and the way that

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we work to design both both in the way

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that they offer subscriptions so that

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you can work you know on demand but also

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that the flexibility of the contracts

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means that it's just the perfect place

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for businesses to scale their companies

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and if you haven't checked out where you

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work and you want to you can go to

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we.co CEO and there you can get 50 off

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Interactive Summary

In this conversation, actor, writer, and producer Seth Rogen discusses his career trajectory, the influence of his upbringing in Canada, and his perspective on creativity and success. He opens up about his journey with self-doubt, the impact of public criticism, and his dedicated work ethic. Rogen also reflects on his long-term relationship with his wife, Lauren, their shared decision not to have children, and their collaborative efforts in raising awareness for Alzheimer's disease after his mother-in-law's diagnosis.

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