So, in this video, I'm going to explain

to you how you can easily improve your

social skills just by wearing

headphones. Now, this might sound crazy,

but I've been doing something that's not

really talked about on the internet as

much when trying to improve social

skills. And what I've been doing has

honestly changed my life. And I'm going

to explain to you how it's changed my

life and how you can benefit from doing

this. Now, I came up with this and found

this idea because a problem that I had

when I was a lot younger was simply just

having a conversation with someone and

getting to connect with people. I

remember when I was in middle school and

high school, I would go into social

conversation.

I would try to be really friendly, open

myself up to be this charismatic guy.

But for some reason, I found it

extremely hard to say things in

conversation and actually get people to

enjoy talking to me. I would go into

conversation, I would try to be this

friendly, charismatic guy, but people

just didn't seem interested talking to

me. People would talk to me for maybe 5

seconds, go away, talk to somebody else.

People wouldn't wouldn't ask me

questions. It would mostly be me asking

the question. And it felt very

one-sided, like they didn't want to talk

to me. And it got to the point where I

was just like, I was looking at every

single person around me. And they seem

to make friends easy, connect with

people, laugh with people, while I was

the only one figuring out how to connect

with people, how do I not run out of

things to say, and actually make friends

and connect with people? And throughout

years of experimentation and doing a

bunch of research, I've been doing

something for the past couple of months

that has allowed me to say things in

conversation. But most importantly, I

can connect with people now. I feel like

this is the missing piece that I'm going

to tell you that's going to change your

life. And so this tactic, this thing

that you can do to improve your social

skills just by listening to headphones

is simply just

incorporating listening to podcasts

in your daily life. Now, you might think

this is stupid. You might be confused on

how this works, but I'm going to tell

you how this works so well. You're not

going to want to skip this, okay? But

I'm going to tell you how this has

changed my life, and I'm going to tell

you what you can do step by step on how

this can improve your social skills.

This is a game changer. This is a gold

mine. So for the past couple months,

I've been getting into two things.

Sports and politics. So because of this,

you know, I'm in school as well. I'm a

busy guy. So because of this, I've been

listening to lots of podcasts on sports

and politics. And because of this, you

know, I just wanted to, you know, get

into it. Lots of people at my school are

into these things. And because of this,

I started listening to podcasts about

it. I started listening to podcast when

I would get ready for school, when I

would walk to class, read 10 minutes.

And I noticed after a couple months of

doing this, I was able to talk to more

people about things. I knew what to say.

I was learning a little more about

things. And couple days ago, I literally

went to the dentist and because I knew

about American football, a dentist, me

and her were literally talking about it.

Okay, but here's the idea. Here is how

this has changed my life. Okay, these

things improve my social skills because

one,

these are two things that lots of people

like talking about. And two, because I'm

into these things now and have heard and

learned from podcast about things that

are going on within sports and politics,

I'm able to say things. Now, here's the

overall idea, right?

It is very hard to connect with people

when you do not know about popular

topics that are usually talked about

within people. So like I said, sports

and politics are two things that lots of

people like to talk about. There's also

music, there's media, there's, you know,

there's other hobbies you can talk

about, but the overall idea is that you

want to be knowledgeable in multiple

different topics. And when you listen to

podcasts about popular topics that lots

of things talk about, you are able to

have things to say

and you're becoming more knowledgeable

in more things. Now, you might be

thinking right now, oh, but I'm not into

sports or politics. You know, I don't

like any of those things. Okay? And I

was the same way. But here's the thing.

What I want you to do is I want you to

pick a couple topics, at least two. I

highly recommend sports and politics

because those are things that people

love talking about. Maybe for you it's

news or maybe for you it's media. Maybe

it's about movies or something else. But

pick two topics to get into. Listen to

podcasts about it. Now you might be

thinking, "Oh, but I don't have time. I

don't really like these things." And

here's the thing. For this to work, you

don't need to know a lot. You don't need

to know 100% of the details. You don't

need to know every single aspect of

these topics. But here's the thing. You

just need to know a little bit to get by

and to show people

that you are not recessive

of trying new things. Because when

you're into multiple different things,

when people see, oh, this guy, he's into

sports as well. He likes watching

football. He likes hearing about the

news. People see you as intelligent.

I remember I was talking to a bunch of

different people about politics. And

there's one guy in our group. He was

just like, "Oh, I don't care about

politics.

I don't really know, bro.

this guy, you could tell he didn't care

about talking about politics. And

because of that, we we didn't tell him,

but the group I was in, we kind of just

were just like, this guy, he's recessive

at things.

And when you're recessive of not

learning new things, people are going to

see like, oh, he doesn't like this.

We're not going to talk to him, but we

like talking about this. So, you need to

get into multiple different things. But

let me tell you something. I literally

went to the dentist as I said earlier

and last year I didn't know much about

American football. Didn't care about it.

But because of this year, you know, I

wanted to get into new things. I was

learning a lot. I was learning about NFL

and college football. And so when I went

to the dentist, I was in the I was in

the dentist room, you know, the dentist,

she was checking me up and everything.

And so she literally asked me just

suddenly, "Oh, are you going to watch

the football game? Have you been have

you been seeing how our state team is

doing?" And back then I didn't know

anything. But because of this year, I

knew what was going on. I was like, "Oh,

yeah. We beat the other team um 30 3 to

30." And you know, I was giving up the

details on the next game. I don't know a

lot, by the way. I just simply knew the

score of the previous game and who we

were playing next. And because of that,

she got super excited and she was

telling me a bunch of different stuff.

But imagine if I didn't know anything.

the vibe of that conversation would kind

of die down because she was into

American football, this dentist, this

lady. So that means for you is that when

you know about multiple different

topics, even just the slightest bit,

people are going to see you as smart. If

you invested it even more, people are

going to see you as smart because you

have more things to say. But people are

going to be like, "Oh, this is another

thing that this guy is into. We can

connect on something." So here's what

you're going to do. As I just said, pick

a couple topics. As I said, I highly

recommend sports and politics because

those are things that are commonly

talked about. And when it's commonly

talked about, you can hop right in

because you're learning about it. But

listen to podcasts. Listen while playing

video games. Listen while walking to

school, on the treadmill to the gym,

while you're making breakfast. And by

doing this, you're going to cherrypick

on things that are repeated. you're

going to learn about them as they're

repeated. And because you're learning

about these things now, you're more

knowledgeable and you have something to

say. I just put you on game. And this

has allowed me to connect with so many

different people, especially um people

who are into American football. I I

cannot tell you how this is a game

changer, bro. So, do this. Start

listening to podcast. Pick a topic that

is mostly talked about, a really common

macro topic. Like, share, subscribe, and

I'll see you in the next one. case.