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I have inside information on Jeffrey

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Epstein and why the US government is

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reluctant to be more transparent. And I

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know this because when I was working in

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government meetings were not how shall

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we tell the public, but what shall we

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tell the public? So often the best we

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can get in our skepticism is to know

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that we are not being told the truth.

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>> I think people need to know the truth.

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>> So put on your seat belt. I'm going to

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tell you everything and all senior

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people in the US government know

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everything that you and I have discussed

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here today. So you've been behind the

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scenes with some of the most successful,

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richest, most powerful people on planet

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Earth. But what is it you do, Gavin?

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>> So I do protective coverage. You know,

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any of the ways that wealthy or

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prominent people might be targeted. For

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example, the Saudi Arabian government

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obtained a system which can get into

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your phone used it on Jeff Bezos. So our

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work was to figure out how it happened.

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>> Why would a government want to hack the

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founder of Amazon's phone? So, I'll tell

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you in a second, but we're all not as

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careful as we could be in terms of what

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we say, what we text, and there is

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absolutely no protection viable for the

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confidentiality of your phone. Do you

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have any skepticism about that?

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>> I just have a lot of ignorance to how

1:06

this whole world works.

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>> Lucky you. But all power centers in

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human history lie. There are some

1:11

examples of this where we'll start

1:12

telling the truth about something, but

1:14

years later, things like cancer causing

1:15

asbestous and baby powder, 100,000

1:17

people dying from heart attacks from

1:19

opioids. and we'll see it with mass

1:21

vaccination.

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>> So, what advice would you give about how

1:23

to navigate in the world we're living in

1:25

today to avoid risk threat?

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>> I've got some core truths. So, first of

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all,

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being part of this journey. Means the

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world. And uh yeah, let's do this.

2:19

>> Gavin, we have a mutual friend and that

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mutual friend actually sent me a voice

2:24

note late last night. Here is what the

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voice note says.

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>> I'm calling it this crazy hours. I found

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out that you're interviewing a dear

2:30

friend of mine, Gavin Debecker, I think

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in 2 days. I think on the 13th. He is an

2:35

extraordinary human being, extraordinary

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soul. He comes from a a very tough

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background. But what he's done to move

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from that background to becoming

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probably the single greatest security

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expert in the world. He designed the

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systems that are used to protect the

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Supreme Court. I've met him decades ago

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when there was a threat happening to a

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former girlfriend of mine and then I was

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getting threatening letters and he

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deciphered the letters in micros

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secondsonds, got the FBI involved and

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put a stop to it all. It was

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extraordinary what he did.

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Wow.

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>> That was Tony Robbins for anyone that

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didn't recognize

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>> I recognize

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>> the voice. Yeah, it'd be crazy if

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someone didn't.

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>> But it got me incredibly incredibly

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curious because he said lots of things

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there that I found fascinating.

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>> Um, the first one I'm going to start

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with is he described you helping him

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with a personal situation in his life.

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And I guess this beggets the question,

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>> what is it you do for people like Tony

3:30

Robbins? What is it you do for famous

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people, for world leaders? What is it

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you do, Gavin? The main function of my

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company is anti-assination.

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So we develop and deploy anti-assination

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strategies. Under that under

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assassination which you can consider the

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worst possible outcome um are lesser

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outcomes like other kinds of crimes uh

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destruction of of reputation uh threats

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that are designed to cause anxiety and

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fear. We have a division that does

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assessment of threats and management of

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threats. We have a division that does

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actual protective coverage. That's the

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biggest division, meaning actual

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physical protectors, fit, young, capable

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people, not uh retired ex- cops who are

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overweight and on their second career,

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but uh you know, people who are who are

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really trained for this specific field,

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armored vehicles, modifications to

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homes, basically everything that fits

4:22

into the category of preventing uh uh or

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disrupting uh uh efforts to do tissue

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damage. So, we're in the business of

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preventing tissue damage. And who are

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some of the names that you do this for

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and have done this for over the years?

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>> All of the names that I do it for are uh

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never spoken by me. So, uh I don't say

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who clients are and I don't say who they

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aren't because if I say to you so and so

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isn't a client, uh that is information

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that might reveal that somebody else is

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or something you heard is true or not

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true. The way I can describe it to you

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though is to say that it's if you took

4:56

the 20 people you would assume uh fit

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into this category or the 50 um most of

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them are clients.

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>> I mean according to the internet you

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sort of reference certain things before

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because these people have spoken or you

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know you've been seen in photos.

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>> That's right. If a client identifies me

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or it happens because I testify in a

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court case or something that's a

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different animal. It just doesn't come

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from I view myself as sort of like a a

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psychiatrist or a doctor. I wouldn't be

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the one revealing it.

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>> And some of those names that have been

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revealed by others are Jeff Bezos,

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Elizabeth Taylor, Sher Madonna, Barbara

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Stysand, and many, many, many more. From

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government officials to royalty, etc.,

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etc. What was Tony referring to when he

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said that you helped him with a

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situation with his girlfriend, a threat,

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found out that it wasn't who people

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thought they were,

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>> right? Surely, he was referring to a

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case I'll never reveal, and I won't even

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acknowledge he's a client.

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>> You won't even say he's a client.

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>> I won't say it. if you if you have it

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from some other source.

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>> Tony said it.

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>> I I understand your interrogation is

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makes all the sense in the world, but I

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just don't say it. I don't talk about

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clients. There's a bunch of reasons, but

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most of all, just absolute

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confidentiality. I know it's weird.

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Apologies.

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>> But I heard you talk about the Jeff

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Bezos situation.

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>> Uh you heard me talk about uh uh cyber

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security and and the vulnerability of

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phones. Uh, and the Bezos situation is a

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little bit different in that I was

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involved very publicly in it, but

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clearly with permission of my client and

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and organized with my client. Same thing

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as when I testify in a court case,

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there's no secrecy about it. I'm doing

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it, but it doesn't mean that I'll then

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do it everywhere. And and so in that

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case where you did have Jeff's

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permission, the the background context

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was there was a newspaper that was going

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to publish that he was having an affair

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with I think his current wife who wasn't

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his wife at the time, Lauren Sanchez,

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and you were called upon in that

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scenario to figure out what was going on

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and you were able to solve that.

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>> Yes.

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>> What are you able to talk about there?

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>> Well, I'll think back to what's already

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been what's already been public. Uh and

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it won't be from me. It won't be

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anything about the client, but it will

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be about the Saudi Arabian government,

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which at that time had just obtained a u

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a system called Pegasus 3, which can get

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into your phone remotely. It doesn't

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require a click of any kind, meaning you

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don't have to acknowledge anything. It

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can get in. It's called a no click

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exploit. And it could do everything in

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your phone from 7,000 miles away that

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you could do holding the phone in your

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hand. even if it was off, could turn on

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the camera, could turn on the

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microphone. It exists. It's a very real

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thing made by the Israelis. And the

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Saudi prince MBS had just gotten it. And

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he used it on a group of dissident

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around the world. He also used it on

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Jeff Bezos. According to the United

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Nations, according to lots of things

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that have been public, our work was to a

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figure it out, figure out how it

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happened. In those days, I didn't know

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what Pegasus 3 was. I didn't know what

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this system was. But the instrumental or

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perhaps useful thing for you and your

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audience to know is that there is

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absolutely no protection viable for the

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confidentiality of your phone if a

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government wants you. And the reason I

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say there's no stopping it is that even

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when Apple puts out a new solution uh

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which they do an update uh that you know

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breaks some particular exploit thousands

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of people around the world immediately

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start working on the next exploit. So if

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I said to you here's a phone and we've

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modified it and it's great Mr. President

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here you can use this phone for your

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confidential conversations. Uh in a

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month it won't work anymore. And so I

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I'm able to tell clients and friends and

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now you and your audience there are a

8:41

lot of things being offered for sale

8:43

that you know supposedly protect the

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confidentiality of your phone calls for

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example or your texts. Nothing will work

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reliably. There is no solution to that

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problem that is reliable.

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>> Nothing.

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>> Yeah. There is there devices sold.

8:57

There's all variety of things. But the

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reality is that even if something

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worked, even if I said to you, here's

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this cool new such and such phone that

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will protect you, it'll only protect you

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for a while because there's a constant

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effort to improve the exploits. And also

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I have to say people are somewhat

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reluctant and maybe even lazy. I'll put

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myself on the list uh and I'll put you

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on the list without even knowing you.

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We're all not as careful as we could be

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in terms of what we say, what we text.

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And uh I have a dear friend and client

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who every text and every email that he

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sends also goes to his executive

9:32

assistant and everybody knows it. And

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what happens is it controls and

9:36

influences his behavior. So when you

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send me that off-color joke that I

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wouldn't want to see on television, he

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responds differently. He doesn't say,

9:45

"Oh, that's great." And add another

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topping line on top of it. He because he

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knows that his assistant in the other

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room is seeing that. And so the best we

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can all do is be be watchful what we say

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and have no pretense of of privacy or

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confidentiality because it simply does

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not exist. Period. The US government got

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into the phones of all of our allies,

10:08

the prime ministers, chancellor of West

10:11

Germany, uh prime minister of England,

10:13

president of France. This is a game

10:15

that's going on all the time and uh and

10:18

privacy is just not part of the new

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world. Why would a government want to

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hack the founder of Amazon's phone?

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>> Well, the again from what's been public,

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the founder of Amazon was also the owner

10:29

of the Washington Post. And the Saudis

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had killed Kosoji, who was a journalist

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for the Washington Post. And the

10:35

Washington Post then started putting out

10:37

an Arabic edition. That didn't feel good

10:40

for the Saudis. And then they really

10:42

went after the I'll call him the head of

10:45

state. He's the prince but but his

10:47

father was alive and was actually the

10:48

head of state but they really went after

10:50

NBS. I think uh Bezos was a kind of

10:52

adversary in that regard. Additionally,

10:55

the Saudi sovereign fund developed an

10:58

Amazon competitor called something like

11:00

N or something like that and so they

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were concerned about that and they were

11:04

also doing deals with Amazon and so they

11:06

could get economic advantage by seeing

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what the various executives are texting

11:11

to each other. So there was a lot of a

11:12

lot of moving parts to that. So all

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these things I've just shared with you

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were highstakes matters going on around

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the time that Kosoji was killed and that

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the western countries of the world were

11:23

objecting to this assassination team of

11:26

his going around and and killing people

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and and getting into their phones.

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>> In early 2019, Jeff Bezos publicly

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accused the US tabloid the National

11:33

Inquirer of attempting to blackmail and

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extort him by threatening to publish

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intimate photos including what he

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described as a nude below the belt

11:40

selfie of him and his then partner

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Lauren Sanchez. Bezos wrote a blog post

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saying AMI emailed his lawyer and

11:47

security adviser Gavin Debeca's council

11:49

threatening to publish personal photos

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and texts unless he and his team

11:52

publicly stated that the tabloid's

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coverage of him was not politically

11:55

motivated.

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>> Yeah. What they wanted me to do, the

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Inquirer and they negotiated with me and

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my lawyer over this that I was to go

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public and say two things. I was to say

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it was not politically motivated and it

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was not influenced by outside actors

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i.e. the Saudis and that there was no

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hacking involved. My question was, why

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the hell do you want me to say those two

12:18

things specifically? And my I already

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knew the answer, of course, because

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there was outside influence and there

12:24

was hacking. Their request for me was so

12:28

strange that we didn't go along with it.

12:30

Bezos ultimately wrote a medium post

12:33

talking about it publicly and saying,

12:35

"Hey, if if if I can't stand up to this,

12:38

then where is a regular person?" And

12:40

ultimately those pictures were never

12:42

published.

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>> Yeah. I can't I won't even comment on

12:44

whether those pictures exist because

12:46

they were doing a fascinating thing by

12:47

the way. They were it's sort of like

12:49

selling you land in in Florida that's

12:51

marsh land and doesn't exist. They were

12:53

doing an extortion on a thing they

12:55

didn't even have. All right. So it's

12:57

kind of a double crime. It's an

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extortion and fraud.

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>> It's interesting. You know, we we start

13:01

talking here about digital coms and that

13:04

type of security with everything that's

13:06

going on at this exact moment in time

13:07

with all these Epstein files and there's

13:08

a big conversation, you know, because

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now we can see 3,000 3 million documents

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and many of them are emails that people

13:14

have sent at different times. Some of

13:15

the most famous people in the world have

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sent emails to Epstein and now those are

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all out there in the public to see. I

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wondered what your take was on all of

13:24

this stuff. You must be watching this

13:25

stuff from like through the lens that

13:26

you've built your career and uh you must

13:30

have an interesting opinion.

13:31

>> Some of it I I don't talk about because

13:34

I have a fair amount of inside

13:37

information and I'm just watchful about

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not getting near the line.

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>> What do you mean by inside information?

13:41

I mean information that that I might

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have gotten from uh I'm characterizing

13:45

it carefully that I might have gotten

13:47

from government agencies that are

13:48

clients or that I might have gotten

13:50

because uh clients were uh were

13:53

implicated like I learned today for

13:54

example this morning on the way over

13:56

here that I'm in the Epstein files.

13:58

>> Oh, really?

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>> And here's the way I'm in there is that

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someone sent Epstein an article that I

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wrote called Fooling Ourselves into war.

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And so uh somebody sent that uh article

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which is an article I really like by the

14:11

way uh published in in Huffington Post

14:14

at the time and um they sent that to

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Epstein. So that's an example of being

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in the Epstein files and yet obviously

14:21

never having met Epstein. But I have a

14:23

few clients who and friends who the

14:27

Epstein group made approaches on and

14:30

failed. Meaning they tried to get them

14:32

and failed. I'll give you one story

14:34

without naming the person, of course. He

14:37

goes to meet with Epstein in New York to

14:39

ask for money for a charity. And and

14:42

Epste is perceived as this big

14:44

billionaire, which he was not, by the

14:45

way. I'll tell you in a second. And

14:47

Epste is in a robe. And they're across

14:49

the desk just like you and I are. And

14:51

Epstein says, "Hey, um, they're

14:53

finishing the meeting." He says, "Hey,

14:54

I'm going to get a massage." Hence my

14:56

robe. Do you want to get a massage? And

14:58

through the hallway, my friend can see a

15:02

massage table and a room and a very cute

15:04

girl who's the massage therapist, right?

15:06

Dressed like a massage therapist. And so

15:08

he happened to say no. In fact,

15:11

interestingly, he happens to not like

15:13

massage, which is itself, you know, a

15:16

lot of people would say yes and might

15:17

even think it would improve my

15:19

relationship with this guy, Jeffrey

15:21

Epstein, who I perceive as this rich guy

15:22

that I'm trying to get money from my

15:24

charity. Um, had that happened,

15:28

what a different world for that person.

15:30

What a different life. Because in that

15:32

room is cameras and then eventually

15:36

audio. It didn't start off with audio,

15:37

but audio was added later. And then

15:39

you're getting a hand job, if I'm

15:41

allowed to say hand job, from somebody

15:42

who you don't even think about their

15:44

age, but turns out to be 17, and you are

15:48

in a world of trouble for the rest of

15:51

your life. And that's a big piece of

15:54

what was going on with Epstein with

15:56

cameras in that apartment in New York

15:58

and eventually audio cameras and

16:00

eventually audio at the island. My take

16:03

on it uh and certainly my public take is

16:06

that there was a profound uh uh

16:10

blackmail operation going on to the

16:12

benefit of probably more than one

16:15

government, but at least one government.

16:16

And when I said a moment ago he wasn't a

16:18

billionaire, he wasn't a billionaire.

16:20

For one thing, the his earning path is

16:23

highly suspect. I'll first tell you what

16:25

he was. What he was is a construct. He's

16:28

a created construct. Money, wealth,

16:31

private jet, private island, fun, not

16:34

married, young girls, lots of things.

16:37

So, he was a construct. the money uh

16:39

$500 million of money came from Les

16:42

Wexner who's a wealthy guy who uh owns

16:46

or owned I don't know what he's doing

16:47

now uh Victoria's Secret notator to the

16:51

state of Israel and $500 million was

16:53

transferred to Epstein along with power

16:56

of attorney to use it and invest it in

16:58

the ways he saw fit. Quite an unusual uh

17:00

you know I'm mildly wealthy but I'm not

17:02

sending you $500 million. I'll tell you

17:05

that the idea that you're that you're

17:07

doing this is itself extraordinary, but

17:09

it was probably the funding mechanism

17:12

for this construct. While it's a real

17:15

name, uh, Jeffrey Epstein and he has a

17:17

real birth certificate and grew up in a

17:19

real way, the picture that is presented

17:21

to the world is not authentic. It is not

17:24

accurate to who he was. And the more you

17:28

dig into this story, which of course

17:29

people are doing so much now because of

17:31

these uh 3 million uh documents so far

17:34

and videos by the way and photographs,

17:36

there's a lot of material there. The uh

17:38

it's very interesting to people right

17:40

now and and and more to be learned. But

17:42

you know what was actually going on? Why

17:45

in the world would anybody say, "Well,

17:46

there are national security implications

17:48

to some of this content. That's why some

17:51

things are redacted." What would that

17:52

be? Why would the prosecutor who

17:54

prosecuted him in Florida

17:58

and provided one of the most unusual

18:01

plea bargain deals in world history and

18:04

certainly unique in American history

18:06

which is imagine I've got you I'm a US

18:08

attorney I've got you on some crime and

18:10

you say okay I'm going to plead guilty

18:12

I'm going to serve my time but please

18:14

let my accountant go and please don't

18:17

prosecute my wife because all she did

18:19

was deliver the stuff and she didn't

18:20

wasn't involved in anything and so Those

18:22

are called unindicted co-conspirators.

18:25

So I make a deal with you and I say,

18:26

"Okay, you go to jail for the 8 months

18:28

and we will leave the unindicted

18:30

co-conspirators unindicted. We won't

18:32

prosecute your wife, your son, your your

18:35

accountant or what have you." That's a

18:36

very normal process. It's it's a it's a

18:38

bargaining process, basically. However,

18:42

in the Epstein case, the US attorney

18:44

gave him a deal that said uh that we

18:47

would not prosecute unnamed

18:50

co-conspirators.

18:51

Holy Who's that? Who's unnamed

18:54

co-conspirators? Unnamed co-conspirators

18:57

could be 50 people. It could be 75

18:59

people. The guy who gave that sweetheart

19:01

deal became the secretary of labor. He

19:05

was at that time the US attorney for for

19:07

Florida. He was asked, "Why did you give

19:09

that sweetheart deal?" Because the deal

19:11

is ridiculous. Unnamed co-conspirators

19:13

will be exempt from prosecution. And and

19:16

he said, "I was told he belonged to

19:18

intelligence." and then he had to resign

19:20

because of this. There was a lot going

19:22

on with with with Epstein uh the person

19:25

who I mean there's so much of this but

19:27

the person who uh sort of brought

19:30

Epstein into the world of power and got

19:33

him his job at I think Morgan Stanley I

19:36

could have that wrong but one of those

19:37

big finance companies was William Bar's

19:39

father. William Bar was the attorney

19:41

general who was the US attorney general

19:43

when Epstein was killed or died in

19:46

prison depending on your choice of of

19:49

reality. So there's so much there but I

19:52

won't be the first guest Steven that

19:54

you've had uh that says that um it was

19:57

an intelligence operation. Why the US

19:59

government is reluctant to be more uh

20:02

transparent? Some of it is national

20:04

security. Some of it is, let's imagine

20:07

an ally of ours, uh, is involved in in

20:10

that operation. So, there's a reluctance

20:12

and there's a question. It's a little

20:13

bit like UFOs. Could the public handle

20:16

it is the question that's always asked

20:18

in these cases. Meaning, could the

20:20

public handle it if, for example, the UK

20:23

was running an intelligence operation

20:25

inside the United States to control

20:28

senators and congressmen and powerful

20:31

executives and powerful figures and

20:33

scientists? Could we handle it? Could

20:35

the US public handle it? My take

20:36

personally, absolutely. Yes.

20:39

>> So, you believe that he was an

20:42

intelligence asset and it sounds like

20:44

you believe he was an intelligence asset

20:46

potentially by a US ally?

20:48

>> Yes.

20:49

>> So, who is that ally?

20:51

>> Israel.

20:52

>> You believe that Epstein was an Israel

20:55

>> intelligence asset?

20:56

>> Yes. Yes, I do. And uh and Glain

20:58

Maxwell, just for additional background,

21:00

but everybody can find it. Her father

21:02

was an Israeli intelligent asset who was

21:05

so revered. His funeral ceremony was

21:07

held in Israel, was attended by the

21:10

prime minister, by I think the last four

21:12

or five, by every living head of Mossad

21:15

attended. And there were words used in

21:18

eulogies like he did things for Israel

21:20

that uh the world will never know about.

21:23

There's a a lot of good connection there

21:24

and a lot of good connective tissue. Um,

21:27

some of which I've shared with you

21:29

because it's public and some of which

21:30

I'm not sharing, but that is uh that is

21:33

indeed what I believe. Yes. And

21:34

>> not just me, by the way. I you might

21:36

already be there. And you've certainly

21:38

had another guest sit here and and uh

21:40

former CIA guy uh Kira Cow, how do you

21:42

say his last name?

21:43

>> Yeah.

21:44

>> Uh am I close to

21:45

>> You're close. It's closer than I would

21:46

get.

21:46

>> Okay, good. And he was point blank in

21:49

saying Israel. So there's no there's no

21:51

direct evidence. But what people are

21:53

essentially doing is putting the pieces

21:54

together to make a picture.

21:56

>> There is direct evidence. There's just

21:57

not direct evidence I'm sharing at this

21:59

moment. But there's the there's plenty

22:01

of evidence that that has been public

22:03

already, some of which I've shared. I

22:04

mean, I could I could do it for 40

22:06

minutes, but everybody can just go to

22:07

chat GPT. And you know, if you ask Chad

22:09

GPT, make the best case for this. A good

22:13

thing for viewers to remember. Make the

22:15

best case for dot dot dot whatever it

22:17

is. If you ask

22:19

the first answer you get if you ask a

22:21

straight question will always be the

22:23

official narrative.

22:24

>> I've done exactly that because you said

22:25

it. I I asked Chi make the best case for

22:28

Epstein being an Israel spy. Here is

22:30

what it said. The case that Jeffrey

22:33

Epste functioned as an Israeli

22:34

intelligence asset rest on a pattern

22:37

alignment rather than direct proof. He

22:39

ran a sexual sexual compromise operation

22:41

resembling known intelligence compromat

22:45

tradecraft.

22:46

>> Compromat. Yeah, like it's a Russian

22:47

word that means we compromise you.

22:49

>> Had wealth and access far beyond his

22:51

formal career and operated with unusual

22:54

legal protection for years. His close

22:56

partnership with Gla Maxwell, whose

22:57

father had documented intelligence ties

22:59

fuel suspicion, as does reporting by

23:01

journalists who say Epstein's activities

23:03

were discussed in intelligence adjacent

23:04

circles. The cameras and the microphones

23:08

hidden in his apartment and his home.

23:12

How do we know they were there and why?

23:15

Well, how I know they were there is a

23:17

little bit different from how everybody

23:18

knows they were there. And I don't know

23:20

enough about the entire history of the

23:22

FBI piece, but I'll tell you a funny

23:24

part of the FBI piece. When they went to

23:26

execute a search warrant at that

23:28

apartment after his more recent arrest,

23:31

they found and even photographed a bunch

23:33

of CDROMs or discs of some kind that

23:36

were labeled, but they didn't take them.

23:38

They said, "We'll get a warrant and

23:39

we'll be back for those." and they came

23:41

back after a mere

23:44

six days and it was all gone. So where

23:48

it is, I don't know. Does the US

23:50

government have it? Does somebody else

23:52

have it? I just don't know the answer.

23:54

But I know from very direct information

23:57

regarding the island and the apartment.

23:59

I don't know about New Mexico. I just

24:00

don't happen to know. Another house that

24:02

he owned that there were cameras and

24:04

then eventually audio. Audio was added.

24:06

Oh, also testimony, by the way, pardon

24:08

me. testimony from girls who said girls

24:10

who worked there and visited there a lot

24:12

who said that in a small room near to

24:14

the right of the front door was a whole

24:17

thing of videos where the recording was

24:18

done.

24:19

>> And can you explain to me why recording

24:22

videos and audio of people getting those

24:25

kinds of uh doing those kinds of things

24:28

would be a useful asset for this foreign

24:33

adversary to have.

24:35

>> Sure. Uh, you know, blackmail is not

24:39

always done by calling you up and

24:41

saying, um, you know, hey, Stephen, I'm

24:45

going to hurt you in the following way

24:47

if you don't do A, B, or C. The other

24:49

version is is far better, which there's

24:52

is even alluded to in some of the now

24:54

released material, which is he calls and

24:56

he says, "Stephen, I've got terrible

24:59

news. Do you remember you had that

25:00

massage from Cindy? You know that girl,

25:02

Cindy?" "Oh, yeah. Yeah, I remember."

25:04

Well, she recorded something. She had

25:06

something in her bag. She made a

25:07

recording. And I got worse news.

25:09

Stephen, the girl's 16 and a half. And

25:12

now, by the way, you are stomach drops,

25:15

diarrhea. You are in a world of stress

25:18

right now just hearing that. And he,

25:20

instead of being your blackmailer,

25:23

becomes your rescuer. He says, "I can

25:24

handle it. I can handle it. I can handle

25:26

it. She's got the recordings. I don't

25:28

know where they are, but I can handle

25:29

it. I can handle it. I can handle it.

25:31

Don't worry. Don't worry. Don't worry."

25:32

And he owns you now. forever. If you

25:35

were involved in a naked experience with

25:38

someone who's underage, and there's a

25:40

video of it and audio of it as well, you

25:43

will do anything that you are asked to

25:46

do that is within reason. Very few

25:48

people would have the character and the

25:51

stamina to do what you describe Bezos

25:54

doing, which is that he wrote a public

25:56

letter saying, "A very unusual thing

25:59

happened to me the other day. I'm being

26:01

blackmailed by the National Enquirer."

26:03

and here's what they said. That's very,

26:06

very rare. And so, you know, a senator,

26:08

a congressman, he owned a lot of people.

26:13

Do you have any skepticism about that?

26:16

>> I

26:18

don't have skepticism. I just have a lot

26:21

of ignorance to how this whole world

26:23

works.

26:24

>> Lucky you.

26:24

>> And I just have a lot of ignorance to

26:26

like, you know, because you hear about

26:28

these things in almost like movies. And

26:30

uh it appears that we're all kind of

26:33

witnessing

26:35

something we might have regulated just

26:37

to the movies happened before our eyes.

26:39

And even when you know I saw some of the

26:41

emails coming up on my feed of things

26:43

that Epstein had emailed people, he

26:44

seemed to be continually inviting people

26:46

to hang out with him in a way that is

26:48

quite atypical. Now maybe I'm just an

26:50

introvert, but I'm not. He he was like

26:52

aggressive in his coms to people saying,

26:55

"Come and hang out with me. I'm doing

26:56

this thing at this dinner party. Come to

26:57

my island. Are you in the area?" and he

26:59

was succeeding in getting a lot of

27:00

people to come and visit his his homes

27:02

and his island. And yeah, it's uh

27:05

>> by the way, Stephen, in the circumstance

27:07

you are in today, you might well have

27:09

heard from from Jeffrey Epstein. You

27:11

might well have had somebody who knows

27:13

you who says, "Hey, there's this guy in

27:14

New York. Loves your show. Uh just

27:16

terrific." And and all of a sudden,

27:18

you're getting that invitation. And

27:20

you're getting that invitation through

27:22

someone you know and kind of like

27:23

>> like Joe Rogan did.

27:25

>> I don't know. But like so many people.

27:27

Well, Joe Rogan said it.

27:28

>> Oh, if he's been public about it, I'm

27:30

just not going to be the one to say it,

27:31

but I I got it.

27:32

>> Oh, okay. Yeah. Joe Rogan publicly la

27:34

last week said that, and it's in the

27:36

files, that a former guest, I think it

27:39

was Lawrence Krauss of his show, invited

27:42

him to come and meet Jeffrey Epstein.

27:44

And the emails show that Jeffrey Epstein

27:45

was trying to get Lawrence to bring Joe

27:47

Rogan in. Joe Rogan said like absolutely

27:50

abs well this what Joe Rogan's said

27:51

absolutely not,

27:52

>> right?

27:53

>> And was creeped out about it and never

27:54

went and was never involved. Well, the

27:56

point I was just making is that in your

27:58

present circumstance with the, you know,

28:00

enormous audience and and the reach of

28:02

this show and and all your work, the

28:03

small videos, etc. Um, of course you're

28:06

a terrific person because now I can call

28:08

you up and say, uh, hey, will you have

28:10

this person on? Or I can say, hey, will

28:12

you be really skeptical about this topic

28:14

and will you say, I don't believe it.

28:16

And will you say, I think it's wrong or

28:17

will you say, I think it's anti-semitism

28:19

or will you will you say such and such?

28:21

And brother, you will. the the moment

28:24

where I started to, you know, really

28:26

understand the blackmail angle um was

28:30

when I started reading some of the

28:31

particular emails that Epstein had sent

28:32

to himself.

28:34

>> One in particular where he sent himself

28:36

an email regarding Bill Gates. He's

28:38

alleging that Bill Gates has slept with

28:40

He's sending himself an email.

28:42

>> Yes.

28:43

>> Alleging that Bill Gates has slept with

28:44

someone, some some Russian prostitute,

28:47

and that he got an STD, an extrammarital

28:49

affair, all of these allegations. And

28:51

when I read that email, um, then I

28:53

thought, oh, you know, he was he was a

28:54

black mailer.

28:55

>> He was definitely a black mailer and

28:57

he's collected all these rich and famous

28:58

people and he has them in his pocket

29:01

now.

29:02

>> Just to close off then on this uh point

29:04

of Epstein before we move on, you said

29:05

they they've released some of the files

29:07

and you said they hadn't released other

29:09

files. Yes. And you have implied that

29:10

was because they basically can't

29:12

>> release these other files necessarily.

29:14

>> Well, I don't I don't know what I think

29:16

more is coming. I think more will be

29:18

released, but there are certainly files,

29:20

including files even right now, even

29:21

yesterday, though there's a law. Uh, as

29:24

you may know, Congress voted for a law

29:26

to release everything unredacted. Um,

29:29

there's still a lot of redacted stuff.

29:31

So, there's more to come. And, uh, will

29:33

some be redacted? Sure. Is anybody going

29:36

to sit here like I did today and say,

29:38

"Hi, I'm the secretary of blah blah

29:40

blah, and let me just tell you what was

29:41

really going on. Uh, you know, I'm the

29:43

head of the CIA, and let me tell you

29:44

what was really going on." Not likely.

29:46

>> But Trump knows. He knows who Jeffrey

29:49

Jeffrey Epstein really was.

29:51

>> I would say all senior people in the US

29:54

government and and many many people in

29:56

general know everything that you and I

29:58

have discussed here today.

30:00

>> No secret. By the way, what do you

30:02

think? Let's imagine somebody came

30:04

forward and said this country described

30:06

as our greatest ally. I would say our

30:08

greatest ally is the UK

30:10

>> uh based on on history. But, uh, Israel

30:13

is an important ally in the Middle East

30:15

and it's a it's a democracy and it's

30:17

more of a western government. I get it.

30:19

Um, but what do you think? The the the

30:21

country comes out and somebody

30:22

officially says, "Okay, let me tell you

30:24

what was going on." Do you think the

30:26

American public can handle it?

30:28

>> I think they either way now deserve to

30:32

know the truth.

30:34

Whether they can handle it or not is

30:36

probably secondary to whether they I

30:39

think people need to know the truth.

30:41

We've I think like the problem is people

30:42

have been like partially traumatized by

30:43

all of this stuff and so now I think the

30:46

remedy is full transparency.

30:49

>> I agree and by the way uh this is close

30:52

uh because we we got a lot of

30:53

information whereas you know 5 weeks ago

30:56

or or eight weeks ago people were saying

30:58

oh there's nothing more that's it that's

31:00

all there is. I mean, this is a big step

31:02

and I think it's a big step as big a

31:04

step toward transparency as uh probably

31:08

as I've seen in my lifetime by a

31:10

government. The exception would be if

31:12

it's not a government what Elon did

31:14

after buying Twitter, the release of the

31:16

Twitter files. That was a very

31:18

impressive thing of letting three

31:20

journalists come in and just go through

31:21

everything. I think it would be awesome

31:24

if the US government ever, Governments

31:27

don't do this very often, but if they

31:28

ever said, "Okay, everybody, put on your

31:30

seat belt. I'm going to tell you exactly

31:32

what happened with the JFK assassination

31:34

or exactly what happened with the

31:35

assassination of Robert F. Kennedy,

31:38

Senator Robert F. Kennedy, when he ran

31:39

for president." There are some examples

31:41

of this in US history where it feels

31:43

like after about 25 years, we'll start

31:47

telling the truth about something. 50

31:48

years ago, Johnson and Johnson went to

31:52

uh to the FDA and they said, "Look, our

31:54

baby powder, you know, that stuff that

31:56

you put on the baby and you breathe and

31:57

the mother breathes. Well, it's got

32:00

asbestous in it and it causes cancer."

32:02

And the FDA said, "Well, thanks for

32:04

bringing this to our attention. We'll

32:05

begin to study how much asbestous is an

32:07

allowable amount." Now, they never

32:09

considered zero, which is what I'd want

32:11

on my baby or you'd want on your baby.

32:13

and they began to study and then they

32:14

studied for a while and they studied for

32:16

a while and lo and behold 40 years had

32:18

gone by and they hadn't come out with a

32:20

ruling to say there shouldn't be any

32:22

asbestous in in Johnson and Johnson baby

32:25

powder when did they come out with that

32:27

ruling by the way last year end of 2024

32:31

after 52 years. So at the beginning the

32:35

government is saying asbestous no what

32:37

are you talking about Agent Orange the

32:40

same story Agent Orange material used in

32:42

Vietnam for defoliation uh hurt people

32:46

killed people and caused birth defects

32:47

in their kids including American

32:49

soldiers lots of them the government

32:51

knew it they had tested it on 40 lab

32:55

mice and lab mice don't have a good life

32:57

generally anyway they don't have good

32:58

life expectancy but in this case 38 died

33:01

within 5 days what the government do

33:04

with that information? Oh, put that in a

33:05

top secret file and get rid of that. And

33:07

then it sits for a long, long time and

33:10

the Institute of Medicine says, "Agent

33:12

Orange hurting people. What are you

33:13

talking about?" No. And they lie and

33:15

they lie and they lie and then finally

33:18

20 25 years later, okay, yeah, sorry, we

33:21

were wrong. It does it does cause birth

33:23

defects. You see that same story with uh

33:25

breast implants, silicone breast

33:27

implants. You see that same story with

33:29

uh baby formula uh with baby food which

33:34

has arsenic in it. I don't want any

33:36

arsenic in baby food but deny deny deny

33:38

deny and we'll see it with mass

33:40

vaccination because after some years

33:43

there will be okay yes there is a good

33:45

chance that it causes myocarditis

33:47

already been admitted by the way

33:49

pericarditis uh cancer in young people

33:52

it it was a bad product sorry but they

33:54

won't do it a year away from a thing and

33:57

they obviously as we can see every day

33:59

they won't do it five years away it's

34:01

very easy to see and to locate when the

34:04

US government or any power center. This

34:06

is I'm an American. I'm all for America.

34:08

But all power centers in human history

34:11

uh lie. Knowing that they are lying does

34:14

not tell you the truth, however. Meaning

34:16

knowing that Oswald did not act alone as

34:19

a shooter from the sixth floor of the

34:21

Texas Book Depository, if he was a

34:23

shooter at all. Knowing that does not

34:25

tell you who was the shooter. So often

34:28

the best we can get in our skepticism is

34:31

to know that we are not being told the

34:33

truth. When I grew up, I felt I feel

34:35

like I was very naive to the nature of

34:37

how the world really operates. And the

34:39

more I've done podcasts and frankly, you

34:41

know, you you you get invited to

34:42

interesting things and you meet like

34:44

rich people and famous people and

34:45

billionaires. And I went to Davos this

34:47

year, which I think people think makes

34:48

me some kind of like I don't know, I

34:50

wasn't if there was if the Illuminati at

34:51

Davos, they didn't invite me into that

34:53

room. But I got to like I got to see

34:54

like really powerful people and world

34:55

leaders and all those kinds of things.

34:57

And I've sat here and interviewed so

34:58

many CIA spies and I've learned that

35:01

there are things going on out of plain

35:04

sight. So the version of reality that

35:07

the average person has as they go

35:09

through their life, how has the work

35:11

you've done over the last several

35:12

decades of your career shifted your

35:14

belief about the version of reality that

35:16

actually exists? Like how how are they

35:18

different?

35:19

>> So I I can I can answer it easily

35:20

because I was just like you. I would say

35:22

I was naive. And in fact, by the way, I

35:24

want to quickly acknowledge that I'm

35:26

probably naive today, even with what

35:28

you've heard, because there may be a

35:29

level above the level above the level

35:31

above that that I'm not seeing or I'm

35:34

choosing not to see. I can tell you the

35:36

exact evolution for me, not dissimilar

35:38

to you. I grew up in the 50s and 60s. I

35:42

believe the courts will always come up

35:43

with a fair decision. I believe that the

35:46

IRS will only collect uh money and

35:48

destroy people with good reason, and

35:50

they won't do it with bad reason. I

35:52

believed everything and the a lot of it

35:54

right up until co by the way right up

35:56

until seeing what went on with both mass

35:59

vaccination and the the mass control

36:01

through fear here's what I want to tell

36:03

you I've learned it's not that um

36:07

unusual I think I think it's easy to to

36:10

embrace which is that are human beings

36:13

the same as they were a thousand years

36:15

ago are human beings the same as they

36:17

were in Caesar's time what did Caesar do

36:19

by the way pick a a Roman emperor.

36:23

Whatever the they wanted to do,

36:26

they had sex with who and what they

36:27

wanted. 8 years old, 10 years old, boy,

36:30

girl, whatever it may be. Even in King

36:32

Farooq's time in Egypt, one of the last

36:33

kings of of Egypt, if you were a house

36:36

guest, they'd say to you, you know what?

36:37

We're going to have dinner at 6. We can

36:39

send somebody to your room. Do you want

36:40

a young boy or a young girl? No shame to

36:43

it. No problem whatsoever. The rich and

36:46

powerful people like the ones you were

36:48

describing at Davos often go from, "I

36:51

already have all the money. I've already

36:52

had all the fame. I've already had all

36:54

the influence. What do I want to do

36:56

now?" And sometimes they want to do

36:58

forbidden things. Have an affair. Keep a

37:01

girl in an apartment. These are easy,

37:03

right? Uh, cheat on my wife. These are

37:06

easy still. 14-year-old girl. Uh-oh. Not

37:09

getting so easy anymore, but I've done

37:11

all the other stuff. And that's what the

37:13

Epstein piece appeals to, which is the

37:15

forbidden. I want to be very concise in

37:18

in answering this question about what

37:20

changed uh in terms of my view, how I've

37:22

gotten, you know, started where I

37:24

started. First of all, I worked in

37:25

government, worked in the Reagan

37:26

administration. I lied. I did things

37:29

that were lies that were deceitful

37:30

several times in my career. Uh I can

37:32

give you examples in a minute if you

37:34

want, but uh you know to to make a

37:36

prosecution work. I I reached a bit uh

37:39

to get somebody some bad guy who was

37:41

trying to kill a client uh you know uh

37:43

prosecuted or or in in custody for a

37:46

longer period of time. Um I was in many

37:48

meetings where the questions were this

37:51

thing happened not how shall we tell the

37:54

public but what shall we tell the

37:57

public? How shall we spin this thing?

37:59

This is the norm in every corporate uh

38:02

boardroom in America. It's not, oh,

38:04

there's there's a cancer causing

38:07

asbestous in the baby powder. I guess we

38:08

better let everybody know. That's not

38:10

the meeting. The meeting is, let's

38:12

notify the FDA and say it's under study.

38:15

And so if we get asked, we'll get get

38:17

through this thing. Who goes to jail, by

38:19

the way, in these corporations for the

38:20

they do, opioids, etc. My god, a

38:23

100,000 people dying from heart attacks

38:25

from from a pain pill, for example. Uh

38:28

Vio for God's sake. Uh the I mean it's

38:32

it's unbelievable and nobody gets in

38:34

trouble, right? Companies are fined. Do

38:37

you know what the fines mean to these

38:38

companies? In in that new book I gave

38:40

you, Forbidden Facts, I I lay out what

38:42

all the pharma companies have been fined

38:45

criminally, what it cost them and what

38:47

they made nonetheless, right? And of

38:49

course they made the right decision

38:51

because financially they they did very

38:52

well. But I want to get to the concise

38:54

part. Look at world history as a pie

38:56

chart, right? The entire thing is

39:00

tyranny as a government method, as a

39:03

control method. Just a tiny sliver is uh

39:06

representative democracy. A little bit

39:09

starting in Greece, uh Western Europe,

39:11

the United States, tiny sliver. So our

39:14

norm, Stephen, is tyranny. That is the

39:17

norm for human beings. And what happens

39:19

to that tiny sliver that I'm describing?

39:21

That tiny sliver always moves toward

39:23

totalitarianism.

39:24

>> What does that mean? It means that the

39:26

the representative democracy we have

39:28

let's say in the UK which is pretty

39:31

stressed right now in terms of of

39:33

freedom of speech or in the United

39:35

States moves toward totalitarianism in

39:38

that it says it starts with we pass a

39:40

law and if you know the the US

39:43

constitution says if there isn't a law

39:46

prohibiting it you can do it and for

39:49

government it says if there isn't a law

39:52

allowing it you cannot do it that's the

39:55

US constitute itution. That's the US

39:56

method. Well, look what it's become. A

39:58

law gets passed and then regulators,

40:01

unelected officials, go nuts on

40:05

interpreting that law the way they want

40:06

to and applying it the way they want to.

40:09

And so the the it moves toward

40:11

totalitarianism. 40,000 new laws passed

40:14

in the United States every year. How

40:16

many rescended? Almost none.

40:18

>> So where are we now?

40:20

here in the United States where we both

40:22

asked that or in the UK where are we in

40:24

the arc of history because it kind of

40:26

does seem to move in sort of cycles

40:28

>> now the we if you're talking about where

40:30

are we now like western society or the

40:32

US empire in decline

40:35

and first of all is it an empire

40:38

obviously right we have 760

40:41

military bases overseas 760 we have a

40:45

larger budget for what we call defense

40:48

now called war since Trump has changed

40:50

the name to Department of War more

40:52

accurately. Um, we have a larger budget

40:55

than every other country in the world

40:58

combined for military spending. How many

41:01

overseas bases does China have? I think

41:03

it's one. Now, I'm not saying China's

41:05

all lovely. I'm just saying they have a

41:07

different method. They have a method

41:08

closer to what we had in the 60s, which

41:11

was to come in with with beneficial

41:12

help. We'll redo your roads, etc., etc.

41:14

So, we're an empire and we're an empire

41:17

in decline. And a moment ago when I said

41:20

that that tyranny is the normal state of

41:22

affairs for uh how people are governed.

41:26

How is it exercised? Through fear.

41:29

Always through fear. Fear is the method

41:31

that causes division. And division is

41:33

the fuel of power. Meaning you want the

41:36

population to be divided. You want the

41:39

left and the right. You want the the uh

41:41

Trumpers and the and the and the

41:43

Democrats and the forever Trumpers and

41:45

the never Trumpers. Division is the fuel

41:48

that all world leaders relish. I give

41:52

you the example in the cleanest terms.

41:54

The king and the queen look over the

41:56

castle wall and when they see their

41:59

subjects fighting, they high-five each

42:02

other because if the if they're fighting

42:05

with each other, they're not coming over

42:07

the wall. And there's always a wall. And

42:09

but if they're not fighting with each

42:11

other, that's a big problem because then

42:14

they're coming over the wall because

42:15

everybody knows in their heart, wait a

42:18

minute, these are living in

42:19

absolute luxury while I don't I can't

42:22

afford to feed my kids. They their their

42:25

motorcades and today and in those days

42:27

they're, you know, beautiful ornate uh

42:31

wagons pulled by by a bunch of horses go

42:33

by and splatter mud on me in the street.

42:37

What really is the difference? I mean,

42:38

royalty is such a scam.

42:41

>> So, what happens to the Western world if

42:43

we're in a declining empire?

42:45

>> I give you the the optimistic version

42:47

because I have a dear friend happens to

42:49

live in Cape Town who helps me with this

42:51

sometimes because like anybody when I

42:53

look a lot at uh at at what happens, I

42:58

can get discouraged. I can get cynical.

43:00

It's not a good place to live. I think

43:02

uh Tony maybe even he said it on your

43:04

show Tony Robbins which is uh you know

43:06

that what you focus on will determine uh

43:09

the quality of your life. So I can focus

43:11

on the pharma companies and all the

43:13

they're doing or I can focus on on the

43:15

beauty of of nature and spend more time

43:17

in nature and spend more time with my

43:19

kids etc. So my optimistic answer which

43:22

comes from a dear friend Nick Hudson in

43:24

in Cape Town is that even if empires

43:28

decay and and social decay is is outside

43:32

this studio. It's in London. It's in New

43:35

York. It's in Los Angeles. It's in

43:36

Seattle. It's in Portland. It's

43:37

unavoidable. Take a drive in Los

43:39

Angeles. You know it. Every freeway

43:42

on-ramp, not some. Every single one of

43:45

them has tents underneath it with people

43:47

living there. That is not good news. And

43:50

so, but here's the good news part of it.

43:52

The optimistic part of it is that

43:54

survival and thriving always prevails

43:57

and it does not rely on these systems.

44:00

Meaning, you are who you are as a in the

44:03

spiritual sense or or in the scientific

44:05

sense, whatever way you want to look at

44:06

yourself as a as a collection of energy

44:08

that doesn't need that body by the way,

44:11

right? The energy doesn't go anywhere

44:12

when that body is done. Uh meaning it's

44:15

the energy is still there. It's not

44:16

destructible. And uh so it's

44:18

indestructible. So um you are this this

44:22

being this awareness this consciousness.

44:25

And if around us when we go outside here

44:28

today all the buildings are gone and and

44:30

social decay has accelerated are we

44:32

going to be okay? And the answer is yes.

44:35

What happens now? We're living in the

44:37

forest and now I say Stephen you're

44:39

pretty good at carpentry right? Come

44:41

join us. And you say you're good at

44:42

planting sweet potatoes. We need some of

44:45

that. Let's do that. and small

44:47

populations of people begin again,

44:50

commence again, even after nuclear war,

44:53

after a variety of things. And I know

44:55

it's crazy to some people, but I take my

44:58

my hope and my optimism from that fact,

45:02

which is that it doesn't rely upon the

45:05

electricity working. It doesn't rely

45:08

upon the plumbing working and the sewage

45:10

system working. And eventually there's

45:12

enough of the earth, natural earth, for

45:15

us to do what has happened before, which

45:17

is start again. Give you a very fast

45:19

aspect of this. Thousand years ago,

45:22

there's a thousand little governments.

45:25

There's shoguns in Japan. There's

45:27

villages. There's a guy has 300 people

45:29

and he's the chief. Then it becomes what

45:32

it was in your life and my life, which

45:34

is about 190 countries. But those 190

45:37

countries are really about five power

45:39

centers, right? There's NATO, there's

45:42

there's Brexit, there's the the oil

45:45

producing countries. And eventually that

45:47

five power centers will come to two

45:51

power centers. The West, US, and China

45:54

is my prediction, but it'll be somebody

45:56

else's prediction. Can do it

45:57

differently. And then those two

45:58

are standing in a room together. And one

46:00

has to kill the other. That's the course

46:02

of history. That's how it goes. That's

46:05

how it goes in every geographical area

46:07

in history, which is we've got 30

46:08

villages and if I can find your village,

46:10

we'll take the women, we'll take the

46:12

children, and we'll kill the men. And

46:14

it's just a matter of math. How many of

46:17

there are of you and how many are there

46:19

of of our group? It's I think it's

46:21

somewhat inconceivable especially for

46:23

people of my generation to think that

46:24

the US is at all at some point going to

46:26

be at war with China because we've never

46:29

you know we never experienced a world

46:31

war but because the stakes are now so

46:33

high with nuclear weapons a war

46:36

theoretically wouldn't be like previous

46:37

wars it would be catastrophic.

46:41

>> So it's it's unimaginable. Some people

46:42

say now nuclear wars have sorry nuclear

46:45

weapons have now stopped us from getting

46:47

into World War II as easily and

46:49

therefore it won't happen.

46:50

>> Yes. Some people believe in that general

46:51

concept of mutually assured destruction

46:53

which is that neither side will will do

46:55

it. But you said it's almost impossible

46:57

for you to imagine or words to that

46:59

effect. Um uh I want to help you uh with

47:03

that imagining and it goes like this. We

47:06

are currently at war with Russia. We are

47:08

not supporting the the war in Ukraine

47:12

only. We are at war with Russia because

47:14

we are providing satellite information,

47:17

electronic warfare strategies, drone

47:20

strategies, providing targeting

47:22

information, and that is war today. That

47:26

is war. War is not just the guys on the

47:29

battlefield with rifles. That's the

47:31

low-end element. The high-end element is

47:34

supersonic missiles, which Russia has,

47:36

and the high-end element is intel and

47:39

satellite technology. and the wide

47:42

variety of things that are going on,

47:43

some of which aren't even in the news,

47:45

by the way, that go on in Russia and

47:47

they say, "Oh shit." Uh, or that go on

47:49

in Ukraine and they say, "Oh the

47:51

Russians have figured out that thing."

47:53

But the US is so far beyond other

47:56

countries in the world in terms of

47:57

technology. And so that is war with

48:00

Russia. And you could say that our war

48:02

with North Vietnam was war with China.

48:05

But now there's just no question about

48:07

it. So that was a long answer, Stephen,

48:10

to say I want to get you your

48:11

imagination closer. We're already at war

48:14

with Russia.

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50:27

Speaking of crazy weapons, I was um I

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was reading about a story where you did

50:31

a a tour with the CIA and they showed

50:33

you a mechanical dragonfly.

50:35

>> Yeah.

50:36

>> With a battery. What What did they show

50:38

you?

50:38

>> Well, I've given a I've had a lot to do

50:40

with with the agency that's been that's

50:42

been public over the years. And I was

50:44

giving a talk and then afterwards they

50:46

took me on a tour to a CIA museum. They

50:49

showed me a lot of things. Oh, here's

50:50

the helmet that was worn by that pilot

50:52

who was shot down over Russia named

50:54

Powers. all kinds of interesting

50:56

memorabilia and one of them was a little

50:58

dragonfly the size of a dragonfly and it

51:01

was um mechanical and I looked at it

51:04

real closely and thought wow that that's

51:06

really fantastic it's very interesting

51:08

and he said you don't have any questions

51:09

at all I said no I mean I I get it and

51:13

he said why don't you ask me when it was

51:14

built U and I said okay when was it

51:17

built 1967

51:20

in 1967 before we had any

51:22

miniaturaturized electronics or motoriis

51:25

ization. The CIA had built that little

51:27

thing and uh and it was a a little

51:30

camera that would fly around in here as

51:31

a dragonfly and then uh and then you

51:34

know fly home and I don't know how many

51:36

pictures it held but it's an interesting

51:39

piece I want to share with you about AI

51:41

which is people wonder you know how

51:43

sophisticated is AI and and where is it

51:45

my belief is that everything we have

51:49

access to like AI we probably have

51:52

something that the US intelligence had

51:55

10 years ago. We're probably dealing

51:57

with something quite old already.

51:59

>> I'm just looking at the a picture of

52:01

this dragon.

52:02

>> Oh, I didn't even know it was public.

52:03

>> Um, this

52:04

>> that's the There he is.

52:06

>> This little thing here.

52:07

>> Yeah.

52:08

>> And you know, this was made, as you say,

52:09

what 50 years ago. So, one can only

52:12

imagine the type of technology they have

52:14

now.

52:14

>> Oh, of course.

52:15

>> I mean, they pro they don't even need to

52:16

fly a dragonfly in because we have all

52:18

these electronic devices.

52:19

>> Of course, they can they can turn on our

52:21

devices. probably your watch if it's a

52:23

an Apple watch but certainly your phone

52:26

uh and u yeah uh the we are

52:29

participating in I won't even call it an

52:32

experiment but a process that you read

52:35

1984 I'm sure and most of your audience

52:37

did I was very heartened during the

52:40

beginning of co that 1984 became the

52:44

17th bestselling book in the world in

52:46

the English language

52:48

>> telling me ah people are paying

52:50

attention they see that what they're

52:52

experiencing here has a degree of 1984

52:55

to it. I think all science fiction

52:57

stories come true. I really do. I see it

52:59

time after time. What advice would you

53:02

give to my listeners about how to

53:04

navigate in the world we're living in

53:06

today, you know, to avoid risk, threat,

53:09

you know, whether that's of our soft

53:10

tissue as you said or just with our

53:12

privacy or lives generally. Like where

53:13

does the advice start? You said you

53:14

raised 10 kids.

53:15

>> Yeah.

53:16

>> What advice are you giving to your 10

53:17

kids? Uh well they they all know that

53:21

their dad is a big proponent uh and and

53:24

my first book which is still a a very uh

53:27

big book the gift of fear that book is I

53:30

think still the bestselling book in the

53:31

world on violence after 25 years and um

53:34

that book is all about intuition and

53:38

personal responsibility. So the very

53:40

first thing I would say to your

53:42

listeners, to you to remind myself as

53:45

well is that human beings did not get

53:47

the biggest claws or the biggest teeth

53:50

or the biggest muscles. We got the

53:51

biggest brains relative to our size. And

53:54

the nuclear defense system that all

53:57

human beings have is intuition. Much

53:59

different from logic. Intuition, the

54:01

root of it, by the way, I learned when I

54:03

was writing that book, is in tear, which

54:06

means to guard and to protect. So

54:08

intuition when you think about it, oh, I

54:09

just have a feeling I should go back to

54:11

the apartment and doublech checkck such

54:12

and such. Did I leave the fire on on the

54:14

pot? And you go back and you open the

54:17

the door and you didn't leave the fire

54:19

on the pot, but something else will

54:22

always be going on that makes you glad

54:24

you came back. I believe that intuition

54:26

is always right in at least two ways.

54:29

One, it always has your best interest at

54:31

heart. It's not with you. It's

54:33

giving you real information that's

54:35

valuable. And and number two, uh it's

54:38

always based on something. And so our

54:40

journey is to figure out when I have an

54:42

intuitive feeling like do this show with

54:45

you, who knows why, but when I have that

54:48

intuitive feeling, and by the way, I

54:49

don't do most shows. I don't know what

54:51

the reason is. I don't know what it'll

54:53

be. I mean, I can make up one with

54:54

logic, right? I like that guy. I learned

54:56

a lot from his shows. I can create a

54:58

case. I can make a case for anything.

55:00

But if it's just based on what I feel

55:02

and everything you've succeeded at and

55:05

accomplished was based on what you felt.

55:07

It was based on intuition. In America,

55:09

in the West, we think we're doing it by

55:11

logic, right? I do a big PowerPoint

55:14

presentation and I say to the board,

55:15

"Here's the reason. Here's why, and

55:17

here's the percentages." And they say,

55:18

"Oh, good." The board at corporations in

55:22

America would actually prefer that I use

55:24

logic even if I'm wrong instead of using

55:27

intuition even if I'm right. So when I

55:30

say to you, no, I just think it's the

55:31

right thing to do. I I think it'd be

55:32

smart. I think it'll be it'll really

55:34

work out like something like Amazon

55:36

Prime that people opposed and then it's

55:39

like 175 million people just in America

55:42

are using it. Big success. Intuitive

55:44

process, not a not a logic process.

55:47

Logic is weak and plotting. Logic does A

55:51

B C D. Intuition does A to Z instantly.

55:56

And you don't know why. It's knowing

55:58

without knowing why. I don't feel good

56:00

about that person. I'm I'm gonna back I

56:02

I said I was going to make this business

56:03

deal. I'm backing out of it. I said I

56:05

was going to show up to that thing. I'm

56:06

calling and cancelling. And by the way,

56:08

cancelling one of my favorite things. I

56:10

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56:12

cancelling and postponing to everybody I

56:14

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56:16

plans. You made a plan 3 months ago and

56:19

you don't know who you'll even be or if

56:21

you or them or anybody will even be

56:23

alive 3 months from now. There's nothing

56:25

wrong with cancelling. Now I don't do it

56:27

rudely by the way but just to finish on

56:28

you know sort of what your listen your

56:30

your viewers uh and listeners can do is

56:33

that is to really fall in love with

56:35

intuition and to learn the way you

56:37

communicate with yourself. The there's

56:39

signals from intuition. Curiosity you

56:42

just wonder something. Suspicion

56:46

worry can even be a signal of intuition.

56:49

Um but the biggest one is true fear.

56:52

When you feel true fearh I don't want to

56:54

do this. I wanted to ask you a question

56:56

about this. I met with Magnus Carlson

56:58

who is the arguably the best chess

57:00

player in the world. And I met with him

57:02

after spending some time in Cape Town

57:03

writing about gut instinct and

57:05

intuition, all these kinds of things.

57:06

And one of the things that I learned

57:09

through my writing was that in in many

57:11

cases when someone has really

57:13

well-trained intuition, their first

57:15

thought is the right thought. And

57:18

actually, if you give them longer to

57:19

think about the problem, they make a

57:20

worse decision. So when I met Magnus

57:22

Carlson as a as the number one chess

57:25

player in the world backstage, we were

57:27

both on stage together. I said to him, I

57:28

said, "Listen, I got a question to ask

57:29

you. Do you basically now just run off

57:32

intuition or do you think?" And he said,

57:34

"My first thought is nearly always

57:35

right." So actually, I spend the other

57:37

time just confirming the first sort of

57:40

intuition that I had. And actually, I

57:43

was telling him about a dodgeball game

57:46

where they got dodgeball players,

57:48

professional dodgeball players, to look

57:49

at a frozen image of a dodgeball game

57:52

and said, "Where would you throw the

57:52

ball?"

57:53

>> And when they gave them little time to

57:55

decide, they made a better decision.

57:57

When they just went with their first gut

57:58

instinct, they made a better decision.

58:00

They unfroze it and it was the right

58:01

throw. If they gave them longer,

58:03

>> they made the worst decision. And the

58:05

the sort of caveat and I guess the

58:07

question for you is it appeared to me

58:09

that you almost have to train the

58:10

intuition. Like areas in our life where

58:12

we've got multiple reps and pattern

58:14

recognition, our intuition is valuable.

58:16

But then in other areas of our life

58:17

where we haven't trained the muscle yet,

58:21

we can make bad decisions. One such

58:22

example would just be like the first

58:24

time you start hiring people.

58:25

>> You don't have a trained intuition yet.

58:27

So you go, "Yeah, she seems nice." But

58:29

then you get I'm probably been hiring

58:30

thousands of people for 15 years now and

58:33

I get you know I get an intuition. So do

58:36

you have to train your intuition?

58:37

>> Well I think it happens automatically as

58:39

you as you live life that new

58:41

distinctions are added. Um but I also

58:44

believe that uh it is a natural

58:47

resource. I could think of it in a

58:49

spiritual sense. It's very hard to

58:51

figure out why we feel a certain way and

58:54

we do what what Magnus said which is we

58:56

get our answer and then we backtrack and

58:58

see if it fits. Right. I think the

59:00

training that's necessary, Stephen, is

59:02

not the training to uh improve your

59:05

intuition. Uh but rather the training to

59:08

listen to it and to not interrogate it

59:10

and to not prosecute it. Because I'll

59:13

give you an example. A woman is working

59:15

late at night in a in an office building

59:17

like this. She's on the 10th floor.

59:19

She's leaving. She pushes the button for

59:20

the elevator. The elevator door opens

59:22

up. Inside the elevator is a man who

59:26

causes her fear. She doesn't like it for

59:29

whatever reason. Obviously, she has no

59:32

opportunity yet to assess all the

59:34

issues. What's he dressed like? What's

59:36

he look like? What did I hear 3 weeks

59:38

ago about a guy who wore a blue cap and

59:40

t-shirt and she doesn't have any time

59:42

for her first reaction was like that.

59:44

What does she do? Most women, they get

59:47

into a steel soundproof chamber

59:51

with someone they're afraid of. And

59:53

there's not another animal in nature

59:55

that will do it. Now, why does she do

59:57

it? Because the thought comes, oh, I

60:00

don't want him to think I'm a racist

60:02

because he's Hispanic or I don't want to

60:05

be that kind of person or I don't want

60:07

this reality to be true, so I'm going to

60:11

act like it's not true. Right? And what

60:13

I say is let the door close in his face.

60:17

No problem. If you've got the signal, uh

60:20

that's a lowcost decision. Wait for the

60:22

next elevator. Right? That's a very

60:23

lowcost issue. Now, there are so many

60:26

examples of this in my work where I

60:28

interviewed people who had been

60:30

victimized. And time after time, they

60:32

would tell me, I knew when I walked into

60:35

that underground parking lot that that

60:37

was the same car that I'd seen earlier.

60:39

I knew when I met that guy such and

60:41

such. In fact, there's a beautiful a

60:43

woman who wrote me the most beautiful

60:45

thing. I I think it's in in Gift of Fear

60:48

or or it's in one of the subsequent

60:49

books. And she said that she would look

60:51

at her lifelong diary. She'd kept a

60:53

lifelong diary and she looked back at it

60:56

and it would say met this guy um feel a

60:59

little queasy about him, not so sure,

61:01

dated him,

61:04

married him. And then she what she wrote

61:06

to me was she said again and again I

61:09

could see there it was in my diary

61:12

listen to this the ending embedded in

61:14

the beginning and so what I encourage

61:17

people to do going to your original

61:18

answer is how people can be safer is

61:21

listen to their intuition know that its

61:23

function is to protect you that's what

61:25

it's doing when I was reading about your

61:27

work on intuition and your perspective

61:29

on it I it got me thinking about people

61:30

in my life that I

61:32

>> have to get rid of tomorrow

61:35

Well, actually that I have you know that

61:37

little alarm bell in your head when you

61:39

have you have a little alarm bell

61:40

intuition like I don't know what the

61:42

answer is but I feel like something

61:44

isn't right

61:45

>> and that little alarm bell in my head

61:46

I'm like so what do I do about that? And

61:48

I think there was one particular example

61:50

I was thinking of where I was getting

61:52

this little vibe from someone that

61:54

something was just off. And then 3

61:57

months later, we were at this event and

62:01

they started opening up about their

62:03

childhood.

62:04

And in the course of opening up about

62:06

their childhood, I learned something

62:08

about their mother and something their

62:11

mother used to do to them.

62:13

>> And they were talking to someone else

62:14

about this behavior that it's created in

62:16

them. M

62:17

>> it suddenly all made sense. That thing

62:19

that was giving me was making me feel

62:21

like the vibe was off. I think now is

62:24

because of something from their

62:25

childhood that I didn't actually know

62:27

which meant they have this behavior

62:28

which will make you feel a little bit

62:29

uncomfortable.

62:30

>> And in that moment and with I was

62:33

thinking about this example before you

62:34

arrived cuz I was like in that case my

62:36

my intuition told me something but I

62:38

didn't know what it was telling me. I

62:39

imagine a lot of people have that. They

62:40

have a vibe of someone something's not

62:42

quite right and they're interpreting it

62:44

to mean X when it could be Y.

62:46

>> Yes. Sometimes there's a very nice like

62:48

in my life and I suspect in yours too,

62:51

there's often a very straight line

62:53

between certain childhood experiences

62:56

and what we ultimately do. In my case, a

62:59

very easy one is there was fear. I then

63:02

come to have a deep understanding of

63:04

fear, both sides of it. uh and and and

63:07

some compassion for it and some uh uh

63:10

insight and I I then study it. There was

63:13

violence uh in my childhood. And so I

63:16

now come now it's so long ago that I'm

63:19

71. So my childhood is so long ago now

63:22

that it doesn't have a a grip on my

63:24

throat like it did for a lot of my life

63:26

where the narrative was very very

63:28

important to me and the narrative of my

63:31

childhood was important. Go ahead. You

63:32

can ask question. I was going to

63:34

probably give people the context on your

63:35

childhood.

63:36

>> Oh, uh, you or me. I'll do it. Okay,

63:39

good. Yeah, my childhood. Damn it. I'll

63:40

I'll tell them. Uh, so yeah, a very, you

63:43

know, very difficult time. My mother was

63:44

a heroin addict. Uh, she was, uh, quite

63:47

violent. She was very troubled. She

63:49

committed suicide when she was, uh, 39

63:52

years old and I was 16. And that was a a

63:55

kind of failure for me because I

63:56

considered it my job to to get us all

63:58

through this drama alive. Um, she shot

64:01

my stepfather in front of me. Uh, a lot

64:04

of in that house that we lived in, I

64:06

think there I I saw the house a few

64:08

months ago, by the way. I think there

64:10

are nine bullets in the walls and floor

64:12

of that house uh that I can account for,

64:14

probably still there. And so, while I'm

64:17

describing this to you dispassionately,

64:20

uh, it's because of two things. The

64:22

distance in terms of time, but most of

64:25

all because of healing. And the the I

64:28

want to give you my definition of

64:29

healing in this context. My definition

64:32

of healing for all of us is when we stop

64:36

using any of our energy to manage the

64:39

past. And this gives us all of our

64:42

energy in the present moment. And so

64:44

what do I mean using energy to manage

64:45

the past? Well, if I'm keeping that

64:47

story going and I'm saying to my wife,

64:50

well, because my mama did this, this is

64:52

why I feel such and such. which I went

64:54

through times in my life when when those

64:55

things were much closer to me. Today, I

64:58

feel like I'm not using any of my energy

65:00

to manage the past. The the narrative I

65:03

told you this whole series of of dramas

65:06

happened. And anytime you hear about a

65:08

parent or or anybody in somebody's life

65:10

committing suicide, we often think, "Oh,

65:13

what a terrible experience that must

65:14

have been." What you really ought to

65:16

think when you hear about somebody

65:18

committing suicide is, "Oh, what a

65:20

series of terrible experiences there

65:21

must have been leading up to that." And

65:23

I want to tell you real quickly that I

65:25

had a a couple of dreams that my mother

65:26

was in that were particularly powerful.

65:29

And I offered this to the audience to

65:31

know that dream experiences are

65:33

sometimes all you're going to get.

65:35

Right? Because my mother died when I was

65:37

16. So I don't have an opportunity to

65:39

sit across the table with her and say,

65:40

"What were you thinking when you such

65:42

and such and what was going on in your

65:43

life when such and such?" And and but in

65:46

a dream, she came to me once and I asked

65:49

her, "Why were you so cruel to me?" And

65:50

she was totally perplexed and she said

65:53

to me, "Cruel to you, I was preparing

65:55

you for this extraordinary life."

65:58

And I think that's true.

66:01

I think that's what happened is that for

66:04

you, whatever your experience was, for

66:06

Tony Robbins, who we talked about

66:08

earlier, what his experience was, it

66:10

took those experiences. You take away

66:12

those experiences and you don't have

66:14

someone who grows up wanting nothing

66:16

more than to write these books for free

66:19

and sell them for free and get them

66:21

published for free like Forbidden Facts,

66:22

the current book, in order to help

66:24

people deal with these issues of

66:26

skepticism, of fear, etc. You don't get

66:29

somebody doing what I do. Uh where my

66:32

ambition is long gone. My ambition for

66:36

more more anything, more money, more

66:38

houses. Well, houses I might still slip

66:40

on, but now it's about service to other

66:43

people. Wasn't always, but it was

66:45

service to other people because I

66:47

believe that public life, it includes

66:49

you. If all you do is give me a bad

66:51

example, that's service. If you give me

66:52

a good example, that's a prettier form

66:54

of service. It's a maybe it's a nicer

66:56

job you got, but ultimately all of it is

66:59

service. Everything that we can observe

67:01

in of people in public life and people

67:03

in our private lives. It's all service.

67:06

You know, I remember a friend of mine

67:07

telling me he went back home for

67:09

Thanksgiving and he saw his whole family

67:11

and he said he learned to only stay for

67:14

one day. He said because all the

67:16

happened on the second day with his

67:18

family if he stayed for two days. And he

67:20

also learned to stay in a hotel. I said,

67:22

"Are you staying at home?" He said, "Oh,

67:23

No, never never stay at home.

67:26

Because here was this group of people.

67:28

But what he told me that was interesting

67:29

is he said, "Ah, Aunt Charlene, you

67:32

taught me to speak more quietly because

67:34

you talk so loud." And he says,

67:37

"Uncle Carlo, you you taught me to be

67:41

more gentle because, man, you're rough

67:43

in everything you do. Throw the glasses

67:45

around and the way you engage. Dad, you

67:48

taught me to listen to people because

67:50

you never listen to a thing I

67:52

said even today. Isn't it a beautiful

67:54

way of looking at it? Basically, these

67:56

were the teachers in in our lives. For

67:58

my mother, 100% uh the I'm I'm so far

68:03

past forgiveness and so far into

68:06

gratitude for the pieces that were

68:08

wonderful. And by the way, this is a

68:10

suffering person, right? This is a

68:13

person that, you know, that charities

68:15

are for and and social welfare is for.

68:18

Uh, you know, a woman with three kids

68:20

and no job and a heroin addict for God's

68:22

sake. That's not an easy job. Uh, and

68:25

and other drugs too, by the way, which

68:27

helped me as I grew up to be skeptical

68:29

of pharma

68:31

because some of the pills she took, one

68:32

of them called Doradin, has now been

68:34

taken off the market for causing what?

68:36

Psychosis,

68:38

which explains a lot of her craziness.

68:41

And so all of this this, you know,

68:43

teaching that it depends what you do

68:46

with it. Meaning you we all we all

68:48

nobody gets out of here alive, right?

68:50

Everybody's got a story to tell. And I

68:52

remember a case where I overvalued my

68:55

own ability to predict human behavior,

68:57

which I say, you know, I say in these

68:58

books, you can predict human behavior,

69:01

right? To to drive here today in

69:03

traffic, I had to predict the behavior

69:05

of thousands of people based on just the

69:07

little movements of the big metal

69:08

objects around them. You know that guy

69:10

who starts to move over into your lane

69:12

and then he catches himself and goes.

69:14

You never trust that guy. You always

69:15

want to get way behind him or way in

69:17

front of him. So, we're predicting human

69:19

behavior all the time. But I overvalued

69:21

mine. I thought, "Oh, I'm Mr. Genius

69:22

predicting human behavior because I

69:24

developed these systems of artificial

69:26

intuition that predict human behavior."

69:28

And I was at a meeting and there were a

69:29

group of people at the meeting and it

69:31

was going to start in about 5 minutes.

69:32

And a few people were comforting one

69:34

woman who was really sobbing at the end

69:36

of the table. And I thought to myself

69:38

judgmentally, um, why'd she even come to

69:40

the meeting? I mean, if she can't do the

69:41

meeting, like, what's she doing here?

69:42

And I knew it was a boyfriend issue,

69:44

right? That's what she's crying about

69:46

and they're comforting her. The meeting

69:48

begins and that woman speaks first and

69:51

she says through her tears, "I'm sorry

69:53

you guys. Uh, I'll do my best at the

69:55

meeting, but as many of you know, my

69:58

husband killed my 12-year-old son 4 days

70:02

ago."

70:03

So my little journey into judgmental

70:06

prediction was about as wrong as you

70:09

could be and it was a uh a humbling

70:13

experience for me because I would have

70:15

discounted that person in a moment.

70:17

That's the other side of of prediction

70:19

and intuition, right? You can discount

70:21

people uh and quickly toss them away.

70:24

And so you know when you get this

70:26

intuitive signal, do we have a

70:27

responsibility to understand it? Yeah,

70:31

we have a responsibility to understand

70:32

it. How many people have I met who I

70:34

thought what an that guy is. I

70:36

don't ever want to talk to that guy

70:37

again. And I didn't. My loss. Sometimes

70:40

it was would have been the greatest

70:41

person in the world. Uh sometimes it

70:43

would have been a great relationship.

70:45

And now I apply the the George Harrison

70:48

rule. George Harrison the Beatles which

70:50

writes this who writes this unbelievable

70:52

lyric that's in While My Guitar Gently

70:54

Weeps, which is I look at you all and

70:57

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71:01

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73:09

>> Most of the time. Yeah.

73:11

>> What have you learned from that

73:12

exposure?

73:14

>> Well, probably a lot. So the I I'll but

73:17

I'll give a a uh what what answer comes

73:20

to me intuitively. When I was a kid and

73:22

I used to watch television, I believed

73:24

when I was a kid that the television was

73:28

more real than our lives and I learned

73:31

obviously through my experience that the

73:33

exact opposite was true, right? The

73:36

media world was unreal and our lives

73:39

were real. And this Stephen is

73:41

incredibly important today because with

73:44

AI and social media and other things, we

73:46

actually are challenged to know what is

73:49

real and what is not real. Did Trump

73:51

really make that speech or is it an AI

73:53

film? Did did that really happen or is

73:56

is that real what I'm looking at? The

73:57

cat really did that or is that an AI

73:59

film? And we are challenged now to

74:02

understand and choose I would say what's

74:05

real and what's not real.

74:07

That challenge has beauty in it because

74:10

it's making for me it's making me

74:13

question

74:14

reality itself. In other words, um I'm

74:18

questioning what really matters to me

74:21

and what will I call real? And I'll give

74:23

you some examples. I'll call touch real.

74:27

Hug you. Shake your hand. I'll call that

74:31

real. Nature. Time in a park. Time with

74:34

animals. my time with cats and dogs.

74:37

Unbelievably important to me because I

74:39

trust those right? I believe

74:41

that cat means business. This is what

74:44

it's doing. If it wants to be on my

74:46

chest purring, it wants to be on my

74:47

chest purring. And if it doesn't, she's

74:49

out of there, right?

74:50

>> CIA cat.

74:51

>> And so, and and children are the same

74:53

thing. I remember my son's meeting a

74:56

famous client of mine who, let's say, is

74:59

was the richest man in the world, etc.

75:02

at that moment. and uh and my son at 3

75:04

years old, how much money do you have?

75:06

Um but it held no offense because it's

75:09

this little kid. All it can be is real.

75:11

There's nothing but real in in a little

75:13

kid. And so where I think optimistically

75:16

about AI, which definitely has some

75:19

problems for for for the human race for

75:21

sure. But where I think optimistically

75:23

about it is I think it's good for people

75:26

to question reality because what

75:28

ultimately is it? What is it? If this is

75:31

a simulation, like Elon makes a good

75:33

argument for, and I think he leans in

75:35

that direction, by the way, and

75:37

sometimes I I do too with him. If it's a

75:39

simulation, uh, then we want to make it

75:42

interesting and and we want to be a bit

75:44

outside. In in a simulation, we're not

75:46

vulnerable, right? The the the spirit,

75:48

the soul, the energy that animates us um

75:51

will continue. It's not going anywhere.

75:54

And it lets us witness this experience

75:56

rather than feel victim to it, right? we

75:59

get to this is a good movie and we

76:00

wouldn't go see a movie if we knew the

76:02

outcome, right? But we but this movie is

76:05

really good. And so when I look at AI

76:07

things and trust me, I don't know about

76:09

you, you're younger, so you're you may

76:11

have better instincts or intuitions for

76:13

it, but I genuinely can't tell

76:15

sometimes. I mean, I send something back

76:17

to a friend of mine and say, I think

76:18

that's I don't think the dog

76:20

actually jumped up on the top shelf and

76:22

did that such and such. I I don't buy

76:23

it. And then you look at it a few more

76:25

times. But this is good for us because

76:28

what it brings us to is whatever we

76:30

think is real. Touch, taste, uh uh the

76:37

feelings, tears, nature, whatever we

76:40

think it is, I believe that's where I

76:43

want to be. That's where I want to spend

76:44

my time.

76:45

>> So there's this theory called the dead

76:46

internet theory where they think that

76:47

because of AI and us being able to make

76:50

I sent actually sent a video to some of

76:51

my team members earlier. It's a two and

76:52

a half minute video and it's made with

76:54

one of these AI tools and it it's the

76:57

ending of a very famous movie and

76:58

someone's just changed it and they it's

76:59

a kid in their bedroom has made a new

77:00

ending to the movie. couple of prompts,

77:02

they've got a new ending to the movie.

77:03

And I I was playing this forward,

77:05

playing this forward and forward and

77:07

forward. And eventually you get to a

77:08

point where bots will be just spraying

77:12

content at the internet. And in such a

77:14

world, unless we have these sort of um

77:17

retina scanners to confirm that I'm

77:19

doing the post live, you get to this

77:21

dead internet theory where like

77:23

everything you see is either written by

77:25

produced by AI. Therefore, wait. Our

77:28

level of skepticism just raises to the

77:30

point that we don't trust anything we're

77:31

seeing. You're saying that that's

77:33

actually a good thing for us because it

77:34

makes us question what we're seeing

77:36

again and revert to real things that are

77:39

irreplaceably human.

77:41

>> Yes. I think it's good to I think it's

77:43

it's spiritually good for us to redefine

77:47

reality as opposed to take me back 20

77:50

years in my life and possibly yours.

77:52

What did I believe? everything the

77:54

government said, every official

77:56

narrative. Why wouldn't I believe it?

77:58

>> Do you think there's any downside to our

77:59

lost interest in institutions?

78:03

>> Well, I have such a negative view of big

78:06

centralized

78:08

institutions.

78:09

>> Why? Because I think what happens when

78:11

you a a very good number of people to

78:14

live together is about 300. And what I

78:17

base that on is uh Fiji where I live a

78:20

lot, villages are about 300 people.

78:22

There's a chief who lives with them. He

78:25

doesn't get special treatment. He's not

78:26

carried around in a gold chariot. He's

78:29

got to eat the same food they do. And he

78:31

is generally uh benevolent. And uh

78:35

because the the beauty of the Fijian

78:37

village, and I encourage you you to go

78:39

and all your your viewers to go. Don't

78:41

all go on the same day because you'll

78:42

up Fiji, but go anyway. Um the the

78:46

beauty of the Fijian village is that

78:48

people will be born

78:51

and grow up and get married and have

78:53

children and die all in the same house

78:57

and all with the same people. That's

79:00

fantastic because what they don't get

79:03

that I get in my life and you get is the

79:06

engagement with all these anonymous

79:08

people that don't matter. Right? The

79:10

waiter is just a snapshot to me, not a

79:12

real person I'm sitting down with. I

79:14

like to, by the way, really engage with

79:15

people uh at the expense of of the

79:18

friends I'm with very often. I'm really

79:19

curious about people. The Uber driver,

79:21

I'm I'm curious, but I know that the

79:25

this is a temporary relationship in the

79:27

Fijian village. Uh it's not a temporary

79:29

relationship. I'll give you a good

79:30

example on an airplane. You're on a

79:32

commercial flight somewhere and you've

79:34

got a 10-hour flight to overseas to

79:36

London or something and there's a baby

79:38

crying and uh you're pissed that the

79:41

baby's crying. Some people are. I mean,

79:43

I I look at this when we used to travel,

79:46

my wife and I, and I remember somebody

79:48

saying when we boarded with my maybe

79:50

20-month-old son, "Is that baby going to

79:53

cry?" And I said to the woman, "What do

79:55

you think? It's a it's a 20-month old

79:58

baby." But the point is, hey folks,

80:00

we're together for the next 10 hours.

80:02

How do we want to spend this time? We

80:03

want to spend it hating each other. We

80:05

want to get too drunk and bug the person

80:07

next to you. How do we want to do this?

80:08

A Fijian village is like that. In fact,

80:10

a Fijian village is fewer bathrooms than

80:12

a 747 and fewer seats than a 747. Fewer

80:16

people for God's sake, what we get on an

80:18

airplane every day. And so I believe in

80:21

small populations uh for governance. And

80:24

I believe in subsidiarity, a word you

80:27

probably don't know. I only learned it

80:28

about a year ago from a dear friend in

80:30

Cape Town. Subsidiarity means government

80:32

at the most local possible level. So, if

80:35

it's a if it's a an issue regarding

80:37

building permit, that ought to be city

80:38

or county, nothing to do with Washington

80:40

DC. If it's an issue regarding

80:42

interstate commerce, okay, maybe we need

80:44

a little Washington DC. We need a little

80:46

state involved. But government at the lo

80:49

most local possible level so that I can

80:50

come over to your house, Stephen, and

80:52

say, "Why did you not approve my my

80:54

building permit?" Or so I can meet you

80:55

in the restaurant where we see each

80:57

other every morning, where our kids go

80:58

to school together. I don't believe

81:00

centralized government works. And I

81:02

think further that centralized

81:04

government is our enemy. It is the enemy

81:07

of of citizens.

81:08

>> I was thinking about the parallels there

81:09

actually for business.

81:10

>> They get too big.

81:11

>> Yeah, they get too big. And a lot of

81:12

great companies actually break break up

81:14

divisions and departments and give them

81:16

autonomy and subsidiar. Can't even say

81:18

it.

81:18

>> Subsidiary. It wasn't easy for me

81:19

either.

81:19

>> I nailed it first time. What you're

81:20

talking about subsidiary. Subsidiarity.

81:23

Bing bing.

81:24

>> Subsidiarity. Yeah.

81:25

>> And how even in as our company grows,

81:27

maybe I should think more about

81:29

subsidiarity. Well, I'll tell you, my

81:31

company at its biggest was about a

81:33

thousand people and 26 offices around

81:36

the country, around the world, and I

81:38

didn't like a thousand people as a

81:40

number. I liked where we are now, which

81:42

is about 600 people and uh and we're

81:44

hiring, by the way, so look us up and

81:46

and come to work. We need we need young

81:48

people uh who are physically fit and

81:50

have good backgrounds, uh meaning they

81:52

can pass screening. But my point is that

81:55

I I like to stay in that sweet spot of a

81:58

thousand people starts to get too far

82:00

from the individuals. And when it's

82:03

small, and I don't know where you are

82:04

now in in this in in this podcast

82:07

organization, but you can walk down the

82:10

hall and see an employee and say, "Hey,

82:13

it seems like you're you're not doing so

82:14

well. You seem you don't like to joke

82:16

anymore. You seem humorless. You seem

82:18

such and such." In a big organization

82:21

while I developed a method for that by

82:23

the way I'll tell you in a second but in

82:24

a big organization you get farther and

82:26

farther and farther from the human

82:27

beings. I want to tell you the method we

82:29

developed. We have a thing called care.

82:31

It stands for continuous asking

82:34

responding and evaluation.

82:36

Every day every employee in my company

82:38

when they log into work gets a question

82:42

that they answer and I get the

82:45

statistical results of that every day.

82:47

And the questions will be things like uh

82:49

when do you think you're getting your

82:50

next promotion?

82:52

Uh or um have you experienced or

82:54

witnessed sexual harassment? Have you

82:56

experienced or witnessed discrimination?

82:58

Why do I do that? Because I want to

83:00

know, right? That's why you ask. Have

83:03

you in bigger companies that use our

83:05

system like Amazon did developed a

83:07

system like it that you know you might

83:09

ask a question like have you ever seen a

83:11

firearm in the workplace? An

83:12

unauthorized firearm. Oh, damn it. We

83:14

want to know that information, right?

83:16

Does your supervisor know your name?

83:18

Huge question because a supervisor

83:21

knowing that question is asked knows

83:23

everybody's name which is what you want.

83:24

You're influencing middle management

83:26

behavior. But that system we have care

83:28

is no different than me walking down the

83:30

hall and say, "Hey, Stephen, I noticed

83:32

for the last couple of days you're

83:33

keeping your office door closed and you

83:34

kind of shut down for some reason.

83:36

What's going on?" You lose that when it

83:38

gets too big. And when it gets really

83:39

too big, like think about government

83:41

agencies like HHS, the biggest budget in

83:45

world history, $1.7 trillion, bigger

83:48

than the Pentagon, started out at 85,000

83:51

employees. Luckily, it's down now. You

83:54

You got to be kidding. You're running a

83:56

a machine. It has nothing to do with

83:58

humanity. And and government agencies

84:00

have nothing to do with humanity. They

84:02

have to do with process, bureaucracy.

84:05

>> We talked about advice. That's kind of

84:07

where we started on this uh train of

84:09

thought that you would give to your

84:10

children and one of the you know trains

84:12

we went down was about intuition.

84:14

>> Yes.

84:15

>> Is there anything else that you think

84:17

was would you know if you if you if this

84:19

god forbid was your last day on earth

84:20

and your children said to you, "Dad,

84:24

what do I need to know to live a

84:25

fulfilling life?"

84:26

>> Yes.

84:27

>> Based in the world as we see it today,

84:28

what would you what would you say if you

84:30

could only say one thing? for me and I

84:32

think it's true for everybody um

84:34

contribution to others is a key part of

84:39

coming to believe that you belong here.

84:41

Those of us who had a tough time and but

84:43

remember I said everybody has a tough

84:45

time in some way through childhood

84:47

selflove is often uh missing or is hard

84:51

to come by and to believe that you

84:53

belong here contribution to others is a

84:55

key thing. The second one you asked for

84:58

one but you're getting two. It's a it's

85:00

a special today a bargain. The second

85:02

one was the hardest lesson for me to

85:04

come to believe and that was that what

85:08

is right for you is always right for the

85:10

other person.

85:13

Very hard for me to get my head around

85:14

this one because I thought, well, wait a

85:16

minute. I want to break up with this

85:17

girl who wants to get married and have

85:18

kids with me. How can my breaking up be

85:21

right for the other person? Well, a she

85:24

gets to be with somebody who actually

85:26

wants to be with her. she gets to begin

85:28

her life now instead of I stay with her

85:30

till she's 45 and she can't have kids

85:32

anymore. So this idea that what's right

85:34

for you is always right for the other

85:36

person. The practical application is

85:38

that all you need to do, Stephen, is

85:40

know what's right for you,

85:41

>> which is easier said than done.

85:43

>> It is easier said than done, but because

85:45

in my case, what I would do is say,

85:47

well, what how's this person going to

85:48

do? When I was younger, I believed

85:50

everybody that I fired, for example,

85:51

which was very few people in my career.

85:53

I mean, employed a shitload of people,

85:55

but I didn't fire very often. Everybody

85:57

that I fired, I thought they went from

85:59

working at this great company that I was

86:01

the founder of to being on the street

86:03

homeless and couldn't feed their

86:05

families. That's not what happened. They

86:07

went to other great jobs. If they could

86:09

work for GDBA, they had already jumped

86:11

through so many hoops. They were

86:13

presentable. They were intelligent. They

86:14

were physically fit. They had a a great

86:16

background. They had integrity that we

86:19

could see. They had all variety of of

86:21

things. And they presented incredibly

86:22

well because we've got one hell of a

86:24

screening process. We have a 9-day

86:26

nine-day interview, not a 1-hour

86:29

interview. They live they come and live

86:31

at our camp for 9 days of an interview

86:34

process. They're sleeping in our

86:36

environment. We're really getting to

86:38

know them. By the way, it's 12 days now,

86:40

but started as 9 days. So now I know if

86:43

I fire somebody or if they leave, uh,

86:45

they're going to do fantastic. That that

86:47

was a big awakening for me. But this

86:49

idea that what's right for me is always

86:51

right for the other person, what does it

86:54

do? It frees you to know that the only

86:55

place I have to go to get the answer to

86:57

this question is in here. You don't want

87:00

me messing around in your brain trying

87:02

to figure out what you want, trying to

87:04

figure out what you believe, trying to

87:06

figure out what's best for you. I've

87:08

hurt more people in my life, trying to

87:11

figure out what's best for them than

87:12

I've helped.

87:13

>> It is um it is remarkably true. I was

87:16

just sort of senseing it against people

87:18

where in one particular case where I had

87:21

fired someone and they were very upset

87:22

about it many many many years ago in a

87:24

previous business very upset about it

87:26

protested you know said some things uh

87:29

to me and then years later five six 10

87:33

years later when I reflect on where they

87:34

are now and if that was the best thing

87:36

for them as I kind of assumed it was to

87:38

be honest they would say it was the best

87:40

thing for them I would say it was the

87:42

best thing for them in hindsight in part

87:43

because

87:44

>> when held in a situation that's not

87:46

right for them. They're going to suffer

87:47

in other ways.

87:48

>> Yeah.

87:49

>> Under the under a standard,

87:50

>> including your resentment.

87:51

>> My resentment, a standard they can't

87:52

meet, goals they can't meet, the

87:54

pressure from everybody, the stress when

87:55

they can't see their job, of course.

87:56

>> And yeah, and let them go and they

87:58

started their own thing. And um less

88:01

pressure, lower goals, less expectation.

88:03

They seem to be much much happier.

88:04

>> And you Oh, much happier.

88:06

>> And you Yeah. That's the Look, God only

88:08

made you or the universe, whichever word

88:10

you want to fit in there, only made you

88:12

responsible for one person. truly

88:14

responsible for one person and and

88:16

that's you and then that has of course

88:18

all the ripple effects of what it does

88:20

for the rest of the world even our

88:22

children by the way are we responsible

88:24

for them certainly not for life right

88:26

because in my case I'm an older father

88:29

my first birth kid I had a bunch of

88:31

adopted kids a bunch I had eight but my

88:33

first uh birth kid uh I was 52 years old

88:37

and so I'm an older father to my

88:39

17-year-old son uh I don't expect to be

88:42

around when he's

88:43

Um, I'll take it if it happens to be

88:45

that way. But I would be def

88:47

crepit by that point. Uh, and I I'd

88:50

rather probably exit before that. But my

88:52

point is the idea that even our

88:55

children, we will not find the answer.

88:57

Do I know what's best for my kids? Of

89:00

course not. I have a lot of opinions,

89:02

but uh, you know, do I really know

89:04

what's best? No. But I know what's best

89:06

for me. And and that's really where my

89:09

responsibility has to end. And Stephen,

89:10

you asked me to boil it down to one. I

89:13

gave you a special today of two. And uh

89:15

and I want to give you uh the third one

89:18

that you haven't asked for. And it's

89:19

this. Everything you want is downstream.

89:24

Everything you want is downstream.

89:26

Meaning that time when we're swimming

89:28

against the current and think, oh, if

89:30

it's important, it's going to take all

89:31

this work, etc., etc. There is no

89:34

swimming upstream. What? Downstream

89:37

always wins. Reality always wins. You

89:39

know, when you swim upstream, you put

89:41

enough current there and you're staying

89:42

in the same place. And so, the times in

89:45

my life when I thought it must be this

89:47

way. It has to be this. This there's a

89:48

this is the only way. I was wrong. I was

89:51

wrong. Including hiring a dear friend of

89:54

mine told me the story of hiring a CEO

89:56

for his company, big company, and and

89:58

the guy said, "I'll take the job." And

90:00

they negotiated everything. And then the

90:02

guy said, "You know, I'm going to go to

90:02

work for for Pepsi Cola, and I'm sorry."

90:05

And my friend got on an airplane and

90:07

flew to the hotel and waited in the

90:08

lobby. the of the hotel where he knew

90:10

the guy was, caught him in the lobby and

90:12

said, "Don't go to work for them. Go to

90:14

work for me. I'll change the offer in

90:16

the following way. I'll add this

90:17

equity." And he succeeded and he got the

90:20

CEO he wanted. And three weeks later had

90:23

to fire the

90:26

So basically, when the whole universe

90:28

says no, everything you want is

90:30

downstream. Now, you probably have some,

90:33

you tell me, do you have some resistance

90:36

to that idea? Um, I would say

90:40

I can think of examples where I fought

90:42

for something and it was I fought for a

90:44

person or something and it turned out to

90:46

be a good decision. Should I give you

90:49

the context?

90:50

>> Yeah, I'd love to hear the context. But

90:52

by the way, that doesn't defeat my

90:54

argument because fighting for something

90:56

is not the same as swimming upstream.

90:58

You know, swimming upstream is you know

91:00

which way this river is going.

91:02

>> Oh, yeah. Yeah, that makes sense then.

91:04

>> Yeah. And so the the you ask what I

91:06

would tell my kids is that everything

91:07

you want is downstream. It kind of you

91:10

know I've been so blessed or lucky

91:13

whatever word you want to use or

91:14

fortunate in my life that my work you've

91:16

got all these books as examples. I loved

91:19

doing it. It wasn't work. I love

91:22

sometimes it's hard but hard is not the

91:25

same as like feeling like I'm just

91:26

stamping something out in this factory

91:28

which would be a kind of hell for me I

91:30

guess. Uh, I loved I I was doing what I

91:34

was on the planet to do. I think

91:36

everybody isn't that lucky.

91:38

>> The example I was going to give you

91:39

actually support

91:40

>> the story. Yes. Go ahead.

91:41

>> Me and my me and my then girlfriend were

91:43

dating for a year. We had an issue. I've

91:45

been very open about this and the

91:46

newspapers write about it and stuff, but

91:48

we had an issue with our intimate life

91:52

and we couldn't really see a way around

91:54

it. Broke up.

91:57

She flew to Bali because we couldn't see

92:00

a way to solve the problem. And then I

92:02

carried on with my life and a year goes

92:04

past and I'm thinking constantly, I'm

92:05

thinking, do you know what? I think

92:06

actually that was the right person.

92:08

>> I think I up. I think I should

92:09

have maybe in my immaturity I like

92:11

should have found a way to work through

92:13

this problem. So I fly across the world

92:15

to Bali for 18 hours and I go there to

92:19

apologize to her for not handling the

92:21

situation better in a more mature way. I

92:23

I apologize. I think there is part of me

92:25

that's trying to get her back. actually

92:26

while we're there she does tell me that

92:28

in the time we've been apart she's been

92:29

with someone else and I take it all very

92:32

very well I'm very mature and then while

92:36

we're there I know she's not trying

92:38

she's not trying to like sit next to me

92:39

so when we go for dinner with our

92:40

friends she's like sitting two seats

92:42

down she's like there's no interest in

92:43

me anymore

92:44

>> so I accept it and I tell her I'm going

92:46

home in in 2 days time thank you so much

92:48

for spending time I send her this nice

92:49

text message and then in those in the 48

92:52

hours before my flight

92:54

it's like we fell in love with each

92:56

other again. So, it supports your point

92:57

because when I apologized, I came with

92:59

no agenda and then I said, "I'm

93:01

leaving."

93:02

>> In the 48 hours from the point where I

93:03

said, "I'm off now." Sent her a nice

93:05

message. It's like we fell in love

93:07

again. She's now my fianceé

93:08

>> and that's what I don't know. It's been

93:11

seven years or something. But it

93:12

actually goes to show what you said. Now

93:13

I thought it through cuz I thought

93:14

flying was me fighting for something

93:16

because of the example you gave, but

93:18

actually

93:18

>> it was I apologized and I'd given up. I

93:21

like stopped fighting.

93:22

>> That's the best when you when you let it

93:24

go. And suddenly and suddenly it

93:26

happens. Yes, it does fit. Everything

93:28

you want is downstream. In fact, that

93:30

that's not, you know, even getting on a

93:32

plane is downstream.

93:34

>> You didn't get on a plane that flies

93:35

backwards or has no engines. That's what

93:38

I'm talking about is when you find

93:39

yourself, and I certainly have in my

93:41

life, find myself doing something that

93:43

is so difficult to do uh and and so

93:47

unrewarding and it feels like I'm trying

93:50

to swim upstream, which I can tell you

93:52

from experience in lots of rivers, some

93:54

of them in Fiji, it doesn't work. You

93:56

you don't get a lot of mileage swimming

93:58

upstream.

93:58

>> I was just going to ask cuz you know,

93:59

this this was such a smash hit

94:01

bestselling book.

94:02

>> Yeah.

94:02

>> Nationally. And I was just going to ask

94:04

you the question,

94:06

>> why? What is it that resonated with

94:09

people that made this book so

94:10

successful? The gift of fear, survival

94:12

signals that protect us from violence.

94:14

What What is it?

94:16

>> That's a very good question. I mean, a

94:18

good question in that it's in that it's

94:20

a new question. I'll give you what I

94:22

what I hope. I think if that book had

94:25

been about Chinese pottery uh or about

94:28

spices or any subject carpentry um it

94:32

also would have worked well because it

94:34

had by a number of blessings it had some

94:37

core truths in it like you didn't one of

94:39

the things I'm saying to them is forget

94:41

about experts you you don't need an

94:43

expert to be telling you things that are

94:45

in your own body if this story is

94:47

resonant to you if this experience from

94:49

all these people that I interviewed is

94:51

resonant to you and if that works for

94:54

then uh you know you'll find value here

94:56

and uh there are some practical reasons

94:59

why it was a bestseller like Oprah doing

95:01

it. I mean everybody did it. Time

95:03

magazine, Newsweek, everybody did big

95:05

things on the book. Why at that moment

95:07

did that work out? I I have a theory

95:09

which is that a a lot of people in media

95:12

knew me or knew of me but I never had

95:15

done anything public and it it took a

95:17

lot of courage to do and when I for me I

95:20

talk about things that were very

95:21

personal in that book and uh and in the

95:24

other books as well and it took a lot of

95:26

courage in fact I went and met with two

95:27

authors beforehand who had told really

95:31

hard stories about their lives and uh I

95:34

didn't know them I just asked for

95:35

meetings one of them was in DC and uh

95:38

and and I got some encouragement. I also

95:41

remember, by the way, meeting with a

95:43

group of of law enforcement officials

95:45

who were at my company for some reason,

95:47

and I told them a couple of stories from

95:48

that book, uh childhood stories, and

95:52

they were kind of a gasast. Everybody

95:54

was like, "Oh, it didn't stimulate any

95:56

conversation at the table." I knew I was

95:59

in a kind of territory that most people

96:01

run away from. And that too helped me uh

96:05

because I thought uh denial, denial,

96:08

denial, denial, denial all around the

96:09

table because every cop and every FBI

96:12

agent has a story about why they are

96:16

doing what they're doing just like every

96:18

doctor does, just like everybody does.

96:21

There's a reason that they're doing what

96:22

they're doing that usually will be

96:24

discoverable in uh in childhood. And

96:27

when they discover it, like who do you

96:29

want for example for a heart surgeon? Do

96:31

you want the heart surgeon whose

96:32

grandfather died of a heart attack in

96:34

his arms when he was 14 years old? Or do

96:37

you want the one who said heart surgery?

96:39

Oh, the earnings look really good on

96:40

heart surgery. I'll take heart surgery

96:42

as my major. Uh you know, you want the

96:44

one with a with a core uh with a with a

96:47

story uh a personal story.

96:50

>> We have a closing tradition where the

96:51

last guest leaves a question for the

96:52

next. And the question left for you, not

96:54

knowing who they were leaving it for, is

96:56

where do you think the origin of your

96:58

purpose and meaning comes from

97:01

objectively?

97:05

>> Okay, give me 25 minutes of silence.

97:10

This is I guess it's somewhat of a

97:14

spiritual

97:16

answer uh which is that I believe in I I

97:22

tend to go with everything is

97:24

predetermined

97:26

meaning down to the smallest tree in the

97:29

smallest town in the smallest place uh

97:32

it's going to be that's how it was going

97:34

to be. Now, I have a scientific version

97:37

of this, which is that if you're I

97:39

remember one day I was in Fiji and I was

97:43

swimming in front of my house and the

97:44

the water's just 4t deep in front of my

97:47

house because it's on a reef so you can

97:48

walk on it and then you get to the end

97:50

of the reef, you get to the deep water

97:51

and I was standing in the in the 4ft

97:53

deep water and suddenly a massive

97:56

rainstorm came just like theop bop, you

97:58

know, hitting you in the head and then

98:00

it stopped immediately and immediately

98:02

after that this massive school of fish

98:05

about this big just started jumping out

98:07

of the water in front of me and it's

98:08

noisy. IT'S LIKE

98:11

as they were going around and they go in

98:12

a whole circle around me and then

98:14

they're and then they're gone. And

98:17

immediately after this the tide which

98:20

was rising, it goes up and down as you

98:22

know twice a day. Um the tide really got

98:26

strong where I was standing and it was

98:28

coming in as opposed to going out. And

98:30

so I was really like standing there like

98:32

this and I was looking around and I

98:34

thought, "This better be enough

98:36

stimulation for you, brother. Like I'd

98:39

just seen the giant rainstorm and then

98:41

the sun, the fish going nuts and then

98:43

this giant tide thing." And as soon as I

98:46

thought that, a whale breached right off

98:48

the reef, right? And uh and I and I

98:53

thought, "Holy man. You are seeing

98:55

one hell of a movie here." And then I

98:58

thought, in fact, I dreamed that night

99:00

that I was uh as if somebody had typed

99:06

in, "Show me what it would be like to be

99:09

standing on a reef in Fiji." Uh there

99:12

was no AI then, but to be standing on a

99:14

reef in Fiji and have a massive school

99:16

of fish go jumping up around you, have

99:18

a, you know, huge storm begin, have it

99:21

quickly get sunny, and then see a whale

99:23

breach in front of you as you're trying

99:24

to hold on to the reef is is is, you

99:27

know, so strong you can barely stand up.

99:28

Show me what that's like, Google. And

99:31

that I Gavin was like the eyes of

99:37

God, universe, whatever it may be that

99:40

you could like what is it like to be a

99:43

42year-old man who's had this diet this

99:46

day, this trip out to the reef, this

99:49

childhood, this experience? Is it all

99:52

predetermined? And I do believe it is.

99:55

And so the answer to that question is I

99:57

believe it's out of my hands. I may get

100:00

the choices uh you know is there free

100:02

will something is presented to me go

100:03

left go right uh I I might get the

100:06

choice but what is presented to me what

100:09

is presented to me is not up to me.

100:12

>> Are you telling me that life is

100:13

consciousness trying to understand

100:15

itself. Someone said that to me once and

100:17

it was quite a compelling thought.

100:18

>> The idea was dropped into my skull so

100:21

quickly like it was a journalistic

100:23

report that said here's the way the

100:25

world works. something or somebody or

100:28

everybody or everything types into

100:31

Google what it wants to see and

100:33

occasionally you are the body that it

100:37

works through because if the rest of the

100:39

universe and by the way kind of

100:41

interesting this very moment we're in

100:42

Stephen because that experience I had is

100:46

now being relayed

100:47

>> to a few million people courtesy of you

100:50

and your question and that question in

100:51

this podcast. So now you do know a

100:53

little bit about what it's like to stand

100:55

in the water with the the current trying

100:58

to pull you over and see a whole school

101:00

of fish go around you and see a whale

101:01

breach right in front of you and see

101:03

this this massive rainstorm come and go

101:05

in a matter of minutes. Uh now you get a

101:07

little piece of that experience. Now do

101:09

I think here's the big the punchline. Do

101:11

I think I created that experience? No

101:13

way. I don't. I think it's

101:16

predetermined. And I think the I said to

101:19

you the scientific version is you're

101:21

gonna ask me this question and that's

101:23

the answer you're going to get. That's

101:25

what I believe based on what I ate

101:27

today, based on what I ate 40 years ago,

101:30

based on childhood, based on who you are

101:32

and who I am. That's the answer you're

101:34

going to get.

101:35

>> And who left the question

101:36

>> and who left it and how their day was

101:38

and what they ate that day and

101:39

everything else. I believe in

101:41

predetermination. It is um it comes from

101:44

a teacher of mine in India my best

101:46

teacher in life Nisarada wrote a book

101:48

called I am that recommended to

101:50

everybody and then his student who's now

101:53

died uh Romesh Basakar who I got to go

101:56

see and spend time with in India who was

101:57

an important teacher for me who

101:59

basically said

102:02

every day at 9:00 a.m. He had satsang in

102:04

his house basically. People could come

102:06

and ask questions. Uh uh and and it was

102:08

sort of he he happened to be Indian but

102:11

it was sort of Buddhist in nature. And

102:12

somebody said to him, "Well, are you

102:13

just saying we're all robots?" And he

102:16

said, "YES, EXACTLY CORRECT. We're all

102:17

robots." And then the person said,

102:19

"Well, why should I even get out of bed

102:20

in the morning?" And he said, "Try it.

102:23

Try and stay in bed." And he said,

102:25

"After a few days, you'll be up and

102:27

about. You'll be doing something. You'll

102:28

be motivated to do something." So um

102:31

that is my answer to your question which

102:34

obviously uh I only heard this second

102:37

and the answer only came this second.

102:40

Kevin, thank you. Thank you for opening

102:42

my eyes in so many ways. You've written

102:44

so many of these great books. All of

102:46

them I'm going to link below. The newest

102:47

one here is called Forbidden Facts:

102:49

Government Deceit and Suppression about

102:50

Brain Damage from Childhood Vaccines.

102:52

There's another book about children

102:53

here. Protecting the the gift, keeping

102:55

children and teenagers safe and parents

102:56

sane. The Gift of Fear, survival signals

102:59

that protect us from violence.

103:00

>> And I think those are the only three you

103:02

need to link. And my reason is these are

103:04

kind of specialty books

103:05

>> additions. Okay, fine. So, I'll link

103:06

these below for everyone to see. Um, I

103:08

highly recommend checking all of Gavin's

103:10

work work out. Um, and these are going

103:12

to be in the comment section below if if

103:14

anyone wants to read more about some of

103:16

the things we've touched on. You've

103:17

touched on all these books today, but if

103:18

you want to go deeper on any of these

103:20

subjects, this is your opportunity to do

103:21

so. And is there anywhere else people

103:22

can go to find you if they're interested

103:24

in your

103:24

>> I mean our website is gdba.com and

103:28

probably gavand debecker.com works. The

103:30

website is I don't even solicit new

103:32

clients. We don't have any marketing or

103:34

anything like that. The website is there

103:35

for one purpose which is attracting

103:38

candidates for employment because we are

103:40

hiring a lot of people all the time. So

103:42

that's what the website does but there

103:44

may be other information there that's

103:45

valuable for people. I don't know. Well,

103:47

if anyone's young and fit and strong and

103:48

wants to work with Gavin, then um I'll

103:51

link the website below as well to see

103:53

all of the jobs available. Gavin, thank

103:54

you so much. It's certainly I mean

103:55

there's so many things that blow my

103:56

mind, but one one of the most important

103:58

things for me is actually just this

103:59

lesson about intuition and that even and

104:02

that to listen to it more and to be more

104:06

upfront

104:08

with people when I my intuition isn't is

104:12

telling me something

104:14

>> because you're right. I think we're

104:15

we're all very good at um tuning the

104:17

volume of our intuition down and society

104:19

kind of teaches us to gaslight ourselves

104:21

and double guess. Gavin, thank you.

104:23

>> Uh thank you too and thanks for what

104:24

you're doing. You are one of my teachers

104:26

as well. Young man, I get to say at 71.

104:30

>> Thank you. YouTube have this new crazy

104:32

algorithm where they know exactly what

104:34

video you would like to watch next based

104:36

on AI and all of your viewing behavior.

104:38

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104:41

is the perfect video for you. It's

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Interactive Summary

The video features an interview with Gavin de Becker, a security expert, discussing various aspects of privacy, security, and human behavior. De Becker shares insights from his work protecting prominent individuals and his theories on government transparency, particularly concerning the Jeffrey Epstein case. He touches upon the vulnerability of digital communication, the psychology of power centers, and the role of intuition in navigating risks. The conversation also delves into historical patterns of government deception, the nature of consciousness, and the importance of individual intuition and contribution. De Becker emphasizes the need to trust one's intuition, the potential for hidden agendas in power structures, and the idea that personal growth often stems from challenging experiences.

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