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Thank you for joining us and

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congratulations on the pregnancy and the

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baby.

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>> I know. Thank you.

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>> How far can I ask how far down you are?

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>> Far enough to know the baby's healthy

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and I'm doing fine.

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>> Good. Do you know the sex of the baby or

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not?

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>> I do.

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>> You're not sharing it?

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>> Not yet.

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>> Okay, fair enough.

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>> This would be too wholesome. I need to

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share it in a really disgusting manner.

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>> Okay. Okay. Um can I ask whether

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pregnancy though has changed your

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attitude to the work that you do?

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>> No, I mean I've been it's been hard like

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I've not found pregnancy easy. like

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morning sickness is well and truly

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throughout the whole day and it's not

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just been in my first trimester.

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>> Um but in terms of me wanting to

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continue filming that hasn't stopped or

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it hasn't slowed me down.

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>> Surely it must change the kind of things

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you do that rules out certain stunts

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perhaps

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>> made me want to be more careful in

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certain elements but it has not stopped

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um what I'm doing or me wanting to

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invite the public. And people might hear

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you say that and think, "Oh, hang on."

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But you're pregnant. Does this stuff not

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stop for anything? You're pregnant.

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>> I mean, a lot of people I've been

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posting clips recently of me having

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intercourse whilst pregnant, and they're

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like, "Oh my god, you can't do that."

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And you can.

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>> Yeah. I think to most people, shocks,

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whether women want to say you can or

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can't have it, you can. Like, it it is

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okay. And it's healthy. And to me,

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having sex with one person for six hours

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or a large group of men for six hours is

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the same thing to me. It's just

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different shapes and sizes.

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>> It's clear from the documentary on

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Tunnel Four that lots of people watched

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and from interviews I've seen you do

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with other people as well

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>> that you are a very smart businesswoman.

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You know, you know what you want from

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what you're doing and you know why

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you're doing it and you tell everybody

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that you enjoy it as well. It's not a

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chore for you any more than anybody's

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job is a chore.

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>> For sure. Um, there may be days of

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course when it feels like a chore or you

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get tired or whatever, but but no more

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than that. Not not traumatizing to you

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is is how you put it.

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>> Um, you're also changing

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the porn industry, it seems to me,

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redesigning it in a way because you want

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it to be not just public facing but

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public involving.

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>> Yeah.

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>> Why did you want the public literally up

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close and personal in that way?

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>> Because when I used to watch content

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online, it's so unrealistic. It's made

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to look like it's genuine and authentic,

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but how many times you call your plumber

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and then the next minute you bent over

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your kitchen counter? Like, it just

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doesn't happen. And there's a lot

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>> you were asking me for real.

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>> Never. Just so you know, never. No.

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>> But there's always been like men in the

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adult industry that are filmed with

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people dressed as school girls or

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they're implying they're super sweet and

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innocent and the next minute they're

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having sex. And that's just not the

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reality of it. Nor do people have these

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perfect perky boobs and flat tummies.

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it's not necessarily relatable and my

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content is meant to be relatable to the

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audience. So there's no better way doing

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that than me just inviting the public.

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>> Whether it's whether as a mother to be

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or prior to being um an expectant

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mother,

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>> do you accept that and you know you draw

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a very firm line at the age of 18. I

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know people have criticized you heavily

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for the barely legal stuff and

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everything, but you draw a very firm

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legal line there. But do you accept that

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underage kids, say between 13 and and

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18, 15, 16 year olds are watching your

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content?

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>> Yeah, they probably are. But they're

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watching it anyway. Like it's not just

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me they're searching for. They're

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searching for other adult content

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creators. And that's where it comes down

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to the platforms to be have stricter

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rules. And I think they have recently

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brought in a lot more rules about

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underage people watching content. So

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that's not down to me. That's down to

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your parents. sats down to watching what

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your kids are getting up to. Like I

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cannot be responsible for what a

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13-year-old is is doing.

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>> Well, well, you mentioned uh stricter

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rules. Uh the government has just had a

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consultation and finished the

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consultation this week.

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>> Yeah.

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>> On whether to ban social media for under

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16s. Would you like the our country to

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go that far the same way Australia did?

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>> No.

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>> Why not?

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>> I just don't think so. Like social media

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can be damaging for sure, but so could

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drinking on the park with your friends.

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You know what I mean? Like at 16 they're

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already doing stuff. they're already up

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to mischief. The more you restrict them,

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the more they're going to go and do

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something else anyway. So, I just think

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it's more being more careful what

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they're up to or restricting certain

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things they can search for. Like maybe

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if they're under the age of 16, they

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can't be searching Bonnie Blue, but they

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can still go on social media. Like,

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>> but can they? I think they can at the

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moment, can't they?

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>> They can, but I mean like instead of

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just banning social media, which is

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ridiculous, these I mean often the news

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can be more fake than what social media

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is. So, you think it's a sledgehammer to

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crack a nut to do the overall ban from?

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>> Yeah, I think you should be. It's lazy.

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I think just banning it at 16.

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>> So, what I I noticed in the Channel 4

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documentary, which I rewatched ahead of

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speaking to you today,

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>> um I I noticed that you pivoted towards

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a younger and younger audience, if

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that's the word for it. Um and and I

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mean people also engage with you as

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well, have sex with you as well. Um, is

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this a do in your mind are you something

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of a sex educator? Is that how you see

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yourself?

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>> Yes and no. Obviously I can play to that

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but it's part of that is rage bait but

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part of it like when some of these men

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come and sleep with me and I don't just

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mean the 18 year olds. I mean the ones

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that are in their 40s like you can be a

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virgin at any age and you can

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>> have a lot of sex but still be so bad in

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the bedroom. Like I've had one night

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stands. I've dated people in the past

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and they think they're amazing but they

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are terrible and they need to be

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educated. So, like when I have sex with

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the public, often I'm saying, "Oh, this

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is what I like." Or I'm asking them what

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they enjoy. And they become a lot more

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confident and comfortable with me. But

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I'm not expecting them to throw me

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around the room and have me upside down

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and making my eyes water and it looks

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like my makeup's dripping. Like, it's

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very real. Like, sometimes guys last 10

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seconds. Sometimes I can't even make

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them finish or they can't get hard. So,

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but I explain to them that's fine.

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That's normal. A lot of people in porn

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inject, take tablets. It's so fake. it

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so stop start but they don't know that

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because they don't see that. So, when I

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work with the public, it's nice to be

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able to educate them on the reality of

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what happens in a professional shoot.

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>> But if I if let's say as a fact that

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younger kids are watching your content,

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>> um I not all of your I'm going to say

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something, but it doesn't apply to all

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of your content,

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>> but to the most extreme edges of your

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content that's available online.

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>> I'm only speaking for myself. if I when

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I was 14 15 and you're starting to well

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you you were well ahead of me there but

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because 13 was when you changed but you

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you you know you're thinking about your

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sexual self and how it's developing and

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all of that

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>> your content would have made me

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frightened of sex when I was a child.

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Yeah, I think it depends because to me

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it's very relatable and I don't mean

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because I'm surrounded with loads of

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men, but I explain some guys don't get

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hard. Sometimes you might not be

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naturally wet and that's okay. Whereas I

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think if you just to watch content

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online, you're made to think your body's

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meant to look a certain way. You're

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meant to act a certain way as well. And

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like that's not normal. Like some of my

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tapes I upload, they're 10 seconds, the

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guy's giggly and the guy's nervous. And

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even I'm like,

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>> "Yeah, but you're gorgeous and you

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always look gorgeous and loads of other

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content providers on only fans and

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you're on you're on fans now fansly

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now." Um, they do they do attempt anyway

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to look gorgeous and you know it. So it

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so there is a look, isn't there that

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that people want to to

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>> fall into a certain look, but the people

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I work with don't. And a lot of the time

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when you if you just watch someone a

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normal content creator's content, both

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of them probably fall into that. I work

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with people that condoms would need

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vacuum sucking onto them because their

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penis is small. And that's fine, but you

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don't see that in porn. You just see

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these massive penises and they look like

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they know what they're doing. And

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reality is that's not the case. So like,

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okay, maybe to some people my content

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might look intimidating, but it also

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shows to the majority of men, don't

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think you need to look like that. Don't

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think you need to last like that.

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>> I want to talk about this so-called gang

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bang culture that that you are part of

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without I mean, you are part of it. um

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you promulgate it in a way. Um but

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again, I don't want to go on about the

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fact that you're about to become a

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mother because that's not the only thing

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about you obviously, but if your child

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started to watch your type of content at

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the age of 13, 14.

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>> Yeah.

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>> What would you say to them?

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>> I'd explain to them like all sex is

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different. Like nothing just cuz one

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person looks a certain way or just

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because a certain person enjoys a

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certain thing doesn't mean you have to.

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It's completely normal if you don't

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actually want to ever go near a penis

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and you just want to go near vagina.

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That's fine. Like the biggest thing is

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just communication. And this is where I

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say I'm not responsible because it's

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down to the parents themselves to

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educate their children or the people

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around them of what's normal or what's

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okay or what's acceptable.

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>> But and and I know you you broadcast in

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a different way than I broadcast. So for

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years I worked at the BBC and now I'm an

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LBC and we're we're covered by something

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called Offcom, which I'm sure you've

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heard of. We're covered by Ofcom and

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there are certain things because I have

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a platform called a program and I can

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amplify things on that program. I have

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to be responsible about what I amplify

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and how I amplify it. Now I know the

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online world is different. It's the wild

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west in comparison with the kind of

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broadcasting I do. But

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>> do you ever feel like

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then that for you as an individual, you

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seem to answer a lot of questions, not

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particularly these ones today, but in

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other interviews I've seen you tend to

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answer a lot of questions by saying not

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my problem. I mean, if I did that every

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day on the radio, I'd be sacked because

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there's all kinds of times I want to say

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all kinds of things on the radio and I

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can't.

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>> Um, and and you can because it's online.

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I know there are some limits around the

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law obviously, but

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>> do you ever feel that you are turning a

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blind eye to responsibility?

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>> The reason I say not my problem is my

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focus in life is to a certain degree to

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be selfish. I want to be happy. I want

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freedom. I want flexibility. I want

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orgasms. I just want fun. So for the

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other issues, I say it's not my problem

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because it's not it's not my job to my

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job is to have fun and

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>> Yes, that's fine. But you're amplifying

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that quotes fun as you call it in

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including gang bangs and I know there's

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consent in there. Yeah. In in your

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cases, but you know, we've had this

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recent dreadful case in Hampshire. I

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don't know whether you're aware of it

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where two girls in separate cases.

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>> Was this where the boys

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>> the boys gang raped the girl?

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>> And I know that's a different thing.

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Yeah,

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>> to a degree it's a different thing. Um,

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but and again I can't say for sure

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whether they'd seen any of your content.

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So I'm not accusing you of anything

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here. I'm just saying it's it's about

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the responsibility of amplifying that

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material because boys are going to see

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that material and think h wonder whether

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I could do that. Girls are going to see

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that material and either fear it

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happening to them or think maybe I this

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is how I have to accept sex when I'm a

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teenager. Does that not worry you at all

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in terms of responsibility? In terms of

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what happened to them girls, it is

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disgusting and horrifying and them

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parents should be like beyond ashamed of

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them kids. And like I will make sure my

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kid would never be in the position of

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them boys doing something so disgusting

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like that. But in terms of them girls

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like they wouldn't have to feel scared

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because of my content. I say I want to

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do this. This is what I enjoy. I never

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say all women should do this. All women

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should come and do gang bangs. Like I

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don't. And even though I do it and I

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have it open to the public, you've never

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stumbled into a room full of blue ski

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mask and they're asking you to get on

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your knees. I put myself in them

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positions. So I'm referring to me and I

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only ever refer to me. I never say if

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you are 18, if you want a loyal husband,

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you should get on your knees and

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everyone, you know, you should have gang

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bangs. That is the words I've never come

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out of my mouth. So where I say it's not

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my problem, it's because too much

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responsibility is put onto me. All I'm

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responsible for is having sex with

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consensual adults that want to be

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involved. The rest of it, yes, I could

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use my platform for other things, but I

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also get blamed for so much stuff which

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has nothing to do with me that

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>> I'm not blaming you for anything. I'm

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just asking you whether you think, you

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know, when I was a teenager, I can

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barely remember them now, but I I you

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know, I would have had influences,

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people I wanted to look like or behavior

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I thought, okay, that looks good or

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places you wanted to go. You must have

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had those as well as a teenager. And the

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reason I allude to that is that your

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content is that now.

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>> Yeah.

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>> You know, so so boys and girls who are

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examining sex and looking at it and

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wondering about it and wanting to do it

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and deciding how they're going to go

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about it. for some of them gang bangs

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even though you're talking about just

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you and and and you're right to point

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out that everybody in that room has

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consented to it because you make that

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there's a sign they sign consent

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>> um that they'll look at that and and

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think it's part of sex and it's only

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part of sex in a good way where it's

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consensual isn't it but you can easily

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see a 15 16 year old boy thinking I've

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got access to that girl me and my mates

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we could do that you can see how it can

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become that and I'm not blaming you for

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that. I'm just wondering whether it ever

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plays on your mind.

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>> No, because I always talk about consent.

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The words, even if you've watched

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anything I've done, the word consent

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comes out my mouth multiple times and

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it's like this is what I enjoy. But you

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could have sex with one person and not

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enjoy it. And that's also okay. Like

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it's about being confident. And I I

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don't have a massive platform for women.

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Like you know, my main thing has been

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for men. But when I have spoke to women

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or when I have done videos purely aimed

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at women, I'll often say like you need

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to speak up. like you need to say what

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you enjoy. If you don't want it hard,

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ask for it softer. Like don't feel

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ashamed or embarrassed to ask for

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different positions.

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>> And and that case, you know, you talked

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about those those lads being disgusting.

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They are and their behavior was

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appalling, let alone criminal. Um do you

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think that sentence was too lenient? Do

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you think they should

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>> 100% they should have gone to prison?

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like it's I was actually talking about

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this like I don't keep up with the news

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too much but that popped up on my social

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media and it's like they're 100% going

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to offend again in the future. They have

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had

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you know no precaution. They've had no

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consequence whatsoever. So the fact they

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think it's okay and a judge is able to

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sit there and say yeah you're going to

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get away free of this is terrible.

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Would you work with

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groups, whether it's from the government

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to the police or to ed schools, would

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you work with them to talk about

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consent?

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>> I mean, some schools might not let you

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darken their door. I don't know. But,

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um, you know, you're a businesswoman.

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There's a commercial element to what

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you're doing. You know, you're not a

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charity worker helping people with their

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sex lives. You may incidentally help

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people with their sex lives in some

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cases, but

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>> would you work with government, for

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example, on on those?

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>> I would. I don't know if in the future

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might be something more suitable. But I

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think because I'm so actively filming

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and stuff at the moment I don't think

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it's the right I would be the right

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person. But I also don't think your form

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tutor at school that's how when we spoke

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about sex

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>> is the best person. Like my form tutor

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was lovely. She was probably 50 60 and

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basically made it so you have sex when

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you're married or if you have sex you

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have to wear a condom. There was no talk

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about you could have sex and it feels

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uncomfortable so actually you can go to

15:06

the doctor something might be wrong or

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you need to switch position. It's kind

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of it becomes an embarrassing topic

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>> or or you're you're you're right and or

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or you're lucky enough to have parents

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who just get straight in and talk

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plainly about it.

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>> It should be more spoken about but it is

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hard because it can be awkward and it

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needs to come from someone to me

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teachers teaching it. It's not that it

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doesn't come across that serious or I

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know I ignored my teachers at school

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half the time. So when they was trying

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to teach me or educate me on sex, it was

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dismissed. I know it was by most of the

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other pupils.

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>> And I I'm still not convinced. I mean,

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you you are, but I'm not I'm still not

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convinced that uh that case in Hampshire

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that we talked about and your response

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to it is the same as my response to it.

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You know, you you feel it the way I feel

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it.

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>> Um or you see it the way I see it. Um,

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I'm still not convinced that we can

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afford to be relaxed about boys, any

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boys, but particularly boys who would go

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on to do that

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>> being having easy access to content like

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yours.

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>> And and again, it's not about blaming

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you directly and personally, but

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>> it's it's there. You're contributing to

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a kind of soup that these kids are

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consuming. And it you say don't ban

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social media for under 16. So that's not

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going to be an option. Um they'll still

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be able to consume it. It's having an

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impact on girls which we can talk about

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more in a minute. But but the boys

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element first.

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>> Do you never have do you never give a

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second thought to what you're

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contributing to?

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>> I don't give it a second thought in

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terms of what I'm contributing to just

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because again I talk about consent all

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the time. I talk about some days you can

16:42

enjoy it. Like I've had sex with one

16:43

person before and said, "Actually, you

16:44

know, I need to stop. It's it's hurting

16:45

or it's uncomfortable." And that's

16:47

completely fine. And I I've often

16:49

replied to girls, I've got like a BTS

16:51

Tik Tok account which shows more behind

16:52

the scenes and they're like, "Oh, I had

16:54

sex and it it it hurt a little bit." And

16:56

I'll explain that's not normal. Like

16:58

it's it's not okay if it's hurting you.

17:00

But again, I can't be responsible for

17:02

>> So these are these underage girls

17:04

contacting you for advice or not?

17:05

>> No. like they like I have a BTS account

17:09

and some of the people will be under the

17:10

age of 18 but it's not all about sex but

17:14

again with

17:16

the content these boys would be seeing

17:18

these Netflix documentaries about

17:19

murders there is sex on TV and films and

17:22

stuff it's not just porn like it's it

17:24

happens in everyday life and I think

17:26

we're stupid and naive to think if we

17:28

was just to ban ban porn

17:30

>> or ban you

17:30

>> yeah it'd resolve the issue it's not

17:32

there is a lot of content out there and

17:34

I always forget what it's board, but

17:36

it's like consensual, not consensual.

17:38

So, off camera, they would have said,

17:40

"Okay, you're going to chase me and have

17:42

sex with me, and it looks like I'm not

17:44

consenting. I'm going to be struggling."

17:46

That's really popular in porn. I've

17:48

never filmed that, and I really disagree

17:50

with it.

17:51

>> So, you you you always make it clear in

17:54

your films that two two or however many

17:56

people here are consenting to it.

17:58

>> Yes. But there's content that is out

18:00

there on platforms and it's been highly

18:02

popular where people are the girls are

18:04

pretending like they want to get away or

18:05

they don't want it or they're not

18:06

enjoying it and those content creators

18:08

never get criticized. They've actually

18:10

before criticized me whilst having

18:12

content on their platform which really

18:15

blows the line of consent. I spoke to um

18:18

somebody from the charity Bernardos this

18:20

week, children's charity, uh who carried

18:22

out research and found that huge numbers

18:24

of girls between the ages of about 13

18:26

and 15, that was the age group they

18:28

looked at,

18:29

>> were receiving unwanted sexual

18:32

messaging,

18:34

uh suggestions about sex, pushing them,

18:38

uh uh you know, just stuff they had not

18:39

invited, imagery, you name it.

18:42

>> And I again, I know this happens across

18:44

the piece. It's not particularly about

18:46

your It's not just about your content at

18:47

all. But if you had a son sending these

18:51

messages, what would you say to him?

18:55

They're not consenting. You can't just

18:56

be sending sexual messages. Like if you

18:58

want to chat to that girl, speak to a

19:00

nicely, take her on a date. Like you

19:02

don't need to send a sexual message if

19:05

it's not been asked for. Like again,

19:08

goes down to consent. And you have to

19:09

read the room. If someone doesn't want

19:10

it, don't give it to them. M

19:13

>> and I asked you earlier about whether

19:15

you'd work with government um or schools

19:17

or whoever um you know involved with

19:19

with the education of young people. Um

19:23

there's a lot of judgment about you,

19:25

isn't there? There's a lot of people who

19:26

would reject you outright because of

19:27

what you do in your content. Um and it

19:30

may be that all schools or government

19:32

might be included. I mean

19:33

>> honestly I think people are scared I'm

19:34

going to sleep with everyone in the

19:35

toilets. Like I have done nightclub

19:37

appearances. I have done a whole list of

19:39

things and sometimes they're like, "Is

19:41

she going to keep her clothes on? Is she

19:43

like they are genuinely scared I'm going

19:44

to walk into a room and start having sex

19:46

with the the cameramen or the the people

19:48

in the room and it's it's not the case.

19:50

Like I very much understand where I'm

19:52

wanted and I'll invite people to come to

19:55

me." Do you know what I mean? You never

19:56

see me running into a room saying, "Can

19:58

you all have sex with me?" And it kind

20:00

of goes back to schools or government or

20:03

anyone. They're so scared to have me

20:05

because they think I'm going to

20:06

instantly just break the law and not

20:08

have any morals or care about consent.

20:10

>> Do you have morals?

20:11

>> Yeah. I mean, morals is obviously a word

20:14

which is like more opinion based.

20:16

Everyone's like, "Oh, she doesn't have

20:17

morals." But

20:17

>> how would you describe your morals?

20:20

>> It's hard cuz everyone says I don't have

20:22

morals. I don't have respect for myself.

20:23

I have more respect for myself and

20:25

stronger morals than I do now than when

20:26

I used to have to sit in rush hour, work

20:28

for somebody else, book annual leave,

20:30

and live the same boring life as

20:32

everybody else. Like now my morals are I

20:35

want to travel the world. I want to

20:36

experience so many things.

20:37

>> But they're they're ambitions. They're

20:39

not morals.

20:40

>> No. But in terms

20:40

>> morals are about well my understanding

20:43

of morals is is they're about

20:45

>> how you go through the world in relation

20:47

to other people in relation to their

20:50

well-being as well as your own. So how

20:52

how would you how would you describe

20:53

>> I mean I take great care of people. They

20:57

literally produce liquid gold at the end

20:58

of their penises at the end of it. Like

21:00

in terms of my morals, I'm doing nothing

21:02

wrong. And I believe as long as you're

21:05

happy,

21:05

>> even if it's someone else's husband.

21:07

>> Yeah. Again, communication. I've not

21:09

dragged him there. I've not dragged him

21:11

out of your house. You clearly have

21:12

either something wrong at home or

21:14

there's something either one of you are

21:16

missing. So, in terms of the husbands,

21:20

again, not my problem.

21:21

>> I I No, I I get that the husband has

21:23

made a choice here when he does that.

21:24

I'm not trying to pin it all on you, but

21:27

but if if that were me

21:28

>> Yeah. um whether it's in a porn setting,

21:32

it wouldn't be for me, but let's even if

21:33

it's in a porn setting or not,

21:34

>> if a married person

21:37

came to to me and suggested we have sex

21:40

or have a relationship,

21:42

>> even though I'm not the married one,

21:44

>> yeah,

21:44

>> I would still say no on the basis that

21:47

that person has a family and I don't

21:49

want to I don't want to be a single

21:51

brick in the wall that's going to harm

21:53

that family. Yeah,

21:55

>> that to me just an example of what a

21:57

moral choice would be. That just happens

21:59

to be what I would do. Um, but you you

22:02

see it as you you almost see yourself as

22:04

neutral in everything you do. You're But

22:07

none of us is neutral in everything we

22:08

do.

22:09

>> But I see it as if that husband came to

22:10

you and you said no, he's going to go to

22:12

someone else and he's come going to come

22:13

to me. Like if it meant I said no, it

22:16

meant he went back, continued loving his

22:18

wife, looking after his family, and had

22:20

a very loving relationship at home. It's

22:23

not what happens. If they're already

22:25

looking elsewhere, they're going to

22:26

continue looking elsewhere. And I see it

22:28

as when they come and have sex with me.

22:30

Some of the times I don't even get their

22:31

name. I don't even see what they look

22:33

like. They're in the back of me and I've

22:34

not even had a chance to turn around,

22:36

but we're doing like, you know, the

22:37

consent forms are done downstairs. They

22:39

come in and they've got the blue ski

22:40

mask on. We're not going on drinks.

22:42

We're not flirting at work. We're not

22:43

rubbing each other's legs. Like, it's

22:45

not emotional. And if I was ever with

22:48

someone was to cheat with me, one, I

22:49

wouldn't stand by it. too. If there was,

22:52

I'd prefer it to be meaningless sex

22:54

sometimes as opposed to a loving affair.

22:58

>> Why is that?

23:00

>> Because of the connection of the

23:01

buildup. Whereas when these some of

23:03

these people have sex with me, I meet

23:05

them once and that's it. Like it's

23:08

we're not texting. We're not going

23:10

backwards and forwards.

23:11

>> Can I ask you about the blue masks?

23:13

Because in case people haven't seen

23:14

that, there's a lot people who come to

23:16

see you when you're being filmed or

23:17

perhaps you you would tell me even when

23:19

you're not being filmed perhaps,

23:20

>> but they they can if they wish wear a

23:23

blue ski mask to hide their face.

23:25

>> Now again, when I was watching your

23:26

documentary, when I saw those images,

23:28

that to me looked like even more like a

23:31

terrifying gang rape. It just did. And

23:34

because it's designed to, isn't it?

23:36

>> It's not designed for that. It's purely

23:37

designed. A lot of these people have

23:39

wives. They've got jobs. They've got

23:40

certain things where they do not want to

23:42

be showing their face.

23:44

>> Can't you just blur their face?

23:45

>> Have you seen how many men I sleep with?

23:47

I don't think I have enough money to pay

23:49

a videographer to blur every single face

23:51

in my videos. It's so much effort. And

23:53

also, their face can often cross my

23:55

body. Then all of a sudden, like some of

23:57

my content, I'm at the bottom and I've

23:59

got 20, 30 men over me. The whole

24:01

thing's just going to be blurred. So

24:02

having a blue ski mask on is so much

24:05

easier. Not only for my content, it puts

24:08

them at ease and they know their face is

24:11

covered. I filmed content before and

24:12

there that said, "Actually, I did show

24:14

my face, but can you blur it?" And I

24:15

will, but they're so nervous until I've

24:18

proven I've blurred it.

24:20

>> How often do you do the gang bang thing?

24:23

Cuz I I watched the documentary and

24:25

thought and just thought these were

24:27

individual stunts, but you do them

24:28

fairly routinely, do you?

24:29

>> Probably every six to eight weeks. Um,

24:33

some aren't as crazy, some are like 20,

24:37

some are like five or six, others are

24:39

into the hundreds.

24:41

>> And since your documentary and since the

24:42

whole push for barely legal 18, you

24:46

know, you're looking for virgins who are

24:48

just about who are 18.

24:50

>> Um,

24:52

has has the interest from much younger

24:54

people increased on your traffic?

24:57

it like when I mainly do these events

24:59

open to the public. It's more people

25:01

probably aged late 20s to early 50s,

25:05

it's not loads of 18s queuing up. When I

25:08

do things like freshers, slightly

25:09

different, but the reason the

25:12

18-year-old content for me is so good is

25:14

because a lot of my subscribers are

25:17

nervous. They wouldn't last long. They

25:18

don't know what they're doing and they

25:19

would kind of act the same in the

25:21

bedroom as what an 18year-old's. So,

25:23

it's not necessarily the age, it's their

25:25

lack of experience which becomes so

25:27

relatable.

25:29

>> And you have more you you're continuing

25:32

throughout your pregnancy or so far in

25:34

your pregnancy to to do

25:35

>> your work. And do did I hear right that

25:38

you have a stunt planned for June?

25:41

>> Yes, I have a baby shower on Saturday,

25:44

next Saturday. And I'm inviting the

25:47

public to turn my baby shower into a

25:49

golden shower.

25:50

>> You see, now I'm uncomfortable.

25:52

I haven't been uncomfortable at all in

25:54

our conversation and you're delightful

25:56

to meet. Um, now I'm uncomfortable. This

25:59

is your baby. This is your child.

26:02

>> Yeah. Again, my body, this is what I'm

26:05

choosing.

26:05

>> Another body as well.

26:07

>> Yeah. But when I you have when you have

26:09

sex with them, again, it goes back to

26:11

whether you're having sex with one

26:12

person, which most people do throughout

26:15

their pregnancy, or a group of different

26:17

people of different sized penises, it's

26:19

the same thing. Like if you couldn't

26:21

have sex during pregnancy, I would not

26:23

have sex. But you can have sex, so I

26:26

will have sex.

26:27

>> I I'm not worried about you having sex

26:29

in pregnancy. I just think turning a

26:32

baby shower or do you regard it as a

26:34

fake baby shower?

26:36

>> Yeah, it's like a fake baby shower. I

26:37

won't be inviting my family.

26:38

>> No, but you your baby's with you.

26:40

>> Of course, but the baby's with me for

26:42

the whole 9 10 months. So

26:44

>> just make it a flex event. because I'm

26:47

pregnant. Pregnancy is a big fetish for

26:49

a lot of people and yeah, who knows? I

26:52

might only be pregnant once, so I'm

26:54

going to make the most of it.

26:55

>> Do you worry, and I didn't expect to go

26:57

here in this interview, but do you worry

27:00

>> that your baby might be taken off you?

27:04

>> No. There's one thing which is social

27:06

media and there's one thing which is

27:08

reality. And I think well I've seen the

27:10

state of some families especially in the

27:12

UK and they've got kids and continue to

27:14

have kids and get funded by the

27:15

government to keep pushing more out. So

27:17

I don't worry at all that I'll have my

27:19

child taken off me

27:21

>> even though you're openly there. I know

27:23

you're saying you're not using your

27:24

child, but I don't I I would argue that

27:26

you are using your child because be

27:28

again it's that neutrality thing that

27:30

you you use in conversations. I don't

27:31

know whether it's planned or whether

27:33

it's just how you interpret things, but

27:36

>> it isn't neutral to have a baby in the

27:40

kind of setting you're just describing.

27:42

>> It's not neutral to invite lots of men

27:45

in to to be filmed to make money

27:48

>> while your baby is growing inside you.

27:50

It seems to me that that's not neutral.

27:52

>> For sure. I think like most things I do,

27:55

you'd probably be disgusted in or you'd

27:57

be like,

27:57

>> it's not discussed, honestly. It's not.

27:59

It's concern, not discuss.

28:00

>> Yeah. But again, if people was actually

28:02

there, it's it's not as intimidating.

28:05

These men are actually really sweet.

28:06

They're nice people. But you only see

28:09

the idea that I've had sex with all

28:10

these men and it's it's not a nice

28:12

environment. And that's not the reality.

28:13

And it's not it's there's more to show

28:17

behind the scenes, but

28:19

>> you you talk there about a fet some

28:21

people have a fetish for pregnant women.

28:24

>> Yeah.

28:25

>> Some people have fetishes for babies as

28:27

well, don't they? or pretend to be a

28:28

baby and want to film themselves with

28:31

babies as a baby,

28:33

>> you will keep your child entirely

28:35

separate from that. Yes. When he or she

28:37

is born.

28:37

>> Yeah. Like to me, yeah. These people

28:39

that dress up as adults, like I've been

28:41

in porn shoots and they've had actual

28:44

baby rooms and they have adult diapers

28:45

and people make sex tapes in there and

28:48

they pretend to be a baby. To me, even

28:50

though that's above board, I don't like

28:52

it. I don't agree with it. But I

28:54

understand to other people that they do

28:55

that. And there's a certain content

28:57

creator that you could probably go and

28:58

watch for that, but that's not going to

29:00

be me.

29:01

>> But until your baby's born, he or she

29:03

has to come along for the ride.

29:05

>> Yeah, it's again, if the sex was

29:08

harmful, I wouldn't do it, but it's not

29:10

harmful. And it would just be down to a

29:12

people's opinion whether they agree and

29:13

a lot of people won't agree with it and

29:14

it's going to have a shock factor to it

29:16

and people are going to be,

29:19

you know, angered and that's part of it.

29:21

>> And don't answer this question if you

29:23

don't want to. It's entirely up to you.

29:24

Um, It's not the kind of question I

29:26

would normally ask any woman, but

29:28

because of the kind of conversation

29:29

we're having, I feel I can, but you can

29:31

tell me off the phone.

29:32

>> Um, do you know the father of your baby?

29:35

>> It's one of many. I'll leave it as that.

29:39

>> Now you're doing Now you're doing

29:40

businesswoman stuff, don't you?

29:42

>> It's part of my life with the baby or

29:45

with my personal life. And it's always

29:46

been the case. I only share so much. Um,

29:50

and it will always stay like that.

29:53

>> Okay. Thank you very much for your time.

29:55

Thank you.

Interactive Summary

The video features an interview with an adult content creator who is currently pregnant. The discussion covers a wide range of topics, including her professional work in the adult industry, her perspective on consent and relatability in her content, the challenges of navigating public perception, and her plans to continue working throughout her pregnancy. The interviewee addresses concerns regarding the influence of her content on younger audiences and maintains a firm stance on her personal choices and professional autonomy.

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