So, in this video, I'm going to tell you

about a quick tactic that you can start

doing today that's going to allow you to

stop overthinking conversation and

actually talk non-stop. You're going to

be able to go into any social situation.

You're going to say what's on your mind.

You're going to say what's on your mind.

Sorry. Without having any regret

whatsoever, no overthinking, no filter.

Now, I have a saying this because one of

the biggest problems that I faced before

fixing my social skills, right, was this

fear. I had this huge fear of social

situations, especially group social

situations, right? Of talking to people

because here's the thing, I would

overthink a bunch of things that I

wanted to say or that I thought was

really good to say, but I wouldn't say

them. There'd be so many times in school

where I would get assigned to a random

partner, you know, maybe a group, you

know, a random group. We would work on

some things. There'd be times where I

want to talk to the group. I would want

to give ideas, maybe explain them how I

want to do the job or whatever, but I

would overthink these things like, oh,

what if they think I'm too needy? What

if they think if I'm trying too hard, do

they actually like me in the group? And

this caused me to overthink a bunch of

things. And therefore, I stayed silent.

Even in sports, when I played sports in

high school, not only was I shy talking

to people on the team, but you know,

there'd be times where, you know, either

in the sport or maybe after the games,

we would go out and get something to

eat. There'd be times where I would want

to say a bunch of things, contribute to

conversations, but I would just

overthink,

stay quiet, and not say anything. And,

you know, every single time I had a

conversation with someone, I would hype

myself up. You know, I would tell myself

that I would talk a lot. I would say a

bunch of things, but in the end when it

came time to actually like contribute to

a thought or, you know, say something,

I'd overthink it. I wouldn't say

anything. And I've wanted to say more

and contribute more to conversations for

a very long time. And it wasn't until I

started doing this one trick that

completely changed everything. I started

doing this one trick that I'm going to

show you and I noticed that I was

starting to talk to people, contributing

ideas, talking to people without a

filter. I noticed that I was able to say

more in conversation. It just felt

naturally I felt almost as like natural

being able to say things, give ideas to

conversation. And this trick that has

basically saved my life is speaking a

crap ton with your own voice, with your

own words before the actual event where

you want to talk more. Now, I'm going to

explain to you step by step on how to do

this because this has honestly changed

my life. Okay. So, this idea I got from

a communication coach. His name is Vin

Gang. Okay. Yeah. His name is Vin Gang.

And he's a communic he's a communication

coach. So he basically helps speakers um

speak more powerful you know he gives he

basically improves speakers and the way

they speak. Okay. So I got this tip from

him and one day you know I was going

through his YouTube whatever and this

trick I saw and he was basically saying

okay basically what you want to do is

you want to take a book read it out loud

and basically try to enunciate the

words. Now when I first thought of this

right I'm like I'm not doing this. I I

hate reading. And you might be thinking

the same thing, too, right? Because I

honestly hate reading. I've always hated

reading. So, I was like, you know what?

I'm not going to do this whatsoever. But

then I was like, you know what? I'm just

going to try it. Okay. You know what?

I'll just read a little bit, maybe like

two sentences because for me personally,

like when I would read, because I don't

like reading, I would only read like two

sentences. I would get bored already,

right? But, you know, I gave this a

chance, right? And interesting enough, I

did this before a huge group event that

I had at my school. This was my passive

income club, right? So I did this before

my passive income club. And so I took

this book, I started reading it. I

started annunciating, going a little bit

slow, but I tried reading it, you know,

trying not to be bored, try to push

through it. And I read that book for

around 10 to 15 minutes, okay, out loud

with my own voice. And I didn't think of

it much, right? As you know, I just try

this and I don't even realize that in 15

minutes I'm leaving to go to my passive

income club, which there's like 40 50

guys that I'm going to have to speak to,

right? And you know, so I read this

book, I go to this event, and then when

I get to this event, for some reason,

it's easier to talk to people. You know,

I started saying I started seeing people

that I didn't hadn't seen in a long

time. I started saying what's up to

them. I noticed that it was easier to

speak. It was almost as I had like

trained my voice. There was new kids.

There were new guys in the club. I

noticed that it was easier to speak to

them. And it almost just felt as like my

voice and my words already literally

just flowed. Like it I was already used

to talking. I didn't have to like hype

myself up before, right? And that's when

I realized, you know, oh, I I'll also

say this. At the end of that passive

income club, I noticed that I had

literally spoken to every single person

just naturally like super hyped up being

able to like have a conversation with

them, right? And so after this event, I

feel really good and I'm just like, you

know what, I realized that this trick

actually works. And I'm going explain to

you how it works. So basically as I just

said you can take a book you can just

read it for like 10 to 15 minutes read

it out loud use your voice if you want

to take it a step further a step further

annunciate all the words so if I was

reading like this try to enunciate it

further and the reason why this works is

because you're basically practicing

talking it's almost as like warming up

okay so like for the gym I mentioned

fitness a lot with the gym you don't

just want to go going to the heavy

exercises, your muscles are not used to

it. So, you have to warm up. Same thing

with social situations, right? You're

not used of speaking. Many introverts

like me, you know, we have to hype

ourselves up. Our voice, our mouth

muscles, right? We're not speaking a

lot. So, when we just instantly go to

that social interaction, right, it's

almost as like weird. Especially if

you're going to socialize first thing

during the day. It's like you had like 8

to nine hours of not speaking. You're

already shy and introverted. So you're

not speaking much. So if you were to

speak a lot, it's a little weird for

your voice and mouth. It's like your

body isn't used to it. But if you take

10 to 15 minutes, which is this trick

basically to just read out loud

annunciating the words,

you are basically warming up your voice,

which is allowing you to speak more. or

once you go to act this actual social

event and this thing I use every single

time like literally if I have the time

to do it do something before a social

event I do this because I noticed that

first of all it's easier and n more

naturally just easier to speak I'm able

to have a bigger voice a stronger voice

and it's just like I literally just

spoke 10 to 15 minutes non-stop yapping

I'm pretty sure I can go to social

situations and just yap and literally

just say what's on my mind without a

filter

And that's another thing with reading

too. When you read out loud, you're not

overthinking because what you're

literally saying out loud, you're

literally reading it from the book. So,

what is there exactly to overthink? If

you're reading this book out loud,

you're not overthinking about it. You're

not thinking about what to say because

the words are literally on the page. So,

you're saying them out loud. And

literally, this is what this

communication coach says, right? It's

literally training your brain to

literally just say what's on your mind

instantly. Now, I'm not saying don't

have a filter. I'm not saying just say

what's on your mind and insult people or

like, you know, be weird about it. But

this is training your brain to just

instantly think of an idea, say it out

loud. And another thing with this tactic

as well, you are basically over time

practicing saying more and more

non-stop. You know, I have met several

people in my life where they're just

yappers, right? but in a good way. Not

not being annoying, but they're just

able to talk for so long. They're able

to have conversations so long. And I was

just like I've always thought, how are

they able to talk so long? That's

something I would never do. But

literally once I started doing this

tactic, right, which is literally just

reading 10 to 15 minutes out loud with

your own voice, I noticed that I was

practicing talking more and more each

day and more every and day by day when I

do this, I realize I'm literally

training myself to speak more and more

to the point where it's kind of weird if

I'm silent. And I'm practicing this

right now with my videos as well. So 10

to 15 minutes before any social event,

let's say you have a party, group

project at school, you know, maybe

you're part of a club. If you want to

practice just speaking and almost

warming up to just say what's on your

mind and stop overthinking a bunch of

crap, read 10 to 15 minutes out loud.

It's going to help you. It's warming up

your voice. It's warming up. It's warm

warming up your mouth muscles. You're

going to have a lot of conversations.

So, that's just a quick tactic that you

can start doing that's going to help you

in your conversations. Like, share,

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