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this book CURED my procrastination / doom scrolling addiction - Dopamine Detox

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On Saturday morning, Nathan wakes up

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with a full to-do list ahead of him. If

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he learns how to write code better, he

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can get a big promotion at his day job

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along with a 30% pay raise. So, he wants

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to spend at least a few hours going

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through some coding tutorials. He's also

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planning on starting the first steps of

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his side business idea that he's been

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daydreaming about for a while. And last

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month, he made a New Year's resolution

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to finally get into good shape. So, he's

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planning on starting to hit the gym

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today, too. Nathan's got big ideas and

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big plans and he's going to get out of

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bed and get started on them right after

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he scrolls through Instagram for a bit

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and then checks his emails and then

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checks how the stock market's doing and

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then watches the news or an episode of

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anime over breakfast. By the time it's

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already noon, he tells himself, "All

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right, let me just grab another coffee

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to get some energy and then I'll be good

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to start on my goals for the day." But

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just like the AI robots in Westworld,

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Nathan's been replaying out this same

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unproductive routine almost daily for

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years, just constantly putting off the

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important things he needs to do until

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later until tomorrow. Does Nathan's

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story resonate at all with you? In your

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mind, you're rationalizing to yourself

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that if you just get these little baby

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dopamine hits running through you, it'll

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become easier to focus on your main task

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in just 5 more minutes. But what's

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actually happening is that as more and

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more of your day gets wasted, that key

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important task on your to-do list

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becomes less and less appealing, it has

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a smaller and smaller chance of getting

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done. If you constantly feel a nagging

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pull towards some type of distraction,

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like checking your social media, going

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out for a walk, or reorganizing your

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files, anything that will let you put

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off getting down at business for just a

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few more minutes, then this video is for

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you. In his book, Dopamine Detox, Tibo

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Mirez argues that it doesn't need to be

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this difficult. He discusses the steps

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you can take to undergo a dopamine detox

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so that you can get rid of the over

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stimulation in your environment, feel

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focused and peaceful at work, and easily

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avoid wasting time on unproductive

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activities and distractions. I'll be

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taking you through a visual journey that

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summarizes the key tips and takeaways

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from this book. We'll cover the science

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of dopamine and how it works. We'll talk

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about the specific reasons for why

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you're having so much difficulty

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focusing. And then we'll dive into the

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specific things you can do to stop

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procrastinating and achieve easy and

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effortless productivity. Now, without

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further ado, let's dive in. The science

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of dopamine, friend or foe? If you're

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watching this video, surely you've heard

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of dopamine before, but let's do a quick

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recap and cover some misconceptions.

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Dopamine is a neurotransmitter, and

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dopamine is a good thing. Without it,

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humanity probably wouldn't exist today

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because dopamine can act as a mental

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guide for our minds for where we

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anticipate rewards. Thousands of years

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ago, it played a critical role by

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spiking when we thought about doing

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things that were critical for our

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survival and reproduction, like finding

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food and mating. But the problem today

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is that with all this new technology

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that we have at our fingertips, the very

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intelligent engineers behind all those

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apps and user experience design have

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figured out a way to hijack our dopamine

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processes in a way where dopamine now

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acts against us instead of for us. All

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these little beeps and boops and

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notifications and social stats put you

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in a state of overstimulation. And when

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you experience over stimulation, it

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becomes extremely difficult to

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concentrate on that one important thing

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that you actually wanted to do today.

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Contrary to what many people believe,

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dopamine is not a pleasure chemical.

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Simply because an event triggers the

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release of dopamine doesn't mean that it

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is something that we like or get

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pleasure from. In fact, when you pay

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close attention, you'll notice that as

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soon as you obtain the expected reward,

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you'll often feel empty and unfulfilled.

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the problem with your routine. Why your

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daily routine is sucking you dry.

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Remember these two facts. One, dopamine

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is triggered when you anticipate a

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reward or just before you actually

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receive the reward, not when you

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actually get the reward. Two, when you

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habitually place yourself in a state

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where dopamine shots keep getting fired,

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you will become uncomfortable being in a

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state where your stimulation drops back

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to normal unstimulated levels. Keeping

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these two facts in mind, let's analyze

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the morning habits of your typical Joe

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Six-Pack. You check your email expecting

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that there might be some important

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message from someone. Regardless of

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whether there actually is or not, just

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by checking the email and anticipating

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it, boom, it's a dopamine spike. You

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check your stock portfolio, which can be

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wildly unpredictable on a day-to-day

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basis. Boom, it's another dopamine

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spike. You check your social media stats

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or chat conversations, anticipating that

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maybe there's a change there. Does it

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matter if anyone actually messaged you

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or liked your photo? Nope. You

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anticipated it and you checked it. So,

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boom, it's another dopamine spike. And

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so, even though your brain tries to

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rationalize that, all right, once I do

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these few quick things, then I'll get to

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work and focus, you're actually shooting

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yourself in the foot, because by the

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time you sit down to focus on your work,

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your baseline dopamine level has been

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thrown completely out of whack. And if

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you don't get your next dopamine hit

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from somewhere, you'll start to get all

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fidgety and start rationalizing random

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excuses to go do something else. If your

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brain is really sneaky, it'll get you to

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step away from your main task by

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convincing you that the other task

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you're doing is also still productive,

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like organizing your closet or cleaning

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up your office drawers. When in reality,

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these tasks are just as useless at

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bringing you closer to achieving your

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goals as playing video games. The more

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our environment or actions trigger the

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release of dopamine, the more we'll want

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our next shot of dopamine. In fact, this

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self-reinforcing mechanism is also how

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many addictions work. Your mind is a

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trickster. Your mind is a sneaky little

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sucker and it's always trying to pull a

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fast one over you to get its hit of

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cheap dopamine. Do a thought experiment

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and see if you've ever been fooled by

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your mind. One, while procrastinating,

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do you ever have a thought run through

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your head of getting back to work will

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be easy once I feel refreshed from this

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break? If so, your brain is lying to

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you. It won't be easier to get back to

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work. It'll be harder because you'll

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increase your baseline state of

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stimulation. Two, are you conflating

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excitement with fulfillment? If you're

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running an online business and you're

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spending time refreshing your sales

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figures or your subscriber count all

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day, that's excitement. But it comes at

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the cost of not spending that time

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actually doing the things that will

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actually grow your business, which would

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lead to real fulfillment. Try running an

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audit every couple hours for a little

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while and ask yourself if what you spent

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the last couple hours on will actually

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lead to your fulfillment. Three, do you

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suffer FOMO? you're checking your email

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or your messages or the news so

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frequently because subconsciously you

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feel that if you don't, you might miss

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out on something that's important. You

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should get out of this scarcity mindset.

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Understand that opportunities will

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always be there and that you'll be

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better off just focusing on your

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long-term vision than jumping around to

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make sure that you're always caught up

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on everything. All right, now let's talk

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about how to detox to improve your

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focus. The three types of detoxes. The

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book outlines three different types of

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detoxes you can try depending on your

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personal situation and your bravery

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levels. The first is a 48-hour complete

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detox which dictates that for 48 hours

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you completely cut out any and all

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sources of stimulation including drug or

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alcohol consumption, internet, movies,

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your phone, social media, sugar,

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processed food, and video games.

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Obviously, this would free up a lot of

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extra time, so you can fill that time

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with things like going for walks,

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journaling, reading books, meditating,

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doing stretching exercises. If this

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sounds too ambitious for you, you can do

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a 24-hour detox, which is the same thing

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but for one day instead of 2 days. If

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even that sounds too difficult, then you

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can try doing just a partial dopamine

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detox, where you pick one thing that is

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your biggest source of stimulation, like

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Tik Tok or Instagram or anime, and then

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removing it from your life for a period

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of time. friction and lube. Our brains

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are lazy and hate wasting energy. So,

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make it more difficult to do the bad

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habits that you're trying to remove from

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your life. For example, if you notice

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that your biggest source of over

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stimulation is Tik Tok or Instagram,

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then install apps on your phone that

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limit when or how often you can use

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those apps. Then, when you get to work,

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turn off the Wi-Fi on your phone and put

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your phone in a drawer on the other side

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of the room. That way, when your brain

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gets a craving to just check your phone

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real quick, it will be more inconvenient

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to do so, and you'll have a higher

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likelihood in successfully fighting back

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against that urge. This is called

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friction. Similarly, you want to apply

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lots of lube to whatever you do want to

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spend your focus on. Do you want to get

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started on writing your book or paper

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first thing in the morning? Then, the

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night before, make sure your room or

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office is clean and organized with

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anything distracting put away in a

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drawer somewhere. and have Microsoft

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Word open and ready on your computer

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screen so that it's the first thing you

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see when you turn on your computer.

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Master your morning. How you spend the

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first part of your day will set the

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momentum for the rest of the day. It is

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far easier to continue an existing

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action than to start a new one. So, make

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sure you get started on your highest

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priority task first thing in the

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morning. Whereas, if you spend the first

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10 minutes after you wake up scrolling

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your social media feeds, you've set up

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the rest of your day for stimulation,

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cravings, and failure. Additional tips.

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The author goes into some additional

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tactics you can use to make it easier to

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stay focused and fight back against your

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dopamine spike addictions. One of those

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tips is building a consistent routine

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where you're doing the same tasks in the

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same places and having a consistent

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trigger that sets the ritual in motion.

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If you watch professional tennis, you'll

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notice that each player has a very

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specific ritual they do before they

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serve the ball. They get into the exact

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same position and they bounce the ball

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exactly the same number of times every

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time before serving. This is because

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when you have a consistent ritual, your

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subconscious makes it extremely

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automatic to do the next steps in the

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ritual without any resistance or effort.

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I go into a lot more detail on the

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science behind building your environment

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and these triggers for a Q craving

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response reward loop in my summary of

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James Clear's book, Atomic Habits. So,

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if this is a topic you want to explore

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further, be sure to check out that

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video. Another tip the book discusses is

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that when you make a decision that

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you're going to get deep, focused work

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done for the next hour. Take a minute to

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set the stage to completely minimize any

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chance of interruptions. You want to

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work with your environment, not against

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it. Remove anything from your room that

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could be a distraction, like a phone or

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a TV. Go somewhere where nobody will be

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knocking on your door with a random

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question or comment. Don't treat your

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time to be in a deep, focused,

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uninterrupted state as being any less

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important than someone else's ability to

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reach you immediately. Your focus is

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worth a lot of money, which is why

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different social media companies do

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everything they can to keep you glued to

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your screen. However, your focus is also

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worth a lot of money to you. When you

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reclaim your focus and use it to achieve

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your biggest goals, you can transform

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your life radically. All right, that

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wraps up this summary of Tibo Mirus'

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Dopamine Detox. I hope the summary was

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helpful, and if you enjoyed the content,

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I recommend picking up a copy of the

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full book. It's a pretty quick read, and

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it covers more details and advanced

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topics that I didn't cover in this

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video, like tips on how to avoid a

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dopamine relapse and additional tactics

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you can use to reduce your chances of

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getting distracted. The author also has

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a number of other books that cover

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complimentary topics like taking

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immediate action, mastering your

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emotions, and building a strategic

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mindset. So, if you're interested in

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exploring those further, I'll link them

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below in the description. And if you

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want to be able to easily refer back to

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the lessons from this book, I put

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together a really nice one-page visual

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all the key lessons from this video.

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Thanks again so much for watching. Good

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luck in your adventure and I'll see you

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in the next one.

Interactive Summary

This video summarizes Tibo Mirez's book 'Dopamine Detox', which explores how modern technology hijacks our brain's dopamine reward system, causing distraction and procrastination. It explains that dopamine is a motivator for anticipation rather than pleasure, and when we constantly trigger it with quick hits like social media, our baseline dopamine level becomes disrupted, making focused work difficult. The video provides actionable strategies to reclaim focus, such as performing a dopamine detox, creating environmental friction for bad habits, applying 'lube' to make deep work easier, and establishing consistent morning rituals.

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