Passive Income Expert: Buying A House Makes You Poorer Than Renting! Crypto Isn't A Smart Investment
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If your goal is to become financially
independent at a young age, this is a
very controversial thing to say, you
probably don't want to go buy a house
because people typically buy a house
they can't possibly afford. The bank
wants you to do that cuz that's how they
make the most money. So, you're putting
your capital into that house and now
it's not going to be earning thing. It's
going to be sitting idally. And people
say, "Well, you know, I can buy this
house cuz my mortgage is the same as my
rent." Well, yeah, but your mortgage is
just the starting point. So, what comes
to mind if I want to be financially
wealthy?
>> Okay, so we've got a lot to go through.
>> J Collins is a renowned financial expert
known for his book, The Simple Path to
Wealth.
>> He's teaching millions a straightforward
and realistic avenue for achieving
wealth
>> so that anyone can have financial
security.
>> What is the simple path to wealth?
>> So, first of all, avoid debt because you
can never be financially independent if
you're carrying around debt. Next, live
on less than you [music] earn. But the
problem is the way our culture has
taught us to think about money is solely
in terms of what can you buy with it.
But the more musthaves you have in your
life, the less likely you are to become
wealthy. And then the final one, invest
the surplus. So stocks are the single
most effective, strongest wealth
building tool that's ever been created.
But the biggest push back I get is from
people who say, "Well, that's great. I
mean, if you got a big income, 100, 200,
$300,000 a year, then yeah, the simple
path to wealth will work for you."
That's not the truth. For instance, a
friend of mine and he was making a
million dollars a year and he was broke
because people have large incomes are
much more likely to be drawn into the
competing with the Joneses, whereas the
people who make less money probably
don't have those same social pressures
and are more readily able to do it. So,
>> let's talk about investing then. Where
do you think we should be investing our
money at this moment of time? Should I
buy Bitcoin? Do I need a financial
adviser? So, my advice, and this is a
little different than the more common
advice out there, would be
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[music and singing]
JL Collins,
you wrote a book, a very iconic book
that sold millions of copies called The
Simple Path to Wealth. Why did you write
this book?
>> I actually that book was an outgrowth of
my blog.
I started the blog to archive
information I wanted my daughter to have
available because if you get money
right, your life is so much better. You
have so many more options. And the world
offers so much to people who have the
resources with which to access it and so
little for those people who don't have
the resources to access those things.
And and if you don't have it, it life is
just so much harder than it than it
needs to be.
>> When you think about the average person
listening right now, what is what are
some of the fundamental sort of
misconceptions or misunderstandings or
what would you call it? Black spots that
they have as it relates to money, the
things they walk around assuming about
money that are incorrect
>> that that you were maybe trying to get
out of your daughter's mind.
>> Right? So there's a chapter in the book
called how to think about money. And the
fundamental way I think the vast
majority of people think about money
because this is what our culture has
taught us. The way our culture has
taught us to think about money is solely
in terms of what can you buy with it.
[snorts] So if you go to the average
person that lottery for instance is like
a billion dollars at the moment. So
people are buying lottery tickets. And
if you interviewed people standing in
line to buy lottery tickets and said,
"Okay, if you win this million dollar,
what are you going to do with it?" Well,
what you're typically going to hear is,
"Well, I'm going to pay off my debts and
I'm going to pay off my mortgage and I'm
going to buy my parents a house and I'm
going to buy myself a Lamborghini. I'm
going to buy I'm going to buy I'm going
to buy." That's the way most people
think about money. And that's certainly
one of the things that money is very
good at. It is a means of exchange.
But the other thing your money can do
for you is work for you. Your money can
make you more money. So you can exchange
your time and effort and labor to earn
money. And that's what most of us do.
But you can also divert some of the
money you earn into investments into
what I call buying your freedom. And now
your money is working for you. So
instead of just thinking about what your
money can buy, you can start thinking
about what can your money earn.
>> You can buy your freedom.
>> You can buy your freedom, your financial
freedom.
>> Why is that an important refraraming of
the role of money in your view? What
does that do if I start thinking about
it through that lens? Well, because as
long as you are dependent on exchanging
your effort, time, and labor for money,
you are beholden to whoever is willing
to pay you to do that. That's a limit of
freedom. It's a it's a form of, without
being too dramatic, a form of slavery.
If you are always living paycheck to
paycheck to pay the mortgage or the rent
or whatever, if on the other hand, work
is optional, you're a good example. and
you've been a very successful guy.
[snorts]
You're not doing this podcast because
you need the money. If you were still
stuck at a job that paid you a wage, you
wouldn't have the option to do this
because you'd have to devote all your
time to that job so you could pay the
mortgage, so you could pay the rent, so
you could put food on the table. Money
buys freedom.
>> How does one get out of that situation?
you know, if I I used to work in call
centers um answering phones and selling
people things.
>> How does one in your view realistically
get from that place where you are kind
of beholden to the paycheck? And I was
I'd spend my wage within the first week
or so of the month and then I'd just
suffer for the next 3 weeks. In the UK,
we have like a four week paying cycle. I
think in the US it's 2 weeks typically,
but I took a I think a reckless road out
of that life. The thing that gave me the
proclivity to take the risk is like some
kind of insecurity and trauma where like
I couldn't I didn't have a plan B
because I wanted to be I wanted to like
validate myself or something. And so I
wonder if the the skill or the thing
that I was given that I'm most thankful
for is like some kind of chip on my
shoulder,
>> some kind of drama.
>> Yeah. But but on genuinely because I
think like what would make you take a
risk like some of the risks that I took
to leave university to then like be be
broke and I was like, well, I just I was
driven I was dragged by some kind of
trauma.
>> Right? One of the things that I've
observed, and I think to the extent that
I've had some success in my life, this
is true, that successful people do tend
to have trauma in their background. At
least that's my observation. Now, I'm
sure there are exceptions to that, but
it does seem that people like us are
striving to overcome
those past traumas, to have that chip on
the shoulder, to prove something.
I've also met people who are very
content to be completely lacking in
ambition
and to have enough to have a comfortable
life and kind of do what they want to do
to have financial independence maybe but
they don't have this drive to be
successful to to make a mark on on the
world and they tend to have had better
childhoods and and uh and I think that
there is that wasn't me. That doesn't
appear to be you. But I think there's a
lot to be said for for that, right?
>> You I mean you open the book about
talking about a parable of the monk
>> and the minister
>> and the minister.
>> Yeah.
>> Can you uh tell me about that parable
because it seems to somewhat relate to
what we're seeing here. I think
>> very very much so and that's the reason
I open the book with it. So the parable
is there are these uh two boys who grew
up together. their childhood friends. As
frequently happens, they go their
different directions in life as they
become adults. And one becomes a very
successful, powerful minister to the
king, and the other becomes a humble
monk in tattered robes with a begging
bowl and what have you. And years later,
they run into each other on the road.
And they're getting reacquainted.
And as they are, the minister, the king,
takes pity on on his povertystricken
friend and his tattered robes. And he
says, 'You know, if you could learn to
cater to the king, you wouldn't have to
live on rice and beans. To which the
monk replies, if you could learn to live
on rice and beans,
you wouldn't have to cater to the king.
And for me, I've always been a little
bit more towards the monk side. I'm uh
I'm not a very materialistic person, and
I'm comfortable and able to get along on
on very little. And I think there's
something beautiful about needing less.
>> I have from my interviews met people who
are very wealthy, even actually off
camera,
>> who are very, very wealthy and appear to
be happy. Yes.
>> But I think I I think it's safe to say
that the richest people I know are
amongst the least happy people I know.
So if I think about the very top, the
billionaires that I know off camera,
>> they are amongst the least happy
typically.
>> Mhm. Um because I think whatever's taken
them there is still haunting them while
they're there. So it could be the chip
on the shoulder, the insecurity,
whatever happened to them that made them
so driven and obsessed with validation
and climbing is still haunting them now.
But I do also I do know people like I
say that are very very rich and that
live remarkably content lives. And I
think part of it is their relationship
with the stuff. Like I think it is
possible
>> and they probably keep it at arms
length, right? They're a little psychic
distance from the stuff.
>> Yeah. And I just speaking from my own
journey at a very young age up until the
age of 25, I was convinced that buying a
Range Rover Sport was going to like
really make me really happy. And um the
anti-limax once I I got those things was
was like it was staggering. It was a
complete
>> mental it was like someone had shaken my
head. My reality distorted for a second
because I thought this was meant to be
it.
>> And now I can still get things that I
like. But um I was saying to Will the
other day that when I walked into my new
house in LA um I had pre-repped myself
to know that it was going to have zero
impact on my happiness and that meant
that I actually enjoyed it weirdly.
>> Right.
>> Like I was actually super grateful
because I'd pre-repped myself to have a
healthier relationship with the thing
>> to bring the expectation down.
>> Exactly.
>> So there are a couple things at play
there. I think one is it's the journey
that's really satisfying.
>> The destination tends to be less so. And
I think that's one of the problems with
being very materialistic because you
know if your definition of happiness is
if I only owned this watch, right? If I
only had this watch maker make me this
intricate watch, then I would be happy.
Well, I mean maybe, but probably not.
You're probably going to have that
watch. You're going to look at it and
say, "That's really nice. Wow, that's
good." And it'll and then well, what's
next? But if you enjoy the journey or
and I think you made a very wise
decision if you reset your expectations
and say, you know, I'm going to have
this nice house or this nice watch, but
I don't expect it to make me happy, but
it's going to be a nice thing to have in
in my life.
>> And somebody once said much wiser than
me, you know, money doesn't change who
you are. It it can magnify who you are.
So if you're an unhappy person and
you're have lots of money, you will
probably still be an unhappy person.
>> Mhm.
>> Uh if you're a happy person, I mean, one
of the happy, in fact, the single
happiest guy I know. His life was the
biggest financial disaster of anybody I
personally know. And this guy's he's the
literally the happiest human being I've
ever met.
>> Cuz he was happy before.
>> Because he was happy before. And there's
other things besides money that makes
you happy. Money. And the reason that I
I it was so important to me to teach my
daughter this, money gives you options,
right? Money allows you a lot wider
range of choices in life,
but it doesn't necessarily make you
happy, right? If it allows you to pursue
an option
that otherwise you couldn't pursue and
that option makes you happy, that's a
different thing. I think if I was
listening to this and I was broke, like
I used to be very broke, I would still
pursue wealth at all costs because I
know I heard this phrase the other day
which was it is easier to get rich than
it is to give up the idea that getting
rich will make you happy. And I
[laughter] I thought to myself,
>> and if you haven't got rich, you would
always think
>> 100%. You'd always wonder if that was
And you know what? So much of the
unhappiness or anxiety that I had when I
was, you know, in my early early innings
of my life, my career came from looking
down and seeing the baiff letters or
came from the credit card debt or how am
I going to eat today or, you know, can't
go out and see my friends. So much of my
mind was occupied by my inability to
have freedom,
>> right? my lack of freedom, my need to
get up at 8:00 and walk for an hour and
a half to a call center was, you know,
so what I managed to remove was that I
wouldn't say I I added happiness, but I
removed the unhappiness.
>> Well, and that's a that's a key point.
You know, money doesn't necessarily make
you happy, but the lack of money.
>> Oh, yeah.
>> Can be terrible challenge, especially in
this modern culture we've created.
>> Okay. So, if you have kids listening
right now, please cover their ears cuz
I'm going to say a swear word. Parents
always message me and ask me to stop
swearing. going to say well um a lot of
people are obsessed with this idea of
[ __ ] you money
>> right
>> let me just give you a definition so fu
money refers to a financial situation
where a person has enough money to live
comfortably without needing to work and
it gives you the freedom to say f you to
anyone or anything you don't want to
tolerate such as a job a boss or a
situation that doesn't align with your
values what does that mean to you
>> yeah so for me so that's a good
definition but I would substitute in
that definition financial independence
FU money for me is the money you
accumulate on the way, right? So, for
instance, if you're a bodybuilder,
you know, financial independence is when
you're on the stage and you're winning,
you're at the elite level. But along the
way, from the moment you start working
out, you get a little bit stronger, a
little bit stronger, a little bit
stronger, right? Same thing financially.
The moment you start setting aside money
and investing it, you become a little
bit financially stronger. And that
builds over time. That in my mind is the
FU money because long before you're
financially independent, that money
gives you enormous freedom. You might
not be able to never work again, but if
you need to, you could leave a toxic job
knowing you could survive for months or
even years while you looked for the
better job because you have that FU
money. So it allows you to say f you in
that case to an employer.
>> And if your daughter daughter turned
around, what's her name?
>> Jessica.
>> Jessica. If Jessica turns around to you
and says, "Dad, what are what is
something I should not do with my money
if I
um want to be wealthy?
What is what are like the big what is
the first thing that comes to mind to as
a no no if I want to be financially
wealthy?"
The mo more common advice that I think
you should avoid if your goal is to
become financially independent at a
young age. You probably don't want to go
buy a house.
That's a very controversial thing to
say. The reason you want buy a house is
because houses dramatically inflate by
and large your cost of living. You know,
you're you're putting your capital into
that house and now it's not going to be
earning thing. can be sitting idally
along with owning a house. You have the
expenses of maintaining it, paying the
taxes on it, blah blah blah. If you stay
in a apartment that is just enough to
meet your needs, which by the way is
what my daughter has done and continues
to do, your costs will be lower.
>> Explain that to me. Explain why my cost
of living goes up if I buy a house.
>> Sure. So people, it doesn't have to, but
people people typically buy the most
house they can possibly afford. The
industry drives them that way. If you go
to a real estate agent, you say, "I
think I'm I want to buy a house." Right?
First question they're going to ask you
is, "How much do you make? How much do
you want to spend?" You know, and and
then you go to the bank and you say,
"Okay, I want to buy a house. How much
will you lend me?" And they'll say,
"Well, how much you make?" And then
they'll come back with the large number
of how much they're willing to lend you.
If you follow those guidelines, you're
going to wind up with a house that's
going to be a burden. You are not buying
it from a position of strength. You are
stretching to buy it. You are borrowing
the most money a bank's willing to give
you. You probably don't want to do that.
I mean, you can, that's the bank wants
you to do that cuz [clears throat]
that's how they make the most money, but
that's not the best thing for you to do.
But that's what you get drawn into. And
then when you buy that house, I don't
know that I've ever known anybody,
including me, by the way, and I've owned
houses most of my adult life, who's
owned a house without doing renovations
on it. So, you've got those costs.
You're going to furnish that house cuz
you're probably buying more square
footage than you were renting before.
You're going to need new furniture, or
maybe you just want better furniture for
your new house, maybe new appliances,
landscaping, taxes, maintenance. I mean,
the the list is endless. And people say,
"Well, you know, I can buy this house,
and my mortgage is the same as my rent."
Well, yeah, but your mortgage is just
the starting point. You've got all these
other expenses with the house. And the
other thing is they are variable
expenses.
>> Variable expenses.
>> Yeah. With your rent, you know, if if
you're renting an apartment, you're
paying $2,500 a month for your
apartment, right? you know exactly what
your housing costs are for the term of
your lease, right? $500 a month. If you
own a house, maybe your mortgage is
$2,500 a month. And then you need a new
roof. That's 20 grand. Or you need a new
septic system, which by the way, I'm
looking at having to put it in my
cottage, you know. Well, that's another
25 grand, right? And so, and you don't
necessarily know when those things are
going to come at you.
>> It is a bit of a trap, isn't it? It's a
trap that um I didn't realize this until
I bought a house and most people don't
>> like I even sit here on this podcast
doing this for a living and then I I
made this stupid mistake of buying a
house and I do think it was a stupid
mistake because I we'll talk about
opportunity cost in a second but I was
in hindsight it was like a terrible
decision. I spent all this money on this
house. It was a house abroad. It was
also like a holiday home I guess
>> and every time I come all I see is
things that I need to change.
>> Yeah. It's looking at the United States
for instance, if 20 years ago, 30 years
ago, you'd bought a house in San
Francisco,
well, you've done very, very well
financially. If you bought a house in
Detroit,
not so much. So then the question
becomes, and people will say, well,
obviously you don't buy a house in
Detroit, you buy a house in San
Francisco. Well, I'm not an expert in
real estate, but I am reading more and
more commonly that San Francisco is has
a lot of very challenging problems at
the moment. Detroit, on the other hand,
where I was just visiting a couple of
years ago, is enjoying a renaissance.
Detroit's coming back. So, who's to say
in 20, 30 years, people won't be saying,
"If you bought in Detroit back in 2025,
you were golden." And if you bought San
Francisco, yeah, not so much. Sometimes
real estate, buying a house can work out
in a spectacular fashion. And that's the
stories people tend to hear, but not
always.
>> And that's what I tend to see in the
comment section when we talk about this
issue of buying a house. I was just
looking at the comment section actually.
And on a previous conversation where we
talked about whether you should buy a
house, someone said, "I bought a house
and it's the best thing I ever did."
Right? It's launched my mindset in new
directions. Remember that having your
own space has profound psychological
impacts and can be life-changing for
some of that don't live in a healthy
environment. The psychological impact of
buying a house.
>> What that commenter just said is is can
be and for him obviously it's absolutely
true.
I am not anti- house. As I mentioned a
moment ago, I've owned houses most of my
adult life, but I've never bought them
because I thought they were an
investment. I bought them because I
thought they would enhance my life in a
way I wanted it enhanced. They would
make my life better. They are in my view
an expensive indulgence. I have nothing
against expensive indulgences. That's
one of the reasons we accumulate money,
right? I like some expensive and some I
don't care about, some I like. Um, but
that's what they are. And if you can
easily afford it, then by all means buy
the house. Looking at some stats here,
it says home buying was once a solid
investment due to rising property values
and lower mortgage rates. However, for
younger generations, this is no longer
the case because of skyrocketing home
prices. Since 1980, US home prices have
increased by over 300%, outpacing
inflation and wage growth. In 2023,
mortgage rates surged past 7%, making
monthly payments significantly higher
than before. And medium wages have only
risen by about 15% since year the year
2000. While home prices have more than
doubled, making home ownership less
affordable. And lastly, the cost of
renting is often cheaper than buying,
especially in cities where prices have
outpaced wage growth, leading many
younger people to choose renting for
flexibility. This point of flexibility
as well is one we don't talk about.
>> Right.
>> Which is the ability to go do something
else in another country.
>> Exactly.
>> And my brother said this to me when I
was 20. My brother's very smart. He's a
year older than me, a financial genius,
and has a much different brain to mine.
And I remember when I was 20, maybe 24
and I was talking about do I buy a house
and he both told me it was the worst
investment I could ever make. But he
also told me to think about flexibility
and my ability to get up and move.
>> Yes.
>> And I was what do you mean? And he said,
"Well, listen, you're in a certain era
of your career where
you might be called by someone in San
Francisco who offers you a great
opportunity and you might want to go
next week." And actually when I look at
how my career transpired, that's exactly
what happened. I was in Plymouth and
then I went to Manchester for business.
Then I went to London for business. Then
I went around the world to San Francisco
to New York for business. And I'm I'm
moving with the opportunity.
And if I was anchored somewhere because
a mortgage does
>> dragging that along.
>> Yeah. And a mortgage does like
psychologically anchor you. This is what
people don't talk about. It creates a
huge amount of guilt if you then want to
get up and go because you in your head
you're going, "Well, I'm going to be
paying double."
>> Well, so I agree with everything you
said. I agree I I agree with your
brother. Flexibility, especially when
you're young and your career is in a
dynamic [snorts] phase, it is not to be
underrated. For my daughter, I mean, she
loves living in Savannah. They've been
there for 3 years, but she has an
adventuresome soul. And you know, she
said, "I don't know. I mean, maybe at
some point I'll want to go live in
Europe or somewhere else." Well, if you
have a house, that complicates that
decision. And even if you are fortunate
enough to buy in a market where your
values are rising, the cost associated
with buying and selling of houses are
enormous. the, you know, the real estate
commission and the taxes and what have
you. So, getting in and out of a house
is an expensive proposition. Getting in
and out of apartment doesn't cost
anything. I mean, maybe your security
deposit rate, but that's it. That's
that's very clean and simple, but if
you're if you were to buy a house in
Savannah and then just say, you know, I
think I want to go live in in Portugal,
well, now you got to sell that house. Or
maybe you have to rent it. Now you're a
landlord. You're an accidental r
landlord, which was subject to my second
book. You know, that's not optimal. I
mean, if you set out to be a landlord,
great. But if you become an accidental
landlord because you can't sell your
house that you don't want to live in
anymore, that's not so great. So
flexibility is is enormously important.
If I if I were to ask you, what is the
simple path to wealth? and you had to
respond in a sentence, what would that
sentence be?
>> Avoid debt. Live on less than you earn.
Invest a surplus.
>> So, let's talk about debt then.
>> Okay.
>> Why did you say avoid debt?
>> You can never be financially independent
if you're carrying around debt.
It's a ball and chain that you drag drag
along, especially consumer debt. Now, to
be clear, if you're in business and your
business is is carrying debt as a as a
function of of running the operation for
one reason or another, that's kind of a
different thing. But in terms of
personal debt, uh if you're running up
credit card debt, if you're leasing
expensive cars or or borrowing money to
buy expensive cars or what have you,
possibly a mortgage [snorts] is in a
slightly different category, but it has
all the disadvantages we just talked
about. Yeah, debt's a ball and chain.
It's it's like asking a swimmer to
compete and and strapping a weight
around their waist. Uh it just is it
possible? Well, sure. I guess it is, but
it's a whole lot a whole lot more
difficult. So, job one if you have debt
is to blow it out.
>> And I mean, blowing it out is a dream
for many, but it's uh easier said than
done. I guess
>> it simply means that you have to
organize your life in such a fashion
that you can divert some money to either
buying your freedom investments or if
you have debt paying off that debt. You
just you have to do that. And people
say, "Well, I can't do that. You know, I
I need to have this. I the you know, I
need to have the these the two least
luxury cars and we need to live in this
neighborhood and we need to send the
kids to these schools. We need to and I
call that the tyranny of the must-haves.
The more musthaves you have in your
life, the less likely you are to become
financially independent." Now, that's
your choice. That's an individual's
choice. It may very well be that those
things are more important to you than
buying your freedom. And it's your
money. It's not for me to tell anybody
how they should spend their money or
what's important to me or what's
important to them. For me, there was
nothing I could spend my money on that
was more important than my freedom.
Which is why from the beginning, I
diverted half of my income to buying
that thing. Was never deprivation.
Right? Most people say, "Oh, that's this
is a path of deprivation. I can't spend
my money." Well, not for me. I, you
know, I spent every dime that ever came
my way. It's just that I spent half of
those dimes on the thing that I wanted
to own the most, which was my freedom.
And you own that by owning assets. So, I
wasn't I wasn't depriving myself any
more than if somebody said, you know,
I'm looking at buying a a Mercedes or a
Volkswagen, right? If I'm buy the
Mercedes, I'm in this big fancy car and
people will be impressed. If I buy the
Volkswagen, yeah, I'm in this more
modest car, but then I've got a whole
bunch of money left over that I can
spend on a wardrobe or going out to
dinner or a more expensive apartment.
It's just a matter of choosing where you
spend your money on. Right? So, one of
the choices and I I do I am under no
illusion that most people who read my
book will actually follow the simple
path cuz I I think there's just way too
much cultural influence to spend your
money elsewhere. But at least the people
who read the book and listen to this
interview will be aware that there is
something else they could buy with their
money. and that's their personal freedom
and you do that by assets and there was
nothing more important to me nothing I
wanted more so it was not deprivation at
all
>> I amum I reflect back on
where I used to be in my life and if I'd
heard this conversation then I really
really struggled with um saving money
because saving spending money was so
closely linked to my sense of self and
my self-esteem
>> a lot of people feel that way I've
shared this story before, but when I I
was working in those call centers at uh
which one, Swinton Swinton's car
insurance where I used to work, I would
get my paycheck and it might be I don't
know, £1,500 or £2,000, whatever. And
like on my way home on payday, I'd go
buy a 60-in TV [clears throat]
and [laughter] I'd put it in the house
and then I'd try and see if I had enough
money to buy a PlayStation
>> and then about a week later when I
realized that I was broke, I would sell
both. And I look at that behavior as
such absolute like
>> it's objectively like crazy behavior
like repeated videos
but it shows the extent to which I got a
dopamine hit from having a nice thing
and I was trapped in that cycle of like
>> buy the nice thing dopamine hit feel
validated feel like I'm a successful
person and then have to sell it a week
later.
>> Yeah. So, I really have a huge amount of
empathy for people that are stuck in
this spending for self-esteem cycle. And
they hear these, you know, they hear
people like me and you talk about these
things now
and it feels easier said than done.
>> That to me seems kind of insane. And and
you know, one of the things that
somebody pointed out one time is if
you're driving around in a Ferrari, you
know, maybe you're thinking to yourself,
if you're bought the Ferrari because you
want to impress people, everybody's
looking at me and they're thinking,
"Wow, what a cool guy that is driving
driving that Ferrari." No, that's not
what they're thinking.
They're looking at you in that Ferrari.
And what they're thinking is, "Wow, I
would look cool if I was driving that
Ferrari." They're not thinking about you
at all. it doesn't it you're making no
impact on on what their opinion of you
is.
>> So on this point of debt, I did have
some people contact me that were
childhood friends of mine recently and
asked um asked me for advice on getting
out of debt.
>> Mhm.
>> And one particular friend said that he
had $40,000
worth of debt and asked me for advice on
it. And I I really [clears throat]
I'm not an expert in this so I kind of
hesitated to give any advice.
>> But the advice I'm hearing from you is
essentially you have to make a
concession. You have to pull back your
spending and get things back under
control. You have to I know sell your
house.
>> So, here's some good news. So, you're
carrying to your friend. He's carrying
$40,000 in debt, right? My advice would
be, and this is a little different than
the more common advice out there, but I
would look at all my debts and I would
pick the one that was charging me the
highest interest rate and I would I'd
pay the minimums on all the others and I
would focus on paying that one down as
fast as I could because that's the
biggest return on my investment. And
when that one was gone, I'd go to the
second until I worked my way through.
It's going to be hard. And the more
quickly you do it, the harder it's going
to be cuz you're going to have to make
more dramatic adjustments to your life.
That's the bad news. Here's the good
news is once you are out of debt, if you
do this, you've developed a wonderful
discipline of living on less than you
earn and diverting the excess to
something else that you want more. In
this case, to something else you want
more is being out of debt.
If you continue with that discipline,
you now have the cash flow to begin
building those assets and becoming
wealthy. You've already developed that
lifestyle and that discipline. So that's
the one ray of sunshine, if you will, in
in the process of getting out of debt.
>> Okay. Play devil's advocate with me then
on this one.
>> Sure.
>> So when I was 18, 19 years old, my
strategy I was well aware that I'd
[ __ ] up my financial situation. Like I
was it was plainly clear that I'd
figured out what a credit score was and
I realized that I destroyed mine. I also
had these letters that [laughter]
these fail letters and and I had I had
mounting issues. I was avoiding
finances, bills, envelopes, you name it.
I just thought if I don't look at it, it
doesn't exist,
>> which I know a lot of people do because
when I was writing a previous book that
I wrote, I looked into some of the stats
about humans ability to avoid. Mhm.
>> Whether it's health situations, if a
friend of yours gets a bad diagnosis, I
was reading a study that said some
people are more likely to not go get
checked
>> even if their friends had a because they
just want to avoid it.
>> Um, and then with national finances, I
was reading a study that said we're
incurring billions and billions and
billions and billions of debt as a
society just because we don't look at
our bank balance. We don't open
envelopes. So, I know I'm not the only
one.
>> No, not at all.
>> My strategy was my This is such a dumb.
>> I'm not sure I want to hear this.
Well, go ahead.
>> Honestly, and this sounds like crazy
talk, but it's just the truth. In my
head, my strategy was
>> I'm going to get so rich that I outpace
this debt
>> and then I'll deal with it later.
>> My strategy was if I can just get really
rich, which is kind of the inverse of
what you're advising,
>> then this debt won't be a problem.
>> At 18 or 19 years old, you don't know
the world. You are guessing,
>> right?
>> And I was guessing that I could earn my
way out of it. The probability says I
was wrong.
>> The probability says that I was like
delusional or some or just like I
watched too many rap videos or
something,
>> right?
>> Um, so objectively that is a reckless
choice. Even if even if it's true and it
ends up being true for you, you end up
being what it's still a bad choice
because probability is stacked against
you.
>> Well, that's true. And but you just made
a critical point in that you can make a
bad choice where things work out well
for you.
>> Yeah, exactly. It's a bad choice.
>> So, a great example of that is investing
in Bitcoin, right? I'm not I'm not a
proponent of investing in Bitcoin.
Certainly, for those people who bought
Bitcoin 10, 15 years ago, they've done
extraordinarily well.
They got lucky. Lots of speculations
don't work out that well. So if you are
speculating
then you it might work out
extraordinarily well for you but it's
you're taking some pretty heavy risks in
doing that right it's same thing with a
lottery ticket I mean the chances of
winning the lottery are infantestimally
small but people buy lots and lots of
lottery tickets somebody somebody does
win it but that's probably not a good
way to spend your money
>> Bitcoin
>> you're not a fan of Bitcoin No. And I'm
not I'm not opposed to Bitcoin existing
in the world.
Uh but for me, it's a speculation and
I'm not a speculator.
>> When you say spec, give me some color
because I'm sure there's some people who
are listening now that are either
thinking about Bitcoin or have invested
in Bitcoin.
>> I mean, if you want to speculate that
Bitcoin, so I I would recommend against
it. So, and people and they might push
back and say, "Well, but JL, you know,
you were recommending against against it
10 years ago, which I was, and you
you've been wrong. I mean, absolutely
wrong. It's been great 10 years. It's
blown. It's done far better than the S&P
500." Well, that's true. If you'd had a
crystal ball, if I'd known that 10 years
ago, yeah, well, I would have been in
Bitcoin, right? We don't have crystal
balls. So the question isn't how is
Bitcoin done in the last 10 years. It's
how how is it going to do in the next 10
years. I don't know the answer to that.
But that's the question. Is it worth
$100,000 a coin now? Is it going to
continue to grow at that pace that you
regret that you missed over the last 10
years? That's the question you have to
ask yourself.
But I could say its success is evidence
that it's serving some kind of utility
for some people somewhere. Its success
means that there is demand for it by
very nature that the price has increased
so crazily over the last 15 years.
>> Yeah. That and that's an argument that
people make and there's a lot of debate
around that, right? is, you know, what
is the function that it has or that it's
going to develop? And you might well be
right. I don't I don't know the answer
to that question. It's not currently at
least a currency because it's way too
volatile to serve as a currency unless
you're doing illegal things that
make it more attractive than the
volatility makes it unattractive. So
that's not necessarily good for society,
but but so it can't function as a
currency. So, right now it's just a
speculation. Is it going to grow into
something that's more functional? Well,
you know, listening to one of the other
interviews you you you did,
that woman absolutely believes that
that's what's happening. And they Kathy
Wood, so that's why she's in Bitcoin.
And she may be right, but she's
speculating. And again, I have nothing
against speculating as long as you
understand, as I'm sure she does, that
that's what you're doing.
>> You'd prefer investing.
>> I prefer to have an engine creating
wealth behind where I put my money.
>> I had um a text message from a really
good friend of mine who my audience will
know because they've been on the show
before as a guest and uh they're very
well known in the UK. Um they text me
and said, "Please, can I ask you a
question? If you had mortgages and you
had a lump sum of money, thinking about
the future of AI, potential market
crashes, would you pay off chunks of the
mortgage or would you invest? My feeling
is that stocks aren't really safe. Am I
being paranoid?
>> Well, there that's there are a couple
questions embedded in that. So, the
first question is would I pay off a
mortgage? And the second question is are
stocks safe? Right?
>> [snorts]
>> So the mortgage one first to me is is
pretty easy. It kind of depends on your
interest rate.
>> What is an interest rate?
>> So an interest rate is what you pay to
borrow money. So when you when you get a
mortgage, you're borrowing money, right?
You're borrowing it from a bank or a
financial institution
and they they want to be paid for
letting you use their money. And three
three and a half% or less, that's really
cheap money. I would hold on to that. I
I would be in no hurry to pay that off.
On the other side, if you have a
mortgage rate that's say 6% or higher,
well, when you pay off that mortgage,
essentially you're locking in a
guaranteed return of that interest rate,
right? So, if you pay off an 8%
mortgage, you've locked in an 8% return
on that money effectively. And then to
finish the thought is if your interest
rates between those those two like three
and a half percent to five and a half
six percent then I would say it would
depend whether you pay it off or not is
what makes you emotionally more
comfortable and there's value in being
emotionally comfortable. So if you are
comfortable carrying the debt you might
say well I think I can do better in the
stock market so I'm going to carry it.
If emotionally like me you just would
rather not have any debt at all than you
then you blow it off. Maybe we could use
the coins as a an example of what an
interest rate is.
>> Sure. Let's say I'm sitting on this pile
of gold and you want to borrow some of
my gold. I'm happy to loan you, Stephen,
these 10 very valuable old pieces. But I
don't like you well enough to just let
you borrow them for free.
I want to be paid. I want to get a
reward back for that. So, when you
return these gold pieces to me in a
year, you're going to return 11 gold
pieces to me. You're going to pay me
10%. Cuz an extra gold piece is 10% of
these 10, right? Make sense?
>> Yeah.
>> That's what interest is.
>> So, I if I say, "Okay, I'm going to buy
a house,
>> right? You're going to take you're going
to take those 10 gold pieces. Go ahead
and take them."
>> So, I'm buying a house that costs 10
gold pieces, right? Right. So, I'm going
to accept your 10% interest rate.
>> Okay. Am I paying 10% a year on the to
on the total
>> on the balance? So, the way a mortgage
works is in the let's say it's a 30-year
mortgage, you're going to be sp giving
me a certain amount of money every
month, right? That's your mortgage
payment. And in the beginning, most of
that payment is going to be interest to
me. And a very tiny sliver of it will be
paying down the principal part of the 10
gold pieces that you bought or that you
Yeah. that you borrowed. A very tiny
sliver. And then over the course of 30
years that ratio changes as you pay down
the debt and less and less of it is
interest payments and more and more of
it is paying down the principal until at
the end of 30 years you've paid all the
principal and you've paid me a fairly
enormous amount of money in debt over
that or in uh interest over that 30
years.
>> And how do I get a good interest rate?
How do I get a very very low interest
rate? And what is a low interest rate
>> on a mortgage?
>> Yeah. So the only way you can get a So
first of all, you're going to pay
basically whatever the current interest
rates are.
>> Who sets the current interest rates?
>> So the Fed sets an overall interest
rate. You've heard the Fed will raise or
lower interest rates and that will
influence what lenders like bank and
mortgage companies will charge. It
doesn't require them to do a certain
level, but it will influence up or down
how much they're going to expect in
return for their money. The Fed is a
government.
>> Yeah, the Fed is a government agent
partially because the the Fed is
anticipating inflation
by how they set interest rates. So if
I'm lending you money and I'm worried
about inflation, if [clears throat] I
lend you my 10 gold pieces and say I
want 11 back in a year, 10%. But
inflation is 15%. Well, I've just made a
very, very bad deal. So if I think
inflation is going to be 15%, I'm going
to want two gold pieces back and maybe
or you know, so I so I'm I'm making a
profit above and beyond inflation. So
going back to your question, how do you
get a good mortgage rate? Well, you shop
around to various lenders at the time
you want the mortgage and see, you know,
who's offering what? And there'll be
some variation within a eighth of a
percent or a quarter of a percent or
something, but for the most part,
they're all going to be very tightly put
together because they're looking at the
overall projection of what inflation's
going to be, what they can charge, what
the cost of money is, what they can
charge in interest, and then
competitively what they what they have
to do to get your business. So, there's
not going to be a lot of variation.
you're not going to get a a
significantly better interest rate than
somebody else, but if you shop around,
you can probably do a little bit better.
And interest rates have been fluctuating
quite a lot over the last 20 odd years.
In the early 2000s, interest rates in
the US were relatively high, peaking at
almost 7%
in 2006 due to efforts to curb
inflation. And then after the financial
crisis, um they dropped a little bit.
Um, and I was looking here. Post 2008,
central banks around the world adopted
ultra low interest rates to revive
economies. US rates were slashed to near
0% by 2008 and remained there for nearly
a decade.
>> Right.
>> Damn. Um, COVID 19 pandemic uh interest
rates led to another record in cuts
globally with the US Fed lowering
interest rates to 0% to 0.25% to combat
economic disruption. So, does this mean
I should really be waiting for a time
when the interest rates are really
really low if I want to buy a house?
>> Well, not necessarily because you never
know when that's going to happen. I
mean, some some people have said
predicting what the stock market is
going to do is very very difficult.
Predicting where interest rates are
going to go even more so. So I think if
you're going to if you're going to buy a
house then again you buy it based on
whether you can easily afford it,
whether it meets your needs at a given
time and you deal with the interest
rates you have to deal with. And of
course they'll be part of the equation
in terms of how much you can afford
because the interest rate on your
mortgage is going to have a lot to do
with how much you have to pay every
month
>> and it's quite high at the moment.
Interest rates
>> high compared to what? So the fir you
know right now mortgage rates are 6% 7%
somewhere in there. The first mortgage I
took out was 18%.
>> 18%. That would have been in 1979
because in the 1970s we had really high
inflation. And when you have high
inflation, you have high interest rates,
right? So to me, I hear a 6% mortgage
rate and it's doesn't sound bad to me,
but for people who grew up where
mortgage rates were 2 and a half, 3%.
Well, yeah, I mean, it's huge. It
depends on your perspective.
>> And the other half of the lady's
question who sent me that text message
was around is investing in stocks safe
right now? and she did sort of preface
it by saying the questions in the
context of AI all of this disruption
that's going on in the world people are
going to lose their jobs etc et like is
it safe to invest in stocks right now
>> so depends on your time horizon so
stocks are are the single
most effective strongest wealth building
tool that's ever been created but they
are also very very volatile so when she
says are stocks safe to invest in right
now.
What I hear is very shortterm thinking
and stocks are never safe to invest in
for the short term because they're
volatile at any given moment. They can
take a deep plunge and that's a
perfectly natural part of the process.
People get all create especially if you
watch the news they people go insane and
panicked. But crashes and pullbacks in
the stock market are perfectly natural
part of the process. They are very very
difficult if not impossible to predict
when they're going to happen. But that's
the reason you never
want to invest in stocks for money that
you're going to need in the new near
term. If you zoom out for longer periods
of time, which is I re is what I
recommend, stocks are stunningly
reliable. I mean, there are very few
times over the course of 10 years where
stocks have not given you a good return.
and you go out 20 years and I I mean
it's very rare. So if you look long-term
stocks are extremely safe and extremely
powerful in building in building wealth,
but they are very volatile along the
way. So you have to be willing and able
to endure that volatility. If you're
going to panic and sell when the market
drops, not if because the market will
drop. It's a perfectly natural part of
the process. If you're going to panic
and sell when that happens, you do not
want to invest in stocks because they
will leave you bleeding on the side of
the road. Following my advice will leave
you bleeding on the side of the road if
you panic and sell. It's 100% dependent
on tying yourself to the mass during the
storm and ignoring the volatility and
continuing to invest into it because now
you're actually accumulating shares on
sale because prices are down because the
storm never lasts. It always blows over
and the sunshine comes back out and
prosperity returns. You're talking here
about the emotional side of investing,
which
>> which is critical.
>> Yeah.
>> If you if you can't control your
emotions, you're you're going to be
selling at the wrong time and buying at
the wrong time.
>> So, this is such a huge part of it that
people don't talk about enough. They
talk about tactics, strategies, what to
invest in, etc. But they don't talk
about the emotional side, which is
really like arguably a even bigger
element of this because if you think
about even how the brain is set up and
what drives us most, it's it's fear.
It's it's emotion.
>> You're in greed.
>> And when the when the prices drop, you
know, I mean, we've all got a story. So
many people listening. I remember my
first ever investment. I put £10,000
into Facebook stock a long long long
long time ago. And then it went down and
I sold.
>> I thought, I'm never investing again.
>> And if I just left it,
>> Yeah.
>> Um, God, that would be worth so much
money. It probably be worth six figures
now,
>> right?
>> But I I hadn't, no one had ever taught
me about the emotional side. And
actually part of the reason I sold it
was because I needed that money.
>> So there's two things there. One is the
emotional side of selling it. The other
thing is investing money that is not for
the long term cuz you turned out you
should never invest in money in the
stock market that is you're not willing
to commit for decades. This is a
longterm horizon because that's what
allows you to weather the storms. If
you're saving for a house for instance,
well you probably don't want to be in
the stock market. The best investor I've
ever met is my girlfriend. Uh because
she she loses the password [laughter]
to the investing app. And honestly,
every like two years I go, "Babe, do you
remember?" I was like, "You bought loads
of that index fund or Bitcoin or
whatever it is."
>> I was like, "Do you know the price of
it?" And she's like, "No, I forgot. I've
forgotten the password to the app." And
we always like log back in once every
two years and look at it. I'm like, "Oh
my god, babe. You're rich." And she's
like, "Oh, okay." And then she loses the
password again. She forgets it. This is
an incredibly important point you just
touched on. So Jack Bogle, the guy who
created retail index funds that we can
invest in now, created the Vanguard
Group in 1975.
Bogle once said, you know, invest in the
S&P 500 and don't even open your
statements when they come. Just let them
stay. Don't even open them for 20 years
and then open the final one and have a
cardiologist standing by because you
will be stunned at the level of wealth
that you've accumulated. One of the
things that I wrote this this book for
my daughter, right? My daughter is
sounds like she's kind of like your
girlfriend. She's very smart, but she
has zero interest in this financial
stuff.
That is a superpower because unlike me
and maybe a lot of people listening to
us who are interested in this stuff and
who are watching the market all the
time, she and your girlfriend are never
going to be tempted to panic when the
market drops because they're not going
to notice the market dropped, right?
Because they're they don't they don't
care. And the less you tinker with your
investments.
Charlie Munger, who was Warren Buffett's
partner, once said, "The worst thing you
can do as an investor is get in the way
of compounding, right? And that means
dancing into the market trying to sell
and buy back in and what have you. Just
[clears throat] let the compounding
run." I get so many people who read my
work and they say, "Wow, JL, I I I
really get it and it's wonderful and
you're absolutely right about
everything, but if we just did this one
little thing differently, it would be
even better." And they are I've come to
think of them as the tinkerers, right?
>> Are they men?
>> They I think a lot of them are men. I
think I think women are a little less
inclined to tinker because men put their
masculinity on the line in doing these
things and that's not useful.
>> I asked the question about men and women
because I got some stats here from
actually from Vanguard that says men are
70% more likely to invest in high-risisk
assets like individual stocks versus
safer assets than women. Men's portfolio
are 50% more volatile, which leads to
higher potential returns, but also huge
greater losses. As it relates to men,
again, despite having higher
risk-taking, men underperform women in
long-term returns annually due to
overtrading, tinkering,
>> and timing mistakes, tinkering. And men
trade 45% more often than women,
resulting in more fees because every
time they make a trade, they pay a fee
and lower gains. That's according to
Berkshire Hathaway.
The summary here is that men take more
risks, but in the long term tend to earn
less because of frequent mistakes and
emotional trading, whereas women are
more cautious and their approach tends
to yield better returns.
>> So, you know what we've learned here?
>> Yeah.
>> I have a very strong feminine side.
[laughter]
>> Well, gosh. Yeah. Damn.
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>> You talked about compounding. You talked
about how one should maybe not open the
envelope that has the state.
>> That's Jack Bogle has said that, but I
agree with it. Yeah.
>> I I don't have to explain the graph I've
just passed you for you to know what
that is, right?
>> On the bottom, the red line is 11%
>> Mhm. returns. So the blue line that's
that's running fairly flat is the
contributions to this hypothetical
investment and the red line is the value
that that how it how it grows. And
what's striking, and this is this is
what's striking about compounding in
general, is that the two track each
other almost exactly for a surprisingly
long time, and then they begin to
diverge, and then the compounding makes
the value of the investment skyrocket.
It hockey sticks.
And I didn't know you were going to show
this to me, but what's interesting to me
about [clears throat] this is I used to
do these shitakas. They were events
where we'd take a small group of people
to some cool place in the world and hang
out. And there were people who followed
my work and and I would have one-on-one
sessions with them and we talk about
whatever they wanted, but mostly it was
their finances. And very commonly these
people would lay out their their
investments, their their finances, and
and
they would ask, "Am I financially
independent?" And that's a there's a
very simple mathematical formula about
that. How much did you spend? I spend
$100,000 a year. Okay. If you take the
4% guideline, what's that?
>> Withdrawal. So, a guy named Bill Ben
came up with the idea that you could
safely withdraw 4% of your portfolio and
it would continue to survive over time
and it would so you could you could pull
that out without depleting the
portfolio. There was a woman who came to
one of our [ __ ] talk. She was a banker.
So obviously knows her way around basic
math, right? She was at the end of Stuck
where she was going to take a new job
starting that Monday was going to pay
her a million dollars a year [snorts]
and we're going over her finances and
she said, you know, I've got $5 million
invested. Okay.
Am I financially independent? Well, I
can't answer that question until I know
how much are you spending. Said, well,
I'm spending $100,000 a year. Okay.
Well,
$100,000 a year, if you multiply it by
25, you get $2.5 million.
4% of 2 and a.5 million is 100,000,
right? So, that's how that math works.
So, if you need 100,000 to live on, you
need 2.5 million invested. Make sense?
>> Yeah.
>> Okay. So, you can look at it either way.
You can say, I've got two and a half
million. If I take 4% of that a year,
that's 100,000. or I I I'm spending
100,000. How much do I need? You
multiply that by 25 two and a half.
>> So, just to make sure I'm clear,
[snorts]
>> if I look at my investment portfolio and
I have $100 in there,
>> if I can live, are you saying that if I
live on $4,
which is 4% of my investment portfolio,
then I'm financially independent.
>> Right. That's a good Now, it's a good
guideline. I mean there's lots of
variations but this is a guy guideline
this financial adviser Bill Benin came
up with
u and then there was a thing called the
Trinity study which was done I want to
say in the '9s that looked at a lot of
these scenarios and basically verified
that this was a very good baseline. Um,
so 4% is I don't like the word rule
because that implies that it's hard and
fast, but it's a great guideline. If you
want to have a have an idea of whether
or not you're financially independent or
not, this is a good guideline. So
anyway, this woman says she's spending
$100,000 a year and she's got 5 million.
She wants to know, am I financially
independent in financially independent?
And I said, times two. I mean, you have
twice as much money as you need given
your level of spending. So, the question
that I always had going back to this
little chart is how and I would get this
question a lot, Stephen. You know,
they'd show me their numbers and they
would very clearly be financially
independent on that based on that math
we just discussed. And these were smart
people who can easily do basic
arithmetic. Said, how how is it that
they're asking me this this question?
And suddenly it dawned on me, this is
how
because compounding
is a is a hockey stick. It goes along
and and kind of doesn't appear to be
happening and then it's slowly starts to
happen and all of a sudden it's way up
here. It happens so quickly and so
stunningly they can't quite believe it.
It turned out is not that they couldn't
do the basic math. They certainly could
do the basic math.
What it was is they couldn't quite
[clears throat] believe what the math
was telling them and they wanted me to.
It's like
you you see what's on that wall over
there. I mean, are you seeing what I'm
seeing? Cuz I can't quite believe that
I'm seeing that. I need you to confirm
that. Yeah, you're seeing the same thing
I'm seeing. And in this example, all it
is is someone has, you know, they've
started with zero
>> and they've paid in a small contribution
every year to their investment. The
investment is getting 11% return a year
>> and suddenly the thing goes
>> I think that was one of the most pivotal
moments in my life where I went online
>> five six years ago and looked at a
compounding interest calculator. So
>> it's stunning.
>> It's it is stunning.
>> It is absolutely stunning.
And it shows that if you just leave your
money in a place where it's getting this
kind of return
over time,
everything seems to take care of itself.
>> So let me let me close the circle in a
sense on on that subject because one of
the things that I think gets overlooked
with my book is this is the simple path
to wealth.
Which means if you follow it, you will
become wealthy, right? So we go back to,
you know, buying those things that
people maybe want to buy, whether it's
the fancy car or the or the house. Well,
once you become wealthy, you can not
only buy those things, but you're buying
them from a position of power, right?
You can easily afford them. you become
financially independent, which means
that your investments are throwing off
more money than you're spending. My wife
and I are basically uh pretty naturally
frugal people. And that's one of the
ways I suppose that we got to where we
are. But that doesn't necess necessarily
serve us at the level of wealth now. And
so we still have this tendency to say,
"Oh, we're thinking about getting this
stuff. How much does it cost? And do we
really want to spend that money?" And
depending on who it is, either she'll
turn to me or I'll turn to her and say,
"Doesn't matter. It's free. Everything's
free. It doesn't." And that's a very
liberating way to look at things. So
that's where the simple path ultimately
will will get you. That's what I bought
all those years ago.
>> One of the thoughts that I had, which I
do think is somewhat illogical, was my
brother and me are very different
people. So he was very, very frugal and
I was reckless. And one of the ways that
I self-justified my recklessness was,
well, you know, you've got to enjoy
life. And I'm only young once, so I'm
only going to get the opportunity to do
some of these things that are part of
being young once, going to a nightclub
and buying champagne and partying, you
know? So, I thought, yeah, I could save
and save and save and save and I could
get to, you know, 70, 80 years old and
have all this money, but what is the
point if I haven't like enjoyed myself?
I think it is a mistake to think that
you need to spend money to be happy, to
enjoy yourself. And the other thing I
will say is that
it's a lot more useful having money at
this age than it would have been in my
20s because
money buys comfort among other things
and comfort becomes much more important
to you as you age.
They did a study where they put people
in a brain imaging scanner and they
asked them to think about themselves
tomorrow. Then they asked them to think
about themselves in a couple of years.
Then they asked them to think about
themselves in 10 years time and they
looked at the brain. And then they did
another study where they got the same
people to think about a celebrity.
>> Mhm.
>> That they didn't know. I think it was
Matt Damon or someone famous like that.
And what the study proved was that we
think about ourselves in 10 years time
in the same way that we think about Matt
Damon. The further away
the time horizon, the more it becomes a
total stranger, right?
>> And so I was writing I was writing
recently for a chapter in my upcoming
book about this idea that our future
self is a stranger. To the brain,
thinking about me when I'm 60
>> is like thinking about Matt Damon,
right?
>> I don't know a [ __ ] guy.
>> So why do I care? Why do I care about
protecting him? And I think this kind of
speaks to what we were saying there is
young people and even me as a young
person kind of didn't really give a [ __ ]
about 60-year-old me,
>> right?
>> Like I I it's so far away that I I don't
really care about protecting his
interest. I almost think that's a
different person. He can figure that
out,
>> right?
>> And you know, you are How old are you
now?
>> I'm 75.
>> So you have the the wisdom of hindsight.
So you can tell me as a 33y old what
it's like to be both 33 and 75. When I
was 33, I didn't think about
me at an older age at all. I mean, it
never crossed my mind to do such a
thing. Right? So, I was not doing what I
was doing for the benefit of 75year-old
JL. I was doing it for the benefit of
25-year-old JL, 30-year-old JL. Right?
remember going back to an early part of
our conversation
what my definition of FU money it's the
money that you're accumulating
before that gets you ultimately to being
financially independent which is when
you no longer need to trade your labor
for money right your money is doing all
that
I wanted that right now so when I was 25
I'd saved the princely sum of $5,000
adjusted for inflation to be about 25
$30,000 today. U and I wanted to go back
around Europe, right? But that meant
quitting my job, which I kind of liked.
But the fact that I had that money gave
me the financial strength to go in and
negotiate that deal. If I was living
paycheck to paycheck, I wouldn't have
had that. I was far from being fully
financially independent. So, I wasn't
doing this for 75 year old JL. I was
doing this right now for 25 year old JL.
And it's just like when you work out,
and clearly you do, right? You don't go
to the gym thinking, at least I'm making
a presumption here, I'm doing this for
75year-old Steven. You're doing this
because you want to be stronger tomorrow
than you are today. for 33 year olds
even. So that's my way of thinking about
it. I I never did this for future me.
Maybe some people do and that's probably
not a bad exercise. It's probably a bit
of wisdom in that. I wasn't that smart.
>> So you would you would save $5,000 a
year.
>> Well, in those days, so my first
professional job paid me $10,000 a year
and I saved 5,000. Yeah, I saved half of
it. Going back to this point of
compounding and how how important it is
to start investing in things that will
offer you compounding returns.
>> If you started investing $500 per month
and you got an annual return of 8%
because you're investing in some of the
things that we'll talk about in a
second.
>> In 35 years
you will be a millionaire. You'll have
more than a million dollars. You'll have
1.043 043 million
>> over those 35 years you would have
invested about $200,000 but you would
have made $850,000
from the interest over that period of
time.
>> Well, just to be clarified, not
necessarily the interest, but the growth
cuz that 11% is not interest. It's it's
growth. Some of it might be uh dividends
in the case of which is a kind of a form
of interest you can think of but it's
not just just to be technically correct
right which is which is interesting. So
if I was when I was born if my parents
had put $500 a month away in a
investment that we'll talk about now
>> by the by the age I am now I would have
roughly been a millionaire just from
them putting $500 a month away from me.
Right.
>> Pretty crazy.
>> Yeah. But that's the power of
compounding. I mean, the, you know, it's
it's very gratifying to me that twice a
year I I'm a guest lecturer for a friend
of mine who's a professor at uh
University of Colorado in Boulder. And
it's always fun to talk to her students
because they're exceedingly bright. They
ask great great questions and it's just
stimulating for me. But I think about
these young people. I mean, these are
18, 19, 20 year olds who are thinking
about doing this stuff at that age. And
the remarkable amount of time that they
have for this compounding to work for
them, it's it's just incredible. They
are going to be so much better off than
if not. Um, so let me throw out a tip
for for you if and when you ever have
kids and for anybody who's listening who
has has young children, you know, as
your kids start to grow and hopefully
they get part-time jobs, right? They
start whether it's shoveling snow or
busting tables at a local restaurant or
whatever it is and they start earning
some income. Well, you can take that
income and up to I think it's $7,000 is
the limit now. Put that in a Roth IRA
which will never be taxed. It will grow
tax-free forever and they're going to be
by definition because they're making
almost no money in in they're not paying
any income tax. So, you don't need any
any deduction from that. And it doesn't
have to be their money. So, let's say
your kid makes $3,000 during the course
of a year.
you can take $3,000 and fund a Roth IRA
for them. Imagine just if they never
added anything other than that, you
know, you do that until they they get
out of college or whatever. You know,
that baseline is going to grow tax-free
for an extended period of time. That's
one of the great keys to wealth building
is just time. And and is that advice
that you still believe in that people
should be saving 50% of their income?
>> Yeah, I think it's a good rule of thumb.
It gets you to financial independence in
a pretty reasonable depending on what
the market does in say a 10 to 15 year
time period. The push back that you
might anticipate is from people who say
that's impossible. Nobody can save 50%
of their money. Just that's that's
that's silly. And I'm sorry, but I've
did it and I've now at this point I've
known countless people who've done it.
So, it's certainly you may choose not to
do it, but it's certainly possible.
>> Let's say you're earning $40,000
a year, which is the low end,
>> the average medium. So, that would be
let's say $3,000 a month.
>> Mhm.
>> So, you're you're earning $3,000 a
month. You're then going to pay tax on
that. This is what my my math says here.
It says very little tax would be would
be paid after all of your taxes. And so
you're still you've still got roughly
$3,000 a month, about 2,900 um which you
you would take home.
>> I so I would need to save 1,400 of that
which means my total expenses need to be
1,400 a month. So first thing I need to
do is live somewhere very very
affordable
>> depending where I live, you know, what
city I live in.
>> Then I need to basically radically
reduce my my expenditure, right,
>> to be able to save 50% a month. And I
guess the question is most people
would assume they wouldn't like that
lifestyle.
They wouldn't like to prepare their own
lunches every day. They wouldn't like to
not have a Starbucks coffee. They
wouldn't like to live in a small small
shoe box and probably socialize a lot
less.
>> So I guess that's the key rebuttal is I
guess yeah, it's possible.
There's a chapter that talks about this
with an even lower uh because when I was
writing the book um I think I used a
$25,000
annual income. So the math works is is
it easy? No. But it goes back to
fundamentally
what is it that you want? You said well
I may not want like that. I might want
to have lattes and all these other
things. Well it's your money. That's
your prerogative.
But time is going to happen regardless
of what you do. And if you say, "Instead
of having those things now, I'm going to
spend my money on buying my freedom,"
you will get to the point where
everything is free, including those
lattes.
>> So, let's talk about investing then.
>> Um, we have two buckets here on the
table for an analogy
>> around tax advantaged investing.
I'm going to take your lead on this.
>> Okay. So, if you dump that bucket in
there, I'll dump this bucket in here.
Okay.
The idea is that and I'm going to speak
in terms of the United States. The
government provides
savings vehicles that are tax advantage
to encourage people to acquire money for
their for their old age. Right? So in
the United States there's things called
a 401k or 403b.
Uh these are employer related plans
where you can divert part of your income
and the government specifies how much
you can divert and they won't tax you on
that and you put it into an investment
bucket into an investment account of
some sort. you get to choose how you
want to invest it, but that would be the
bucket. And that means that if you had
however much money this represents
uh went into your 401k or your IRA,
which is something you would do on your
own privately, which is also tax
advantaged, right? So, in the example
that you've just [clears throat] handed
me, they're saying that this would
represent $20,750,
which is uh before tax and with a match.
So, 401ks companies will frequently
match part of your contribution. So, you
say, "I'm going to do 5%." And they
might say, "Okay, we're going to match
the first 2% or whatever," which you
should always take advantage of because
that's that's free money. So this is not
taxed immediately and you invest this
money. Let's say you invest it in a
total stock market index fund which
would be my recommendation. So you get
to invest all this money in your total
stock market index fund. If instead you
do it after you pay taxes on the same
amount of money, well, by the time you
pay taxes, you're going to have about
half of what it was before, which is
$10,340,
which is what represented in here
roughly half the number of of gold
coins. Now, both of these things grow at
the same rate because we've invested
them in the same thing, right? So,
they're making 11% a year, whatever it
is. So this is obviously going to grow
into a much bigger pile at the end of 30
years or 40 years or whatever it is than
this is because you're starting with a
bigger pile. So that's the advantage of
deferring taxes. Now, the thing that
people tend not to think about or talk
about that's incredibly important is
that it is not avoiding taxes. It is
deferring taxes. Which means that
ultimately the government is going to
want their money. They're going to want
their cut. And typically that happens, I
think in the United States the age is 73
or something when you're required to
begin taking money out of these
accounts. It's called an RMD, a required
minimum distribution.
So, if you haven't started withdrawing
money from these accounts, by then the
government will require you to begin on
a schedule based on your life expectancy
to start pulling that money out because
they figure they've waited long enough
and now they want their cut. Okay?
[clears throat] So, it's not tax-free,
it's tax deferred. Important thing to
understand if you start taking this
money out before a certain age and if
memory serves me it's 59 and a half in
the US then you will pay tax on it as
you do whenever you withdraw the money
and also a penalty right so they want
you to keep it in at least until you're
59 and a half but they want you to start
taking it out at some point in this case
I think when you're 72 or 73 or
something like and That's when they
collect their money. So you say, well,
okay, if that's the case, then what am I
doing here? Because I got to pay the
taxes eventually anyway. And
mathematically, if your tax rate is the
same, it doesn't matter if you're tax
deferred or not. The end result of
amount of money that you have will be
exactly the same.
The speculation is, and it's true in the
vast majority of cases, that when you
retire and you start living on this
money, you start pulling it out, you
will be in a lower tax bracket. So, you
will have to pay some taxes, but you
won't have to pay as much as when you
were working and you were in a higher
tax bracket. So, that's the gamble
you're taking. Now, looking at me
personally as an example, this didn't
work out for me. So, I did IAS and 401ks
when I was working in my corporate
career. Put aside a fair amount of money
in them. Now, as it turns out, I'm in a
higher tax bracket than I have ever been
in because of the success of the
activities that I do today. I had no
idea that that was going to happen. And
now I'm at that age where I have to take
RMDs. So RMDs are coming out at a higher
tax rate for me than when I than the tax
benefit I got deferring it. But that's
unusual. Most people will benefit from
doing this because in their retirement
they won't have an income or their
income will be very modest and their tax
rate will be equally modest and it will
work out very nicely for them. But
that's basically how that works. Does
that make sense?
>> It does. Yes. And and to try and
summarize it um in a way that I fully
understand to check I understand is
every month when I'm paid I have an
opportunity before that money comes to
me to invest some of it and around the
world whether it's Japan, Switzerland,
India, South Korea, Germany, Australia,
UK, Canada, there's always some kind of
system
>> of this, right?
>> Yeah. So I can say okay I'm going to get
paid
$1,000 this month. I'm gonna put a $100
of that before I even get it into one of
these investment accounts. It's not
going to be taxed until
>> and your employer might match part of it
or all of it.
>> Yeah. So, my employer might also add
$100 to it [clears throat] or or part of
it. That's going to compound over time.
I can take it out whenever I want, but
if I take it out early, I get a penalty.
>> And you pay tax.
>> And I pay tax. But assuming that I'm not
going to be earning as much as I do now
when I'm older, when I take it out at 65
years old, I'm still going to pay tax,
but a low rate of tax.
>> There's no penalty at that point, but
and presumably you'll be at a lower tax
rate, right?
>> So it really only works if you're at a
lower tax rate when you're older.
>> Exactly. So most people work and then
and then they retire at a certain age
and that income from their job goes
away. So by definition, they're in a
much lower tax bracket. So for the vast
majority of people, this works out very
nicely.
>> And you talk about, you know, because
people will will still have to make a
decision what they want to invest in,
>> right?
>> Where do you think we should be
investing our money at this moment of
time? The for the average person, what
what should they be putting their money
into with everything you see happening
in the world?
>> Yeah.
>> You said not Bitcoin, but what where
should we put it?
>> I'm an advocate of investing in
broad-based lowcost stock index funds.
>> What is that? That is an example of that
is VTSAX which is Vanguard's total stock
market index fund. It invests in
virtually every publicly traded company
in the United States of America. That's
very the number of those varies, but
it's roughly 3,600 companies.
>> So you're basically investing in
America.
>> There are a lot of private companies
that I that I'm not invested in, but I'm
in every publicly traded company in in
the country. And that means everybody
from the factory floor to the CEO is
working to make me richer. Now, some of
those companies are going to do
extraordinarily well and they're going
to succeed dramatically. And because
this fund, as most funds like it are, is
cap weighted and I'll explain that in a
minute. The more successful the company
is, the more of it I will own. So cap
weighted simply means that the largest
larger the market capitalization of the
company is
>> the valuation
>> the valuation [clears throat] right the
market capital the larger that is the
greater the percentage of the fund it
will represent. So, you may have heard
people say that the top 10 companies in
the S&P 500 have an outsized
representation
uh percentage- wise of what they well
that's the reason it's it's cap
weighted. So, I benefit from that
success. Right now, if one of those
companies falters
and
starts failing on their execution or a
more aggressive, better organized
competitor comes along and displaces
them, then they will drift away. But I'm
okay with that because whatever that new
competitor is, I don't have to predict
who it is. I will own them. And that's a
process that I refer to as
self-cleansing. I'm very proud of that
term that I that I coined. So, a great
example of that is Sears. When I was a
kid, Sears, company you may not even be
aware of, but Sears was the Walmart and
Amazon of its time combined, but Sears
at the turn of the last century, the
turn of the 1800s, looked around and
said, you know, we have these
brickandmortar stores, but there are all
these people living out in rural areas
who are never going to get to our
brickandmortar stores. We could send
them cataloges. Does this begin to sound
familiar? And then they could send us
letters and money ordering things from
our catalog that we could then ship to
them. So they became, you know, Walmart
with the brick-andmortar stores and then
Amazon of his time absolutely dominated
for 100 years. If you had said to
somebody when I was first uh investing
in the 1970s that Sears Sears built the
biggest building on the planet back in
the '7s, what was then known as the
Sears Tower in Chicago. If you had said
Sears its days are numbered, you would
have been laughed at. But its days were
numbered because leaner, more aggressive
competitors came along and ate its
lunch. Nobody could have predicted that.
Certainly not me, but I didn't have to
if I own the index because then when
Walmart came along and then later Amazon
and Sears faded away, I own those as
well. That's that self-cleansing
process.
>> And just for anyone that really doesn't
understand this at all, you're not
actually having to do anything because
that index fund is just automatically
making the decisions.
>> Exactly. I don't have to do anything. I
just have to own it and I can own it
forever. So, if I went and I bought
Sears stock as an example back in the
day, well, whenever you own an
individual stock, you're going to be
thinking about, okay, how long am I
going to own this? And what is going to
trigger my sale of this particular
asset? And what I mean, what has to
happen to it that would make me not want
to own it anymore? And then, if I want
to get rid of it and I want something in
the same space, what do I buy? Do I buy
this new upstart Walmart? you know, do I
buy this Amazon that back in the 90s is
run by this wacko guy, Jeff Bezos, who
kept saying, "No, profits don't matter.
Profits don't matter." What who's who
invests in a CEO that says profits don't
matter? I mean, that's nuts, right? But
those are the kinds of things you have
to be have to be thinking about if you
own individual stocks. I don't have to
think about any of that owning the index
because if Jeff Bezos turns out that his
wackiness is brilliance, which it turns
out it was, then he's going to rise to
the top, which it turns out Amazon did,
and I benefited from that. If it turns
out it was just wackiness, it would have
just faded away as a lot of companies
have. But that wouldn't have mattered
cuz whatever succeeds, I will I will own
and benefit from. I was asking um the
research team beforehand
>> in the last 10 years which index fund
has performed the very very best
>> and it said that the NASDAQ 100 which is
very techheavy
>> right
>> has performed at almost 20% a year for
the last 10 years and when I think about
what's going on in the world at the
moment and the advent of this new
technology called AI which is driving
everything it seems and our lives are
going to become way more technological
with robots bots and automation and full
self-driving. It appears to me like if
there was ever a great time to be
investing in an index fund, one should
aim at the very techheavy index funds
like the NASDAQ 100.
>> Mhm.
>> Is that is is that logical thinking or
is that
>> it's it's logical think? Yes. So first
of all it's logical thinking and
actually had you done that same analysis
10 years ago you would have done better
than than uh VTSAX right because
technology has absolutely dominated for
the last 10 years it is a reasonable
speculation that that will continue into
the future.
>> So why don't you
>> for some period of time?
>> Well because the truth is that
technology has not always dominated.
We're not going to go backwards though,
are we?
>> Well, no, but the point is that that it
changes. So, just like in my Sears
example, Sears would have been at the
top of the index for a long time and
then it drifted away and got replaced.
So, that's an individual stock. Sectors
of stocks have also done that over time,
right? So, right now the dominant sector
is tech. Wasn't always the case. might
not always be the case in the future. I
don't know cuz I can't see the future. I
understand people who would say that
clearly that's the best bet to go with
tech and your crystal [clears throat]
ball is clearer than mine and you might
very well be right. But I don't have a
crystal ball and I don't have to worry
about that owning the total stock market
because if you're right, I will still
benefit very nicely. Thank you very
much.
If you're wrong,
whatever replaces it, I will own.
>> So, you have an analogy you came up with
that involves beer and a glass,
>> right? Probably came up with a drinking
beer. We go ahead.
>> Well, show me show me the analogy.
>> So,
thanks for not Whoa.
>> Oh, here we go.
>> I was going to say, thanks for not
shaking up the can.
>> So, beer, right? So, I'm pouring it
right down the middle. So, we get a nice
thick head. That's even a little thicker
than I hoped for. Okay. So,
imagine for a second. Right now, we have
a glass and we can see exactly how much
foam there is and how much actual beer
there is, right? But imagine this was
that I poured it into this vessel
instead where we couldn't see that.
The analogy is the stock market. So,
when most people think of the stock
market and when most people turn on uh
CNBC, they turn on, you know, they look
at at at the investment news and what
have you, it's all this churning and
trading, you know, what stocks are hot
now, what stocks are rising, what stocks
are falling, what's, you know, it's all
this trading. That's not the simple path
to wealth. That's the foam, right? So
the value in a stock, whatever the stock
is, what makes up the price of that
stock is a combination of two things. It
is the beer and it is the foam. And the
problem is unlike that glass,
it's in a vessel like this. So it's hard
to see exactly how much beer there is as
opposed to how much foam there is.
>> And the beer is the value. The foam is
the speculation.
>> Exactly. The beer is the fundamental
operating value of the company, right?
The sales and the expenses and the money
that's left over that you call profits,
right?
>> Yeah.
>> So that's the beer. The foam is what the
market
determines that's worth at any given
moment based on emotion,
>> based and hype and speculation and fear
and greed. And so up here, right, is the
total value of the stock,
>> right? Exactly. The total value of the
stock. But this is all foam that can
come and go very quickly, right? So let
think about Tesla for an example, right?
Tesla has a lot of foam cuz a lot of
people are speculating about the great
things Tesla's going to do in the
future. robotic cars, humanoid robots,
you know, all these kinds of things
which very may well come to pass. I
mean, Elon Musk is a stunningly
brilliant guy. So, who knows? But that's
the speculation. That's the foam. The
underlying beer of Tesla, the actual
operating company, does not justify the
price of the stock. I mean, the the PE
ratio of Tesla, you can look it up, is
some huge number, right? So there's a
lot of speculation, a lot of foam in
Tesla. Now if things go to plan, then
that foam will become as as in our
example, you notice the foam is
dissipating. We're getting more and more
beer. If things go to plan for Tesla,
that's what will happen. The foam will
will eventually settle out into more and
more beer, and Tesla will justify that
high price and maybe then some. And I
guess Warren Buffett's greatness, if
I've interpreted his writing correctly,
and why he was often considered as the
greatest investor of all time, was he
was able to pay for stocks where it was
mainly beer. And he paid at the price of
the beer, not for the foam.
>> Or he he looked for times where the
sentiment was so negative that he was
actually paying a little less than the
price of the beer. Benjamin Graham who
who wrote uh the intelligent investor
who was a mentor to Warren Buffett
uh basically said what you should do is
look for value companies and try to
determine where the beer is and then try
to see if you can get a buying
opportunity watch it where you can buy
it for less than the actual value of the
operation. That's ideal. And in those
days when there wasn't so much
information freely available that was
probably a little easier to do. What
Warren Buffett has said since then and
that's a great foundation if you're
going to pick individual stocks. But
what Warren Buffett has said since then
is he learned and I think and you don't
quote me on this but I think it was
Charlie Munger who actually made this
point to him that it's going to be very
very hard in this day and age even when
they started back in the 60s to find
companies where you can actually buy it
for less than the actual beer value. So
don't try to do that. Just try to find
companies that you can pay a fair price
for that have a lot of beer in the mix
that are mostly beer. Because if you buy
those companies, they are by definition
very well-run companies, strong brands,
big moes around them, which makes them
hard to compete.
>> I guess to do this, you're going to have
to have a framework for valuing a
company.
>> Exactly. And you're going to have to
have great discipline,
>> which is
>> Yeah.
>> hard. And that's what you know as Warren
Buffett said I was blessed with an
ability to allocate capital effectively
and that's basically what he has done.
He's has capital and he is got the
ability to look at different companies
and say of all the different companies I
could allocate capital to he's pretty
skilled at at picking the ones that are
are the best bets. One of the things
that I really admired about Warren
Buffett was his ability to do nothing,
>> which is one of the key things because
that goes back to Charlie Munger's
thing, don't get in the way of your
compounding, right?
>> And there has been recent times where I
think we can all think of where
using your beer analogy, something
happens in the world and the true value
of a company
is higher than the selling price. I.e.
If you go back to March 2020 during the
the market selloff when the pandemic
happened and everybody panicked, Amazon,
for example, the stock briefly dropped
below roughly to about $1,500
per share.
>> Mhm.
>> Well [clears throat] below its intrinsic
value um because people were panicking,
right?
>> Uh and then it quickly rebounded again
past $3,000
a share. So theoretically, if you had
noticed that drop, you could have made a
100% return on your money. Um,
>> and by the extension, the whole market
did that.
>> The whole market dropped, too. Yeah.
>> So, you could have done that with your
index fund. This is why if you panicked
and sold.
>> Yeah.
>> Let's say you owned Amazon or you owned
VTSAX and you panicked and sold, well,
you would have you would have lost
everything and then it it recovered. So,
it works both ways. That's why I said
earlier in our conversation, you you
have to stay invested so that the dip
doesn't matter. and if anything take
advantage of the dip and buy more. So
you own Amazon, you see it dip, you say,
"Well, I still believe in the company. I
still think it's a good company and it's
got a good future." Or then maybe you
buy some more in the dip and you do
still better. But the important thing is
you don't sell when it's down because
there's panic in the air.
>> And I think this is um this speaks to a
broader sentiment throughout this
conversation which is to do what others
don't do. You know, and Warren Buffett's
famous for saying be fearful when others
are greedy and greedy when others are
fearful. But generally the sentiment on
social media, especially for younger
generations and especially for men,
which is supported by the data, is that
the way to make money is by like trading
crypto or by right
>> I mean there's so many people that sell
this is such a we need to address this.
>> You know, it's a platform.
>> It's a gambling. It's just gambling.
>> It's it's a gambling platform. And so
that's going, you know, people sometimes
say to me, you know, I'd never invest in
the stock market. It's just gambling. I
say, well, you're half right. Our foam
[clears throat] is all dissipated. But
if there were still foam here, I would
say yes. If you're doing it short-term
and you're playing with the foam,
absolutely is no different than going to
Las Vegas. If you're investing for the
beer, it's an entirely different story.
And you're investing for the long term.
And there's lots of young people that
are being tempted into buying a course
that's going to help them learn how to
trade.
>> That's great for the people selling the
course.
>> There's such an there's such an
incredible like ir obvious irony to the
idea that I have some secret about
trading that's really going to make, you
know, that is capable of making one
wealthy,
>> right?
>> And I'm going to give it to you
>> or even sell it to you.
>> Why would I need to if it worked,
>> right? Like this is such an obvious
question to me. Like why would I need to
sell it if it worked?
>> It it is the obvious question. I mean,
you know,
>> and I feel sorry. I have great empathy
because the people that buy these things
are people that are desperate to get out
of their financial situation and they
run out of options and so it's very
compelling to hear that there's some
secret that you can predict the stock
market. It's very compelling.
>> You know, in another interview I I said
one time we were talking about this
[clears throat] same line of
conversation we're having and I said,
you know, I blame my mother. I would be
a lot richer if she hadn't instilled a
conscience in me. You know, she's cost
me millions of dollars instilling this
conscience. I could have courses. I
could be, you know,
>> but no, I am saying that there is a path
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Do I need a financial adviser?
Cuz a lot of people out listening now
will be thinking, "Yeah, I will figure
out my money situation when I have
enough money to pay a financial
adviser." Yeah, I think uh my attitude
is by the time you know enough to choose
a good financial advisor, which is no
easy task, you probably know enough to
do it on your own, at least on the
investing part. Now, there are life
kinds of decisions where maybe advisors
would be more useful, but again, you
have to be careful and and it takes you
you need to really educate yourself as
to how advisers get paid. For instance,
my attitudes, by the way, are colored by
the fact that I I hear so frequently
from [clears throat] my followers about
bad experiences with financial advisors.
So, I have a negative opinion. To be
fair, I know there are good ones out
there, and all due respect to those good
ones, but let's suppose you have a
financial advisor who gets paid based on
the assets under management, right?
>> The amount of the amount that you've
given them.
>> Exactly. Right. So, maybe it's 1%. So,
you give them a million dollars and they
get 1% a year to manage that money for
for you. Let's suppose you go to that
advisor and you say, "You know, Stephen,
I've I've been thinking about paying off
my mortgage. I've got a half a million
dollar mortgage on this house. It's 6%.
Let's say it's 5%. So, in that middle
range, it's 5%. I'm thinking about
paying it off. What do you think?" Okay.
Well, now Stephen has a bit of a dilemma
because
he can certainly give you the most
accurate financial advice he is capable
of giving you and answering that
question.
But if that leads him to say yes, pay
off the mortgage,
he has just reduced his income by half
because when you pay off that mortgage,
half a million dollars is going to go
out from his management and paying off
the mortgage company. So you have just
asked Steven to give you advice
potentially that is bad for Steven. Now
if Steven's a honorable, capable,
honest guy, then maybe Steven does that.
But let's suppose Stephen has two kids
in college.
Let's suppose Steven just bought a boat.
Let's suppose Steven is going through a
divorce.
Let's think about that. Maybe Steven, as
honest and capable and and decent as he
ordinarily is, has financial pressures
that might play a role, right? There is
a conflict of interest frequently. So,
you have to understand how your advisor
is being paid.
>> How does your portfolio look? Where have
you allocated your money in terms of
percentages? How much money do you have
in real estate versus cash versus index
funds?
>> Well, I don't even think about about the
real estate. We have this cabin in
Wisconsin on the lake and then we have a
condo in Florida. Um, they're both very
modest, so pretty small part of our net
worth. I like to buy things from a
position of power.
My stocks, I'm probably about 80% in in
VTSAX, total stock market index fund,
and probably 15% in bonds, a total bond
market index fund, and then the other 5%
in money market fund. I keep some money
in uh the checking account to pay the
bills. And to break it down a little
further for you, my wife and I both have
IAS. We have a regular IRA and a Roth
IRA. So there are four IAS. All four of
them hold VTSAX. We have taxable
accounts and part of that is VTSAX. Part
of it is the bonds.
>> What is a bond?
>> A bond is money that you have lent to a
company or to the government. So when
you buy a bond, you are essentially
lending money to a company or a
government entity. So they pay you
interest. So you will they companies and
the governments sell bonds of various
maturities. So they can be very short
like a money market fund is basically
very short-term bonds, you know, like 30
days or less, right? Which makes it the
equivalent of cash. But you could buy a
a certificate of deposit is a kind of a
bond. So you could buy one of those for
3 months or 6 months or a year, 5 years,
10 years, buy US treasuries going out 30
years.
>> Why would I do that instead of buying
the index fund?
>> So the index fund is stocks. It's it's
very stocks as we talked about big
growth engine, great long-term, very
volatile. [snorts] So if you want
something to smooth the ride, bonds are
not very good for long-term growth, but
they are not nearly as volatile.
>> Are they so they're safer? short-term,
yes, because they're less volatile.
Long-term, they tend to lose value to
inflation.
Stocks, on the other hand, are riskier
short-term because of the volatility,
but long-term they outpace inflation and
so they are safer long term. So, it
depends on your time horizon is which is
which is safer. But traditionally people
think of bonds as being safer and really
the way you should hear that is less
volatile and stocks being riskier.
You should hear that is more volatile.
>> So is it broadly true to say that if we
exclude your real estate 70% of your
assets are in stocks, 20% in bonds and
5% in cash?
>> Probably more 80 155.
>> 80% stocks, 15 bonds cash. Okay. It's
interesting because um
>> which would be considered very very
aggressive and I wouldn't necessarily
recommend that for most people my age.
>> I thought it would be curious cuz we now
have this new alien amongst us called
AI. I thought it would be curious if I
went on Chatt and I asked Chatt the
question. I'm a normal person who earns
$50,000 a year. I want to be financially
free in the future. Give me a one-s
sentence answer based on all of the
wisdom in the world taken from every
expert in investing ever.
>> Why? I know what the right answer is. I
don't know what the answer.
>> What do you think it's going to say?
>> Read the simple path of wealth. I don't
think that's what it's going to say, but
that's the right answer.
>> And the the simple path of wealth talks
about three principles, right?
>> Right.
>> What are those three? I'm going to check
it against what it says.
>> Avoid debt.
>> Yeah.
>> Live on less than you earn. Invest the
surplus. It said, "Focus on saving and
consistently invest in lowcost
broad-based index funds like the S&P 500
while living below your means and
allowing compounding to work over time."
I then asked another question. How do I
earn more?
>> I should sue them for mining my book.
>> Yeah, they probably did. [laughter]
I said, "How do I earn more?" What do
you think? You know if you if you
thought if your daughter came to you and
said
>> earn more in a job or
>> I just asked a very broad question which
is I now and now how do I earn more was
my question.
>> I would say develop develop your skills.
>> Okay.
>> It said to earn more focus on developing
high demand skills.
>> Oh there you go.
>> Seek opportunities for career
advancement. Explore side hustles or
invest in assets that generate passive
income like real estate or dividends.
But I really think that you know I
really think there's a really important
part there about developing high demand
skills.
>> What are those going to be in the
future?
>> Yeah.
>> With AI because programming for instance
used to be a very high demand skill and
people said learn how to program. Yeah.
>> From what I understand in the age of AI.
Yeah. That's not so much.
>> I even think about my own life. At 18
years old I started learning about
social media. I dropped out of
university doing my business management
degree after one lecture and I started
learning about social media because I
was building a business in social media
and technology and although that first
business failed I I was 19 years old in
201 what 14 or something really
understood this thing called social
media which led me to spend a year as a
consultant flying around the world to
all these companies doing social media
one of those companies turned around and
said it's been so great could you turn
this into a company I said no I've been
through the founder PT of starting a 3
months later I said yes turned into a
company called social chain and that
changed my entire life
>> that worked out well
>> high demand skill I had even though I
failed I had this high demand skill that
was honestly at the time paying me
£70,000 a month
>> you probably had it because you went
through the process of failing
>> yes
>> failure is you know it used to be in
some cultures that if you failed once
that was it you were a pariah nobody
would even look at you anymore failure
in our culture is just a stepping stone
I've heard venture capitalists say they
won't even look at an entrepreneur to
fund if they haven't failed at least
once.
>> The advice I'd now give to my kids based
on that is I would ask if my kids came
to me and said, "Dad, what should I go
learn?" I would say
go and work for a startup. I said
startup because you're going to be very
close to the CEO and founder because
there's going to be less desks. So,
you're going to be closer to the
proximity. That is failing at the
cutting edge. So if it's AI, I'd say go
work for an AI startup. I I probably not
going to work out. You're probably going
to be the company will be bust in a
couple of months time, but you're going
to be so close to the failure.
>> You will learn so much.
>> Yes.
>> I wish somebody had given me that
advice.
>> And that's that's like in a way I guess
roundabout way. What I did is I started
a company that failed at the very
forefront of a wave coming into shore,
which meant that as I hit, you know, as
the wave crashed down and I was left
there on my surfboard, I now had this
high demand set of skills that people
were like begging me for, which set
myself up. And frankly,
>> the D of a CEO would not be successful
had I not spent the previous 10 years
understanding how social media, content
creation, growth worked.
Is there a favorite story in this book
of yours?
>> Well, there's so many great ones. So,
>> share some.
>> I already I already alluded to my
favorite one, which is my friend Tom.
You know, because he has I mean, Tom was
a guy who got to the age of 62. He'd
been through multiple divorces. He lost
his house to foreclosure. He lost his
job. He was broke. He went bankrupt. And
yet, his life has turned out pretty
well. He's an extraordinarily happy guy.
That's my favorite story. But the one of
the reasons I like this book so much and
one of the reasons candidly I did it is
if you read through it, you will find
there are some stories from people who
were tech bros, right, who made big
incomes and they read the simple path to
wealth and applied and it worked very
well for them. But there are many, many
more stories of people who have
accomplished this from much more humble
beginnings. Give me an example of
>> I have a very good friend of mine, high
school buddy. I don't think he's ever
made more than $40,000 a year. He is
financially independent because he
followed the basic principles that I
talk about in that book. I have a
different friend and he was in the
financial business. He was living in
Chicago and over lunch he told me that
his Christmas bonus had come in at
$800,000.
That's back in the mid '90s when that
was real money, right?
And he was already making, I don't know,
a million dollars a year or whatever it
was, big income. And he was broke.
And you see, most people listening this
thing, I said, "What are you talking
about? This guy got a bonus for 8.
People paid me $800,000 for a year. I'd
be done forever, right? And that'd be my
nut. I'm good. How can he be broke?"
Well, when you listen to him talk about
the house, the cars, the schools, and
you start doing the math, you realize
that no, his income is not enough. He's
barely barely making it. So, here's a
guy with a big income who is, unless he
changes his ways, is never going to be
financially independent. Financially
independent. Here's my guy with a tiny
income comparatively who got there. I've
come to believe that a large income
actually can be an impediment to
accomplishing it. And my reasoning for
this is that I think people who have a
large income are much more likely to be
drawn into the competing with the
Joneses scenario because they associate
with other people have large incomes and
they're all driving a certain car,
living in a certain neighborhood,
sending their kids to certain schools
and that probably becomes very hard to
disengage with and making it perhaps
even less likely that they are going to
decide to spend a large portion of their
income on buying their freedom. Whereas
the people who make less money probably
don't have those same social pressures
and are more readily able to do it.
So starting from humble beginnings is no
obstacle and that's was the point of
doing Pathfinders.
>> Interesting.
>> It does track that. I think the
goalposts continue to move in different
ways and
>> yeah,
>> I guess you go from competing to the
Joneses to competing with the size of
someone else's yacht, which is all
slippery slopes to bad places
>> or your own or your own demons
as we talked about earlier, right?
>> Yeah. You mentioned a word in there as
well. You mentioned I think you were
talking about your friend Tom. Tom had a
divorce.
>> Multiple divorces. Yeah.
>> I
>> which is bad for [clears throat] your
wealth.
>> Yeah. I didn't real I didn't I didn't
realize this cuz I've never been through
one before. Um I spoke to James Ston on
the show who's a divorce lawyer who kind
of opened my eyes to it. But actually I
had a private conversation with a friend
here in New York City, I'd say a couple
of months ago who's going through a
divorce and he he sat me down and he
talked me through the specific
consequences of of divorce that he's
going through.
>> He said to me, he's a very successful
person. I reckon he's probably worth 500
million, right? He said the divorce
proceedings have now dragged on for five
or 6 years. So I'm I'm having to go and
see lawyers all the time. And he said to
me as well that he is paying for her
lawyer which I was I didn't really
understand. But he was like no I have to
also cover her lawyer costs because you
know I'm the the bread winner so she
doesn't have money so I'm covering her
lawyer costs which is what I have to do.
And he said the law firm have gone from
being a very very small practice in
those six years. Now they have a massive
building and he goes, "I know it's my
money. I bought it. I [laughter] bought
it."
>> He literally is like, "I have paid for
her lawyer and now they're doing really
really well and they're milking this
this case. They're drawing it out
because they have no incentive to this
to this ending." Yeah.
>> So he's like, "I've spent tens of
millions on her lawyer who is basically
dragging me. Um, and now they've got
this massive building." What else did he
say to me? He said, "Because some of my
assets are subjective in value, like my
company, her lawyer [laughter] is
inflating the price of my assets because
she's going to get half of whatever they
can convince a judge my assets are
worth." So he, you know, for example,
his business might be worth 100 million,
but the lawyer is making the case to the
judge that it's worth 500 million so
that she gets 250 million. He also said
to me,
>> which really isn't there,
>> which really he doesn't have, right? And
then he was saying to me, he goes, you
know, I bought this particular stock.
>> So he is, I'm sorry to interrupt you,
but now he's forced to fight it.
>> He's fighting.
>> It's not like he could just say, okay,
she can have half.
>> Yeah.
>> Because this is a judgment
that is going to create a a an
obligation on his part for assets that
don't actually exist.
>> So it's more than half.
>> She could end up taking 60 70. And the
other thing he said to me, which was
quite sad, he was like, you know, I was
one of the f He was one of the early
investors in a big company that we all
know. and um he said to me, I bought
that stock 15 20 years ago. It's
actually quite emotional to him that he
was so early in back in the company and
now he's forced to sell that. So he has
to liquidate investments he made 20
years ago because again she's entitled
to half
>> and that'll be a huge tax hit.
>> A huge tax hit,
>> right? And I think some people don't
realize that wealthy people can
get a loan against that stock without
ever having to sell it.
>> So he's probably, if he's wrong, he's
probably got a big loan against that
stock,
>> right?
>> Probably a 50% loan. So, just for anyone
that doesn't understand this, because I
only understood this in the last couple
years where where I started doing
similar things, is if the stock is worth
a h 100red million, he can get 50
million tax-free from a bank just by
keeping that stock there and really
never have to pay it back because it's
such a great stock. Um, and it was also
just looking in his face and just seeing
the stress and the toll of having to go
to court all the time and fight this
thing for six or seven years that I
thought, wow, we we give people
financial advice all the time about the
best stocks to pick or invest in index
funds. We don't talk enough about the
how divorce can just destroy your life.
>> You know, you have to be so careful in
choosing your spouse. I've had push back
on that and people say, "Well, then
you're choosing your spouse is not a
financial decision. It's, you know, it's
emotional, it's romantic, it's well,
yeah, it's all those things, but it you
better take finance into account for all
the reasons that we're discussing." This
also, by the way, loops us back to an
earlier part of our conversation where
does money buy happiness? Does, you
know, being richer,
is that always necessarily better? Well,
this guy is more of a target because of
his wealth than he would be if he were.
So, is his money really making him
happier at this point in his life? Yeah,
probably not so much, you know.
>> You know, and he's he's going to be fine
either way, like sure, you know, um
which is a point worth saying of nuance,
but also and the other point of nuance
worth saying is that
>> he's going to be fine financially, but
emotionally it's he's still going to go
and she's probably going through it too
on the other side.
>> Yeah. [laughter] And the other point of
nuance here is that she did raise the
four or five the the three or four kids
>> while he was off building the business
for, you know, 20 odd years. So, one
could argue that he wouldn't have that
wealth without her being at home to look
after the kids and she'd made huge
sacrifices to her own career,
>> right?
>> So, you know, there's balance. But I I
just think with um
James Ston said to me, even if you don't
get a prenup,
there's still a prenup. You either use
the government's prenup,
>> which is
>> or you create your own,
>> or you create your own. Either way,
there's a prenup.
>> Absolutely.
>> Do you want to let some judge decide
>> or do you want to be intentional before
you get married with your partner about
how things will be split?
>> And even when I think about my partner
at the moment, and we're probably going
to get married soon.
>> Congratulations.
>> Thank you. I haven't proposed just yet,
but I'm working on it. Don't tell her
that.
>> We We just let the secret out.
>> She doesn't She doesn't WATCH THIS
ANYWAY. [laughter]
>> Someone's going to do
>> Wait a second. But I'm on this time, so
this is the one episode she's going to
watch.
>> True.
>> Well, I'm very fortunate as if this
spring I will have been m married 44
years.
>> Damn.
>> And [clears throat] I I tell people I I
married my wife out of the gate. Why
wait? Do you have a framework for
choosing the person or for sustaining
for 44 years? Cuz I'm what, six, seven
years in with my girlfriend, but you got
44 years in.
>> Funny story about that is people used to
ask me, did you and Jane sit down and
discuss money before make sure you were
on the same page financially before you
got married? [snorts] And I always used
to say, you know, it's a great idea. You
should do that. But no, we never did
that. I just I just got lucky. you know,
we never talked about it, but as it
happens, we got married and we were
very, very compatible financially, which
we are, but just got lucky. Well, I told
that story in front of her one time and
she leaned back in her chair and she
said, "What are you talking about? On
our first date, you said to me, you need
to be saving 50% of your income." You
said, "What do you mean we never talked
about money?"
I guess that's such a natural part of my
persona. I didn't even remember doing
it.
>> Interesting. [laughter]
[snorts]
>> My last question for you is about
regret.
You said you're 75.
>> I am.
>> What are your biggest regrets?
>> So, I I think regrets are are tricky and
and I will I'll answer your question
directly and it's a couple of things
that or at least one thing that occurs
to me that might be surprising.
The reason they're tricky is because
there is an assumption like you re you
regret doing A and you think if only I'd
done B, things would be better. But you
don't know that that's true. But you
might say, "Boy, I regret starting that
company that failed because it was a
failure." Well, yeah, but it led to
something much bigger. You learned so
much. Now maybe if you'd said instead of
starting that company that failed, maybe
I took this highpaying job and and I
worked my way up through the corporate
organization. And you'd be saying there,
you know, you'd be sitting at some high
executive level in this corporation and
looking back and saying, "Wow, am I glad
I didn't do that startup that failed,
right?" And yet you're so much further
ahead now than if you So who knows? Who
knows what choice you made that appears
to be the wrong choice as to whether it
really was. Maybe it was exactly right.
Maybe things would have turned out
better, maybe they wouldn't. So, I'm
very hesitant to look back on. There are
many things I can look back on and say,
"Gee, I do wonder what if I'd gone down
the right path instead of the left path.
What would that have looked like?" But
there's no guarantees it would look
better and my life has been pretty damn
good. So, in that sense, I have no
regrets.
Two regrets I do have, very personal
regrets. I don't I've never shared these
publicly.
When I was a kid,
my father was a very handy guy. He loved
building things, working on the house,
that kind of stuff.
I was not that kind of kid. And I don't
know, I was eight or 10 years old at one
point. And for my birthday or Christmas,
I don't remember, he brought me a bought
me a jigsaw, which is a for people who
don't know, it's a it's an electric saw.
It's got a little blade. It goes up and
allows you to cut wood and very fine
kinds of patterns.
Last thing in the world this kid wanted.
And I let my dad know and he was crushed
because for him
it was the best gift he could possibly
think of to give to an eight or
10year-old or whatever it was. And so
one of the regrets and I give myself
some grace cuz I was very young and
reasonably you could expect that I
didn't have the maturity to deal with it
the way I would. But I I do regret
because I could see the pain in his face
when I I kind of rejected that gift,
right?
And maybe that taught me a good lesson
in being more empathetic going forward.
So again, do I really regret it? Well, I
regret that I hurt my father, but I
learned something pretty valuable.
>> And you've let you've remembered that
for 70 years.
>> I've remembered that for 70 years. Yeah.
Yeah. I've got similar stories of things
ways I reacted as a kid.
>> I think most people do.
>> You know, yeah, it sucks.
>> And then my second one, and this is even
bigger. [clears throat] I was 24 when my
dad died
and he died of emphyma
and [clears throat]
slow lingering death. He died in the
hospital.
And
the night before he died, the day before
he died, I was visiting him and um he
was sitting on the edge of the bed
and he said to me, "Uh,
I'm going to die now.
You know, I'm I'm going to die tonight."
Turns out, of course, he was right. He
did. That was the night he died.
And instead of recognizing that
this was a moment where
he wanted to talk to his son about this
this probably the most momentous event
that any of us will ever face.
Right? Instead of recognizing that,
I went to the typical trope of, "Oh,
dad, don't don't talk like that. You
you're not going to die. you got a long
way to go. You're going to be fine. I
went to all that [ __ ]
instead of just recognizing whether he
was right or wrong
[clears throat] that
he was facing a momentous thing and
[snorts and clears throat] he didn't
want to hear
don't don't think about that think more
positively. He he wanted to share with
his son
what he was facing.
And I regret that I wasn't there for him
in that moment.
But I regret that I didn't get to
experience that with him in that moment.
So that's my biggest.
>> I can still see it still in your face.
That was 50 years ago.
>> Is there a reason why you think in that
moment you didn't
want to go in that direction with him?
>> Was it a matter of what I wanted? Cuz
it's not like I considered
[clears throat]
I can either blow it off, which is what
I did, or embrace it and go there with
him. I I didn't even think that way.
It's not like
it's not like I made the wrong choice. I
wasn't mature enough to recognize there
was a choice. I wasn't mature enough to
recognize
the real dynamic of what was happening.
>> And for that you deserve grace.
>> Thank you. And I agree with that. But I
still regret it because how much better
for both of us would it have been
if I had recognized it? JL, we have a
closing tradition on this podcast where
the last guest leaves a question for the
next.
>> What is something that you think is true
that you haven't yet been able to
validate? I think at at this point in my
life, I'm I feel pretty comfortable
about what I think is true. Right? So,
I'm not sure this answers the question,
but uh
but a good example is I am pretty sure
that there is no afterlife,
right? I I have a high degree of
confidence to that. But of course, as
the song once said, we never know by
living and only our dying will tell. And
I am very curious about death. I am very
curious as to
what is on the other side, if anything.
So, in a perverse way, I guess I'm I am
looking forward to my death, right? I I
don't want to get there too soon. I
mean, I'm as long as I'm mentally and
physically capable, I'm happy to
continue living. Thank you very much.
But I do have a great curiosity about
death, and I'm almost 100% sure that
when I'm dead, that's just it. It's
over.
But I'm curious, and it'll be
interesting if I die, and it's like,
whoops. You know, it's like, oh, there
is a guy with a white beard and
okay, I'll just show myself out. Thank
you very much.
>> [laughter]
>> There was one last question I wanted to
ask you which is kind of just about the
subject of happiness. Again at 75 years
old you have a retrospective clarity
that I don't yet have on what actually
mattered.
What actually matters?
>> Nothing.
Nothing really matters ultimately.
>> Nothing.
>> Yeah. I think
that's kind of like asking what's the
meaning of life, right?
And I don't think there is a meaning to
life when you look at the scale of the
universe, the scale of the cosmos.
The concept that
we as individuals bear some meaning
seems to me to be silly. Human beings
have been around for I don't know two
300,000 years depending on when you
define homo sapiens. I mean that's
that's a infantestibly small smudge of
time
in that has happened already and that
will happen in the future even if humans
last for another few million years. It
will be an infinitely
tiny bit of time against this huge
cosmic universe and our individuality
within that is infantessimally small and
I think there's some great meaning
behind that seems to be to be the height
of arrogance. So I think that if you go
through life and you treat people pretty
well and you have a a pretty good good
run of it, I think you've done well. I
don't but I don't think there's
something profound in that.
>> So So what is the point then? Is there a
point? Is that the real question?
>> There is no point. I mean the the point
is we happen to be here and it can be a
good fun ride. It can be a very
difficult ride depending on what you
make of it and in some cases depending
on your circumstances. There have
certainly been people in history that
have born been born into circumstances
that
you know made it a a miserable existence
with no options out of it. I mean what's
the meaning of that? You know, you and I
and the vast majority of people
listening to us, probably I venture to
say 100% of them have a lot more
autonomy over over how we can make our
life. And
will it have great meaning? No,
ultimately not. But it's the only life
you have and you may as well make the
best of it.
>> I actually listened to something last
night by a guy called Lucas Jones who is
an actor. Um, he has some great books.
He's also a poet as far as I'm aware.
I'll link his books below. Um, but he he
made wrote this poem which I thought was
quite related to that that I'm just
going to play for you cuz I think it's
kind of captures the essence as well of
what you're saying.
>> He starts by saying, "I saw God on the
train."
>> Okay.
>> Saw God on the train.
>> A pretended I didn't. So, I sat far away
from the seat he was sitting in. And
then he got up, I think probably to piss
and he noticed me there and said, "All
right, what's this? What are you saying?
You hiding from me?" I said, "Ah, mate,
nah, just a comfy seat." And he looked
at me like I was a kid covered in
chocolate surrounded by rappers saying,
"Don't know what happened." And he go,
"It's coming then, mate. I've got a few
minutes. Tell me what's wrong, but don't
[ __ ] around with it." And it shocked me
then that it fit in one sentence. I
said, "Just think heaven's a stupid
incentive." Like what a [ __ ] life for a
beautiful death. And those who are evil
can suddenly repent like a killer or not
can live like a monster. Then right at
the end say, "I'm sorry, dear God, sir."
And end up in heaven right there with my
nana. She's doing some knitting. He's
waving a hammer. He's like, "Jesus god,
what a horrible deal." And he goes,
"Yeah, it's [ __ ] I know how you
feel." I'm like, "Mate, you're the one
spinning the wheel." And he goes,
"Listen, I'll tell you a secret." All
that stuff, mate. I didn't speak it.
Like the old joke says about liars and
men. If God wrote the book, why are you
holding the pen? Now, the rules I wrote,
I wrote on your heart. Truth I spoke,
you've known from the start, be kind,
don't harm, isn't that hard. Heaven is
just life if you're doing your part. You
want white clouds and endless skies. Uh,
yeah. Look around. You don't have to
die. I know it probably brings you some
pain to think of the dead as just dust
in a grave. But humans can't comprehend
it when I say life is the cloud and
death is the rain. And I got to my stop
and felt kind of mad. Not sure he
answered the questions I had. Then I
looked up and saw the sun rising. Said,
"You're looking for heaven, but you're
the one hiding."
[laughter]
>> LJ, thank you. Thank you for writing
these incredible books that I highly
recommend anybody who is on their own
journey to financial freedom and is
looking for a free life, a financial
independence or just independence from
one's own tormenting psychology should h
should uh should buy this book. The
simple path to wealth has been an
absolute smash hit for um understandable
reasons once you read it. Sold many
millions of copies from what I
understand, more than a million copies
at least. And I highly recommend
everybody goes and starts with this book
and then picks up Pathfinders. I'm going
to link both of these books below. And
there is a third book, it's slightly
smaller, called How I Lost Money in Real
Estate Before It Was Fashionable, A
Cautionary Tale. Um, I'm going to link
all of them below. And if anybody else
wants to find more of your work, is
there anywhere else that they can get in
contact with you, read your work that I
should recommend? So probably the
easiest thing is the blog which is
jlinsnh
at uh or.com and uh you know you'll find
a lot of my writing. I don't write on
the blog too much anymore but the
material that's there is evergreen. It's
the source material for the books that
you were kind enough to share. Uh the
last book the how I lost money in real
estate is if somebody wants to have a
laugh at my expense that's the book they
want to pick up.
>> Thank you for doing so much of what you
do. Um, I know what the comments are
going to say already. They're going to
be people talking about how soothing
your voice is, and I [laughter] I happen
to I happen to agree. Thank you so much.
>> My pleasure. Thank you for having me.
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The video discusses the principles of building wealth, primarily through the lens of J.L. Collins' book, "The Simple Path to Wealth." Key takeaways include the importance of avoiding debt, living below one's means, and investing surplus, particularly in stocks through low-cost index funds. The discussion emphasizes that financial independence provides freedom and options, and that a focus on 'what money can earn' rather than 'what money can buy' is crucial. It also touches upon the psychological aspects of wealth building, the role of trauma in driving success, the difference between investing and speculating, and the importance of long-term perspective and emotional control in financial decisions. The speaker also delves into the complexities of homeownership, the impact of 'must-haves' on wealth accumulation, and the nuances of saving and investing, including tax-advantaged accounts. Finally, it explores the personal regrets and life philosophies of the guest, highlighting the importance of experiences and relationships over material possessions, and questioning the ultimate meaning of life and wealth.
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