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If your goal is to become financially

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independent at a young age, this is a

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very controversial thing to say, you

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probably don't want to go buy a house

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because people typically buy a house

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they can't possibly afford. The bank

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wants you to do that cuz that's how they

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make the most money. So, you're putting

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your capital into that house and now

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it's not going to be earning thing. It's

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going to be sitting idally. And people

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say, "Well, you know, I can buy this

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house cuz my mortgage is the same as my

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rent." Well, yeah, but your mortgage is

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just the starting point. So, what comes

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to mind if I want to be financially

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wealthy?

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>> Okay, so we've got a lot to go through.

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>> J Collins is a renowned financial expert

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known for his book, The Simple Path to

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Wealth.

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>> He's teaching millions a straightforward

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and realistic avenue for achieving

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wealth

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>> so that anyone can have financial

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security.

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>> What is the simple path to wealth?

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>> So, first of all, avoid debt because you

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can never be financially independent if

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you're carrying around debt. Next, live

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on less than you [music] earn. But the

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problem is the way our culture has

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taught us to think about money is solely

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in terms of what can you buy with it.

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But the more musthaves you have in your

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life, the less likely you are to become

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wealthy. And then the final one, invest

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the surplus. So stocks are the single

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most effective, strongest wealth

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building tool that's ever been created.

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But the biggest push back I get is from

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people who say, "Well, that's great. I

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mean, if you got a big income, 100, 200,

1:18

$300,000 a year, then yeah, the simple

1:20

path to wealth will work for you."

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That's not the truth. For instance, a

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friend of mine and he was making a

1:25

million dollars a year and he was broke

1:26

because people have large incomes are

1:28

much more likely to be drawn into the

1:30

competing with the Joneses, whereas the

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people who make less money probably

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don't have those same social pressures

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and are more readily able to do it. So,

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>> let's talk about investing then. Where

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do you think we should be investing our

1:40

money at this moment of time? Should I

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buy Bitcoin? Do I need a financial

1:44

adviser? So, my advice, and this is a

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little different than the more common

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advice out there, would be

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>> this has always blown my mind a little

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[music and singing]

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JL Collins,

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you wrote a book, a very iconic book

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that sold millions of copies called The

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Simple Path to Wealth. Why did you write

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this book?

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>> I actually that book was an outgrowth of

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my blog.

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I started the blog to archive

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information I wanted my daughter to have

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available because if you get money

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right, your life is so much better. You

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have so many more options. And the world

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offers so much to people who have the

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resources with which to access it and so

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little for those people who don't have

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the resources to access those things.

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And and if you don't have it, it life is

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just so much harder than it than it

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needs to be.

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>> When you think about the average person

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listening right now, what is what are

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some of the fundamental sort of

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misconceptions or misunderstandings or

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what would you call it? Black spots that

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they have as it relates to money, the

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things they walk around assuming about

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money that are incorrect

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>> that that you were maybe trying to get

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out of your daughter's mind.

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>> Right? So there's a chapter in the book

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called how to think about money. And the

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fundamental way I think the vast

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majority of people think about money

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because this is what our culture has

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taught us. The way our culture has

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taught us to think about money is solely

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in terms of what can you buy with it.

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[snorts] So if you go to the average

3:54

person that lottery for instance is like

3:57

a billion dollars at the moment. So

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people are buying lottery tickets. And

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if you interviewed people standing in

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line to buy lottery tickets and said,

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"Okay, if you win this million dollar,

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what are you going to do with it?" Well,

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what you're typically going to hear is,

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"Well, I'm going to pay off my debts and

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I'm going to pay off my mortgage and I'm

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going to buy my parents a house and I'm

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going to buy myself a Lamborghini. I'm

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going to buy I'm going to buy I'm going

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to buy." That's the way most people

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think about money. And that's certainly

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one of the things that money is very

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good at. It is a means of exchange.

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But the other thing your money can do

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for you is work for you. Your money can

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make you more money. So you can exchange

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your time and effort and labor to earn

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money. And that's what most of us do.

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But you can also divert some of the

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money you earn into investments into

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what I call buying your freedom. And now

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your money is working for you. So

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instead of just thinking about what your

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money can buy, you can start thinking

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about what can your money earn.

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>> You can buy your freedom.

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>> You can buy your freedom, your financial

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freedom.

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>> Why is that an important refraraming of

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the role of money in your view? What

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does that do if I start thinking about

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it through that lens? Well, because as

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long as you are dependent on exchanging

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your effort, time, and labor for money,

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you are beholden to whoever is willing

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to pay you to do that. That's a limit of

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freedom. It's a it's a form of, without

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being too dramatic, a form of slavery.

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If you are always living paycheck to

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paycheck to pay the mortgage or the rent

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or whatever, if on the other hand, work

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is optional, you're a good example. and

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you've been a very successful guy.

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[snorts]

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You're not doing this podcast because

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you need the money. If you were still

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stuck at a job that paid you a wage, you

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wouldn't have the option to do this

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because you'd have to devote all your

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time to that job so you could pay the

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mortgage, so you could pay the rent, so

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you could put food on the table. Money

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buys freedom.

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>> How does one get out of that situation?

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you know, if I I used to work in call

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centers um answering phones and selling

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people things.

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>> How does one in your view realistically

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get from that place where you are kind

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of beholden to the paycheck? And I was

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I'd spend my wage within the first week

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or so of the month and then I'd just

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suffer for the next 3 weeks. In the UK,

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we have like a four week paying cycle. I

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think in the US it's 2 weeks typically,

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but I took a I think a reckless road out

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of that life. The thing that gave me the

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proclivity to take the risk is like some

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kind of insecurity and trauma where like

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I couldn't I didn't have a plan B

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because I wanted to be I wanted to like

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validate myself or something. And so I

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wonder if the the skill or the thing

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that I was given that I'm most thankful

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for is like some kind of chip on my

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shoulder,

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>> some kind of drama.

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>> Yeah. But but on genuinely because I

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think like what would make you take a

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risk like some of the risks that I took

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to leave university to then like be be

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broke and I was like, well, I just I was

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driven I was dragged by some kind of

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trauma.

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>> Right? One of the things that I've

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observed, and I think to the extent that

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I've had some success in my life, this

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is true, that successful people do tend

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to have trauma in their background. At

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least that's my observation. Now, I'm

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sure there are exceptions to that, but

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it does seem that people like us are

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striving to overcome

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those past traumas, to have that chip on

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the shoulder, to prove something.

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I've also met people who are very

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content to be completely lacking in

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ambition

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and to have enough to have a comfortable

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life and kind of do what they want to do

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to have financial independence maybe but

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they don't have this drive to be

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successful to to make a mark on on the

7:54

world and they tend to have had better

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childhoods and and uh and I think that

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there is that wasn't me. That doesn't

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appear to be you. But I think there's a

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lot to be said for for that, right?

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>> You I mean you open the book about

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talking about a parable of the monk

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>> and the minister

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>> and the minister.

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>> Yeah.

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>> Can you uh tell me about that parable

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because it seems to somewhat relate to

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what we're seeing here. I think

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>> very very much so and that's the reason

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I open the book with it. So the parable

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is there are these uh two boys who grew

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up together. their childhood friends. As

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frequently happens, they go their

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different directions in life as they

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become adults. And one becomes a very

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successful, powerful minister to the

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king, and the other becomes a humble

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monk in tattered robes with a begging

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bowl and what have you. And years later,

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they run into each other on the road.

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And they're getting reacquainted.

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And as they are, the minister, the king,

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takes pity on on his povertystricken

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friend and his tattered robes. And he

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says, 'You know, if you could learn to

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cater to the king, you wouldn't have to

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live on rice and beans. To which the

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monk replies, if you could learn to live

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on rice and beans,

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you wouldn't have to cater to the king.

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And for me, I've always been a little

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bit more towards the monk side. I'm uh

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I'm not a very materialistic person, and

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I'm comfortable and able to get along on

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on very little. And I think there's

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something beautiful about needing less.

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>> I have from my interviews met people who

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are very wealthy, even actually off

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camera,

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>> who are very, very wealthy and appear to

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be happy. Yes.

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>> But I think I I think it's safe to say

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that the richest people I know are

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amongst the least happy people I know.

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So if I think about the very top, the

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billionaires that I know off camera,

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>> they are amongst the least happy

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typically.

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>> Mhm. Um because I think whatever's taken

9:56

them there is still haunting them while

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they're there. So it could be the chip

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on the shoulder, the insecurity,

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whatever happened to them that made them

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so driven and obsessed with validation

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and climbing is still haunting them now.

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But I do also I do know people like I

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say that are very very rich and that

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live remarkably content lives. And I

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think part of it is their relationship

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with the stuff. Like I think it is

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possible

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>> and they probably keep it at arms

10:19

length, right? They're a little psychic

10:21

distance from the stuff.

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>> Yeah. And I just speaking from my own

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journey at a very young age up until the

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age of 25, I was convinced that buying a

10:29

Range Rover Sport was going to like

10:30

really make me really happy. And um the

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anti-limax once I I got those things was

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was like it was staggering. It was a

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complete

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>> mental it was like someone had shaken my

10:41

head. My reality distorted for a second

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because I thought this was meant to be

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it.

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>> And now I can still get things that I

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like. But um I was saying to Will the

10:49

other day that when I walked into my new

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house in LA um I had pre-repped myself

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to know that it was going to have zero

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impact on my happiness and that meant

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that I actually enjoyed it weirdly.

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>> Right.

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>> Like I was actually super grateful

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because I'd pre-repped myself to have a

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healthier relationship with the thing

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>> to bring the expectation down.

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>> Exactly.

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>> So there are a couple things at play

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there. I think one is it's the journey

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that's really satisfying.

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>> The destination tends to be less so. And

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I think that's one of the problems with

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being very materialistic because you

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know if your definition of happiness is

11:22

if I only owned this watch, right? If I

11:25

only had this watch maker make me this

11:28

intricate watch, then I would be happy.

11:30

Well, I mean maybe, but probably not.

11:33

You're probably going to have that

11:34

watch. You're going to look at it and

11:35

say, "That's really nice. Wow, that's

11:38

good." And it'll and then well, what's

11:40

next? But if you enjoy the journey or

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and I think you made a very wise

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decision if you reset your expectations

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and say, you know, I'm going to have

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this nice house or this nice watch, but

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I don't expect it to make me happy, but

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it's going to be a nice thing to have in

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in my life.

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>> And somebody once said much wiser than

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me, you know, money doesn't change who

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you are. It it can magnify who you are.

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So if you're an unhappy person and

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you're have lots of money, you will

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probably still be an unhappy person.

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>> Mhm.

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>> Uh if you're a happy person, I mean, one

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of the happy, in fact, the single

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happiest guy I know. His life was the

12:18

biggest financial disaster of anybody I

12:20

personally know. And this guy's he's the

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literally the happiest human being I've

12:25

ever met.

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>> Cuz he was happy before.

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>> Because he was happy before. And there's

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other things besides money that makes

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you happy. Money. And the reason that I

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I it was so important to me to teach my

12:37

daughter this, money gives you options,

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right? Money allows you a lot wider

12:44

range of choices in life,

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but it doesn't necessarily make you

12:49

happy, right? If it allows you to pursue

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an option

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that otherwise you couldn't pursue and

12:56

that option makes you happy, that's a

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different thing. I think if I was

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listening to this and I was broke, like

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I used to be very broke, I would still

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pursue wealth at all costs because I

13:07

know I heard this phrase the other day

13:09

which was it is easier to get rich than

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it is to give up the idea that getting

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rich will make you happy. And I

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[laughter] I thought to myself,

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>> and if you haven't got rich, you would

13:22

always think

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>> 100%. You'd always wonder if that was

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And you know what? So much of the

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unhappiness or anxiety that I had when I

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was, you know, in my early early innings

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of my life, my career came from looking

13:35

down and seeing the baiff letters or

13:37

came from the credit card debt or how am

13:39

I going to eat today or, you know, can't

13:41

go out and see my friends. So much of my

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mind was occupied by my inability to

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have freedom,

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>> right? my lack of freedom, my need to

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get up at 8:00 and walk for an hour and

13:50

a half to a call center was, you know,

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so what I managed to remove was that I

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wouldn't say I I added happiness, but I

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removed the unhappiness.

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>> Well, and that's a that's a key point.

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You know, money doesn't necessarily make

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you happy, but the lack of money.

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>> Oh, yeah.

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>> Can be terrible challenge, especially in

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this modern culture we've created.

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>> Okay. So, if you have kids listening

14:12

right now, please cover their ears cuz

14:13

I'm going to say a swear word. Parents

14:15

always message me and ask me to stop

14:16

swearing. going to say well um a lot of

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people are obsessed with this idea of

14:20

[ __ ] you money

14:21

>> right

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>> let me just give you a definition so fu

14:24

money refers to a financial situation

14:25

where a person has enough money to live

14:27

comfortably without needing to work and

14:28

it gives you the freedom to say f you to

14:30

anyone or anything you don't want to

14:33

tolerate such as a job a boss or a

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situation that doesn't align with your

14:36

values what does that mean to you

14:40

>> yeah so for me so that's a good

14:41

definition but I would substitute in

14:44

that definition financial independence

14:46

FU money for me is the money you

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accumulate on the way, right? So, for

14:52

instance, if you're a bodybuilder,

14:55

you know, financial independence is when

14:57

you're on the stage and you're winning,

14:59

you're at the elite level. But along the

15:02

way, from the moment you start working

15:03

out, you get a little bit stronger, a

15:05

little bit stronger, a little bit

15:06

stronger, right? Same thing financially.

15:09

The moment you start setting aside money

15:11

and investing it, you become a little

15:13

bit financially stronger. And that

15:16

builds over time. That in my mind is the

15:18

FU money because long before you're

15:22

financially independent, that money

15:25

gives you enormous freedom. You might

15:27

not be able to never work again, but if

15:31

you need to, you could leave a toxic job

15:34

knowing you could survive for months or

15:37

even years while you looked for the

15:40

better job because you have that FU

15:42

money. So it allows you to say f you in

15:44

that case to an employer.

15:46

>> And if your daughter daughter turned

15:47

around, what's her name?

15:48

>> Jessica.

15:49

>> Jessica. If Jessica turns around to you

15:50

and says, "Dad, what are what is

15:53

something I should not do with my money

15:55

if I

15:57

um want to be wealthy?

16:00

What is what are like the big what is

16:02

the first thing that comes to mind to as

16:03

a no no if I want to be financially

16:06

wealthy?"

16:07

The mo more common advice that I think

16:10

you should avoid if your goal is to

16:11

become financially independent at a

16:13

young age. You probably don't want to go

16:15

buy a house.

16:17

That's a very controversial thing to

16:19

say. The reason you want buy a house is

16:21

because houses dramatically inflate by

16:25

and large your cost of living. You know,

16:28

you're you're putting your capital into

16:30

that house and now it's not going to be

16:31

earning thing. can be sitting idally

16:34

along with owning a house. You have the

16:36

expenses of maintaining it, paying the

16:38

taxes on it, blah blah blah. If you stay

16:42

in a apartment that is just enough to

16:45

meet your needs, which by the way is

16:47

what my daughter has done and continues

16:50

to do, your costs will be lower.

16:53

>> Explain that to me. Explain why my cost

16:55

of living goes up if I buy a house.

16:56

>> Sure. So people, it doesn't have to, but

16:59

people people typically buy the most

17:02

house they can possibly afford. The

17:04

industry drives them that way. If you go

17:06

to a real estate agent, you say, "I

17:08

think I'm I want to buy a house." Right?

17:10

First question they're going to ask you

17:11

is, "How much do you make? How much do

17:13

you want to spend?" You know, and and

17:14

then you go to the bank and you say,

17:16

"Okay, I want to buy a house. How much

17:18

will you lend me?" And they'll say,

17:19

"Well, how much you make?" And then

17:20

they'll come back with the large number

17:23

of how much they're willing to lend you.

17:25

If you follow those guidelines, you're

17:27

going to wind up with a house that's

17:29

going to be a burden. You are not buying

17:31

it from a position of strength. You are

17:33

stretching to buy it. You are borrowing

17:35

the most money a bank's willing to give

17:36

you. You probably don't want to do that.

17:39

I mean, you can, that's the bank wants

17:41

you to do that cuz [clears throat]

17:41

that's how they make the most money, but

17:43

that's not the best thing for you to do.

17:45

But that's what you get drawn into. And

17:47

then when you buy that house, I don't

17:50

know that I've ever known anybody,

17:51

including me, by the way, and I've owned

17:52

houses most of my adult life, who's

17:54

owned a house without doing renovations

17:56

on it. So, you've got those costs.

17:59

You're going to furnish that house cuz

18:00

you're probably buying more square

18:02

footage than you were renting before.

18:04

You're going to need new furniture, or

18:05

maybe you just want better furniture for

18:07

your new house, maybe new appliances,

18:09

landscaping, taxes, maintenance. I mean,

18:12

the the list is endless. And people say,

18:15

"Well, you know, I can buy this house,

18:17

and my mortgage is the same as my rent."

18:22

Well, yeah, but your mortgage is just

18:25

the starting point. You've got all these

18:26

other expenses with the house. And the

18:28

other thing is they are variable

18:30

expenses.

18:31

>> Variable expenses.

18:32

>> Yeah. With your rent, you know, if if

18:34

you're renting an apartment, you're

18:36

paying $2,500 a month for your

18:38

apartment, right? you know exactly what

18:39

your housing costs are for the term of

18:41

your lease, right? $500 a month. If you

18:45

own a house, maybe your mortgage is

18:47

$2,500 a month. And then you need a new

18:50

roof. That's 20 grand. Or you need a new

18:53

septic system, which by the way, I'm

18:55

looking at having to put it in my

18:57

cottage, you know. Well, that's another

18:59

25 grand, right? And so, and you don't

19:02

necessarily know when those things are

19:03

going to come at you.

19:05

>> It is a bit of a trap, isn't it? It's a

19:07

trap that um I didn't realize this until

19:09

I bought a house and most people don't

19:11

>> like I even sit here on this podcast

19:12

doing this for a living and then I I

19:14

made this stupid mistake of buying a

19:16

house and I do think it was a stupid

19:18

mistake because I we'll talk about

19:20

opportunity cost in a second but I was

19:22

in hindsight it was like a terrible

19:23

decision. I spent all this money on this

19:26

house. It was a house abroad. It was

19:28

also like a holiday home I guess

19:30

>> and every time I come all I see is

19:32

things that I need to change.

19:33

>> Yeah. It's looking at the United States

19:36

for instance, if 20 years ago, 30 years

19:38

ago, you'd bought a house in San

19:40

Francisco,

19:42

well, you've done very, very well

19:43

financially. If you bought a house in

19:45

Detroit,

19:47

not so much. So then the question

19:49

becomes, and people will say, well,

19:51

obviously you don't buy a house in

19:52

Detroit, you buy a house in San

19:53

Francisco. Well, I'm not an expert in

19:56

real estate, but I am reading more and

19:59

more commonly that San Francisco is has

20:01

a lot of very challenging problems at

20:04

the moment. Detroit, on the other hand,

20:06

where I was just visiting a couple of

20:09

years ago, is enjoying a renaissance.

20:11

Detroit's coming back. So, who's to say

20:14

in 20, 30 years, people won't be saying,

20:17

"If you bought in Detroit back in 2025,

20:20

you were golden." And if you bought San

20:22

Francisco, yeah, not so much. Sometimes

20:25

real estate, buying a house can work out

20:28

in a spectacular fashion. And that's the

20:31

stories people tend to hear, but not

20:33

always.

20:33

>> And that's what I tend to see in the

20:34

comment section when we talk about this

20:36

issue of buying a house. I was just

20:38

looking at the comment section actually.

20:39

And on a previous conversation where we

20:41

talked about whether you should buy a

20:43

house, someone said, "I bought a house

20:45

and it's the best thing I ever did."

20:46

Right? It's launched my mindset in new

20:48

directions. Remember that having your

20:51

own space has profound psychological

20:53

impacts and can be life-changing for

20:55

some of that don't live in a healthy

20:58

environment. The psychological impact of

21:01

buying a house.

21:02

>> What that commenter just said is is can

21:05

be and for him obviously it's absolutely

21:08

true.

21:10

I am not anti- house. As I mentioned a

21:12

moment ago, I've owned houses most of my

21:14

adult life, but I've never bought them

21:17

because I thought they were an

21:18

investment. I bought them because I

21:20

thought they would enhance my life in a

21:22

way I wanted it enhanced. They would

21:25

make my life better. They are in my view

21:28

an expensive indulgence. I have nothing

21:31

against expensive indulgences. That's

21:33

one of the reasons we accumulate money,

21:35

right? I like some expensive and some I

21:38

don't care about, some I like. Um, but

21:41

that's what they are. And if you can

21:43

easily afford it, then by all means buy

21:46

the house. Looking at some stats here,

21:48

it says home buying was once a solid

21:49

investment due to rising property values

21:51

and lower mortgage rates. However, for

21:53

younger generations, this is no longer

21:55

the case because of skyrocketing home

21:57

prices. Since 1980, US home prices have

22:00

increased by over 300%, outpacing

22:03

inflation and wage growth. In 2023,

22:06

mortgage rates surged past 7%, making

22:08

monthly payments significantly higher

22:10

than before. And medium wages have only

22:12

risen by about 15% since year the year

22:16

2000. While home prices have more than

22:18

doubled, making home ownership less

22:21

affordable. And lastly, the cost of

22:22

renting is often cheaper than buying,

22:24

especially in cities where prices have

22:26

outpaced wage growth, leading many

22:27

younger people to choose renting for

22:29

flexibility. This point of flexibility

22:31

as well is one we don't talk about.

22:33

>> Right.

22:33

>> Which is the ability to go do something

22:35

else in another country.

22:36

>> Exactly.

22:37

>> And my brother said this to me when I

22:38

was 20. My brother's very smart. He's a

22:40

year older than me, a financial genius,

22:42

and has a much different brain to mine.

22:45

And I remember when I was 20, maybe 24

22:49

and I was talking about do I buy a house

22:50

and he both told me it was the worst

22:53

investment I could ever make. But he

22:54

also told me to think about flexibility

22:56

and my ability to get up and move.

22:58

>> Yes.

22:58

>> And I was what do you mean? And he said,

23:00

"Well, listen, you're in a certain era

23:01

of your career where

23:05

you might be called by someone in San

23:08

Francisco who offers you a great

23:09

opportunity and you might want to go

23:11

next week." And actually when I look at

23:13

how my career transpired, that's exactly

23:15

what happened. I was in Plymouth and

23:18

then I went to Manchester for business.

23:20

Then I went to London for business. Then

23:21

I went around the world to San Francisco

23:23

to New York for business. And I'm I'm

23:26

moving with the opportunity.

23:28

And if I was anchored somewhere because

23:30

a mortgage does

23:31

>> dragging that along.

23:32

>> Yeah. And a mortgage does like

23:33

psychologically anchor you. This is what

23:35

people don't talk about. It creates a

23:36

huge amount of guilt if you then want to

23:40

get up and go because you in your head

23:42

you're going, "Well, I'm going to be

23:42

paying double."

23:44

>> Well, so I agree with everything you

23:47

said. I agree I I agree with your

23:49

brother. Flexibility, especially when

23:52

you're young and your career is in a

23:54

dynamic [snorts] phase, it is not to be

23:57

underrated. For my daughter, I mean, she

24:00

loves living in Savannah. They've been

24:01

there for 3 years, but she has an

24:05

adventuresome soul. And you know, she

24:08

said, "I don't know. I mean, maybe at

24:09

some point I'll want to go live in

24:11

Europe or somewhere else." Well, if you

24:14

have a house, that complicates that

24:16

decision. And even if you are fortunate

24:19

enough to buy in a market where your

24:22

values are rising, the cost associated

24:25

with buying and selling of houses are

24:28

enormous. the, you know, the real estate

24:30

commission and the taxes and what have

24:32

you. So, getting in and out of a house

24:35

is an expensive proposition. Getting in

24:38

and out of apartment doesn't cost

24:39

anything. I mean, maybe your security

24:40

deposit rate, but that's it. That's

24:43

that's very clean and simple, but if

24:46

you're if you were to buy a house in

24:48

Savannah and then just say, you know, I

24:50

think I want to go live in in Portugal,

24:53

well, now you got to sell that house. Or

24:56

maybe you have to rent it. Now you're a

24:58

landlord. You're an accidental r

25:00

landlord, which was subject to my second

25:02

book. You know, that's not optimal. I

25:06

mean, if you set out to be a landlord,

25:07

great. But if you become an accidental

25:09

landlord because you can't sell your

25:12

house that you don't want to live in

25:14

anymore, that's not so great. So

25:17

flexibility is is enormously important.

25:20

If I if I were to ask you, what is the

25:23

simple path to wealth? and you had to

25:25

respond in a sentence, what would that

25:28

sentence be?

25:29

>> Avoid debt. Live on less than you earn.

25:31

Invest a surplus.

25:33

>> So, let's talk about debt then.

25:35

>> Okay.

25:35

>> Why did you say avoid debt?

25:37

>> You can never be financially independent

25:39

if you're carrying around debt.

25:42

It's a ball and chain that you drag drag

25:44

along, especially consumer debt. Now, to

25:46

be clear, if you're in business and your

25:49

business is is carrying debt as a as a

25:53

function of of running the operation for

25:57

one reason or another, that's kind of a

25:59

different thing. But in terms of

26:01

personal debt, uh if you're running up

26:04

credit card debt, if you're leasing

26:06

expensive cars or or borrowing money to

26:09

buy expensive cars or what have you,

26:11

possibly a mortgage [snorts] is in a

26:13

slightly different category, but it has

26:15

all the disadvantages we just talked

26:17

about. Yeah, debt's a ball and chain.

26:19

It's it's like asking a swimmer to

26:23

compete and and strapping a weight

26:26

around their waist. Uh it just is it

26:29

possible? Well, sure. I guess it is, but

26:30

it's a whole lot a whole lot more

26:32

difficult. So, job one if you have debt

26:34

is to blow it out.

26:36

>> And I mean, blowing it out is a dream

26:38

for many, but it's uh easier said than

26:40

done. I guess

26:41

>> it simply means that you have to

26:43

organize your life in such a fashion

26:46

that you can divert some money to either

26:50

buying your freedom investments or if

26:53

you have debt paying off that debt. You

26:56

just you have to do that. And people

26:59

say, "Well, I can't do that. You know, I

27:00

I need to have this. I the you know, I

27:03

need to have the these the two least

27:05

luxury cars and we need to live in this

27:07

neighborhood and we need to send the

27:08

kids to these schools. We need to and I

27:11

call that the tyranny of the must-haves.

27:13

The more musthaves you have in your

27:15

life, the less likely you are to become

27:17

financially independent." Now, that's

27:20

your choice. That's an individual's

27:22

choice. It may very well be that those

27:25

things are more important to you than

27:28

buying your freedom. And it's your

27:30

money. It's not for me to tell anybody

27:33

how they should spend their money or

27:34

what's important to me or what's

27:36

important to them. For me, there was

27:39

nothing I could spend my money on that

27:41

was more important than my freedom.

27:43

Which is why from the beginning, I

27:44

diverted half of my income to buying

27:47

that thing. Was never deprivation.

27:50

Right? Most people say, "Oh, that's this

27:52

is a path of deprivation. I can't spend

27:54

my money." Well, not for me. I, you

27:57

know, I spent every dime that ever came

27:59

my way. It's just that I spent half of

28:02

those dimes on the thing that I wanted

28:05

to own the most, which was my freedom.

28:08

And you own that by owning assets. So, I

28:12

wasn't I wasn't depriving myself any

28:14

more than if somebody said, you know,

28:18

I'm looking at buying a a Mercedes or a

28:21

Volkswagen, right? If I'm buy the

28:24

Mercedes, I'm in this big fancy car and

28:26

people will be impressed. If I buy the

28:29

Volkswagen, yeah, I'm in this more

28:31

modest car, but then I've got a whole

28:33

bunch of money left over that I can

28:34

spend on a wardrobe or going out to

28:37

dinner or a more expensive apartment.

28:39

It's just a matter of choosing where you

28:41

spend your money on. Right? So, one of

28:44

the choices and I I do I am under no

28:47

illusion that most people who read my

28:50

book will actually follow the simple

28:52

path cuz I I think there's just way too

28:56

much cultural influence to spend your

28:58

money elsewhere. But at least the people

29:01

who read the book and listen to this

29:03

interview will be aware that there is

29:06

something else they could buy with their

29:07

money. and that's their personal freedom

29:11

and you do that by assets and there was

29:13

nothing more important to me nothing I

29:15

wanted more so it was not deprivation at

29:19

all

29:20

>> I amum I reflect back on

29:24

where I used to be in my life and if I'd

29:25

heard this conversation then I really

29:28

really struggled with um saving money

29:31

because saving spending money was so

29:33

closely linked to my sense of self and

29:35

my self-esteem

29:36

>> a lot of people feel that way I've

29:38

shared this story before, but when I I

29:40

was working in those call centers at uh

29:42

which one, Swinton Swinton's car

29:44

insurance where I used to work, I would

29:46

get my paycheck and it might be I don't

29:47

know, £1,500 or £2,000, whatever. And

29:51

like on my way home on payday, I'd go

29:53

buy a 60-in TV [clears throat]

29:55

and [laughter] I'd put it in the house

29:56

and then I'd try and see if I had enough

29:58

money to buy a PlayStation

29:59

>> and then about a week later when I

30:01

realized that I was broke, I would sell

30:03

both. And I look at that behavior as

30:05

such absolute like

30:07

>> it's objectively like crazy behavior

30:09

like repeated videos

30:11

but it shows the extent to which I got a

30:14

dopamine hit from having a nice thing

30:16

and I was trapped in that cycle of like

30:18

>> buy the nice thing dopamine hit feel

30:20

validated feel like I'm a successful

30:22

person and then have to sell it a week

30:24

later.

30:24

>> Yeah. So, I really have a huge amount of

30:26

empathy for people that are stuck in

30:28

this spending for self-esteem cycle. And

30:32

they hear these, you know, they hear

30:33

people like me and you talk about these

30:35

things now

30:37

and it feels easier said than done.

30:40

>> That to me seems kind of insane. And and

30:45

you know, one of the things that

30:46

somebody pointed out one time is if

30:48

you're driving around in a Ferrari, you

30:51

know, maybe you're thinking to yourself,

30:53

if you're bought the Ferrari because you

30:55

want to impress people, everybody's

30:58

looking at me and they're thinking,

30:59

"Wow, what a cool guy that is driving

31:01

driving that Ferrari." No, that's not

31:03

what they're thinking.

31:05

They're looking at you in that Ferrari.

31:06

And what they're thinking is, "Wow, I

31:08

would look cool if I was driving that

31:10

Ferrari." They're not thinking about you

31:11

at all. it doesn't it you're making no

31:15

impact on on what their opinion of you

31:17

is.

31:18

>> So on this point of debt, I did have

31:20

some people contact me that were

31:21

childhood friends of mine recently and

31:23

asked um asked me for advice on getting

31:25

out of debt.

31:26

>> Mhm.

31:26

>> And one particular friend said that he

31:28

had $40,000

31:30

worth of debt and asked me for advice on

31:33

it. And I I really [clears throat]

31:34

I'm not an expert in this so I kind of

31:36

hesitated to give any advice.

31:38

>> But the advice I'm hearing from you is

31:40

essentially you have to make a

31:41

concession. You have to pull back your

31:43

spending and get things back under

31:45

control. You have to I know sell your

31:47

house.

31:47

>> So, here's some good news. So, you're

31:49

carrying to your friend. He's carrying

31:50

$40,000 in debt, right? My advice would

31:54

be, and this is a little different than

31:56

the more common advice out there, but I

31:59

would look at all my debts and I would

32:01

pick the one that was charging me the

32:02

highest interest rate and I would I'd

32:05

pay the minimums on all the others and I

32:07

would focus on paying that one down as

32:09

fast as I could because that's the

32:11

biggest return on my investment. And

32:13

when that one was gone, I'd go to the

32:15

second until I worked my way through.

32:17

It's going to be hard. And the more

32:21

quickly you do it, the harder it's going

32:23

to be cuz you're going to have to make

32:24

more dramatic adjustments to your life.

32:27

That's the bad news. Here's the good

32:29

news is once you are out of debt, if you

32:31

do this, you've developed a wonderful

32:34

discipline of living on less than you

32:36

earn and diverting the excess to

32:38

something else that you want more. In

32:40

this case, to something else you want

32:42

more is being out of debt.

32:44

If you continue with that discipline,

32:46

you now have the cash flow to begin

32:48

building those assets and becoming

32:50

wealthy. You've already developed that

32:52

lifestyle and that discipline. So that's

32:55

the one ray of sunshine, if you will, in

32:57

in the process of getting out of debt.

33:00

>> Okay. Play devil's advocate with me then

33:02

on this one.

33:02

>> Sure.

33:02

>> So when I was 18, 19 years old, my

33:05

strategy I was well aware that I'd

33:06

[ __ ] up my financial situation. Like I

33:08

was it was plainly clear that I'd

33:10

figured out what a credit score was and

33:11

I realized that I destroyed mine. I also

33:13

had these letters that [laughter]

33:16

these fail letters and and I had I had

33:19

mounting issues. I was avoiding

33:22

finances, bills, envelopes, you name it.

33:25

I just thought if I don't look at it, it

33:27

doesn't exist,

33:28

>> which I know a lot of people do because

33:30

when I was writing a previous book that

33:32

I wrote, I looked into some of the stats

33:34

about humans ability to avoid. Mhm.

33:36

>> Whether it's health situations, if a

33:38

friend of yours gets a bad diagnosis, I

33:40

was reading a study that said some

33:41

people are more likely to not go get

33:43

checked

33:44

>> even if their friends had a because they

33:46

just want to avoid it.

33:47

>> Um, and then with national finances, I

33:49

was reading a study that said we're

33:50

incurring billions and billions and

33:51

billions and billions of debt as a

33:53

society just because we don't look at

33:54

our bank balance. We don't open

33:56

envelopes. So, I know I'm not the only

33:58

one.

33:59

>> No, not at all.

34:00

>> My strategy was my This is such a dumb.

34:04

>> I'm not sure I want to hear this.

34:06

Well, go ahead.

34:07

>> Honestly, and this sounds like crazy

34:09

talk, but it's just the truth. In my

34:10

head, my strategy was

34:13

>> I'm going to get so rich that I outpace

34:14

this debt

34:15

>> and then I'll deal with it later.

34:17

>> My strategy was if I can just get really

34:19

rich, which is kind of the inverse of

34:21

what you're advising,

34:23

>> then this debt won't be a problem.

34:26

>> At 18 or 19 years old, you don't know

34:28

the world. You are guessing,

34:30

>> right?

34:31

>> And I was guessing that I could earn my

34:33

way out of it. The probability says I

34:35

was wrong.

34:36

>> The probability says that I was like

34:38

delusional or some or just like I

34:40

watched too many rap videos or

34:42

something,

34:42

>> right?

34:43

>> Um, so objectively that is a reckless

34:46

choice. Even if even if it's true and it

34:49

ends up being true for you, you end up

34:50

being what it's still a bad choice

34:52

because probability is stacked against

34:54

you.

34:55

>> Well, that's true. And but you just made

34:57

a critical point in that you can make a

35:00

bad choice where things work out well

35:03

for you.

35:03

>> Yeah, exactly. It's a bad choice.

35:05

>> So, a great example of that is investing

35:07

in Bitcoin, right? I'm not I'm not a

35:10

proponent of investing in Bitcoin.

35:13

Certainly, for those people who bought

35:15

Bitcoin 10, 15 years ago, they've done

35:17

extraordinarily well.

35:20

They got lucky. Lots of speculations

35:23

don't work out that well. So if you are

35:25

speculating

35:27

then you it might work out

35:29

extraordinarily well for you but it's

35:32

you're taking some pretty heavy risks in

35:34

doing that right it's same thing with a

35:37

lottery ticket I mean the chances of

35:39

winning the lottery are infantestimally

35:41

small but people buy lots and lots of

35:43

lottery tickets somebody somebody does

35:45

win it but that's probably not a good

35:48

way to spend your money

35:50

>> Bitcoin

35:51

>> you're not a fan of Bitcoin No. And I'm

35:55

not I'm not opposed to Bitcoin existing

35:57

in the world.

35:59

Uh but for me, it's a speculation and

36:02

I'm not a speculator.

36:04

>> When you say spec, give me some color

36:05

because I'm sure there's some people who

36:07

are listening now that are either

36:09

thinking about Bitcoin or have invested

36:10

in Bitcoin.

36:11

>> I mean, if you want to speculate that

36:13

Bitcoin, so I I would recommend against

36:16

it. So, and people and they might push

36:18

back and say, "Well, but JL, you know,

36:21

you were recommending against against it

36:23

10 years ago, which I was, and you

36:26

you've been wrong. I mean, absolutely

36:28

wrong. It's been great 10 years. It's

36:30

blown. It's done far better than the S&P

36:32

500." Well, that's true. If you'd had a

36:36

crystal ball, if I'd known that 10 years

36:39

ago, yeah, well, I would have been in

36:40

Bitcoin, right? We don't have crystal

36:43

balls. So the question isn't how is

36:45

Bitcoin done in the last 10 years. It's

36:48

how how is it going to do in the next 10

36:49

years. I don't know the answer to that.

36:52

But that's the question. Is it worth

36:55

$100,000 a coin now? Is it going to

36:57

continue to grow at that pace that you

37:02

regret that you missed over the last 10

37:04

years? That's the question you have to

37:05

ask yourself.

37:07

But I could say its success is evidence

37:12

that it's serving some kind of utility

37:14

for some people somewhere. Its success

37:18

means that there is demand for it by

37:20

very nature that the price has increased

37:21

so crazily over the last 15 years.

37:24

>> Yeah. That and that's an argument that

37:26

people make and there's a lot of debate

37:28

around that, right? is, you know, what

37:32

is the function that it has or that it's

37:35

going to develop? And you might well be

37:38

right. I don't I don't know the answer

37:39

to that question. It's not currently at

37:42

least a currency because it's way too

37:44

volatile to serve as a currency unless

37:46

you're doing illegal things that

37:49

make it more attractive than the

37:51

volatility makes it unattractive. So

37:53

that's not necessarily good for society,

37:55

but but so it can't function as a

37:58

currency. So, right now it's just a

38:01

speculation. Is it going to grow into

38:03

something that's more functional? Well,

38:07

you know, listening to one of the other

38:08

interviews you you you did,

38:13

that woman absolutely believes that

38:15

that's what's happening. And they Kathy

38:17

Wood, so that's why she's in Bitcoin.

38:19

And she may be right, but she's

38:22

speculating. And again, I have nothing

38:25

against speculating as long as you

38:27

understand, as I'm sure she does, that

38:29

that's what you're doing.

38:30

>> You'd prefer investing.

38:32

>> I prefer to have an engine creating

38:35

wealth behind where I put my money.

38:37

>> I had um a text message from a really

38:38

good friend of mine who my audience will

38:40

know because they've been on the show

38:41

before as a guest and uh they're very

38:43

well known in the UK. Um they text me

38:45

and said, "Please, can I ask you a

38:46

question? If you had mortgages and you

38:50

had a lump sum of money, thinking about

38:53

the future of AI, potential market

38:55

crashes, would you pay off chunks of the

38:58

mortgage or would you invest? My feeling

39:01

is that stocks aren't really safe. Am I

39:03

being paranoid?

39:05

>> Well, there that's there are a couple

39:06

questions embedded in that. So, the

39:08

first question is would I pay off a

39:11

mortgage? And the second question is are

39:13

stocks safe? Right?

39:16

>> [snorts]

39:16

>> So the mortgage one first to me is is

39:18

pretty easy. It kind of depends on your

39:21

interest rate.

39:22

>> What is an interest rate?

39:23

>> So an interest rate is what you pay to

39:25

borrow money. So when you when you get a

39:28

mortgage, you're borrowing money, right?

39:29

You're borrowing it from a bank or a

39:31

financial institution

39:33

and they they want to be paid for

39:35

letting you use their money. And three

39:38

three and a half% or less, that's really

39:42

cheap money. I would hold on to that. I

39:45

I would be in no hurry to pay that off.

39:48

On the other side, if you have a

39:50

mortgage rate that's say 6% or higher,

39:54

well, when you pay off that mortgage,

39:56

essentially you're locking in a

39:58

guaranteed return of that interest rate,

40:02

right? So, if you pay off an 8%

40:04

mortgage, you've locked in an 8% return

40:07

on that money effectively. And then to

40:09

finish the thought is if your interest

40:11

rates between those those two like three

40:14

and a half percent to five and a half

40:16

six percent then I would say it would

40:18

depend whether you pay it off or not is

40:20

what makes you emotionally more

40:22

comfortable and there's value in being

40:24

emotionally comfortable. So if you are

40:26

comfortable carrying the debt you might

40:28

say well I think I can do better in the

40:30

stock market so I'm going to carry it.

40:32

If emotionally like me you just would

40:34

rather not have any debt at all than you

40:36

then you blow it off. Maybe we could use

40:38

the coins as a an example of what an

40:41

interest rate is.

40:42

>> Sure. Let's say I'm sitting on this pile

40:44

of gold and you want to borrow some of

40:47

my gold. I'm happy to loan you, Stephen,

40:50

these 10 very valuable old pieces. But I

40:54

don't like you well enough to just let

40:55

you borrow them for free.

40:58

I want to be paid. I want to get a

41:00

reward back for that. So, when you

41:02

return these gold pieces to me in a

41:04

year, you're going to return 11 gold

41:07

pieces to me. You're going to pay me

41:08

10%. Cuz an extra gold piece is 10% of

41:13

these 10, right? Make sense?

41:14

>> Yeah.

41:15

>> That's what interest is.

41:16

>> So, I if I say, "Okay, I'm going to buy

41:18

a house,

41:19

>> right? You're going to take you're going

41:20

to take those 10 gold pieces. Go ahead

41:21

and take them."

41:22

>> So, I'm buying a house that costs 10

41:24

gold pieces, right? Right. So, I'm going

41:26

to accept your 10% interest rate.

41:29

>> Okay. Am I paying 10% a year on the to

41:34

on the total

41:35

>> on the balance? So, the way a mortgage

41:36

works is in the let's say it's a 30-year

41:39

mortgage, you're going to be sp giving

41:42

me a certain amount of money every

41:43

month, right? That's your mortgage

41:45

payment. And in the beginning, most of

41:48

that payment is going to be interest to

41:50

me. And a very tiny sliver of it will be

41:53

paying down the principal part of the 10

41:56

gold pieces that you bought or that you

41:58

Yeah. that you borrowed. A very tiny

42:01

sliver. And then over the course of 30

42:03

years that ratio changes as you pay down

42:06

the debt and less and less of it is

42:09

interest payments and more and more of

42:11

it is paying down the principal until at

42:14

the end of 30 years you've paid all the

42:16

principal and you've paid me a fairly

42:18

enormous amount of money in debt over

42:20

that or in uh interest over that 30

42:22

years.

42:23

>> And how do I get a good interest rate?

42:24

How do I get a very very low interest

42:26

rate? And what is a low interest rate

42:28

>> on a mortgage?

42:29

>> Yeah. So the only way you can get a So

42:32

first of all, you're going to pay

42:33

basically whatever the current interest

42:36

rates are.

42:36

>> Who sets the current interest rates?

42:38

>> So the Fed sets an overall interest

42:41

rate. You've heard the Fed will raise or

42:43

lower interest rates and that will

42:45

influence what lenders like bank and

42:48

mortgage companies will charge. It

42:51

doesn't require them to do a certain

42:53

level, but it will influence up or down

42:55

how much they're going to expect in

42:57

return for their money. The Fed is a

42:59

government.

42:59

>> Yeah, the Fed is a government agent

43:00

partially because the the Fed is

43:03

anticipating inflation

43:06

by how they set interest rates. So if

43:08

I'm lending you money and I'm worried

43:11

about inflation, if [clears throat] I

43:13

lend you my 10 gold pieces and say I

43:16

want 11 back in a year, 10%. But

43:20

inflation is 15%. Well, I've just made a

43:22

very, very bad deal. So if I think

43:24

inflation is going to be 15%, I'm going

43:27

to want two gold pieces back and maybe

43:29

or you know, so I so I'm I'm making a

43:32

profit above and beyond inflation. So

43:35

going back to your question, how do you

43:36

get a good mortgage rate? Well, you shop

43:39

around to various lenders at the time

43:42

you want the mortgage and see, you know,

43:44

who's offering what? And there'll be

43:45

some variation within a eighth of a

43:48

percent or a quarter of a percent or

43:49

something, but for the most part,

43:51

they're all going to be very tightly put

43:53

together because they're looking at the

43:55

overall projection of what inflation's

43:58

going to be, what they can charge, what

44:00

the cost of money is, what they can

44:02

charge in interest, and then

44:03

competitively what they what they have

44:05

to do to get your business. So, there's

44:08

not going to be a lot of variation.

44:10

you're not going to get a a

44:12

significantly better interest rate than

44:14

somebody else, but if you shop around,

44:16

you can probably do a little bit better.

44:18

And interest rates have been fluctuating

44:19

quite a lot over the last 20 odd years.

44:22

In the early 2000s, interest rates in

44:24

the US were relatively high, peaking at

44:26

almost 7%

44:28

in 2006 due to efforts to curb

44:30

inflation. And then after the financial

44:32

crisis, um they dropped a little bit.

44:34

Um, and I was looking here. Post 2008,

44:37

central banks around the world adopted

44:39

ultra low interest rates to revive

44:41

economies. US rates were slashed to near

44:44

0% by 2008 and remained there for nearly

44:47

a decade.

44:49

>> Right.

44:50

>> Damn. Um, COVID 19 pandemic uh interest

44:54

rates led to another record in cuts

44:57

globally with the US Fed lowering

44:58

interest rates to 0% to 0.25% to combat

45:03

economic disruption. So, does this mean

45:05

I should really be waiting for a time

45:07

when the interest rates are really

45:08

really low if I want to buy a house?

45:10

>> Well, not necessarily because you never

45:12

know when that's going to happen. I

45:14

mean, some some people have said

45:16

predicting what the stock market is

45:18

going to do is very very difficult.

45:20

Predicting where interest rates are

45:21

going to go even more so. So I think if

45:25

you're going to if you're going to buy a

45:26

house then again you buy it based on

45:29

whether you can easily afford it,

45:30

whether it meets your needs at a given

45:32

time and you deal with the interest

45:34

rates you have to deal with. And of

45:35

course they'll be part of the equation

45:37

in terms of how much you can afford

45:39

because the interest rate on your

45:40

mortgage is going to have a lot to do

45:42

with how much you have to pay every

45:43

month

45:44

>> and it's quite high at the moment.

45:45

Interest rates

45:47

>> high compared to what? So the fir you

45:49

know right now mortgage rates are 6% 7%

45:52

somewhere in there. The first mortgage I

45:54

took out was 18%.

45:56

>> 18%. That would have been in 1979

46:00

because in the 1970s we had really high

46:04

inflation. And when you have high

46:05

inflation, you have high interest rates,

46:08

right? So to me, I hear a 6% mortgage

46:12

rate and it's doesn't sound bad to me,

46:14

but for people who grew up where

46:17

mortgage rates were 2 and a half, 3%.

46:21

Well, yeah, I mean, it's huge. It

46:23

depends on your perspective.

46:24

>> And the other half of the lady's

46:26

question who sent me that text message

46:27

was around is investing in stocks safe

46:30

right now? and she did sort of preface

46:32

it by saying the questions in the

46:34

context of AI all of this disruption

46:36

that's going on in the world people are

46:38

going to lose their jobs etc et like is

46:40

it safe to invest in stocks right now

46:42

>> so depends on your time horizon so

46:46

stocks are are the single

46:51

most effective strongest wealth building

46:53

tool that's ever been created but they

46:56

are also very very volatile so when she

46:59

says are stocks safe to invest in right

47:01

now.

47:03

What I hear is very shortterm thinking

47:06

and stocks are never safe to invest in

47:09

for the short term because they're

47:12

volatile at any given moment. They can

47:14

take a deep plunge and that's a

47:16

perfectly natural part of the process.

47:18

People get all create especially if you

47:21

watch the news they people go insane and

47:24

panicked. But crashes and pullbacks in

47:26

the stock market are perfectly natural

47:28

part of the process. They are very very

47:31

difficult if not impossible to predict

47:33

when they're going to happen. But that's

47:35

the reason you never

47:37

want to invest in stocks for money that

47:40

you're going to need in the new near

47:41

term. If you zoom out for longer periods

47:46

of time, which is I re is what I

47:48

recommend, stocks are stunningly

47:51

reliable. I mean, there are very few

47:54

times over the course of 10 years where

47:56

stocks have not given you a good return.

47:58

and you go out 20 years and I I mean

48:00

it's very rare. So if you look long-term

48:04

stocks are extremely safe and extremely

48:07

powerful in building in building wealth,

48:09

but they are very volatile along the

48:11

way. So you have to be willing and able

48:15

to endure that volatility. If you're

48:17

going to panic and sell when the market

48:19

drops, not if because the market will

48:22

drop. It's a perfectly natural part of

48:24

the process. If you're going to panic

48:26

and sell when that happens, you do not

48:28

want to invest in stocks because they

48:30

will leave you bleeding on the side of

48:31

the road. Following my advice will leave

48:34

you bleeding on the side of the road if

48:36

you panic and sell. It's 100% dependent

48:40

on tying yourself to the mass during the

48:43

storm and ignoring the volatility and

48:47

continuing to invest into it because now

48:50

you're actually accumulating shares on

48:53

sale because prices are down because the

48:56

storm never lasts. It always blows over

49:01

and the sunshine comes back out and

49:04

prosperity returns. You're talking here

49:05

about the emotional side of investing,

49:07

which

49:07

>> which is critical.

49:08

>> Yeah.

49:09

>> If you if you can't control your

49:10

emotions, you're you're going to be

49:13

selling at the wrong time and buying at

49:14

the wrong time.

49:15

>> So, this is such a huge part of it that

49:17

people don't talk about enough. They

49:18

talk about tactics, strategies, what to

49:19

invest in, etc. But they don't talk

49:21

about the emotional side, which is

49:23

really like arguably a even bigger

49:26

element of this because if you think

49:28

about even how the brain is set up and

49:30

what drives us most, it's it's fear.

49:33

It's it's emotion.

49:35

>> You're in greed.

49:36

>> And when the when the prices drop, you

49:38

know, I mean, we've all got a story. So

49:40

many people listening. I remember my

49:41

first ever investment. I put £10,000

49:43

into Facebook stock a long long long

49:45

long time ago. And then it went down and

49:47

I sold.

49:48

>> I thought, I'm never investing again.

49:50

>> And if I just left it,

49:53

>> Yeah.

49:53

>> Um, God, that would be worth so much

49:55

money. It probably be worth six figures

49:57

now,

49:57

>> right?

49:57

>> But I I hadn't, no one had ever taught

49:59

me about the emotional side. And

50:01

actually part of the reason I sold it

50:02

was because I needed that money.

50:04

>> So there's two things there. One is the

50:06

emotional side of selling it. The other

50:08

thing is investing money that is not for

50:11

the long term cuz you turned out you

50:13

should never invest in money in the

50:15

stock market that is you're not willing

50:16

to commit for decades. This is a

50:19

longterm horizon because that's what

50:21

allows you to weather the storms. If

50:23

you're saving for a house for instance,

50:25

well you probably don't want to be in

50:26

the stock market. The best investor I've

50:28

ever met is my girlfriend. Uh because

50:30

she she loses the password [laughter]

50:34

to the investing app. And honestly,

50:35

every like two years I go, "Babe, do you

50:37

remember?" I was like, "You bought loads

50:39

of that index fund or Bitcoin or

50:41

whatever it is."

50:42

>> I was like, "Do you know the price of

50:43

it?" And she's like, "No, I forgot. I've

50:45

forgotten the password to the app." And

50:47

we always like log back in once every

50:49

two years and look at it. I'm like, "Oh

50:50

my god, babe. You're rich." And she's

50:51

like, "Oh, okay." And then she loses the

50:53

password again. She forgets it. This is

50:55

an incredibly important point you just

50:56

touched on. So Jack Bogle, the guy who

51:00

created retail index funds that we can

51:02

invest in now, created the Vanguard

51:04

Group in 1975.

51:07

Bogle once said, you know, invest in the

51:10

S&P 500 and don't even open your

51:13

statements when they come. Just let them

51:15

stay. Don't even open them for 20 years

51:19

and then open the final one and have a

51:21

cardiologist standing by because you

51:23

will be stunned at the level of wealth

51:26

that you've accumulated. One of the

51:29

things that I wrote this this book for

51:31

my daughter, right? My daughter is

51:34

sounds like she's kind of like your

51:35

girlfriend. She's very smart, but she

51:37

has zero interest in this financial

51:39

stuff.

51:41

That is a superpower because unlike me

51:46

and maybe a lot of people listening to

51:47

us who are interested in this stuff and

51:49

who are watching the market all the

51:51

time, she and your girlfriend are never

51:54

going to be tempted to panic when the

51:56

market drops because they're not going

51:58

to notice the market dropped, right?

52:00

Because they're they don't they don't

52:01

care. And the less you tinker with your

52:04

investments.

52:05

Charlie Munger, who was Warren Buffett's

52:08

partner, once said, "The worst thing you

52:09

can do as an investor is get in the way

52:11

of compounding, right? And that means

52:15

dancing into the market trying to sell

52:17

and buy back in and what have you. Just

52:18

[clears throat] let the compounding

52:20

run." I get so many people who read my

52:22

work and they say, "Wow, JL, I I I

52:25

really get it and it's wonderful and

52:27

you're absolutely right about

52:28

everything, but if we just did this one

52:31

little thing differently, it would be

52:33

even better." And they are I've come to

52:36

think of them as the tinkerers, right?

52:38

>> Are they men?

52:39

>> They I think a lot of them are men. I

52:41

think I think women are a little less

52:43

inclined to tinker because men put their

52:46

masculinity on the line in doing these

52:48

things and that's not useful.

52:51

>> I asked the question about men and women

52:53

because I got some stats here from

52:54

actually from Vanguard that says men are

52:57

70% more likely to invest in high-risisk

53:00

assets like individual stocks versus

53:02

safer assets than women. Men's portfolio

53:05

are 50% more volatile, which leads to

53:08

higher potential returns, but also huge

53:11

greater losses. As it relates to men,

53:13

again, despite having higher

53:15

risk-taking, men underperform women in

53:17

long-term returns annually due to

53:20

overtrading, tinkering,

53:23

>> and timing mistakes, tinkering. And men

53:25

trade 45% more often than women,

53:29

resulting in more fees because every

53:30

time they make a trade, they pay a fee

53:32

and lower gains. That's according to

53:34

Berkshire Hathaway.

53:36

The summary here is that men take more

53:38

risks, but in the long term tend to earn

53:40

less because of frequent mistakes and

53:42

emotional trading, whereas women are

53:44

more cautious and their approach tends

53:46

to yield better returns.

53:48

>> So, you know what we've learned here?

53:49

>> Yeah.

53:50

>> I have a very strong feminine side.

53:52

[laughter]

53:53

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55:00

>> You talked about compounding. You talked

55:02

about how one should maybe not open the

55:04

envelope that has the state.

55:06

>> That's Jack Bogle has said that, but I

55:07

agree with it. Yeah.

55:08

>> I I don't have to explain the graph I've

55:10

just passed you for you to know what

55:11

that is, right?

55:12

>> On the bottom, the red line is 11%

55:15

>> Mhm. returns. So the blue line that's

55:18

that's running fairly flat is the

55:20

contributions to this hypothetical

55:22

investment and the red line is the value

55:26

that that how it how it grows. And

55:29

what's striking, and this is this is

55:31

what's striking about compounding in

55:33

general, is that the two track each

55:36

other almost exactly for a surprisingly

55:39

long time, and then they begin to

55:41

diverge, and then the compounding makes

55:45

the value of the investment skyrocket.

55:48

It hockey sticks.

55:51

And I didn't know you were going to show

55:52

this to me, but what's interesting to me

55:55

about [clears throat] this is I used to

55:56

do these shitakas. They were events

55:58

where we'd take a small group of people

56:00

to some cool place in the world and hang

56:01

out. And there were people who followed

56:03

my work and and I would have one-on-one

56:06

sessions with them and we talk about

56:08

whatever they wanted, but mostly it was

56:10

their finances. And very commonly these

56:14

people would lay out their their

56:16

investments, their their finances, and

56:18

and

56:20

they would ask, "Am I financially

56:22

independent?" And that's a there's a

56:24

very simple mathematical formula about

56:26

that. How much did you spend? I spend

56:28

$100,000 a year. Okay. If you take the

56:31

4% guideline, what's that?

56:33

>> Withdrawal. So, a guy named Bill Ben

56:36

came up with the idea that you could

56:39

safely withdraw 4% of your portfolio and

56:42

it would continue to survive over time

56:46

and it would so you could you could pull

56:48

that out without depleting the

56:51

portfolio. There was a woman who came to

56:53

one of our [ __ ] talk. She was a banker.

56:55

So obviously knows her way around basic

56:58

math, right? She was at the end of Stuck

57:02

where she was going to take a new job

57:05

starting that Monday was going to pay

57:06

her a million dollars a year [snorts]

57:08

and we're going over her finances and

57:10

she said, you know, I've got $5 million

57:12

invested. Okay.

57:15

Am I financially independent? Well, I

57:17

can't answer that question until I know

57:19

how much are you spending. Said, well,

57:20

I'm spending $100,000 a year. Okay.

57:24

Well,

57:25

$100,000 a year, if you multiply it by

57:29

25, you get $2.5 million.

57:33

4% of 2 and a.5 million is 100,000,

57:37

right? So, that's how that math works.

57:39

So, if you need 100,000 to live on, you

57:42

need 2.5 million invested. Make sense?

57:45

>> Yeah.

57:45

>> Okay. So, you can look at it either way.

57:47

You can say, I've got two and a half

57:48

million. If I take 4% of that a year,

57:51

that's 100,000. or I I I'm spending

57:55

100,000. How much do I need? You

57:56

multiply that by 25 two and a half.

57:59

>> So, just to make sure I'm clear,

58:02

[snorts]

58:02

>> if I look at my investment portfolio and

58:05

I have $100 in there,

58:07

>> if I can live, are you saying that if I

58:09

live on $4,

58:11

which is 4% of my investment portfolio,

58:13

then I'm financially independent.

58:15

>> Right. That's a good Now, it's a good

58:17

guideline. I mean there's lots of

58:20

variations but this is a guy guideline

58:22

this financial adviser Bill Benin came

58:24

up with

58:26

u and then there was a thing called the

58:27

Trinity study which was done I want to

58:29

say in the '9s that looked at a lot of

58:31

these scenarios and basically verified

58:33

that this was a very good baseline. Um,

58:37

so 4% is I don't like the word rule

58:41

because that implies that it's hard and

58:44

fast, but it's a great guideline. If you

58:46

want to have a have an idea of whether

58:48

or not you're financially independent or

58:50

not, this is a good guideline. So

58:51

anyway, this woman says she's spending

58:54

$100,000 a year and she's got 5 million.

58:56

She wants to know, am I financially

58:59

independent in financially independent?

59:01

And I said, times two. I mean, you have

59:05

twice as much money as you need given

59:07

your level of spending. So, the question

59:09

that I always had going back to this

59:11

little chart is how and I would get this

59:14

question a lot, Stephen. You know,

59:16

they'd show me their numbers and they

59:19

would very clearly be financially

59:21

independent on that based on that math

59:22

we just discussed. And these were smart

59:25

people who can easily do basic

59:27

arithmetic. Said, how how is it that

59:30

they're asking me this this question?

59:32

And suddenly it dawned on me, this is

59:34

how

59:36

because compounding

59:39

is a is a hockey stick. It goes along

59:42

and and kind of doesn't appear to be

59:44

happening and then it's slowly starts to

59:46

happen and all of a sudden it's way up

59:48

here. It happens so quickly and so

59:50

stunningly they can't quite believe it.

59:54

It turned out is not that they couldn't

59:55

do the basic math. They certainly could

59:58

do the basic math.

60:00

What it was is they couldn't quite

60:02

[clears throat] believe what the math

60:03

was telling them and they wanted me to.

60:06

It's like

60:08

you you see what's on that wall over

60:10

there. I mean, are you seeing what I'm

60:13

seeing? Cuz I can't quite believe that

60:15

I'm seeing that. I need you to confirm

60:17

that. Yeah, you're seeing the same thing

60:19

I'm seeing. And in this example, all it

60:22

is is someone has, you know, they've

60:25

started with zero

60:26

>> and they've paid in a small contribution

60:29

every year to their investment. The

60:31

investment is getting 11% return a year

60:34

>> and suddenly the thing goes

60:37

>> I think that was one of the most pivotal

60:38

moments in my life where I went online

60:40

>> five six years ago and looked at a

60:42

compounding interest calculator. So

60:45

>> it's stunning.

60:46

>> It's it is stunning.

60:46

>> It is absolutely stunning.

60:50

And it shows that if you just leave your

60:51

money in a place where it's getting this

60:55

kind of return

60:57

over time,

61:00

everything seems to take care of itself.

61:02

>> So let me let me close the circle in a

61:06

sense on on that subject because one of

61:10

the things that I think gets overlooked

61:12

with my book is this is the simple path

61:15

to wealth.

61:17

Which means if you follow it, you will

61:19

become wealthy, right? So we go back to,

61:25

you know, buying those things that

61:26

people maybe want to buy, whether it's

61:28

the fancy car or the or the house. Well,

61:33

once you become wealthy, you can not

61:35

only buy those things, but you're buying

61:37

them from a position of power, right?

61:40

You can easily afford them. you become

61:42

financially independent, which means

61:44

that your investments are throwing off

61:46

more money than you're spending. My wife

61:48

and I are basically uh pretty naturally

61:50

frugal people. And that's one of the

61:53

ways I suppose that we got to where we

61:54

are. But that doesn't necess necessarily

61:58

serve us at the level of wealth now. And

62:01

so we still have this tendency to say,

62:04

"Oh, we're thinking about getting this

62:05

stuff. How much does it cost? And do we

62:07

really want to spend that money?" And

62:09

depending on who it is, either she'll

62:10

turn to me or I'll turn to her and say,

62:12

"Doesn't matter. It's free. Everything's

62:14

free. It doesn't." And that's a very

62:16

liberating way to look at things. So

62:18

that's where the simple path ultimately

62:20

will will get you. That's what I bought

62:24

all those years ago.

62:26

>> One of the thoughts that I had, which I

62:27

do think is somewhat illogical, was my

62:30

brother and me are very different

62:31

people. So he was very, very frugal and

62:33

I was reckless. And one of the ways that

62:36

I self-justified my recklessness was,

62:38

well, you know, you've got to enjoy

62:39

life. And I'm only young once, so I'm

62:42

only going to get the opportunity to do

62:43

some of these things that are part of

62:46

being young once, going to a nightclub

62:48

and buying champagne and partying, you

62:50

know? So, I thought, yeah, I could save

62:52

and save and save and save and I could

62:54

get to, you know, 70, 80 years old and

62:55

have all this money, but what is the

62:57

point if I haven't like enjoyed myself?

63:00

I think it is a mistake to think that

63:03

you need to spend money to be happy, to

63:05

enjoy yourself. And the other thing I

63:06

will say is that

63:10

it's a lot more useful having money at

63:12

this age than it would have been in my

63:14

20s because

63:17

money buys comfort among other things

63:19

and comfort becomes much more important

63:21

to you as you age.

63:23

They did a study where they put people

63:25

in a brain imaging scanner and they

63:28

asked them to think about themselves

63:30

tomorrow. Then they asked them to think

63:31

about themselves in a couple of years.

63:32

Then they asked them to think about

63:34

themselves in 10 years time and they

63:35

looked at the brain. And then they did

63:37

another study where they got the same

63:39

people to think about a celebrity.

63:43

>> Mhm.

63:43

>> That they didn't know. I think it was

63:44

Matt Damon or someone famous like that.

63:46

And what the study proved was that we

63:49

think about ourselves in 10 years time

63:52

in the same way that we think about Matt

63:54

Damon. The further away

63:57

the time horizon, the more it becomes a

63:59

total stranger, right?

64:00

>> And so I was writing I was writing

64:02

recently for a chapter in my upcoming

64:03

book about this idea that our future

64:05

self is a stranger. To the brain,

64:07

thinking about me when I'm 60

64:09

>> is like thinking about Matt Damon,

64:11

right?

64:11

>> I don't know a [ __ ] guy.

64:12

>> So why do I care? Why do I care about

64:14

protecting him? And I think this kind of

64:17

speaks to what we were saying there is

64:19

young people and even me as a young

64:20

person kind of didn't really give a [ __ ]

64:22

about 60-year-old me,

64:23

>> right?

64:24

>> Like I I it's so far away that I I don't

64:27

really care about protecting his

64:28

interest. I almost think that's a

64:30

different person. He can figure that

64:32

out,

64:32

>> right?

64:33

>> And you know, you are How old are you

64:35

now?

64:35

>> I'm 75.

64:36

>> So you have the the wisdom of hindsight.

64:39

So you can tell me as a 33y old what

64:41

it's like to be both 33 and 75. When I

64:45

was 33, I didn't think about

64:48

me at an older age at all. I mean, it

64:51

never crossed my mind to do such a

64:52

thing. Right? So, I was not doing what I

64:55

was doing for the benefit of 75year-old

64:59

JL. I was doing it for the benefit of

65:02

25-year-old JL, 30-year-old JL. Right?

65:05

remember going back to an early part of

65:07

our conversation

65:09

what my definition of FU money it's the

65:12

money that you're accumulating

65:15

before that gets you ultimately to being

65:17

financially independent which is when

65:20

you no longer need to trade your labor

65:22

for money right your money is doing all

65:24

that

65:26

I wanted that right now so when I was 25

65:30

I'd saved the princely sum of $5,000

65:35

adjusted for inflation to be about 25

65:37

$30,000 today. U and I wanted to go back

65:42

around Europe, right? But that meant

65:44

quitting my job, which I kind of liked.

65:48

But the fact that I had that money gave

65:52

me the financial strength to go in and

65:56

negotiate that deal. If I was living

65:59

paycheck to paycheck, I wouldn't have

66:01

had that. I was far from being fully

66:03

financially independent. So, I wasn't

66:06

doing this for 75 year old JL. I was

66:09

doing this right now for 25 year old JL.

66:12

And it's just like when you work out,

66:14

and clearly you do, right? You don't go

66:17

to the gym thinking, at least I'm making

66:19

a presumption here, I'm doing this for

66:22

75year-old Steven. You're doing this

66:25

because you want to be stronger tomorrow

66:27

than you are today. for 33 year olds

66:30

even. So that's my way of thinking about

66:33

it. I I never did this for future me.

66:37

Maybe some people do and that's probably

66:39

not a bad exercise. It's probably a bit

66:41

of wisdom in that. I wasn't that smart.

66:44

>> So you would you would save $5,000 a

66:46

year.

66:48

>> Well, in those days, so my first

66:49

professional job paid me $10,000 a year

66:52

and I saved 5,000. Yeah, I saved half of

66:54

it. Going back to this point of

66:56

compounding and how how important it is

66:59

to start investing in things that will

67:01

offer you compounding returns.

67:04

>> If you started investing $500 per month

67:09

and you got an annual return of 8%

67:12

because you're investing in some of the

67:13

things that we'll talk about in a

67:14

second.

67:16

>> In 35 years

67:19

you will be a millionaire. You'll have

67:21

more than a million dollars. You'll have

67:23

1.043 043 million

67:27

>> over those 35 years you would have

67:28

invested about $200,000 but you would

67:31

have made $850,000

67:34

from the interest over that period of

67:36

time.

67:37

>> Well, just to be clarified, not

67:38

necessarily the interest, but the growth

67:40

cuz that 11% is not interest. It's it's

67:44

growth. Some of it might be uh dividends

67:46

in the case of which is a kind of a form

67:48

of interest you can think of but it's

67:50

not just just to be technically correct

67:54

right which is which is interesting. So

67:57

if I was when I was born if my parents

68:01

had put $500 a month away in a

68:04

investment that we'll talk about now

68:06

>> by the by the age I am now I would have

68:09

roughly been a millionaire just from

68:11

them putting $500 a month away from me.

68:13

Right.

68:14

>> Pretty crazy.

68:15

>> Yeah. But that's the power of

68:17

compounding. I mean, the, you know, it's

68:19

it's very gratifying to me that twice a

68:22

year I I'm a guest lecturer for a friend

68:24

of mine who's a professor at uh

68:26

University of Colorado in Boulder. And

68:29

it's always fun to talk to her students

68:31

because they're exceedingly bright. They

68:32

ask great great questions and it's just

68:34

stimulating for me. But I think about

68:38

these young people. I mean, these are

68:39

18, 19, 20 year olds who are thinking

68:42

about doing this stuff at that age. And

68:46

the remarkable amount of time that they

68:49

have for this compounding to work for

68:51

them, it's it's just incredible. They

68:53

are going to be so much better off than

68:56

if not. Um, so let me throw out a tip

69:00

for for you if and when you ever have

69:02

kids and for anybody who's listening who

69:04

has has young children, you know, as

69:06

your kids start to grow and hopefully

69:10

they get part-time jobs, right? They

69:12

start whether it's shoveling snow or

69:15

busting tables at a local restaurant or

69:17

whatever it is and they start earning

69:19

some income. Well, you can take that

69:22

income and up to I think it's $7,000 is

69:26

the limit now. Put that in a Roth IRA

69:30

which will never be taxed. It will grow

69:33

tax-free forever and they're going to be

69:37

by definition because they're making

69:38

almost no money in in they're not paying

69:40

any income tax. So, you don't need any

69:42

any deduction from that. And it doesn't

69:45

have to be their money. So, let's say

69:47

your kid makes $3,000 during the course

69:49

of a year.

69:51

you can take $3,000 and fund a Roth IRA

69:54

for them. Imagine just if they never

69:58

added anything other than that, you

70:00

know, you do that until they they get

70:02

out of college or whatever. You know,

70:05

that baseline is going to grow tax-free

70:07

for an extended period of time. That's

70:10

one of the great keys to wealth building

70:12

is just time. And and is that advice

70:16

that you still believe in that people

70:17

should be saving 50% of their income?

70:20

>> Yeah, I think it's a good rule of thumb.

70:21

It gets you to financial independence in

70:23

a pretty reasonable depending on what

70:25

the market does in say a 10 to 15 year

70:29

time period. The push back that you

70:31

might anticipate is from people who say

70:32

that's impossible. Nobody can save 50%

70:34

of their money. Just that's that's

70:36

that's silly. And I'm sorry, but I've

70:40

did it and I've now at this point I've

70:41

known countless people who've done it.

70:43

So, it's certainly you may choose not to

70:46

do it, but it's certainly possible.

70:48

>> Let's say you're earning $40,000

70:52

a year, which is the low end,

70:55

>> the average medium. So, that would be

70:57

let's say $3,000 a month.

70:58

>> Mhm.

70:59

>> So, you're you're earning $3,000 a

71:02

month. You're then going to pay tax on

71:03

that. This is what my my math says here.

71:05

It says very little tax would be would

71:07

be paid after all of your taxes. And so

71:11

you're still you've still got roughly

71:12

$3,000 a month, about 2,900 um which you

71:15

you would take home.

71:18

>> I so I would need to save 1,400 of that

71:21

which means my total expenses need to be

71:23

1,400 a month. So first thing I need to

71:25

do is live somewhere very very

71:29

affordable

71:30

>> depending where I live, you know, what

71:31

city I live in.

71:32

>> Then I need to basically radically

71:34

reduce my my expenditure, right,

71:36

>> to be able to save 50% a month. And I

71:38

guess the question is most people

71:41

would assume they wouldn't like that

71:42

lifestyle.

71:44

They wouldn't like to prepare their own

71:45

lunches every day. They wouldn't like to

71:47

not have a Starbucks coffee. They

71:48

wouldn't like to live in a small small

71:50

shoe box and probably socialize a lot

71:52

less.

71:54

>> So I guess that's the key rebuttal is I

71:56

guess yeah, it's possible.

71:59

There's a chapter that talks about this

72:00

with an even lower uh because when I was

72:02

writing the book um I think I used a

72:05

$25,000

72:07

annual income. So the math works is is

72:11

it easy? No. But it goes back to

72:13

fundamentally

72:15

what is it that you want? You said well

72:17

I may not want like that. I might want

72:19

to have lattes and all these other

72:20

things. Well it's your money. That's

72:23

your prerogative.

72:25

But time is going to happen regardless

72:28

of what you do. And if you say, "Instead

72:31

of having those things now, I'm going to

72:34

spend my money on buying my freedom,"

72:36

you will get to the point where

72:38

everything is free, including those

72:40

lattes.

72:41

>> So, let's talk about investing then.

72:44

>> Um, we have two buckets here on the

72:46

table for an analogy

72:48

>> around tax advantaged investing.

72:53

I'm going to take your lead on this.

72:55

>> Okay. So, if you dump that bucket in

72:57

there, I'll dump this bucket in here.

73:04

Okay.

73:06

The idea is that and I'm going to speak

73:10

in terms of the United States. The

73:12

government provides

73:14

savings vehicles that are tax advantage

73:18

to encourage people to acquire money for

73:22

their for their old age. Right? So in

73:24

the United States there's things called

73:26

a 401k or 403b.

73:30

Uh these are employer related plans

73:32

where you can divert part of your income

73:35

and the government specifies how much

73:37

you can divert and they won't tax you on

73:40

that and you put it into an investment

73:42

bucket into an investment account of

73:44

some sort. you get to choose how you

73:46

want to invest it, but that would be the

73:49

bucket. And that means that if you had

73:52

however much money this represents

73:54

uh went into your 401k or your IRA,

73:58

which is something you would do on your

74:00

own privately, which is also tax

74:02

advantaged, right? So, in the example

74:06

that you've just [clears throat] handed

74:08

me, they're saying that this would

74:10

represent $20,750,

74:13

which is uh before tax and with a match.

74:16

So, 401ks companies will frequently

74:19

match part of your contribution. So, you

74:22

say, "I'm going to do 5%." And they

74:24

might say, "Okay, we're going to match

74:25

the first 2% or whatever," which you

74:27

should always take advantage of because

74:29

that's that's free money. So this is not

74:32

taxed immediately and you invest this

74:35

money. Let's say you invest it in a

74:36

total stock market index fund which

74:38

would be my recommendation. So you get

74:41

to invest all this money in your total

74:42

stock market index fund. If instead you

74:45

do it after you pay taxes on the same

74:48

amount of money, well, by the time you

74:50

pay taxes, you're going to have about

74:52

half of what it was before, which is

74:54

$10,340,

74:57

which is what represented in here

74:59

roughly half the number of of gold

75:01

coins. Now, both of these things grow at

75:05

the same rate because we've invested

75:06

them in the same thing, right? So,

75:08

they're making 11% a year, whatever it

75:10

is. So this is obviously going to grow

75:12

into a much bigger pile at the end of 30

75:15

years or 40 years or whatever it is than

75:18

this is because you're starting with a

75:20

bigger pile. So that's the advantage of

75:24

deferring taxes. Now, the thing that

75:28

people tend not to think about or talk

75:31

about that's incredibly important is

75:34

that it is not avoiding taxes. It is

75:38

deferring taxes. Which means that

75:41

ultimately the government is going to

75:43

want their money. They're going to want

75:45

their cut. And typically that happens, I

75:49

think in the United States the age is 73

75:52

or something when you're required to

75:54

begin taking money out of these

75:56

accounts. It's called an RMD, a required

75:58

minimum distribution.

76:01

So, if you haven't started withdrawing

76:04

money from these accounts, by then the

76:06

government will require you to begin on

76:09

a schedule based on your life expectancy

76:11

to start pulling that money out because

76:14

they figure they've waited long enough

76:16

and now they want their cut. Okay?

76:19

[clears throat] So, it's not tax-free,

76:21

it's tax deferred. Important thing to

76:24

understand if you start taking this

76:27

money out before a certain age and if

76:29

memory serves me it's 59 and a half in

76:31

the US then you will pay tax on it as

76:35

you do whenever you withdraw the money

76:36

and also a penalty right so they want

76:40

you to keep it in at least until you're

76:42

59 and a half but they want you to start

76:46

taking it out at some point in this case

76:48

I think when you're 72 or 73 or

76:51

something like and That's when they

76:53

collect their money. So you say, well,

76:56

okay, if that's the case, then what am I

76:58

doing here? Because I got to pay the

77:00

taxes eventually anyway. And

77:02

mathematically, if your tax rate is the

77:04

same, it doesn't matter if you're tax

77:07

deferred or not. The end result of

77:09

amount of money that you have will be

77:10

exactly the same.

77:13

The speculation is, and it's true in the

77:16

vast majority of cases, that when you

77:18

retire and you start living on this

77:21

money, you start pulling it out, you

77:22

will be in a lower tax bracket. So, you

77:25

will have to pay some taxes, but you

77:27

won't have to pay as much as when you

77:29

were working and you were in a higher

77:30

tax bracket. So, that's the gamble

77:33

you're taking. Now, looking at me

77:36

personally as an example, this didn't

77:38

work out for me. So, I did IAS and 401ks

77:42

when I was working in my corporate

77:44

career. Put aside a fair amount of money

77:47

in them. Now, as it turns out, I'm in a

77:51

higher tax bracket than I have ever been

77:52

in because of the success of the

77:55

activities that I do today. I had no

77:58

idea that that was going to happen. And

78:01

now I'm at that age where I have to take

78:03

RMDs. So RMDs are coming out at a higher

78:07

tax rate for me than when I than the tax

78:10

benefit I got deferring it. But that's

78:12

unusual. Most people will benefit from

78:15

doing this because in their retirement

78:17

they won't have an income or their

78:18

income will be very modest and their tax

78:21

rate will be equally modest and it will

78:23

work out very nicely for them. But

78:25

that's basically how that works. Does

78:28

that make sense?

78:29

>> It does. Yes. And and to try and

78:30

summarize it um in a way that I fully

78:33

understand to check I understand is

78:35

every month when I'm paid I have an

78:37

opportunity before that money comes to

78:39

me to invest some of it and around the

78:42

world whether it's Japan, Switzerland,

78:44

India, South Korea, Germany, Australia,

78:45

UK, Canada, there's always some kind of

78:47

system

78:48

>> of this, right?

78:49

>> Yeah. So I can say okay I'm going to get

78:50

paid

78:52

$1,000 this month. I'm gonna put a $100

78:56

of that before I even get it into one of

78:58

these investment accounts. It's not

79:00

going to be taxed until

79:03

>> and your employer might match part of it

79:04

or all of it.

79:05

>> Yeah. So, my employer might also add

79:08

$100 to it [clears throat] or or part of

79:09

it. That's going to compound over time.

79:12

I can take it out whenever I want, but

79:14

if I take it out early, I get a penalty.

79:16

>> And you pay tax.

79:17

>> And I pay tax. But assuming that I'm not

79:21

going to be earning as much as I do now

79:22

when I'm older, when I take it out at 65

79:25

years old, I'm still going to pay tax,

79:27

but a low rate of tax.

79:29

>> There's no penalty at that point, but

79:30

and presumably you'll be at a lower tax

79:32

rate, right?

79:33

>> So it really only works if you're at a

79:35

lower tax rate when you're older.

79:36

>> Exactly. So most people work and then

79:39

and then they retire at a certain age

79:42

and that income from their job goes

79:44

away. So by definition, they're in a

79:46

much lower tax bracket. So for the vast

79:49

majority of people, this works out very

79:50

nicely.

79:51

>> And you talk about, you know, because

79:54

people will will still have to make a

79:56

decision what they want to invest in,

79:58

>> right?

80:00

>> Where do you think we should be

80:01

investing our money at this moment of

80:02

time? The for the average person, what

80:04

what should they be putting their money

80:05

into with everything you see happening

80:06

in the world?

80:07

>> Yeah.

80:08

>> You said not Bitcoin, but what where

80:10

should we put it?

80:10

>> I'm an advocate of investing in

80:13

broad-based lowcost stock index funds.

80:16

>> What is that? That is an example of that

80:19

is VTSAX which is Vanguard's total stock

80:22

market index fund. It invests in

80:24

virtually every publicly traded company

80:27

in the United States of America. That's

80:30

very the number of those varies, but

80:32

it's roughly 3,600 companies.

80:34

>> So you're basically investing in

80:35

America.

80:36

>> There are a lot of private companies

80:37

that I that I'm not invested in, but I'm

80:39

in every publicly traded company in in

80:42

the country. And that means everybody

80:44

from the factory floor to the CEO is

80:47

working to make me richer. Now, some of

80:50

those companies are going to do

80:52

extraordinarily well and they're going

80:54

to succeed dramatically. And because

80:57

this fund, as most funds like it are, is

81:00

cap weighted and I'll explain that in a

81:03

minute. The more successful the company

81:06

is, the more of it I will own. So cap

81:09

weighted simply means that the largest

81:12

larger the market capitalization of the

81:15

company is

81:16

>> the valuation

81:17

>> the valuation [clears throat] right the

81:19

market capital the larger that is the

81:22

greater the percentage of the fund it

81:24

will represent. So, you may have heard

81:26

people say that the top 10 companies in

81:30

the S&P 500 have an outsized

81:33

representation

81:35

uh percentage- wise of what they well

81:37

that's the reason it's it's cap

81:38

weighted. So, I benefit from that

81:41

success. Right now, if one of those

81:44

companies falters

81:46

and

81:48

starts failing on their execution or a

81:51

more aggressive, better organized

81:55

competitor comes along and displaces

81:57

them, then they will drift away. But I'm

82:01

okay with that because whatever that new

82:03

competitor is, I don't have to predict

82:05

who it is. I will own them. And that's a

82:09

process that I refer to as

82:11

self-cleansing. I'm very proud of that

82:13

term that I that I coined. So, a great

82:15

example of that is Sears. When I was a

82:18

kid, Sears, company you may not even be

82:20

aware of, but Sears was the Walmart and

82:23

Amazon of its time combined, but Sears

82:28

at the turn of the last century, the

82:30

turn of the 1800s, looked around and

82:32

said, you know, we have these

82:33

brickandmortar stores, but there are all

82:35

these people living out in rural areas

82:37

who are never going to get to our

82:38

brickandmortar stores. We could send

82:40

them cataloges. Does this begin to sound

82:43

familiar? And then they could send us

82:46

letters and money ordering things from

82:49

our catalog that we could then ship to

82:51

them. So they became, you know, Walmart

82:54

with the brick-andmortar stores and then

82:56

Amazon of his time absolutely dominated

82:58

for 100 years. If you had said to

83:00

somebody when I was first uh investing

83:04

in the 1970s that Sears Sears built the

83:09

biggest building on the planet back in

83:11

the '7s, what was then known as the

83:14

Sears Tower in Chicago. If you had said

83:16

Sears its days are numbered, you would

83:19

have been laughed at. But its days were

83:22

numbered because leaner, more aggressive

83:25

competitors came along and ate its

83:26

lunch. Nobody could have predicted that.

83:28

Certainly not me, but I didn't have to

83:31

if I own the index because then when

83:33

Walmart came along and then later Amazon

83:36

and Sears faded away, I own those as

83:39

well. That's that self-cleansing

83:41

process.

83:41

>> And just for anyone that really doesn't

83:43

understand this at all, you're not

83:44

actually having to do anything because

83:46

that index fund is just automatically

83:48

making the decisions.

83:49

>> Exactly. I don't have to do anything. I

83:51

just have to own it and I can own it

83:53

forever. So, if I went and I bought

83:56

Sears stock as an example back in the

83:59

day, well, whenever you own an

84:01

individual stock, you're going to be

84:03

thinking about, okay, how long am I

84:04

going to own this? And what is going to

84:07

trigger my sale of this particular

84:10

asset? And what I mean, what has to

84:13

happen to it that would make me not want

84:15

to own it anymore? And then, if I want

84:17

to get rid of it and I want something in

84:18

the same space, what do I buy? Do I buy

84:20

this new upstart Walmart? you know, do I

84:23

buy this Amazon that back in the 90s is

84:25

run by this wacko guy, Jeff Bezos, who

84:27

kept saying, "No, profits don't matter.

84:29

Profits don't matter." What who's who

84:31

invests in a CEO that says profits don't

84:34

matter? I mean, that's nuts, right? But

84:36

those are the kinds of things you have

84:37

to be have to be thinking about if you

84:39

own individual stocks. I don't have to

84:41

think about any of that owning the index

84:43

because if Jeff Bezos turns out that his

84:47

wackiness is brilliance, which it turns

84:50

out it was, then he's going to rise to

84:53

the top, which it turns out Amazon did,

84:56

and I benefited from that. If it turns

84:58

out it was just wackiness, it would have

85:00

just faded away as a lot of companies

85:01

have. But that wouldn't have mattered

85:04

cuz whatever succeeds, I will I will own

85:07

and benefit from. I was asking um the

85:10

research team beforehand

85:13

>> in the last 10 years which index fund

85:16

has performed the very very best

85:18

>> and it said that the NASDAQ 100 which is

85:23

very techheavy

85:24

>> right

85:26

>> has performed at almost 20% a year for

85:28

the last 10 years and when I think about

85:30

what's going on in the world at the

85:31

moment and the advent of this new

85:33

technology called AI which is driving

85:35

everything it seems and our lives are

85:36

going to become way more technological

85:37

with robots bots and automation and full

85:40

self-driving. It appears to me like if

85:43

there was ever a great time to be

85:46

investing in an index fund, one should

85:47

aim at the very techheavy index funds

85:50

like the NASDAQ 100.

85:51

>> Mhm.

85:51

>> Is that is is that logical thinking or

85:54

is that

85:54

>> it's it's logical think? Yes. So first

85:56

of all it's logical thinking and

85:59

actually had you done that same analysis

86:02

10 years ago you would have done better

86:05

than than uh VTSAX right because

86:08

technology has absolutely dominated for

86:11

the last 10 years it is a reasonable

86:13

speculation that that will continue into

86:16

the future.

86:17

>> So why don't you

86:18

>> for some period of time?

86:19

>> Well because the truth is that

86:23

technology has not always dominated.

86:25

We're not going to go backwards though,

86:26

are we?

86:27

>> Well, no, but the point is that that it

86:29

changes. So, just like in my Sears

86:32

example, Sears would have been at the

86:34

top of the index for a long time and

86:36

then it drifted away and got replaced.

86:39

So, that's an individual stock. Sectors

86:42

of stocks have also done that over time,

86:47

right? So, right now the dominant sector

86:49

is tech. Wasn't always the case. might

86:53

not always be the case in the future. I

86:55

don't know cuz I can't see the future. I

86:58

understand people who would say that

87:01

clearly that's the best bet to go with

87:03

tech and your crystal [clears throat]

87:06

ball is clearer than mine and you might

87:08

very well be right. But I don't have a

87:10

crystal ball and I don't have to worry

87:14

about that owning the total stock market

87:16

because if you're right, I will still

87:18

benefit very nicely. Thank you very

87:20

much.

87:21

If you're wrong,

87:23

whatever replaces it, I will own.

87:26

>> So, you have an analogy you came up with

87:29

that involves beer and a glass,

87:31

>> right? Probably came up with a drinking

87:33

beer. We go ahead.

87:34

>> Well, show me show me the analogy.

87:37

>> So,

87:39

thanks for not Whoa.

87:40

>> Oh, here we go.

87:41

>> I was going to say, thanks for not

87:42

shaking up the can.

87:44

>> So, beer, right? So, I'm pouring it

87:47

right down the middle. So, we get a nice

87:49

thick head. That's even a little thicker

87:52

than I hoped for. Okay. So,

87:56

imagine for a second. Right now, we have

87:58

a glass and we can see exactly how much

88:00

foam there is and how much actual beer

88:03

there is, right? But imagine this was

88:06

that I poured it into this vessel

88:08

instead where we couldn't see that.

88:11

The analogy is the stock market. So,

88:13

when most people think of the stock

88:15

market and when most people turn on uh

88:19

CNBC, they turn on, you know, they look

88:22

at at at the investment news and what

88:24

have you, it's all this churning and

88:27

trading, you know, what stocks are hot

88:29

now, what stocks are rising, what stocks

88:31

are falling, what's, you know, it's all

88:32

this trading. That's not the simple path

88:35

to wealth. That's the foam, right? So

88:39

the value in a stock, whatever the stock

88:43

is, what makes up the price of that

88:46

stock is a combination of two things. It

88:48

is the beer and it is the foam. And the

88:53

problem is unlike that glass,

88:56

it's in a vessel like this. So it's hard

88:59

to see exactly how much beer there is as

89:02

opposed to how much foam there is.

89:04

>> And the beer is the value. The foam is

89:06

the speculation.

89:07

>> Exactly. The beer is the fundamental

89:10

operating value of the company, right?

89:13

The sales and the expenses and the money

89:16

that's left over that you call profits,

89:18

right?

89:18

>> Yeah.

89:19

>> So that's the beer. The foam is what the

89:22

market

89:23

determines that's worth at any given

89:26

moment based on emotion,

89:29

>> based and hype and speculation and fear

89:32

and greed. And so up here, right, is the

89:36

total value of the stock,

89:38

>> right? Exactly. The total value of the

89:40

stock. But this is all foam that can

89:43

come and go very quickly, right? So let

89:46

think about Tesla for an example, right?

89:48

Tesla has a lot of foam cuz a lot of

89:53

people are speculating about the great

89:56

things Tesla's going to do in the

89:57

future. robotic cars, humanoid robots,

90:01

you know, all these kinds of things

90:02

which very may well come to pass. I

90:04

mean, Elon Musk is a stunningly

90:07

brilliant guy. So, who knows? But that's

90:12

the speculation. That's the foam. The

90:14

underlying beer of Tesla, the actual

90:16

operating company, does not justify the

90:20

price of the stock. I mean, the the PE

90:22

ratio of Tesla, you can look it up, is

90:25

some huge number, right? So there's a

90:28

lot of speculation, a lot of foam in

90:30

Tesla. Now if things go to plan, then

90:34

that foam will become as as in our

90:37

example, you notice the foam is

90:39

dissipating. We're getting more and more

90:40

beer. If things go to plan for Tesla,

90:42

that's what will happen. The foam will

90:44

will eventually settle out into more and

90:46

more beer, and Tesla will justify that

90:51

high price and maybe then some. And I

90:53

guess Warren Buffett's greatness, if

90:55

I've interpreted his writing correctly,

90:57

and why he was often considered as the

90:59

greatest investor of all time, was he

91:00

was able to pay for stocks where it was

91:04

mainly beer. And he paid at the price of

91:06

the beer, not for the foam.

91:08

>> Or he he looked for times where the

91:12

sentiment was so negative that he was

91:15

actually paying a little less than the

91:18

price of the beer. Benjamin Graham who

91:21

who wrote uh the intelligent investor

91:23

who was a mentor to Warren Buffett

91:26

uh basically said what you should do is

91:28

look for value companies and try to

91:30

determine where the beer is and then try

91:33

to see if you can get a buying

91:35

opportunity watch it where you can buy

91:37

it for less than the actual value of the

91:40

operation. That's ideal. And in those

91:43

days when there wasn't so much

91:45

information freely available that was

91:47

probably a little easier to do. What

91:49

Warren Buffett has said since then and

91:51

that's a great foundation if you're

91:53

going to pick individual stocks. But

91:55

what Warren Buffett has said since then

91:58

is he learned and I think and you don't

92:00

quote me on this but I think it was

92:02

Charlie Munger who actually made this

92:03

point to him that it's going to be very

92:07

very hard in this day and age even when

92:10

they started back in the 60s to find

92:13

companies where you can actually buy it

92:15

for less than the actual beer value. So

92:20

don't try to do that. Just try to find

92:23

companies that you can pay a fair price

92:25

for that have a lot of beer in the mix

92:29

that are mostly beer. Because if you buy

92:32

those companies, they are by definition

92:35

very well-run companies, strong brands,

92:39

big moes around them, which makes them

92:41

hard to compete.

92:42

>> I guess to do this, you're going to have

92:44

to have a framework for valuing a

92:45

company.

92:46

>> Exactly. And you're going to have to

92:47

have great discipline,

92:49

>> which is

92:49

>> Yeah.

92:50

>> hard. And that's what you know as Warren

92:52

Buffett said I was blessed with an

92:54

ability to allocate capital effectively

92:58

and that's basically what he has done.

93:01

He's has capital and he is got the

93:05

ability to look at different companies

93:07

and say of all the different companies I

93:09

could allocate capital to he's pretty

93:12

skilled at at picking the ones that are

93:14

are the best bets. One of the things

93:16

that I really admired about Warren

93:17

Buffett was his ability to do nothing,

93:21

>> which is one of the key things because

93:23

that goes back to Charlie Munger's

93:25

thing, don't get in the way of your

93:26

compounding, right?

93:27

>> And there has been recent times where I

93:29

think we can all think of where

93:31

using your beer analogy, something

93:33

happens in the world and the true value

93:37

of a company

93:39

is higher than the selling price. I.e.

93:41

If you go back to March 2020 during the

93:43

the market selloff when the pandemic

93:45

happened and everybody panicked, Amazon,

93:47

for example, the stock briefly dropped

93:49

below roughly to about $1,500

93:52

per share.

93:53

>> Mhm.

93:54

>> Well [clears throat] below its intrinsic

93:55

value um because people were panicking,

93:58

right?

93:58

>> Uh and then it quickly rebounded again

94:00

past $3,000

94:02

a share. So theoretically, if you had

94:05

noticed that drop, you could have made a

94:08

100% return on your money. Um,

94:10

>> and by the extension, the whole market

94:12

did that.

94:12

>> The whole market dropped, too. Yeah.

94:14

>> So, you could have done that with your

94:15

index fund. This is why if you panicked

94:17

and sold.

94:18

>> Yeah.

94:19

>> Let's say you owned Amazon or you owned

94:21

VTSAX and you panicked and sold, well,

94:24

you would have you would have lost

94:26

everything and then it it recovered. So,

94:29

it works both ways. That's why I said

94:31

earlier in our conversation, you you

94:33

have to stay invested so that the dip

94:36

doesn't matter. and if anything take

94:38

advantage of the dip and buy more. So

94:40

you own Amazon, you see it dip, you say,

94:43

"Well, I still believe in the company. I

94:45

still think it's a good company and it's

94:46

got a good future." Or then maybe you

94:48

buy some more in the dip and you do

94:50

still better. But the important thing is

94:52

you don't sell when it's down because

94:54

there's panic in the air.

94:56

>> And I think this is um this speaks to a

94:58

broader sentiment throughout this

94:59

conversation which is to do what others

95:01

don't do. You know, and Warren Buffett's

95:03

famous for saying be fearful when others

95:05

are greedy and greedy when others are

95:07

fearful. But generally the sentiment on

95:10

social media, especially for younger

95:11

generations and especially for men,

95:12

which is supported by the data, is that

95:15

the way to make money is by like trading

95:18

crypto or by right

95:20

>> I mean there's so many people that sell

95:21

this is such a we need to address this.

95:23

>> You know, it's a platform.

95:25

>> It's a gambling. It's just gambling.

95:26

>> It's it's a gambling platform. And so

95:28

that's going, you know, people sometimes

95:30

say to me, you know, I'd never invest in

95:32

the stock market. It's just gambling. I

95:34

say, well, you're half right. Our foam

95:37

[clears throat] is all dissipated. But

95:38

if there were still foam here, I would

95:39

say yes. If you're doing it short-term

95:42

and you're playing with the foam,

95:44

absolutely is no different than going to

95:46

Las Vegas. If you're investing for the

95:49

beer, it's an entirely different story.

95:51

And you're investing for the long term.

95:54

And there's lots of young people that

95:55

are being tempted into buying a course

95:58

that's going to help them learn how to

96:00

trade.

96:00

>> That's great for the people selling the

96:02

course.

96:03

>> There's such an there's such an

96:04

incredible like ir obvious irony to the

96:08

idea that I have some secret about

96:12

trading that's really going to make, you

96:15

know, that is capable of making one

96:16

wealthy,

96:17

>> right?

96:18

>> And I'm going to give it to you

96:20

>> or even sell it to you.

96:21

>> Why would I need to if it worked,

96:22

>> right? Like this is such an obvious

96:24

question to me. Like why would I need to

96:26

sell it if it worked?

96:27

>> It it is the obvious question. I mean,

96:30

you know,

96:30

>> and I feel sorry. I have great empathy

96:32

because the people that buy these things

96:33

are people that are desperate to get out

96:34

of their financial situation and they

96:36

run out of options and so it's very

96:37

compelling to hear that there's some

96:39

secret that you can predict the stock

96:41

market. It's very compelling.

96:42

>> You know, in another interview I I said

96:44

one time we were talking about this

96:46

[clears throat] same line of

96:47

conversation we're having and I said,

96:49

you know, I blame my mother. I would be

96:52

a lot richer if she hadn't instilled a

96:55

conscience in me. You know, she's cost

96:58

me millions of dollars instilling this

97:00

conscience. I could have courses. I

97:02

could be, you know,

97:03

>> but no, I am saying that there is a path

97:08

that will give you great results

97:11

and it's a pretty well proven path at

97:13

this point.

97:14

So many of us are pursuing passive forms

97:17

of income and to build side businesses

97:19

in order to help us cover our bills. And

97:21

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Do I need a financial adviser?

99:17

Cuz a lot of people out listening now

99:19

will be thinking, "Yeah, I will figure

99:20

out my money situation when I have

99:22

enough money to pay a financial

99:23

adviser." Yeah, I think uh my attitude

99:27

is by the time you know enough to choose

99:30

a good financial advisor, which is no

99:32

easy task, you probably know enough to

99:35

do it on your own, at least on the

99:37

investing part. Now, there are life

99:41

kinds of decisions where maybe advisors

99:44

would be more useful, but again, you

99:47

have to be careful and and it takes you

99:50

you need to really educate yourself as

99:52

to how advisers get paid. For instance,

99:54

my attitudes, by the way, are colored by

99:56

the fact that I I hear so frequently

99:59

from [clears throat] my followers about

100:02

bad experiences with financial advisors.

100:04

So, I have a negative opinion. To be

100:06

fair, I know there are good ones out

100:08

there, and all due respect to those good

100:09

ones, but let's suppose you have a

100:12

financial advisor who gets paid based on

100:16

the assets under management, right?

100:19

>> The amount of the amount that you've

100:20

given them.

100:21

>> Exactly. Right. So, maybe it's 1%. So,

100:23

you give them a million dollars and they

100:25

get 1% a year to manage that money for

100:27

for you. Let's suppose you go to that

100:30

advisor and you say, "You know, Stephen,

100:33

I've I've been thinking about paying off

100:35

my mortgage. I've got a half a million

100:37

dollar mortgage on this house. It's 6%.

100:41

Let's say it's 5%. So, in that middle

100:43

range, it's 5%. I'm thinking about

100:45

paying it off. What do you think?" Okay.

100:47

Well, now Stephen has a bit of a dilemma

100:50

because

100:52

he can certainly give you the most

100:55

accurate financial advice he is capable

100:57

of giving you and answering that

100:58

question.

101:00

But if that leads him to say yes, pay

101:02

off the mortgage,

101:05

he has just reduced his income by half

101:10

because when you pay off that mortgage,

101:11

half a million dollars is going to go

101:13

out from his management and paying off

101:15

the mortgage company. So you have just

101:18

asked Steven to give you advice

101:20

potentially that is bad for Steven. Now

101:23

if Steven's a honorable, capable,

101:27

honest guy, then maybe Steven does that.

101:31

But let's suppose Stephen has two kids

101:33

in college.

101:35

Let's suppose Steven just bought a boat.

101:38

Let's suppose Steven is going through a

101:40

divorce.

101:42

Let's think about that. Maybe Steven, as

101:46

honest and capable and and decent as he

101:49

ordinarily is, has financial pressures

101:51

that might play a role, right? There is

101:54

a conflict of interest frequently. So,

101:57

you have to understand how your advisor

101:58

is being paid.

102:00

>> How does your portfolio look? Where have

102:03

you allocated your money in terms of

102:04

percentages? How much money do you have

102:06

in real estate versus cash versus index

102:08

funds?

102:09

>> Well, I don't even think about about the

102:11

real estate. We have this cabin in

102:13

Wisconsin on the lake and then we have a

102:15

condo in Florida. Um, they're both very

102:19

modest, so pretty small part of our net

102:21

worth. I like to buy things from a

102:23

position of power.

102:26

My stocks, I'm probably about 80% in in

102:30

VTSAX, total stock market index fund,

102:34

and probably 15% in bonds, a total bond

102:40

market index fund, and then the other 5%

102:42

in money market fund. I keep some money

102:45

in uh the checking account to pay the

102:47

bills. And to break it down a little

102:50

further for you, my wife and I both have

102:53

IAS. We have a regular IRA and a Roth

102:55

IRA. So there are four IAS. All four of

102:59

them hold VTSAX. We have taxable

103:02

accounts and part of that is VTSAX. Part

103:05

of it is the bonds.

103:07

>> What is a bond?

103:08

>> A bond is money that you have lent to a

103:11

company or to the government. So when

103:16

you buy a bond, you are essentially

103:18

lending money to a company or a

103:21

government entity. So they pay you

103:24

interest. So you will they companies and

103:28

the governments sell bonds of various

103:31

maturities. So they can be very short

103:33

like a money market fund is basically

103:35

very short-term bonds, you know, like 30

103:38

days or less, right? Which makes it the

103:40

equivalent of cash. But you could buy a

103:43

a certificate of deposit is a kind of a

103:45

bond. So you could buy one of those for

103:47

3 months or 6 months or a year, 5 years,

103:50

10 years, buy US treasuries going out 30

103:53

years.

103:53

>> Why would I do that instead of buying

103:54

the index fund?

103:55

>> So the index fund is stocks. It's it's

103:58

very stocks as we talked about big

104:01

growth engine, great long-term, very

104:03

volatile. [snorts] So if you want

104:05

something to smooth the ride, bonds are

104:08

not very good for long-term growth, but

104:10

they are not nearly as volatile.

104:12

>> Are they so they're safer? short-term,

104:14

yes, because they're less volatile.

104:16

Long-term, they tend to lose value to

104:19

inflation.

104:21

Stocks, on the other hand, are riskier

104:23

short-term because of the volatility,

104:25

but long-term they outpace inflation and

104:28

so they are safer long term. So, it

104:30

depends on your time horizon is which is

104:33

which is safer. But traditionally people

104:35

think of bonds as being safer and really

104:39

the way you should hear that is less

104:41

volatile and stocks being riskier.

104:44

You should hear that is more volatile.

104:46

>> So is it broadly true to say that if we

104:48

exclude your real estate 70% of your

104:51

assets are in stocks, 20% in bonds and

104:54

5% in cash?

104:55

>> Probably more 80 155.

104:58

>> 80% stocks, 15 bonds cash. Okay. It's

105:02

interesting because um

105:03

>> which would be considered very very

105:05

aggressive and I wouldn't necessarily

105:08

recommend that for most people my age.

105:11

>> I thought it would be curious cuz we now

105:13

have this new alien amongst us called

105:14

AI. I thought it would be curious if I

105:17

went on Chatt and I asked Chatt the

105:19

question. I'm a normal person who earns

105:22

$50,000 a year. I want to be financially

105:25

free in the future. Give me a one-s

105:27

sentence answer based on all of the

105:30

wisdom in the world taken from every

105:33

expert in investing ever.

105:35

>> Why? I know what the right answer is. I

105:37

don't know what the answer.

105:39

>> What do you think it's going to say?

105:40

>> Read the simple path of wealth. I don't

105:42

think that's what it's going to say, but

105:43

that's the right answer.

105:43

>> And the the simple path of wealth talks

105:45

about three principles, right?

105:46

>> Right.

105:47

>> What are those three? I'm going to check

105:48

it against what it says.

105:49

>> Avoid debt.

105:50

>> Yeah.

105:50

>> Live on less than you earn. Invest the

105:52

surplus. It said, "Focus on saving and

105:57

consistently invest in lowcost

105:59

broad-based index funds like the S&P 500

106:01

while living below your means and

106:03

allowing compounding to work over time."

106:06

I then asked another question. How do I

106:08

earn more?

106:09

>> I should sue them for mining my book.

106:11

>> Yeah, they probably did. [laughter]

106:14

I said, "How do I earn more?" What do

106:16

you think? You know if you if you

106:17

thought if your daughter came to you and

106:19

said

106:19

>> earn more in a job or

106:20

>> I just asked a very broad question which

106:22

is I now and now how do I earn more was

106:24

my question.

106:26

>> I would say develop develop your skills.

106:29

>> Okay.

106:29

>> It said to earn more focus on developing

106:32

high demand skills.

106:33

>> Oh there you go.

106:34

>> Seek opportunities for career

106:35

advancement. Explore side hustles or

106:37

invest in assets that generate passive

106:38

income like real estate or dividends.

106:41

But I really think that you know I

106:42

really think there's a really important

106:43

part there about developing high demand

106:46

skills.

106:47

>> What are those going to be in the

106:48

future?

106:49

>> Yeah.

106:49

>> With AI because programming for instance

106:53

used to be a very high demand skill and

106:55

people said learn how to program. Yeah.

106:57

>> From what I understand in the age of AI.

106:59

Yeah. That's not so much.

107:01

>> I even think about my own life. At 18

107:03

years old I started learning about

107:06

social media. I dropped out of

107:07

university doing my business management

107:08

degree after one lecture and I started

107:10

learning about social media because I

107:12

was building a business in social media

107:13

and technology and although that first

107:15

business failed I I was 19 years old in

107:20

201 what 14 or something really

107:23

understood this thing called social

107:24

media which led me to spend a year as a

107:27

consultant flying around the world to

107:28

all these companies doing social media

107:30

one of those companies turned around and

107:31

said it's been so great could you turn

107:32

this into a company I said no I've been

107:34

through the founder PT of starting a 3

107:37

months later I said yes turned into a

107:39

company called social chain and that

107:41

changed my entire life

107:42

>> that worked out well

107:43

>> high demand skill I had even though I

107:46

failed I had this high demand skill that

107:48

was honestly at the time paying me

107:50

£70,000 a month

107:51

>> you probably had it because you went

107:52

through the process of failing

107:54

>> yes

107:54

>> failure is you know it used to be in

107:56

some cultures that if you failed once

107:58

that was it you were a pariah nobody

108:00

would even look at you anymore failure

108:03

in our culture is just a stepping stone

108:06

I've heard venture capitalists say they

108:08

won't even look at an entrepreneur to

108:10

fund if they haven't failed at least

108:11

once.

108:12

>> The advice I'd now give to my kids based

108:14

on that is I would ask if my kids came

108:16

to me and said, "Dad, what should I go

108:17

learn?" I would say

108:20

go and work for a startup. I said

108:23

startup because you're going to be very

108:25

close to the CEO and founder because

108:27

there's going to be less desks. So,

108:28

you're going to be closer to the

108:29

proximity. That is failing at the

108:32

cutting edge. So if it's AI, I'd say go

108:35

work for an AI startup. I I probably not

108:37

going to work out. You're probably going

108:39

to be the company will be bust in a

108:40

couple of months time, but you're going

108:42

to be so close to the failure.

108:43

>> You will learn so much.

108:45

>> Yes.

108:45

>> I wish somebody had given me that

108:47

advice.

108:47

>> And that's that's like in a way I guess

108:50

roundabout way. What I did is I started

108:52

a company that failed at the very

108:54

forefront of a wave coming into shore,

108:57

which meant that as I hit, you know, as

108:59

the wave crashed down and I was left

109:00

there on my surfboard, I now had this

109:02

high demand set of skills that people

109:04

were like begging me for, which set

109:07

myself up. And frankly,

109:09

>> the D of a CEO would not be successful

109:12

had I not spent the previous 10 years

109:15

understanding how social media, content

109:17

creation, growth worked.

109:21

Is there a favorite story in this book

109:24

of yours?

109:25

>> Well, there's so many great ones. So,

109:27

>> share some.

109:28

>> I already I already alluded to my

109:30

favorite one, which is my friend Tom.

109:32

You know, because he has I mean, Tom was

109:34

a guy who got to the age of 62. He'd

109:38

been through multiple divorces. He lost

109:41

his house to foreclosure. He lost his

109:43

job. He was broke. He went bankrupt. And

109:47

yet, his life has turned out pretty

109:49

well. He's an extraordinarily happy guy.

109:52

That's my favorite story. But the one of

109:56

the reasons I like this book so much and

109:58

one of the reasons candidly I did it is

110:00

if you read through it, you will find

110:02

there are some stories from people who

110:05

were tech bros, right, who made big

110:07

incomes and they read the simple path to

110:09

wealth and applied and it worked very

110:11

well for them. But there are many, many

110:14

more stories of people who have

110:16

accomplished this from much more humble

110:18

beginnings. Give me an example of

110:20

>> I have a very good friend of mine, high

110:22

school buddy. I don't think he's ever

110:24

made more than $40,000 a year. He is

110:27

financially independent because he

110:30

followed the basic principles that I

110:32

talk about in that book. I have a

110:34

different friend and he was in the

110:35

financial business. He was living in

110:37

Chicago and over lunch he told me that

110:40

his Christmas bonus had come in at

110:42

$800,000.

110:43

That's back in the mid '90s when that

110:45

was real money, right?

110:47

And he was already making, I don't know,

110:49

a million dollars a year or whatever it

110:50

was, big income. And he was broke.

110:55

And you see, most people listening this

110:58

thing, I said, "What are you talking

110:59

about? This guy got a bonus for 8.

111:01

People paid me $800,000 for a year. I'd

111:03

be done forever, right? And that'd be my

111:06

nut. I'm good. How can he be broke?"

111:08

Well, when you listen to him talk about

111:11

the house, the cars, the schools, and

111:15

you start doing the math, you realize

111:17

that no, his income is not enough. He's

111:21

barely barely making it. So, here's a

111:24

guy with a big income who is, unless he

111:27

changes his ways, is never going to be

111:29

financially independent. Financially

111:31

independent. Here's my guy with a tiny

111:33

income comparatively who got there. I've

111:37

come to believe that a large income

111:41

actually can be an impediment to

111:44

accomplishing it. And my reasoning for

111:46

this is that I think people who have a

111:48

large income are much more likely to be

111:51

drawn into the competing with the

111:53

Joneses scenario because they associate

111:55

with other people have large incomes and

111:57

they're all driving a certain car,

111:59

living in a certain neighborhood,

112:01

sending their kids to certain schools

112:03

and that probably becomes very hard to

112:05

disengage with and making it perhaps

112:09

even less likely that they are going to

112:12

decide to spend a large portion of their

112:14

income on buying their freedom. Whereas

112:17

the people who make less money probably

112:19

don't have those same social pressures

112:21

and are more readily able to do it.

112:25

So starting from humble beginnings is no

112:27

obstacle and that's was the point of

112:29

doing Pathfinders.

112:31

>> Interesting.

112:33

>> It does track that. I think the

112:36

goalposts continue to move in different

112:37

ways and

112:38

>> yeah,

112:39

>> I guess you go from competing to the

112:41

Joneses to competing with the size of

112:43

someone else's yacht, which is all

112:46

slippery slopes to bad places

112:47

>> or your own or your own demons

112:51

as we talked about earlier, right?

112:52

>> Yeah. You mentioned a word in there as

112:54

well. You mentioned I think you were

112:55

talking about your friend Tom. Tom had a

112:56

divorce.

112:57

>> Multiple divorces. Yeah.

112:59

>> I

113:00

>> which is bad for [clears throat] your

113:01

wealth.

113:02

>> Yeah. I didn't real I didn't I didn't

113:04

realize this cuz I've never been through

113:05

one before. Um I spoke to James Ston on

113:08

the show who's a divorce lawyer who kind

113:10

of opened my eyes to it. But actually I

113:13

had a private conversation with a friend

113:14

here in New York City, I'd say a couple

113:17

of months ago who's going through a

113:18

divorce and he he sat me down and he

113:21

talked me through the specific

113:23

consequences of of divorce that he's

113:26

going through.

113:27

>> He said to me, he's a very successful

113:28

person. I reckon he's probably worth 500

113:30

million, right? He said the divorce

113:33

proceedings have now dragged on for five

113:36

or 6 years. So I'm I'm having to go and

113:39

see lawyers all the time. And he said to

113:41

me as well that he is paying for her

113:43

lawyer which I was I didn't really

113:45

understand. But he was like no I have to

113:46

also cover her lawyer costs because you

113:49

know I'm the the bread winner so she

113:51

doesn't have money so I'm covering her

113:52

lawyer costs which is what I have to do.

113:54

And he said the law firm have gone from

113:56

being a very very small practice in

113:58

those six years. Now they have a massive

114:00

building and he goes, "I know it's my

114:03

money. I bought it. I [laughter] bought

114:04

it."

114:04

>> He literally is like, "I have paid for

114:06

her lawyer and now they're doing really

114:07

really well and they're milking this

114:09

this case. They're drawing it out

114:10

because they have no incentive to this

114:13

to this ending." Yeah.

114:14

>> So he's like, "I've spent tens of

114:15

millions on her lawyer who is basically

114:17

dragging me. Um, and now they've got

114:20

this massive building." What else did he

114:21

say to me? He said, "Because some of my

114:24

assets are subjective in value, like my

114:27

company, her lawyer [laughter] is

114:29

inflating the price of my assets because

114:32

she's going to get half of whatever they

114:34

can convince a judge my assets are

114:36

worth." So he, you know, for example,

114:37

his business might be worth 100 million,

114:39

but the lawyer is making the case to the

114:41

judge that it's worth 500 million so

114:43

that she gets 250 million. He also said

114:46

to me,

114:46

>> which really isn't there,

114:47

>> which really he doesn't have, right? And

114:49

then he was saying to me, he goes, you

114:50

know, I bought this particular stock.

114:52

>> So he is, I'm sorry to interrupt you,

114:53

but now he's forced to fight it.

114:55

>> He's fighting.

114:56

>> It's not like he could just say, okay,

114:57

she can have half.

114:58

>> Yeah.

114:59

>> Because this is a judgment

115:01

that is going to create a a an

115:03

obligation on his part for assets that

115:06

don't actually exist.

115:07

>> So it's more than half.

115:08

>> She could end up taking 60 70. And the

115:11

other thing he said to me, which was

115:12

quite sad, he was like, you know, I was

115:13

one of the f He was one of the early

115:14

investors in a big company that we all

115:16

know. and um he said to me, I bought

115:20

that stock 15 20 years ago. It's

115:22

actually quite emotional to him that he

115:23

was so early in back in the company and

115:26

now he's forced to sell that. So he has

115:28

to liquidate investments he made 20

115:31

years ago because again she's entitled

115:33

to half

115:33

>> and that'll be a huge tax hit.

115:35

>> A huge tax hit,

115:36

>> right? And I think some people don't

115:38

realize that wealthy people can

115:42

get a loan against that stock without

115:45

ever having to sell it.

115:47

>> So he's probably, if he's wrong, he's

115:49

probably got a big loan against that

115:51

stock,

115:52

>> right?

115:53

>> Probably a 50% loan. So, just for anyone

115:55

that doesn't understand this, because I

115:56

only understood this in the last couple

115:57

years where where I started doing

115:58

similar things, is if the stock is worth

116:00

a h 100red million, he can get 50

116:02

million tax-free from a bank just by

116:05

keeping that stock there and really

116:06

never have to pay it back because it's

116:07

such a great stock. Um, and it was also

116:12

just looking in his face and just seeing

116:14

the stress and the toll of having to go

116:15

to court all the time and fight this

116:17

thing for six or seven years that I

116:19

thought, wow, we we give people

116:21

financial advice all the time about the

116:23

best stocks to pick or invest in index

116:25

funds. We don't talk enough about the

116:28

how divorce can just destroy your life.

116:31

>> You know, you have to be so careful in

116:32

choosing your spouse. I've had push back

116:35

on that and people say, "Well, then

116:37

you're choosing your spouse is not a

116:38

financial decision. It's, you know, it's

116:40

emotional, it's romantic, it's well,

116:42

yeah, it's all those things, but it you

116:44

better take finance into account for all

116:47

the reasons that we're discussing." This

116:49

also, by the way, loops us back to an

116:50

earlier part of our conversation where

116:53

does money buy happiness? Does, you

116:55

know, being richer,

116:57

is that always necessarily better? Well,

117:00

this guy is more of a target because of

117:02

his wealth than he would be if he were.

117:04

So, is his money really making him

117:07

happier at this point in his life? Yeah,

117:08

probably not so much, you know.

117:11

>> You know, and he's he's going to be fine

117:12

either way, like sure, you know, um

117:14

which is a point worth saying of nuance,

117:17

but also and the other point of nuance

117:18

worth saying is that

117:19

>> he's going to be fine financially, but

117:20

emotionally it's he's still going to go

117:23

and she's probably going through it too

117:24

on the other side.

117:26

>> Yeah. [laughter] And the other point of

117:28

nuance here is that she did raise the

117:32

four or five the the three or four kids

117:35

>> while he was off building the business

117:37

for, you know, 20 odd years. So, one

117:39

could argue that he wouldn't have that

117:41

wealth without her being at home to look

117:43

after the kids and she'd made huge

117:44

sacrifices to her own career,

117:46

>> right?

117:47

>> So, you know, there's balance. But I I

117:49

just think with um

117:51

James Ston said to me, even if you don't

117:53

get a prenup,

117:55

there's still a prenup. You either use

117:56

the government's prenup,

117:58

>> which is

117:59

>> or you create your own,

118:00

>> or you create your own. Either way,

118:01

there's a prenup.

118:02

>> Absolutely.

118:03

>> Do you want to let some judge decide

118:05

>> or do you want to be intentional before

118:07

you get married with your partner about

118:09

how things will be split?

118:11

>> And even when I think about my partner

118:12

at the moment, and we're probably going

118:13

to get married soon.

118:15

>> Congratulations.

118:15

>> Thank you. I haven't proposed just yet,

118:17

but I'm working on it. Don't tell her

118:18

that.

118:18

>> We We just let the secret out.

118:20

>> She doesn't She doesn't WATCH THIS

118:21

ANYWAY. [laughter]

118:23

>> Someone's going to do

118:24

>> Wait a second. But I'm on this time, so

118:26

this is the one episode she's going to

118:28

watch.

118:29

>> True.

118:29

>> Well, I'm very fortunate as if this

118:31

spring I will have been m married 44

118:33

years.

118:33

>> Damn.

118:34

>> And [clears throat] I I tell people I I

118:37

married my wife out of the gate. Why

118:39

wait? Do you have a framework for

118:41

choosing the person or for sustaining

118:45

for 44 years? Cuz I'm what, six, seven

118:47

years in with my girlfriend, but you got

118:49

44 years in.

118:50

>> Funny story about that is people used to

118:54

ask me, did you and Jane sit down and

118:56

discuss money before make sure you were

118:58

on the same page financially before you

119:00

got married? [snorts] And I always used

119:03

to say, you know, it's a great idea. You

119:05

should do that. But no, we never did

119:07

that. I just I just got lucky. you know,

119:09

we never talked about it, but as it

119:11

happens, we got married and we were

119:13

very, very compatible financially, which

119:15

we are, but just got lucky. Well, I told

119:18

that story in front of her one time and

119:21

she leaned back in her chair and she

119:23

said, "What are you talking about? On

119:25

our first date, you said to me, you need

119:28

to be saving 50% of your income." You

119:30

said, "What do you mean we never talked

119:32

about money?"

119:34

I guess that's such a natural part of my

119:36

persona. I didn't even remember doing

119:37

it.

119:38

>> Interesting. [laughter]

119:40

[snorts]

119:40

>> My last question for you is about

119:42

regret.

119:43

You said you're 75.

119:44

>> I am.

119:45

>> What are your biggest regrets?

119:48

>> So, I I think regrets are are tricky and

119:51

and I will I'll answer your question

119:54

directly and it's a couple of things

119:56

that or at least one thing that occurs

119:58

to me that might be surprising.

120:00

The reason they're tricky is because

120:02

there is an assumption like you re you

120:04

regret doing A and you think if only I'd

120:07

done B, things would be better. But you

120:10

don't know that that's true. But you

120:11

might say, "Boy, I regret starting that

120:13

company that failed because it was a

120:15

failure." Well, yeah, but it led to

120:17

something much bigger. You learned so

120:19

much. Now maybe if you'd said instead of

120:23

starting that company that failed, maybe

120:26

I took this highpaying job and and I

120:29

worked my way up through the corporate

120:30

organization. And you'd be saying there,

120:33

you know, you'd be sitting at some high

120:35

executive level in this corporation and

120:37

looking back and saying, "Wow, am I glad

120:39

I didn't do that startup that failed,

120:43

right?" And yet you're so much further

120:44

ahead now than if you So who knows? Who

120:48

knows what choice you made that appears

120:50

to be the wrong choice as to whether it

120:53

really was. Maybe it was exactly right.

120:55

Maybe things would have turned out

120:56

better, maybe they wouldn't. So, I'm

120:58

very hesitant to look back on. There are

121:00

many things I can look back on and say,

121:02

"Gee, I do wonder what if I'd gone down

121:06

the right path instead of the left path.

121:08

What would that have looked like?" But

121:10

there's no guarantees it would look

121:12

better and my life has been pretty damn

121:13

good. So, in that sense, I have no

121:16

regrets.

121:17

Two regrets I do have, very personal

121:20

regrets. I don't I've never shared these

121:22

publicly.

121:24

When I was a kid,

121:27

my father was a very handy guy. He loved

121:31

building things, working on the house,

121:32

that kind of stuff.

121:34

I was not that kind of kid. And I don't

121:37

know, I was eight or 10 years old at one

121:39

point. And for my birthday or Christmas,

121:42

I don't remember, he brought me a bought

121:45

me a jigsaw, which is a for people who

121:49

don't know, it's a it's an electric saw.

121:51

It's got a little blade. It goes up and

121:52

allows you to cut wood and very fine

121:55

kinds of patterns.

121:57

Last thing in the world this kid wanted.

122:02

And I let my dad know and he was crushed

122:06

because for him

122:09

it was the best gift he could possibly

122:12

think of to give to an eight or

122:13

10year-old or whatever it was. And so

122:16

one of the regrets and I give myself

122:17

some grace cuz I was very young and

122:21

reasonably you could expect that I

122:23

didn't have the maturity to deal with it

122:25

the way I would. But I I do regret

122:28

because I could see the pain in his face

122:31

when I I kind of rejected that gift,

122:35

right?

122:37

And maybe that taught me a good lesson

122:40

in being more empathetic going forward.

122:42

So again, do I really regret it? Well, I

122:44

regret that I hurt my father, but I

122:47

learned something pretty valuable.

122:49

>> And you've let you've remembered that

122:51

for 70 years.

122:52

>> I've remembered that for 70 years. Yeah.

122:55

Yeah. I've got similar stories of things

122:58

ways I reacted as a kid.

122:59

>> I think most people do.

123:01

>> You know, yeah, it sucks.

123:03

>> And then my second one, and this is even

123:05

bigger. [clears throat] I was 24 when my

123:07

dad died

123:09

and he died of emphyma

123:11

and [clears throat]

123:12

slow lingering death. He died in the

123:14

hospital.

123:16

And

123:18

the night before he died, the day before

123:21

he died, I was visiting him and um he

123:25

was sitting on the edge of the bed

123:28

and he said to me, "Uh,

123:33

I'm going to die now.

123:36

You know, I'm I'm going to die tonight."

123:42

Turns out, of course, he was right. He

123:44

did. That was the night he died.

123:48

And instead of recognizing that

123:52

this was a moment where

123:55

he wanted to talk to his son about this

123:59

this probably the most momentous event

124:02

that any of us will ever face.

124:05

Right? Instead of recognizing that,

124:10

I went to the typical trope of, "Oh,

124:12

dad, don't don't talk like that. You

124:13

you're not going to die. you got a long

124:15

way to go. You're going to be fine. I

124:17

went to all that [ __ ]

124:19

instead of just recognizing whether he

124:23

was right or wrong

124:26

[clears throat] that

124:28

he was facing a momentous thing and

124:31

[snorts and clears throat] he didn't

124:32

want to hear

124:34

don't don't think about that think more

124:36

positively. He he wanted to share with

124:39

his son

124:43

what he was facing.

124:46

And I regret that I wasn't there for him

124:50

in that moment.

124:52

But I regret that I didn't get to

124:54

experience that with him in that moment.

124:58

So that's my biggest.

125:03

>> I can still see it still in your face.

125:09

That was 50 years ago.

125:14

>> Is there a reason why you think in that

125:17

moment you didn't

125:19

want to go in that direction with him?

125:22

>> Was it a matter of what I wanted? Cuz

125:24

it's not like I considered

125:26

[clears throat]

125:27

I can either blow it off, which is what

125:29

I did, or embrace it and go there with

125:32

him. I I didn't even think that way.

125:33

It's not like

125:36

it's not like I made the wrong choice. I

125:39

wasn't mature enough to recognize there

125:41

was a choice. I wasn't mature enough to

125:44

recognize

125:46

the real dynamic of what was happening.

125:49

>> And for that you deserve grace.

125:52

>> Thank you. And I agree with that. But I

125:55

still regret it because how much better

125:58

for both of us would it have been

126:02

if I had recognized it? JL, we have a

126:05

closing tradition on this podcast where

126:06

the last guest leaves a question for the

126:07

next.

126:09

>> What is something that you think is true

126:12

that you haven't yet been able to

126:14

validate? I think at at this point in my

126:18

life, I'm I feel pretty comfortable

126:22

about what I think is true. Right? So,

126:27

I'm not sure this answers the question,

126:29

but uh

126:32

but a good example is I am pretty sure

126:36

that there is no afterlife,

126:38

right? I I have a high degree of

126:42

confidence to that. But of course, as

126:44

the song once said, we never know by

126:47

living and only our dying will tell. And

126:50

I am very curious about death. I am very

126:55

curious as to

126:59

what is on the other side, if anything.

127:02

So, in a perverse way, I guess I'm I am

127:06

looking forward to my death, right? I I

127:09

don't want to get there too soon. I

127:10

mean, I'm as long as I'm mentally and

127:12

physically capable, I'm happy to

127:14

continue living. Thank you very much.

127:16

But I do have a great curiosity about

127:18

death, and I'm almost 100% sure that

127:22

when I'm dead, that's just it. It's

127:24

over.

127:25

But I'm curious, and it'll be

127:27

interesting if I die, and it's like,

127:30

whoops. You know, it's like, oh, there

127:33

is a guy with a white beard and

127:36

okay, I'll just show myself out. Thank

127:37

you very much.

127:39

>> [laughter]

127:39

>> There was one last question I wanted to

127:40

ask you which is kind of just about the

127:41

subject of happiness. Again at 75 years

127:43

old you have a retrospective clarity

127:44

that I don't yet have on what actually

127:46

mattered.

127:48

What actually matters?

127:50

>> Nothing.

127:54

Nothing really matters ultimately.

127:57

>> Nothing.

127:58

>> Yeah. I think

128:01

that's kind of like asking what's the

128:03

meaning of life, right?

128:05

And I don't think there is a meaning to

128:08

life when you look at the scale of the

128:10

universe, the scale of the cosmos.

128:14

The concept that

128:18

we as individuals bear some meaning

128:22

seems to me to be silly. Human beings

128:25

have been around for I don't know two

128:27

300,000 years depending on when you

128:30

define homo sapiens. I mean that's

128:33

that's a infantestibly small smudge of

128:38

time

128:39

in that has happened already and that

128:41

will happen in the future even if humans

128:44

last for another few million years. It

128:47

will be an infinitely

128:49

tiny bit of time against this huge

128:52

cosmic universe and our individuality

128:57

within that is infantessimally small and

129:01

I think there's some great meaning

129:03

behind that seems to be to be the height

129:04

of arrogance. So I think that if you go

129:08

through life and you treat people pretty

129:12

well and you have a a pretty good good

129:15

run of it, I think you've done well. I

129:19

don't but I don't think there's

129:20

something profound in that.

129:23

>> So So what is the point then? Is there a

129:26

point? Is that the real question?

129:27

>> There is no point. I mean the the point

129:29

is we happen to be here and it can be a

129:33

good fun ride. It can be a very

129:35

difficult ride depending on what you

129:36

make of it and in some cases depending

129:39

on your circumstances. There have

129:41

certainly been people in history that

129:42

have born been born into circumstances

129:45

that

129:46

you know made it a a miserable existence

129:50

with no options out of it. I mean what's

129:52

the meaning of that? You know, you and I

129:55

and the vast majority of people

129:57

listening to us, probably I venture to

130:00

say 100% of them have a lot more

130:02

autonomy over over how we can make our

130:06

life. And

130:08

will it have great meaning? No,

130:10

ultimately not. But it's the only life

130:13

you have and you may as well make the

130:14

best of it.

130:16

>> I actually listened to something last

130:17

night by a guy called Lucas Jones who is

130:20

an actor. Um, he has some great books.

130:22

He's also a poet as far as I'm aware.

130:24

I'll link his books below. Um, but he he

130:27

made wrote this poem which I thought was

130:28

quite related to that that I'm just

130:30

going to play for you cuz I think it's

130:31

kind of captures the essence as well of

130:32

what you're saying.

130:33

>> He starts by saying, "I saw God on the

130:35

train."

130:35

>> Okay.

130:35

>> Saw God on the train.

130:36

>> A pretended I didn't. So, I sat far away

130:39

from the seat he was sitting in. And

130:41

then he got up, I think probably to piss

130:43

and he noticed me there and said, "All

130:45

right, what's this? What are you saying?

130:47

You hiding from me?" I said, "Ah, mate,

130:49

nah, just a comfy seat." And he looked

130:51

at me like I was a kid covered in

130:53

chocolate surrounded by rappers saying,

130:54

"Don't know what happened." And he go,

130:57

"It's coming then, mate. I've got a few

130:58

minutes. Tell me what's wrong, but don't

131:00

[ __ ] around with it." And it shocked me

131:02

then that it fit in one sentence. I

131:04

said, "Just think heaven's a stupid

131:06

incentive." Like what a [ __ ] life for a

131:09

beautiful death. And those who are evil

131:11

can suddenly repent like a killer or not

131:13

can live like a monster. Then right at

131:15

the end say, "I'm sorry, dear God, sir."

131:17

And end up in heaven right there with my

131:19

nana. She's doing some knitting. He's

131:21

waving a hammer. He's like, "Jesus god,

131:23

what a horrible deal." And he goes,

131:24

"Yeah, it's [ __ ] I know how you

131:26

feel." I'm like, "Mate, you're the one

131:28

spinning the wheel." And he goes,

131:29

"Listen, I'll tell you a secret." All

131:31

that stuff, mate. I didn't speak it.

131:33

Like the old joke says about liars and

131:35

men. If God wrote the book, why are you

131:37

holding the pen? Now, the rules I wrote,

131:39

I wrote on your heart. Truth I spoke,

131:42

you've known from the start, be kind,

131:43

don't harm, isn't that hard. Heaven is

131:45

just life if you're doing your part. You

131:47

want white clouds and endless skies. Uh,

131:49

yeah. Look around. You don't have to

131:51

die. I know it probably brings you some

131:53

pain to think of the dead as just dust

131:55

in a grave. But humans can't comprehend

131:57

it when I say life is the cloud and

132:00

death is the rain. And I got to my stop

132:03

and felt kind of mad. Not sure he

132:05

answered the questions I had. Then I

132:07

looked up and saw the sun rising. Said,

132:10

"You're looking for heaven, but you're

132:12

the one hiding."

132:16

[laughter]

132:16

>> LJ, thank you. Thank you for writing

132:18

these incredible books that I highly

132:20

recommend anybody who is on their own

132:22

journey to financial freedom and is

132:24

looking for a free life, a financial

132:26

independence or just independence from

132:28

one's own tormenting psychology should h

132:32

should uh should buy this book. The

132:35

simple path to wealth has been an

132:36

absolute smash hit for um understandable

132:39

reasons once you read it. Sold many

132:41

millions of copies from what I

132:42

understand, more than a million copies

132:43

at least. And I highly recommend

132:45

everybody goes and starts with this book

132:46

and then picks up Pathfinders. I'm going

132:49

to link both of these books below. And

132:50

there is a third book, it's slightly

132:51

smaller, called How I Lost Money in Real

132:53

Estate Before It Was Fashionable, A

132:54

Cautionary Tale. Um, I'm going to link

132:57

all of them below. And if anybody else

132:59

wants to find more of your work, is

133:00

there anywhere else that they can get in

133:02

contact with you, read your work that I

133:04

should recommend? So probably the

133:06

easiest thing is the blog which is

133:08

jlinsnh

133:10

at uh or.com and uh you know you'll find

133:14

a lot of my writing. I don't write on

133:16

the blog too much anymore but the

133:18

material that's there is evergreen. It's

133:21

the source material for the books that

133:23

you were kind enough to share. Uh the

133:25

last book the how I lost money in real

133:27

estate is if somebody wants to have a

133:29

laugh at my expense that's the book they

133:31

want to pick up.

133:32

>> Thank you for doing so much of what you

133:33

do. Um, I know what the comments are

133:34

going to say already. They're going to

133:35

be people talking about how soothing

133:36

your voice is, and I [laughter] I happen

133:38

to I happen to agree. Thank you so much.

133:42

>> My pleasure. Thank you for having me.

133:47

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The video discusses the principles of building wealth, primarily through the lens of J.L. Collins' book, "The Simple Path to Wealth." Key takeaways include the importance of avoiding debt, living below one's means, and investing surplus, particularly in stocks through low-cost index funds. The discussion emphasizes that financial independence provides freedom and options, and that a focus on 'what money can earn' rather than 'what money can buy' is crucial. It also touches upon the psychological aspects of wealth building, the role of trauma in driving success, the difference between investing and speculating, and the importance of long-term perspective and emotional control in financial decisions. The speaker also delves into the complexities of homeownership, the impact of 'must-haves' on wealth accumulation, and the nuances of saving and investing, including tax-advantaged accounts. Finally, it explores the personal regrets and life philosophies of the guest, highlighting the importance of experiences and relationships over material possessions, and questioning the ultimate meaning of life and wealth.

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