Commuting to work is for suckers
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Guys, if you commute to work, then you
are a sucker. I'm sorry to tell you
that. Studies show that your happiness
level is inversely proportional to the
length of your commute. And furthermore,
the same studies show that if you have a
1-hour long commute, then you have to be
making 40% more to be equally happy as
someone with a short walking commute.
Let that sink in. You know, when you try
to measure your happiness in a sort of
holistic way, a lot of nerds get way too
caught up on purely the total comp
number. You know, they'll they'll get in
your face and be like, "How much you
make? 400. I made 450 beat you." And
it's like, it isn't about just the total
comp number. You know, they get so
caught up in this dick measuring
contest. It's about holistically the
whole equation for happiness, which
includes things like cost of living and
quality of life. And so I'm going to
show you how to weigh all that together
to get a more holistic number that you
want to be measuring. So in this video
I'm going to cover the full spectrum
from working remotely which is ideal to
having to have a commute and how to
optimize it to be short and then the
opposite extreme which is living at work
which can work as well. Let's get into
it. So one of the hidden blessings in
disguise of CO is that it's made remote
jobs way more acceptable. And so given
the studies I cited, you should be
willing to take almost a 40% pay cut if
your boss lets you work from home.
Obviously, don't show your hand and tell
them this, but that's what the
statistics show. That's how much more
happiness you buy by getting to work
from home. Now, if you manage to work
from home, ideally, you want to move to
a state with no state tax. So, the
cooler states without state tax, I would
say, are Texas and Florida. So getting
to work for a job in say New York City
or San Francisco, but working remotely
from Texas or Florida would be ideal. If
you can move to a lower cost of living
state, that's still pretty cool. That's
really the the balance you're looking
for. So to give you an idea of how like
one of my friends pulled this off, one
of my friends worked at this investment
bank in New York City and he was really
good at his job. He asked his manager if
he could work from home one day a week.
His pace of productivity remained
unchanged for that period. So then he
slowly asked if he could make it 2 days
a week and then 3 days a week and he
managed to do this over like a year. By
the end of the year he was fully remote.
So from there he moved to Chattanooga,
Tennessee with his family which is like
this big remote working town. He's
paying like $500 a month to live in this
huge house. That's like an optimal
situation as far as geo arbitrage. Now
there's a lot of different ways to pull
this off. I have another friend who
works at a company in Boston. She knows
the partners well and has been there for
a long time. So through CO, she got to
work from Costa Rica and be doing kite
surfing and things like that, spear
fishing. After CO ended, she just asked
if she could spend uh winters in Costa
Rica and summers in Boston. So she's
basically doing like the whole snowbird
thing, and they were okay with it. So a
lot of times you just have to build good
relationships with the partners or
owners and uh build a reputation for
being productive even when you're
working from home. And once you build
that trust, they don't really have an
issue with you doing that because what
does it matter to them? they get extra
office space. Now what's even more ideal
in my opinion is geo arbitrageing abroad
but a lot of finance firms and you know
bigger firms tend to not allow this
because there's all these legal
complications when you're technically
working from another country but there
are firms that allow this especially
startups which are more lax on
regulations and things like this and so
there's a lot of dudes who work out of
Mexico City because it's roughly in the
same time zone as most firms in the
United States and the GeoR is insane cuz
the cost of living is so much better.
Dating life is better. Just everything
about it. Quality of life, cost of
living are getting max stats. You should
be willing to take a lower salary if you
could do such a geo. Now, because this
geoarb is so desirable, there's a lot of
people who try to do this under the
radar by using VPNs and being really
sneaky. And some people do get away with
it for a long time, but other people get
caught eventually. So, you know, if
you're going to attempt to do this, do
it at your do do it at your own risk and
uh know that you could get fired
instantly if you get caught because it
is usually in the employee handbook that
you're not allowed to work from outside
of the country. And just like legal
liability wise, they pretty much have to
fire you immediately and plead ignorance
cuz they don't want to get sued by
clients by having an employee that's
working outside of the country. So, if
you are one of these people that is
attempting to fraud your way into acting
like you live in one city while you're
technically working from another city,
before you log in every morning,
definitely check the weather at the city
you're pretending to be in. Cuz you
don't want to get caught flatfooted when
they're like, "Oh boy, you how you how
you surviving that snowstorm?" Or, you
know, like, "Oh, you guys are having
that hurricane there, right? How how are
you working from home right now? Didn't
they do like a mandatory evacuation?"
you know, so you want to like look that
stuff up so that your you know your your
narrative is consistent with the weather
of your area and you know they don't
grow suspicious cuz I actually had a
friend who was working at the same hedge
fund as me. Him and I were both working
from Miami while our hedge fund was in
Chicago. At some point they asked us
after co to come back to Chicago. So I
just came back because you know I want
to follow the rules but he was like no
they're just not going to notice. He
came back for like a week or two and
then just went back to Miami and he
eventually got caught. You know, people
just figured it out. He would be dressed
in this like tropical weather. Those
like Hawaiian t-shirts with like leave
leaves and flowers on them and in his
Zoom calls while while there's like a
snowstorm going on in Chicago. And um I
don't know, people just eventually
figured it out. So if you're going to
attempt to do that, just like you got to
stay on top of it. You got to be careful
cuz he basically got fired the moment
they figured that out. All right. So, if
you can't get your boss to let you work
remotely, let's talk about commuting.
So, one of the main reasons why
commuting makes people so unhappy is
because of the stress. You know, if you
have a driving commute, you have to pay
attention to the road the whole time.
You know, just like watching to see that
you're between the lines and you know,
in the winter when there there's
snowstorms, it's like super stressful.
There could be patches of black ice and
you lose traction. And you know,
speaking of that, a lot of people don't
realize this, but the number one cause
of death for people under the age of 44
is car accidents. So, you're taking
incredible risk every time you have a
driving commute, especially when, you
know, driving is the first thing you do
in the morning. You know, a lot of times
you're a little foggy in the head and
you're rushing to work and it's easier
to get into a car accident. But, let's
say you have a a public transportation
commute. That's stressful, too. you
know, you get squished up into these
little buses or or subways like like
sardines and you know, you got to deal
with like people's bad breath or like
people's bo like some people smell bad
and people are coughing and spreading
viruses, especially in the winter.
Sometimes you get the homeless people
who are just like peeing on themselves
and just drooling
and and you know, god forbid you get
even like dudes who will just straight
up stab you, right? Like there's a lot
of violence on the subway. So public
transportation commutes are not ideal
either. Now, let's talk about costs.
When you have a car, you have to pay
gas, tolls, parking, repairs, and other
maintenance. And your car is a
depreciating asset, oil changes, and so
on. And when you have a public
transportation commute, you have to pay
for your train or bus fees. So, you're
going to eat costs no matter what. So
once you understand the stress, the
costs, the risks of having a commute,
you understand quickly why the studies
show that the length of your commute is
inversely proportional with your
happiness levels. And you should be
doing everything you can to reduce the
length of your commute. So when you ask
yourself at least for single people who
don't have a wife and a kid who they
want to you know be able to go to a good
school district for like a single person
who lives in a city for example it's
like why do you have such a long commute
from some trendy neighborhood to your
job that is suboptimal it just isn't
very strategic it's negative EV the
optimal way to commute is to live as
close as possible to work and I'll tell
you why there's just a lot of propaganda
from realtors and that whole industry as
far as like how cool it is to live in
some trendy neighborhood. And it's
incredibly overrated. You know, for
people who live in Chicago, for example,
there's this whole like uh flex by
saying you live in like Gold Coast or
Lake View or somewhere that's seen as
being more expensive or ritzy. People
think it's a flex. It doesn't matter as
much as you think it matters. Let's be
realistic. On weekdays after work, most
people are just going home and
vegetating on their couch and watching
Netflix and then ordering some food
through Door Dash or Uber Eats or
something. They're just too tired to
really be that social, you know. And if
this isn't you, then by all means, you
know, you don't have to apply this
advice. But most people who work hard at
work and have really good careers,
they're pretty tired on weekdays and
they just kind of do something chill at
home. So, you're really only being
social on the weekend usually. So, why
should you commute back and forth 30
minutes Monday through Friday when the
place you're commuting from when the
trendy neighborhood you live in, you're
only really making use of it on the
weekend? What you should be doing is
living right next to work. Even if it's
in some uncool downtown neighborhood
that it's like an office environment, it
doesn't matter. Then your commute from
Monday through Friday will be super
short. It'll be like a short 5-minute
walk-in commute. And then on the
weekend, if you want to do a reverse
commute to the trendy neighborhood to
meet your friends, that's when you can
do it. You save hours and hours a week,
which becomes hundreds of hours over a
year. You save time, money, and stress.
If you can't work from home, then
obviously you want as short a commute as
possible. Once the commute's super
short, it gets you thinking, can you
make it even shorter? What is the most
optimal shortest commute, which is no
commute, which is living at work? I've
actually done this before so I can share
my thoughts on it. When I worked at
Lockheed Martin, I decided I'm just
going to live out of my car in the
company parking lot and utilize the gym
at the office to shower in the mornings.
And there's a growing movement of people
who do this, especially in cities like
San Francisco, which are stupidly
expensive. There's a lot of tech bros
who just live out of RVs and go work for
Google. They're saving stupid amounts of
money because when they're deciding on
your total comp number, they're
factoring in the fact that rent and real
estate is so expensive in that area. And
suddenly, you're removing that from your
entire budget. You can find other
YouTubers and people who who do this.
They sleep out of their cars or they
sleep in RVs and then they just shower
at the gym or they shower in the office.
You trim down the commute to zero and
you trim down your rent expenses to
zero. It's an insane cost savings and
it's just adventurous and fun. I mean,
who wants to feel like some office drone
and just punch in and punch out and just
watch the years and the seasons go by?
Like, who wants to live like that? you
know, you're you're only on this earth
once and it just feels more exciting to
do something a little weird and, you
know, off the radar. You you suddenly
feel alive again. Like, you know, you
suddenly feel like the main character in
the story of your life again. Like, oh
I'm really doing this. This is
crazy, you know? And it's kind of fun to
like see how long you can get away with
it without people noticing, you know?
Like I I'd be the first in the office a
lot of times and people are like, "I
didn't even see you drive in. How did
how did you get here so soon?" and
you're just like giggling in your head
like, "Bro, I never left." And uh it's
kind of fun to like mess with people
like that. Um it's like a hack. It's a
life hack. So yeah, I really recommend
doing something like that. It really
keeps life interesting. And you know,
after you get away with doing that for
like a year, you you've saved like
$50,000. Now, there are actually firms
that already encourage this like Foxcon
or Cluey. You know, there's there's
firms where you actually sleep at work
and they combine the two. It's better
for productivity at work if you want to
be the man and just like kick ass there,
but then it just eliminates the commute
altogether. So, that's another way to
go. If you happen to work for a firm
like that, then you you'll just have no
commute. So, I would encourage that way
of thinking as well. So, yeah, guys, you
know, with the channel, I really want to
help people think outside of the box.
Don't be trapped in the comfortable
rhythms of life. You're never going to
be an extraordinary person or have an
extraordinary life if you do things in
an ordinary way, right? The extra and
extraordinary. You have to go extra. You
have to you have to get out of your
comfort zone and do things that are a
little bit weird in order to feel alive
again and and to really get ahead of
your your peers in terms of retiring
earlier or, you know, having extra
money. And so having this understanding
of how taxing a a commute is on your
life, you should be attempting a more
alternative lifestyle. And I hope you
take some of my recommendations to
heart. Here are the actual tangible
action items to take away from the
video. One, do anything and everything
you can to convince your boss to let you
work remotely, even in up to taking a
40% pay cut. because it's about looking
at the holistic equation of what makes
you happy and cost of living and quality
of life are big inputs to the equation,
not just total comp. And two, if you
can't work from home, try to minimize
your commute as much as possible all the
way up to finding a place to live right
next to the office or living out of an
RV or a van from the company parking
lot. you will save ridiculous amounts of
money and you can just find a girlfriend
that lets you sleep at her place every
now and then and be a moocher like that.
And it's just it's just a way better way
to live life. It's just way more fun and
exciting. So, let me know if you guys
decide to implement any of these action
items in your own lives. And uh let me
know if you disagree in the comments.
Take care.
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The video argues against commuting, emphasizing that happiness is inversely proportional to commute length and that remote work, especially with geo-arbitrage, offers significant financial and quality-of-life benefits. If remote work is not feasible, the speaker recommends minimizing commute by living very close to work or even at the workplace (e.g., in a car or RV) to save money and time. The speaker encourages adopting unconventional lifestyles to achieve greater happiness and financial freedom, highlighting that true happiness considers cost of living and quality of life beyond just total compensation.
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