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Commuting to work is for suckers

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Guys, if you commute to work, then you

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are a sucker. I'm sorry to tell you

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that. Studies show that your happiness

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level is inversely proportional to the

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length of your commute. And furthermore,

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the same studies show that if you have a

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1-hour long commute, then you have to be

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making 40% more to be equally happy as

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someone with a short walking commute.

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Let that sink in. You know, when you try

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to measure your happiness in a sort of

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holistic way, a lot of nerds get way too

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caught up on purely the total comp

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number. You know, they'll they'll get in

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your face and be like, "How much you

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make? 400. I made 450 beat you." And

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it's like, it isn't about just the total

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comp number. You know, they get so

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caught up in this dick measuring

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contest. It's about holistically the

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whole equation for happiness, which

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includes things like cost of living and

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quality of life. And so I'm going to

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show you how to weigh all that together

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to get a more holistic number that you

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want to be measuring. So in this video

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I'm going to cover the full spectrum

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from working remotely which is ideal to

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having to have a commute and how to

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optimize it to be short and then the

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opposite extreme which is living at work

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which can work as well. Let's get into

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it. So one of the hidden blessings in

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disguise of CO is that it's made remote

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jobs way more acceptable. And so given

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the studies I cited, you should be

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willing to take almost a 40% pay cut if

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your boss lets you work from home.

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Obviously, don't show your hand and tell

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them this, but that's what the

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statistics show. That's how much more

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happiness you buy by getting to work

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from home. Now, if you manage to work

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from home, ideally, you want to move to

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a state with no state tax. So, the

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cooler states without state tax, I would

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say, are Texas and Florida. So getting

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to work for a job in say New York City

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or San Francisco, but working remotely

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from Texas or Florida would be ideal. If

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you can move to a lower cost of living

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state, that's still pretty cool. That's

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really the the balance you're looking

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for. So to give you an idea of how like

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one of my friends pulled this off, one

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of my friends worked at this investment

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bank in New York City and he was really

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good at his job. He asked his manager if

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he could work from home one day a week.

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His pace of productivity remained

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unchanged for that period. So then he

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slowly asked if he could make it 2 days

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a week and then 3 days a week and he

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managed to do this over like a year. By

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the end of the year he was fully remote.

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So from there he moved to Chattanooga,

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Tennessee with his family which is like

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this big remote working town. He's

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paying like $500 a month to live in this

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huge house. That's like an optimal

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situation as far as geo arbitrage. Now

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there's a lot of different ways to pull

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this off. I have another friend who

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works at a company in Boston. She knows

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the partners well and has been there for

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a long time. So through CO, she got to

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work from Costa Rica and be doing kite

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surfing and things like that, spear

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fishing. After CO ended, she just asked

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if she could spend uh winters in Costa

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Rica and summers in Boston. So she's

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basically doing like the whole snowbird

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thing, and they were okay with it. So a

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lot of times you just have to build good

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relationships with the partners or

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owners and uh build a reputation for

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being productive even when you're

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working from home. And once you build

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that trust, they don't really have an

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issue with you doing that because what

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does it matter to them? they get extra

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office space. Now what's even more ideal

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in my opinion is geo arbitrageing abroad

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but a lot of finance firms and you know

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bigger firms tend to not allow this

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because there's all these legal

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complications when you're technically

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working from another country but there

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are firms that allow this especially

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startups which are more lax on

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regulations and things like this and so

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there's a lot of dudes who work out of

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Mexico City because it's roughly in the

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same time zone as most firms in the

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United States and the GeoR is insane cuz

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the cost of living is so much better.

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Dating life is better. Just everything

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about it. Quality of life, cost of

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living are getting max stats. You should

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be willing to take a lower salary if you

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could do such a geo. Now, because this

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geoarb is so desirable, there's a lot of

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people who try to do this under the

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radar by using VPNs and being really

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sneaky. And some people do get away with

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it for a long time, but other people get

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caught eventually. So, you know, if

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you're going to attempt to do this, do

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it at your do do it at your own risk and

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uh know that you could get fired

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instantly if you get caught because it

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is usually in the employee handbook that

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you're not allowed to work from outside

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of the country. And just like legal

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liability wise, they pretty much have to

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fire you immediately and plead ignorance

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cuz they don't want to get sued by

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clients by having an employee that's

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working outside of the country. So, if

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you are one of these people that is

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attempting to fraud your way into acting

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like you live in one city while you're

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technically working from another city,

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before you log in every morning,

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definitely check the weather at the city

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you're pretending to be in. Cuz you

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don't want to get caught flatfooted when

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they're like, "Oh boy, you how you how

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you surviving that snowstorm?" Or, you

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know, like, "Oh, you guys are having

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that hurricane there, right? How how are

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you working from home right now? Didn't

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they do like a mandatory evacuation?"

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you know, so you want to like look that

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stuff up so that your you know your your

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narrative is consistent with the weather

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of your area and you know they don't

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grow suspicious cuz I actually had a

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friend who was working at the same hedge

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fund as me. Him and I were both working

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from Miami while our hedge fund was in

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Chicago. At some point they asked us

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after co to come back to Chicago. So I

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just came back because you know I want

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to follow the rules but he was like no

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they're just not going to notice. He

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came back for like a week or two and

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then just went back to Miami and he

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eventually got caught. You know, people

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just figured it out. He would be dressed

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in this like tropical weather. Those

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like Hawaiian t-shirts with like leave

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leaves and flowers on them and in his

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Zoom calls while while there's like a

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snowstorm going on in Chicago. And um I

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don't know, people just eventually

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figured it out. So if you're going to

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attempt to do that, just like you got to

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stay on top of it. You got to be careful

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cuz he basically got fired the moment

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they figured that out. All right. So, if

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you can't get your boss to let you work

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remotely, let's talk about commuting.

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So, one of the main reasons why

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commuting makes people so unhappy is

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because of the stress. You know, if you

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have a driving commute, you have to pay

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attention to the road the whole time.

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You know, just like watching to see that

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you're between the lines and you know,

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in the winter when there there's

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snowstorms, it's like super stressful.

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There could be patches of black ice and

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you lose traction. And you know,

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speaking of that, a lot of people don't

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realize this, but the number one cause

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of death for people under the age of 44

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is car accidents. So, you're taking

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incredible risk every time you have a

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driving commute, especially when, you

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know, driving is the first thing you do

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in the morning. You know, a lot of times

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you're a little foggy in the head and

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you're rushing to work and it's easier

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to get into a car accident. But, let's

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say you have a a public transportation

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commute. That's stressful, too. you

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know, you get squished up into these

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little buses or or subways like like

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sardines and you know, you got to deal

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with like people's bad breath or like

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people's bo like some people smell bad

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and people are coughing and spreading

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viruses, especially in the winter.

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Sometimes you get the homeless people

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who are just like peeing on themselves

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and just drooling

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and and you know, god forbid you get

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even like dudes who will just straight

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up stab you, right? Like there's a lot

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of violence on the subway. So public

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transportation commutes are not ideal

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either. Now, let's talk about costs.

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When you have a car, you have to pay

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gas, tolls, parking, repairs, and other

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maintenance. And your car is a

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depreciating asset, oil changes, and so

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on. And when you have a public

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transportation commute, you have to pay

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for your train or bus fees. So, you're

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going to eat costs no matter what. So

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once you understand the stress, the

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costs, the risks of having a commute,

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you understand quickly why the studies

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show that the length of your commute is

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inversely proportional with your

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happiness levels. And you should be

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doing everything you can to reduce the

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length of your commute. So when you ask

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yourself at least for single people who

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don't have a wife and a kid who they

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want to you know be able to go to a good

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school district for like a single person

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who lives in a city for example it's

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like why do you have such a long commute

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from some trendy neighborhood to your

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job that is suboptimal it just isn't

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very strategic it's negative EV the

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optimal way to commute is to live as

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close as possible to work and I'll tell

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you why there's just a lot of propaganda

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from realtors and that whole industry as

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far as like how cool it is to live in

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some trendy neighborhood. And it's

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incredibly overrated. You know, for

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people who live in Chicago, for example,

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there's this whole like uh flex by

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saying you live in like Gold Coast or

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Lake View or somewhere that's seen as

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being more expensive or ritzy. People

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think it's a flex. It doesn't matter as

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much as you think it matters. Let's be

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realistic. On weekdays after work, most

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people are just going home and

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vegetating on their couch and watching

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Netflix and then ordering some food

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through Door Dash or Uber Eats or

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something. They're just too tired to

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really be that social, you know. And if

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this isn't you, then by all means, you

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know, you don't have to apply this

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advice. But most people who work hard at

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work and have really good careers,

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they're pretty tired on weekdays and

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they just kind of do something chill at

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home. So, you're really only being

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social on the weekend usually. So, why

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should you commute back and forth 30

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minutes Monday through Friday when the

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place you're commuting from when the

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trendy neighborhood you live in, you're

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only really making use of it on the

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weekend? What you should be doing is

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living right next to work. Even if it's

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in some uncool downtown neighborhood

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that it's like an office environment, it

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doesn't matter. Then your commute from

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Monday through Friday will be super

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short. It'll be like a short 5-minute

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walk-in commute. And then on the

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weekend, if you want to do a reverse

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commute to the trendy neighborhood to

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meet your friends, that's when you can

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do it. You save hours and hours a week,

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which becomes hundreds of hours over a

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year. You save time, money, and stress.

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If you can't work from home, then

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obviously you want as short a commute as

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possible. Once the commute's super

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short, it gets you thinking, can you

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make it even shorter? What is the most

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optimal shortest commute, which is no

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commute, which is living at work? I've

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actually done this before so I can share

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my thoughts on it. When I worked at

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Lockheed Martin, I decided I'm just

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going to live out of my car in the

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company parking lot and utilize the gym

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at the office to shower in the mornings.

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And there's a growing movement of people

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who do this, especially in cities like

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San Francisco, which are stupidly

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expensive. There's a lot of tech bros

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who just live out of RVs and go work for

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Google. They're saving stupid amounts of

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money because when they're deciding on

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your total comp number, they're

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factoring in the fact that rent and real

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estate is so expensive in that area. And

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suddenly, you're removing that from your

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entire budget. You can find other

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YouTubers and people who who do this.

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They sleep out of their cars or they

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sleep in RVs and then they just shower

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at the gym or they shower in the office.

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You trim down the commute to zero and

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you trim down your rent expenses to

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zero. It's an insane cost savings and

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it's just adventurous and fun. I mean,

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who wants to feel like some office drone

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and just punch in and punch out and just

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watch the years and the seasons go by?

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Like, who wants to live like that? you

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know, you're you're only on this earth

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once and it just feels more exciting to

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do something a little weird and, you

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know, off the radar. You you suddenly

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feel alive again. Like, you know, you

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suddenly feel like the main character in

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the story of your life again. Like, oh

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I'm really doing this. This is

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crazy, you know? And it's kind of fun to

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like see how long you can get away with

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it without people noticing, you know?

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Like I I'd be the first in the office a

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lot of times and people are like, "I

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didn't even see you drive in. How did

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how did you get here so soon?" and

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you're just like giggling in your head

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like, "Bro, I never left." And uh it's

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kind of fun to like mess with people

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like that. Um it's like a hack. It's a

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life hack. So yeah, I really recommend

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doing something like that. It really

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keeps life interesting. And you know,

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after you get away with doing that for

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like a year, you you've saved like

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$50,000. Now, there are actually firms

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that already encourage this like Foxcon

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or Cluey. You know, there's there's

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firms where you actually sleep at work

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and they combine the two. It's better

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for productivity at work if you want to

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be the man and just like kick ass there,

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but then it just eliminates the commute

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altogether. So, that's another way to

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go. If you happen to work for a firm

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like that, then you you'll just have no

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commute. So, I would encourage that way

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of thinking as well. So, yeah, guys, you

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know, with the channel, I really want to

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help people think outside of the box.

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Don't be trapped in the comfortable

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rhythms of life. You're never going to

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be an extraordinary person or have an

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extraordinary life if you do things in

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an ordinary way, right? The extra and

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extraordinary. You have to go extra. You

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have to you have to get out of your

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comfort zone and do things that are a

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little bit weird in order to feel alive

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again and and to really get ahead of

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your your peers in terms of retiring

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earlier or, you know, having extra

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money. And so having this understanding

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of how taxing a a commute is on your

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life, you should be attempting a more

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alternative lifestyle. And I hope you

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take some of my recommendations to

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heart. Here are the actual tangible

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action items to take away from the

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video. One, do anything and everything

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you can to convince your boss to let you

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work remotely, even in up to taking a

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40% pay cut. because it's about looking

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at the holistic equation of what makes

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you happy and cost of living and quality

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of life are big inputs to the equation,

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not just total comp. And two, if you

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can't work from home, try to minimize

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your commute as much as possible all the

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way up to finding a place to live right

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next to the office or living out of an

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RV or a van from the company parking

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lot. you will save ridiculous amounts of

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money and you can just find a girlfriend

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that lets you sleep at her place every

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now and then and be a moocher like that.

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And it's just it's just a way better way

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to live life. It's just way more fun and

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exciting. So, let me know if you guys

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decide to implement any of these action

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items in your own lives. And uh let me

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know if you disagree in the comments.

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Take care.

Interactive Summary

The video argues against commuting, emphasizing that happiness is inversely proportional to commute length and that remote work, especially with geo-arbitrage, offers significant financial and quality-of-life benefits. If remote work is not feasible, the speaker recommends minimizing commute by living very close to work or even at the workplace (e.g., in a car or RV) to save money and time. The speaker encourages adopting unconventional lifestyles to achieve greater happiness and financial freedom, highlighting that true happiness considers cost of living and quality of life beyond just total compensation.

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