You talk too much and that's what [ __ ]

up your date. In fact, that's what [ __ ]

up most of your relationships with

women. You talk too much and you think

that you need to sit there and tell all

these stories all day to impress people

when actually the truth is is that you

can impress them with your silence and

your body language. Most men struggle

with this because

it takes a certain guy who's successful

and success usually breeds confidence,

right? So once you're successful, you

become confident and then once you're

confident, you realize you actually

don't have to speak that much when

you're sitting there with a beautiful

woman on a date. I mean, this has

happened numerous times. I'm actually on

a date right now. I just thought I'd

grab my phone and and do this video

because it's just fresh in my mind. But

it's important for you to be very calm

and masculine when you're on a date or

even with your girlfriend. Let me give

you an example. Have you ever met a guy

who talks a lot at a dinner table

that's

magnetic and attractive?

No. That guy's usually a [ __ ] clown

cuz he's blabbering, telling stories,

being loud, yapping away.

Being loud is not cool, my friend. Being

loud is actually a weakness. You ever

heard that saying, the loudest man in

the room is the weakest man in the room,

right? The most extravagantly dressed

man is usually the weakest man because

he's trying to draw attention to

himself. So, when you're sitting there

talking all day long, you're constantly

trying to draw attention to yourself.

Masculinity and confidence and seduction

and attractiveness is actually the

opposite. If you're already a G, you

don't have to speak so much. You can

actually just shut your mouth, act like

a [ __ ] boss, sit there with your nice

classy clothes, not and also you're not

twitching with your body language.

You're not making fast movements. You're

making slow calculated moves. Even when

you step up off the table and you're

going to the bathroom, you walk slow.

Walk slow as [ __ ] Okay? Don't rush off

like a little, I don't know, like a

little girl. I need to get to the

bathroom. Oh my god, I need to tell

people stories. Oh, I need to I need to

I need to impress this girl go. Oh, I

need to tell her about my amazing car.

You [ __ ] idiot. Okay, that's what you

are. You're a [ __ ] idiot. If you just

calm the [ __ ] down, move a lot slower.

Speak slowly and speak clearly. You

don't need to shout. You don't need to

speak loud. Find a volume that makes

sense that people can hear you. And

definitely don't speak lightly. Right? I

hate when I'm sitting on a dinner table

and a guy's like, "Yeah, so I do this."

I'm like, "What? I can't hear you fool.

Speak up.

So, it's about finding that balance of

being calm, speaking when you're speak

when you're spoken to and speaking

slowly.

Do most of the interaction with your

body language. Your body language does

the talking that you need. Your body

language emits everything that you need

others to understand about you. Body

language equals energy. I spoke about

energy in my last couple of videos and

how imperative and important that is and

everyone started saying, "Yeah, but the

looks are important, bro. You're above

average looking." Okay. Yes, of course.

I've always preached that being

good-looking is imperative. No one ever

said that an ugly dude who speaks slowly

and moves slowly is getting much

attention. Probably not. But my

philosophy is that any man can reach a

seven out of 10 by looking after

himself, getting in shape, fixing

himself up. You know, there's a there's

so many I mean, this clavvicular guy's

gone huge online because of this whole

looks maxing craze to which I don't

believe in that sort of extremity, but I

do believe that he's on to something and

that you should be looks maxing to a

degree to get yourself in a certain kind

in certain kind of shape. At least get

to a six or a seven out of 10. If you're

a three or four out of 10, then anything

that I'm talking about is probably not

going to be that effective for you.

So once again, when you're on a date,

don't feel like you need to speak too

much. Actually, what's attractive and

sexy is being mysterious. Be mysterious.

She will ask you questions. You can

answer those questions and make sure

you're not write you're not answering

with an essay about everything from

start to finish. Okay? you can explain

it clearly, calmly, collectively, and

also make sure you're putting a positive

twist on stories and on questions that

you're asked. Don't show weakness.

Don't speak much. And you'll realize

that she'll be like, "This guy's quite

mysterious. I want to see him again. I

want to work him out. I want to figure

him out. I want to understand a bit more

about him." If she learns everything

about you from the first time she meets

you, then it's kind of [ __ ] boring,

isn't it?

So women love mysteriousness. They love

men who are masculine, who are calm, who

are collected, who are just who hold

their masculine frame. They're in charge

of their [ __ ] right? They own their

vicinity and they don't feel like they

need to play up to the crowd or ever

play up to anyone. You don't need to

play up to no one, my guy. You should

already be successful enough in your

mind, in your heart, and confident

enough to be calm in your demeanor

whenever you're with a woman. Every time

you go on a date, if you talk your ass

off, she will be bored of you. And then

she'll come and date someone like me

who's calm and mysterious and well, not

mysterious once she finds my [ __ ]

social media. So, the risk that I put

myself through by putting myself online

to help you is [ __ ] up my dating

life. But it's fine. I don't give a

[ __ ] I would rather a girl love me for

who I am and what I preach. So, I don't

really give a [ __ ] if she finds it and

she's offended by it. I'll be like,

"Yes, so what? This is what I do. Take

it or leave it." So, then that's really

maintaining your masculine frame. I hope

this video has been useful and I hope

next time you're on a date, you think

about this and decide to calm your

thoughts, speak more slowly,

and just not feel like you need to

entertain the room constantly. You don't

need toain You don't need to entertain

anybody in this