For those of you thinking that you need

to have a big Instagram account and to

have a lot of status online to date the

hottest girls, you'd actually be

mistaken. What I've learned is that

since I actually became successful and

had a big Instagram account, my dating

life was much more challenging because

you're judged immediately. And actually,

a lot of women get overwhelmed. And I'm

noticing there's a bit of a turn at the

moment where some women will actually

find if you don't have Instagram,

they're more attracted to you because

you're more mysterious and you're going

against the grain. Whereas if you do

have a big Instagram page and you're

posting like a bit of a clown,

then she's like, "Oh, you're just like

all the other dudes trying to show off,

trying to be the big man." It actually

works against you. So, it's been super

interesting. I found love before I found

success. And the love I found before

success was way more meaningful and deep

than the relationships that I found post

success. The relationships I found post

success weren't really as deep because

they realized I had money and freedom

and then they would see my Instagram

account or they'd see that I've got a

YouTube page and I'm putting myself out

there and actually the girls would get a

bit overwhelmed. They're like, "Oh, I

don't really want to be with someone

who's like traveling all over the world

and going to the coolest parties. That's

not really really what I'm looking for.

Most of these girls are actually looking

for like a good, honest guy who works

hard, who look after them, who stays

lowkey." So, there's a there's a shift

in and what an attractive man actually

looks like these days. And it isn't

necessarily high social status. Social

status definitely does attract a lot of

type of women, but I'm finding that it's

attracting the wrong type of women. It's

the women that also want to grow their

social media pages. Women that also want

to be flown around and taken to nice

places. They're the ones that attach to

you once they see that you've got a nice

Instagram page. Now, actually, I've

considered opening another Instagram

account and keeping it super low-key and

having like 9 10 professional nice

pictures of me with close friends, a few

hundred followers, and giving that to

the highquality women that I meet.

Because honestly, when I share my

Instagram with highquality women, right?

When I say highquality women, I'm

talking about girls who are not

attention-seeking, who don't have big

Instagram pages, they're beautiful, but

they're low-key, right? Those are the

high quality women I'm talking about,

especially meeting loads of them in

Bucharest, Romania, when they see my big

Instagram page, they would get

overwhelmed and they'd be like, "Oh,

this is a bit much." Like, ah, like,

where's this guy going to be tomorrow?

And this guy gets invited to the coolest

parties and this guy's like flying

around everywhere. And like, I don't

really want that. I just want like a

low-key dude. And this guy's also quite

overwhelming in the sense that he really

puts his opinions out there to the world

and he's he's masculine and he's

opinionated and he's disagreeable. They

don't really like that. They kind of

just want you to be this guy walking

around in a suit over here. I'm actually

in Riyad. I'm in the uh King Abdullah

Financial Center today. I came here for

a meeting. I've come here to raise

capital for my for my new investment

fund as I've spoken about on numerous

occasions. I'm in the Middle East for

the next 3 months raising a series A

round for my business which I'll talk

about in videos to come. I basically

built a quant algo trading platform.

It's like military grade pattern

intelligence that I can put on any

chart. I've just chosen to do it on

crypto because it's more volatile and

there's there's more to be taken from

the market. You're not up against the

big institutions. You're up against more

retail investors. So, it's easier to

take the win. So I've actually done

about 15% return in the last 30 days. So

that's my real focus in the next 3

months, this whole year actually. That's

my sole focus. So less partying like a

Dumbo in Miami and more professionalism,

more capital raising, more dressing

well, and more hanging out in these

sorts of spots. So, back to the matter

at hand. Most of these women are just

looking for a nice, well-dressed guy

who's got a decent job or a business,

who is pretty low-key, who's not putting

himself out there all the time, who's

not overly opinionated, who's not overly

disagreeable all the time because she

doesn't want to have to, you know, climb

a mountain every single time she's

having a conversation, right? I'm a

difficult guy to deal with and a

difficult guy to live with because I

like things very particular, right? I'm

very disagreeable. like, you know, I I

think I know everything and so it's hard

to tell me otherwise. And she's probably

going to be looking for a guy who's

occasionally going to say, "Okay, babe,

I'll let you have this one." Whether

I'll be like, "Nah, you're not having

this one." Like, this it's my world. I'm

the master of my own universe. I run

this You're just here for the

ride. That isn't necessarily always a

good thing, especially if you have a big

personality and a big personality

online, which I'm not saying I've got a

massive like online presence, right?

I've got like 70,000 followers on

Instagram and relatively small YouTube

channel, which is less than 10K subs,

but you know, I've got a great like I've

got a great community on my YouTube. I

don't think it's necessarily about

having millions of people on YouTube. I

think it's about having an engaged

community. And and so women still get

overwhelmed when they see my YouTube

page and my Instagram and they're like,

"Oh, you're so opinionated about this

stuff." So if you don't have a big IG

page, fear not. You're probably in the

percentage of guys who are probably

going to do better with good quality

women. I'm almost thinking about

creating a new Instagram page and giving

out to the highquality girls that I

meet. Now, to the girls that I meet in

Dubai and the girls that I meet in Miami

and they see my current Instagram, yes,

they're interested because they're like,

"Okay, this guy fits in a certain branch

of social status, I can keep hanging

around with him." But when you meet

highquality girls, whether it be, I

don't know, in Riad, in in Bucharest,

mainly in Eastern Europe these days,

those are the highest quality women I

have met are still in Eastern Europe.

When you meet those girls and they don't

have a big IG page, when they see your

IG page, they're like, "Uh, nah, this is

like too much, you I don't want to have

to deal with this So,

my having a certain level of social

status actually damaged my dating life.

I had better, more meaningful

relationships before I made any of this

money before I had a big big Instagram

page. They were more meaningful. They

were more real. And they weren't

attached to any sign of status. It was

attached to me, my ambition, my looks,

my charisma, my confidence. That's why

those women fell in love with me.

Now, if I meet a woman and she just so

happens to like me, I'm thinking, does

she like me for who I am or does she

like me for what I am?

And there lies the