No matter who you are, it is not going

to work out with every girl that you

attempt to approach. I mean that. No

matter who you are, even the most high

status men who are the best looking,

still make mistakes. And even if they

don't make mistakes,

do not sit there and try to comprehend a

woman's emotions. It is utter chaos.

And so if you're going to sit there and

try to overanalyze every single

situation that went wrong for you, where

did I go wrong? How could I do better?

And you're just overanalyzing the whole

scenario.

You're just going to drive yourself

insane.

A situation happened to me here the

other day in Riyad. I went to a small

house gathering. It's about 5 days ago.

And there was this cracking Ukrainian

girl. Cracking. Couldn't believe that

she was in Riyad. And I was dressed

pretty nicely with my black shirt. Like

chest was hanging out. Been working out

nice lately. You know, my hair was fixed

up, flossy with my watch, whatever. The

usual nice grooming, masculine energy

rolling into the room, nice smile,

shaking hands like a G. And she actually

walked up to me and she was like,

"Hello,

hello." And I was like, "Hi." We had a

little chat. We were shooting the [ __ ]

together. I was being very sarcastic.

She was like, "Your sarcasm is your you

must be British." I was like, "Yeah, I'm

British." So, we're having a laugh. We

were talking all night.

I would walk away from her. So, I ended

the initial conversation and walked away

because I don't like to sit there and

talk to the same girl all night and I

don't want to show like desperation. So,

I walked away from her, talked to other

girls, talked to other people, smoked

some shisha, drank some tea. There was

no alcohol there. And then towards the

end of the night, we re-engaged and then

she was taking my phone number. I was

like, "Hey, take my number." And I said

something that she didn't like. And it

was wasn't even that offensive. I said

something like, "Oh, yeah. If I have

time this week, I'll I'll respond."

And she got so pissed off and angry

that she was like, "I don't like the way

you speak to me like that." I was like,

"I'm just messing around. and I'm a busy

guy, you know, but I'd still like to see

you. And she was like, "No,

unacceptable." And she grabbed her phone

and she rushed off in a hurry. She just

walked away. And I was like, "Uh, what

the hell just happened?" And then I

called her name a couple of times. I was

like, I don't want to release her name

just in case she watches this video.

Let's just use the word, let's just use

the name Casher for now. I was like,

"Casher, Casher, are you seriously

walking away?" And she didn't even turn

around. And she just simply kept

walking.

Now, I could sit there and over analyze

this situation. What did I do wrong?

What could I do better next time? Blah

blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah

blah. Who cares? You're sitting there

trying to decipher a woman's brain?

Why would I riddle myself with such

absolute madness

rather than, okay, that situation didn't

go so well. Did I do anything wrong? Not

really. I just made a funny joke. I'm

sarcastic. That's my game sometimes.

That was my game that evening. My game

is dynamic. It changes depending on

mood, depending who I'm speaking to,

depending on what country I'm in. And if

it didn't work on that occasion, too

bad.

And so the key is don't try to be so

analytical about why you're failing with

certain girls. This is the [ __ ] that I

used to read, you know, back in the day

at 21 years old, The Game by Neil

Strauss, The Mystery Method. And and I

love those guys, right? They're pioneers

of really like old school game, but

they're such analytical guys and this is

like their sole focus. My sole focus is

not trying to pick up casher from a

small town in Ukraine, my guy. My focus

is my body, my business, my money, my

capital, raising this year, building my

investment deck. That was what was going

through my mind while I was sitting at

that party. I couldn't switch my [ __ ]

off. I was literally just thinking, how

do I become a better man, better

looking, more of a G, more money, more

status? I just had these weird like fuel

testosterone thoughts in my mind. You

might be able to hear the uh Muslim call

for prayer in the background here in

Riyad.

Uh, which is quite soothing sometimes

actually. I'm learning to get used to

it. But anyway, I was at this party and

I was literally thinking to myself,

need to be the biggest G possible in

every scenario

because when you're abundant,

even though Cash has walked away from

you, guess what? You're going to have

other options all the time. There's

going to be other girls all the time. If

you are of a certain echelon of a man,

you'll always have other options. So,

don't sit there and riddle yourself as

to why it didn't go well with this girl.

funnily enough, two days later, I jumped

on Instagram and I found that on

Instagram through a mutual friend

and I didn't follow. I pressed send

message and I sent a message like, "Oh,

I thought you were enjoying my sarcasm

that evening. Not sure what went wrong.

How are you?" And she blocked me.

Would you believe it? She just blocked

me. So, you know what I did? I laughed.

I literally laughed and thought that

there, my friend, just explains female

nature in one action. To me, I did

nothing wrong. I was being jovial. I was

being friendly. I was being funny. I was

being sarcastic. It's my British game.

Now, she just decided to walk away and

block me because something in her mind

just switched and she felt disrespected.

So, I don't think there's anything you

necessarily need to change if you

already believe that you're a G and your

game is good and you move with intention

and you're not malicious. Okay? If

you're that kind of guy, then you just

keep going and you keep approaching and

you keep trying it with different women

because it will not work with everyone.

No matter who you are, you will fail

numerous times and you will question

yourself and be like, why? Why? Why? Why

am I still single? Why is it not

working? Why didn't didn't it work with

her? It doesn't matter. Keep being a G.

Keep building your body. Keep looks

maxing. Okay, it is important. So, she

walked up to me because I was dressed

and I looked the man.

Keep working on your purpose. Your

purpose is more important than anything.

When you become a full stack man, that

is when you become attractive to

everyone because girls are like, "Damn,

this guy's got it all. He's

good-looking. He's smart. He's He's got

purpose. He's got charisma. You know, I

always think to myself, how would James

Bond act walking into this room? Would

he be fidgety and twitchy and trying to

make jokes and trying to entertain

people? No. He would actually just

stroll in like a G and be cool, calm,

and collected. And he would have a

neutral face expression, and he would

take everything that people would say

with a pinch of salt. a girl tried to

insult him, he would laugh it off and

throw it back on her. But there's a fine

margin because even James Bond would get

it wrong sometimes. See, that's just a

movie. And sometimes James Bond would

offend someone and would offend a girl.

And if he was to sit there and say,

"What did I do wrong? Maybe I should

analyze myself." Maybe you are allowed

to evolve your game or evolve the way

you speak to people and evolve the way

you speak to girls. But don't overly

question yourself. Work on becoming the

full stack man.

That is more important than learning

technical game. Technical game is for

losers who don't have anything else

going for them who are desperate to get

laid. When you are not desperate to get

laid and you're working on your purpose

and you are a man of faith and you are

strong in your demeanor and your

stature, nothing else matters. Then it

falls into place.

You will not get every single girl that

you approach no matter who you are.

Always remember that you win some, you

lose some.