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What if you lose your dream for not taking it seriously?

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What if you lose your dream for not taking it seriously?

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Imagine if I didn't take my project

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seriously. Imagine if I didn't believe

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in what I was doing. Imagine if I came

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to Dubai and I was just clowning around

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and going out all the time and drinking

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and trying to get laid and not building

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anything and not having any purpose.

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Imagine all of that. What a sad

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existence that would be. Instead, I get

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up every morning. I put great clothes

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on. I go to meetings. I walk in

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confidently.

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I talk passionately about what I'm

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building. I truly believe in what I'm

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doing. I truly believe in myself.

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It takes a lot of time.

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It takes the right kind of projects.

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Look, there were times where I was

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working on shitty projects and I didn't

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believe in myself and so I wasn't

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getting dressed up every day.

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I was staying at home and trying to

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figure out what I was doing next. There

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are different phases in your life,

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right? Like I'm not always feeling

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confident and positive, right? Anyone

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that says that is lying to you. I'm only

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feeling confident and positive when I

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have things to be confident and positive

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about. I may have been to the gym every

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day that week. I might be in killer

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shape. I might have had a new

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interesting meeting which has opened

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another door for me.

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I

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just smoking this cohiba as I speak to

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you. I might have done well in the

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markets that week. You know, the algo

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that we've built may have performed well

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and had a number of winning trades

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overnight. So, there are things that

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need to happen in order for you to feel

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good. Actionable steps, not sitting

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there and being a mental masturbator,

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right? Mental masturbation is when

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you're sitting there smoking weed and

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thinking you're going to build all these

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amazing things and not actually doing

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anything about it, not making any steps

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forward.

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And yeah, I was that was me for many

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years. That really was [ __ ] sitting

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around thinking I was going to run the

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world and have the best startup ever,

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but I was doing nothing about it.

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Now, there's there's not much which

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makes me that much more special than you

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guys. Otherwise, I wouldn't have this

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channel, right? If I was truly black

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pill and I believe that I was born

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intelligent and good-looking and I I've

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got a leg up over most men and the rest

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of you don't have a chance, then I

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wouldn't bother having this [ __ ]

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channel. I wouldn't waste my time

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speaking for another second online. But

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because I truly believe that you can

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actually also improve your life. You can

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also get to high levels. You can also

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get to satisfactory levels. You don't

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need to be a billionaire. Stop watching

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all this [ __ ] online thinking that you

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need a Lamborghini to make yourself feel

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good. Lamborghini is short-term fun and

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it's very short-lived. You need to look

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for wholesomeness. Okay? You need to be

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following your purpose, following your

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dream.

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Imagine you gave it all up because you

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weren't taking yourself seriously. You

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weren't taking your dream seriously. You

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didn't think it was possible.

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90% of success is self-belief. 90% of

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success is delusion. You literally need

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to be delusional enough to believe that

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your project and what you're working on

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is absolutely worth it. Right? You

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literally need to be delusional enough

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to believe that you are the only person

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that can execute that project and no one

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is going to be better than you at

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building that project than you. So, you

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got to find that project that you love,

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that resonates with you.

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Stop trying to do things that other

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people are doing. You know, it doesn't

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really work that way. You know, you try

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and you copy all these day traders

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online thinking you're going to be a

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great day trader. That's not how

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business works, right? You are selected.

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I was just sitting with a massive

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businessman now who runs 500 million in

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capital and I'm trying to raise 5

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million off him for seed funding for my

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business. And

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he only sat with me because he saw my

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LinkedIn. And he saw that what I've done

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is applicable to what I'm trying to

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raise money for. He's like, "Oh, you've

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been to a good uni. Oh, you worked in

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banking. Oh, you worked at Google. Oh,

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you're building a piece of tech, which

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is like a a crossroads between

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technology and finance. Oh, okay." He

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sat with me because I was the right

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person to build this company, not

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because I've been dancing on TikTok for

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5 years and all of a sudden I'm trying

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to build a fintech company. That's not

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how this [ __ ] works.

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So, I hope you've been building your

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dream from a young age. I hope you've

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been working on it for a while. Really

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take a hard look at yourself and think,

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what is it that you can bring to this

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world? And if you don't take that

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seriously enough, you don't take

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yourself seriously. You don't believe

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that dream is actually possible, you're

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never going to wake up in the morning

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and try and even attempt it. Most of the

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business people that made a [ __ ] ton of

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money are actually delusional and

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believe in their dreams so much that

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they make you believe in their dreams.

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Right? The visionaries are the ones that

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build the company. Steve Jobs.

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Elon Musk, all right? Elon Musk is a

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genius. He's also a visionary, right?

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These people are futurists. They can

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tell the future. They have this crazy

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vision in their mind. Like I have this

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vision in my mind of having this massive

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company, algorith algorithms and

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systematic trading across number of

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asset classes, raising investment funds

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and hiring the best people and going

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around the world and talking about it. I

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truly really I really actually believe

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that. Otherwise, I wouldn't be here.

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Otherwise, I wouldn't talk about this.

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Otherwise, I wouldn't even try. I would

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go and try something else entirely.

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So, imagine imagine you didn't take

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yourself seriously enough.

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You gave up your dreams. You didn't even

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bother trying.

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What a [ __ ] waste of a life that is.

Interactive Summary

The speaker emphasizes the crucial role of self-belief, purpose, and diligent action in achieving success. He contrasts a life of aimless pleasure-seeking with one driven by passion for a project, noting that genuine confidence stems from tangible achievements. He critiques "mental masturbation" – thinking without acting – and stresses that success, often 90% self-delusion, comes from a unique vision and relevant experience, not by imitating others or chasing superficial wealth. He encourages listeners to seriously identify their contribution to the world and pursue their dreams with the visionary conviction of figures like Steve Jobs and Elon Musk, rather than wasting their life by not trying.

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