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the trip to China I didn't know I needed

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The last time I visited China was 2017.

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At the time, I did not think the next

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time I would visit would be a whole

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decade later. I've been meaning to visit

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China again, but year after year, things

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would come up and I would keep

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postponing this trip. But finally,

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I booked the trip.

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This time is extra special because I

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will be traveling with my grandparents.

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The trip first began at my family home

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where we spent a few days together

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before our 14-hour journey to Guangzhou,

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China.

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>> [laughter]

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>> I'm actually sort of being my

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grandparents' chaperone, which is such a

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full-circle moment. I remember being a

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kid and following them around the

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airport, but this time I am the adult

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and they are like the kids. I would show

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them where the bathroom is, take them to

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buy snacks before the flight, and they

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even asked me for iPad time.

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Growing up, I loved family trips to

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Guangzhou. There was always this feeling

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of warmth and comfort. It was a place

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that felt like home, yet so different

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from my life in America. During this

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trip, I will be exploring Guangzhou,

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going to Hong Kong for a day trip by

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high-speed [music] train, and most

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importantly, spend time with with family

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in a place they used to call home.

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Sitting in the backseat, watching both

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my grandparents recall places they used

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to work and talk about old was a really

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surreal feeling. All of my life I've

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only known the version of my

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grandparents in America. They didn't

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really have friends or co-workers they

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would hang out with, at least not from

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what I've seen. Their lives were so busy

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going to work and raising me and my

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sisters. I'm realizing now they didn't

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even have time for themselves to have

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friendships. I've always known my

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grandparents to be strong, but realizing

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this made me admire them even more. They

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somehow navigated life without a support

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system around them. They didn't even go

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on trips to get a break from work or

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grab lunch with a friend over hearing

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about old friends they used to work with

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and wonder if they are still alive

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honestly broke my heart a little bit.

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My grandparents uprooted their life in

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China and immigrated to America 40

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something years ago, which means they

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were in their 40s at the time. I am

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currently 33, so to think they were only

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about 10 years older than me right now

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and did that big move is still wild to

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me.

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>> [music]

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>> On our first night we went out to dinner

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with my family and my grandma was

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reunited with her sister and guess what

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they did before dinner? They went to the

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salon to get their hair done. I am

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convinced that no matter your age, you

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are just a girl that needs time with her

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sister. After dinner, we walked around

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the neighborhood my grandparents raised

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their family in before moving to America

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and I just trailed behind them and

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soaked in the moment.

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Oh my goodness.

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She's awake.

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Hello my boy.

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Jawsome.

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Jawsome.

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Currently loving this foundation. It's

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the MCH foundation and I have the shade

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medium 1300.

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My forehead is looking so shiny right

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now. Love this brush from say.

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This formula is really thin so it

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doesn't have a lot of coverage, but

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recently I am trying to get more used to

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wearing less makeup cuz sometimes in the

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middle of the day I would look at my

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skin and it looks really it just looks

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like there's makeup on there. You know

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what I'm saying? And I'm trying to go

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for the ultimate clean girl look. So

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there is a little adjusting to that

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because I've always gotten used to

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myself hiding every imperfection, but

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right now we're trying to embrace the

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little dark spots, the acne on my chin

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and not try so hard to cover it because

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it does get a little cakey looking

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especially right now being in

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Gyeongseong where the humidity is pretty

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high and I just get so oily. Look at how

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oily and shiny my forehead looks

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already. It looks like I have fresh

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Botox on my forehead cuz it looks so

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tight and oily, but I haven't even

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gotten Botox in over a year now, I

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think, or maybe almost a year. The

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humidity is great for the skin.

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Fenty Beauty contour stick. I always

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like to do little bits on my eyes, nose.

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Same brush once again.

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Finishing powder also on the same brush.

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I want to mattify the areas that are

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just really shiny. It's just a oily oily

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mess.

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This is from Colorgram. It's 01 warm

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tone. This side and I just draw a little

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bit of a line right here to create a

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shadow. Just a very subtle And then I

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take the other side and I'll place that

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in

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there. And it balances the eyelash

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extensions a bit. Do my eyeshadow today.

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Rhode peptide lip tint in the shade

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ribbon.

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When I first heard about Rhode, I

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thought it was just like an overly hyped

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celebrity brand, but I've really come to

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enjoy it and I really like all the

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products that I've tried so far. This is

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one of my current favorite products.

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It's from Saie, it's the Super Swede

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radiant baked bronzer in the color

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Beaumol.

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Just looks so good. The shade gives a

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really nice flush of color and the

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formula blends really really smoothly.

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That's it.

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I usually try to cover up the acne scars

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here. I would put concealer on those

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spots to really hide it, but recently I

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thought, you know, maybe I should just

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let it be. I like it. Oh my god, it

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looks so good. So my aunt just got a

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grocery run and they delivered fresh

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shrimp. And by fresh, I mean they are

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still alive. I've never seen anything

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like it. Wow.

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>> [laughter]

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[laughter]

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>> When you're with your grandma.

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Good morning.

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I just made it to the train station in

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Guangzhou and oh my god, it is insane

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how beautiful it is here. The ceilings,

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the way the sun is shining through, it's

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so so gorgeous. I can't believe I'm

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saying this about a train station, but

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this train station is gorgeous. Today,

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my aunt and I are going to Hong Kong. I

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was not expecting to go to Hong Kong

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this trip, but she's heading there today

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for a day trip, so I'm going with her. I

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don't really have any plans, but um I

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think I'm just going to get dropped off

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and then I'm just going to explore. So,

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as you can see, I am a train station

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right now where sometimes I'll connect

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to the public Wi-Fi and if you're

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someone that travels, then it might be

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good for you to look into Surfshark,

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which is a VPN. Surfshark monitors your

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data and it will let you know if there

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has been a data leak. So, for example, I

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don't know if it's ever happened to you,

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but one time I opened an email, it

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looked so legit. Like it looked super

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legit and I clicked on a link. And the

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moment I clicked on the link, I knew I

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knew I messed up because I realized then

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that it was probably a sketchy link. So,

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in situations like that, that is where a

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VPN would be really useful because it

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monitors your data and lets you know if

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there has been a data leak. And there's

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also a email scam checker that protects

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you against fishing attacks. When you

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browse online, every single link click,

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every search history, it leaves a

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digital footprint. Having a VPN ensures

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that your data is encrypted, therefore

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making it harder to track your online

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activity. So, for example, I don't know

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if you guys have ever gone online and

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then you looked up something and then

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within a few hours you will start

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getting all these targeted ads for a

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similar product. Surfshark also has ad

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blockers to block trackers and ads.

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Since I'm in China right now, YouTube

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and Instagram and some apps are blocked

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here. That's actually when I first heard

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of a VPN. It basically allows you to

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change your virtual location and your IP

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address so that you can continue to use

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the websites and apps that you're used

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to using. So, if you plan to travel or

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you're someone that uses public Wi-Fi

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often, then I will leave a link to

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Surfshark in the description below.

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Well, it's time for my train, so I'm

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going to go meet up with my aunt now.

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You know what is so amazing about China?

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Trains are on time. They are fast, safe,

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and efficient. It's nice knowing you can

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travel around so easily. You don't have

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to sit in traffic. You can hop on the

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train and get to wherever you need to go

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for the day. It made a few stops along

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the way, and about 1 hour and 15 minutes

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later, we arrived in Hong Kong.

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Arriving in Hong Kong instantly gave me

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a feeling of nostalgia. All the TVB

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dramas I grew up watching were filmed

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here, and I love hearing Cantonese.

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Just landed in Hong Kong. I'm going to

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get breakfast at Wah So Bing Sut.

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Whenever I visit Hong Kong, the first

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thing I have to do is go to a cha chan

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teng because no matter how good the Hong

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Kong cafes could be in America, nothing

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comes close to how authentic and

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delicious the food is in Hong Kong.

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Can't go wrong with this.

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That gave me life.

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It's so sweet. Sweeter than I would

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normally have it, but

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it's so good.

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You know it's good when the satay sauce

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is so thick. There are a lot of places

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where it's super watered down. You don't

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want that.

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Oh my.

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I used to not be a big fan of satay, but

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Wha always orders this, and now that

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I've been converted, this is a go-to.

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Oh, the beef is so tender, too.

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So happy right now. This is so bomb.

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Look at how thick. Can you see that?

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That is nice and thick, just how you

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would want it.

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Wha would be so happy if he was here

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right now.

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So tender. Oh my god.

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Before leaving the house this morning, I

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checked the weather report and saw that

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it will be raining. And so I thought I

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will bring an umbrella, and all will be

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well. Let's just say this California

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girl was in for a real surprise. I first

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felt a little sprinkle, and so I busted

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out my umbrella, and I was still naively

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just going about my day at this point.

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Then the rain really like really started

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to pick up. And now I understand those

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rainy scenes in TVB dramas. I used to

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think they were over dramatized when the

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rain would come out of nowhere, like at

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the perfect moment when the lead actress

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is crying and she runs out the building,

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then the guy comes after her with an

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umbrella, and they start to make out

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awkwardly. Yeah. Those kind of scenes,

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the rain was not dramatized. I got the

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full experience.

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>> I can't believe how wet I am. This shirt

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is so soaked. I think you can see my

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underwear.

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I'm going to go in there and at least

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pick up a skirt or some bottoms because

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my skirt is completely soaked right now

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and it's kind of see-through. I was able

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to dry my shirt a little bit, but my

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back is completely soaked. You can't

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really tell on camera.

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After shopping around, I couldn't find

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something that I really liked and I

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didn't want to just buy something just

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to buy something to change into. So, I

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just accepted my fate and walked around

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in soaking wet clothes. But luckily,

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after walking around for a little bit, I

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started to dry off and guess what? The

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sun came out to play.

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Later that day, [music] I went to

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Absolute Apex for a skin treatment. I

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decided to get surf. So far, it has been

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2 months [music] and I'm so happy with

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how subtle the results are. My skin

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looks and feels more bouncy and lifted.

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Let me know if you want me to talk more

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about this.

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I love all the accessories that you can

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add on these bags. I've actually been

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eyeing one of their bags.

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I just transferred all my stuff into

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here because my tote bag that I was

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wearing,

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this was digging into my shoulder and

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killing me. There are so many

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compartments in here. Earlier, I had

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everything tossed into this tote bag and

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it was so unorganized, but look at this.

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It is so organized now. There are so

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many compartments in here. Now, we're

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going to go get dinner.

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This is the one that I'm getting.

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I don't even know where to begin [music]

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to describe this bowl of char siu wonton

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fun. It was the best I've ever had. The

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barbecue pork was really tender and

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there was a balance between fat and lean

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pieces. The egg was also scrambled to

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perfection. I mean, look at that. This

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was hands-down the best bowl of char siu

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wonton fun that I have ever had in my

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life. There's something about the way

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they barbecued that pork. Oh my

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goodness. This was the perfect way to

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wrap up a day in Hong Kong. I have told

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everyone in my life about this bowl of

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char siu wonton fun. I texted everyone

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in my family to let them know how good

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it was. After that, I went back to the

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Kowloon Station to meet up with my aunt

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and we took the last train back to

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Guangzhou.

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I really didn't know I needed a trip

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like this. I mean, going on a trip is

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always fun, but not often do I get the

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chance to travel with my grandparents.

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They're both in good health overall, but

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going on a trip like this is still

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[music] tiring for them. For years we

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would talk about going to China together

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because the last time we did, I was in

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middle school, but we just kept

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postponing it. During this trip, my

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family kept asking me what I wanted to

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do and see. I really didn't have an

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itinerary. I initially felt a bit of

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FOMO, like I was thinking, am I missing

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out if I didn't go to see all the viral

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places or go to the trendiest cafes and

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restaurants. But, you know, there's

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always another chance for that. Going on

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a trip with my grandparents though, that

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doesn't happen often and I truly don't

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know when we would do this again. This

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was our last full day together before I

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head to Taiwan alone. So, my

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grandparents explored a nearby area

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while I explored a neighborhood called

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Yongqingfang, which in Cantonese is Wing

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Hang Fong. This area was really unique

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with old and new architecture. It was

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really cool to see the mix of old and

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new, but not just in the buildings. I

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saw so many people riding bikes to get

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around while every corner I turned, I

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also saw lots of electric cars. I've

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heard many people share their stories

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online about visiting China and just how

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advanced they are with technology. To

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see it and experience it on my own, I

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thought it was really cool.

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So sweet.

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It looks like um I think that's like

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grapefruit. I actually have a little

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story to share. So, there was one night

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I called DiDi, which is their Uber, and

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the driver took a wrong turn and we

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turned into this dark alleyway. It was

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kind of sketchy because of how dark it

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was, but shortly after that, the

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driver's phone speaker, it just came on

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with an alert saying that Dick Dick is

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aware of this detour and that this ride

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is now being monitored. I legit had

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culture shock in that moment and was

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amazed by how technology could be used

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in such a helpful way.

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Look at these cups.

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So adorable. Look at all these little

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clips.

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Um they have these phone sockets.

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I feel very lucky to share [music] a

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special bond with my grandma. Over the

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years, you have seen her in many of my

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videos and something I may not have

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shared before is that we didn't always

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get along. In fact, growing up, I did

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not feel close to her. I thought she

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favored my sister more and there was

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always this unspoken grief I felt with

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our relationship, but I think it was

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around high school when her and I hashed

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it out. We actually sat down and talked

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about our feelings and that forever

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changed our bond. be so thankful to her

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for guiding me and being the [music]

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light of my childhood. She always

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protected me and my sisters and the love

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she has given us showed us what

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unconditional love really is. [music] It

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wasn't based on if we got good grades or

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hung out with good kids or had big

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dreams. She loves [music] us just the

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way we are, even when we are hard to

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deal with. I don't know how we got so

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lucky, but I know every single day me

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and my sisters are grateful to call this

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amazing woman our grandma.

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>> Okay.

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Bye-bye.

Interactive Summary

The video documents a meaningful trip to Guangzhou, China, where the creator travels with her grandparents. Beyond exploring the local culture and food, the journey serves as a reflective experience, offering deep insights into her grandparents' past and the special bond they share. The creator also shares snippets of her daily beauty routine and provides practical advice, such as the importance of using a VPN while traveling in China.

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