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If you don't get in the game of home

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ownership and you rent in your 20s and

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you rent in your 30s, you're going to

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turn around in your 40s and having not

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built any net worth. And in fact,

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homeowners in America are worth 40 times

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more than renters. And I'm talking about

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ordinary Americans.

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>> But that doesn't mean that buying a home

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made them rich, right?

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>> It actually does. And I'm going to go

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through that.

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>> But am I not better off renting and

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investing in the stock market? I want to

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bust this myth because I have spent the

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last 33 years of my life helping

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millions of people with ordinary incomes

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become financially free, including nine

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years as a financial adviser at Morgan

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Stanley and I got to see firsthand how

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everyone who came into my office with an

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ordinary income built wealth. And

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there's a formula to getting rich, but

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there's also a system to how you put

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your financial life on autopilot in less

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than 10 minutes. And it doesn't require

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discipline, budget, and you don't have

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to make a lot of money to get started.

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But unless your financial plan is

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automatic, it will fail. But more

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importantly, I believe the next 10 years

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will be the greatest opportunity to

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build wealth in our lifetime. And yet, 7

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out of 10 people right now are living

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paycheck to paycheck. More than 50% of

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Americans don't have savings. And most

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people don't know where their money

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goes. And in fact, when we ask people,

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how much money would it take to totally

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change your life? They say $10,000. Now,

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how much money do you need to spend a

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day to blow $10,000 a year? $27.40

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a day. If you invested that a day for 40

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years, you'd have over $4,424,000.

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That would be life-changing.

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>> But just before we get into all of the

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specifics and the strategies, do you

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have any specific advice to people that

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are currently struggled with debt?

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>> Absolutely. There's a very simple

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formula to getting out of debt called

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dole. I'd tell you to

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>> listen, my my team gave me a script that

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they asked me to read, but I'm just

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going to ask you um in the nicest way I

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possibly can. Thank you. Thank you first

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and foremost for choosing to subscribe

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to this channel. It is um it's been one

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of the most incredible crazy years of my

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life. I never could have imagined. I had

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so many dreams in my life, but this was

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not one of them. And the very fact that

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these conversations have resonated with

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you and you've given me so much feedback

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is something I will always be

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appreciative of. And I almost carry away

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a sort of burden of uh responsibility to

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pay you back. And the favor I would like

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to ask from you today is to subscribe to

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the channel if you um would be so

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obliged. It's completely free to do

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that. roughly about 47% of you that

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you down if you hit the subscribe

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button. I promise you. And if I do,

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please do unsubscribe, but I promise I

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won't. Thank you.

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David, what has your mission been for

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the last three decades?

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>> I have spent the last 30 years of my

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life helping ordinary people, people

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with ordinary incomes become financially

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free. And the last 20 years I've spent

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helping people become automatic

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millionaires. So, I love to teach anyone

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at any income level, minimum wage,

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living paycheck to paycheck. You might

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be in debt. You might be struggling.

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I've taught millions of people how they

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can improve their life financially.

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That's what I've been dedicated to. And

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I spent 33 years total in the financial

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service industry.

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>> And is this conversation just for people

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that are in their 20s or is it

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applicable to everybody at every age?

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>> It's applicable to everybody at every

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age because whatever your age is, it you

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know, look, Stephen, so many people are

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living paycheck to paycheck right now in

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this country. What's happening right now

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is that seven out of 10 people are being

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left behind financially. Seven out of 10

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people right now are living paycheck to

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paycheck. When you go into looking at

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finances in America today, half of

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Americans can't get their hands on

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$1,000 in case emergency purposes. And

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my biggest fear, why I updated this book

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and why I decided to come back out one

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more time and do another financial

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literacy campaign is I'm afraid people

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are being left behind. I think with AI

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right now, the next 10 years is going to

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be the greatest opportunity to build

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wealth in our lifetime.

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That's the good news. The bad news is a

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lot of people being left behind. My goal

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today, next hour is very simple. I want

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to give you the system on how to become

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an automatic millionaire at any age

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level, at any income level. But what I'm

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going to teach you is how to put your

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financial life on autopilot in less than

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10 minutes. Because when your financial

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life is automatic, your habits work

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automatically. And an automatic

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financial life doesn't require

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discipline, doesn't require a budget,

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and you don't have to make a lot of

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money to get started.

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>> Why should people be taking advice from

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you on this subject matter? What's what

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have you done in those 33 years?

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>> I've been doing this my entire life.

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Right? So, if you go all the way back, I

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started investing at the age of seven.

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And how that happened is I had a

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grandmother, amazing grandmother. Her

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name was Grandma Rose. At 30, she made a

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decision that changed the whole destiny

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of our family. And the decision she made

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was she want to be poor anymore. And at

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30, on a very cold day on her birthday,

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she turned to my grandfather and she

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said, "We don't have any money. We're

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living paycheck to paycheck and I don't

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want to retire here. I want to go to

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California. I want to be where it's

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warm." And my grandfather said, "Well,

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what do you want to do about it?" and

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she's like, "We need to change what

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we're doing or nothing will change." And

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so my grandmother started saving 50

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cents a week out of her paycheck. So 50

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cents each because they were like middle

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class people, right? Didn't have a

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college education. My grandfather worked

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in a plant. My grandmother worked in

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retail. But she started saving small

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amounts of money. And over her lifetime,

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she became an investor. And she became a

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self-made millionaire. My first book,

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which you have sitting over here, was a

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book called Smart Women Finish Rich. It

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was the lessons that my grandmother

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taught me. So, at seven, my grandmother

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took me to McDonald's and she taught me

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a lesson that would change my life. She

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said, "David, you're sitting here eating

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McDonald's and cheeseburgers and your

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French fries and your milkshake." She

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said, "I'm going to teach you today how

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to be rich for real. You like to play

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Monopoly. Here's my lesson today." She

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said, "There's three types of people.

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those like you who are here eating right

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now, you're what's called a consumer.

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She said the people over there who have

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been working, they're called employees

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and they've been working for minimum

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wage and that's a very hard way to live.

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She said they make at the time they made

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85 cents an hour. And she said the third

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type of person is the person who owns

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this place. They're called an investor.

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And she said, "Today, I'm going to teach

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you how to buy stock in McDonald's so

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that when you come to McDonald's, you'll

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make money from everybody who's here.

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When your friends come to McDonald's,

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you'll make money from them, and you'll

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be an owner of McDonald's." And she took

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me down to a brokerage firm, helped me

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buy my first share of stock at

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McDonald's.

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That moment changed my life because what

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she made me realize is like everything

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that we do, I'm seven years old.

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everything that we do, there's an

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opportunity to be an investor and own

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that. So like at nine years old, I'm at

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Disney. I'm like, "Hey, Mickey Mouse,

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are you public?" So I was like not a

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normal kid in that way because I started

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investing at a young age.

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But then I made a lot of mistakes. Then

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I went to college. Then I got myself in

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credit card debt. Then I believed all

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the myths that young people often

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believe. I believed I couldn't really

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invest a lot until I made a lot of

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money. So, in my early 20s, I was making

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money but spending everything. So, I was

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went from making nothing to making

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$50,000 a year and I'm still broke. I'm

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like, well, it's not enough money. So, I

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went to $75,000 a year, still broke,

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spending more. Then I got to $100,000 a

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year in income. Lot of money, right? In

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my 20s. Oh my god, I'm rich. No, I was

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still spending more than I was making at

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that point. I was a financial adviser

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and al

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>> that was my job. I was working at Morgan

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Stanley helping people plan for

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retirement teaching retirement seminars

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and I met this ordinary couple that came

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into my office at the age of 52, Jim and

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Sue McIntyre. They had an ordinary job.

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That year they had made a little over

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$53,000.

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Their average income over their lifetime

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was $40,000.

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And at 52, Jim put out all the

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statements on a table in front of me. I

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sat there and added them up and they had

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a net worth of $1.8 million.

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And I sat back at a table just like this

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and said, "How did you do this?"

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And they had just been in my class for

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four weeks. They're like, "David, we did

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a lot of what you talked about, but we

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didn't have a budget because budgets

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don't work." and they talked about why

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budgeting didn't work for them. They

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said, "We put everything on autopilot.

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We saved money automatically for

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everything."

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And that was the moment that changed my

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life. I realized that day as somebody

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who was living paycheck to paycheck with

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a high income. These people had half the

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income that I did and they were able to

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retire at 52. I was in my mid20s and I

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realized that if I didn't start saving

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and investing, if I didn't change,

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nothing was going to change and I would

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never have the financial freedom that

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they had. And so I went home that day

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and I changed everything in my life. Now

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I had a lot of bad habits. So I had a

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lot of things that needed to be changed.

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You were the senior vice president at

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Morgan Stanley when you stepped down and

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you soon after wrote this book called

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Smart Women Finish Rich. It begs the

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question, what are the differences that

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you saw through your process of

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financial education that women face

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versus men?

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>> I started I was in business with my

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father and we had a lot of older clients

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and I would sit in on meetings one after

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another with widows. So in the first

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month of my career, I sat in three

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meetings with three widows where the

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husband had dropped dead suddenly. And

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my dad at the time was teaching these

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women how to read their brokerage

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statements, how to write checks, and how

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to know if they would have enough money.

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And I thought, "This is crazy." And I

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said to my dad for the third

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appointment, "Dad, what do you what

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what's going on here?" And he's like,

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"Well, what do you mean?" I go, "Well,

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you're teaching these women when their

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husband has just died how to handle

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their finances." And he said, "David,

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not all women are like your grandmother.

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Your grandmother was a rarity." And I

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said, "Dad, that's crazy. I'm going to

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go out and teach a class for women and

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money." And when I started teaching the

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class for women money, here's what I

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learned. Here are the things that make

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women different than men when it comes

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to money. Women, first of all, live

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longer than men, which means they need

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more money than men do. The average age

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of widowhood in America when I wrote

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that book originally was 57, Stephen.

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Now it's 59.

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Okay. You do all these shows on

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longevity. It seems like everybody's

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living forever. They're not. Okay. The

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average age of widowhood in America is

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59 years old.

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>> When you say widowhood, you mean the age

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in which a woman becomes a widow.

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>> Exactly. They're married and they lose

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their husband.

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>> Okay.

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>> Okay. So, so women are often wiped out

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when that happens financially. Second

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thing is that women are hurt more than

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men when it comes to divorce.

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The third thing that affects women is

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that they work fewer years. I'm like,

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these are just the the the the

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statistical realities. Women work fewer

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years than men because they have

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children. So that's an average of

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somewhere between 7 to 11 years less.

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And that's less money going into social

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security, retirement accounts, and it

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affects their earnings and often they

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earn less. So what I have taught for

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third nearly 30 years now is as a woman,

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I don't care what your situation is. I

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don't care if you're an entrepreneur. I

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don't care if you're a stay-at-home

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mother. I don't care if you're married

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to local bank president. I don't care if

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you're married, singled, widowed,

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divorced. As a woman, you have to be in

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charge of your finances. Period. Drop

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the mic.

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End of discussion. You can't delegate

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your financial well-being to anyone

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else. You have to be in charge. Now, I

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will also tell you, Stephen, that women

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make better investors than men. They

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they make better investors than men

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because often women don't trade like men

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do and they are they do more research

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before they invest and their performance

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is better. They're way better long-term

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investing than men are.

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>> I heard some stats once upon a time that

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men are

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the majority of the gambling addicts.

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>> Well, I'm sure they're the majority of

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the gambling addicts. And also when you

12:44

look at trading because trading's become

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a very big thing, but trading's always

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been a thing.

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>> Trading meaning

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>> trading like trading stocks, buying and

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selling stocks. Now it's buying and

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selling cryptocurrency, buying and doing

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selling options. All these things are

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primarily men doing it and they don't

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make money because the bulk of people

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who trade lose money day in day out in

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year out. I teach a philosophy which is

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this. Your money and your investments

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should be boring. Your life should be

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interesting. Your investments should be

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boring. If someone's coming to a

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cocktail party talking about their

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investments and it's exciting,

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something's wrong with it.

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>> Why?

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>> Because sexy is how you go broke when it

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comes to money. Boring is beautiful when

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it becomes when it's about your wealth.

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So, even driving over here, my son was

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just like, "Dad, why aren't you trading

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Tesla stock?" I'm like, "You know why

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I'm not trading Tesla stock? Because you

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can't make money trading. You got to

13:40

figure out when to buy, when to sell. I

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want my kids investing in index funds. I

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have my clients investing in index

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funds. Boring is beautiful when it comes

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to money.

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>> Before we get into the real specifics

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and the tactical strategies and um we

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think about a bunch of the sort of

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things you said about debt and credit

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cards and saving and getting out of debt

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and how to become wealthy and an

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automatic millionaire. Is there anything

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we should discuss as it relates to the

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broader context of what's going on in

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the world? Whether it's wealth

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inequality, whether it's the amount of

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people that are living paycheck to

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paycheck, what I'm trying to get a

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picture on what the the state of

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financial wealth looks like in the

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Western world.

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>> Yeah. Well, so let's talk, you know,

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when people talk about economies. Here's

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here's the economy that matters in my

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opinion. Your economy, meaning the

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person that's listening, the economy

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that you're in control of is yours.

14:30

You're not in control over what's going

14:32

to happen with interest rates, what's

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going to happen with geopolitical

14:35

things, what's going to happen with AI.

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The only economy that you can control is

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yours. Now, here's the question.

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Are you working?

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Most cases, the answer is yes. The

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average person will work 90,000 hours

14:50

over their lifetime. So, if you are a

14:52

dual income household, you're going to

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work somewhere between 90 to 200,000

14:58

hours, the two of you, over your

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lifetime. You're going to actually make

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millions of dollars over your lifetime.

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The question is with your own economy,

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are you going to keep any of the money?

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And the sad thing for many people is

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that they're not. I I say most people

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have what I call a no plan. Money comes

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in, money goes out. And they say, "Well,

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I don't know where the money all went."

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And I go, "That's called a no plan." A

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person who's an automatic millionaire,

15:29

the moment money comes in, they have a

15:30

plan for exactly where it's going to go.

15:33

And it starts with paying themselves

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first.

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automatically.

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>> A lot of people listen to this and if I

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go back if I go back just over 10 years

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in my life, I would have been sat

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listening to this conversation in £7,000

15:46

of debt. And I would have thought, God,

15:48

like I'm becoming a millionaire, that's

15:49

a that's a million miles away, no pun

15:52

intended. I to become a millionaire, I'm

15:54

going to have to earn so much more

15:56

money. And at the time, I was working in

15:58

call centers. It it would have just felt

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so far away. And I say, you know, people

16:03

are struggling to feed their children,

16:04

let alone become a millionaire.

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Is it far away for the average person?

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>> It's far away if you don't know the

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strategy. There's a strategy to getting

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out of debt. There's a strategy to

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building wealth. There's a system.

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>> How much of it is just earning more

16:19

money? Because when I have these

16:20

conversations on my show, I think the

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surprisingly untouched territory is we

16:26

don't teach people how to become more

16:29

valuable so that they can earn more

16:31

money. A lot of it's about like index

16:32

funds or savings, whatever. But how much

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of it is just like I need to get higher

16:38

valued skills in the market?

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>> We know for a fact that making more

16:43

money doesn't make you rich. So, so

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people can go, as I told you earlier,

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like from $100,000. They can go from

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50,000 to 100,000 and still be broke.

16:51

They can go from a h 100,000 to 200,000

16:53

a year and still be broke. They can go

16:54

from 200,000 to 300,000 and still be

16:56

broke. In the US, when you take

16:59

households that make $150,000 a year,

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one out of three of them are still

17:03

broke. When you peel back the curtain

17:06

and you ask why is that? Well, we know

17:08

things cost more, but we also know

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there's massive lifestyle creep, right?

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you get you get around other people who

17:14

are making more money and then you spend

17:16

more money. And the reality is these

17:19

phones are designed to get you to spend

17:21

everything, right? Today with the

17:23

algorithms, there's better technology

17:25

today than there's ever been to get you

17:26

to spend more money. And nobody wants

17:29

you to spend money once. They want you

17:30

to spend money for a lifetime, right?

17:32

It's a lifetime value of a customer. So

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there's a battle for our income. And

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everyone wants a piece of it. It starts

17:40

with the government. like you go to work

17:42

and you go to work at 9ine and you

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actually work from nine o'clock to 12

17:47

for taxes. Now, this is an important

17:49

lesson actually. The government doesn't

17:52

ask you to budget to pay taxes. They

17:56

take your taxes from you automatically.

17:58

They take social security from you

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automatically. They're they take the

18:02

money from you automatically because

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they know you won't have anything to

18:06

give if they don't take it from you.

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Then people work from 12 to about 3:00

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for housing and food and then from 3:00

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to 5:00 for all the rest all the rest of

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things.

18:18

The people who build wealth in America

18:20

and really all over the world, they do

18:22

something different. They keep the first

18:24

hour a day of their income.

18:26

>> What do you mean by that? So what that

18:27

means is whatever you earn, you could be

18:30

making minimum wage, you could be making

18:32

$20 an hour, $30 an hour, $40 an hour.

18:35

Whatever you earn, the first hour day of

18:38

your income has to go to you. You're the

18:41

first person who gets paid.

18:42

>> And you mean you have to save it, invest

18:44

it.

18:44

>> You have to invest it. So how do you

18:47

invest the first hour of your day

18:50

without paying taxes? The answer is you

18:53

pay yourself first using a 401k plan.

18:56

So, if you have a job with a retirement

18:58

account, 401k plan, you sign up and you

19:01

use that plan. Now, I can't just stop

19:04

right there, right? Because because it

19:05

sounds so simple, like, okay, I'll use

19:07

my plan. No, you have to know the

19:10

formula to using your plan to be rich.

19:12

We know after 40 years now exactly what

19:16

you need to do if you want to be a

19:17

millionaire. I can tell you how to

19:18

become a millionaire starting in your

19:20

20s so that you're done by the time

19:22

you're in your mid-50s. You save a

19:25

little one hour of your income is 12 and

19:26

a.5% of your gross revenue. I went on

19:29

online today to look at what's the

19:31

latest statistics with 401k

19:33

millionaires. The new stats that just

19:35

came out from Fidelity. There are

19:37

654,000

19:40

people in Fidelity 401k plans that are

19:42

now millionaires.

19:43

>> What is a 401k?

19:45

>> Okay,

19:45

>> because you know we've got a lot of

19:46

global listeners. There's different

19:48

types of 401k in every country. So in

19:51

the US, a 401k plan is a retirement

19:53

account. It is a retirement account that

19:55

the company has set up, right? And it

19:58

allows you to put money away tax

20:01

deductible. They call it pre-tax. In

20:04

most countries, you have a deductible

20:06

retirement account, but it depends on

20:08

the country, too, right? Like in Canada,

20:10

it's a different type of plan than it is

20:12

in Australia, than it is in Italy, than

20:14

it is here in the UK. Almost every

20:16

country though has some form of

20:18

retirement account and has the ability

20:21

to put money away automatically. Here's

20:24

the problem, and I'll use the US

20:27

specifically because it's where I do

20:28

most of my work in the US. Those who

20:32

have a 401k plan,

20:35

the ones that are millionaires, what

20:36

they did, here's the formula, the exact

20:38

formula. They saved 14% of their gross

20:41

income and their employer had a small

20:44

match on top of that. And then how they

20:47

invested the money is key because it's

20:49

not enough to just put money in these

20:51

401k plans. You have to be invested for

20:53

growth. And growth means stocks, right?

20:57

So you'd have to have and and the actual

21:00

specific allocation in these 401k

21:02

millionaires I just talked about was

21:04

about 70% stock and 30% bonds.

21:08

Okay. Now, what are people doing that

21:11

aren't achieving this? Well, the average

21:12

American saving maybe 3 or 4%. Maybe 5%

21:17

if they have a 401k plan. People who

21:20

don't have 401k plans in many cases

21:21

aren't even doing this. They can they

21:23

can open up an IRA account, but in most

21:25

cases, they're not doing that. So, the

21:27

whole secret is

21:30

not budgeting, not using discipline,

21:32

having the money move right from your

21:35

paycheck. paycheck gets deposited

21:37

automatically and then it moves the day

21:40

it hits your bank account automatically

21:43

first for retirement. Then later we'll

21:45

talk about building a security account,

21:47

building a dream account. The key is

21:50

that the money moves automatically.

21:54

So in the United States now there's by

21:56

the way 24 million millionaires now. So

21:58

we've seen an increase of 8 million

22:00

millionaires to 24 million millionaires

22:03

in the US in just 20 years.

22:05

How did they do that? There's two

22:08

primary escalators to wealth. That is

22:11

stocks and real estate. And if you're

22:14

not in stocks and you're not in real

22:16

estate, you are being left behind.

22:19

>> When you say real estate, does that mean

22:21

having a mortgage and owning a h home?

22:24

>> It's owning a home or owning REITs?

22:27

>> REITs.

22:28

>> REITs. Real estate equity investment

22:29

trusts. So, that's another way to buy

22:31

real estate without actually having to

22:33

own the home, but you don't get the same

22:34

level of returns.

22:36

>> I mean, this is um this is one of the

22:37

hot topics of conversation we've had on

22:39

this show several times is many of my

22:41

guests that are sort of financial

22:43

advisers say that owning a home is a bad

22:46

investment. I think from what I

22:48

understood from the research and from

22:49

reading your books that you feel

22:50

differently about that.

22:52

>> Yeah. I mean I I couldn't feel more

22:55

differently when we look at where is

22:57

wealth created in the United States and

22:59

also abroad. It's in two places. It's in

23:03

home equity and it's in the stock

23:05

market. So when you look at housing and

23:08

you take someone who owns a home and

23:10

we'll talk about I know it's hard to buy

23:11

homes right now but when you look at

23:14

people who own a home versus people who

23:16

rent homeowners in America follow this

23:19

for one second. Homeowners in America

23:21

are worth 40 times more than renters. So

23:26

the average homeowner in America today

23:29

is worth over $400,000.

23:32

>> But this doesn't establish causation.

23:34

I.e. that doesn't mean that buying a

23:35

home make made them rich, right?

23:37

>> It actually does. And I'm going to go

23:39

through that here. So the average renter

23:41

is worth $10,000,

23:43

right? So why why does buying a home

23:46

build wealth? and how much wealth in the

23:48

United States is now in home equity.

23:50

Wall Street Journal just ran an article

23:52

on this came out two days ago. There's

23:54

$34 trillion now in home equity in

23:59

America. This number has gone up 90%

24:02

since before co

24:05

the other money is in retirement

24:07

accounts which is 60 70% in stocks.

24:11

There's $45 trillion now in retirement

24:15

accounts. So those two things alone

24:17

equal $80 trillion dollar, right? Like

24:20

when you want to go like where are the

24:23

breadcrumbs? Where is wealth being

24:24

created? It's right in front of us. Now

24:28

the problem that we have in the United

24:30

States, but also look, we're here in

24:31

London right now. Problem we have in so

24:33

many cities is that real estate keeps

24:35

going higher and higher and higher and

24:38

people's incomes are not keeping pace

24:41

with the cost of buying a home. So, when

24:44

someone comes on a show like this and

24:46

says, "Look, you don't have to buy a

24:47

home. It's cost more to have a house

24:50

than rent. You, you know, I I watched

24:52

one of the shows. I won't say who it

24:53

was. It doesn't matter. They all say the

24:55

same thing. Don't buy a house. You'll be

24:58

trapped. You'll have to pay you'll have

25:00

to pay real estate taxes and you'll have

25:02

to pay insurance and things break." They

25:06

go through all these expenses

25:08

and it it makes it sound like, "Oh,

25:10

yeah. If I rent it'll be cheaper." No.

25:13

Who who do you think pays these expenses

25:15

when you rent?

25:18

You do. The landlord passes the cost of

25:21

these expenses on to the renter

25:25

ultimately. Why do they do this? Because

25:27

people who buy real estate buy it for an

25:30

investment. They buy it for an

25:32

investment. They're not they're not

25:34

subsidizing these costs. So, it's a hard

25:37

thing to hear and especially when you're

25:39

young. Like I have a a son who's 22.

25:41

He's in Chicago. He's going to move to

25:44

New York City. It'll be extremely hard

25:47

for him to buy a place in New York when

25:48

he starts working right away. Just will

25:50

be probably won't for two or three

25:52

years. A lot of young people when they

25:54

move to a major city, they can't afford

25:56

to buy right away. When I came out of

25:58

college, like you, I was in credit card

26:00

debt. I had $12,000 in credit card debt.

26:03

I remember opening up my bills and

26:05

having the room spin and thinking, I'm

26:08

never get out of credit card debt. how

26:09

am I going to buy a house? But I did.

26:12

And in fact, I didn't buy a home when I

26:15

was young by myself. I bought a home

26:17

with a best friend. So, how did I get my

26:20

first house? First house we bought was a

26:21

quarter of a million dollars. We put 10%

26:24

down and my best friend and I, Andrew,

26:27

we split that down payment. So, we each

26:28

put $12,500 down. This is how we scraped

26:31

it together. The house was a complete

26:33

fixer upper and we didn't have enough

26:36

money to make the mortgage payments. So,

26:37

we rented out bedrooms and we had

26:39

friends rent bedrooms and that helped us

26:41

cover our mortgage. We scraped it

26:44

together and that's what a lot of people

26:46

do when you're young. But if you don't

26:50

get in the game of home ownership and

26:52

you rent in your 20s and you rent in

26:54

your 30s, you're going to turn around in

26:56

your 40s and having not been built any

26:58

net worth. When I wrote the automatic

27:01

millionaire 20 years ago, two things

27:03

have happened since then.

27:06

The stock market has gone up in 20 years

27:10

600%.

27:12

>> Okay? So, if you had a $100,000, just

27:16

that is gone to $600,000.

27:19

If you bought a house, the house has

27:21

gone up 400%.

27:24

So, when you read this book with all

27:26

these, there's a a whole chapter of

27:27

updated success stories. There are a lot

27:30

of ordinary people that started saving

27:32

5, 10, 15, $20 a day, bought a starter

27:35

house, and today they're millionaires.

27:38

>> So, am I not better off renting and

27:42

investing in the stock market

27:45

versus buying a house? Because obviously

27:48

when I when I when I buy a house, I'm

27:50

paying a premium on the house so that I

27:52

can get a mortgage. I want to bust this

27:54

myth because what happens is people come

27:56

on they go the stock look I can tell you

27:58

right now the stock market over the last

28:00

20 years has averaged over 10% annually

28:02

people go the returns are better in the

28:04

stock market than the real estate yeah

28:06

but that's not applesto apple comparison

28:09

why

28:11

you buy a piece of real estate when you

28:13

buy a home people don't typically pay

28:16

cash for their first house they put down

28:19

20% and they borrow the other 80%. So

28:22

you take like an example of a take a

28:25

$200,000 home. $200,000 home you put 40

28:28

grand in. Home goes from $200,000 to

28:31

400,000 in 10 years. This has happened

28:34

to so many people in the last five years

28:36

since COVID. There are markets all over

28:39

the US where housing prices have gone up

28:41

100 to 200%. So a person buys a $200,000

28:44

home, they borrowed 80%. It's doubled.

28:48

So they've made 200,000 in profit. They

28:52

didn't put in 200,000, they put in 40.

28:54

So, they got a five times return on

28:56

their down payment. They go to sell

28:58

their house.

29:00

They don't pay taxes on the gain because

29:03

when you own a home, at least in the

29:04

United States, you own a home for over

29:06

two years. If you're single, you get

29:08

$250,000 in taxfree gains. If you're

29:11

married, you get over half a million

29:12

dollars in taxree gains. You get tax

29:14

deductions on the mortgages. So, what

29:18

happens is people come here and they go,

29:19

"You know what? You shouldn't be you

29:21

shouldn't be tied down. You need to be

29:23

flexible when you're young. You don't

29:25

want to have the responsibility

29:28

and you should take the extra money and

29:30

you should put it in a mutual fund. And

29:32

you know what happens in the real world,

29:33

Stephen? People don't do that. They rent

29:36

an apartment that's nicer than what they

29:37

can afford and they spend all their

29:40

money and then they turn around in their

29:42

mid30s and they have no equity because

29:45

they haven't bought anything and they

29:47

also haven't saved money.

29:49

It is an absolute freaking myth that

29:53

people take this extra money that they

29:55

could have used to buy a house and

29:57

they're going to put it in the stock

29:59

market. They don't do that. And that's

30:01

why also, by the way, corporate America

30:05

got into the game of buying up real

30:07

estate all over America, houses, and

30:11

building apartments to rent to an entire

30:15

generation, hoping these people never

30:19

buy

30:21

this. Like 10 days ago, Trump came out

30:23

and basically said he wants the

30:25

institutions out of buying up all the

30:27

homes in America. Why does he want to do

30:29

that? because he because he recognizes

30:33

how serious of a problem it is to have a

30:36

generation of Americans who are renters.

30:40

I'm telling you, when you look at

30:41

average Americans, average, I'm talking

30:43

about ordinary Americans. When you look

30:44

at where their wealth is, it's in home

30:46

equity and it's in the stock market. And

30:48

this is the last thing I'll say,

30:51

generational wealth is created for

30:55

better or worse through home equity. So

30:58

when you look at why you know you asked

31:00

the question about causation

31:03

if a family doesn't buy a home the

31:06

likelihood the next generation can buy a

31:08

home is very low because it's this when

31:12

someone dies

31:14

the money that is in the house that home

31:17

equity is often what transfer transfers

31:20

to the next generation helps the next

31:22

generation buy a house. I was looking at

31:24

some stats here because I want to what I

31:26

want I wish I could sit

31:28

>> sit down all of the guests that have

31:29

been on my show that have had a

31:30

difference of opinion and have said that

31:32

buying a house is a bad

31:33

>> it could be a really interesting

31:34

conversation. Right.

31:35

>> It would be a really interesting

31:36

conversation. What I've done as an

31:38

alternative to that approach is I've

31:39

pulled up what they've said

31:40

>> and I'm going to give you some of the

31:41

things they've said just so so you can

31:43

rebuttle them um and have your say on

31:45

them. One of the things that they often

31:47

say is that long-term real

31:49

inflationadjusted home price

31:51

appreciation in the US is about 1%

31:53

annually and one of my guests cited

31:56

Robert Schiller as the evidence of that.

31:58

After maintenance um which usually

32:00

equals 1 to 2% um property taxes which

32:03

equals about 1% insurance and

32:04

transaction costs the net real returns

32:06

approach roughly zero on average. So

32:10

when you say housing is a great

32:11

investment, are you referencing the

32:12

gross appreciation which is the the the

32:14

total appreciation or the net returns

32:16

after taxes, maintenance, insurance, and

32:18

selling costs?

32:20

>> So when you dig into these kind of

32:21

numbers like this,

32:23

what they are is they're numbers, but

32:25

they're not real world, right? And so

32:27

like when you when you talk to someone

32:28

who owns a home today and they've owned

32:30

it for 20 years and you ask them how

32:33

much of your net worth is now in the

32:36

equity in your house

32:38

over 50% of their net worth is in their

32:40

house. You will see people on your

32:43

YouTube channel that literally if you

32:45

read the comments and I'm sure you do. I

32:46

do

32:47

>> where people say it's not true. There

32:49

was I read a comment yesterday on your

32:51

YouTube page. All I know is I bought a

32:55

house and it's gone up in value three

32:57

and a half times and the rent when I

33:00

bought the house was $1,200 and the rent

33:02

today to buy that if I had that house if

33:05

I was renting it would be $4,000.

33:07

So the thing is you have to understand

33:10

is that rents always go up, Stephen.

33:13

Like I lived in New York City for 18

33:16

years.

33:18

When I moved to New York City in 2001,

33:22

a really nice apartment, a nice

33:25

apartment was like $6,000 a month. When

33:28

I left New York, that same apartment was

33:32

$25,000 a month. Follow the follow the

33:35

insanity of that math. Now, that

33:38

apartment went from being $2 million

33:41

apartment to a $5 million apartment. So,

33:44

I could have been renting it, but in my

33:46

case, I owned it and it went up in value

33:49

$3 million.

33:50

So, I have friends who have been renting

33:52

in New York for 20 years. They have

33:54

built no net worth. I have no vest

33:56

interest in this conversation. Meaning,

33:58

I don't sell real estate. I'm not a real

34:01

estate agent. I'm not selling real

34:03

estate. I've just seen in the real world

34:06

how people have built wealth. the the

34:08

the McIntyres in this book, the

34:10

automatic millionaire, when they came

34:12

into my office and they were worth $1.8

34:14

million and he was 52 and able to retire

34:18

having earned an average of $40,000 a

34:21

year.

34:22

All their money wasn't in the stock

34:24

market. They had bought a home in San

34:26

Leandro, California, what he what they

34:28

called a middleclass neighborhood. Their

34:31

home at the time was worth about

34:32

$300,000.

34:35

They had paid their mortgage off and

34:37

they had bought one more house on their

34:38

street. They rented the first house.

34:41

They bought a second house on their

34:42

street. They paid that mortgage off. And

34:45

so they owned two homes free and clear.

34:47

One house they got income from. One

34:49

house they lived in with no debt. And

34:51

then they had saved money in their 401k

34:53

plan. So, if I was a young person or not

34:57

even a young person, a middle-aged and

34:58

older person who took my down payment

35:01

that I was going to pay into the house,

35:02

if let's say it was say my down payment

35:04

was $20,000 and I put that into the S&P

35:07

500 instead over the long run, won't

35:10

that grow larger than the total home

35:12

equity potentially?

35:14

>> Here's why the index fund theory doesn't

35:17

work.

35:19

You can't live inside an index fund.

35:23

You can't live inside a mutual fund. You

35:25

have to live somewhere as long as you're

35:27

alive. Here's what people should do.

35:31

Take a look at what you're paying in

35:32

rent.

35:34

Now, ask yourself a question. If I'm

35:37

paying 5,000 a month in rent, which lots

35:41

of people are, right? Do you know people

35:43

paying 5,000 a month in rent?

35:44

>> Yes.

35:44

>> Okay. So, they're paying 60,000 a year.

35:46

Let's take that number.

35:47

>> Yeah.

35:48

>> So, over 10 years, they're going to

35:49

spend $600,000 in rent.

35:52

Yeah.

35:53

>> If the rent doesn't go up,

35:55

>> Yeah.

35:55

>> in 20 years, they're going to spend 1.2

35:58

million in rent. If the rent doesn't go

36:00

up, in 30 years, they will have spent $2

36:04

million in rent if the rent doesn't go

36:06

up. But the rent does go up. So, the

36:09

question you just have to ask yourself

36:10

is, am I going to take all this money

36:12

that I'm spending on rent and never

36:14

build anything?

36:16

And if you really believe that renting

36:19

is better than owning, then you should

36:21

still consider the idea of buying

36:23

something than that somebody else rents.

36:25

Cuz I promise you, somebody's getting

36:27

rich in the transaction. If you're the

36:30

renter, you're not the one who's getting

36:31

rich in the transaction of renting. It

36:34

is a great short-term solution renting.

36:37

It is not a great term long-term wealth

36:40

building solution. The other thing that

36:41

people often talk about and you you

36:43

cited earlier is the mobility that

36:45

renting gives you.

36:46

>> Yeah.

36:48

>> Your son was here a second ago. He's 16

36:50

years old. Yeah. Soon he'll be

36:52

>> at the age where he's got his own place

36:54

and he's thinking about different career

36:55

opportunities and oh my god AI is this

36:57

big thing. So he might want to go to San

36:58

Francisco. Then he might want to go live

37:00

in Florence and wherever else. if he's

37:02

bought a place, there is a interesting

37:05

sort of psychological but also financial

37:07

component to the fact that it makes it

37:09

harder for you to move with the

37:10

opportunity of life. And if we are if if

37:12

what people say about the future of work

37:14

is true, that we're going to have many

37:15

more careers in our lives than we did in

37:17

the past, one might assume that we're

37:19

also going to be more mobile. And so, is

37:22

there an argument to say that buying a

37:24

house might hurt my prof professional

37:27

opportunities, my ability to pursue

37:29

professional opportunities? The answer

37:31

is possibly, right? But here's the thing

37:33

about rent. Rent's, interestingly

37:36

enough, a major obligation, right?

37:39

Usually, when you go and you do a lease,

37:42

you lock yourself into a one-year lease.

37:45

Sometimes you lock yourself into a

37:46

two-year lease.

37:48

When you buy something, and this is

37:51

assuming that you have the money to buy

37:53

something, Stephen,

37:55

look up because you've got all the data

37:57

at your fingertips here. Look what the

37:58

average length of time it takes to sell

38:00

a home in the United States. Just just

38:02

Google that right now because what I

38:05

will tell you is in certain markets you

38:07

can put your home on the market and you

38:08

can sell it in less than 90 days. Now

38:11

some markets you can sell your home in

38:12

less than 30 days. In many cases

38:15

you actually have more flexibility when

38:17

you own something than when you rent.

38:19

And that's if you want to sell it. It

38:21

says the average time from listing to

38:24

sale is about 47 to 62 days from listing

38:29

to closing in 2025, including 16 days on

38:32

the market and 30 to 45 days to close.

38:35

>> That's called less than 2 months.

38:37

>> Even in hot markets, the process from

38:39

putting a house on the market to legally

38:40

selling it can take 1.5 to 3 months.

38:43

Meaning home equity isn't a quickly

38:45

accessible investment.

38:47

>> Yeah. But do you think that's pretty

38:48

quick? 90 days.

38:49

>> No, it is. It is quick. I mean it takes

38:50

takes you that amount of time to get out

38:51

of a lease.

38:52

>> Exactly. So now so so here you've got a

38:54

piece of property that you can turn

38:54

around and sell in less than 90 days.

38:56

Now this is the US. You can't do that.

38:57

Like for inance I live in Italy. That

38:58

could be very hard to do that in Italy.

39:00

But in the US you've got something

39:02

that's in a good market. It's liquid.

39:04

The other thing is you can rent it,

39:07

right? You're you're actually not

39:09

trapped. If if you start to build equity

39:11

in your home and you pay your mortgage

39:12

down slightly, next thing you know

39:14

you're able to rent that property and

39:15

you can still move. Today, people are

39:18

taking their homes and they're Airbnbing

39:19

them. What I really want for people is

39:22

the chance to be financially free.

39:25

There's also an age at which it doesn't

39:26

matter if you own. You know, once you

39:28

start to get older and you've built

39:29

financial security, you get in your 50s

39:31

or your 60s or 70s and you just want to

39:33

travel and you don't want to own

39:34

anything. That's a different stage of

39:36

life. So, the question just becomes

39:39

the money that you make. I go back to

39:41

the 90,000 hour comment. When you make n

39:44

when you work 90,000 hours over your

39:46

lifetime,

39:48

what's your plan to keep some of this

39:50

money?

39:52

You have to have a pay yourself first

39:54

plan. That has to be your number one

39:56

priority is that when you earn money,

39:58

the first person who you're going to pay

40:00

is you. If you say, you know what, I

40:02

watched Stephen and I saw David and I've

40:04

seen a bunch of other people on his show

40:06

and I'm not going to buy a house. Okay,

40:09

then

40:11

you have to pay yourself first more. Now

40:14

I go around the world for the last 30

40:17

years starting with Oprah with the

40:19

automatic millionaire. I launched this

40:20

book on Oprah and I talked about you

40:22

have to save 1 hour a day of your income

40:24

and people will get on these social

40:26

media boards and be like I can't save

40:28

10% of my income.

40:31

They'll I can't live off 90% of my

40:33

income. It's not possible. I have to

40:34

spend all of it. Right? Well, then that

40:38

person who's renting and not buying a

40:41

house, which is for savings, is clearly

40:44

never going to save. So, the other thing

40:46

about buying a house is it does require

40:49

force savings because when you use have

40:51

a mortgage payment, part of that

40:52

mortgage payment is paying down your

40:53

debt. And I teach you how to use a

40:55

bi-weekly mortgage payment plan. So, you

40:57

take a 30-year mortgage and you pay it

40:59

off five years earlier. And doing that

41:01

can save you, depends on the size of the

41:02

home, can save you $50 to $100,000 just

41:05

in interest payments. You talk about

41:06

having a savings mindset.

41:10

What is a savings mindset and how does

41:12

one go about saving if they are one of

41:14

those people that says, "Listen, I'm

41:15

barely getting by as it is, David."

41:17

>> Yeah.

41:17

>> How how the hell am I going to save

41:19

money when I'm actually increasingly

41:21

getting into more debt right now?

41:24

>> So, the first thing is you have to find

41:25

your money, right? So, what I what I

41:27

find, Steve, is when I talk to people,

41:29

most people don't know where their money

41:30

goes. Literally, they don't know.

41:32

They're like, I'm like, "How much money

41:33

you spend a month?" Well, I'm not really

41:34

sure. How much money you spend a year?

41:36

Well, I'm not really sure. You need to

41:38

be sure. So, you should be doing

41:40

something to track where your money

41:41

goes. Now, you can be sophisticated. You

41:43

can use apps. It will track where your

41:45

money goes. You can also take out a pad

41:48

of paper and I give people a 7-day

41:50

financial challenge for seven days. Just

41:53

bring a little pad of paper with you and

41:55

write down every single day where your

41:56

money goes. Now, why do I want people to

41:59

do that? Because most people today are

42:02

spending money unconsciously. I go back

42:04

to these phones. The fact that I don't I

42:07

don't even have to carry a wallet

42:08

anymore, right? It's just click click

42:09

click and pay for things. We've lost

42:11

touch with spending money. So, when

42:14

people start to see what they're really

42:15

spending, it's a wakeup call. The

42:18

biggest thing I've been sharing lately

42:19

is what does it take to blow $10,000 a

42:23

year per day in terms of spending? How

42:26

much money do you need to spend a day to

42:27

blow $10,000? Now, show us the per here.

42:31

Now, we happen to have these are we have

42:32

pounds today, right? So, um so I I'm

42:36

holding Stephen right now. I'm holding

42:38

what is known as a brick.

42:41

So, I don't know if your staff told you

42:42

how much I'm holding here. You know how

42:44

much what you guess I'm holding?

42:46

>> It looks like maybe $5,000.

42:48

>> Okay. So, this is a life-changing amount

42:50

of money, Stephen. This This is $10,000

42:52

right here.

42:53

>> And what does it take to blow $10,000

42:57

in a year per day? How much money you

42:59

have to spend per day to go through

43:02

$10,000? I'll make it easy for you. The

43:05

the answer is $27.40

43:08

a day. $27.40 a day adds up equaling

43:14

$10,000 over the year. Now, before we go

43:16

through where do you where do you spend

43:18

this money? How do you waste $27.40 a

43:21

day, the question becomes, if you didn't

43:24

waste $27.40 40 cents a day and you were

43:27

able to get yourself to invest $10,000 a

43:30

year, what could this be worth over

43:35

time? And the answer is in 40 years if

43:39

this was in the S&P 500 fund which you

43:42

quoted earlier and you earn 10% annually

43:44

with reinvested dividends

43:47

that stack there would grow to 4 million

43:50

four over $4,400,000

43:53

if you invested $27.40

43:56

a day.

43:57

>> Pass me this big brick.

43:58

>> Yeah.

43:58

>> So if I save

44:00

half of this a day then in did you say

44:03

40 years?

44:04

>> In 40 years. So, let me give you the

44:06

math on a couple different ways of doing

44:07

this. Okay, so what would happen if you

44:09

invested roughly half of this a day? The

44:12

number I use is $27.40 a day. It's the

44:15

magic number. That equals $10,000 a

44:18

year. If you invested that a day for 40

44:21

years, you'd have over $4,424,000.

44:27

>> If I invest $27 a day, in 40 years, I'll

44:29

have $4 million.

44:31

>> Over $4 million. Let's go through the

44:34

yeah butts now because people are going

44:36

to hear this. Some people are going to

44:37

go, "Wait, what?" And then we'll talk

44:39

about where you find $27.40 a day.

44:43

Yeah, but $4,400,000

44:47

won't be worth a lot of money in 40

44:49

years.

44:50

With inflation, it won't be worth that

44:52

much. It won't have the same purchasing

44:53

power. My answer would be it's worth a

44:56

whole lot more than zero. Right? If

44:58

you're not saving any money, if you

44:59

can't save $27.40 40 cents a day, you

45:03

won't have $4,400,000.

45:05

Yeah, but with taxes, you know, it won't

45:08

grow that much. Well, it could if it was

45:10

in a retirement account. You wouldn't be

45:12

paying taxes on the money. Yeah, but

45:14

it's not possible to earn 10% on my

45:17

money. Well, the stock market for over a

45:20

hundred years has averaged over 10%

45:22

annually with reinvested dividends.

45:25

Yeah, but the stock market's risky and

45:27

complicated. Well, no, it's not. If you

45:28

bought an index fund, it's actually not

45:30

that risky and complicated.

45:33

Yeah, but I don't know. I don't know how

45:34

to get started. Well, you could start

45:36

really easily. You could open up a

45:38

brokerage account. You could go to a

45:40

Charles Schwab, Fidelity. I mean, I'm

45:43

literally going to go through them all.

45:44

Vanguard, Robin Hood, Coinbase, Acorns,

45:50

and in less than 10 minutes, you could

45:52

open up an account and be saving. Pick a

45:55

dollar amount. $5 a day, $10 a day, $27

45:58

a day, and that could change your life.

46:01

Now, why is $10,000, Stephen, such an

46:03

important dollar amount? Here's what I

46:06

can tell you, having done this for 30

46:07

years.

46:09

This dollar amount right here, first of

46:12

all, this is

46:14

one in two Americans don't have $1,000

46:17

in a bank account right now. So, this is

46:19

10 times what one out of two Americans

46:21

have. But more importantly, $10,000.

46:24

When we do surveys

46:26

and we ask people, "How much money would

46:28

it take to totally change your life?"

46:30

The answer is not a million dollars. The

46:32

answer is not $100,000.

46:35

The answer is actually$10,000.

46:37

And the question is, why is it 10,000?

46:40

And the reason is is that's about what

46:42

the average person has in credit card

46:44

debt. And they feel like they're

46:46

drowning like you talked about earlier.

46:49

and they know that that could pay off

46:50

their credit card debt. Or they have a

46:53

job they don't like and they if you knew

46:57

that if they had $10,000

46:59

in a savings account, they'd quit that

47:01

job and they'd be free. They'd have to

47:03

go find another job

47:04

>> or start a business or something

47:05

>> or start a business or god forbid

47:08

they're in an abusive relationship and

47:09

they can't leave. But if they had

47:11

$10,000, they'd leave. So, you know, a

47:15

lot of people go, "David, you just make

47:16

this all too simple." And it's true. I

47:20

do because when it's simple, people take

47:22

action on it. So for years, I have

47:25

taught this concept called the latte

47:27

factor. A lot of people love me for it.

47:30

Now I have a lot of people hate me for

47:31

it. And I have taught that, you know, we

47:34

waste small amounts of money on little

47:36

thing. I had your staff bring me a nice

47:37

coffee. Um, when I started teaching the

47:40

latte factor, I would talk about the

47:42

idea that we waste five bucks a day on

47:45

coffee. And that if you don't believe

47:47

you can start saving and investing,

47:50

at least save $5 a day. Make your coffee

47:52

at home. And people would say, "But I

47:54

don't want to give up my coffee." Okay.

47:55

Well, then figure out another way to

47:57

save $5 a day. This iced coffee, I don't

48:00

know what it costs here in London. In

48:01

New York City, that coffee right there

48:04

is $9.50

48:06

plus a tip.

48:08

It's over 11 bucks. I know because I was

48:11

just in New York. So

48:14

today we we had a bunch of props here

48:15

and I said, "Well, let's try to show

48:17

like what what is $27.40." Like when I

48:20

go to my hotel later when I leave here,

48:23

a cocktail is going to be 30 bucks,

48:25

right? I was just in New York City

48:26

cocktail. I had a cocktail in my hotel

48:28

was $31.50.

48:31

Wine $50. Eating out. You go and have

48:33

lunch today, it's going to be $25. And

48:36

people say, 'Well, I have to eat.' And I

48:38

go, I know you do, but you could also

48:40

brown bag your lunch. It's what my

48:41

grandmother did. Now, her friends teased

48:44

her. But my grandmother was able to

48:46

retire to California. And her friends

48:49

all got stuck in Milwaukee, Wisconsin,

48:51

where it was cold because they couldn't

48:52

afford to retire the way she did.

48:54

>> How many people could

48:57

actually save $27 a day? Because if I go

49:00

back again, just over 10 years of my

49:01

life, I mean, there's no chance I could

49:03

save $27 in a day. There's just no

49:05

there's just no there's no way

49:07

>> if you go back to what age?

49:08

>> If I go back to between

49:11

like 18 19 years old roughly that period

49:15

of my life.

49:15

>> Yeah.

49:16

>> There was no way I could have save $27 a

49:18

day.

49:18

>> Here's really the question. Do you have

49:21

friends and do you think you have people

49:23

who work with you

49:25

who are making more than $50,000 a year

49:28

and they're not saving $27 a day?

49:31

They're not even saving $10 a day. This

49:33

is true. I actually did a bit of

49:34

research um on this and it says

49:37

approximately 40 to 50 million families,

49:40

if we just take the United States where

49:41

I think there's what 330 million people

49:42

roughly um approximately 40 to 50

49:45

million families in the US can

49:46

realistically save $27 a day. This

49:49

represents roughly the top 30 to 35% of

49:52

households. For everyone else, the

49:54

bottom 65 to 70%. Saving that amount

49:57

would require either extreme poverty

49:58

level budgeting or is a mathematical

50:00

impossibility. over 40 million people

50:03

they think can afford to save $27.50 a

50:05

day.

50:05

>> Yes. It's based based on income and

50:07

expenditure data from 2025 to 2026

50:10

approximately 40 to 50 million families

50:12

in the US can realistically save $27 a

50:15

day.

50:16

>> So for those 40 to 50 million people in

50:20

the United States that would be

50:22

lifechanging. Now are there people who

50:24

can't afford to say that? Absolutely. In

50:26

the United States I I was just in uh

50:28

Arizona. I just did a keynote speech. I

50:30

asked the audience,

50:32

this is when the government was shut

50:33

down. I said, "How many people do you

50:36

think in America are taking and

50:38

receiving SNAP checks?"

50:41

>> What's that?

50:43

>> Thank you. Because, by the way, most

50:44

Americans don't even know what a snap

50:46

check is. That's a check that the

50:48

government gives to people for food. And

50:50

the dollar amounts a little over $6 a

50:52

day. So, smart people in a room, by the

50:56

way, I didn't know the answer to this a

50:58

week prior either. The answer is about

51:00

41 and a half million Americans

51:04

get a snap check.

51:06

When I told the room that, the room

51:08

gasped. I said, "So when you under when

51:11

you hear that the government was shut

51:13

down for six weeks,

51:17

that was three pay cycles."

51:21

Well, the average American doesn't have

51:23

two weeks of expenses set aside.

51:27

I I mean, I don't think everybody fully

51:29

grasps the problem right now. Four out

51:31

of 10 Americans can't get their hands on

51:33

$1,000 in case of emergency purposes. If

51:35

you actually dig into the Federal

51:37

Reserve data, it's 37% of Americans

51:40

can't get their hands on $400 in case of

51:43

emergency purposes. So, there's a whole

51:45

section of America that's truly

51:47

struggling. Like, but there's a whole

51:49

lot of America

51:51

that is still struggling. They're living

51:54

paycheck to paycheck, but their money is

51:56

being taken from them all the time

52:00

because they don't have a plan for it.

52:02

For that bottom 60% of Americans that my

52:06

research says wouldn't be able to save

52:08

$27 a day. Um, the data reveals a

52:10

discretionary income cliff. Once you

52:12

drop below the top 40% of earners, the

52:14

money available after bills vanishes

52:16

rapidly. The top 20% which earn I think

52:18

$96,000

52:20

per household are in a surplus. The

52:22

middle 20% um have a $15,000 surplus uh

52:25

which the $27 a day takes 66% from. But

52:29

the bottom 40% often have a roughly

52:32

$2,000 surplus. So it's impossible for

52:34

them to get to the $10,000 for that

52:36

bottom 40%.

52:39

What's what's the advice for them?

52:41

>> Start with something. Okay. It's like we

52:44

took this 50 and we said cut it in half

52:46

25.

52:47

I would say can you save a dollar a day?

52:51

I have actually talked about this idea

52:55

really simple. Could you save $10 a day

52:57

for 100 days? So like if you're

52:59

listening to me and you happen to really

53:00

be struggling right now, my question

53:02

would be could you save $10 a day for

53:04

100 days? Why? Because it would get you

53:06

to your first $1,000 and you now have

53:09

more than 50% of Americans who don't

53:11

have savings. And I can't tell you how

53:14

many people have come back after a

53:15

hundred days and said, "Okay, I did it.

53:17

It wasn't easy." For some people, saving

53:19

$10 a day could be really really hard.

53:23

But

53:24

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53:26

son who just came in here.

53:28

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53:32

right? It's built through daily action.

53:34

Daily eating well, going to the gym,

53:38

doing certain things on a regular basis.

53:41

Savings, the same thing.

53:44

There's a company called Acorns. I

53:46

invested Acorns back in 2015. Acorns

53:49

came up with an app that helps you roll

53:52

your change up. So, if I go to Starbucks

53:54

and I spend $9.50 on a coffee,

53:58

you can round it up where the 50 cents

54:01

to 10 bucks is put into investments.

54:04

Just rounding up your change.

54:07

And people have saved tens of thousands

54:10

of dollars over the last 10 years by

54:12

just rounding up their change.

54:15

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54:16

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54:17

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54:19

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54:21

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I had a friend of mine contact me and I

55:20

I spoke to one of the previous financial

55:21

adviserss and educators that I'd spoken

55:23

to on the show about him. He told me he

55:26

was in deep financial debt. Probably

55:28

earns about £50,000 or dollars a year,

55:31

but has got himself into real debt. And

55:32

I imagine a lot of my listeners are are

55:35

somewhat in debt, whether it's credit

55:36

card debts or loans or others. Do you

55:38

have any specific advice to people that

55:40

are currently straddled with debt?

55:42

>> Absolutely. Because it's one of the most

55:43

important things you need to know how to

55:44

get out of. Debt is like quicksand. Like

55:47

you know, you talked earlier about how

55:49

you were in debt and what that felt

55:50

like. When I came out of college and I

55:52

had $12,000 in credit card debt, it felt

55:54

like the greatest weight on my

55:56

shoulders. Like I was carrying like a 50

55:59

lb backpack. And how did I get out of

56:01

debt? How do you get out of debt? I will

56:03

give you the very simple formula to

56:05

getting out of debt. DolP. DolP stands

56:08

for done on last payment. If you said to

56:13

me, David, I've got five credit cards.

56:14

I'd say, "Okay, Stephen,

56:18

I'd take a piece of paper just like this

56:20

and I'd start listing your credit

56:22

cards." I'd go one, two, three, four,

56:26

five. And I'd list them all. Visa,

56:29

Mastercard,

56:30

and I'd list them. And then I want to

56:32

know, Steve, how much do you owe? So, I

56:35

put the dollar amount down. And what I

56:38

would do is I put the dollar amount down

56:40

on paper and I list it small

56:44

to large.

56:46

Then I want to know the interest rate.

56:50

Now, what people say is, "Oh, you should

56:52

take the highest interest rate and pay

56:54

it off first." But I wouldn't tell you

56:56

that, Stephen.

56:57

I'd tell you you take the smallest

56:59

credit card. I don't care what the

57:01

interest rate is.

57:02

>> The smallest amount.

57:03

>> Smallest amount. So maybe this card

57:05

right here is $500. And this card down

57:08

here is 3,000.

57:10

I'd have you make minimum payments on

57:13

every card

57:14

automatically. This is really important,

57:17

the automatic part. Have you go on I'd

57:19

literally go into your house. I'd open

57:20

up the I'd open up your iPad and I'd

57:22

have you make minimum payments online

57:25

automatically so that every card's paid

57:27

on time. Then I'd say, "Stephen, how

57:30

much extra money do you have?" Because I

57:31

want you to put it all towards the

57:32

smallest card. We're going to get that

57:34

small card paid off as fast as possible.

57:36

We're going to add all the extra money

57:38

to that small card. Minimum payments on

57:40

everything. Once that card's paid off,

57:43

we're going to go like this. You don't

57:45

have to close the account because we

57:46

don't want to lower your credit score,

57:47

but we're going to put that card over

57:48

here. never use it. Now, we're going to

57:50

go to the next next smallest card.

57:53

Some people call this the snowball

57:54

approach.

57:56

The reason I teach this system is it

57:59

reduces the amount of credit cards you

58:01

have as fast as possible.

58:04

And you see yourself make progress. It's

58:08

really important to see yourself make

58:10

progress when you're doing anything

58:11

financially.

58:13

Then I would attack the interest rates

58:15

because the interest rates aren't always

58:19

permanent. You can negotiate your rates

58:22

lower. You can move credit cards to

58:24

another card with a low interest rate.

58:27

Have to be very careful though when you

58:28

do that because they're waiting for you

58:29

to make a slip up and make a late

58:31

payment. And when they do, they'll jack

58:33

the credit card interest rates back up

58:34

again.

58:36

You can also call up your credit card

58:38

companies if you're really struggling

58:41

and tell them, "I'm struggling and I'd

58:43

like to know if you have a program in

58:45

place where I can stop the interest rate

58:48

and pay these cards off and more

58:51

accessible." Like this is basically what

58:52

the nonprofit credit card counseling

58:53

organizations do. But the credit card

58:55

companies often have programs too for

58:57

this. They'll tell you to stop using the

59:00

card. they'll actually make it so you

59:01

can't use the card anymore, but they'll

59:02

stop the interest rate. So, that

59:05

approach has helped so many people get

59:07

out of credit card debt.

59:10

Now, I just want to say something super

59:11

important because I've gone through

59:13

this.

59:15

When you go through the work of getting

59:17

out of credit card debt,

59:19

it's a huge victory.

59:23

Don't go out and celebrate

59:25

on the credit cards because I got myself

59:28

out of credit card debt in college,

59:30

junior year, and then I went out and

59:32

celebrated and got myself back into

59:33

credit card debt.

59:35

>> And people do this all the time. Usually

59:37

people get themselves in a hole at least

59:39

twice, sometimes three times.

59:42

Don't go back in a hole again. Uh I

59:44

didn't carry credit cards for 30 years.

59:46

I only carried a debit card and I had to

59:49

pay it off every month. Should these

59:52

people um who are in the bottom sort of

59:54

60% be thinking at all about how to make

59:57

more money, how to increase their

59:58

income?

60:00

>> Absolutely. And what are the like the

60:02

easiest ways to do that would that you'd

60:04

recommend just from your own experience

60:05

of you know being in the professional

60:07

world and

60:08

>> so my experience and I know that you

60:10

look you wrote this great book diary of

60:13

a CEO right anybody hasn't read your

60:15

book you have this great book what's the

60:16

best way to grow your income if you have

60:18

a job it's to be good at what you do

60:22

right you can have a job at minimum wage

60:26

let's pretend you work at McDonald's and

60:28

you have a job working minimum wage

60:30

McDonald's. The owner of McDonald's, the

60:33

guy who owns that franchise or the gal

60:35

that owns that franchise desperately

60:37

needs good employees. Who becomes a

60:40

manager that makes more money? The

60:42

person who works really well. Now, a lot

60:44

of people, I don't I don't know if I

60:46

want to work McDonald's. I'm just giving

60:47

it as an example. Anywhere you work, how

60:50

you grow your income is you are the best

60:54

at what you do. You show up early. You

60:57

have a game plan at work. You work late.

61:00

You do what you say you're going to do.

61:03

You don't wait to be told what to do,

61:05

right? Like I've been an entrepreneur

61:07

all my lifetime. The hardest thing about

61:09

being an entrepreneur is what?

61:12

>> Yeah.

61:12

>> Everything.

61:14

>> It's everything. And most people are

61:15

entrepreneurs go, "Well, it's, you know,

61:16

a lot of times it's hard to have good

61:18

people unless you're a good leader."

61:20

People are so thirsty to have jobs with

61:23

purpose and meaning. And most people are

61:26

actually looking for leadership.

61:28

So if you can be really good at what you

61:31

do, you will make more money. There's no

61:34

limit to wealth in the world, right?

61:35

Like we've never seen so much wealth

61:38

being created in our entire lives as

61:39

right now. If I were young, a lot of

61:41

people, well, you should learn AI.

61:44

Yeah, you know what? Probably you

61:45

definitely should learn how to use AI

61:46

because if you don't learn how to use

61:47

AI, you're going to have really limited

61:49

skills and go the and do certain jobs.

61:52

You know what else people are going to

61:53

go out and do? Learn how to be a

61:55

plumber. Learn how to be electrician.

61:58

Learn how to put up garage doors. I've

62:01

got friends. I got I was just recently

62:02

on a podcast with a guy who's made a

62:04

billion dollars putting in garage doors.

62:07

>> And he took me through his warehouse and

62:11

showed me their garage door models. And

62:14

I was like, you know, I've got a friend

62:15

who makes gyms that go in garages. I

62:17

just connected them. He's got a huge

62:18

business making gyms for garages.

62:23

There's just no limit to the amount of

62:25

opportunities out there. You have to

62:26

though get out of a stuck mind frame. I

62:28

mean, you had Tony Robbins here. If

62:29

there's anybody who can help you get out

62:31

of a stuck mind frame, it's that guy,

62:34

right? But you can't you can't have they

62:37

Zig Ziggler used to call it stinking

62:38

thinking. You have to have

62:42

the ability to look into the future and

62:45

believe that your future can be as

62:46

exciting today or better. I put up a

62:50

post yesterday. I said, um, I would

62:52

rather be an optimist and be wrong than

62:57

a pessimist and be right.

63:00

And you show me somebody who wants to

63:02

make more money, go into the world an

63:05

optimist and figure out how to go make

63:07

more money.

63:09

Do you think a lot of this is a mindset

63:11

at at at the core of it? Obviously there

63:13

are real socioeconomic factors and

63:15

there's people live in certain

63:16

situations and if I think back to you

63:18

know where I was born in Botswana

63:20

there's just less opportunity and

63:21

sometimes you have repressive

63:22

governments and other factors that will

63:24

objectively keep you stuck but all other

63:27

things being equal

63:30

how much of the game is mindset.

63:32

>> It always comes down to a decision and

63:34

we started by talking about my

63:36

grandmother. If my grandmother hadn't

63:38

made a decision at 30 that she didn't

63:40

want to be poor, she was tired of living

63:42

paycheck to paycheck. If she hadn't

63:45

decided that she would go out and teach

63:46

herself about money and take 50 cents of

63:48

her paycheck and 50 cents from my

63:50

grandfather's paycheck and start

63:52

investing,

63:54

I wouldn't be here today. She made a

63:56

decision that had a ripple effect

63:58

through our family. She built financial

64:01

security for herself with that one

64:02

decision.

64:04

She taught my father how to invest and

64:06

he was a financial adviser for over 45

64:08

years. My sister's a financial adviser.

64:11

I was a financial adviser. I spent the

64:13

last 30 years teaching people about

64:14

money. One woman's decision had this

64:17

ripple effect. So, one thing I say to

64:20

people who are listening, especially the

64:21

moms,

64:23

sometimes you got to make a decision

64:25

that's not just for you.

64:27

You're actually making a decision for

64:29

your family. and you can come up with a

64:31

list of reasons why this stuff won't

64:33

work. Somebody who's watching this show

64:35

or listening to us right now, they're

64:38

already interested in this. That's why

64:40

they're here. Now, they're here for a

64:43

couple reasons. Either A, they're

64:44

hurting financially and they know they

64:47

need to fix something. Great. Start

64:49

where you are. Fix what needs to be

64:52

fixed. Some people are like, you know, I

64:54

think I'm doing pretty well, but I'm not

64:55

sure if I'm doing everything well. you

64:57

know, I I've I've opened up my Roth IRA

65:00

or I've opened up my 401k plan. I'm

65:02

putting some money away, but I don't

65:04

know if I'm putting enough money away.

65:07

Then you can improve what you're doing.

65:09

Some people like, I'm renting. I think I

65:11

would like to buy a house someday. All

65:13

right, make that a goal. I teach three

65:14

buckets when it comes to money. Three

65:16

baskets. Pay yourself first for

65:18

retirement. We haven't even talked about

65:20

emergencies yet. Putting aside putting

65:22

aside money for emergency purposes. Have

65:24

to talk about that. You got to you got

65:26

to get more money put aside for

65:27

emergency purposes and then building a

65:29

dream account. You need to put money

65:30

away for your dreams. Those three

65:33

accounts should be automated.

65:35

>> And on that point of having three

65:36

accounts, you call it a future account,

65:38

an emergency account, and a dream

65:40

account. How much of your earnings

65:42

should you be putting into each of those

65:43

accounts on a monthly basis?

65:45

>> All right. So, keep it super simple. I

65:47

recommend one hour a day. Again, said

65:50

this earlier, it's 12 and a half% of

65:52

your gross income. When you say 1 hour a

65:53

day, you mean one hour of the the time

65:55

you work per day.

65:56

>> Yeah. So, whatever you make an hour.

65:58

>> Yeah.

65:58

>> It's if you're say if if you're working

66:00

a 40hour work week, 12 and a half% of

66:03

your gross income goes off the top into

66:06

a retirement account. Now, let me just

66:08

say something up for the yahutters.

66:10

They're like, I can't go from 0 to 12%.

66:12

There's no way. Then start at 1%.

66:15

If you're not saving right now and

66:17

you're listening to us and all you do

66:18

when you leave this podcast is make one

66:22

decision

66:23

and that decision is I'm going to save

66:25

1% of my income and you start that this

66:28

month your life will change. Your life

66:31

will change because you start the

66:33

process of making a difference. It's

66:34

just like the first day you go to the

66:36

gym. Now I will tell you if you save 1%

66:38

of your income you won't notice it. And

66:40

if you did that every month for a year,

66:43

at the end of the year, you would have

66:44

saved 12% and you will be saving four

66:46

times what the average American saves

66:48

and you will be in a rockstar shape.

66:51

Then the second hour, this is where

66:53

people's minds blow up. But the second

66:55

hour, so the first hour goes for the

66:57

future, the second hour goes for safety

66:59

and for dreams. So 30 minutes of your

67:02

income, roughly 5%

67:05

should go into an emergency account and

67:07

another 5% goes into a dream account.

67:10

Now, that dream account could be for

67:12

buying a house, could be saving money

67:14

for college, could be the vacation you

67:17

want to take at the end of the year,

67:18

could be getting married, could be the

67:20

engagement ring, but you're putting

67:23

money away for your dreams. Because when

67:25

you put money away for your dreams,

67:28

that's how they become real.

67:30

>> And you know, the book is called The

67:32

Automatic Millionaire. This is a book

67:34

that sold over two million copies

67:36

>> um on its own.

67:38

Why did you use the word automatic?

67:41

>> Unless your financial plan is automatic,

67:44

it will fail.

67:46

How do I know this? Because I spent nine

67:49

years as a financial adviser at Morgan

67:51

Stanley and I got to see firsthand.

67:53

Everyone who came into my office with an

67:55

ordinary income who built wealth, they

67:57

did it by saving automatically.

68:00

Every single time a client came into my

68:01

office and they said, "I'm going to

68:03

bring you a check every month myself." I

68:07

never had a client save for more than

68:08

six months. They stopped.

68:12

When it once you make the decision to

68:14

automate your financial life, it works

68:17

in the background.

68:19

Now, here's the thing. Everybody else is

68:21

already doing this to you.

68:24

You go sign, you go to go to a gym to go

68:26

work out. They don't ask you to bring

68:28

them money every month. They

68:29

automatically bill you. You get a phone

68:32

bill, they automatically bill you.

68:34

Today, in many cases, when you rent,

68:35

they automatically pull the money out of

68:37

your account. The banks automatically

68:39

take money from you for your mortgage.

68:41

When you pay taxes, they're all

68:43

automated. Everyone takes money from you

68:46

automatically. Everything that you sign

68:48

up for on your phone is a subscription

68:50

service. Netflix, go through your credit

68:54

card today. Open up your phone, look at

68:56

all your subscriptions. All those

68:58

businesses are taking money from you

68:59

automatically. Why? That's the only way

69:02

they can be in business. They know if

69:05

they don't get money from you

69:06

automatically, you won't keep using

69:08

them. Most people who start off with a

69:11

free subscription, it'll take them three

69:14

to six months to turn off something that

69:18

they don't use.

69:21

I'm here getting people to automate

69:22

their financial life for themselves.

69:26

Is there simple ways, apps, tools,

69:28

websites we can use to go through all of

69:31

our subscriptions and turn them all off?

69:34

>> Yes, there are. So, let me tell you the

69:36

easiest way. This is really actually

69:39

free publicity for Apple, okay? Because

69:42

so many people have Apple phones. Number

69:45

one, only do your subscriptions inside

69:48

of Apple. In an ideal world, don't pay

69:51

anybody directly. Do it all through

69:52

Apple.

69:53

>> Why? Because if you go to the bottom of

69:56

your phone and you don't know how to do

69:57

this and you put subscriptions,

69:59

up will pop everything that you've

70:01

signed up for and you can go click click

70:03

click and turn them all off.

70:05

>> Do that.

70:05

>> Another thing I will tell you is that

70:07

when you sign up for anything, let's say

70:10

it's a one year because everything now

70:11

is a one-year trial subscription or a

70:14

one month trial subscription.

70:16

The moment you sign up for it, shut it

70:18

off. Because what happens is if you sign

70:20

up for anything and think of any

70:22

subscription you can imagine. Companies

70:24

hate me for this. The moment you shut it

70:26

off, when the time comes for it to

70:29

renew, they will offer you a better deal

70:31

to renew.

70:32

>> Okay, so I've opened up my phone. I've

70:34

gone to the settings. I've clicked on my

70:36

name in the settings and then I've

70:38

clicked on the button subscriptions.

70:40

I have one, two, three, four, five, six,

70:44

seven, eight, nine, 10, 11 of which

70:50

three of them

70:52

I would keep.

70:54

So, all these other ones have just been

70:56

running in the background and and it's

70:58

because I used an app one time and it

71:00

signed me up to some kind of free trial

71:02

and I just totally forgot to cancel it.

71:04

So, I've got Oh my god, some of them are

71:06

massive.

71:06

>> Okay. So, so as you do this, what you're

71:09

doing right now is a real life example.

71:13

So, if someone's listening to us,

71:15

watching this, they're married, they've

71:17

got kids, or they're single by

71:19

themselves,

71:20

this one exercise, my guess is there are

71:24

many, many people listening that could

71:25

find $50, $100, $200 a month that they

71:28

could shut off and redirect that money

71:30

to saving and investing and that could

71:33

change their life. Are there other apps

71:35

you can use and go to to figure out how

71:38

to cancel or leave your subscription?

71:39

>> So there there are and most these apps

71:41

you have to pay for, right? So like you

71:43

can go to So then you're right back into

71:45

paying for an app now. Probably the two

71:46

popular most popular apps are Monarch

71:50

and Ynab. You can also do this with your

71:53

credit cards. Um the credit card comes

71:55

doing a better job of showing it on your

71:57

statements. And again, I go back to the

72:00

Apple example because Apple makes it the

72:02

easiest to shut these off.

72:04

>> Maybe some of you will be spending $100

72:06

a month. So, I did $100 a month. And it

72:08

says if you invest if you sort of cancel

72:10

those subscriptions and invest $100 per

72:13

month for 40 years, an annual rate of

72:15

return of about 10%, which is roughly

72:17

what you get if you just put it into

72:19

some of the big tech index funds at the

72:21

moment. The total money you'll have in

72:23

40 years is $632,000,

72:28

which is staggeringly life-changing

72:30

amount of money.

72:31

>> It's staggering. And let me just give

72:33

some very specific investment for people

72:36

to consider, right? And they still need

72:37

to do their own due diligence and read

72:39

perspectuses. And yes, there's risk

72:41

involved in the stock market. But the

72:42

first one I would talk about and look

72:44

at, and these are all listed in my book

72:46

because I just want to give because

72:47

people like, what's an index fund? What

72:48

do I buy? Look at the Vanguard Total

72:51

Stock Market Fund. The symbol is VTI.

72:55

Okay, this this is actually the largest

72:57

index fund in the world. There's

72:59

trillions of dollars now in this fund. I

73:01

talk about it in the book. I looked up

73:03

the annual uh the annual returns of VTI

73:05

the last 10 years have been 14%.

73:08

14% annually. This fund has 3500

73:12

stocks. You you know all the biggest US

73:15

stocks. So you don't have to figure out

73:17

what stock to buy. You buy this fund,

73:19

you buy an exchange traded mutual fund,

73:21

you have access to 3,500 great American

73:25

companies. I'll give you another stock

73:28

index fund. I love

73:30

>> and everybody can buy this on their

73:31

phone right now probably

73:33

>> literally. You can go to Vanguard,

73:34

Schwab, Fidelity. This funds, this is an

73:37

ETF, so it's available everywhere. It's

73:39

a stock. And if you want to figure out

73:41

how to do this and you're listening

73:42

right now, what I'd do is use ChatV or

73:44

Gemini and put in the stock the the fund

73:47

that um has been said and ask it how do

73:51

I invest in this in the country that I'm

73:52

in? What app do I need to use? What

73:53

website do I need to use? Again, this is

73:55

not investment advice. Well, I guess it

73:57

kind of sounds like it is, but

73:58

>> Well, and but it's also like so like if

74:00

someone says, "Okay, but I'm not I'm in

74:02

um wherever I am. I'm in the UK. What's

74:04

an index fund in the UK that covers the

74:07

UK?" I'll give you the global version of

74:10

VTI. So, because I own these funds, so I

74:13

So, the global version of VTI is a

74:16

symbol which is all I'm going to give

74:17

you another Vanguard fund.

74:18

>> When you say you own these funds, for

74:19

clarity, you mean you've invested in

74:20

them?

74:20

>> Yeah, I've got money in these mutual

74:22

funds. So, this other fund because I

74:24

have I want money my my personal money

74:26

that's in the stock market. I am

74:28

one-third global investments and I'm

74:30

twothirds US investments.

74:33

So, I have a lot of global index funds.

74:35

This global index fund the symbol is Va.

74:39

Okay. So this is the Vanguard global

74:42

index fund without US stock. Symbol

74:44

again is VA.

74:47

That fund last year and it won't always

74:49

be like this because global investments

74:51

have underperformed the US for a long

74:53

period of time. That fund last year was

74:55

up 35%.

74:57

Last year, global investments

74:59

significantly outperformed the US

75:01

investments and the US investment market

75:03

was up on average of 17%. So the US

75:06

markets were up 17% or higher and global

75:09

investments were up 30% or higher. Now

75:11

there will be a point in time, Stephen,

75:13

without a shadow of a doubt that we will

75:15

see a market pullback. And when that day

75:18

comes, you have to stay the course and

75:20

keep investing automatically monthly.

75:23

And then I'm going to give you a tech

75:24

fund because everybody wants to know

75:26

what should I invest in that is, you

75:29

know, should I invest in an AI tech

75:31

fund? And my answer would be is you

75:34

don't need an AI tech fund. You need the

75:37

best tech fund that's existed in my

75:39

lifetime. And that's the NASDAQ 100 ETF.

75:44

The symbol for that is QQQ.

75:48

So go and look up, you know, go into

75:50

whatever you're using and go look up

75:52

QQQ, read about the top 100 stocks in

75:55

the NASDAQ and the returns for QQQ. I

75:58

mean, actually, in the top of my mind

75:59

right now, I can I think it's over 20%.

76:03

Um, but look up what has the QQQ total

76:06

return been for the last 10 years.

76:09

I can tell you since I put money in QQQ,

76:11

it's gone up tenfold. Now, the market's

76:15

been unbelievable and there will be

76:17

pullbacks. And that is also why I should

76:20

say this, Stephen, because we haven't

76:21

even addressed this. I don't run around

76:23

telling people to put all their money in

76:24

the stock market. I also don't think

76:26

that young people should be putting all

76:28

their money in the stock market. I think

76:30

one of the greatest myths out there is

76:33

that when you're young, you should take

76:34

a lot of risk. Let me say that one more

76:37

time because it's super important. So,

76:38

make sure it sits.

76:41

Everyone says when you're young, you

76:44

should take risk.

76:47

The problem with that advice is that

76:49

today people in their 20s and their 30s

76:51

are taking a lot of risk. They're not

76:54

just putting money in index funds.

76:56

They're putting money in meme coins.

76:58

They're putting money in meme stocks.

77:01

They're putting money in NFTTS.

77:04

They're on social media and Tik Tok

77:06

watching people day trade. They're

77:08

trying to get into options. What they're

77:10

really trying to do is get rich quick.

77:12

All I can tell you is the older guy in

77:14

the room here, people who try to get

77:17

rich quick stay broke forever. And the

77:20

problem with taking too much risk with

77:22

your money when you're young is if you

77:23

keep if you do everything right, like

77:25

let's just say you're the you shut off

77:27

all your subscriptions and you're saving

77:29

$200 a month, but you put that $200 a

77:32

month into a junk investment and you

77:35

turn around in 10 years and you have

77:36

nothing to show for it, you'll stop

77:39

investing.

77:41

>> Looking at the QQQ data, so this is the

77:43

NASDAQ 100. So this invests in the top

77:46

100 companies in America. in the NASDAQ

77:49

stock exchange.

77:50

>> The returns over the last 10 years from

77:53

2016 to 2026, the annualized returns

77:55

have been roughly 19%.

77:58

The total return over that period has

78:00

been roughly 480%.

78:03

So, a $10,000 investment 10 years ago

78:06

would now be worth approximately $60,000

78:09

today if you'd done nothing.

78:10

>> Then nothing

78:11

>> ever added to it. Over the last 20

78:13

years, the annualized returns, the

78:15

return every year has been 15% with a

78:18

total return over that period of 1,500%.

78:22

And again, so if you've added $10,000 to

78:24

it 20 years ago and done nothing, you

78:26

would have roughly $170,000

78:29

today.

78:31

>> So here's the beauty of what you just

78:32

did. You checked my my you checked my

78:36

advice. You looked at the data and now

78:39

you know what has been done in the past,

78:41

right? Let me give you a super boring

78:44

fund. I'm not sponsored by Vanguard. I'm

78:46

just giving generic vanilla stuff here.

78:48

Look up the Vanguard balanced fund. So,

78:52

right, Vanguard Balanced Fund. And the

78:55

Vanguard Balance Fund is 60% stocks and

78:58

40% bonds. That by the way is the most

79:02

typical asset allocation. The difference

79:04

between stocks and bonds in the world.

79:08

The average retiree has a portfolio

79:10

that's about 60% stock and 40% bonds.

79:13

You look up the Valangard balance fund

79:15

and what you're going to find is that

79:16

fund has averaged over 8% annually since

79:19

inception.

79:21

It is as boring an investment as they

79:24

come. So if someone says, "Well, I don't

79:26

want to be 100% stocks. I just want to

79:28

be I want to be more conservative, but I

79:30

want some stock exposure. The Vanguard

79:32

balance fund is a great example.

79:35

I list all these funds in the automatic

79:38

millionaire. One of the kind of funds I

79:40

talk about the most is what's called a

79:42

targetdated mutual fund. I don't know if

79:45

you guys have you guys have a 401k plan.

79:47

>> We have something similar.

79:48

>> Okay. So in the US if if you have a 401k

79:51

plan what you're going to find when you

79:52

open up your 401k plan is you have what

79:54

are called targetdated mutual funds.

79:57

This is a onestop mutual fund solution

80:02

to your investing all the way until you

80:05

retire and it will be divided among

80:08

stocks and bonds and it will be what's

80:10

called rebalanced automatically as you

80:13

get closer to retirement. So, it'll go

80:14

from being more stocks when you're

80:16

young, less stocks as you get older.

80:19

There are trillions of dollars now in

80:21

these target date mutual funds. When I

80:22

wrote the automatic miller 20 years ago,

80:24

was just getting started. This automatic

80:27

solution to investing has changed the

80:29

game of investing for millions of

80:31

Americans. That's why there's 24 million

80:33

millionaires and that's why there's now

80:34

$45 trillion in retirement accounts.

80:38

>> We have a brain budget. The way to think

80:41

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Over the years, people have reached out

81:34

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81:35

challenge I've always faced is that my

81:37

calendar doesn't permit me to help every

81:39

single person that reaches out. So when

81:41

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81:43

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82:33

The other book that you wrote which sold

82:36

incredibly incredibly well is this book

82:38

about smart couples finish rich. That's

82:40

the title. Smart couples finish rich.

82:42

Nine steps to creating a rich future for

82:44

you and your partner.

82:45

>> As it relates to how rich or wealthy you

82:47

become, the person you choose and the

82:49

way that you configure that

82:50

relationship. How consequential is that?

82:54

>> It's everything

82:55

>> really.

82:56

>> It can be everything. Why?

82:58

>> You're married. I'm married.

82:59

>> Yeah.

83:00

>> So, why can it be everything?

83:03

>> Because here's what here's what happens

83:05

in the real world, Stephen.

83:07

>> Often we marry our financial opposite.

83:11

So, I always joke like I used to do a

83:13

lot of seminars for couples and I'd say

83:15

there's two types of people that are

83:16

born in the world. One person comes out

83:19

literally with a calculator and they're

83:20

born to track where all the money goes

83:22

and they love to budget and they're

83:24

super excited about investing. That's

83:26

one kind of person. The other kind of

83:29

person loves to shop, loves to spend

83:32

money. Almost inevitably those two

83:35

people hook up. Now, sometimes two

83:38

people who like to spend money marry.

83:40

That's a disaster because they end up

83:43

broke. So now, what do you do about the

83:45

couple that's got their financial

83:47

opposites?

83:48

That's what led to smart couples finish.

83:50

Because

83:53

if you are married to your financial

83:55

opposite, you will fight about money all

83:58

the time. And fights about money are

84:02

what lead to divorce. They're the number

84:05

one cause of divorce. The real key and

84:08

what I've been teaching now for over two

84:10

decades is the way you get couples on

84:12

the same page when it comes to money is

84:14

you start with your values. So you look

84:17

at what do you really value most

84:19

together as a couple.

84:20

You put the money aside for a second.

84:23

You go through your values. What's most

84:25

important to you. What do you really

84:27

care about? You talk about your values.

84:30

And then you build a financial plan

84:32

around what's really most important to

84:34

you.

84:35

>> You say that there's six worst money

84:37

mistakes that couples make. And the

84:39

first of those is not deciding who is

84:41

responsible for what.

84:42

>> Yeah.

84:44

So often in a relationship, one person

84:47

pays the bills.

84:50

Okay,

84:51

who's managing the money? Now, I used to

84:55

say in every household there should be

84:56

at least one person that's paying the

84:58

bills and if the other person is

84:59

managing the money, meaning that they're

85:00

in charge of investments, that you still

85:03

get together and go through it. As I've

85:06

gotten older, I've really realized how

85:08

important this is because I go back to

85:10

the fact that the average age is 59.

85:12

Average age of widowhood is 59. I'm 59

85:15

now. I've had three best friends already

85:18

pass away, all men, and they passed away

85:22

before they were 57. So, all these

85:24

statistics that I talk about, I'm seeing

85:26

them come true. And I will tell

85:29

especially to the women, hear me loud,

85:31

hear me on this loud and clear, but this

85:33

is important for the men, too.

85:37

The question you need, this is hard to

85:38

hear. The question you have to ask

85:40

yourself

85:42

is if your partner died today,

85:45

what would you need to know about the

85:47

finances?

85:49

And the answer is everything. Now, what

85:51

does that mean? Everything. That means

85:52

you would need to know where is the

85:54

money.

85:55

Does he have money in an old 401k plan?

85:57

Does he have money in IRA account? Does

85:59

he have money in a bank account?

86:01

Where are the passwords to get into the

86:03

accounts? Where's the will? You know,

86:07

six out of 10 people listening to us

86:08

today don't have a will. You have to

86:11

have a will

86:12

>> at any age.

86:13

>> At any age. If you, especially if you're

86:15

in a relationship, you have to have a

86:16

will. If you have kids, you have to have

86:18

a will. Is there life insurance? You

86:21

know, so many people today who have

86:23

children don't have life insurance and

86:24

they don't have assets. You should at

86:26

least get a million to$2 million term

86:28

policy. Super inexpensive. Protect your

86:31

family. You have to run the drill,

86:35

right? Like we got on a plane, we flew

86:37

here today. The first thing they do on a

86:38

plane before you take off is they talk

86:40

to you about what to do in case of

86:41

emergency purposes. The mask's going to

86:43

come down. You're going to put it on

86:44

your face. Okay. You get on a cruise

86:46

boat. The first thing they do is talk

86:47

about what you're going to do if the

86:48

cruise boat's got a problem. You're

86:49

going to go get in these emergency

86:50

boats. You need to run the fire drill

86:54

for your family on finances. I almost

86:57

died like it's now been four years ago.

86:59

I uh my wife found me face down, passed

87:02

out. I was brought to the hospital in

87:05

Florence. Um I was in a coma for four

87:08

days. I was in the hospital for 17. I

87:12

had menitis. When I came out of just

87:16

like a movie, I'm laying down. I mean,

87:18

I'm laying down in the hospital.

87:20

Doctor's looking over me. Doctor says,

87:22

"Do you know what your name is?" I said,

87:25

"It's David." He said, "Very good." He

87:27

goes, "Your last name is?" I said, "It's

87:29

Boach." He says, "Do you know where you

87:31

are?" I go, "Yeah, I'm in Milan. I just

87:33

had an ankle surgery." Because I had had

87:35

an ankle surgery two weeks prior, two

87:38

two weeks before that. And he says, "No,

87:40

no, you're you're in Santa Maria Nolla.

87:42

You're in the ICU. Uh we're treating you

87:45

right now for menitis, but now that

87:47

you've opened up your eyes, you're going

87:48

to be you're going to be okay. You're

87:50

safe now." And then they brought my wife

87:52

in. They said, "Do you know what her

87:54

name is?" I and I made a joke. I said,

87:57

"It's Rebecca." She was like, "Who?" I

88:00

go, "Honey, I can still be a smartass in

88:01

the hospital. It's Alatia." And she

88:04

starts screaming and yelling and she's

88:05

like, "Oh my god, oh my god, he's okay."

88:07

But Stephen, the truth was I wasn't okay

88:09

because when you get men and judges, you

88:11

get brain swelling. So I couldn't

88:13

remember things. I couldn't remember my

88:15

passwords to the to the bank account. I

88:18

didn't know the passwords to my phone

88:19

number anymore, to my phone.

88:22

One of the things I did when I came out

88:23

of the hospital, because I always manage

88:26

the money, is I said to my wife, "We're

88:29

going to hire a financial advisor

88:31

and you have to be involved in what's

88:33

going on." We actually had yesterday our

88:36

annual account review. Because I tell

88:38

couples, you got to have an annual

88:39

account review either together and if

88:41

you have a financial adviser at a

88:42

minimum with your financial adviser. And

88:45

I didn't want to cancel the appointment

88:47

because I was, even though you guys

88:48

invited me to come here, I'm like, I'm

88:50

keeping the appointment. We'll fly here

88:51

to flute this morning. And so again,

88:55

having worked at, you know, Morgan

88:56

Stanley for nine years and been a

88:58

financial adviser, I've seen too many

88:59

couples not do this,

89:02

including sadly Stephen, my dad just

89:05

recently passed away. And my dad was in

89:08

the money management business his whole

89:10

life. So he managed the money and my mom

89:14

was not involved. And when my dad passed

89:17

away, we had to just like my book, step

89:20

in and help my mom with everything. Now,

89:23

she's lucky. She's got two kids in the

89:25

business, but she didn't. My mom was

89:27

just a ripe waiting example of somebody

89:31

who could be taken advantage of. So, the

89:33

time to learn about money is before

89:34

there's a problem. If you took smart

89:37

couples finish honestly Stephen that you

89:39

it's it's designed to be a a roadmap for

89:43

two people together where you can sit

89:45

down and go through this book chapter by

89:47

chapter together starting with just

89:50

organizing your financial information

89:51

putting everything into file folders

89:53

starts the conversation and then talking

89:56

about your values then talking about

89:58

your dreams then going into well what

90:01

what do you want to share you know you

90:03

have a very comp I don't know all your

90:06

stuff, but I've followed you for years.

90:08

As I told you, I'm a fan of yours. I've

90:09

got your book. I've watched your

90:11

podcast. I've listened to you now for

90:12

years. As your business is expanding,

90:15

your life is getting more complicated.

90:18

God forbid something happens to you

90:20

tomorrow.

90:21

>> Yeah. It'd be a [ __ ] nightmare.

90:22

>> And she's your fiance.

90:24

>> Yeah.

90:24

>> She wouldn't even know where to start.

90:27

>> And I don't know if she would know who

90:29

to call.

90:31

So, it's a worthwhile conversation. like

90:34

I just had this guy in the show and I

90:35

don't know maybe maybe we really need to

90:37

like need to involve you a little bit.

90:39

>> I was just looking at some of the data

90:40

here and it says that in terms of income

90:43

ignorance according to a 2021 study by

90:45

Fidelity Investments nearly 40% of

90:48

couples could not even identify how much

90:50

their partner earned. It says in terms

90:53

of financial infidelity, surveys from

90:56

bank rate and creditcards.com

90:57

consistently find that up to 40% of

91:00

adults share that they have kept

91:02

financial secrets which is hiding cash,

91:04

hiding bank statements and hiding debts

91:07

that they have from their romantic

91:08

partner. So that's almost half and you

91:11

pointed at this earlier on which is the

91:12

CFO dynamic. In many households, one

91:15

spouse acts as the chief financial

91:17

officer. And research indicates that

91:18

roughly 50% of couples um have a

91:21

non-managing spouse who has little to no

91:23

idea how much money the family have

91:26

total. They don't know where it is and

91:28

they don't know the passwords.

91:30

>> It can sound scary. It can sound

91:32

intimidating. And yet, I can tell you

91:34

every day, people who actually kind of

91:36

do this basic stuff that we've talked

91:37

about, once you start to do it, you feel

91:39

a lot better. You feel better instantly.

91:41

You don't you don't have to go from

91:44

having no savings to having a million

91:45

dollars to feel better. If you just

91:47

start automatically saving some money,

91:49

paying yourself first. The moment you

91:52

make that decision, you'll feel better.

91:55

You go and you turn off some

91:56

subscription fees like you just looked

91:57

at. The moment you do that, you'll feel

91:59

better. It's literally like a financial

92:02

muscle. You start to build this

92:04

financial muscle when you start to take

92:06

action. It is action that changes your

92:09

life. I always say I wrote all these

92:11

books. If a person buys a book, reads it

92:13

and doesn't do anything, then I was a

92:16

form of entertainment.

92:18

If you listen to a podcast on money and

92:20

you don't do something, then we were

92:23

again a form of entertainment.

92:25

My purpose for doing this podcast today,

92:27

why I got on a plane and flew out here

92:28

immediately to do this with you was I

92:31

want to try to change somebody's life

92:33

today. I've always taken the approach of

92:35

like I want to change a person's life

92:36

one person at a time. And sometimes the

92:40

things I share are hard to hear, but I

92:42

also know they wake people up. You had

92:44

this great great quote in this book. I

92:46

was showing this today to my son.

92:49

I'm holding, for those of you who can't

92:51

see me, I'm holding Steven's book, A

92:52

Diary of the CEO, which has also sold

92:54

millions of copies. And this is your

92:56

quote on page 233. I wonder if you

92:59

remember your quotes because sometimes

93:00

you forget them, right?

93:02

If you want long-term success in

93:05

business, relationships, and life, you

93:08

have to get better at accepting

93:10

uncomfortable truths as fast as

93:13

possible.

93:15

When you refuse to accept an

93:17

uncomfortable truth, you are choosing to

93:20

accept an uncomfortable future.

93:23

The one thing that wasn't in this quote

93:25

was money.

93:27

And everything we're talking about is

93:28

I'm like, you're gonna work 90,000 hours

93:30

over your lifetime. If you don't pay

93:32

yourself first and you have nothing to

93:33

show for it, the uncomfortable truth is

93:35

you will be broke. We haven't talked

93:37

about um global issues and government

93:40

issues and debt.

93:43

Why do you have to take care of yourself

93:45

financially right now more than ever

93:46

before?

93:48

Because the future is about to radically

93:51

change. And I will talk out of both

93:53

sides of my mouth for a second. Number

93:55

one, I believe the next 10 years, hands

93:58

down, will be the greatest opportunity

93:59

to build wealth in our lifetime. AI is

94:02

create going to create so much wealth

94:05

that we've never seen anything like it.

94:08

Like when you look at the returns in the

94:09

stock market from last year, they're a

94:11

result of AI. What's happening is AI is

94:13

making companies more profitable and

94:16

more productive than they've ever been.

94:18

The downside is people are losing their

94:21

jobs, right? You've had people on the

94:23

show including Tony Robbins talking

94:25

about this and there are going to be a

94:26

lot more of those job losses. So some

94:29

people are going to get much wealthier

94:31

and then a whole lot of other people are

94:33

going to have a challenge. But there's

94:35

another problem that we we're not

94:37

talking enough about and that is the

94:40

safety nets of governments.

94:44

All these safety nets that were created

94:46

in the US, Social Security,

94:49

Medicare, Medicaid,

94:52

unemployment, you can go to through

94:54

every single country.

94:56

All of these things are called

94:58

entitlement programs, which is a fancy

95:01

word for saying the government made a

95:04

promise to you.

95:06

And a whole lot of people are dependent

95:09

on that promise and there's not enough

95:12

money to pay for those promises. So like

95:15

in the US, you take social security. The

95:18

average social security check right now

95:19

is $1,900.

95:21

Not a lot of money, but about 60 million

95:24

Americans

95:26

depend on that amount of money.

95:30

In the US, Social Security, this is

95:32

government data, not me. you can do all

95:35

this stuff online.

95:37

The government is telling us that in

95:39

2033, that's around the corner, the

95:43

Social Security is going to be

95:44

underfunded and they're going to have to

95:45

cut the benefits. Now, what they're

95:47

talking about is cutting the benefits by

95:48

20%. You have a lot of Americans that

95:51

that's going to be a real problem for

95:53

every country's got this issue because

95:56

people are living longer. Governments

95:58

have more debt than they've ever had. I

96:00

am here to tell you,

96:03

it's a cliche term, but no one's coming

96:05

to save you. It's you're gonna have to

96:07

save yourself and you're gonna have to

96:10

take your personal financial well-being

96:13

more seriously now than ever before. And

96:16

if you do, you will be in great shape.

96:19

If you don't, you will be dependent on a

96:22

system that is buckling.

96:25

One of the things in your I think it's

96:27

the sixth point of the six things that

96:29

couples get wrong is waiting too long to

96:31

pay off the mortgage. What do you mean

96:33

by that? I actually had a friend contact

96:34

me um and asked this. They said,

96:36

"Stephen, I've got some cash that that's

96:39

been given to me." I think through an

96:40

inheritance. Should I pay off my

96:42

mortgage or should I go invest in the

96:45

stock market in the S&P 500 or something

96:47

else?

96:47

>> Yeah.

96:48

>> And I didn't know what to say because

96:49

I'm not a financial adviser.

96:50

>> So, if you called me up and you said,

96:52

"David, what what should I do?" I'd go,

96:53

"Stephen, what's the rate on your

96:54

mortgage?" Then you'd say, "Well, David,

96:57

I got a mortgage 5 years ago and it's 2

96:59

and a half%." And I'd say, "Okay, well

97:00

that's a really low rate, Stephen. You

97:02

know what? You can put the money in a

97:04

money market account right now and make

97:05

more than that. So maybe you don't need

97:07

to rush to pay it off as fast as

97:09

possible." But if you've got a mortgage

97:11

at six or seven or eight%, it's a

97:14

no-brainer. The biggest thing I can tell

97:16

you about paying down your mortgage

97:17

early is actually really simple. Here's

97:21

ways to do it. If you make one extra

97:23

payment a year on a mortgage, you'll

97:25

take a 30-year mortgage and you'll pay

97:27

it off, depends on the rate, five, six,

97:30

seven years sooner.

97:32

So, you can go online, you can run a

97:34

calculator. Today, you don't even need

97:35

calculator. You just run the question.

97:36

You put in your mortgage. You tell

97:38

Gemini, here's the size of my mortgage.

97:40

Here's my mortgage payment. If I make an

97:43

extra payment a year, how many how many

97:44

years faster will I pay it off? And how

97:47

much will I save? And you'll see the

97:49

number. When people see the number in

97:52

black and white, they go, "I've got to

97:54

do that." Now, here's the key. Make that

97:57

payment automatic.

97:59

The easiest way you make your payment

98:01

automatic is either make one extra

98:03

payment at the end of the year or take

98:06

your mortgage payment and increase it by

98:08

10%. So, if your mortgage payment is

98:10

$1,000, make an $1,100 a month mortgage

98:13

payment and tell the bank you want to

98:15

add that to the principal. When people

98:18

do that, they need to make sure though

98:20

that money is actually paying down the

98:21

principal. And another way to do that is

98:23

a bi-weekly mortgage payment plan where

98:25

you take your mortgage, you split in

98:27

half, you pay half every two weeks.

98:28

That'll also pay your mortgage off

98:30

early.

98:31

>> Prenuptual agreements. I'm engaged.

98:32

>> Yep.

98:34

>> Should I be getting a prenup?

98:36

>> So, I would tell anyone who's getting

98:40

married,

98:42

number one, if your incomes are not the

98:44

same, you should get a prenup. Number

98:46

two, if you both have good incomes, you

98:47

should get a prenup. Number three, if

98:49

you're in your 30s, you should get a

98:51

prenup. You would never go into a

98:53

business without a contract.

98:56

Marriage is the ultimate contract. It

98:59

just is. Now, is it romantic to do a

99:01

prenuptual agreement? No. Does one

99:04

person in the relationship typically not

99:06

like the doing a prenup? Yes. I know a

99:10

lot of women today who want prenups and

99:12

the husbands don't want them. It's

99:13

whoever's making the money. But I will

99:15

say this about prenups. You need a

99:18

lawyer. She needs a lawyer. You cannot

99:20

go and do a prenup right before you get

99:22

married. When people do that, those

99:24

prenups get thrown out the window

99:26

because they will claim and say and have

99:29

an argument for, I was under

99:34

extremely undue influence to sign this

99:37

agreement before the wedding. And those

99:41

agreements get thrown out even if

99:43

there's disclaimer language. And both of

99:45

you need attorneys.

99:48

And prenuptual agreements can often be

99:50

like a negotiation. And you can learn a

99:52

lot about your partner that it's not

99:54

always pretty. I'm not saying you, but

99:55

one can learn a lot about their partner

99:57

that's not always pretty when you do a

99:58

prenuptual agreement. And once the

100:01

prenuptual agreement is done, if it's a

100:02

reasonable prenuptual agreement, it goes

100:04

in a file. It doesn't get looked at

100:06

again. And it won't matter unless the

100:09

day comes that you need to pull it out.

100:11

And that's for a firsttime marriage.

100:14

Okay, you're a second time marriage or a

100:16

third time marriage and you've got kids

100:19

and custody issues and and and support

100:23

for your first wife. You definitely need

100:26

a prenup.

100:27

>> What is the most important thing we

100:28

should have talked about that we didn't

100:29

talk about?

100:31

>> Stephen, we've talked a lot about money

100:32

today, but money is just a tool. So,

100:36

what we actually haven't got to talk a

100:37

lot about is using money just to free

100:40

yourself to live your best life. And you

100:43

don't have to have money to live your

100:44

best life. Again, money is just a tool.

100:48

So, what's most important in life? I'm

100:50

going to say things that people know.

100:52

Health. You I started following you

100:54

because of all the shows you did on

100:56

health.

100:57

Love.

100:59

People hold on to love way too much.

101:03

Gratitude.

101:05

Being consistently grateful for the life

101:07

you have. Friendship.

101:12

loving your friends fully

101:14

and the la last thing is fun. You know,

101:18

I think people go through life and at

101:20

some point they stop designing their

101:22

life. My grandmother used to say, you

101:26

got to dream it, design it, and do it.

101:32

And she's like, you're going to run out

101:34

of time. So what I would say to anybody

101:36

is like this is you've got this one

101:40

beautiful moment in time where you're

101:42

here.

101:45

What do you want?

101:48

And start working on that today.

101:51

>> You listen to the episode with Tony

101:53

Robbins.

101:53

>> Yeah.

101:55

>> You've referenced him several times in

101:57

this conversation. If someone were to

101:59

ask me who was the greatest mentor and

102:01

the greatest influence in my life

102:02

besides my grandmother and my father,

102:04

it's Tony Robbins. So I went to Tony

102:07

Robbins seminars in the early 90s back

102:09

in the day when he had an infomercial

102:10

with audio cassettes.

102:12

And I went to a program that he taught

102:14

in Hawaii. He had this big hotel called

102:17

the Yaloa. And he did it he did an

102:20

exercise. This is so I it's like I

102:23

remember like this yesterday. He said to

102:25

this the room we were in and there were

102:27

I don't know a thousand of us in this

102:29

room. He said, "How many of you have a

102:32

dream that you're not working on?" And

102:35

we all we all had dreams like and so he

102:37

got us into a peak state and he had us

102:39

work on our dreams. And then he asked

102:42

the question, "How many of you think

102:44

you're going to be alive in 10 years?"

102:47

Everyone's like, "Yeah, I'm going be

102:48

alive in 10 years." He's like, "Great.

102:50

So I got a question for you.

102:52

Are you going to be alive in 10 years

102:55

having worked on your dream?

102:58

Hopefully gotten it right, done all the

103:00

things I've taught you to do, you know,

103:03

modeled the masters, got yourself in

103:04

peak state, learned the pattern

103:06

recognition.

103:09

Have you gotten 10 years older having

103:11

gone through your dreams and maybe got

103:13

it? Or did you just get 10 years over 10

103:16

years older and you let your dream die?

103:22

you let your dream die and the room he

103:24

just let that sit and then he had us go

103:28

off in groups of 10 and share our

103:31

individual dream. So we'd all written it

103:33

down on paper. So I shared that my dream

103:37

and this young kid financial adviser I'm

103:40

a guy. I shared my dream was to write a

103:43

book called Smart Women Finish Rich and

103:45

teach a million women to be smart with

103:47

money so they could protect themselves,

103:50

teach their kids, and help their family.

103:53

My heart's pounding, Stephen. I'm

103:55

sharing this idea with 10 strangers. And

103:57

then we go back into the room and he's

103:59

like, "How'd that go? Are you guys all

104:00

ready?" Gets us back in a peak state. 10

104:02

minutes later, a woman comes, taps me on

104:04

the shoulder, and she says, "I just

104:05

heard about your dream. My name's Vicki.

104:08

I've worked on Tony's last two books. If

104:11

you want to do your book, you're gonna

104:13

need a book proposal. You've done books,

104:15

you know this. She's like, I can help

104:16

you write a book proposal. I hired her.

104:19

I started working on that book proposal.

104:21

Later, I would go after the same agent

104:24

that Tony has, Jan Miller. She'd become

104:26

my agent. He'd write a cover letter. I'd

104:29

get a book deal, and I'd start working

104:30

to help millions of people. It started

104:32

at a Tony Robbins seminar. And I go back

104:35

to my grandmother, right? Dream it,

104:37

design it, and do it.

104:40

He gave me the life skills to do that.

104:43

And I will tell you something about Tony

104:44

because you know, you see Tony on all

104:46

these shows and people go, "Is Tony the

104:48

real deal?" I Stephen, if I if I was

104:51

with you and I send Tony a text and I

104:53

and Tony has a lot of friends like this,

104:55

Tony gets right back to me. Tonyy's the

104:57

real deal. I just went to Germany and

105:00

took my older son Jack who's 22 to see

105:03

him do UPW in September could bring

105:06

tears to my eyes because I wanted Jack

105:08

to have the experience without me there.

105:10

So he was, you know, bless Tony sitting

105:13

in the front row. I came in on day three

105:16

when he was in the peak state and I came

105:19

in and I watched him, you know, I was

105:22

basically his age and I thought, God,

105:24

you don't, you know, I went in, I gave

105:26

him a hug and I'm like, you just don't

105:28

even know. This is just this experience

105:31

that you're seeing, what you're learning

105:33

today, if you use this stuff, it will

105:36

change your life.

105:40

That's the power of Tony. And people go,

105:42

you know, whatever it is, your podcast,

105:45

your events, Tony's events, my books,

105:50

we're just catalysts.

105:53

But God

105:55

God gave you a seed and a dream. And

105:59

when we're the catalyst for like, look,

106:02

go do this. Listen to that voice.

106:06

Whoever your God is, that soul that you

106:07

hear yourself saying, I have a dream. If

106:09

I only had 10 years left to live, I

106:11

would really hate to die with that dream

106:15

inside me. That's the dream you go work

106:17

on.

106:19

>> And since then, you've done exactly

106:21

that. You've educated hundreds of

106:23

millions of people through your books,

106:25

through podcast, seminars, newsletters,

106:27

and thousands of media appearances on

106:30

how to do exactly that. How to get

106:31

financially free, pursue their dreams,

106:33

get hold of their money so that they can

106:35

live the life that is um destined for

106:37

them. And that is an incredible thing.

106:39

And you've sold almost 10 million copies

106:41

of your books worldwide. I'm sure you're

106:42

going to hit that number at some point

106:44

soon. And uh I guess you'll never get to

106:47

see the impact that that's had on so

106:48

many people's lives and how you've

106:49

therefore changed the trajectory of

106:51

their financial future and their kids

106:52

and their kids and their kids like your

106:54

grandmother did for you and your family.

106:57

I'd highly recommend everybody go and

106:58

listen to that episode. I'm actually

106:59

going to link it below. So if you

107:00

haven't listened to the episode with

107:01

Tony Robbins, that's a great next thing

107:03

to do if you're still listening now. But

107:05

uh David, I wanted to thank thank you so

107:06

much for coming and uh you present a

107:08

really interesting different perspective

107:09

on the subject of money which is is hard

107:12

to find. It's rare um but it's very very

107:14

very important and I'm hopefully it'll

107:16

be consequential for many. We have a

107:18

closing tradition as you know um where

107:20

we ask the next guest the question left

107:22

by the last and the question left for

107:24

you is

107:26

interesting. If you had all the money

107:28

you needed to have to support yourself

107:30

and your family, zero financial

107:34

worries, what job profession would you

107:37

be doing? Or rather, what would you

107:40

spend your time on?

107:44

>> That's surreal that this is the question

107:46

you're giving me that that was asked

107:49

before I got here. Like that's that's a

107:50

God moment, too. Like that's meant to

107:52

be.

107:52

>> This is, by the way, I'm not making this

107:53

up.

107:54

So,

107:56

cuz that's me. I have enough. I have all

107:59

the money that I need. I have my health

108:01

right now. I have my time. And this

108:04

year, what am I going to what what I

108:05

want to go do my dream for the year? I

108:07

want to have an endless ski season. So,

108:10

at the end of the year, ask me, did I

108:12

ski somewhere every month this year? I

108:14

leave you today. I go back to Florence

108:17

for 24 hours and I turn around, go to

108:18

Verbier, Switzerland with friends. I'm

108:20

going to try to ski somewhere every day,

108:22

every month this year with friends and

108:25

with family all around the world for

108:27

fun. I did this as my last dream to help

108:31

one more generation be smart with their

108:33

money. This is my final book. This may

108:35

be my final podcast. And what you've

108:37

done is you've updated your smash hit

108:41

best-selling book that's that sold

108:43

millions and millions and millions of

108:44

copies that you wrote 20 years ago to

108:46

make it relevant to the current

108:48

financial situation and world that we

108:49

live in.

108:50

>> And my goal with this was a lot of my

108:52

readers now in their 50s and their 60s,

108:53

but they've got young kids like I do and

108:55

I wanted this to be a book they can put

108:57

in their hands.

108:58

>> I'm going to link the book below.

108:59

Fantastic read. You've written several

109:01

incredible books. So, it's I'm going to

109:03

link all of them below in the

109:04

description for anyone that wants to

109:05

grab a copy of them. The Automatic

109:08

Millionaire, a powerful one-step plan to

109:10

live and finish Rich.

109:13

David, thank you.

109:14

>> Stephen, thank you. It's been great.

109:16

>> I'm going to show you how to get clear

109:17

on what you really want, figure out

109:19

what's been stopping you, put the plan

109:20

in place, and teach you the most

109:22

important thing that's made me

109:23

successful.

109:24

>> And I don't think people fully realize

109:25

the significance of how many of the most

109:27

influential people on planet Earth you

109:29

have worked with and continue to work

109:30

with. What is the pattern that you

109:32

noticed in those people?

Interactive Summary

The video discusses various aspects of financial well-being and wealth building, emphasizing the importance of automation, saving, and smart investing. It debunks myths about renting versus owning a home, highlighting that homeowners are significantly wealthier than renters. The speaker shares personal anecdotes and financial strategies, including the "pay yourself first" principle and the power of investing in index funds. Key takeaways include the need for a financial plan, the benefits of automating savings and investments, and the critical role of mindset in achieving financial freedom. The discussion also touches on managing debt, the differences in financial challenges faced by women, and the importance of couples aligning on financial goals. Ultimately, the message is about taking control of one's financial future through consistent action and informed decisions, emphasizing that wealth building is accessible to everyone regardless of income level.

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