Early Retirement Expert: A House Vs Stocks, Here's The Truth!
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If you don't get in the game of home
ownership and you rent in your 20s and
you rent in your 30s, you're going to
turn around in your 40s and having not
built any net worth. And in fact,
homeowners in America are worth 40 times
more than renters. And I'm talking about
ordinary Americans.
>> But that doesn't mean that buying a home
made them rich, right?
>> It actually does. And I'm going to go
through that.
>> But am I not better off renting and
investing in the stock market? I want to
bust this myth because I have spent the
last 33 years of my life helping
millions of people with ordinary incomes
become financially free, including nine
years as a financial adviser at Morgan
Stanley and I got to see firsthand how
everyone who came into my office with an
ordinary income built wealth. And
there's a formula to getting rich, but
there's also a system to how you put
your financial life on autopilot in less
than 10 minutes. And it doesn't require
discipline, budget, and you don't have
to make a lot of money to get started.
But unless your financial plan is
automatic, it will fail. But more
importantly, I believe the next 10 years
will be the greatest opportunity to
build wealth in our lifetime. And yet, 7
out of 10 people right now are living
paycheck to paycheck. More than 50% of
Americans don't have savings. And most
people don't know where their money
goes. And in fact, when we ask people,
how much money would it take to totally
change your life? They say $10,000. Now,
how much money do you need to spend a
day to blow $10,000 a year? $27.40
a day. If you invested that a day for 40
years, you'd have over $4,424,000.
That would be life-changing.
>> But just before we get into all of the
specifics and the strategies, do you
have any specific advice to people that
are currently struggled with debt?
>> Absolutely. There's a very simple
formula to getting out of debt called
dole. I'd tell you to
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David, what has your mission been for
the last three decades?
>> I have spent the last 30 years of my
life helping ordinary people, people
with ordinary incomes become financially
free. And the last 20 years I've spent
helping people become automatic
millionaires. So, I love to teach anyone
at any income level, minimum wage,
living paycheck to paycheck. You might
be in debt. You might be struggling.
I've taught millions of people how they
can improve their life financially.
That's what I've been dedicated to. And
I spent 33 years total in the financial
service industry.
>> And is this conversation just for people
that are in their 20s or is it
applicable to everybody at every age?
>> It's applicable to everybody at every
age because whatever your age is, it you
know, look, Stephen, so many people are
living paycheck to paycheck right now in
this country. What's happening right now
is that seven out of 10 people are being
left behind financially. Seven out of 10
people right now are living paycheck to
paycheck. When you go into looking at
finances in America today, half of
Americans can't get their hands on
$1,000 in case emergency purposes. And
my biggest fear, why I updated this book
and why I decided to come back out one
more time and do another financial
literacy campaign is I'm afraid people
are being left behind. I think with AI
right now, the next 10 years is going to
be the greatest opportunity to build
wealth in our lifetime.
That's the good news. The bad news is a
lot of people being left behind. My goal
today, next hour is very simple. I want
to give you the system on how to become
an automatic millionaire at any age
level, at any income level. But what I'm
going to teach you is how to put your
financial life on autopilot in less than
10 minutes. Because when your financial
life is automatic, your habits work
automatically. And an automatic
financial life doesn't require
discipline, doesn't require a budget,
and you don't have to make a lot of
money to get started.
>> Why should people be taking advice from
you on this subject matter? What's what
have you done in those 33 years?
>> I've been doing this my entire life.
Right? So, if you go all the way back, I
started investing at the age of seven.
And how that happened is I had a
grandmother, amazing grandmother. Her
name was Grandma Rose. At 30, she made a
decision that changed the whole destiny
of our family. And the decision she made
was she want to be poor anymore. And at
30, on a very cold day on her birthday,
she turned to my grandfather and she
said, "We don't have any money. We're
living paycheck to paycheck and I don't
want to retire here. I want to go to
California. I want to be where it's
warm." And my grandfather said, "Well,
what do you want to do about it?" and
she's like, "We need to change what
we're doing or nothing will change." And
so my grandmother started saving 50
cents a week out of her paycheck. So 50
cents each because they were like middle
class people, right? Didn't have a
college education. My grandfather worked
in a plant. My grandmother worked in
retail. But she started saving small
amounts of money. And over her lifetime,
she became an investor. And she became a
self-made millionaire. My first book,
which you have sitting over here, was a
book called Smart Women Finish Rich. It
was the lessons that my grandmother
taught me. So, at seven, my grandmother
took me to McDonald's and she taught me
a lesson that would change my life. She
said, "David, you're sitting here eating
McDonald's and cheeseburgers and your
French fries and your milkshake." She
said, "I'm going to teach you today how
to be rich for real. You like to play
Monopoly. Here's my lesson today." She
said, "There's three types of people.
those like you who are here eating right
now, you're what's called a consumer.
She said the people over there who have
been working, they're called employees
and they've been working for minimum
wage and that's a very hard way to live.
She said they make at the time they made
85 cents an hour. And she said the third
type of person is the person who owns
this place. They're called an investor.
And she said, "Today, I'm going to teach
you how to buy stock in McDonald's so
that when you come to McDonald's, you'll
make money from everybody who's here.
When your friends come to McDonald's,
you'll make money from them, and you'll
be an owner of McDonald's." And she took
me down to a brokerage firm, helped me
buy my first share of stock at
McDonald's.
That moment changed my life because what
she made me realize is like everything
that we do, I'm seven years old.
everything that we do, there's an
opportunity to be an investor and own
that. So like at nine years old, I'm at
Disney. I'm like, "Hey, Mickey Mouse,
are you public?" So I was like not a
normal kid in that way because I started
investing at a young age.
But then I made a lot of mistakes. Then
I went to college. Then I got myself in
credit card debt. Then I believed all
the myths that young people often
believe. I believed I couldn't really
invest a lot until I made a lot of
money. So, in my early 20s, I was making
money but spending everything. So, I was
went from making nothing to making
$50,000 a year and I'm still broke. I'm
like, well, it's not enough money. So, I
went to $75,000 a year, still broke,
spending more. Then I got to $100,000 a
year in income. Lot of money, right? In
my 20s. Oh my god, I'm rich. No, I was
still spending more than I was making at
that point. I was a financial adviser
and al
>> that was my job. I was working at Morgan
Stanley helping people plan for
retirement teaching retirement seminars
and I met this ordinary couple that came
into my office at the age of 52, Jim and
Sue McIntyre. They had an ordinary job.
That year they had made a little over
$53,000.
Their average income over their lifetime
was $40,000.
And at 52, Jim put out all the
statements on a table in front of me. I
sat there and added them up and they had
a net worth of $1.8 million.
And I sat back at a table just like this
and said, "How did you do this?"
And they had just been in my class for
four weeks. They're like, "David, we did
a lot of what you talked about, but we
didn't have a budget because budgets
don't work." and they talked about why
budgeting didn't work for them. They
said, "We put everything on autopilot.
We saved money automatically for
everything."
And that was the moment that changed my
life. I realized that day as somebody
who was living paycheck to paycheck with
a high income. These people had half the
income that I did and they were able to
retire at 52. I was in my mid20s and I
realized that if I didn't start saving
and investing, if I didn't change,
nothing was going to change and I would
never have the financial freedom that
they had. And so I went home that day
and I changed everything in my life. Now
I had a lot of bad habits. So I had a
lot of things that needed to be changed.
You were the senior vice president at
Morgan Stanley when you stepped down and
you soon after wrote this book called
Smart Women Finish Rich. It begs the
question, what are the differences that
you saw through your process of
financial education that women face
versus men?
>> I started I was in business with my
father and we had a lot of older clients
and I would sit in on meetings one after
another with widows. So in the first
month of my career, I sat in three
meetings with three widows where the
husband had dropped dead suddenly. And
my dad at the time was teaching these
women how to read their brokerage
statements, how to write checks, and how
to know if they would have enough money.
And I thought, "This is crazy." And I
said to my dad for the third
appointment, "Dad, what do you what
what's going on here?" And he's like,
"Well, what do you mean?" I go, "Well,
you're teaching these women when their
husband has just died how to handle
their finances." And he said, "David,
not all women are like your grandmother.
Your grandmother was a rarity." And I
said, "Dad, that's crazy. I'm going to
go out and teach a class for women and
money." And when I started teaching the
class for women money, here's what I
learned. Here are the things that make
women different than men when it comes
to money. Women, first of all, live
longer than men, which means they need
more money than men do. The average age
of widowhood in America when I wrote
that book originally was 57, Stephen.
Now it's 59.
Okay. You do all these shows on
longevity. It seems like everybody's
living forever. They're not. Okay. The
average age of widowhood in America is
59 years old.
>> When you say widowhood, you mean the age
in which a woman becomes a widow.
>> Exactly. They're married and they lose
their husband.
>> Okay.
>> Okay. So, so women are often wiped out
when that happens financially. Second
thing is that women are hurt more than
men when it comes to divorce.
The third thing that affects women is
that they work fewer years. I'm like,
these are just the the the the
statistical realities. Women work fewer
years than men because they have
children. So that's an average of
somewhere between 7 to 11 years less.
And that's less money going into social
security, retirement accounts, and it
affects their earnings and often they
earn less. So what I have taught for
third nearly 30 years now is as a woman,
I don't care what your situation is. I
don't care if you're an entrepreneur. I
don't care if you're a stay-at-home
mother. I don't care if you're married
to local bank president. I don't care if
you're married, singled, widowed,
divorced. As a woman, you have to be in
charge of your finances. Period. Drop
the mic.
End of discussion. You can't delegate
your financial well-being to anyone
else. You have to be in charge. Now, I
will also tell you, Stephen, that women
make better investors than men. They
they make better investors than men
because often women don't trade like men
do and they are they do more research
before they invest and their performance
is better. They're way better long-term
investing than men are.
>> I heard some stats once upon a time that
men are
the majority of the gambling addicts.
>> Well, I'm sure they're the majority of
the gambling addicts. And also when you
look at trading because trading's become
a very big thing, but trading's always
been a thing.
>> Trading meaning
>> trading like trading stocks, buying and
selling stocks. Now it's buying and
selling cryptocurrency, buying and doing
selling options. All these things are
primarily men doing it and they don't
make money because the bulk of people
who trade lose money day in day out in
year out. I teach a philosophy which is
this. Your money and your investments
should be boring. Your life should be
interesting. Your investments should be
boring. If someone's coming to a
cocktail party talking about their
investments and it's exciting,
something's wrong with it.
>> Why?
>> Because sexy is how you go broke when it
comes to money. Boring is beautiful when
it becomes when it's about your wealth.
So, even driving over here, my son was
just like, "Dad, why aren't you trading
Tesla stock?" I'm like, "You know why
I'm not trading Tesla stock? Because you
can't make money trading. You got to
figure out when to buy, when to sell. I
want my kids investing in index funds. I
have my clients investing in index
funds. Boring is beautiful when it comes
to money.
>> Before we get into the real specifics
and the tactical strategies and um we
think about a bunch of the sort of
things you said about debt and credit
cards and saving and getting out of debt
and how to become wealthy and an
automatic millionaire. Is there anything
we should discuss as it relates to the
broader context of what's going on in
the world? Whether it's wealth
inequality, whether it's the amount of
people that are living paycheck to
paycheck, what I'm trying to get a
picture on what the the state of
financial wealth looks like in the
Western world.
>> Yeah. Well, so let's talk, you know,
when people talk about economies. Here's
here's the economy that matters in my
opinion. Your economy, meaning the
person that's listening, the economy
that you're in control of is yours.
You're not in control over what's going
to happen with interest rates, what's
going to happen with geopolitical
things, what's going to happen with AI.
The only economy that you can control is
yours. Now, here's the question.
Are you working?
Most cases, the answer is yes. The
average person will work 90,000 hours
over their lifetime. So, if you are a
dual income household, you're going to
work somewhere between 90 to 200,000
hours, the two of you, over your
lifetime. You're going to actually make
millions of dollars over your lifetime.
The question is with your own economy,
are you going to keep any of the money?
And the sad thing for many people is
that they're not. I I say most people
have what I call a no plan. Money comes
in, money goes out. And they say, "Well,
I don't know where the money all went."
And I go, "That's called a no plan." A
person who's an automatic millionaire,
the moment money comes in, they have a
plan for exactly where it's going to go.
And it starts with paying themselves
first.
automatically.
>> A lot of people listen to this and if I
go back if I go back just over 10 years
in my life, I would have been sat
listening to this conversation in £7,000
of debt. And I would have thought, God,
like I'm becoming a millionaire, that's
a that's a million miles away, no pun
intended. I to become a millionaire, I'm
going to have to earn so much more
money. And at the time, I was working in
call centers. It it would have just felt
so far away. And I say, you know, people
are struggling to feed their children,
let alone become a millionaire.
Is it far away for the average person?
>> It's far away if you don't know the
strategy. There's a strategy to getting
out of debt. There's a strategy to
building wealth. There's a system.
>> How much of it is just earning more
money? Because when I have these
conversations on my show, I think the
surprisingly untouched territory is we
don't teach people how to become more
valuable so that they can earn more
money. A lot of it's about like index
funds or savings, whatever. But how much
of it is just like I need to get higher
valued skills in the market?
>> We know for a fact that making more
money doesn't make you rich. So, so
people can go, as I told you earlier,
like from $100,000. They can go from
50,000 to 100,000 and still be broke.
They can go from a h 100,000 to 200,000
a year and still be broke. They can go
from 200,000 to 300,000 and still be
broke. In the US, when you take
households that make $150,000 a year,
one out of three of them are still
broke. When you peel back the curtain
and you ask why is that? Well, we know
things cost more, but we also know
there's massive lifestyle creep, right?
you get you get around other people who
are making more money and then you spend
more money. And the reality is these
phones are designed to get you to spend
everything, right? Today with the
algorithms, there's better technology
today than there's ever been to get you
to spend more money. And nobody wants
you to spend money once. They want you
to spend money for a lifetime, right?
It's a lifetime value of a customer. So
there's a battle for our income. And
everyone wants a piece of it. It starts
with the government. like you go to work
and you go to work at 9ine and you
actually work from nine o'clock to 12
for taxes. Now, this is an important
lesson actually. The government doesn't
ask you to budget to pay taxes. They
take your taxes from you automatically.
They take social security from you
automatically. They're they take the
money from you automatically because
they know you won't have anything to
give if they don't take it from you.
Then people work from 12 to about 3:00
for housing and food and then from 3:00
to 5:00 for all the rest all the rest of
things.
The people who build wealth in America
and really all over the world, they do
something different. They keep the first
hour a day of their income.
>> What do you mean by that? So what that
means is whatever you earn, you could be
making minimum wage, you could be making
$20 an hour, $30 an hour, $40 an hour.
Whatever you earn, the first hour day of
your income has to go to you. You're the
first person who gets paid.
>> And you mean you have to save it, invest
it.
>> You have to invest it. So how do you
invest the first hour of your day
without paying taxes? The answer is you
pay yourself first using a 401k plan.
So, if you have a job with a retirement
account, 401k plan, you sign up and you
use that plan. Now, I can't just stop
right there, right? Because because it
sounds so simple, like, okay, I'll use
my plan. No, you have to know the
formula to using your plan to be rich.
We know after 40 years now exactly what
you need to do if you want to be a
millionaire. I can tell you how to
become a millionaire starting in your
20s so that you're done by the time
you're in your mid-50s. You save a
little one hour of your income is 12 and
a.5% of your gross revenue. I went on
online today to look at what's the
latest statistics with 401k
millionaires. The new stats that just
came out from Fidelity. There are
654,000
people in Fidelity 401k plans that are
now millionaires.
>> What is a 401k?
>> Okay,
>> because you know we've got a lot of
global listeners. There's different
types of 401k in every country. So in
the US, a 401k plan is a retirement
account. It is a retirement account that
the company has set up, right? And it
allows you to put money away tax
deductible. They call it pre-tax. In
most countries, you have a deductible
retirement account, but it depends on
the country, too, right? Like in Canada,
it's a different type of plan than it is
in Australia, than it is in Italy, than
it is here in the UK. Almost every
country though has some form of
retirement account and has the ability
to put money away automatically. Here's
the problem, and I'll use the US
specifically because it's where I do
most of my work in the US. Those who
have a 401k plan,
the ones that are millionaires, what
they did, here's the formula, the exact
formula. They saved 14% of their gross
income and their employer had a small
match on top of that. And then how they
invested the money is key because it's
not enough to just put money in these
401k plans. You have to be invested for
growth. And growth means stocks, right?
So you'd have to have and and the actual
specific allocation in these 401k
millionaires I just talked about was
about 70% stock and 30% bonds.
Okay. Now, what are people doing that
aren't achieving this? Well, the average
American saving maybe 3 or 4%. Maybe 5%
if they have a 401k plan. People who
don't have 401k plans in many cases
aren't even doing this. They can they
can open up an IRA account, but in most
cases, they're not doing that. So, the
whole secret is
not budgeting, not using discipline,
having the money move right from your
paycheck. paycheck gets deposited
automatically and then it moves the day
it hits your bank account automatically
first for retirement. Then later we'll
talk about building a security account,
building a dream account. The key is
that the money moves automatically.
So in the United States now there's by
the way 24 million millionaires now. So
we've seen an increase of 8 million
millionaires to 24 million millionaires
in the US in just 20 years.
How did they do that? There's two
primary escalators to wealth. That is
stocks and real estate. And if you're
not in stocks and you're not in real
estate, you are being left behind.
>> When you say real estate, does that mean
having a mortgage and owning a h home?
>> It's owning a home or owning REITs?
>> REITs.
>> REITs. Real estate equity investment
trusts. So, that's another way to buy
real estate without actually having to
own the home, but you don't get the same
level of returns.
>> I mean, this is um this is one of the
hot topics of conversation we've had on
this show several times is many of my
guests that are sort of financial
advisers say that owning a home is a bad
investment. I think from what I
understood from the research and from
reading your books that you feel
differently about that.
>> Yeah. I mean I I couldn't feel more
differently when we look at where is
wealth created in the United States and
also abroad. It's in two places. It's in
home equity and it's in the stock
market. So when you look at housing and
you take someone who owns a home and
we'll talk about I know it's hard to buy
homes right now but when you look at
people who own a home versus people who
rent homeowners in America follow this
for one second. Homeowners in America
are worth 40 times more than renters. So
the average homeowner in America today
is worth over $400,000.
>> But this doesn't establish causation.
I.e. that doesn't mean that buying a
home make made them rich, right?
>> It actually does. And I'm going to go
through that here. So the average renter
is worth $10,000,
right? So why why does buying a home
build wealth? and how much wealth in the
United States is now in home equity.
Wall Street Journal just ran an article
on this came out two days ago. There's
$34 trillion now in home equity in
America. This number has gone up 90%
since before co
the other money is in retirement
accounts which is 60 70% in stocks.
There's $45 trillion now in retirement
accounts. So those two things alone
equal $80 trillion dollar, right? Like
when you want to go like where are the
breadcrumbs? Where is wealth being
created? It's right in front of us. Now
the problem that we have in the United
States, but also look, we're here in
London right now. Problem we have in so
many cities is that real estate keeps
going higher and higher and higher and
people's incomes are not keeping pace
with the cost of buying a home. So, when
someone comes on a show like this and
says, "Look, you don't have to buy a
home. It's cost more to have a house
than rent. You, you know, I I watched
one of the shows. I won't say who it
was. It doesn't matter. They all say the
same thing. Don't buy a house. You'll be
trapped. You'll have to pay you'll have
to pay real estate taxes and you'll have
to pay insurance and things break." They
go through all these expenses
and it it makes it sound like, "Oh,
yeah. If I rent it'll be cheaper." No.
Who who do you think pays these expenses
when you rent?
You do. The landlord passes the cost of
these expenses on to the renter
ultimately. Why do they do this? Because
people who buy real estate buy it for an
investment. They buy it for an
investment. They're not they're not
subsidizing these costs. So, it's a hard
thing to hear and especially when you're
young. Like I have a a son who's 22.
He's in Chicago. He's going to move to
New York City. It'll be extremely hard
for him to buy a place in New York when
he starts working right away. Just will
be probably won't for two or three
years. A lot of young people when they
move to a major city, they can't afford
to buy right away. When I came out of
college, like you, I was in credit card
debt. I had $12,000 in credit card debt.
I remember opening up my bills and
having the room spin and thinking, I'm
never get out of credit card debt. how
am I going to buy a house? But I did.
And in fact, I didn't buy a home when I
was young by myself. I bought a home
with a best friend. So, how did I get my
first house? First house we bought was a
quarter of a million dollars. We put 10%
down and my best friend and I, Andrew,
we split that down payment. So, we each
put $12,500 down. This is how we scraped
it together. The house was a complete
fixer upper and we didn't have enough
money to make the mortgage payments. So,
we rented out bedrooms and we had
friends rent bedrooms and that helped us
cover our mortgage. We scraped it
together and that's what a lot of people
do when you're young. But if you don't
get in the game of home ownership and
you rent in your 20s and you rent in
your 30s, you're going to turn around in
your 40s and having not been built any
net worth. When I wrote the automatic
millionaire 20 years ago, two things
have happened since then.
The stock market has gone up in 20 years
600%.
>> Okay? So, if you had a $100,000, just
that is gone to $600,000.
If you bought a house, the house has
gone up 400%.
So, when you read this book with all
these, there's a a whole chapter of
updated success stories. There are a lot
of ordinary people that started saving
5, 10, 15, $20 a day, bought a starter
house, and today they're millionaires.
>> So, am I not better off renting and
investing in the stock market
versus buying a house? Because obviously
when I when I when I buy a house, I'm
paying a premium on the house so that I
can get a mortgage. I want to bust this
myth because what happens is people come
on they go the stock look I can tell you
right now the stock market over the last
20 years has averaged over 10% annually
people go the returns are better in the
stock market than the real estate yeah
but that's not applesto apple comparison
why
you buy a piece of real estate when you
buy a home people don't typically pay
cash for their first house they put down
20% and they borrow the other 80%. So
you take like an example of a take a
$200,000 home. $200,000 home you put 40
grand in. Home goes from $200,000 to
400,000 in 10 years. This has happened
to so many people in the last five years
since COVID. There are markets all over
the US where housing prices have gone up
100 to 200%. So a person buys a $200,000
home, they borrowed 80%. It's doubled.
So they've made 200,000 in profit. They
didn't put in 200,000, they put in 40.
So, they got a five times return on
their down payment. They go to sell
their house.
They don't pay taxes on the gain because
when you own a home, at least in the
United States, you own a home for over
two years. If you're single, you get
$250,000 in taxfree gains. If you're
married, you get over half a million
dollars in taxree gains. You get tax
deductions on the mortgages. So, what
happens is people come here and they go,
"You know what? You shouldn't be you
shouldn't be tied down. You need to be
flexible when you're young. You don't
want to have the responsibility
and you should take the extra money and
you should put it in a mutual fund. And
you know what happens in the real world,
Stephen? People don't do that. They rent
an apartment that's nicer than what they
can afford and they spend all their
money and then they turn around in their
mid30s and they have no equity because
they haven't bought anything and they
also haven't saved money.
It is an absolute freaking myth that
people take this extra money that they
could have used to buy a house and
they're going to put it in the stock
market. They don't do that. And that's
why also, by the way, corporate America
got into the game of buying up real
estate all over America, houses, and
building apartments to rent to an entire
generation, hoping these people never
buy
this. Like 10 days ago, Trump came out
and basically said he wants the
institutions out of buying up all the
homes in America. Why does he want to do
that? because he because he recognizes
how serious of a problem it is to have a
generation of Americans who are renters.
I'm telling you, when you look at
average Americans, average, I'm talking
about ordinary Americans. When you look
at where their wealth is, it's in home
equity and it's in the stock market. And
this is the last thing I'll say,
generational wealth is created for
better or worse through home equity. So
when you look at why you know you asked
the question about causation
if a family doesn't buy a home the
likelihood the next generation can buy a
home is very low because it's this when
someone dies
the money that is in the house that home
equity is often what transfer transfers
to the next generation helps the next
generation buy a house. I was looking at
some stats here because I want to what I
want I wish I could sit
>> sit down all of the guests that have
been on my show that have had a
difference of opinion and have said that
buying a house is a bad
>> it could be a really interesting
conversation. Right.
>> It would be a really interesting
conversation. What I've done as an
alternative to that approach is I've
pulled up what they've said
>> and I'm going to give you some of the
things they've said just so so you can
rebuttle them um and have your say on
them. One of the things that they often
say is that long-term real
inflationadjusted home price
appreciation in the US is about 1%
annually and one of my guests cited
Robert Schiller as the evidence of that.
After maintenance um which usually
equals 1 to 2% um property taxes which
equals about 1% insurance and
transaction costs the net real returns
approach roughly zero on average. So
when you say housing is a great
investment, are you referencing the
gross appreciation which is the the the
total appreciation or the net returns
after taxes, maintenance, insurance, and
selling costs?
>> So when you dig into these kind of
numbers like this,
what they are is they're numbers, but
they're not real world, right? And so
like when you when you talk to someone
who owns a home today and they've owned
it for 20 years and you ask them how
much of your net worth is now in the
equity in your house
over 50% of their net worth is in their
house. You will see people on your
YouTube channel that literally if you
read the comments and I'm sure you do. I
do
>> where people say it's not true. There
was I read a comment yesterday on your
YouTube page. All I know is I bought a
house and it's gone up in value three
and a half times and the rent when I
bought the house was $1,200 and the rent
today to buy that if I had that house if
I was renting it would be $4,000.
So the thing is you have to understand
is that rents always go up, Stephen.
Like I lived in New York City for 18
years.
When I moved to New York City in 2001,
a really nice apartment, a nice
apartment was like $6,000 a month. When
I left New York, that same apartment was
$25,000 a month. Follow the follow the
insanity of that math. Now, that
apartment went from being $2 million
apartment to a $5 million apartment. So,
I could have been renting it, but in my
case, I owned it and it went up in value
$3 million.
So, I have friends who have been renting
in New York for 20 years. They have
built no net worth. I have no vest
interest in this conversation. Meaning,
I don't sell real estate. I'm not a real
estate agent. I'm not selling real
estate. I've just seen in the real world
how people have built wealth. the the
the McIntyres in this book, the
automatic millionaire, when they came
into my office and they were worth $1.8
million and he was 52 and able to retire
having earned an average of $40,000 a
year.
All their money wasn't in the stock
market. They had bought a home in San
Leandro, California, what he what they
called a middleclass neighborhood. Their
home at the time was worth about
$300,000.
They had paid their mortgage off and
they had bought one more house on their
street. They rented the first house.
They bought a second house on their
street. They paid that mortgage off. And
so they owned two homes free and clear.
One house they got income from. One
house they lived in with no debt. And
then they had saved money in their 401k
plan. So, if I was a young person or not
even a young person, a middle-aged and
older person who took my down payment
that I was going to pay into the house,
if let's say it was say my down payment
was $20,000 and I put that into the S&P
500 instead over the long run, won't
that grow larger than the total home
equity potentially?
>> Here's why the index fund theory doesn't
work.
You can't live inside an index fund.
You can't live inside a mutual fund. You
have to live somewhere as long as you're
alive. Here's what people should do.
Take a look at what you're paying in
rent.
Now, ask yourself a question. If I'm
paying 5,000 a month in rent, which lots
of people are, right? Do you know people
paying 5,000 a month in rent?
>> Yes.
>> Okay. So, they're paying 60,000 a year.
Let's take that number.
>> Yeah.
>> So, over 10 years, they're going to
spend $600,000 in rent.
Yeah.
>> If the rent doesn't go up,
>> Yeah.
>> in 20 years, they're going to spend 1.2
million in rent. If the rent doesn't go
up, in 30 years, they will have spent $2
million in rent if the rent doesn't go
up. But the rent does go up. So, the
question you just have to ask yourself
is, am I going to take all this money
that I'm spending on rent and never
build anything?
And if you really believe that renting
is better than owning, then you should
still consider the idea of buying
something than that somebody else rents.
Cuz I promise you, somebody's getting
rich in the transaction. If you're the
renter, you're not the one who's getting
rich in the transaction of renting. It
is a great short-term solution renting.
It is not a great term long-term wealth
building solution. The other thing that
people often talk about and you you
cited earlier is the mobility that
renting gives you.
>> Yeah.
>> Your son was here a second ago. He's 16
years old. Yeah. Soon he'll be
>> at the age where he's got his own place
and he's thinking about different career
opportunities and oh my god AI is this
big thing. So he might want to go to San
Francisco. Then he might want to go live
in Florence and wherever else. if he's
bought a place, there is a interesting
sort of psychological but also financial
component to the fact that it makes it
harder for you to move with the
opportunity of life. And if we are if if
what people say about the future of work
is true, that we're going to have many
more careers in our lives than we did in
the past, one might assume that we're
also going to be more mobile. And so, is
there an argument to say that buying a
house might hurt my prof professional
opportunities, my ability to pursue
professional opportunities? The answer
is possibly, right? But here's the thing
about rent. Rent's, interestingly
enough, a major obligation, right?
Usually, when you go and you do a lease,
you lock yourself into a one-year lease.
Sometimes you lock yourself into a
two-year lease.
When you buy something, and this is
assuming that you have the money to buy
something, Stephen,
look up because you've got all the data
at your fingertips here. Look what the
average length of time it takes to sell
a home in the United States. Just just
Google that right now because what I
will tell you is in certain markets you
can put your home on the market and you
can sell it in less than 90 days. Now
some markets you can sell your home in
less than 30 days. In many cases
you actually have more flexibility when
you own something than when you rent.
And that's if you want to sell it. It
says the average time from listing to
sale is about 47 to 62 days from listing
to closing in 2025, including 16 days on
the market and 30 to 45 days to close.
>> That's called less than 2 months.
>> Even in hot markets, the process from
putting a house on the market to legally
selling it can take 1.5 to 3 months.
Meaning home equity isn't a quickly
accessible investment.
>> Yeah. But do you think that's pretty
quick? 90 days.
>> No, it is. It is quick. I mean it takes
takes you that amount of time to get out
of a lease.
>> Exactly. So now so so here you've got a
piece of property that you can turn
around and sell in less than 90 days.
Now this is the US. You can't do that.
Like for inance I live in Italy. That
could be very hard to do that in Italy.
But in the US you've got something
that's in a good market. It's liquid.
The other thing is you can rent it,
right? You're you're actually not
trapped. If if you start to build equity
in your home and you pay your mortgage
down slightly, next thing you know
you're able to rent that property and
you can still move. Today, people are
taking their homes and they're Airbnbing
them. What I really want for people is
the chance to be financially free.
There's also an age at which it doesn't
matter if you own. You know, once you
start to get older and you've built
financial security, you get in your 50s
or your 60s or 70s and you just want to
travel and you don't want to own
anything. That's a different stage of
life. So, the question just becomes
the money that you make. I go back to
the 90,000 hour comment. When you make n
when you work 90,000 hours over your
lifetime,
what's your plan to keep some of this
money?
You have to have a pay yourself first
plan. That has to be your number one
priority is that when you earn money,
the first person who you're going to pay
is you. If you say, you know what, I
watched Stephen and I saw David and I've
seen a bunch of other people on his show
and I'm not going to buy a house. Okay,
then
you have to pay yourself first more. Now
I go around the world for the last 30
years starting with Oprah with the
automatic millionaire. I launched this
book on Oprah and I talked about you
have to save 1 hour a day of your income
and people will get on these social
media boards and be like I can't save
10% of my income.
They'll I can't live off 90% of my
income. It's not possible. I have to
spend all of it. Right? Well, then that
person who's renting and not buying a
house, which is for savings, is clearly
never going to save. So, the other thing
about buying a house is it does require
force savings because when you use have
a mortgage payment, part of that
mortgage payment is paying down your
debt. And I teach you how to use a
bi-weekly mortgage payment plan. So, you
take a 30-year mortgage and you pay it
off five years earlier. And doing that
can save you, depends on the size of the
home, can save you $50 to $100,000 just
in interest payments. You talk about
having a savings mindset.
What is a savings mindset and how does
one go about saving if they are one of
those people that says, "Listen, I'm
barely getting by as it is, David."
>> Yeah.
>> How how the hell am I going to save
money when I'm actually increasingly
getting into more debt right now?
>> So, the first thing is you have to find
your money, right? So, what I what I
find, Steve, is when I talk to people,
most people don't know where their money
goes. Literally, they don't know.
They're like, I'm like, "How much money
you spend a month?" Well, I'm not really
sure. How much money you spend a year?
Well, I'm not really sure. You need to
be sure. So, you should be doing
something to track where your money
goes. Now, you can be sophisticated. You
can use apps. It will track where your
money goes. You can also take out a pad
of paper and I give people a 7-day
financial challenge for seven days. Just
bring a little pad of paper with you and
write down every single day where your
money goes. Now, why do I want people to
do that? Because most people today are
spending money unconsciously. I go back
to these phones. The fact that I don't I
don't even have to carry a wallet
anymore, right? It's just click click
click and pay for things. We've lost
touch with spending money. So, when
people start to see what they're really
spending, it's a wakeup call. The
biggest thing I've been sharing lately
is what does it take to blow $10,000 a
year per day in terms of spending? How
much money do you need to spend a day to
blow $10,000? Now, show us the per here.
Now, we happen to have these are we have
pounds today, right? So, um so I I'm
holding Stephen right now. I'm holding
what is known as a brick.
So, I don't know if your staff told you
how much I'm holding here. You know how
much what you guess I'm holding?
>> It looks like maybe $5,000.
>> Okay. So, this is a life-changing amount
of money, Stephen. This This is $10,000
right here.
>> And what does it take to blow $10,000
in a year per day? How much money you
have to spend per day to go through
$10,000? I'll make it easy for you. The
the answer is $27.40
a day. $27.40 a day adds up equaling
$10,000 over the year. Now, before we go
through where do you where do you spend
this money? How do you waste $27.40 a
day, the question becomes, if you didn't
waste $27.40 40 cents a day and you were
able to get yourself to invest $10,000 a
year, what could this be worth over
time? And the answer is in 40 years if
this was in the S&P 500 fund which you
quoted earlier and you earn 10% annually
with reinvested dividends
that stack there would grow to 4 million
four over $4,400,000
if you invested $27.40
a day.
>> Pass me this big brick.
>> Yeah.
>> So if I save
half of this a day then in did you say
40 years?
>> In 40 years. So, let me give you the
math on a couple different ways of doing
this. Okay, so what would happen if you
invested roughly half of this a day? The
number I use is $27.40 a day. It's the
magic number. That equals $10,000 a
year. If you invested that a day for 40
years, you'd have over $4,424,000.
>> If I invest $27 a day, in 40 years, I'll
have $4 million.
>> Over $4 million. Let's go through the
yeah butts now because people are going
to hear this. Some people are going to
go, "Wait, what?" And then we'll talk
about where you find $27.40 a day.
Yeah, but $4,400,000
won't be worth a lot of money in 40
years.
With inflation, it won't be worth that
much. It won't have the same purchasing
power. My answer would be it's worth a
whole lot more than zero. Right? If
you're not saving any money, if you
can't save $27.40 40 cents a day, you
won't have $4,400,000.
Yeah, but with taxes, you know, it won't
grow that much. Well, it could if it was
in a retirement account. You wouldn't be
paying taxes on the money. Yeah, but
it's not possible to earn 10% on my
money. Well, the stock market for over a
hundred years has averaged over 10%
annually with reinvested dividends.
Yeah, but the stock market's risky and
complicated. Well, no, it's not. If you
bought an index fund, it's actually not
that risky and complicated.
Yeah, but I don't know. I don't know how
to get started. Well, you could start
really easily. You could open up a
brokerage account. You could go to a
Charles Schwab, Fidelity. I mean, I'm
literally going to go through them all.
Vanguard, Robin Hood, Coinbase, Acorns,
and in less than 10 minutes, you could
open up an account and be saving. Pick a
dollar amount. $5 a day, $10 a day, $27
a day, and that could change your life.
Now, why is $10,000, Stephen, such an
important dollar amount? Here's what I
can tell you, having done this for 30
years.
This dollar amount right here, first of
all, this is
one in two Americans don't have $1,000
in a bank account right now. So, this is
10 times what one out of two Americans
have. But more importantly, $10,000.
When we do surveys
and we ask people, "How much money would
it take to totally change your life?"
The answer is not a million dollars. The
answer is not $100,000.
The answer is actually$10,000.
And the question is, why is it 10,000?
And the reason is is that's about what
the average person has in credit card
debt. And they feel like they're
drowning like you talked about earlier.
and they know that that could pay off
their credit card debt. Or they have a
job they don't like and they if you knew
that if they had $10,000
in a savings account, they'd quit that
job and they'd be free. They'd have to
go find another job
>> or start a business or something
>> or start a business or god forbid
they're in an abusive relationship and
they can't leave. But if they had
$10,000, they'd leave. So, you know, a
lot of people go, "David, you just make
this all too simple." And it's true. I
do because when it's simple, people take
action on it. So for years, I have
taught this concept called the latte
factor. A lot of people love me for it.
Now I have a lot of people hate me for
it. And I have taught that, you know, we
waste small amounts of money on little
thing. I had your staff bring me a nice
coffee. Um, when I started teaching the
latte factor, I would talk about the
idea that we waste five bucks a day on
coffee. And that if you don't believe
you can start saving and investing,
at least save $5 a day. Make your coffee
at home. And people would say, "But I
don't want to give up my coffee." Okay.
Well, then figure out another way to
save $5 a day. This iced coffee, I don't
know what it costs here in London. In
New York City, that coffee right there
is $9.50
plus a tip.
It's over 11 bucks. I know because I was
just in New York. So
today we we had a bunch of props here
and I said, "Well, let's try to show
like what what is $27.40." Like when I
go to my hotel later when I leave here,
a cocktail is going to be 30 bucks,
right? I was just in New York City
cocktail. I had a cocktail in my hotel
was $31.50.
Wine $50. Eating out. You go and have
lunch today, it's going to be $25. And
people say, 'Well, I have to eat.' And I
go, I know you do, but you could also
brown bag your lunch. It's what my
grandmother did. Now, her friends teased
her. But my grandmother was able to
retire to California. And her friends
all got stuck in Milwaukee, Wisconsin,
where it was cold because they couldn't
afford to retire the way she did.
>> How many people could
actually save $27 a day? Because if I go
back again, just over 10 years of my
life, I mean, there's no chance I could
save $27 in a day. There's just no
there's just no there's no way
>> if you go back to what age?
>> If I go back to between
like 18 19 years old roughly that period
of my life.
>> Yeah.
>> There was no way I could have save $27 a
day.
>> Here's really the question. Do you have
friends and do you think you have people
who work with you
who are making more than $50,000 a year
and they're not saving $27 a day?
They're not even saving $10 a day. This
is true. I actually did a bit of
research um on this and it says
approximately 40 to 50 million families,
if we just take the United States where
I think there's what 330 million people
roughly um approximately 40 to 50
million families in the US can
realistically save $27 a day. This
represents roughly the top 30 to 35% of
households. For everyone else, the
bottom 65 to 70%. Saving that amount
would require either extreme poverty
level budgeting or is a mathematical
impossibility. over 40 million people
they think can afford to save $27.50 a
day.
>> Yes. It's based based on income and
expenditure data from 2025 to 2026
approximately 40 to 50 million families
in the US can realistically save $27 a
day.
>> So for those 40 to 50 million people in
the United States that would be
lifechanging. Now are there people who
can't afford to say that? Absolutely. In
the United States I I was just in uh
Arizona. I just did a keynote speech. I
asked the audience,
this is when the government was shut
down. I said, "How many people do you
think in America are taking and
receiving SNAP checks?"
>> What's that?
>> Thank you. Because, by the way, most
Americans don't even know what a snap
check is. That's a check that the
government gives to people for food. And
the dollar amounts a little over $6 a
day. So, smart people in a room, by the
way, I didn't know the answer to this a
week prior either. The answer is about
41 and a half million Americans
get a snap check.
When I told the room that, the room
gasped. I said, "So when you under when
you hear that the government was shut
down for six weeks,
that was three pay cycles."
Well, the average American doesn't have
two weeks of expenses set aside.
I I mean, I don't think everybody fully
grasps the problem right now. Four out
of 10 Americans can't get their hands on
$1,000 in case of emergency purposes. If
you actually dig into the Federal
Reserve data, it's 37% of Americans
can't get their hands on $400 in case of
emergency purposes. So, there's a whole
section of America that's truly
struggling. Like, but there's a whole
lot of America
that is still struggling. They're living
paycheck to paycheck, but their money is
being taken from them all the time
because they don't have a plan for it.
For that bottom 60% of Americans that my
research says wouldn't be able to save
$27 a day. Um, the data reveals a
discretionary income cliff. Once you
drop below the top 40% of earners, the
money available after bills vanishes
rapidly. The top 20% which earn I think
$96,000
per household are in a surplus. The
middle 20% um have a $15,000 surplus uh
which the $27 a day takes 66% from. But
the bottom 40% often have a roughly
$2,000 surplus. So it's impossible for
them to get to the $10,000 for that
bottom 40%.
What's what's the advice for them?
>> Start with something. Okay. It's like we
took this 50 and we said cut it in half
25.
I would say can you save a dollar a day?
I have actually talked about this idea
really simple. Could you save $10 a day
for 100 days? So like if you're
listening to me and you happen to really
be struggling right now, my question
would be could you save $10 a day for
100 days? Why? Because it would get you
to your first $1,000 and you now have
more than 50% of Americans who don't
have savings. And I can't tell you how
many people have come back after a
hundred days and said, "Okay, I did it.
It wasn't easy." For some people, saving
$10 a day could be really really hard.
But
you're you're into fitness. You saw my
son who just came in here.
Fitness is built through daily action,
right? It's built through daily action.
Daily eating well, going to the gym,
doing certain things on a regular basis.
Savings, the same thing.
There's a company called Acorns. I
invested Acorns back in 2015. Acorns
came up with an app that helps you roll
your change up. So, if I go to Starbucks
and I spend $9.50 on a coffee,
you can round it up where the 50 cents
to 10 bucks is put into investments.
Just rounding up your change.
And people have saved tens of thousands
of dollars over the last 10 years by
just rounding up their change.
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I had a friend of mine contact me and I
I spoke to one of the previous financial
adviserss and educators that I'd spoken
to on the show about him. He told me he
was in deep financial debt. Probably
earns about £50,000 or dollars a year,
but has got himself into real debt. And
I imagine a lot of my listeners are are
somewhat in debt, whether it's credit
card debts or loans or others. Do you
have any specific advice to people that
are currently straddled with debt?
>> Absolutely. Because it's one of the most
important things you need to know how to
get out of. Debt is like quicksand. Like
you know, you talked earlier about how
you were in debt and what that felt
like. When I came out of college and I
had $12,000 in credit card debt, it felt
like the greatest weight on my
shoulders. Like I was carrying like a 50
lb backpack. And how did I get out of
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give you the very simple formula to
getting out of debt. DolP. DolP stands
for done on last payment. If you said to
me, David, I've got five credit cards.
I'd say, "Okay, Stephen,
I'd take a piece of paper just like this
and I'd start listing your credit
cards." I'd go one, two, three, four,
five. And I'd list them all. Visa,
Mastercard,
and I'd list them. And then I want to
know, Steve, how much do you owe? So, I
put the dollar amount down. And what I
would do is I put the dollar amount down
on paper and I list it small
to large.
Then I want to know the interest rate.
Now, what people say is, "Oh, you should
take the highest interest rate and pay
it off first." But I wouldn't tell you
that, Stephen.
I'd tell you you take the smallest
credit card. I don't care what the
interest rate is.
>> The smallest amount.
>> Smallest amount. So maybe this card
right here is $500. And this card down
here is 3,000.
I'd have you make minimum payments on
every card
automatically. This is really important,
the automatic part. Have you go on I'd
literally go into your house. I'd open
up the I'd open up your iPad and I'd
have you make minimum payments online
automatically so that every card's paid
on time. Then I'd say, "Stephen, how
much extra money do you have?" Because I
want you to put it all towards the
smallest card. We're going to get that
small card paid off as fast as possible.
We're going to add all the extra money
to that small card. Minimum payments on
everything. Once that card's paid off,
we're going to go like this. You don't
have to close the account because we
don't want to lower your credit score,
but we're going to put that card over
here. never use it. Now, we're going to
go to the next next smallest card.
Some people call this the snowball
approach.
The reason I teach this system is it
reduces the amount of credit cards you
have as fast as possible.
And you see yourself make progress. It's
really important to see yourself make
progress when you're doing anything
financially.
Then I would attack the interest rates
because the interest rates aren't always
permanent. You can negotiate your rates
lower. You can move credit cards to
another card with a low interest rate.
Have to be very careful though when you
do that because they're waiting for you
to make a slip up and make a late
payment. And when they do, they'll jack
the credit card interest rates back up
again.
You can also call up your credit card
companies if you're really struggling
and tell them, "I'm struggling and I'd
like to know if you have a program in
place where I can stop the interest rate
and pay these cards off and more
accessible." Like this is basically what
the nonprofit credit card counseling
organizations do. But the credit card
companies often have programs too for
this. They'll tell you to stop using the
card. they'll actually make it so you
can't use the card anymore, but they'll
stop the interest rate. So, that
approach has helped so many people get
out of credit card debt.
Now, I just want to say something super
important because I've gone through
this.
When you go through the work of getting
out of credit card debt,
it's a huge victory.
Don't go out and celebrate
on the credit cards because I got myself
out of credit card debt in college,
junior year, and then I went out and
celebrated and got myself back into
credit card debt.
>> And people do this all the time. Usually
people get themselves in a hole at least
twice, sometimes three times.
Don't go back in a hole again. Uh I
didn't carry credit cards for 30 years.
I only carried a debit card and I had to
pay it off every month. Should these
people um who are in the bottom sort of
60% be thinking at all about how to make
more money, how to increase their
income?
>> Absolutely. And what are the like the
easiest ways to do that would that you'd
recommend just from your own experience
of you know being in the professional
world and
>> so my experience and I know that you
look you wrote this great book diary of
a CEO right anybody hasn't read your
book you have this great book what's the
best way to grow your income if you have
a job it's to be good at what you do
right you can have a job at minimum wage
let's pretend you work at McDonald's and
you have a job working minimum wage
McDonald's. The owner of McDonald's, the
guy who owns that franchise or the gal
that owns that franchise desperately
needs good employees. Who becomes a
manager that makes more money? The
person who works really well. Now, a lot
of people, I don't I don't know if I
want to work McDonald's. I'm just giving
it as an example. Anywhere you work, how
you grow your income is you are the best
at what you do. You show up early. You
have a game plan at work. You work late.
You do what you say you're going to do.
You don't wait to be told what to do,
right? Like I've been an entrepreneur
all my lifetime. The hardest thing about
being an entrepreneur is what?
>> Yeah.
>> Everything.
>> It's everything. And most people are
entrepreneurs go, "Well, it's, you know,
a lot of times it's hard to have good
people unless you're a good leader."
People are so thirsty to have jobs with
purpose and meaning. And most people are
actually looking for leadership.
So if you can be really good at what you
do, you will make more money. There's no
limit to wealth in the world, right?
Like we've never seen so much wealth
being created in our entire lives as
right now. If I were young, a lot of
people, well, you should learn AI.
Yeah, you know what? Probably you
definitely should learn how to use AI
because if you don't learn how to use
AI, you're going to have really limited
skills and go the and do certain jobs.
You know what else people are going to
go out and do? Learn how to be a
plumber. Learn how to be electrician.
Learn how to put up garage doors. I've
got friends. I got I was just recently
on a podcast with a guy who's made a
billion dollars putting in garage doors.
>> And he took me through his warehouse and
showed me their garage door models. And
I was like, you know, I've got a friend
who makes gyms that go in garages. I
just connected them. He's got a huge
business making gyms for garages.
There's just no limit to the amount of
opportunities out there. You have to
though get out of a stuck mind frame. I
mean, you had Tony Robbins here. If
there's anybody who can help you get out
of a stuck mind frame, it's that guy,
right? But you can't you can't have they
Zig Ziggler used to call it stinking
thinking. You have to have
the ability to look into the future and
believe that your future can be as
exciting today or better. I put up a
post yesterday. I said, um, I would
rather be an optimist and be wrong than
a pessimist and be right.
And you show me somebody who wants to
make more money, go into the world an
optimist and figure out how to go make
more money.
Do you think a lot of this is a mindset
at at at the core of it? Obviously there
are real socioeconomic factors and
there's people live in certain
situations and if I think back to you
know where I was born in Botswana
there's just less opportunity and
sometimes you have repressive
governments and other factors that will
objectively keep you stuck but all other
things being equal
how much of the game is mindset.
>> It always comes down to a decision and
we started by talking about my
grandmother. If my grandmother hadn't
made a decision at 30 that she didn't
want to be poor, she was tired of living
paycheck to paycheck. If she hadn't
decided that she would go out and teach
herself about money and take 50 cents of
her paycheck and 50 cents from my
grandfather's paycheck and start
investing,
I wouldn't be here today. She made a
decision that had a ripple effect
through our family. She built financial
security for herself with that one
decision.
She taught my father how to invest and
he was a financial adviser for over 45
years. My sister's a financial adviser.
I was a financial adviser. I spent the
last 30 years teaching people about
money. One woman's decision had this
ripple effect. So, one thing I say to
people who are listening, especially the
moms,
sometimes you got to make a decision
that's not just for you.
You're actually making a decision for
your family. and you can come up with a
list of reasons why this stuff won't
work. Somebody who's watching this show
or listening to us right now, they're
already interested in this. That's why
they're here. Now, they're here for a
couple reasons. Either A, they're
hurting financially and they know they
need to fix something. Great. Start
where you are. Fix what needs to be
fixed. Some people are like, you know, I
think I'm doing pretty well, but I'm not
sure if I'm doing everything well. you
know, I I've I've opened up my Roth IRA
or I've opened up my 401k plan. I'm
putting some money away, but I don't
know if I'm putting enough money away.
Then you can improve what you're doing.
Some people like, I'm renting. I think I
would like to buy a house someday. All
right, make that a goal. I teach three
buckets when it comes to money. Three
baskets. Pay yourself first for
retirement. We haven't even talked about
emergencies yet. Putting aside putting
aside money for emergency purposes. Have
to talk about that. You got to you got
to get more money put aside for
emergency purposes and then building a
dream account. You need to put money
away for your dreams. Those three
accounts should be automated.
>> And on that point of having three
accounts, you call it a future account,
an emergency account, and a dream
account. How much of your earnings
should you be putting into each of those
accounts on a monthly basis?
>> All right. So, keep it super simple. I
recommend one hour a day. Again, said
this earlier, it's 12 and a half% of
your gross income. When you say 1 hour a
day, you mean one hour of the the time
you work per day.
>> Yeah. So, whatever you make an hour.
>> Yeah.
>> It's if you're say if if you're working
a 40hour work week, 12 and a half% of
your gross income goes off the top into
a retirement account. Now, let me just
say something up for the yahutters.
They're like, I can't go from 0 to 12%.
There's no way. Then start at 1%.
If you're not saving right now and
you're listening to us and all you do
when you leave this podcast is make one
decision
and that decision is I'm going to save
1% of my income and you start that this
month your life will change. Your life
will change because you start the
process of making a difference. It's
just like the first day you go to the
gym. Now I will tell you if you save 1%
of your income you won't notice it. And
if you did that every month for a year,
at the end of the year, you would have
saved 12% and you will be saving four
times what the average American saves
and you will be in a rockstar shape.
Then the second hour, this is where
people's minds blow up. But the second
hour, so the first hour goes for the
future, the second hour goes for safety
and for dreams. So 30 minutes of your
income, roughly 5%
should go into an emergency account and
another 5% goes into a dream account.
Now, that dream account could be for
buying a house, could be saving money
for college, could be the vacation you
want to take at the end of the year,
could be getting married, could be the
engagement ring, but you're putting
money away for your dreams. Because when
you put money away for your dreams,
that's how they become real.
>> And you know, the book is called The
Automatic Millionaire. This is a book
that sold over two million copies
>> um on its own.
Why did you use the word automatic?
>> Unless your financial plan is automatic,
it will fail.
How do I know this? Because I spent nine
years as a financial adviser at Morgan
Stanley and I got to see firsthand.
Everyone who came into my office with an
ordinary income who built wealth, they
did it by saving automatically.
Every single time a client came into my
office and they said, "I'm going to
bring you a check every month myself." I
never had a client save for more than
six months. They stopped.
When it once you make the decision to
automate your financial life, it works
in the background.
Now, here's the thing. Everybody else is
already doing this to you.
You go sign, you go to go to a gym to go
work out. They don't ask you to bring
them money every month. They
automatically bill you. You get a phone
bill, they automatically bill you.
Today, in many cases, when you rent,
they automatically pull the money out of
your account. The banks automatically
take money from you for your mortgage.
When you pay taxes, they're all
automated. Everyone takes money from you
automatically. Everything that you sign
up for on your phone is a subscription
service. Netflix, go through your credit
card today. Open up your phone, look at
all your subscriptions. All those
businesses are taking money from you
automatically. Why? That's the only way
they can be in business. They know if
they don't get money from you
automatically, you won't keep using
them. Most people who start off with a
free subscription, it'll take them three
to six months to turn off something that
they don't use.
I'm here getting people to automate
their financial life for themselves.
Is there simple ways, apps, tools,
websites we can use to go through all of
our subscriptions and turn them all off?
>> Yes, there are. So, let me tell you the
easiest way. This is really actually
free publicity for Apple, okay? Because
so many people have Apple phones. Number
one, only do your subscriptions inside
of Apple. In an ideal world, don't pay
anybody directly. Do it all through
Apple.
>> Why? Because if you go to the bottom of
your phone and you don't know how to do
this and you put subscriptions,
up will pop everything that you've
signed up for and you can go click click
click and turn them all off.
>> Do that.
>> Another thing I will tell you is that
when you sign up for anything, let's say
it's a one year because everything now
is a one-year trial subscription or a
one month trial subscription.
The moment you sign up for it, shut it
off. Because what happens is if you sign
up for anything and think of any
subscription you can imagine. Companies
hate me for this. The moment you shut it
off, when the time comes for it to
renew, they will offer you a better deal
to renew.
>> Okay, so I've opened up my phone. I've
gone to the settings. I've clicked on my
name in the settings and then I've
clicked on the button subscriptions.
I have one, two, three, four, five, six,
seven, eight, nine, 10, 11 of which
three of them
I would keep.
So, all these other ones have just been
running in the background and and it's
because I used an app one time and it
signed me up to some kind of free trial
and I just totally forgot to cancel it.
So, I've got Oh my god, some of them are
massive.
>> Okay. So, so as you do this, what you're
doing right now is a real life example.
So, if someone's listening to us,
watching this, they're married, they've
got kids, or they're single by
themselves,
this one exercise, my guess is there are
many, many people listening that could
find $50, $100, $200 a month that they
could shut off and redirect that money
to saving and investing and that could
change their life. Are there other apps
you can use and go to to figure out how
to cancel or leave your subscription?
>> So there there are and most these apps
you have to pay for, right? So like you
can go to So then you're right back into
paying for an app now. Probably the two
popular most popular apps are Monarch
and Ynab. You can also do this with your
credit cards. Um the credit card comes
doing a better job of showing it on your
statements. And again, I go back to the
Apple example because Apple makes it the
easiest to shut these off.
>> Maybe some of you will be spending $100
a month. So, I did $100 a month. And it
says if you invest if you sort of cancel
those subscriptions and invest $100 per
month for 40 years, an annual rate of
return of about 10%, which is roughly
what you get if you just put it into
some of the big tech index funds at the
moment. The total money you'll have in
40 years is $632,000,
which is staggeringly life-changing
amount of money.
>> It's staggering. And let me just give
some very specific investment for people
to consider, right? And they still need
to do their own due diligence and read
perspectuses. And yes, there's risk
involved in the stock market. But the
first one I would talk about and look
at, and these are all listed in my book
because I just want to give because
people like, what's an index fund? What
do I buy? Look at the Vanguard Total
Stock Market Fund. The symbol is VTI.
Okay, this this is actually the largest
index fund in the world. There's
trillions of dollars now in this fund. I
talk about it in the book. I looked up
the annual uh the annual returns of VTI
the last 10 years have been 14%.
14% annually. This fund has 3500
stocks. You you know all the biggest US
stocks. So you don't have to figure out
what stock to buy. You buy this fund,
you buy an exchange traded mutual fund,
you have access to 3,500 great American
companies. I'll give you another stock
index fund. I love
>> and everybody can buy this on their
phone right now probably
>> literally. You can go to Vanguard,
Schwab, Fidelity. This funds, this is an
ETF, so it's available everywhere. It's
a stock. And if you want to figure out
how to do this and you're listening
right now, what I'd do is use ChatV or
Gemini and put in the stock the the fund
that um has been said and ask it how do
I invest in this in the country that I'm
in? What app do I need to use? What
website do I need to use? Again, this is
not investment advice. Well, I guess it
kind of sounds like it is, but
>> Well, and but it's also like so like if
someone says, "Okay, but I'm not I'm in
um wherever I am. I'm in the UK. What's
an index fund in the UK that covers the
UK?" I'll give you the global version of
VTI. So, because I own these funds, so I
So, the global version of VTI is a
symbol which is all I'm going to give
you another Vanguard fund.
>> When you say you own these funds, for
clarity, you mean you've invested in
them?
>> Yeah, I've got money in these mutual
funds. So, this other fund because I
have I want money my my personal money
that's in the stock market. I am
one-third global investments and I'm
twothirds US investments.
So, I have a lot of global index funds.
This global index fund the symbol is Va.
Okay. So this is the Vanguard global
index fund without US stock. Symbol
again is VA.
That fund last year and it won't always
be like this because global investments
have underperformed the US for a long
period of time. That fund last year was
up 35%.
Last year, global investments
significantly outperformed the US
investments and the US investment market
was up on average of 17%. So the US
markets were up 17% or higher and global
investments were up 30% or higher. Now
there will be a point in time, Stephen,
without a shadow of a doubt that we will
see a market pullback. And when that day
comes, you have to stay the course and
keep investing automatically monthly.
And then I'm going to give you a tech
fund because everybody wants to know
what should I invest in that is, you
know, should I invest in an AI tech
fund? And my answer would be is you
don't need an AI tech fund. You need the
best tech fund that's existed in my
lifetime. And that's the NASDAQ 100 ETF.
The symbol for that is QQQ.
So go and look up, you know, go into
whatever you're using and go look up
QQQ, read about the top 100 stocks in
the NASDAQ and the returns for QQQ. I
mean, actually, in the top of my mind
right now, I can I think it's over 20%.
Um, but look up what has the QQQ total
return been for the last 10 years.
I can tell you since I put money in QQQ,
it's gone up tenfold. Now, the market's
been unbelievable and there will be
pullbacks. And that is also why I should
say this, Stephen, because we haven't
even addressed this. I don't run around
telling people to put all their money in
the stock market. I also don't think
that young people should be putting all
their money in the stock market. I think
one of the greatest myths out there is
that when you're young, you should take
a lot of risk. Let me say that one more
time because it's super important. So,
make sure it sits.
Everyone says when you're young, you
should take risk.
The problem with that advice is that
today people in their 20s and their 30s
are taking a lot of risk. They're not
just putting money in index funds.
They're putting money in meme coins.
They're putting money in meme stocks.
They're putting money in NFTTS.
They're on social media and Tik Tok
watching people day trade. They're
trying to get into options. What they're
really trying to do is get rich quick.
All I can tell you is the older guy in
the room here, people who try to get
rich quick stay broke forever. And the
problem with taking too much risk with
your money when you're young is if you
keep if you do everything right, like
let's just say you're the you shut off
all your subscriptions and you're saving
$200 a month, but you put that $200 a
month into a junk investment and you
turn around in 10 years and you have
nothing to show for it, you'll stop
investing.
>> Looking at the QQQ data, so this is the
NASDAQ 100. So this invests in the top
100 companies in America. in the NASDAQ
stock exchange.
>> The returns over the last 10 years from
2016 to 2026, the annualized returns
have been roughly 19%.
The total return over that period has
been roughly 480%.
So, a $10,000 investment 10 years ago
would now be worth approximately $60,000
today if you'd done nothing.
>> Then nothing
>> ever added to it. Over the last 20
years, the annualized returns, the
return every year has been 15% with a
total return over that period of 1,500%.
And again, so if you've added $10,000 to
it 20 years ago and done nothing, you
would have roughly $170,000
today.
>> So here's the beauty of what you just
did. You checked my my you checked my
advice. You looked at the data and now
you know what has been done in the past,
right? Let me give you a super boring
fund. I'm not sponsored by Vanguard. I'm
just giving generic vanilla stuff here.
Look up the Vanguard balanced fund. So,
right, Vanguard Balanced Fund. And the
Vanguard Balance Fund is 60% stocks and
40% bonds. That by the way is the most
typical asset allocation. The difference
between stocks and bonds in the world.
The average retiree has a portfolio
that's about 60% stock and 40% bonds.
You look up the Valangard balance fund
and what you're going to find is that
fund has averaged over 8% annually since
inception.
It is as boring an investment as they
come. So if someone says, "Well, I don't
want to be 100% stocks. I just want to
be I want to be more conservative, but I
want some stock exposure. The Vanguard
balance fund is a great example.
I list all these funds in the automatic
millionaire. One of the kind of funds I
talk about the most is what's called a
targetdated mutual fund. I don't know if
you guys have you guys have a 401k plan.
>> We have something similar.
>> Okay. So in the US if if you have a 401k
plan what you're going to find when you
open up your 401k plan is you have what
are called targetdated mutual funds.
This is a onestop mutual fund solution
to your investing all the way until you
retire and it will be divided among
stocks and bonds and it will be what's
called rebalanced automatically as you
get closer to retirement. So, it'll go
from being more stocks when you're
young, less stocks as you get older.
There are trillions of dollars now in
these target date mutual funds. When I
wrote the automatic miller 20 years ago,
was just getting started. This automatic
solution to investing has changed the
game of investing for millions of
Americans. That's why there's 24 million
millionaires and that's why there's now
$45 trillion in retirement accounts.
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The other book that you wrote which sold
incredibly incredibly well is this book
about smart couples finish rich. That's
the title. Smart couples finish rich.
Nine steps to creating a rich future for
you and your partner.
>> As it relates to how rich or wealthy you
become, the person you choose and the
way that you configure that
relationship. How consequential is that?
>> It's everything
>> really.
>> It can be everything. Why?
>> You're married. I'm married.
>> Yeah.
>> So, why can it be everything?
>> Because here's what here's what happens
in the real world, Stephen.
>> Often we marry our financial opposite.
So, I always joke like I used to do a
lot of seminars for couples and I'd say
there's two types of people that are
born in the world. One person comes out
literally with a calculator and they're
born to track where all the money goes
and they love to budget and they're
super excited about investing. That's
one kind of person. The other kind of
person loves to shop, loves to spend
money. Almost inevitably those two
people hook up. Now, sometimes two
people who like to spend money marry.
That's a disaster because they end up
broke. So now, what do you do about the
couple that's got their financial
opposites?
That's what led to smart couples finish.
Because
if you are married to your financial
opposite, you will fight about money all
the time. And fights about money are
what lead to divorce. They're the number
one cause of divorce. The real key and
what I've been teaching now for over two
decades is the way you get couples on
the same page when it comes to money is
you start with your values. So you look
at what do you really value most
together as a couple.
You put the money aside for a second.
You go through your values. What's most
important to you. What do you really
care about? You talk about your values.
And then you build a financial plan
around what's really most important to
you.
>> You say that there's six worst money
mistakes that couples make. And the
first of those is not deciding who is
responsible for what.
>> Yeah.
So often in a relationship, one person
pays the bills.
Okay,
who's managing the money? Now, I used to
say in every household there should be
at least one person that's paying the
bills and if the other person is
managing the money, meaning that they're
in charge of investments, that you still
get together and go through it. As I've
gotten older, I've really realized how
important this is because I go back to
the fact that the average age is 59.
Average age of widowhood is 59. I'm 59
now. I've had three best friends already
pass away, all men, and they passed away
before they were 57. So, all these
statistics that I talk about, I'm seeing
them come true. And I will tell
especially to the women, hear me loud,
hear me on this loud and clear, but this
is important for the men, too.
The question you need, this is hard to
hear. The question you have to ask
yourself
is if your partner died today,
what would you need to know about the
finances?
And the answer is everything. Now, what
does that mean? Everything. That means
you would need to know where is the
money.
Does he have money in an old 401k plan?
Does he have money in IRA account? Does
he have money in a bank account?
Where are the passwords to get into the
accounts? Where's the will? You know,
six out of 10 people listening to us
today don't have a will. You have to
have a will
>> at any age.
>> At any age. If you, especially if you're
in a relationship, you have to have a
will. If you have kids, you have to have
a will. Is there life insurance? You
know, so many people today who have
children don't have life insurance and
they don't have assets. You should at
least get a million to$2 million term
policy. Super inexpensive. Protect your
family. You have to run the drill,
right? Like we got on a plane, we flew
here today. The first thing they do on a
plane before you take off is they talk
to you about what to do in case of
emergency purposes. The mask's going to
come down. You're going to put it on
your face. Okay. You get on a cruise
boat. The first thing they do is talk
about what you're going to do if the
cruise boat's got a problem. You're
going to go get in these emergency
boats. You need to run the fire drill
for your family on finances. I almost
died like it's now been four years ago.
I uh my wife found me face down, passed
out. I was brought to the hospital in
Florence. Um I was in a coma for four
days. I was in the hospital for 17. I
had menitis. When I came out of just
like a movie, I'm laying down. I mean,
I'm laying down in the hospital.
Doctor's looking over me. Doctor says,
"Do you know what your name is?" I said,
"It's David." He said, "Very good." He
goes, "Your last name is?" I said, "It's
Boach." He says, "Do you know where you
are?" I go, "Yeah, I'm in Milan. I just
had an ankle surgery." Because I had had
an ankle surgery two weeks prior, two
two weeks before that. And he says, "No,
no, you're you're in Santa Maria Nolla.
You're in the ICU. Uh we're treating you
right now for menitis, but now that
you've opened up your eyes, you're going
to be you're going to be okay. You're
safe now." And then they brought my wife
in. They said, "Do you know what her
name is?" I and I made a joke. I said,
"It's Rebecca." She was like, "Who?" I
go, "Honey, I can still be a smartass in
the hospital. It's Alatia." And she
starts screaming and yelling and she's
like, "Oh my god, oh my god, he's okay."
But Stephen, the truth was I wasn't okay
because when you get men and judges, you
get brain swelling. So I couldn't
remember things. I couldn't remember my
passwords to the to the bank account. I
didn't know the passwords to my phone
number anymore, to my phone.
One of the things I did when I came out
of the hospital, because I always manage
the money, is I said to my wife, "We're
going to hire a financial advisor
and you have to be involved in what's
going on." We actually had yesterday our
annual account review. Because I tell
couples, you got to have an annual
account review either together and if
you have a financial adviser at a
minimum with your financial adviser. And
I didn't want to cancel the appointment
because I was, even though you guys
invited me to come here, I'm like, I'm
keeping the appointment. We'll fly here
to flute this morning. And so again,
having worked at, you know, Morgan
Stanley for nine years and been a
financial adviser, I've seen too many
couples not do this,
including sadly Stephen, my dad just
recently passed away. And my dad was in
the money management business his whole
life. So he managed the money and my mom
was not involved. And when my dad passed
away, we had to just like my book, step
in and help my mom with everything. Now,
she's lucky. She's got two kids in the
business, but she didn't. My mom was
just a ripe waiting example of somebody
who could be taken advantage of. So, the
time to learn about money is before
there's a problem. If you took smart
couples finish honestly Stephen that you
it's it's designed to be a a roadmap for
two people together where you can sit
down and go through this book chapter by
chapter together starting with just
organizing your financial information
putting everything into file folders
starts the conversation and then talking
about your values then talking about
your dreams then going into well what
what do you want to share you know you
have a very comp I don't know all your
stuff, but I've followed you for years.
As I told you, I'm a fan of yours. I've
got your book. I've watched your
podcast. I've listened to you now for
years. As your business is expanding,
your life is getting more complicated.
God forbid something happens to you
tomorrow.
>> Yeah. It'd be a [ __ ] nightmare.
>> And she's your fiance.
>> Yeah.
>> She wouldn't even know where to start.
>> And I don't know if she would know who
to call.
So, it's a worthwhile conversation. like
I just had this guy in the show and I
don't know maybe maybe we really need to
like need to involve you a little bit.
>> I was just looking at some of the data
here and it says that in terms of income
ignorance according to a 2021 study by
Fidelity Investments nearly 40% of
couples could not even identify how much
their partner earned. It says in terms
of financial infidelity, surveys from
bank rate and creditcards.com
consistently find that up to 40% of
adults share that they have kept
financial secrets which is hiding cash,
hiding bank statements and hiding debts
that they have from their romantic
partner. So that's almost half and you
pointed at this earlier on which is the
CFO dynamic. In many households, one
spouse acts as the chief financial
officer. And research indicates that
roughly 50% of couples um have a
non-managing spouse who has little to no
idea how much money the family have
total. They don't know where it is and
they don't know the passwords.
>> It can sound scary. It can sound
intimidating. And yet, I can tell you
every day, people who actually kind of
do this basic stuff that we've talked
about, once you start to do it, you feel
a lot better. You feel better instantly.
You don't you don't have to go from
having no savings to having a million
dollars to feel better. If you just
start automatically saving some money,
paying yourself first. The moment you
make that decision, you'll feel better.
You go and you turn off some
subscription fees like you just looked
at. The moment you do that, you'll feel
better. It's literally like a financial
muscle. You start to build this
financial muscle when you start to take
action. It is action that changes your
life. I always say I wrote all these
books. If a person buys a book, reads it
and doesn't do anything, then I was a
form of entertainment.
If you listen to a podcast on money and
you don't do something, then we were
again a form of entertainment.
My purpose for doing this podcast today,
why I got on a plane and flew out here
immediately to do this with you was I
want to try to change somebody's life
today. I've always taken the approach of
like I want to change a person's life
one person at a time. And sometimes the
things I share are hard to hear, but I
also know they wake people up. You had
this great great quote in this book. I
was showing this today to my son.
I'm holding, for those of you who can't
see me, I'm holding Steven's book, A
Diary of the CEO, which has also sold
millions of copies. And this is your
quote on page 233. I wonder if you
remember your quotes because sometimes
you forget them, right?
If you want long-term success in
business, relationships, and life, you
have to get better at accepting
uncomfortable truths as fast as
possible.
When you refuse to accept an
uncomfortable truth, you are choosing to
accept an uncomfortable future.
The one thing that wasn't in this quote
was money.
And everything we're talking about is
I'm like, you're gonna work 90,000 hours
over your lifetime. If you don't pay
yourself first and you have nothing to
show for it, the uncomfortable truth is
you will be broke. We haven't talked
about um global issues and government
issues and debt.
Why do you have to take care of yourself
financially right now more than ever
before?
Because the future is about to radically
change. And I will talk out of both
sides of my mouth for a second. Number
one, I believe the next 10 years, hands
down, will be the greatest opportunity
to build wealth in our lifetime. AI is
create going to create so much wealth
that we've never seen anything like it.
Like when you look at the returns in the
stock market from last year, they're a
result of AI. What's happening is AI is
making companies more profitable and
more productive than they've ever been.
The downside is people are losing their
jobs, right? You've had people on the
show including Tony Robbins talking
about this and there are going to be a
lot more of those job losses. So some
people are going to get much wealthier
and then a whole lot of other people are
going to have a challenge. But there's
another problem that we we're not
talking enough about and that is the
safety nets of governments.
All these safety nets that were created
in the US, Social Security,
Medicare, Medicaid,
unemployment, you can go to through
every single country.
All of these things are called
entitlement programs, which is a fancy
word for saying the government made a
promise to you.
And a whole lot of people are dependent
on that promise and there's not enough
money to pay for those promises. So like
in the US, you take social security. The
average social security check right now
is $1,900.
Not a lot of money, but about 60 million
Americans
depend on that amount of money.
In the US, Social Security, this is
government data, not me. you can do all
this stuff online.
The government is telling us that in
2033, that's around the corner, the
Social Security is going to be
underfunded and they're going to have to
cut the benefits. Now, what they're
talking about is cutting the benefits by
20%. You have a lot of Americans that
that's going to be a real problem for
every country's got this issue because
people are living longer. Governments
have more debt than they've ever had. I
am here to tell you,
it's a cliche term, but no one's coming
to save you. It's you're gonna have to
save yourself and you're gonna have to
take your personal financial well-being
more seriously now than ever before. And
if you do, you will be in great shape.
If you don't, you will be dependent on a
system that is buckling.
One of the things in your I think it's
the sixth point of the six things that
couples get wrong is waiting too long to
pay off the mortgage. What do you mean
by that? I actually had a friend contact
me um and asked this. They said,
"Stephen, I've got some cash that that's
been given to me." I think through an
inheritance. Should I pay off my
mortgage or should I go invest in the
stock market in the S&P 500 or something
else?
>> Yeah.
>> And I didn't know what to say because
I'm not a financial adviser.
>> So, if you called me up and you said,
"David, what what should I do?" I'd go,
"Stephen, what's the rate on your
mortgage?" Then you'd say, "Well, David,
I got a mortgage 5 years ago and it's 2
and a half%." And I'd say, "Okay, well
that's a really low rate, Stephen. You
know what? You can put the money in a
money market account right now and make
more than that. So maybe you don't need
to rush to pay it off as fast as
possible." But if you've got a mortgage
at six or seven or eight%, it's a
no-brainer. The biggest thing I can tell
you about paying down your mortgage
early is actually really simple. Here's
ways to do it. If you make one extra
payment a year on a mortgage, you'll
take a 30-year mortgage and you'll pay
it off, depends on the rate, five, six,
seven years sooner.
So, you can go online, you can run a
calculator. Today, you don't even need
calculator. You just run the question.
You put in your mortgage. You tell
Gemini, here's the size of my mortgage.
Here's my mortgage payment. If I make an
extra payment a year, how many how many
years faster will I pay it off? And how
much will I save? And you'll see the
number. When people see the number in
black and white, they go, "I've got to
do that." Now, here's the key. Make that
payment automatic.
The easiest way you make your payment
automatic is either make one extra
payment at the end of the year or take
your mortgage payment and increase it by
10%. So, if your mortgage payment is
$1,000, make an $1,100 a month mortgage
payment and tell the bank you want to
add that to the principal. When people
do that, they need to make sure though
that money is actually paying down the
principal. And another way to do that is
a bi-weekly mortgage payment plan where
you take your mortgage, you split in
half, you pay half every two weeks.
That'll also pay your mortgage off
early.
>> Prenuptual agreements. I'm engaged.
>> Yep.
>> Should I be getting a prenup?
>> So, I would tell anyone who's getting
married,
number one, if your incomes are not the
same, you should get a prenup. Number
two, if you both have good incomes, you
should get a prenup. Number three, if
you're in your 30s, you should get a
prenup. You would never go into a
business without a contract.
Marriage is the ultimate contract. It
just is. Now, is it romantic to do a
prenuptual agreement? No. Does one
person in the relationship typically not
like the doing a prenup? Yes. I know a
lot of women today who want prenups and
the husbands don't want them. It's
whoever's making the money. But I will
say this about prenups. You need a
lawyer. She needs a lawyer. You cannot
go and do a prenup right before you get
married. When people do that, those
prenups get thrown out the window
because they will claim and say and have
an argument for, I was under
extremely undue influence to sign this
agreement before the wedding. And those
agreements get thrown out even if
there's disclaimer language. And both of
you need attorneys.
And prenuptual agreements can often be
like a negotiation. And you can learn a
lot about your partner that it's not
always pretty. I'm not saying you, but
one can learn a lot about their partner
that's not always pretty when you do a
prenuptual agreement. And once the
prenuptual agreement is done, if it's a
reasonable prenuptual agreement, it goes
in a file. It doesn't get looked at
again. And it won't matter unless the
day comes that you need to pull it out.
And that's for a firsttime marriage.
Okay, you're a second time marriage or a
third time marriage and you've got kids
and custody issues and and and support
for your first wife. You definitely need
a prenup.
>> What is the most important thing we
should have talked about that we didn't
talk about?
>> Stephen, we've talked a lot about money
today, but money is just a tool. So,
what we actually haven't got to talk a
lot about is using money just to free
yourself to live your best life. And you
don't have to have money to live your
best life. Again, money is just a tool.
So, what's most important in life? I'm
going to say things that people know.
Health. You I started following you
because of all the shows you did on
health.
Love.
People hold on to love way too much.
Gratitude.
Being consistently grateful for the life
you have. Friendship.
loving your friends fully
and the la last thing is fun. You know,
I think people go through life and at
some point they stop designing their
life. My grandmother used to say, you
got to dream it, design it, and do it.
And she's like, you're going to run out
of time. So what I would say to anybody
is like this is you've got this one
beautiful moment in time where you're
here.
What do you want?
And start working on that today.
>> You listen to the episode with Tony
Robbins.
>> Yeah.
>> You've referenced him several times in
this conversation. If someone were to
ask me who was the greatest mentor and
the greatest influence in my life
besides my grandmother and my father,
it's Tony Robbins. So I went to Tony
Robbins seminars in the early 90s back
in the day when he had an infomercial
with audio cassettes.
And I went to a program that he taught
in Hawaii. He had this big hotel called
the Yaloa. And he did it he did an
exercise. This is so I it's like I
remember like this yesterday. He said to
this the room we were in and there were
I don't know a thousand of us in this
room. He said, "How many of you have a
dream that you're not working on?" And
we all we all had dreams like and so he
got us into a peak state and he had us
work on our dreams. And then he asked
the question, "How many of you think
you're going to be alive in 10 years?"
Everyone's like, "Yeah, I'm going be
alive in 10 years." He's like, "Great.
So I got a question for you.
Are you going to be alive in 10 years
having worked on your dream?
Hopefully gotten it right, done all the
things I've taught you to do, you know,
modeled the masters, got yourself in
peak state, learned the pattern
recognition.
Have you gotten 10 years older having
gone through your dreams and maybe got
it? Or did you just get 10 years over 10
years older and you let your dream die?
you let your dream die and the room he
just let that sit and then he had us go
off in groups of 10 and share our
individual dream. So we'd all written it
down on paper. So I shared that my dream
and this young kid financial adviser I'm
a guy. I shared my dream was to write a
book called Smart Women Finish Rich and
teach a million women to be smart with
money so they could protect themselves,
teach their kids, and help their family.
My heart's pounding, Stephen. I'm
sharing this idea with 10 strangers. And
then we go back into the room and he's
like, "How'd that go? Are you guys all
ready?" Gets us back in a peak state. 10
minutes later, a woman comes, taps me on
the shoulder, and she says, "I just
heard about your dream. My name's Vicki.
I've worked on Tony's last two books. If
you want to do your book, you're gonna
need a book proposal. You've done books,
you know this. She's like, I can help
you write a book proposal. I hired her.
I started working on that book proposal.
Later, I would go after the same agent
that Tony has, Jan Miller. She'd become
my agent. He'd write a cover letter. I'd
get a book deal, and I'd start working
to help millions of people. It started
at a Tony Robbins seminar. And I go back
to my grandmother, right? Dream it,
design it, and do it.
He gave me the life skills to do that.
And I will tell you something about Tony
because you know, you see Tony on all
these shows and people go, "Is Tony the
real deal?" I Stephen, if I if I was
with you and I send Tony a text and I
and Tony has a lot of friends like this,
Tony gets right back to me. Tonyy's the
real deal. I just went to Germany and
took my older son Jack who's 22 to see
him do UPW in September could bring
tears to my eyes because I wanted Jack
to have the experience without me there.
So he was, you know, bless Tony sitting
in the front row. I came in on day three
when he was in the peak state and I came
in and I watched him, you know, I was
basically his age and I thought, God,
you don't, you know, I went in, I gave
him a hug and I'm like, you just don't
even know. This is just this experience
that you're seeing, what you're learning
today, if you use this stuff, it will
change your life.
That's the power of Tony. And people go,
you know, whatever it is, your podcast,
your events, Tony's events, my books,
we're just catalysts.
But God
God gave you a seed and a dream. And
when we're the catalyst for like, look,
go do this. Listen to that voice.
Whoever your God is, that soul that you
hear yourself saying, I have a dream. If
I only had 10 years left to live, I
would really hate to die with that dream
inside me. That's the dream you go work
on.
>> And since then, you've done exactly
that. You've educated hundreds of
millions of people through your books,
through podcast, seminars, newsletters,
and thousands of media appearances on
how to do exactly that. How to get
financially free, pursue their dreams,
get hold of their money so that they can
live the life that is um destined for
them. And that is an incredible thing.
And you've sold almost 10 million copies
of your books worldwide. I'm sure you're
going to hit that number at some point
soon. And uh I guess you'll never get to
see the impact that that's had on so
many people's lives and how you've
therefore changed the trajectory of
their financial future and their kids
and their kids and their kids like your
grandmother did for you and your family.
I'd highly recommend everybody go and
listen to that episode. I'm actually
going to link it below. So if you
haven't listened to the episode with
Tony Robbins, that's a great next thing
to do if you're still listening now. But
uh David, I wanted to thank thank you so
much for coming and uh you present a
really interesting different perspective
on the subject of money which is is hard
to find. It's rare um but it's very very
very important and I'm hopefully it'll
be consequential for many. We have a
closing tradition as you know um where
we ask the next guest the question left
by the last and the question left for
you is
interesting. If you had all the money
you needed to have to support yourself
and your family, zero financial
worries, what job profession would you
be doing? Or rather, what would you
spend your time on?
>> That's surreal that this is the question
you're giving me that that was asked
before I got here. Like that's that's a
God moment, too. Like that's meant to
be.
>> This is, by the way, I'm not making this
up.
So,
cuz that's me. I have enough. I have all
the money that I need. I have my health
right now. I have my time. And this
year, what am I going to what what I
want to go do my dream for the year? I
want to have an endless ski season. So,
at the end of the year, ask me, did I
ski somewhere every month this year? I
leave you today. I go back to Florence
for 24 hours and I turn around, go to
Verbier, Switzerland with friends. I'm
going to try to ski somewhere every day,
every month this year with friends and
with family all around the world for
fun. I did this as my last dream to help
one more generation be smart with their
money. This is my final book. This may
be my final podcast. And what you've
done is you've updated your smash hit
best-selling book that's that sold
millions and millions and millions of
copies that you wrote 20 years ago to
make it relevant to the current
financial situation and world that we
live in.
>> And my goal with this was a lot of my
readers now in their 50s and their 60s,
but they've got young kids like I do and
I wanted this to be a book they can put
in their hands.
>> I'm going to link the book below.
Fantastic read. You've written several
incredible books. So, it's I'm going to
link all of them below in the
description for anyone that wants to
grab a copy of them. The Automatic
Millionaire, a powerful one-step plan to
live and finish Rich.
David, thank you.
>> Stephen, thank you. It's been great.
>> I'm going to show you how to get clear
on what you really want, figure out
what's been stopping you, put the plan
in place, and teach you the most
important thing that's made me
successful.
>> And I don't think people fully realize
the significance of how many of the most
influential people on planet Earth you
have worked with and continue to work
with. What is the pattern that you
noticed in those people?
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The video discusses various aspects of financial well-being and wealth building, emphasizing the importance of automation, saving, and smart investing. It debunks myths about renting versus owning a home, highlighting that homeowners are significantly wealthier than renters. The speaker shares personal anecdotes and financial strategies, including the "pay yourself first" principle and the power of investing in index funds. Key takeaways include the need for a financial plan, the benefits of automating savings and investments, and the critical role of mindset in achieving financial freedom. The discussion also touches on managing debt, the differences in financial challenges faced by women, and the importance of couples aligning on financial goals. Ultimately, the message is about taking control of one's financial future through consistent action and informed decisions, emphasizing that wealth building is accessible to everyone regardless of income level.
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