Sati: The Funerals That Kill
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It's October the 4th, 1667.
The traveler, Francois Bernier, sits
down to pen a letter to his friend and
mentor, Jean Chappelan, back home in
France. Bernier is eager to tell
Chapelan of his experience in the
Gujarati city of Surat, an experience
that will stay with him for the rest of
his life. With a trembling hand, Bernier
relates the funeral of a local man. He
tells of a little cabin composed of dry
and thick millet straw with an intermix
mixture of small wood. It is this cabin
that will be burned, sending its
deceased occupant into the other world.
But as Bernier tells Chapelan, the
deceased man will not go alone. As the
funeral p is prepared, another figure
enters the scene.
The figure is of a woman. She's the
man's widow. In Berni's own words, she
is of the middle age and by no means
uncumbly. The widow moves with ferocious
gaity and an undaunted step. She wears
quote a look of confidence, or rather of
insensibility, and has an easy air free
from dejection void of embarrassment.
She is washed and prepared by her
attendees. And then she climbs aboard
the funeral p. To quote Bernier again,
she entered into that cabin, sat down
upon the funeral pile, placed her
deceased husband's head in her lap, took
up a torch, and with her own hand,
lighted the fire within. Meanwhile,
outside the brahinss are busy helping
the flames to catch. Bernier says, "I
know not how many brahmins were busily
engaged in kindling the fire from the
outside." Over the minutes that follow,
the woman is burned to death. She
follows her husband right to the end and
beyond, accompanying him on his journey
to the other side. While Bernier is a
gasast by this practice, he admits that
the woman seems to have gone willingly.
She seems to have been an active agent
in her own demise, choosing to join her
husband on his journey into death and
happy to do so. But as Bernier
continues, this was not always the case.
In the same letter, Bernier tells of a
funeral he witnessed in Lahore. While
the events of Sarat were no doubt
disturbing, the account of the Lahore
funeral is even more so. The participant
is far younger and does not seem willing
at all. As Berniier writes, "At Lor, I
saw a most beautiful young widow
sacrificed who could not, I think, have
been more than 12 years of age." The
widow of Lahore displays none of the
confidence and guiety and easy air of
the widow of Surat, and instead, quote,
"The poor little creature appeared more
dead than alive when she approached the
dreadful pit. The agony of her mind
cannot be described. She trembled and
wept bitterly.
There is real fear among those in
attendance that the girl may try to flee
or that she may cause a scene unbecoming
of such a ritual. So three or four of
the brahinss assisted by an old woman
who held her under the arm forced the
unwilling victim toward the fatal spot.
They seated her on the wood and tied her
hands and feet lest she should run away.
As Bernier watches on, the ritual
reaches its disturbing conclusion. He
finishes his account with this. And in
that situation, the innocent creature
was burnt alive.
What Bernier witnessed was Satty, the
process of a widow burning herself to
death on her husband's funeral p. This
is understandably a controversial topic.
We've witnessed two examples of the
process, one seemingly voluntary and one
far from it. But the reality is not as
clear-cut as this. Often the line
between voluntary and involuntary is
worryingly blurred. For centuries,
various South Asian rulers tried to ban,
reform or discouraged the process.
Writers like Banner spoke out against it
whilst the Mughal emperors like Humayan
and Akbar tried to bring the practice to
a full end. The feminist historian Julia
Leslie said that many people avoid
discussing Satti altogether for two
reasons. One reason is that the practice
was quote never common and in many areas
of India it barely happened at all. So
therefore some believe that dwelling on
Satti quote merely gives India a bad
name. The second reason is that trying
to understand Satti is tantamount to
explaining it away. Sociologist Mary
Daly speaks of the language of
understanding which is used to minimize
the suffering of women throughout the
ages. But rather than ignore sati
altogether or try to explain it away, we
can instead confront the history of the
practice. We can gain a clearer picture
of the scriptural misunderstandings and
social factors that have contributed to
its use throughout the ages and led to
the deaths of thousands of women guilty
of nothing more than being married to a
man who died.
For defenders of Satti across the
centuries, their reasoning was very
clear. The process of sati is enshrined
in Hindu scripture and in Brahic law.
But this is only true to an extent. In
fact, many Hindu scholars take the
opposite argument. What is true is that
Satti takes its name from Hindu text
from the first millennium B.C. in these
earliest mentions. Sati is not a process
at all, but in fact a goddess. Sati was
the daughter of Daxshia who in turn was
the son of the creator god Brahma. This
made Daxshia and Satti powerful entities
and they lived lives to match. Daxa and
his family enjoyed luxury and opulence
among their fellow divine beings. But
Satti and her father did not see eye to
eye. Daxa doted on his daughter and
wanted her to live a grand life worthy
of her social standing amongst the gods.
Sati, on the other hand, had fallen in
love with Shiva, the destroyer god.
Sati's father was displeased by her love
for Shiva. Shiva lived very differently
from Dasha and his kin. Shiva's
existence was Spartan and modest. The
destroyer god consorted with some of the
lowliest beings of the universe. Surely,
he was not a good fit for Daxer's
daughter. And so, when Sati married
Shiva, Daxia was apoplelectic with rage.
During a grand yagna or sacrificial
ceremony held by her father, Sati was
publicly humiliated by Daxshia. He
chastised his daughter and poured scorn
upon both Satti and Shiva. Satti, whose
name means truthful or virtuous in
Sanskrit, could not accept the
humiliation and shame. She decided
instead to take action. The goddess
turned from her father and leapt into
the Agnes sacrificial fire. Though the
other guests attempted to save her,
Satti died in the flames. She destroyed
her being and returned her energy to the
Savaloka or universe. While the brutal
death of Satti sounds like the end of
the story, her self- emilation was
really just the beginning. An enraged
Shiva brought violent retribution down
on the heads of Daxia and the other gods
attending the ceremony. Shiva then
wandered the universe carrying the
half-burned corpse of his former bride
until Sati returned to this world in the
new form of Pavati and the two were wed
once again. Partly due to her
self-sacrifice, Satti became an
idealized version of a woman. She was
someone who was willing to give her life
for the love of her husband and for
their mutual honor. In time, she would
give her name to the process of
self-sacrifice. The idea of a woman who
joined her deceased husband on his
funeral p became synonymous with Satti
and her story. But you might have
noticed something of a disconnect here.
While Satti did burn herself alive, this
did not take place following her
husband's death. Instead, Sati's suicide
came after her bullying and humiliation
at the hands of her father. This is just
the first of the contradictions that
scholars have identified between ancient
teachings and the reality of sati as a
practice. There will be many more across
its long history.
The sacrifice of wives and concubines
after the death of a husband happened
right across the world in the first and
second millennia BC. Evidence of similar
processes have been found in Greece,
Germany, Eastern Europe, Scandinavia,
and Egypt amongst other places. During
the funeral of Chinese Emperor Chin Xi
Huang in 221 BC, officials were ordered
to quote, "Execute and bury all
concubines who had never given birth
because it was inappropriate to let them
leave the palace." The discovery of
dozens of small tombs at Chinshi's
mausoleum, each packed with the bones of
young women, suggests that this order
was indeed carried out. Satty like
processes also occurred in what is now
Kazakhstan and Tkmanistan between 1,500
and 500 BC. Archaeologist Elena Kousmina
has even suggested that theerary
practices of the Bronze Age and
Reanovven cultures were similar to those
of the Vadic Indian cultures from
roughly the same period. But across all
these locations, spousal sacrifice was
rare. And what's more, it was usually
reserved for the wives of kings,
emperors, and chieftains. It wasn't
common for ordinary women to follow
their husband into the grave, and it
certainly was not expected. Narrowing
our scope to Vadic India, most scholars
now believe the early Sati practices
were largely metaphorical. The historian
Ramila Tappa believes that widows went
through a process of symbolic self-
emulation, but would not usually be
consumed by the flames. The widow would
then remain in the family by marrying
her husband's brother. According to
another historian, Anand Yang, the widow
would quote lay on her husband's funeral
p before it was lit, but was raised from
it by a male relative of her dead
husband. Analysis of grave sites tells
us that some widows did burn themselves
to death on their husband's funeral p,
but most probably did not. It wasn't
until several centuries later that a
more literal interpretation of the
process became popular. Between the
fifth and seventh centuries, Sati became
increasingly common, particularly
amongst the nobility and the warrior
classes. The Eranpillar inscription from
the year 510 tells us of the Gupta
emperor general Guparaja who died in
service of his master and of the wife
who followed him. Guparaja went to
heaven becoming equal to Indra the best
of the gods and his devoted attached
beloved and bayus wife clinging to him
entered into the mass of fire. The 7th
century writer Banner gives us accounts
of royal women like Rajashri who
attempted sati after her husband died.
He also speaks of queen Yasumati who
burned herself to death while her dying
husband was still alive. But Bana also
gives accounts of other women like Rati
and Duchala who did not carry out ritual
self- emulation. In fact, Bana is
severely critical of the process. The
custom is a foolish mistake of
stupendous magnitude. It does not help
the dead for he goes to heaven or hell
according to his deserts. It does not
ensure reunion since the wife goes to
the hell reserve for suicides. By
living, she can still do much good. By
dying, she only adds to her misery.
Banner is one of several writers to
criticize the process of sati. Several
centuries later, Midati wrote that sati
is a form of suicide and so is
prohibited by the vades. He also said
that sati is a type of violence and
therefore goes against vadic dharmic
traditions. But despite this criticism,
the practice continued to grow in
popularity in some locations. This was
helped by its increasing acceptance
amongst Brahic scholars. In the 7th
century, it appeared in Brahman law
books for the first time and from the
8th century onwards. The Vishnui
scripture mentioned Sati specifically.
Though the practice is not mentioned in
the ancient Hindu texts, its appearance
in these early medieval texts give Sati
some more religious weight. But why did
these scholars go out of their way to
enshrine Sati in medieval texts? Why did
they feel the need to support the
process? For Anadyang, this change was
due to anxiety over the status of
widows. For a wife, outliving her
husband made her spiritually
inospicious. Early Hindu codes like
Manuspriti outline ways in which a widow
can live in spiritual harmony after her
husband's death. For example, she may
choose to live a life of pious
aestheticism. While this is not
particularly feminist, it's still better
than being burned alive. However, a
widow was also an unattached woman and
this caused a problem. As Anan Yang
says, "A woman without a husband
constituted a grave danger to her
community because of the supposedly
irrepressible sexual powers she
possessed. A capacity which always had
the potential to disrupt her richly
prescribed life of austerity. to avoid
temptation for herself and for others
around her. The widow could instead
choose to burn herself alive. But Sati
wasn't just the way to avoid sexual
dishonor. It was also a way to actively
achieve serious spiritual rewards. Yang
continues, "By becoming a sati, a widow
not only ended the threat she posed to
the spiritual welfare of others, but
also reaped honor and merit, perhaps
enough to last 35 million years for
herself, her husband, and the families
of her husband, her mother, and her
father." So, Satti was encouraged for
noble women and those of the upper
casts. This was supposedly for the
widow's benefit and for that of everyone
around her. As the Middle Ages
progressed though, sassy began to cross
class boundaries. It was no longer
reserved for people of the upper class,
but became increasingly common right
across society. There are probably
several key reasons for this. One is the
declining position of women in medieval
Indian society. Historian Raml Tappa
links Sati to two things. one, the
subordination of women in patriarchal
society, and two, a desire to exert
control over female sexuality. As we've
seen, a widow was not only considered
socially worthless, but also spiritually
dangerous. And so, Satti was encouraged
as a way to solve the problem of
unattached women. Another reason is
Sanskritization. And if you don't know
what that means, Anand gives us a
definition. It is the process whereby
lower casts aspire for higher positions
by emulating the customs, rituals,
ideology and way of life of higher
casts. Yang believes that the lower cast
groups in parts of northern, western and
southern India adopted sati as a way to
improve their own social position. Later
a third reason emerged further fueling
the spread of Satti and this was the
culture clash between the Hindu Rajput
warrior clans and the Muslim Mughal
Empire. For the Rajput clans, self-
emulation was an established way to
preserve honor. At the siege of Chau in
1303, Queen Padmini is said to have
burned herself to death alongside other
Rajput women rather than be captured by
the Muslim forces of the Delhi
Sultanate. The process of burning
yourself alive rather than submit to
capture is known as Ja and is repeated
many times in both history and legend.
Some examples are quite astonishing in
their scale. In 1528, Queen Kavati
committed ja rather than submit to
Bahadasha. She shot herself in a
building and lit a store of gunpowder.
The resulting explosion killed Kavati
and 13,000 other women who decided to
commit ja along with her. Ja and Sati
are very different, but the mechanics
and nature of death are similar. Elite
Radput clans may have increased their
usage of sati as a way to maintain their
Hindu traditions and to differentiate
themselves from the Muslim Mughal
Empire. As the historians Cynthia
Talbert and Katherine Asher said in
their 2022 book India before Europe, in
some respects, Rajput and Mughal culture
remain separate. Attitudes towards
widowhood are one case in point. Islam
allows for remarage of widows. High cast
Hindus on the other hand opposed widow
remarage with some believing a widow
should emulate herself on her husband's
funeral p. It was particularly
associated with elite Rajput families.
But this idea of maintaining Hindu
traditions presented another problem.
The early Hindu scriptures do not
explicitly support sati other than as a
symbolic practice. And this led to the
alteration and reinterpretation of these
early scriptures. In some cases, this
may have occurred accidentally. For
example, Sati is mentioned in the
Rigveda dating back to the second
millennium BC, but is largely symbolic.
Anand Yang believes that one key word in
the Rigveda was misinterpreted. The word
agre meaning to go forth became agy or
into the fire. This in turn was used as
a justification for Sati. This mistake
may have been accidental, but other
tampering with historical texts was
probably deliberate. The Muhabarata is
one of the most important epics in the
Hindu tradition and parts of it were
written as early as the 3rd century BC.
Inside there are mentions of the suicide
of Princess Madraati through Sati which
was used to give further scriptural
weight to the practice. But scholars of
the Mahabarata have pointed out how
Madraati suicide contradicts with other
parts of the text and was most likely
added later. This addition may have been
another way to justify the process of
Satti during the medieval period. By the
late Middle Ages though, rulers were
growing increasingly uncomfortable with
the idea of Satti. In the Delhi
Sultanate, attempts were made to ensure
that sati was only conducted voluntarily
and that women were not being forced to
throw themselves onto the funeral p. By
the Mughal period from 1526 onwards,
there were real attempts to end the
practice. Emperor Huayan tried to ban it
but withdrew the ban when it proved
unpopular. Emperor Akbar introduced more
regulation to the process and under
Akba, Mughal governors were told to
quote delay the woman's decision for as
long as possible and offer pensions,
gifts, and other help. The aim was to
counter the idea that the widow's
position was hopeless without her
husband. By supporting widows and
offering spiritual assistance, Akbar
hoped to encourage the widow to remain
alive rather than joining her husband on
the p. Then Emperor Arangzeb finally
banned the practice altogether in 1663.
His declaration stated, "In all lands
under Mughal control, never again should
the officials allow a woman to be
burnt." Basatti still of course took
place. The two accounts offered to us by
Franco Banier come from the reign of
Arang Zeb and occurred after the emperor
had banned Satti. The account from Surat
suggests the Sati took place
voluntarily. But the account from Lahore
suggests that the unfortunate widow was
coerced and controlled by those around
her. In both cases, it's likely Satti
was allowed to happen because the
families had bribed local officials.
Despite attempts to stop the practice
altogether, it was still happening when
colonial powers arrived in Indian lands
over the following centuries. Some have
suggested that the arrival of the
Christian British in India led to
something of a backlash amongst some
Hindu groups. Just like the Rajputs had
rebelled against the Mughal Empire, some
later groups were irritated by British
attempts to meddle in traditional
customs. As a result, they carried out
their traditional rituals more
frequently, including Sati. Anyang
doesn't agree with this. However, he
said that little evidence exists to
suggest a considerable surge in the
incident of Satti with the coming of the
British. The views of other historians
rest on a statistical inference for
which they can muster little evidence
other than a few contemporary
observations. While SATI may not have
increased in frequency in the late 18th
and early 19th centuries, it certainly
was still happening. 8,134
cases of satin were recorded in Bengal
between 1815 and 1828. These were mainly
concentrated around Kolkata which
accounted for 63% of the reported cases
from Bengal. Hundreds of cases were also
reported in Bombay and Madras over the
same period. Although the practice was
much less common in these locations,
disturbing depictions of Sati began to
fill the colonial press. One account
from a salt agent in Barapur near
Kolkata tells us of a woman forcibly
held down by a great bamboo by two men
so as to preclude all chances of escape.
The salt agent also relays two accounts
that he did not witness directly. In
Koutac, a woman dropped herself into a
burning pit and rose up again as if to
escape when a washerman gave her a push
with a bamboo which sent her back into
the hottest part of the fire. Yet
another such case involves a woman who
was apparently thrown twice back in the
fire by her relatives. It's a very
shocking account and it led to the
banning of the practice in British India
when Lord William Bentnik ascended to
power as the new governor general in
1828. He said he would feel the dreadful
responsibility hanging over his head in
this world and the next if he was to
consent to the continuence of this
practice one moment longer. Over the
following years, Sati was banned in the
lands under direct British control.
Between 1841 and 1852, the
semi-autonomous princely states in South
Asia gradually followed suit and sati
was effectively banned right across the
subcontinent by the middle of the
century. Since the 1850s, the use of SAT
has declined considerably. However, the
practice never went away completely.
Between 1943 and 1987, there were around
30 cases of SATi or attempted SATi in
India. This period culminated in the
most infamous STI case in modern times,
that of 18-year-old RP Canoa. When
Canoa's 24-year-old husband passed away
on September 3rd, 1987, she apparently
elected to follow him onto the funeral
p. The following day, Rup Canoa was
burnt alive beside her husband's body.
She was then venerated as a sati mata.
To quote Julia Leslie, RP had become, in
the eyes of her family, a goddess, a
deified eternal wife. More than 1,000
people attended the funeral and most of
these witnesses said that RP had made
her own choice to join her husband. But
not everyone agrees. As widespread
condemnation of the act swept across the
country, many Indian news outlets began
reporting that RP may have been forced
to commit suicide by her relatives, in
particular the relatives of her deceased
husband. The upsetting case highlights
the worrying gray area between voluntary
and involuntary. To quote Julie Leslie
one last time, one view of Satti is that
it is a strategy for dignity in a
demeaning world. The tragedy is that RP
Canoir could find no other strategy. In
such a world, for most women, choice
itself is a fiction. In total, 45 people
were charged with offenses related to
RP's death. These offenses ranged from
the coercion of RP Camwa to the lighting
of the P itself. Many people were
charged with glorifying the process of
Satti, including some state officials.
Over an unprecedented legal process that
dragged on for more than 35 years, all
45 people charged were eventually either
acquitted or had already passed away.
Following Rupt Canoir's death, new
legislation was brought in to make sati
illegal and to prevent the promotion of
the practice. Despite these laws,
sporadic cases of sati and attempted
sati continue to emerge. Many of these
appear to be voluntary, although of
course it's impossible to say this for
sure. At least one of these recent cases
certainly did involve coercion. In 2023,
a young computer engineer named Sangita
Lacra committed suicide by jumping into
the Sabamati River in Ammedabad. LacR's
husband had recently died and in her
suicide note, she said that her
husband's family were pressuring her to
burn herself alive and become a sati.
While Sangita did not experience the
horror of self- emulation, she was still
forced into a position from which she
felt that there was no escape and that
the only option was to take her own
life. This is perhaps the biggest issue
with the voluntary versus involuntary
satti debate.
How do we really define voluntary? When
someone's held down with sticks and tied
with ropes around their hands and feet,
it's easy to see that that's not
voluntary.
But when someone's coerced by centuries
of cultural pressure and social
expectation,
who knows? Either way, the results are
largely the same.
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This video discusses the historical practice of Sati, also known as widow immolation, in India. It begins with an account from Francois Bernier in 1667, detailing two instances: one of a seemingly willing widow in Surat and another of a young, unwilling widow in Lahore. The video explores the origins of Sati, tracing its name to the Hindu goddess Sati, who immolated herself after being humiliated by her father. It highlights the evolution of the practice from potentially metaphorical interpretations in early Vedic texts to its literal and increasingly common performance in later centuries, particularly among nobility. The narrative also covers attempts by various rulers, including Mughal emperors like Akbar and Aurangzeb, to ban or regulate Sati, as well as the British colonial administration's eventual ban in 1829. The video further examines the complex social and religious factors that contributed to Sati, such as the status of widows, the desire for spiritual merit, Sanskritization, and cultural clashes. Finally, it touches upon modern cases of Sati, emphasizing the blurred lines between voluntary and coerced participation and the enduring debate on defining voluntariness in the face of immense societal pressure.
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