25 life and business principles I live by
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So, I'm in Spain right now, spending
some days with the family, and I've had
some time to think and reflect. And I
thought I'd put together a list of my
fundamentals, basically my guiding
principles which I use in business and
in life. And I thought I'd share them
with you, because I think there's value
in hearing how other people think about
these things. Not because I've got it
all figured out, but because my point of
view maybe resonates with you. Who
knows? Quick bit of context, if you're
new here, my name is Axel. I'm
originally from Spain. I've been living
in the UK since 2008. I founded a
company 10 years ago called Circle
Cloud. It's a telecom service company.
And now I'm working on We UC, which is a
telecom software company, and we're
planning on launching that as a SaaS
very soon. So, I've been building for
over a decade, and everything I'm about
to share comes from that experience.
These principles aren't for everyone.
They're what works for me. But if the
rationale behind them feels right to
you, then maybe they'll work for you,
too. Right. Let's get to it. Principle
one.
Love what you do. This is the foundation
for everything else. I genuinely believe
that the only way to do great work is to
love what you do. Because building
something, a company, a product,
anything worthwhile is incredibly hard.
There's so many moments where a normal,
sane person would [music] just quit, cuz
they're sane. The only people who push
through those moments are the ones who
actually love the work itself. Not the
money, not the status, the work. Steve
Jobs said it well, "The only way to do
great work is to love what you do." And
he also said the people who are crazy
enough to think that they can change the
world ones who actually do. I think
that's bang on. You've got to love it.
And here's the thing, if you do great
work, money follows. Not immediately,
not always when you want it to, but it
does follow. The mistake is chasing the
money first and hoping that the quality
comes later. It doesn't work that way.
Principle two. Keep your word. There's
something that I heard Tony Montana say
that goes, "All I have in this world is
my word and my balls, and I don't break
them for no one." And that resonated
with me. You have to keep your word. If
you're saying you're going to do
something, do it. Doesn't matter how
small it is. If you say you're going to
call on Tuesday, call on Tuesday. People
remember when you follow through, and
they absolutely remember when you don't.
I stay true to my word. It's
non-negotiable. Your reputation is built
one [music] kept promise at a time.
Principle three. Do the right thing.
This one sounds obvious, but you'd be
surprised at how many people ignore it.
Because doing the right thing often
means doing the harder thing or the
slower thing, the less profitable thing
in the short term. I've watched people
cut corners before because they could
see a quick win. But that quick quick
win sometimes meant hurting someone or
doing something ethically gray, or just
going down a path that bypassed lessons
that you actually needed to learn. Don't
take the shortcut, even if it takes you
three times longer to get to where you
need to go. You'll get there with your
integrity intact, and that matters more
than speed.
Principle four. Be patient, but
relentlessly persistent. There's this
old saying that says a woodpecker can
peck a thousand times on a thousand
different trees and get nothing. Or he
could peck a thousand times on one tree
and get thinner. I love that because
it's exactly the same as how building a
business works. You pick a thing, you
commit to it, and you keep going. Most
things take longer than you expect, and
that's fine. Keep going. Don't jump to
the next idea every time things get
hard. The people who stay the course are
normally the ones that end up breaking
through.
Principle five. Ask for the order. Don't
be shy. Ask for what you want. I've lost
deals because I simply didn't ask for
the order. I was just waiting for the
customer to ask to move to the next
steps, and they didn't. Sales isn't just
about building relationships. You have
to at some point say, "Let's do this."
And that's it. Assume you have the
order, and that's the bit that so many
sales people avoid. And it's the same
outside of sales. You know, if you want
something, a meeting, an introduction, a
favor, just ask. If you don't ask, you
don't get. It's really simple.
Principle six. Mueve el culo. Move your
ass. This one's related, but different.
Don't wait for things to come to you.
Some companies build their whole model
on referrals and word of mouth, which is
fine, but also I think you need to go
and get business. You know, pick up the
phone, move, go places, meet people, be
proactive. The phone isn't just going to
ring itself, and the opportunities don't
land in your lap. You have to go out and
create them.
Principle seven. Set unrealistic
deadlines. I set deadlines for myself
for everything, and I set them
optimistically on purpose. Here's why.
If you give yourself a tight amount of
time to complete something in, it forces
you to focus. If you give yourself two
weeks to do something, it will take two
weeks. But if you give yourself five
days, it will force you to focus and get
it done within five days, or at least
try to. It forces that creativity. It
forces you to find a way to get it done
within five days. Many of my projects
have overrun, and that's fine. I don't
get frustrated by it. The deadline's not
there to punish me. It's there to create
urgency. Without a deadline, things
drift, and drifting is what ends up
killing most projects.
Principle eight. Think bigger. However
big you're thinking, think bigger.
Whenever I come up with an idea or a
goal, I ask myself, "Can we do 10 times
this? Can we make it bigger, better,
bolder?" That doesn't mean that every
idea needs to be massive. It just means
that you need to test the ceiling before
you accept the floor. Most people set
goals based on what feels safe. Safe
goals produce safe results. You should
push the number. You can always scale
back. If the idea doesn't scare you a
little bit, it means you're not pushing
enough out of your comfort zone.
And that brings us to principle nine.
Get out of your comfort zone. Your
comfort zone is your limiting zone.
Every significant thing that I've done,
the first cold call, hiring the first
employee, stepping back from the company
I built, doing videos like this, felt
uncomfortable at the time. But
discomfort wasn't a warning. It was a
signal that [music] it mattered. If
you're not regularly doing things that
make you feel uncomfortable, you're not
growing. It's that simple. Push yourself
out of your comfortable space. That's
where progress lives.
Principle 10. Action trumps inaction.
Act. Stop thinking about it.
Overthinking or paralysis by analysis
kills more progress than bad decisions
ever will. There's a real cost to
inaction. A wrong decision gives you
information. You learn. You correct. You
move forward. No decisions gives you
nothing. You're just stuck. I'd rather
make a move and get it wrong than sit
and analyze until the moment passes.
Don't overthink it. Move. If you got it
wrong, you'll figure it out, but you
have to move first.
Principle 11. Follow your gut. They say
your gut is your second brain. There's
real science behind that. You've
actually got neurons in your gut, and
that's what people call the gut feeling.
I think it's how you connect your
conscious mind with your subconscious.
In so many decisions in business and in
life, I've made them when they feel
right, [music] not when the spreadsheet
told me to act. Our brains are way more
powerful than we give credit for, and I
believe your gut is that gateway for
that deeper level of intelligence, your
intuition. And I trust my gut on every
major decision. It's worked well so far.
Principle 12. Don't trust anyone. My
father always used to say to me that his
mother used to say, "Not fies ni de la
teva [music] mare." And that basically
means don't even trust your mother.
Sounds extreme, and it probably is
extreme, [music] but the principle
behind it is sound. Be careful with
people, especially when money's
involved. I've seen people do surprising
things when the stakes are high. [music]
People I thought were solid before. So,
trust, but with limits. Don't trust
anyone 100%.
Principle 13. Hire based [music] on
attitude. When I'm hiring, attitude
beats skill every time. Skills can
[music] be taught. People can learn a
system or process tool, but attitude,
which is based on their perception of
life, determines how they show up, how
they handle pressure, whether they
actually care or not. All of that is
based on how they see the world, and you
can't teach that. It's who they are.
I've learned this the hard way. I've
hired people who had great CVs, but just
didn't have the right attitude. And I've
hired people with little experience, but
with the right attitude, that have
turned out to be great because they
genuinely wanted to learn and improve.
So, find people who care. Teach them the
[music] rest.
Principle 14. Learn to delegate. This
one's hard, really [music] hard. I
founded Circle Cloud from nothing, and I
did the telemarketing, the sales, the
engineering, the customer service, the
billing, everything myself. But in order
to grow the business, I had to step
back. I had to hire a customer service
manager, I had to hire an operations
manager, a sales manager, and eventually
a board of directors and a CEO. I moved
to chairman, and the business operates
without me pretty much these days. For a
founder, letting go feels like losing
control, but it's the opposite. It's
gaining freedom. And I believe your
leadership team needs to be genuinely
invested. The only way I figured out to
make your key people feel like owners in
the business is through equity. Give
them a minority stake, something that
aligns their incentives with the
long-term success of the business, not
just a salary. Never give away control
of the business, but give them something
to care about.
Principle 15. Empathy is your
superpower. This one's underrated. Being
able to see things from somebody else's
perspective, understanding how they
actually feel in a situation, not just
how you think they should feel, that
gives you a real edge. It changes how
you lead, how you sell, how you handle
conflict, everything. Most people listen
to respond. Very few listen to
understand, and there's a massive
difference.
Principle 16. Make time to think. I have
a policy, no meetings before 11:00 a.m.
unless it's completely necessary. The
morning is when my brain is at its
sharpest. That's when I think, plan, and
work on the hardest problems. Most
people fill their mornings with
meetings, emails, other people's
agendas. And by lunchtime, they've spent
the most cognitive hours on things that
could have waited. I use my mornings to
putter, to think about the business
direction, company structure, or
whatever the biggest challenges are.
Sometimes I don't produce anything
visible, but that thinking compounds.
Spend time alone. Ruminate. Let your
mind work through the hard stuff before
the day takes over.
Principle 17. One thing at a time. When
your to-do list is like a mile long, and
everything feels urgent, the worst thing
you can do is to try to deal with
everything at once. So, one thing at a
time. That's it. Give your full
attention to the thing that's in front
of you. Finish it, or get to the point
that you can move on, and then, only
then, shift to the next thing. This
isn't about productivity. It's about
preventing overwhelm. When you try and
hold 10 problems in your head at the
same time, your stress levels go through
the roof, and your output actually
drops. So, deal with one thing, and then
the next. This sounds too simple to
work, but uh trust me, it does.
Principle 18. Focus on the signal. Every
day, there's noise. Emails, messages,
requests, small fires. Most of the
things can wait. The signal is the one
or two things that you need to get done
that day that actually matter, that
actually move the needle. Everything
else is noise, and the hard part isn't
ignoring the stuff that you don't want
to do. It's actually ignoring the stuff
that you really do want to do. There's a
story about Steve Jobs that Jony Ive
told. He said that Steve used to come
into his design studio and ask him every
day, "What have you said no [music] to?"
And when Jony listed a few things that
he said no to, Steve knew that Jony
wasn't even remotely interested in doing
those things anyway. That's not focus.
Focus is about saying no to ideas that
every inch in your body wants to do, but
you say no to them because the signal
what you're working on now matters more.
I heard that the only person that has a
higher signal-to-noise ratio than Steve
Jobs did is probably Elon Musk. His
signal-to-noise ratio is probably 90%
signal, 10% noise, or even higher. So,
increase the signal-to-noise ratio. Say
no to everything that isn't the main
thing, and do the main thing until it's
done.
Principle 19, the 80/20 rule.
When you're deciding what to work on, do
the work that's going to produce the
majority of the results first. That's
the Pareto principle. Roughly 80% of
your results will come from 20% of your
effort. So, when you're prioritizing,
ask yourself, "What's the thing that
will get me the biggest results in the
shortest amount of time?" Start there
because that early progress gives you
momentum. It gives you a feeling of
accomplishment that you can carry
forward, either onto the next task or to
keep pushing on the one you're on. Most
people spread their effort evenly across
everything. Don't. Find the 20% that
produces the 80% of the output. Hit that
first, and then reassess.
Principle 20, prioritize sleep. I think
sleep is the most underrated performance
tool that there is. I aim for 7 and 1/2
hours sleep every night. I don't always
hit it, but I know the difference it
makes. Everything goes worse when you're
underslept. Your decisions, your mood,
your clarity, even your ability to deal
with stress, everything. And it's not
just how I feel about it. The data backs
it up. Sleep deprivation has been shown
to decrease cognitive function by the
same level as having a few drinks, and
that's not a small thing. I've learned
to treat sleep as infrastructure, not a
reward for finishing work, not something
I sacrifice to get more done. It's the
thing that makes everything else
possible.
Principle 21, eat well. This one's
straightforward. Eat good food, cut out
the processed stuff, don't overeat,
that's the one I struggle with, and
don't eat within 4 hours of bed. That
one's been massive for me. Eating late
wrecks your sleep quality, and then
everything cascades downhill from there.
I'm not extreme about diet. I don't
follow a particular plan. I just try to
eat real food, reasonable amounts, and
give my body enough time to digest
before I sleep. It's simple, but the
impact on how I feel day-to-day has been
huge.
Principle 22, train every day. I try to
lift weights at least 5 days a week.
Ideally, I try to do something every
single day, even if it's a light
session. I'm not perfect at this. Travel
throws me off, bad sleep throws me off,
but I'm working on making this
non-negotiable because when I'm
consistent with training, everything
else improves. My energy, my focus, my
resilience, my mood, and my sleep. Your
body is your engine for everything else.
If the engine isn't looked after,
nothing else runs properly.
Principle 23, stop drinking alcohol.
Alcohol is a trap, and I say that from
experience. A few years ago, I read a
book called This Naked Mind, and it made
me think about something simple. We were
all happy as kids without drinking any
alcohol. So, why do we need alcohol now
to be happy? The answer is we don't. We
just habituated to it. I stopped
drinking for over a year, and then on
holiday, my wife said, "Come on, have a
beer with me. Just one." And I thought,
okay, just one won't hurt. And then
eventually, I got out of drinking again,
more and more, uh until I was drinking
pretty much daily. January this year, I
stopped again, and so far, it's been a
couple of months, and I feel great. Not
drinking again has improved my sleep,
has improved my mood, has improved my
clarity, my productivity, everything.
There's one thing on this list that's
made the biggest difference for me
personally recently, and it's probably
this one.
Principle 24, practice gratitude. I have
a lot already, more than I sometimes
realize, more than I ever imagined as a
kid. And sometimes, I take for granted
more than I should. But when I actually
stop and remind myself of what I have,
where I am, who I'm with, what I've
built, I feel genuinely happy.
Not in a forced way, but in a real way.
It's easy to always be chasing the next
[music] thing.
Gratitude is the counterbalance. It's
what stops ambition becoming a
treadmill.
Principle 25, embrace being different
and don't care what other people think.
Last one.
Everyone is different. Embrace what
makes you different. There's nobody out
there like you or like me, which makes
it pointless to compare your life to
somebody else's. I think we've fallen
into this trap because of social media.
We see other people's highlight reels,
and we feel that we're behind. But
you're not behind. You're on your own
path, and the freedom that comes with
this, genuinely accepting this, is
enormous. So, stop caring so much about
what other people think. We're only here
for a short amount of time anyway.
Everyone's busy with their own lives.
They're not thinking about you and your
life anywhere near as much as you think.
I used to care a lot more than I do now,
and that freedom has changed how I make
decisions, how I work, and how I live.
So, these are my guiding principles, 25
things that I keep coming back to,
especially when I need to make a
decision that's important or when things
get tough. I'm not perfect at all of
them. Some I've followed for years, and
some I'm still working on. But having
them clear in my head, and now having
them on video, helps. If you want to go
deeper into how I structure my days and
my decision-making and thinking, I've
put together something called the
founders and CEO operating system. It's
free. Just check the link in the
description.
Thanks for watching. I hope it was
useful. See you in the next one.
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The video presents 25 guiding principles for business and life, shared by the speaker based on over a decade of experience founding and working in telecom companies. These principles range from intrinsic motivations like loving what you do, to ethical conduct like keeping your word and doing the right thing, to persistent action like being patient yet relentless and moving your ass. The speaker also emphasizes strategic approaches like setting unrealistic deadlines, thinking bigger, and prioritizing signals over noise, as well as personal well-being like prioritizing sleep, eating well, and training daily. Finally, he touches on interpersonal skills like empathy, hiring based on attitude, and learning to delegate, alongside mental frameworks like following your gut, embracing being different, and practicing gratitude. The core message is that these principles, while not for everyone, can provide a valuable framework for navigating challenges and achieving success.
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