Why Canada is no longer a good place to live (Serbian POV)
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Canada is one of the highest paying tax
countries in the world. Why am I paying
taxes for something that I can't access?
>> Meet Vana. She was born in Canada to
Serbian parents, but more than 5 years
ago, she decided to move to Serbia for
good. Now she lives in Belgrade with her
Serbian husband and works as a teacher
in a private school. She shared the main
reason she left Canada, her most
shocking experience [music] with
Canadian healthcare, and the key
difference between Serbian and Canadian
sports culture. IM,
>> what is your memories about you living
in Canada as a Serb?
>> They were generally positive. It was a
lovely place to grow up. School was fun.
Um, we had our Serbian community as well
over there. Lots of lots of Serbians. It
was in Hamilton, Ontario. It was lovely.
And then all of a sudden, you just
realize that you sort of outgrow a
place. And I think um, as you start to
grow older, you start to value different
things. And I really started to value
quality of life. You know, as a child,
as a teenager growing up, I spent my
summers here in Belgrade, Serbia, in
Ianita, where my family is from as well.
And I started to develop like a whole
friend group. And through every single
summer of going and coming here, I
started to realize people are happier.
They might not have a lot in life. They
might not have, you know, millions of
dollars or these big fancy houses or
fancy cars, but they're just happier.
And life just started to seem more
simple. As I started to grow older, like
the emotions also started to grow more
and more each summer. When I was leaving
Toronto Pearson every summer, it was
like, "Bye. I don't care. No emotion,
nothing." But when I was at Belgrade
Nicola Tesla, coming back every summer,
it was full of tears. And it it kept me
emotional. Even at this point, I didn't
want to go back. And there was something
that was in my stomach telling me like
this is not right. So then I started to
think about, okay, how could I make a
life work in Belgrade? Why not try? Why
not think out of the box? Sometimes we
get stuck in thinking that like a
western life is like that path that you
have to follow and that you go to
university and you get a job and then
you buy a house and you do this. And I
started to think like why do I need to
do that? Because people over there it
was like you work yourself so hard for
what? For trying to mimic a life, you
know, here to be over there and you go,
you know, you go to the local Serbian
stores in Canada. You go to the local
Serbian events in Canada, but it's just
it's not that like there was something
like deep in my soul that was just
empty. I was thinking about it and I
think that people go in western
countries and lean to towards western
values because western way of life gives
you some kind of stability.
>> We have to think even outside of the box
of stability like that life that you
know that we're talking about where you
get a mortgage, you buy a house was
accessible to the generation like my
parents at that time. You could work
really hard. You knew where your money
was going. you could buy a house. But
looking at my generation, we have a
generation of individuals who are highly
educated, who almost all have bachelor's
degrees in something that all have all
gone even on to pursue master's degrees
who are finishing university jobless.
You know, you're trying to follow these
these footsteps of your parents. I mean,
rightfully so. They're telling you that
that's what you should do, but then you
get to a point where it's like, I can't
afford a mortgage. the the prices of
everything have just skyrocketed
>> and education is insanely expensive. It
is. It is. You know what? I'm so
thankful. You know, my parents work so
so hard. I don't didn't finish
university with a single dime of student
debt. They put Yes. I am extremely lucky
to have, you know, the most amazing
parents. They worked. And I'll never
forget even my father. He worked at Ford
Motor Company and it was like 7 days a
week, 12-hour shifts. There came a point
um where we just saw each other in
passing in the house and it was like mom
would be like, "I made dinner for you. I
left it here. Well, thank you, Mom.
Well, when's dad coming home? And it was
we were just seeing each other in in
passing. I'm very very grateful and very
very thankful to finish, you know, a
master's degree and not have a single
amount of student debt. That's what they
tell you, you know, go to university
after high school, whereas maybe even in
this economy, it would be smarter to go
to do a trade because the amount of
plumbers, electricians, woodworking in
Canada, like you can't find anybody to
do those kind of jobs. Canadian moves.
>> Wow. It's like a souvenir. Yeah.
>> Yeah.
>> Yeah. And Canadian plates.
>> Canadian license plate. Yes.
>> It's from your car or is it
>> was from my dad's car. So it this one
expired in 2005. So that was a long
time.
>> So it's like elements of nostalgia for
>> Yeah. It's a little bit of home in a new
home, I guess you could say.
>> Can you summarize in one sentence what
is the main problem of the Canada?
>> Forgetting about core values. I think
recently, I don't know if you've seen,
um, there's this chart and it was the
recent immigration rates in Canada and
it was like, okay, a normal amount of
immigration and then 2024, 2025, whoop,
like here. I don't have anything against
immigration. My parents are immigrants.
That's that's not, you know, that's not
the problem is that when you allow
amount amounts of immigration that the
country cannot handle, you know, they
forgot their core values. Like everybody
around the world, you know, knows, oh,
Canadian health care system, oh, it's
the best health care system in the
world. Well, when 2020 hit, it was only
then that the Canadian government
realized that their PPA, so their
personal protective equipment was all
expired from SARS in 2008.
>> So, they were not prepared for that.
Then you have Corona break outbreaks and
a healthcare system that's falling
apart. I think there was a statistic of
in the last year between 10 to 12,000
people died on weight waiting lists for
basic basic like MRI CT scans things
like that. So you're forgetting your
core values. You're you know focusing on
other things instead of fixing the
problems that you already have. You have
Alberta who wants to leave Canada at the
moment. you know, Quebec has always been
there that they've always wanted to
leave because they think that they think
of themselves as a different separate
province because they speak French. But
now you have Alberta who's wanting to
join the US. So instead of having this,
you know, this united, you know, Canada,
oh, happiness and like everybody's so
nice, you have a very big divide
now. And I think all of that just
started right after Corona.
>> But still, the Medicare system is free
there.
>> Free. This is the way that I like to put
it. Free. Yes, it's free. But is it
quality? I wouldn't say so. But see,
even even in Canada, you have no private
system. You have no private clinics.
>> There is no private clinics. So, you
have to go with public. Here's an
example. I had a deviated sinuses and I
needed a procedure done because it was
just getting to be too much. And I asked
a doctor there and I was like, "Well,
okay, put me on the list." And I was
like, "How long can I expect to wait?"
And he goes, "Well, 2 years." I said,
"Well, what am I supposed to do in the
next 2 years? Am I supposed to drink all
of these medicines so that I can
breathe? I I don't understand." And he
goes, "Well, I have a really good
doctor. If you want to go to Mexico,
>> so why am I paying taxes?" Like, Canada
is one of the highest paying tax
countries in the world. Why am I paying
taxes
>> for something that I can't access? You
know what I'm saying? Like that's what
that's what I'm going back to.
Forgetting the core values. like you
need to pride yourself in what you know
you've known to be. You've known to be
this country that's so nice and that's
so kind and that has this fantastic
medical system that you're forgetting
those things and then you're allowing
immigration to come in with the medical
system that can barely handle the
population that we had even before mass
immigration.
>> Let's uh don't be too negative. What is
the best thing for you in living in
Canada? the nature honestly the nature
and and um the cleanliness of everything
in the organization for example any
paperwork anything like that that you
need done you know where to go it's the
office it's done it's black and white
everything's you know on paper the
nature is fantastic we have fantastic
you know natural parks wherever it is
everything is so clean there's you know
and I'm going to get maybe some comments
for this but I I like that everything's
non-smoking that's a very big maybe
negative for Serbia is that there's a
lot of smoking areas and I sometimes in
the winter and I say it and in Serbia,
you know, this is when I miss Canada
because I can go to a cafe and come out
and not smell of smoke.
>> Is there a thing that you miss from
Canada? Here
>> there's this one drink. It's called iced
tea. Nesty iced tea. It's the little
silly things like that that sometimes
like uh I'll find in the European Union
that I'm like [gasps] like oh it brings
me back home and then like you have it
and then you sort of get over that
feeling after I have maple syrup in the
fridge so that's all stocked up. But
generally I think I've gotten over or
I've found alternatives to things that I
do miss. I think that if you were to put
it in perspective, I would miss more
things from here than I would from
Canada. Toronto uh is host to the
Masters 1000 series. And I loved tennis.
Here I have Murray Zeon. He's retired
now to be fair. Jookovic.
>> Wow.
>> Yes,
>> it's his autograph.
>> Yes. Ah, there's also this tennis
player, Daniel Nester. He's Serbian, but
he played under Canadian state of
citizenship. Sports was always something
that I loved.
>> What is your overall impressions about
Canadians?
>> They're warm and welcoming. They
genuinely they are. And um I think that
we're the country that says sorry so
many times in the same sentence. You
know, I grew up in a very multicultural
high school. Um I had lots of Canadian
friends, but yeah, warm, welcoming
people genuinely. Um cold, but more
weatherwise. It's more weatherwise.
Yeah.
>> How do you feel this coldness?
>> That was the hardest thing. That
seasonal depression once that winter
starts. I think winter lasts what is it?
October I would say until May. Snow is
not out of the question in the middle of
May. February - 40
>> - 40
>> - 40. And everything functions. You
still go to school and you still drive
your car. And
>> in Russia if it's more than minus 30, we
didn't go to school. I'll never forget
as a child you would watch local news
for the weather and you would be hoping
you know the snowstorm is coming in and
you're like watching you're watching for
the name of your school to appear at the
bottom of the screen and it was like yes
so snow day snow day. So that was that
was exciting. I remember [laughter]
that. But it there comes a time, you
know, when you're young and it's fun and
you can go sledding and you can do all
those things and then it just becomes it
starts to impact like your well-being
and your mental health and it was too
much. I like four seasons but that
winter was just it was too harsh. This
was my first op so Serbian folklore
shoes. I danced as well in Canada
because there was a sort of community of
Serbian in Canada. I think my grandma
sent it to me. I really loved it and
still at every Serbian wedding or
celebration, I'm the first one out of
their seat to go and dance.
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>> Okay.
>> They're more resilient. I think here I
want to specifically talk about sports.
For example, I noticed here children are
more resilient because they're taught
how to lose. You know, how to lose a
game. like you're not going to always be
this winner. Whereas in Canada, oh,
everybody gets a medal for participation
even if you didn't win. And that sets up
a mindset in children that when they go
to the real world and when there has to
be a winner, when there has to be the
best, that they're not ready for that.
That's what I see with Serbian kids,
it's like, okay, there's a winner of a
game, the basketball or this football,
there's a winner. Especially when
they're little in Canada, it's just
like, well, we're just playing for fun.
What's the What's the point in fun?
There has to be some sort of person that
comes out on top.
>> Ah, you played football.
>> Yeah. So, that's me and dad was the
coach. Um, surprisingly so. I was on the
bench most of the time.
>> Why?
>> I guess dad thought that I wasn't that
great, but it's okay.
>> He was [laughter] he was he was afraid
that you got trauma or something like
this.
>> No, no. I mean, they were better than
me. Like I said before,
>> uh there is always you have to learn how
to lose. cuz you have to learn how to
make the best version of yourself.
Little bit of a MVP here for tennis.
>> Wow.
>> Yes. The golden golden days during my
high school was very exciting. Um
>> why did you quit tennis?
>> I mean I didn't quit. We still you know
I play paddle now actually.
>> Do you like it?
>> I love it.
>> I tried once but it's
>> You didn't like it?
>> I feel kind of claustrophobic. Yeah.
>> Yeah. Cuz it's in the glass. It's in the
glass. And uh it's a lot of the paddle
courts are taking over the tennis courts
in Serbia now because it's more
profitable.
>> Yeah.
>> You know, I think an hour is like 3
4,000 davs plus the rackets 500 davs.
>> So expensive. And then also
multi. We have some football and
basketball. East Hamilton Soccer Club.
We had a Hamilton Serbian's uh
basketball club as well that still
functions. So big big Serbian community
of sports over there as well. I think
also the Hamilton Serbians uh football
club they recently put out an article of
I don't know how many Serbians from
Hamilton that have now gone to Europe to
play soccer as well. So big development.
>> Yeah
>> over there.
>> Do you have Serbian citizenship or?
>> Yes, I have dual. It's good to have
both. Like there's benefits to both. You
know, going to UK, I'm I'm a big
football fan, so going to the UK to
watch football with my Canadian passport
is easier than, you know, getting a visa
out.
>> For what club do you
>> Oh, Red Star.
>> Red Star. Red Star Belgrade. Yes.
>> Uh that's part of the story of of my
love for Serbia. I mean, I think that
when you're born in Serbia, you have to
make a choice.
>> Okay.
>> Red Star or Partisan, you have to make a
choice. And my dad grew up uh with Red
Star and you know when I was very little
first football kit was Red Star. He at
home has a collection of about 150 Red
Star jerseys and I have continued now
that collection uh for the past it'll be
10 years next year. I photographed for
Red Star and um you know we had many
Canadian Serbian players as well that
were playing for Red Star. Borian,
Milan, Borian, uh, Stefan Mitroich. Uh,
so it was really beautiful to see, you
know, to have that connection and be
like, "Hey, you know, I'm Canadian, this
and that. I have a lot of friends as
well, like with the photography that I
did." I also went, my dad and I, we're
crazy. You're going to think we're
crazy, but we went from Canada when Red
Star qualified for Champions League
after how many years. We went to
Liverpool and we watched Red Star
Liverpool. For my dad, I think it was
meant maybe more than it did for me, but
because he obviously had the blessing to
watch Red Star in their peak during the
'9s when they won, you know, Champions
League. But for me, this was like the
new history for me. This was amazing,
you know, never mind that they lost 04,
but it was just the experience of being
there. Then we came to Belgrade to watch
Red Star Arsenal. There's not a single
atmosphere in the world that you can
compare it to. I've been to stadiums in
Spain, in Italy, in Canada, but that
atmosphere at those games, those
feelings, those fans, those flares and
choreographies is there's no there's
there's nowhere else in the world that
has that.
>> Do you attend here?
>> Yes. Yes. Uh especially basketball
lately because Red Star has been doing
really good in Euro League this year.
And I mean, it's all of our false hope
of thinking that we'll make it to the
Final Four in Athens next year. I mean,
I really hope so. The basketball
atmosphere is you have to go. Have you
been to a game yet for
>> No,
>> you have to go. The decibb of how loud
it gets inside those stadiums. There's
not a single person that's sitting. You
don't sit when you go to those games.
You know, obviously in Canada when you
go to a football match or a hockey
match, you sit and everybody's watching
and eating their hot dogs and whatever.
Sport is business in Canada. Whereas in
Serbia, sport is passion. Sport is
family. Sport is electricity. It's
everything. It's it's life.
>> Isn't it dangerous?
>> It feel I'll be honest with you, yes.
[laughter]
But there's beauty in that danger. You
just have to be smart, you know?
Don't provoke.
Sit where you need to sit. You know, you
don't go in the middle of a partisan
game in a Red Star jersey and sit in
between the fans. You stay in your
section. [laughter] We were talking a
little bit about my collection. These
are the ones that I have here. So, this
is Stefan Mitravich. He was a Canadian
footballer that used to play for Red
Star. Uh, he gave me it. Then I have uh
Goalich. This is Eraovich. He's actually
he played in the Zenitu
>> in Russia. Zen it.
>> Uh, and then I have Katai. He's legend
right now. He's He's in Red Star now. He
actually played in the US in Chicago
Fire as well. Um, but he's big legend uh
for Red Star in recent history. Still
got the dirt on it. The rule is not to
wash them. [laughter]
>> Really,
>> just air them out because they have if
they have the dirt, it's still got that
authenticity to it. This one's still got
some dirt on it as well. What was the
most difficult aspect for you when you
came to Serbia and started living here?
>> You know what, the paperwork. Uh,
spot on. Anything to this day, I still
have like trauma of going to finish any
like official documents or anything at
the police station. [sighs and gasps]
we recently just bought this apartment
and going through the process of getting
papers and like oh the person at the
desk telling you well you're missing
this paper and it's like but you didn't
tell me that yesterday
and then as soon as I think that they
they hear me mix up my first pades in
Serbian they're like a foreigner
whenever I go I said to my husband like
you have to go with me he's like but you
get no you have to go with me like
because I just I I freeze
>> what do you answer to people who are
asking you here. Why did you come?
>> I just say it's complicated. A lot of
people here, they think that the grass
is greener on the other side, whereas
the case is the grass is greener where
you take care of it. I tell them that,
you know, if they want to go and try, go
see, go try, why not? Then you can put
your things on your moral scale and see
where you like things better. I never
tell them, "No, don't go or something
like that." No. If you go go and see for
yourself, there's a lot of people. The
problem is there's a lot of the diaspora
that we call them, the Serbs that, you
know, come back here that are living in
Canada. They come back here and they are
telling everybody here these stories of
all of this money and they're doing this
and it's amazing and almost as if the
story is like taking the money off of
the trees, you know, like as it's
growing in the backyard. But they don't
tell them the real story. And then of
course people develop this
understanding. Well then I might as well
go there. There's more money. There's
more this. Well yes there's more money
but you have taxes that are extremely
high you know and you have the quality
of life and the winters. There's this
very famous uh video that this Bosnian
man made and and it was like, "Oh, the
first month is so beautiful and like the
snow and it's glistening and there was a
deer." And then after about a few
months, he goes, "Oh no, I hear the snow
plow coming by." And he's like, "This
damn snow and I'm done with this." And
it's like,
>> "Do you miss snow? Sometimes I miss snow
here."
>> Yeah. You know what? Yes. And I'm the
biggest grown child, I guess you could
say. As a teacher, as soon as the snow
falls, the lessons are gone. We're going
outside to build a snowman. There's
those few times where it falls in
Belgrade and it's like, "Guys, drop
everything. We're going to build a
snowman." You know, I do miss it, but
then I realize that everything's good in
small bits.
>> You identify yourself as a sermon.
>> Yes. But there's also some of those
times where like I my Canadian backbone
will straighten as fast as it can. like
those situations like when we're trying
to finish paperwork and you just get so
frustrated and you're like, you know, if
if I was in Canada, this wouldn't have
happened. There's more moments where
it's like, I'm so proud to be Serbian.
Um I'm so proud to be part of a country
that has been through so much and that
is so resilient and that has come out of
so much darkness and so much negativity.
And I'm so happy to be around my people,
you know, even if sometimes things
frustrate me.
>> How do you overcome this frustration?
>> I think that if I just come home and I
let it out or I'll talk with my parents
on video call and I just like and
they'll always say to me, you know,
they're like, "Yeah, well, your bad day
is still an excellent day in our
perspective." So, it's those little
humble reminders of to be to remember
that where I am and to remember, you
know, that little girl that wanted to
move and to remember how how happy and
how proud I should be that of where I
am. You have to put thing you put things
on a scale, you know, when again when
people ask me like, "Oh, why did you why
did you leave, you know, or like what's
so great?" I'm not saying that every
everything is great here. I'm not saying
everything is great in Canada, but
everybody has a personal, I guess you
could say moral like scale and with
positives and negatives and you put them
on the scale and you see where your
positives weigh more. And I for me it
just pulled more here. You know, I don't
think there's any perfect country in the
world. It's just, you know, if you go
very back to basics, it's where you're
happy.
Ask follow-up questions or revisit key timestamps.
Vana, born in Canada to Serbian parents, chose to move to Serbia over five years ago, drawn by a greater sense of happiness and a simpler quality of life there. She expressed concerns about Canada's high taxes and an overburdened healthcare system, citing long waiting lists and a lack of private options. Vana believes Canada has lost sight of its core values, especially concerning healthcare and the management of mass immigration, which strains public services. While she appreciates Canada's natural beauty, cleanliness, and efficiency, she finds its long, harsh winters detrimental to mental well-being. She also highlights a cultural difference in sports, where Serbian children learn resilience through losing, contrasting with Canada's participation trophy culture. Despite bureaucratic challenges in Serbia, Vana identifies strongly with her Serbian heritage, valuing the resilience and passion of her people. She ultimately concludes that happiness lies in choosing the place where one's personal positives outweigh the negatives.
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