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There is a reward that we can see in the

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brains of people when they see someone

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suffer if that person is first portrayed

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as a wrongdoer.

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>> So ordinarily if you see someone be

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shocked you have interior insula. It's

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like you're being shocked too. Unless

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that person is first portrayed as

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violating some moral or social norm, in

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which case dopamine, you get a reward

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out of seeing that person punished. I

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think that it is a lust just as much as

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lust for substances or lust for sexual

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partners. It is a desire people want to

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see people punished.

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>> Welcome to the Huberman Lab podcast,

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where we discuss science [music] and

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science-based tools for everyday life.

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>> [music]

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>> I'm Andrew Huberman and I'm a professor

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of neurobiology and opthalmology at

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Stanford School of Medicine. My guest

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today is Dr. Katherine Paige Harden. She

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is a psychologist and geneticist and a

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professor at the University of Texas

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Austin. Dr. Harden is an expert in how

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our genes shape our life trajectory,

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especially how they interact with life

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events during our adolescence and how

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they impact our long-term mental and

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physical health. Today we discuss the

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interplay of nature and nurture in

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addiction, criminality, susceptibility

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to trauma, and the larger themes of sin,

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sociopathy, empathy, and forgiveness. As

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you'll soon see, Dr. Harden is unique in

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her ability to define how biology,

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psychology, and the sometimes randomness

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of life interact to drive people's

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choices. Today we talk about known

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differences between males and females,

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the role of hormones and hormone

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independent influences on male female

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differences and how people assume

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different roles in life depending on the

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power structures they find themselves

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in. I want to be very clear that this is

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not a tap dance around the big issues

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episode. Today you are going to hear a

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very direct conversation about what the

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best science says about the role of

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genes and environment on human choice

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and how the biology meaning genes and

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everything downstream of them

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neurotransmitters hormones etc drive

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what choices are available to people and

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which ones they tend to make. I've long

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been a fan of Dr. Katherine Paige

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Harden's work because I know of no one

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else researching these topics with the

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level of rigor that she is. And as

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you'll soon hear, she is an exceptional

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educator. She's clear. She's direct to

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the question and her compassion and

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belief in people's ability to better

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themselves no matter what their genes

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are and to better the world is woven

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into everything she says and it's all

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backed by data. I should also mention

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that I learned during today's episode

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that Dr. Katherine Paige Harden has a

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new book coming out soon. It is entitled

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Original Sin: On the Genetics of Vice,

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the Problems with Blame and the Future

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of Forgiveness. And you can find that

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anywhere books are sold. It's now

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available for pre-sale. Before we begin,

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I'd like to emphasize that this podcast

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is separate from my teaching and

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research roles at Stanford. It is

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however part of my desire and effort to

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bring zerocost to consumer information

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about science and science related tools

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to the general public. In keeping with

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that theme, today's episode does include

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sponsors. And now for my discussion with

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Dr. Katherine Paige Harden. Dr.

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Katherine Paige Harden, welcome.

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>> Hi, thank you for having me. Few things

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are as interesting to people as the

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relationship between genes and behavior

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or what we call genotype and phenotype,

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the expression of all the stuff

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downstream of genes. And few things are

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as interesting as adolescence and

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puberty and the home we grew up in and

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how our genes interact with our choices

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etc. You work at the intersection of all

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of those which is a very brave thing to

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do. Could you just frame for us why you

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selected to study the relationship

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between genes and outcomes using

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adolescence as uh the time point in

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which you jump off from those questions?

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Because it could have been, you know,

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from infancy or in in an old age. Why

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adolescence?

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>> Yeah. So, I did my PhD at the University

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of Virginia and I was trained as a

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clinical psychologist. And if you're

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looking at when does mental illness

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emerge, when does this risk for mental

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illness really start to increase, it's

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in adolescence. So most cases of

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substance use disorders or addiction

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begin in adolescence. That's when

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people's risk for depression goes up. If

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you're going to have a for psychotic

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episode, that's going to be in late

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adolescence, early adulthood. So from a

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clinical perspective, adolescence is

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really interesting. And then I'm also

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was trained as a lifespan developmental

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psychologist. So thinking about how does

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what's happening early in the life

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reverberate really through the rest of

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your lifespan. And if you think about

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when in life do individual differences

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between people emerge, canalize, get

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deeper. When are people's life

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trajectories really starting to be

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apparent? It's in adolescence. So I came

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into this field really interested in

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teenagers, late childhood in the teenage

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years. So thinking about puberty, sexual

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behavior, but then from there what's

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happening in adolescence, it's also

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rulebreaking or aggression or again risk

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for alcohol and drug use. So my research

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program was really based on okay well

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what's happening in this period of life

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where the genes we're born with and the

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family environments we were raised with

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how do they combine to shape people's

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lives by the time people finish their

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teenage years they begin adulthood

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they're beginning adulthood on such

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different life trajectories

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>> what ages uh constitute uh adolescence

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[laughter]

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>> I mean that's changing I think right

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Yeah. Um, we typically think of

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adolescence as beginning with the

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physical changes of puberty, right?

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Adolescence is this period of transition

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to reproductive and social maturity. So,

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we're thinking of adolescence as

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beginning between 10 and 13 when people

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are going through puberty. I think more

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controversial is when does adolescence

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end? because historically we've defined

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that as you're an adult when you take on

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the social roles of adulthood and that

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keeps being you know for various reasons

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economic social reasons pushed back

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later and later so I've typically

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studied people between 10 and 25 so that

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kind of 15-year period a 10-year-old is

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clearly a child a 25-year-old is about

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to be kicked off their parents insurance

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they can finally run a car they can

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technically take on the social roles of

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adulthood And that's a long period of

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time where a lot of things are happening

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in the body, in the brain.

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>> This may be outside the scope of of what

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you work on, but I've always been struck

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by the fact that while kids, including

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myself, um, generally hit puberty

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somewhere, as you said, between 10 and

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13 or maybe 14.

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Some seem to go through puberty for a

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much longer period of time. And I think

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of puberty as perhaps one of the biggest

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developmental milestones because the

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brain changes, hormones change of

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course, but perceptually and how people

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perceive you changes completely. And the

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acquisition of what we know as secondary

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sex characteristics um seems to occur at

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such different rates. So I mean I can be

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open about this. I I know I hit puberty

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by I know at uh at uh 14.

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>> Uhhuh. But then I didn't, you know, I

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didn't really shave until I was almost

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graduating college. Yeah.

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>> But I had grown, right? Whereas there

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were other kids that we went home for

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the summer

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>> and they came back

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>> and they came back like not a grown man

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but looking like this guy's

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>> looking like a grown man.

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>> Yeah. And kicking our butts in soccer

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and he's just, you know, just in terms

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of

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>> everything, right? But then, and I I

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don't want to out this person, but then

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when I look at us now, it seems that the

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people that went through puberty more

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quickly may have aged more quickly in

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general. Is there a any notion of a

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clock and the rate of that clock turning

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can be sort of visualized in puberty and

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predict longevity? Is there any

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relationship there?

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>> We are working on this right now. So, we

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can think about individual differences

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in puberty in three ways. We can think

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about pubertal timing. So when does it

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start?

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>> Um for girls, pubertal timing seems to

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be early pubertal timing seems to be the

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best predictor of risk for mental health

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problems, physical health problems,

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earlier menopause, shorter lifespan,

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>> early onset of puberty.

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>> Early onset of

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>> it's not looking at the sort of rate of

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characteristics.

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>> Yeah. For boys,

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you it seems that the difference in

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pubertal pace or pubertal some people

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call it pubertal tempo. So, not just how

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early does it start, but how long does

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it take

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>> for all of those changes to unfold? Um,

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we did a study many years ago where we

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found that boys were less affected by

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when it started but more affected at

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least for their emotional development by

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how quickly it happened with boys where

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they changed overnight having the

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hardest time sort of assimilating all

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these changes that are happening because

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your cognition is not necessarily

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maturing as quickly as your height or

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your musculature or your hormones. And

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so it seemed that boys seem to be

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particularly sensitive to going through

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puberty very very quickly. What we've

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been looking at recently is how the

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epiggenome changes during this period of

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time. So the genome is your DNA. It's

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the DNA sequence in your cells and that

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doesn't change with development. But the

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epiggenome is everything on top of the

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genome that affects how DNA is used by

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the body, used by the cells. And there's

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one epigenetic mechanism known as DNA

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methylation, which is, you know, a

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methyl group is is basically like this

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chemical tag and it can get kind of

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tagged onto the genome. So there's great

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work in aging that shows that the

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epigenetic clock measured by DNA

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methylation starts ticking

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in infancy and faster biological aging

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as measured by the epiggenome predicts

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shorter lifespan, worse health, earlier

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mortality. What we looked at is well

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instead of training an an epigenetic

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clock on age, can we train it on

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pubertal development? So, how physically

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mature you are? And what we found is you

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can. So, there's these these the clock

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is ticking

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as you get older, but the clock is

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there's another clock that's also

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ticking as you become more physically

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mature. And those two things are

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correlated. So the epigenetic changes

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that we see as you go through puberty

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faster

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um do seem to be related to aging more

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rapidly even in older life. So our

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reproductive development is I think very

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tied at a cellular molecular level with

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our lifespan development. And we see

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this across species. If you genetically

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engineer mice to go through puberty

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earlier they die earlier. So, we have

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this trade-off between reproductive

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maturity and lifespan across species

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within species. And I think now we're

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beginning to see that at the molecular

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level, too.

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>> Fascinating. I also like the way that

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answer lands because I had a very

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protracted puberty.

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>> Yeah.

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>> Uh and I feel grateful for that.

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>> Yeah.

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>> In retrospect, because, you know, in

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terms of um athletic ability and things

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like that, I was I wasn't really

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delayed, but I sort of couldn't get past

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the sort of middle of the distribution.

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But then over time it's like this is

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kind of wild. I feel like I'm I look

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very different. I looked very different

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at 30 than I did at 20. Like marketkedly

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different without doing anything except

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>> existing. Some people seem kind of

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frozen in their adult look

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>> at this earlier age.

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>> Earlier age

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>> and in from the animal literature and

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I'm thinking the studies um from my

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colleague Eric Nudson in particular

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where he was looking at plasticity and

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barn owls but it's been looked at

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elsewhere. There's this really striking

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correlation between the onset of puberty

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and the end of the so-called critical

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period for neuroplasticity. Of course,

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plasticity can go on throughout the

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lifespan, but the plasticity that occurs

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>> until and around puberty

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>> is, you know, an order of magnitude

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greater than the plasticity that's

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available as say a 30-year-old or

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40-year-old. Mhm.

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>> So they've done the experiments of uh

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like overreacttoizing

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um animals or taking the testicles out

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of animals and preventing somewhat

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preventing puberty and it doesn't seem

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to extend that window. So in humans is

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there any relationship between

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cognition, brain flexibility and the

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onset of puberty, the timing of the

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onset of puberty?

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>> That's a really interesting question and

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it's complicated.

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um in part because it's like well what

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part of plasticity are you looking at?

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What part of brain development are you

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looking at? And also with humans we

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can't unlike animals manipulate the

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onset of puberty in quite the same way.

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So, it does seem like there are some

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cognitive functions like if you're

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thinking about executive function

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ability, your ability to shift attention

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or update, um the things that are tested

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by a standard IQ test, those seem to be

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much more age related, whereas um your

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ability to learn from peers versus your

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parents, your sensitivity to risk and

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certain types of emotions, that seems to

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be more tied pubertal development than

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with age. But they're so confounded

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within

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observational studies in humans that

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it's a continuing challenge to try to

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pull these apart.

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I recall some mouse data showing that if

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you um expose young uh pre uh pubescent

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mice to older males, they enter puberty

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earlier. Does that exist in humans as

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well?

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>> So, this is a controversial area of

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research. It is true that um girls,

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human girls who are raised with a

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nonbiological father do on average tend

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to go through puberty earlier. And some

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have hypothesized that it's a similar

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sort of cue from the environment about

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the stability and availability of

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resources. If dad is gone, maybe the

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provisioning of the environment is going

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to be less stable. Maybe evolution would

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favor a reproductive strategy where you

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go through puberty earlier rather than

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this continued, you know, childhood is

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so costly, right? Like a human childhood

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is long. It takes a lot. I have three

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kids. It takes a lot to feed them, to

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grow an adult. And so it might make

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sense to say, okay, well, if resources

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are going to be scarce, or if resources

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are going to be unpredictable, it might

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be better for me to have this strategy

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where I go through puberty earlier.

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What's difficult about that is that

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people don't end up in family structures

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at random. And moms who go through

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puberty are more likely to have sex at

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younger ages, more likely to end up in

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non-marital childbearing family

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structures, and are likely to have

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daughters who are being raised without a

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biological father. So, is it the

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biological father absence that's causing

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the earlier puberty, or is it that mom

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has genes that predispose her towards

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early puberty that changes her

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reproductive life and then she's more

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likely to be in this certain family

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structure and pass on those genes to her

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daughters? It seems to be a little bit

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of both, which is kind of the standard

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answer to all of our questions about

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nature and nurture. That um gene there's

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a very strong genetic effect on the

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timing of puberty for both boys and

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girls, but that also the environment is

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pushing it in different directions. And

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that's part of why we're seeing that the

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age of puberty keeps going down with

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every successive cohort. I mean, it's

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been falling for the last basically as

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long as we've been keeping data. people

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have been going through puberty earlier.

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>> I'm realizing that you have a very very

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difficult job because the languaging is

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so delicate. Yeah.

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>> So, I'm just going to jump on the bed of

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nails for you.

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>> Okay.

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>> I've also heard that if the biological

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father is present, it provides a quote

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unquote protective effect against this

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earlier onset of puberty in the presence

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of the non-biological father.

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But just that language protective effect

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implies that a one-year shift or

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two-year shift earlier puberty is

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somehow bad. Like immediate I think the

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human brain just works this way, right?

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For understandable reasons think, oh,

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you know, these these young girls that

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were supposed to go into puberty at 14,

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they're now going to puberty at, you

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know, 10 because the the dad was absent.

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They we the humanize it.

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>> They pathize it and they write a script.

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And then, as you point out, you know,

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there's things related to the the

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situation as it relates to the the

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mother and her choices and her genes,

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and

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>> it's a it's a real barwire mess for the

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>> typical person um to try and pull apart.

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You're pulling these things apart

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beautifully, but it's also um fodder for

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anyone that wants to drive a narrative.

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That's tough. How how do you navigate

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that? because I'm going to ask you about

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adolescence and genes and and um uh

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sexual promiscuity, right? We're talking

20:28

about today we're going to talk about

20:29

sin, you know, and so how do you

20:32

>> how do you look at these things? I know

20:34

you look at them objectively, but then

20:36

how does one choose to communicate about

20:38

these things in a way that doesn't arm

20:39

people to kind of run their own agendas

20:42

whether they realize it or not?

20:44

>> Yeah, I'm not sure I'm the best person

20:46

to give advice about that. I, you know,

20:49

I'm a scientist. I'm a mother. I'm a

20:52

college professor. I teach intro psych

20:54

at UT. And so I'm always thinking about

20:58

what does the science say? How would I

21:00

explain this to my 13-year-old? How

21:02

would I explain this to my undergrads?

21:04

And with a sense of awe and respect for

21:11

how amazing a human body and brain is,

21:14

right? Like to think about we as women

21:18

as as at one time girls are equipped

21:22

with a brain that's

21:24

you know looking out into the

21:27

environment and integrating all of these

21:30

signals about internal and external

21:32

about you know resources and stress and

21:37

body weight and light and integrating

21:40

that to say okay now's the best time for

21:44

us in our situation to go. Now is the

21:46

time for our our bodies to change in

21:48

these amazing ways. That is that is

21:50

puberty. I feel like I keep coming back

21:53

to if we have respect for the

21:58

amazingness of the human body and the

22:00

brain and I'm trying to communicate it

22:02

with clarity and empathy in the way that

22:07

my 13-year-old son would understand it.

22:09

I don't always succeed at that goal, but

22:10

that's really my I feel like that as an

22:12

educator, that's how I'm approaching

22:14

these topics.

22:15

>> Well, I I appreciate you saying that.

22:16

I'm I didn't ask that to kind of

22:19

inoculate against anything. Um but now

22:21

we can really get [laughter] in get into

22:22

the get into the tangle.

22:24

>> Yeah. I have long thought that um the

22:28

hypothalamus, right, these this various

22:30

clusters of neurons uh above the roof of

22:32

our mouth that drive hunger and sex

22:34

behavior and thirst and aggression and

22:37

um and a bunch of other interesting

22:39

things. Um

22:41

>> is sort of the seat of the seven deadly

22:44

sins.

22:45

>> I've heard you say this before.

22:47

>> Um and of course all those brain

22:49

circuits uh and structures interact with

22:52

other brain circuits and structures.

22:53

That's uh there's no one location in the

22:55

brain um that governs a behavior

22:58

entirely with some rare exceptions. How

23:01

do you think about the genetic

23:03

programming of the hypothalamus in terms

23:05

of people's proclivity for

23:09

addiction, promiscuity, aggression,

23:12

>> being overly passive in a way that might

23:14

harm them or other people as well.

23:15

>> I don't really think that much about the

23:17

hypothalamus per se actually in relation

23:20

to those behaviors. So just stepping

23:23

back one step when you you made this

23:26

reference to the seven deadly sins,

23:28

right? So if I kind of kind of remember

23:30

all of them, there's wrath, there's

23:32

envy, there's lust, there's greed,

23:35

there's sloth, and what do the seven

23:38

deadly sins have in common? How can we

23:40

operationalize that more scientifically?

23:44

You know, what those behaviors all have

23:46

in common is, I mean, I mean, accept

23:48

envy for a second. is doing something

23:52

that might be pleasurable in the short

23:55

term

23:56

um to the extent that there's negative

23:59

consequences negative consequences to

24:01

yourself or negative consequences to

24:03

other people. I think envy is

24:04

interesting because you're seeing other

24:06

people enjoying pleasures and you're

24:07

like I want that one right so it's kind

24:09

of looking at other pe other people's

24:12

pursuit of of things. I think of envy as

24:14

a severe opportunity cost because as

24:17

long as you're envying some what someone

24:18

else has or is doing, then you're then

24:20

you're missing all the stuff that's

24:22

happening now that you could build your

24:25

life on.

24:25

>> I think of envy as like a clue to what

24:28

do you desire that you haven't admitted

24:29

to yourself.

24:31

>> One question I ask graduate students

24:33

when I'm recruiting them is whose career

24:36

do you want? Whose career do you envy?

24:38

because that tells me more about where

24:40

they really want to go with their lives

24:42

than

24:43

>> you know their kind of prepared speech

24:45

that they have for me. Good question.

24:47

Yeah. You know, let's take wrath or

24:49

let's take lust. You know, anger is an

24:52

emotion that's useful. Sexual desire is

24:54

an emotion that's useful. When do they

24:57

become sins? They become sins in our

24:59

minds when people are are engaging that

25:02

behavior

25:03

um in situations where we think it's

25:05

going to be harmful not just to

25:07

themselves but to other people. From a

25:10

clinical psychology perspective, we

25:13

would never say we're going to study the

25:15

seven deadly sins, but we do have um

25:19

clinical language or diagnosis where the

25:23

predominant symptoms that you see are

25:25

people engaging in behaviors that are

25:29

impulsive, that are um maybe immediately

25:33

pleasurable, but in the long term

25:36

harmful to themselves or other people.

25:38

So the obvious constellation of this is

25:41

substance use disorders, right? So it's

25:44

I'm I'm ingesting a substance. It feels

25:46

good and I'm doing that at significant

25:50

cost to myself and other people. We can

25:53

also think about in childhood what would

25:56

be called conduct disorder which are

25:58

people who are children who are engaging

26:00

in wrath. They're engaging in aggression

26:02

towards other people that hurts other

26:05

people, their parents, their teachers,

26:07

their schools. The law is mad at them

26:09

and they're doing it anyways. So, what

26:11

we're interested in scientifically is um

26:15

are there genes that affect the

26:17

likelihood of developing these

26:18

disorders? Yes. Um are there genetic

26:23

overlaps between these different things?

26:26

So, do the genes that um are the genes

26:30

that make it more likely for you to

26:32

become addicted to substances

26:34

also make you more likely to have many

26:36

sexual partners also make you more

26:38

likely to engage in impulsive

26:39

aggression?

26:41

That also appears to be the question?

26:43

Yes. And then if we're looking at genes

26:46

that have these associations not just

26:48

with substances or not just with sexual

26:50

behavior or not just with aggression but

26:53

have crosscutting effects on all of

26:55

them. What are they like? What are those

26:58

genes? Where are they where are they

26:59

active in the brain? When are they

27:02

expressed in development? So that's work

27:04

that that our group has been doing for

27:06

eight years now to try to discover what

27:08

these genes we have a good idea from

27:11

twin and adoption studies that there are

27:13

genetic influences on these things and

27:14

now we want to figure out what are they

27:17

and where are they active in the brain

27:18

and it turns out that it's not just

27:20

hypothalamus it's really broadly

27:21

distributed you know throughout your

27:23

brain

27:24

>> I'll update my messaging [laughter]

27:26

and I did couch it as a hypothesis I I

27:29

never said that there were you know that

27:30

you could leion one of the the sins.

27:34

There are genes that vary between

27:35

individuals.

27:37

>> That predict

27:39

addiction, predict impulsivity,

27:42

>> and other things.

27:43

>> Um, you're exploring how the genes that

27:47

predict addiction might predict

27:49

impulsivity for other types of

27:51

behaviors.

27:51

>> Yes.

27:52

>> I think I heard that the answer is yes.

27:54

Indeed, there's overlap.

27:55

>> So, I'd be very curious to know what

27:57

those genes encode for. But what are the

27:59

protein systems and neural circuit

28:02

systems, hormone systems downstream of

28:04

those genes?

28:05

>> Yeah, if we go back one step, just why

28:08

did we think that there were going to be

28:10

genes that overlap between this? The

28:12

biggest

28:14

um set of results that supported this

28:17

hypothesis were adoption and pedigree

28:19

studies. So these big data registries,

28:21

you get them in Sweden, you get them in

28:23

the Scandinavian countries that keep

28:24

track of every single one of their

28:26

citizens. And what you see is that the

28:29

seven deadly sins run in families. So if

28:32

you have an adoptive parent who's

28:35

addicted to alcohol, you are more likely

28:38

to have many sexual partners. And you're

28:40

also more likely to be diagnosed with

28:42

conduct disorder or um be arrested for a

28:46

violent crime even if you were never

28:48

raised by that parent. And it's not just

28:51

substance use to substance use or

28:52

violence to violence or you know risky

28:56

sexual behavior to risky sexual

28:57

behavior. It seems that having a family

28:59

history of any of these things increases

29:02

your likelihood of manifesting any one

29:06

of them. So that's why we thought that

29:07

there was this genetic commonality

29:09

across them. Um so what we found is that

29:13

there's many many many genes that affect

29:15

all of these behaviors. It's massively

29:18

what we call polygenic. So it's not just

29:20

one thing in one part of your genome.

29:23

It's distributed throughout your genome.

29:25

And that those genes are most expressed

29:29

in neurode development in uterero in

29:33

second and third trimester. So if you if

29:36

you look at genes that are associated

29:37

with all of these things and you see

29:39

okay when in the human lifespan are they

29:41

most active? They're active during

29:44

cortical development in the second and

29:46

third trimester. So there's something

29:48

very like early neurodedevelopmental

29:50

that's going on there and it seems to be

29:52

affecting the brain's balance of

29:55

inhibition and excitation. So

29:58

[clears throat]

29:59

as your brain is developing while you're

30:02

in uterro the GABA system which is

30:06

inhibitory and the glutamate system

30:08

which is excitatory sort of being tuned

30:10

like and the balance between those two

30:12

things is um is being worked out. If

30:16

children are born pre-term, part of the

30:18

reason that that affects their

30:20

psychological development negatively is

30:22

because it affects this balance between

30:24

inhibition and excitation. So I think

30:27

we're still very at the beginning of

30:29

this understanding the bioanitation of

30:32

it, the biological mechanisms of it. Um,

30:34

but what it suggests to us is that, you

30:37

know, sometimes you hear like ADHD is a

30:39

neurodedevelopmental disorder. I think

30:41

that substance use disorders are every

30:43

bit as a neurodedevelopmental disorder

30:45

as ADHD. I think conduct disorder, which

30:48

is characterized by impulsive

30:51

aggression, is every bit a

30:52

neurodedevelopmental disorder as ADHD.

30:55

Because if you look at the genes that

30:56

are causing them, they seem to be

30:58

affecting this pattern of brain

31:00

development very very early in life and

31:04

this balance between the brain's

31:06

inhibition and excitation.

31:08

>> Fascinating. I mean, I have to be

31:09

careful not to go down this rabbit hole,

31:11

but I started off as a developmental

31:12

neurobiologist. So, um, you know, fetal

31:16

brain wiring is, uh,

31:18

>> yeah, we've never really talked about it

31:20

on this podcast, but it's we've talked

31:21

about the effect of of fetal exposure to

31:23

hormones. Yeah.

31:24

>> Uh, in in the brain in particular, um,

31:27

in terms of sexual differentiation, but

31:29

>> yeah, there's a ton going on in there

31:32

um, at these stages. And when I hear you

31:34

talk broadly about um you know the

31:37

balance between excitation and

31:38

inhibition

31:40

and some disruption in that or some

31:42

alteration in that setting up a a a

31:45

probability of the expression of some

31:47

behavioral disorder or choice

31:49

>> set of choices. It makes me wonder, you

31:52

know, about brain function more more

31:55

broadly is, you know, does that somehow

31:58

make these choices to use a given

32:00

substance or to do a impulsive behavior?

32:03

Is it we have to be careful not to

32:05

project, but is it an attempt to restore

32:08

some sort of um order to that balance or

32:10

is it an expression of of an imbalance

32:13

system? It's just a seessaw that never

32:15

that doesn't tilt all the way uh to one

32:17

side or the other. I think that's a

32:18

really good question and I don't know

32:20

the answer to that. When you talk to

32:22

people who are, you know, experiencing a

32:25

substance use disorder, sometimes you

32:28

hear narratives that are very much in

32:30

this um kind of self-medication frame,

32:33

right? Like I took this substance and it

32:35

made me feel normal and I didn't feel

32:37

normal before I had that. But that's not

32:39

everyone. I mean, addiction is a very

32:41

heterogeneous disorder. And so I think

32:44

people's um perceptions of their

32:47

motivations to engage in substance use

32:51

that's harmful for them. And then how

32:53

does that um relate to the brain

32:55

mechanism and then how does that relate

32:57

to early neurod development? I don't

32:59

think we know you know the specifics of

33:01

those links to the extent they exist.

33:03

Yeah.

33:04

>> My colleague Anna Lumpky who wrote to

33:06

Nation

33:06

>> Yeah. She once said that um many

33:09

addicts, behavioral addictions, uh I

33:12

guess they call them process addictions

33:14

or chemical addictions, that they have

33:16

this feeling that unless they're

33:19

experiencing something really intense

33:21

>> like life isn't really happening. Like

33:23

they crave this intensity of experience.

33:26

They want peak experience.

33:28

>> Yeah.

33:28

>> Either to numb themselves. I mean it

33:30

could be a trough experience in the case

33:32

of sedatives but um that stuck with me

33:35

implied in that is that not everyone is

33:36

seeking these um kind of extreme states

33:39

and so layered on what you just

33:41

described in terms of excitation

33:43

inhibition balance I kind of wonder if

33:45

um if people who struggle with addiction

33:48

are um they're craving getting out of

33:51

too much inhibition or too much

33:53

excitation in but this is probably an

33:55

overly simplistic hypothesis

33:57

>> so just thinking about the that

33:59

sensation seeking anything that driving

34:00

for intensity. Usually when we when we

34:03

think of people who um are chronically

34:06

engaging in some behavior despite it

34:10

having negative consequences for

34:11

themselves and other people. So this

34:13

could be drug use, this could be

34:14

aggression, this could be risky sexual

34:15

behavior. Um we can typically think of

34:19

three dimensions of sort of personality

34:22

and temperament um that are often at

34:25

play. And one of them is this sensation

34:28

seeking drive for intensity. So I want

34:32

it, I want it and I want a lot of it,

34:35

right? And then one is this

34:37

disinhibition

34:39

um failure of self-control. Um I can't

34:43

stop myself. And then another which I

34:45

think is less wellstudied is what people

34:48

call antagonism or callousness which is

34:52

um I know this has uh negative

34:55

consequences for other people but I

34:57

don't really care like that doesn't

34:59

bother me. And I think what you see is

35:02

that the the combination of factors that

35:04

goes into any one person's behavior can

35:09

really vary. So for some people it's

35:11

like this feels great, this feels good.

35:13

I want the high. I want it to be

35:14

intense. I'm not disinhibited. I'm

35:17

deliberately seeking out this behavior.

35:20

You know, I plan the drugs that I'm

35:22

going to use for the club the whole week

35:24

and I plan my week afterwards. It's not

35:26

it's not disinhibited at all. It's very

35:27

purposeful. And then there are people

35:29

that are like, I wasn't planning, but

35:31

now I'm at the club and someone offered

35:32

this to me and I can't stop myself. And

35:35

then other people are like, I'm not I

35:37

like it. Okay. and I could stop myself,

35:41

but these negative con consequences that

35:44

people keep harping on, you know, the

35:46

fact that my partner doesn't like this

35:47

or the police don't like this,

35:50

like, oh, you know, I'm indifferent,

35:52

right? And so, um, all of that to say, I

35:55

think I think we need to be aware of the

35:58

complexity and the heterogeneity of of

36:01

different people's motivations when

36:03

they're doing these behaviors.

36:04

>> Yeah. And these days we hear a lot about

36:07

um the role of trauma in addiction. I

36:11

mean I can't do a single post or podcast

36:13

about addiction

36:15

>> and the biology and um and not hear well

36:19

it's trauma related. But of course genes

36:22

come from our parents. We'll talk about

36:24

that irritability. Um and so

36:28

generational trauma or or just childhood

36:31

trauma doesn't even have to be

36:32

transgenerational.

36:33

It can get layered in there in a

36:35

complicated way. Yes. And I'm not trying

36:36

to say that trauma doesn't play a role.

36:38

Clearly, it does. But it seems that

36:41

genes could be primary. Trauma in the

36:44

parents, trauma in the children,

36:46

traumatizing, you know, hurt people hurt

36:47

people kind of, you know, it's the the

36:49

one cliche that seems to, you know,

36:52

stand the test of time.

36:53

>> Yeah. I think it's very hard to say that

36:55

something is primary or secondary

36:57

because everything's interacting with

36:59

everything else. One of the scientific

37:01

challenges and then also one of the very

37:05

human tragedies that we often see is

37:08

that the parents who have genetic risks

37:13

who are passing those on to their kids

37:15

are also the caregivers for those kids.

37:17

And so the kids who would most benefit

37:20

from

37:21

firm, warm, stable, nurturing parenting

37:25

are also the least likely to get it

37:27

because the parents themselves are also

37:29

dealing with their own stuff and they're

37:30

also leading their own complicated

37:32

lives. And so it's a tapestry like

37:35

there's a warp and a weft to a piece of

37:38

cloth. There's the threads that go this

37:39

way and this way. And um I think that's

37:42

how I think about the relationship

37:44

between genes and trauma early

37:47

experience is that really they both are

37:49

woven together to build

37:52

the brain and the body and the

37:54

personality that then struggles with

37:56

these behaviors later on in their life.

37:59

So if we were to have access to our

38:01

genomes heading into uh adolescence or

38:04

to our kids

38:05

>> uh genomes um and we know based on your

38:09

work and the work of others presumably

38:10

that some of the genes that predispose

38:13

to impulsive behavior, addictive

38:14

behavior, promiscuity etc. Um that would

38:18

be useful information I would think.

38:19

Right? Then one could think carefully

38:22

about friend choices, situational

38:25

choices, install buffers. You know, it

38:27

sounds sounds so mechanical, but you

38:29

know, have people around who can help

38:31

buffer against this these genetic

38:33

predispositions which no doubt, as you

38:35

just said, weave into um situational

38:38

predispositions.

38:40

>> Why don't people want that information?

38:42

Or do they want that information?

38:43

Because I remember in the 80s hearing,

38:45

oh, you know, soon we're gonna have

38:46

genomes and you can know if you're going

38:47

to get Huntington's.

38:48

>> Yeah. this, you know, very destructive

38:51

degenerative disorder. And and then

38:52

people said, well, I wouldn't want to

38:53

know. I I mean, I think many people

38:55

would also want to know and especially

38:57

parents, you know, if they can just get

39:00

past their guilt that it has something

39:01

to do with them, I think they'd want to

39:03

help their kids uh avoid these

39:06

predispositions given that most of what

39:08

we're talking about are maladaptive

39:09

predispositions. So this is a

39:12

complicated and really rapidly growing

39:15

area of research which is what happens

39:18

if you return people's genetic

39:20

information back to them. So if you have

39:23

ever done 23 and me or some sort of

39:25

direct to consumer genetics company you

39:27

might have gotten like this is your

39:29

genetic risk for Crohn's disease or this

39:31

is your genetic risk for Parkinson's or

39:33

Alzheimer's. Um and now there are more

39:36

companies that are expanding into that

39:39

genetic information around

39:42

um many gene indices. We call them

39:44

polygenic indices or polygenic scores

39:47

that are correlated with someone's risk

39:51

for developing an alcohol use disorder.

39:53

Say I think there's a couple things to

39:56

keep in mind here. One is that the our

39:58

genetic information is rapidly

40:01

improving.

40:03

it's still not very good at the level of

40:06

predicting an outcome for an individual.

40:09

So, um, as an example, you can think

40:14

cities that are at higher altitude tend

40:17

to be colder. Like that's a correlation.

40:20

That's a correlation of around 04.5.

40:23

You can know that if you're trying to

40:25

think about, okay, well, which cities

40:27

are colder on average than others.

40:30

That's not going to tell you do you need

40:31

to pack a sweater if you're going to

40:34

Montreal next Tuesday, right? Like

40:36

that's a specific weather incident.

40:39

Polygenic scores right now are like I

40:41

can tell you that you know on in general

40:45

like these people have a higher risk

40:48

than these people, but they're not

40:50

they're not a pregnancy test or even a

40:52

Huntington's disease test. They're not

40:54

prognosticators of like an individual

40:56

person's risk for an alcohol use

40:58

disorder. there's some uncertainty

41:00

there. [snorts] The other question is

41:02

what are the ethics of telling someone

41:04

that they have a low genetic risk,

41:06

especially if we're uncertain about

41:09

that. Like you've talked a lot about

41:11

how, you know, no alcohol on average is

41:14

better for you than some alcohol.

41:17

We think about the risks of telling

41:19

someone that they're genetically

41:20

predisposed towards a negative life

41:22

outcome. But there's also risk to

41:25

telling someone that they're not

41:26

genetically proposed because is that

41:28

going to are they going to interpret

41:30

that as license to drink more? I don't

41:32

need to worry about that. I need I don't

41:33

need to worry about my consumption

41:34

because this company told me that I'm at

41:37

low risk. And then the other thing

41:39

you're picking up on is that there are

41:40

individual differences in desire for

41:44

kind of deliberate ignorance. So there

41:46

was a great study after the wall came

41:49

down in Berlin that was um conducted on

41:52

whether or not people want to know the

41:55

contents of their files, like who was

41:58

reporting on them. And some people were

42:00

like, "Of course I want to know. Of

42:02

course I want to know who was saying

42:03

what about me." And other people were

42:06

saying, "No, I don't. Deliberate

42:07

ignorance. Ignorance is bliss.

42:09

Deliberate ignorance is what I want.

42:11

>> This is what other people were saying

42:12

about them."

42:13

>> Yes. Yes.

42:14

>> Don't read the comments. Yeah,

42:16

deliberate ignorance. No, read the

42:18

comments. It's also a form of deliberate

42:19

ignorance.

42:20

>> This is like an avid debate between

42:23

podcasters. You know, Rogan is the Mr.

42:25

Don't Don't read the comments. Lex

42:27

Freriedman and I go back and forth on

42:28

this

42:29

>> on guarding the comments.

42:30

>> I [clears throat] mean, yeah, it can be

42:32

useful.

42:32

>> So, all of that to say, I think we're in

42:35

a situation which the science is rapidly

42:36

developing. It's not nearly at a point

42:39

where it's going to be a a high

42:41

confidence predictor. There's also risks

42:44

to being told that you have a low, you

42:47

know, a low genetic risk because it

42:49

might act as a permission structure for

42:52

behavior that might ultimately prove to

42:53

be risky. And also, people's

42:56

psychologies are complicated and not

42:58

everyone responds to more information as

43:02

a good thing. Not everyone wants to read

43:03

the comments of their DNA. This isn't a

43:06

push back, but I feel like most people,

43:08

even if they don't understand genes

43:10

inheritability,

43:12

understand that they got their genes

43:13

from their parents.

43:14

>> Yeah.

43:14

>> So, there is an argument to be made

43:16

perhaps that people are already doing

43:19

this. Like someone whose father was an

43:22

alcoholic, whose grandfather was an

43:24

alcoholic,

43:25

>> could say, "Well,

43:26

>> yeah, I got to be really careful because

43:29

obviously this runs in my family,

43:31

right?" And then someone say, "Well,

43:32

your mom doesn't have an issue with

43:34

alcohol. She could have a couple drinks,

43:35

no big deal. So, you're protected and we

43:37

don't know how gene dosing protects us

43:39

or makes us vulnerable. No one knows,

43:41

but we all

43:42

>> we all do this. Yes.

43:43

>> Yes, I think we do.

43:44

>> I mean, we'll get into discussions about

43:45

genes inheritability, but you know that

43:47

that like the topic of of eugenics and

43:50

genetic selection with even within

43:52

embryos is super dicey nowadays.

43:54

Everyone's, you know, like you know,

43:56

it's so scary to even have the

43:57

discussion. But then I've always said, I

43:59

mean,

44:00

>> people do a kind of genetic selection.

44:03

They pick sperm donors and they pick

44:04

partners.

44:05

>> Yes.

44:06

>> Often times based on a combination of

44:07

traits which are clearly involve genes,

44:10

you know, so people are doing a genetic

44:12

selection in partner choice

44:14

>> anyway. And so to me, maybe it's just

44:17

the scientist in me, the conversation

44:19

feels unnecessarily scary. But when it

44:22

comes to things like substance use

44:24

disorder, I mean, tell me if I'm wrong.

44:26

I think it makes sense to look at your

44:28

parents and say, "Listen, if one of them

44:29

has a an an issue with alcohol or both

44:32

of them have an issue with alcohol, I

44:34

have to be very careful with alcohol."

44:36

>> And with your children too, right? I

44:38

think as parents, at least as a mother,

44:40

I look at my kids and I think they don't

44:43

have the same temperament. They don't

44:44

have the same personality. Um, I think

44:47

the risks of cannabis use is different

44:50

for my son and for my daughter. And so I

44:53

think an attuned parent is going to be

44:55

thinking about what do I know about my

44:57

kid as they go into adolescence? How

45:00

does that inform how I'm helping shape

45:02

their environment?

45:04

>> I think what you're picking up here is

45:05

that oftentimes people treat genetic

45:08

information as if it exists in a vacuum

45:11

and it's the only thing we know about a

45:12

person. And that's obviously not true.

45:15

There are phenotypes that we see in our

45:18

family members, in our perspective

45:20

mates, in our children. And most of the

45:22

research can also act as if you would be

45:26

returning genetic information um about a

45:29

child or about a person to that person

45:32

and it's the only thing that they know

45:34

and that's not true. Um, so I think that

45:36

we really are at a place where we need

45:38

more meta-cience, science about the

45:41

science in what is the most responsible

45:44

way to give people access to their

45:48

genetic information in a way that

45:50

permits them to make the best choices.

45:52

But we're not going to be able to do

45:53

that if we're continuing to pretend that

45:55

genetic information exists somehow

45:57

siloed from all the other things that

45:59

people are paying attention to when

46:02

they're observing themselves and their

46:04

family members.

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parents and their parents

47:01

>> and their positive traits and their,

47:04

let's just call them maladaptive,

47:05

destructive traits to themselves or to

47:07

others, the more informed our choices

47:09

can be. But I do understand that it can

47:11

start to set up some constraints in our

47:13

mind of what we are capable of or not

47:15

capable of.

47:16

>> Yeah.

47:16

>> But I also feel like especially in the

47:18

United States, there's this notion that

47:20

we can become anything.

47:21

>> It wasn't until I was in a relationship

47:23

with somebody from Southern Europe that

47:25

I realized that that notion growing up

47:27

with that

47:28

>> is kind of outrageous to some people in

47:30

the world because in a lot of areas of

47:32

the world, as you know, people get

47:33

siloed really early on. Um, and they not

47:37

everyone grows up thinking they could be

47:38

an amazing athlete if they chose that

47:40

path.

47:41

>> Yeah.

47:41

>> They could be a billionaire if they

47:42

chose that path. You know, they could,

47:44

but in the United States, we love this

47:46

notion of anyone can get to any position

47:48

if they just work hard enough and

47:49

believe in themselves and align with the

47:50

right people.

47:51

>> So, I think that you think of it

47:53

probably as, you know, another source of

47:56

data. And isn't more data better? Like,

47:58

isn't we we improve our decision-m when

48:01

we have more variables at hand?

48:03

um that's a very scientific way to think

48:05

about genetic information.

48:07

Whereas I think for many people in the

48:10

broader public there can be a temptation

48:14

to see genes as a very special sort of

48:16

information. There's a genetic has

48:21

a myth around it that maybe this is my

48:24

data on my heart rate variability

48:25

doesn't have about it. I I often I think

48:29

that people can fall into these really

48:31

essentialist stories about genetics that

48:34

it's telling them something about their

48:36

like their deepest or truest selves.

48:40

Um and that's when the delivery of

48:42

genetic information without correcting

48:45

their perception of what genes are

48:46

really telling us can start to be

48:48

dangerous. I mean I think about 23 and

48:50

me their tagline for many years was

48:54

welcome to you spit in this tube.

48:57

welcome to you, right? That we are going

48:59

to give we are not just going to give

49:00

you another piece of information about

49:02

yourself to add to all the things that

49:04

you could be using. We are going to tell

49:07

you who you really are. And it's when

49:10

the genetic information lapses into

49:13

these more essentialist stories that I

49:15

think things get to be, in your words, a

49:17

little bit thornier, a little bit

49:18

riskier.

49:19

>> I never did 23 and me, but um they were

49:22

just right up the road, but somehow

49:23

never did it. But I did hear that one of

49:26

the surprising uh results of 23 andme

49:29

and companies like it was that um a not

49:32

insignificant number of uh people

49:34

discovered they have relatives that they

49:36

didn't know they had.

49:36

>> Yes. Or that their father isn't the

49:38

father that they thought they had,

49:39

>> which is a pretty major psychological

49:42

frame shift.

49:43

>> Yeah. I gave a talk at a college, a

49:45

small college. Um, and it was a writing

49:48

class and they had to write about a book

49:50

and they chose my book to write about,

49:53

which is great. It's like, you know,

49:54

freshman and they all have to actually

49:56

write something and they chose a book

49:57

that was deliberately, you know, a

49:59

little bit controversial to give them

50:01

something to push off on. And I asked

50:03

him, I said, "Why? How, you know, you're

50:05

writing professor, how did you find my

50:07

book?" And he said, "Well, I did 23 and

50:08

me." And I realized that my the man who

50:12

raised me is not my biological father.

50:16

My parents didn't know this. It was our

50:18

fertility doctor who was my biological

50:21

father. And I have something like 26

50:24

half siblings cuz this guy had been

50:26

doing it in his practice for years. He's

50:30

now the doctor is now deceased. And I

50:33

just was like that's so much more

50:35

interesting than I'm going to talk about

50:36

like anything I'm going to talk about

50:38

with these freshmen. story and that um

50:41

and I think that speaks to he had a

50:44

whole narrative about his life and his

50:46

family and then he got this piece of

50:48

genetic information and it blew that

50:51

story out of the water because it there

50:52

was something about the genetic lineage

50:55

that is really important to our sense of

50:58

of who we are and he really had to

51:01

reconstruct you know his family story

51:04

and his identity in the light of that

51:05

information.

51:07

It's so interesting because I've heard

51:10

of people learning something

51:13

unfortunate, bad about their grandparent

51:16

or parent that they weren't aware of and

51:18

then internalizing that somehow they are

51:21

bad.

51:22

>> Mhm.

51:23

>> Especially young kids can internalize

51:25

that message.

51:26

>> Yeah.

51:26

>> This is a a message to all people who

51:29

may end up divorced. Don't badmouth the

51:32

the other parent because you're

51:34

essentially telling your kids that they

51:35

come from bad they there's badness in

51:38

them.

51:39

>> Yeah.

51:39

>> You know, and and we all think that this

51:42

is about people's behavior, but but my

51:44

understanding of spend a little bit of

51:46

time with this literature just how

51:47

people interpret information and how

51:49

kids interpret information is that they

51:52

like oh like I come from something bad

51:55

and there's actually I mean there's all

51:56

these movies about this. Star Wars has

51:58

this and you know and and other other

52:01

movies you know like our genetic origins

52:04

and how those played out in previous

52:07

generations um can frighten people about

52:10

themselves.

52:11

>> Yes. So to go back to your earlier

52:13

question about how do we talk about gen

52:17

genetics in relation to these phenotypes

52:20

that are really part of our identities.

52:23

Another thing is that I don't think

52:25

anyone's bad. I don't think anyone's all

52:28

good either. I think that humans are

52:29

complicated and our behaviors are

52:31

complicated and none of us can be

52:33

reduced to one thing we've done or one

52:36

gene we have or one aspect of our

52:38

phenotype. But that is a really common

52:42

perception that genetics is telling some

52:44

genetics is some telling us something

52:46

essential about ourselves and that it

52:48

might turn out that that essential thing

52:50

is a bad thing. Um, I write in my new

52:55

book about this letter that I got from

53:00

um, a man who is in prison. He's been in

53:03

prison since he was 16 for

53:08

a horrific crime that he committed. It's

53:11

a, you know, a sexually violent crime

53:14

um, that he committed when he was 15

53:16

years old. So, still an adolescent,

53:18

still a growing brain, still not an

53:21

adult. in Texas, you can be tried an

53:23

adult as as 15 and he's been in prison

53:25

ever since then. And he read about my

53:29

lab, my, you know, our behavior genetics

53:31

lab at Texas and an issue of Texas

53:33

monthly magazine, which I guess the

53:36

prison subscribes to. And he wrote me a

53:38

letter and it showed up in my university

53:41

mailbox and it was him saying, "I've

53:44

done this thing like, let me tell you

53:46

about myself. I've been in prison my

53:47

whole adult life, even before then." Um,

53:52

what do you think makes a child go bad?

53:56

Nature or nurture? And that question

54:00

haunted me

54:02

because I could give him a technical

54:05

answer which is I could say it's we know

54:08

that nature matters. We know that

54:10

nurture matters. We know that all of our

54:12

behaviors are influenced by both nature

54:13

or nurture. Um, but I think when he's

54:18

writing me, he's not just asking for a

54:20

science lesson, right? He's someone

54:21

who's done something horrible and he's

54:23

saying, "I feel like I'm inherently a

54:25

horrible person." And that's might be

54:28

because of my genetics and my do my

54:31

genetics make me bad. And I think that's

54:34

a story about genetics which has no

54:36

scientific basis but really

54:39

um pops up in a lot of places in our

54:42

culture and it makes it very difficult

54:43

to talk about because you know you're

54:46

here saying these genetic variants are

54:49

expressed at this point in prenatal

54:50

development and that increases your

54:52

probability of these having having these

54:54

behaviors. But if someone hears that as

54:56

I could be born bad or I could be born

54:59

broken, that's absolutely not what we're

55:01

saying. But that story about genetics is

55:04

really, you know, woven through our

55:05

culture.

55:06

>> The bad seed,

55:07

>> the bad seed, bad to the bone, natural

55:10

born killer. We have I think the fact

55:12

that we can come up with English idioms

55:15

and phrases for this so easily tells us

55:18

something about the way that we think

55:20

about

55:22

behavior, morality, a self and biology.

55:26

>> I have so many questions but I think the

55:29

first one I want to ask is a

55:30

developmental one.

55:32

>> Yeah. Um, I think most of us

55:35

presumably carry this idea that it's

55:38

during puberty and the activation of

55:40

hormones, in particular testosterone,

55:43

that takes a sweet kid and makes them a

55:45

bad kid.

55:47

>> I think that's not true. I I I don't

55:50

believe that's true. But are there

55:52

examples of um in the literature of

55:56

kids prior to puberty being destructive

56:00

in in a sociopathic way?

56:02

>> Yes. And that's one of the biggest

56:04

predictors of um what people have called

56:07

a life course persistent pattern of

56:10

antisocial offending which is onset

56:12

before the age of 10. um antisocial

56:16

behavior that's not just destruction of

56:18

property but also aggression against

56:20

other children. And when we're thinking

56:23

about aggression, oftentimes we

56:25

discriminate between aggression when

56:28

provoked versus proactive kind of cold

56:31

aggression. So the worst prognosis we

56:35

would we would anticipate would be a

56:38

male child who begins to aggress against

56:42

other children or against animals before

56:46

the age of 10 and doesn't feel guilt or

56:49

remorse around that that has kind of

56:51

this cold callousness about it. That's a

56:54

poor prognosticator of having well-

56:57

reggulated behavior into adulthood. So

56:59

of those kids who have conduct disorder

57:02

be before especially before the age of

57:04

10 with these callous emotional features

57:07

we would expect that 50 to 75% of them

57:09

will have a substance use disorder in

57:11

adulthood. Um a non-trivial percentage

57:14

will have meet criteria for antisocial

57:17

personality or another personality

57:18

disorder in adulthood. Um and so again I

57:21

think we're we're looking at a subset of

57:24

children where there's clearly a heavy

57:27

genetic component. There's clearly a

57:29

heavy nurture component. It's very

57:32

neurodedevelopmental in terms of its

57:33

origins and early brain development and

57:37

currently we have vanishingly few

57:41

effective treatments. And again, I think

57:43

that's because people have maybe

57:46

implicitly or unconsciously

57:48

interpreted the genetic research or the

57:51

biological research as these kids were

57:53

born bad. Not these kids were born with

57:57

a set of neurodedevelopmental

57:58

liabilities and we really need to figure

58:00

out how to help them. You know, what are

58:02

the treatments we can offer them and

58:05

when people see something as a moral

58:06

failing, they're less likely to see it

58:08

as a biomedical problem that we can, you

58:10

know, throw the weight of science

58:12

behind.

58:13

>> What percentage of these kids younger

58:15

than 10 that show this antisocial

58:16

behavior are male versus female?

58:19

>> The sex ratio varies, but sometimes it's

58:22

2 to1, sometimes it's as high as four.

58:24

four to one. So,

58:25

>> and that can't be explained by post

58:27

uterero testosterone because they

58:29

haven't hit puberty yet.

58:30

>> Yeah.

58:30

>> So, it either is an or early organizing

58:33

effect in uterero or there's something

58:35

on the Y chromosome that creates a

58:37

susceptibility

58:38

>> and we really don't know actually one of

58:40

my former postocs is working on this now

58:42

the analysis of the X chromosome um

58:44

because most genetic studies just work

58:46

just focus on the autotosome. So, just

58:48

focus on the you know the nonsex

58:50

chromosomes. Um the other thing is we

58:52

also see this in animals that male

58:55

guinea pigs are much more vulnerable to

58:59

the effects of preterm birth than female

59:01

guinea pigs. Again, preterm birth

59:03

disrupts that same kind of GABA to

59:06

glutamate excitatory inhibitory balance

59:08

that um we're also seeing popping up in

59:11

the genetic research. Also, I've just

59:13

I've I have have two three kids. I have

59:15

two girls and one boy. And even with

59:18

humans, the labor and delivery nurse

59:19

will be like, "Okay, well, we got to

59:21

keep him in longer because those early

59:24

early boys, they struggle. They know

59:26

that the male fetus seems to be more

59:29

vulnerable to these insults than the

59:31

than the female fetus.

59:32

>> Are the guinea pigs sociopathic?"

59:36

>> Guinea pigs. I mean, all of these things

59:37

you can you used to work with nonhuman

59:41

animal models.

59:42

>> I for better or worse, I've worked with

59:44

so many different species. I have to say

59:46

I do not miss working with animals for

59:48

[clears throat] a variety of reasons.

59:49

>> That's how I ended up in a clinical

59:50

psych program is

59:52

>> humans humans can consent to be in an

59:54

experiment. I as an animal lover it

59:56

eventually wore on my soul too much and

59:58

I understand the ne where it's

60:00

necessary. I also think there's an

60:02

excess in particular and I'll lose some

60:05

friends with this but in particular um

60:07

with some of the larger primate work I

60:10

one really needs to justify and there

60:12

are instances where there's good

60:13

justification but um yeah I've worked

60:15

with a lot of different animals but I

60:17

was about to say um I know we both uh

60:20

dog lovers um there's this saying um

60:24

they're no bad dogs just bad owners but

60:26

we don't say that about humans we don't

60:28

say oh you know there no bad people

60:30

everyone is a good person. They're just

60:32

bad parents. At some point, usually 18,

60:36

we say you're responsible for your

60:38

actions regardless of what happened to

60:39

you, regardless of the genes you came

60:41

into this world with. And

60:44

things uh shift where people

60:47

understandably are responsible for their

60:48

behavior in a different way. Sounds like

60:50

in Texas it can come in earlier

60:52

depending on the crime.

60:53

>> Yeah. But I assume all dogs are good

60:56

dogs, that they're trustworthy, that

60:59

they would never harm you or another

61:01

dog, maybe an animal, cuz I've I've seen

61:04

what happens when certain dogs get a

61:05

hold of certain animals, but I don't

61:08

think we make the same assumption about

61:11

people.

61:11

>> I don't think we do either. I I titled

61:14

my new book Original Sin

61:18

to to really spotlight this exact thing.

61:22

I you know before I was a scientist um

61:25

the first 20 years of my life I was an

61:27

evangelical Christian. So I was raised

61:29

in a very um fundamentalist household

61:32

southern praised God and pass the

61:35

ammunition in lots of ways. And um and

61:39

in my in my brand of Christianity that I

61:42

was raised in, which was um Protestant,

61:46

reformed

61:47

Calvinist,

61:49

I really was raised with this idea of

61:52

original sin, which is that humans are

61:55

born bad, that they're born depraved,

61:57

that they're born broken. And I don't

62:01

believe that's true, but that's the

62:03

explicit teaching of some religious

62:05

traditions. And that's a religious

62:07

tradition that was really foundational

62:09

to our culture and our institutions. So,

62:12

I don't think it's a coincidence that um

62:16

we talk about how there's no bad dogs,

62:18

but we assume people can be inherently

62:21

bad because I think many of us were

62:23

taught that, you know, from a young age

62:25

that that all of us or some of us, you

62:29

know, if if you're thinking about

62:30

Calvinist theology of some people are

62:32

the elect and some people are that that

62:33

some of us are inherently bad. Um, so

62:38

you can be raised with a a religious

62:40

tradition that that really is talking

62:42

about inherent depravity and then you

62:44

have a scientific tradition that's

62:46

studying well how does genes how do

62:48

genes affect bad things that people do

62:51

and and then we have debates about how

62:54

science should be used and that's where

62:56

I think things get really thorny and

62:58

really tricky which is how do we apply

63:00

the science without lapsing into this

63:05

really ancient way of thinking um which

63:08

is interpreting the science as proof

63:10

that we're broken that that people are

63:14

broken at the same time. I mean, going

63:17

back to this letter that I received,

63:19

people do horrible Like, people do

63:22

horrible things to each other. And I

63:25

think about that man who wrote me a

63:27

letter and I can say I think he did a

63:30

horrible thing. And I think he probably,

63:33

everything I know scientifically, I

63:36

think he probably had horrible luck in

63:38

terms of his parents and his genes and

63:40

his birth experiences and his childhood

63:42

experiences.

63:44

And so, how do we put those together?

63:47

What does it mean to hold someone

63:48

responsible for how they behave? I do

63:53

think that we're responsible for

63:54

ourselves and responsible to each other

63:57

while also keeping in mind the fact that

64:00

no one created themselves from scratch.

64:02

By the by the time he was an adult, he

64:05

was already in prison for the things

64:08

that had happened to him while he was

64:09

still technically a child. I wrote this

64:11

book, my new book, because I was really

64:13

attempting to to wrestle through that

64:16

question.

64:17

>> I think I'm getting this story right.

64:19

It's a true story that was uh told by

64:23

our former director of neurosciences at

64:24

Stanford, Bill Nuome.

64:26

>> Um

64:28

about the guy who went up in the tower

64:32

at UT Austin and shot a bunch of people,

64:35

killed them. The tower shooter, I think

64:37

he was eventually taken out by a

64:38

security guard.

64:40

The

64:42

remarkable thing about the story is, at

64:44

least the way I remember it, is that

64:46

this guy knew something was wrong with

64:48

him. Thought that the sight of the

64:51

problem was in his brain,

64:55

was asking people to look at his brain

64:57

and help him. I think I'm getting this

64:59

right. We'll double check.

65:01

um and then said at the point where he

65:05

realized he was going to go through with

65:06

this thing with this act that he wanted

65:09

them to look at his brain and it turned

65:12

out he had a tumor in a I think it was

65:14

some temporal lobe region that

65:16

>> it was amigdula

65:17

>> oh it was actually in the in the amydala

65:19

so you know the story clearly uh and

65:21

it's where you work um fortunately

65:24

occurred long before you work I mean

65:25

terrible that it happened at all but in

65:27

this age of school shooters and public

65:30

massacres, right? People just, you know,

65:32

going up into Vegas hotel window and,

65:34

you know, hosing people with bullets. Th

65:36

this case is a unique one because the

65:39

guy knew there was something wrong with

65:41

him. Want in some sense wanted help, but

65:45

you can kind of create this picture of,

65:48

you know, um, angel devil conversations

65:51

in his head between neural circuitry

65:53

that's saying, "Don't do this. Don't do

65:54

this. Ask for help and do this, do

65:57

this."

65:58

I mean, it's like the cartoon or movie

66:00

with the angel and the devil on the on

66:02

the shoulder or in each ear.

66:04

>> What are we to make of that?

66:06

>> Yeah. Gosh, the women case is so it's so

66:10

interesting because he did um say that

66:13

he there was something wrong with him.

66:16

He did ask for help. um when after he

66:19

died the state of Texas ordered a

66:22

autopsy and um they found that they had

66:25

this tumor and the whole thing was

66:27

basically labeled like um almost like a

66:31

natural disaster had hurt had occurred.

66:34

So the the report talks about like the

66:36

catastrophe or the you know the this

66:39

incident that happened. Um, so the they

66:43

ultimately when when trying to make

66:46

sense of Whitman's shooting people from

66:48

the tower uh at Texas

66:52

took what was some philosophers have

66:54

called this objective view. So basically

66:57

like he they weren't viewing him as an

67:01

agent who's choosing who's doing

67:04

something in the realm of good or bad a

67:08

moral failing. They were viewing him as

67:10

kind of a machine that's gone haywire,

67:12

right? He got a tumor in his amydala and

67:14

he wouldn't have done it if he hadn't

67:16

had this tumor. How would they have made

67:19

sense of his behavior if he hadn't asked

67:22

for a brain autopsy? if they didn't know

67:25

about this tumor, how many other people

67:28

have something going on with them in a

67:32

specific location that um if we knew

67:36

about it might help us understand how

67:38

this behavior came across. I uh I write

67:42

in my book this story of this Dutch

67:44

family where

67:47

basically all the women in the family

67:48

were functioning okay but half the men

67:51

in the family were

67:54

one raped his sister, one stabbed his

67:58

boss with a pitchfork, one multiple one

68:01

committed arson, multiple of the men

68:04

were in prison. And at some point, I

68:06

guess one of the women was like, "Y'all,

68:08

you have to figure out what's going on

68:09

with the men in our family. Like, this

68:11

is too much to be a coincidence." And

68:14

what they found is that on the X

68:15

chromosome,

68:17

they had inherited a rare mutation in

68:22

the MAOA gene. So, MAOA is an enzyme

68:26

that degrades monoamines that, you know,

68:30

regulate how your neurons are talking to

68:31

one another. And women have two X

68:34

chromosomes. So if they inherit a bad

68:36

version, they're still the other

68:38

version. Whereas men only have one X.

68:40

And so from their mom, they got a 50/50

68:42

shot. Am I going to get the the mutated

68:45

version or the nonmutated version? I

68:48

mean, I find this study fascinating on

68:50

so many levels, right? That the single

68:53

letter change in your DNA could have

68:55

this massive effect on your behavior.

68:59

but also that all of these men were in

69:01

the criminal justice system and had not

69:04

been obviously flagged as something

69:06

organic or biological or mental illness

69:09

going on with them. And later they there

69:11

was another group that um found this

69:14

this you know a sensibly rare mutation

69:18

in several other impulsively aggressive

69:22

boys that had been referred to their

69:24

hospital. And they they ended their

69:26

scientific paper on what I find one of

69:29

the most haunting notes in the

69:30

scientific literature, which is, is this

69:34

actually rare? Or is it that when we're

69:37

faced with people doing horrible things,

69:40

we never even stop to look for what

69:43

might be causing it from our genetic or

69:45

neurobiological from organic way, which

69:48

I I think that's a really really

69:50

chilling thought. Um so

69:53

how do we you know in the absence I

69:56

think the question that you're asking is

69:57

an important one which is in the absence

69:59

of some smoking gun you know the mutated

70:02

gene the amygdala tumor how do we put

70:05

together

70:07

our knowledge as scientists as people

70:09

who read the science that yes it's genes

70:13

yes it's environment yes it goes into

70:15

the behavior and also we're humans we

70:18

have this this outrage rage and this

70:22

naturally this blame towards people that

70:24

harm each other. How do we as humans

70:26

hold both of those truths at the same

70:28

time? I think that's the real challenge.

70:30

>> I think once somebody is harmed, our

70:33

empathy shifts to the victim.

70:36

>> Yes.

70:36

>> Or victims.

70:37

>> Yes. in a way that oludes our maybe even

70:41

at times depending how close we are to

70:43

the victims or how much we identify with

70:45

it that oludes our um even care that

70:50

like like okay this guy this guy went up

70:52

on this I'm describing it historically

70:54

this guy went up on this tower killed

70:55

these people that security guard

70:56

eventually got him but the

70:58

>> you know

70:59

>> the parent of that kid that was just

71:02

walking to class

71:04

>> or you know the young woman who is, you

71:07

know, freshman year or whatever, you

71:09

know, she's dead now. Yeah.

71:10

>> She's gone. And so I think that in a in

71:13

a kind of healthy way, not kind of, in a

71:15

healthy way, we just we think the hell

71:17

with that guy.

71:18

>> One less glad they killed him. People

71:20

will say that, right? People say that

71:22

I'm I'm not necessarily Yeah. I guess in

71:24

some sense if I just stand back and my

71:26

reflexive response, it's like this guy

71:28

killed a lot of people. I understand he

71:30

was driven to it. He was stricken with

71:32

something. And I that the um but it's

71:34

hard for me to get to okay well there's

71:36

a genetic thing that set him up from a

71:38

gloma in the amydala of all places like

71:41

he he bad luck but because we assume

71:43

that people can intervene in their own

71:45

behavior. This gets down to kind of free

71:47

will type yes stuff that my colleague

71:49

Robert

71:49

>> Seapolski

71:51

>> you know he'll argue to the end of time

71:53

that there's no free will which is a

71:55

frustrating one for for many of us but

71:58

>> you know he's a hell of a smart guy. You

72:00

know, I think that the the issue

72:03

for many people is that genes are fairly

72:07

far upstream from behavior. You know, if

72:09

I said, "Okay, there's this guy down in

72:11

uh you know, Los Angeles, and you know,

72:14

he

72:16

>> I don't know, he he he got rabies from a

72:18

dog he was trying to save from the LA

72:20

River. And then 3 days later, you know,

72:23

he randomly committed this crime. He

72:25

killed somebody." You say, "Well, he had

72:27

rabies. He was raid." like we can make

72:28

the connection very easily, but that's a

72:30

you know a neural virus that hits the

72:32

amydala among other things and causes

72:35

people to get very aggressive. We'd go

72:37

okay you know

72:38

>> well you can imagine him without the

72:40

rabies. So there's there's you you can

72:45

you there's some distance between the

72:48

self that is the object of moral

72:50

judgment

72:51

>> and the cause that you're locating as

72:55

the salient cause for this behavior. And

72:57

if there's daylight between those, then

72:59

you can say, "Okay, well, I can imagine

73:01

what he was like before the rabies."

73:04

>> Genes make it harder to do that

73:07

>> because when we think of them as so

73:11

essential to the making of the self that

73:14

is the object of moral judgment,

73:17

>> who is the person that has different

73:18

genetics, right? We can't imagine

73:22

what Witwin would have been like if he

73:23

didn't have the tumor. We could imagine

73:25

what the guy would be like if he didn't

73:26

get with rabies. But who is the person

73:28

who has a different genotype? It's very

73:31

difficult to cast a different self. And

73:34

so it's very difficult to rescue that

73:36

self from our condemnation.

73:40

>> I'll say some uh something controversial

73:42

on the on the back of what you just

73:43

said, which is there may even be I'm

73:46

speculating here. You're the geneticist.

73:48

Uh I'm there may even be some

73:51

deeply hardwired unconscious notion

73:55

around genes that we know that genes can

73:58

be inherited that if somebody has a gene

74:02

which makes them a quote quote unquote

74:04

bad seed or predisposes them to a really

74:06

bad behavior and then they engage in it

74:08

and then they're in jail for the rest of

74:09

their life or they get shot by the

74:11

security guard. We hear the words good

74:14

riddance. M

74:15

>> good riddance implies good those genes

74:18

were now stopped

74:19

>> hope you know we don't know if they

74:20

reproduced before that so there's

74:22

something which makes the example you

74:24

gave before especially um eerie of the

74:29

uh IVF doc that was literally seeding

74:32

these these eggs with his own genes and

74:35

then somebody it's like

74:36

>> I mean that the implication is not that

74:38

that person was killing themselves but

74:39

whoever that physician was I mean not

74:42

somebody a it's terribly unethical

74:45

you know, at every level,

74:47

>> he's replicating

74:48

>> he's replicating his bad genes, right?

74:51

Whereas if somebody who is has a genetic

74:53

predisposition to be sociopathic or or

74:56

really destructive is um eliminated for

74:59

lack of a better word or taken out of

75:01

society. I mean sure I can you know

75:04

orient to the empathy around this person

75:05

who feels stricken but I think we are I

75:09

believe we are more hardwired to um to

75:12

think about

75:14

>> you know inheritance and propagation of

75:15

genes than maybe we are consciously

75:18

aware of. Yeah.

75:19

>> I mean, I growing up, I mean, my dad's

75:22

uh he's I wouldn't say he's like super

75:24

old school, but I remember growing up

75:26

like one of the messages I got was, you

75:27

know, if you're going to date someone,

75:28

meet the parents.

75:29

>> Like, you can learn a lot by meeting the

75:30

parents, which on the one hand is really

75:32

cool. It's like, oh, see how their

75:34

family is and how they interact. But it

75:36

has a genetic uh, you know, inheritance

75:39

implication like if they're kind people,

75:42

if you know, what are you look are you

75:43

look looking for pathology? No, you're

75:46

you might be, but you're mainly looking

75:47

for good features or what what's there?

75:50

No one talks about this openly these

75:52

days. I feel like it's a really hot

75:54

button issue. But if I asked you for

75:56

instance, you know, um if the guy in

76:01

prison

76:02

had four kids

76:05

before he went to prison, does that

76:07

worry you?

76:09

I feel like those kids statistically

76:11

would

76:14

need more like [clears throat] they you

76:16

know there a lot of this research didn't

76:19

pan out but as a metaphor I think it's

76:21

really still useful is the idea of like

76:24

dandelions and orchids that there are or

76:27

sunflowers and orchids like I do think

76:29

there are some children who by virtue of

76:31

their temperament brain development are

76:34

pretty resilient across a variety of

76:36

different environments and And I think

76:39

there are children who I mean back to

76:42

dogs just like there are dogs that like

76:44

you can you can be a lazy dog owner and

76:46

the dog will be still be fine or you can

76:49

have a dog where because of their size

76:51

and because of their temperament and

76:53

because of their breeding they need a

76:56

skilled and loving owner and I we can

77:01

think of that very clearly. So like my

77:03

dog I I caught him as a rescue and we

77:06

think he was being they were being bred

77:08

as fighting dogs in Texas and you know

77:12

you can be like well you you there's a

77:14

vicious attack dog. He's being bred as a

77:16

fighting dog and you found out he's had

77:18

a litter of puppies. Does that make you

77:21

feel appalled or like they're bad

77:23

puppies or you're like no they need

77:25

really good homes. We have to find

77:27

really good homes.

77:28

>> My friend Whitney Cummings would be on

77:29

her way. She's constantly adopting.

77:31

They're like rescuing pitbull after

77:32

pitbull. Like I think she subscribes to

77:34

the idea there I don't want to put words

77:36

in her mouth but they're like no bad

77:37

dogs just bad owners

77:39

>> and there many sweet sweet pitbulls that

77:42

come from fighting camps.

77:43

>> I mean in many ways I feel like as soon

77:45

as we get out of um how we relate to

77:49

each other as humans and we think about

77:51

this we can think about dog behavior

77:52

more objectively than we can about human

77:54

behavior. And we can think even if

77:58

personality and temperament is

77:59

heritable. And even if the parent did

78:01

terrible things, the offspring are still

78:04

not bad puppies. They're puppies that

78:06

that are higher needs puppies or they're

78:08

puppies that need a a more skillful

78:11

care. And that's how I also think about

78:14

this.

78:15

>> I don't know about hardwired to pay

78:17

attention to heritable traits. I do

78:20

think we are evolved to matter to each

78:24

other in a way that we call moral.

78:27

>> I think that we are a social species

78:31

that evolved to cooperate

78:33

and at every point in our evolutionary

78:36

history,

78:38

every cooperative system has some

78:41

mechanism of enforcement.

78:44

If you have bacteria, colonies of

78:47

bacteria, and one bacterium starts to

78:50

soak up too much of the iron or some

78:52

mineral in the in the environment that

78:54

they all need, the others will send out

78:57

signals to try to hurt that one. And

79:00

they're like, don't stop doing that.

79:02

Stop freeloading. Stop taking too much.

79:04

If we go all the way back to the

79:06

beginning of our, you know, our

79:08

evolutionary history, we have

79:10

cooperation and enforcement of failures.

79:13

to cooperate. And I think that

79:15

evolutionary history is a big part of

79:18

why we feel so intensely when someone

79:20

harms one another. So Seapolski can make

79:23

all his arguments that like we're not

79:25

supposed to feel moral outrage at

79:26

people. And for me, I'm like that's like

79:28

telling telling me that everyone should

79:30

be absent. Like it just I think that

79:33

that mattering to each other in the way

79:36

we call moral is as deeply baked into

79:39

the sauce of what it is to be human as

79:41

sexuality is.

79:44

And so of course we get caught in this

79:47

what philosophers call this rescue blame

79:50

trap which is they did a horrible thing.

79:55

We think of humans as having agency.

79:58

Of course they're to blame for it. They

80:00

deserve to be punished. Oh, but wait.

80:02

His genes, his brain, his trauma, his

80:04

childhood environment. He was also a

80:07

victim here. Maybe he needs to be

80:09

rescued from blame.

80:11

Oh, but but he did it. And like he was

80:13

so bad. And we I you know, we go back

80:15

and forth. We go back and forth about

80:16

ourselves, right? Like if you've ever

80:19

done something that you really regret,

80:23

you have probably done this where you're

80:24

like, "Here's all the reasons and I was

80:27

trying and these were my good

80:28

intentions, but oh, I can't believe, you

80:30

know, and how do we find our way through

80:35

the rescue blame trap?" And for me, it

80:37

was thinking about

80:40

bad luck

80:42

doesn't negate responsibility.

80:44

It might not have been my fault, but

80:46

it's still my responsibility. But

80:48

holding people accountable doesn't have

80:50

to mean harsh punishment. That there

80:54

accountability doesn't mean making

80:55

someone suffer. And keeping both of

80:58

those in the same mind is really what

80:59

made me feel like I could push through

81:01

this rescue blame trap.

81:03

>> I'm letting that sink in. Everything you

81:05

say uh resonates and I therefore I'm

81:08

updating my uh hypothesis. Um uh again

81:12

just a hypothesis that people have an

81:15

inherent desire to stop the progression

81:17

of the bad seed. I'm intentionally using

81:19

this language like we want like if that

81:22

person is

81:23

>> sure stuff happened to them but guess

81:25

what stuff happened to them because

81:26

their parents were bad head and guess

81:27

what they're bad cuz their parents were

81:28

bad and like those are

81:30

>> they're a bad seed at the extremes of

81:33

course. I'm just

81:34

>> I also think because based on your dog

81:37

example of adopting puppies from um you

81:41

know fighting parents uh that in that

81:46

example there is this notion that with

81:48

the appropriate amount of love and care

81:50

that we can rescue them but also we can

81:54

choose whether or not they have puppies.

81:55

>> Yeah. So I do think that there is this

81:58

idea that like if we see children in

82:00

really horrible circumstances

82:03

that I think it's a very human hardwired

82:06

thing that we can rescue the lineage.

82:09

>> Yeah. That we can rescue lineage. I mean

82:11

one thing that's always fascinated me

82:12

and and um encouraged me is I think yes

82:15

there's lots of uh you know

82:18

transgenerational trauma. Whether or not

82:19

it's purely through genes or through

82:21

experience is still debated but probably

82:24

both. Um

82:26

but that also in a single generation,

82:30

you know, that the child of a of severe

82:32

alcoholics who makes the choice not to

82:34

drink or to quit drinking

82:36

to then pair with somebody who can have

82:38

a healthy relationship to alcohol,

82:40

>> they're cycle breakers.

82:41

>> They're cycle breakers. So you can I

82:43

think we understand this without

82:44

understanding genetics. Like we don't

82:46

have to take a class and understand

82:48

mandelian genetics, you know, uh to

82:50

understand that in one generation

82:52

something can start or stop in a family

82:54

line.

82:54

>> Yeah.

82:55

>> And I think most people are wise to the

82:57

idea that family lines no longer exist

82:59

in small tribes. I mean, you see shows

83:01

like Succession, right? Where it's over

83:03

like, oh, let's talk about the

83:04

propagation of of sociopathicish

83:07

[laughter] narcissistic uh traits.

83:10

>> They were not trying to be cycle

83:11

breakers. No, they were trying to

83:13

maintain the cycle that had fed them in

83:15

their in their, you know, niche.

83:17

>> I mean, I think the other thing with

83:19

regards to cycle breakers is also people

83:22

people tend to think of genetics in

83:24

terms of how it makes you like your

83:26

parents. You know, you got your genes

83:28

from your parents. But the other thing

83:29

that I think is really important to keep

83:30

in mind is genes recombine, right? You

83:34

are not just like your dad or like your

83:36

mom. you are a random draw of all the

83:40

potential draws that you could have

83:41

gotten from their genotypes. And so even

83:43

within a family with the same parents,

83:46

you see tons of differences. I have

83:48

three kids and they are different

83:50

personalities, definitely different

83:52

risks for addiction and conduct disorder

83:54

problems across the three of them. And

83:56

so I think it's a mistake to think of

83:59

lineage as genes being an unbroken

84:02

lineage because our genes are getting

84:03

recombined in these novel ways with

84:06

every generation. The writer Andrew

84:08

Solomon says that we should never use

84:10

the word reproduce. Reproduce is a

84:13

something that lulls parents into

84:15

thinking that they're copying

84:17

themselves, but that every child is

84:19

produced. Every child is a new product

84:22

and it's unpredictable what that

84:24

product's going to be. Oh, that's

84:26

interesting. I never thought about that

84:27

word in that way.

84:29

>> Yeah.

84:30

>> Wild. Who said that?

84:31

>> Andrew Solomon. He wrote Far from the

84:33

Tree, which is about children who are

84:35

very different from their parents in

84:36

some way. So, deaf children of hearing

84:39

parents, um, Sants, whose parents were

84:42

like, we don't know where this chess or

84:44

music or math came from.

84:46

>> And then also interviewed Dylan

84:49

Klebold's mother. So, Dylan Klebold was

84:51

one of the Coline shooters. So, normal

84:55

suburban parents who ended up having a

84:57

child who was a school shooter. And he

84:59

talks about this idea of horizontal

85:01

versus vertical identities. So, you get

85:04

your vertical identity from your

85:06

parents, but then you're not you are not

85:08

your parents. You are not a reproduction

85:12

of them. They produced you and that

85:14

there's an identity that's separate from

85:16

that lineage.

85:18

>> Beautiful.

85:19

>> He's a great writer.

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a, you know, some selfish wiring that we

87:08

are all inherently good, can be drawn

87:11

toward goodness, can um in the right

87:15

conditions and with the right amount of

87:17

effort can direct ourselves in ways that

87:20

are really beneficial, learn from

87:21

mistakes, be benevolent, all that stuff.

87:24

I I think I believe that. I think most

87:26

people believe that. We want to believe

87:27

that. Mhm.

87:28

>> If we step a little bit away from the

87:30

extremes of like severe psychopathology

87:32

and sociopathy and you know some people

87:35

are more um mercenary than others.

87:37

>> Mhm.

87:38

>> And our society in certain careers tends

87:42

to favor that. When I was coming up in

87:43

science, I don't know what it was like

87:45

in psychology, but there was this cohort

87:47

of scientists, neuroscientists in New

87:49

York. They were called the New York

87:50

neuroscience mafia. One of them, two of

87:52

them have Nobel prizes. I I'm friendly

87:54

with these guys. Um, but you'd go to

87:56

meetings and like they would hold court

87:58

in a way that was it was all about them.

88:01

It was all about their displays. They're

88:02

brilliant. They've they've done

88:04

brilliant work. Um, but for a lot of

88:06

people coming up, it was sort of a

88:08

pressure test. Like, do you think we

88:09

could make it in this field? Like, we're

88:11

going to have to either wait till these

88:13

guys die or, you know, somehow integrate

88:18

with this scene. Yeah.

88:19

>> And they would pick favorites and they

88:21

would decide who was who they'd go to

88:23

drinks with and who I mean it was it was

88:24

very hierarchal.

88:26

>> Every scientific field is like this.

88:27

>> Yeah. Okay. [laughter] Good. Okay. All

88:28

right. So, I'm both relieved and

88:30

dismayed that every field is like that.

88:32

And um very different than the West

88:34

Coast version of it because we are a

88:35

little softer on the West Coast, but on

88:37

the West Coast there was a more cryptic

88:38

version of it.

88:39

>> Yeah. Southerners are like that too.

88:41

It's not that they aren't mercenary,

88:43

it's that they hide it [laughter]

88:45

>> right under a under a blanket of

88:47

softness. Is the Midwest the only place

88:49

where people are truly decent?

88:51

>> Have you ever seen that thing where it's

88:52

like it divides the country into

88:55

quadrants and it's like axe mean is

88:57

mean? Like axe nice is mean. That's the

89:00

south and then I think it's the Pacific

89:03

Northwest is axe nice is nice. But I I

89:06

don't know about the Midwest. But

89:07

>> what was California?

89:08

>> I don't remember.

89:09

>> Oh, probably axe nice is mean. Is that

89:11

the sort [laughter] of

89:12

>> It could be could be. I mean, I mean,

89:14

here we're focusing on on the DAR and

89:15

there's good people in every field, but

89:17

but I remember thinking, you know, like

89:20

going to a meeting meant you had you had

89:21

to you couldn't get

89:23

>> you couldn't let your guard down.

89:24

>> Yes.

89:25

>> And and I now know cuz I'm, you know,

89:28

kind of adjacent to it now because I'm

89:30

not I don't depend on them for grant

89:32

reviews or I don't need anything from

89:33

those guys anymore. I remember the

89:35

moment where um they sort of invited me

89:38

in was based where one kind of took a

89:40

little jab at me and I jabbed right back

89:43

but I hit him harder. Why would it be

89:46

that like you'd get invited into a group

89:50

with special um resources by virtue of

89:54

being kind of a jerk?

89:56

>> Yeah.

89:56

>> Like I'm going to be a jerk to you and

89:57

if you can be a jerk back like we can be

89:59

jerks together.

90:00

>> Yeah. It's a status dominant. I mean it

90:02

sucks. It's a status dominance. move.

90:04

It's saying,

90:06

>> um, I I'm signaling to you that I'm

90:09

confident enough in whatever this is

90:12

that I don't need to cower or submit.

90:14

>> And then someone's like, oh, I maybe I

90:16

don't want to be in a status dominance

90:18

aggression competition with him because

90:19

he might win. So now we're going to

90:22

>> I have a theory that a lot of scientific

90:24

fields and men in scientific fields are

90:28

a little bit like mice in that mice have

90:31

very rigid social hierarchies. Mhm.

90:34

>> that they

90:36

establish through aggression. And once

90:40

everyone's figured out like who can bite

90:42

whom without getting bitten back, then

90:44

they can settle into their nice

90:46

hierarchy. And you bit back. So you were

90:49

like, "No, I'm higher in the hierarchy

90:50

than you."

90:51

>> A bit back of guys. Like I never was the

90:53

aggressor. But like if if you don't bite

90:55

back

90:56

>> Yeah. You know, you when somebody

90:59

kind of with more power than you pokes

91:00

on you, you uh you

91:02

>> But you were saying I'm not acting like

91:04

you have more power than me. I'm acting

91:06

like I can poke back, right?

91:09

>> But it doesn't feel good, right? We

91:11

would all like to believe that we can

91:12

ascend in our fields, settle into our

91:15

place without having to like

91:17

>> throw that. Yeah. I mean, you know, cuz

91:20

anyway,

91:21

>> so I think one thing that you the story

91:24

gets at too is, you know, we talk about

91:28

impulsivity and desire for intensity and

91:31

I disagree, like I don't actually care

91:34

who's who I'm hurting in this as

91:36

unambiguously bad things.

91:40

But a little bit of those is actually

91:43

can be very adaptive in some

91:45

circumstances. Like you don't want your

91:47

surgeon to be like, "Oh, am I hurting

91:50

them by cutting them open?" Like you

91:52

want someone who's a little bit callous

91:54

to your physical pain because they're

91:56

focusing on you as a body and doing

91:58

this.

91:59

>> If you look at um studies of who is a

92:03

successful entrepreneur by the age of

92:05

30, they are white men. So, social

92:10

social advantage, high IQ as measured by

92:13

a standardized test, history of a little

92:16

bit of adolescent delinquency, right?

92:19

And and that makes sense if you're

92:21

thinking about adolescent delinquency

92:22

was a manifestation of risk tolerance,

92:25

of sensation seeking, and who are the

92:28

people who are not going to be real

92:30

great at having a boss, but able to

92:32

tolerate the risk of starting a

92:34

business, right? Like academia is full

92:36

of full of people like that that are

92:38

like

92:39

>> um I want to think about what I want to

92:41

think about and I don't want anyone

92:43

telling me what to do and I don't really

92:46

care if other people think this is

92:47

useful and I'm really I'm willing to be

92:49

really competitive to get resources

92:51

>> and I'll use taxpayer dollars thank you

92:53

to do it [laughter] with.

92:54

>> Exactly. So I have this thought

92:56

experiment in my book where I I I think

92:58

again thought experiment I'm not

93:00

recommending this where I think what if

93:02

we

93:04

did have the means to

93:09

um select every every baby that was born

93:13

every every reproducing couple is going

93:15

to do IVF. They're going to create as

93:18

many embryos as they can and we're going

93:19

to select the ones that have the lowest

93:22

antisocial behavior substance use

93:24

strains. And we have a generation that

93:27

is the most puritanical,

93:30

risk intolerant, nonsensation seeking,

93:34

controlled, not disinhibited, you know,

93:37

very inhibited. Is that a good thing?

93:40

Like is that a world that we would want

93:42

>> you don't want my opinion

93:43

>> to live in? I do. I would I could I I

93:45

would love to hear your opinion of this.

93:46

I mean, I

93:47

>> mean, I don't want sociopathy. I mean,

93:49

the really dark examples are so salient.

93:52

We I have to be careful not to end up

93:53

there, but I watched that um

93:56

uh I didn't watch the Dalmer thing on

93:58

Netflix. I would pay money to not see

94:00

that. I don't want to see.

94:01

>> No, I don't have the time.

94:02

>> I did. I did uh watch the um the Richard

94:05

Ramirez Nightstalker story um a few

94:08

years before that was on Netflix and it

94:10

was done exceedingly well at the level

94:12

of it it scares the out of you. And

94:14

um he was a true so like he was a true

94:18

sociopath by all measures, you know. Um,

94:21

but then when you hear the history of

94:22

his childhood,

94:23

>> you know, just horrible treatment of

94:26

being I think if I think I have this

94:28

right, like being um tied to a

94:30

gravestone in a cemetery overnight as a

94:32

young kid, like three three or five just

94:34

left there like his father did. I mean,

94:36

just horrible things. But again, it

94:39

doesn't change what I see is the guy

94:40

with the pentagram written on his hand

94:43

in the court like the the mental

94:45

imagery, right? So, taking away guys

94:47

like that, uh, people like that, I think

94:50

you go, okay, yeah, I mean, he was a

94:51

sadistic killer at every level,

94:53

>> but then a bunch of, um,

94:56

just pure passivity everywhere. I I

95:01

don't know. I mean, I guess it depends

95:03

on how how far it goes because in the

95:05

earlier example when we were talking

95:06

about this academic interaction, I uh my

95:10

friend Joo Willink, former Navy Seal,

95:12

he's very active in and now we're

95:14

talking about kids uh health and

95:15

education and uh his um

95:18

>> he's doing a lot there and uh he

95:22

reposted something recently that I had a

95:23

good chuckle at. It was certainly true

95:26

for me, which was that it it said uh 90%

95:29

of being a dude is making fun of your

95:32

friends to their face and and cheering

95:35

them on behind their backs.

95:37

>> Oh,

95:37

>> and I think every guy that had a lot of

95:39

guy friendss or has a lot of guy friends

95:41

growing up or even just a couple good

95:42

ones

95:43

>> knows that that's true. And the inverse

95:46

of that are the people you're trying to

95:48

select out.

95:49

>> Yeah.

95:50

>> Right. You don't want somebody who's

95:50

nice to your face and behind your back

95:52

is trying to backstab, right? or be kind

95:54

and then backstab. But yeah, a lot of

95:56

being a dude is like making fun of each

95:59

other but then rooting each other on at

96:01

the same time. That's kind of how we

96:03

grow up.

96:04

>> So I wouldn't want a society where

96:06

people wouldn't make fun of me and I

96:07

couldn't make fun of them.

96:09

>> Um

96:10

>> but it the encouragement part is also

96:12

really important.

96:13

>> Yeah. Yeah.

96:14

>> And I don't know what it is for girls. I

96:16

I mean I have a sister and

96:19

I mean she's a very very very kind

96:21

person. Um, and I was always shocked the

96:23

way that um, girls treated one another.

96:27

So, they can be really mean.

96:29

>> Girls can be really mean.

96:31

>> Yeah. Yeah. I mean, relational

96:33

aggression, there's there's literature

96:36

on this. You know, when we talk about

96:37

aggression, we so often think in terms

96:39

of physical aggression. You know, I'm

96:41

I'm I'm punching you. I'm stabbing you.

96:44

I'm hurting you. You know, relational

96:45

aggression where you're destroying

96:47

someone's reputation or social standing

96:50

or making them feel isolated is just as

96:53

painful as physical aggression if not

96:55

more so. I mean, there's few things that

96:57

humans are more attuned to than that

96:59

feeling of, oh, am I being pushed out of

97:02

the group, right? Because that means

97:04

like ancestrally that means death. And

97:06

so what we see research is that the same

97:09

genes that predict physical aggression

97:10

in boys predict relational aggression in

97:13

girls. And relational aggression can be

97:15

every bit as damaging, but I think also

97:18

kind of bewildering to the adults around

97:19

it. Like it's more covert, right? And

97:22

it's hard to to see it. I was shocked at

97:25

how early that started.

97:28

>> I thought it was going to be something I

97:29

dealt with with my daughter when she got

97:31

to be a teenager.

97:33

[clears throat] Four years old.

97:36

Ellerie said this and you know, Lily

97:40

isn't my friend anymore. And I met with

97:42

her preschool teacher and I was like,

97:44

"What is going on?" And she was like,

97:47

"This is what four-year-old girls do.

97:49

They make relationship conflict and then

97:51

they repair relationship conflict and

97:53

they do it all the time, every day. And

97:56

that is why they are so much less

97:58

bewildered by repairing relationship

98:01

conflict than your average teenage boy

98:03

is by the time they reach adolescence."

98:05

And I was just completely thrown and

98:08

fascinated by this experience.

98:10

>> Yeah. boys sorted out in such primitive

98:13

ways. I mean, I can remember Dirtclaw

98:16

Wars where somebody broke the

98:18

fundamental rule, which is you can't

98:19

throw rocks. They threw a rock, then

98:21

someone gets upset, then they get into a

98:23

a scrap, and then

98:25

>> sometimes somebody went home

98:27

>> and then the longest it lasted in terms

98:30

of a fracture in the group or the

98:32

relationship was like a day maximum and

98:35

then we'd just kind of forget about it.

98:37

>> Yeah.

98:37

>> Yeah. and it was kind of understood that

98:39

someone was going to push the

98:40

boundaries.

98:42

>> I am not completely confident that I'm

98:44

remembering the study correctly. So, if

98:46

you're on, you know, if your listeners

98:47

are like, "No, Paige, you got this

98:48

wrong." But I remember hearing about a

98:50

study that was about marital conflict

98:54

where they had um married partners keep

98:58

diaries of their interactions and then

99:00

also I think maybe like spit into a tube

99:03

every morning and evening. And they

99:05

looked at how long did men's cortisol

99:08

remain elevated after an argument

99:10

compared to the wives cortisol. I was

99:13

basically like they had the fight, his

99:16

spiked up and then it went down like

99:18

classic trier curve of and hers was

99:22

elevated for like 24 hours afterwards

99:26

and they're if you think about what that

99:27

means for their psychological sense of

99:29

what's happening in their relationship,

99:30

she's like, I'm still amped about this

99:34

and he's like what are you talking

99:35

about? Like we had that fight and then

99:37

my cortisol like we're over it, right?

99:39

So, I do think there's some interesting

99:41

sex differences in the relationship

99:43

between our physiological arousal and

99:47

our conflict styles and just the

99:49

timeline that that plays out.

99:52

>> Fascinating. Um, yeah, so many uh ideas

99:56

and [laughter]

99:56

>> you're thinking of all the examples.

99:58

>> Well, I'm thinking of some examples and

100:00

um yeah, and and of course what the uh

100:04

what the evolutionary benefit is of

100:06

those different cycles. I mean there's

100:08

certain interactions you don't want to

100:10

forget. It can be damaging to self

100:13

>> to forget fights.

100:15

>> Yeah.

100:16

>> So quickly.

100:17

>> Yeah.

100:17

>> I mean I I can say I' I've had

100:20

interactions where at the moment it felt

100:22

so like vital and then a day later it's

100:25

like I'm like how is it that I'm like

100:27

this might not be good that I'm not

100:29

still thinking about this

100:31

>> but life is carrying on. You know the

100:33

conveyor belt's still moving. So,

100:35

>> um I think it's only fair that I ask

100:39

about, you know, we talked about

100:40

pathology as expressed in boys and it

100:43

always seems to come out as aggressive

100:45

violence um etc. Um in girls, you're

100:49

saying that it the social dynamics um

100:52

can be benevolent, right? Because you

100:54

did say conflict and repair that sounds

100:56

healthy.

100:57

>> Yeah. But in terms of genes that

100:59

predispose for addiction, um, do those

101:03

show up differently in girls? Is it, you

101:05

know, I think the assumption that some

101:06

people have is like, oh, it's always

101:08

going to be promiscuity. But what

101:09

nowadays, especially because of access

101:11

to prescription drugs, I I was told this

101:14

by a former guest, Heath Humphre. You

101:16

know, if you look at addiction, men and

101:18

women, it it tended to lean more towards

101:20

men than women until you get to

101:22

prescription drugs because there's

101:24

something, I don't know, less

101:28

seedy.

101:29

>> The social opportunity is different.

101:31

>> Yeah.

101:32

>> Yeah. I mean, what we see in the twin

101:36

studies and the adoption studies and

101:38

then also in the newer studies where

101:39

we're looking directly at people's DNA

101:42

is that the manifestations of at least

101:44

the genes we've discovered so far are

101:47

remarkably consistent between men and

101:50

women. So if you have, you know, a a

101:54

genetic liability towards

101:57

disinhibition, problems with

101:59

self-regulation,

102:00

that can manifest as alcohol use, that

102:02

can manifest as aggression and

102:03

antisocial behavior, but there aren't

102:06

really strongly sex-typed manifestations

102:09

where it always looks like this in women

102:11

and always looks like this in men. You

102:13

know, we haven't discovered all the

102:14

genes um and we haven't looked at the

102:17

sex chromosomes yet. So there might be

102:18

something different, but um the theory

102:21

so far that seems to have the best

102:23

evidence is that the underlying ideology

102:27

is remarkably consistent across men and

102:30

women. And it's the just really the mean

102:34

that differs between men and women. So

102:36

you just get higher rates of all of

102:39

these behaviors and men, but the

102:41

underlying disposition is really similar

102:43

across the sexes. So if we were to say

102:46

sensation seeking, novelty seeking,

102:48

equally distributed. Yeah.

102:49

>> But men act out more.

102:51

>> Yeah. So what you see is that men show

102:53

slightly higher sensation seeking, but

102:56

the genes that predispose a man towards

102:59

sensation seeking seem to be similar in

103:02

women. Um a if a woman has a fraternal

103:06

twin who's a boy, his sensation seeking

103:09

will predict hers just as well as if she

103:11

had a twin sister. So similar genes just

103:14

a mean shift. What you see is that

103:16

actually in adolescence boys and girls

103:18

have very similar trajectories of

103:19

sensation seeking. Where they differ is

103:22

in the evolution of their inhibitory

103:24

control. So girls mature in terms of

103:27

their impulse control faster than boys

103:30

do. We did a study a maybe 10 years ago

103:33

now. It was basically it took until men

103:35

around the age of 24 until around the

103:39

age of 24 to be as controlled as your

103:43

average 15year-old girl was. There's

103:46

like a decade long gap in the the

103:48

maturation of impulse control. You're

103:50

nodding and I used to be a 15-year-old

103:52

boy.

103:53

>> I mean I Yeah, that tracks. I think the

103:55

point is that um men develop more

103:57

slowly.

103:58

>> Yeah.

103:58

>> But presumably they catch up but then

104:00

they die earlier. So

104:01

>> well they go through puberty later and

104:04

they have a more extended

104:07

you know increase up to having adult

104:10

levels of reproductive hormones. I mean

104:12

men's testosterone is increasing

104:16

puberty is over but their testosterone

104:18

is still going up through their teen

104:19

years and into their 20s. um and they

104:22

die earlier but they they women have

104:25

that long you know they're they're alive

104:27

but they're not healthy for you know on

104:29

average at the end of their life like

104:30

their health the difference in health

104:32

span is less different than lifespan as

104:34

you know so there's um there's something

104:37

interesting about the ways in which men

104:40

seem to be

104:43

slower developing in uterus they're

104:45

they're getting to reproductive maturity

104:47

later and they're getting to adult

104:49

levels of personality

104:51

We need more patience. Women are all

104:53

thinking, "We've given you enough

104:54

patience." You know, uh we require more

104:57

patience. That's that's the right

104:58

phrasing. Let's talk about punishment.

105:01

>> Yeah.

105:01

>> Uh but maybe also talk about rewarding

105:04

good behavior.

105:05

>> Um a while back, I think it was Zimardo

105:08

at Stanford was talking about, you know,

105:09

that we're everyday heroes, you know, or

105:12

that we were supposed to start orienting

105:14

towards, you know, rewarding the

105:16

everyday heroes of life. This was kind

105:18

of a thing in the two early 2000s as I

105:20

recall. And there's the positive

105:22

psychology notion. And I feel like

105:24

psychology is kind of split into dark

105:25

and light. The people who like to look

105:27

at the dark stuff versus the light. And

105:29

we call it morality, but I'm an

105:31

outsider. I don't know. But um

105:33

>> we spend a lot of time thinking about

105:36

whether and how we should punish people.

105:38

>> And of course at the extremes it's

105:39

obvious, right? The the the legal to the

105:42

legal system it's obvious, but the

105:44

middle ground is the interesting ground.

105:47

penalty boxing people. Um maybe not even

105:50

with social isolation, but you know who

105:53

we reward and place into positions of

105:55

leadership. I mean this is very salient

105:57

right now. Um and it comes with a lot of

106:00

assigning of labels about

106:02

psychopathology from people that may or

106:05

may not be qualified to assign those

106:06

labels, right? Yeah.

106:07

>> Um,

106:09

>> how do you think about the genetic and

106:12

evolutionary but also the societal

106:16

labels of punishment and forgiveness?

106:20

>> Yeah. H such a good question. So, first

106:23

of all, let's just define punishment

106:26

because that actually can mean different

106:28

things to different people. So as a you

106:31

know a psychologist I think about

106:34

punishment is um applying an aversive

106:38

stimulus in an attempt to reduce the

106:41

frequency of a behavior. Right? So it's

106:44

the rat is in its skinner box and every

106:47

time it goes into this area you give it

106:49

a shock and that's a punishment to make

106:52

it not go into this area of the box. If

106:55

you have a child, punishment is you're

106:58

gonna be in timeout or I'm gonna spank

107:01

you. I'm gonna give you some sort of

107:02

thing that I know you're not going to

107:04

like um in order to try to reduce the

107:07

frequency of this behavior.

107:10

From psychology, we know from decades of

107:14

evidence that punishing bad behavior

107:17

doesn't work nearly as well for shaping

107:20

behavior as rewarding the behavior that

107:22

you want. Right? So, if you reward a rat

107:27

for pressing a lever, it'll do that all

107:30

day long. If you give a rat alcohol

107:33

every time it presses a bar

107:36

and then you stop mid experiment and you

107:39

start shocking it, some rats will stop

107:43

pressing the bar and other rats will

107:45

actually increase their rate of

107:48

behavior. They will be like, "Maybe this

107:50

time. Maybe this time it'll be." It's

107:53

the same thing with kids, right? We know

107:55

from,

107:57

you know, all of our research on

107:59

corporal punishment that children who

108:01

are spanked

108:03

do not behave better than children who

108:06

aren't spanked. And if anything, they

108:08

behave worse. So, you've had Dr. Becky

108:12

Kennedy on here. you know, she has been,

108:14

I think, so influential in that you need

108:18

to have consequences, but attempting to

108:21

to um help your child behave better

108:24

through harshness is is on average going

108:27

to be a losing strategy. And then I

108:30

think you said, you know, it does, you

108:31

know, maybe uh at the extremes with the

108:34

criminal justice system, but we also see

108:36

that in the criminal justice system that

108:38

um increasing the harshness of criminal

108:40

penalties doesn't predict a decline in

108:43

crime. The thing that seems to predict

108:44

it is the likelihood of getting caught

108:46

and having other potential opportunities

108:51

to get the rewards that you want in your

108:53

social structure. But just increasing

108:55

penalties for crime doesn't on average

108:58

reduce crime. Um so I you know whether

109:01

we're talking about rats or children or

109:03

prisoners

109:05

adding more harshness is not we know the

109:09

the most effective way to get the

109:11

behaviors that we want. This is also

109:14

true back going back to dogs, right?

109:16

Like what is the best dog training

109:18

method? It's never harshly punishing

109:20

them or applying pain for behavior you

109:22

don't want, right? It's firmness,

109:25

boundaries, but rewarding the behavior

109:27

that you do want in also in the context

109:30

of building, you know, trust in a

109:32

relationship with your dog. So, I feel

109:36

like [snorts] no luck doesn't obiate

109:39

responsibility. Like, we are still

109:41

responsible for the people that we are,

109:43

even though we're shaped by factors that

109:45

are in control. But in terms of holding

109:48

people responsible,

109:50

punishing them harshly

109:53

doesn't bring about what we really want

109:55

other than just satisfying that

109:57

retributive itch. Um it's giving them

110:01

opportunities in the reward structure to

110:04

be rewarded by the things we do want

110:06

that we we know is the most effective

110:08

strategy. um all in all. So

110:12

I think the slide that people make is if

110:16

someone's responsible, if someone had

110:18

agency, then they deserve to be

110:21

punished. And what I'm trying to to

110:24

separate is those two things. Can

110:25

someone be responsible? They had agency.

110:29

We want to hold them accountable,

110:31

but how do we do that without

110:33

immediately jumping to and so therefore

110:35

they deserve to suffer and so therefore

110:37

they deserve to hurt. And there's no

110:40

like one-size magic bullet to making

110:43

that happen, right? like that, you know,

110:44

that's how do we relate to each other as

110:46

people? But as a mother,

110:50

my strategy with my own kids has been

110:54

really heavily influenced by thinking

110:56

about like punishment is not the most

110:58

effective way. That doesn't mean we live

111:00

in a no like there's no rules, anything

111:02

goes household, right? Like we have

111:03

consequences, we have accountability, we

111:05

have boundaries, but there's always

111:07

space to say

111:09

reflect on what you did. reflect on what

111:12

needs to be different for your behavior

111:14

to be different in the future and how

111:16

can we create an environment that helps

111:19

you grow, helps you helps that happen.

111:22

I'm pretty anti-punishment. I'm pro

111:23

responsibility and pretty

111:25

anti-punishment as a way of holding each

111:28

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111:30

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to get up to 27% off. In the last few

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years, there's been a a real shift, it

113:07

seems, um, in how we hold people

113:12

accountable for their behavior in teen

113:14

years. And I think it's with all the

113:15

cameras and everything. There have been

113:17

a few examples, for instance, of text

113:19

message threads were unearthed of people

113:22

who are now in their 20s and 30s from

113:24

their teen years. You know, I think in

113:27

one instance it was a group of friends

113:29

and people were making um uh racist

113:32

comments and then I think the ultimate

113:36

decision was okay if this person

113:39

apologized their whole life shouldn't be

113:41

ruined on the basis of a comment made

113:43

you know earlier uh you know five six

113:46

years earlier in a different context etc

113:48

etc and I think that's how it moved

113:50

forward but there were people calling

113:52

for like hey this person is a racist

113:54

they should

113:55

um forbidden from having a government

113:58

job.

113:59

>> And I think it it played out pretty

114:02

quickly, but um

114:05

nowadays with social media, everyone can

114:07

chime in. So, we're not really talking

114:10

about courtroom decision. We're talking

114:11

about court of public opinion.

114:13

>> Yeah. [clears throat]

114:13

>> A different example perhaps that I'd

114:16

like your thoughts on is um like Kanye

114:19

had a year or two ago made a bunch of

114:22

really anti-semitic remarks, was wearing

114:24

SWAT ticket t-shirt and then recently

114:27

published an apology.

114:28

>> He said he was sorry he wasn't in, you

114:30

know, in the right state of mind, etc.

114:32

He's talked about some mental health

114:34

challenges and things of that sort. And

114:36

he seems to be largely forgiven. Um, at

114:39

least that seems to be the the

114:40

sentiment. Now, of course, he also

114:42

brings something that a lot of people

114:44

want, which is music that people uh love

114:47

to hear. So there's always this kind of

114:49

value ad, value subtraction thing when

114:52

we punish people versus the anonymous

114:54

person, right? Um what are they're not

114:57

doing anything for people, so they're

114:59

more quick to just say, "Well, just

115:00

punish them, lock them away." It's

115:02

fascinating because we you even though

115:04

these are public facing examples, we use

115:06

these as a template for how to deal

115:09

with, you know, someone who, you know,

115:11

got too drunk at the dorm party on

115:14

Friday and said something really stupid

115:16

and got a bunch of offended people. Do

115:18

you kick them out of school maybe or

115:20

her? Or do you sit them down and go,

115:22

"Hey, that was really insensitive and

115:24

they have to do a bunch of sensitivity

115:25

training and you know, and then you go,

115:27

okay, like they're healed." you know, I

115:30

mean,

115:31

>> yeah,

115:32

>> I don't have any answers to this, but

115:33

this is how it seems to play out in the

115:35

real world. It's sort of like very

115:36

salient examples, not at the super

115:39

extremes. I mean, racism is bad, but he

115:41

didn't kill anyone. So then the

115:43

punishment is either do we keep him or

115:45

do we isolate him? And then what happens

115:50

does set the course of what happens at

115:53

at um more everyday levels. So I think

115:56

what you're pointing to is America is an

115:59

incredibly punitive retributive culture.

116:04

There is a reward that we can see in the

116:08

brains of people when they see someone

116:11

suffer if that person is first portrayed

116:15

as a wrongdoer.

116:16

>> So ordinarily if you see someone be

116:18

shocked you have interior insula. It's

116:21

like you're being shocked too. Unless

116:23

that person is first portrayed as

116:25

violating some moral or social norm, in

116:29

which case dopamine, you get a reward

116:32

out of seeing that person punished. I

116:34

think that it is a lust just as much as

116:38

lust for substances or lust for sexual

116:41

partners. It is a desire people want to

116:44

see people punished. Nze was an amazing

116:47

observer of human nature before there

116:50

was a scientific psychology.

116:52

And he wrote about how what why do we

116:56

use

116:58

um monetary terms to describe people

117:01

being punished, pay their debt to

117:03

society.

117:05

>> People shouldn't get off scot-free.

117:07

Scott is a word for tax. Um what is

117:10

that? And what he theorized is that what

117:14

you're being paid back with is the

117:17

pleasure of seeing a fellow human hurt.

117:19

You hurt someone and we can't undo that

117:23

hurt. We can't magic it away. How does

117:26

them being punished pay their debt to

117:29

society? And he wrote, "Maybe it's that

117:32

cruelty is a currency and that all of us

117:34

have a primitive desire to be the

117:36

punisher and that's what's being

117:38

repaid."

117:40

blew my mind when I was reading it. And

117:42

now that I see it, I see that

117:44

everywhere. I think we see that in

117:46

cancel culture mobs. I think we see that

117:49

in politics. I think we see um in

117:53

America a real lust to make other people

117:56

suffer and finding ways that they're

117:59

guilty that allows us to feel entitled

118:02

to that pleasure of punishing them or

118:05

entitled to that pleasure of witnessing

118:07

them being punished is absolutely runs

118:11

through our culture top to bottom both

118:14

sides of the political spectrum.

118:16

One of my favorite books that I read

118:18

when I was when I was writing my book is

118:20

this book called um One of Us. And it's

118:23

about the Norwegian

118:26

mass shooter who shot all of those

118:29

children at a a summer camp who was

118:33

someone who was afflicted with terrible

118:35

luck. From the time he was a child, he

118:37

was described as someone who um

118:41

had a temper, who was socially odd. His

118:46

mother was very unstable. A lot of

118:48

nature and nurture and circumstance

118:50

conspired. And during his trial, they

118:54

[snorts] had this whole debate about is

118:56

he insane, is he not insane?

118:59

And they had a psychologist who gave

119:01

testimony and he said, "No matter what's

119:03

happening, he's one of us. He's part of

119:07

our society. So, how are we going to

119:09

deal with him without

119:12

exiling him, throwing away the key?" And

119:14

all of the examples that you described

119:15

are people trying to make this decision

119:17

about like who do we keep in our group?

119:20

Do they have enough for us that it's

119:23

worth keeping them and who do we get to

119:25

exile and then feel entitled to feel the

119:28

pleasure of watching them suffer? And I

119:30

think that's a fundamentally un inhuman

119:33

way to look at our I think that we are a

119:35

society and that means everyone even

119:37

people who do terrible terrible things

119:40

they're still one of us. They're still

119:42

they're still one of God's creatures.

119:44

They're still part of part of our human

119:45

circle. Um, but how do we shift our

119:48

culture away from this glee at

119:50

punishment? I don't know. I I think it's

119:53

I think it's if you want to talk about

119:55

sin, I think I think that's the original

119:57

sin of American culture is our delight

119:59

and punitiveness.

120:01

>> Incredible. um incredibly sad,

120:05

um incredibly important and

120:09

an incredible opportunity for us

120:12

hopefully to navigate out of what seems

120:14

to be one of the deeper troughs of this

120:17

that we've been in, at least since I've

120:18

been alive.

120:19

>> Mhm.

120:20

>> I want to just ask about this cruelty

120:21

currency

120:22

>> cuz I um

120:24

>> I learned a long time ago that one needs

120:26

to be very careful about coming up with

120:28

evolutionary just so stories. It's so

120:30

easy to do. It's so seductive and it can

120:34

be oh so wrong. So I I with that um

120:38

stated,

120:40

you know, you said that if somebody

120:43

observes somebody else being harmed, it

120:45

activates areas of the brain that are

120:47

associated with empathy and presumably a

120:49

surge of of uh hormones and

120:52

neurotransmitters that make us feel bad.

120:56

>> Mhm. if that person was a perpetrator

120:59

and we're aware of that, then it feels

121:01

good. It's it's not just neutral. It's

121:03

the it's the in it's the inverse of

121:05

that. And then you said that Nichi

121:06

described it as a cruelty currency. And

121:10

I've been wondering about something and

121:11

forgive me. I I don't know if I can

121:13

articulate this very well because I

121:15

haven't thought about it out loud.

121:17

>> Just think through it. If we return to

121:19

the idea that every species, including

121:21

our own, wants to make more of itself,

121:23

care for its young, and propagate, that

121:24

there's a there are some forces there.

121:27

Clearly, I've often thought about

121:29

dopamine as the universal currency of

121:32

reward. And certainly, there are other

121:34

chemical currencies of punishment and

121:36

maybe drops in dopamine are punishment

121:38

and increases and etc. Overly

121:41

simplified, but I think we have enough

121:43

data to support those statements. And

121:45

then I think about how we punish people.

121:48

>> And let's think about um on a on a

121:52

hockey rink, you put someone in a

121:53

penalty box, you take them out of play.

121:56

>> Yeah.

121:56

>> Um in society, somebody could be

121:58

cancelled either permanently or they're

122:00

they got to like take a break. Yeah.

122:02

>> Or somebody's put in jail. They're taken

122:04

out of society.

122:05

>> Yeah. Several examples came up already

122:07

today of people who um were able to

122:10

propagate their genes or not propagate

122:12

their genes um depending on honest like

122:15

finding a partner making the decision

122:16

about you know consciously or

122:18

unconsciously the genetics their

122:20

personality etc and okay I'm going to

122:22

create children with this person I'm

122:23

going to create new life

122:26

versus the IVF doc who cheated in one of

122:30

the most egregious examples I've ever

122:32

heard um creating new life and I think

122:36

Maybe the currency

122:38

that is dopamine is about energy and the

122:41

opportunity to create more life. It's

122:44

like life energy. It gets a little bit

122:46

woo.

122:46

>> But when I think about it, it's like if

122:48

somebody gets something by virtue of

122:50

their hard work, we expect and want them

122:52

to be rewarded for it. If they lie to

122:54

get it, you know, like a Bernie Maidolf

122:57

who admitted to lying, so I don't think

122:58

I'm gonna get in any trouble by saying I

123:00

think he agreed he that he lied to get

123:02

all that money,

123:03

>> then he he robbed people of currency. He

123:07

got a lot of currency and that and we

123:09

hate that. He got more life energy. And

123:11

when we're punished, we lose even if

123:13

there's not an explicit behavioral

123:15

punishment

123:16

>> that hopefully the shame, the regret, it

123:20

takes us out of the running a bit.

123:21

>> Yeah. You know, and people will play

123:23

these games. They'll try and manipulate

123:24

around this, but a lot of life is about

123:28

doing things that give you more

123:29

opportunity, that give you more life

123:31

energy, that allow you to move forward.

123:33

And a lot of the ways that we punish

123:35

people is by trying to take away life

123:37

energy, forgive the term, uh that we

123:40

feel you didn't deserve that. Yes.

123:42

>> Or you did something so that you

123:43

shouldn't be able to continue to

123:45

propagate your life energy. And so it

123:47

gets in, I'm weaving it partially in

123:50

with reproduction.

123:52

But it's really about resources for your

123:53

family so that your kids can have more.

123:56

But I do think that in the end what

123:58

we're competing for is energy. And what

124:03

we're punishing for is um people that we

124:05

think got it unfairly. Yes.

124:07

>> And we definitely reward people that we

124:10

that we feel gave us energy through a

124:12

song, through art, etc. with money,

124:16

which is really opportunity. There's

124:18

nothing inherently valuable about it.

124:20

Even gold backing it doesn't do that.

124:22

So, you know, I So, I feel like in the

124:24

end, we're playing an evolutionary game

124:26

for energy and the opportunity to

124:28

propagate our genes.

124:30

>> Okay. So, just some responses to that,

124:33

like as you were talking, I was reminded

124:35

of certain things. Um, if you look at

124:38

punishment,

124:40

um, I I won't even say punishment. If

124:42

you look at enforcement, if you look at

124:43

enforcement of cooperative norms in

124:46

non-human species, even in not even in

124:48

animals, a really consistent feature of

124:52

that is reducing the the the in the

124:57

punished organisms fitness

124:59

opportunities. I'm going to block your

125:02

access to mates. I'm going to eat your

125:05

eggs so that you know I'm going to um uh

125:10

wasps reproduce via figs and if the fig

125:14

tree detects that the wasp is being a

125:17

lazy pollinator, it will

125:21

rot and wither away the figs that the

125:24

wasp has laid its eggs in. it's it's

125:27

denying it reproductive opportunity as a

125:30

as a you know it's a it's a retaliation

125:32

against fitness. So I think what you're

125:34

picking up on is like you know the ways

125:38

that we punish people

125:40

um rob them of fitness opportunities

125:42

that's something that we see as an

125:44

evolutionary through line. If we think

125:46

about when we're trying to understand

125:47

animal societies, what counts as a

125:49

punishing behavior? Is it is it is it

125:51

reducing their fitness opportunities of

125:53

the of the punished thing? But the thing

125:56

about our language is the same like

125:59

penalty box.

126:02

You know, a hockey player is put into a

126:04

penalty box. They don't get beaten with

126:05

a red hot poker when they're in there.

126:07

They're just not allowed to play the

126:08

game for a period of time. And I think

126:10

this is where people get somewhat

126:12

confused between retributive punishment

126:16

and um boundaries to keep the person and

126:21

their teammates, which is all of us

126:23

since we're in a society, safe, right?

126:26

So, I'm not against people being in

126:28

prison necessarily. Um, the prison

126:32

abolitionists will be mad at me for

126:33

saying that, but we've never had a

126:34

society of any sort where there isn't

126:37

some mechanism to say we need to be

126:40

protected from this person and this

126:41

person needs an opportunity to have a

126:44

timeout from society while they reflect

126:47

on how they're going to behave

126:48

differently in the future. But we don't

126:51

have to design that system the way that

126:52

we designed it here. Right? There's this

126:54

Instagram meme which is um, is this a

126:57

Scandinavian prison or a London hotel

126:59

room?

127:00

>> [laughter]

127:00

>> and people can't tell the difference.

127:02

It's just a surveillance dome on the

127:04

ceiling. And that speaks to something,

127:06

which is that the purpose is not to make

127:08

the person suffer. The purpose is to put

127:10

them in the penalty box to protect the

127:13

rest of us from their behavior. Um,

127:16

how do we get it so that our reactions

127:18

to each other when we're holding

127:20

boundaries is more like you're in the

127:22

penalty box and less like I want to make

127:25

you suffer and I'm going to feel

127:26

delighted that you're suffering. The

127:28

Danes are wonderful people um and do

127:31

seem to have this like sense of morality

127:34

and decency

127:35

>> and social contract

127:37

>> and social contract.

127:39

>> Although in fairness, I think there's

127:40

been some criticism that some Northern

127:42

European countries have been too lenient

127:44

on violent offenders and it's made

127:46

society more dangerous. This is a very

127:49

complicated literature and it's, you

127:50

know, I'm not saying that it's just

127:52

their prison system, but they their

127:54

rates of violent crime are astonishingly

127:58

low compared to America as a whole in

128:00

particular as compared to Texas.

128:02

>> Yeah. I think that these templates for

128:04

punishment versus reward because we

128:06

haven't really talked much about reward.

128:08

>> Yeah.

128:08

>> Um realizing, you know, that the

128:10

punishment piece can be scaled. Penalty

128:12

box versus

128:14

>> Yeah.

128:14

>> flogging. I uh forgive me for telling

128:16

yet another story. I've been reading a a

128:18

history of the counterculture movement

128:20

in in mostly in California recently, but

128:23

also the the human evol the human

128:25

psychology evolution movement and and it

128:28

takes us to big su inevitably. Um

128:31

>> and some interesting Joseph Campbell was

128:34

there and and worked there and wrote

128:35

there. But Hunter Thompson

128:37

>> was a security guard up there at uh

128:40

>> a security guard. Yeah. He at 20 years

128:42

old, he was hired as a security guard

128:43

cuz he had a gun and he could keep order

128:46

on uh this place where people would come

128:48

to use the baths and it was it wasn't

128:51

quite counterculture yet. But there's a

128:54

story and I believe it's true that um uh

128:58

he was making some homophobic remarks

129:00

and there were some gay bodybuilders up

129:02

from Venice, California. So the group

129:04

decided what his punishment would be.

129:06

His punishment would be that these

129:08

bodybuilders were going to hold him over

129:10

the cliffs above the ocean, which is

129:12

maybe 3 400 feet to his drop until he

129:14

renounced homophobia,

129:16

>> which eventually he did

129:18

>> and then they let him back on and then

129:19

he was able to live on and work and like

129:21

they're like, "Okay, he's cured." You

129:22

know?

129:23

>> So, I mean, it's a ridiculous example.

129:25

On the other hand, everyone participated

129:28

in this decision

129:29

>> and apparently he was very frightened

129:32

and I don't know, I didn't know him, but

129:34

apparently he adjusted at least his

129:36

behavior.

129:37

>> Yeah.

129:37

>> Kind of an interesting, silly.

129:39

>> Yeah.

129:40

>> You know, funny enough, but serious

129:42

enough example. Nowadays, it would have

129:44

be very different, right? He would have

129:46

lost his job and no amount of apology

129:47

would have rescued his job. Which on the

129:50

one hand, you could say, okay, well,

129:52

he's homophobic. They didn't want anyone

129:54

homophobic working there. on the other

129:55

hand, the opportunity to potentially

129:58

convert his thinking is lost. And so I

130:01

think that's what you're talking about

130:02

that there are certain forms of

130:03

punishment that give the opportunity not

130:05

just to protect others but to um to

130:10

really help people evolve their moral

130:12

concept.

130:13

>> Yes. I think sometimes people talk about

130:15

this as the difference between a

130:17

backward-looking conception of justice

130:19

versus a forwardlooking conception of

130:21

justice. So, a backward-looking

130:23

consumption of justice, you're you are

130:26

often caught in this again this rescue

130:28

blame trap, which is

130:31

um does he deserve to p be punished? Oh,

130:34

maybe he doesn't deserve to be punished

130:35

that badly because of these extinuating

130:38

circumstances. Oh, but he did this

130:40

horrible thing. He made these homophobic

130:42

um comments. Whereas a forward-looking

130:44

conception of justice is given that we

130:47

are are where we are today and given the

130:50

harm that he has caused and given the

130:52

brain and the body that he has, how do

130:55

we best maximize our chances of other

130:58

people being protracted from future harm

131:01

and him changing him having if even if

131:06

he doesn't change in his heart of

131:07

hearts, changing the words that come out

131:08

of his mouth, taking responsibility for

131:11

what he says. The rule in my house with

131:13

my kids is you're not allowed to tell me

131:17

about what your brother did.

131:19

Your brother will tell me about what

131:21

your brother did and you'll tell me

131:22

about what you did and then we're going

131:24

to talk about what you want to happen in

131:26

the future and then we're going to talk

131:28

about what everyone needs to do so that

131:31

we can not have this argument. But this

131:34

constant like attempt to figure out like

131:37

how much does he deserve to hurt, I feel

131:40

like is a it's it's an abyss, you know?

131:43

You just drown in it. And you drown in

131:45

it with yourself, too. Like if you've

131:47

made comments that you regret yourself,

131:49

like how much do I deserve to be

131:52

punished for that versus but I can

131:54

remember all the extenduating

131:55

circumstances. No, it's what do I need

131:57

to do better in the future and what do

132:00

other people need to know that they are

132:02

safe around me now which might be you

132:04

know might be a penalty box but you know

132:06

thinking about punishment not as again

132:10

this is it's not about some you know

132:13

justice for attempt to weigh the scales

132:15

in the past it's about how do we make

132:18

things better in the future how do we

132:20

keep people safe and repair things in

132:21

the future

132:23

>> before moving to reward One thing that

132:26

occurs to me is people seem to integrate

132:29

what people deserve now on the backdrop

132:32

of all the they had to put up with

132:34

in the past. Yeah. Not just from that

132:36

person. I feel like we are we're all

132:38

integrating on the backdrop of how we

132:40

were treated.

132:41

>> Um how much pain and frustration we've

132:44

had to endure. And that weaves in with

132:48

how much forgiveness we have for when

132:50

people screw up or when they're like

132:53

being just jerks or they're being

132:56

outright awful. So I feel like it's an

132:59

almost impossible problem to wrap our

133:02

arms around

133:04

except at the very extremes. So I think

133:07

when people feel that they've been

133:09

victimized

133:12

accurately or inaccurately

133:15

that amps up that retributive urge and

133:20

again I'm not saying that you know this

133:22

is just some people I I think this is

133:24

part of being human that when we feel

133:27

hurt we want to hurt back and we want

133:29

the person to hurt that hurt us to be

133:30

hurt and we're trying to keep some

133:32

ledger of power and and victim hood um

133:38

in our minds. I think that's to some

133:41

extent an inescapable emotion of being

133:44

human,

133:46

but we don't just have to respond of our

133:49

emotions. We don't have to let that

133:50

lead, right? We don't have to let that

133:52

run the show. So, I do think that you're

133:54

right that in all situations, we're

133:57

thinking about the situation and also

133:58

the backdrop of the situation and

134:01

thinking very much about power. I mean

134:03

going back to what we can learn about

134:06

punishment from looking at non-human

134:08

animals or not even not animals even

134:10

trees even bacteria is who is punished

134:14

and who is the punisher is always a

134:18

statement about the social roles within

134:22

a group and those social roles are

134:25

structured by power. Um, I talk in my

134:28

book about how you can have alpha queen

134:32

wasps and they eat some proportion of

134:36

the eggs of the beta queens in their in

134:38

their colony. But if she eats too many

134:41

of the eggs, her sisters will bite her.

134:44

They will be like, "Okay, you're allowed

134:46

this much power, but no more, and we're

134:48

going to enforce those limits." So, I

134:50

think a lot of the debates that we're

134:52

having about um uh punishment in our

134:56

society, who should be punished, are

134:58

really debates about who gets to have

135:00

power and to what degree

135:02

>> in our society.

135:03

>> What's interesting to me is how much the

135:07

language of choice is leveraged or used

135:11

in those debates. people so commonly

135:15

once you listen for it it's it's really

135:17

really common that as soon as someone

135:19

wants to justify punishment they don't

135:21

say um I'm justifying this to prevent

135:25

harm or I'm justifying this to maintain

135:28

or change a power structure they say

135:31

something about how the person being

135:33

punished chose that they they chose to

135:36

be there or they chose this this thing I

135:40

think a lot of our

135:42

um focus on choice in American culture

135:44

is really an interest in being entitled

135:47

to to punish people. If you're on a

135:49

plane and they're like um they're trying

135:52

to get people to check their bags,

135:54

they'll never say that the the airline

135:56

chose to overbook the plane. They'll say

135:58

if you've chosen to bring more than one

136:00

bag with you, then you're going to need

136:02

to check it, right? Which is like you

136:04

you chose, so therefore you can be

136:07

inconvenienced. You'll hear it

136:08

everywhere. Now,

136:09

>> I'm gonna listen for this. Okay. Reward.

136:13

[laughter]

136:13

Um, the good stuff. When I was a kid,

136:16

we'd go to dinner and we didn't go out

136:18

to dinner very often. We It just wasn't

136:21

our family. But, um, when we did, we

136:24

could get soda. We couldn't have it at

136:25

home.

136:26

>> Yeah.

136:26

>> And I would drink some soda. Then my

136:29

sister would make sure that she drank a

136:31

little less soda so that at any point in

136:33

the meal, she had more soda than me,

136:35

even though we started off with more

136:36

soda.

136:37

>> Classic sibling thing.

136:38

>> Okay. So, she's a wonderful person. I

136:41

adore my sister. And yet, she had to win

136:45

that competition.

136:46

>> Yeah.

136:47

>> And so,

136:48

>> that's some primal stuff there.

136:49

>> That's some primal stuff. I don't know

136:50

if it's the hypothalammus, but it's

136:52

[laughter] it's it's definitely um

136:55

>> Do my parents love me more?

136:56

>> Exactly. And I And if you feed two dogs

136:59

at once, you know, because I had a

137:01

bulldog mastiff. My girlfriend at the

137:02

time had a had a pitbull. And whoever

137:05

got food first and I swear they're

137:07

paying attention to the size of the

137:09

little but I mean I mean they are

137:11

processing that at laser speed. Um

137:14

what's going on? We we pay attention to

137:17

how much people are rewarded.

137:18

>> Yes.

137:19

>> And we get something about rewards that

137:24

go beyond just the reward. I mean again

137:26

we are a species that's evolved in

137:29

cooperation and there's really nothing

137:32

worse for a cooperative society than

137:35

freeloading someone being rewarded

137:38

without putting effort into the

137:41

collective. There's this great study

137:43

that was run by these economists

137:46

where people were put into these online

137:50

basically like online, you know, kind of

137:53

societies where they could interact with

137:55

one another and you could pick which

137:58

societ which village did you want to

138:00

join and you could switch villages at

138:03

any time.

138:05

And in both villages, everyone who was

138:08

in that society, society, online

138:11

society, online game was given an

138:14

allocation of digital money and they had

138:17

to decide how much are they going to

138:19

donate from their personal wallet into

138:22

the collective. And so there's a that's

138:24

a classic economic trade-off game, which

138:27

is what's best for my self-interest is

138:30

if I don't contribute anything and

138:32

everyone else contributes the maximum.

138:34

and then I get to benefit from the

138:36

common good. Right? That's the

138:37

freeloading problem. But if everyone

138:39

does that, then there's nothing in the

138:41

common good. Okay? So, in one of these

138:44

societies, people were given, this is

138:46

back to reward and punishment, people

138:49

were given the ability to see how much

138:52

other people donated

138:54

and could pay to punish people who they

138:58

didn't think had donated enough. So,

139:00

we're we're in a society and if we're in

139:02

the the punishing society, then I can

139:06

see that you got rewarded with this and

139:08

then you didn't contribute enough of it

139:11

back to the collective good and then I

139:13

could pay my own money to take away some

139:15

of yours. And in the other society,

139:19

people got to make their decisions, but

139:21

they were anonymous and you couldn't

139:23

respond to other people's decisions. The

139:26

rules are transparent. It's not

139:28

mysterious what's happening.

139:30

And at the beginning of the experiment,

139:31

participants are allowed to pick like

139:33

which village do I want to be in? And

139:36

they think, I'm I'm against punishment

139:39

and I don't want other people to know my

139:41

business. So, I'm going to go to the

139:43

nonpunishing society.

139:46

And then it basically collapses in like

139:49

three rounds because everyone's keeping

139:51

their stuff to themselves and not

139:54

contributing to the good. A few people

139:57

pick the the society where they have the

140:00

opportunity to punish from the very

140:02

beginning

140:04

and they immediately establish a strong

140:08

norm of you. If you get a lot, you give

140:10

a lot. There's not going to be some

140:13

asymmetry between how much you're

140:14

taking, how much you're keeping for

140:16

yourself, and how much you're

140:17

contributing to our collective society.

140:20

By the end of the game, the

140:21

non-punishing society has collapsed and

140:23

everyone has migrated to the punishing

140:26

society. And they [clears throat] are

140:27

incredibly attuned to freeloading.

140:31

>> So your sister is like, he's not getting

140:34

more soda than me, is he?

140:36

>> And I want to if I'm going to feel

140:38

something, I want to feel like I have

140:40

more soda than my brother does. I told

140:43

my kids last week, I was like, I'm going

140:45

to just start acting like a capriccious

140:46

dictator and just like make no more

140:49

attempt to keep things even, Stephen, so

140:51

that you can understand what unfair

140:53

really feels like because I'm so sick of

140:55

this like

140:57

Jonah got half a [laughter]

141:00

chocolate chip more than me and his

141:03

cookie. Why is seeing someone punished

141:06

if they've done something wrong? Why

141:08

dopamine? Why that? It's because it is

141:12

so foundational to our survival as a

141:14

cooperative species to to have social

141:19

norms and see that they're enforced and

141:22

and seeing someone get rewarded when it

141:26

doesn't feel like it's fair, I think

141:28

activates all of our freeloader alert,

141:31

freeloader alert, like we cannot have

141:34

this module. Um Paul Bloom who's a child

141:37

psychologist has a great paper where he

141:39

says people prefer uh inequality to

141:43

unfairness.

141:44

It's not things being unequal that they

141:48

necessarily

141:49

dislike. It's things being unfair. It's

141:52

within it's when the inequality feels

141:54

unfair that people are like

141:57

>> no

141:58

>> these days I love observing online

142:01

behavior.

142:02

>> That makes one of [laughter] us. It's

142:03

the science. It's just the scientist in

142:05

me, you know. I just Well, I I feel like

142:07

there's something to be learned from it

142:09

>> if one has a little bit of like if

142:11

>> if you can have some distance from it.

142:13

And um

142:14

>> I think uh I don't spend all my time in

142:16

the comment section. Um but it's

142:19

sometimes interesting things play out

142:22

and and you can see this, you know, and

142:24

it's it's really yeah, this this concept

142:26

of of kind of who gets money, attention,

142:30

etc., which is really life and gets to

142:32

keep playing the game of life

142:34

>> who's getting batted back and penalty.

142:37

And I think fairness lets us rest. Like

142:40

the sense that there's fairness lets us

142:42

rest.

142:42

>> Yeah. I think that um

142:45

some people more than others like the

142:47

the sense of um seeing injustice,

142:50

feeling injustice activates people and

142:53

it activates them in a direction

142:56

typically that they don't get paid for

142:58

that is taking away from their other um

143:01

life energy. I mean the media I'm not

143:03

going to blame social media but or the

143:06

algorithms that's no longer a good

143:08

argument uh in my opinion but I do think

143:11

that

143:12

>> there are monetization systems that try

143:16

and hijack people's sense of injustice

143:18

to drive more clicks and views more

143:20

advertising and that's how you that's

143:22

how you get people moving forward but

143:23

they're not really the illusion is that

143:25

they're moving forward. that in fact the

143:27

the financial incentive there is to just

143:29

keep people on a treadmill where they

143:30

feel like they see more injustice and

143:32

they're angrier and angrier and they

143:34

just continue and nothing changes. And I

143:36

I I'm not dystopian, but I think we're

143:38

one has to be careful not to get caught

143:40

up in that.

143:41

>> It's very different than a a game like a

143:44

game of football or who gets more soda.

143:47

Um I think that right now

143:50

who gets rewarded seems to be uh more

143:53

under control than who gets punished.

143:56

like we feel like the I think a lot of

143:57

people feel like the bad guys and gals

143:59

are outside of our control. So now it's

144:01

a question of just making sure people

144:02

don't get rewarded. As you're talking,

144:05

I'm thinking again about that study I

144:07

was describing where you have the two

144:08

villages

144:12

and the people who are

144:15

who were most influential in setting the

144:18

norms of the society that ended up

144:20

thriving in this online game were people

144:24

who engaged in a lot of punishing and

144:27

rewarding public punishing and rewarding

144:30

behavior from the very beginning. And

144:32

again, I think this goes back to

144:33

punishment and reward is is a way of

144:37

establishing power, right? What is it is

144:40

a way of asserting power over what are

144:42

the rules? What are the rules in this

144:44

society? Like what are we doing here?

144:46

I'm picking a society that has these

144:48

rules and I'm going to enforce them.

144:50

We now live in this this community

144:54

collapse where we don't live in isolated

144:57

villages. We don't live in small tribes

144:59

where we interact with each other.

145:01

reciprocally over time in dense kin

145:04

networks. We are massively connected

145:09

with a lot of one-time interactions

145:11

between strangers.

145:14

And as you were talking, I was just

145:15

like, is that taking a psychology that's

145:18

evolved to be in connection in a small

145:22

community where the purpose of rewarding

145:25

and punishing is to establish the norms

145:29

for your group, but now there isn't a

145:32

group. There's no one group. There was

145:33

not a cohesive group. And so people are

145:35

they're essentially arguing about what

145:37

are the rules are going to be. But it's

145:38

like they're playing a game and they're

145:40

arguing about what the rules are in the

145:41

middle of the game. And if you feel like

145:44

the only tool available for you is to

145:46

just ratchet up the consequences

145:50

and and yell louder, right? But yell

145:53

louder into the void. It's not a real

145:55

community. Like X is not a it's it's the

145:59

internet, right? Like that is not who

146:01

you're living next to.

146:02

>> I love doing this podcast, but the

146:04

reason I continue it is for the

146:05

opportunity to have conversations like

146:07

this

146:08

>> in person. Yes.

146:09

>> Yeah. With with you. I get more

146:10

intellectual stimulation from this job,

146:12

frankly, than I did when I was in my

146:14

office at Stanford every day because

146:15

people were we were all so busy.

146:17

>> Yeah.

146:18

>> Yeah.

146:18

>> But it's also so people can hear the

146:20

conversations because what you're

146:21

describing is very real. It things are

146:23

so diffused now. Um

146:27

and there isn't really an opt out ex

146:29

option.

146:30

>> Um is that is that legitimate? Can you

146:33

say that? You can't really opt out. Um

146:35

[laughter]

146:36

I'm opting for opt out option being a

146:38

legitimate statement. um you know where

146:40

would where would one go? It's a I'm not

146:42

sure we can get completely offline. Um I

146:45

think it's possible in small amounts but

146:48

certainly younger generation you I've

146:49

talked to my niece about this like no no

146:51

dice it's not happening. So the question

146:53

is I guess how big is your sphere of

146:57

>> visibility? I think that's a really hard

146:59

question. There's a British writer

147:01

Oliver Burkeman who [clears throat] has

147:04

written he has this great newsletter

147:05

called the imperfectionist

147:08

>> and

147:09

one piece of advice he gives is about

147:13

you know letting your energy and your

147:16

heart be local

147:18

>> and for me I feel like that's a real

147:20

struggle to think about how do you not

147:22

harden your heart to people that are

147:24

suffering right at the same time

147:29

How do you let if you're keeping

147:30

yourself tender, if you're keeping

147:32

yourself attuned to caring about

147:34

fairness, caring about injustice, caring

147:37

about the vulnerable,

147:40

where is that energy going? And if it's

147:44

just going back to the internet, I'm not

147:46

necessarily sure that it's really

147:48

helping. But if it's to how does my

147:52

neighborhood organize a winter coat

147:56

drive or do I make sure that you know I

148:00

fill up a stocking for

148:03

um children whose families can't afford

148:06

Christmas gifts for my children's

148:07

preschool. That feels so much more

148:09

satisfying than any amount of yelling on

148:12

social media everywhere. So, it's how do

148:14

you be tender to the world but act in

148:17

your own neighborhood? Feels like the

148:19

the balance that I feel the best when

148:23

I'm there, but it's a very difficult

148:25

balance to maintain.

148:27

>> Winning the game of everyday life is

148:30

exactly [laughter] what you just

148:31

described. I think one can be online,

148:33

see what's happening in the world, but

148:36

um there has to be a buffer there. There

148:38

has to be an emotional buffer and u

148:40

because otherwise you lose our minds. I

148:43

mean to you know steal your words from

148:45

earlier although I won't say it nearly

148:47

as eloquently. I mean it's a new

148:49

technology that's forcing us to

148:51

re-evaluate our morality.

148:53

>> Um our our hard wiring hasn't changed.

148:56

Our ability to softwire our brain and

148:58

modify it hasn't really changed in tens

149:00

of thousands or more years. So I think

149:02

it took about 10 years of smartphone use

149:04

for us to arrive at this place. We're

149:06

like, "Oh like [laughter] how

149:07

often should we be on this thing and how

149:09

much I like what what aspects of this

149:11

are beneficial and healthy and which

149:12

aren't?"

149:13

>> A lot are not.

149:14

>> Yeah.

149:14

>> Yeah. Well, and the whole world migrated

149:16

into this the position right now.

149:17

>> But then also I say that and then I'm

149:19

like but it's given me such incredible

149:21

opportunities. Like would I have written

149:22

a book without you know it was Twitter

149:25

at that time. like would I be here and

149:28

getting this opportunity to talk to you?

149:31

One of my best friends I met online. So

149:36

to the extent that it is a tool for real

149:39

life connection and real life action,

149:41

then I think it's good. And to the

149:43

extent that it takes you out of real

149:45

life, then it's bad. At least for me is

149:47

how I have come to think of it.

149:49

>> I'm certainly immensely grateful for the

149:52

work you do. It's uh you're a brave one

149:55

>> willing to go into these uh these

149:57

corners of the psyche, corners of human

150:01

um reflexes for better or worse and and

150:04

to be willing to, you know, talk about

150:06

issues of morality, sex differences,

150:09

reward and punishment. There's some

150:11

questions from quote unquote the

150:12

audience, from the dreaded [laughter]

150:13

internet.

150:14

>> Speaking of the internet that we've just

150:15

been talking about this whole time,

150:17

>> I trust in people. They're like dogs.

150:19

They just need to be treated right.

150:20

[laughter] That's a compliment by the

150:22

way, at least coming from me. Okay,

150:24

questions from the interweb. [sighs]

150:27

>> Always a fun and dangerous thing. Now,

150:30

these are excellent questions and you've

150:31

answered um many of them in our

150:34

conversation already. A couple people

150:37

asked you, how can identical twins be so

150:40

incredibly different?

150:41

>> Wow.

150:42

>> What's going on there?

150:43

>> So, this is not just identical twins. We

150:46

see this in other genetically identical

150:50

animals. There's studies of inbred mice.

150:53

There's studies of we were talking

150:55

earlier about armadillos who give birth

150:58

to four identical quadruplets. There

151:00

studies of clonal fish. And what there

151:03

seems to be is what some scientists have

151:05

called developmental noise. Uh which is

151:08

this emergence of individuality that's

151:11

neither nature nor nurture but is

151:14

something about the like initial chaos

151:17

and then path dependence of development.

151:20

Um one of my favorite studies about this

151:23

they raise these mice

151:25

inbred mice genetically homogeneous.

151:28

They raised them in identical rearing

151:31

environments and then at a certain point

151:33

put them together in this big vivarium

151:35

where they could interact. And you saw

151:37

almost immediately

151:39

just very, you know, variability which

151:41

might have been initially random in

151:43

[clears throat] activity levels,

151:45

aggression levels,

151:47

um where in the cage they like to hang

151:49

out. And then those differences started

151:52

to stabilize. You basically saw the

151:54

emergence of individual differences in

151:56

mouse personality over time. And it's

151:59

experience. It's experience that's

152:02

there's some randomness and then there's

152:04

a path dependence there and then it's

152:06

your nervous system responding to

152:08

experience that leads

152:10

leads um paths to diverge. I actually

152:13

think that's one of the most interesting

152:14

things about identical twins is

152:17

>> that they can be different. If you have

152:19

one twin who has schizophrenia, you

152:22

there's only a 50% chance that the other

152:24

one will. 50% is way higher than 1%

152:27

which is the base rate but it's not not

152:29

destiny. If someone wants a fiction

152:31

treatment of this I know this much is

152:33

true is a novel by the novelist Wally

152:36

Lamb and it's written by the perspective

152:38

of an unaffected

152:41

identical twin whose identical twin has

152:43

paranoid schizophrenia. And it's very

152:46

scientifically interesting because it

152:47

captures a lot of the did one of them

152:50

get exposed to a virus? Did one of them

152:52

get kind of singled out for maltreatment

152:55

by the stepfather? So some things that

152:57

might have gone into that difference,

152:58

but also just the phenomenology of being

153:01

genetically identical to someone who's

153:02

having such a different psychological

153:04

experience as you in life.

153:06

>> Twins fascinate me. Um just as as the

153:11

nature nurture thing,

153:13

>> which by the way we are only saying now

153:14

in this podcast. Amazing, right? Are

153:17

there specific periods in development

153:19

when genetic influence is at its

153:21

strongest and how does that influence

153:24

shift relative to environment across the

153:26

lifespan?

153:27

>> Oh, this is a really interesting

153:28

question with a complicated answer.

153:31

>> So, in some ways, genetics matter most

153:35

when they affect fetal development

153:38

because that's laying the groundwork for

153:39

how the brain is wired over time.

153:43

When you look at heritability estimates,

153:45

so when you're estimating how much of

153:47

the differences between people are due

153:49

to genetic differences,

153:52

you can estimate that using twins by

153:55

looking at how much more similar are

153:56

identical twins versus fraternal twins.

154:00

And what you see is actually that

154:01

heritability goes up with age. So the

154:04

heritability of cognition, intelligence,

154:07

test scores goes up until around age 12,

154:10

in which case it stays pretty heritable

154:11

from then. Heritability of personality

154:14

continues to increase until around age

154:16

30. And so how can that be that the

154:19

older you are, the more your genes

154:21

matter because you've been acquiring

154:23

experience all this time? And part of

154:25

the answer to that is that people are

154:27

picking their own experiences. So people

154:30

are picking their environments. They're

154:32

responding to their environments

154:34

according to their genetically shaped

154:37

temperament, personality, neurobiology.

154:40

And what that means is that identical

154:42

twins actually converge over time even

154:45

though they are acquiring experience

154:47

over time. So when do genetics matter

154:51

more? It kind of depends on what you

154:53

mean by matter. When when are genetic

154:56

differences most predictive of your

154:58

phenotype? Once you're an adult. because

155:02

you've had a chance to pick your own

155:04

life experiences.

155:06

>> There are several questions that I'm

155:08

going to merge into one. Okay.

155:09

>> Earlier at the very beginning of the

155:11

conversation, we were talking about um

155:13

possible pheromone but if not

155:16

pherommones and odor effects of of

155:18

timing of puberty because of the

155:20

presence or absence of a male. It's kind

155:22

of an interesting example, but there I'm

155:24

sure there are other examples where

155:26

something about the environment at a at

155:29

a chemical level impacts whether or not

155:32

gene expression is turned on or off. And

155:34

so I um this is an infinite space that

155:38

to consider, but um depending on where

155:41

one is born in the world, maybe you're

155:43

getting longer days and shorter nights

155:45

for a portion of the year. If you're

155:46

near the equator, less of that. Um, if

155:49

you're in Scandinavia, you're getting

155:50

some extended periods of lack of

155:52

sunlight. And there were a number of

155:53

questions about how sunlight can impact

155:56

gene expression. So, if you take two

156:00

identical twins and you raise them in

156:01

very different environments, let's say

156:03

equator versus closer to the North Pole,

156:06

>> is there any evidence that amount of

156:09

sunlight day length across the years can

156:11

impact expression of of what would

156:13

otherwise be called genetically

156:15

determined traits? So I will say that I

156:17

don't have any expertise specifically

156:20

around sunlight or I don't typically

156:22

study physical environments. I usually

156:24

am studying social environments. Um

156:27

there is one hypothesis about how

156:32

basically people whose ancestors are

156:35

from equatorial climates if they are in

156:37

colder climates if they are more

156:41

susceptible to

156:43

um schizophrenia because of activation

156:46

of risk genes for that. I don't actually

156:49

know the the current state of the

156:50

literature on this. um the human being

156:54

is both

156:57

um developmentally programmed in this

157:00

very resilient way. The fact that we

157:02

managed to grow such a complicated

157:04

nervous system and and psychology

157:08

um from so humble beginnings is really

157:11

amazing. Um, and also we are incredibly

157:14

adaptable creatures. And the reason why

157:17

we're adaptable is because our gene, our

157:19

genotype, that developmental programming

157:21

can respond so flexibly to the

157:25

environmental inputs that we're in. So

157:26

that's a kind of a non you know, that's

157:28

a very vague answer, but you DNA is a

157:33

molecule that's sitting in your cells.

157:35

is not doing anything until it's acted

157:38

on to be read to be transcribed to be

157:41

expressed and so that always requires an

157:44

environment and is sensitive to an

157:45

environment. Well, thank you so much for

157:48

answering those questions and uh I mean

157:50

you've really expanded everyone's

157:52

thinking about genes and morality and

157:55

and I know that people including me but

157:58

many many people will really appreciate

158:00

the the thoughtfulness and the rigor

158:02

that you approach these things because

158:04

they are dicey topics. Um, but they're

158:06

central to who we are and how we're

158:07

functioning. And it's also very clear

158:09

from everything you've said that there's

158:11

a ray of optimism thread through all of

158:14

it. Like so,

158:15

>> you know, that like that we can make

158:16

positive choices for ourselves.

158:18

>> Yes.

158:19

>> Well, I really appreciate the

158:21

conversation. You know, I'm an academic,

158:23

so I'm used to giving talks and getting

158:25

a Q&A, but it is rare to have an

158:28

interviewer that is so delightfully

158:31

varied in their questions and so careful

158:33

in the questioning, too. So, I really

158:35

appreciate the conversation.

158:36

>> Oh, thank you. Well, we certainly have

158:38

to have you back again. Uh, before I

158:39

forget, um, you have books. We'll put

158:42

links to those.

158:43

>> Great.

158:44

>> What are you most excited about now? I'm

158:45

sure you're working on something right

158:47

now.

158:47

>> I mean, I'm really excited to talk about

158:49

the book. The my new book is coming out

158:51

on March 3rd. And I'm just really

158:53

excited to be in conversation with

158:55

people about these issues that I've

158:57

thought about for a long time. And

158:59

>> what's the title of the book? Sorry to

159:00

interrupt, but I want to make sure

159:01

>> The book is called Original Sin: On the

159:03

Genetics of Vice, the problem of blame,

159:05

and the future of forgiveness, and it's

159:07

out uh in early March.

159:09

>> Amazing. All right, I am going to go

159:11

purchase it. Don't send me a free copy.

159:12

I always tell people, don't send me a

159:14

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159:15

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159:18

Amazing.

159:19

>> Okay. Awesome.

159:20

>> Fantastic. Well, thank you. We'll have

159:21

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159:22

>> I would love to.

159:23

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Interactive Summary

The discussion with Dr. Katherine Paige Harden, a psychologist and geneticist, delves into the complex interplay of nature and nurture in shaping human behavior, particularly during adolescence. It explores how genetic predispositions and environmental factors influence traits like addiction, criminality, and aggression, often reframing traditionally "sinful" behaviors as neurodevelopmental disorders related to brain inhibition and excitation balance. The conversation touches on the ethical dilemmas of genetic information, the societal implications of believing people are "born bad," and the psychological rewards associated with witnessing punishment. Dr. Harden emphasizes a forward-looking approach to justice, focusing on responsibility and rehabilitation over retribution, and highlights the ongoing challenge of fostering constructive social dynamics in an increasingly diffused online world.

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