How Genes Shape Your Risk Taking & Morals | Dr. Kathryn Paige Harden
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There is a reward that we can see in the
brains of people when they see someone
suffer if that person is first portrayed
as a wrongdoer.
>> So ordinarily if you see someone be
shocked you have interior insula. It's
like you're being shocked too. Unless
that person is first portrayed as
violating some moral or social norm, in
which case dopamine, you get a reward
out of seeing that person punished. I
think that it is a lust just as much as
lust for substances or lust for sexual
partners. It is a desire people want to
see people punished.
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>> I'm Andrew Huberman and I'm a professor
of neurobiology and opthalmology at
Stanford School of Medicine. My guest
today is Dr. Katherine Paige Harden. She
is a psychologist and geneticist and a
professor at the University of Texas
Austin. Dr. Harden is an expert in how
our genes shape our life trajectory,
especially how they interact with life
events during our adolescence and how
they impact our long-term mental and
physical health. Today we discuss the
interplay of nature and nurture in
addiction, criminality, susceptibility
to trauma, and the larger themes of sin,
sociopathy, empathy, and forgiveness. As
you'll soon see, Dr. Harden is unique in
her ability to define how biology,
psychology, and the sometimes randomness
of life interact to drive people's
choices. Today we talk about known
differences between males and females,
the role of hormones and hormone
independent influences on male female
differences and how people assume
different roles in life depending on the
power structures they find themselves
in. I want to be very clear that this is
not a tap dance around the big issues
episode. Today you are going to hear a
very direct conversation about what the
best science says about the role of
genes and environment on human choice
and how the biology meaning genes and
everything downstream of them
neurotransmitters hormones etc drive
what choices are available to people and
which ones they tend to make. I've long
been a fan of Dr. Katherine Paige
Harden's work because I know of no one
else researching these topics with the
level of rigor that she is. And as
you'll soon hear, she is an exceptional
educator. She's clear. She's direct to
the question and her compassion and
belief in people's ability to better
themselves no matter what their genes
are and to better the world is woven
into everything she says and it's all
backed by data. I should also mention
that I learned during today's episode
that Dr. Katherine Paige Harden has a
new book coming out soon. It is entitled
Original Sin: On the Genetics of Vice,
the Problems with Blame and the Future
of Forgiveness. And you can find that
anywhere books are sold. It's now
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is separate from my teaching and
research roles at Stanford. It is
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Dr. Katherine Paige Harden. Dr.
Katherine Paige Harden, welcome.
>> Hi, thank you for having me. Few things
are as interesting to people as the
relationship between genes and behavior
or what we call genotype and phenotype,
the expression of all the stuff
downstream of genes. And few things are
as interesting as adolescence and
puberty and the home we grew up in and
how our genes interact with our choices
etc. You work at the intersection of all
of those which is a very brave thing to
do. Could you just frame for us why you
selected to study the relationship
between genes and outcomes using
adolescence as uh the time point in
which you jump off from those questions?
Because it could have been, you know,
from infancy or in in an old age. Why
adolescence?
>> Yeah. So, I did my PhD at the University
of Virginia and I was trained as a
clinical psychologist. And if you're
looking at when does mental illness
emerge, when does this risk for mental
illness really start to increase, it's
in adolescence. So most cases of
substance use disorders or addiction
begin in adolescence. That's when
people's risk for depression goes up. If
you're going to have a for psychotic
episode, that's going to be in late
adolescence, early adulthood. So from a
clinical perspective, adolescence is
really interesting. And then I'm also
was trained as a lifespan developmental
psychologist. So thinking about how does
what's happening early in the life
reverberate really through the rest of
your lifespan. And if you think about
when in life do individual differences
between people emerge, canalize, get
deeper. When are people's life
trajectories really starting to be
apparent? It's in adolescence. So I came
into this field really interested in
teenagers, late childhood in the teenage
years. So thinking about puberty, sexual
behavior, but then from there what's
happening in adolescence, it's also
rulebreaking or aggression or again risk
for alcohol and drug use. So my research
program was really based on okay well
what's happening in this period of life
where the genes we're born with and the
family environments we were raised with
how do they combine to shape people's
lives by the time people finish their
teenage years they begin adulthood
they're beginning adulthood on such
different life trajectories
>> what ages uh constitute uh adolescence
[laughter]
>> I mean that's changing I think right
Yeah. Um, we typically think of
adolescence as beginning with the
physical changes of puberty, right?
Adolescence is this period of transition
to reproductive and social maturity. So,
we're thinking of adolescence as
beginning between 10 and 13 when people
are going through puberty. I think more
controversial is when does adolescence
end? because historically we've defined
that as you're an adult when you take on
the social roles of adulthood and that
keeps being you know for various reasons
economic social reasons pushed back
later and later so I've typically
studied people between 10 and 25 so that
kind of 15-year period a 10-year-old is
clearly a child a 25-year-old is about
to be kicked off their parents insurance
they can finally run a car they can
technically take on the social roles of
adulthood And that's a long period of
time where a lot of things are happening
in the body, in the brain.
>> This may be outside the scope of of what
you work on, but I've always been struck
by the fact that while kids, including
myself, um, generally hit puberty
somewhere, as you said, between 10 and
13 or maybe 14.
Some seem to go through puberty for a
much longer period of time. And I think
of puberty as perhaps one of the biggest
developmental milestones because the
brain changes, hormones change of
course, but perceptually and how people
perceive you changes completely. And the
acquisition of what we know as secondary
sex characteristics um seems to occur at
such different rates. So I mean I can be
open about this. I I know I hit puberty
by I know at uh at uh 14.
>> Uhhuh. But then I didn't, you know, I
didn't really shave until I was almost
graduating college. Yeah.
>> But I had grown, right? Whereas there
were other kids that we went home for
the summer
>> and they came back
>> and they came back like not a grown man
but looking like this guy's
>> looking like a grown man.
>> Yeah. And kicking our butts in soccer
and he's just, you know, just in terms
of
>> everything, right? But then, and I I
don't want to out this person, but then
when I look at us now, it seems that the
people that went through puberty more
quickly may have aged more quickly in
general. Is there a any notion of a
clock and the rate of that clock turning
can be sort of visualized in puberty and
predict longevity? Is there any
relationship there?
>> We are working on this right now. So, we
can think about individual differences
in puberty in three ways. We can think
about pubertal timing. So when does it
start?
>> Um for girls, pubertal timing seems to
be early pubertal timing seems to be the
best predictor of risk for mental health
problems, physical health problems,
earlier menopause, shorter lifespan,
>> early onset of puberty.
>> Early onset of
>> it's not looking at the sort of rate of
characteristics.
>> Yeah. For boys,
you it seems that the difference in
pubertal pace or pubertal some people
call it pubertal tempo. So, not just how
early does it start, but how long does
it take
>> for all of those changes to unfold? Um,
we did a study many years ago where we
found that boys were less affected by
when it started but more affected at
least for their emotional development by
how quickly it happened with boys where
they changed overnight having the
hardest time sort of assimilating all
these changes that are happening because
your cognition is not necessarily
maturing as quickly as your height or
your musculature or your hormones. And
so it seemed that boys seem to be
particularly sensitive to going through
puberty very very quickly. What we've
been looking at recently is how the
epiggenome changes during this period of
time. So the genome is your DNA. It's
the DNA sequence in your cells and that
doesn't change with development. But the
epiggenome is everything on top of the
genome that affects how DNA is used by
the body, used by the cells. And there's
one epigenetic mechanism known as DNA
methylation, which is, you know, a
methyl group is is basically like this
chemical tag and it can get kind of
tagged onto the genome. So there's great
work in aging that shows that the
epigenetic clock measured by DNA
methylation starts ticking
in infancy and faster biological aging
as measured by the epiggenome predicts
shorter lifespan, worse health, earlier
mortality. What we looked at is well
instead of training an an epigenetic
clock on age, can we train it on
pubertal development? So, how physically
mature you are? And what we found is you
can. So, there's these these the clock
is ticking
as you get older, but the clock is
there's another clock that's also
ticking as you become more physically
mature. And those two things are
correlated. So the epigenetic changes
that we see as you go through puberty
faster
um do seem to be related to aging more
rapidly even in older life. So our
reproductive development is I think very
tied at a cellular molecular level with
our lifespan development. And we see
this across species. If you genetically
engineer mice to go through puberty
earlier they die earlier. So, we have
this trade-off between reproductive
maturity and lifespan across species
within species. And I think now we're
beginning to see that at the molecular
level, too.
>> Fascinating. I also like the way that
answer lands because I had a very
protracted puberty.
>> Yeah.
>> Uh and I feel grateful for that.
>> Yeah.
>> In retrospect, because, you know, in
terms of um athletic ability and things
like that, I was I wasn't really
delayed, but I sort of couldn't get past
the sort of middle of the distribution.
But then over time it's like this is
kind of wild. I feel like I'm I look
very different. I looked very different
at 30 than I did at 20. Like marketkedly
different without doing anything except
>> existing. Some people seem kind of
frozen in their adult look
>> at this earlier age.
>> Earlier age
>> and in from the animal literature and
I'm thinking the studies um from my
colleague Eric Nudson in particular
where he was looking at plasticity and
barn owls but it's been looked at
elsewhere. There's this really striking
correlation between the onset of puberty
and the end of the so-called critical
period for neuroplasticity. Of course,
plasticity can go on throughout the
lifespan, but the plasticity that occurs
>> until and around puberty
>> is, you know, an order of magnitude
greater than the plasticity that's
available as say a 30-year-old or
40-year-old. Mhm.
>> So they've done the experiments of uh
like overreacttoizing
um animals or taking the testicles out
of animals and preventing somewhat
preventing puberty and it doesn't seem
to extend that window. So in humans is
there any relationship between
cognition, brain flexibility and the
onset of puberty, the timing of the
onset of puberty?
>> That's a really interesting question and
it's complicated.
um in part because it's like well what
part of plasticity are you looking at?
What part of brain development are you
looking at? And also with humans we
can't unlike animals manipulate the
onset of puberty in quite the same way.
So, it does seem like there are some
cognitive functions like if you're
thinking about executive function
ability, your ability to shift attention
or update, um the things that are tested
by a standard IQ test, those seem to be
much more age related, whereas um your
ability to learn from peers versus your
parents, your sensitivity to risk and
certain types of emotions, that seems to
be more tied pubertal development than
with age. But they're so confounded
within
observational studies in humans that
it's a continuing challenge to try to
pull these apart.
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I recall some mouse data showing that if
you um expose young uh pre uh pubescent
mice to older males, they enter puberty
earlier. Does that exist in humans as
well?
>> So, this is a controversial area of
research. It is true that um girls,
human girls who are raised with a
nonbiological father do on average tend
to go through puberty earlier. And some
have hypothesized that it's a similar
sort of cue from the environment about
the stability and availability of
resources. If dad is gone, maybe the
provisioning of the environment is going
to be less stable. Maybe evolution would
favor a reproductive strategy where you
go through puberty earlier rather than
this continued, you know, childhood is
so costly, right? Like a human childhood
is long. It takes a lot. I have three
kids. It takes a lot to feed them, to
grow an adult. And so it might make
sense to say, okay, well, if resources
are going to be scarce, or if resources
are going to be unpredictable, it might
be better for me to have this strategy
where I go through puberty earlier.
What's difficult about that is that
people don't end up in family structures
at random. And moms who go through
puberty are more likely to have sex at
younger ages, more likely to end up in
non-marital childbearing family
structures, and are likely to have
daughters who are being raised without a
biological father. So, is it the
biological father absence that's causing
the earlier puberty, or is it that mom
has genes that predispose her towards
early puberty that changes her
reproductive life and then she's more
likely to be in this certain family
structure and pass on those genes to her
daughters? It seems to be a little bit
of both, which is kind of the standard
answer to all of our questions about
nature and nurture. That um gene there's
a very strong genetic effect on the
timing of puberty for both boys and
girls, but that also the environment is
pushing it in different directions. And
that's part of why we're seeing that the
age of puberty keeps going down with
every successive cohort. I mean, it's
been falling for the last basically as
long as we've been keeping data. people
have been going through puberty earlier.
>> I'm realizing that you have a very very
difficult job because the languaging is
so delicate. Yeah.
>> So, I'm just going to jump on the bed of
nails for you.
>> Okay.
>> I've also heard that if the biological
father is present, it provides a quote
unquote protective effect against this
earlier onset of puberty in the presence
of the non-biological father.
But just that language protective effect
implies that a one-year shift or
two-year shift earlier puberty is
somehow bad. Like immediate I think the
human brain just works this way, right?
For understandable reasons think, oh,
you know, these these young girls that
were supposed to go into puberty at 14,
they're now going to puberty at, you
know, 10 because the the dad was absent.
They we the humanize it.
>> They pathize it and they write a script.
And then, as you point out, you know,
there's things related to the the
situation as it relates to the the
mother and her choices and her genes,
and
>> it's a it's a real barwire mess for the
>> typical person um to try and pull apart.
You're pulling these things apart
beautifully, but it's also um fodder for
anyone that wants to drive a narrative.
That's tough. How how do you navigate
that? because I'm going to ask you about
adolescence and genes and and um uh
sexual promiscuity, right? We're talking
about today we're going to talk about
sin, you know, and so how do you
>> how do you look at these things? I know
you look at them objectively, but then
how does one choose to communicate about
these things in a way that doesn't arm
people to kind of run their own agendas
whether they realize it or not?
>> Yeah, I'm not sure I'm the best person
to give advice about that. I, you know,
I'm a scientist. I'm a mother. I'm a
college professor. I teach intro psych
at UT. And so I'm always thinking about
what does the science say? How would I
explain this to my 13-year-old? How
would I explain this to my undergrads?
And with a sense of awe and respect for
how amazing a human body and brain is,
right? Like to think about we as women
as as at one time girls are equipped
with a brain that's
you know looking out into the
environment and integrating all of these
signals about internal and external
about you know resources and stress and
body weight and light and integrating
that to say okay now's the best time for
us in our situation to go. Now is the
time for our our bodies to change in
these amazing ways. That is that is
puberty. I feel like I keep coming back
to if we have respect for the
amazingness of the human body and the
brain and I'm trying to communicate it
with clarity and empathy in the way that
my 13-year-old son would understand it.
I don't always succeed at that goal, but
that's really my I feel like that as an
educator, that's how I'm approaching
these topics.
>> Well, I I appreciate you saying that.
I'm I didn't ask that to kind of
inoculate against anything. Um but now
we can really get [laughter] in get into
the get into the tangle.
>> Yeah. I have long thought that um the
hypothalamus, right, these this various
clusters of neurons uh above the roof of
our mouth that drive hunger and sex
behavior and thirst and aggression and
um and a bunch of other interesting
things. Um
>> is sort of the seat of the seven deadly
sins.
>> I've heard you say this before.
>> Um and of course all those brain
circuits uh and structures interact with
other brain circuits and structures.
That's uh there's no one location in the
brain um that governs a behavior
entirely with some rare exceptions. How
do you think about the genetic
programming of the hypothalamus in terms
of people's proclivity for
addiction, promiscuity, aggression,
>> being overly passive in a way that might
harm them or other people as well.
>> I don't really think that much about the
hypothalamus per se actually in relation
to those behaviors. So just stepping
back one step when you you made this
reference to the seven deadly sins,
right? So if I kind of kind of remember
all of them, there's wrath, there's
envy, there's lust, there's greed,
there's sloth, and what do the seven
deadly sins have in common? How can we
operationalize that more scientifically?
You know, what those behaviors all have
in common is, I mean, I mean, accept
envy for a second. is doing something
that might be pleasurable in the short
term
um to the extent that there's negative
consequences negative consequences to
yourself or negative consequences to
other people. I think envy is
interesting because you're seeing other
people enjoying pleasures and you're
like I want that one right so it's kind
of looking at other pe other people's
pursuit of of things. I think of envy as
a severe opportunity cost because as
long as you're envying some what someone
else has or is doing, then you're then
you're missing all the stuff that's
happening now that you could build your
life on.
>> I think of envy as like a clue to what
do you desire that you haven't admitted
to yourself.
>> One question I ask graduate students
when I'm recruiting them is whose career
do you want? Whose career do you envy?
because that tells me more about where
they really want to go with their lives
than
>> you know their kind of prepared speech
that they have for me. Good question.
Yeah. You know, let's take wrath or
let's take lust. You know, anger is an
emotion that's useful. Sexual desire is
an emotion that's useful. When do they
become sins? They become sins in our
minds when people are are engaging that
behavior
um in situations where we think it's
going to be harmful not just to
themselves but to other people. From a
clinical psychology perspective, we
would never say we're going to study the
seven deadly sins, but we do have um
clinical language or diagnosis where the
predominant symptoms that you see are
people engaging in behaviors that are
impulsive, that are um maybe immediately
pleasurable, but in the long term
harmful to themselves or other people.
So the obvious constellation of this is
substance use disorders, right? So it's
I'm I'm ingesting a substance. It feels
good and I'm doing that at significant
cost to myself and other people. We can
also think about in childhood what would
be called conduct disorder which are
people who are children who are engaging
in wrath. They're engaging in aggression
towards other people that hurts other
people, their parents, their teachers,
their schools. The law is mad at them
and they're doing it anyways. So, what
we're interested in scientifically is um
are there genes that affect the
likelihood of developing these
disorders? Yes. Um are there genetic
overlaps between these different things?
So, do the genes that um are the genes
that make it more likely for you to
become addicted to substances
also make you more likely to have many
sexual partners also make you more
likely to engage in impulsive
aggression?
That also appears to be the question?
Yes. And then if we're looking at genes
that have these associations not just
with substances or not just with sexual
behavior or not just with aggression but
have crosscutting effects on all of
them. What are they like? What are those
genes? Where are they where are they
active in the brain? When are they
expressed in development? So that's work
that that our group has been doing for
eight years now to try to discover what
these genes we have a good idea from
twin and adoption studies that there are
genetic influences on these things and
now we want to figure out what are they
and where are they active in the brain
and it turns out that it's not just
hypothalamus it's really broadly
distributed you know throughout your
brain
>> I'll update my messaging [laughter]
and I did couch it as a hypothesis I I
never said that there were you know that
you could leion one of the the sins.
There are genes that vary between
individuals.
>> That predict
addiction, predict impulsivity,
>> and other things.
>> Um, you're exploring how the genes that
predict addiction might predict
impulsivity for other types of
behaviors.
>> Yes.
>> I think I heard that the answer is yes.
Indeed, there's overlap.
>> So, I'd be very curious to know what
those genes encode for. But what are the
protein systems and neural circuit
systems, hormone systems downstream of
those genes?
>> Yeah, if we go back one step, just why
did we think that there were going to be
genes that overlap between this? The
biggest
um set of results that supported this
hypothesis were adoption and pedigree
studies. So these big data registries,
you get them in Sweden, you get them in
the Scandinavian countries that keep
track of every single one of their
citizens. And what you see is that the
seven deadly sins run in families. So if
you have an adoptive parent who's
addicted to alcohol, you are more likely
to have many sexual partners. And you're
also more likely to be diagnosed with
conduct disorder or um be arrested for a
violent crime even if you were never
raised by that parent. And it's not just
substance use to substance use or
violence to violence or you know risky
sexual behavior to risky sexual
behavior. It seems that having a family
history of any of these things increases
your likelihood of manifesting any one
of them. So that's why we thought that
there was this genetic commonality
across them. Um so what we found is that
there's many many many genes that affect
all of these behaviors. It's massively
what we call polygenic. So it's not just
one thing in one part of your genome.
It's distributed throughout your genome.
And that those genes are most expressed
in neurode development in uterero in
second and third trimester. So if you if
you look at genes that are associated
with all of these things and you see
okay when in the human lifespan are they
most active? They're active during
cortical development in the second and
third trimester. So there's something
very like early neurodedevelopmental
that's going on there and it seems to be
affecting the brain's balance of
inhibition and excitation. So
[clears throat]
as your brain is developing while you're
in uterro the GABA system which is
inhibitory and the glutamate system
which is excitatory sort of being tuned
like and the balance between those two
things is um is being worked out. If
children are born pre-term, part of the
reason that that affects their
psychological development negatively is
because it affects this balance between
inhibition and excitation. So I think
we're still very at the beginning of
this understanding the bioanitation of
it, the biological mechanisms of it. Um,
but what it suggests to us is that, you
know, sometimes you hear like ADHD is a
neurodedevelopmental disorder. I think
that substance use disorders are every
bit as a neurodedevelopmental disorder
as ADHD. I think conduct disorder, which
is characterized by impulsive
aggression, is every bit a
neurodedevelopmental disorder as ADHD.
Because if you look at the genes that
are causing them, they seem to be
affecting this pattern of brain
development very very early in life and
this balance between the brain's
inhibition and excitation.
>> Fascinating. I mean, I have to be
careful not to go down this rabbit hole,
but I started off as a developmental
neurobiologist. So, um, you know, fetal
brain wiring is, uh,
>> yeah, we've never really talked about it
on this podcast, but it's we've talked
about the effect of of fetal exposure to
hormones. Yeah.
>> Uh, in in the brain in particular, um,
in terms of sexual differentiation, but
>> yeah, there's a ton going on in there
um, at these stages. And when I hear you
talk broadly about um you know the
balance between excitation and
inhibition
and some disruption in that or some
alteration in that setting up a a a
probability of the expression of some
behavioral disorder or choice
>> set of choices. It makes me wonder, you
know, about brain function more more
broadly is, you know, does that somehow
make these choices to use a given
substance or to do a impulsive behavior?
Is it we have to be careful not to
project, but is it an attempt to restore
some sort of um order to that balance or
is it an expression of of an imbalance
system? It's just a seessaw that never
that doesn't tilt all the way uh to one
side or the other. I think that's a
really good question and I don't know
the answer to that. When you talk to
people who are, you know, experiencing a
substance use disorder, sometimes you
hear narratives that are very much in
this um kind of self-medication frame,
right? Like I took this substance and it
made me feel normal and I didn't feel
normal before I had that. But that's not
everyone. I mean, addiction is a very
heterogeneous disorder. And so I think
people's um perceptions of their
motivations to engage in substance use
that's harmful for them. And then how
does that um relate to the brain
mechanism and then how does that relate
to early neurod development? I don't
think we know you know the specifics of
those links to the extent they exist.
Yeah.
>> My colleague Anna Lumpky who wrote to
Nation
>> Yeah. She once said that um many
addicts, behavioral addictions, uh I
guess they call them process addictions
or chemical addictions, that they have
this feeling that unless they're
experiencing something really intense
>> like life isn't really happening. Like
they crave this intensity of experience.
They want peak experience.
>> Yeah.
>> Either to numb themselves. I mean it
could be a trough experience in the case
of sedatives but um that stuck with me
implied in that is that not everyone is
seeking these um kind of extreme states
and so layered on what you just
described in terms of excitation
inhibition balance I kind of wonder if
um if people who struggle with addiction
are um they're craving getting out of
too much inhibition or too much
excitation in but this is probably an
overly simplistic hypothesis
>> so just thinking about the that
sensation seeking anything that driving
for intensity. Usually when we when we
think of people who um are chronically
engaging in some behavior despite it
having negative consequences for
themselves and other people. So this
could be drug use, this could be
aggression, this could be risky sexual
behavior. Um we can typically think of
three dimensions of sort of personality
and temperament um that are often at
play. And one of them is this sensation
seeking drive for intensity. So I want
it, I want it and I want a lot of it,
right? And then one is this
disinhibition
um failure of self-control. Um I can't
stop myself. And then another which I
think is less wellstudied is what people
call antagonism or callousness which is
um I know this has uh negative
consequences for other people but I
don't really care like that doesn't
bother me. And I think what you see is
that the the combination of factors that
goes into any one person's behavior can
really vary. So for some people it's
like this feels great, this feels good.
I want the high. I want it to be
intense. I'm not disinhibited. I'm
deliberately seeking out this behavior.
You know, I plan the drugs that I'm
going to use for the club the whole week
and I plan my week afterwards. It's not
it's not disinhibited at all. It's very
purposeful. And then there are people
that are like, I wasn't planning, but
now I'm at the club and someone offered
this to me and I can't stop myself. And
then other people are like, I'm not I
like it. Okay. and I could stop myself,
but these negative con consequences that
people keep harping on, you know, the
fact that my partner doesn't like this
or the police don't like this,
like, oh, you know, I'm indifferent,
right? And so, um, all of that to say, I
think I think we need to be aware of the
complexity and the heterogeneity of of
different people's motivations when
they're doing these behaviors.
>> Yeah. And these days we hear a lot about
um the role of trauma in addiction. I
mean I can't do a single post or podcast
about addiction
>> and the biology and um and not hear well
it's trauma related. But of course genes
come from our parents. We'll talk about
that irritability. Um and so
generational trauma or or just childhood
trauma doesn't even have to be
transgenerational.
It can get layered in there in a
complicated way. Yes. And I'm not trying
to say that trauma doesn't play a role.
Clearly, it does. But it seems that
genes could be primary. Trauma in the
parents, trauma in the children,
traumatizing, you know, hurt people hurt
people kind of, you know, it's the the
one cliche that seems to, you know,
stand the test of time.
>> Yeah. I think it's very hard to say that
something is primary or secondary
because everything's interacting with
everything else. One of the scientific
challenges and then also one of the very
human tragedies that we often see is
that the parents who have genetic risks
who are passing those on to their kids
are also the caregivers for those kids.
And so the kids who would most benefit
from
firm, warm, stable, nurturing parenting
are also the least likely to get it
because the parents themselves are also
dealing with their own stuff and they're
also leading their own complicated
lives. And so it's a tapestry like
there's a warp and a weft to a piece of
cloth. There's the threads that go this
way and this way. And um I think that's
how I think about the relationship
between genes and trauma early
experience is that really they both are
woven together to build
the brain and the body and the
personality that then struggles with
these behaviors later on in their life.
So if we were to have access to our
genomes heading into uh adolescence or
to our kids
>> uh genomes um and we know based on your
work and the work of others presumably
that some of the genes that predispose
to impulsive behavior, addictive
behavior, promiscuity etc. Um that would
be useful information I would think.
Right? Then one could think carefully
about friend choices, situational
choices, install buffers. You know, it
sounds sounds so mechanical, but you
know, have people around who can help
buffer against this these genetic
predispositions which no doubt, as you
just said, weave into um situational
predispositions.
>> Why don't people want that information?
Or do they want that information?
Because I remember in the 80s hearing,
oh, you know, soon we're gonna have
genomes and you can know if you're going
to get Huntington's.
>> Yeah. this, you know, very destructive
degenerative disorder. And and then
people said, well, I wouldn't want to
know. I I mean, I think many people
would also want to know and especially
parents, you know, if they can just get
past their guilt that it has something
to do with them, I think they'd want to
help their kids uh avoid these
predispositions given that most of what
we're talking about are maladaptive
predispositions. So this is a
complicated and really rapidly growing
area of research which is what happens
if you return people's genetic
information back to them. So if you have
ever done 23 and me or some sort of
direct to consumer genetics company you
might have gotten like this is your
genetic risk for Crohn's disease or this
is your genetic risk for Parkinson's or
Alzheimer's. Um and now there are more
companies that are expanding into that
genetic information around
um many gene indices. We call them
polygenic indices or polygenic scores
that are correlated with someone's risk
for developing an alcohol use disorder.
Say I think there's a couple things to
keep in mind here. One is that the our
genetic information is rapidly
improving.
it's still not very good at the level of
predicting an outcome for an individual.
So, um, as an example, you can think
cities that are at higher altitude tend
to be colder. Like that's a correlation.
That's a correlation of around 04.5.
You can know that if you're trying to
think about, okay, well, which cities
are colder on average than others.
That's not going to tell you do you need
to pack a sweater if you're going to
Montreal next Tuesday, right? Like
that's a specific weather incident.
Polygenic scores right now are like I
can tell you that you know on in general
like these people have a higher risk
than these people, but they're not
they're not a pregnancy test or even a
Huntington's disease test. They're not
prognosticators of like an individual
person's risk for an alcohol use
disorder. there's some uncertainty
there. [snorts] The other question is
what are the ethics of telling someone
that they have a low genetic risk,
especially if we're uncertain about
that. Like you've talked a lot about
how, you know, no alcohol on average is
better for you than some alcohol.
We think about the risks of telling
someone that they're genetically
predisposed towards a negative life
outcome. But there's also risk to
telling someone that they're not
genetically proposed because is that
going to are they going to interpret
that as license to drink more? I don't
need to worry about that. I need I don't
need to worry about my consumption
because this company told me that I'm at
low risk. And then the other thing
you're picking up on is that there are
individual differences in desire for
kind of deliberate ignorance. So there
was a great study after the wall came
down in Berlin that was um conducted on
whether or not people want to know the
contents of their files, like who was
reporting on them. And some people were
like, "Of course I want to know. Of
course I want to know who was saying
what about me." And other people were
saying, "No, I don't. Deliberate
ignorance. Ignorance is bliss.
Deliberate ignorance is what I want.
>> This is what other people were saying
about them."
>> Yes. Yes.
>> Don't read the comments. Yeah,
deliberate ignorance. No, read the
comments. It's also a form of deliberate
ignorance.
>> This is like an avid debate between
podcasters. You know, Rogan is the Mr.
Don't Don't read the comments. Lex
Freriedman and I go back and forth on
this
>> on guarding the comments.
>> I [clears throat] mean, yeah, it can be
useful.
>> So, all of that to say, I think we're in
a situation which the science is rapidly
developing. It's not nearly at a point
where it's going to be a a high
confidence predictor. There's also risks
to being told that you have a low, you
know, a low genetic risk because it
might act as a permission structure for
behavior that might ultimately prove to
be risky. And also, people's
psychologies are complicated and not
everyone responds to more information as
a good thing. Not everyone wants to read
the comments of their DNA. This isn't a
push back, but I feel like most people,
even if they don't understand genes
inheritability,
understand that they got their genes
from their parents.
>> Yeah.
>> So, there is an argument to be made
perhaps that people are already doing
this. Like someone whose father was an
alcoholic, whose grandfather was an
alcoholic,
>> could say, "Well,
>> yeah, I got to be really careful because
obviously this runs in my family,
right?" And then someone say, "Well,
your mom doesn't have an issue with
alcohol. She could have a couple drinks,
no big deal. So, you're protected and we
don't know how gene dosing protects us
or makes us vulnerable. No one knows,
but we all
>> we all do this. Yes.
>> Yes, I think we do.
>> I mean, we'll get into discussions about
genes inheritability, but you know that
that like the topic of of eugenics and
genetic selection with even within
embryos is super dicey nowadays.
Everyone's, you know, like you know,
it's so scary to even have the
discussion. But then I've always said, I
mean,
>> people do a kind of genetic selection.
They pick sperm donors and they pick
partners.
>> Yes.
>> Often times based on a combination of
traits which are clearly involve genes,
you know, so people are doing a genetic
selection in partner choice
>> anyway. And so to me, maybe it's just
the scientist in me, the conversation
feels unnecessarily scary. But when it
comes to things like substance use
disorder, I mean, tell me if I'm wrong.
I think it makes sense to look at your
parents and say, "Listen, if one of them
has a an an issue with alcohol or both
of them have an issue with alcohol, I
have to be very careful with alcohol."
>> And with your children too, right? I
think as parents, at least as a mother,
I look at my kids and I think they don't
have the same temperament. They don't
have the same personality. Um, I think
the risks of cannabis use is different
for my son and for my daughter. And so I
think an attuned parent is going to be
thinking about what do I know about my
kid as they go into adolescence? How
does that inform how I'm helping shape
their environment?
>> I think what you're picking up here is
that oftentimes people treat genetic
information as if it exists in a vacuum
and it's the only thing we know about a
person. And that's obviously not true.
There are phenotypes that we see in our
family members, in our perspective
mates, in our children. And most of the
research can also act as if you would be
returning genetic information um about a
child or about a person to that person
and it's the only thing that they know
and that's not true. Um, so I think that
we really are at a place where we need
more meta-cience, science about the
science in what is the most responsible
way to give people access to their
genetic information in a way that
permits them to make the best choices.
But we're not going to be able to do
that if we're continuing to pretend that
genetic information exists somehow
siloed from all the other things that
people are paying attention to when
they're observing themselves and their
family members.
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>> and their positive traits and their,
let's just call them maladaptive,
destructive traits to themselves or to
others, the more informed our choices
can be. But I do understand that it can
start to set up some constraints in our
mind of what we are capable of or not
capable of.
>> Yeah.
>> But I also feel like especially in the
United States, there's this notion that
we can become anything.
>> It wasn't until I was in a relationship
with somebody from Southern Europe that
I realized that that notion growing up
with that
>> is kind of outrageous to some people in
the world because in a lot of areas of
the world, as you know, people get
siloed really early on. Um, and they not
everyone grows up thinking they could be
an amazing athlete if they chose that
path.
>> Yeah.
>> They could be a billionaire if they
chose that path. You know, they could,
but in the United States, we love this
notion of anyone can get to any position
if they just work hard enough and
believe in themselves and align with the
right people.
>> So, I think that you think of it
probably as, you know, another source of
data. And isn't more data better? Like,
isn't we we improve our decision-m when
we have more variables at hand?
um that's a very scientific way to think
about genetic information.
Whereas I think for many people in the
broader public there can be a temptation
to see genes as a very special sort of
information. There's a genetic has
a myth around it that maybe this is my
data on my heart rate variability
doesn't have about it. I I often I think
that people can fall into these really
essentialist stories about genetics that
it's telling them something about their
like their deepest or truest selves.
Um and that's when the delivery of
genetic information without correcting
their perception of what genes are
really telling us can start to be
dangerous. I mean I think about 23 and
me their tagline for many years was
welcome to you spit in this tube.
welcome to you, right? That we are going
to give we are not just going to give
you another piece of information about
yourself to add to all the things that
you could be using. We are going to tell
you who you really are. And it's when
the genetic information lapses into
these more essentialist stories that I
think things get to be, in your words, a
little bit thornier, a little bit
riskier.
>> I never did 23 and me, but um they were
just right up the road, but somehow
never did it. But I did hear that one of
the surprising uh results of 23 andme
and companies like it was that um a not
insignificant number of uh people
discovered they have relatives that they
didn't know they had.
>> Yes. Or that their father isn't the
father that they thought they had,
>> which is a pretty major psychological
frame shift.
>> Yeah. I gave a talk at a college, a
small college. Um, and it was a writing
class and they had to write about a book
and they chose my book to write about,
which is great. It's like, you know,
freshman and they all have to actually
write something and they chose a book
that was deliberately, you know, a
little bit controversial to give them
something to push off on. And I asked
him, I said, "Why? How, you know, you're
writing professor, how did you find my
book?" And he said, "Well, I did 23 and
me." And I realized that my the man who
raised me is not my biological father.
My parents didn't know this. It was our
fertility doctor who was my biological
father. And I have something like 26
half siblings cuz this guy had been
doing it in his practice for years. He's
now the doctor is now deceased. And I
just was like that's so much more
interesting than I'm going to talk about
like anything I'm going to talk about
with these freshmen. story and that um
and I think that speaks to he had a
whole narrative about his life and his
family and then he got this piece of
genetic information and it blew that
story out of the water because it there
was something about the genetic lineage
that is really important to our sense of
of who we are and he really had to
reconstruct you know his family story
and his identity in the light of that
information.
It's so interesting because I've heard
of people learning something
unfortunate, bad about their grandparent
or parent that they weren't aware of and
then internalizing that somehow they are
bad.
>> Mhm.
>> Especially young kids can internalize
that message.
>> Yeah.
>> This is a a message to all people who
may end up divorced. Don't badmouth the
the other parent because you're
essentially telling your kids that they
come from bad they there's badness in
them.
>> Yeah.
>> You know, and and we all think that this
is about people's behavior, but but my
understanding of spend a little bit of
time with this literature just how
people interpret information and how
kids interpret information is that they
like oh like I come from something bad
and there's actually I mean there's all
these movies about this. Star Wars has
this and you know and and other other
movies you know like our genetic origins
and how those played out in previous
generations um can frighten people about
themselves.
>> Yes. So to go back to your earlier
question about how do we talk about gen
genetics in relation to these phenotypes
that are really part of our identities.
Another thing is that I don't think
anyone's bad. I don't think anyone's all
good either. I think that humans are
complicated and our behaviors are
complicated and none of us can be
reduced to one thing we've done or one
gene we have or one aspect of our
phenotype. But that is a really common
perception that genetics is telling some
genetics is some telling us something
essential about ourselves and that it
might turn out that that essential thing
is a bad thing. Um, I write in my new
book about this letter that I got from
um, a man who is in prison. He's been in
prison since he was 16 for
a horrific crime that he committed. It's
a, you know, a sexually violent crime
um, that he committed when he was 15
years old. So, still an adolescent,
still a growing brain, still not an
adult. in Texas, you can be tried an
adult as as 15 and he's been in prison
ever since then. And he read about my
lab, my, you know, our behavior genetics
lab at Texas and an issue of Texas
monthly magazine, which I guess the
prison subscribes to. And he wrote me a
letter and it showed up in my university
mailbox and it was him saying, "I've
done this thing like, let me tell you
about myself. I've been in prison my
whole adult life, even before then." Um,
what do you think makes a child go bad?
Nature or nurture? And that question
haunted me
because I could give him a technical
answer which is I could say it's we know
that nature matters. We know that
nurture matters. We know that all of our
behaviors are influenced by both nature
or nurture. Um, but I think when he's
writing me, he's not just asking for a
science lesson, right? He's someone
who's done something horrible and he's
saying, "I feel like I'm inherently a
horrible person." And that's might be
because of my genetics and my do my
genetics make me bad. And I think that's
a story about genetics which has no
scientific basis but really
um pops up in a lot of places in our
culture and it makes it very difficult
to talk about because you know you're
here saying these genetic variants are
expressed at this point in prenatal
development and that increases your
probability of these having having these
behaviors. But if someone hears that as
I could be born bad or I could be born
broken, that's absolutely not what we're
saying. But that story about genetics is
really, you know, woven through our
culture.
>> The bad seed,
>> the bad seed, bad to the bone, natural
born killer. We have I think the fact
that we can come up with English idioms
and phrases for this so easily tells us
something about the way that we think
about
behavior, morality, a self and biology.
>> I have so many questions but I think the
first one I want to ask is a
developmental one.
>> Yeah. Um, I think most of us
presumably carry this idea that it's
during puberty and the activation of
hormones, in particular testosterone,
that takes a sweet kid and makes them a
bad kid.
>> I think that's not true. I I I don't
believe that's true. But are there
examples of um in the literature of
kids prior to puberty being destructive
in in a sociopathic way?
>> Yes. And that's one of the biggest
predictors of um what people have called
a life course persistent pattern of
antisocial offending which is onset
before the age of 10. um antisocial
behavior that's not just destruction of
property but also aggression against
other children. And when we're thinking
about aggression, oftentimes we
discriminate between aggression when
provoked versus proactive kind of cold
aggression. So the worst prognosis we
would we would anticipate would be a
male child who begins to aggress against
other children or against animals before
the age of 10 and doesn't feel guilt or
remorse around that that has kind of
this cold callousness about it. That's a
poor prognosticator of having well-
reggulated behavior into adulthood. So
of those kids who have conduct disorder
be before especially before the age of
10 with these callous emotional features
we would expect that 50 to 75% of them
will have a substance use disorder in
adulthood. Um a non-trivial percentage
will have meet criteria for antisocial
personality or another personality
disorder in adulthood. Um and so again I
think we're we're looking at a subset of
children where there's clearly a heavy
genetic component. There's clearly a
heavy nurture component. It's very
neurodedevelopmental in terms of its
origins and early brain development and
currently we have vanishingly few
effective treatments. And again, I think
that's because people have maybe
implicitly or unconsciously
interpreted the genetic research or the
biological research as these kids were
born bad. Not these kids were born with
a set of neurodedevelopmental
liabilities and we really need to figure
out how to help them. You know, what are
the treatments we can offer them and
when people see something as a moral
failing, they're less likely to see it
as a biomedical problem that we can, you
know, throw the weight of science
behind.
>> What percentage of these kids younger
than 10 that show this antisocial
behavior are male versus female?
>> The sex ratio varies, but sometimes it's
2 to1, sometimes it's as high as four.
four to one. So,
>> and that can't be explained by post
uterero testosterone because they
haven't hit puberty yet.
>> Yeah.
>> So, it either is an or early organizing
effect in uterero or there's something
on the Y chromosome that creates a
susceptibility
>> and we really don't know actually one of
my former postocs is working on this now
the analysis of the X chromosome um
because most genetic studies just work
just focus on the autotosome. So, just
focus on the you know the nonsex
chromosomes. Um the other thing is we
also see this in animals that male
guinea pigs are much more vulnerable to
the effects of preterm birth than female
guinea pigs. Again, preterm birth
disrupts that same kind of GABA to
glutamate excitatory inhibitory balance
that um we're also seeing popping up in
the genetic research. Also, I've just
I've I have have two three kids. I have
two girls and one boy. And even with
humans, the labor and delivery nurse
will be like, "Okay, well, we got to
keep him in longer because those early
early boys, they struggle. They know
that the male fetus seems to be more
vulnerable to these insults than the
than the female fetus.
>> Are the guinea pigs sociopathic?"
>> Guinea pigs. I mean, all of these things
you can you used to work with nonhuman
animal models.
>> I for better or worse, I've worked with
so many different species. I have to say
I do not miss working with animals for
[clears throat] a variety of reasons.
>> That's how I ended up in a clinical
psych program is
>> humans humans can consent to be in an
experiment. I as an animal lover it
eventually wore on my soul too much and
I understand the ne where it's
necessary. I also think there's an
excess in particular and I'll lose some
friends with this but in particular um
with some of the larger primate work I
one really needs to justify and there
are instances where there's good
justification but um yeah I've worked
with a lot of different animals but I
was about to say um I know we both uh
dog lovers um there's this saying um
they're no bad dogs just bad owners but
we don't say that about humans we don't
say oh you know there no bad people
everyone is a good person. They're just
bad parents. At some point, usually 18,
we say you're responsible for your
actions regardless of what happened to
you, regardless of the genes you came
into this world with. And
things uh shift where people
understandably are responsible for their
behavior in a different way. Sounds like
in Texas it can come in earlier
depending on the crime.
>> Yeah. But I assume all dogs are good
dogs, that they're trustworthy, that
they would never harm you or another
dog, maybe an animal, cuz I've I've seen
what happens when certain dogs get a
hold of certain animals, but I don't
think we make the same assumption about
people.
>> I don't think we do either. I I titled
my new book Original Sin
to to really spotlight this exact thing.
I you know before I was a scientist um
the first 20 years of my life I was an
evangelical Christian. So I was raised
in a very um fundamentalist household
southern praised God and pass the
ammunition in lots of ways. And um and
in my in my brand of Christianity that I
was raised in, which was um Protestant,
reformed
Calvinist,
I really was raised with this idea of
original sin, which is that humans are
born bad, that they're born depraved,
that they're born broken. And I don't
believe that's true, but that's the
explicit teaching of some religious
traditions. And that's a religious
tradition that was really foundational
to our culture and our institutions. So,
I don't think it's a coincidence that um
we talk about how there's no bad dogs,
but we assume people can be inherently
bad because I think many of us were
taught that, you know, from a young age
that that all of us or some of us, you
know, if if you're thinking about
Calvinist theology of some people are
the elect and some people are that that
some of us are inherently bad. Um, so
you can be raised with a a religious
tradition that that really is talking
about inherent depravity and then you
have a scientific tradition that's
studying well how does genes how do
genes affect bad things that people do
and and then we have debates about how
science should be used and that's where
I think things get really thorny and
really tricky which is how do we apply
the science without lapsing into this
really ancient way of thinking um which
is interpreting the science as proof
that we're broken that that people are
broken at the same time. I mean, going
back to this letter that I received,
people do horrible Like, people do
horrible things to each other. And I
think about that man who wrote me a
letter and I can say I think he did a
horrible thing. And I think he probably,
everything I know scientifically, I
think he probably had horrible luck in
terms of his parents and his genes and
his birth experiences and his childhood
experiences.
And so, how do we put those together?
What does it mean to hold someone
responsible for how they behave? I do
think that we're responsible for
ourselves and responsible to each other
while also keeping in mind the fact that
no one created themselves from scratch.
By the by the time he was an adult, he
was already in prison for the things
that had happened to him while he was
still technically a child. I wrote this
book, my new book, because I was really
attempting to to wrestle through that
question.
>> I think I'm getting this story right.
It's a true story that was uh told by
our former director of neurosciences at
Stanford, Bill Nuome.
>> Um
about the guy who went up in the tower
at UT Austin and shot a bunch of people,
killed them. The tower shooter, I think
he was eventually taken out by a
security guard.
The
remarkable thing about the story is, at
least the way I remember it, is that
this guy knew something was wrong with
him. Thought that the sight of the
problem was in his brain,
was asking people to look at his brain
and help him. I think I'm getting this
right. We'll double check.
um and then said at the point where he
realized he was going to go through with
this thing with this act that he wanted
them to look at his brain and it turned
out he had a tumor in a I think it was
some temporal lobe region that
>> it was amigdula
>> oh it was actually in the in the amydala
so you know the story clearly uh and
it's where you work um fortunately
occurred long before you work I mean
terrible that it happened at all but in
this age of school shooters and public
massacres, right? People just, you know,
going up into Vegas hotel window and,
you know, hosing people with bullets. Th
this case is a unique one because the
guy knew there was something wrong with
him. Want in some sense wanted help, but
you can kind of create this picture of,
you know, um, angel devil conversations
in his head between neural circuitry
that's saying, "Don't do this. Don't do
this. Ask for help and do this, do
this."
I mean, it's like the cartoon or movie
with the angel and the devil on the on
the shoulder or in each ear.
>> What are we to make of that?
>> Yeah. Gosh, the women case is so it's so
interesting because he did um say that
he there was something wrong with him.
He did ask for help. um when after he
died the state of Texas ordered a
autopsy and um they found that they had
this tumor and the whole thing was
basically labeled like um almost like a
natural disaster had hurt had occurred.
So the the report talks about like the
catastrophe or the you know the this
incident that happened. Um, so the they
ultimately when when trying to make
sense of Whitman's shooting people from
the tower uh at Texas
took what was some philosophers have
called this objective view. So basically
like he they weren't viewing him as an
agent who's choosing who's doing
something in the realm of good or bad a
moral failing. They were viewing him as
kind of a machine that's gone haywire,
right? He got a tumor in his amydala and
he wouldn't have done it if he hadn't
had this tumor. How would they have made
sense of his behavior if he hadn't asked
for a brain autopsy? if they didn't know
about this tumor, how many other people
have something going on with them in a
specific location that um if we knew
about it might help us understand how
this behavior came across. I uh I write
in my book this story of this Dutch
family where
basically all the women in the family
were functioning okay but half the men
in the family were
one raped his sister, one stabbed his
boss with a pitchfork, one multiple one
committed arson, multiple of the men
were in prison. And at some point, I
guess one of the women was like, "Y'all,
you have to figure out what's going on
with the men in our family. Like, this
is too much to be a coincidence." And
what they found is that on the X
chromosome,
they had inherited a rare mutation in
the MAOA gene. So, MAOA is an enzyme
that degrades monoamines that, you know,
regulate how your neurons are talking to
one another. And women have two X
chromosomes. So if they inherit a bad
version, they're still the other
version. Whereas men only have one X.
And so from their mom, they got a 50/50
shot. Am I going to get the the mutated
version or the nonmutated version? I
mean, I find this study fascinating on
so many levels, right? That the single
letter change in your DNA could have
this massive effect on your behavior.
but also that all of these men were in
the criminal justice system and had not
been obviously flagged as something
organic or biological or mental illness
going on with them. And later they there
was another group that um found this
this you know a sensibly rare mutation
in several other impulsively aggressive
boys that had been referred to their
hospital. And they they ended their
scientific paper on what I find one of
the most haunting notes in the
scientific literature, which is, is this
actually rare? Or is it that when we're
faced with people doing horrible things,
we never even stop to look for what
might be causing it from our genetic or
neurobiological from organic way, which
I I think that's a really really
chilling thought. Um so
how do we you know in the absence I
think the question that you're asking is
an important one which is in the absence
of some smoking gun you know the mutated
gene the amygdala tumor how do we put
together
our knowledge as scientists as people
who read the science that yes it's genes
yes it's environment yes it goes into
the behavior and also we're humans we
have this this outrage rage and this
naturally this blame towards people that
harm each other. How do we as humans
hold both of those truths at the same
time? I think that's the real challenge.
>> I think once somebody is harmed, our
empathy shifts to the victim.
>> Yes.
>> Or victims.
>> Yes. in a way that oludes our maybe even
at times depending how close we are to
the victims or how much we identify with
it that oludes our um even care that
like like okay this guy this guy went up
on this I'm describing it historically
this guy went up on this tower killed
these people that security guard
eventually got him but the
>> you know
>> the parent of that kid that was just
walking to class
>> or you know the young woman who is, you
know, freshman year or whatever, you
know, she's dead now. Yeah.
>> She's gone. And so I think that in a in
a kind of healthy way, not kind of, in a
healthy way, we just we think the hell
with that guy.
>> One less glad they killed him. People
will say that, right? People say that
I'm I'm not necessarily Yeah. I guess in
some sense if I just stand back and my
reflexive response, it's like this guy
killed a lot of people. I understand he
was driven to it. He was stricken with
something. And I that the um but it's
hard for me to get to okay well there's
a genetic thing that set him up from a
gloma in the amydala of all places like
he he bad luck but because we assume
that people can intervene in their own
behavior. This gets down to kind of free
will type yes stuff that my colleague
Robert
>> Seapolski
>> you know he'll argue to the end of time
that there's no free will which is a
frustrating one for for many of us but
>> you know he's a hell of a smart guy. You
know, I think that the the issue
for many people is that genes are fairly
far upstream from behavior. You know, if
I said, "Okay, there's this guy down in
uh you know, Los Angeles, and you know,
he
>> I don't know, he he he got rabies from a
dog he was trying to save from the LA
River. And then 3 days later, you know,
he randomly committed this crime. He
killed somebody." You say, "Well, he had
rabies. He was raid." like we can make
the connection very easily, but that's a
you know a neural virus that hits the
amydala among other things and causes
people to get very aggressive. We'd go
okay you know
>> well you can imagine him without the
rabies. So there's there's you you can
you there's some distance between the
self that is the object of moral
judgment
>> and the cause that you're locating as
the salient cause for this behavior. And
if there's daylight between those, then
you can say, "Okay, well, I can imagine
what he was like before the rabies."
>> Genes make it harder to do that
>> because when we think of them as so
essential to the making of the self that
is the object of moral judgment,
>> who is the person that has different
genetics, right? We can't imagine
what Witwin would have been like if he
didn't have the tumor. We could imagine
what the guy would be like if he didn't
get with rabies. But who is the person
who has a different genotype? It's very
difficult to cast a different self. And
so it's very difficult to rescue that
self from our condemnation.
>> I'll say some uh something controversial
on the on the back of what you just
said, which is there may even be I'm
speculating here. You're the geneticist.
Uh I'm there may even be some
deeply hardwired unconscious notion
around genes that we know that genes can
be inherited that if somebody has a gene
which makes them a quote quote unquote
bad seed or predisposes them to a really
bad behavior and then they engage in it
and then they're in jail for the rest of
their life or they get shot by the
security guard. We hear the words good
riddance. M
>> good riddance implies good those genes
were now stopped
>> hope you know we don't know if they
reproduced before that so there's
something which makes the example you
gave before especially um eerie of the
uh IVF doc that was literally seeding
these these eggs with his own genes and
then somebody it's like
>> I mean that the implication is not that
that person was killing themselves but
whoever that physician was I mean not
somebody a it's terribly unethical
you know, at every level,
>> he's replicating
>> he's replicating his bad genes, right?
Whereas if somebody who is has a genetic
predisposition to be sociopathic or or
really destructive is um eliminated for
lack of a better word or taken out of
society. I mean sure I can you know
orient to the empathy around this person
who feels stricken but I think we are I
believe we are more hardwired to um to
think about
>> you know inheritance and propagation of
genes than maybe we are consciously
aware of. Yeah.
>> I mean, I growing up, I mean, my dad's
uh he's I wouldn't say he's like super
old school, but I remember growing up
like one of the messages I got was, you
know, if you're going to date someone,
meet the parents.
>> Like, you can learn a lot by meeting the
parents, which on the one hand is really
cool. It's like, oh, see how their
family is and how they interact. But it
has a genetic uh, you know, inheritance
implication like if they're kind people,
if you know, what are you look are you
look looking for pathology? No, you're
you might be, but you're mainly looking
for good features or what what's there?
No one talks about this openly these
days. I feel like it's a really hot
button issue. But if I asked you for
instance, you know, um if the guy in
prison
had four kids
before he went to prison, does that
worry you?
I feel like those kids statistically
would
need more like [clears throat] they you
know there a lot of this research didn't
pan out but as a metaphor I think it's
really still useful is the idea of like
dandelions and orchids that there are or
sunflowers and orchids like I do think
there are some children who by virtue of
their temperament brain development are
pretty resilient across a variety of
different environments and And I think
there are children who I mean back to
dogs just like there are dogs that like
you can you can be a lazy dog owner and
the dog will be still be fine or you can
have a dog where because of their size
and because of their temperament and
because of their breeding they need a
skilled and loving owner and I we can
think of that very clearly. So like my
dog I I caught him as a rescue and we
think he was being they were being bred
as fighting dogs in Texas and you know
you can be like well you you there's a
vicious attack dog. He's being bred as a
fighting dog and you found out he's had
a litter of puppies. Does that make you
feel appalled or like they're bad
puppies or you're like no they need
really good homes. We have to find
really good homes.
>> My friend Whitney Cummings would be on
her way. She's constantly adopting.
They're like rescuing pitbull after
pitbull. Like I think she subscribes to
the idea there I don't want to put words
in her mouth but they're like no bad
dogs just bad owners
>> and there many sweet sweet pitbulls that
come from fighting camps.
>> I mean in many ways I feel like as soon
as we get out of um how we relate to
each other as humans and we think about
this we can think about dog behavior
more objectively than we can about human
behavior. And we can think even if
personality and temperament is
heritable. And even if the parent did
terrible things, the offspring are still
not bad puppies. They're puppies that
that are higher needs puppies or they're
puppies that need a a more skillful
care. And that's how I also think about
this.
>> I don't know about hardwired to pay
attention to heritable traits. I do
think we are evolved to matter to each
other in a way that we call moral.
>> I think that we are a social species
that evolved to cooperate
and at every point in our evolutionary
history,
every cooperative system has some
mechanism of enforcement.
If you have bacteria, colonies of
bacteria, and one bacterium starts to
soak up too much of the iron or some
mineral in the in the environment that
they all need, the others will send out
signals to try to hurt that one. And
they're like, don't stop doing that.
Stop freeloading. Stop taking too much.
If we go all the way back to the
beginning of our, you know, our
evolutionary history, we have
cooperation and enforcement of failures.
to cooperate. And I think that
evolutionary history is a big part of
why we feel so intensely when someone
harms one another. So Seapolski can make
all his arguments that like we're not
supposed to feel moral outrage at
people. And for me, I'm like that's like
telling telling me that everyone should
be absent. Like it just I think that
that mattering to each other in the way
we call moral is as deeply baked into
the sauce of what it is to be human as
sexuality is.
And so of course we get caught in this
what philosophers call this rescue blame
trap which is they did a horrible thing.
We think of humans as having agency.
Of course they're to blame for it. They
deserve to be punished. Oh, but wait.
His genes, his brain, his trauma, his
childhood environment. He was also a
victim here. Maybe he needs to be
rescued from blame.
Oh, but but he did it. And like he was
so bad. And we I you know, we go back
and forth. We go back and forth about
ourselves, right? Like if you've ever
done something that you really regret,
you have probably done this where you're
like, "Here's all the reasons and I was
trying and these were my good
intentions, but oh, I can't believe, you
know, and how do we find our way through
the rescue blame trap?" And for me, it
was thinking about
bad luck
doesn't negate responsibility.
It might not have been my fault, but
it's still my responsibility. But
holding people accountable doesn't have
to mean harsh punishment. That there
accountability doesn't mean making
someone suffer. And keeping both of
those in the same mind is really what
made me feel like I could push through
this rescue blame trap.
>> I'm letting that sink in. Everything you
say uh resonates and I therefore I'm
updating my uh hypothesis. Um uh again
just a hypothesis that people have an
inherent desire to stop the progression
of the bad seed. I'm intentionally using
this language like we want like if that
person is
>> sure stuff happened to them but guess
what stuff happened to them because
their parents were bad head and guess
what they're bad cuz their parents were
bad and like those are
>> they're a bad seed at the extremes of
course. I'm just
>> I also think because based on your dog
example of adopting puppies from um you
know fighting parents uh that in that
example there is this notion that with
the appropriate amount of love and care
that we can rescue them but also we can
choose whether or not they have puppies.
>> Yeah. So I do think that there is this
idea that like if we see children in
really horrible circumstances
that I think it's a very human hardwired
thing that we can rescue the lineage.
>> Yeah. That we can rescue lineage. I mean
one thing that's always fascinated me
and and um encouraged me is I think yes
there's lots of uh you know
transgenerational trauma. Whether or not
it's purely through genes or through
experience is still debated but probably
both. Um
but that also in a single generation,
you know, that the child of a of severe
alcoholics who makes the choice not to
drink or to quit drinking
to then pair with somebody who can have
a healthy relationship to alcohol,
>> they're cycle breakers.
>> They're cycle breakers. So you can I
think we understand this without
understanding genetics. Like we don't
have to take a class and understand
mandelian genetics, you know, uh to
understand that in one generation
something can start or stop in a family
line.
>> Yeah.
>> And I think most people are wise to the
idea that family lines no longer exist
in small tribes. I mean, you see shows
like Succession, right? Where it's over
like, oh, let's talk about the
propagation of of sociopathicish
[laughter] narcissistic uh traits.
>> They were not trying to be cycle
breakers. No, they were trying to
maintain the cycle that had fed them in
their in their, you know, niche.
>> I mean, I think the other thing with
regards to cycle breakers is also people
people tend to think of genetics in
terms of how it makes you like your
parents. You know, you got your genes
from your parents. But the other thing
that I think is really important to keep
in mind is genes recombine, right? You
are not just like your dad or like your
mom. you are a random draw of all the
potential draws that you could have
gotten from their genotypes. And so even
within a family with the same parents,
you see tons of differences. I have
three kids and they are different
personalities, definitely different
risks for addiction and conduct disorder
problems across the three of them. And
so I think it's a mistake to think of
lineage as genes being an unbroken
lineage because our genes are getting
recombined in these novel ways with
every generation. The writer Andrew
Solomon says that we should never use
the word reproduce. Reproduce is a
something that lulls parents into
thinking that they're copying
themselves, but that every child is
produced. Every child is a new product
and it's unpredictable what that
product's going to be. Oh, that's
interesting. I never thought about that
word in that way.
>> Yeah.
>> Wild. Who said that?
>> Andrew Solomon. He wrote Far from the
Tree, which is about children who are
very different from their parents in
some way. So, deaf children of hearing
parents, um, Sants, whose parents were
like, we don't know where this chess or
music or math came from.
>> And then also interviewed Dylan
Klebold's mother. So, Dylan Klebold was
one of the Coline shooters. So, normal
suburban parents who ended up having a
child who was a school shooter. And he
talks about this idea of horizontal
versus vertical identities. So, you get
your vertical identity from your
parents, but then you're not you are not
your parents. You are not a reproduction
of them. They produced you and that
there's an identity that's separate from
that lineage.
>> Beautiful.
>> He's a great writer.
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>> If we step a little bit away from the
extremes of like severe psychopathology
and sociopathy and you know some people
are more um mercenary than others.
>> Mhm.
>> And our society in certain careers tends
to favor that. When I was coming up in
science, I don't know what it was like
in psychology, but there was this cohort
of scientists, neuroscientists in New
York. They were called the New York
neuroscience mafia. One of them, two of
them have Nobel prizes. I I'm friendly
with these guys. Um, but you'd go to
meetings and like they would hold court
in a way that was it was all about them.
It was all about their displays. They're
brilliant. They've they've done
brilliant work. Um, but for a lot of
people coming up, it was sort of a
pressure test. Like, do you think we
could make it in this field? Like, we're
going to have to either wait till these
guys die or, you know, somehow integrate
with this scene. Yeah.
>> And they would pick favorites and they
would decide who was who they'd go to
drinks with and who I mean it was it was
very hierarchal.
>> Every scientific field is like this.
>> Yeah. Okay. [laughter] Good. Okay. All
right. So, I'm both relieved and
dismayed that every field is like that.
And um very different than the West
Coast version of it because we are a
little softer on the West Coast, but on
the West Coast there was a more cryptic
version of it.
>> Yeah. Southerners are like that too.
It's not that they aren't mercenary,
it's that they hide it [laughter]
>> right under a under a blanket of
softness. Is the Midwest the only place
where people are truly decent?
>> Have you ever seen that thing where it's
like it divides the country into
quadrants and it's like axe mean is
mean? Like axe nice is mean. That's the
south and then I think it's the Pacific
Northwest is axe nice is nice. But I I
don't know about the Midwest. But
>> what was California?
>> I don't remember.
>> Oh, probably axe nice is mean. Is that
the sort [laughter] of
>> It could be could be. I mean, I mean,
here we're focusing on on the DAR and
there's good people in every field, but
but I remember thinking, you know, like
going to a meeting meant you had you had
to you couldn't get
>> you couldn't let your guard down.
>> Yes.
>> And and I now know cuz I'm, you know,
kind of adjacent to it now because I'm
not I don't depend on them for grant
reviews or I don't need anything from
those guys anymore. I remember the
moment where um they sort of invited me
in was based where one kind of took a
little jab at me and I jabbed right back
but I hit him harder. Why would it be
that like you'd get invited into a group
with special um resources by virtue of
being kind of a jerk?
>> Yeah.
>> Like I'm going to be a jerk to you and
if you can be a jerk back like we can be
jerks together.
>> Yeah. It's a status dominant. I mean it
sucks. It's a status dominance. move.
It's saying,
>> um, I I'm signaling to you that I'm
confident enough in whatever this is
that I don't need to cower or submit.
>> And then someone's like, oh, I maybe I
don't want to be in a status dominance
aggression competition with him because
he might win. So now we're going to
>> I have a theory that a lot of scientific
fields and men in scientific fields are
a little bit like mice in that mice have
very rigid social hierarchies. Mhm.
>> that they
establish through aggression. And once
everyone's figured out like who can bite
whom without getting bitten back, then
they can settle into their nice
hierarchy. And you bit back. So you were
like, "No, I'm higher in the hierarchy
than you."
>> A bit back of guys. Like I never was the
aggressor. But like if if you don't bite
back
>> Yeah. You know, you when somebody
kind of with more power than you pokes
on you, you uh you
>> But you were saying I'm not acting like
you have more power than me. I'm acting
like I can poke back, right?
>> But it doesn't feel good, right? We
would all like to believe that we can
ascend in our fields, settle into our
place without having to like
>> throw that. Yeah. I mean, you know, cuz
anyway,
>> so I think one thing that you the story
gets at too is, you know, we talk about
impulsivity and desire for intensity and
I disagree, like I don't actually care
who's who I'm hurting in this as
unambiguously bad things.
But a little bit of those is actually
can be very adaptive in some
circumstances. Like you don't want your
surgeon to be like, "Oh, am I hurting
them by cutting them open?" Like you
want someone who's a little bit callous
to your physical pain because they're
focusing on you as a body and doing
this.
>> If you look at um studies of who is a
successful entrepreneur by the age of
30, they are white men. So, social
social advantage, high IQ as measured by
a standardized test, history of a little
bit of adolescent delinquency, right?
And and that makes sense if you're
thinking about adolescent delinquency
was a manifestation of risk tolerance,
of sensation seeking, and who are the
people who are not going to be real
great at having a boss, but able to
tolerate the risk of starting a
business, right? Like academia is full
of full of people like that that are
like
>> um I want to think about what I want to
think about and I don't want anyone
telling me what to do and I don't really
care if other people think this is
useful and I'm really I'm willing to be
really competitive to get resources
>> and I'll use taxpayer dollars thank you
to do it [laughter] with.
>> Exactly. So I have this thought
experiment in my book where I I I think
again thought experiment I'm not
recommending this where I think what if
we
did have the means to
um select every every baby that was born
every every reproducing couple is going
to do IVF. They're going to create as
many embryos as they can and we're going
to select the ones that have the lowest
antisocial behavior substance use
strains. And we have a generation that
is the most puritanical,
risk intolerant, nonsensation seeking,
controlled, not disinhibited, you know,
very inhibited. Is that a good thing?
Like is that a world that we would want
>> you don't want my opinion
>> to live in? I do. I would I could I I
would love to hear your opinion of this.
I mean, I
>> mean, I don't want sociopathy. I mean,
the really dark examples are so salient.
We I have to be careful not to end up
there, but I watched that um
uh I didn't watch the Dalmer thing on
Netflix. I would pay money to not see
that. I don't want to see.
>> No, I don't have the time.
>> I did. I did uh watch the um the Richard
Ramirez Nightstalker story um a few
years before that was on Netflix and it
was done exceedingly well at the level
of it it scares the out of you. And
um he was a true so like he was a true
sociopath by all measures, you know. Um,
but then when you hear the history of
his childhood,
>> you know, just horrible treatment of
being I think if I think I have this
right, like being um tied to a
gravestone in a cemetery overnight as a
young kid, like three three or five just
left there like his father did. I mean,
just horrible things. But again, it
doesn't change what I see is the guy
with the pentagram written on his hand
in the court like the the mental
imagery, right? So, taking away guys
like that, uh, people like that, I think
you go, okay, yeah, I mean, he was a
sadistic killer at every level,
>> but then a bunch of, um,
just pure passivity everywhere. I I
don't know. I mean, I guess it depends
on how how far it goes because in the
earlier example when we were talking
about this academic interaction, I uh my
friend Joo Willink, former Navy Seal,
he's very active in and now we're
talking about kids uh health and
education and uh his um
>> he's doing a lot there and uh he
reposted something recently that I had a
good chuckle at. It was certainly true
for me, which was that it it said uh 90%
of being a dude is making fun of your
friends to their face and and cheering
them on behind their backs.
>> Oh,
>> and I think every guy that had a lot of
guy friendss or has a lot of guy friends
growing up or even just a couple good
ones
>> knows that that's true. And the inverse
of that are the people you're trying to
select out.
>> Yeah.
>> Right. You don't want somebody who's
nice to your face and behind your back
is trying to backstab, right? or be kind
and then backstab. But yeah, a lot of
being a dude is like making fun of each
other but then rooting each other on at
the same time. That's kind of how we
grow up.
>> So I wouldn't want a society where
people wouldn't make fun of me and I
couldn't make fun of them.
>> Um
>> but it the encouragement part is also
really important.
>> Yeah. Yeah.
>> And I don't know what it is for girls. I
I mean I have a sister and
I mean she's a very very very kind
person. Um, and I was always shocked the
way that um, girls treated one another.
So, they can be really mean.
>> Girls can be really mean.
>> Yeah. Yeah. I mean, relational
aggression, there's there's literature
on this. You know, when we talk about
aggression, we so often think in terms
of physical aggression. You know, I'm
I'm I'm punching you. I'm stabbing you.
I'm hurting you. You know, relational
aggression where you're destroying
someone's reputation or social standing
or making them feel isolated is just as
painful as physical aggression if not
more so. I mean, there's few things that
humans are more attuned to than that
feeling of, oh, am I being pushed out of
the group, right? Because that means
like ancestrally that means death. And
so what we see research is that the same
genes that predict physical aggression
in boys predict relational aggression in
girls. And relational aggression can be
every bit as damaging, but I think also
kind of bewildering to the adults around
it. Like it's more covert, right? And
it's hard to to see it. I was shocked at
how early that started.
>> I thought it was going to be something I
dealt with with my daughter when she got
to be a teenager.
[clears throat] Four years old.
Ellerie said this and you know, Lily
isn't my friend anymore. And I met with
her preschool teacher and I was like,
"What is going on?" And she was like,
"This is what four-year-old girls do.
They make relationship conflict and then
they repair relationship conflict and
they do it all the time, every day. And
that is why they are so much less
bewildered by repairing relationship
conflict than your average teenage boy
is by the time they reach adolescence."
And I was just completely thrown and
fascinated by this experience.
>> Yeah. boys sorted out in such primitive
ways. I mean, I can remember Dirtclaw
Wars where somebody broke the
fundamental rule, which is you can't
throw rocks. They threw a rock, then
someone gets upset, then they get into a
a scrap, and then
>> sometimes somebody went home
>> and then the longest it lasted in terms
of a fracture in the group or the
relationship was like a day maximum and
then we'd just kind of forget about it.
>> Yeah.
>> Yeah. and it was kind of understood that
someone was going to push the
boundaries.
>> I am not completely confident that I'm
remembering the study correctly. So, if
you're on, you know, if your listeners
are like, "No, Paige, you got this
wrong." But I remember hearing about a
study that was about marital conflict
where they had um married partners keep
diaries of their interactions and then
also I think maybe like spit into a tube
every morning and evening. And they
looked at how long did men's cortisol
remain elevated after an argument
compared to the wives cortisol. I was
basically like they had the fight, his
spiked up and then it went down like
classic trier curve of and hers was
elevated for like 24 hours afterwards
and they're if you think about what that
means for their psychological sense of
what's happening in their relationship,
she's like, I'm still amped about this
and he's like what are you talking
about? Like we had that fight and then
my cortisol like we're over it, right?
So, I do think there's some interesting
sex differences in the relationship
between our physiological arousal and
our conflict styles and just the
timeline that that plays out.
>> Fascinating. Um, yeah, so many uh ideas
and [laughter]
>> you're thinking of all the examples.
>> Well, I'm thinking of some examples and
um yeah, and and of course what the uh
what the evolutionary benefit is of
those different cycles. I mean there's
certain interactions you don't want to
forget. It can be damaging to self
>> to forget fights.
>> Yeah.
>> So quickly.
>> Yeah.
>> I mean I I can say I' I've had
interactions where at the moment it felt
so like vital and then a day later it's
like I'm like how is it that I'm like
this might not be good that I'm not
still thinking about this
>> but life is carrying on. You know the
conveyor belt's still moving. So,
>> um I think it's only fair that I ask
about, you know, we talked about
pathology as expressed in boys and it
always seems to come out as aggressive
violence um etc. Um in girls, you're
saying that it the social dynamics um
can be benevolent, right? Because you
did say conflict and repair that sounds
healthy.
>> Yeah. But in terms of genes that
predispose for addiction, um, do those
show up differently in girls? Is it, you
know, I think the assumption that some
people have is like, oh, it's always
going to be promiscuity. But what
nowadays, especially because of access
to prescription drugs, I I was told this
by a former guest, Heath Humphre. You
know, if you look at addiction, men and
women, it it tended to lean more towards
men than women until you get to
prescription drugs because there's
something, I don't know, less
seedy.
>> The social opportunity is different.
>> Yeah.
>> Yeah. I mean, what we see in the twin
studies and the adoption studies and
then also in the newer studies where
we're looking directly at people's DNA
is that the manifestations of at least
the genes we've discovered so far are
remarkably consistent between men and
women. So if you have, you know, a a
genetic liability towards
disinhibition, problems with
self-regulation,
that can manifest as alcohol use, that
can manifest as aggression and
antisocial behavior, but there aren't
really strongly sex-typed manifestations
where it always looks like this in women
and always looks like this in men. You
know, we haven't discovered all the
genes um and we haven't looked at the
sex chromosomes yet. So there might be
something different, but um the theory
so far that seems to have the best
evidence is that the underlying ideology
is remarkably consistent across men and
women. And it's the just really the mean
that differs between men and women. So
you just get higher rates of all of
these behaviors and men, but the
underlying disposition is really similar
across the sexes. So if we were to say
sensation seeking, novelty seeking,
equally distributed. Yeah.
>> But men act out more.
>> Yeah. So what you see is that men show
slightly higher sensation seeking, but
the genes that predispose a man towards
sensation seeking seem to be similar in
women. Um a if a woman has a fraternal
twin who's a boy, his sensation seeking
will predict hers just as well as if she
had a twin sister. So similar genes just
a mean shift. What you see is that
actually in adolescence boys and girls
have very similar trajectories of
sensation seeking. Where they differ is
in the evolution of their inhibitory
control. So girls mature in terms of
their impulse control faster than boys
do. We did a study a maybe 10 years ago
now. It was basically it took until men
around the age of 24 until around the
age of 24 to be as controlled as your
average 15year-old girl was. There's
like a decade long gap in the the
maturation of impulse control. You're
nodding and I used to be a 15-year-old
boy.
>> I mean I Yeah, that tracks. I think the
point is that um men develop more
slowly.
>> Yeah.
>> But presumably they catch up but then
they die earlier. So
>> well they go through puberty later and
they have a more extended
you know increase up to having adult
levels of reproductive hormones. I mean
men's testosterone is increasing
puberty is over but their testosterone
is still going up through their teen
years and into their 20s. um and they
die earlier but they they women have
that long you know they're they're alive
but they're not healthy for you know on
average at the end of their life like
their health the difference in health
span is less different than lifespan as
you know so there's um there's something
interesting about the ways in which men
seem to be
slower developing in uterus they're
they're getting to reproductive maturity
later and they're getting to adult
levels of personality
We need more patience. Women are all
thinking, "We've given you enough
patience." You know, uh we require more
patience. That's that's the right
phrasing. Let's talk about punishment.
>> Yeah.
>> Uh but maybe also talk about rewarding
good behavior.
>> Um a while back, I think it was Zimardo
at Stanford was talking about, you know,
that we're everyday heroes, you know, or
that we were supposed to start orienting
towards, you know, rewarding the
everyday heroes of life. This was kind
of a thing in the two early 2000s as I
recall. And there's the positive
psychology notion. And I feel like
psychology is kind of split into dark
and light. The people who like to look
at the dark stuff versus the light. And
we call it morality, but I'm an
outsider. I don't know. But um
>> we spend a lot of time thinking about
whether and how we should punish people.
>> And of course at the extremes it's
obvious, right? The the the legal to the
legal system it's obvious, but the
middle ground is the interesting ground.
penalty boxing people. Um maybe not even
with social isolation, but you know who
we reward and place into positions of
leadership. I mean this is very salient
right now. Um and it comes with a lot of
assigning of labels about
psychopathology from people that may or
may not be qualified to assign those
labels, right? Yeah.
>> Um,
>> how do you think about the genetic and
evolutionary but also the societal
labels of punishment and forgiveness?
>> Yeah. H such a good question. So, first
of all, let's just define punishment
because that actually can mean different
things to different people. So as a you
know a psychologist I think about
punishment is um applying an aversive
stimulus in an attempt to reduce the
frequency of a behavior. Right? So it's
the rat is in its skinner box and every
time it goes into this area you give it
a shock and that's a punishment to make
it not go into this area of the box. If
you have a child, punishment is you're
gonna be in timeout or I'm gonna spank
you. I'm gonna give you some sort of
thing that I know you're not going to
like um in order to try to reduce the
frequency of this behavior.
From psychology, we know from decades of
evidence that punishing bad behavior
doesn't work nearly as well for shaping
behavior as rewarding the behavior that
you want. Right? So, if you reward a rat
for pressing a lever, it'll do that all
day long. If you give a rat alcohol
every time it presses a bar
and then you stop mid experiment and you
start shocking it, some rats will stop
pressing the bar and other rats will
actually increase their rate of
behavior. They will be like, "Maybe this
time. Maybe this time it'll be." It's
the same thing with kids, right? We know
from,
you know, all of our research on
corporal punishment that children who
are spanked
do not behave better than children who
aren't spanked. And if anything, they
behave worse. So, you've had Dr. Becky
Kennedy on here. you know, she has been,
I think, so influential in that you need
to have consequences, but attempting to
to um help your child behave better
through harshness is is on average going
to be a losing strategy. And then I
think you said, you know, it does, you
know, maybe uh at the extremes with the
criminal justice system, but we also see
that in the criminal justice system that
um increasing the harshness of criminal
penalties doesn't predict a decline in
crime. The thing that seems to predict
it is the likelihood of getting caught
and having other potential opportunities
to get the rewards that you want in your
social structure. But just increasing
penalties for crime doesn't on average
reduce crime. Um so I you know whether
we're talking about rats or children or
prisoners
adding more harshness is not we know the
the most effective way to get the
behaviors that we want. This is also
true back going back to dogs, right?
Like what is the best dog training
method? It's never harshly punishing
them or applying pain for behavior you
don't want, right? It's firmness,
boundaries, but rewarding the behavior
that you do want in also in the context
of building, you know, trust in a
relationship with your dog. So, I feel
like [snorts] no luck doesn't obiate
responsibility. Like, we are still
responsible for the people that we are,
even though we're shaped by factors that
are in control. But in terms of holding
people responsible,
punishing them harshly
doesn't bring about what we really want
other than just satisfying that
retributive itch. Um it's giving them
opportunities in the reward structure to
be rewarded by the things we do want
that we we know is the most effective
strategy. um all in all. So
I think the slide that people make is if
someone's responsible, if someone had
agency, then they deserve to be
punished. And what I'm trying to to
separate is those two things. Can
someone be responsible? They had agency.
We want to hold them accountable,
but how do we do that without
immediately jumping to and so therefore
they deserve to suffer and so therefore
they deserve to hurt. And there's no
like one-size magic bullet to making
that happen, right? like that, you know,
that's how do we relate to each other as
people? But as a mother,
my strategy with my own kids has been
really heavily influenced by thinking
about like punishment is not the most
effective way. That doesn't mean we live
in a no like there's no rules, anything
goes household, right? Like we have
consequences, we have accountability, we
have boundaries, but there's always
space to say
reflect on what you did. reflect on what
needs to be different for your behavior
to be different in the future and how
can we create an environment that helps
you grow, helps you helps that happen.
I'm pretty anti-punishment. I'm pro
responsibility and pretty
anti-punishment as a way of holding each
other responsible.
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years, there's been a a real shift, it
seems, um, in how we hold people
accountable for their behavior in teen
years. And I think it's with all the
cameras and everything. There have been
a few examples, for instance, of text
message threads were unearthed of people
who are now in their 20s and 30s from
their teen years. You know, I think in
one instance it was a group of friends
and people were making um uh racist
comments and then I think the ultimate
decision was okay if this person
apologized their whole life shouldn't be
ruined on the basis of a comment made
you know earlier uh you know five six
years earlier in a different context etc
etc and I think that's how it moved
forward but there were people calling
for like hey this person is a racist
they should
um forbidden from having a government
job.
>> And I think it it played out pretty
quickly, but um
nowadays with social media, everyone can
chime in. So, we're not really talking
about courtroom decision. We're talking
about court of public opinion.
>> Yeah. [clears throat]
>> A different example perhaps that I'd
like your thoughts on is um like Kanye
had a year or two ago made a bunch of
really anti-semitic remarks, was wearing
SWAT ticket t-shirt and then recently
published an apology.
>> He said he was sorry he wasn't in, you
know, in the right state of mind, etc.
He's talked about some mental health
challenges and things of that sort. And
he seems to be largely forgiven. Um, at
least that seems to be the the
sentiment. Now, of course, he also
brings something that a lot of people
want, which is music that people uh love
to hear. So there's always this kind of
value ad, value subtraction thing when
we punish people versus the anonymous
person, right? Um what are they're not
doing anything for people, so they're
more quick to just say, "Well, just
punish them, lock them away." It's
fascinating because we you even though
these are public facing examples, we use
these as a template for how to deal
with, you know, someone who, you know,
got too drunk at the dorm party on
Friday and said something really stupid
and got a bunch of offended people. Do
you kick them out of school maybe or
her? Or do you sit them down and go,
"Hey, that was really insensitive and
they have to do a bunch of sensitivity
training and you know, and then you go,
okay, like they're healed." you know, I
mean,
>> yeah,
>> I don't have any answers to this, but
this is how it seems to play out in the
real world. It's sort of like very
salient examples, not at the super
extremes. I mean, racism is bad, but he
didn't kill anyone. So then the
punishment is either do we keep him or
do we isolate him? And then what happens
does set the course of what happens at
at um more everyday levels. So I think
what you're pointing to is America is an
incredibly punitive retributive culture.
There is a reward that we can see in the
brains of people when they see someone
suffer if that person is first portrayed
as a wrongdoer.
>> So ordinarily if you see someone be
shocked you have interior insula. It's
like you're being shocked too. Unless
that person is first portrayed as
violating some moral or social norm, in
which case dopamine, you get a reward
out of seeing that person punished. I
think that it is a lust just as much as
lust for substances or lust for sexual
partners. It is a desire people want to
see people punished. Nze was an amazing
observer of human nature before there
was a scientific psychology.
And he wrote about how what why do we
use
um monetary terms to describe people
being punished, pay their debt to
society.
>> People shouldn't get off scot-free.
Scott is a word for tax. Um what is
that? And what he theorized is that what
you're being paid back with is the
pleasure of seeing a fellow human hurt.
You hurt someone and we can't undo that
hurt. We can't magic it away. How does
them being punished pay their debt to
society? And he wrote, "Maybe it's that
cruelty is a currency and that all of us
have a primitive desire to be the
punisher and that's what's being
repaid."
blew my mind when I was reading it. And
now that I see it, I see that
everywhere. I think we see that in
cancel culture mobs. I think we see that
in politics. I think we see um in
America a real lust to make other people
suffer and finding ways that they're
guilty that allows us to feel entitled
to that pleasure of punishing them or
entitled to that pleasure of witnessing
them being punished is absolutely runs
through our culture top to bottom both
sides of the political spectrum.
One of my favorite books that I read
when I was when I was writing my book is
this book called um One of Us. And it's
about the Norwegian
mass shooter who shot all of those
children at a a summer camp who was
someone who was afflicted with terrible
luck. From the time he was a child, he
was described as someone who um
had a temper, who was socially odd. His
mother was very unstable. A lot of
nature and nurture and circumstance
conspired. And during his trial, they
[snorts] had this whole debate about is
he insane, is he not insane?
And they had a psychologist who gave
testimony and he said, "No matter what's
happening, he's one of us. He's part of
our society. So, how are we going to
deal with him without
exiling him, throwing away the key?" And
all of the examples that you described
are people trying to make this decision
about like who do we keep in our group?
Do they have enough for us that it's
worth keeping them and who do we get to
exile and then feel entitled to feel the
pleasure of watching them suffer? And I
think that's a fundamentally un inhuman
way to look at our I think that we are a
society and that means everyone even
people who do terrible terrible things
they're still one of us. They're still
they're still one of God's creatures.
They're still part of part of our human
circle. Um, but how do we shift our
culture away from this glee at
punishment? I don't know. I I think it's
I think it's if you want to talk about
sin, I think I think that's the original
sin of American culture is our delight
and punitiveness.
>> Incredible. um incredibly sad,
um incredibly important and
an incredible opportunity for us
hopefully to navigate out of what seems
to be one of the deeper troughs of this
that we've been in, at least since I've
been alive.
>> Mhm.
>> I want to just ask about this cruelty
currency
>> cuz I um
>> I learned a long time ago that one needs
to be very careful about coming up with
evolutionary just so stories. It's so
easy to do. It's so seductive and it can
be oh so wrong. So I I with that um
stated,
you know, you said that if somebody
observes somebody else being harmed, it
activates areas of the brain that are
associated with empathy and presumably a
surge of of uh hormones and
neurotransmitters that make us feel bad.
>> Mhm. if that person was a perpetrator
and we're aware of that, then it feels
good. It's it's not just neutral. It's
the it's the in it's the inverse of
that. And then you said that Nichi
described it as a cruelty currency. And
I've been wondering about something and
forgive me. I I don't know if I can
articulate this very well because I
haven't thought about it out loud.
>> Just think through it. If we return to
the idea that every species, including
our own, wants to make more of itself,
care for its young, and propagate, that
there's a there are some forces there.
Clearly, I've often thought about
dopamine as the universal currency of
reward. And certainly, there are other
chemical currencies of punishment and
maybe drops in dopamine are punishment
and increases and etc. Overly
simplified, but I think we have enough
data to support those statements. And
then I think about how we punish people.
>> And let's think about um on a on a
hockey rink, you put someone in a
penalty box, you take them out of play.
>> Yeah.
>> Um in society, somebody could be
cancelled either permanently or they're
they got to like take a break. Yeah.
>> Or somebody's put in jail. They're taken
out of society.
>> Yeah. Several examples came up already
today of people who um were able to
propagate their genes or not propagate
their genes um depending on honest like
finding a partner making the decision
about you know consciously or
unconsciously the genetics their
personality etc and okay I'm going to
create children with this person I'm
going to create new life
versus the IVF doc who cheated in one of
the most egregious examples I've ever
heard um creating new life and I think
Maybe the currency
that is dopamine is about energy and the
opportunity to create more life. It's
like life energy. It gets a little bit
woo.
>> But when I think about it, it's like if
somebody gets something by virtue of
their hard work, we expect and want them
to be rewarded for it. If they lie to
get it, you know, like a Bernie Maidolf
who admitted to lying, so I don't think
I'm gonna get in any trouble by saying I
think he agreed he that he lied to get
all that money,
>> then he he robbed people of currency. He
got a lot of currency and that and we
hate that. He got more life energy. And
when we're punished, we lose even if
there's not an explicit behavioral
punishment
>> that hopefully the shame, the regret, it
takes us out of the running a bit.
>> Yeah. You know, and people will play
these games. They'll try and manipulate
around this, but a lot of life is about
doing things that give you more
opportunity, that give you more life
energy, that allow you to move forward.
And a lot of the ways that we punish
people is by trying to take away life
energy, forgive the term, uh that we
feel you didn't deserve that. Yes.
>> Or you did something so that you
shouldn't be able to continue to
propagate your life energy. And so it
gets in, I'm weaving it partially in
with reproduction.
But it's really about resources for your
family so that your kids can have more.
But I do think that in the end what
we're competing for is energy. And what
we're punishing for is um people that we
think got it unfairly. Yes.
>> And we definitely reward people that we
that we feel gave us energy through a
song, through art, etc. with money,
which is really opportunity. There's
nothing inherently valuable about it.
Even gold backing it doesn't do that.
So, you know, I So, I feel like in the
end, we're playing an evolutionary game
for energy and the opportunity to
propagate our genes.
>> Okay. So, just some responses to that,
like as you were talking, I was reminded
of certain things. Um, if you look at
punishment,
um, I I won't even say punishment. If
you look at enforcement, if you look at
enforcement of cooperative norms in
non-human species, even in not even in
animals, a really consistent feature of
that is reducing the the the in the
punished organisms fitness
opportunities. I'm going to block your
access to mates. I'm going to eat your
eggs so that you know I'm going to um uh
wasps reproduce via figs and if the fig
tree detects that the wasp is being a
lazy pollinator, it will
rot and wither away the figs that the
wasp has laid its eggs in. it's it's
denying it reproductive opportunity as a
as a you know it's a it's a retaliation
against fitness. So I think what you're
picking up on is like you know the ways
that we punish people
um rob them of fitness opportunities
that's something that we see as an
evolutionary through line. If we think
about when we're trying to understand
animal societies, what counts as a
punishing behavior? Is it is it is it
reducing their fitness opportunities of
the of the punished thing? But the thing
about our language is the same like
penalty box.
You know, a hockey player is put into a
penalty box. They don't get beaten with
a red hot poker when they're in there.
They're just not allowed to play the
game for a period of time. And I think
this is where people get somewhat
confused between retributive punishment
and um boundaries to keep the person and
their teammates, which is all of us
since we're in a society, safe, right?
So, I'm not against people being in
prison necessarily. Um, the prison
abolitionists will be mad at me for
saying that, but we've never had a
society of any sort where there isn't
some mechanism to say we need to be
protected from this person and this
person needs an opportunity to have a
timeout from society while they reflect
on how they're going to behave
differently in the future. But we don't
have to design that system the way that
we designed it here. Right? There's this
Instagram meme which is um, is this a
Scandinavian prison or a London hotel
room?
>> [laughter]
>> and people can't tell the difference.
It's just a surveillance dome on the
ceiling. And that speaks to something,
which is that the purpose is not to make
the person suffer. The purpose is to put
them in the penalty box to protect the
rest of us from their behavior. Um,
how do we get it so that our reactions
to each other when we're holding
boundaries is more like you're in the
penalty box and less like I want to make
you suffer and I'm going to feel
delighted that you're suffering. The
Danes are wonderful people um and do
seem to have this like sense of morality
and decency
>> and social contract
>> and social contract.
>> Although in fairness, I think there's
been some criticism that some Northern
European countries have been too lenient
on violent offenders and it's made
society more dangerous. This is a very
complicated literature and it's, you
know, I'm not saying that it's just
their prison system, but they their
rates of violent crime are astonishingly
low compared to America as a whole in
particular as compared to Texas.
>> Yeah. I think that these templates for
punishment versus reward because we
haven't really talked much about reward.
>> Yeah.
>> Um realizing, you know, that the
punishment piece can be scaled. Penalty
box versus
>> Yeah.
>> flogging. I uh forgive me for telling
yet another story. I've been reading a a
history of the counterculture movement
in in mostly in California recently, but
also the the human evol the human
psychology evolution movement and and it
takes us to big su inevitably. Um
>> and some interesting Joseph Campbell was
there and and worked there and wrote
there. But Hunter Thompson
>> was a security guard up there at uh
>> a security guard. Yeah. He at 20 years
old, he was hired as a security guard
cuz he had a gun and he could keep order
on uh this place where people would come
to use the baths and it was it wasn't
quite counterculture yet. But there's a
story and I believe it's true that um uh
he was making some homophobic remarks
and there were some gay bodybuilders up
from Venice, California. So the group
decided what his punishment would be.
His punishment would be that these
bodybuilders were going to hold him over
the cliffs above the ocean, which is
maybe 3 400 feet to his drop until he
renounced homophobia,
>> which eventually he did
>> and then they let him back on and then
he was able to live on and work and like
they're like, "Okay, he's cured." You
know?
>> So, I mean, it's a ridiculous example.
On the other hand, everyone participated
in this decision
>> and apparently he was very frightened
and I don't know, I didn't know him, but
apparently he adjusted at least his
behavior.
>> Yeah.
>> Kind of an interesting, silly.
>> Yeah.
>> You know, funny enough, but serious
enough example. Nowadays, it would have
be very different, right? He would have
lost his job and no amount of apology
would have rescued his job. Which on the
one hand, you could say, okay, well,
he's homophobic. They didn't want anyone
homophobic working there. on the other
hand, the opportunity to potentially
convert his thinking is lost. And so I
think that's what you're talking about
that there are certain forms of
punishment that give the opportunity not
just to protect others but to um to
really help people evolve their moral
concept.
>> Yes. I think sometimes people talk about
this as the difference between a
backward-looking conception of justice
versus a forwardlooking conception of
justice. So, a backward-looking
consumption of justice, you're you are
often caught in this again this rescue
blame trap, which is
um does he deserve to p be punished? Oh,
maybe he doesn't deserve to be punished
that badly because of these extinuating
circumstances. Oh, but he did this
horrible thing. He made these homophobic
um comments. Whereas a forward-looking
conception of justice is given that we
are are where we are today and given the
harm that he has caused and given the
brain and the body that he has, how do
we best maximize our chances of other
people being protracted from future harm
and him changing him having if even if
he doesn't change in his heart of
hearts, changing the words that come out
of his mouth, taking responsibility for
what he says. The rule in my house with
my kids is you're not allowed to tell me
about what your brother did.
Your brother will tell me about what
your brother did and you'll tell me
about what you did and then we're going
to talk about what you want to happen in
the future and then we're going to talk
about what everyone needs to do so that
we can not have this argument. But this
constant like attempt to figure out like
how much does he deserve to hurt, I feel
like is a it's it's an abyss, you know?
You just drown in it. And you drown in
it with yourself, too. Like if you've
made comments that you regret yourself,
like how much do I deserve to be
punished for that versus but I can
remember all the extenduating
circumstances. No, it's what do I need
to do better in the future and what do
other people need to know that they are
safe around me now which might be you
know might be a penalty box but you know
thinking about punishment not as again
this is it's not about some you know
justice for attempt to weigh the scales
in the past it's about how do we make
things better in the future how do we
keep people safe and repair things in
the future
>> before moving to reward One thing that
occurs to me is people seem to integrate
what people deserve now on the backdrop
of all the they had to put up with
in the past. Yeah. Not just from that
person. I feel like we are we're all
integrating on the backdrop of how we
were treated.
>> Um how much pain and frustration we've
had to endure. And that weaves in with
how much forgiveness we have for when
people screw up or when they're like
being just jerks or they're being
outright awful. So I feel like it's an
almost impossible problem to wrap our
arms around
except at the very extremes. So I think
when people feel that they've been
victimized
accurately or inaccurately
that amps up that retributive urge and
again I'm not saying that you know this
is just some people I I think this is
part of being human that when we feel
hurt we want to hurt back and we want
the person to hurt that hurt us to be
hurt and we're trying to keep some
ledger of power and and victim hood um
in our minds. I think that's to some
extent an inescapable emotion of being
human,
but we don't just have to respond of our
emotions. We don't have to let that
lead, right? We don't have to let that
run the show. So, I do think that you're
right that in all situations, we're
thinking about the situation and also
the backdrop of the situation and
thinking very much about power. I mean
going back to what we can learn about
punishment from looking at non-human
animals or not even not animals even
trees even bacteria is who is punished
and who is the punisher is always a
statement about the social roles within
a group and those social roles are
structured by power. Um, I talk in my
book about how you can have alpha queen
wasps and they eat some proportion of
the eggs of the beta queens in their in
their colony. But if she eats too many
of the eggs, her sisters will bite her.
They will be like, "Okay, you're allowed
this much power, but no more, and we're
going to enforce those limits." So, I
think a lot of the debates that we're
having about um uh punishment in our
society, who should be punished, are
really debates about who gets to have
power and to what degree
>> in our society.
>> What's interesting to me is how much the
language of choice is leveraged or used
in those debates. people so commonly
once you listen for it it's it's really
really common that as soon as someone
wants to justify punishment they don't
say um I'm justifying this to prevent
harm or I'm justifying this to maintain
or change a power structure they say
something about how the person being
punished chose that they they chose to
be there or they chose this this thing I
think a lot of our
um focus on choice in American culture
is really an interest in being entitled
to to punish people. If you're on a
plane and they're like um they're trying
to get people to check their bags,
they'll never say that the the airline
chose to overbook the plane. They'll say
if you've chosen to bring more than one
bag with you, then you're going to need
to check it, right? Which is like you
you chose, so therefore you can be
inconvenienced. You'll hear it
everywhere. Now,
>> I'm gonna listen for this. Okay. Reward.
[laughter]
Um, the good stuff. When I was a kid,
we'd go to dinner and we didn't go out
to dinner very often. We It just wasn't
our family. But, um, when we did, we
could get soda. We couldn't have it at
home.
>> Yeah.
>> And I would drink some soda. Then my
sister would make sure that she drank a
little less soda so that at any point in
the meal, she had more soda than me,
even though we started off with more
soda.
>> Classic sibling thing.
>> Okay. So, she's a wonderful person. I
adore my sister. And yet, she had to win
that competition.
>> Yeah.
>> And so,
>> that's some primal stuff there.
>> That's some primal stuff. I don't know
if it's the hypothalammus, but it's
[laughter] it's it's definitely um
>> Do my parents love me more?
>> Exactly. And I And if you feed two dogs
at once, you know, because I had a
bulldog mastiff. My girlfriend at the
time had a had a pitbull. And whoever
got food first and I swear they're
paying attention to the size of the
little but I mean I mean they are
processing that at laser speed. Um
what's going on? We we pay attention to
how much people are rewarded.
>> Yes.
>> And we get something about rewards that
go beyond just the reward. I mean again
we are a species that's evolved in
cooperation and there's really nothing
worse for a cooperative society than
freeloading someone being rewarded
without putting effort into the
collective. There's this great study
that was run by these economists
where people were put into these online
basically like online, you know, kind of
societies where they could interact with
one another and you could pick which
societ which village did you want to
join and you could switch villages at
any time.
And in both villages, everyone who was
in that society, society, online
society, online game was given an
allocation of digital money and they had
to decide how much are they going to
donate from their personal wallet into
the collective. And so there's a that's
a classic economic trade-off game, which
is what's best for my self-interest is
if I don't contribute anything and
everyone else contributes the maximum.
and then I get to benefit from the
common good. Right? That's the
freeloading problem. But if everyone
does that, then there's nothing in the
common good. Okay? So, in one of these
societies, people were given, this is
back to reward and punishment, people
were given the ability to see how much
other people donated
and could pay to punish people who they
didn't think had donated enough. So,
we're we're in a society and if we're in
the the punishing society, then I can
see that you got rewarded with this and
then you didn't contribute enough of it
back to the collective good and then I
could pay my own money to take away some
of yours. And in the other society,
people got to make their decisions, but
they were anonymous and you couldn't
respond to other people's decisions. The
rules are transparent. It's not
mysterious what's happening.
And at the beginning of the experiment,
participants are allowed to pick like
which village do I want to be in? And
they think, I'm I'm against punishment
and I don't want other people to know my
business. So, I'm going to go to the
nonpunishing society.
And then it basically collapses in like
three rounds because everyone's keeping
their stuff to themselves and not
contributing to the good. A few people
pick the the society where they have the
opportunity to punish from the very
beginning
and they immediately establish a strong
norm of you. If you get a lot, you give
a lot. There's not going to be some
asymmetry between how much you're
taking, how much you're keeping for
yourself, and how much you're
contributing to our collective society.
By the end of the game, the
non-punishing society has collapsed and
everyone has migrated to the punishing
society. And they [clears throat] are
incredibly attuned to freeloading.
>> So your sister is like, he's not getting
more soda than me, is he?
>> And I want to if I'm going to feel
something, I want to feel like I have
more soda than my brother does. I told
my kids last week, I was like, I'm going
to just start acting like a capriccious
dictator and just like make no more
attempt to keep things even, Stephen, so
that you can understand what unfair
really feels like because I'm so sick of
this like
Jonah got half a [laughter]
chocolate chip more than me and his
cookie. Why is seeing someone punished
if they've done something wrong? Why
dopamine? Why that? It's because it is
so foundational to our survival as a
cooperative species to to have social
norms and see that they're enforced and
and seeing someone get rewarded when it
doesn't feel like it's fair, I think
activates all of our freeloader alert,
freeloader alert, like we cannot have
this module. Um Paul Bloom who's a child
psychologist has a great paper where he
says people prefer uh inequality to
unfairness.
It's not things being unequal that they
necessarily
dislike. It's things being unfair. It's
within it's when the inequality feels
unfair that people are like
>> no
>> these days I love observing online
behavior.
>> That makes one of [laughter] us. It's
the science. It's just the scientist in
me, you know. I just Well, I I feel like
there's something to be learned from it
>> if one has a little bit of like if
>> if you can have some distance from it.
And um
>> I think uh I don't spend all my time in
the comment section. Um but it's
sometimes interesting things play out
and and you can see this, you know, and
it's it's really yeah, this this concept
of of kind of who gets money, attention,
etc., which is really life and gets to
keep playing the game of life
>> who's getting batted back and penalty.
And I think fairness lets us rest. Like
the sense that there's fairness lets us
rest.
>> Yeah. I think that um
some people more than others like the
the sense of um seeing injustice,
feeling injustice activates people and
it activates them in a direction
typically that they don't get paid for
that is taking away from their other um
life energy. I mean the media I'm not
going to blame social media but or the
algorithms that's no longer a good
argument uh in my opinion but I do think
that
>> there are monetization systems that try
and hijack people's sense of injustice
to drive more clicks and views more
advertising and that's how you that's
how you get people moving forward but
they're not really the illusion is that
they're moving forward. that in fact the
the financial incentive there is to just
keep people on a treadmill where they
feel like they see more injustice and
they're angrier and angrier and they
just continue and nothing changes. And I
I I'm not dystopian, but I think we're
one has to be careful not to get caught
up in that.
>> It's very different than a a game like a
game of football or who gets more soda.
Um I think that right now
who gets rewarded seems to be uh more
under control than who gets punished.
like we feel like the I think a lot of
people feel like the bad guys and gals
are outside of our control. So now it's
a question of just making sure people
don't get rewarded. As you're talking,
I'm thinking again about that study I
was describing where you have the two
villages
and the people who are
who were most influential in setting the
norms of the society that ended up
thriving in this online game were people
who engaged in a lot of punishing and
rewarding public punishing and rewarding
behavior from the very beginning. And
again, I think this goes back to
punishment and reward is is a way of
establishing power, right? What is it is
a way of asserting power over what are
the rules? What are the rules in this
society? Like what are we doing here?
I'm picking a society that has these
rules and I'm going to enforce them.
We now live in this this community
collapse where we don't live in isolated
villages. We don't live in small tribes
where we interact with each other.
reciprocally over time in dense kin
networks. We are massively connected
with a lot of one-time interactions
between strangers.
And as you were talking, I was just
like, is that taking a psychology that's
evolved to be in connection in a small
community where the purpose of rewarding
and punishing is to establish the norms
for your group, but now there isn't a
group. There's no one group. There was
not a cohesive group. And so people are
they're essentially arguing about what
are the rules are going to be. But it's
like they're playing a game and they're
arguing about what the rules are in the
middle of the game. And if you feel like
the only tool available for you is to
just ratchet up the consequences
and and yell louder, right? But yell
louder into the void. It's not a real
community. Like X is not a it's it's the
internet, right? Like that is not who
you're living next to.
>> I love doing this podcast, but the
reason I continue it is for the
opportunity to have conversations like
this
>> in person. Yes.
>> Yeah. With with you. I get more
intellectual stimulation from this job,
frankly, than I did when I was in my
office at Stanford every day because
people were we were all so busy.
>> Yeah.
>> Yeah.
>> But it's also so people can hear the
conversations because what you're
describing is very real. It things are
so diffused now. Um
and there isn't really an opt out ex
option.
>> Um is that is that legitimate? Can you
say that? You can't really opt out. Um
[laughter]
I'm opting for opt out option being a
legitimate statement. um you know where
would where would one go? It's a I'm not
sure we can get completely offline. Um I
think it's possible in small amounts but
certainly younger generation you I've
talked to my niece about this like no no
dice it's not happening. So the question
is I guess how big is your sphere of
>> visibility? I think that's a really hard
question. There's a British writer
Oliver Burkeman who [clears throat] has
written he has this great newsletter
called the imperfectionist
>> and
one piece of advice he gives is about
you know letting your energy and your
heart be local
>> and for me I feel like that's a real
struggle to think about how do you not
harden your heart to people that are
suffering right at the same time
How do you let if you're keeping
yourself tender, if you're keeping
yourself attuned to caring about
fairness, caring about injustice, caring
about the vulnerable,
where is that energy going? And if it's
just going back to the internet, I'm not
necessarily sure that it's really
helping. But if it's to how does my
neighborhood organize a winter coat
drive or do I make sure that you know I
fill up a stocking for
um children whose families can't afford
Christmas gifts for my children's
preschool. That feels so much more
satisfying than any amount of yelling on
social media everywhere. So, it's how do
you be tender to the world but act in
your own neighborhood? Feels like the
the balance that I feel the best when
I'm there, but it's a very difficult
balance to maintain.
>> Winning the game of everyday life is
exactly [laughter] what you just
described. I think one can be online,
see what's happening in the world, but
um there has to be a buffer there. There
has to be an emotional buffer and u
because otherwise you lose our minds. I
mean to you know steal your words from
earlier although I won't say it nearly
as eloquently. I mean it's a new
technology that's forcing us to
re-evaluate our morality.
>> Um our our hard wiring hasn't changed.
Our ability to softwire our brain and
modify it hasn't really changed in tens
of thousands or more years. So I think
it took about 10 years of smartphone use
for us to arrive at this place. We're
like, "Oh like [laughter] how
often should we be on this thing and how
much I like what what aspects of this
are beneficial and healthy and which
aren't?"
>> A lot are not.
>> Yeah.
>> Yeah. Well, and the whole world migrated
into this the position right now.
>> But then also I say that and then I'm
like but it's given me such incredible
opportunities. Like would I have written
a book without you know it was Twitter
at that time. like would I be here and
getting this opportunity to talk to you?
One of my best friends I met online. So
to the extent that it is a tool for real
life connection and real life action,
then I think it's good. And to the
extent that it takes you out of real
life, then it's bad. At least for me is
how I have come to think of it.
>> I'm certainly immensely grateful for the
work you do. It's uh you're a brave one
>> willing to go into these uh these
corners of the psyche, corners of human
um reflexes for better or worse and and
to be willing to, you know, talk about
issues of morality, sex differences,
reward and punishment. There's some
questions from quote unquote the
audience, from the dreaded [laughter]
internet.
>> Speaking of the internet that we've just
been talking about this whole time,
>> I trust in people. They're like dogs.
They just need to be treated right.
[laughter] That's a compliment by the
way, at least coming from me. Okay,
questions from the interweb. [sighs]
>> Always a fun and dangerous thing. Now,
these are excellent questions and you've
answered um many of them in our
conversation already. A couple people
asked you, how can identical twins be so
incredibly different?
>> Wow.
>> What's going on there?
>> So, this is not just identical twins. We
see this in other genetically identical
animals. There's studies of inbred mice.
There's studies of we were talking
earlier about armadillos who give birth
to four identical quadruplets. There
studies of clonal fish. And what there
seems to be is what some scientists have
called developmental noise. Uh which is
this emergence of individuality that's
neither nature nor nurture but is
something about the like initial chaos
and then path dependence of development.
Um one of my favorite studies about this
they raise these mice
inbred mice genetically homogeneous.
They raised them in identical rearing
environments and then at a certain point
put them together in this big vivarium
where they could interact. And you saw
almost immediately
just very, you know, variability which
might have been initially random in
[clears throat] activity levels,
aggression levels,
um where in the cage they like to hang
out. And then those differences started
to stabilize. You basically saw the
emergence of individual differences in
mouse personality over time. And it's
experience. It's experience that's
there's some randomness and then there's
a path dependence there and then it's
your nervous system responding to
experience that leads
leads um paths to diverge. I actually
think that's one of the most interesting
things about identical twins is
>> that they can be different. If you have
one twin who has schizophrenia, you
there's only a 50% chance that the other
one will. 50% is way higher than 1%
which is the base rate but it's not not
destiny. If someone wants a fiction
treatment of this I know this much is
true is a novel by the novelist Wally
Lamb and it's written by the perspective
of an unaffected
identical twin whose identical twin has
paranoid schizophrenia. And it's very
scientifically interesting because it
captures a lot of the did one of them
get exposed to a virus? Did one of them
get kind of singled out for maltreatment
by the stepfather? So some things that
might have gone into that difference,
but also just the phenomenology of being
genetically identical to someone who's
having such a different psychological
experience as you in life.
>> Twins fascinate me. Um just as as the
nature nurture thing,
>> which by the way we are only saying now
in this podcast. Amazing, right? Are
there specific periods in development
when genetic influence is at its
strongest and how does that influence
shift relative to environment across the
lifespan?
>> Oh, this is a really interesting
question with a complicated answer.
>> So, in some ways, genetics matter most
when they affect fetal development
because that's laying the groundwork for
how the brain is wired over time.
When you look at heritability estimates,
so when you're estimating how much of
the differences between people are due
to genetic differences,
you can estimate that using twins by
looking at how much more similar are
identical twins versus fraternal twins.
And what you see is actually that
heritability goes up with age. So the
heritability of cognition, intelligence,
test scores goes up until around age 12,
in which case it stays pretty heritable
from then. Heritability of personality
continues to increase until around age
30. And so how can that be that the
older you are, the more your genes
matter because you've been acquiring
experience all this time? And part of
the answer to that is that people are
picking their own experiences. So people
are picking their environments. They're
responding to their environments
according to their genetically shaped
temperament, personality, neurobiology.
And what that means is that identical
twins actually converge over time even
though they are acquiring experience
over time. So when do genetics matter
more? It kind of depends on what you
mean by matter. When when are genetic
differences most predictive of your
phenotype? Once you're an adult. because
you've had a chance to pick your own
life experiences.
>> There are several questions that I'm
going to merge into one. Okay.
>> Earlier at the very beginning of the
conversation, we were talking about um
possible pheromone but if not
pherommones and odor effects of of
timing of puberty because of the
presence or absence of a male. It's kind
of an interesting example, but there I'm
sure there are other examples where
something about the environment at a at
a chemical level impacts whether or not
gene expression is turned on or off. And
so I um this is an infinite space that
to consider, but um depending on where
one is born in the world, maybe you're
getting longer days and shorter nights
for a portion of the year. If you're
near the equator, less of that. Um, if
you're in Scandinavia, you're getting
some extended periods of lack of
sunlight. And there were a number of
questions about how sunlight can impact
gene expression. So, if you take two
identical twins and you raise them in
very different environments, let's say
equator versus closer to the North Pole,
>> is there any evidence that amount of
sunlight day length across the years can
impact expression of of what would
otherwise be called genetically
determined traits? So I will say that I
don't have any expertise specifically
around sunlight or I don't typically
study physical environments. I usually
am studying social environments. Um
there is one hypothesis about how
basically people whose ancestors are
from equatorial climates if they are in
colder climates if they are more
susceptible to
um schizophrenia because of activation
of risk genes for that. I don't actually
know the the current state of the
literature on this. um the human being
is both
um developmentally programmed in this
very resilient way. The fact that we
managed to grow such a complicated
nervous system and and psychology
um from so humble beginnings is really
amazing. Um, and also we are incredibly
adaptable creatures. And the reason why
we're adaptable is because our gene, our
genotype, that developmental programming
can respond so flexibly to the
environmental inputs that we're in. So
that's a kind of a non you know, that's
a very vague answer, but you DNA is a
molecule that's sitting in your cells.
is not doing anything until it's acted
on to be read to be transcribed to be
expressed and so that always requires an
environment and is sensitive to an
environment. Well, thank you so much for
answering those questions and uh I mean
you've really expanded everyone's
thinking about genes and morality and
and I know that people including me but
many many people will really appreciate
the the thoughtfulness and the rigor
that you approach these things because
they are dicey topics. Um, but they're
central to who we are and how we're
functioning. And it's also very clear
from everything you've said that there's
a ray of optimism thread through all of
it. Like so,
>> you know, that like that we can make
positive choices for ourselves.
>> Yes.
>> Well, I really appreciate the
conversation. You know, I'm an academic,
so I'm used to giving talks and getting
a Q&A, but it is rare to have an
interviewer that is so delightfully
varied in their questions and so careful
in the questioning, too. So, I really
appreciate the conversation.
>> Oh, thank you. Well, we certainly have
to have you back again. Uh, before I
forget, um, you have books. We'll put
links to those.
>> Great.
>> What are you most excited about now? I'm
sure you're working on something right
now.
>> I mean, I'm really excited to talk about
the book. The my new book is coming out
on March 3rd. And I'm just really
excited to be in conversation with
people about these issues that I've
thought about for a long time. And
>> what's the title of the book? Sorry to
interrupt, but I want to make sure
>> The book is called Original Sin: On the
Genetics of Vice, the problem of blame,
and the future of forgiveness, and it's
out uh in early March.
>> Amazing. All right, I am going to go
purchase it. Don't send me a free copy.
I always tell people, don't send me a
copy. I want to [laughter] buy buy the
book to support, but also um to read.
Amazing.
>> Okay. Awesome.
>> Fantastic. Well, thank you. We'll have
to have you back again.
>> I would love to.
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The discussion with Dr. Katherine Paige Harden, a psychologist and geneticist, delves into the complex interplay of nature and nurture in shaping human behavior, particularly during adolescence. It explores how genetic predispositions and environmental factors influence traits like addiction, criminality, and aggression, often reframing traditionally "sinful" behaviors as neurodevelopmental disorders related to brain inhibition and excitation balance. The conversation touches on the ethical dilemmas of genetic information, the societal implications of believing people are "born bad," and the psychological rewards associated with witnessing punishment. Dr. Harden emphasizes a forward-looking approach to justice, focusing on responsibility and rehabilitation over retribution, and highlights the ongoing challenge of fostering constructive social dynamics in an increasingly diffused online world.
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