What’s Actually Breaking America — with David Brooks
1692 segments
talk about the notion of trust in
experts.
>> The most important statistic to me in
all of politics
is do you trust government to do the
right thing most of the time? And
through much of the 20th century, 70% of
Americans said, "Yeah, I trust
government to do the right thing most of
the time." Now we're down to what, like
15%.
And the most socially important
statistic is, do you trust your
neighbors? Do you trust the people
around you? And it used to be 60% said
yes. And now that's down to 30%. and 19%
of millennial and Gen Z. So, people have
lost faith in each other.
David, where are you?
>> I'm in Washington DC where my normal
home is.
>> There you go. So, obviously a a tragic
weekend and would love to just get any
kind of initial reactions to the
shootings both at Brown University and
in Australia.
>> Yeah, and I would add the murder of Rob
Reiner and his wife. Um, so now we wake
up to three very violent stories. On the
one hand, we shouldn't overexaggerate
these things. The the number of mass
killings in the US in 2025 was had been
remarkably low. Uh, and so it's not like
we've I don't think it's fair to say
we've entered a new age of violence. If
you look at murder rates, they're down.
You look at suicide rates, they're down.
So you shouldn't ex extrapolate from
these stories. Nonetheless, they are
real. Something has happened, I think,
since 2013. We've just entered dark
world.
uh and uh dark world is distrust. It's
isolation. And as you write about and
talk about a lot, uh the pain of this
moment is not distributed equally.
People with college degrees uh live 15
years longer than people with high
school degrees. They're much less likely
to die of opioid. Uh they're much less
likely to say they have no friends. And
guys, in particular, are getting
hammered. And so if you're a single
male without a college degree,
your rate of having an affectionate
touch, how many times somebody hugs you
or kisses you or just a gentle pat,
large numbers of young guys go through
weeks and weeks and weeks without an
affectionate touch. And that may seem
like a trivial thing, but a I do not
think it is. I think we are mammals who
require touch. uh but it's symptomatic
of a whole series of maladies that are
afflicting people and since 2013 we've
not only seen the rise of social pain
we've seen the rise of conspiracy theory
and what inevitably accompanies that is
anti-semitism
uh and so in Monty Beach um obviously a
clear case of anti-semitism and as
several reminder authors have been
reminding us over the last few hours
when you use the phrase globalize the
inifat this is what you get this is
globalizing the inifat I was in Israel
during the second in Nevada and it was
one of the scariest times I've been.
I've covered wars and done that kind of
thing, but it was really scary cuz you
never know what when the next bus was
blown going to blow up, when the next
pizzeria was going to blow up. Uh and so
some people say in that just means
struggle. But that holocaust when we use
the word holocaust that doesn't just
mean a big fire that has a specific
historic meaning. Uh and so to me this
is an example of globalizing the defa
leads to violence in this way which is
not to be against the struggle for
Palestinian statethood. I'm all for that
but the violent means are
counterproductive.
>> A couple things in there. Um one I can't
help but you say you use a date since
2013 and that's about the time that
social went on mobile. Have you made the
same connection? Yeah, it's very hard to
look at the social indicators which
turns out at the same time and not think
it has something to do with social media
on mobile but it was also a time and
tell me if you think this is connected.
I have trouble seeing the straight line
between that. If you look at the rise of
populism both on the left and the right,
it dates to about that time. And the
initial populist movement was I think in
Spain or Portugal called the indign.
And it was a group of people arguing we
do not accept your authority. And so the
populist movement also happens in 2013.
And was that driven by social media? I
think partially, but I think partially
not. Mostly not.
>> I think it's a chaser effect. I think
the core though the epicenter of the
earthquake is a transfer a slow but
elegant transfer of wealth from young to
old and that economic procarity
across young people is bad for men and
women but it's especially hard on young
men who are unduly evaluated based on
their economic viability. And then you
take them online where they're likely to
find algorithms who will tell them it's
not their fault to blame women for their
romantic problems and blame immigrants
for their economic problems. They become
radicalized. And then you mix in
polarization, access to guns, and it's
this dangerous alchemy. But I would
reverse engineer it at the very core,
the epicenter
to a transfer of wealth from young to
old because old people keep voting
themselves more money. Your thoughts?
>> Well, I've been arguing against old
people who are my base. That's my base.
Old people are my base. PBS News Center,
New York Times column. Uh but but we
have basically taken money that should
be going to young people on the way up
and we've g given it to people who are
dying or old on the way out. Uh and
that's just a stupid way to run the
country and I used to get my AP friends
very upset uh with that. I I want to
focus in on that the notion of procarity
because I think there is procarity but I
think it's a little more I I've begun to
think of it in more fine-tuned ways. So
young people feel that the American
dream is dead and uh some in my own
family and that the old model if you
work hard you get ahead. Uh that just
that's broken. And there are some
studies that show 70% of Americans
overall say the American dream is dead.
So that's pretty terrible. Um, but when
you look at the data, and the the
blogger Noah Smith runs chart after
chart about this, Millennial and Gen Z
have higher wheel real wages than Boomer
and Gen X at the same age.
>> Uh, and they have not two different home
ownership rates. And we're now in a
moment where we have the highest median
uh wages in American history. It's about
88,000 bucks. Uh, and so some of the
economic data are not that bad and yet
the feeling is bad. And so I I was
talking to a CEO a couple months ago and
he said, "When my team comes to me and
says when a a customer says this went
wrong, this is part of your product
sucks." And my team says, "No, they're
wrong. We've got data on this." The CEO
says, "I always believe the anecdote
over the data." And I think there's some
virtue to that. believing the anecdote
over the data or at least trying to
reconcile the two. And I think one of
the things that's changed is when I was
getting out of college, it felt like
there were like nine jobs there. You
could be a teacher, a doctor, nurse,
lawyer, cop, whatever. Now it feels
there are a million jobs. And when I was
getting out of college, there were
pathways to uh the right jobs. And it
was there was a clear steps you took. if
you want to become a newspaper
columnist, you tried to become a very
junior associate editor at a small
magazine and then gradually you worked
your way up and that's exactly what I
did.
>> Uh and now I feel those pathways are
gone or worse there are fewer pathways.
So in a just society the there are many
mountain tops and different people got
to climb different mountain tops
depending on their abilities or tastes.
But now we've rendered into one
mountaintop. You have to get into a
selective college. you have to get a job
at a very small number of firms like
Goldman Sachs or or whatever Bane and
that's the one route and so you have
millions of people trying to get into
that route and so suddenly you have
universities rejecting 96% and then at
Goldman they have 3,000 internships
every summer but 300,000 apply and so
we've narrowed the range of paths upward
and we've made it all chaotic and at the
same time I would say we made courtship
chaotic
>> uh I'm ancient, but you know, I I wasn't
in the age when back in the 50s when
they pinned girlfriends in high school,
but I was at the age where you asked
somebody out, you dated for a certain
amount of time, and you broke up.
>> And that there was a structure to
courtship. And that has been gone for 15
or 20 years. And so I think the
procarity is often the uncertainty and
the lack of clarity, the lack of order,
uh, as much even though the the raw
economic data show millennial and Gen Z
are doing pretty well. I mean, there's
so much there, I would argue. So,
it's undeniable that the average middle
class person is doing better and living
a better life than the wealthiest person
in the world
100 years ago, maybe even 50 years ago.
Like, I'll take Netflix and Novacane
over royalty, right? But the problem is
the human brain doesn't work that way.
It's where it's a comparison culture and
every day 210 times a day young people
have faux wealth vomited on them and it
makes them feel that if I'm not in a
visa at a rave or on a Gulfream I'm
failing even if I'm quote unquote doing
okay. And there is some data that says
they're not as doing as well as their
parents were at 30. And I think some of
the major indicators, housing, the
average age of first-time buyers
is I mean the data I'll give you this
the narrative that all young people are
doing poorly. That's just not accurate,
right? There is some data that just
flies in the way of that. But I think
it's the what do you call I don't know
people call it a vibe session. The thing
I just want to reverse to that you said
that was so powerful and one of the
things I admire so much about you is
you're considered a conservative but I
find you so compassionate
is you said something I hadn't even
thought about and that is the importance
of touch and that we're mammals and that
there are young men I've always said a
lot of young men their first male role
model was a prison guard
>> but the idea and then I go to sex one in
three men under the age of 30 hasn't had
sex in the last year and 60% of
households used to have a kid at 30 Now
it's 27%. But I never really stopped to
think about the importance of touch
where mammals and just how important and
restorative and healthy it is that that
touch. Can you can you speak more about
that? I hadn't heard that before framed
that way.
>> Yeah, there's a guy a scientist named
Reed Monu who studies this and he
studies how powerful touch is. When you
look at uh our nearest animal ancestors,
apes and such, they're constantly
touching each other. It just has a
tremendous calming effect. And I hug my
wife and I hug each other many times a
day and it's not a big deal. It's just
like it's just something you do cuz
intuitively we know it's true. But also
it's a symptom of love. And one of the
things, you know, I think is obvious.
There's a great study called the Grant
Study, a longitudinal study done at
Harvard. And the founder of that or the
director of that study, longtime
director, a guy named George Valiant
said, "After all my years, my lifetime
of studying human flourishing, my answer
is uh human flourishing is love full
stop." And so it pays to just fill your
life with a lot of love. And I mean that
as love for a person, love for another
person. But I also mean that as what are
our most obvious loves? We usually we
love our town. Uh we love our vacation.
People who are religious love God.
uh and with our country. These are the
obvious forms of love. Are any of these
forms doing anything other than
declining? The number of people in
dating relationships is way down. Way
down. The number of people who go to
church is way down. The number of people
who express patriotism, especially among
the younger generations, is way down.
Civic life is less rich. So, in a weird
way, you could just say there's just a
lot of less love in the world. We don't
usually talk in those terms cuz it
doesn't sound very social sciency. But I
do think there's sort of it's just as
simple as that. People are, you know,
you want to love your profession. You
want to love what you do. You want to
love the people around you. You want to
live at full boore. One of my heroes is
a guy named St. Augustine who not pretty
famous. And he says, "Give me a man in
love. Give me a land a man in the desert
who yearns for the pure waters. If I
talk to a cold man, he just doesn't know
what I'm talking about." And I do think
there's wisdom and that Gustinian
uh desire for artor for enthusiasm for
full commitment for all the things that
love entails. And just lack of that is
just a horrible state to be in.
>> I love the study you're talking about
and that's the opening line. U happiness
is love full stop. And I've been
thinking a lot about I had a friend who
passed away and I wasn't close with him
but I was thinking about how much
character one of our fraternity brothers
demonstrated for him calling us raising
funds finding out who has contacts at
Cedars for his care. And there's this
great line in the movie Magnolia and
William Macy as a bartender who's lonely
and he says I have loved to give but I
just don't know where to put it. And one
of the things that came out of that
study that really struck me, you know,
the number of deep and meaningful
relationships is kind of the the the
whole shooting match, right? I think
most people would guess that. What
shocked me or I think the the life hack
is that being loved is great, but the
happiest people find a lot of places to
put their love. It's the people who love
the most who are the happiest, not the
people who are loved the most. And I
thought that was so profound. So I guess
my question would be as someone who
looks at society,
how do we make it easier for people to
find places to put their love, is it how
do we create more opportunities for
people to love something or someone?
>> Well, part of the problem is the self.
Uh I I recently came across a study
where they asked a lot of people, "How
do you know when you're in love?" And
they said, "I know I'm in love when I
don't have to try hard socially. I know
I'm in love when somebody makes me feel
uh warm and appreciated. Uh and they but
the theme through all the comments was I
know I'm in love when I get to feel a
certain way. It's not when I get to
sacrifice and put their desires above
myself. And we have gone in such a
self-oriented culture that love is about
how do you make me feel and that's
really not what love is. Uh love is is
you know when you when you want someone
you want to devour them but when you
love someone you want to serve them and
it's that and one of the things people
say love is love eliminates the
distinction between giving and receiving
because to give to someone you love
feels like as good as it as receiving.
Uh and so I think we partly it's the
large self. Partly
young people just don't aren't dating as
much anymore. And I'm not sure I can
explain that one, but one of the most
educational experiences I had in my life
was falling in love with a woman when I
was 18.
Uh, and I remember it was May 5th, 1979.
We were at a campfire with friends and
she slipped her hand into mine and it
was one of the happiest moments of my
life. I'll remember it forever. And then
I I that year I didn't go to the camp I
just mentioned. I stayed home and worked
as a janitor uh so I could hang go to
her. She worked as a waitress. I'd go to
her restaurant every lunchtime just to
hang around her. Uh and then she came
transferred to my college and dumped me.
But uh and I learned about the suffering
too. But that all that experience of
falling in love and feeling your heart
expand in a way you never imagined it
could
>> and then going through the rigors of a
relationship and then going through the
pain you experience when somebody dumps
you. Uh that is an education. And I
loved my college. I had a great
experience to change my life. But I
would trade my college education for
that romantic education. And it taught
me to put your heart at the center of
your life, not your head.
>> Yeah. The thing there, the the only
thing I would I went through a very
similar experience. I bloomed late. And
having someone that you you think is
impressive, love you, love you is just
so I I feel like if I could give anyone
that gift when they're young, this
builds so much confidence. And I went
through a similar thing. Uh she also
broke up with me. But I think the real
learning is it might take a month, a
week, maybe, you know, even a year, but
then you're fine and you realize that
you can get through these things. And I
worry that a lot of young men choose a
frictionless,
risk-free version of relationships and
never develop the scar tissue or the
calluses or the confidence to know if I
apply for a job I'm not qualified for or
apply to a college I'm not I'm not I
don't have the credentials or approach a
stranger and express romantic interest
who might be perceived out of my way
class that if it doesn't work I'm going
to be fine. Isn't some of it that we're
trying to create and I think it's
through over parenting quite frankly
concierge parenting that we're creating
a generation of people and encouraging
them not to take any real risks.
>> Uh well I certainly the college students
I teach certainly often believe that if
uh I have one failure then my life is
derailed. So one false step and it's
over. And I try to assure them that
that's not true. Uh, and your point of
getting broken up with, I remember when
I got broken up with, I I went up to
Water Tower Place in Chicago and bought
some French cigarettes. If I was going
to suffer, I wanted to suffer like
Albert Kamu. Like I was I was weirdly
proud of my suffering because I'd never
experienced suffering like that. And I
was like, "Wow, I'm a deep guy. I'm so
proud." But it and but I got over it. It
took years, frankly. Uh, but I got over
it. Uh there's a song on country music
these days about a young woman who uh is
is gets crushed by her boyfriend broken
up. She survives it and then he calls
her later and wants to get back
together. And the song is called What
Doesn't Kill You Calls You 6 Months
Later. And I think that's a perfect
country music song.
>> And uh and so you you do learn you can
get over it. But I think the risk thing
is the crucial thing. And I don't know
if it's over parenting or what, but I
think the decline in dating it it's a
you you don't have to take a risk with a
phone. It's always there for you. And
asking a girl out is an enormous risk.
Falling in love is an enormous risk. And
I think there is some sort of social
risk aversion that has settled as we've
come to be more distrustful. And then
the second thing that's happened is uh
professionalization has become an urgent
carve out. Uh, and so my students would
always tell me, "I don't have time to
date. I'm just too busy." And I would
tell them, "You're doing it wrong. One
of, you know, the data is pretty clear
that the quality of your marriage is
more important than the quality of your
career in determining your happiness."
And so, you should focus on that. And I
once had a student tell me, you know,
marriage is a box that'll come in the
mail when I'm 35. And I was like, wrong.
It's it's very important to learn how to
do relations. I don't advise getting
married in college. The statistics show
you should wait till 25. Um, but uh it's
really helps to have had a whole
repertoire of relationships so you're
able to be a good partner to somebody
and it takes practice just like anything
else and it takes skill building. I the
uh the same woman who told me that uh
marriage will came come in the mail uh
she said you know I've had four
boyfriends in my life and they all
ghosted me at the end. Not a single one
of them had the decency to call her up
and have that conversation.
And I think it's because in part nobody
had taught them they had to do that. You
a decent person has a breakup
conversation. And as important, no one
had taught them that it's possible to
break up with someone without crushing
their heart at least more than is
necessary. Uh and I think these are
basic social skills that we have not
passed on. And they're skills like how
to ask for an offer for forgiveness. uh
how to listen really well to somebody,
how to be a great conversationalist.
Uh and somehow social skills are are um
neglected.
>> I've seen some recent studies trying to
understand why young people are so
anxious and depressed. And a lot of it
is uh they claim they have no purpose.
And I sort of for the first time kind of
made that connection to what you were
just saying that the ability to love
others or love something. And as I think
about I think I think of my purpose is I
want to raise patriotic loving men. And
what that means is my purpose is I just
don't get as much back from my boys as
they get from me. And I know that sounds
terrible, but that's my purpose.
I And whether your purpose might be
civil rights, but showing up to
protests, raising money, getting all
sorts of feedback or negative feedback
or getting attacked online, it's because
it's your purpose. You're going to give
more than you're going to get. And I
mean it can you do you make that
connection between purpose that young
people I don't and I don't know how we
inculcate this or teach them that but
the whole point of parenting in my view
or of purpose is you decide to just give
more than you're going to get from this
thing or this person. I encounter this
all the time. I I had a student who was
a great student. I gave him his only A
minus at Yale. Uh, and he was such a
good investor that while he was in
college, he had a Bloomberg terminal on
his dorm room desk. He worked for a firm
and they gave him a terminal which was
an expensive thing. And he got out and
he got and he was an arrogant bro kind
of guy and wonderful guy. I really liked
him. And he got out and he got fired and
he called me and his voice was utterly
different uh because he had done what he
thought. And when he was fired from that
job, he didn't really know what his
tilos was. And I think he never knew. I
think he just was going along with the
system, what the system told him to
want. And the niche has a saying, he who
has a why to live or can endure anyhow.
Uh and if you know why you're put on
this earth, you can endure the setbacks.
But if you don't know your wise, um then
the setbacks are really devastating. Uh
and I found that many young people are
what they call insecure overachievers.
they uh have no foundation. They haven't
discovered their sense of purpose. So,
they build very impressive towers up on
top, but their foundation is rotten and
eventually the towers are going to
crumble. Uh and so, I began teaching
courses really on how to find a sense of
purpose. And the core theory of one of
those courses was that every young
person, not every everyone, but most are
going to make four fundamental
commitments in the course of their 20s
or maybe up to 35 or 40. a commitment to
a vocation with a career, a commitment
to a philosophy or faith, a worldview
they can believe in and hang their guide
their life by. Um, some kind of family
uh and to a community and the quality of
your life will be determined by the
quality of the commitments you make and
how you live up to those commitments.
And a commitment is falling in love with
something and then building a structure
of behavior around it for when love
falters. So Jews love their God, but
they keep kosher just in case. Keep them
on the straight and narrow. I love my
wife, but we have a a legal and
religious marital bond between us. So
that's that's a structure of behavior
for for those moments when love falters.
And that act of commitment making is a
bit countercultural today because we
live in a culture that values autonomy a
lot of freedom of choice. Keep my
options open. Keep my options open. And
commitment is about closing options. But
in my view, there there are two kinds of
freedom. the freedom of no restraint,
which is the way a lot of people define
freedom now. But another kind of freedom
is the freedom to do hard things. So if
I want the freedom to play the piano, I
have to chain myself down to the piano
bench and practice. And in that sense,
sometimes it's your chains to set you
free. But the these are countercultural
concepts these days.
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So there's no way to make this altitude
change elegantly. But let's talk about
Trump. Um so consumer sentiment is worse
now than its lowest uh point in the
Biden administration.
Uh how do you view economic anxiety as
as part of this political crisis? Do you
think that um you write about
authoritarian figures that they create
their own realities akin to performance
artists? What try and how do you think
people will look back on this moment in
terms of what it means for broader
society?
Well, in terms I think I think we're
just in a moment of extreme anxiety. Uh
and and that feeds in over negative
economic sentiment even when I think
econ if you look at the University of
Michigan consumer data in information
consumer sentiment is through the floor.
And what's interesting to me is that um
20% of Republicans think Donald Trump is
responsible.
Uh and that's bad news for Donald Trump.
My colleague at the New York Times, EJ
Dion, had a piece where he estimated
that somewhere between 15 and 25% of
Trump voters have changed their mind
about him. Uh, and that's good news for
me cuz I do I've maintained that all
voters are reasonable
>> and that suggests a lot of Republicans
are are walking away from Trump. I think
it's a little too early. Some of the
people are out over their skis in
thinking the Trump presidency is is in
permanent decline. I think he's holding
around 40% approval, 42, which is his is
his historic norm. But we are in a
moment where um people are prepared for
the worst
uh quick to see the worst, I would say,
high threat perception and then quick to
blame the elites and Donald Trump is now
being seen a little more as one of the
elites.
>> You said you could measure
authoritarianism by how high the price
is to oppose it. Uh does the fact that
institutions and voters are it seem
reticent or actually less reticent? It
seems like they're more willing to push
back. Does this reflect it feels like
and I I don't know if it's confirm or
you know I don't know what which bias it
is that I'm I'm imposing here but it
does feel like this is a moment that
there's been a bit of a pivot or that
the dam is beginning to burst in terms
of Trump's ability to hold this
coalition together. Your thoughts?
>> It's clearly fraying. I mean, there's
just been a lot of negative news for
Trump in the last time. The the drop in
his polls, especially the drop in his
polls on economics, drop in his polls on
immigration, the setback in all the
different political races that have been
held over the last year, the Indiana
legislature beginning to rebel. Uh I do
think and then even within the Senate uh
some of the attacks on on or in the
House on Speaker Johnson for basically
disarming the the Senate and the House
both unilaterally disarmed. One of the
things I was taught in political science
class is that people go into politics
because they want power. But I've
learned in as a journalist people don't
want power. Even politicians don't want
power. They're happy to give away power
if they can keep their jobs. And so they
give power to the agencies. They give
power to the president and they give
power to the party leaders. So Congress
is run by four people. The speaker, the
majority leader, the minority leader and
the the the Senate and House minority
leaders. Uh and so they run the place
and all most other people are basically
powerless, which is why so many people
leave. Um and but are they going to be
when we begin to see mainstream House
members bucking the president on
important issues, then I'll believe his
coalition is fracturing. Now I think
it's fraying around the edges but not
really fracturing.
>> Curious what you think about so trust in
media and government all-time lows. Talk
about the concepts more generally of you
know as it relates to media or
government or however else you want to
explain these constructs or these
themes. Talk about the notion of trust
and experts.
>> Yeah. Well trust is faith that you will
do what you ought to do. And so it's a
faith. It's a form of faith because it's
I'm anticipating the future and I have
faith in you. uh and it and it faith
it's a moral kind of faith that you will
do what you ought to do and the ought is
uh relies on the fact that we have a
shared moral sense that we agree what
you ought to do. It also requires that
we have uh shared norms of how to be
considerate to each other. That if two
lanes are emerging in the highway, the
right lane is going to go then the left
lane, the right lane and then the left
lane. And if you bump in line and cut,
I'm going to honk cuz you you uh you
violated the norm. And so over the last
decades, uh that sense of shared faith
and shared moral order and shared moral
norms has deteriorated. And the most dis
the most important statistic to me in
all of politics
is do you trust government to do the
right thing most of the time? And
through much of the 20th century 70% of
Americans said yeah I trust government
to do the right thing most of the time.
Now we're down to what like 15%.
And the most socially important
statistic is do you trust your
neighbors? Do you trust the people
around you? And it used to be 60% said
yes. And now that's down to 30% and 19%
of millennial and Gen Z. So people have
lost faith in each other. And I I've
been persuaded by Robert Putnham at
Harvard that
when you lose faith, it's usually
wellounded. When you are distrustful,
it's usually because people have been
untrustworthy to you. And I just think
there's it's so it's in a weird way,
trust is the moral barometer of society.
And when people betray you, uh, then you
get distressful. And one of the dumbest
things Donald Trump is doing right now
is, uh, going to people at rallies and
saying, "You don't need 32 dolls. You
can get by with two dolls."
That just, um, makes people feel like
he's flippant and he doesn't sympathize.
And if there's one thing Americans want
right now, it's to be seen by their
leaders. And when they go to the
supermarket and they buy like a medium
amount and they walk out of there with
$179 bill and he says buy two dolls
there people are going to feel unseen.
And that's part of uh what's happened
here. And and once you feel unseen then
you uh get more distrustful cuz we we
evolved to be surrounded by 150 other
people who saw us all the time. And when
you get more distrustful you're less
likely to trust others and less people
will less likely to be trustworthy to
you. And so trust is about spirals. You
have a spir a death spiral of distrust
feeding into distrust feeding into
distrust. Or positively you can have the
death upward spiral of people who behave
trustingly find that people are
trustworthy so they trust them more. So
their relationships improve and they
have more trust and more trust. And I
have found in my life I don't know you
that I always lead with trust. I I
exaggeratedly trust people. And often
that burns me. Not often, but sometimes
it burns me. I get socially betrayed. I
get financially betrayed. Well,
whatever. But I think on balance, if you
lead with trust, most of the time people
will behave in trustworthy ways. But you
have to lead with trust in the first
instance. And a lot of people are just
too burned by life to do that. I would
argue that the culprit around the
erosion in trust and faith in our
institutions is that we have attached a
profit motive to algorithms who figured
out a way to get us to mistrust each
other. That we're actually not
that divided, but we have the S&P 40% of
the S&P has a vested interest in
dividing us. I mean, I go online, I'll
go online, I'll read the comments and
you know, everyone has addictions. I'm
convinced everyone has a certain amount
of addiction. I have two addictions. One
is to money and one is to the
affirmation of strangers, which is just
stupid at my age. But I'll go on YouTube
and people will say really aggressive
mean things about both of us. Uh and the
reason why and and then I'll find that
half of them, especially the really vile
ones, are dogm 312 with three followers.
It's a bot meant to create engagement or
from someone who sees a vested intern or
national interest in dividing America,
whatever it might be. But essentially,
we've created porest platforms and an
algorithm and attached a profit
incentive that's gotten so big it may be
the dominant force in our economy that
has an sees an inverse correlation
between trust and profitability. Your
thoughts?
>> I think that's part of it, but the trust
numbers really began to go south about
30 years ago. The the federal trust
numbers began to go south in the 70s. Uh
that do you trust government, but the
social trust began to go 30 years ago.
So I I think that's a big part of it. Uh
but I think it's mostly it's social
disconnection. Uh it's shrinking family
size. It's shrinking friendship circles.
Uh etc. etc. But I'm sort of interested
by the fact that you go on and look at
the reaction to you cuz I am I don't
know. I'm must be psychologically weaker
than you. I avoid that cuz it it's too
psychologically damaging. I can't take
it.
>> It means you're stronger. I I'm the I'm
the heroin addict. It's like just my
last hit. Now, I go on and I look at
them and I I I try to stop at a certain
point, but I think yours is a much
healthier approach and a much more
confident approach. Yeah. I go on and
and look at these things and it takes me
out of my head and I lack presence
around my family, the people who I
should care about. But your data is is
is hard to argue with. Do you think it's
I mean, it's a variety of things. You
talk a lot about this when I when I see
on television. Lack of church
attendance, lack of so Well, let me let
me let's move to solutions. one for one
idea I I love and I'm curious. I would
love to see mandatory national service.
Your thoughts?
>> 100%. I mean, it's astounding to me that
uh it uh doesn't, you know, it's not
there because all you have to do is
mention if you're talking to a group of
people and you mention the phrase
national service, you get applause,
spontaneous applause. And I think we all
have a sense we would be better off. A
people have a sense of purpose if they
got experienced the sensation of giving.
B, it would be great if somebody from
Berkeley, California mets had to room
with somebody from Birmingham, Alabama.
It would just be fantastic. Uh, I
actually in 2017, I la I launched a
nonprofit exactly on this subject on the
idea that social distrust was underlying
a lot of the problems in our society.
And so the project the project is called
Weave, the social fabric project. And we
just go to towns and we say, "Who's
trusted here?" And people list names,
people in the neighborhood. Uh it could
be some some of the people have are just
uh the sort of the people in the
neighborhood who spontaneously organize
things. Uh I we met somebody who said,
"I practice aggressive friendship." And
she's the lady on the black who has the
July 4th parties. She's the lady on the
black hose has New Year's Eve parties.
So everyone looks to her and they know
that she's a community hub. Some people
are just nonprofit leaders. Uh, so the
there, you know, they run the community
organization. They run the homeless
organization. I was in Watts and I ran
into an organization called Sisters of
Watts and it was just like a bunch of
moms and they did whatever the
neighborhood needed. So if the kids were
going home hungry, they had backpacks
filled with food to send them home with.
They cleaned up the the empty lots. They
gave showers to the homeless. They just
did what the community needed. And I
found that whatever town you go into or
whatever neighborhood you go into and if
you say who's trusted here, you'll get a
list of names and everybody they're
everywhere these and we call them
weavers cuz they're weaving communities
together. They are the people who build
trust and trust travels at the at the
speed of relationship. Uh and that's
slow. Uh but if you can shift norms, you
can really produce big change all at
once. So in the '7s we shifted norms
around littering and it used to be
perfectly fine to litter and then it was
not. Then we shifted norms about
smoking. The me too movement shifted
norms about sexual abuse and harassment
and you can shift norms. And so what
we've does is we give financial support
to weavers so they'll be more effective
and we we give them access to each
other. We tell give them chances to tell
their stories on media and then we bring
them together. Uh and the goal is to
create more people's and identity is
really powerful. Uh if people say, you
know, I'm I'm going to be a little more
like those people. A culture changes
when a small group of people find a
better way to live and the rest of us
copy. And so I I've spent the last seven
or eight years around the most beautiful
people in America. And it's kept my mood
up when politics is trying to destroy
it. Uh and if we could shift norms
around that kind of behavior. Just one
final story. We ran into a lady in
Florida and she was helping kids across
the street after elementary school one
in the afternoon and we asked her, "Do
you have time to volunteer in your
neighborhood?" And she said, "Nope, I
have no time." And she said, we said,
"Well, are you getting paid to do this?"
And she said, "No, but I help the kids
cross the street after school cuz it'll
be safer for them." Uh, and then we
said, "What do you do the rest of the
day?" And she said, "Well, on Thursdays
I take food to the hospital so the
patients love some nicer food to eat."
And we said, "Do you have time to
volunteer in your neighborhood?" and she
said, "No, I have no time." And she
didn't see this as volunteering. She
just saw it as what neighbors do. And if
we could shift the norm so people
redefine what a neighbor is, then
suddenly you see a lot more trust in
society. And it has to start at the
ground up, but it also has to happen to
the top down. It's really hard to build
trust to the ground up when somebody in
the White House is trying to destroy it
every day from the top down.
One of the I learn a lot from you and I
like that you challenge my thinking
because you have argued against a purely
material explanation for our political
crisis that throwing money at people
isn't the solve and that there are
moral, relational
um and spiritual issues at hand here.
What do you think that progressives
uh including myself misunderstand about
economic redistribution
that could substitute uh or that it's
not a good substitute for cultural
repair? Yeah. One of the differences
between liberals and conservatives is
liberals liberalism grew up in power.
Like I think modern liberalism grew up
in the New Deal when there was levers of
power that Democrats controlled that
they could advance their agenda.
Conservatism more or less grew up out of
power. And so when I was a young
conservative uh we had neck ties and
some conservatives wore Adam Smith neck
ties, some were St. Augustine, some were
Edund Burke, but the load stars of being
conservative was philosophical
and it was more it was out of power. It
was a group in through the 60s until
Ronald Reagan was in exile. And so I
found it in those days, things have all
changed now, of course, as a more
conservatism was more philosophically
oriented and progressivism was more
programmatical
and more reliant on planning and econom
economics. And if you were in
government, then it's natural to think,
well, what I what do I have in
government that I can use to make
society better? I've got money.
uh and that
under that fed into what really was
descending from Marxism and I think a
lot of people are influenced by Marx
including me who are not Marxists but
Marx was really about economic and
material determinism that material
conditions determine consciousness and
as a conservative I think consciousness
has a large influence on material
conditions or at least the ar the causal
arrow goes both ways and so it was very
easy both in the great society uh and in
the years
to believe if we just throw money at a
problem then that'll go a long way to
solving it. And that has failed in my
view in the school system. We've thrown
a lot increasingly more money at schools
and scores are dropping rapidly. Uh and
it's especially in efforts to create
social mobility. If you give a for poor
family money, they're better off. So,
I'm for it. They can buy more um
groceries or whatever else they need.
But what you were hoping when you gave a
poor family basic income or whatever was
that their long-term uh outcomes would
be different, that they'd have higher
high school graduation rates, they had
higher incomes later on. Uh and that's
not true. That doesn't happen. And
that's been I just saw another study
finding with the same finding today
because if you come from a poor family
and have parents with an extremely
strong work ethic,
you're probably going to do okay. Uh and
it's that work ethic that is necessary
along with some resources. So I I think
it and I think a lot of people don't
want to mention that work ethic because
it seems like you're blaming the poor,
you're blaming the victim here. Uh but
the people who are poor are completely
aware of how important a work ethic is
and they everyone has complexities in
their life to explain their
circumstances. But uh uh I do think it's
it's possible to talk about the things
like work ethic, self-control without
saying oh you people you poor people are
bad which is certainly not true.
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The term I keep hearing and it's become
almost a badge of honor. People are
consistently saying consistently saying
I'm politically homeless. And there's
different levels of homelessness, right?
There's people who don't have a static
address. They're qualified as homeless.
There's people live in their car and
there's people, you know, living under a
bridge. I think of David Brooks as a guy
living under a bridge. Like, I can't
imagine a more politically homeless
person right now. the way you meld
conservative ideology like money doesn't
fix the problem, it's values and at the
same time you talk about the importance
of touch among young men. I mean you
really are sort of an island of one or
let me put let me ask you this. Who do
who in the Republican or the Democratic
party or where do you find a home in
terms of our leadership? Who do you
think I'm just speak who does David
Brooks want to be president? Who are you
impressed by?
>> Yeah. Uh well, first just weren't my
home. Uh you know, I I'm I think I'm
pretty consistent. I'm now I'm a person
of faith, but until my 50s, I had no
faith. But I did read the Bible. And the
idea that the the
strong should serve the weak and the
rich should serve the poor was pretty
squarely in the center of the both Old
and New Testament. And so that seemed
like a good value to embrace. Uh and
then I um uh then my one of my heroes is
Edund Burke. Uh and the key phrase for
Burke is epistemological modesty. Uh
that the world is really complicated and
you should be very humble about what you
think you can know. And so you should do
change but you should do it cautiously
and incremental. You should perform on
society, Burke wrote, the way you would
perform surgery on your father very
carefully. And I think a lot of the
planning that progressives did and the
plan big projects that the progressives
did over the course of the 20th century,
a lot of them just backfired because no
one is smart enough to to ma navigate
complex change. And then my third hero
is Alexander Hamilton who's a Puerto
Rican hiphop star from New York City. Uh
now Hamilton uh there are three
traditions in American life even though
we only have two parties. One of them is
a progressive tradition believes in
using government to enhance equality.
very legitimate tradition. The other is
a more libertarian tradition that
believes in uh reducing government to
enhance freedom. And then historically
we've had a third tradition which starts
with Alexander Hamilton. It goes up
through Henry Clay and Daniel Webster
and the Wig Party uh with the American
system. And then it goes up through
Abraham Lincoln who was a wig who who
gave more speeches on banking than he
did about slavery in the course of his
career. And then it goes up to the
Roosevelt and then it goes up and
probably dies with John McCain at least
the first McCain race of 2000 and would
include the Rudy Giuliani version the
two the 2000 version of Rudy Giuliani
not the contemporary version and that's
that tradition believes in limited but
energetic government to enhance social
mobility. As Hamilton or Lincoln would
have said it's about creating a world in
which poor boys and girls can rise and
succeed. If we don't have social
mobility, if we divide into a class
structure, then that's curtains. And so
the way you do that is you use
government in limited but energetic ways
to help people become good capitalists
uh or good whatever they want to be. And
that's good human capital policies,
that's good education policies, that's
job training, that's earned income tax
credit, that's baby bonds, whatever to
help people rise and succeed. And to me,
my tradition, the wig tradition, is a
legitimate tradition in American life.
It just happens to have no political uh
partisan home. But I I I think I see
bits of it on the the moderate side of
the Democratic party, which is where I
now consider myself. I'm just watching,
for example, Rahm Emanuel begin his
presidential campaign, and some people
think Rahm is, you know, he's he's the
old guard. He doesn't have a chance. And
maybe that's true. I think he's very
realistic about what his chances are.
But he is talking about the American
dream and he is talking about education.
And the way Democrats have walked away
from that issue is astounding to me.
Democrats like Bill Clinton and Barack
Obama wanted education reform. And now
the Democrats Kla Harris basically do
not have an education plank in her
platform cuz she didn't I don't know. I
don't know. She didn't care. She thought
it would be divisive for the party. And
the problem with that is right now
Republicans are kicking Democrats asses
on education. The best education states,
as has been written about a lot, are
Mississippi, Alabama, Tennessee,
uh, Florida, Georgia, they're those are
the states where the gains are being
made. And one statistic should upset
every Californian. That in California,
28% of black kids are reading at grade
level. 28%. In Mississippi, a much
poorer state, 58% of black kids are
reading at grade level. So, what's the
hell's going on? California. uh and
somehow so my party would if it existed
would care a lot about that.
So I used to think the best way to
predict the future was to make it which
is sort of this ego-driven
actionorientation like Tarzan uh trope
but I now think it's the best way to
predict the future is to look at
incentives
and do you believe that so I think as a
percentage of of GDP generally speaking
across the uh across the west especially
in Europe we've seen social service
spending go up and and at some point the
incentives are quite frankly not to take
risks, not to work. Do you think that
part of the failure of progressives is
that we've uh in an attempt to grab
social virtue and show empathy for our
brothers and our sisters that we've
created an incentive system that creates
a smaller tax base and slowly but surely
inspires this downward spiral?
>> Yeah, I guess I would uh I do believe
obviously in the power of incentives,
but again, we look at issues somewhat
differently. It's interesting because I
think you and I agree on a lot but we we
think differently and so I think what
matters is your intrinsic desires and
ext incentives to me feel like
exttrinsic desires like a performance
pay plan sounds like an exttrinsic
desire and I think one of the things the
research shows if you pay kids to read
they'll begin to regard reading as work
uh and do less of it and I think this is
even true among you know bankers that
some of the performance pay programs
that they thought would boost
productivity didn't really boo boost
productivity and I would say what uh
what really makes people work hard is to
get back to our original subject is
doing the thing they love to do doing
the thing they are wired to do uh I read
this biography of Walt Disney recently
and when he was making Snow White the
first fulllength feature animated movie
he he hired artists and art historians
to come to Disney studios and teach his
draw his cartoonists to draw like
Michelangelo and Rambr runs and people
like that. And he he worked on this
movie three years before even drawing
this first cell and it was hour upon
hour, seven days a week of doing the
voices. What should the look of the
movie be? Uh what do we do with with
Grumpy? You know, and and that three
years of prep work bringing in he
brought in um I think Franklidd Wright
to come to the studio to talk to the
artists about lines. And it was it made
no economic sense to do all this stuff,
but he did it because he he just wanted
to do the thing he wanted to do. He
loved drawing and he wanted to do the
great project and it made no economic
sense. But he was totally driven and
frankly it economically eventually paid
off. But so I think people will become
entrepreneurs when it seems challenging
and cool to be entrepreneurs. I think I
again I I gravitate a little more to the
um to the incentive uh to the cultural
piece than to the incentive piece. I
don't know if you think I'm wrong about
that.
>> I just grew up in an environment where I
you know not having money then being
very focused on econ economic security
teaching at a business school being an
entrepreneur raising capital being on
boards. I one of my real weak points is
I tend to think of things through an
economic lens. And also I and by the way
I think the idolatry of the dollar in
America I think America is basically
becoming a trading platform. It's it's
like losing almost any sense of self
around what it means to be a society.
We're just a trading platform to try and
get rich is and it you know character
seems to take in a distant second and
character and grit are conflated with
the size of your bank account. Full stop
is how I see it. And so the incentives
among young young people is just
disproportionately towards doing
whatever is required
uh to find money and skipping over the
purpose the relationships the things you
were talking about touch that are so
important and you end up maybe with some
economic security but you end up
economic end up anxious obese and
depressed at the age of 35 with an
inability to to attach to anything. Uh
so yeah I do I think about incentives a
lot and that is whenever I look at a
situation where the behavior just I
can't figure it out I go right to the
economic incentives but part of that
again is proximity bias. Those are the
people I teach at a business school. I
don't teach at the sociology department.
What do you What do you make of
And I hate even using his name because I
I I worry I'm adding to the problem by
platforming him and I think that I'm
hoping like Andrew Tate is just going to
fade into the distance when people
realize just how how how stupid and
nihilistic he is. But what do you think
of Nick Fuentes and does it say anything
about the Republican party or is it
going to be like an Andrew Tate or Yanni
Monopol forget his name was just kind of
the algorithms love him for the short
term and then he goes away. Do you think
this is something bigger?
>> Yeah, I do. I mean, I I I do think we're
in a moment of of sort of nihilism which
produces a right-wing reaction which is
fascist comes close to fascism.
And so the I think we entered a stage in
the 1980s or 1990s of what we call moral
relativism. The the prevailing ethos as
Alan Bloom wrote in the closing of the
American mind is you do you, I'll do me.
We we each come up with our own values.
And I think that led to a lot of people
with no shared values. If you tell
everybody to come up with your own
values, unless your name is Aristotle,
you can't do it. You come up with
nothing. And so I think we entered a
phase where people were just morally
inarticulate and unclear on values and
everything was kind of wishy-washy. Uh
and they were weak. And there's a and
then when you get a counterreaction to
that, there's a book by a guy named
Rusty Reno called uh The Return of the
Strong Gods. And his argument was that
after World War II people wanted weak
belief because they thought strong
belief produces the Nazis. And so they
went for weak belief. Carl Popper open
open society. Everything should be open.
And so there's a reaction against that
to have strong gods, strong nation,
strong man, uh strong orthodox faith. Uh
but with that goes the bad boy. I with
that goes true fanaticism because if
you're trying to trying to shock the
bourgeoisi, the weaklings, the elites,
the uh one of the things you wanted to
do is have a strong position and you
want it to be somewhat dangerous and
romantic and manly.
And so then you had that love for Rome,
Roman Empire that spread throughout the
alt-right, but it's inevitably going to
lead you to conspiracy theories. It's
inevitably going to lead you to racism.
it's inevitably going to lead you to
anti-semitism because once you adopt
that logic that I'm going to have the
strong belief that the establishment
doesn't like then you've got to keep
upping the dosage and that would that's
what Nick Fuentes is he's he ups the
dosage and the audience demands the
higher grade of heroin they want the
pure stuff and he offers some a little
more pure Andrew Tate offers a little
more pure pure but you can't return to
the earlier dosage because it seems
boring and so you have this cycle of
self-radicalization
with these young guys rising uh spewing
the most hateful stuff
and it still somehow seems cool to
people I guess um because and I think
the alt-right and my friends and family
members who are really in that world um
they say it's just getting crazier and
crazier
>> and you brought up a word just as we
wrap up here manly and we think about
this a lot and again uh this is a
genuine question not a question posing
as a comment But I tend to reverse
almost everything, including the
instability in our society, to a lack of
economic and romantic opportunities for
young men. And that's not to say that
it's not terrible for young women, but
young women don't pick up AR-15s or
start revolutions typically. I mean,
they're they're part of the movement,
but I would argue the most unstable
violent societies in the world all have
the same thing in common, and that is a
disproportionate number of young men who
are economically or or from relationally
challenged, if you will. Isn't I mean
can't a lot of our problems be reverse
engineered to young men feeling no sense
of purpose? And again I'll use the term
economic procarity. Absolutely. I agree
with that a thousand%. Um and you know
this is not a new problem. Dustki wrote
a book notes from the underground about
a nihilistic young man who feels
invisible to society and draws the right
conclusion that if society
>> started World War I.
>> Yeah. Right.
>> A 19year-old. Anyway, sorry. Go Right.
And and so if society hates me, I'm
going to hate right back. And I think
that's part of it. Just supplement that.
So some I would say some of the lonely
young men do the they basically want to
commit suicide and take others with them
when they go. That's basically what a
mass killing is. Uh and so there there's
that segment, but there's another
segment that's reacting. I was really
struck by this in a survey I saw
sometime in the last couple weeks uh
where they asked young people
uh if you want to have a successful
life, what are the most important pieces
of that for you? And for Trump voting
young men, the number one answer was
having children.
And uh the number three answer was was
getting married.
>> And it was 11 for progressive women. And
so the
>> it was didn't even make the top.
>> It was it was second and third from the
bottom. And so to me that this is like I
think it's frankly healthier. I think
the people who think marriage is not
important. Listen a lot of people don't
get married. A lot of people marriage is
not for them. A lot of things life
happens. But as I said earlier, dating
and marrying uh are vastly more likely
to make you happy. uh the I saw a study
I think the in in the institute for
family studies um that among liberal
liberal women who get married 96% say
they're happy and among unmarried 66%.
So it doesn't mean you're going to be
unhappy if you're unmarried. It's
certainly not I we all have single
friends who have built great lives for
themselves but the odds are a little
better if you if you have a life
partner.
>> The odds are a little better if you have
a life partner. David Brooks is one of
the nation's leading writers and
commentators. He's an op-ed columnist
for the New York Times and writer for
the Atlantic. He's a best-selling author
of The Second Mountain, The Road to
Character, The Social Animal, and How to
Know a Person. Uh David, you are you are
I don't know if you feel this heat or if
you can sense it. You are such a role
model for me because I love how you you
are just unafraid and you bring this
peanut butter and chocolate that I don't
see anywhere else and that is
conservative values or what are thought
of as conservative values wrapped in
emotion, wrapped in love, wrapped in
character. I don't see anyone I don't
know if it was the last person to do
this was W. I I just don't see anyone
doing this and I think you're just such
an important voice and such a great role
model for young people, specifically
young men. very much appreciate your
time today and your voice.
>> I have never been compared to a Reese's
Peanut Butter Cup, but I I take it as a
great honor
>> and so I thank you. And I one of the
nice things about doing this show is for
the next several weeks lots of people
are going to come up to me and say,
"Hey, I saw you on the Professor G Oh.
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This video discusses the decline of trust in government and neighbors, the rise of social pain and isolation, and the impact of social media and economic precarity, particularly on young men. It explores how these factors contribute to societal issues like increased conspiracy theories, anti-Semitism, and a general sense of unease. The conversation also delves into the importance of love, connection, and purpose, contrasting materialist explanations for societal problems with the need for cultural and relational repair. Various solutions are proposed, including national service and fostering a culture of trust and commitment, while also examining the complexities of economic incentives and the role of strong beliefs in society.
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