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Lust Is Draining You, And You Don't Even Know It

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Lust Is Draining You, And You Don't Even Know It

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A man that's defeated by lust is a weak

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man. A man that can control it will go

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very far in life.

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>> One moment, one minute of lust can ruin

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your whole entire life. Bro,

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>> this one going to hurt for you to hear,

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but I don't care cuz you need to hear

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it. Lust is ruining your life and you

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know it. Listen to me, bro. Never chase

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another human being and never chase

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another feeling again. Chase your

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purpose and chase God. I know you feel

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embarrassed about it and I know you have

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this great feeling of dread every time

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you [ __ ] up. But I'm here to tell you

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that God is the most merciful so long as

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you seek him. Bro, your lust will

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literally stop you from everything that

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you are working towards. It will stop

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you. It will hurt you if you let it.

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Lust is not something to demonize. Lust

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is something to understand. You

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understand that you animal at the end of

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the day. You a human being which is an

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animal. You got primal needs and stuff

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like that, but you have a consciousness,

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bro. You have a a consciousness that's

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that's really driving the human body.

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And you don't have to act on the human

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body's impulses. You have a say in this.

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And when you don't come in and say, you

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know what, we got to stop it. We can't

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be thinking like that. We can't be

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watching these things every day, all

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day. We can't be going out here chasing,

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you know, chasing women or going after

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their number. We need to build our

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kingdom. We need to like if you ain't

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having those conversations with

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yourself, you done for it, bro. You have

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to be able to align yourself back with

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the mission and goals that you have for

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your life. You will literally ruin

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everything that you've been building if

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you let lust take charge. In this

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today's generation, lust seems to be

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very normal for a lot of people. Lust

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and the desires of a man and of the

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flesh can really kill someone else's

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lives. Yeah, maybe lust seems to be

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normal today's generation, but many

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people doesn't know how it really

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affects us. Lusting removes your

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confidence. Lusting is full of fake

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dramas and feel full of fake intimacies.

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And if you keep on lusting and if you

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keep drowning your heart looking into

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woman for who she is on the outside that

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was her the inside, you don't deserve

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love in this world. If you keep droning

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yourself and your heart into loss and

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loss is one of the biggest enemies sin.

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Loss is one of the I can say the final

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boss every man should fight up because

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if you keep droning yourself to loss if

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you keep doing that every single day,

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you're also killing your life

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physically, mentally, your mind,

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emotionally, and even your spiritual

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life to God. And it also affects your

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relationships around to the other

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people, even your closest ones, even

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your loved ones. You maybe not realize

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it, but you'll realize it soon, bro.

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>> Lust or you wanting to masturbate or go

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back to porn is a coping mechanism for

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stress, loneliness, boredom, a lack of

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purpose, or emotional numbness. Right?

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You're just shoving down all your

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emotions cuz you're a big tough sigma

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male, right? You don't even feel

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anything. Bro, I'm a stoic guy. Nothing

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bothers me, man. bull crap. I guarantee

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you, you're suppressing all your

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emotions because you've been brainwashed

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by Andrew Tate and all these red pill

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clowns to act like you're a tough guy

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and nothing bothers you, but you're

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actually just suppressing all your

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emotions and it's bottling up into anger

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or you going and beating your wiener

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like a monkey. I guarantee you that that

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is happening, bro. And it all stems from

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one of these root issues that you have

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failed to address on your own. You need

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to understand that you're not running to

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lust because you just love jerking your

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wiener. you're running to lust because

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something within you is broken and it

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needs to be fixed. A lot of guys try and

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use lust to regulate their emotions

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instead of actually facing them. And

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until you properly deal with your pain,

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your lack of purpose, your emotional

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avoidance, or your underdeveloped

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masculinity, you will continue to circle

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back to something that will temporarily

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numb you from the pain, but it will also

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keep you trapped in bondage and

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addiction in your current situation,

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which I know that you don't want because

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you wouldn't still be sitting here right

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now watching this video if you

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thoroughly enjoyed beating your wheat.

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>> You have to understand that lust has a

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purpose. The purpose of lust is to get

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you off of your Godgiven

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purpose of the Godgiven destiny that God

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has given to you in your life. The

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purpose of lust is to make you

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comfortable is to make you satisfied. Is

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to make you content with where you are

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in your life. All right? And when lust

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comes, it is a direct attack on you

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spiritually. And it it is a direct

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attack on your father in heaven, God. It

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is a direct attack against him. And

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every time we give into lust, we are

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giving in to the wicked ways of Satan.

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Every time we give into lust, we are

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giving into the wicked ways of Satan.

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So next time you are tempted with lust,

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think of it as a literal battle, a

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literal fight for your purpose.

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You have God on one side who is saying,

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"My son, my daughter, come. Come to me.

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I always give you a way out. Even though

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Satan tempts you, come to me. I always

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give you a way out." And then on the

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other hand, you have Satan sitting there

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chilling like, "Hey, it's just one more

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time. It's just one more video. I mean,

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you can get back to your purpose after

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after you watch this video. You you can

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get right back to it. Think of it as a

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literal battle. And you need to see God

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and you need to see Satan and you need

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to choose God every single time in every

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situation that you are struggling and

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battling with with lust. In that very

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moment, you need to make a conscious

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decision to choose God. There's only one

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way to get over your lust. Lust is the

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thing that's killing you. Watching corn,

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yes, I'm speaking about it. I'm not even

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joking. is the thing destroying you.

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It's destroying your perception on

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women, your energy, your focus, your

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mental clarity, your ability to stay in

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a relationship, the way you look at

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women. Like, you're just subject you're

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objectifying every girl you look at. I

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don't know if that's the right word, but

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it's sad that our society is normalizing

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this. Oh, it's okay to watch porn. No,

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it's not. This is destroying you. It's

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ruining your life. Oh, it's okay every

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once in a while, you know, end the day.

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No,

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you're you're trying to downplay it. You

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know, it's terrible. you know, it it it

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ruins you, okay? And there's one way to

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get through it, and it's Jesus. That's

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it. It's the only way, you know, um

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there's it talks about it in the Bible.

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It talks about lust in the Bible. And

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it's not like this silly little thing

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that like you shouldn't feel shame if

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you fall into lust over and over and

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over.

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It's something that a lot of really

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strong men have fallen to in the Bible.

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And I can talk about this more when I

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when I know exactly what I'm talking

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about. I don't want to butcher it, but

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there's strong men in the Bible who have

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fallen to lust. It's not something that

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like is super easy to get over. I get

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it. But I promise you, speaking from

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experience, life on the other side is

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beautiful. It's amazing. The finer

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things of life, waking up early,

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sunrise, sunset, you know, drinking

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coffee, hanging out with your friends,

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socializing, not staying in in your dark

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room all the time. Get out of your room.

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Get out of your dark room and go go for

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a walk. I get it. It's tough. And you

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feel like you're trying to stop and you

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fall back in. You're trying to stop, you

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fall back in. But I promise you, Jesus

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is the only way out. When you feel a

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temptation, talk to God. When you feel

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like you want to, talk to God. When

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you're not, talk to God. Speak to God.

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Build a personal relationship with

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Jesus. I'm not forcing anything on you,

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but it's the only thing that's worked

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for me. Um,

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love you guys. This is something not a

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lot of people like talking about because

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it's it's awkward. It's weird. It's not

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awkward. It's not weird. It's a real

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thing. And I promise you, life on the

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other side is so much more beautiful.

Interactive Summary

This video serves as a candid discussion about the destructive nature of lust and its impact on a man's life and spiritual journey. The speaker emphasizes that lust is often a coping mechanism for underlying issues such as stress, loneliness, and a lack of purpose, rather than just a physical urge. By urging viewers to replace these harmful habits with a focus on their mission and a stronger connection to God, the speaker provides a message of hope and encouragement, highlighting that while the struggle is difficult, living a life free from the bondage of lust leads to a more fulfilling and beautiful existence.

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