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I went from 13,000 employees to three

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[music] employees in one week. We work

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was one of the fastest physical global

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growth the world's ever seen. But

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everything went wrong. We lost

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everything. 2019 you were publicly filed

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its S1. Company valued at around [music]

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$47 billion. The S1 showed some losses,

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3 billion in the past 3 years. Also, the

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S1 revealed when you were CEO that you'd

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also trademarked the word we [music] and

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sold it back to the company. That's not

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true. People sometimes think I was fired

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because the Wall Street Journal said

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[music] so. Not true. I wanted to hear

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directly from you. What happened? You

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really want to go there? I'm like I'm

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I'm happy to the floor is yours. So in

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we work the business grew faster than I

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could grow and every step I take

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suddenly the [music] ego starts coming

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up. Oh 20 billion valuation billion

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valuation in Japan on top of that 5

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billion valuation in China. It suddenly

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became about the money. I forgot what we

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were all about and when I lost it

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everybody lost it. And the next thing is

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we found ourselves being forced to go

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public when we weren't [music] ready.

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Then you resigned as CEO of we work

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after the IPO didn't pan out. So I

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stepped down out of choice and [music] a

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second after I did it, we got stabbed in

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the back and the only lesson there,

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you're going to stab the king, kill. If

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you're not going to kill, I'm going to

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come back again.

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>> Why did you make that choice to go back

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into business again? Cuz you had money

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from the reports almost a billion

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dollars. You know how hard it is.

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>> I now realize [music] that in we work, I

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did a lot more things right than wrong.

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A lot more. Not like 10% more, like 95%.

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Some of what I'm saying is hard for you

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to fully hone in on. All these founders

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you spoke [music] to, all this I don't

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think they shared this paper. So, let's

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talk about it. So, first,

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[music]

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Adam Newman, I've had the privilege of

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getting to know you briefly over the

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last um couple of months, and it struck

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me almost immediately that you're unlike

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almost any other founder or CEO or

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really person I think I've ever met.

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There's a depth to you and a and a

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philosophy and a perspective that is

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just incredibly rare. My question to you

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is for you to be an anomaly if we accept

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that.

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Am I right in thinking that you had some

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sort of anomalous

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early origin story? What is that that

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story that shaped this man that sat in

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front of me? You know, for me first when

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I get to know someone in the beginning

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and they say, "Where is it coming from?

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Who are you?" I usually start the same.

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First of all, I'm a husband. It's my

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first job. what I'm most proud of. Then

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I'm a father. I'm a father of six. Then

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I'm a friend. Friendships are very

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important for me. And after that I'm an

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entrepreneur. I think each one of us has

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a

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phenomenal

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soul. I think it's perfect. And I think

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what really we see when we look at

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people is the distance between where we

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think they're holding to where their

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potential is. And I think it's that gap

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between those two things that actually

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defines a person. And for me throughout

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my life, sometimes out of my control

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when I was young and sometimes with my

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control when I got older, I've always

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been striving to close that gap.

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>> So you talk about not having control.

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Your early context is quite unstable

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from what I read because your mother

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suffered from bipolar. Can you bring me

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into that world so I can understand like

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the sort of context that Adam was

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raised?

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>> Happily. So we'll start like every story

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it has two sides to it and my mom and my

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father are both doctors and growing up I

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always saw both of them taking care of

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the patients and it would feel sometimes

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like the patients came ahead of us. So

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for example my sister and I we were

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never sick no matter how sick we were

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look at my she was an oncologist and she

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would say my patients are sicker go to

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school and that was sort of the

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beginning of it. When I was in the

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second grade, my parents got a divorce.

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It was very difficult for my mom and she

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needed a change of scenery. So, we

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actually moved to the United States. You

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know this photo here?

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>> I do.

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>> Um, and this one here, you've got a kid.

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This is you as a a child that is beaming

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with uh smell sort of ear to ear. Often

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when I see photos like that, my my

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curiosity is what what you can't see and

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what that young kid, that young boy

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there is is not saying, but what he's

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feeling underneath all of those uh those

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emotions. What I could tell you is I

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think for me I think the challenge

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started in the house. So we talked about

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my mother being bipolar. I only observed

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my mother's moods when we moved to the

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United States. There was no one around.

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It was only my mom and my sister and I.

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And all day she would work with the

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patients and at night at 8 p.m. she

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would come home and all hell would break

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loose. And I remember there's many

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stories but I remember this. She would

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tell my sister and I we had to wash the

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dishes. That was our one chore. And we

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wouldn't no matter what because kids

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sometimes rebel by action when they

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can't rebel by words. And she would come

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home, you didn't wash the dishes. And

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she would take the dishes and throw them

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on the floor. And then she would cry and

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start cleaning the dishes and and

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mopping them. And it was every night

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ended with some version of action like

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that. And for 2 years, I remember how

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crazy my sister and I thought the whole

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experience was. And we didn't have any

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friends who were sharing that experience

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until one day she bought this nice set

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of dishes. And she comes home again to

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throw the dishes. And we notice she's

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only throwing the cheap dishes. She's

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not throwing the ones that she liked,

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which gave us a little hint that maybe

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there's a little more control over

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what's happening than this out of

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control situation. So if I had to guess

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what was happening with the kids because

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now in hindsight I know my mom and my

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dad very well. Probably there was a lot

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of arguing in the house. Probably as a

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kid cuz I now see my kids that are very

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young. I'm sure a child finds it very

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confusing when the parents are not

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aligned as a team because as a child all

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you have to lean on are your parents.

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But I think the most important thing to

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say

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if my mom wasn't the way she was and if

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I didn't go through all those challenges

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that I went through growing up and I

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went through a lot. We're talking about

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bipolar. There's a lot that comes with

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it and we could go deeper or less. But

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almost every single thing if you took a

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piece of paper and you had to do a check

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mark for every bad thing we think can

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happen to a little boy. You get to check

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mark with me all almost all of them

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including the really bad ones that we

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don't like to talk about. As bad as that

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was when I was 22 23 I remember being

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very angry about my childhood. only when

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I met Rebecca, my then girlfriend to

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then wife, she very quickly introduced

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me to a spiritual practice. The way she

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introduced me, by the way, was after a

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week of dating, she came to me and she

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goes, "Look, you're really nice. You

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have a lot of potential, but you're not

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the guy for me." I was very surprised at

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the time. I was living in New York. My

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sister was the supermodel. We were

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hanging out. I I thought a lot of

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myself. And I said, "What do you mean

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I'm not the guy for you?" He said,

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"Well, you don't have a spiritual band.

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You're very focused on material things.

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You want to be successful, but you're

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not actually understanding the game of

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life. The guy I'm interested in is going

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to want true happiness and true

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fulfillment. And true happiness and true

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fulfillment does not come from material

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things. It was so different for anything

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anyone has ever told me that instead of

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running away or doing this or doing

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that, I thought for a second and I said,

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"Well, how would one come to explore

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this spiritual life that you're talking

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about?" And she said, "Well, you need a

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practice." And for me that practice

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started being cabala. But for all of us

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there can be different practices. The

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thing I learned very quickly in the

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practice is the difference between meant

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to be and free choice. And I think a lot

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of people don't understand it. But how

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can there be? We talk a lot about in

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spirituality about it's meant to be and

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there's free choice. How could there be

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free choice and things be meant to be at

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the same time? The way I explain it is

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you get to a fork in your life and you

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choose left over right and everything

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works out meant to be. You get to that

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same fork and you choose right and you

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crash on your face horribly. Everybody's

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watching and you stop and you actually

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learn lessons from it and you take

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accountability and you say, you know

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what, whatever happened to me happened

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for a reason and I'm going to learn from

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it. I'm going to be stronger. Almost

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like a sword that's getting forged. And

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the more times you hit it and the more

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hit you put on it, the stronger it gets.

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And then you learn those lessons and you

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go back into the game of life and you

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apply that in again, suddenly you take

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the catastrophe or the tragedy or the

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curse and you make it into a blessing.

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You turn it into a made to be. When the

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world did crash on me as an adult, it

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was nothing compared to what I had to

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deal with as a child. I was like, it's

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okay. I have a wife. I have kids.

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[clears throat] I have close friends.

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we'll take a deep breath and we'll start

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from scratch again. And that kind of

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fortitude, I think regretfully, comes

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through going through very difficult

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things. So, if you're listening to this

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right now and you're going through

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something really difficult and it feels

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dark, I encourage you to remember that

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the darkest moment of the night is a

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second before dawn.

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>> I feel like there's things in your early

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context that you haven't shared before

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because you said there's things that we

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don't usually share. Not publicly, but

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meaning I have in front of So I used to

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share everything in front of our

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employees that we work. So there's

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things I shared in front of 10,000

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people. I'm not sure it ever made it to

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the press.

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>> What is missing? You really want to go

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there?

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>> I'm I'm happy to.

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>> If you're happy to, I'm happy to.

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>> I'll share two things that I'm not sure

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that maybe could be helpful for other

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people that are going through similar

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things.

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So the the hidding and stuff like so

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when someone's bipolar, by the way, they

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get very angry or very happy very fast.

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When they're happy, they're the

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happiest. You have fun and everything's

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amazing. And my mom would play games

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with us and it was phenomenal. But

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also when that I think happens a lot

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with bipolar, there's the suicide

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threats. And then there's one thing when

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you threaten to. So again, if you're two

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children and your only parent threatens

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to commit suicide,

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who is going to take care of you? What

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is going to happen if suddenly that

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happens? And I have a lot of memories,

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but one that just came back to me not

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too long ago. We're in the kibuts, which

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is where we're living after we came back

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from the US. My mom wanted us to have a

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special experience. So we went to this

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community where everybody shares a lot

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of things together. It's also the

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beginning of why I love communities. And

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we get into this big fight and my mom

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basically says she's going to kill

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herself and she takes the knife and I

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remember she's holding this huge knife.

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I'm like, "No, no, don't do it." And I

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remember

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I just remember feeling that I

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[clears throat] have to stop it that it

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is up to me and if I don't stop it, then

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she's going to kill herself right there

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in front of my sister and I. So I

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grabbed the knife and we're fighting

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left and right. And my sister is sitting

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right there and she's crying and she's

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crying

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and I'm no and she's saying yes. And the

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whole thing is so crazy. How old were

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you? 12 at that moment.

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That's one. There's more if you want to

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go deeper, but that was one. I invite

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you to go deeper.

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When I was in between second grade to

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fourth grade, um I was sexually

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I think you called molested by an older

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uh than a teenager.

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So she was at least six or seven years

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older than me. This one I didn't

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even know that what was happening was

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wrong.

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And many years later, Rebecca and I are

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in the Hamptons and it's somehow the

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story comes up and she goes, "Adam,

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understand that this is not normal for a

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child at that age."

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And I didn't even fully understand.

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And

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that taught me

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that explained to me a lot about

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children. And again we go back to the

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responsibility of parents and the

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responsibility of society to take care

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of the children and schools to

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understand what's happening. And

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whenever we see anyone we are so good at

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walking into a room seeing someone else

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and judging. Oh, they're not acting the

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way I would act. They're not acting

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right. They're not speaking right.

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Everybody's so busy judging everybody. I

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want to encourage every single person

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next time you're about to judge. You

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don't know who that person is. You do

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not know where they come from. You do

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not know what happened to them as a kid.

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God forbid they were molested. God

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forbid they dealt with all these things.

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You don't know where they started. You

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only know where you see them now. And it

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could be that if you really got to know

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them and you would have known the

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distance they went from here to here,

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you would have been

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extremely impressed with them and you

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would have not measured them that way.

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And this is why I think it's so

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important for all of us when we walk

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into rooms to really go after unity. You

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and I can say the same sentence in a way

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that tears people apart or brings people

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together. It takes more effort to speak

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in a way that brings us together. But if

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we don't start acting like this, if we

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keep dividing and keep splitting,

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I'm worried.

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Sounds like as an adult, you've been

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able to understand that early experience

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and sort of create a new sort of

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perspective or lens on what happened to

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you and what it means. And as you said,

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you know, you've you've orientated it

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around the fact that it's happened for a

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reason or at least there's there's

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something to have learned from it. Was

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that always the case? I I sometimes

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reflect on my own experience and think

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that for the first season of my life I

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was dragged and then at some point I

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like got hold of the steering wheel and

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I was able to like drive and one of them

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was like sort of unconscious and the

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other was more in sort of intentional

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and thoughtful and I'm wondering through

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your early teens and 20ies whether you

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had the wisdom and the perspective that

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you have now on your early experiences

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and how that's evolved over time. I

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probably went to sleep crying every

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single night for

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probably until I was 14 or 15. And I

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remember and if you ask my sister did

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what what would I say? She I I

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completely forgot. She said I told her

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that one day I'll become very successful

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and we'll take care of I'll take care of

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us. That was what I used to say. I I

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literally didn't remember this is

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something she told me. [sighs and gasps]

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I think that's how I interpreted that

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control and how I'm going to fix all

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these challenges that I had. But we

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launched the school, Rebecca and I, more

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Rebecca I helped. It's a fifth school.

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In the school, we teach kids how to be

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connected to themselves, how to be part

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of something greater than themselves. If

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someone just taught me this as a kid and

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I would have understood then that

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there's this bigger picture, I think I

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would have been able to handle it a lot

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better and skip the challenging years

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faster, move faster into the point where

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I realize that I don't control what

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happens, but I can control how I react

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to it. So, back to your point of

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driving,

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are you driving?

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>> Don't know. Now, you question it. I'm

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questioning. I would question it. You

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know, my my follow-up question to you

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would be, how do you define success?

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>> My definition of success these days,

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it's funny. I was thinking about it this

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morning when I got on the lift on my way

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here. I thought um do you know what it

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was? Cuz my my fiance turned to me this

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weekend and she went, "Stephen, I think

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you have enough now." And then she

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paused and then she retracted the

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statement. But I but it got me thinking

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about what enough is. And actually, I

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thought, well, it's the motion forward

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in the pursuit of goals that matter to

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me that are challenging surrounded by

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people that is the that is the success.

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And that's like a daily a daily thing.

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There's no there's no podium in this

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this game that I'm playing.

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>> But when she said she thinks you have

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enough, was she referring to material

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things?

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>> Yes. I think society has taught us that

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once we gain that success, once we gain

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those material things, we get to this

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number, suddenly that hole that we all

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fill inside of us will be full.

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Now, I know it's very hard to hear,

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especially for people who haven't gotten

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there. Like, oh yeah, you got there

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already. So now you're saying it. I'm

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only going to share with you what I have

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learned and from all the most successful

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people that I know and I'm lucky to know

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quite a lot of them. I have not seen one

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that got happy or fulfilled from

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attaining a number or a material thing.

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I don't believe that's how the game of

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life works. So when your fiance said

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which not like her cuz I think she's

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more on the spiritual side. Tell her

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that I said I'm surprised she said that.

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I think she had something deeper to say

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and she was holding back. When she said,

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"I think you have enough." I would

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really go back to redefining success.

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So, back to that. I'll tell you how I

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define it in a second. But I think if we

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can agree on the definition of success,

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then we can start having a discussion of

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a are we there and are we headed there?

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And B, how do we do better to get there?

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And if we agree on our definition of

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success, then now we can start working

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together towards the same goal. If one

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of us defines success by making the most

17:45

money and the other person defines

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success by being the most fulfilled, the

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most happy, the most light that they can

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be, then playing two different games.

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>> What's your definition?

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>> When you're at your deathbed and you're

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one minute before it's all going to go

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and you know you're out of time, all you

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have left is the love that surrounds you

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at that moment. your children, your

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grandchildren, your friends, your

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friends, children, all the love that

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surrounds you at that moment and all the

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love that you have cultivated for your

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entire life. And I think it's that love

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which then moves on to whatever it is

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that happens after. So my definition of

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success is in that last moment right

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before you go, how do you feel? Do you

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feel full and surrounded by love and

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like life has been this amazing journey

18:36

or is there regret or is there this and

18:38

I'll tell you the one thing that happens

18:39

right before we pass away the ego goes

18:42

away completely. No more secrets. And

18:46

and again in the spiritual study you say

18:48

what's the definition of hell back to

18:49

how we started this. You get to see you

18:52

get to glimpse for a second the ultimate

18:54

potential that your soul had perfect it

18:57

was and how high you could have gone and

18:58

where you really got to and the distance

19:01

between those two. That's hell.

19:05

When you were 31 years old in 2010

19:09

and you sat down with your partner

19:11

Miguel

19:12

>> Miguel McKelie

19:13

>> and you you made this sketch on a

19:15

whiteboard for we work. If id asked you

19:17

then what your definition of success was

19:19

would you have turned to me and said

19:20

love or would you have said something

19:22

else?

19:22

>> I believe I would have said something

19:23

else. So my big shift is when I met my

19:26

wife. So by this point of this picture

19:28

that you're showing me I was four years

19:30

into Rebecca teaching me about the game

19:31

of life. So I'm starting to get

19:33

advanced. So I I can tell you what what

19:34

I was thinking. It wouldn't have been

19:36

love, but it would have been we and the

19:39

point above because was called if you

19:40

look at that picture, it's going to say

19:42

we work, we live, we give, we share. I

19:45

don't remember. I haven't seen it for

19:46

like 10 years. It was never about desks

19:49

and chairs. It was always about creating

19:51

a world where people make a life and not

19:53

just a living. It was about something

19:55

greater than ourselves. If we just jump

19:57

sort of backwards in time from that day

19:59

by about 10 years, if I had asked you

20:01

what you want to be when you're older,

20:03

what would you have said?

20:04

>> At 21.

20:05

>> 21.

20:05

>> It's embarrassing. I'll tell you. It's

20:07

embarrassing though. I'm embarrassed for

20:09

>> I'm embarrassed for my 21-year-old self.

20:11

>> What did you want to be?

20:12

>> A billionaire.

20:13

>> You wanted to be a billionaire at 21.

20:14

>> I did regretfully.

20:16

>> Why?

20:17

>> I thought that making the money is going

20:20

to compensate. I thought it was going to

20:22

fill that hole for my childhood. What

20:24

about at 16 if I'd asked you?

20:26

>> I think I said millionaire there. I

20:27

don't think I knew the word millionaire

20:28

at 16. I think the numbers were cuz the

20:30

world changed.

20:31

>> But I thought that making money was

20:34

going to fill that hole from the

20:36

childhood that back then seemed very

20:39

difficult and very aggressive and very

20:42

with all these negative words that we

20:43

can use about difficult and abusive

20:45

childhoods. And I thought that making

20:47

money would solve it. But then I did

20:49

three businesses afterwards who did not

20:51

succeed until I met Rebecca. And Rebecca

20:53

was like, "You're chasing money. You

20:55

will never have it. And even if you get

20:58

it, it will never make you happy. You

21:00

will never have it." And she said,

21:01

"Chasing money is like chasing cool.

21:03

You're cool. You're just like that. You

21:06

didn't ch I don't think you're working

21:07

too hard on doing. Thank you so much.

21:08

>> You don't like putting on shoes. I don't

21:09

like putting on shoes that please.

21:10

>> It's all good."

21:11

>> So she said, "You're chasing money. It

21:14

doesn't work like that. Also like

21:15

chasing a girl. You really want someone.

21:17

You have to take a deep breath." But she

21:20

said to me, "Even if you were to get

21:21

money the way you're chasing it, it not

21:23

only will not fulfill you, it will be

21:25

negative for you." So I said, "Well,

21:27

what should I do?" She said, "Well,

21:29

you're a very talented individual. You

21:31

should figure out what your superpower

21:32

is." It's the first time I've heard

21:34

anyone use the word superpower. She

21:35

goes, "You need to take your superpower.

21:37

You need to connect it to something

21:39

that's really meaningful for the world.

21:41

Something you're passionate about, but

21:42

something that can make a difference.

21:44

You need to bring those two things

21:45

together. You need to only focus on

21:47

making that a reality.

21:50

Employees will want to work with a

21:51

company that's doing that. Investors

21:53

want to invest in a company that's doing

21:54

that. And consumers want to buy from a

21:56

company that's doing that. The rest will

21:58

for then she said success the way you

22:00

you define it then that money success

22:02

you think is a will fall on you from the

22:04

sky more than you can ever imagine. I

22:06

was like I want to marry this woman. I

22:09

proposed 3 months after we met.

22:11

>> And the idea of we was central to this

22:13

drawing that I have in front of me,

22:14

which is a a drawing you did on a

22:16

whiteboard when you were 31 years old,

22:18

2010 with your partner Miguel after

22:20

selling your company. I think it was

22:21

called Green Desk.

22:22

>> Green Desk.

22:23

>> You sold it for how much? It wasn't like

22:24

>> 1.5 million. There were three partners.

22:26

So we each got half a million. Half a

22:28

million. Half a million. But our partner

22:30

didn't want to pay us the whole amount

22:31

up front. So he only gave us $300,000.

22:34

The rest was installment over four years

22:36

for Miguel and I. And I remember telling

22:37

Miguel, Miguel, you keep the money cuz

22:40

I'll waste it. First time I ever made

22:41

money. You keep the money cuz I will

22:43

waste it and we'll keep it for our next

22:45

business. And the way the universe

22:46

works, by the way, the universe speaks

22:48

to us. The signs start happening and you

22:50

sort of one thing leads to another. It's

22:52

almost serendipity. Our first Weiwork

22:54

building to get the building, the

22:56

landlord wouldn't give it to us unless

22:58

we gave a check of exactly $300,000. The

23:01

same $300,000 that was sitting in

23:03

Miguel's account. It went from there to

23:05

there. and my work was created.

23:08

So tell me what that is. Okay, we're in

23:11

Greenesk. Just to remind everybody what

23:13

Greenesk is, Greenesk was created in May

23:16

of 2008. The world was the world was

23:19

crashing. That was the downturn and

23:22

before it started, Miguel and I got to

23:24

know each other. He was an architect and

23:25

I had a baby clothing company and we're

23:27

in the same building. My roommate

23:29

introduced us and we would just talk

23:32

about doing great things and there was a

23:33

landlord there and every day he would

23:35

see me goes, "Adam, your baby clothing

23:38

company sucks." And I said, "Mr. Gutman,

23:40

why do you say that?" He said, "Well, my

23:42

wife, we have eight kids. She loves

23:43

buying baby clothes. She didn't once buy

23:45

from you. I don't know how you pay me

23:46

rent. Your baby clothes suck." And I

23:49

would say, "Well, Mr. Gutman, you own

23:51

all this real estate around here." He

23:52

goes, "Yes, I do." Said, "Your real

23:54

estate sucks." He goes, "Why do you say

23:56

that?" Said, "It's all empty." And we

23:57

would do that for four months back and

23:59

forth. One day he looks at me goes,

24:01

"Adam, if I gave you one of my

24:04

buildings, you keep saying that it

24:06

sucks. What would you do with it?" So he

24:07

takes me upstairs and he shows me this

24:09

this beautiful floor plate. And I said

24:11

to him, "How much do you get in rent?"

24:13

He goes, " $5,000 a month." Said, "Well,

24:14

it's empty, but let's say you would get

24:16

$5,000." Said, "Look, I'm a small

24:18

business. I don't need this much. Let's

24:20

divide it to 15 small places spaces.

24:22

We'll charge $1,000 each. We'll put a

24:25

receptionist. We'll pay the receptionist

24:27

2500. We'll get 15,000. That will leave

24:30

us with 12,500.

24:32

You will get 7,500 and we'll get the

24:35

difference. And he was like, "Let me

24:37

think about it." He calls me the next

24:39

day. He goes, "I love it, but instead of

24:40

one floor, take the whole building. It

24:42

had five floors. We'll put the

24:43

receptionist downstairs so we can share

24:45

the expenses. It will be even better."

24:47

And we put five ads on Craigslist. We

24:51

launched Greenes. It was 92% full within

24:53

a week. started cash flowing positive

24:55

which was a new thing for me because

24:56

this was my fourth business never had

24:58

cash flow positive cash flowing positive

25:00

within a month and became very

25:02

successful very fast after about six

25:05

maybe 12 months we started thinking

25:07

bigger Miguel and I said we'll take this

25:09

national we went to our landlord said

25:12

I'm not interested we asked for $20

25:13

million we said we'll split the business

25:15

50/50 he wasn't interested so we started

25:18

and and very soon after he said I'll buy

25:20

it from you and we started planning this

25:22

and you drew this on a whiteboard.

25:24

Miguel drew this on the wall, not even a

25:26

whiteboard. The walls were made of

25:27

glass. This was drawn on the glass. So

25:29

all of our walls in green desk were also

25:31

whiteboards and cuz everybody was about

25:33

creating and inventing. And what you see

25:35

here is that social life, commercial,

25:39

friends is here. This proves the fact

25:42

Ben Horwitz in the interview that you

25:43

saw he did with me in the podcast, he

25:45

says to me, Adam, you've always had one

25:47

idea. And then at the end, at the end,

25:49

he apologized said, Adam, I didn't mean

25:50

to say you only have one idea. Of

25:52

course, you have all these ideas. I

25:53

said, Ben, you're right. This is not

25:55

that different from what flow is. This

25:57

is all about the friends and all about

25:58

the living and all about the working

26:00

life essentials. Wow, I haven't seen

26:03

this for a long time. Fintech, travel,

26:06

everything in between. So, for anyone

26:08

that's watching uh listening and can't

26:10

see, it's a circle that has lots of

26:12

circles in it. Um, and it says all the

26:14

little circles are like travel, health,

26:16

social life, friends, um, co-work

26:20

co-workers, supporters,

26:22

uh, life essentials, work

26:25

rituals, work rituals. Again, you can

26:28

read it better than me, but that makes

26:29

sense.

26:30

>> And this was the idea for we work.

26:31

>> This is the idea for we work. So

26:32

sometimes people said, "Oh, you grew out

26:34

of desk and chairs. You shouldn't have

26:36

gone to all these categories." The idea

26:38

started, this was before there was one

26:39

desk.

26:41

What is the essence of this?

26:43

>> We wanted to make a world, at least in

26:46

our opinion, that really needed

26:48

community. This was to deliver on a

26:50

mission of of create a world where

26:52

people make a life and not just a

26:54

living. This was a full life style, life

26:57

circle, and it was very aspirational.

27:00

And it's how, by the way, for anyone of

27:02

our listeners or your listeners that uh

27:05

that is starting a business, start with

27:07

a vision. Dream as high as you can. Go

27:10

all the way to the stars. Cuz if you

27:12

don't shoot for the stars, you're never

27:13

going to get to the moon. Go far.

27:16

Then take a deep breath and go back to

27:19

basics. What do I need to do first? What

27:21

I need to do second? What I need to do

27:22

third? The secret of life and

27:24

entrepreneurship is to be able to be in

27:26

both places at the same time. On the one

27:28

hand, I'm going to go so far. On the

27:30

other hand, I'm just starting, so I

27:32

better roll up my sleeves and get the

27:33

broom and start brooming. It's both of

27:36

them. I need to go knock on doors. I

27:38

need to go meet people. I need to do

27:40

whatever work needs to be done at the

27:42

beginning to get the business started.

27:44

>> Let's talk about both then. So the you

27:46

got the trenches and then you've got

27:47

let's say the clouds or the moon as you

27:48

refer to it. Why is it important to

27:51

dream big? Why is the scale and the size

27:54

of the dream important?

27:56

>> So I believe it's the secret of

27:58

manifestation. So when people ask me

28:01

Adam what is the secret manifestation?

28:03

How do you make something out of

28:04

nothing? I think the order is first you

28:07

have to believe. If you and I have a big

28:09

idea, first we have to believe it. Then

28:13

that takes time to believe. True belief,

28:14

by the way. Do you know when belief is

28:16

measured?

28:16

>> No. When it's really tough. Belief is

28:20

not measured on everything. So I

28:21

remember this. This is and I've shared

28:23

this story before, but your audience is

28:24

so wide that I'm sure a lot of them

28:26

haven't heard it.

28:29

When right after the whole explosion of

28:32

we work occurred and it was like 5 days

28:34

in and the whole thing was crashing on

28:36

us and there's a million articles and

28:37

the whole thing is happening my

28:40

spiritual teacher who I haven't spoken

28:42

at this point almost for 2 years after I

28:44

studied with him for 8 years calls me

28:46

said Adam how are you doing I said I'm

28:48

not doing so well right now it's crazy

28:51

he said oh great that's why I called you

28:53

I said why did you call me his name is

28:54

Eton I said why didn't you call me said

28:57

I called you to make sure that you

28:58

remembered the two things we learned for

29:00

8 years. Said, "Atan, we didn't learn

29:02

two things for 8 years. We study twice a

29:04

week. We learned endless things." Goes,

29:06

"No, you missed it. We learned two

29:08

things."

29:10

I said, "Please remind me." Goes, "One

29:13

was love thy neighbor as yourself, and

29:16

the rest is commentary."

29:19

It took a second, Fred. I said, "Let's

29:22

talk about this for a second. What does

29:23

love thy neighbor as yourself mean to

29:25

you?

29:28

>> Such a famous saying. We've heard it so

29:30

many times. When I think about it, the

29:32

way that I understand it is to have

29:35

empathy and compassion for

29:38

all of the complexities, both the good,

29:39

the bad, the indifferent, and that which

29:41

you don't understand, which is like how

29:42

I would treat myself. like I understand

29:45

um all the that I'm a complex person and

29:48

that I'm multifaceted and imperfect and

29:50

that I have strengths and weaknesses and

29:52

I kind of I'm okay with all of it and in

29:54

others we're less okay with all of it.

29:56

Beautiful. Let's say it a little bit

29:57

different words but that was right on.

29:59

Love that ins means that you first have

30:02

to love yourself. To love yourself you

30:04

have to acknowledge not only the great

30:06

strength that you have that you love,

30:07

you must acknowledge your weaknesses,

30:09

your failures, your mistakes. And the

30:12

only way you can love yourself after all

30:13

of those is if you're able to forgive

30:15

yourself. So the true secret of loving

30:17

oneself is to forgive yourself, to not

30:20

carry guilt, to really be able to know

30:22

that all of these are lessons for you to

30:24

grow and change and go to your next

30:25

level from. Back to the sword analogy

30:28

that you're a sword and you're getting

30:29

forged and every single time you get

30:32

hit, you just get stronger. Once you

30:34

feel that and you're able to love

30:36

yourself, then you're able to love

30:37

everybody else. That was the first thing

30:39

he told me we learned. The second thing

30:41

he said to me which we said before is I

30:43

want to remind you that the darkest

30:45

moment of the night is a second before

30:46

dawn. Belief is not measured when

30:49

everything is going up and everybody's

30:50

telling you what a genius you are and

30:52

everybody wants to be your friend and

30:53

everybody wants to be your investor.

30:55

Belief is measured when it's all

30:56

crashing. when even your friends are

30:59

questioning you, when the phone is not

31:01

ringing and if a person is able to have

31:04

true belief then then he says to me if

31:07

you're going to be able to take this

31:08

experience and really hold your belief,

31:10

hold your positivity, hold your

31:11

happiness, be the person I know you can

31:13

be, you can't imagine what the future

31:16

stored for you. What did you believe in

31:19

in your hardest moment?

31:21

in God and in myself, in my wife, in my

31:27

kids, and in the fact that even though I

31:29

don't know at this moment why this thing

31:31

happened,

31:33

I am going to be stronger for it. And I

31:35

remember that morning, this phone call

31:37

was was late at night, the next morning

31:38

at 6:00 a.m. I walked down to to my

31:42

three I went from 13,000 employees to

31:44

three employees in one week. I walked

31:46

down to the three employees who were my

31:48

partners in the family office, not even

31:49

employees, partners. I walk down to them

31:51

and I'm smiling and they're stressed

31:53

out. We would meet every day at 6:00

31:55

a.m. that we're done. We're bankrupt.

31:56

It's finished. They only joined me 3

31:59

months before they came to manage what

32:00

they thought was a 5 to10 billion family

32:02

office and they're dealing with negative

32:04

400 million compounding interest full

32:07

bankruptcy situation. and start and I

32:10

thought about them all my not all a lot

32:13

of friends that I had that were really

32:14

there with me and enjoyed with me and

32:16

grew with me and made money with me when

32:18

I really needed that one small moment a

32:20

lot of them weren't there and these

32:22

three almost strangers who I didn't

32:24

really know were standing right there by

32:26

my side and they see me smiling Adam why

32:29

are you smiling you they're like they

32:30

thought I really lost my mind it was

32:32

done and I said I'm smiling because I

32:34

remember that the darkest moment of the

32:35

night is a second before dawn and I

32:38

remember that belief is actually

32:39

measured when things are difficult, not

32:41

when everything is working. And I

32:43

believe and I know it's going to work

32:45

out and I don't know how and I don't

32:47

know why, but this is all going to work

32:49

out for the best. And we're going to

32:50

learn a lot from this and it will

32:51

actually prepare us when a real

32:53

difficulty happens. So, we're ready to

32:55

go and deal with it. And about 10 days

32:57

later, we started coming out of it in a

33:00

very positive way. I want to go to the

33:03

top of the story and I really because I

33:04

really want to walk through some of the

33:05

key moments, but um I noticed your

33:07

energy shift a little bit when you

33:08

started describing those three people.

33:10

>> Here's another thing that I've learned.

33:12

If you know haven't you're facing this

33:14

as we speak right now. I bet you have

33:16

lots of friends.

33:18

>> I I bet you have

33:19

>> how you define friends.

33:20

>> Exactly. Well, I'll tell you a secret

33:21

about them and I'm sorry to say that.

33:23

We're only going to know which one of

33:25

them are your friend and which ones are

33:26

not. where if God god forbid you crash

33:30

and you actually need them

33:34

and then I can also tell you if you're

33:35

going to crash or not if you go big

33:38

enough really really big you crash

33:42

whenever someone says oh Adam it's never

33:44

going to happen to me my ego is never

33:45

going to get the best of me I'm never

33:47

I'm always going to stay in control

33:48

young successful people like to say that

33:50

to me and say oh you haven't gone big

33:51

enough cuz if you really really that's

33:54

part of the definition of going really

33:55

really big life is not about if we fall

33:59

down. We're supposed to fall down. Life

34:01

is about how we get up. And the more

34:04

times we fall down, the more times we

34:06

get to get up. And if you practice

34:08

getting up enough times, then you might

34:11

not fall. Then you get very good at it.

34:13

And then you can go and really go for

34:15

the stars. So with the friends,

34:18

the reason I my energy changed about

34:20

those three, I didn't know them that

34:22

well and they stuck by me. I have a

34:25

weakness with loyalty. I'm very loyal.

34:28

So, if you were there for me when things

34:30

were tough, I'm a sucker for that. I'll

34:32

be there for you even if you mess up to

34:34

a fault almost. A lot of founders who

34:36

start businesses have this thing that

34:38

pop culture is called imposter syndrome

34:40

where they kind of do doubt themselves

34:41

and this sort of sits in contrast to

34:44

this idea of having belief because

34:45

sometimes they don't believe and they

34:47

are plagued with insecurities and doubts

34:49

and they kind of go back and forward and

34:50

they think really am I the person to do

34:52

this? I've never done it before. which

34:54

is that that comes with pursuing

34:56

something great. You had never done it

34:59

before. So what do you say to those

35:00

people who are struggling with doubt and

35:02

cuz they're hearing listen you have to

35:03

believe. Did you have doubt when you

35:06

when you drew this? A fascinating

35:08

question. My level of certainty was so

35:10

high when I was doing way work. I I was

35:13

sure it was going to work. It was a lot

35:15

of times I think people confused my

35:17

certainty as a different word. I was

35:20

just I was that sure that the product is

35:23

needed for the world. When I started

35:25

flow which was different and came after

35:28

everything and after also we had a

35:31

family. When I started we work I had no

35:32

kids. It was just Rebecca and I was very

35:34

easy to throw myself into something and

35:36

work 18 to 20our days 7 days a week and

35:39

love every second. There was nothing

35:41

else. We work grew

35:44

astronomically quickly, really

35:46

atypically quickly, especially for that

35:48

like type of company. And I I wanted to

35:50

hear directly from you like why? What

35:53

what happened? What were the factors

35:54

that contributed to this meteoric rise?

35:57

I think a couple of years after you

35:58

founded the company, I became a customer

35:59

of it. Um both in New York, but also in

36:02

London. What didn't I see? What was what

36:04

was it? So we work started in February

36:06

of 2010

36:08

and it's for anybody listening I think

36:10

this is the way that that it should and

36:12

could work. I think from the first day

36:15

we were so clear as you pointed out with

36:17

the circle on on the fact that this

36:19

mission is bigger than us. And when

36:21

you're part of a mission that's greater

36:23

than yourself urgency doesn't just

36:25

become something like oh we have to do

36:26

it now because I said so or because we

36:29

said so. when you feel that your mission

36:31

really needs to come out to the world,

36:33

then you have to do it now because

36:34

there's no time to waste because it's

36:37

really important. And we just started

36:39

with our first and part of my energy is

36:42

I bring people together. I really like

36:44

creating community, but I also I love to

36:48

move fast when we're clear on the

36:50

direction that we're moving and I don't

36:52

believe anything is impossible. So when

36:54

you connect that mission of something

36:56

being greater than yourself speed and

36:58

not accepting a no you put those things

37:01

together then real magic happens. I

37:03

think that's one too.

37:04

>> I want an example of that.

37:05

>> I'll give you one many examples but

37:08

let's let's start let's start early we

37:10

work cuz I think this all started work.

37:11

But before the example, one more thing I

37:13

was going to say that made we work to

37:14

answer a question. It's the team. The

37:17

team was so dedicated. The team believed

37:20

so much. It was their

37:23

it was their essence. It was their

37:25

experience of being part of something

37:27

greater than themselves. And when you

37:28

can bring a group of people together to

37:30

all run in the same direction, you

37:32

almost can't stop anything. Give you an

37:34

example. It's our second we work

37:36

building. We need to do we need to do

37:38

the floor. We only had a $90,000. We

37:41

didn't have any more money. And all the

37:43

quotes were $200,000 a floor, whatever

37:45

the number was. And I said to Miguel and

37:48

to the few people there, we have to do

37:49

it for this price. And said, you can't.

37:51

We got five quotes. It's not the price.

37:53

I said, well, how much is the floor? And

37:54

everybody's like the floors between 30

37:56

to 45,000 where these wood floors was an

37:58

important part of the design. I said

38:00

why? Said what do you mean why? These

38:02

are the quotes. Said well can you break

38:04

down the quote for me? I said what do

38:05

you mean? Said well how many pieces of

38:07

floor? How many nails? How much glue?

38:10

How much rubber? How many hours of work

38:12

per person? How much does each person

38:14

cost? No one could answer. Said okay I

38:17

have an idea of how we can negotiate

38:19

this differently. I called the top three

38:21

guys and said, "Guy, I would like you to

38:23

to earn 15% above the cost. I think

38:26

that's a fair margin, 15%. Do you

38:28

agree?" So, of course, I agree. It's

38:30

like, great. And all three of them, by

38:31

the way, said yes. I said, "Great. Well,

38:32

I'm going to need to see the cost of

38:34

each piece. I'm going to go quote it

38:35

myself and we're going to get to 15%."

38:38

Very quickly, the cost went down to that

38:40

first floor instead of 30 to 45,000 was

38:42

12,000. The guy tells me, "Adam, no

38:44

one's ever worked with me that way."

38:46

before you know it, they joined us and

38:48

we had our own internal construction

38:49

company and we realized that only by

38:50

controlling it could we get the right

38:52

price and move fast enough. So it's not

38:54

taking no for an answer but also using

38:57

logic to really look into it. Now it

38:59

could be that if I looked into it I

39:00

wouldn't have been able to get a better

39:02

price but what I'm describing is a

39:03

challenge in construction in general and

39:05

globally and it's part of the things

39:07

that flow is solving today.

39:08

>> Elon would call that like reasoning from

39:10

first principles. I had a similar story.

39:11

>> He would he would call it like that. And

39:13

and from what I know in flow, we look up

39:15

to Elen as an entrepreneur. We think

39:17

he's unbelievable. And whenever someone

39:19

gives Elen as an example, say no one is

39:20

Alen, that's not an example we use. We

39:23

just we look at him for inspiration.

39:25

I happen to know that he can put an

39:27

engineer cuz I have a friend whose

39:28

daughter works for him in SpaceX. He can

39:30

put an engineer to work on one problem

39:32

for 6 months. one screw, one connection,

39:35

but the result ends up being not twice

39:37

as simple as anything NASA has done, but

39:39

like 500 times as simple and cheaper and

39:42

faster and lighter. So, yes, it's going

39:45

back. You can call it first principles.

39:47

You can call it asking every question,

39:49

but if you're the entrepreneur and

39:50

you're going to run or if you're an

39:52

employee or a partner, ask why.

39:55

People don't because they don't want to

39:58

be rude or inconvenience others or

40:00

they're too concerned with being liked.

40:01

So pushing back on a supplier or you

40:03

know conventional status quo in any way

40:05

is seen to be inconvenient. I'm going to

40:08

try to say a different reason why they

40:09

don't cuz they don't ask themsel why.

40:11

It's going to go back this discussion

40:13

can keep going back to the same basics.

40:15

A person who's comfortable asking

40:16

himself why is he doing something

40:18

questioning himself or herself seeing

40:21

negative things seeing problems and then

40:23

enjoying the process of growing out of

40:25

them will have no problem asking someone

40:27

else why. And whenever you ask someone

40:29

why and they don't want to answer you,

40:30

what are you hiding? This is a

40:32

discussion. I usually when I go into

40:34

topics like this start by telling the

40:36

vendor wherever it is, I want you to

40:38

make money. No, no one's trying to make

40:40

you lose money. But we're on a mission

40:42

and if I'm going to pay even 20% more

40:45

than I should, then that's 20% less of

40:47

another building, another community,

40:48

another neighborhood that Floor is not

40:50

going to take part in.

40:51

>> This really does uh make a lot of sense

40:53

to me. We have this um Slack channel in

40:55

our company called Paper Walls. And the

40:57

whole idea is that we're trying to

40:58

encourage our team to push on paper

40:59

walls. A paper wall is something that

41:01

looks solid but reveals itself to be

41:04

completely made of paper. The minute you

41:05

try it, you ask why. You push on it. And

41:07

there's a a story of a a kid that worked

41:09

for me in one of my companies for 4

41:10

years. And um he animates video. I said

41:13

to him, "How long is it going to take

41:15

you to animate a video for us that's 30

41:16

minutes?" He said, "It takes 9 days,

41:18

right?" He worked for me for 4 years. It

41:20

took him 9 days to animate the video. We

41:21

decide we want to launch a weekly

41:23

channel. I need him to do it in 3 or 4

41:25

days max so that the rest of the team

41:26

can do it. I say to him, "How long is it

41:28

going to take you?" He says, "9 days."

41:30

And then because we had established this

41:32

culture in our company of pushing on

41:33

paper walls, I said to him, "Why?" And

41:36

do you know what he said to me? I think

41:38

I said something like, "What would it

41:39

take to do it in two?" And he went,

41:42

"Stephen, you just need to buy me a new

41:43

laptop. I have an old laptop." I

41:45

thought, "Fucking hell. I've been paying

41:46

him for 4 years and he's been think

41:49

about how much time I've lost in those

41:51

four years just simply because I didn't

41:53

ask that question. But also to your

41:55

point, he never mentioned it. He never

41:57

knew he was in a paper wall himself.

41:59

First year of we work, we opened one

42:01

building. Hm. Year nine of we work, we

42:06

open two buildings a day in 130 cities,

42:11

50 countries, 70 languages, 100,000

42:15

square foot per building. So that's

42:16

200,000 square foot a day, 20,000 square

42:19

meter for your European listeners a day.

42:22

A lot of the same people who were only

42:24

capable doing the one and two particip

42:26

were leaders by that time of of being

42:28

able to do one of the fastest physical

42:30

global growth the world's ever seen.

42:32

Same people as you learn to in your

42:35

words go through paper walls as you

42:36

learn that anything is possible suddenly

42:38

this is the secret of high growth and

42:40

momentum whatever you can do today if

42:42

your company starts growing fast you'll

42:44

be shocked what you'll be able to do in

42:45

3 months 9 months and in two years

42:47

you're going to look back and not

42:48

believe that that was your capacity and

42:50

I keep telling people and they tell me

42:52

oh I can't do this and this takes 3

42:53

months I say guys I've seen this done

42:55

before I know we can do it it's easier

42:57

now I've already been there now you just

43:00

need to believe and goes back to the

43:02

belief then we're going to need to put

43:03

the systems and the processes and today

43:06

with technology and this is where I

43:07

think AI is very exciting you could

43:09

shortcut a lot of these things and and

43:11

do a much better work but back to what

43:13

you said about your company I bet when's

43:15

the last time you sat with them in a

43:17

circle how many employees

43:18

>> about 200 in total

43:19

>> so 200 is a big number but if you took

43:21

30 of them

43:22

>> sat in a room

43:23

>> and actually asked them what are you

43:26

working on personally what is your

43:28

internal paper wall what is your

43:30

internal challenge what's stopping you?

43:32

And they got comfortable talking about

43:34

it. And then as a group, first of all,

43:35

all their peers would hear and before

43:37

you know it, their peers would help

43:38

them. Hey, I remember that you said that

43:40

this is a child for you're insecure. You

43:42

don't talk in public. You're a little

43:43

judgmental. You're too hard on yourself.

43:46

Every person has another story. Before

43:48

you know it, the moment you get them

43:50

used to grow internally, it will affect

43:53

your business to grow externally.

43:55

In we work, the business grew faster

43:59

than I could grow.

44:01

That's where everything went wrong. I

44:04

actually think whenever a company grows

44:05

faster than its founder, one of two

44:08

things would occur. Either it will crash

44:10

because that's what happens. Or if

44:13

somehow miraculously that founder is

44:14

able to keep it all together, in my

44:16

experience, they're not fulfilled and

44:18

happy.

44:20

And if they're not fulfilled and happy,

44:22

why do it? How important for the

44:25

founders listening and for the people

44:26

that want to build or become is hard

44:29

work? Because there's a real debate

44:30

around hard work. You know, some people

44:32

say, you know, work life balance is is

44:34

the ultimate. Some people say if you're

44:35

a founder, you got to give 100 hour

44:36

weeks. Ah, by the way, new answer to

44:39

that question.

44:42

It is the most important thing. But we

44:45

have to define hard work. Hard work as a

44:47

founder is not just limited to how many

44:49

hours you put in the office. Hard work

44:52

as a founder is how much time do you put

44:54

on the business? How much time are you

44:56

putting on yourself? As you grow, you

44:58

will be a better leader. You will be a

45:00

better money raiser. You will be a

45:02

better express. You'll express your

45:04

business better. So hard work is the

45:06

only way to do it. And you can't be 50%.

45:08

And here's something else that your

45:09

founders know. When I had to decide if

45:11

I'm doing flow again or not, the reason

45:13

it was so hard is cuz I knew that

45:15

there's no such thing as being 80% in or

45:17

90% in. Either you're 100% in and you're

45:21

all in or it's not going to work. So how

45:24

important is hard work? most important

45:26

thing. What is hard work? Some of it is

45:29

on the business, some of it is on you.

45:31

If you're married, it's also on your

45:32

relationship. If you have kids, it's

45:34

also with your kids. By the way, for

45:36

those listeners who have kids, if you're

45:38

ever wondering what you need to work on,

45:39

just listen to your kids. They know.

45:42

There you alluding [clears throat] to

45:44

this like sort of magical thing that

45:45

happens when one focuses on something.

45:48

You were saying if you're like 90% in,

45:50

it like doesn't work, but if you're 100%

45:52

in, it works. What is the the magic that

45:56

isn't obvious with that?

45:57

>> When you're 100% in, there's no time for

45:59

doubt. There's no time for questions.

46:01

There's no time for fear cuz you're so

46:03

in it.

46:05

When you're, oh, I can find this work

46:07

life balance while doing it, you're not

46:09

going to do something great. And if you

46:11

are, if you were to achieve something,

46:13

it's not close to your potential. But

46:16

again, I'm redefining what 100% in

46:18

meant. We talked about Warren Buffett.

46:20

Was he not 100%? And of course he is.

46:22

Does he have a full schedule? No way. He

46:25

keeps it open so he can have the

46:26

important meetings, so he can read, so

46:28

he can connect.

46:30

There are different ways to be 100% in.

46:33

But you must in life, in my opinion, be

46:36

100% in. It's why I love surfing. In

46:39

surfing, when you're on the board on a

46:41

wave, if you're not present and you're

46:43

not in flow, you're knocked off that

46:45

board.

46:46

>> What about founders that are doing two

46:47

different businesses, pursuing two

46:49

different missions?

46:50

>> Remember what I told you? We say in

46:52

flow, you're not Elen. I would tell them

46:55

you're not Elen. Elen can do two

46:56

different very few people. I know I he's

46:58

one of the only examples I have. Jack

47:00

Dorsey. Some of the best on the planet

47:02

can do. But uh it's very hard to do two

47:06

businesses at the same time. It's hard

47:08

enough to do one. And I guess even in

47:10

those cases, they built up tremendous

47:12

resources by doing one really, really

47:14

well. Again, my question about I don't

47:16

know which founder you're thinking, but

47:17

you've met people like that. Really,

47:18

where I when I've met people doing two

47:20

that are somewhat succeeding, they're

47:22

spending no time on their own personal

47:23

growth. So, the extra time they have

47:25

because they did their first business so

47:27

well, they're using it to do another

47:28

business, which usually in my experience

47:30

is an excuse not to actually experience

47:32

life for what it is. If you're already

47:34

doing one and it's meaningful and it's

47:35

fulfilling, why do you need another?

47:37

What are you hiding from? What is it

47:39

that you're not actually doing would be

47:42

my question. Now, if they maybe there's

47:44

a maybe they're a miracle. Hello. I

47:47

wasn't able to make that finance

47:48

meeting. Can you tell me what I missed?

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48:00

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48:02

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48:04

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49:56

We often say, you know, in one end

49:58

you're saying go fast. And I hear that

49:59

from great founders like yourself and

50:00

Elon and those guys. They say go fast,

50:02

push on paper walls, go as fast as you

50:04

can, but then also there's other areas

50:06

where you go, you have to go slow to go

50:08

fast, but also know your weaknesses. I

50:10

obviously did not succeed in building

50:11

great technology in Weiwork. That is a

50:13

known fact. So if I'm going to partner

50:15

again and I'm going to build a business

50:16

larger than we work, put the right

50:19

partners.

50:19

>> Know what you don't know.

50:20

>> Know what you don't know and let them

50:22

lead. When we hired our CTO, we had four

50:25

different CTOs. I'll let Ben do the

50:26

final interview.

50:27

>> Okay, this is what I was going to ask

50:29

because one of the things I hear from

50:30

founders a lot is they know they don't

50:33

know X. Let's say it's finance and then

50:35

they do an interview with someone and

50:36

the person says, "I'm the best at

50:38

finance." They have no idea if they're

50:39

the best at finance because they don't

50:40

know finance, the founder. So, what did

50:42

you do to mitigate the trap of

50:44

accidentally hiring someone that you

50:46

weren't able to assess their competence?

50:48

>> I chose partners that say the truth.

50:52

when Mark and Ben and I do a board

50:54

meeting and Mark is our board member and

50:56

Ben joins us.

50:57

>> For context, I should say Mark and Ben

50:59

are two of the world's most famous

51:01

investors and they have backed you with

51:03

your new venture flow. Um yeah, just

51:05

>> Mark and Ben have invested $470 million

51:08

into FL at the series A and series B.

51:10

And I, Adam, and my family personally

51:12

invested $350 million because part of

51:14

when we created the the the business

51:16

together, we wanted to be aligned. We

51:18

buy together, we sell together, we do

51:20

everything together.

51:21

>> [sighs and gasps]

51:22

>> We have our board meetings. They usually

51:23

start at 8:00 a.m. They end at 5:00.

51:25

Very long board meeting. We talk about

51:27

everything. We love it as a team. We

51:29

really respect them. We truly prepare

51:32

for these meetings. We don't spend too

51:33

much time cuz again, when you're really

51:34

busy, you don't have time. So, it's not

51:36

like we spend a month, we go a week

51:38

before, look, take stock of everything

51:40

we did that quarter. It's always

51:41

shocking to see how much you did. Cuz

51:43

when you're not really measuring, you're

51:44

just doing. When you stop for a second

51:46

and look what you did, like, wow, we did

51:48

quite a lot in 3 months. So, very

51:49

useful. We put together our board decks.

51:52

We send them to them a few days before

51:53

they actually read them. And then they

51:55

come for the meeting. So it's like 8:30

51:57

to 5. And then when it's done, I go to

51:59

dinner with the two of them. And the

52:01

dinner starts by me saying, "We sit down

52:04

usually wherever it is. Please tell me

52:07

what I can do better." And the first

52:09

time I asked them, they were a little

52:10

bit uncomfortable. The second time I

52:12

literally remember Mark going like this.

52:14

Mark Andrew like this, like he was

52:15

ready. Ben taking out his notes.

52:19

That's a true partnership and we do it

52:21

every single time. And when you have the

52:24

previously you said some of the biggest

52:25

investors in my opinion A6Z number one

52:28

investor in the planet and if you're an

52:30

entrepreneur today and and you can

52:34

that's who you want your money from. If

52:36

you're an entrepreneur today and you

52:38

take it from Benchmark the company that

52:40

took me out that took Travis Superstar

52:43

out. Jack Dorisy out

52:45

>> Travis from Uber Jack

52:46

>> Travis from Uber. Jack Dorsey from

52:49

Square, Twitter, Block and and many more

52:53

and many more. So when you choose your

52:56

investors, look at their history. Are

52:58

they the kind that support entrepreneurs

53:00

like you? Are they going to take you to

53:01

the next level or do they have a history

53:03

that actually clashes with the

53:05

entrepreneur? If they have a history

53:06

that clashes with the entrepreneur, park

53:08

them. So there was two two key things I

53:11

pulled out from there. The first was

53:12

around this idea of like knowing when to

53:15

go fast and slow and you use technology

53:16

as an example. The second thing which

53:17

was opened up the story about um A16Z is

53:22

the right people and partners.

53:24

>> So important more if I had to choose

53:26

one. Right investors, right employees,

53:29

right partners. Most important thing.

53:32

>> What did you learn about employees? Like

53:34

what is a great team member?

53:37

>> If I have a problem with an employee,

53:39

there's only one person to blame and

53:41

that's me.

53:42

>> And what are the mistakes that you made

53:43

in choosing employees? I think it's how

53:46

I was leading that I've been learning

53:48

more about. Where I used to lead from

53:51

top to bottom, I now I'm learning how to

53:53

lead bottom to up. What's the

53:55

difference?

53:56

>> Top to bottom means you think because

53:57

someone reports into you, they have to

53:59

do what you say. But it's not true. This

54:02

is not a dictatorship. They have free

54:03

will. They can go work. If they're

54:05

talent, if you hired someone, they're

54:06

really talented, they'll go work

54:08

elsewhere. Especially great leader. The

54:10

more talented they are, the more the top

54:11

to bottom does not work. They they won't

54:13

be willing to do it. They shouldn't.

54:15

Great talent is not willing to be

54:17

managed like this. Gray talent wants to

54:20

be inspired, wants me to see the full

54:22

version of themselves even more than

54:24

they see it. And they want the room to

54:25

make mistakes, but also to grow. But

54:27

they also need feedback. If you have

54:29

someone amazing and they're [ __ ] up.

54:32

Sorry. They're miss

54:33

>> You can swear.

54:34

>> I can swear. Yeah. My kids are going to

54:35

listen. It's all good. They're [ __ ]

54:37

up. Are you going to tell them or

54:39

because you're not comfortable with

54:40

conflict? you're going to wait for 90

54:42

days and every time they're going to

54:43

make that mistake, you're going to get

54:44

so upset that by the time you

54:46

communicate to them, it's too late. The

54:48

moment they made a mistake, if you

54:49

respect them, give them the feedback cuz

54:51

that's the best thing for them. By the

54:53

way, when you give them the feedback,

54:54

give them room to give you feedback. If

54:57

you're going to manage these employees

54:58

and you want to attract the best talent

55:00

in the world,

55:02

remember that power comes from

55:04

influence, not control. If you think

55:07

they need to do what you said because

55:10

you're their boss, you've already lost

55:13

and it's a matter of time till it

55:14

doesn't work out. If they're okay with

55:17

it, just because you're the boss, you

55:18

have to tell them what they do and they

55:20

accept that power, they're not the right

55:22

employee for you and you're not the

55:24

right boss for them. There's no chance

55:25

you're getting the best out of them. One

55:27

of the um parts in your journey that I

55:29

have reflected on a lot because it's a

55:32

fascinating story is the day that you

55:34

meet Massa at SoftBank and I'm I'm keen

55:37

to understand the context of where the

55:39

business was before you met Massa at

55:41

SoftBank. That particular story has

55:43

always inspired me for a multitude of

55:45

different reasons. Um but where was the

55:48

business at? Was it It was um 2017. I

55:51

want to tell you about the day I met

55:52

Mustang. I'm going to connect it to I

55:54

think the biggest mistake I ever made in

55:55

Weiwork. I'll bring it together. Masa is

55:58

one of the best investors in the world.

56:00

He's also one of the biggest investors

56:01

in the world. In my story, Masa is the

56:05

hero even though a lot of people who

56:07

didn't know the story correctly might

56:08

have misunderstood. So in my story, Masa

56:10

took a bet on me and and he did amazing

56:13

and he deserved to have become very

56:14

successful from it. And he leads

56:16

SoftBank.

56:17

>> Masa is the leader of SoftBank. So if

56:18

you want a little history of Masa, Masa

56:20

is the leader of SoftBank. He becomes

56:22

very well known to the world where he

56:24

buys a tech conference actually in Vegas

56:27

and he buys this tech conference for I

56:29

think about 880 million and at the same

56:32

time he has his own tech businesses and

56:35

he owns a phone company and he starts

56:38

growing and growing. He's famous to have

56:40

gone to Steve Jobs and said I'm going to

56:41

take the iPhone. When the iPhone just

56:43

came out he knew it was going to be a

56:44

hit and I'm going to give it to every

56:45

subscriber in Japan. He invents the

56:47

leasing model for it and gives an

56:49

iPhone. Then everybody signs to his

56:51

service cuz everybody wanted the iPhone.

56:53

So a lot of things and then he gives

56:55

Jackma $20 million that over time I

56:57

think becomes 200

56:58

>> for Alibaba.

56:59

>> For Alibaba which at its peak is worth

57:01

about 80 billion.

57:03

>> Wow.

57:03

>> So at the time when I meet Masa, this is

57:06

2016. Let's start with the night before.

57:08

The night before I met Masa in New York

57:10

City, I have a board meeting the day

57:11

before. This is the old board and we're

57:14

all sitting together. I just raised at

57:17

16 I raised maybe six months before at

57:19

16 billion valuation.

57:21

>> How big we work?

57:22

>> It's about to do that year about 950

57:26

million in revenue. And the reason I

57:28

know is cuz we were doubled in revenue

57:30

every single year. So we work the

57:32

business model was working very well and

57:34

the four walls were working very well.

57:36

>> What's the distinction sorry between the

57:37

four walls and everything else. When you

57:39

have a retail business, you could have

57:40

your stores could be doing really well.

57:42

Your state not making money

57:43

>> and what's the

57:44

>> state the so let's say you're in New

57:46

York City. So let's talk high growth for

57:48

a second. When you're growing as fast as

57:49

we're growing, you're always putting new

57:51

buildings on the map.

57:53

>> A new building has a ramp up.

57:55

>> Usually ramp up of a retail store or a

57:57

food or a restaurant could take two

57:59

years, three years. And we like to talk

58:00

about ROI, return on investment and how

58:03

long does it take. A great time to

58:05

return your investment would be 24

58:07

month, 36 month and then it can grow. We

58:10

work at its peak was returning its money

58:11

somewhere between 6 month to 9 month and

58:14

then afterwards it was going up to 12

58:16

month and 18 month. So if you're going

58:19

to grow, we we grew in New York City to

58:20

130 buildings. So you can have 30

58:23

buildings. If the following year you're

58:24

adding 30 more buildings, those new 30

58:27

have to per definition lose money for at

58:29

least the first 6 month if not 9 months.

58:31

So you could be very profitable in these

58:33

buildings but not profitable in these

58:35

because they need time. Which means this

58:37

New York City the city doesn't look as a

58:40

city profitable or the country if you're

58:41

looking at your P&L doesn't look as a

58:43

country profitable. Which is why in a

58:45

high growth business you got to get very

58:46

specific and in the details and you got

58:49

to really understand what's working,

58:52

what's not. Even in a building you can

58:54

have one floor that's profitable cuz you

58:56

opened it first and the new floor that

58:58

you opened after not profitable yet.

59:01

Weiwork's technology was never able to

59:03

count this way. Flow's technology, if I

59:06

threw it on Weiwork today, I can tell

59:07

you which square foot is, I forget which

59:09

building is profitable, which floor is

59:11

profitable. I can tell you which corner

59:13

is. It knows everything cuz it's a

59:15

connected system. It's not disconnected.

59:17

[gasps]

59:18

Back to what we're saying.

59:21

I'm sitting with the board and we decide

59:23

that we want to turn the business, we're

59:25

going to go out and raise money, turn

59:27

the business profitable, and take it

59:29

public. How are you going to turn it

59:31

profitable? All you have to do in a high

59:32

growth business that's working to turn

59:34

it profitable is stop growing. You just

59:37

stop adding new buildings and you give

59:39

time to all the buildings to catch up.

59:41

Remember I explained that in we work

59:42

your problem was not demand, it was

59:44

supply. So the moment you don't add more

59:47

supply, the demand is greater than the

59:50

supply, everything fills up. The moment

59:52

everything fills up and you didn't add

59:54

anything new, you go cash flow positive.

59:56

As simple as that. So, we sit in that

59:59

board and we decide that I'm going to go

60:01

and raise and the number was 3 to 400

60:03

million, stop the growth, meaning stop

60:06

signing leases, maybe even move to

60:08

management deals, something we'll talk

60:09

about in floor in a second. And

60:13

and then take it public. This is 2016.

60:16

That was the the day before. The same

60:21

time at some point Masa's right-hand

60:23

guy, his name is Ron Fischer, sends a

60:25

email, a text to one of our guys and

60:28

says, "Hey, Masa wants to come see

60:30

Adam." This is at the same time that

60:32

Masa is raising the vision fund. For

60:34

those who don't know, the vision fund

60:35

was his hundred billion dollar venture

60:38

fund, largest venture fund ever raised.

60:40

Masa wants to see Adam. Say, "Great."

60:42

And we schedule 90 minutes in the

60:44

morning, the next morning. And we do we

60:47

do the we get ready in the morning. Masa

60:49

is coming. Everyone's excited. They're

60:51

like, "This is amazing. Maybe that

60:52

investment we just talked about

60:53

yesterday will come today." His team

60:56

says, "Just to let you know, there will

60:57

be no discussions of investing." So,

60:59

okay, no problem. As it gets closer to

61:02

the morning, we keep getting text

61:03

messages. He's not going to have 90

61:05

minutes. He's going to have 75 minutes.

61:06

He's going to have 60 minutes. He's

61:07

going to have half an hour.

61:10

I'm like, "Okay, whatever it is, sounds

61:11

great." The same time, President Trump

61:14

wins for the first time. This is the end

61:15

of December. And Masa had a meeting with

61:18

them. They wanted to talk about the

61:19

future of America. Said, "I'm so sorry.

61:21

I have a meeting with Trump, President

61:24

Trump, and I only have 12 minutes."

61:28

Again, we all find ourselves in

61:30

situations like this when, "Oh my god, I

61:32

had all this plan and I was going to do

61:33

this tour and I was going to show these

61:34

numbers. I'm going to do all these

61:36

things and suddenly it all changes." I

61:38

take a deep breath. [snorts]

61:40

Let's make it the best 12 minutes we

61:42

can, but I can't help myself. I go,

61:44

"Tell me something, Masa. If you're

61:46

meeting President, future President

61:48

Trump, do you have Jared Kushner

61:50

introducing you to him first? He goes,

61:52

"Adam, it's so funny you're saying that.

61:54

Everybody told me that it's better if

61:55

Jared introduces me. I don't know him.

61:57

We've been trying to get in touch." No.

62:00

I said, "Give me a second." I'm very

62:03

lucky to to count Jared as as one of my

62:05

close friends. Jared's married to Ivanka

62:08

Trump.

62:08

>> Jar's married Jared married to Ivanka

62:10

Trump and he's the adviser, I think, to

62:12

the president. But right now he's

62:13

helping to peace both in the Middle East

62:15

and in Europe. So I text Jared and I was

62:17

like, "Masa is here. Ta ta da. We spend

62:19

5 minutes on that." Jared says, "No

62:21

problem. Send him. I will introduce him

62:23

to the future president." Now we have 7

62:25

minutes left. I say, "Masa, we only have

62:28

7 minutes. We're only going to stay

62:30

downstairs, but this is we work." And he

62:33

looks at me. He goes like this. Smells

62:36

there. He goes, "You know what this

62:37

smells like?" And I'm like, "Oh no, what

62:39

is he going to say? They were serving

62:40

waffles. Is that is he going to say it

62:41

smells like waffles? Like what is he

62:43

going to say? He goes smells like

62:46

dreams. This is a factory rework is not

62:49

an office space. It's a factory of

62:51

dreams.

62:52

And I'm like he's speaking your

62:54

language.

62:54

>> Oh no. Not my language. One step above

62:56

my language. He took he took the dreamer

62:59

and went one step above the dreamer. He

63:02

out did the he he Adam. [laughter]

63:06

He killed it. And I'm like, "Oh yeah, I

63:09

love the smell of dreams. This no one's

63:11

ever defined the business better than

63:13

that." He goes, "Look, Adam, we don't

63:15

have time. I'm driving up there to 50th

63:17

Street, whatever, wherever it was. Do

63:19

you want to come with me to the car?

63:20

We'll talk in the car."

63:21

>> Did he not go around the building? And

63:22

>> couldn't have time 7 minutes. We were

63:24

only downstairs in the lobby, the

63:26

entrance. But but if you had the

63:28

opportunity in 2017, 2016 to walk into

63:31

our HQ, the energy was electric. You

63:34

could not walk in there and not feel I I

63:36

never felt a factory of dreams, but I

63:39

felt community and people coming

63:40

together. It felt like people are doing

63:42

their life's work. It didn't feel like a

63:44

work environment. It felt like people

63:46

are really connected. And when you make

63:48

a connected environment, then it really

63:50

takes things to the next level and

63:51

everybody wants to be there. So that's

63:53

what it was. It's not what it is today,

63:55

but that's what it was. So he says,

63:57

"Come with me to the car." I said, "No

63:58

problem." I get into the car and I

64:00

remember the back of my hand, they said,

64:01

"No investing." thing. His team said,

64:03

"Don't talk about raising money." He

64:05

goes, "So I start talking build where we

64:06

work." He's like, "Adam,

64:10

what's the number?" Said, "What do you

64:11

mean?" Goes, "What's your valuation and

64:13

how much money are you raising?" Goes,

64:14

"I'm I'm here to do business." Said,

64:16

"Your team said like, ah,

64:19

I am I am the boss. I've done this many

64:21

times myself. I'm the boss. Let's talk

64:24

about it." [sighs and gasps]

64:26

I said, "Well, listen. We have our last

64:28

valuation was 16 billion. We have a we

64:30

have we just launched China. That's a $2

64:33

billion company. We have Latin America

64:34

and we're in Europe. We have a global

64:36

company and then we have a China entity.

64:39

Goes great. How much are you raising? I

64:41

said 3 to 400 million. 3 to 400 million.

64:45

That's that's that's not going to work.

64:47

Don't you want to build a global

64:48

business? I was like of course I would

64:50

love to build a global business. Goes

64:51

don't you have a business in China? I

64:53

said of course. Said what about Japan?

64:55

Said I don't have a business in Japan

64:56

yet. He said I think it's going to work

64:58

very well in Japan. I said, "I'm sure

64:59

it's going to work well in Japan. It's

65:00

working everywhere, but I don't have the

65:02

team." Goes, "What about Southeast

65:04

Asia?" He said, "Sounds amazing, but

65:06

I've never been there." He goes, "Well,

65:08

I think it's going to work there." I

65:09

said, "Again, I'm sure it's going to

65:10

work there, but and before you know it,"

65:12

he says,

65:14

"I think we should do about 3 billion."

65:18

And that was a big number. Remember

65:20

three, we were we were I was the night

65:22

before with the board 300 to 400

65:24

million. Let's take less than number

65:26

one. And again, I don't blame myself for

65:28

any of this. Every decision I made was

65:30

my decision. He's an investor. He saw a

65:32

great business and he wanted to go big.

65:34

I respect that. I've done it myself. Not

65:36

at those numbers, but I've done it

65:37

myself. [gasps]

65:40

If you decide you have a mission or a

65:41

vision and you're going to go raise out

65:43

300 million and the next day someone

65:46

offers you 3 billion, before you say

65:49

yes, take a deep breath and ask yourself

65:51

again that question of why and what is

65:53

my intention? What is that going to do

65:55

to the business? and am I ready to take

65:57

that much? And so it says 3 billion. We

66:00

then keep talking about all the

66:01

different needs and the different stuff.

66:02

It ends up after this is now we met for

66:05

12 minutes and the ride is um 16

66:10

minutes.

66:12

So uh if yeah total 28 to 36 minutes the

66:17

whole thing and

66:21

we agree on the he says 4 billion 4.2 to

66:24

be exact.

66:25

>> 4.2 2 billion what

66:26

>> dollars

66:27

>> that he wants to invest in. We work

66:29

topco, we work China, we work Japan, and

66:33

we work Southeast Asia. Remember, we

66:35

were a cash machine. You put cash into

66:37

us and we that just to I'll go back to a

66:40

second, but we were doing 980 million

66:42

that year. We hit our numbers. We

66:44

forecasted we're going to do 1.8 billion

66:46

next year. We did our 1.8 billion. The

66:49

it was working so well. The model, all

66:51

you needed was cash to build it. You

66:53

needed to build these spaces and you

66:54

needed to do if you're going to grow

66:55

that big. He had big aspirations and I

66:57

had big aspirations.

66:58

>> Did you tell him that? Did you tell him

66:59

that it was a cash machine?

67:00

>> No, you didn't need to.

67:01

>> Did you tell him that if you put cash

67:03

in, you get cash out?

67:04

>> I didn't need to. M understands business

67:05

better than most people in the world.

67:07

But again, it was obvious cuz if you

67:09

looked at the history of Weiwork, every

67:11

single time you put money into it, it

67:13

grew. The mistake was we were signing

67:16

leases. We were taking long-term

67:18

commitments against short-term

67:19

commitments. We should have done

67:21

something else. And we'll talk about it

67:22

in a second. What we should have done

67:23

and it's what we're doing in flow.

67:26

But the this question was there's people

67:28

because a lot of people didn't

67:29

understand the money raised. The money

67:30

raised was to build tremendous

67:32

businesses all over the planet. And

67:34

those businesses the moment you stopped

67:35

growing them turned profitable. Today we

67:38

works profitable. Those businesses all

67:40

you had to do was stop growing. We were

67:41

at a high growth stage. That's what high

67:43

growth entrepreneurs do. That's what the

67:45

market wanted at the time and that's

67:46

what everybody knew we were doing. It

67:48

was not a secret what we were doing. And

67:49

it was growing exponentially.

67:53

So, we ended up agreeing on 4.2 billion.

67:56

He takes an iPad, he writes it all down.

67:59

This is all in that same car, right? He

68:01

writes it all down. He signs his name

68:02

and he hands me the pen to sign mine.

68:06

I look at it. I sign. He walks out of

68:10

the car, says, "Thank you very much."

68:11

And goes to his meeting. This is now

68:13

about 40 54th Street. Our HQ is on 18th

68:17

Street. I'm just standing there.

68:22

I can't believe what just happened. It

68:25

was not what I planned.

68:29

And I start walking. I was like, I'm

68:30

going to walk downtown. I'm going to

68:31

take a second. I'm going to walk.

68:34

And every step I take, cuz until this

68:38

point, this is 2016, we were 5 years of

68:40

missiondriven mission. You ask me about

68:42

the fundamentals, we had all the right

68:44

fundamentals and we work because we had

68:45

the right culture. And when you have the

68:47

right culture, you can deal with any

68:49

challenge. We were missiondriven. We

68:51

could break through any wall. We were

68:53

teamwork. We worked late at night. We

68:55

were together. We were friends. We were

68:57

one team.

68:59

And I'm starting to walk down from 54th

69:01

Street to 18th Street. And every step I

69:03

take, suddenly the ego starts coming up.

69:07

Oh, 20 billion valuation.

69:10

Billion valuation in Japan on top of

69:12

that. billion and a half valuation in in

69:15

Southeast Asia on top of that five

69:17

billion dollar valuation in China on top

69:19

of that. So a billion of that 4.2 was

69:21

going to everybody including to myself

69:23

and I owned about proportionately about

69:26

25% of the company at the time. So big

69:29

numbers numbers I've never seen numbers

69:30

Miguel was getting a lot all our

69:32

employees the investors many times more

69:34

than they ever invested from that

69:36

billion

69:38

and every step that I'm taking the ego

69:41

comes up. Oh, I feel so strong. I feel

69:44

so big. You start doing your own math.

69:46

20 billion, 25%.

69:49

What's but that's that's that's 5

69:51

billion. Then there's all the other

69:53

ones. What's my net worth? And before

69:55

you know it,

69:57

the guy that sat in the car was a

69:59

missiondriven entrepreneur who really

70:02

believed in creating a world where

70:03

people make a life and not just a

70:05

living. Every step that I take, it goes

70:08

higher and higher. And by the time I

70:11

walk into HQ 18th Street,

70:14

I forgot

70:18

what we were all about.

70:20

Here is why ego is on the one hand very

70:23

good and on the other hand very

70:24

dangerous. Ego and desire are the same

70:26

word. Big ego just means big desire.

70:29

Having huge desire is important to build

70:31

huge things. But you have to manage it

70:33

and control it. When I walked in, I got

70:36

confused. It suddenly became about the

70:38

money. all the stuff that Rebecca told

70:40

me, all the stuff when we met, all the

70:42

years of spiritual practice, everything

70:44

to the garbage. And what happens when

70:46

the ego gets the best of you? You become

70:48

blinded. What does that mean? You make

70:51

mistakes and bad decisions. And in a

70:55

high growth business, you need to make a

70:57

100 decisions a day. And as we said

70:59

before, at least 98 of them need to be

71:01

correct.

71:03

Suddenly you're blinded and suddenly

71:05

only 95 of them are correct or 90 those

71:08

mistakes ex because you're growing so

71:10

fast the mistakes grow very fast also

71:13

the other thing we were a company led

71:15

from the top all great companies are led

71:16

from the top the moment I lost it

71:19

everybody lost it [sighs and gasps]

71:21

and it just spread and the moment that's

71:25

that's the beginning of the end and look

71:27

it took 3 years after that for

71:28

everything to unfold but it was that

71:31

moment

71:32

That was the moment that went.

71:35

>> Is there anything that could have been

71:38

said or done to have made you when Massa

71:40

offered you that $4 billion in that cab?

71:43

Are you ready for this?

71:44

>> Sure. I I used to be closer. We don't

71:46

speak as much [clears throat] anymore

71:49

today. I used to be much closer to Mark

71:51

Ben off the founder of Salesforce. He

71:55

heard about Masa's offer and he called

71:57

me and said, "Adam, I only know you for

71:59

a little bit and I know you're not going

72:01

to listen to my advice, but I want you

72:04

to fly to Japan and say no to Masa.

72:08

I want you to take your company public."

72:10

What was your last valuation? I said 16.

72:12

He goes, "Great. I want you to take your

72:14

company public for 5 billion. I want you

72:17

to sell 20% of the billion. And I want

72:19

you to learn how to be public CEO. I

72:22

promise you two things. one cuz your

72:24

last valition was 16. At five,

72:25

everybody's going to think this is a

72:26

great deal. People are going to rush to

72:28

invest

72:30

including myself. Everyone's going to

72:31

rush to invest. You'll learn because

72:33

it's very different to be a public CEO

72:35

and a private co. You're going to learn

72:36

about profitable. You're going to learn

72:37

all these things cuz I think you're very

72:39

fast student and I guarantee you before

72:41

you know it, your valuation will be much

72:42

larger.

72:44

And he said, "But I know you're not

72:45

going to listen to me."

72:48

And I didn't. Was there a world that I

72:50

could have said no?

72:52

not the kind of person that I was then

72:54

and not with the tools I have.

72:56

>> Why why didn't you listen to him?

72:58

>> We didn't know each other for long

72:59

enough. I think it takes a lot of trust

73:01

to listen to when someone gives you a

73:03

counter advice and every by the way

73:04

there was another person also said no.

73:06

But but we'll put that aside for a

73:08

second. But here's what I think is more

73:10

important about it. Let's say I said no.

73:12

And let's say we work could still be

73:14

around. We were could be a hundred

73:15

billion dollar company today. Corona

73:16

would have happened. we would have

73:18

renegotiated all of our leases instead

73:20

of leases would become management deals

73:22

and we would have led the return to

73:25

office. We would have led that concept

73:26

because obviously people work I know we

73:28

spoke about it much better face to face

73:29

than remote work and we would have we

73:31

would have been the the leaders of the

73:33

movement of return to office and we work

73:34

was a great company and even it would

73:36

have launched launched we live our

73:38

version of FL

73:40

but I Adam wouldn't have learned all

73:43

those lessons I wouldn't be I am so much

73:46

happier today even as we're speaking I'm

73:48

noticing like everything you're talking

73:50

to about makes me feel full even the wor

73:54

even the challenging parts I I'm so

73:55

happy that they happened because they

73:57

made me exactly who I'm meant to be.

74:00

Falling is not bad.

74:04

That's the thing that you and I are

74:06

actually talking about. Falling is

74:08

probably the most important part of

74:10

life. And most of us learn a lot more

74:13

from falling than we do from succeeding.

74:17

The thing that's bad is not when you

74:19

fall, it's how you get up. If you just

74:22

fell and you're, "Oh no, everybody saw

74:24

me fall. I'm not going to hide under the

74:26

covers for four years until everybody

74:27

forgets whatever it is that happened.

74:29

That's what's horrible. That leads to

74:31

the tragedy. That leads to the trauma.

74:33

If you fail, you look around, you're

74:35

like, "Wow, everybody saw." You clean

74:38

up, you get up, and you say, "Let's do

74:40

it again." If you have that in you,

74:44

nothing will stop you. And it might take

74:45

10 times and 20 times and 50 times, but

74:48

if you fall enough times, then you might

74:50

avoid falling.

74:52

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but you haven't yet hit that button.

75:08

Thank you so much. I'm thinking also

75:11

about a founder that's 21 years old.

75:13

They've got a startup or an idea that

75:14

they want to start. You like like when I

75:16

was 21 years old, my mom tells me 18, if

75:19

you do this, I won't speak to you again.

75:20

It's, you know, she was warning me

75:22

against business because she had

75:23

struggled in business herself. So,

75:24

that's a proxy of love, I guess. And

75:26

then you've got other people here

75:27

telling you that it's going to be

75:27

amazing and you're going to make

75:28

millions. When you're in that situation,

75:30

you've got noise. How do you find the

75:33

signal? Two ways. One,

75:37

they have to go back to the mission. So,

75:39

if one had a mission and then someone

75:41

off someone offers them something and

75:43

it's off mission and you're like, "Oh,

75:45

I'm going to do it anyway because it's

75:47

good money, but it's off mission." That

75:49

already is a warning sign. But I think

75:50

the other one, which is something that I

75:52

have more today than I used to back

75:53

then, one needs a practice. Part of the

75:56

way to try on the noise is with a

75:59

practice. I've been enjoying meditating

76:02

lately in the past year and I've been

76:03

getting better and better at it. And

76:04

meditating is something that takes time.

76:07

Meditating helps drown the noise. And

76:10

then the thoughts that I do get while I

76:11

meditate tend to be very healthy

76:13

thoughts that are headed in a good

76:15

direction.

76:16

I there's many I do the hyperaric

76:18

chamber.

76:18

>> Steve Jobs talked about meditation and

76:22

his sort of spiritual practices and it's

76:24

something that I I actually in the last

76:26

year I started really looking into. Um,

76:28

when I say looking into, I mean I

76:29

started looking into what he did and why

76:30

he did it because he's someone that I

76:32

look at and go, it was like he was able

76:34

to see around the corner and and for a

76:38

guy running a big company, how was he

76:39

able to make these really unpopular

76:42

calls today that proved out to be true

76:44

tomorrow? And you know, one of the

76:46

conclusions I arrived at is that he

76:48

spent just as much time in the trenches

76:49

as he did in the clouds. I.e. he stood

76:52

away from the picture enough so he could

76:53

see the full picture. And that's

76:55

something that I thought, oh gosh,

76:56

that's it kind of correlates to what you

76:58

were saying earlier about your

76:59

redefinition of hard work. Not just

77:00

being in the office and being there, you

77:02

know, 24/7, but actually when you're on

77:04

the surfboard, you're doing hard work

77:05

because you're giving yourself time to

77:09

see the full picture. And when you're

77:10

honest with yourself about your

77:12

weaknesses, like I spoke about my

77:14

speech, it can elevate things, but it

77:16

could also break things. We've seen that

77:18

happen before.

77:19

>> So hard work is also personal growth is

77:22

very hard work. And most people don't

77:24

have the courage to even look in

77:27

honestly, let alone change.

77:30

>> What is the exact mechanism that you

77:32

think would result in me being more

77:35

successful at 40 in business, let's say,

77:38

if I did exactly what you said and

77:40

focused on personal growth,

77:41

>> you're going to have to start by redefin

77:44

business, I'm going to have to push back

77:46

on it. We are not going to measure your

77:48

success just in business. We're going to

77:50

measure your success in life, in

77:52

relationship, in friendships, in effect

77:55

on the world

77:56

>> and in business.

77:57

>> Do you know why I'm asking this

77:58

question? Because there will be some

78:00

people that are listening right now and

78:02

they have heard, you know, founders come

78:04

on and people say, "You need to just

78:05

take a moment, meditate, do these

78:06

things, focus on personal growth." and

78:09

for whatever reason, because of their

78:10

trauma, because of how they were raised,

78:12

the lens that they will receive that

78:14

message through or the thing that will

78:15

be the carrot will be a promise that it

78:18

will make them better at the thing they

78:19

currently care about. Now, we might be

78:21

tricking them a little bit because we're

78:22

going to get them to do the work and

78:23

they'll realize that other things

78:24

matter. But just for those people that

78:26

have that lens,

78:26

>> no, I'm going to we're going to help.

78:27

We're going to say something and I hope

78:28

people have said it here before, but I'm

78:30

not sure they did. But tell me if people

78:32

said it. We're going to all these

78:34

founders that are listening

78:36

falling

78:38

is not just okay. It's the best thing

78:41

that ever happened to you. If these

78:43

founders can all redefine success, think

78:46

about if in school instead of learning

78:47

about all the successes

78:49

spoke about Steve Jobs and he's a real

78:51

hero of mine, but would I have wanted

78:53

his life?

78:55

How old was he when he passed away? How

78:57

was the relationship with everybody

78:59

around? How did he affect people? Now, I

79:02

don't know. Oh, I wasn't a friend. I

79:03

don't know him. And I am not judging or

79:05

measuring. I'm just telling you we

79:07

cannot measure a person just through

79:09

their business achievements. We must

79:12

look at people holistically. So I'm

79:13

telling all these young founders, forget

79:15

take time to meditate. You asked how I

79:17

do it and I how we quiet the noise and I

79:19

answered meditation. But that is not my

79:21

first advice to them. My first advice to

79:24

all of us, by the way, you talk a lot

79:27

about one year one year olds with AI

79:29

coming and everybody's about to be a

79:30

founder. Everybody can start a business.

79:32

It's true for everyone. It's true for 12

79:34

year olds and it's true for 60 year

79:35

olds. This is for everyone.

79:38

Have the courage to actually look inside

79:41

and say, "Where can I become a better

79:44

version of myself? Don't work on three

79:46

things. Work on one thing and choose

79:49

that thing and work on it." And by the

79:51

way, if you do, when you fix it, how you

79:53

going to know that it's better? Cuz

79:54

you're going to see the next thing you

79:56

need to work on. It is like an onion.

79:58

And every time you peel it, you will see

79:59

another layer. and another layer and

80:01

another layer. That is the advice I'm

80:03

actually giving them. And I'm promising

80:05

them that if they look deep enough, what

80:08

they're going to find is their calling.

80:10

And when they find their calling, when

80:13

you match that calling with that energy

80:14

of wanting to be a founder, that's when

80:16

everything works. As we are able as

80:18

human beings to do that,

80:21

find our true journey, find our flow,

80:27

the world is open for us.

80:30

So, let's zoom back into the story.

80:32

You're walking down towards 18th Street.

80:36

Um, you've just raised all this money.

80:37

You feel like a king. That's the way you

80:39

>> just on paper, right? It just, we're

80:40

just saying. It didn't actually happen

80:41

yet.

80:42

>> What was um, you said over the next

80:44

year, you said that was the start of the

80:45

end. Over the next three years,

80:46

decisions changed specifically in terms

80:49

of business.

80:49

>> It became about money.

80:50

>> It became about money.

80:51

>> It became about valuation.

80:52

>> I forgot the mission.

80:53

>> That was a slippery slope.

80:54

>> It's not my truth. And that means that

80:57

you you grew even faster. You opened up

80:59

even more leases.

81:00

>> We blew up. We grew. We went even

81:03

faster. We were going We went really

81:05

fast.

81:06

>> We went we went very fast.

81:08

>> One of the things that I I read or

81:11

something from when I was doing the

81:12

research is that you had lots of sort of

81:14

tangential ideas at that time. Maybe

81:16

because of the money. Things like

81:18

surfing and

81:19

>> fake news.

81:21

>> This was before we were ever started. I

81:22

had all these ideas. Anybody who tells

81:24

the story that we had a lot of ideas in

81:27

2016 cuz we raised money doesn't know

81:29

that this

81:30

was done before we work ever started in

81:33

a green desk office and all the ideas we

81:35

had were right here. This doesn't look

81:38

like focus to me. I feel like if I

81:39

showed my investors this now they would

81:41

shout at me. Could be. Today I would

81:43

choose what is the real focus of all

81:46

these things. The person and if we can

81:49

actually and I would do today I would do

81:50

it one foot ahead of the other. It's a

81:52

little bit more like we're doing flow.

81:53

But when you build a business, it's art,

81:56

not science. If you're going to have

81:57

some investor tells you, oh, you put

81:59

this first and this second and this

82:00

third, they're limiting you. You do need

82:03

to have a very a very strong foundation.

82:06

And that's, as you said before, both as

82:08

a human being and as a business person.

82:09

So, for anyone that can't see, you just

82:11

circled the the sort of stick person in

82:13

the middle of all of these ideas, and

82:15

you said really, I would have focused on

82:17

this person. I would really have focused

82:18

on the person and only added things that

82:20

made so the mission create a world where

82:22

people make a life and not just a

82:24

living. Yeah,

82:24

>> we should have just only added things

82:26

that are in support of that mission.

82:28

>> It reminds me of Amazon and Jeff Bezos

82:31

their famous saying of working backwards

82:32

from the customer and what's the

82:34

customer's pain points. I've just we

82:35

just hired um a wonderful person our

82:38

CTIO um from Amazon she's called ADA and

82:42

she says to me that at Amazon there's

82:43

always a you know often an empty seat to

82:45

the meetings and that is the customer.

82:47

So they leave an empty seat so that they

82:49

can make the decisions through the lens

82:51

of this person. So they're always in

82:53

every meeting so you don't get

82:54

distracted of who you're doing it for.

82:56

And that's kind of what you describe.

82:57

It's actually become you know since

82:58

she's joined our business it's always

82:59

front of mind for all of us which is

83:00

like work backwards from the customer

83:01

cuz sometimes you might work forward

83:03

from your own ego like I like that but

83:06

remember I'm going to give you my best

83:07

advice. I've met I've had the pleasure

83:08

to meet Mr. Bizos and he's phenomenal

83:11

and he's one of the best operators on

83:13

the planet by far. Some would say the

83:16

best.

83:18

My best advice for you,

83:20

build a culture that is authentic and

83:22

true to you. So, I love that you're

83:24

focused on the customer, but I can tell

83:26

as we're speaking, you're very honed in

83:28

on your user. Multiple times you've told

83:30

me how your listener is going to

83:32

interpret what we're saying. You are

83:34

aligned with your listener. I have no

83:36

doubt about it.

83:37

>> Isn't that a form of working backwards

83:39

from the customer? Cuz I'm sat here

83:40

about thinking 21-year-old Dave Jenny.

83:41

I'm thinking about and every time you

83:43

answer questions

83:43

>> again I'm sorry I don't I don't want to

83:46

being very No, we're being very I'm I'm

83:48

repeating myself and I don't mean to be

83:49

boring and if this was if we did this

83:51

podcast 3 years ago maybe I would go all

83:53

over the place.

83:55

>> If you actually today went to the depth

83:57

of your truth what is your correction?

83:59

What do you need to work on? Where are

84:01

you going? And then you found that and

84:03

then you brought that back into your

84:05

team. I am telling you I don't even know

84:08

how far it would be. So, are you saying

84:10

I don't need to work backwards from the

84:12

customer? What are you saying?

84:13

>> I'm saying your truth has to be yours

84:14

first. I'm not pushing against this

84:16

theory. Of course, we need to work

84:17

again. My truth. I know a lot of times

84:20

people keep telling me what the customer

84:21

wants. I, Rebecca, and I build what we

84:24

think is correct.

84:24

>> You don't listen to

84:25

>> no focus groups. No way. There's a

84:27

famous saying, I think it's Henry Ford,

84:29

if I asked the customer, they would have

84:30

asked for faster horses. Never invented

84:32

the car.

84:34

>> No, you know what you want. I think it's

84:37

about finding our own truth. I think

84:40

when a person finds his own truth, they

84:42

can express it. Of course, I'm not going

84:43

to tell you we shouldn't listen to the

84:45

customer. And flow, we have a lot of I

84:47

could tell you 10 things that the

84:48

customer has pointed out to us that of

84:50

course are right and we do. But again,

84:52

we have an opinion. If we listen to our

84:53

customer at FL, we'll have prettier

84:55

buildings so more influencers can take

84:57

more pictures.

84:58

>> So, you're saying hear your customers

84:59

but don't always listen to them. Is that

85:01

a distinction?

85:02

>> I am saying do you know yourself? I'm

85:06

saying everyone rushing building all

85:08

these businesses when they don't even

85:09

know who they are leads us to going into

85:12

dinners and talking about nothing going

85:14

into parties and doing whatever it is

85:16

that we're doing. [snorts] And instead

85:19

of living life to the potential, life is

85:22

so beautiful and amazing and full that

85:24

if you're going to now be busy listening

85:26

to your customer cuz you want to build a

85:27

business cuz you want to make money. Not

85:29

only do I think it's not going to work

85:30

for you, where's the fun in that? I

85:33

think I'm asking this in part uh

85:35

selfishly for myself which is

85:36

>> for you. I'm ready.

85:37

>> So at a stage of my business, you know,

85:39

where we're being offered lots of money

85:41

from lots of people. Um our last

85:43

valuation was about 450 uh 450 million

85:47

or something like that. And so I reflect

85:49

on your story a lot because I although

85:52

the numbers were wildly different um you

85:54

were at a moment where you know you

85:55

could raise whatever you money you

85:57

wanted and with that comes

86:00

opportunity and distraction dressed in

86:01

the same dress potentially. And in this

86:04

particular season of your story I go oh

86:05

Adam like bought this like apparently

86:07

you bought like a a surfing thing and a

86:08

thing over here.

86:09

>> Let's let's say something just cuz you

86:10

said it cuz I I love it. The surfing

86:13

thing we bought for $7 million was 48%

86:16

of a company called Wave Garden. Mhm.

86:18

>> We bought it because we thought you

86:20

could build amazing communities around

86:21

Surf. Wave Garden today does north of,

86:25

as far as I know, north of 500 million

86:28

in sales for 2027. I think this year

86:31

maybe around 250. They're extremely

86:33

successful.

86:34

>> Mhm.

86:34

>> The founders are so happy. I saw them

86:36

not too long ago because when when I

86:38

stepped down, we work famously sold it

86:40

back to them for 5 million even though

86:42

it was worth so much more. They own 100%

86:44

of their business. Their business is

86:45

thriving and I stand behind and I'll

86:48

tell you again today the best amenity

86:50

for if we wanted to build a big global

86:52

community real estate best amenity

86:54

number one school cuz if you have a

86:57

great school everybody wants to live

86:58

around

86:58

>> let me double click there then even

87:00

though wave garden was a great great

87:02

idea like great spotted a great business

87:04

that went on to be very very successful

87:07

in

87:09

our situation there's lots of those and

87:12

I would end up giving a different

87:14

business.

87:15

>> Yeah. Like in in my world, there's lots

87:17

of these like we could do that and that

87:18

and that and that. And you know what?

87:19

Objectively, maybe they're all good

87:20

ideas, but when we talked about this

87:23

point of focus, I would then be

87:25

splitting myself 10%. Even though they

87:27

>> I have a great answer for you.

87:28

>> Best recommendation to you would be the

87:30

same one I gave you when we spoke about

87:31

your fiance. I think you need a little

87:34

bit time for yourself for a second. I

87:36

think you need to soul search and see

87:37

exactly where you want to go. Ask

87:39

yourself what I just said. Assume that

87:41

in 6 years you're huge.

87:43

what for and why. And when you answer

87:47

what for and why, then go back to the

87:49

day and say, well, who's the right

87:51

partner to get me there?

87:54

That's the only way to make that because

87:56

if you make your decision based on

87:58

anything else, you might suffer what

88:00

happened to me, God forbid, and we don't

88:01

need this for you. First understand who

88:04

you are.

88:06

Then

88:10

decide where you want to go because of

88:12

it. then go back to all of the investors

88:14

and see who is the right investor. And

88:16

again, I want to say it again because I

88:17

think it's worth it. I think you should

88:19

choose, all of us should choose our

88:21

partners, our friends, and our business

88:23

partners based on how they will treat us

88:25

in our worst day when we show the worst,

88:28

not the best. If I if I don't pause for

88:31

a second and I don't do the work and I

88:33

don't get clear on what my mission is

88:34

and why I'm doing it before I make these

88:37

decisions now to grow.

88:38

>> To grow. Yeah. And that could be for

88:40

anyone listening that's at the start of

88:41

their journey. It's going well. They're

88:42

being pulled by opportunity, not by

88:44

mission. What What are What is the

88:47

mistake around the corner there that

88:49

I'll end up making that you referenced

88:50

that you said you made that I can't

88:52

currently see? So, I think the rule of

88:55

thumb that we gave is well, you've said

88:57

a few things. If your business started

89:00

with a mission, then you're already

89:02

doing better than most because a lot of

89:04

people don't have a real mission. So,

89:06

first step, you needed to have had a

89:07

real mission. Now let's say you actually

89:09

had a real mission and you found that

89:11

truth and now you're there and now this

89:13

growth is offered for you. If the growth

89:16

of the business is going to grow faster

89:18

than you're capable of handling,

89:19

handling is ego, handling is money,

89:22

handling is relationships, handling

89:23

there's a lot of handling we can

89:25

translate it in many ways. Then in

89:28

definition something is going to crack.

89:31

There will be a short circuit. So before

89:34

you jump on that growth without

89:35

understanding that growth, you have to

89:37

make sure that you're ready for it and

89:39

that it's actually correct for you.

89:41

>> What is the um the most effective

89:43

practice you've ever deployed to know

89:45

yourself better? For me, Adam, it's just

89:48

my truth. About 10 years ago, I started

89:51

keeping Shabbat, which for those who

89:53

don't know, it means that on Friday, we

89:54

disconnect from technology for 25 hours

89:58

and I just spend my time with my family,

90:00

my friends, and taking part of something

90:02

greater than myself. That disconnection

90:05

actually makes a lot more connection

90:07

than anybody understands. So, the best

90:08

practice I can suggest is technology

90:11

Shabbat. Forget religion. This is

90:12

nothing to do with religion. If you take

90:15

24 hours off of your phone, completely

90:18

off. Put it aside. We say put it in the

90:20

cookie jar. Here's what I forecast.

90:23

When's the last time you were off your

90:24

phone for 24 hours, by the way?

90:25

>> Oh, god.

90:26

>> Oh, god. Okay. We're going to we're

90:27

going to have to lead by example. So, if

90:28

we're going to ask people, this is

90:29

connecting, by the way, to my idea. If

90:31

we we're going to have to lead by

90:32

example. So, here's what I suggest to

90:34

the founders, to everyone. Choose a day.

90:37

Make it Saturday, make it Sunday, make

90:38

it middle of the week, it's easier on

90:40

the weekend. Make it the day that's true

90:41

for you. and take their phone away for

90:44

24 hours and put it in a place that you

90:46

genuinely are not going to touch it.

90:47

Give it to a friend if you can't trust

90:49

yourself. [sighs and gasps] The first

90:51

two hours, the amount of times your

90:52

hands going to go to your pocket

90:54

thinking your phone is there will show

90:55

you how addicted you are cuz it's an

90:57

actual addiction. But then what you'll

90:59

notice, especially if you scheduled it

91:01

in advance, you plan the dinner with

91:03

your friends, some activities that

91:04

include going out to nature, little

91:07

things. From my experience, when those

91:10

24 hours are over and you take back that

91:13

phone, two things will happen. One,

91:15

you're going to feel amazing at hour 22,

91:17

23, and 24. Amazing. And you're going to

91:19

take out that phone and it's going to

91:20

take you exactly 10 minutes to drop back

91:22

down to the wrong frequency. That's one.

91:25

Two, some of the best ideas you've had

91:27

in some time are going to come to you,

91:30

including who you should be surrounded

91:32

with, what business you should focus on,

91:34

what is your next move. For me, the best

91:36

practice is that 24 hours once a week.

91:39

Now again, I gota remember I have six

91:40

kids. I'm married. I have that 24 hours

91:43

where it's where it's us together

91:46

has been phenomenal. And I think in

91:49

front of everyone,

91:51

if you committed to 24 hours one time

91:54

and then report back to all of us a how

91:57

hard it was, which will be a definition

91:59

for the addiction, but b was it

92:01

positive? Cuz you talk a lot about

92:03

giving your listeners tools. Well, I

92:06

think we should test the tools on

92:07

ourselves first and only if they work,

92:09

we should really recommend them for

92:10

everybody. But I have a feeling it would

92:12

be amazing for you and even better for

92:14

your fiance.

92:15

>> I have a feeling you

92:16

>> I bet she wants it, by the way. I bet

92:17

she's even asked for asked me a million

92:19

times.

92:19

>> Well, why haven't you said yes if she

92:20

asked you a million times?

92:21

>> Oh gosh. Um, why haven't I said yes?

92:24

What's the answer?

92:26

>> Whenever someone

92:27

>> Because I don't see the upside.

92:29

>> It's cuz you're religious, not

92:30

spiritual. M [clears throat]

92:32

h

92:32

>> whenever someone can change something, I

92:35

think they're religious. I keep saying

92:36

to people, I'm spiritual, not religious.

92:38

I'll change. I can change. I can go. I'm

92:40

not stuck in a box. Whenever you're

92:42

stuck in a box and you're not ready to

92:44

change something, of course, you can't

92:45

see the upside. Give you an example.

92:47

Fasting. Have you ever fasted?

92:49

>> Yes.

92:49

>> Does your brain get very clear? Fasted

92:51

from water and food or just water?

92:53

>> Just food?

92:54

>> Both. Yeah.

92:55

>> Have you ever done a whole day no water?

92:56

No food?

92:57

>> Yes. No food.

92:58

>> I've done ketosis as well. So ketosis

93:00

also is a little different. Have you

93:02

noticed when fasting after 12 hours, 18

93:04

hours, 24 depending how clear your head

93:07

becomes. Your body doesn't want it. Your

93:10

body doesn't see an upside in it. But

93:12

you've tested it and you know that you

93:13

get clarity from it. You know that

93:15

there's a benefit to it. Same thing

93:17

here. Saying I don't see the benefit of

93:20

putting my phone away from 24 hours is

93:22

the way an addict will speak about I

93:23

don't see the benefit of stopping to

93:25

take the the drug trying it and after

93:29

doing it two three times being like that

93:31

didn't work for me I respect that but

93:34

you by the way I think you know that it

93:36

would work.

93:37

>> Yeah this is what I was going to say is

93:38

like conceptually of course I know it's

93:39

going to work. I've like sat here with

93:40

the neuroscientists that have done the

93:42

studies. Um I I think there was probably

93:44

a more honest answer that I've just sort

93:45

of uncovered which is it would be very

93:47

uncomfortable and even the thought of it

93:49

is like really uncomfortable. But now

93:51

you and I are going somewhere. How do we

93:52

know what to do in life? Whenever we

93:54

feel that we're in a crossroad, a

93:56

decision, one is comfortable, one is

93:58

not. Keep going after the uncomfortable

94:00

one. Path of most resistance, path of

94:04

least resistance. Always go after the

94:06

path of most resistance. Long journey,

94:08

short journey, go after the long. But

94:10

you know what happens? It takes less

94:12

time. It ends up being easier and has a

94:15

lot more value. There are rules to the

94:17

game of life. No one taught us.

94:19

>> So I we go back to the

94:21

>> Wait, are we getting a commitment? I

94:22

need a commitment. If France is

94:24

listening, can we do one? She's

94:25

listening. Can we do one time?

94:26

>> We can do one time.

94:27

>> Okay, perfect.

94:28

>> We can do one time.

94:29

>> Can we make sure to do it this month in

94:31

September?

94:31

>> Oh, that's a great question. Um, yes.

94:34

>> It's uncomfortable. Yes. Yes, we can.

94:37

Just before I shake, cuz I want my Cuz

94:38

we're going to We both keep our words.

94:40

Can I can I define

94:41

>> Let's define define it.

94:42

>> Well, you just said something I teach my

94:44

kids. Before you If you're having a

94:45

problem keeping your word, do a better

94:47

job defining it before you ever say it.

94:49

So, go right ahead.

94:50

>> It's not going on my phone or my

94:52

computer or any electronic device for 25

94:54

hours.

94:55

>> You can drive. You can turn on the

94:56

lights. Do everything else.

94:57

>> I can talk about everything. No, no.

94:59

We're not asking you to pen and paper. I

95:00

can

95:00

>> I'm not asking you to keep Shabbat. I

95:03

said technology Shabbat. [laughter]

95:04

We're just We're just going off.

95:06

>> I can brainstorm on a whiteboard.

95:08

>> Encouraged. Okay,

95:09

>> encouraged to bring a server. Now again,

95:11

next level will be we'll take business

95:13

out of it so you can really connect. But

95:14

let's do the first.

95:15

>> Okay. So, right, let's define it. No

95:16

screens, which includes your computer,

95:18

your iPad, your

95:19

>> watch, whatever. Yeah,

95:20

>> watch. Good. I like it. Does your car

95:22

have like a big screen? Cuz some of the

95:24

cars are like big iPads.

95:25

>> I won't be in my car cuz I'll be in

95:26

Europe in September. So,

95:27

>> we're done.

95:28

>> Okay, great.

95:28

>> Deal.

95:29

>> Deal. I'll let you know how it goes.

95:30

>> Let all of us know how it goes.

95:31

[clears throat]

95:32

>> I will.

95:32

>> Now, we can go back.

95:33

>> So, let's go back to this this cuz I

95:34

really wanted to nail this point of

95:36

focus.

95:37

>> Please do.

95:37

>> I'm obsessed. I'm pretty obsessed with

95:38

this point of focus in part. I remember

95:40

this Johnny Ives video I watched where

95:42

Johnny I've sent it around for the last

95:44

couple years to all of my team. Johnny

95:45

says Steve had this remarkable ability

95:47

to focus. And he said focus isn't saying

95:50

no to things you don't want to remotely

95:51

don't want to do anyway. It's saying no

95:53

to things that with every bone in your

95:55

body you want to do and you wake up

95:56

thinking about, but you say no to them

95:58

because we're going to do this. And

96:00

famously in Steve Jobs story when he

96:02

came back into Apple after being fired,

96:03

he was sat in a room with all of his

96:05

executives. They've all got a million

96:06

initiatives they're working on. And

96:08

famously, he goes up to a whiteboard and

96:10

draws four things. Like I think it was a

96:11

four quadrant thing. And he says, "This

96:13

is what we're going to do. Everything

96:14

else is canceled."

96:16

>> Cancelled it.

96:17

>> One of the things that I concluded from

96:18

the the period after you' raised all

96:20

this money was that there was a lack of

96:21

focus cuz you ended up doing lots of

96:23

things at the same time. And that's

96:25

something that I find myself almost at

96:26

like the foothills of being tempted to

96:28

do. So that's why I wanted to ask you

96:30

the question like let's let's answer it.

96:31

So first of all, we talked about

96:33

superpowers and super weaknesses. I

96:35

cannot tell you that my superpower is

96:37

focus. Okay,

96:38

>> it's it's not not not my superpower. I

96:41

actually have the opposite of it. My

96:43

challenge is and Ben Horitz and Mark and

96:45

Dre helped me understand this. I'm very

96:48

good at zero to one. So the problem with

96:50

many many entrepreneurs have a lot of

96:52

ideas. Problem with me having a lot of

96:53

ideas, they actually become a reality.

96:56

So one entrepreneur has Ben was telling

96:58

this to me said another entrepreneur is

96:59

going to come with nine new ideas and

97:01

the next board meeting maybe he did one

97:02

of them. You have nine ideas. We didn't

97:04

say anything the board meeting. We come

97:05

next board meeting. There's nine new

97:07

businesses. So focus is something that I

97:10

need to work on. So now let's go a

97:12

little deeper. And this is how I do my

97:14

own personal growth. I'm a creator. I'm

97:16

not a protector. I'm really good at

97:19

creating. I'm not that great at

97:20

protecting. Rebecca's grandfather

97:22

famously said, "It takes one lion to

97:25

make a fortune and 10 lions to watch

97:27

it." His name was Andre Herz. One lion

97:29

to make a fortune, 10 lions to watch it.

97:31

Very smart saying.

97:34

because I'm now aware that I'm more a

97:36

creator than a protector. There needs to

97:38

be someone else around the table on the

97:40

team whose job is to say, "Adam, sounds

97:44

great and maybe we should do it in 3

97:46

months or in 6 months or in 9 months,

97:48

but right now really need to focus not

97:50

on one thing. I'm not a one thing kind

97:51

of guy, but let's say on three things

97:54

where other people can only do one at a

97:56

time. I'm probably very good at 3 to

97:57

five. But once you go above that number

97:59

10 to 15, which I could fall into that

98:02

trap, not going to succeed. So for me,

98:05

with my personality, I would have to

98:07

surround myself with people I trust to

98:09

say no. Did you have that at Weiwork? A

98:12

little, but not really. Because again,

98:15

remember back to that horrible moment

98:17

where I walk back into the office and

98:19

the ego got the best of me. What happens

98:21

next when you lose yourself? you start

98:24

attracting the wrong people. So the

98:27

people that were hired after that were

98:29

just there for the money. The energy

98:30

that was being projected was let's go

98:32

public, let's do this, let's do that.

98:34

The energy that's projected was was

98:37

wrong. You filed for an IPO and uh I

98:42

think softback soft bank invested a

98:44

further 2 billion into we work.

98:45

>> So you really are trying to get to the

98:46

story. The challenge with what you're

98:48

trying to do is there's so much context

98:49

to the story missing. I'll give you the

98:51

little piece

98:52

>> the high level. No, I'm I'm all good

98:54

with I'll I'll I'll give it to you if

98:55

this and this is your podcast.

98:57

>> I'll tell you what [clears throat] I

98:58

want to get. I just want to end this.

98:59

>> Then we're going after and then I'm

99:00

going to tell you something that I

99:01

mentioned once but no one has your

99:03

viewership so we'll mention it again.

99:04

>> I want to close this now.

99:06

>> Yeah. I'll close this for you. I'll

99:07

close this for you.

99:11

>> So we Masa gives the money.

99:13

>> Yeah.

99:14

>> We lose our mission a little bit. But

99:16

he's very clear what he wants. He wants

99:17

the fastest. He wants the largest

99:19

company on the planet.

99:20

>> A trillion dollar company.

99:20

>> I can deliver big company. I can by then

99:23

back then by the way no one said numbers

99:25

like that today we've seen companies 5

99:26

years old that are getting to those

99:27

numbers see look how the world's moving

99:30

what was impossible and then no one

99:32

could talk about and made fun of 10

99:34

years ago suddenly is everyday reality

99:36

not a big word anymore but it's a huge

99:37

number obviously and very few companies

99:40

are going to be there and stay there but

99:42

more as time moves forward more and more

99:44

must invest in the money ends up coming

99:47

in only in 2017 takes quite a long time

99:49

between when the investment is offered

99:51

and 2016 that piece of paper to the

99:52

money coming in in 2017. But we we we

99:55

deliver on our 960 million in sales. And

99:58

the following year, we deliver on our

99:59

1.8 billion or 1.92, whatever the exact

100:02

number we said we we hit our number. And

100:05

Masa comes and says, "Wow, you really

100:08

delivered on your number." Said, "Of

100:10

course, Masa son, we always deliver on

100:12

our number." And and he said, "Well,

100:14

Adam, I've invested with vision fund a

100:16

lot of companies. Everybody promised me

100:18

to double the revenue. You're one of the

100:19

only ones who did it." said, 'Well,

100:21

that's what we did. I said, 'Well, so

100:22

our expenses grew. Said I have no

100:24

problem with the expenses. When the time

100:25

is right, we'll stop the growth and

100:28

profitability will catch up. As we

100:29

explained, that happens in businesses

100:31

that are actually successful. And he

100:33

comes and basically comes up with this

100:35

idea. He says, "How about we buy your

100:36

investors are going to want an IPO and

100:38

they're going to want an exit. They're

100:39

going to want focus. I have no problem

100:41

with how wide we're going. How about we

100:44

buy the company for 20 billion?" And

100:46

this is the story that a lot of people

100:48

don't understand. How about I buy the

100:50

company? I'll give it a $20 billion

100:52

valuation, which is very similar to the

100:53

valuation it came in before. But I said,

100:55

20 billion, isn't it a little low? He

100:57

said, "No, no, 20 billion of actual

100:58

cash. We'll give $10 billion to the to

101:02

the investors

101:03

and we will put $10 billion on the

101:06

balance sheet."

101:07

>> In the bank account, basically

101:08

>> in the bank account, you Adam won't

101:10

sell. Your employees can sell some so

101:12

they make money. All the investors are

101:13

out. You and your management team will

101:15

go down to 30%. me and the new me soft

101:19

bankank vision fund whoever is going to

101:20

do it will own 70%. And when you hit

101:23

goals that we agree you and the

101:25

management team will go from 30% to 51

101:27

and we will go to 49 and I understand

101:31

that we're growing too fast and I

101:32

understand that we'll have too much

101:33

expenses but I'm putting my money where

101:35

my mouth is and I don't care because I

101:37

think this is going to be one of the

101:38

biggest companies in the world. This

101:40

happens is a very important part of the

101:42

story. This happens in March of 2018.

101:47

This is before the IPO. You can't you

101:49

can't bring this story back if you don't

101:50

understand this part. March of 2018, he

101:51

only invested the money really came in

101:53

in the middle of 2017 or like you two.

101:55

This is only a year after he's with us.

101:57

He's on the board. He has two boards.

101:58

They know everything that's happening in

101:59

the company. No secrets.

102:03

I take the offer to our board say look

102:05

at this amazing thing 20. Remember they

102:07

invested pre- money valuation of 84

102:10

million. This is 20 billion. They

102:12

invested at 84 million. By this point,

102:15

they've already pulled out because of

102:16

all the secondaries. They've already

102:18

pulled out nor somewhere between 3 to

102:20

500 million. I'll check the exact number

102:22

so you have it. Maybe even more, maybe

102:23

even 700 million by this. They've pulled

102:26

out a lot. Whatever the number was at

102:27

least 350 million on on an investment of

102:30

21 million.

102:32

I take it to them. The offers it must

102:34

sounds like a great offer, but I Adam

102:37

going to stay in the company mean the

102:38

management team. So, we can't make a

102:39

deal like this. So in boards when

102:42

someone has a deal that they're staying

102:43

behind you need to create a special

102:44

committee and a special committee is

102:46

created

102:48

the board member from benchmark and

102:51

another board member that we had in the

102:53

not that we had which out of respect to

102:55

him I'm not saying his name

102:58

and they create a special committee and

103:01

they decide to negotiate a 20 billion

103:04

allcash deal that would have made money

103:06

for everyone remember Masa came in at 20

103:08

he's the only one who's not making money

103:09

from this deal and he's staying

103:11

Everybody else came in at 50 million,

103:13

100 million, 400 million, a billion.

103:15

Everyone's making money. And they're,

103:18

and this word is a dangerous one, but

103:21

it's greed because the company at that

103:24

point is losing about $2 billion a year,

103:28

forecasted to lose over $3 billion the

103:30

next year. He knows the forecast. He

103:32

wants to put 10 billion to give it run

103:34

rate of three years so we can build

103:35

whatever we want between the two of us.

103:37

He'll be the majority shareholder.

103:39

they say no and negotiate a $20 billion

103:44

deal from March till October

103:48

for a company losing two billion. Now I

103:50

don't know how you value companies. We

103:51

could talk about how we should value

103:53

companies because there are very

103:54

valuable companies who are losing money

103:55

of course at high growth but still they

103:57

have a company losing $2 billion.

103:59

Masaasan is offering them 20 in return

104:02

for that pleasure

104:05

and they negotiate these two special

104:07

committee special uh board members. Now

104:10

I'm not part of it cuz I'm staying in

104:11

the deal so I have zero part of it. In a

104:14

normal world, if I were to sit on your

104:16

board [snorts] and and I'm sitting on

104:19

your board and and someone comes and

104:21

gives this crazy offer to buy me and all

104:22

the other friends out and I invested in

104:24

you now in this 400 million and you gave

104:27

me a deal at 20 billion and I'm making

104:29

23 billion on my 50 million. First, I

104:32

come to you and I say, "Stephen, thank

104:34

you. Thank you for being such a great

104:36

entrepreneur and doing this for me is

104:38

number one. But number two, I say,

104:39

Stephen, I'm a little offended that you

104:42

don't want me with you anymore. Is this

104:44

really what you want? And if you would

104:46

tell me, yes, Adam, this is what I want.

104:48

This is how A16C, this is why they're so

104:50

amazing. They go with the founder. I

104:52

would tell you, Stephen, it's not what I

104:54

wanted, but I'm grateful for all the

104:56

money you've made for me. You've worked

104:57

extremely hard and I wish you good luck

105:00

and maybe next time when you do your

105:01

next business, come back to me again.

105:04

They don't do that. They don't ask me

105:06

what I want, what I They negotiate

105:08

because they think they can push myself

105:09

from 20 billion to 30. Their number was

105:11

32 billion. They don't know how they

105:13

invented it. They were thinking 100

105:15

billion. Remember, they're the same ones

105:17

sitting around the board that never gave

105:18

the feedback on the technology. Never.

105:20

They've never done any of

105:22

they have one thing in their eyes and

105:24

one thing only, and that's dollar signs.

105:26

But the problem with greed and dollar

105:28

signs, if you're greedy, you even lose

105:30

what you have in your hand. So, they're

105:32

negotiating this 20 B. I must have from

105:34

the first day said, "Guys, this is my

105:35

final offer. There is no 21 billion even

105:38

20. It's crazy. It's as high as I'm

105:40

going to go because I believe in Adam

105:41

and I believe in me and we're going to

105:42

build together. They do that until

105:44

October.

105:46

And somewhere around end of September,

105:48

beginning of October, they realize he's

105:51

not moving. Stock market is starting to

105:53

go down and and and Japan and this and

105:56

and these growth businesses are starting

105:57

to take a hit. They see that things are

106:00

changing. Then they decide to engage and

106:02

actually negotiate the deal. By the time

106:04

they're done to documents is December

106:06

24th, 2018.

106:09

Soft Bank stock is really down for

106:12

reasons that had nothing to do with us.

106:14

There's no world in which they could do

106:16

a $20 billion cash deal and MASA still

106:18

stays in his place. And Masa calls me

106:20

and said, "Adam, I'm so sorry. I cannot

106:23

do the deal anymore. It was offered in

106:26

March." Again, what these two board

106:28

members should have done is gotten on a

106:29

plane the next day, came to Ma Hassan

106:32

and said, "Masa, please sign. You know

106:34

everything about the board. You're in

106:35

the board. You don't need any diligence.

106:37

Here's our bank account. Here's the

106:38

signature. We're disappointed we're not

106:40

staying with Adam, but if that's what he

106:41

wants and that's what you want, good

106:43

luck to both of you. Thank you for the

106:44

very fair price. We'll take our

106:46

benchmark at the time, at least 2.4

106:48

billion they would have put. We'll take

106:49

our cash and walk away. No, no. Travis

106:53

said very in in an interview I just saw

106:56

>> Travis

106:56

>> Travis Kanik

106:57

>> being the CEO of the founder of UB

107:00

>> and he said that being an entrepreneur

107:01

is like playing a dimensional chess.

107:03

Being a venture capitalist is like

107:05

watching the game again. Remember,

107:07

you're choosing your investors. Choose

107:09

the one who play a dimensional chess,

107:11

not the watchers. So, they didn't do

107:12

that. Masa calls me. It's December. He

107:14

says I can't do the deal. And I actually

107:16

understand him. I actually say I

107:18

understand because they did waste all

107:20

that time. Then I found myself in

107:23

trouble because from when he offered the

107:25

deal, remember he was going to have 70%,

107:27

we're going to have 30%. And the goal

107:28

was a revenue goal that we needed to we

107:30

were already all working towards that

107:32

goal. We signed the leases. We made the

107:34

commitments. We're already rushing. We

107:36

found ourselves in a way that if we

107:38

weren't to, he gave the two billion

107:40

because to try not to really ruin the

107:42

business. He's already put a lot of

107:43

money in the business already.

107:46

We found ourselves being forced to go

107:48

public. So, we actually went public when

107:52

we weren't ready.

107:54

That's what actually happened. So, it's

107:55

it's very important this piece of the

107:57

story because without that context, then

107:59

you don't understand. And again, it's

108:00

back to all the founders you're talking

108:02

about. You got to choose your investors

108:04

wisely because if you choose the wrong

108:06

investors when the time comes for that

108:08

big move, if they're not going to

108:09

prioritize you, they're going to do

108:11

what's best for them and everybody's

108:13

going to lose.

108:14

>> Why weren't you ready when you

108:18

now you're going back to systems?

108:20

>> We were growing way too fast.

108:22

>> Yeah.

108:23

>> Our tech was not catching up with us.

108:24

So, we couldn't measure things

108:26

correctly. We there's this thing called

108:27

socks compliant compliant when you go

108:29

public

108:32

our systems weren't able to do the thing

108:33

I told you before to show that one

108:35

building is profitable but the

108:36

neighborhood is not one city is

108:38

profitable but the state is not wasn't

108:40

able to divide but now in hindsight

108:43

connecting to what we talked today I

108:45

Adam wasn't ready and if the founder is

108:47

not ready the business is not ready by

108:49

the way I tried to push not to go public

108:50

must have called me said please don't go

108:52

public all the people around me some of

108:56

them that came after this point and not

108:58

all but a lot of them were all go public

109:00

go public go public I was getting pushed

109:02

by the wrong people back to surround

109:03

yourself with the wrong people but we

109:05

weren't ready but the timeline is pretty

109:07

crazy because obviously co is around the

109:09

corner here it's called co 19 for a

109:11

reason and we're in that's at the end of

109:13

2018 you file um in January softbank

109:16

does invest a further 2 billion into we

109:18

work

109:18

>> that 2 billion was because they passed

109:20

on the deal before it's not because we

109:22

filed

109:23

>> so that was kind of a I guess

109:24

compensation

109:26

respect between Masa and myself.

109:27

>> In May,

109:28

>> another another great deal that Masan

109:30

did that he didn't have to.

109:33

>> In May 2019, you have almost 500

109:35

locations, 400,000 members, 12,000

109:39

employees around the world. And then in

109:42

August 2019, we work publicly filed its

109:45

S1 company valued at around $47 billion.

109:49

Um the we work the S1 showed some

109:51

losses. Um

109:52

>> a lot of losses, not some losses. showed

109:54

the truth. The company was losing money.

109:56

>> It showed that we work had lost 690

109:58

million in the first 6 months of 2019,

110:02

bringing the total losses to almost 3

110:04

billion in the past 3 years. We work was

110:05

making losses of 219K every hour it

110:09

operated. Yes. One revealed that you'd

110:11

also trademarked the word we and sold it

110:13

back to the company.

110:14

>> That's not true. But

110:15

>> which you was No, it's not. It's not

110:17

true.

110:17

>> No, no, no. There's no denying. If you

110:19

want, we can talk about there's a story,

110:20

but that's not

110:21

>> It's not true. It's not true. I don't

110:22

really care about the story.

110:23

Um

110:24

>> but again all these little details just

110:27

so we understand just for the founders

110:28

who are watching right so now you're

110:30

telling a story about something that

110:32

happened to me there's supposed to be

110:34

huge emotion that I'm supposed to have

110:36

with this

110:38

even if it's not correct if it's what

110:40

people said some of it is correct not

110:42

correct so much context is missing not

110:44

the point life is not about what other

110:46

people say or what the press say or even

110:48

what you say it's about what kind of

110:50

person I know I am and the reason I want

110:52

to tell this to you and to the listeners

110:53

is we can all be that person. Please

110:56

keep going.

110:57

>> September 2019 um you we work announced

111:00

it was postponing its IPO as a result of

111:02

investors questioning the company and

111:05

then I mean around this time co shows up

111:08

but then you resigned as CEO of weiwork

111:10

in 2019

111:12

after the IPO didn't pan out. So that's

111:16

not why I resigned. So, I stepped down

111:17

and what people don't know is I had full

111:20

control over the board and the votes.

111:22

So, I had to choose to step down. People

111:24

sometimes think I was fired because the

111:26

Wall Street Journal said so. Not true.

111:29

Step down. I had full control. Control

111:31

the board and control the

111:32

>> Why did you step down?

111:34

>> So, if when people understand the

111:35

context, and again, this is an old

111:37

story, but I'm happy to go there.

111:39

The only reason a person in control

111:42

chooses to step down is because they

111:44

think that it's the best choice at the

111:47

time. And again, this is part by the way

111:48

of the play. This is the same playbook

111:50

that now we're going to say his name

111:51

again. Travis, the founder of Uber,

111:54

famously Bill Gurley comes and puts a

111:56

piece of paper in front of him.

111:58

>> He's Bill Gi.

111:58

>> He's one of the benchmark um partners.

112:04

[snorts]

112:06

He famously puts a piece of paper in

112:08

front of him, I think, and and either

112:10

you step down or we do this, this, and

112:12

this, some threat that makes him step

112:14

down. I have a different version of it,

112:17

but they're pushing me very, very hard

112:19

to step down. And at the beginning, I

112:21

don't like I'm not stepping down. And

112:23

then I have a meeting with one of the

112:25

heads of the two biggest banks in the

112:27

world. And he sits with me and he says

112:29

to me, "Adam, if you step down, then we

112:32

will fund

112:35

$2 billion into Weiwork, which will give

112:37

it time to move profit profitable."

112:39

Stepped down, by the way, from being

112:40

CEO, become chairman. And I at the time

112:42

had personal debt, which is a story for

112:44

another time, but I had personal debt of

112:46

460 million to that bank and to other

112:49

banks. And I said, "But what about my

112:51

personal debt?" My board member was next

112:52

to me and the guy who runs my family

112:54

office was next to me. We said, "What

112:56

about our personal debt?" And he said,

112:58

"Don't worry about it. We'll we'll

113:01

figure it out." There was also an

113:03

advisor to to my board and he came in

113:07

front of the whole board and he said, "I

113:09

spoke to the bank. They said it's all

113:11

good. Everything will work out." So I

113:14

stepped down out of choice because I

113:16

thought it was going to fund way work. I

113:18

thought it was going to take care of of

113:20

MASA. I thought was going to take care

113:21

of the employees. I thought was going to

113:23

take care of everybody. And it sounded

113:25

like it was in the best of everybody.

113:26

But I wasn't going away. I was just

113:28

stepping down from being co and becoming

113:30

executive chairman. I do the board call.

113:33

I step down and 10 minutes later a legal

113:36

letter comes from the bank and basically

113:39

says because of your breach of contract

113:41

cuz it's change of control something

113:43

very technical something we talked about

113:44

to them before and they said no problem

113:46

but we didn't have it in writing because

113:48

of your

113:51

breach of contract and because you had

113:53

the change of control you now have 15

113:55

days to pay us back our debt that 460

113:59

million or we will take your shares and

114:01

because of my super voting rights my

114:04

shares were 5 to1 which means that by

114:06

taking away my shares they would have

114:08

taken control over the company now what

114:10

I'm describing to you and you talked a

114:12

lot about founders but you didn't know a

114:13

lot of the names it's important to know

114:15

the names and the history because I'm

114:17

not describing to you something that

114:18

happened for the first time this

114:20

famously happened to multiple

114:21

entrepreneurs in history this used to be

114:24

the venture capital playbook today

114:26

there's a new crop of venture

114:27

capitalists and they're very different

114:28

but old school venture capital this is

114:31

this is a a lot times. This is how it

114:33

used to go.

114:35

That was the surprise. That's how we

114:37

found ourselves suddenly so low because

114:39

we I stepped down because I thought it

114:41

was the best for everybody. And a second

114:43

after I did it, we got stabbed in the

114:46

back. And the only lesson there, if

114:48

you're going to stab the king, kill. If

114:51

you're not going to kill,

114:53

we're going to take a deep breath. We're

114:56

going to learn our lessons. We're going

114:58

to know what's really important in life.

115:00

And we're going to come back again.

115:02

And that's what actually happened there.

115:04

And the only reason the story is a

115:05

little challenging for you is because we

115:07

never corrected it publicly. And the

115:09

reason we corrected some of it but not

115:10

all of it. And the reason we didn't

115:12

correct it publicly for what the best

115:15

way I can talk about the past is by what

115:17

I do today. By how we're speaking right

115:19

now, by how my kids are, by the

115:21

businesses I build, by the nonprofit I

115:23

do, by the friendships I have, by the

115:26

relationships I hold. And the reason a

115:28

lot of entrepreneurs come to take money

115:30

from us and again we don't invest

115:31

anymore but we have a huge inbound of

115:33

people wanting us to invest in them is

115:36

because we don't talk about our

115:37

successes all the time. We talk about

115:39

the lessons measure us by how we're

115:42

going to be next to you when time when

115:43

time is very tough. So that's what

115:46

actually happened there and I found

115:47

myself out of it very quickly. And from

115:49

there without making the story confused,

115:51

Masa came. Masa saved the day. He paid

115:54

the debt to all the banks 460 million.

115:57

And in return, I gave him my control

115:59

[clears throat] of the company. I gave

116:00

him whatever shares in I gave him

116:01

whatever he asked for because we were

116:03

done and the company was done and he

116:05

came to save it and then the rest they

116:07

were was running under them. You get an

116:10

email from the bank within sort of I

116:11

think it was 9 minutes. I read

116:13

>> 9 minutes. nine minutes asking for you

116:15

to immediately repay I think was it

116:17

about $450 million

116:19

>> $450 compounding daily because you're in

116:21

default

116:22

>> just for anyone that doesn't know what

116:23

compounding daily means. So I have I

116:25

have 435

116:26

>> if you read it it's only for my Rick

116:28

Rubin interview cuz the first time I

116:29

said it was only a few months ago I

116:30

never spoke about this.

116:31

>> Okay, compounding daily means every day.

116:33

>> So if you have debt of uh 10% annual or

116:36

let's do 12 so it's easy which would

116:38

calculate to 1% a month just to keep

116:40

things really easy. Compounding daily is

116:43

when your debt suddenly goes back then I

116:44

think it's 5% became 50%.

116:47

15 and you calculate it on daily

116:49

increments. So each time it compounds

116:52

again and again and again. It's it ends

116:53

up that when you do the calculation for

116:54

the year it's more than the debt number.

116:57

>> Your debt is growing by more than a

116:58

million a day.

116:59

>> No it's not. We would have to it's not a

117:01

million there. But let's say it's 15%.

117:03

Let's just use clean numbers. Let's say

117:05

it's 15% over 400 million which would

117:08

have been 60 million. It's actually more

117:09

than 60 million. And if you divide it to

117:11

it, it's huge numbers that we don't have

117:13

money to pay.

117:14

>> Okay. So you have no money.

117:15

>> No money.

117:16

>> And the bank have asked you for 400,

117:18

let's say 450

117:18

>> and gave us 15 days to pay.

117:20

>> Giving you 15 days to pay

117:21

>> or they take everything.

117:23

>> You say this is what broke me.

117:26

>> When did I say that?

117:27

>> I think you said on the podcast. Yeah,

117:28

you said on the podcast you said this is

117:29

what broke me. That was

117:31

>> I don't know if I wonder if it meant I

117:32

was broke cuz I don't think that's what

117:34

broke me.

117:35

>> You described waking up in the middle of

117:36

the night crying because you thought you

117:38

had lost everything. Yes, that's more

117:40

accurate. So, at the moment where that

117:42

happens, we were okay. Few days later, I

117:45

wake up in the middle of the night next

117:46

to Rebecca crying. Now, we talked about

117:49

my childhood. We talked you and I today

117:51

about childhood. We didn't get the tears

117:52

out. I don't cry. Not for that. [sighs]

117:57

First time Rebecca ever sees me cry. She

117:59

looks at me and she's like, "Why are you

118:01

crying?" And I said, "We lost

118:03

everything." I think that's what I said

118:05

there. I said, "We lost everything." She

118:06

goes, "What do you mean everything?" I

118:08

was like, "Everything." She goes, "The

118:10

cars?" I said, "The wheels on the car.

118:12

Everything." I go, "Yeah, but remember

118:15

we said you're going to put a h 100red

118:16

million on my name just in case." Said,

118:18

"Yeah, I remember." She goes, "And at

118:20

least we have that." Said, "I never did

118:22

it." That you never did that. I said,

118:24

"Never did." He said, "Okay, but it's no

118:26

problem. You didn't sign a personal

118:27

guarantee. We said you'd never sign a

118:29

personal guarantee."

118:30

I said, "I signed a personal guarantee.

118:32

It's a long story how that happened, but

118:34

I signed

118:36

again. This is why who you marry is so

118:38

important. How many partners do you know

118:42

who a second ago thought they were worth

118:44

whatever that number was and lived a

118:46

high life and find out in one minute no

118:48

preparation that not only is it all

118:50

gone, it's all gone. And on top of the

118:53

fact that it's all gone, the promises

118:55

that was made to them in the

118:56

relationship were not kept. So, it's

118:58

gone and money was not put aside and a

119:01

personal guarantee was signed. Cuz if

119:02

I'm signing personal guarantee, I'm

119:03

signing for both of us who are married.

119:05

And a personal guarantee was signed that

119:07

was agreed to not to sign. This is why

119:10

you have to choose your partner really

119:11

well. Choose your partner for the day

119:13

something like that happens, not for any

119:16

other day.

119:17

I'm lucky that I chose well or she chose

119:20

me or the universe chose us. She looks

119:22

at me and she goes, "Hm,

119:27

okay, this is a surprise.

119:30

My mom owns a house in upstate New York.

119:32

She bought it 30 years ago. She has no

119:33

mortgage. Let's go live with my mom.

119:36

Take a few months. Think about it. If

119:38

you want to go back into business, I

119:39

know you'll be successful. And if you

119:42

don't, we'll move to Costa Rica. I will

119:45

homeschool and we will surf every

119:47

morning and serve every night. And we'll

119:49

have a great life. Both cases. Don't

119:52

worry about it.

119:55

And at that moment,

119:57

this is when I think I grow up for the

119:59

first time. And you asked about this. So

120:02

now as we're talking, you're helping me

120:03

understand something. [sighs]

120:05

You talked about that child and the

120:07

pain. As a child, when we're facing

120:09

these very difficult things, we have no

120:12

one to count on, only our parents. For a

120:15

moment, I think I was that child again

120:18

crying.

120:20

But I wasn't a child anymore because I

120:22

had an amazing wife and kids that I

120:24

could lean back on. They have my back

120:27

even if I messed up. Even if I didn't

120:30

keep my word, even if I didn't do things

120:32

the way they're supposed to, even if I

120:34

took all the potential in the world and

120:38

messed it up or lost it, even though it

120:41

was ours for the taking. And the moment

120:44

I realized that, I felt a little

120:46

stronger. I felt better. I stopped

120:49

crying. I was like, I [snorts] start

120:50

crying. I was like, "Okay."

120:52

But Rebecca says that I'm still not

120:54

smiling.

120:56

She goes, "By the way, when I met you,

121:00

you were broke. I think you're much more

121:03

sexy when you're broke." Then I smiled.

121:06

Now I was happy. Then I walked

121:08

downstairs and now you're completing the

121:10

story from before that morning. After

121:11

when I go to my three employees, two

121:13

things happened before that morning. One

121:16

was the story with the spiritual teacher

121:17

who taught me that the darkest moment of

121:19

the night is a second before dawn. And

121:21

that belief is measured when we're down,

121:23

not when we're up. And two, I knew that

121:26

I could rely on Rebecca, which means I

121:28

had a foundation and I had a real

121:30

partner and I can make it through

121:32

anything. So to when those when my three

121:36

employees say, "Why are you smiling?"

121:38

They didn't add everything. I told them

121:40

the darkest moment of the night is a

121:42

second before dawn and I believe. But I

121:44

also told them, "And my wife thinks I'm

121:46

sexy."

121:50

For a kid that didn't have much

121:51

stability, that was a moment where you

121:53

realized your foundation was probably

121:55

rock solid. I think

121:57

>> I go back to where you started. Biggest

121:59

decision any of us can make in our life

122:01

is who is our partner. And how do we

122:04

know who they are? We now said two

122:05

things. One, do they make us the best

122:08

version of ourselves? Two, how will they

122:11

be in that very tough day if everything

122:14

was gone? And all that is left is not

122:17

only our nice side. He talked before

122:19

about the dark side and the light side.

122:21

How are they going to treat us if for a

122:22

moment it's just the dark side? If the

122:25

light is not turned off but diminished.

122:29

I can see all the emotion in your face

122:31

when you recount that moment and how

122:32

much that that means to you. Um probably

122:36

more so than anything else you've said.

122:38

There's sometimes Rebecca is quick to

122:40

anger with me and I can be upset for a

122:43

second, but when I have a second to take

122:45

a deep breath and remember how what a

122:48

great wife I have and what a great

122:50

partner I have, there's nothing she can

122:52

do that can actually keep me upset for

122:55

more than a little bit. Cuz our

122:57

relationship has been testing fire.

123:02

There's another remarkable story I

123:03

remember you saying about um her giving

123:06

you some advice to stand your ground in

123:08

the post sort of we work era where you

123:10

know there was negotiation still going

123:12

on about I think your your compensation

123:13

that you were going to get and she gave

123:15

you some really really good advice about

123:16

standing your ground.

123:17

>> She did.

123:18

>> What was that for those that haven't

123:20

heard that story? It [snorts] inspired

123:22

me cuz you know I do tend to think my

123:24

fiance is always right. So when I heard

123:26

that I thought huh. So, first of all,

123:27

it's very hard to stand our ground when

123:29

we think we have a lot to lose. It's

123:32

back to that fear.

123:34

Rebecca has many superpowers. One of

123:36

them, she has no fear, to a fault. She's

123:40

all truth. She sees people for who they

123:43

are. And therefore, she's honest and

123:46

she's not afraid of her truth. If

123:48

someone's not going to be our friend, if

123:49

someone's not gonna talk to us because

123:50

of it, she doesn't care. She calls it as

123:53

it is. And at the end of this whole

123:55

negotiation, when it came time to finish

123:58

everything,

124:00

my litigator at the time, today is my

124:04

partner, his name is Eric Syler, called

124:06

me and we talked and we said and said,

124:08

"I think we can get to a deal." And we

124:11

talked about the deal. And we got to the

124:12

deal

124:13

>> with who? Between

124:14

>> between so fast to finish for the story

124:16

for everyone. I step down the world. I

124:20

get the letter from the bank. We have

124:22

nothing. Masan comes in, saves the day,

124:24

funds the company, funds us, funds, pays

124:28

our debt, but we don't get get we get

124:29

money, but we don't get the big number,

124:31

and agrees in April 1st, 2020 to pay

124:36

myself and all the other investors $3

124:38

billion cash out of which we would have

124:41

been 30%. So, a billion dollars for us.

124:44

Corona happens really in March and on

124:48

the last day of March 2020 we get a

124:51

letter from SoftBank saying that this is

124:53

force majour for those of you who don't

124:55

know what force majour means is when an

124:57

event happens that's greater than life

124:59

that's out of control like a flood or

125:01

something force majour force of nature

125:04

something unexpected

125:06

and they don't have to pay the money and

125:07

they don't send the three billion I

125:09

remember by this point I've taken so

125:11

many hits ah one at this point I'm

125:13

already practiced I look up to the

125:15

heavens and I say, "Thank you, God. What

125:18

do we need to learn from this one? This

125:19

one I'm already ready to learn." And the

125:21

lesson there was apparently litigation.

125:23

Here's what we need to learn from this

125:24

one. And we go into a very complicated

125:26

litigation. When the litigation ends

125:28

with a settlement of a billion and a

125:30

half, so instead of the 3 billion, it

125:32

ends up being half. So, everybody gets

125:34

half, but it's done.

125:37

We negotiate a certain negotiation and

125:39

was going to take a certain time for the

125:41

money to come in. And Rebecca was just

125:43

about to give birth. This was 4 days

125:45

before she was giving birth.

125:48

And I walk in with my best friend Andrew

125:50

Finkelstein who was there with me for

125:53

this whole experience. And we walk in to

125:55

tell cuz this is Corona. So everything's

125:56

on Zoom. So Eric Syler, the litigator,

125:59

is in his house in New York. We're in

126:00

the Hamptons. They're in Japan.

126:02

Everybody's all over the place. And we

126:05

walk in to tell Rebecca the settlement

126:06

that we agreed and we settle but the

126:08

money will come in two months and this

126:10

will happen and that will happen

126:13

[sighs and gasps]

126:14

and she says no. and we're if we don't

126:17

close the deal Monday we're going to

126:18

court and court was not a not going to

126:21

be great for anyone and b it wasn't

126:24

great for weiwork because if if if we

126:27

weren't going to go to court another

126:28

investor was going to come they're going

126:30

to take the weiwork at least to stood

126:31

the chance

126:34

and she goes no we've already had they

126:37

were supposed to pay April 1st for 2020

126:40

they didn't pay the 3 billion the three

126:42

billion why are you now settling the 3

126:44

billion with another agreement ment to

126:46

delay payment again. What if they don't

126:48

pay and now you missed your court date?

126:51

Either they pay and then it's settled.

126:53

We'll all say thank you and everybody

126:55

will walk away. And it's not just paying

126:56

to us. That bill and a half is to all

126:57

the employees and all the investors.

126:59

It's half a billion to us and a billion

127:00

to everyone else. Either and and and I

127:03

know for all of us listening that these

127:05

are outrageously large numbers. I

127:08

completely acknowledge and understand

127:11

either they pay or they don't. And I say

127:13

to her, "What do you want to do?" we

127:14

agreed on it. And she goes, "Tell them

127:16

you agreed on it, but your wife didn't."

127:19

And she goes, "You didn't do the money

127:21

aside that we talked. You signed the

127:22

personal guarantee. It's not just your

127:24

money. This is our money. And I don't

127:26

accept the settlement. Go back and tell

127:29

them that either they pay it tomorrow."

127:32

This was like th this was Wednesday

127:35

before we had a scheduled C-section. So,

127:37

Friday 8:00 a.m. Either they pay it

127:39

before Friday 8:00 a.m. or we'll see

127:41

everybody in court on Monday. And she

127:43

said also tell them that any horrible

127:45

thing that's ever been said about you

127:47

has been on the press and public. It's

127:49

all out there. So Eric Syler calls me

127:52

and he says I I tell so actually Rebecca

127:54

called him and he said, "Adam, I have a

127:56

question for you. Who do I work for? You

127:58

or Rebecca?" Said, "Well, you work for

128:00

me and I work for Rebecca. So you work

128:02

for Rebecca?" Goes what I thought cuz

128:03

she called me and told me I'm a lousy

128:05

lawyer. Said, "You're not a lousy

128:06

lawyer. She just doesn't like our

128:07

settlement." But we did get to a

128:09

resolution. I go, "What do you think we

128:11

should He said, "You have no choice. You

128:13

should tell them there's no deal." I

128:14

said, "What are they going to do?" He

128:15

said, "They're going to explode." Said,

128:17

"And then said, I don't know. Either

128:19

they'll meet you in court and this was a

128:20

horrible decision or they'll break and

128:22

send the money." Said, "What do you

128:24

think's going to happen?" Said, "I I've

128:26

never been in this position." Said, "I

128:28

don't know." Said, "Okay." Got on the

128:31

phone. We told them what we told him.

128:32

They hung they screamed, "Ba, we're

128:35

going to sue you for this and sue you

128:36

for that."

128:38

They hung up the Zoom. I called Eric,

128:40

"What now?" He goes, "No, we wait."

128:42

Okay. Torres later, Marcelo calls and

128:46

and Marcelo is not the person who made

128:48

the original investment in me. Marcelo

128:50

Clar is he was at the time he was very

128:52

big personality in SoftBank. Today he

128:53

has his own business. Every time that

128:55

I've had an interaction with me, he's

128:57

always kept his word and always did the

128:59

right thing. Even when I didn't agree

129:00

with him, he told it to me straight. So

129:01

I respect him and a lot. And Marcelo

129:05

calls me. He's on the walker. He's like

129:07

a tall guy like he's on this walker. He

129:10

goes, "Call Rebecca." I was like, "Are

129:11

you sure, Marcelo?" She's like on the

129:13

couch. Call Rebecca. I was like, "Okay."

129:15

I called Rebecca. She's coming in again

129:18

right before birth. And she's standing

129:21

there next to Marcelo goes, "Rebecca, I

129:23

wanted to tell you that you and Adam

129:25

were ahead of your time." He's so

129:27

correct. He said, "The world is lonely.

129:30

The world is disconnected. People need

129:32

we. People need to bring people

129:34

together. People need community.

129:37

You're you're 10 years ahead of your

129:38

time. I don't think we were 10 years. I

129:40

think we were five years ahead of our

129:41

time because the world's moving so fast.

129:43

Cuz I just want to tell you the money

129:45

will be in the bank before you give

129:47

birth. I'm sorry we had to go through

129:49

all of this. This is just business.

129:51

Nothing here was personal.

129:53

We'll take the keys. Hopefully, we do

129:55

well by the company, but we're good.

129:58

Gets off the zone. I looked at her. I

130:00

said, "Now what?" She goes, "Fine. Sign

130:01

the documents." I said, "But you said we

130:03

can't do it if the money is not in.

130:04

What?" She goes, "No, no, we're all good

130:06

now. We signed

130:08

At 4:30 a.m. the money hits the account.

130:12

We all get on a Zoom. At 8:00 a.m. I'm

130:14

in Mount Si Hospital. Great hospital.

130:18

Rebecca is giving birth to Moses.

130:22

Everybody took a deep breath

130:25

and we're here today.

130:28

Adam, I have um I'm going to wrap up,

130:30

but I I have these five pieces of empty

130:31

card and I wanted to give you the

130:34

opportunity to write on. Are you okay

130:36

with the writing or shall I write it for

130:37

You'll write for me for my dyslexia.

130:39

>> Okay. Um just the the five most

130:42

important lessons that you have learned

130:44

over since the beginning of we work.

130:46

Well, I guess from the beginning of your

130:47

>> How about we just do the five lessons I

130:49

feel we learned today by talking.

130:50

>> Sure.

130:51

>> Lesson one, choose your life partner,

130:54

friends, and business partners for the

130:56

worst day in your life, not for the

130:58

best. Okay.

131:01

>> Great advice. [snorts]

131:02

Lesson two, life is not about when we

131:05

fall down. It's about how we get up.

131:08

>> Okay. Number two,

131:10

>> choose the life partner that will make

131:12

you the best version of yourself. The

131:15

one that you need, not the one that you

131:17

think you want.

131:18

>> Okay.

131:20

[snorts] Control doesn't come from

131:22

power. It comes from influence. And

131:25

influence needs to be earned every

131:28

single day from the beginning. And last

131:31

but not least, we all have a destiny and

131:35

a journey.

131:37

Get to know yourself so you can start

131:41

living yours. That one's for you.

131:43

>> Yeah, I thought [laughter] so.

131:46

Adam, thank you so much. I am I couldn't

131:48

be more excited by all the wonderful

131:50

things you're doing at Flow at the

131:51

moment. Um, got some wonderful photos

131:53

here of like the team and I've looked

131:54

into the business. I also had your

131:56

partner um your partner one of the

131:58

greatest investors of all time Ben

132:00

Horovitz write me this beautiful letter

132:01

where he talks about the amazing journey

132:03

he's had with you um why he backed you

132:07

and how amazingly collaborative you've

132:10

been what a sponge you are for learning

132:13

and how he strongly believes that you

132:15

are now building a generational business

132:16

that will change the world and how proud

132:19

he is to be associated with a man like

132:22

you he tells us all Ben Horowitz

132:25

We should never judge a founder by his

132:27

worst moment.

132:30

But with Adam, that was easy because his

132:32

light shined and shines so brightly. You

132:36

have overd delivered in every sense of

132:39

the word, including on your promises.

132:43

>> Thank you, Adam. Beautiful. I want

132:46

Steven to thank you. I know we had a

132:48

real discussion because I learned a few

132:51

things for the first time and you made

132:54

me talk out loud about a few things that

132:56

I've almost never had. I appreciate it

132:58

and I'm going to think about it and I'm

133:00

going to learn from it. What's your last

133:02

word? Is there anything at all that you

133:03

wanted to leave the audience with?

133:07

>> We all came to this planet with a

133:10

purpose and a destiny.

133:15

We started this life as this perfect

133:18

light.

133:20

Noise came, challenges came, people

133:24

came, ego came, everything came. It is

133:27

up to all of us to have the courage to

133:31

look inside. See whatever the things

133:33

that are stopping us from really

133:35

becoming the best version of myself, of

133:38

ourselves.

133:39

surround ourselves with the right

133:41

people, with the right family, both real

133:43

family, spiritual family, whatever you

133:46

consider your best and closest

133:49

and go and chase your dream, your

133:52

journey, your truth. And I know as a

133:55

fact that if you go through the process,

133:58

if you remember that life is not about

134:00

how we fall and how many people saw us

134:02

fall, it's genuinely about how we get

134:05

up. And if you have the courage to

134:07

really be the full version of yourself

134:09

and you're truthful about not just your

134:11

strength, but also the weaknesses, and

134:14

if you remember that it truly is a

134:16

journey, that when you get to that last

134:19

few minutes of your life, you're going

134:21

to look around. You're going to be

134:23

surrounded by loved ones and by a lot a

134:25

lot of love that you've created and

134:27

cultivated for your entire life. and

134:30

that you're going to live this world and

134:31

this planet much better than it was

134:34

before you came. I wish you and all of

134:37

us good luck at this journey of life.

134:42

>> Amen.

134:43

>> Amen.

134:44

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