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Psychological Mistakes Traders Make AND How To Fix Them

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Psychological Mistakes Traders Make AND How To Fix Them

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Today, I want to do something a little

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different. I don't want to teach a

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strategy. I don't want to teach options.

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I don't want to teach adjustments. I

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want to tell you a story because this

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lesson probably had a bigger impact on

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my trading career than any strategy I'd

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ever learned. And it came from one of

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the worst periods of trading I've ever

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experienced.

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One of the biggest advantages I have is

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that I trade at SMB Capital. When things

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are going well, that's great. But when

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things are not going well, I have access

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to some incredible people. Mike, Steve,

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Seth, Jeff, Carlton, Dr. Steenbarger,

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and many others.

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What I'm about to share with you is

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something that these people helped me

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work through.

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And looking back at it, it completely

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changed how I think about trading.

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Because the problem wasn't my strategy.

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The problem wasn't the market. The

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problem was me.

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Now, before I get into what happened, I

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want to give you some background. I've

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always been somebody who likes data.

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I spent a tremendous amount of time back

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testing, building dashboards, analyzing

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trades, reviewing statistics, looking at

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win rates, looking at drawdowns, looking

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at risk metrics, trying to understand

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what actually creates an edge. And if

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you'd follow me for any amount of time,

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you know I am consistently looking at

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analytics.

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I want proof. I want evidence. I want to

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know what works and what doesn't.

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So, when I build my trading plans, they

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weren't random. They were tested. They

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were researched. They had data behind

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them. But something started happening. I

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would take a trade, the trade would

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lose. And instead of saying, "Good job,

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you followed your plan."

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I would start asking myself, "Maybe

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there's something wrong with the plan."

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Now, at first, that sounds reasonable.

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You should always be evaluating your

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trading.

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You should always be looking for ways to

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improve. But there's a huge difference

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between evaluating your plan after the

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market closes and questioning your plan

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while you're in the middle of a trade.

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And that's where I got myself into

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trouble.

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What started happening was this. I would

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have a trade, it would hit my stop.

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Exactly according to my plan. Exactly

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how it was designed.

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Exactly how I tested it.

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And then instead of accepting that loss,

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I would start trying to solve a problem

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that didn't actually exist.

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I would think

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maybe I should adjust here.

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Maybe I should give it more room. Maybe

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I should size differently.

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Maybe I should stay in a little bit

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longer.

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Maybe this trade is different. And every

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once in a while, I would do something

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that was completely outside of my tested

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process.

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And it would work.

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That was the problem.

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That was actually the beginning of the

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drawdown. Not the losses, not the wins,

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because when you lose while you're

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following your plan, that's normal.

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But when you win while breaking your

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plan, that is dangerous.

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Because now your brain starts telling a

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story. It starts saying, "See, the plan

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was wrong. You found something better.

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You figured it out. You outsmarted the

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system." And before you know it, you're

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no longer trading your proven process.

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You're trading ideas. You're trading

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opinions. You're trading emotions.

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You're trading things that have never

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been tested. And that is exactly what

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happened to me.

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I slowly started moving away from the

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things that had actually made me

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successful.

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Not all at once. Just little pieces. A

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little adjustment here. A little

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exception here.

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A little creativity in the middle of a

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trade. And eventually, I wasn't really

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trading my plan anymore. I was trading

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something I was making up in real time.

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And I can tell you from experience,

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making up trades is one of the most

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expensive things a trader can do.

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Now, here's the part that took me a long

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time to understand.

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The drawdown wasn't caused by my

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strategy.

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The strategy was doing exactly what it

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was supposed to do.

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The drawdown got larger because I

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stopped following the strategy.

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I turned a normal drawdown into a large

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drawdown.

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And those are two very different things.

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Every strategy loses.

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Every strategy has drawdowns.

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Every strategy has periods where things

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don't work. That's part of trading. If

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your strategy never lost, nobody would

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take the other side of your trade.

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Losses are part of the business.

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The problem wasn't losing. The problem

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was what I did after I lost. And

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fortunately, somebody noticed.

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Seth pulled me aside. We had a

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conversation about what was really going

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on.

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Not what I was trading. Not what

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strategy I was using.

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What was going on in my head.

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That conversation led me to spend time

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with Dr. Steenbarger.

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We started talking about the psychology

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behind my decision-making. Why I felt I

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needed to change things. Why I struggled

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to trust the process during difficult

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periods.

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Why I was trying to solve problems while

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I was in the middle of trading.

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Then I had conversations with Jeff and

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Carlton. We talked about accountability,

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process, consistency, systems, how to

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build an environment where I could

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actually execute. And honestly, those

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conversations changed everything.

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Because they helped me realize

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something. Creativity belongs in

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planning.

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Discipline belongs in execution. I want

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to say that again. Creativity belongs in

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planning.

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Discipline belongs in execution.

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When you're back testing, be creative.

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When you're researching, be creative.

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When you're analyzing, be creative, but

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don't curve fit.

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When you're building a strategy, be

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creative. But, the trade is on,

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your job changes. Your job no longer is

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to be creative. Your job is to execute.

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Follow the plan, manage risk, accept the

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outcome, and move on. That lesson alone

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changed my trading.

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Now, one of the biggest changes I made

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was in my journaling process.

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And this might sound simple, but it

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completely changed how I evaluate

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myself. At the end of every day, for

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every trade plan I run, I ask one

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question.

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Did I follow my plan?

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Yes or no, that's it. Not

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did I make money, not did I have a green

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day, not did I beat the market, did I

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follow my plan, yes or no.

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And what's interesting is today, I'm

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actually more afraid of writing a no

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than taking a loss.

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Because a loss doesn't necessarily mean

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I did anything wrong. A process

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violation does. A loss can be a

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perfectly executed trade. A process

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violation is something I chose to do.

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And that's a huge difference. Today, I

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understand that process is what creates

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consistency, not outcomes. Outcomes are

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random in the short term.

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Process is what matters. And that's what

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I focus on.

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Now, another thing that changed for me

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was during my weekly review process.

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And I know a lot of traders hate

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journaling. [snorts]

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I know a lot of traders hate reviewing

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trades. I know a lot of traders think

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that's boring. I used to feel that way,

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too.

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But today, I look forward to it because

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that's where the improvement happens.

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The market is going to give you feedback

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every day. Your journal helps you

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understand that feedback. Your weekly

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review helps you identify patterns. Your

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data helps you identify weakness.

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Your process helps you fix them. And

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over time,

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that's how you get better.

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Not through some magical indicator, not

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through some magical strategy, through

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consistent improvement.

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Now, if you're watching this and you're

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currently in a drawdown, I want you to

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ask yourself a question.

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Is the drawdown coming from my strategy

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or is the drawdown coming from me?

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Because those are two completely

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different problems.

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One requires strategy work. The other

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requires personal work. And for me, the

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biggest breakthroughs in my career

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didn't come from finding a new strategy.

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They came from becoming a better

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executor,

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a better risk manager, a better decision

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maker,

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a more disciplined trader.

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The market is always going to challenge

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you. The market is always going to test

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your confidence. The market is always

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going to make you question your process.

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The question is whether you trust your

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work when that happens. Because that's

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what I learned during that drawdown.

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The traders who survive are not the

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traders who never lose. They are the

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traders who can lose, stay disciplined,

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and continue executing. They are the

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traders who can trust their research.

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They are the traders who can trust their

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process. They are the traders who

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understand that consistency beats

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creativity once the trade is on. And

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that ultimately is what helped me get

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out of that drawdown.

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Not a new strategy, not a new indicator,

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not a new setup, a better process, a

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better mindset, and a commitment to

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doing things I already knew I needed to

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do.

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That's one of the biggest lessons I

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learned in my trading career, and

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Interactive Summary

The video details a trader's journey through a major career drawdown, explaining that the issue was not the trading strategy itself but their lack of discipline in executing it. By working with mentors, the trader realized the critical distinction between being creative during the planning phase and being disciplined during execution. The summary emphasizes that true success comes from a structured process, rigorous journaling focused on plan adherence rather than profit, and the ability to distinguish between strategy failures and personal execution failures.

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