Psychological Mistakes Traders Make AND How To Fix Them
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Today, I want to do something a little
different. I don't want to teach a
strategy. I don't want to teach options.
I don't want to teach adjustments. I
want to tell you a story because this
lesson probably had a bigger impact on
my trading career than any strategy I'd
ever learned. And it came from one of
the worst periods of trading I've ever
experienced.
One of the biggest advantages I have is
that I trade at SMB Capital. When things
are going well, that's great. But when
things are not going well, I have access
to some incredible people. Mike, Steve,
Seth, Jeff, Carlton, Dr. Steenbarger,
and many others.
What I'm about to share with you is
something that these people helped me
work through.
And looking back at it, it completely
changed how I think about trading.
Because the problem wasn't my strategy.
The problem wasn't the market. The
problem was me.
Now, before I get into what happened, I
want to give you some background. I've
always been somebody who likes data.
I spent a tremendous amount of time back
testing, building dashboards, analyzing
trades, reviewing statistics, looking at
win rates, looking at drawdowns, looking
at risk metrics, trying to understand
what actually creates an edge. And if
you'd follow me for any amount of time,
you know I am consistently looking at
analytics.
I want proof. I want evidence. I want to
know what works and what doesn't.
So, when I build my trading plans, they
weren't random. They were tested. They
were researched. They had data behind
them. But something started happening. I
would take a trade, the trade would
lose. And instead of saying, "Good job,
you followed your plan."
I would start asking myself, "Maybe
there's something wrong with the plan."
Now, at first, that sounds reasonable.
You should always be evaluating your
trading.
You should always be looking for ways to
improve. But there's a huge difference
between evaluating your plan after the
market closes and questioning your plan
while you're in the middle of a trade.
And that's where I got myself into
trouble.
What started happening was this. I would
have a trade, it would hit my stop.
Exactly according to my plan. Exactly
how it was designed.
Exactly how I tested it.
And then instead of accepting that loss,
I would start trying to solve a problem
that didn't actually exist.
I would think
maybe I should adjust here.
Maybe I should give it more room. Maybe
I should size differently.
Maybe I should stay in a little bit
longer.
Maybe this trade is different. And every
once in a while, I would do something
that was completely outside of my tested
process.
And it would work.
That was the problem.
That was actually the beginning of the
drawdown. Not the losses, not the wins,
because when you lose while you're
following your plan, that's normal.
But when you win while breaking your
plan, that is dangerous.
Because now your brain starts telling a
story. It starts saying, "See, the plan
was wrong. You found something better.
You figured it out. You outsmarted the
system." And before you know it, you're
no longer trading your proven process.
You're trading ideas. You're trading
opinions. You're trading emotions.
You're trading things that have never
been tested. And that is exactly what
happened to me.
I slowly started moving away from the
things that had actually made me
successful.
Not all at once. Just little pieces. A
little adjustment here. A little
exception here.
A little creativity in the middle of a
trade. And eventually, I wasn't really
trading my plan anymore. I was trading
something I was making up in real time.
And I can tell you from experience,
making up trades is one of the most
expensive things a trader can do.
Now, here's the part that took me a long
time to understand.
The drawdown wasn't caused by my
strategy.
The strategy was doing exactly what it
was supposed to do.
The drawdown got larger because I
stopped following the strategy.
I turned a normal drawdown into a large
drawdown.
And those are two very different things.
Every strategy loses.
Every strategy has drawdowns.
Every strategy has periods where things
don't work. That's part of trading. If
your strategy never lost, nobody would
take the other side of your trade.
Losses are part of the business.
The problem wasn't losing. The problem
was what I did after I lost. And
fortunately, somebody noticed.
Seth pulled me aside. We had a
conversation about what was really going
on.
Not what I was trading. Not what
strategy I was using.
What was going on in my head.
That conversation led me to spend time
with Dr. Steenbarger.
We started talking about the psychology
behind my decision-making. Why I felt I
needed to change things. Why I struggled
to trust the process during difficult
periods.
Why I was trying to solve problems while
I was in the middle of trading.
Then I had conversations with Jeff and
Carlton. We talked about accountability,
process, consistency, systems, how to
build an environment where I could
actually execute. And honestly, those
conversations changed everything.
Because they helped me realize
something. Creativity belongs in
planning.
Discipline belongs in execution. I want
to say that again. Creativity belongs in
planning.
Discipline belongs in execution.
When you're back testing, be creative.
When you're researching, be creative.
When you're analyzing, be creative, but
don't curve fit.
When you're building a strategy, be
creative. But, the trade is on,
your job changes. Your job no longer is
to be creative. Your job is to execute.
Follow the plan, manage risk, accept the
outcome, and move on. That lesson alone
changed my trading.
Now, one of the biggest changes I made
was in my journaling process.
And this might sound simple, but it
completely changed how I evaluate
myself. At the end of every day, for
every trade plan I run, I ask one
question.
Did I follow my plan?
Yes or no, that's it. Not
did I make money, not did I have a green
day, not did I beat the market, did I
follow my plan, yes or no.
And what's interesting is today, I'm
actually more afraid of writing a no
than taking a loss.
Because a loss doesn't necessarily mean
I did anything wrong. A process
violation does. A loss can be a
perfectly executed trade. A process
violation is something I chose to do.
And that's a huge difference. Today, I
understand that process is what creates
consistency, not outcomes. Outcomes are
random in the short term.
Process is what matters. And that's what
I focus on.
Now, another thing that changed for me
was during my weekly review process.
And I know a lot of traders hate
journaling. [snorts]
I know a lot of traders hate reviewing
trades. I know a lot of traders think
that's boring. I used to feel that way,
too.
But today, I look forward to it because
that's where the improvement happens.
The market is going to give you feedback
every day. Your journal helps you
understand that feedback. Your weekly
review helps you identify patterns. Your
data helps you identify weakness.
Your process helps you fix them. And
over time,
that's how you get better.
Not through some magical indicator, not
through some magical strategy, through
consistent improvement.
Now, if you're watching this and you're
currently in a drawdown, I want you to
ask yourself a question.
Is the drawdown coming from my strategy
or is the drawdown coming from me?
Because those are two completely
different problems.
One requires strategy work. The other
requires personal work. And for me, the
biggest breakthroughs in my career
didn't come from finding a new strategy.
They came from becoming a better
executor,
a better risk manager, a better decision
maker,
a more disciplined trader.
The market is always going to challenge
you. The market is always going to test
your confidence. The market is always
going to make you question your process.
The question is whether you trust your
work when that happens. Because that's
what I learned during that drawdown.
The traders who survive are not the
traders who never lose. They are the
traders who can lose, stay disciplined,
and continue executing. They are the
traders who can trust their research.
They are the traders who can trust their
process. They are the traders who
understand that consistency beats
creativity once the trade is on. And
that ultimately is what helped me get
out of that drawdown.
Not a new strategy, not a new indicator,
not a new setup, a better process, a
better mindset, and a commitment to
doing things I already knew I needed to
do.
That's one of the biggest lessons I
learned in my trading career, and
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The video details a trader's journey through a major career drawdown, explaining that the issue was not the trading strategy itself but their lack of discipline in executing it. By working with mentors, the trader realized the critical distinction between being creative during the planning phase and being disciplined during execution. The summary emphasizes that true success comes from a structured process, rigorous journaling focused on plan adherence rather than profit, and the ability to distinguish between strategy failures and personal execution failures.
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