What "Typical" Nightlife Looks Like for a Single Woman in China (Not What You Think)
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Today, I want to show you what life here
is really like for single woman living
alone in China, living in Shenzhen. I
think it allows me to really not sleep.
It sometimes feels like we are not
limited by time at all, no matter how
late it is. If you want food,
entertainment, or just feel like going
out, you can pretty much get up and go.
So, tonight [music] I'm just going to
bring you along with me and show you how
people in Shenzhen spend their evening.
What it feels like to be alone at night,
and the little things I [music] love and
sometimes don't love about life here.
This video might complicate your picture
of life in China. Let's go find out.
Hi, I guess it's me. Yep, you guessed
it. I'm back in Shenzhen. Right now it's
7:00 p.m. We're in the middle of evening
rush hour.
I almost can't believe it's only August,
and the streets are already decorated
with Christmas decorations.
And I don't really know if they did this
before, but there are so many cameras
watching them passing. Like four or five
scattered around. Honestly, whether you
believe me or not, unless something
actually happened, these cameras have
zero impact on your everyday life. You
know, if I stood here and said something
bad about the Communist Party directly
into the camera, realistically, nothing
would happen.
After work hours, it's the best time for
hot pot because we finally have enough
time to sit down, take it slow, and
enjoy the whole meal.
The entire place is decorated in a
traditional Chinese style.
And even the servers are wearing Hanfu.
Look at this decor. It feels like you
just stepped into an old school period
drama set.
That's why so many people come here in
traditional outfits so they can take
photos. In China, many restaurants are
more than just places to grab meal.
People come here to snap photos for
social media and get their emotional
fulfillment.
The restaurant you can enjoy is both
tasty and comfortable. It's pretty
common to see a place booming one month
and completely shut down a few months
later. So, to survive, owners have to
come up with their possible way to
attract customer, whether it's through
the food, the service, or the interior
design.
Honestly, if a restaurant in Shenzhen
doesn't have a whole lot going on during
peak dining hour, it probably won't be
around for long.
This place is very famous for its
dessert. Not only are they super
delicious, but they also look amazing.
This place looks super fancy and
expensive, but it's actually pretty
affordable. We ordered a massive ice
cream and the total came out to about
$30. That's pretty standard for hot pot
here in Shenzhen.
Fuse beads or Hama beads are currently
the hottest trend among young people and
students in China.
First, I need to pick out all the colors
I'm going to use.
All right, let's get started.
The idea is simple. I follow pattern,
place these tiny color beads onto board
one by one until they form a complete
picture.
Hama beads are ridiculously popular with
young people in China right now. Studios
like these are popping up on almost
every corner.
They charge by the hour, about 3 hours
are $1.50 an hour. Or $10 for 40
minutes.
Since it's summer break, the shop is
packed every single day with hours from
primary schoolers to college students
spending their entire day here.
My food delivery has arrived.
They say it's awfully so addictive. Once
you start, you just can't stop.
Parents literally have to drag their
kids away.
Oh, I really feel how children this is
all. There are way too many similar
shapes.
Can you tell the difference between
these two colors? My daughter is
starting gluing tooths on me.
I hope I finish this before the shop
closes.
Finally, I'm done.
Now I have to carry this over to the
front desk.
I have to be extremely careful because
one tiny bump could destroy 2 hours of
work.
I can't just leave my weight on this
project. I'll wait for the staff to
finish it.
They'll use a hair dryer to melt and
fuse the base together into a solid
piece.
This is our freshly ironed finished
products.
Here's what I spent 2 hours working on.
I'm making town out of it.
It's already 10:30 here at night, but
the streets are still totally packed.
I want to take advantage of this moment
to show you guys Chinese bar and chill
lounge.
It's bar time.
To be honest, drinking culture is a huge
for most Chinese people. So, going to
bars isn't really a necessity.
When we go out, it's really less about
the alcohol itself, and more about
enjoying that slightly tipsy, more the
atmosphere.
Because of that, bars in China invest
heavily in interior aesthetic [music]
and atmosphere. Most places feature
large screen bars, and the music is
usually pretty loud.
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>> So, you can fully immerse yourself in
this sophisticated cozy environment.
>> [music and singing]
>> Look how fancy this cocktail is. And of
course, the price tag is pretty fancy,
too, about $15.
This guy basically lives here. The
waitress told me he gets pestered
[music] by at least 20 people every
single night.
It's 12:30 a.m. now. The crowd
performance next door is starting. So,
time to head to the next spot. I'm going
to unlock shared bike and ride a while.
This is fully dedicated to nightlife.
And you actually have to go through
security before walking in.
>> [music]
>> You don't actually see that many
foreigners on the street in China on a
normal day. But the moment you come to
another lively area like this, Chengdu
suddenly feels very creamy and
international.
>> [music]
>> There are security patrols everywhere,
so you never have to worry about safety.
Once they told us everything must get
through our car ourselves.
>> [music]
>> As you can see, everything in China,
ordering food, paying bills, taking the
bus, getting your cab, renting a
charger,
the entire city runs on your smartphone.
You almost never see anyone use cash
anymore. The good thing is that it's
incredibly convenient. One phone can
take care of almost everything you need.
The downside is that money stop feeling
real. It's no longer cash in hand, just
numbers on a screen, which is why buy
now, pay later and use that are steadily
rising here.
>> [cheering]
>> Honestly, I almost never go to bars or
clubs. Living in a city where everything
is on your phone,
I didn't even realize how long it's been
since I had real talk with a real
person. All this convenience actually
disconnecting me from the real world and
made me pretty asocial. So, I decided to
get out of my comfort zone. I want to
try things I've never done before, build
that real human connection again, and
get myself back into [music] the world.
I have a roommate. 10 years ago, a woman
going to bar alone was very risky.
Spiked or drugged spiked tea definitely
happened back then.
>> [music]
>> But nowadays, that's practically unheard
of. It's safe to the point where you can
leave your phone and personal internet
at table, go to the bathroom, and nobody
will touch them.
>> [cheering]
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[cheering]
>> It's 3:00 a.m. now, and this area is
totally jam-packed with people.
The street is also lined with taxis
waiting for passengers.
For most of us, don't really want to
take a regular taxi because you're going
to cost around 1.5 times than
ride-sharing apps. So, we'd much rather
wait 2 minutes for a cab car than jump
straight into one of those taxis.
Unless we're in a hurry and can't get
red.
Finally back home. Time to make a quick
late night snack before bed.
These tiny electrical cookers are super
popular in small apartments and dorms.
I just plug it in, and it heats up
instantly to cook. It's super convenient
and ridiculously cheap.
This cooker only cost about 6 US
dollars.
These are homemade dumplings my dad
packed for me the last time I was at
home.
Now life in Shenzhen is slow, otherwise
hustling. But no matter how late you
stay out, coming home to a warm bowl of
these dumplings make everything feel
worth it.
If you enjoyed this peek into my
midnight routine, don't forget to like
and subscribe. I'm Mia, and I'll see you
in the next video. Good night.
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The video follows Mia, a single woman living in Shenzhen, China, as she navigates her evening routine. It highlights the city's vibrant nightlife, the prevalence of convenient smartphone-based services, and the evolving social habits of young people. Mia also discusses the safety of the city, the trend of creative activities like fuse bead crafting, and the bustling late-night dining and bar culture.
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