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What "Typical" Nightlife Looks Like for a Single Woman in China (Not What You Think)

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What "Typical" Nightlife Looks Like for a Single Woman in China (Not What You Think)

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Today, I want to show you what life here

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is really like for single woman living

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alone in China, living in Shenzhen. I

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think it allows me to really not sleep.

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It sometimes feels like we are not

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limited by time at all, no matter how

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late it is. If you want food,

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entertainment, or just feel like going

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out, you can pretty much get up and go.

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So, tonight [music] I'm just going to

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bring you along with me and show you how

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people in Shenzhen spend their evening.

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What it feels like to be alone at night,

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and the little things I [music] love and

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sometimes don't love about life here.

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This video might complicate your picture

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of life in China. Let's go find out.

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Hi, I guess it's me. Yep, you guessed

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it. I'm back in Shenzhen. Right now it's

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7:00 p.m. We're in the middle of evening

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rush hour.

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I almost can't believe it's only August,

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and the streets are already decorated

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with Christmas decorations.

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And I don't really know if they did this

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before, but there are so many cameras

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watching them passing. Like four or five

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scattered around. Honestly, whether you

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believe me or not, unless something

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actually happened, these cameras have

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zero impact on your everyday life. You

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know, if I stood here and said something

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bad about the Communist Party directly

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into the camera, realistically, nothing

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would happen.

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After work hours, it's the best time for

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hot pot because we finally have enough

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time to sit down, take it slow, and

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enjoy the whole meal.

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The entire place is decorated in a

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traditional Chinese style.

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And even the servers are wearing Hanfu.

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Look at this decor. It feels like you

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just stepped into an old school period

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drama set.

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That's why so many people come here in

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traditional outfits so they can take

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photos. In China, many restaurants are

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more than just places to grab meal.

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People come here to snap photos for

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social media and get their emotional

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fulfillment.

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The restaurant you can enjoy is both

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tasty and comfortable. It's pretty

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common to see a place booming one month

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and completely shut down a few months

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later. So, to survive, owners have to

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come up with their possible way to

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attract customer, whether it's through

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the food, the service, or the interior

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design.

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Honestly, if a restaurant in Shenzhen

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doesn't have a whole lot going on during

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peak dining hour, it probably won't be

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around for long.

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This place is very famous for its

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dessert. Not only are they super

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delicious, but they also look amazing.

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This place looks super fancy and

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expensive, but it's actually pretty

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affordable. We ordered a massive ice

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cream and the total came out to about

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$30. That's pretty standard for hot pot

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here in Shenzhen.

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Fuse beads or Hama beads are currently

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the hottest trend among young people and

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students in China.

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First, I need to pick out all the colors

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I'm going to use.

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All right, let's get started.

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The idea is simple. I follow pattern,

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place these tiny color beads onto board

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one by one until they form a complete

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picture.

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Hama beads are ridiculously popular with

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young people in China right now. Studios

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like these are popping up on almost

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every corner.

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They charge by the hour, about 3 hours

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are $1.50 an hour. Or $10 for 40

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minutes.

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Since it's summer break, the shop is

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packed every single day with hours from

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primary schoolers to college students

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spending their entire day here.

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My food delivery has arrived.

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They say it's awfully so addictive. Once

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you start, you just can't stop.

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Parents literally have to drag their

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kids away.

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Oh, I really feel how children this is

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all. There are way too many similar

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shapes.

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Can you tell the difference between

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these two colors? My daughter is

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starting gluing tooths on me.

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I hope I finish this before the shop

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closes.

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Finally, I'm done.

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Now I have to carry this over to the

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front desk.

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I have to be extremely careful because

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one tiny bump could destroy 2 hours of

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work.

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I can't just leave my weight on this

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project. I'll wait for the staff to

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finish it.

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They'll use a hair dryer to melt and

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fuse the base together into a solid

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piece.

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This is our freshly ironed finished

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products.

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Here's what I spent 2 hours working on.

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I'm making town out of it.

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It's already 10:30 here at night, but

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the streets are still totally packed.

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I want to take advantage of this moment

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to show you guys Chinese bar and chill

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lounge.

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It's bar time.

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To be honest, drinking culture is a huge

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for most Chinese people. So, going to

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bars isn't really a necessity.

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When we go out, it's really less about

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the alcohol itself, and more about

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enjoying that slightly tipsy, more the

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atmosphere.

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Because of that, bars in China invest

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heavily in interior aesthetic [music]

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and atmosphere. Most places feature

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large screen bars, and the music is

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usually pretty loud.

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>> [music]

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>> So, you can fully immerse yourself in

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this sophisticated cozy environment.

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>> [music and singing]

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>> Look how fancy this cocktail is. And of

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course, the price tag is pretty fancy,

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too, about $15.

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This guy basically lives here. The

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waitress told me he gets pestered

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[music] by at least 20 people every

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single night.

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It's 12:30 a.m. now. The crowd

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performance next door is starting. So,

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time to head to the next spot. I'm going

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to unlock shared bike and ride a while.

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This is fully dedicated to nightlife.

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And you actually have to go through

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security before walking in.

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>> [music]

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>> You don't actually see that many

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foreigners on the street in China on a

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normal day. But the moment you come to

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another lively area like this, Chengdu

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suddenly feels very creamy and

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international.

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>> [music]

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>> There are security patrols everywhere,

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so you never have to worry about safety.

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Once they told us everything must get

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through our car ourselves.

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>> [music]

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>> As you can see, everything in China,

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ordering food, paying bills, taking the

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bus, getting your cab, renting a

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charger,

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the entire city runs on your smartphone.

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You almost never see anyone use cash

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anymore. The good thing is that it's

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incredibly convenient. One phone can

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take care of almost everything you need.

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The downside is that money stop feeling

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real. It's no longer cash in hand, just

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numbers on a screen, which is why buy

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now, pay later and use that are steadily

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rising here.

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>> [cheering]

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>> Honestly, I almost never go to bars or

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clubs. Living in a city where everything

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is on your phone,

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I didn't even realize how long it's been

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since I had real talk with a real

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person. All this convenience actually

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disconnecting me from the real world and

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made me pretty asocial. So, I decided to

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get out of my comfort zone. I want to

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try things I've never done before, build

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that real human connection again, and

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get myself back into [music] the world.

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I have a roommate. 10 years ago, a woman

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going to bar alone was very risky.

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Spiked or drugged spiked tea definitely

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happened back then.

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>> [music]

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>> But nowadays, that's practically unheard

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of. It's safe to the point where you can

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leave your phone and personal internet

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at table, go to the bathroom, and nobody

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will touch them.

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>> [cheering]

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[cheering]

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[music]

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[music]

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[cheering]

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>> It's 3:00 a.m. now, and this area is

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totally jam-packed with people.

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The street is also lined with taxis

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waiting for passengers.

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For most of us, don't really want to

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take a regular taxi because you're going

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to cost around 1.5 times than

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ride-sharing apps. So, we'd much rather

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wait 2 minutes for a cab car than jump

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straight into one of those taxis.

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Unless we're in a hurry and can't get

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red.

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Finally back home. Time to make a quick

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late night snack before bed.

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These tiny electrical cookers are super

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popular in small apartments and dorms.

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I just plug it in, and it heats up

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instantly to cook. It's super convenient

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and ridiculously cheap.

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This cooker only cost about 6 US

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dollars.

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These are homemade dumplings my dad

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packed for me the last time I was at

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home.

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Now life in Shenzhen is slow, otherwise

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hustling. But no matter how late you

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stay out, coming home to a warm bowl of

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these dumplings make everything feel

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worth it.

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If you enjoyed this peek into my

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midnight routine, don't forget to like

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and subscribe. I'm Mia, and I'll see you

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in the next video. Good night.

Interactive Summary

The video follows Mia, a single woman living in Shenzhen, China, as she navigates her evening routine. It highlights the city's vibrant nightlife, the prevalence of convenient smartphone-based services, and the evolving social habits of young people. Mia also discusses the safety of the city, the trend of creative activities like fuse bead crafting, and the bustling late-night dining and bar culture.

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