You Must Have Staying Power
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In this video,
I'm going to be sharing a little bit about my perspective
on my journey so far.
As I've been building in public for the past 131 days,
I want to share a very critical aspect in my perspective
now that I've learned throughout this journey so far.
And that is the aspect and the concept of staying power and
a lot of people,
they may wonder what actually is staying power and I'm
going to share that with you guys in this video and share
my perspective on it.
It's just going to be very raw and uncut.
I'm going to be streaming in a couple of hours,
so I just want to share a little bit about this concept
because I think it's important and I think about it a lot.
So staying power to me is one's ability to actually stay in
the arena, okay?
So when you're in the arena,
there's going to be a lot that's going to happen, okay?
There's going to be good things that happen.
There's going to be bad things that happen.
But the most important aspect or one of the most important
aspects of success is your ability to navigate the wave and
the flow of your ups and your downs, right?
Because if you take somebody that's just winning all the
time, right?
Which is very uncommon, right?
It's very uncommon that people just win, win, win, right?
You may look at somebody and think, oh wow,
this person's being, you know, incredibly successful.
But potentially, you know, behind the scenes,
there's some very difficult things going on, right?
And I'm using that as an example because I don't think that
there's a lot of cases where people are just constantly
winning.
It's very rare, right?
So I think what you guys need to understand and what I want
to share is that staying power is a critical aspect to your
success.
And the reason for that is because when things get
difficult, when times get hard,
and when things don't go the way that you wanted them to,
or they're not playing out the way that you envisioned it,
that's how you prove who you are.
When the plans change,
when the things don't work out that you thought would,
that's how you prove who you are.
Because if you're going to be somebody that continues
despite those difficulties,
somebody that continues despite those down periods,
that proves who you are.
That proves that you do have the staying power that it
takes to succeed.
And here's one thing that I will say, you know,
BridgeMind is my third startup.
My first startup, Influencer Marketplace, was a failure,
right?
And I want to share this with you guys because I think it's
important.
Influencer Marketplace was my first startup and I poured
about nine months of my time into this startup before I
closed it down, okay?
And when I closed it down,
I immediately jumped to the next thing, okay?
And even though Influencer Marketplace failed,
I used it as a stepping stone to my next startup.
And that example there is kind of an example where it's
like, okay, even if something fails,
even if something doesn't work out the way that you wanted
it to,
it is up to you whether you stay in the arena or not.
I could have said, oh, I'm just going to go back to school,
go get my degree and go get a nine to five job and be a
wage slave for the rest of my life.
I could have said that, right?
But I didn't.
I said, okay, I learned this.
Let's now step to this and take what I learned and apply it
to the next thing, right?
But there's also unique cases where it may not be a good
idea to step to the next thing.
Maybe you need to pour even more energy into the product or
the business or the startup that you're working on now,
right?
And I will use BridgeMind as an example.
There's been times in this journey over the past 131 days
where things have been incredibly difficult for me.
I mean, I'm not even kidding.
There's been times during this journey where I've had my
head in my hands and I've questioned whether I ever should
have started doing this in the first place.
And I share that because when you go through that
experience, when you question,
should I have even done this and you keep going despite
that?
That's how you prove who you are.
That's how you prove that you have staying power and
staying power is going to lead you to great things because
if you lined up 10 people and you said, okay,
choose which one out of these 10 people is going to be
successful, I would ask, well,
which one is going to continue forward when things get
incredibly difficult?
Which one of these people is going to continue forward and
have the staying power that it takes to succeed?
That's what I would ask.
I would say, okay, when times get difficult,
how is this person going to respond?
And I think that that's very important that all of you guys
ask yourself that same question because when things are
going good, when you're enjoying what you're doing,
it's very easy to keep going forward.
But when things get hard, when things are difficult,
when things are not going the way that you wanted them to,
that's how you prove that you're the person that has the
staying power to stay in the arena,
to keep moving forward and to not give up.
That's how you prove who you are.
So, you know,
this is something that I think about often and, you know,
with the ups and downs that come with being a founder,
with the ups and downs that come with building in public,
you know,
I think that it's very important that I share this with you
guys because it's a very important aspect and concept of my
journey is that when things are going up,
I appreciate it and I'm very happy.
I'm like, this is great.
But I also internally am prepping myself to know it's not
always going to be like this.
It's not always just going to go up, up, up.
I'm not always going to be winning, winning, winning.
And there have been, like I said,
several examples during this journey,
several instances where I've gone through tremendous
amounts of difficulty.
But despite that difficulty and things not playing out how
I thought they would play out, I continued forward.
And I think that, you know, that right there,
that is a defining trait of somebody that is going to be
successful.
And it's important that you craft that.
You're not born with it, right?
You have to craft it.
You have to know that this concept is a thing.
Staying power is a thing.
And you have to ask yourself, okay, what am I going,
how am I going to respond when things get difficult?
Right?
It's incredibly important that you ask yourself that
question because I ask it to myself every day.
And it's even more important now than ever before in this
journey that, you know,
we have staying power because the AI models are getting
better and we need to stay in the arena for long enough
till the point where there is models that allow us to be
just incredibly capable, right?
It's like the skill that everybody is learning in the
bird's mind community is a skill that is going to be a
skill in the future that is just incredibly valuable,
right?
And that skill is the skill of being able to be an agent
orchestrator or using AI in an intelligent way.
You know, most people, if you ask them, oh,
how are you using AI or what is AI?
They're going to say chat GPT and they're going to say, oh,
I make it, I ask it to make me a recipe for, you know,
egg omelets or whatever, right?
And it's like, you know, yeah, no,
that's not what people in the bird's mind community are
doing.
We're using this to actually build things.
We're using agent workflows.
We're using the best tools.
We're using the best models.
And you know, I think that, hey,
when it comes to staying power, it's like, hey,
despite the ups and downs, we have to keep moving forward.
So whatever happens, even if we're winning,
even if we're losing, we keep moving forward.
But it's incredibly important that everyone in this
community knows that and does that because we can't be the
people that at the first sign of failure,
we just fold and we give up.
We can't do that.
We can't do that.
We have to have staying power.
And it's an incredibly important thing because you're just
not going to be winning all the time.
And there's going to be difficulty.
There's going to be parts where, hey,
you're going to be on this road, right?
And you're on the road to wherever you're going, right?
You have this goal.
And sometimes, like even right now,
the sun is going to get in your eyes, right?
And you're going to be like, oh,
the sun's in my eyes and I can't really see very well.
Right?
But if you're the type of person that's going to continue
on that road and continue forward,
you are going to be successful.
And it's incredibly important that you guys understand
that.
And it's more important now than ever that we continue
forward because the models are getting better.
We're making progress and we just can't stop.
We have to keep moving forward.
So I just wanted to share that this morning.
I'm going to be streaming for day 132 of Vibe Coding app
until I make a million dollars.
We just surpassed $40,000 in revenue.
Let's keep going, guys.
I will see you guys in the future.
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The speaker shares insights on "staying power," a concept cultivated over 131 days of building in public. Staying power is defined as the ability to remain persistent through the inevitable challenges and fluctuations of an entrepreneurial path. It is crucial because success is rarely a constant winning streak; true character and potential are revealed when facing difficulties. The speaker illustrates this with personal examples, including the failure of their first startup, Influencer Marketplace, which they used as a stepping stone, and current struggles with BridgeMind, where they've questioned continuing but persevered. This trait is especially vital now with rapidly improving AI models, urging individuals to persist to leverage future capabilities like AI orchestration. The speaker concludes by highlighting their Vibe Coding app's recent achievement of over $40,000 in revenue, a testament to continuous effort despite challenges.
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